Latest / Tecuento / Tecuento T3 P23 Excusas que traban la acción
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- 0:03A program to share. He drives Daniel billinsonic Friday Vitrice to fourteen hours on
- 0:13Trentopic radio. With the stories. I' ve taken it, the homers,
- 0:36the galleys, the Swavo Putavins will come. I write my way without
- 0:48thinking, without thinking where it is many years or about we know x already
- 1:10very good afternoon. Dear friends, how you are looking at me as well,
- 1:15but, as a TV driver says, I am fine, but not
- 1:22so well. Here with the congestion and all those things are going to have
- 1:26to apologize that my voice is taken, it' s down, it'
- 1:36s down. Okay. The important thing is to listen to us is to
- 1:45chat and avoid coughing and sneezing, because if it is not going to get
- 1:49ugly, ugly, ugly good and the program gave me today, as always,
- 1:57accompanied by Juan Greco, in the operation and musicalization. And here'
- 2:04s a novelty within what you can do. For those who want to hear
- 2:10us or see us directly. Now you just have to go to the radio
- 2:15page radio train topic com dot ar and there you have the little buttons to
- 2:23listen to and you' re going to be able to follow us. The
- 2:27rest is still so good when they want to get in there and they'
- 2:36re following us well today' s show. And today' s program has
- 2:39several steps. As always, one essential music. You know that music in
- 2:49this program is more emotional than anything else. We listen, we choose,
- 2:57we like today, yes, I didn' t want tomorrow. But the
- 3:00important thing is that when the music comes to you, you take advantage of
- 3:07that moment to enjoy it, to have that sensitivity that is necessary and the
- 3:19main dish is this I tell you that days ago, I met a small
- 3:30group of people whose ages ranged from twenty- five to sixty- five years
- 3:38with a slogan. I am summoned to talk about what things affect them so
- 3:46as not to realize the idea of what holds them back and the motto of
- 3:52the meeting was no longer excuses, I mean, we just defined the topic
- 4:00by asking them the reason for the name of the concinna. They tell me
- 4:03that the people who encouraged in the story were tired of having meetings to see
- 4:10the scope of their ideas, to give encouragement support and always those meetings ended
- 4:16with a large number of excuses for which both did not concrete or shape their
- 4:23idea and that tired them depressed, so they intended in this meeting to end
- 4:32them or, at least, to start a process that would get them out
- 4:38of their stagnation. We agreed to divide the meeting in three moments, in
- 4:50the first that they would put the ideas or projects that they had mentioned,
- 4:59plus how long they had remained in that vicious circle of no progress. Then
- 5:03we would make a short list of the excuses or reasons why they thought they
- 5:12were stuck and the last moment would be to give them my guidance on how
- 5:20to move forward, reviewing the basic indications of turning an idea into a business,
- 5:29seeing the regional resources available and assuming each one a level of commitment,
- 5:33to concrete from here to the next meeting. Now I' m going to
- 5:40tell you more about being my teeth right now. In parallel to this meeting
- 5:47or going to the meeting, fresh new news comes to me from different places
- 6:00in our country and Argentina, where activities are being done for those who have
- 6:08ideas for entrepreneurs of different level, from the craft, from the least to
- 6:15the most technological, and listen to this there is no place in the country
- 6:24where you do not work with entrepreneurs, that is to say the entrepreneurs can
- 6:30not say we are alone, example, city of Buenos Aires. Go to
- 6:34each municipality and they will see that they have an activity, they have a
- 6:41program, they have groups working, go to the municipal development center dependent on
- 6:49the autonomous city of Buenos Aires and they will see in that beautiful place,
- 6:55all the things that are done to give them support, orientation and incubate projects.
- 7:05And if you are not in Buenos Aires, which I hope you are
- 7:10not in Buenos Aires, go to the province of Buenos Aires, go to
- 7:15Misiones, go to Rioja, go to Salta, go to Mendoza, go
- 7:19to the municipalities, the municipalities. It' s full of activities. Just
- 7:28look at the nets. They' re gonna realize everything there is. So
- 7:34girls, boys, women, men, you' re not alone. There
- 7:42' s a lot of activity. Always remember what we say. Seventy percent
- 7:46of what activates our industry are entrepreneurship and SMEs. If you go through a
- 7:57kennel, it happens to be pyme and then if the magic wand or do
- 8:03things right everything climbs up and we will bill millions of dollars and we will
- 8:11have some unicorn, that Argentina already has several unicorns. In that sense,
- 8:20after putting everything they were doing each one, we did the second step,
- 8:26which was good. Let' s make a list, let' s make
- 8:35a ranking of what you feel, what' s preventing you, and let
- 8:43' s choose the ones that have the most weight, not the most common
- 8:46ones, the most common ones. We' ve had a lot of talk
- 8:48on this radio. I' ve given a lot of courses about that.
- 8:52Let' s go to others that are, although they' re commonplace,
- 8:56they' re not usually the most addressed. One of them is I don
- 9:05' t have enough time. Here it is being implied that the realization of
- 9:13your idea is not at the top of your priorities. Then you have to
- 9:20check that point to see what' s most important, because sometimes I feel
- 9:30like it. I have the idea, suppose you studied the competition, brought
- 9:35it from outside, the idea was generated here by a necessity. But I
- 9:41don' t have time. You mean good about this son I have.
- 9:46You can' t take care of it. Then that person has to be
- 9:52honest, not with us, not with me, with herself, without waxing
- 9:58and saying okay, because some go with words said ah I am an entrepreneur.
- 10:05I do this one not honestly because that' s how you get a
- 10:11definite one. That takes a weight off of it, a weight off that
- 10:16backpack. Why, because I already have the goal, if I saw it
- 10:18go forward and if I don' t forget it, I had the intention
- 10:24if Barbaro belonged to the Barbaro clubs, but no. My priority is another
- 10:30family study job. Then the ideas will come. The other one is too
- 10:39busy. At first glance, this may sound the same as I don'
- 10:46t have time, but it doesn' t. A busy person wastes valuable
- 10:50time and energy. Therefore, I must learn to manage your time effectively.
- 10:58They remember to manage the times, which is important, which is urgent,
- 11:05which is not important, that it is not urgent to have a licoon had
- 11:15an expression that said you are not too busy. You just need to sit
- 11:22down and analyze how you' re managing your time and that' s important
- 11:31to give you and here we give you priorities again. A very common one
- 11:37that jumped in the group is to put the idea, put the will on
- 11:46it and then, in the end, kill it by saying ah but this
- 11:50isn' t going to work. Ah well, yes, there it begins
- 11:58to be noticed that Kka lacks confidence and lack of confidence beats the idea.
- 12:09It might not work. All the things we do don' t always come
- 12:16with a warranty certificate. It works. It' s not working. Success,
- 12:22not success, no, it' s not like that. But first
- 12:28one must do what is necessary to carry it forward and let circumstances say whether
- 12:37or not they have a chance. But we have to. If I stay
- 12:43on that it won' t work, and well, so we' re
- 12:48wasting time right now directly. Also, always remember that what I speak,
- 12:54what I think, are mandates that I issue. If I say it won
- 13:03' t work, ponce the command that it won' t work. Now.
- 13:09If I say this is going to work and I do what I have
- 13:15to do, that' s going to work, because the mandate is that
- 13:20it works and the forces, the energies of the universe how do they fable
- 13:26for that to work? And besides, if I don' t try,
- 13:31what' s gonna happen, well it' s gonna happen that I'
- 13:37m gonna have the doubt if I did. And you know it' s
- 13:41a very messy remorse, not just in an idea, in an undertaking,
- 13:48in a couple relationship, in a job opportunity. So to think about it,
- 14:01another one that came up on the list is I don' t have
- 14:09enough money. And here I asked him, well, he doesn' t
- 14:13have enough money to make what kind of money. Generally, I push this,
- 14:26because all ideas come with a fantasy. A while ago, a student
- 14:39made a similar point to me. Then I asked him to explain his project
- 14:46again. I remember him a lot. I hope you continue to succeed,
- 14:58as you did later. This project included having a hairdresser with a special technique
- 15:09for boys and adults and, according to him, it was necessary, yes,
- 15:18yes, to have a house with several rooms to develop their activities.
- 15:28Then I asked him to answer some questions you need so much to start with.
- 15:35I do go and he explained it to me. Your initial clients would
- 15:41cover the costs of renting a house. I already say buying rent and usually
- 15:50not because they' re initial customers until they find out what I want to
- 15:54do, until they make sense of what I want to do. I'
- 16:00m loyal to the customers. I make a mass of clients to report to
- 16:04me. Whatever the time, rents were always difficult to maintain and impact the
- 16:11budget a lot. After analyzing the other question I asked him was what is
- 16:25the minimum space to develop. This cost him. It cost them because it
- 16:37was like this to go, getting him out of every room. He was
- 16:41holding a room. He stayed there. No, I need three, I
- 16:45need two, I need one and the office. I need the reception and
- 16:51I need it. And it was hard. It was hard, it was
- 16:56hard for one who later became a joy. And it was hard for him,
- 17:02who later became a joy. Looking for alternatives, what we ended up
- 17:07with, what we agreed on, and how he started this. He started
- 17:11in a small space as an annex of a pharmacy, he searched for a
- 17:18corner, the famous cornerers that was enabled, he could start to do the
- 17:27promotion, attend some people and the same customers were taking him to go to
- 17:41their homes, so, in time, that corner did not need it.
- 17:45You know why. Because the special technique was an old special technique in Argentina,
- 17:52which is to remove the nits from the lice, the boys and the
- 17:56elders. Surely you opened your eyes, your ears and said that' s
- 18:04business. There are two very large companies in Argentina that, obviously, because
- 18:11of a question of the image of the customers, do not advertise what they
- 18:18are dedicated to that for a certain social level. And there was the third,
- 18:26the third that was this boy. When the customers asked him to go
- 18:30to the house, what we did, We rethinked, We rethinked, and
- 18:38there appeared a cell phone, a van that carried the elements screens, I
- 18:47to an assistant, if it was a boy, if it was a gradulto,
- 18:49and it went arming. And already today, after several years, several
- 18:59years, already four years of this that I am telling you. I think
- 19:04this will take ten years here, eleven years to the four years it started.
- 19:07With all this, he had already achieved the house he intended at first,
- 19:18but at first fantasy led him to have that fantasy kill the idea.
- 19:27So it' s all about being creative, it' s all about landing
- 19:33fantasy and giving times, because we read a lot about successful ones. We
- 19:41read a lot about those who put three hundred dollars and an hour bill a
- 19:48billion dollars. Sure, but no one counts the medium, the intermediate,
- 19:52the efforts, what they did. Usually all these battles are counted the prettiest
- 20:00parts, the hero' s part, but the hero also suffers the hero
- 20:07to be hebro has to put his own thing in that sense. Another situation
- 20:15that appeared is I' m not good enough. It is not necessary to
- 20:25be the best in the world in anything to build a successful business. Just
- 20:30be good at what you do. You have to know what you' re
- 20:34going to do, meet him in the middle, investigate him, and you
- 20:45don' t have to compare yourself to others. That' s what it
- 20:47' s going to do It' s going to make us frustrated and healthy.
- 20:53Each has his or her ability and carries them out as best as possible.
- 21:00In that sense, the goal is always to continue progressing, learning and
- 21:07improving. Never stop growing. You always learn. I' ve got two
- 21:18left. The other one is. I don' t know if this is
- 21:22the right time to start. That doesn' t sound like it to them.
- 21:30I don' t know if this is the right time to give the
- 21:33news. I don' t know if this is the right time to give
- 21:42you a piece of news. My family at work, how many times we
- 21:48' re waiting for the right time. To me comes those jokes that when
- 21:55expected, girls expect the ideal or ideal. As one said, they wait
- 22:03for Prince Blue and if he comes with a clarite celestial he rejects him.
- 22:08No. No, Blue can come, but not when we love him,
- 22:15when he' s destined to come. And here' s good. Returning
- 22:22to this point, this is another example of doubt and lack of faith in
- 22:32the idea. There' s no perfect time to start something. If you
- 22:41' ve done your homework well and we' re ready. Well let'
- 22:48s get started on the going will get better. Remember this that you will
- 22:53see in the talks, in the notes, you will see it in many
- 22:59books, in the networks, in everyone who gives a speech about this to
- 23:03undertake. I' m sure he mentions it. The process is to start,
- 23:15see what happens, how the process goes, whether it fails or not,
- 23:23adjust or continue again to see how it is going to right. It
- 23:30is not fair to just restart and this is the continuum to always be attentive
- 23:41about this. The other one said no one knows me or I don'
- 23:47t know anyone. I' m going to be a jortita this one.
- 23:53If no one knows you, make yourself known. If you don' t
- 23:57know anyone, go meet alien and there are many ways or one to promote.
- 24:04They remember that we once did the minute exhibition presenting the project, the
- 24:14good idea to go testing with friends, with partners with strangers. You know
- 24:22this, sir, you know this involcable glass. He tasted it. Don
- 24:27' t look short on the good for it' s here in this place.
- 24:33It' s sold, no, it' s sold. I don
- 24:37' t know anyone about it. I' m going to the courses,
- 24:40to the meetings, to the talks. Ah it' s time to leave
- 24:47the zom here eh because by zoom it' s very cold. This has
- 24:55to go hand in hand and as you get to know yourself in the environment,
- 25:00in the market, you start learning things that others share, because there
- 25:07are people who share ideas, the most powerful network to know, make themselves
- 25:19known and bring closer to the best known in the network of family and friends.
- 25:32And the last thing I' ve got here is someone else already doing
- 25:37it and doing it better. Dear ones. What I' m always saying
- 25:45is don' t worry how many centuries humanity has, how many billions of
- 25:55people we make up this big village. You believe that only you will have
- 26:00an idea to solve a need. You know what makes the difference of applying
- 26:08those ideas you, because each gives a different imprint, gives it a different
- 26:15familiarity, gives it a different touch, more creative, less creative, more
- 26:22realizable, less realizable. So someone' s doing something don' t worry.
- 26:30What' s more, why don' t you look at it and
- 26:34take note of the good things and the bad things. The bad ones don
- 26:37' t repeat them and the good ones do it for you. No one
- 26:41' s going to complain about being asked by you, and if you don
- 26:51' t answer this question, it makes it better So what? So,
- 26:55there we have two options. Be better than him and accept that it doesn
- 27:02' t have to be better and build a successful business. Anyway, with
- 27:07your features. Always to achieve something we need from others. And this brings
- 27:22me to another subject that I' m going to for a matter of time.
- 27:27I' m going to compact it that it' s associated with these
- 27:37themes ah If this thing that I told you now was interesting to you or
- 27:48you have some other situation, get in communication with us at eleven twenty-
- 27:52six, forty- two, twenty forty- two tell us on whatsapp we
- 27:59' re going to answer it, we' re going to guide it,
- 28:00we' re going to help. Summarizing all this and going to the points
- 28:07that I would not like you to comment on, is that you are not
- 28:11too optimistic with the result land a little bit to the ground. Strive to
- 28:21build good work teams along the lines that we need from others. We need
- 28:29equipment. We can do it alone yes, but we' re always going
- 28:34to need something else from a supplier, a distributor people working with us.
- 28:38Those are teams. They want to call strategic alliances. There are alliances of
- 28:45strategies that need to be realized. Know the sector what you' re doing.
- 28:53Give the business time. Do not think about growing quickly, giving it
- 29:03your time, just as plants have their time to grow, to hibernate,
- 29:11and so on. Do not think together all this that the product is sold
- 29:18alone or the service. You have to run out of time and that'
- 29:26s a lot of years that' s over that I put something in,
- 29:33I created something and they were going to take it out of my hand.
- 29:33No. No, no, important, very important. Keep the customer in
- 29:41mind. Keep the customer in mind. Don' t forget we exist.
- 29:51Thank you and the client. He is the sense of our existence friends.
- 30:00We will close this point and I have already taken a long time, I
- 30:10repeat, available to you to address this and other aspects of the project.
- 30:15That they have in mind eleven, twenty- six, forty- two,
- 30:19twenty forty- two here in Argentina and Sie is from the outside, they
- 30:26add the plus fifty- four, nine and the number. We take a
- 31:15good break. We will have to recover time, of course, we will
- 31:22hear a collaboration that always brings us thanks to Veronica, our storyteller friend,
- 31:29excellent narrator with a very interesting story. Absence, let' s hear it
- 31:48It couldn' t have been that nothing had been left behind. Veronica looked
- 31:52over and over in the closets and drawers. The clothes were cluttered all over
- 31:57the floor. Veronica had begun to cry. He had a faded blue shirt
- 32:04in his hands. That shirt had been Ivan' s, her first boyfriend.
- 32:10He came up to his t- shirt to his face by sucking heavily,
- 32:16trying to rescue some smell. The minute she threw it down next to
- 32:20the rest of the clothes. The crying became more intense. He kept searching
- 32:28nervously between the drawers. There had to be something rich. He should have
- 32:31forgotten something. He found some plaid pants were those of Javi that the waiter
- 32:40he met on the beach that summer in his pants also tried to find some
- 32:45smell, but only found the softener' s. His hands trembled weakly.
- 32:54Ricardo had left the night before. She had warned him many times and she
- 33:00had not believed him. He took advantage of her having a work dinner.
- 33:05He picked it up without even leaving a note. He was gone. Peronica
- 33:12spent the whole night thinking about this was something you could sense, but still,
- 33:17how could I leave her? So, I couldn' t believe he
- 33:22' d gone where he' d be. Ricardo. I had to talk
- 33:25to him to explain that I couldn' t leave her alone with Eduardo.
- 33:34After two and a half years of relationship, he kept a long pile of
- 33:37shirts and shirts, including Ricardo had put them on many times the first nights
- 33:44he stayed to sleep, but all those clothes were folded and clean. Veronica
- 33:51smelled over and over again, but there was nothing left of him. He
- 33:57looked around. The floor was full of men' s clothing, of all
- 34:01the men who had passed through his life. He even had difficulty recognizing who
- 34:07belonged to each garment, Robert' s handkerchief all over Carlos' shirt,
- 34:13whose scarf was that Ricardo scarf was the only one who had nothing like it
- 34:20was going to be now, whenever she had suffered a love disappointment, she
- 34:28kept something and every night, after every loss of parted face, she grabbed
- 34:35the shirt to the pants or the garment that had left the one leaving and
- 34:40closing her eyes, she fell asleep breathing her smell and feeling like this in
- 34:49a kind of deception that the person was still beside her. For Veronica,
- 34:58the smell was the most important thing about a person, something more real than
- 35:01a photograph or an absurd memory could make. For her, a person'
- 35:07s smell was what made it real. The smell is lost is something hard
- 35:15to remember when I don' t have it around, but she knew there
- 35:19was something able to catch a person' s smell for at least a while
- 35:24and it was clothes. That' s why he hadn' t returned his
- 35:30shirt to Ivan after he left with another girl and had stayed with Javi'
- 35:35s pants after the last dinner there on the beach, Or begged the Italian
- 35:38to leave him that old, worn sweater. Thus time passed and by the
- 35:45time the garments had lost their scent, Veronica had also lost the need of
- 35:52that person. Thanks to that deception, he had never managed to suffer the
- 35:58failure of his relationships. When the garment suggested nothing to her, when she
- 36:02had lost the last olfactory particle, she was already fully recovered. Then he
- 36:10grabbed the pants, the shirt or whatever, and after washing us, he
- 36:15kept them neatly in the closet. From that moment on they became one more
- 36:22garment. Now, Veronica was bending on her knees, her clothes, around
- 36:30her was useless. He didn' t leave anything behind. I looked at
- 36:37all those clothes that just smelled like softener, couldn' t stop crying.
- 36:42Now, when the night came, she would have nothing to do with the
- 36:46deception of his presence. I couldn' t remember her smell that night.
- 36:52I would spend it alone all night, alone without being able to embrace any
- 37:01pain other than absence. This beautiful story is called absence and is from a
- 37:09Spanish writer named Montsey cute canton. No good, now let' s continue
- 37:19with the story of the week. Never burn love letters. He was a
- 37:30volunteer supplement editor, after having been a battle journalist, but his secret and
- 37:36undisguised vocation was mountaineering. He was forty years old, a great athletic state
- 37:45and a lot of female attention. Fernández, however, did not know any
- 37:49fer in the editorial and although they were not great friends, they performed some
- 37:53friendly rituals. It was time to go on holiday about the same dates.
- 38:04Larsen always devoted the first few days to some risky climbing and the rest to
- 38:09his wife and three daughters. It' s been routine for them to have
- 38:15a beer to say goodbye at the bar on the corner. As a cabal,
- 38:22Larsen said when the glasses collided, if anything happens to me, if
- 38:27I stay frozen up there, if I fall from a rock and break my
- 38:31neck, you violate the drawer of my desk and that most of all Fernández
- 38:39leave no trace of anything, that all Fernández promised him the last time and
- 38:45took a plane to Córdoba. Five days later he learned that Larsen had died
- 38:53in begging without the slightest effort. The day before the expedition, he took
- 39:00a pipe in front of a log fireplace. He had a massive heart attack
- 39:05and died instantly. Dismayed by the news and pressed for the situation, Fernández
- 39:12called from the summit to his colleagues to open the drawer of the desk and
- 39:17tear its contents apart. But it was already late, after ZEPED and Lio
- 39:23had sent the widow a consignment with all the belongings of the deceased full of
- 39:30remorse. Fernández left a message of condolences on the woman' s phone and
- 39:38returned in silence to Buenos Aires. He didn' t hear from her until
- 39:45eleven months later, when life called him to ask him a favor and they
- 39:51stayed for a coffee e. They met on a rainy Tuesday and she sat
- 39:59on the same stool where she sat down at the Arsen to watch rain from
- 40:04the bar. She was a fibrous, blonde woman who smoked black cigarettes and
- 40:09had a green, lucid look. His name was Monica. In ten minutes
- 40:15the procedure and the words of circumstance were removed and went straight to the point.
- 40:22Lersen told you about Silvia, asked Fernández, blindfolding him to third parties.
- 40:34Monica didn' t name her husband by her first name, but by
- 40:38her last name and that had always made Fernández laugh, but this afternoon she
- 40:44didn' t. Who is Silvia asked, without feeling guilty or lying.
- 40:51Larsen had never told her about Silvia or any woman in particular. They had
- 40:58praised how all accidents and job geogras do, but the thing had never happened
- 41:04from that male sport that women also frequent, though with greater malice. Silvia
- 41:14was the lover of the Arsena. Said the widow in that drawer had three
- 41:19hundred love letters and a perfumed handkerchief.“ I cannot believe you,”
- 41:25Fernández said, and now he did feel miserable, tried to fix it and
- 41:30made it worse. A scented handkerchief. What a curse. I can'
- 41:37t see it. Same way Monica told him.“ It seems very romantic
- 41:44to me and three hundred letters answered Fernández” How much patience and how much
- 41:54wasted literature we can seriously talk about, Monica erases it. Fernández closed his
- 42:00mouth. Monica turned off the cigarette looking out the street and spoke in a
- 42:05different tone. He meant it. Those three hundred emails eased my pain,
- 42:13hate, cover it all up. You don' t know how I gave
- 42:17it during those days. He wished him death, but he was already dead
- 42:21and regretted that it had been so easy that he had suffered nothing. I
- 42:25felt bad about those thoughts and I missed him and I didn' t forgive
- 42:31him that he died and that he betrayed me with someone else and was crying
- 42:37through the corners of anger and sorrow, all like in a blender. He
- 42:43took another tobacco break and took the glass of ice water for a drink.
- 42:47Then he exhaled a long puff of smoke that looked a lot like a sigh
- 42:53and moved on, but those cards had me holding on to my neck.
- 43:00I went back to them again and again, reading them back and forth.
- 43:08I was about to throw them in the trash several times. One night,
- 43:14when I heard from the bed that came to the pick- up truck,
- 43:19I went out in a bra bombshell into the street to rescue them from the
- 43:22bag of residua. I was crazy about those letters until, after reading them
- 43:27ten times, I read them for the first time. I remember it was
- 43:32a Saturday morning. The girls were at the club and the gardener was making
- 43:37some noise outside. I sat in the kitchen with a cup of tea and
- 43:42started reading them without pain. Fernández, to distract the situation, asks for
- 43:49orange juice. Arsen' s wife had her eyes peeled and Fernández was somewhat
- 43:59afraid. She valued the situation better and saw that she was a sensual and
- 44:12courageous woman. Three hundred emails back and forth she said without bringing saliva a
- 44:16kind of erotic diary. It started three years ago and with the mail of
- 44:22time it became thicker. At first they spoke of despair at seeing and touching
- 44:28each other. Then they started talking about love and going to live together.
- 44:35Suddenly, Monica shook her head and smiled bitterly. He was so happy when
- 44:42you saw Arsen. I was once again that teenager who didn' t see
- 44:50me I swear that morning, while I read it and my tea was freezing
- 44:54in addition to a fight, I had a kind of I don' t
- 45:01know a kind of that passion of the beginning never again. But the most
- 45:08important thing was not in those first letters, but later, when the thing
- 45:14was extended to Dancers, it could not make a decision. Silvia and audiologist,
- 45:21I told you yes, a separate girl who had fallen in love with
- 45:27my husband, but the guy believes me, the guy did nothing but write
- 45:31about me long texts, telling how great I was what I had done for
- 45:37him and what we did that weekend and the previous one. And Silvia,
- 45:44who' s smart, was running the tide and there was a time when
- 45:47they were only writing to praise me, as if they were my two press
- 45:52leaders. Bonica began to laugh and Fernández feared that she would start crying,
- 45:59but at the last step of the laughter, she straightened out and told him
- 46:04I got the address and I spent several weeks thinking about going to see her,
- 46:14going over her with the truck, but all I did was send her
- 46:17an email. I know who you are. I want us to meet face
- 46:23to face. It took him ten days to answer me. We met at
- 46:31the querandí. She could easily recognize me. Larsen gave him pictures of me
- 46:37so he could see how well he kept me. What a silvia. Fernández
- 46:45asked how she was Silvia and shrugged a well- preserved foursome, another widow
- 46:54and what happened to We talked hours and hours. We stopped every once in
- 47:02a while to go cry in the bathroom and braided again. We could never
- 47:08raise our voices. We didn' t really argue, we just talked about
- 47:15the ars, we insulted him, and we worshiped him like that without a
- 47:20solution of continuity. In the end, when we were already paying the bill
- 47:24and we had passed all the bills, I returned his handkerchief. She stared
- 47:30at it and then told me to you Larsen She broke your heart once I
- 47:37broke it ten times. You were the highest mountain and up there lived only
- 47:45the two of you and me for more, climbing and climbing. I could
- 47:52never get there When I came out of coffee, I felt no sadness,
- 47:59no anger, no cold or heat. It was clean for the first time
- 48:05in so long. I was clean Fernández, why are you telling me all
- 48:10this? Silvia told me that the Arsen considered you his only true friend and
- 48:17that you had the mission to burn everyone and something unique happened to him.
- 48:24He picked up his wallet to leave and told him you. I' m
- 48:30so grateful you' re late. This story is by Jorge Fernández Díaz,
- 48:40an Argentine writer, and it is called never burn the love letters, what
- 48:50gives good. Dear friends, we are now coming to the end. I
- 48:57don' t want to leave without reminding you of an activity that will take
- 49:05place Alejandra Faena, our yoga teacher, an experiential workshop that has five meetings
- 49:10that starts on June 25. The meetings are from eighteen to nineteen hundred and
- 49:16fifteen and will be dictated by Alejandra Faena and Susana Kataife, where it will
- 49:22be in the Hotel Centuria, his thirty impacha from here in the city of
- 49:29Buenos Aires. For more information, or Alejandra' s instagram script under Faena.
- 49:38Now next Friday we will have more details directly from the voice of Alejandra
- 49:45Faena. And now, simply thanking you for being with me, you'
- 49:52ve been followed by AlejandroÁlvarez Coronel' s company. With news that you
- 50:00have a good week and we will meet here again next Friday at 13 hours.
- 50:08Thank you.