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Should your personal life influence your professional career? · Anele and the Club on 947

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  Speaker 1: Wake Up with a Bang, wake Up and the club
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  Speaker 1: on nine four seventh.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to prefix this with this is none of
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  Speaker 2: our business as most things that you speak about. I
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  Speaker 2: be honest, this is absolutely none of our business. But
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  Speaker 2: for the next forty minutes, it is going to be
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  Speaker 2: our business. And I would really like to emancipate you
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  Speaker 2: and free you into also being as nosy as we are.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Amandola helping everyone, I'm freeing you.
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  Speaker 2: I'm taking the chains off your ankles off being proper.
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  Speaker 2: You do not need to be proper for this conversation.
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  Speaker 3: You can be You can be honest.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, yes, Okay. Meg the Stallion, she's a rapper. She's
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  Speaker 2: up there with the Cardi B's Nicki Minaja's right, famous
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  Speaker 2: famous Meg the Stallion.
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  Speaker 4: She was dating. I think his name is Klay Thompson.
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  Speaker 2: Right, he's an NBA, he's a barller, he's the NBA
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  Speaker 2: start right.
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  Speaker 4: And they were like a couple of goals.
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  Speaker 2: Everyone's like, oh, and then she found out that he'd
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  Speaker 2: been playing away games more than more.
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  Speaker 4: Than the basketball.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, okay, toy schedule was busy, right, So now she
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  Speaker 2: was on stage on Broadway from Mulan rouge, like a
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  Speaker 2: really big role on Broadway. And this was a big
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  Speaker 2: thing for her because she's a rapper. Now she's on stage,
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  Speaker 2: so triple three because now she's singing, she's dancing, and
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  Speaker 2: she's acting on Broadway, which is the epitome of being
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  Speaker 2: on stage.
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  Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, and I mean, and this is a big
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  Speaker 1: thing to be on Broadway is a big and a
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  Speaker 1: show like this because a big show, it's a big thing.
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  Speaker 1: It's a big responsibility and it's a big job because
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  Speaker 1: you have to pick up every day, go and do
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  Speaker 1: your thing this thousand week.
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  Speaker 2: There you are, right, So Meg the Stallion. Then this
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  Speaker 2: happened that last week, happened in the last ten days. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: it breaks that news breaking her and Claire breaking up
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  Speaker 2: because he cheated. That night, she's on stage from Mulan
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  Speaker 2: ru she's like, as they're giving her her a little
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  Speaker 2: run of applose at the end and she's taking about
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  Speaker 2: she's crying like she's crying. There's a video of her
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  Speaker 2: crying on stage right. And then the next thing, she
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  Speaker 2: pulls out of Mulan Rouge because of the breakup.
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  Speaker 1: So she just felt she couldn't step up and do
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  Speaker 1: the thing anymore.
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  Speaker 5: Mag The Stallion announced that she will no longer be
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  Speaker 5: continuing her role as Ziddler on Mulin Rouge and Broadway. Originally,
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  Speaker 5: she was supposed to be on Broadway until May seventeenth.
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  Speaker 5: Now this comes in the midst of her announcing that
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  Speaker 5: her and her now ex boyfriend Klay Thompson have broken
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  Speaker 5: up and accusing him of cheating.
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  Speaker 2: Like, baby, you can take a day of maybe two,
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  Speaker 2: but to put an entire job because of some guy cheating.
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  Speaker 3: No, but it's a breakup. It's an emotional Yeah, it's
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  Speaker 3: a huge thing.
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  Speaker 4: And everybody goes through breakups. But we still pitch up
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  Speaker 4: for work.
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  Speaker 3: No, but I can see how she decided. No, I
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  Speaker 3: can't be happy. It's mula. You have to be happy
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  Speaker 3: in that.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, And you can pretend to be happy because you
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  Speaker 2: are not Zidler in real life. Your name is Meg,
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  Speaker 2: you're Megan, so you're already pretending to Zitler. Why can't
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  Speaker 2: you pretend to be happy?
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  Speaker 1: Why are you so you are really think? What are
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  Speaker 1: you saying? You're saying that, I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Saying that go to work, even if you've got to
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  Speaker 2: break up, go.
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  Speaker 1: To work, like cry in the parking lot and then
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  Speaker 1: walk home to stay.
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  Speaker 4: Is am I wrong?
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  Speaker 2: No?
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  Speaker 1: I feel that that feels like you're emotionally abusing yourself.
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  Speaker 4: Then, so what you're saying is I should never be
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  Speaker 4: heard of hr.
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  Speaker 1: No, Well I think I think there'd be a few
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  Speaker 1: legal rules that you skirt.
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  Speaker 2: No, No, I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 4: You take a day, you cried out, Get over it.
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  Speaker 2: Go to work, dude, work personal life, separate things.
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  Speaker 4: Go to work.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, look, this is the thing I think.
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  Speaker 1: On paper, you know I can't agree with me, But
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  Speaker 1: in practice, we've all seen someone cry at a desk,
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  Speaker 1: like every single one of us, and some of us
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  Speaker 1: have done it ourselves. And let's just be honest. I
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  Speaker 1: think that's what you're saying, right, be honest. Are you
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  Speaker 1: crying at your desk? Okay?
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  Speaker 3: Breakup?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, we go on one one eight thirty eight nine
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  Speaker 2: four seven.
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  Speaker 4: Do you agree or do you disagree? But just go
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  Speaker 4: to work through the breakup. Go to work. The work
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  Speaker 4: must be.
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  Speaker 3: Done right, And I disagree, stay home. No one wants
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  Speaker 3: to see you crying at work. No one have you.
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  Speaker 2: Ever because of a breakup come a part of the
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  Speaker 2: seams at work.
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  Speaker 3: And you just said I can't do it? Take time?
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  Speaker 3: What did you do? What do you do? Take them off?
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  Speaker 1: Tarran?
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  Speaker 4: Do you have the reports? Shall God clack.
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  Speaker 3: One dumb me?
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  Speaker 2: You do not throw away your career and leave money
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  Speaker 2: on the table for a boy.
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  Speaker 4: Breakups can make you feel physically sick.
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  Speaker 2: I actually feel like sickleef is necessary for a breakup
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  Speaker 2: because the turmoil, pashame.
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  Speaker 6: Guys, nothing can distract me from my money, even if
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  Speaker 6: I need ten buttroom brakes.
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  Speaker 3: To go ahead and cry, I will go, cry, come
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  Speaker 3: back work.
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  Speaker 4: There we go.
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  Speaker 2: Nothing should distract you from your job and the worst thing.
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  Speaker 2: But like I said, Meg, you were acting on stage
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  Speaker 2: to be this person Zitler. You're not Zidler, So why
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  Speaker 2: don't you act like you're fine?
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  Speaker 3: No? I think it.
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  Speaker 1: I think breakups can be so emotionally taxing that I
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  Speaker 1: can understand that people are like, no, I can't do this,
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  Speaker 1: oh dead.
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  Speaker 4: Good morning, good morning?
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  Speaker 7: And then let's first time on the radio, all right?
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  Speaker 6: Or did okay?
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  Speaker 7: So listen?
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  Speaker 2: I am so mad and I teach my daughter this.
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  Speaker 7: We cry for two days and we move along. There
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  Speaker 7: we go, There we go for the and your career,
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  Speaker 7: your job.
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  Speaker 4: What if the performance?
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  Speaker 2: She she she did not pitch up for because she's
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  Speaker 2: crying over Klay Thompson is the one.
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  Speaker 4: That gets her. What's the A Tony Award.
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  Speaker 3: A day?
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  Speaker 1: Just to clarify, you said we cry for two days.
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  Speaker 1: In those two days, yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean the
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  Speaker 1: two days. Are you going to work in those two days.
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  Speaker 7: Or not the second day. I'm going to work absolutely.
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  Speaker 3: The second day.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah my money?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, Because do you want to be broken and broken hearted?
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  Speaker 3: No? I can understand that's a problem.
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  Speaker 4: Do you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: One one, eight thirty eight, nine four seven?
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  Speaker 4: Should you? Should you take off? Should even quit your
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  Speaker 4: job because you broken hearted?
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  Speaker 1: I don't think you should quit your job, but I
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  Speaker 1: think it's quite reasonable, depending on the level of heartbreak,
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  Speaker 1: to take all the time, just like a day or
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  Speaker 1: two a me day, because if I'm in a meeting
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  Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, you ty I they red
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  Speaker 1: red eyes trying to tell me what the financials are
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  Speaker 1: of this, of this, of this quarter in.
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  Speaker 3: Q two me when we made money.
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  Speaker 4: Don't be weak, Sana, go to work.
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  Speaker 3: Or go to yeah yeah, next break up to interfere
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  Speaker 3: with your money next.
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  Speaker 4: I don't even know why this is a question.
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  Speaker 7: Take your broken heart pieces, put them in the bag,
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  Speaker 7: pack your lunch and go to work.
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  Speaker 3: You see?
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  Speaker 1: Can I just say right? For all of you? And
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  Speaker 1: because I know I hear this in the city all
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  Speaker 1: the time, I can't be loved. No, it's because you
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  Speaker 1: can't love all of you?
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  Speaker 3: Can you? You don't love deeply? If you love deeply impacts you.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you?
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  Speaker 2: Have you seen the paper prices? Do you want to
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  Speaker 2: leave a job?
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  Speaker 3: Even more reason to stay home?
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  Speaker 4: Radia?
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  Speaker 2: Are you not mebia yo? See Intercontinental? This is how
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  Speaker 2: this conversation is across the globe, Roudia, talk to us.
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  Speaker 4: What do you think?
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  Speaker 7: Good morning to him?
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  Speaker 2: How are you good?
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  Speaker 4: Roudier?
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  Speaker 6: How are you rest?
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  Speaker 7: Time on Radiobia?
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  Speaker 4: Now maybe FM is not doing it for you Today's okay?
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  Speaker 6: So Roger, what is little?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah? Well, I mean in Namibia right now? But about
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  Speaker 7: seven years ago I moved from Namibia to joe Berg
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  Speaker 7: because of a breakup. Damn, So I get ba again.
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  Speaker 7: But also alder me now will never do that.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, So hang on a second. So someone broke up
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  Speaker 1: with you? Where do you stay in Namibia? In the
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  Speaker 1: coast on the coast all right? Yes, So someone breaks
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  Speaker 1: up with you and swat and then you moved to Joeburg.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, we're high school, sweetheart, and it's a small town
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  Speaker 7: and I didn't want to be bumping into him again.
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  Speaker 7: So I was like, I'm out of here.
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  Speaker 4: So why didn't you move to Fintuk?
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  Speaker 3: Still small?
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  Speaker 7: Because Joe Berg? My mom was in Joe back that time.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I thought you were gonna say it because he
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  Speaker 2: does his grocer Reaeson.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: And then so you came with Joe Bock and then
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  Speaker 2: you recuperated and you said, I'm gonna go back. I'm
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  Speaker 2: gonna lose weight, I'm gonna change everything about me, I'm
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  Speaker 2: gonna fix my teeth, and I'm gonna go back there
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  Speaker 2: and show him what he lost.
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  Speaker 7: I stayed for six.
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  Speaker 4: Years that wasn't.
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  Speaker 1: Damn see. So you get this. You get this, Rogia,
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  Speaker 1: you get this, like Meg, you understand.
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  Speaker 7: In a way I do. But I did that because
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  Speaker 7: I had options. If I didn't have options, I wouldn't
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  Speaker 7: do it. So Megan has options.
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  Speaker 6: Has she can quit her job?
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  Speaker 2: So okay, because office this is an extra hustle for her.
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  Speaker 2: Her main thing is that she's a rapper, being on stage,
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  Speaker 2: which could have actually opened other avenues for her.
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  Speaker 4: I'm just saying it's a side hustle. So I like that.
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  Speaker 4: If you've got options, go with your option.
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  Speaker 1: I'm what I heard Rodya say that she also loves
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  Speaker 1: deeply and when a breakup happens, we'll move three thousand
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  Speaker 1: kilometers away.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you, repeat, repeat out on me.
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  Speaker 1: Suba, No, no, I know what you're trying to make
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  Speaker 1: me do.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you're in Greenstone, Good morning.
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  Speaker 6: Good morning.
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  Speaker 2: How are you sure?
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  Speaker 6: Good? Thanks to me? How's everybody?
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  Speaker 2: We're good, we're little heated. Maybe you maybe you can
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  Speaker 2: calm things down here.
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  Speaker 6: No, I disagree with frank you. I agree to you
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  Speaker 6: fully and go to work. I went through a whole
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  Speaker 6: the worce with the person that I worked with that
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  Speaker 6: I still work with actually, and I shut up every day.
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  Speaker 6: You can't let them when you have to work is work.
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  Speaker 6: You still need to do what you need to do.
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  Speaker 4: Oh okay, that's changes things up.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm not showing enough to work with a person
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  Speaker 2: I'm going through a breakout.
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  Speaker 3: We broke up last night. Today we're back in.
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  Speaker 6: SA much you driving?
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god?
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  Speaker 4: And you still work with them?
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  Speaker 6: There's been off your awkward encouncils.
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  Speaker 1: But how long were you? How long were you married?
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  Speaker 1: So we were going to ask a whole bunch of
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  Speaker 1: stuff we shouldn't ask.
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  Speaker 3: How long we have together?
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  Speaker 6: For six years but only married for a month and
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  Speaker 6: you divorced.
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  Speaker 4: After a month?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah? Why she while she was cheating and.
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  Speaker 4: Hopefully not as somebody at work.
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  Speaker 3: No, it's strange, strangely enough, got you?
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  Speaker 4: And is she now married to this other? Dully? She is?
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  Speaker 6: Actually she got remarried a month after our divorce was final.
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  Speaker 1: Wait, very gay. You were married for a month, got divorced? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and then she got married a month later yep, with
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  Speaker 1: someone else.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, she's probably cheating on that person.
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  Speaker 3: Too, probably. Wow. Yes, and you are you? Did you
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  Speaker 3: find happiness? Sure?
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  Speaker 6: Id yes, I'm very bleaded of in a very happy,
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  Speaker 6: healthy relationship. Now with some of that, I don't at
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  Speaker 6: all completely different gratitude.
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  Speaker 3: So sure you believe in life after love?
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  Speaker 6: Definitely?
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  Speaker 3: Come on, come on give it to me.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so sorry, guys, I'm I'm so sorry.
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  Speaker 4: It's back to making your morning in La and the Club.
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  Speaker 4: I love this show on nine four seven