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When All Hope Is Lost: Find the Motivation to Overcome Life’s Greatest Challenges · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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  Speaker 1: It's hard.
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  Speaker 2: It's hard as hell. There's no easy answer to this.
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  Speaker 2: There's no like, Okay, well, every morning at six o'clock,
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  Speaker 2: you know, wake up and meditate for ten minutes and
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  Speaker 2: tell yourself you're beautiful and then go like, it's not.
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  Speaker 1: It doesn't work like that.
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  Speaker 2: It's a constant battle, and you're gonna have moments of
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  Speaker 2: complete and total defeat where it's just like what am
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  Speaker 2: I doing? Like why do I keep trying to do this? Look,
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  Speaker 2: don't look at my story. Don't look at someone else's story.
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  Speaker 2: What's the story you want? Everyone's different, you know, because
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  Speaker 2: everyone has a different story, and I think we get
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  Speaker 2: locked into like.
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  Speaker 1: The horrific stories. It's like really easy to.
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  Speaker 2: Say, oh wow, that's such a triumphant moment that he
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  Speaker 2: came out of that, you know, and whatever. But there
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  Speaker 2: are a lot of kids who are struggling in freaking
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  Speaker 2: La Jolla, California, or Beverly Hills, California or whatever zip
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  Speaker 2: code that is doing really well on this planet. There's
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  Speaker 2: still struggling with self worth, They're still struggling with identity.
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  Speaker 2: So just because it may not be that they come
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  Speaker 2: from a really bad background, still are having issues with
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  Speaker 2: reality and what is something that they can hold on
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  Speaker 2: to and what is something they can anchor to. And
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  Speaker 2: so the first step is what do you want? And
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  Speaker 2: that question becomes like a rabbit hole for figuring out
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  Speaker 2: and pulling and dissecting and coming through. And then when
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  Speaker 2: we finally get there, then we see certain things in
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  Speaker 2: their lives that have given them that want or that
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  Speaker 2: desire or that curiosity. And then you just start working
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  Speaker 2: through that and the more layers of success that they
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  Speaker 2: can create as stronger their house becomes right, more bricks.
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  Speaker 2: You are this person, you are this individual, and people
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  Speaker 2: may not like that, but this is who you are,
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  Speaker 2: and go out and be you. It has nothing to
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  Speaker 2: do with what you do externally or what people say.
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  Speaker 2: It's how you view yourself and what you do inside.
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  Speaker 2: You know, put the victim to bed and wake the
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  Speaker 2: hero up instead. And the next part of that is
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  Speaker 2: you have to be a hero to yourself before you
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  Speaker 2: can save the world.
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  Speaker 1: And so you have to have that moment of I
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  Speaker 1: am who I am.
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  Speaker 2: I'm comfortable in who that is, and I'm going to
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  Speaker 2: go out and use who I am in the world
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  Speaker 2: in the best way possible. But I think that most
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  Speaker 2: people they know what's holding them back at some level,
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  Speaker 2: and they just don't want to be honest with it,
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  Speaker 2: and they'll do a lot to bury it. And the
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  Speaker 2: older you get, the more it gets buried. But I
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  Speaker 2: think if you really look back on your life, you
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  Speaker 2: can say, Okay, that's it, and I just don't want
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  Speaker 2: to take ownership of that. And a lot of times
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  Speaker 2: it's like I said, that shame, whether it happened to
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  Speaker 2: you or you did it, you know, it's that shame
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  Speaker 2: of just let go of shame.
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  Speaker 1: Like if anything, we've proven.
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  Speaker 2: In this world, like we're a world of forgiveness, like
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  Speaker 2: we will forgive people who are honest and vulnerable and real.
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  Speaker 2: But you've got to be that first in order for
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  Speaker 2: us to you know, but you've got to do that
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  Speaker 2: for yourself first.
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  Speaker 1: You got to forgive yourself failure.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's more of our egos that we don't
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  Speaker 2: want to say like failure exists. It's like, no, failure
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  Speaker 2: doesn't exist. It's a learning moment. Now you screwed up,
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  Speaker 2: you fail, Like, let's just own that, like there's nothing
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  Speaker 2: wrong with that, and yes, you should learn from those failures.
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  Speaker 2: If there's something you've been holding and heal through it,
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  Speaker 2: and then share it because guarantee there's somebody else who's
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  Speaker 2: going through something similar and.
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  Speaker 1: You will be able to reach them.
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  Speaker 2: The simplicity of just knowing that you're not alone is
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  Speaker 2: really not simple.
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  Speaker 1: It's massive because.
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  Speaker 2: In those dark moments, you are alone.
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  Speaker 1: For the most part, you.
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  Speaker 2: Are physically alone, and so then it's not that hard
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  Speaker 2: to take it from a physical to a mental state.
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  Speaker 1: Understanding that you're in control.
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  Speaker 2: You control your destiny, You can create what you want
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  Speaker 2: to create. You have gifts that nobody else on the
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  Speaker 2: planet has. You have talent, you have everything. Everything you
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  Speaker 2: need to become whatever you want is right here, right
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  Speaker 2: And I don't care what the limitations are, physical, mental, spiritual,
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  Speaker 2: I don't care. Everything is there for you.
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  Speaker 3: You're better than you think you are. All you need
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  Speaker 3: is belief, the belief that you can can succeed, the
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  Speaker 3: belief that you can learn, educate yourself. You have the power,
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  Speaker 3: the power to push the part of you that sheltered
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  Speaker 3: yourself from this progress, that didn't allow you to grow
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  Speaker 3: and get stronger. You can be better. You can change
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  Speaker 3: to be better, to be stronger and become the person
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  Speaker 3: you need to be transform into the person with respect,
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  Speaker 3: respect for themselves, respect for the decisions you make, appreciation
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  Speaker 3: for the progress you're making. How are you going to
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  Speaker 3: make this transition? Are you willing to change? Do you
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  Speaker 3: want to change? In order for you to succeed, you
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  Speaker 3: need to switch your mindset. You need to know that
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  Speaker 3: you want it. Be honest with yourself, be honest with
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  Speaker 3: your mistakes. You have one tool. It's called time. Taste
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  Speaker 3: the opportunity and feel the success. Feel the power rise
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  Speaker 3: above you. You have this believe that you can know
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  Speaker 3: that you can be the person you want to become.
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  Speaker 4: In reality, you are your only limit. Are you looking
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  Speaker 4: for success? Are you on that journey to success already?
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  Speaker 4: Do you know what path you're even on? There's only
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  Speaker 4: one way to know. If someone's holding you back. If
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  Speaker 4: there are limits, know that that means you're making progress
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  Speaker 4: because you know that you're working for it. You're gonna
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  Speaker 4: know when you're where you need to be because you've
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  Speaker 4: been working for it. Limits shouldn't set you back. You
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  Speaker 4: need the struggle in order to succeed. You have the
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  Speaker 4: power to push past the struggle, push past the limits
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  Speaker 4: and to learn from them, and to learn from yourself
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  Speaker 4: and the process. You're on the right path. You're taking
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  Speaker 4: the journey, so you're immediately on the right path. All
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  Speaker 4: you need to do now is keep taking the next step.
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  Speaker 4: Embrace the mistakes and embrace these challenges. Make this your
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  Speaker 4: time to make your life somewhere that you find is
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  Speaker 4: worth living. Build your empire. Build your empire into something
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  Speaker 4: constructed of your mistakes, and then watch yourself rise above them.
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  Speaker 4: Because limits shouldn't make you any less of a person
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  Speaker 4: than you want to be. You're more than your mistakes,
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  Speaker 4: and you're even more than your successes. You need to
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  Speaker 4: be you limits, struggles, failures, and successes and all in
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  Speaker 4: order to take that path to make your life a
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  Speaker 4: better place.
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  Speaker 3: You don't realize the privilege you have.
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  Speaker 5: If you still have time left to make a mark,
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  Speaker 5: and if you still have time left to live your dreams,
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  Speaker 5: then you will have no regrets. And if you're still
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  Speaker 5: able to work on your goals and ideas, there are
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  Speaker 5: a billion people wasting that they were you stop with
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  Speaker 5: the regret, start feeling gifted, and start feeling blessed.
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  Speaker 4: You have a chance to go out there and make
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  Speaker 4: a mark. You still have the opportunity that so many
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  Speaker 4: don't understand that you have the privilege to succeed in life.
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  Speaker 3: Everyone wants to be successful until they see what it takes.
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  Speaker 3: Do you want to have it? The spark of inspiration,
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  Speaker 3: the beauty of determination, the landmarks towards success. We all
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  Speaker 3: want it. You have to be brave enough to take it.
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  Speaker 3: Can you be brave? Can you stand up to the risks,
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  Speaker 3: to the hurdles That takes courage, Courage to face it
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  Speaker 3: rather than running towards it with your eyes closed. That
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  Speaker 3: takes nothing anyone can do that. Walk towards it with
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  Speaker 3: your eyes wide open. Be brave, use your courage. This
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  Speaker 3: is why not everyone is successful, only the ones who
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  Speaker 3: have what it takes. But you have what it takes.
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  Speaker 3: You have the potential, the potential to drive straight through
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  Speaker 3: the hurdles, become someone, someone you actually aspire to be,
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  Speaker 3: someone your kids can look up to, or work and
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  Speaker 3: strength your parents will take pride in. You can become
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  Speaker 3: that person. You have what it takes. You need to
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  Speaker 3: want it, have the craving to succeed, aspiration to want
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  Speaker 3: to move away from your past self and move forward
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  Speaker 3: towards the future. You the future. You can become someone.
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  Speaker 3: Make it happen. Make the time to move move forward now.
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  Speaker 3: Don't wait waiting, just waste time. What are you waiting for,
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  Speaker 3: waiting for the circumstances to change? Change them yourself. Only
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  Speaker 3: you can make that happen. Someone successful, someone who has purpose,
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  Speaker 3: someone who has grown. The time is now to face
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  Speaker 3: the discipline, fight through the pain, to reach power within,
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  Speaker 3: and to ultimately become an improved person. Cross the bridge.
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  Speaker 3: Fight each day for the success you've been waiting for.
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  Speaker 3: Fight for the opportunity to thrive outside your comfort zone.
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  Speaker 3: These choices don't come easily and definitely don't come twice.
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  Speaker 3: Hard work pays off, but in order for that to happen,
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  Speaker 3: you have to fight through the pain, the rich and
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  Speaker 3: the heartbreak. Wake up each day with attitude to change.
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  Speaker 3: Today you will walk with confidence, knowing that today will
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  Speaker 3: be the day you face your fears of failure. With
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  Speaker 3: that attitude. Tomorrow or the next day, progress will be accomplished.
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  Speaker 3: You will know you faced the discipline and fought your
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  Speaker 3: way out of your comfort zone. We need to feel
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  Speaker 3: pain to feel happiness. The pain drives us to strive
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  Speaker 3: for change. Just know that when life becomes hard, someday
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  Speaker 3: it's guaranteed that it will get better. Maybe not right now,
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  Speaker 3: but as long as you try, the chance of change
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  Speaker 3: and success increases. Don't wait for the opportunity to be
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  Speaker 3: handed to you on a plate. Only you, and just
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  Speaker 3: you can make that happen. Spend time, willing and completing
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  Speaker 3: your goals because nothing is impossible. Progress can find be made,
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  Speaker 3: the barrier can finally be broken, happiness can finally be
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  Speaker 3: seen in the horizon, and your mindset can finally be changed.