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The Breakfast Club REWIND (GHerbo Interview, Jemelle Hill interview, Ask C &E) · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Round. Allow me to introduce myself in Angela and Charlomagne
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  Speaker 1: the guy. Well, y'all became a long wait. I think
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  Speaker 1: that y'all have a certain amount of respect for you
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  Speaker 1: know what everybody else does, and y'all are just the
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  Speaker 1: best of what y'all do. This platform, the reach y'all
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  Speaker 1: hat that you earned make space for somebody like me.
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  Speaker 1: You guys have a direct line to the coaches. Oh
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  Speaker 1: my god, I'm on the ready with a Dolomagne DJA empty.
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  Speaker 1: All I do is read about the Breakfast Club every morning.
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  Speaker 1: Good you guys are trending every you know, I dragged
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  Speaker 1: my ass out of bad I'm like, uh, what happened
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  Speaker 1: on the breakfast Club today? Good morning Usa, yo yo
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  Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
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  Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
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  Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo.
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  Speaker 1: I'm DJ Envy And howbody named is Charlottagne, the guy
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  Speaker 1: with the world most dangerous mornings. You're to Breakfast Club
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  Speaker 1: and currently we are on vacation. Man, totally disconnected. Yes
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  Speaker 1: we're not even really here. You think you're listening to us,
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  Speaker 1: but we're not. Well, we are not we're here in spirit.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and we're gonna be playing some of our
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  Speaker 1: top interviews and some throwbacks. So keep a lot right,
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  Speaker 1: it's gonna be running the boards and we'll see ell
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  Speaker 1: in the new year. Happy holidays. It's the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning. This is your time to get it off
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  Speaker 1: your chests, whether you're mad or blasted, so we better
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  Speaker 1: have the same dry we want to hear from you
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  Speaker 1: on the Breakfast Club. Hello. Who's this Hi? This is Jlisa.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, Jelisa, getting off your chests. Yes, today I
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  Speaker 1: just got pulled. Don't move about a cost for no reason.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not I'm just standing it. This is terrible where
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  Speaker 1: you're calling from. Um I live in North Carolina, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm from Jerushy. Why they say they pulled you off
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  Speaker 1: for mama, I'm supposed to beleeve that. Um My break
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  Speaker 1: light wasn't working. Bluff reminds you I never even had
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  Speaker 1: a break That's an old, that's a that's an old
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  Speaker 1: tricking U by both police officer, especially in the Carolinas.
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  Speaker 1: That's right, you break right out. He told me, he
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  Speaker 1: told me I was drinking and driving. I told him out, said, said,
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  Speaker 1: I do not drink he said, are you sure? I
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  Speaker 1: said yes, I do not drink at all. So he
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  Speaker 1: comes back to my car. Then he gave me a breastalizer.
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  Speaker 1: So I said, oh, how do I do this? He said,
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  Speaker 1: take a deep reason and then blow. I did that?
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  Speaker 1: Tell you why I came back zero zero? I said, see,
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  Speaker 1: I told you that. What's the next step from here?
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  Speaker 1: He gives me something talking about, oh you have to
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  Speaker 1: go to court, what your tall light is out, and etcetera, etcetera.
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  Speaker 1: But it's a brand new car, yes, brand new cars. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: because he's harassing you. But he had to give you
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  Speaker 1: a reason. He had to give you a reason for
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  Speaker 1: pulling you over. If not, he'd have been told me,
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  Speaker 1: let you go, just let it go. I just put
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  Speaker 1: out thought like he had to meet a deadline on
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  Speaker 1: making a certain amount of money, because you know how
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  Speaker 1: they're doing New jac Or in New York at a
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  Speaker 1: certain amount, like a deadline, they have to make a
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  Speaker 1: certain amount. So he feels like though he can't make
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  Speaker 1: that amount in a certain time from you want to
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  Speaker 1: write a bush ticket's language, you should definitely go to
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  Speaker 1: court and fight that one, mama, And you have the
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  Speaker 1: paperwork that you just bought a car. Have the paperwork
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  Speaker 1: say he was harassing you, that you were zero point zero.
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  Speaker 1: He's probably gonna say that he's seeing you squerve and
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  Speaker 1: you were driving a radic, so he assumed that you
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  Speaker 1: would drunk. But I would take that to court, mama. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's the best thing to do, right, absolutely, Yeah. And
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  Speaker 1: I just want to give a shout out, you know,
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  Speaker 1: to New York and New Jerius, because you know, I'm
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  Speaker 1: from up top, but I live down here and it's
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  Speaker 1: crazy how police are now on the need. Okay, We'll
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  Speaker 1: be safe out there and be careful. I'm glad you
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  Speaker 1: made it out of there. Yeah, don't let everyone your
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  Speaker 1: day have a name day, you guys, just stay blast you. Hello,
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  Speaker 1: who's this? It's me. I'm not gonna tell you my
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  Speaker 1: name right now? All right, me? What's up? You know
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  Speaker 1: you're on the radio. You can remain anonymous. Man. You
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  Speaker 1: could have said any name, but we're rocking you. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: So I want to get off my chest the fact
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  Speaker 1: that Direct needs to pay me my money. I pay
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  Speaker 1: the mortgage for him to live in a house and
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  Speaker 1: he's not paying and he's messing up my credit. You
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  Speaker 1: gotta give us some context, queen, what are you calling from?
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  Speaker 1: And who is there? That's your baby daddy, a boyfriend
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  Speaker 1: or some ex boyfriend or ex husband. No, my former husband.
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  Speaker 1: Oh he owe you child supporters something now no child support? No,
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  Speaker 1: I said he owed you child support. He owed me
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  Speaker 1: mortgage your money for living for free and messing up
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  Speaker 1: my credit. Oh okay, Well you're not gonna get that money, mama.
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  Speaker 1: You know that. I'm gonna have to He ain't got it.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. Well he needs to get out, she said.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get it out of the ass one way
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  Speaker 1: or the other. You're not gonna get that money, Mamma,
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna drive yourself crazy. Just kick that kick him
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  Speaker 1: out and just just think about it like this, that
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  Speaker 1: investment you paid, his investment, not to have him in
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  Speaker 1: your life. No more ever. Thank you at bye. But
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  Speaker 1: you have a great labor Day weekend? What I brother,
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  Speaker 1: get it off your chest? Yeah, I don't want it
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  Speaker 1: out there. And everybody you know, if you ever a
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  Speaker 1: business idea or a thing he's trying to put on,
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  Speaker 1: don't assume it's gonna be successful. Because we have feeling.
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  Speaker 1: Get friends, they're don't support you. It's not how it works. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: what happened, man, So I in an event it's called
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  Speaker 1: Natale Games through it for the first two years in
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  Speaker 1: my hometown in Indiana. I think it's gonna be successful.
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  Speaker 1: Didn't get as a turnout wanted, depending on family and friends.
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  Speaker 1: They me put it together. It was a good Georgia
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  Speaker 1: down to Georgia, and it's gonna be one of the
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  Speaker 1: biggest tenness games down here in the state. And I'm
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  Speaker 1: bootstrapping it all myself, most team or nothing. How do
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  Speaker 1: I think the handicaps off? Janie? You know, I tell
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  Speaker 1: myself that's how it always is. Man. You know that,
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  Speaker 1: you know, nine times out of ten, you're gonna get
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  Speaker 1: more support somewhere else than in your hometown. You know
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  Speaker 1: that shouldn't be like that, though it shouldn't be. But yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and you know, you can't ever expect, and I've learned
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  Speaker 1: this from you know, starting businesses. You can't ever expect
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  Speaker 1: the people around you that they have to do things
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  Speaker 1: to support you. You still got to act like you
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  Speaker 1: out there doing it on your own and put forth
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  Speaker 1: all the effort like you're not gonna have that. And
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  Speaker 1: if they do support you, that's a great and amazing surprise.
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  Speaker 1: That's just the way people are sometimes. It's a breakfast club.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, the breakfast club. I'm tying doing if this
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  Speaker 1: is your time to get it off your chest, whether
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  Speaker 1: you're mad or blessed. Eight hundred five eight five one
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  Speaker 1: five one, we want to hear from you on the
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  Speaker 1: breakfast club. Hello. Who's this? Yeah? What's up? Heavy? This
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  Speaker 1: is Tyler for Chicago, Tyler from the shot What I
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  Speaker 1: brought to get you off your chest? He's Tyler. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: what's going on, Charlotte? How are you supping? Dog? Let's
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  Speaker 1: black and Holly favorite King, That's what's I got this up?
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  Speaker 1: Hey man, I'm glad the guys are here. Maybe y'all
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  Speaker 1: can help me out. I'm in a little bit of
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  Speaker 1: a pickle. What's up, man? What's your pickle? So, man,
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  Speaker 1: my big sister she got into some stuff man. Last
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  Speaker 1: weekend she got in trouble, a little roadways incident that
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  Speaker 1: went all the way left and she ends up getting
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  Speaker 1: arrested and hit with a class acceality show. Her bond
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  Speaker 1: was one hundred thousand dollars and I gotta pay ten. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to pay ten. I got a vacation
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  Speaker 1: coming up in two weeks, and I feel like maybe
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  Speaker 1: a little jail time might give a little care, you know. No,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I'm gonna tell you something. Um, I went
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  Speaker 1: to I went to jail one time for pointing in
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  Speaker 1: presenting the fire arm. I think the charge, the charge
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  Speaker 1: originally was a Sultan battery would attempt to kill. I was.
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  Speaker 1: I was in the back seat when one of them,
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  Speaker 1: my homeboys, you know, was on the front and shot.
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  Speaker 1: And my dad did the same thing. My dad let
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  Speaker 1: me sit for like forty five days. Number one. The
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  Speaker 1: bond was high and he was waiting for he was
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  Speaker 1: waiting for the bond to be reduced, but he did.
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  Speaker 1: He was he was letting me sit on purpose because
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  Speaker 1: he said he wanted me to learn a little lesson. Now,
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  Speaker 1: this is your sister's first incident. Uh yeah, but she's
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  Speaker 1: forty two years old. Though she's forty two. What happened?
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  Speaker 1: She allegedly pulled out a weapon or something, Yeah, she did.
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  Speaker 1: How do you know about this? Did you hear about
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  Speaker 1: this on Facebook? No? I don't know. I mean, I mean, okay,
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  Speaker 1: the only way you're gonna get a felony for a
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  Speaker 1: road rage is if you a weapon. Brother, Let me
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  Speaker 1: ask you a question. If you let her it was
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  Speaker 1: pretty bad. If you bad, if you let her sit
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  Speaker 1: a little while longer with a bond, go down. I
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  Speaker 1: don't be so because it's she hit like she ended
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  Speaker 1: up getting to it with a lawyer who happened to
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  Speaker 1: be white. She's white, So it's pretty bad. Bro. We
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  Speaker 1: got to get her a really good lawyer, like I'm
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  Speaker 1: talking about, like a Jewish lawyer. Like at the end,
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  Speaker 1: there's some good there's some good black lawyers, man, there's
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  Speaker 1: some great black attorneys. What are you speaking? When's the vate?
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  Speaker 1: When's the vacation? Look, it's in two weeks. I'm supposed
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  Speaker 1: to go down and know it's my only vacation time
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  Speaker 1: of the year, and I'm as a conflict. Man, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know if I want to spend this money because
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  Speaker 1: I'll think I'm gonna get it back. I'm going on vacation.
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  Speaker 1: Let me all right, let me ask you a question. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: hold wait, wait, wait, wait wait wait. College Now, if
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  Speaker 1: you was in the same incident when she bailed you out,
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  Speaker 1: that's the thing I don't know. Let me my twin sister, yes,
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  Speaker 1: but my older sister I don't know what does your
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  Speaker 1: heart tell you to do? What is your spirit telling
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  Speaker 1: you to do? Right now? Forget because the only thing
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  Speaker 1: that causes complicates the devil. Keep my money, That's what
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  Speaker 1: the That's what the Lord is telling me. To keep
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  Speaker 1: my money because I worked hard for Charlotte. Enjoy your vacation, King.
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  Speaker 1: Enjoy your vacation. King. She's forty two years old. She
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  Speaker 1: ain't got no money. Did she got a crib of anything?
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  Speaker 1: That's the day she kind of she's worked for the city.
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  Speaker 1: Her husband got a little bit of money. But her husband,
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  Speaker 1: she got a husband. And enjoy your vacation, King. That's
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Okay, I appreciate your Enjoy your vacation, King.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all you figure that out. When you come back from vacation,
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  Speaker 1: you'll have a clearer mind. But what about if her
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  Speaker 1: husband ain't got no money, we ain't got nohing to
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  Speaker 1: do it that you'll have a clearer mind to think
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  Speaker 1: about it. After that vacation I did started, I started
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  Speaker 1: to go fund each other. I don't want to that money. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: enjoy your vacation, King, call us and tell us about
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  Speaker 1: your vacation. You take it, Yello, man, enjoy your vacation, man, sister,
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  Speaker 1: God bless her forty two. God bless your kid. God
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  Speaker 1: bless her, God bless her. She got a husband, she
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  Speaker 1: made a choice. Let that man go. Enjoy the vacation.
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  Speaker 1: When you come back, then y'all figure it out. Enjoy
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  Speaker 1: your vacation. Brother, get it off your chest. The Breakfast Club,
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, The Breakfast Club Special guests in the building,
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  Speaker 1: A smarting sir. You had a brother, g herbo hair.
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  Speaker 1: What's up? Brother? And when you got what I got? Drinks? Man,
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  Speaker 1: my blood cousin, Man, what's going on? Feeling good? I'm
• 10:29
  Speaker 1: good brother. First of all, happy birthday. And it's crazy
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  Speaker 1: because I thought I listened to Survive's Remorse. Yeah, a
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  Speaker 1: whole other goddamn but I had to think up there
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  Speaker 1: an hour and change that fast. Oh man, I'm excited. Man,
• 10:45
  Speaker 1: I'm just happy to be here. Brom. I'm blessed, you know,
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  Speaker 1: to be able to put this project out. But it's
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  Speaker 1: it's born than just an album. I feel the universe
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  Speaker 1: and the energy like around it. Like I really feel
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  Speaker 1: like it's a moment of triumph for me when I
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  Speaker 1: wasn't even trying to celebrate, you know, what I'm saying,
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  Speaker 1: like I went through so much recording this project and
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  Speaker 1: just so much in life growing as a man, and
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  Speaker 1: this album is a complete reflection, a complete testament of
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  Speaker 1: who I am and how grown as a man. You
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  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I was gonna ask you know
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  Speaker 1: you had two kids, and I've been seeing your video
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  Speaker 1: of your of your kids beating you up right, I'm
• 11:19
  Speaker 1: gonna ask you know, how has that changed you? I
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  Speaker 1: always say, like the happiest I'm gonna ever being just
• 11:24
  Speaker 1: hanging with my kids. You know what I'm saying, especially
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  Speaker 1: when I got all three of them in the house together. Man,
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  Speaker 1: It's it's perfect. You know what I'm saying. And your
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  Speaker 1: side the only thing you know I'm thinking as I'll
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  Speaker 1: walking here for real, and I knew y'all was gonna
• 11:36
  Speaker 1: ask you something about my kids and the main the
• 11:38
  Speaker 1: reason why I go so hard and why so important
• 11:41
  Speaker 1: because the talent that I spent away from my kids
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  Speaker 1: gotta mean something. Man, I'm really sacrificing time away from
• 11:48
  Speaker 1: my kids, not seeing them for this. You feel me,
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  Speaker 1: So it gotta mean something. It gotta you gotta work,
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  Speaker 1: you know, it gotta work for me. It gotta work
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  Speaker 1: for them because that's the foundation that I'm laying. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying it, and my kids don't know they ad
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  Speaker 1: g Herbert for real, Like he'll sign no because everybody,
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  Speaker 1: you know, we'll be walking or in the airport or
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  Speaker 1: something and people would be like heyo, sign hey, like
• 12:10
  Speaker 1: he fied he don't really understand. He asked me now
• 12:12
  Speaker 1: like daddy and my famous we want to tell them now. Yeah. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's different, man, Like just having them around other kids
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  Speaker 1: and stuff. You know, they treat them like a celebrity.
• 12:26
  Speaker 1: But it's like I'm saying that to say, like I
• 12:28
  Speaker 1: want all my kids to have foundation balance. You feel me,
• 12:31
  Speaker 1: So it got to mean something me moving fast, I'll
• 12:34
  Speaker 1: be on the road so much and worry about money.
• 12:36
  Speaker 1: And you you don't even you don't even realize you're
• 12:38
  Speaker 1: really raising your kids a certain way. You I'm saying, like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't want my kids to write grow up how
• 12:44
  Speaker 1: I grew up, for one, But I don't want to
• 12:45
  Speaker 1: grow up just like an industry kid or like you
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I want my kid to grow
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  Speaker 1: up regular man. I want them to just have his innocence.
• 12:53
  Speaker 1: You feel me that chrismatic and freedom to just beat
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  Speaker 1: them all my kids, you I'm saying, and that's important,
• 12:59
  Speaker 1: so and all you to say that I gotta go hard. Well,
• 13:02
  Speaker 1: I could have the freedom to take a y'all for real,
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  Speaker 1: like a real year, to just travel and be with
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  Speaker 1: my family. You know what I'm saying, Like I always
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: been wanted to be that type of artist to have it,
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  Speaker 1: because I feel like I ain't gonna be able to
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  Speaker 1: raise my kids right if I'm just focused on Yes,
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  Speaker 1: I'm on the album too. Understand that. But how did
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  Speaker 1: he react? He was he called me on FaceTime that
• 13:21
  Speaker 1: he called me first. He's like, Daddy, it's your birthday.
• 13:24
  Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, it's my birthday. He said, I didn't
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  Speaker 1: miss it? Said no, He's I was so scared I
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  Speaker 1: was gonna miss Your birthday just dropped. Your birthday just dropped.
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  Speaker 1: When he talking about the album, Your Birthday just came
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  Speaker 1: out and he was um, he listening to the song.
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  Speaker 1: He was listening to UM put me on the TV
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  Speaker 1: and he turned around like it's just crazy that he
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  Speaker 1: really understand it, you know what I'm saying, Like he's
• 13:45
  Speaker 1: seeing and not he a fan of the music. For him,
• 13:47
  Speaker 1: just listen to my music because he just fan of
• 13:50
  Speaker 1: music and the culture, you know what I'm saying. But
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  Speaker 1: that's like I noticed that, and that's why on what
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  Speaker 1: my kids, I just let him how I grew up.
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  Speaker 1: That's why I'm so smart that I was exposed so much,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, you gotta still expose
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  Speaker 1: your kids two things so we could learn. Like I
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  Speaker 1: feel like that's knowledge that my son growing and I'm
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  Speaker 1: just be able to like polish it all up just
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  Speaker 1: about talking to him. And you know, I'm gonna be
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  Speaker 1: honest with all my kids, you know I'm saying, And
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  Speaker 1: that's how they're gonna have to structure that foundation, because
• 14:15
  Speaker 1: that's how I got My parents were just honest with
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  Speaker 1: brutally on it. We saw you in a protective father
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  Speaker 1: more when it was when you was out with your
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: child and somebody, yeah was being a little too pushy.
• 14:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, the crew league. The crew league. I adn't
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: trying to like, you know, I'm cool, I'm friendly, you
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  Speaker 1: know I'm saying, but I would just be trying to
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: like it ain't really that, you know, because a lot
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: of times people be trying to go viral, and I
• 14:34
  Speaker 1: was stopping it right then because head had been something
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: that would have offended me, it would have went all
• 14:38
  Speaker 1: the way to a whole other level. So people thought
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: I was I was joking, but I wasn't. Really, I
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: wasn't Madden, and I was just showing them like, don't play,
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  Speaker 1: especially when you with your kids. We can't even play
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: well with nobody that I care about, you feel, especially
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  Speaker 1: my kids. So I just wanted to just let like
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  Speaker 1: just draw that line right there. All right, we got
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: more with g Herbert when we come back. Don't move.
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, Breakfast Club holding everybody
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy we all
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: the breakfast club was still kicking it with g Herbal Yee.
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: What do your parents have to say about this? Because
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: I'm sure my mom will be calling me all the
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: time saying she's proud and stuff like that. She just
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: called me the other day like you're so smart. She
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: was watching one of my interviews and stuff like that.
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: But she know I had to turn into this, but
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: she said, like she just told me this look saying.
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: She was saying, she said, You've always been the captain
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: of your ship vessel of your soul, because when I
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: was sixteen fifteen, I was really making decisions like a
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: grown man. You know what I'm saying. My mom was
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: letting her sixteen year old son leave out the house,
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: and she know I'm not going to school. She know
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: I'm about that, you know what I'm saying, dance with
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: the devil in a sense, and she allowed me to
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: do that. And I feel like if she didn't allow
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: me to do that, I wouldn't even be the man
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: that I am right now today, you know what I'm saying.
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: So I get credit to both parents. You know, what
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: could you have for seeing your career in lasting? Really,
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: it's been a long time already than you're only twenty
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: four years old, because you have foreseen this back when
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: you were like sixteen years old, that you would have
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: this longevity, that you would be here, you'd be moving
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: to LA you'd be having this life. I wanted to be,
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: but I didn't know what I needed to do to
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: get there, because, like I said, I was really suffering
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: from a mental illness. I had PTS decens I was
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: a kid, So I really thought that I was gonna
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: be able to be in the hood and maneuver the
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: same way I did when I was in the streets,
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: and we all know that's not the recipe for success.
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: So I wanted I had these aspirations, but I feel
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: like life going through the stuff that I'm you know
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like just the life though at you
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: I feel like kind of gave me to what I
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: got now to really make sure I'm staying around. Because
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: I thought I was gonna be on my block and
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: the Rose Royce kicking it with fifty is you know
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, You know, like that with the biggest
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: target on my forehead forget my back. So I really
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: thought that that was gonna be my life. But I
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: like now, like probably in the past two or three years,
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: I knew it, like I noticed for a reason. I
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: know I'm doing something because I'm here to stay, you
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Because you would think that your
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: your hood would be happy for other black men whom
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: it would be happy for you. Yeah, you shouldn't have
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: to move away from that. Yeah, but you also can't
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: go on the Rolls Royce in the middle of the
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: hood and just be all the time. Yeah, that's also
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: kind of like rubbing stuffing. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's how
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: some people look at it, but I always but it's
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: like inspiration. It's inspiration. It's inspiration because I was I
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: was on them same corners, stub shoes, guns, all that.
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: I was on them, same corners, doing everything that they
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: was doing. And then they really like, I'm humble, bro.
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: I touched the people, like pull up in the Rolls
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: Royce truck and hit on everybody. I'm gonna pull up
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: in the Rose Race truck and lets the kids hop
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: in my shop? What did you for world mean to you?
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: That's my little brother man. I think about them every
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: single day. Um, you know, and I'll be saying like,
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: I don't know, because I'm in New York. I'll probably
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna like me saying this, but I think like
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: what Juice was to our generation, Brough and an impact
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: that he had on us is what Biggie did for
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: New York for real. He had that like that Biggie
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: Pop effect. Why he said, he means so much for
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: this generation. But was it that that that gave me
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: that feeling? The content with it? His commercial success, it
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: was all, but it was also his vulnerability. He like
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: he was a vulnerability in his music. Man, he helped people,
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, when I met that kid,
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: he had in his id already. He wasn't trying to
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: chase the glory. He wasn't doing none of the stuff
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: he was doing because he was famous. And I feel
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: like inside out he did what made him happy. And
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: with him being itself, he had laid that leg He
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: got a real legacy that's gonna live on forever. And
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, I feel like, so that's what
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: what I mean. Better, So, how do you prevent a
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: situation like that? I mean, you can't really prevent anything.
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: Like when you think about that and you processed that,
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: how do you how do you avoid something like that?
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: Happened to me? Um, life is gonna be life. That's
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: why I did go to the detox facility that I
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: went to because I knew I was at it. I
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: got an addictive personality. I used to drink a lot
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: of lane. I used to pop a lot of pills,
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: and so I knew that the same way I was
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: in the streets, and I knew that I could die
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: being in the streets. I knew I could die from
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: drug abuse. You know what I'm saying, drug addiction. Every
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: day I did. I'm like, of course I don't want
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: to die. That ain't gonna be me. But I knew
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: I could you know what I'm saying. So I moved
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: accordingly like that And it was really my son, Bro,
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: my son, and reason why I went. The reason I
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: think is so dope when a brother like you talked
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: about their mental health issues and goes to therapy, because
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: that's all Jewics world needed. He needed someone that one
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: conversation to say, Bro, whatever you're dealing with, the anxiety,
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: the trauma to PTSD, we'll get some health. But I
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: used to talk to Jews. I remember one time we
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: was in London. We had a conversation for like an
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: houris in the hallway our hotel, and I was just
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: telling them how to deal with everything, like his success,
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: how to deal with being in a relationship, how to
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: deal with you know what I'm saying, everything where his
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: family really not having nothing to do with music, you
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, this dealing with life. We appreciate
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: you for joining us. J Herb always the breakfast club,
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: good morning, taking you back right back with the classic
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: re one. We would It's the Breakfast Club was a podcast.
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: It's topic time. The phone called eight hundred five A
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  Speaker 1: five one oh five one to join it to the
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: discussion with the Breakfast Club. Talk about it morning. Everybody's
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: DJ Envy Angela Yee. Charlomagne the guy, we are the
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Now if you just joined us, Charlomagne gave
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: Donkey data who man This dude from New York City.
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: Man his name is um Edwin Petroza and he actually
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: stabbed a man named jay Neuez the death because Jay
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: new Neez held the door for him and jay Neunez
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: said to him, why don't you say thank you? And
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: Edwin said, I didn't ask you to hold the door
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: for me, and then that led into an altercation that
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: led him to stab jay new Right, so we're asking
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: eight hundred five A five one oh five one, or
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: do you expect to deserve a thank you? By the way,
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: that goes with that whole you're welcome thing, y'all keep saying, like,
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: if you open the door for somebody and the person
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: doesn't say thank you, and then you say you're welcome,
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: that's kind of the same thing as saying, hey, why
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: don't you say thank you, which led to this altercation,
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: which led to this incident that's never happened to me.
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: I just say you're welcome and keep moving. Yeah, and
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: had a whole Hello's welcome. This is from Damp Road
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: Campter Road seven five seven. Yes. Now, now you're walking
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: in the store and you and you decide to hold
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: open the one of these doors for somebody and they
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: don't say nothing what you're doing. I'm loving if they
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: don't say thank you, Oh you let the door Sam, Yes,
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: because I say thank you when I'm in trying faking someone.
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: Let you do the little wave like thank you. I
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: do that too, So it's common courtesy. And if people
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: can't say thank you, they don't converge the common courtesy.
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: But you know, you can't expect you from other people, man,
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: and and and sometimes when you don't get you from
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: other people, you know, like it just is what it is.
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: It's common courtesy. So I'm going to let the door go.
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: That's just rude. Thank you? And how do you let
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: the dog go before? Because if you're holding the door
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: and they don't say thank you, they already got to
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: get through those I do that too, though that I
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: know exactly what you was talking about. What you said,
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: because I do the same exactly. You just let it go.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: They hit them baking the back of the back of
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: your back of the ass. Hello, who's this all right?
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: This is Bianca calling from I'm calling from the Bronx
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: right now. Oh oh boy. That somebody walking that door.
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: You hold that door for somebody, they don't say thank you?
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: What is the BX door? Listen, that's a problem. Like
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: if you can't give a person a common curtesy of
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: same thank you when they hold the door for you,
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: that you are a trash from the being out them line.
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: But we know, but we know it is though. That's
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: my point. It's like, if you're if you're a good person,
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: you gotta just be cool with being a good person
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: because everybody not gonna do do you the way you
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: would do somebody else. I mean walk, yeah, I mean,
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: you're not gonna throw off my whole day by not
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: saying thank you. But I am looking at you and
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: wonder what's wrong with you? Because who sup that? And
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: I mus say and I was saying, this isn't go together.
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: You know. Sometimes people aren't paying attention. They on their phone,
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: they're doing things and you say you're welcome, They're like, oh,
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, thank you. Different yeah, and you're like, oh,
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, thank you. It could be just an oversight,
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: know when the person is paying attention, you know, and
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: they just walk through the door like you owe them
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: that and they don't say thank you? What you exactly?
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: Thank you? B X. I'm gonna tell you you're welcome.
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you how this altercation started. Once again,
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: they held the door. I'll tell you that'll be more
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: of the story. Hello, who's this? Four? Three? Oh boy,
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: I see how this is gonna goes. So you walk
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: somebody walking through the door, you hold the door from
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: they keep people. We don't say nothing. Man. I feel
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: just like, man, my grandma taught me every big further
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: than money, and I think, what if you want to
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: do pretty young li with a night spooky? That's the
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: feet last uh type? I added school where you know,
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: like it feel like I'm do it, but really no,
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: I do feel good. And then hey when that hey,
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: when that girl with your big bunky walked by, you say, boy,
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: that girl fat out many man, I just smile. Man,
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: you know what, so what are you doing? What are
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: you doing with like saying, somebody Charlottagne, you know, thick
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: thighs over there, he comes to it? Shut up, man,
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: you know what I what I do is I'm going
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: firth and I just kind of hold the door and
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: let him coming behind me. But he don't walk in
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: before you. No, no, no, it depends. It depends. I
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: thank you. By what's the ball of the story though,
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: I mean more of the story is. Man. You just
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: can't expect things from people. You can't expect you from
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: from other people. And I'm not gonna take it personal.
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: You know, if if if somebody doesn't say thank you,
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: because I'm not holding the door for them because I
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: want to thank you, I'm holding to doing them because
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: I'm a nice person. It's just the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: the breakfast Club. Morning everybody on DJ m Angela Yee,
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: Charlotte and the guy. We are to Breakfast Club. We
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: got a special guests in the building. She's got a
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: new book out her Uphill, her memoir. That's right, great
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: picture by the way, thank you. How many of them
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: do you have to pick through before you landed on
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: this one? You know what? Um and this is gonna
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: sound far more delicious than I actually mean it. But
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: that was from a Playboy shoot. I did, what Yeah,
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: so you Playboy? Yeah, because Playboy, um, reading for the
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: articles is good writing, it's very good writing. And Playboy
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: every let me see what pictures on the back. They
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: did a feature on me um at some point. I
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: think it was earlier this year. And so the photo shoot, Uh,
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: the photographer I think believe his name is Eric Carter.
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: He's based out of la He took some phenomenal photos.
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: So because during covid um, you know, we couldn't really
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: work out how to you know, get new photos taken.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: So I was like, I love these from the Playboy shoot.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: That's play a joke on the husband be like, hey,
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: I'm doing a shoot with Playboy. Oh I totally did.
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: Like that was just like I'm gonna being Playboy. He
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: was like, what anymore? No, I don't think so. I
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: think it's like a more of a you know, content
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: or they've always had good articles and play I'm serious, listen.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: Alex Hayley wrote for play Boy. Okay, so like, I
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: don't think anybody ever went to Playboy for the articles
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: you're telling on yourself right now. But that's okay. I
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: love the title little Book to uphill. I mean, it's
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: a play on your last name, of course, but I
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: mean it actually isn't. It's not, And it was not
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: my title idea. This was not the original title that
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: I wanted three that came in third. No, the original
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: title I wanted was Broken Curses because I talked a
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: lot about my family history, family trauma and all of
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: that and my mother and I'm sure you know, you
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: guys have heard this before from elders or from your
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: parents or uncles or whatever, but the fact that there
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: are generational curses, and my mother used to talk about,
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: you know, breaking those in our family. And so that's
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: why I wanted to name in Broken Curses. But my
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: publisher they thought it was a little too negative, that
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: it wasn't uplifting enough. And my book editor, Shannon shout
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: out to you, Shannon, she came up with that title.
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: Up you okay, And I said to you, the chosen
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: one because honestly, you talk about your mom and the
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: things that she's been through and your whole family, and
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: it's a lot, and so how did she feel about,
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: you know, these stories being told? So I talked to
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: my mother, But we had numerous conversations about what was
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: going to be in this book, and she knew what
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: I was doing in the journey that I was on
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: and writing it, and knew that I wanted to write
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: it transparently. But honestly, Angel, that was probably the most
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: difficult part, because I was I was. I was in
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: the unfortunate position of asking my mother about the worst
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: moments of her life. And I tried to save those
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: conversations for last, if you will, so that we could
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: talk about it'd be happier things and fund memories, just
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: to kind of not come from a traumatic, you know, perspective.
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: And so it was tough. I mean, my mother told
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: me some stories I did not even know. You know,
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: the story that I tell in the book about her okay,
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: but you know, I guess it's an example of a story.
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: But the story I tell them the book about how
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: one of her low points during her addiction was being,
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: you know, caught in this drug house and having to
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: hide out from drug dealers in that house on the floor,
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: on a rat infestive floor. I didn't even know that
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: story until she told me, because I happened when I
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: was in college. I was so scared with that part.
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: It was underneath those dirty clothes, rats running around, yep,
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: and she had to stay and I thought they was
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: going to steal her car while she was inside. Uh. Well,
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: her her car as our tail did eventually get stolen,
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: you know. Um, and uh it was nothing she could
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: do about it, but it was where she was at
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: the time that was stolen. At what she was doing.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: How did you feel having those conversations with your mom,
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: because that had to be emotional. I was reading some
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: of that stuff that she went through and I was
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: like in tears. Um it was. It was difficult, and
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: but I think for her it was cathartic because these
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: are traumatic incidents that you know, during the time after
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: she was you know, sexually abused, and as I telling
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: the book, she was the victim of a violent rape.
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: You know, people weren't going to therapy then, like that
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: wasn't suggested and as you know, Charlemagne from your work
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: and mental health in our community, that was something we
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: didn't do. So imagine going through all of that with
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: no therapy. And that's why, as I discussed in the book,
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: she was going through very severe PTSD and did not
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: know it because that wasn't a term then that we
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: even were familiar with. And so um, yeah, those are
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: those are difficult conversations, but I think um at the
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: end of them, it was really healing for both of us,
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: you know, to be honest, like I, I certainly knew
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: about the trauma she experienced, but her going into detail
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: it gives me a better and more enriched perspective about
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: who she is. Yelow, I feel like it allowed you
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: to give her more grace. Yeah, and listen, people have
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: been asking me about what I want people to take
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: away from this book. It's a few things, but one
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: of the most important things is that I want I
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: want people to know you should talk to your people
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: while they're here, right like your mother's, your auntie's, your father,
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: whoever in your family, find out about them because usually,
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: like especially your relatives and especially your parents, they live
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: the whole life before you even got here. And writing
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: this book it really made me miss my grandmother who
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: died in twenty and ten, because I realized I didn't
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: ask her nearly as much about her life as I
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: should have. You know, even I know it's hard sometimes
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: for parents and grandparents to share, you know, traumatic moments
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: or their failures or disappointments, but it helps you see
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: them as full of people, and maybe that does allow
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: you to give them more grace with some of the
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: decisions they made and even in some respects to how
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: they've treated you. I was gonna ask, did you understand
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: more after talking to your mom in writing this book,
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: because now, even for myself, I didn't really understand until
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: I had kids, And then when I had kids and
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: I'm living my own life, I'm like, that's why my
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: dad did that, That's why my mom acted that way.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: But you know, during the time, I don't want to
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: say I hated them what you hated what they were
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: doing right, But now I was like, damn, I understand.
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: So did you understand more and were able to? You know,
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: what I understood more is why even in present days
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: she lives with so much regret. We had an interesting
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: conversation recently about that because I forgave my mother for
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: this a long time ago. I've let this guy because
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: I think as a kid, you know, it was it
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: was different because her trauma was something I had to
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: navigate around. So it felt like my childhood was being
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: stolen from me and so you know, you carry some
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: resentment for that, and so I let that go. I
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: forgave her, encouraged her as she was turning her life around.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: You know my mother, I mean, she's got her masters now,
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: you know, she got her bachelor masters. You know, she
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: out educated me, which I'm very very proud that she
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: did that, and she went back to school in her fifties. Okay,
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: and so um, you know, this has really been a
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: remarkable turn amount for her. But yeah, I mean, you know,
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: once I let all of that stuff, you know go,
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: I think I was good with it. But she I
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: think she still struggles to forgive herself because she feels
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: like she missed so much. And but the thing isn't
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: It's something I wrote in the book. It's like my
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: mother was there for everything, Like even though you know
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: she had a severe addiction. I didn't I have one
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: of those stories where my mom was missing for days,
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: like or didn't feed me, or the lights was cut off,
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: and she was very protective of you no matter what.
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: So like I didn't. That wasn't my story necessarily, because
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: I know some people who are the child the child
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: of addicts, they do have that story. But she was there,
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: but she wasn't always present, you know what I mean.
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: And so I think because she was trying to, um,
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: you know, figure out how to come out of all
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: the darkness she was in. I had to figure out
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: ways to navigate around her abuse, her drug abuse. You
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. It's like, I don't know what
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: mood you're gonna be, and I don't know what person
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: I'm getting today. I don't know when I come home
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: what dynamic I'm going to find. And so that for
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: me was where the resentment was coming from. Its feeling like, man,
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: I got to do all this, you know, I'm I'm
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: trying to be a kid, and it's all this seriousness
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: and darkness kind of around us. And so I think
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: once I really talk to her about it, and we've
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: talked throughout the years, but it definitely helped me to
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: understand a lot of the decision she made. Watching what
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: she went through. Did it like scale you away from
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: drugs and alcohol? Oh? I mean, you know, like I've
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: never ever tried hard drugs in my life. I don't
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: know anybody who's done any of that. I mean that
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: I know, I don't. I'm not on that scene I'm
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: not about that. I mean I smoked a little weed
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: like hearing there, Um they had taken an edible or
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: two me like like that's about it. Um. And I
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: do like tequila. But knowing the history of addiction in
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: my family has definitely maybe more cognizant of somethings. All well,
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: don't move. We got more with Jamal Hill. She has
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: a new book up Hill that's out right now. We'll
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: talk to it some more. It's the Breakfast Local Morning Wanting.
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: Everybody is dj Envy Angela Yee. Charlomagne, the guy we
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club was still kicking it with Jamael Hill.
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: Ye did your mom forgive her mother? Did she have
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: that opportunity to have those conversations? So they didn't, They
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: didn't get to the best place they were. There was
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: always unconditional love. My mother loved my grandmother fierce. But
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: when my grandmother made the decision not to believe her
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: about the abuse my mother suffered at the hands of
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: her brother, it was a fracture in their relationship that
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: never healed. And unfortunately, even when my grandmother died, like
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: my mother's was her caretaker, you know, like she regardless
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: of whatever state their relationship was in in the moment.
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: My mother was never going to abandon and stop loving
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: my grandmother. And my grandmother definitely loved her, but she
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: herself was somebody who you know, we used to have
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: conversations about this, Like she used to tell me, like
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: she didn't really want kids, and she felt she was
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: a very smart woman, you know, and she was really
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: she really wanted a career, like the kind of career
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: I had, not necessarily a journalist, but she wanted a career.
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: She wanted to travel the world, all these things. And
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: she was born in nineteen twenty five, and so education
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: for black women was not a thing in terms of
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: people thinking that they should be educated or that there
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: was value in that. As you know, during those times,
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: I mean, everything that a woman wanted to get financially
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: or any upper mobility came through marriage. And so she
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: was married three times and you know, she she had
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: her three kids, but she was just in many ways
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: trapped in a life she didn't feel like she chose.
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: And UM, I think because of that, she wasn't the
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: best parent to um, my mother and to um, you know,
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: my uncle that she she could have been. She struggled
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: a lot that got avicted a lot. Her grandmother was
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: a functional alcoholic. Like they they had some they had
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: some trauma, some real issues. And so she was a
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: great grandmother to me, and my mother would still call
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: her a great mother despite all the all the you know,
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: troubles that they went through. But I just think that,
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: um my mother never got the grandparent I got right,
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: you know. And I was asking, is there anything that
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: you decided not to put in the book? That she
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: was like, you know, let's leave this out or I'm
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: gonna take this out. Other family members are not gonna
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: like this. I know y'all like to hear the inside,
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: y'all know, I know, people keep it real here and
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: the tea. There was one thing I cannot tell y'all
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: what it was. Me and my mother got into an
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: enormous argument about this, and the thing is is that
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: it was the only thing in the book. She was
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: because she got an early copy, like an advanced reader
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: copy where you can still edit and change things, and
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: she was hot about it and we had it out.
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: But the funny thing was, after our argument, she told
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: you know, some of her friends about it, and they
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: told her she was tripping, and I had a time
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: to think about it, reflect on it. I talked to
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: my husband about it. And you know the thing, when
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: you write a memoir, you're writing about people who really exist,
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: and so you have to be careful, truthful, but careful,
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So that's why when I
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: talk about the abortion I had, I did not use
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: the person's real name because I don't know if they've
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: told that story. I don't know if his people know
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: or what state that's in, and I didn't want to
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: take away that opportunity from him to tell his story
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: his own way. So with my mother, I had to
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: think about the fact that what is this relationship going
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: to look like after this book? And while I didn't
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: anticipate my mother but stopped talking to me or that,
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: but it could be a wage issue. And this is
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: in print, you know what I'm saying, it's forever, right,
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: So I had to really think about do I really
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: want to do this. I can't imagine what it could
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: be because there's so much. I'll tell y'all, fair, I
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: tell y'all, even look your journal, you discuss that, yeah,
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: oh gee man? And for parents, let me ask the
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: guys in the room because y'all have kids. Would you
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: read your daughter's journal if you saw it laying around?
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: I would tell my wife you would, really because you
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: don't want to read it. Yeah, yeah, I don't. I
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: don't want to read it. What I do think I
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: probably would read it only because I just feel like
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: there's certain things that we should know his parents, you
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: know what I mean. I would definitely, you would definitely
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: read it because and I would only read I say yes,
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: because I've gone through the phone. Oh, I mean that's
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: not the same though, Yes, it is exactly. They could
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: not beat you some things. It could be just you.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: It could be you just venting something. You know, something's
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: bothering you that you don't talk about when you're thinking
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: about committing suicide or hurting yourself or hurting somebody. So
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: if I can stop that, and maybe you hate me,
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: but hopefully you love me less because I was able
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: to stop that. Now, if it's something else, I mind
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: my business and act like I didn't read it. But
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: it was something, then you could have, you know, hurt
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: yourself for somebody else, hurt a classmate. Well, how do
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: you look at that, Jamil? Obviously I disagree, and I
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: got my asshoop because of it, okay, and ever, and
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: that was the thing, is that because of all the
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: you know, tumultuousness in our life, that I needed someplace
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: to vent. You know, I couldn't vent to my grandmother
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: because my grandmother didn't that causes friction between her and
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: my mother. I was too embarrassed to vent to my
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: friends and let them in on the issues. Not like
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: I could pick a teacher because that's a double ass
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: whooping coming right. He didn't have the didn't have therapy.
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: So my journal was literally that And so I think
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: that might be, that might be that's the top three
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: frightening moment of my life. Did you come home and
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: your mother is sitting there with your journal, opening it,
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: reading it exactly? I mean that woman, I was like,
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: I was like, you try to kill me straight up?
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: When she read the advanced copy of the book. Did
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: it bring you back to that moment? Oh? Like it
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: was trigger and writing it, I was just like, okay,
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: because that's that's the worst assholee But she ever gave
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: me in my life, like there's nothing that comes to
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: it was and then she you know, years later, she
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: was like you know you didn't deserve them. Well, can
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: you go back in time and want me? Can you
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: do this? But you know it was, but she it was.
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: It was. That was one of our actually most fun
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: conversations because there were details of that that I did
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: not remember. And I was like, that don't really sound
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: like me because she told me that, um well, one
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: she was sitting there with my journal and then she
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: was like, let's talk about this in the basement. I
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: was like, oh, I'm never coming back like this, and
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: she said that's when I told her that I wanted
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: to go live with my father. I was like, what
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: would possess me to say that? You were about to
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: get And that's why she bagged up all my shot,
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: put it in there and took me right to his
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: job and was like she's all yours now. And I
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: was like, this was a grave mistake on my part.
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: This man, yeah, but you know I was able to
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: keep a journal later as an adult and I actually
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: had an ex who read my journal too, and who
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: I mean, people need to not be nosy, and I
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: guess it's your child. I understand what they said as fire,
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: but man, all right. We got more with Jamal Hill
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: when we come back, don't move. It's the Breakfast Club
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: the morning morning, everybody's dj V and shove me and
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: the guy we are the Breakfast Club was still kicking
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: it with Jameel Hill and my sports question, Oh go
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: Raymond Green, Jordan Pools, Raymond Green's punches him in the face.
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: Can Jordan Pools stated and play comfortably there? Well? And
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: I think this is this was evident before this incident,
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: just because the state that they, you know, go to
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: states in in terms of their finances. I mean, that's
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: a hell of check that don't have to write in
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: luxury taxes alone. If they decide to resign Draymond, give
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: him a new deal rather, And so I think it
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: was probably trending toward him not being there anyway. And
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: you know, I know Draymond um good dude. I know
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: people have polarizing opinions about him. That was a bad
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: moment obviously. Now. The only thing I debated with people
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: who called it a sucker punch. That was not a
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: sucker punch, right, Like, It's just there's an aggressive moment
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: that's happening, and I know that's your teammate, and people
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: are like, oh, but you know, he should have recognized
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: as his teammate and he wasn't expecting to punch. Have
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: you seen family members fright? Yes? I certainly have, right, So, Um,
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: I just think that was a really bad moment for him.
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: I think he recognizes that. I think he is honestly remorseful.
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: But I don't see them coexisting. Jordan Bulls should ducked
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: because anything, if you push somebody that hard, you gotta
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: expect something that's coming back, right Yeah, Um, I mean
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: this is this is not Jordan's Pull's fault at all,
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: but I think because of the finances, he won't be there. Yeah,
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: you know, I was on the fence at first because
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know, because this might be
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: one of those oh no, because of this incident, because
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: this might want to be one of those things that
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: like early in the season, there's certainly, you know, some
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: momentum that you have now, but the season drags on,
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: you know, I don't know. I don't know how they
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: respond and are able to play when you have that
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: big of a issue. That's kind of right there. But
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: these guys are veterans. I think they're hungry. I think
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: they kind of know it's their last stand, So I
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: do I expect them to repeat as well. Ben Simmons,
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: Russell Westbrook, what's the question? I mean, who's better? What's
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: the one word that comes to your mind? Miss? But
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: you know, honestly, I feel really bad for Russell Westbrook because,
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: you know, especially no, no, no, I mean Ben Simmons.
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: I think he's not as bad as people think, you know,
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: And and what you hate to see is when you
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: look at an athlete and you could tell psychologically something's
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: going on, you know what I'm saying, And it's just
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: it feels like criticizing him. And this is not to
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: say that he doesn't deserve, you know, some criticism, but
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: it just feels like he's mentally worn out. That's what
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: he seems like to me. Russell Westbrook's the same thing
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: is that because Russell it's clearly frustrated. I don't Russell
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: doesn't want to play this ship like he doesn't want
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: to do that. But now, and this is the gift
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: and curse of playing with Lebron. It's never gonna be
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: Lebron's fault. I'm not saying it is, but the people
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: that play around Lebron. Remember how the people used to
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: be on Chris Bosh all the time, like it's always
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: somebody that when they play with him, that becomes the
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: target for all the frustration over you know, losing, over
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: all of this, and it's Russell Westbrook. They have made
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: him the villain of the team. And I'm not talking
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: about the organization itself, but fans, you know, and he's
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: clearly struggling. I kind of agree with what Charles Barkley said.
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: I don't really see the joy in his game like
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: I used to. Like, he's certainly still a great athlete,
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: but you'd be crazy not to think it's not mentally
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: wearing on him that he's not thinking about this every
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: time he takes a shot. The fact that the fans
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: are boring him. It reminds me of when Josh Smith
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: played in Atlanta and every time it took a three
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: point of the crowd be like no, it's like I
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: feel like I hear that every time Russell like takes
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: a shot, like people are mad, right, And so to
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: play like that in your hometown, right, and that's that's
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: the vibe. You can't tell me that that mentally that
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: wouldn't break you a little bit. That's interesting because I
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: feel like Ben is mental and Russ is just physical.
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: The rust still got that energy and confidence if he's
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: physically able to play the way he used to. I
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: mean I sensed the I sense certainly the energy. I
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: don't mean to make a sound like he's melod an
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: aner like that, but it's like a joy that comes
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: to playing with basketball, and it doesn't feel like he's
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: playing with a lot of joy. That's all, no cowboy questions.
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: I thought I was gonna get some bolts. I think
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: the Giants look good, you know. I mean, I'm sure
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: Daniel Jones is thinking about how he got slandered when
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: they made that pick, and definitely the last couple of years,
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: but they didn't have as good of a team. I
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: think because they have now love Brian day Ball like
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: you know it definitely one of those coaches I've been
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: watching for a while, and so he felt he felt
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: like he would be a good fit for this team.
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: So look New York Football Jet saying Giants. You know
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: Roberts Salt like he was. I'm a forty nine Ers fan.
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: He was always wonder well as as she's gonna be
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: alliance fan. Yeah, I listened. I value my mental health,
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: and that was that's what you're talking about all the time, right,
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: It's like mental health as well for my mental health.
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: I was never a Lions fan. And it's crazy because
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: my husband's a huge Lions fan. He was at the
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: Cowboys game. And uh no, I mean so my mother,
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: as y'all know from being the book, you know, she
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: spent some time in Oakland, um, you know, and that's
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: where I was, I think conceived, okay, and so because
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: of that, she liked the forty nine ers, and so
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: you know, she would root for the Lions and for
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: the forty nine ers. She really liked Joe Montana. That
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: was like one of her favorite players. And so I
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: just you know, they were winning team. Why would you
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: not go with the winning team? Right? So it's like, well, greted.
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: You grew up in South Carolina, so y'all didn't have
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: your own NFL team, and a lot of a lot
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: of black fans that were not in um NFL cities
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: were Cowboys fan. He was I'm that word like in DC.
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: You know, it's kind of a not so quiet secret.
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of Cowboys fans in DC, right, And
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: so at any rate, so I just became a fortey
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: nine Ers fan. I've been with him, um, you know,
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: ever since. But Robert Salt was like a great coach.
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: Trust so I when he was going through that last
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: year with the Jets, I was like, this dude about
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: to show. He about to show them because he's got
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: the He gets players to buy in, certainly from a
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: schematic standpoint, like he's a really good coach. What about offense,
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: he'll look a little rough shore we do look a
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: little rough. But that defense, it's a championship level defense.
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: And this was the kind of defense I wish Tony
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: Robot would have had. You know, that's that that's no,
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: in no way a shot at Dak Prescott. But people
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: like to as you know, um, they like to hate
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: on Tony Robo, but they forget that he had categorically
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: some of the worst defenses in NFL history. And I
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: was like, damn, if they haven't had this defense with him,
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: y'all might have won. Y'all might have won a couple,
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: but they didn't. Got the second best record in the league.
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: You know, we beat them. No, here we go, y'all
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: go through this on the Daily Base Show. You know,
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: we beat the Giants right, But I like the Cowboys,
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: but you don't like picking them over the forty. Right.
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: You know you're going to Super Bowl, the Ship Championship.
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: We know, we know that in San Francisco. That's why
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: we had to come to Dallas last year. Give y'all
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: a peace, Okay, we appreciate you. Get up hills all
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: right now. I appreciate y'all. Oh, and I just want
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: to say one last thing about Jamil Hill. When I
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: announced my show, she called me in the middle of
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: the night from Portugal. You're in Portugal. No, I wasn't
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: in Portugal, but I was. I was somewhere out of
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: the country. Was my France. Maybe I was in south
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: of France hanging with this dude said remember, oh, yeah
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: you were here. Okay, so maybe I was, but I
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: was gone. You're gone. No, I went on the night.
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: She was like, I just want to say congratulations. I
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: would say that it's so nice. Yeah, no, Angela, I appreciate.
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: I'm really proud of you for doing your thing. And
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: as I wrote in the note to you in the
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: in the book, is that you um, you know the agency,
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: you betting on yourself, Like that's very not just admirable,
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: but it's very inspiring for somebody like me who throughout
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: this this season of my career, that's what I've done.
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: It's like that on myself. So I love seeing other
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: women do um you know the same thing. Yea, yeah,
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: I'm my girl. Let me tell you something. I was late.
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: They were envy with stressed because he had to do
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: my job. Because what you want me to leave? Thank you?
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: Get up Hill, Jamel Hill her memoirs out right now,
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: that's right. I'm trying to be a bestseller, y'all. That
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: devil brekfast Club. Wow, donkey to day us to a
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: thirty one year old man from Connecticut name for Rinds
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: and Murphy. Let let me be the first to admit
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: that this young man is the reason your uncle Sharla,
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: no matter how hard he tries, can't stop saying the
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: word nigga. Okay, maybe the adjustment that needed to happen
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: is we don't refer to people as the N word,
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: but we just refer to actions as nigga. Tree that way,
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: they can apply to all races, colors, and creeds. But
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: I'm saying all that to say there's absolutely no way
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: you can listen to this story and not say this nigga. Okay,
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: let me hear Uncle Rugg's real quick play for me
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: one time. Rett me set the tone. I wanted to
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: play a game, shut up work. Yes it is now.
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: Forenzo was a fugitive and he was on the run
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: from Connecticut authorities. See Forenzo was serving a four year
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: sentence on a robbery charge. Don't get me wrong, one
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: day in prison is one day too long. But a
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: four year bid, people will take that scratching a heartbeat. Okay,
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: that's a high school term. Freshman is senior bomb, four
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: years done. Okay, that's one presidential term, long time, no doubt.
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: But as someone doing ten years, as someone doing twenty,
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: as someone doing life, how did that compare to four years?
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: All right? I bet you didn't snatch that four years
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: in a heartbeat. But Forenso was serving a four years sentence,
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: and clearly he couldn't stay and to be there because
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: he was in a halfway house in Bridgeport when he
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: left without permission. That was confusing to me about this
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: situation is if he was in the halfway house, doesn't
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: that mean he was on the way home. I thought
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: the point of a halfway house. Was that you were
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: halfway home. They send you to the halfway house to
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: get you ready to get back adjusted to society. So
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: just a little more patience, he would have been home,
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: but no, not forenso outside with Colin and when outside
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: calls for some reason, niggas pick up on the first ring. Okay,
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: So Forends and Murphy left without permission and he got caught.
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: Would you like to know how he got caught. Let's
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: go to News Observer for the report police. According to
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: authorities in Georgia, a man was arrested at his own
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: birthday party weeks after he's accused of escaping a halfway house.
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: In Connecticut, deputies arrested Forendza Rickie Murphy on Saturday October first,
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: a family member's home in McDonough. The thirty one year old,
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: who deputy said was serving time on a robbery charge
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: at a Connecticut Department of Correction halfway house in Bridgeport,
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: was there to celebrate his birthday. Murphy was setting up
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: for his party when deputies arrived after they received a tip.
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: Murphy was accused of leaving the halfway house without permission
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: and had been on the run since August eighth. He
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: was booked into the Henry County Jail and faces additional charges. Jesus,
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: I understand, I understand why you don't want to come
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: back for what? For what? A party? Man? Not just
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: any party, his own birthday party for friends, escape from
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: jail and then got arrested at his own birthday party.
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: Police say they got a tip. But tip do they
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: mean invite? I'm assuming an invite. I can't prove this.
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: I have no facts to stand on what I say this.
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: But I know that this party was promoted on Facebook.
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: I just if it wasn't on Facebook, it was on
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: social media somewhere. I just know it was somebody DM
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: me to invite. I know they had it. He probably
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: sent it to his close friends. He probably thought he
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: could just send it to his close friends on Instagram
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: and nobody would be the wiser. Okay, probably promoted it
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: as a welcome home party. I don't know. All I
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: know is he escaped from jail in Connecticut and decided
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: to go to Georgia and have a birthday party at
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: the family member's house, and now he's back locked up.
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: Now Forends has been on the run since August eighth.
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: He would have eventually gotten caught, guaranteed, But having a
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: birthday party while you're on the run as a fugitive,
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure probably led to him getting caught faster. Okay,
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: friends are all you had to do was that four
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: year big and you could have had all the cake,
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: all the cast of me goals, and all the chicken
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: wings you want. But no, you just had to submit
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: to your lower will, your lower nature, and participate in
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: N word activities. Please let me get friends and Murphy
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: the biggest he are he ha, he ha, you stupid mother?
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: Are you dumb? And I know Jesus not come back.
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: And I'm pretty sure Jeeves regrets dying for okay, so
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: he's not making that mistake again, all right, And I'm
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: really trying not to say the N word anymore. But
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: you have to tell me a word that describes just
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: kind of behavior. Better play playing uncle ruggets for more time,
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: regis and powerful work. That's all you can say in
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: regard to a situation like this. But I will start
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: referring to the actions of people as niggatry instead of
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: referring to individuals as niggas. That's that's my evolution. What's
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: the N word? M President Connecticut had a party in
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: the all who said to a Now see, all I
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: said was George. Anyone said number eight sounds like they
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: ay to me, George is a big place, could be Savannah.
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: He was going to be making a lot of places
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: to Georgia. You can have a good time after party.
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: King of Diamonds. I know diamonds ain't the Miami. Oh,
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: don't move. It's to Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: It's that time ask Charlemagne and DJ Envy anything pick
• 56:09
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• 56:12
  Speaker 1: you any morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela, Ye, Charlemagne,
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. It's time for
• 56:20
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• 56:29
  Speaker 1: what's up? Dj V, Charlemagne and Guy may O. Man
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: this guy? How old are you? Brother? I'm forty six.
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: Now you're dating a nineteen year old girl. Lord, have mercy?
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: Oh no, man, don't play me like that. No, I'm
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: nineteen years older than us. Oh, you're nineteen knew this
• 56:44
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• 56:45
  Speaker 1: You just started on this, poor young man. So you're
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: you're forty nine and you're dating a young lady that's
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: nineteen year old. Man, Listen to me, I'm forty six, Okay,
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: she's twenty seven. Okay, that ain't too bad. That that
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: is better than nineteen. You work and stuff. You know
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Over time and I started digging or
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: we've been kicking it for about seven months or whatever.
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: But sometimes like you haven't feeling kind of funny because
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: of the age difference, my age, you know, yeah, because
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: you're cracking jokes. You'd be talking to her and you'd like,
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: you're so smart, you a regular doogie houses. She's like,
• 57:23
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• 57:28
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• 57:30
  Speaker 1: you're feeling us, she's feeling you. You just taking viagra,
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: You're leavitro, the blue pill, and just do what you
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: gotta do. No, I'm ain't one on my end. You
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: got I'm gonna feel like you gotta be yourself. That's
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: your own insecurities because you're old as hell, and she
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: young and you're trying to keep up. You know what
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: I mean, that's your own insecurities. You gotta get out
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: your own head if you're gonna be with that young girl.
• 57:52
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  Speaker 1: You listening to the Al Green? I love al Green?
• 58:10
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• 58:12
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• 58:14
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean. I'm talking about this. I'm
• 58:16
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• 58:19
  Speaker 1: Thank you? Oh that's my whole drink. I'm sorry. I
• 58:23
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• 58:25
  Speaker 1: I don't know what it's called A green, had no
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: idea what they called it back then. Okay, you know
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: who our green is? Yes, you know who al Green is?
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: She should now ain't no should? She thinks our green
• 58:36
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• 58:39
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• 58:42
  Speaker 1: actual singer. Right, good love, brother, Like he said, don't
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: let your insecurities bother you. Man. If you like that
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: girl she liked you, just enjoy all right, Sean Ages
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: is too hard to get over. I know that, you
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: know you can't help when you grow in love with.
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: But when you're damn near fifty and a woman just
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: need seven years old? What the hell are y'all talking about? Seriously? Like,
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: what are y'a talking about? She can't name none of
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: the members of wood tain Gland Nope, she don't remember
• 59:07
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• 59:09
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• 59:12
  Speaker 1: Don't let show about New Edition? Is the movie she's
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: on BD? Right, that's it? Hello? Who's this? Hey? What's
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: up to? Crystal? Hey? Christal? What's your question for? C?
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: And E? All right? So I have a sister with
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: fourteen months apart, really close. So we went on a
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: trip to the Philippines in December. But two weeks before
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: the trip, I got fired for my job. Three jobs,
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: didn't it was there for ten years, So I never
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: gave her the money for the trip when we came back,
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: so I didn't be her. I was in my similars
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: about being the preston you know, busk, my job or
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: whatever the case was. So fast forward. She told me that,
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: you know, I took advantage of her. I'm like, take
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: advantage of you, your money's sister, Like we're a dope nobody,
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: he's one of us to well, she's not crested the
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: twove hundred dollars, and you know, I was just kind
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: of in my simmies. I have two kids, I have
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: a mortgage, I was my job, and we're in the
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: middle of Corona now. So now she just matter about
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: the talk on knowledge and she feels that I took
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: advantage of her. I grew with her dollars. Dollars ruined her. No,
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: why do you give her her money back? Because she
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: lost her job, she got two kids. She shouldn't went
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: to the Philippines then, But then she was already paid
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: for it. Yeah, clearly it wasn't. So he paid for me.
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: Did she tell you that she was paying for you
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: or did she paid for it with the assumption that
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: you was gonna pay her back? I was gonna take
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: her back exactly, so I don't happen. Job, that's right. Okay,
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: your sister gotta take that note for me, because she
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: see you out here still buying stuff. She see you
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: out here still living, you still doing something that make
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: her know that you got that twelve hundred dollars the
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: last time you went out. Mama came back to Jamaica.
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: I know you know it. You should give her money back.
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: So you went to Jamaica, You should be ashamed of yourself. Oh,
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: you the money back. I gave her her money back,
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: but she feels that I took advantage of her. But
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: now we're just one situation overall over our lives. But
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: I feel like she just mean and insensitive, and based
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: off the those feelings that I have, I don't really
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: want to have a discussion on her anymore. Like I
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: love my sisters, but I don't want to be friends
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: with her anymore. Well, if you take advantage of her,
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: she should be mad at you. Well if you if
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: you gave her the money back, and she's just being
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: mad at you for being mad, but she probably how
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: long did it take to get the money back? Right
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: before you went to Jamaica. It is kind of slack
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: that you didn't give her her money back. You just
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: out here ball and don't you hate when somebody owe
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: you money and they just out here? Wrong? Y'all are
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: missing it. I don't have two kids. She has out
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: what you want to Jamaica? I got two kids and
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: she got it out of here at seven. Listen, you're wrong,
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: you're wrong. That's good. You need to get over true.
• 1:01:52
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• 1:01:54
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• 1:01:58
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• 1:02:04
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• 1:02:08
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• 1:02:16
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• 1:02:19
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• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: Who's this? This Tinny? How y'all doing? How you keen doing?
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: What's up? Brother? Kenny? Kenny? My bad? So what's your question? Brother?
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: My question is I'm trying to spice up my relationship
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: and it's my girl birthday. I have two trip to
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: have a trip to del Ray Bs, Florida and have
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: a trip to Orlando, Florida. Do you want need to
• 1:02:40
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• 1:02:43
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• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: do when you get there? You got flowers ready, you
• 1:02:46
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• 1:02:48
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• 1:02:50
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  Speaker 1: what happened yesterday. I just need all advice on what
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  Speaker 1: to do how to handle this situation. Basically, my five
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  Speaker 1: year old, Um, he's in kindergarten. He was at school
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  Speaker 1: yesterday and I got a tape from his teacher saying
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  Speaker 1: that he's coming home with the red face you know,
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  Speaker 1: red face because he got upset with a little girl
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  Speaker 1: at school because she didn't want to talk to him,
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  Speaker 1: and he told her at lunch that he was going
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  Speaker 1: to burn her house out, and she said that these days,
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  Speaker 1: you just can't make remarks like that, and he was
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  Speaker 1: sensing the principal's office and she just wanted to let
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  Speaker 1: me know and all that kind of stuff. But I
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: do kind of honestly feel like that that was a
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  Speaker 1: bit much like you know, he's only five, for one,
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  Speaker 1: like you're not gonna go steal my car and go
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  Speaker 1: burn a house. But how would you handle this and
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  Speaker 1: this was your child? Well, I think that he's heard
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: you talk about them guys. How is you gonna burn
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  Speaker 1: down one too many times? That's what it sounds like
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  Speaker 1: to me. That's what it sounded like to me. Man, No,
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't say that. I would just say, keep keep
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: this in mind. It's protocol. Now with everything going on
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: in the world and all these mass shooting, just protocol.
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  Speaker 1: Teachers want to make sure they saved their job. So
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: no matter what happens, if they hear this, that's protocol
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: of what they have to do. But you just gotta
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: tell your son just look like, hey, you can't make
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: these remarks because people take it serious. I know you're
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: not serious. I know you. This is something you've seen
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• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: you can get in trouble. And hopefully he understands that.
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  Speaker 1: But you ain't gotta worry that. But the teacher gotta
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  Speaker 1: have more grace too. Protocol. The teacher got to have
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  Speaker 1: more grace. It's a damn five year old, you know
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: what I mean? A five year old not about to
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  Speaker 1: go out and commit a actor arson like the teacher
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  Speaker 1: got to have a little bit more grace. The teacher
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: should actually reach out to you and be like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: I just want you to know this is what your
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  Speaker 1: son said today. You know, I don't want to see
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  Speaker 1: him getting any more trouble. They can't, you can't, you know.
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  Speaker 1: But just this case is like there was a case
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  Speaker 1: I think a couple of months ago with a five
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  Speaker 1: year old boy to school and shot a two year old.
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  Speaker 1: So this case is like that where they got they
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  Speaker 1: gotta follow protocol. Now she might not believe it, but
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: she has to do it just in case to make
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  Speaker 1: sure everything is all right. So I'm not mad at
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: the school doing that because they got to follow protocol.
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: It's not like they took the kid and beat him
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: outside in front of everybody. They just went. But now
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: that kid got a stain, like he got a red face,
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: and he got a red face, and people in that
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: school probably looking at that five year old different, like
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: watch that one. That one's there, he's gonna burn the
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: house down, you know. Like actually, and my thing was,
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  Speaker 1: um that was in a cafeteria and the little girl
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  Speaker 1: of another color. I'm just I'm saying that white supposedly, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: basically I'm black. My son's black um said that she
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: she just went up and sold the teacher and they
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: never like asked him for his side as a story.
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  Speaker 1: So basically that's just going by what she's saying. So
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  Speaker 1: I kind lord have mercy question did he even say that? Exactly?
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: That's why I want to know what I'm saying. Now,
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: you got to go to school a while. That's what
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. We don't even I'm like, I haven't heard
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  Speaker 1: you say that he said that. So that's like, and
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  Speaker 1: you know, you know your kids, you know your kids
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  Speaker 1: or whatever. You know when they're lying, you know, when
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: they're telling the truth. I honestly don't think you said that. Well, mama,
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  Speaker 1: if he didn't say if he said it, he didn't
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  Speaker 1: say it. If you get my drift, that boy didn't
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: say that. Nobody heard him say that. Don't lie on
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  Speaker 1: my kid, period period. So you need you need to
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  Speaker 1: go to school and have that conversation. Did y'all hear
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  Speaker 1: my son say because my son didn't say it, And
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: who you're gonna greet you? You're gonna listen to my
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  Speaker 1: black son or that white girl. Who are you listening
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: to because now I'm feeling a little racism. They're gonna
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  Speaker 1: listen to the white girl. You know that. No, No,
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  Speaker 1: not in this day and nation, not in this day.
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  Speaker 1: Or do I need to get my lawyer involved? Okay, Eban,
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  Speaker 1: you just said report the threat because I thought he
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: said it, but because you assumed he said it because
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: he's a little black boy. No, I did I assume
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  Speaker 1: as he said it because he never said he didn't
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  Speaker 1: say it. You're lying. No, I'm not lying. He heard
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: you say a little black boy and you just see
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: that nigga did it. I thought they heard him. But
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: if nobody heard him, he ain't say it, you go,
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: you take that to the grave. Nobody heard him, Nobody
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: heard him with their own ears, nobody heard him directly.
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  Speaker 1: He shouldn't be punished. He shouldn't be punished. I didn't
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: want him, I didn't will him or anything. And then
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: I taketed her back and I was just like, I
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: do apolog jobs on him making those remarks and it
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: will be him things. Well, he shouldn't have wrote that,
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  Speaker 1: he should have said he didn't say it, but I
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• 1:08:37
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• 1:08:40
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• 1:09:24
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• 1:09:39
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• 1:09:45
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• 1:09:56
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• 1:09:59
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• 1:10:01
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• 1:10:03
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• 1:10:14
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• 1:10:16
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• 1:10:19
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• 1:10:24
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• 1:10:28
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• 1:10:34
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• 1:10:36
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• 1:10:41
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• 1:10:44
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• 1:10:52
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• 1:10:54
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• 1:10:58
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• 1:11:01
  Speaker 1: fan one, then oh that's a I don't do that
• 1:11:05
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• 1:11:09
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• 1:11:11
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• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: it like this. You retaliate, you do something, now you
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: going to jail. It's if it's a fair one. I'm
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: cool with that though, as long as they ain't. No like, oh,
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 1: it's this wouldn't dude put him in to do and
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: he's just gonna get putting the dope feet again. You're
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 1: gonna train, You're gonna train before the next fight. That look,
• 1:11:28
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• 1:11:31
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• 1:11:35
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• 1:11:38
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• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: got no time for retaliation? Who cans like we're too old?
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 1: Let it go? Let it go, you've already know you
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: that's even worse. Exactly, I got punched in the head
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 1: and got seen by millions of people. You think you
• 1:11:51
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• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: reason for you to let it go, sir, all the
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: more reason. No. Why, Okay, jail, You're gonna chaliate, You're
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: gonna hurt him. You're gonna go to jail. Is it
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 1: worth it? No, we don't know if you're gonna die.
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: You're gonna hurt him now, Okay, So imagine question. If
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: you go get a fair one, you and him just
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: fight straight up. If he beat you again, then what
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: he gonna go for a third time? I'm gonna call
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: him fair fight. You're gonna what I'm gonna call him
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: a fight? Dude? S all right, I'm gonna tell you
• 1:12:20
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• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: want to fight again or you want to press charges. Right, Oh,
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: you just said you want to get a rescreened or
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: to get restrain or the you got a press charges?
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: Oh I want you to press charges? No, no, no, no,
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: I'd rather you press charge. I'd rather you get a
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: rescreen in order. You're about to lose your job and
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: you're about to go jove with doing something stupid. Man.
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: That man, that man then beat you up so bad
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 1: you want to get a rescreen in order. So I
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: don't know. Why are you acting all tough? Now? Let
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: it go? Bro, have a good one, man, But no,
• 1:12:50
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• 1:12:52
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• 1:12:58
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• 1:13:00
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• 1:13:02
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• 1:13:03
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• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: So you get beat up? Nah? All right, then, so
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: let it go. Nobody saw nobody even know that's why,
• 1:13:11
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• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: not on video, nobody saw it. Let it go. Chase
• 1:13:17
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• 1:13:20
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• 1:13:22
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• 1:13:28
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• 1:13:30
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• 1:13:33
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• 1:13:34
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• 1:13:37
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• 1:13:39
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• 1:13:41
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