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Real Wealth Lands When You Do This: 7 Signs You're Resisting Receiving · Beyond Limits With Olivia Marie

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  SPEAKER_01: Hello, everyone.
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  SPEAKER_01: Welcome back to the podcast.
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  SPEAKER_01: Today, we are diving into when wealth, like real wealth, lands and what is required for that to happen.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because you can have the strategy, you can have the offers, you can even be magnetic.
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  SPEAKER_01: But if there's any part of your system that still punishes itself for how good it feels to receive, then wealth won't stay.
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  SPEAKER_01: It'll spike and vanish, or it'll land but feel heavy, or it'll arrive with a side of, you know, shame and guilt and pressure and fear, because the nervous system will always eject what it doesn't feel safe enough to hold.
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  SPEAKER_01: And most people don't realize how they are punishing themselves for receiving.
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  SPEAKER_01: So we're gonna be diving into that today, along with like the signs.
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  SPEAKER_01: I think I have probably about six or seven signs that you're gonna identify from this episode.
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  SPEAKER_01: So what does it look like?
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  SPEAKER_01: And we'll go through some examples and then we'll do a deep dive.
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  SPEAKER_01: Give me like a summary and then like the depth.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because it's not always dramatic.
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  SPEAKER_01: It can be quite subtle, but it's woven into the micro responses of your body, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: You get a big payment and then immediately feel like you owe people an organ.
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  SPEAKER_01: You owe them something more.
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  SPEAKER_01: So you tend to like overgive.
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  SPEAKER_01: You have trouble receiving.
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  SPEAKER_01: And this is, yes, you can have trouble receiving compliments, but normally at this level, if we talk about wealth, we're talking about building real wealth, there's a magnitude to it.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's not just receiving money.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's like you can receive, you know,$5,$100.
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  SPEAKER_01: How about$100,000?
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  SPEAKER_01: All right, how about$100,000 for a smaller amount of your time?
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  SPEAKER_01: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Or something happens and then you're worried you can't live up to the offer, the program, the service, whatever it is that you sold.
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  SPEAKER_01: Or you sell something out and then your mind goes, oh, I hope I can do that again.
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  SPEAKER_01: You buy something luxurious and then you feel like you need to justify it with a win.
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  SPEAKER_01: Like, oh, when I accomplish this milestone, then I can have something luxurious.
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  SPEAKER_01: Or, I mean, I did this luxurious because I just hit the highest month ever.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's inner punishment.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's a body still wired for survival, not sovereignty.
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  SPEAKER_01: And this is why overflow requires regulation, because overflow will always feel like a threat to a system trained to associate more with danger.
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  SPEAKER_01: More eyes, more pressure, more money, more responsibility, more excess, or more success stereo, more to lose.
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  SPEAKER_01: So what happens is you shrink, you sabotage, you mellow out that bigness, you drip instead of flood.
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  SPEAKER_01: But the woman who rewires that, the one who dissolves even the tiniest fragments of guilt and debt and obligation and shame, she becomes impossible to stop because there's no longer a penalty for being supported.
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  SPEAKER_01: No friction between her desire and her worthiness, no contradiction between overflow and identity.
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  SPEAKER_01: She doesn't try to control wealth.
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  SPEAKER_01: She lets it run to her because her feel doesn't flinch when it arrives.
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  SPEAKER_01: And you would be shocked how often this happens.
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  SPEAKER_01: And this is why, you know, people ask me, Liv, how do you work with such like iconic women in the industry?
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  SPEAKER_01: And some of them like you don't want to be known, and they're very private, and that's absolutely perfect.
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  SPEAKER_01: But I work with a lot of, you know, bigger names, industry icons, celebrities, seven, eight, even now nine figure CEOs.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I saw something, and this person, this is like is not my client, but I saw something on Instagram, and it was I don't know if it was a real or a carousel, but it was like I manifested it, but I also worked really hard.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I was like, oh, you should hire me.
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  SPEAKER_01: That is a bracing pattern.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's a nervous system trying to preempt criticism.
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  SPEAKER_01: And this is someone who got a lot of like hate and criticism previous to this post, like in the couple of weeks before it, that like, oh, must be nice, or like just a lot of like ridicule.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so I was like, oh, that's interesting.
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  SPEAKER_01: You didn't feel safe with that ridicule.
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  SPEAKER_01: So you needed to justify it by saying, Oh, oh, but I also worked hard.
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  SPEAKER_01: She was trying to preempt criticism by layering proof over power.
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  SPEAKER_01: Like, don't worry, I deserve this.
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  SPEAKER_01: I earned it.
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  SPEAKER_01: I didn't just receive.
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  SPEAKER_01: I was like, oh, interesting.
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  SPEAKER_01: Someone who's made eight figures still has trouble receiving.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm like, I wonder how much more you'd receive if you got back into the receiving zone, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Because that kind of thing takes you out of the receiving zone.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's a performance of safety, a spell of justification, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: A conditioned need to dilute the miracle to make it more palatable to a collective nervous system still addicted to effort.
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  SPEAKER_01: But when you are truly embodied in your field, you don't rush to add, oh, and I worked really hard.
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  SPEAKER_01: You just say it's mine.
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  SPEAKER_01: I did this, oh yeah, but you know what?
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  SPEAKER_01: I I've struggled for 10 years.
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh yeah, but I went to school for this.
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh, but yeah, I did this.
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh, but yeah, I did this.
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  SPEAKER_01: Why?
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  SPEAKER_01: Why do you need to justify it?
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  SPEAKER_01: Why can't you just say it's mine?
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  SPEAKER_01: Not with defense, but divinity.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Where effort isn't the validator, presence is, and you don't need to downplay overflow and miracles to be allowed to hold it.
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  SPEAKER_01: I thought this was very interesting.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I see so many examples of this, which is why this tells me how important my work is and how important it is to teach women this, because even the people who are teaching manifestation and that you get to receive and surrender are bracing, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Are justifying.
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  SPEAKER_01: And some people just do it behind the scenes, but then there are people doing it forward-facing.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm like, oh doesn't that not negate everything you're teaching?
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  SPEAKER_01: You just signal to everybody, yeah, that you can manifest things, but you should also work really hard.
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  SPEAKER_01: Like, wow.
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  SPEAKER_01: If only that were true.
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  SPEAKER_01: And if you haven't heard this analogy, I've used it 10 times before.
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  SPEAKER_01: But if this is the first episode you are listening to with me, I will say it again.
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  SPEAKER_01: If all it took was working hard, then everybody who worked hard would make millions.
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  SPEAKER_01: I am popping in to let you know about the prelude because the next few weeks of my life are going to change everything.
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  SPEAKER_01: I am catapulting into my next era and you get to witness it in real time.
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  SPEAKER_01: This is the before.
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  SPEAKER_01: But there are plenty of people working three jobs, working very hard, maybe even just working one job, working really hard, or two, just people working very hard who don't make millions.
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  SPEAKER_01: So if it was required to work hard, it would be required for everybody.
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  SPEAKER_01: Ergo, it's a condition, it's not a law.
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  SPEAKER_01: Let that break your brain a little.
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  SPEAKER_01: So let's get into some of these signs of inner punishment, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: These signs that you're punishing yourself from receiving, because these are sometimes really micro-responses, not necessarily loud alarms.
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  SPEAKER_01: And they often happen after the receiving moment, not before.
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  SPEAKER_01: And they'll tell you, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: They'll tell your body that this is unsafe.
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  SPEAKER_01: Even if your mind wants it, it's going to take you out of the receiving zone.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: In the receiving zone, I love this name.
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  SPEAKER_01: It is the zone of receiving.
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  SPEAKER_01: It doesn't have conditions, it doesn't have performance, it doesn't have forcing or pressure or obligation, which is how life is meant to be.
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  SPEAKER_01: So what are these signs?
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  SPEAKER_01: Number one, the after win collapse, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Which is that sudden fatigue, that brain fog, that headache, or even like an emotional drop after a big win.
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  unknown: Right.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's like, well, why do I feel tired or numb right after something amazing?
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  SPEAKER_01: Because your system is crashing from the adrenaline of trying to earn the win.
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  SPEAKER_01: And it's also unconsciously punishing you for being too visible, too powerful, and too successful.
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  unknown: Right.
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  SPEAKER_01: So that you literally collapse, hence the fatigue, brain fog, headache, emotional drop.
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  SPEAKER_01: And there and then we have the microconstriction, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Sign number two, which is that like that tightness in your chest, your gut after the money lands.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's that feeling I gotta give someone an organ because they just paid me this.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: It's the why do I feel tension when the payment notification hits?
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  SPEAKER_01: That is stored guilt or unprocessed fear, especially if you're receiving with ease.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Because the body associates ease with danger, receiving with owing.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's like, oh, I just did that easily.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's wrong.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's not allowed.
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  SPEAKER_01: Wasn't I supposed to like work harder for that?
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  SPEAKER_01: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: So that constriction is number two.
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  SPEAKER_01: Sign number three, shifting into proving mode.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Feeling the urge to show up, serve more, or justify the receipt.
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  SPEAKER_01: To go, I better do this thing so people know I'm worth this.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's nervous system performance.
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  SPEAKER_01: Trying to re-earn what's already yours.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's a trauma loop pattern where giving is safer than receiving.
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  SPEAKER_01: Number four is bracing for the dip.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Which you've heard me most often say is waiting for the shoe to drop.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's that subtle emotional withdrawal or that anticipatory disappointment, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Where you're like, you're anticipating disappointment, you're waiting for the shoe to drop.
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  SPEAKER_01: This probably won't happen again, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: That kind of energy.
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  SPEAKER_01: Or like, oh, this is not gonna last.
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  SPEAKER_01: You'd be shocked how many women struggle that they're so successful, but they think it's all gonna go away.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so their whole systems are like frantic and pressure and dysregulated, and they're chasing ads and funnels, and I'm like, what is going on here?
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  SPEAKER_01: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: You pre-fail to protect your system from future collapse, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Because the body says, let's beat them to the letdown so we can stay safe, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: That's why your system is trying to anticipate the disappointment.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because if it can prepare itself, if the disappointment happens, you'll feel better.
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  SPEAKER_01: Only issue is when you put energy into possible disappointment, you end up getting disappointed because your energy is there.
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  SPEAKER_01: Ooh, I just had a major deja vu.
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  SPEAKER_01: Wow, and a really, really good one.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's so funny.
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  SPEAKER_01: And then I oh double deja vu.
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  SPEAKER_01: I had deja vu recording this, and then had deja vu of recording this, having deja vu doing this.
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  SPEAKER_01: That means we are in a quantum leap.
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  SPEAKER_01: So that's funny.
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  SPEAKER_01: I love that.
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  SPEAKER_01: Okay, sign number five a lack of full exhale, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Which kind of just looks like you forget to breathe deeply, especially after a moment of success.
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  SPEAKER_01: And it's that feeling of like, why can't I relax even when things are going well?
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  SPEAKER_01: It's like the body can't just fully let go, fully exhale.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: That's the sign that you're not in receiving with your body because the body stays tight when the system is still in hypervigilance.
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  SPEAKER_01: There's no exhale because the body isn't convinced it's safe to land.
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  SPEAKER_01: All right, sign number six nervous system dissociation, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Freeze response.
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  SPEAKER_01: This is different than number one, which is the afterwind collapse, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: The collapse is like a collapse.
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  SPEAKER_01: This is freeze.
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  SPEAKER_01: This is like floaty.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's like it didn't even happen.
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  SPEAKER_01: Versus number one, it's like, why do I feel tired right after something happened?
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  SPEAKER_01: This is it feels like it didn't even happen.
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  SPEAKER_01: Like it feels like too good to be true.
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  SPEAKER_01: Like you actually cannot feel it.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that's when receiving overwhelms the system so much it checks out.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's a dysregulated freeze response.
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  SPEAKER_01: Again, takes you out of the receiving zone.
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  SPEAKER_01: And the last one I want to mention, there are like some more when we dive into those into the receiving zone.
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  SPEAKER_01: But it's that internal pressure spike, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: It's that tightness behind the eyes or that emotional tension after a leap.
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  SPEAKER_01: Now just need to keep this up, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: The system doesn't get to celebrate, it just calculates.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's like on to the next.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's this pattern of performing safety.
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  SPEAKER_01: You can only stay if you keep producing, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: It's that internal pressure.
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  SPEAKER_01: Gotta keep this up, gotta keep it up.
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh, oh, because it's gonna go away, cannot last, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Is there's that tightness.
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  SPEAKER_01: All of these things take you out of the receiving zone.
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  SPEAKER_01: Your body needs to know that this isn't dangerous, that you don't owe anything, that you're allowed to have it, no proving, no compensating, no collapse, just the exhale and of inevit just the exhale there we go of inevitability.
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  SPEAKER_01: Wealth will only land when there is no inner punishment for receiving.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that's why I use the word wealth, because money can land.
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  SPEAKER_01: Money.
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  SPEAKER_01: Wealth though, legacy wealth, generational wealth.
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  SPEAKER_01: Like wealth to me is like it's bigger.
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  SPEAKER_01: There's people who have money, there's people who have wealth.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's not about whether your mind is open to wealth, it's about whether your body is.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Real wealth doesn't land in a body that flinches, it lands when there is no more unconscious resistance to it.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's not about how much you think you can hold, it's about whether your body believes it's allowed to.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Money isn't late, wealth isn't late, it's just waiting for you to stop punishing yourself for having it.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that's the thing.
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  SPEAKER_01: The money's already here.
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  SPEAKER_01: And you've probably heard me say this countless times before, but I really want you to realize it's literally just you kinking your hose.
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  SPEAKER_01: I use this analogy a lot in receiving zone.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's there's kinks in your receiving hose because you're not in the receiving zone.
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  SPEAKER_01: And once you unkink the hose, the water flows.
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  SPEAKER_01: The water is still there.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's trying to get to you.
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  SPEAKER_01: You just have these kinks.
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  SPEAKER_01: And this is why I live and die by the program receiving zone.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because this allows you to uncover those unconscious resistances that puts the brakes on money so that you can then build wealth, real wealth, and unlock the frequencies of effortless receiving.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because there are 10.
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  SPEAKER_01: There are 10 different frequencies of effortless receiving that help you do all of this and more.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because most women who are trying to build wealth are missing the one thing that actually opens the floodgates.
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  SPEAKER_01: And it's not another affirmation, it's not feeling the feelings, it's not visualizing numbers in your Stripe account and hoping it falls from the sky.
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  SPEAKER_01: That surface level manifestation, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: It doesn't respond to effort, it responds to your safety to receive more when you stop punishing yourself.
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  SPEAKER_01: And what I love about the receiving zone is what I take my seven and eight-figure women through who are done working harder and are ready for wealth to feel light, natural, and inevitable.
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  SPEAKER_01: So we will leave the link for that down below.
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  SPEAKER_01: It is on special for a limited time, and you get instant access.
• 16:53
  SPEAKER_01: So you literally go start listening and get into the receiving zone now.
• 16:57
  SPEAKER_01: Because to be honest, you don't want to just be in the receiving zone sometimes.
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  SPEAKER_01: You want to be in the receiving zone all the time.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because that's where real wealth is, is when you can stay locked into the receiving zone and it stops being something you manage and it becomes something you are.
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  SPEAKER_01: Okay, and you let millions flow through your system with ease, not effort.
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  SPEAKER_01: And you let your body remember it safe to enjoy it.
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  SPEAKER_01: Like this is the frequency I live from.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's how millions move through my field with no pressure, no chase, no performative spike.
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  SPEAKER_01: Not because of what I do, but because my system no longer punishes itself.
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  SPEAKER_01: I don't punish myself anymore.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Let this land.
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  SPEAKER_01: You were never meant to earn it.
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  SPEAKER_01: You were only meant to receive it.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I could go on and on about this, but that's what receiving zone is for.
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  SPEAKER_01: We will leave that down below.
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  SPEAKER_01: Don't forget, wealth only lands when there is no inner punishment up or receiving.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I'll see you in the next episode.