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- 0:00Speaker 1: Djess, Hilenio, Charlotte mae'stening to the back.
- 0:06Speaker 2: Plus thank y'all for bere like coach, are leaders got family.
- 0:09Speaker 3: The Breakfast Club is where people get the information on
- 0:11Speaker 3: the topics, on the artists and everything like that.
- 0:13Speaker 2: I'm running like that.
- 0:14Speaker 4: You guys went nice.
- 0:15Speaker 2: Everybody got me all nervous like you guys. Let's not
- 0:19Speaker 2: go Yeah, you locked into the world's most dangerous wanting show.
- 0:24Speaker 1: If you want to Breakfast Club and we're gonna bring
- 0:25Speaker 1: it one hundred and twenty minders want not come up here?
- 0:28Speaker 3: This is what I'll do this that's right, Get up
- 0:30Speaker 3: about the bids and listen to the greatest show on Earth.
- 0:35Speaker 5: Ray right, Ray Yo.
- 0:37Speaker 2: Charlomagne Davy, what up are we losing?
- 0:39Speaker 6: This is your time to get it off your chest.
- 0:41Speaker 2: I got an indoor pool, outdoor pool.
- 0:43Speaker 6: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.
- 0:45Speaker 2: Get on the phone right now. He'll tell you what
- 0:47Speaker 2: it is.
- 0:47Speaker 5: We live.
- 0:49Speaker 2: Hello. Who's this?
- 0:50Speaker 7: Yeah?
- 0:51Speaker 2: This man?
- 0:52Speaker 7: Man?
- 0:52Speaker 8: How y'all doing?
- 0:53Speaker 2: What's up?
- 0:53Speaker 6: Ben?
- 0:53Speaker 2: Getting off your chest? Ben uh man?
- 0:55Speaker 7: I just want to first of all, good morning Jess,
- 0:57Speaker 7: Good morning, charlat Man.
- 0:59Speaker 2: Good morning, he pe all right, uh firy thing.
- 1:02Speaker 9: I just want to get this.
- 1:03Speaker 7: I'm gonna say. I can't say this to my girl,
- 1:05Speaker 7: so I'm gonna just say it to y'all.
- 1:07Speaker 8: I hate my girl.
- 1:08Speaker 7: Dogs.
- 1:09Speaker 10: Okay.
- 1:11Speaker 2: What kind of dogs are they?
- 1:12Speaker 11: That she got?
- 1:14Speaker 7: Some kind of little poodle dog and American pit?
- 1:19Speaker 9: Okay, I am a dog guy.
- 1:21Speaker 7: Don't get me wrong.
- 1:22Speaker 9: I love dogs.
- 1:23Speaker 7: I just didn't grow up with dogs in my house. Okay,
- 1:26Speaker 7: but he's dog about to be crazy.
- 1:28Speaker 5: I don't know how.
- 1:29Speaker 7: Okay to all the dog people out there, I don't
- 1:32Speaker 7: know how y'all dealing with dogs running all around y'all
- 1:34Speaker 7: house and dog here everywhere, but just about to make
- 1:37Speaker 7: me say, hey, I can't do it.
- 1:39Speaker 8: No more.
- 1:41Speaker 2: Cleaning up, bro, I don't.
- 1:43Speaker 7: I just refused, like, I don't even.
- 1:45Speaker 6: Walk these dogs.
- 1:46Speaker 2: You'll got kids.
- 1:46Speaker 7: I don't do nothing.
- 1:48Speaker 2: Yeah, lord, damn, he's about to walk away, because what
- 1:55Speaker 2: are they doing to you?
- 1:56Speaker 11: Man?
- 1:58Speaker 7: Listen, the dogs ain't doing nothing. They just they just
- 2:01Speaker 7: stupid dogs. And I hate dogs everywhere.
- 2:04Speaker 2: I don't.
- 2:05Speaker 7: I don't like going to work with dog here all
- 2:07Speaker 7: over me. Okay, that's crazy. We look. These dogs don't
- 2:12Speaker 7: even be in my car. And I got dog here
- 2:13Speaker 7: in my car.
- 2:15Speaker 4: It's sound vacuum in my.
- 2:16Speaker 7: Car, and my all lady with every day because I'm
- 2:20Speaker 7: thinking of these dogs.
- 2:21Speaker 1: It sounds like y'all need more space, like more and
- 2:23Speaker 1: more space than when your residents.
- 2:26Speaker 8: Yeah, he got a nice size house.
- 2:28Speaker 7: Ain't no space.
- 2:29Speaker 12: You need to getting ready to eat.
- 2:30Speaker 2: Damn to make one of them come up missing? You
- 2:33Speaker 2: don't do that.
- 2:37Speaker 7: Listen, this is what made me call this morning. I
- 2:40Speaker 7: listened to this show.
- 2:41Speaker 9: Every morning those all the way to work, just like
- 2:42Speaker 9: I'm doing now. But I had a dream about poisoning
- 2:46Speaker 9: them dolls last night. I said, boy, I might need
- 2:53Speaker 9: to talk. I might need to call charl Many talk
- 2:55Speaker 9: to them. But this is something going on with the missal.
- 2:58Speaker 1: Having dreams about Did you and your wife have a
- 3:01Speaker 1: conversation and tell her how you feel?
- 3:02Speaker 7: Yeah, we had to do a bigger argument. I ain't
- 3:07Speaker 7: trying to go ahead no more.
- 3:08Speaker 13: So why don't you buy one of them kid gate?
- 3:09Speaker 13: You know the little kitty gates. But but I want
- 3:11Speaker 13: the little kitty gates and put the dogs and the
- 3:12Speaker 13: kiddy gates.
- 3:14Speaker 7: That what, Charlotte?
- 3:15Speaker 8: I don't want dogs? Yeah, look.
- 3:19Speaker 4: All right, man, so let me let me walk out.
- 3:23Speaker 2: So let me tell you something.
- 3:24Speaker 1: Dog, when you heard that there was when you heard
- 3:27Speaker 1: the lie that they was eating catching dogs in Ohio?
- 3:30Speaker 2: Did you did you? Did you smile a little bit?
- 3:32Speaker 4: Did you think about taking a little trip a little bit?
- 3:36Speaker 2: You have a good one, man, I have a good one.
- 3:39Speaker 9: Yeah, I have a good one.
- 3:40Speaker 2: Man, Get it off your chest. Eight hundred five five
- 3:43Speaker 2: one on five one. Did you grow you grow with dogs?
- 3:46Speaker 1: No?
- 3:46Speaker 10: I didn't grove with dogs, but I have those now,
- 3:48Speaker 10: Charlomagne A couple not like that though.
- 3:51Speaker 14: I had a couple of rock walls when I was young.
- 3:52Speaker 14: I had a bad experience with somebody poisoned my dogs.
- 3:55Speaker 14: Somebody got tired of my Damn.
- 3:56Speaker 1: I had two rod walls named band Terror, and somebody
- 3:58Speaker 1: got tired of Terror and they poisoned the neighb with
- 4:01Speaker 1: poison them. I can't prove it that they would poison them,
- 4:03Speaker 1: but I feel like they would poison them. Uh No,
- 4:07Speaker 1: which one died? One of them died because they got poisoned.
- 4:08Speaker 1: One of them got picked up by the dog people
- 4:11Speaker 1: could be get.
- 4:14Speaker 13: Jesus Christ. Yeah, I had shepherds all my life. My
- 4:16Speaker 13: dad didn't believe in having a dog as a petty.
- 4:18Speaker 13: If you had a dog, the dog need to have
- 4:19Speaker 13: a job. Oh wow, so you got to protect the
- 4:22Speaker 13: house again.
- 4:23Speaker 2: That different.
- 4:24Speaker 13: You ain't got no pety. You gotta have a job.
- 4:25Speaker 13: You're gonna protect this house. If now we don't want
- 4:26Speaker 13: a little dog, now we want a dog.
- 4:28Speaker 2: I want a dog now my.
- 4:29Speaker 4: Wife won't let me get one. Yep, I want to
- 4:31Speaker 4: stop African boar board.
- 4:33Speaker 13: Well, get it off your chest eight hundred and five
- 4:35Speaker 13: eight five one oh five one. If you need to
- 4:37Speaker 13: vet hit us up now it's the Breakfast Club.
- 4:38Speaker 6: Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
- 4:44Speaker 2: I'm telling what you're doing.
- 4:48Speaker 6: If this is your time to get it off your chest,
- 4:50Speaker 6: whether you're mad or blessed eight hundred five five one.
- 4:54Speaker 6: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.
- 4:57Speaker 2: Hello? Who's this.
- 5:00Speaker 8: Theme from the eight o three leave when I was
- 5:02Speaker 8: a late night booty call doing the Walk of shame
- 5:05Speaker 8: aka to ride a shame home.
- 5:07Speaker 2: So you stak right now?
- 5:08Speaker 5: No boy ooh, that got a.
- 5:11Speaker 8: Good point, you know what? But actually I don't because
- 5:14Speaker 8: I don't eat meat and I don't really have an
- 5:17Speaker 8: older light that to be honest, that.
- 5:22Speaker 4: That asparagus stink when you pee? Now, don't act like that.
- 5:25Speaker 2: But was it a good night?
- 5:26Speaker 7: At lea?
- 5:27Speaker 8: It was a good night.
- 5:28Speaker 5: But check this out before we get into my good night.
- 5:31Speaker 5: Go to my TikTok page.
- 5:33Speaker 8: Not you, but y'all, five me listeners.
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- 5:41Speaker 5: to the late night do the card? What's up?
- 5:43Speaker 2: I just asked if you enjoyed yourself?
- 5:45Speaker 6: That's all?
- 5:46Speaker 5: Oh?
- 5:46Speaker 1: I always do though, Okay, this is a regular book,
- 5:50Speaker 1: this is something new, or this is a regular book.
- 5:52Speaker 8: No, it's a regular booe. And next, I was a
- 5:54Speaker 8: virgin until I met him, and then I had two
- 5:56Speaker 8: kids already, But I was a burgeon until I met him,
- 5:59Speaker 8: because I never knew did you say any I knew?
- 6:01Speaker 10: Again?
- 6:02Speaker 8: Was missing out?
- 6:03Speaker 5: All I never knew?
- 6:05Speaker 14: Jesus well, oh, she said she was a virgin till
- 6:08Speaker 14: she met Oh, because you had two kids, but you
- 6:10Speaker 14: never had a well gas.
- 6:12Speaker 8: I kind of didn't have an art. I just didn't.
- 6:16Speaker 15: Okay, while I'm.
- 6:18Speaker 8: Late night creeping on the weekday and I got to
- 6:20Speaker 8: be the work in the hour, and still I got
- 6:25Speaker 8: this son hold myself like thirty one and.
- 6:27Speaker 4: My daughter ten how far what you're driving from? Where
- 6:30Speaker 4: your booty call at role?
- 6:32Speaker 8: You a fastir road?
- 6:33Speaker 2: Yes, I do road.
- 6:35Speaker 4: Yes, the fab round ain't too far.
- 6:37Speaker 8: It ain't too far. It's like a tap on the
- 6:39Speaker 8: road you're talking about.
- 6:43Speaker 2: Get your ass back home. You gotta be working a
- 6:45Speaker 2: little bit.
- 6:45Speaker 8: Right right the morning, Breakfast Club.
- 6:49Speaker 1: Get home in time to take a shower, brush your
- 6:51Speaker 1: teeth before you kiss that ten year old two.
- 6:53Speaker 4: You're going to smelling like.
- 6:54Speaker 2: But you don't.
- 6:58Speaker 5: Stop playing with me. I told you I don't have
- 7:00Speaker 5: an owner.
- 7:00Speaker 8: I don't eat me family right, Thank.
- 7:03Speaker 4: You everybody that people, people that's thinking up. We don't
- 7:07Speaker 4: know what you do.
- 7:10Speaker 2: Hey, yo, get it off your chest.
- 7:12Speaker 13: Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. If
- 7:14Speaker 13: you need to ben hit us up now. It's the
- 7:16Speaker 13: Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
- 7:21Speaker 2: Morning.
- 7:21Speaker 13: Everybody is e J N V jess hilarious, Charlamagne the
- 7:25Speaker 13: guy we are the Breakfast Club just is out today.
- 7:28Speaker 2: Lauren's holding it down.
- 7:29Speaker 13: And of course we got our niece Nola Hill, and
- 7:30Speaker 13: we got a special guest in the building. Brother Teddy swims, Hang,
- 7:35Speaker 13: I'm so honored me here man, I'm fine man, happy
- 7:38Speaker 13: to have you.
- 7:38Speaker 2: I really really excited, dude.
- 7:41Speaker 11: We we did our album release party last night though,
- 7:44Speaker 11: so uh, you know again, excuse my drinking for.
- 7:47Speaker 2: You don't drinking early in the morning. You see that
- 7:49Speaker 2: one over.
- 7:50Speaker 16: Let's hear all.
- 7:54Speaker 7: The way.
- 7:55Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I have one other way. Absolutely, Yeah, you're
- 7:58Speaker 2: drinking with a pregnant man? Is there?
- 8:01Speaker 4: Tell us about yourself, teddy, man, that's so loaded.
- 8:04Speaker 11: I'm from Georgia, from from about thirty minutes east of
- 8:07Speaker 11: Atlanta and Conyers, Georgia, Rockdale County, and you know, like
- 8:12Speaker 11: singing songs and I'm a good, good, good boy.
- 8:14Speaker 4: It was a very soulful, soulful voice. Did you grow
- 8:17Speaker 4: up in the church.
- 8:18Speaker 11: Yeah, so my granddad was a Pentecostal pastor. I didn't
- 8:21Speaker 11: grow up singing in the church a lot, but I
- 8:24Speaker 11: you know, I definitely grew up with fire and brimstone
- 8:27Speaker 11: for sure.
- 8:27Speaker 5: Man.
- 8:28Speaker 2: With the fear of God. Yeah you know what I mean,
- 8:30Speaker 2: you're afraid to sind? Oh no, no, not not these days.
- 8:33Speaker 2: I mean, but I'm just talking about like back in
- 8:37Speaker 2: the day was like a very yeah.
- 8:39Speaker 11: Yeah, you know, like girls don't get haircuts, you know,
- 8:41Speaker 11: girls wear skirts, men wear jeans, like that kind of thing.
- 8:44Speaker 2: It was really real kind of tight, and I was,
- 8:46Speaker 2: I mean, I'm very fortunate. I guess.
- 8:48Speaker 11: I feel like I still subscribe to so many of
- 8:50Speaker 11: the principles of you know, even the police art there.
- 8:53Speaker 2: I do love that my my granddad was.
- 8:55Speaker 11: As I was growing up with my granddad, he was
- 8:57Speaker 11: he was like, we wouldn't even go to restaurants that
- 8:59Speaker 11: would have bar in the restaurant, you know, And not
- 9:01Speaker 11: that he ever had a problem drinking, but it.
- 9:03Speaker 2: Was just he stood on his belief so much.
- 9:05Speaker 11: The thing that I was always with him was that
- 9:07Speaker 11: I didn't subscribe to the idea that like telling people
- 9:10Speaker 11: that they're wrong and this is the only way to
- 9:12Speaker 11: believe something. I remember he looked at other churches and
- 9:13Speaker 11: be like, think that the only way he believed it
- 9:15Speaker 11: was right. I remember I remember the first time I
- 9:17Speaker 11: sang at his church, I might have been seventeen or
- 9:20Speaker 11: sixteen or something, and I remember.
- 9:22Speaker 17: Him saying, like, you know, I want you to saying
- 9:23Speaker 17: at the church, Bud, but man, all these kids are
- 9:26Speaker 17: like break dancing and carry it on for the Lord.
- 9:29Speaker 17: And I was like, yo, pop, like nobody's broke dance
- 9:31Speaker 17: since like my mom was the child and if they
- 9:35Speaker 17: want to break dance for the Lord.
- 9:36Speaker 2: Fop, like, let him break dance for the Lord?
- 9:38Speaker 7: You know.
- 9:38Speaker 2: He was. He was very you know, stern, like just
- 9:41Speaker 2: by the book.
- 9:41Speaker 11: If it wasn't in the Bible, then it was a sin,
- 9:43Speaker 11: you know what I mean. Yeah, hell yeah. My mom
- 9:47Speaker 11: was worse than I was. I remember, I remember getting
- 9:49Speaker 11: in trouble for all sorts of being like, I'm not
- 9:51Speaker 11: doing any of that. She was thought I was doing
- 9:54Speaker 11: all sorts of message. I mean, but she was a
- 9:56Speaker 11: passers kid.
- 9:57Speaker 13: My mother was the But listen, I wanted to you know,
- 9:59Speaker 13: when you about rebellious, you started to playing football, all right, So, yes, sir,
- 10:02Speaker 13: it was her family was a big football family.
- 10:06Speaker 2: So what got you from football to singing my different Jens?
- 10:11Speaker 11: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, an offensive offensive guard as well. Yeah,
- 10:17Speaker 11: and but I mean, I just five foot seven. Wasn't
- 10:20Speaker 11: really happening, you know, just in high.
- 10:23Speaker 2: School, middle school at the time.
- 10:24Speaker 11: Yeah, but I've been five foot seven since I was
- 10:26Speaker 11: in eighth grade, and so I thought they thought I
- 10:28Speaker 11: was gonna be big, you know, and then it just
- 10:31Speaker 11: it didn't happen. I started shooting up six foot two
- 10:33Speaker 11: and three and whooped my ass off.
- 10:36Speaker 2: The line we got you into arts.
- 10:37Speaker 11: Like my different Jesse, who still plays with me. I've
- 10:40Speaker 11: known him since I was little kid. Uh, his dad
- 10:43Speaker 11: was always in bands and stuff, so we started trying
- 10:45Speaker 11: to experiment and play music and stuff. And his older
- 10:49Speaker 11: sister was a musical theater and got us in the
- 10:50Speaker 11: musical theater. And I just kind of fell in love
- 10:52Speaker 11: with singing, and I was so I was hooked. I
- 10:55Speaker 11: was hooked that singing has changed my life. I wasn't
- 10:56Speaker 11: good always, but I fell in love with it, you know.
- 10:59Speaker 11: And I remember telling my mom that I was I
- 11:01Speaker 11: was gonna not do football anymore and I was gonna sing.
- 11:04Speaker 2: And she was so so hurt. I brought out all
- 11:06Speaker 2: my memorabilia, like I can't believe you do this to us.
- 11:09Speaker 2: We were playing football, you know.
- 11:10Speaker 11: And I remember my first little we did this show
- 11:13Speaker 11: called Damn Yankees. I did like two lines in it,
- 11:15Speaker 11: I think, and uh, after I got done, I come
- 11:17Speaker 11: off stage and she was like, I'm so sorry, baby,
- 11:20Speaker 11: this is where you belong.
- 11:21Speaker 2: Really you're a star, you know.
- 11:22Speaker 16: After I did like two lines, you know, but it
- 11:24Speaker 16: was what do you mean by you weren't always good
- 11:26Speaker 16: at it?
- 11:27Speaker 7: Like?
- 11:27Speaker 16: How do you you sound.
- 11:29Speaker 2: So we were so bad at it, you know, he
- 11:31Speaker 2: was in a group.
- 11:32Speaker 11: Well, no, just me and my buddy Jesse. He still
- 11:34Speaker 11: plays guitar rights and he plays guitar in my band still.
- 11:37Speaker 11: And we as we were learning and trying to build
- 11:39Speaker 11: bands together and do it as kids. You know, we
- 11:42Speaker 11: just were really bad. You know, we sucked, like we're
- 11:45Speaker 11: just not good, like you can still fine actually on YouTube.
- 11:49Speaker 11: I was a senior in high school. My first band,
- 11:52Speaker 11: Heroic Bear, is still on YouTube, our first little EP.
- 11:56Speaker 11: And I was in like a metalcore band at the time,
- 11:58Speaker 11: And so you can still hear me like scream away
- 12:00Speaker 11: and like singing, and.
- 12:01Speaker 2: If you want to, you can go to routine. If
- 12:03Speaker 2: you hear it, dude, you're gonna be like, Okay, yeah
- 12:06Speaker 2: you got good.
- 12:06Speaker 15: Did you get lessons or did you practice or how
- 12:08Speaker 15: did you just so good?
- 12:09Speaker 8: Well?
- 12:09Speaker 11: I think I was so lucky. I mean, I was
- 12:11Speaker 11: in theater, you know, and I had a lot of
- 12:13Speaker 11: good friends and they were singing. But I think I
- 12:15Speaker 11: think the biggest thing was growing up in the like
- 12:18Speaker 11: when the YouTube era was first kind of starting, you know,
- 12:20Speaker 11: and if I had questions or if I wanted to
- 12:22Speaker 11: know how to sing There was always a live version
- 12:24Speaker 11: of singer singing, you know, so like I could I
- 12:27Speaker 11: could watch like live videos.
- 12:29Speaker 2: Of how how is how are they moving they throw?
- 12:31Speaker 2: How they moving their jaws? How are they yeah?
- 12:35Speaker 11: Sect it, you know, I could. I could just sit
- 12:37Speaker 11: there and watch YouTube videos and see people singing live,
- 12:39Speaker 11: you know, like singing Craig David singing like and credit recovery.
- 12:43Speaker 11: I would pull up like YouTube proxy and just have
- 12:45Speaker 11: it behind the video and just like listen to Craig
- 12:47Speaker 11: David just I'm walking away j And I could listen
- 12:51Speaker 11: to by videos and watch their them play, you know
- 12:54Speaker 11: and singing.
- 12:55Speaker 14: It was like do you think you like saw somebody
- 12:57Speaker 14: like Craig David and like mimic him, and that's how
- 12:59Speaker 14: you found your voice.
- 13:00Speaker 11: So totally yeah, some of the best, man, some of
- 13:02Speaker 11: the best that ever did it. Marvin Gay watching I
- 13:05Speaker 11: was just reading man listening to Al Green, you know,
- 13:08Speaker 11: I mean, I just fell in love with the instrument
- 13:10Speaker 11: and I.
- 13:10Speaker 2: Was like, I want to know how to access that.
- 13:12Speaker 13: And then you started doing these covers, right, and you
- 13:13Speaker 13: started covering songs and then you did one cover that
- 13:16Speaker 13: started shooting up crazy.
- 13:17Speaker 11: So talk about that a little bit. Oh, I think
- 13:20Speaker 11: Shania Twain. I'm still the one was al like, that
- 13:23Speaker 11: was the one that really kind of went crazy for us.
- 13:25Speaker 11: You know, I love my mama, and my mama loved
- 13:28Speaker 11: Shanna Twain when I was coming up, I loved Shania
- 13:30Speaker 11: Twain too. That was that was a real life changing
- 13:32Speaker 11: one for us. Our first one we started out with
- 13:35Speaker 11: was because June twenty fifth of twenty nineteen was the
- 13:38Speaker 11: first time I never even expected doing covers, you know, online,
- 13:41Speaker 11: and we had found like the stems of Rock with
- 13:44Speaker 11: You online and Michael Jackson, yeah, and so it was
- 13:46Speaker 11: it was ten years right after he passed. It was
- 13:48Speaker 11: just ten year anniversary, and so I said, well, we
- 13:51Speaker 11: should just do Rock with You by Michael Jackson used
- 13:53Speaker 11: to pay homage to him and for the you know.
- 13:55Speaker 11: And then we uploaded it and it started doing well,
- 13:58Speaker 11: and was like, man, we should just keep this this cover.
- 14:00Speaker 2: Train kind of going.
- 14:01Speaker 11: So we kept on for the next few months, and
- 14:05Speaker 11: I think the beautiful thing about starting with Rock with
- 14:07Speaker 11: You it started getting you know, this said. The first
- 14:09Speaker 11: day we woke up, we had like ten thousand views,
- 14:11Speaker 11: and it was so life changing for us. We like
- 14:13Speaker 11: the boys, we're getting hammered this is sick. And it
- 14:16Speaker 11: was such a weird thing because once it hit like
- 14:18Speaker 11: this this critical mass of like maybe five hundred thousand views,
- 14:20Speaker 11: I think people were looking at it and seeing the
- 14:23Speaker 11: way I look and then seeing the rock with You,
- 14:26Speaker 11: you know, and saying rock with You by Michael Jackson
- 14:27Speaker 11: and me, and and I'm looking like an absolute redneck
- 14:30Speaker 11: and saying like, either this is hilarious or this is
- 14:34Speaker 11: actually really good. And I think for our benefit it
- 14:37Speaker 11: was it was kind of both, you know, because just
- 14:39Speaker 11: the fact that I was singing that song but doing
- 14:40Speaker 11: it well was kind of funny and surprisingly good.
- 14:44Speaker 4: Why have you tried everything with therapy?
- 14:46Speaker 2: Well, I've had tried therapy.
- 14:47Speaker 11: Now there's a you know, even as we're getting ready
- 14:50Speaker 11: of our kid, me and my girls have been doing
- 14:51Speaker 11: even a couple of therapy, which has been so wonderful
- 14:54Speaker 11: and making sure we're coming in and having this child
- 14:56Speaker 11: and the most healed, safest environment possible. But I think
- 15:00Speaker 11: name of the album that was kind of to have
- 15:02Speaker 11: that conversation and with myself to get myself to go.
- 15:05Speaker 11: I think there's just like been in generations past, and
- 15:08Speaker 11: even still there's this like connotation on therapy that we
- 15:11Speaker 11: were like, we're not allowed to go to that, or
- 15:12Speaker 11: we're not allowed to share our feelings or emotions. Yeah,
- 15:16Speaker 11: you know, and I just it's been life changing for me.
- 15:19Speaker 11: And I did have even this in my brain that
- 15:21Speaker 11: I was like, I'm not crazy. I don't need that,
- 15:22Speaker 11: you know. I had this for so long that I
- 15:24Speaker 11: was like, I know myself. I don't need nobody to
- 15:26Speaker 11: tell me what's wrong.
- 15:27Speaker 6: With me, you know.
- 15:28Speaker 11: And I feel like once I got it to it,
- 15:30Speaker 11: it was so much different than I thought it would
- 15:31Speaker 11: be too. And I feel like there was something beautiful
- 15:33Speaker 11: about having that first album and not trying it and
- 15:36Speaker 11: being in a place of turmoil on heartbreak with somebody
- 15:38Speaker 11: that was made me feel like my feelings were invalid
- 15:41Speaker 11: or not allowed to have and having this part two
- 15:44Speaker 11: coming out and being this thing of I've tried therapy,
- 15:47Speaker 11: I'm back in love, I'm having a child. I got
- 15:50Speaker 11: some level of success in this, and you know, on
- 15:52Speaker 11: the back of heartbreak, it does get better on the
- 15:54Speaker 11: other side.
- 15:54Speaker 15: You know, Teddy Swims is here, Charlamagne.
- 15:57Speaker 4: Can we talk about some of the music on this
- 15:58Speaker 4: new album?
- 15:59Speaker 6: Sure?
- 15:59Speaker 14: I Love Not Your Man is a very vulnerable record
- 16:02Speaker 14: thank you. Have you ever really felt like you gave
- 16:04Speaker 14: everything to a woman and it wasn't enough?
- 16:06Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 16:06Speaker 11: Hell yeah, man, I think it was important to start
- 16:09Speaker 11: this one out like that because I was. I'd have
- 16:11Speaker 11: wrote this forever I was. I was in a place
- 16:13Speaker 11: with somebody where my you know, it's hard. I don't
- 16:15Speaker 11: want to talk about her in a way that because
- 16:18Speaker 11: I now, as I've grown and healed and moved on,
- 16:21Speaker 11: it's I I thank her for for what we went through,
- 16:24Speaker 11: you know, and I'm grateful for that time and space
- 16:27Speaker 11: that we had together. I was at the place here
- 16:28Speaker 11: where I felt like I was given everything and my
- 16:30Speaker 11: feelings in my I was was not validated, or it
- 16:33Speaker 11: was not enough, or I was crazy to feeling this way,
- 16:36Speaker 11: or I was abusive situation.
- 16:38Speaker 2: I don't don't I don't want to. I don't want
- 16:39Speaker 2: to say it. While both man. Physically she was, she
- 16:43Speaker 2: was just not good. She was not a good person,
- 16:45Speaker 2: and I've won the best for her.
- 16:47Speaker 11: But yeah, it was a very tough thing to try
- 16:49Speaker 11: to try to heal somebody, try to make space for
- 16:51Speaker 11: someone to heal, try to give somebody everything. You would
- 16:55Speaker 11: think you would think if you.
- 16:56Speaker 2: Had a if you had a passion.
- 16:57Speaker 11: I'll just make it like this, you had a passion
- 16:58Speaker 11: in your life, and you had somebody in your life
- 17:01Speaker 11: that says you could quit your job and just focus
- 17:02Speaker 11: on your passion.
- 17:03Speaker 2: I'll take care of the rest.
- 17:04Speaker 11: You got it, and you don't do anything with your life,
- 17:06Speaker 11: but you just eat Zaggs all day and lay around
- 17:08Speaker 11: and blame somebody for your shortcomings when you have the
- 17:12Speaker 11: opportunity to follow your dream and somebody that would support
- 17:15Speaker 11: you with your dreams, and you'd be like so surprised
- 17:17Speaker 11: to see if somebody had the opportunity to follow their
- 17:20Speaker 11: dreams and they had everything taken care of. How many
- 17:22Speaker 11: people would be like, if everything's taken care of, I'm
- 17:25Speaker 11: going to do it anymore.
- 17:26Speaker 2: And you can't.
- 17:26Speaker 11: You can't put ambition and drive into somebody.
- 17:29Speaker 2: You can't heal.
- 17:30Speaker 11: Nobody, you can't save nobody. And I've started to go
- 17:32Speaker 11: on that tangent.
- 17:33Speaker 1: But from that situation, do you feel like you no
- 17:36Speaker 1: longer inable because it's like, though you want to.
- 17:38Speaker 18: Do something out of love to better somebody, sometimes it's
- 17:42Speaker 18: to their own detriment.
- 17:43Speaker 11: Yeah, I think I think, yeah, I think it's it
- 17:45Speaker 11: was an enabling at the end of the day. You know,
- 17:47Speaker 11: I was doing something to help someone become but I
- 17:50Speaker 11: think at the end of the day, I was enabling
- 17:52Speaker 11: somebody to do nothing, and if that was inside of them,
- 17:54Speaker 11: I was enabling that.
- 17:54Speaker 2: And I think it's a common pattern, you know.
- 17:57Speaker 11: But yes, I'm trying to heal and learn to see
- 18:00Speaker 11: somebody for who they are and not who I want
- 18:02Speaker 11: them to be or think they should be.
- 18:04Speaker 2: I can tell you got a big heart, but people
- 18:05Speaker 2: will take advantage of hell.
- 18:06Speaker 11: Yeah, and I'm also grateful to be I don't want
- 18:11Speaker 11: to say I'm grateful be taking manage that.
- 18:12Speaker 2: I'm grateful to be available.
- 18:14Speaker 4: Everybody's gonna use you, but don't let people miss use
- 18:16Speaker 4: a man.
- 18:17Speaker 16: Yeah, I have a last question for you.
- 18:19Speaker 18: I was reading this interview you talked about because your
- 18:21Speaker 18: girlfriend's black, and you talked about like when you guys
- 18:23Speaker 18: are in the South, you get like looks from people
- 18:26Speaker 18: and like it bothers you because love should be loved.
- 18:29Speaker 18: But you're about to bring a baby into the world.
- 18:31Speaker 18: You're so positive, she seems so amazing, but the world
- 18:33Speaker 18: is not always like that. Like, how do you defeat
- 18:35Speaker 18: that because you're really a really nice person, Like it
- 18:37Speaker 18: breaks my heart.
- 18:38Speaker 11: I mean, you know, I hate how much she's go through.
- 18:40Speaker 11: So her dad's black and her mom's white. So she
- 18:44Speaker 11: tells me about stuff all the time, about like, you know,
- 18:47Speaker 11: how she felt not wide enough or not blacking up,
- 18:49Speaker 11: and how much her world in her life has been
- 18:52Speaker 11: such a I guess, like a juxtaposition in both sides,
- 18:55Speaker 11: you know, never feeling like she wasn't quite accepted by
- 18:58Speaker 11: either side, you know.
- 18:59Speaker 2: And so there is not a story.
- 19:00Speaker 11: I won't I won't tell you her story because she's
- 19:02Speaker 11: better saying it than I. Well, I'll never tell you
- 19:04Speaker 11: her story. But I see how like how beautiful she is,
- 19:07Speaker 11: and how I guess how like elegant she navigates being
- 19:11Speaker 11: who she is. She's the most incredible human being I've
- 19:15Speaker 11: ever met, man to talk to.
- 19:17Speaker 14: I love that Johnson and White, the Song of Money Loan. Yes, sir,
- 19:29Speaker 14: that title is a little on the those, don't you think, Yeah, yeah.
- 19:35Speaker 11: I think I think that the point of it was
- 19:37Speaker 11: kind of to the core of love in itself is
- 19:40Speaker 11: black and white, Like it's a it's a black and
- 19:42Speaker 11: white issue.
- 19:43Speaker 2: Love is love and not love is not love and loving.
- 19:48Speaker 11: Whether it's a person of a different color, shape, size, sexuality,
- 19:53Speaker 11: same sex, whatever it is. I think that the thing
- 19:55Speaker 11: was trying to say that we no matter what, we
- 19:57Speaker 11: could come from different worlds. It's it's a true I
- 20:00Speaker 11: guess wrote me on and Juliette story. You know kind
- 20:02Speaker 11: of is the basis of it is that like you know,
- 20:05Speaker 11: we we come from different places, we come from different cultures,
- 20:08Speaker 11: we have different things. But when you're in love, man,
- 20:10Speaker 11: love is love and and that should be enough. And
- 20:13Speaker 11: that's really they ain't nothing great about that, man, That's
- 20:16Speaker 11: just love.
- 20:16Speaker 2: You know, love is love.
- 20:17Speaker 1: You know, I love that record and it's a good
- 20:19Speaker 1: stamp because you know, money Long recently went viral for
- 20:22Speaker 1: saying she's not writing soulful songs for white artists.
- 20:26Speaker 4: Did you see that?
- 20:27Speaker 2: I did not? Oh I'm glad I got that one
- 20:29Speaker 2: before she said exactly when did she do that song?
- 20:33Speaker 7: Was that long?
- 20:33Speaker 2: Did you do that a while ago? Yeah?
- 20:35Speaker 6: We did it.
- 20:36Speaker 11: It's had to be a few months ago now. But
- 20:40Speaker 11: diffriend Jeff Kitty and Mickey Echo is a part of
- 20:42Speaker 11: it with us too, and we we like started working
- 20:45Speaker 11: on it. And I remember Jeff Kitty as has been
- 20:48Speaker 11: working with Money for long years and years and he's like, man,
- 20:51Speaker 11: should we see if Morney wants to do this song
- 20:53Speaker 11: with us? And I was like, I mean, yeah, that's
- 20:55Speaker 11: like that. We'd kind of like to do a record
- 20:57Speaker 11: like this. We would kind of need that, you know.
- 21:00Speaker 11: I would be so stoked that she'd be willing to
- 21:02Speaker 11: because I knew what I kind of wanted to say.
- 21:04Speaker 11: But also I can't say that, you know, without having
- 21:07Speaker 11: money helped me say that, you know, but also without
- 21:10Speaker 11: like relying too much, you know, I think I needed
- 21:13Speaker 11: to We needed to say that together. And so I'm
- 21:16Speaker 11: just grateful she took that opportunity to say, I see
- 21:18Speaker 11: what you're trying to say. I have you say that,
- 21:20Speaker 11: you know, and and said it with me, And I
- 21:22Speaker 11: think I'm so grateful for her because money is just allegend.
- 21:25Speaker 2: Man, what a bad bad ass man.
- 21:27Speaker 13: Now, you also said you wanted to meet one of
- 21:29Speaker 13: your musical idols, were Stevie Wonder?
- 21:31Speaker 2: Yeah, you ever get an opportunity?
- 21:32Speaker 11: Yeah, you know, we haven't met in person, but yeah, yeah,
- 21:36Speaker 11: and I got I got a chance to do a
- 21:38Speaker 11: record with him too. So uh, I think he's gonna
- 21:41Speaker 11: put out on his next record, I hope. So, I
- 21:43Speaker 11: hope it's gonna come out. I'm really excited. It's it's
- 21:46Speaker 11: a good record. It's called Politics Player and uh yeah,
- 21:50Speaker 11: which is such an honor to be on our Steve
- 21:52Speaker 11: Wonder record. But yeah, he did FaceTime. I'll tell you that.
- 21:55Speaker 11: It's so funny. Man, he FaceTime.
- 21:58Speaker 8: Yeah.
- 21:58Speaker 11: And here's the thing thing. He is actually blind, y'all.
- 22:02Speaker 11: This is true life.
- 22:03Speaker 2: He was blind.
- 22:04Speaker 11: I'm saying people say it. People, there's a conspiracy that
- 22:08Speaker 11: he's not.
- 22:11Speaker 2: Look.
- 22:11Speaker 11: Look, I'm telling you. I'm telling you. I was on
- 22:13Speaker 11: the phone with this. I was facetiming this man and
- 22:15Speaker 11: he said, he turned this. He had put the camera around.
- 22:17Speaker 11: He said, this is my son over here, and then
- 22:20Speaker 11: he said I'm over here today. He's pulled it up
- 22:22Speaker 11: here and he said, and this is my niece. And
- 22:24Speaker 11: then he had he had phone facing her. And for
- 22:27Speaker 11: the next ten minutes of the conversation, I'll look as.
- 22:30Speaker 2: Far as you are. I looked at his niece and
- 22:32Speaker 2: knock and he was holding he was holding the camera
- 22:37Speaker 2: like he was holding like I not all. See I
- 22:40Speaker 2: did not have to hold it.
- 22:44Speaker 6: She was she was sitting there.
- 22:47Speaker 2: She was sitting there text on her phone.
- 22:49Speaker 11: I didn't have the hard to say, hey, I can't
- 22:50Speaker 11: see you, but you know, my dumb ass man, my
- 22:54Speaker 11: numb that's the reason he called me because.
- 22:55Speaker 2: I was in Tokyo.
- 22:57Speaker 11: I was in Tokyo and I had found I had
- 22:59Speaker 11: found my favorite album, all time, best album ever, Songs
- 23:02Speaker 11: in the Key Live.
- 23:03Speaker 2: I found a CD of it.
- 23:05Speaker 11: It was a Tokyo version of it, like the Japanese
- 23:07Speaker 11: version of it, and my dumb ass taxing him a
- 23:10Speaker 11: picture of it.
- 23:11Speaker 2: My goodness, I get.
- 23:13Speaker 11: Idiot like he was gonna see it right right, Like
- 23:15Speaker 11: I just chech that's what I found, Bro, I found, Bro,
- 23:18Speaker 11: what are you saying? His FaceTime? So I was like,
- 23:22Speaker 11: my dumb ass too, was like you give a touch.
- 23:26Speaker 11: He's definitely he didn't see it, Bro, I don't think.
- 23:29Speaker 11: I just just to put all those things to rest.
- 23:32Speaker 15: And shut down.
- 23:34Speaker 16: It's crazy.
- 23:35Speaker 18: All these years black people have been trying to figure
- 23:37Speaker 18: this out and you are the one that.
- 23:38Speaker 16: Solved the problem.
- 23:39Speaker 6: I just I just know.
- 23:40Speaker 2: I was looking at his knees about fifteen minutes. Again.
- 23:44Speaker 15: Well there you have it, Swim. You appreciate you for
- 23:46Speaker 15: joining us. It's the breakfast Club.
- 23:48Speaker 6: Good morning, It's topic time.
- 23:55Speaker 13: Eight hundred and five eight five one five one to
- 23:57Speaker 13: join it to the discussion with the Breakfast Club.
- 24:00Speaker 2: Mourning.
- 24:01Speaker 13: Everybody is thej Envy Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne the guy.
- 24:05Speaker 2: We are the Breakfast Club.
- 24:06Speaker 13: If you just joining us, we open up the phone
- 24:08Speaker 13: lines eight hundred five eight five, one oh five one.
- 24:11Speaker 13: We're talking about older men dating these younger women. And
- 24:14Speaker 13: when I say younger women, I'm talking about teens or
- 24:17Speaker 13: low late or early twenties.
- 24:18Speaker 2: I show no, no, no, no.
- 24:20Speaker 14: When I'm talking about younger women, I'm talking about these
- 24:22Speaker 14: guys that are thirty years these people seniors.
- 24:25Speaker 2: That's what I'm talking about.
- 24:26Speaker 14: Like, I think, when you're fifty some years old and
- 24:29Speaker 14: you're dating a twenty year old, that's ridiculous to me.
- 24:32Speaker 4: And I mean, I'm consistent.
- 24:34Speaker 13: I'm talking about teenagers eighteen, nineteen, early twenties. Somebody could
- 24:38Speaker 13: be thirty two dating a sixty year old And are
- 24:40Speaker 13: you cool with that? What a thirty five year old
- 24:42Speaker 13: dating a sixty five.
- 24:43Speaker 6: Year old man?
- 24:43Speaker 2: A sixty year old man?
- 24:45Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's even more because this man sixty
- 24:48Speaker 1: plus years old old, but he said thirty thirty at least,
- 24:53Speaker 1: like yeah.
- 24:55Speaker 2: Growing up and that's going to say so it's not
- 24:57Speaker 2: the difference we're talking about.
- 24:58Speaker 4: You're looking at her a little crazy, like, damn, what
- 25:00Speaker 4: you want with that old ass man? He must be rich.
- 25:02Speaker 2: Right, Well, let's let's ask Jess. Jess, you said you
- 25:05Speaker 2: dated a forty year old man.
- 25:08Speaker 15: You were at age I was twenty three.
- 25:10Speaker 2: Why yeah? Money? Yeah, he did.
- 25:16Speaker 9: Make about the line.
- 25:20Speaker 19: I was really about to say, yeah, he had money,
- 25:22Speaker 19: and I always had like a little old solo or whatever,
- 25:24Speaker 19: you know what I mean. And I met him at
- 25:26Speaker 19: the car dealership and no, ain't buy me no car,
- 25:32Speaker 19: but he helped me with the down period.
- 25:35Speaker 12: That's why.
- 25:37Speaker 19: He helped me with the down pay much. And I
- 25:40Speaker 19: think the down pay I was getting like a little Honda.
- 25:41Speaker 19: It might have been like five thousand or something. But
- 25:44Speaker 19: I act like I ain't have it all, and he
- 25:45Speaker 19: was like, you know, you know, and how give you?
- 25:49Speaker 19: He gave me like three thousand dollars.
- 25:51Speaker 10: Yeah, for like six or seven months. It really wasn't long.
- 25:56Speaker 2: But I broke it off.
- 25:58Speaker 19: Not even I broke it off because you you get
- 26:00Speaker 19: and like relationships with older guys as a young woman,
- 26:04Speaker 19: because you think, oh this is gonna help me grow up,
- 26:06Speaker 19: or I'm doing something that ain't nobody else doing I'm
- 26:08Speaker 19: in you know, and he's very childish.
- 26:11Speaker 10: She was childish.
- 26:12Speaker 19: You you automatically just think because you did an older
- 26:14Speaker 19: guy that they're gonna have it all together.
- 26:15Speaker 10: They're wise, you know.
- 26:17Speaker 2: They they can teach you.
- 26:18Speaker 13: Things, try to do those things when you're like, nah,
- 26:20Speaker 13: I know what I'm doing and do this. So he
- 26:22Speaker 13: try to be like, treat you like a child or no.
- 26:24Speaker 19: Yeah, until he realized that he couldn't do that, and
- 26:26Speaker 19: then that made him. That made me even more attractive
- 26:29Speaker 19: to him, Like he liked that. It's okay, so you're
- 26:31Speaker 19: not a young dummy.
- 26:32Speaker 2: You smart.
- 26:33Speaker 19: Now let me show you how dumb I am. It
- 26:35Speaker 19: was just weird, Like I was like, oh no, I
- 26:37Speaker 19: gotta no, I can't. Like he was very childish and stuff.
- 26:40Speaker 19: He didn't know how to have sex, he didn't know how.
- 26:42Speaker 2: To ghat the box.
- 26:42Speaker 10: I was like, oh my god, you're too old and
- 26:44Speaker 10: I know these things. And I started dating back in
- 26:46Speaker 10: my age.
- 26:47Speaker 4: Break probably gonna taste the way they used to.
- 26:50Speaker 2: The ones from my area taste a whole lot different, right.
- 26:55Speaker 14: I'm gonna be I just think it's corny. There's no
- 26:58Speaker 14: way you should be dating a woman who was in
- 26:59Speaker 14: somebody's womb when you was thirty.
- 27:01Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, imagine imagine being thirty years old, Yeah, standing
- 27:04Speaker 1: over a crib with your out like that.
- 27:06Speaker 2: That just looks crazy. That that sounds that's yeah, how
- 27:10Speaker 2: you should look at it? How you fifty?
- 27:12Speaker 1: If you fifty plus years old dating a twenty year old,
- 27:15Speaker 1: that makes no sense to me.
- 27:16Speaker 14: I don't know why men have not grown out of that.
- 27:18Speaker 14: I love discipline, I love stability, I love having a family.
- 27:21Speaker 4: When you if you.
- 27:22Speaker 1: Fifty plus years old, you should be kicked up. You
- 27:24Speaker 1: have your feet kicked up at home. You got your
- 27:26Speaker 1: wife over here, you got your kids over here. Why
- 27:28Speaker 1: are you chasing these other I.
- 27:29Speaker 10: Disagree with that standing over the crib, which sound like that?
- 27:31Speaker 10: Now listen.
- 27:32Speaker 19: The only reason why, the only way I would think
- 27:34Speaker 19: about it like that is if way around the way,
- 27:36Speaker 19: and you've seen this girl grow up and you waited
- 27:38Speaker 19: for her to get a.
- 27:39Speaker 10: Certain age like nineteen eighteen something like that to date.
- 27:42Speaker 2: Her, then I get that notion of it.
- 27:44Speaker 19: But to these if you're just an older man and
- 27:47Speaker 19: you see a younger woman, younger looking woman, you know whatever,
- 27:50Speaker 19: it's like, all right, they are attracted to young women,
- 27:52Speaker 19: you know, but that's different. I'm not about to think
- 27:55Speaker 19: about it as I'm standing over a damn crib with
- 27:57Speaker 19: my watch this little girl grow.
- 28:00Speaker 2: I will not jump, I.
- 28:01Speaker 6: Won't say this.
- 28:02Speaker 13: Everybody's not made for marriage, right. He was married and
- 28:05Speaker 13: didn't enjoy it, so he wants to be a bachelor.
- 28:07Speaker 13: And I'm not mad at that. But I look at
- 28:08Speaker 13: it a little different, Charlamage. You got four daughters. I
- 28:11Speaker 13: got four daughters. I don't want my twenty one, nineteen
- 28:14Speaker 13: twenty two to twenty three year old daughter dating a
- 28:17Speaker 13: fifty four year old man. There's there's nothing in common.
- 28:20Speaker 13: The only thing I feel like you dating that young
- 28:22Speaker 13: is because you want to control. That's that's what that's
- 28:24Speaker 13: my mentality. But there's nothing, you know, I don't see
- 28:27Speaker 13: nothing wrong with it. If he want to be a bachelor,
- 28:28Speaker 13: he could be a basket. Maybe he's just not made.
- 28:30Speaker 19: Somebody your age, go get you a nice forty something
- 28:34Speaker 19: and exactly what you said you want to control, because
- 28:36Speaker 19: that guy at that dealership gave me three thousand dollars
- 28:38Speaker 19: because he just knew she greened now going to control her,
- 28:42Speaker 19: and did not.
- 28:42Speaker 2: He didn't know. He's dealing with Jesse Baltrom.
- 28:45Speaker 1: Go find somebody that can help you regulate your cholesterol.
- 28:47Speaker 1: Go find somebody that they dealing with their blood pressure. Really,
- 28:51Speaker 1: go find somebody that can recognize the signs.
- 28:52Speaker 2: Of I gotta go get a colic colons. But you
- 28:54Speaker 2: don't know what that is those?
- 28:56Speaker 6: You know what I mean? Who is?
- 28:57Speaker 2: Who is Calvin? Who's hello?
- 29:01Speaker 6: Who's this?
- 29:02Speaker 8: Hey? This is key?
- 29:03Speaker 20: How y'all doing?
- 29:04Speaker 6: I'm good?
- 29:05Speaker 5: Key?
- 29:05Speaker 6: How old are you?
- 29:05Speaker 4: Key?
- 29:06Speaker 3: No?
- 29:06Speaker 2: Hold on it, says key, was seventeen dating a forty
- 29:08Speaker 2: year old man.
- 29:09Speaker 20: Come on, it was forty something, a little bit older
- 29:12Speaker 20: than forty.
- 29:13Speaker 2: And y'all got married. Break that down.
- 29:15Speaker 20: Yeah, we end up getting married. We had three beautiful
- 29:17Speaker 20: children together. We are no longer together.
- 29:20Speaker 2: Because he dead.
- 29:21Speaker 10: Oh my god, is he dead?
- 29:23Speaker 20: No, he's still he's almost sixty one, still dating younger women.
- 29:29Speaker 2: What state of y'all in that that was legal?
- 29:31Speaker 11: Huh?
- 29:32Speaker 2: What state of y'all in that that was legal?
- 29:33Speaker 20: It wasn't Virginia.
- 29:35Speaker 2: But you said y'all got married when they got married,
- 29:37Speaker 2: probably when she get married.
- 29:38Speaker 20: Until I was like twenty. Oh, dug right, So long
- 29:42Speaker 20: story short, it was.
- 29:44Speaker 9: It was very hard.
- 29:45Speaker 20: My twenty my early twenties twenties was very hard, very displessing.
- 29:52Speaker 20: He was very controlling, was always gone out doing what
- 29:56Speaker 20: he wanted to do while was at home taking care
- 29:58Speaker 20: of our kids.
- 30:00Speaker 8: It was it was really hard.
- 30:02Speaker 20: It was something that I would not recommend any young
- 30:05Speaker 20: woman ever.
- 30:07Speaker 2: Was he very controlling?
- 30:09Speaker 7: He was.
- 30:11Speaker 20: It was a domestic balance situation. I definitely finally got
- 30:15Speaker 20: the courage to leave because I didn't want my children
- 30:18Speaker 20: to keep on, you know, seeing that I don't didn't
- 30:21Speaker 20: want them to think that that's normal. And then in
- 30:24Speaker 20: fact that our oldest son, he's sixteen, now I had
- 30:27Speaker 20: to put him in therapy because you know, it just
- 30:30Speaker 20: it was just horrible.
- 30:33Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, thank god that.
- 30:37Speaker 20: I had to pray my way out of that situation
- 30:39Speaker 20: because I was really in.
- 30:40Speaker 8: Love with him.
- 30:41Speaker 15: Where was your father at at this time? Was your
- 30:43Speaker 15: dad around?
- 30:44Speaker 8: So yeah, let me let me.
- 30:45Speaker 20: Protect my parents. My parents are both retired army and
- 30:48Speaker 20: they were both overseas fighting the war and Iraq. So
- 30:52Speaker 20: I was in vi Jinga with my with my grandmother.
- 30:55Speaker 20: I was at work when I met him, so it's
- 30:58Speaker 20: not like my grandma just let me do it ever work,
- 31:02Speaker 20: you know, he took that opportunity to you know. Yeah,
- 31:06Speaker 20: and he used to come pick me up from hool
- 31:08Speaker 20: and everything like Jesus high school, you know, signed out.
- 31:14Speaker 10: So yeah, definitely old enough to sign your out.
- 31:18Speaker 2: That's wow.
- 31:19Speaker 1: Crazy.
- 31:20Speaker 19: But but thank you for sharing your story that you're
- 31:22Speaker 19: still hear and that you are out of that situation.
- 31:26Speaker 8: Yeah, definitely.
- 31:27Speaker 20: I didn't want my kids to think.
- 31:28Speaker 15: That I was normal, So yeah, thank you.
- 31:30Speaker 1: Key.
- 31:31Speaker 20: And he's a horrible father, so.
- 31:34Speaker 4: That means he a horrible grandfather too.
- 31:37Speaker 20: Yeah, he is people, all right.
- 31:40Speaker 14: The moral of the story is, I know y'all like
- 31:42Speaker 14: to be out here bragging about smashing these young girls,
- 31:44Speaker 14: but that's not a flex to me. You know what
- 31:45Speaker 14: I'm saying, You fifty four years old, in your fifties,
- 31:48Speaker 14: you should be later with your wife and kids, or
- 31:50Speaker 14: at least be with women that's close to your age.
- 31:53Speaker 4: Like that's that's me, yeah, you know, and I'm consistent
- 31:56Speaker 4: with that.
- 31:56Speaker 1: I said that when Diddy was out here with young
- 31:58Speaker 1: Miami and you told LEONARDA, I don't know what y'all
- 32:01Speaker 1: seeing these young girls.
- 32:02Speaker 4: I need somebody that can know at least all at
- 32:04Speaker 4: least six members of.
- 32:05Speaker 2: Wu Tang six. It's a six of them. Yoh godess
- 32:09Speaker 2: I never told you this story about how years ago.
- 32:11Speaker 14: I'm not gonna say his name, but there was a
- 32:12Speaker 14: record rep and he was talking to me about how man.
- 32:15Speaker 14: I tried to talk to one of these young girls
- 32:16Speaker 14: and she was real smart, and I said to her,
- 32:18Speaker 14: you a regular doogie Houses?
- 32:19Speaker 1: And she was like, who is doogie houses? Just don't
- 32:22Speaker 1: know exactly? You know who don't know? No, okay, exactly see.
- 32:28Speaker 2: Regular doogie houses?
- 32:29Speaker 10: And now tell me what's the dog house.
- 32:31Speaker 4: Doogie House was a hit sitcom back in the day
- 32:33Speaker 4: that Neil Patrick Harris.
- 32:34Speaker 16: My grandma said, I know, Neil Patrick, you got the.
- 32:37Speaker 4: Ladist coming on you. See what I'm saying.
- 32:41Speaker 13: I would tell everybody outter that thinking about it, Just
- 32:43Speaker 13: imagine when you have daughters. Would you want your daughters
- 32:45Speaker 13: to date a fifty four year old man at the.
- 32:46Speaker 2: Age of nine.
- 32:47Speaker 1: Imagine being thirty button neckad standing over somebody's crib.
- 32:51Speaker 2: That's what you should be thinking about when you.
- 32:52Speaker 1: Were here ready to holler these twenty some year old
- 32:55Speaker 1: girls when you fifty plus cut it out.
- 32:57Speaker 13: If you just joined us this context, this context, Yeah,
- 33:00Speaker 13: it's the breakfast club in the morning, the Breakfast Club.
- 33:06Speaker 2: One of everybody is team was just hilarious, charlamage to God.
- 33:10Speaker 2: We are the breakfast Club. La La Rosa is here
- 33:13Speaker 2: with us, and we got some special guests in the
- 33:15Speaker 2: boland this morning.
- 33:15Speaker 1: The host of the new show Friday Night Vibes on
- 33:18Speaker 1: TV as the new host Friday Night Vibes on TVs.
- 33:21Speaker 2: Dina Parker Kevin on.
- 33:26Speaker 4: I walked that up because you know, keV didn't talk
- 33:27Speaker 4: about that last time he was here. And I saw
- 33:29Speaker 4: Nina in Chance and Nina was like. Nina was like,
- 33:33Speaker 4: I don't know why he was up there and did
- 33:35Speaker 4: not mention that we're in a new home.
- 33:37Speaker 2: Friday Night may be having tunelevision, so you got all
- 33:40Speaker 2: these other projects he was. I watched the interview and
- 33:43Speaker 2: I was so excited, like, I can't wait till he
- 33:45Speaker 2: mentions Friday Night VIX because we were in the middle
- 33:47Speaker 2: of filming Friday Night Vibes.
- 33:51Speaker 4: Man Friday Night Friday Night Vibes, and I had just.
- 33:54Speaker 2: Did Taron Hall. I was like, Keith, I mentioned you
- 33:56Speaker 2: and shouted you out. They showed your picture on the back.
- 34:02Speaker 2: I'm being ghastling, I said at first, So it means
- 34:03Speaker 2: it's true, baby, that's just who you are.
- 34:05Speaker 13: Because you know one of your best friends was up
- 34:07Speaker 13: here right like just right here, and when we told
- 34:11Speaker 13: him that you were coming, he was like, he didn't
- 34:13Speaker 13: even tell me he was here in New York.
- 34:16Speaker 2: He was like, we were playing pool and friendship.
- 34:20Speaker 10: We saw Tony just in the grind.
- 34:22Speaker 6: I was like, what are you doing?
- 34:23Speaker 2: Tony didn't tell me he was doing the breakfast club.
- 34:25Speaker 2: But men don't share details like that, Like if it
- 34:27Speaker 2: would have been me and my homegirl, we would have
- 34:29Speaker 2: been like at the hotel having breakfast before we came over.
- 34:31Speaker 2: I feel like, y'all just see each other when you
- 34:33Speaker 2: see Tony had a show in New York. I didn't
- 34:36Speaker 2: know that I got tickets to a show, surprising. I
- 34:39Speaker 2: was gonna pull up right ticket because always buy.
- 34:46Speaker 1: I don't even play that. I'm not trying to hear it.
- 34:49Speaker 1: Don't hear me because people you ain't even cool, Like
- 34:51Speaker 1: what's up on the tickets? Kevo stays dot com. It's
- 34:54Speaker 1: what I'm telling them. My parents buy tickets to my show, and.
- 34:56Speaker 2: I want to support, but then they want you to
- 34:58Speaker 2: give up the ticket. Yeah, that ain't support parents. Buy
- 35:01Speaker 2: tickets to your parents.
- 35:02Speaker 1: Refuse to get free tickets. They're like, I believe in
- 35:04Speaker 1: you and what you're doing. I'll go get tickets.
- 35:08Speaker 18: They won't make sure they got loan you no money
- 35:11Speaker 18: ever again.
- 35:12Speaker 2: No, well, yes, you keep doing good. You know what
- 35:15Speaker 2: I'm saying. I need you to make it.
- 35:17Speaker 4: You know they're not just testing you just to see
- 35:19Speaker 4: if you're gonna say no, no, no, y'all have done enough.
- 35:21Speaker 2: I got you.
- 35:22Speaker 12: No, they buy them, they support for the next show.
- 35:32Speaker 12: My friends, I don't mind these people.
- 35:33Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 35:34Speaker 1: We ain't got a relationship. You're trying to get the
- 35:36Speaker 1: free tickets, Manna, Okay, it's like a hookup. When I
- 35:38Speaker 1: work in Popeye's, I give my friends a hook up.
- 35:40Speaker 1: Not everybody, some of the biscuits.
- 35:41Speaker 2: If you see the price, that's true.
- 35:44Speaker 4: How did this come together?
- 35:46Speaker 2: You know what's crazy? We actually chem tested together. Kevin
- 35:49Speaker 2: and I knew each other only on social media, like
- 35:51Speaker 2: I was a fan of his work and we had
- 35:53Speaker 2: never met, so we would, you know, exchange on social media.
- 35:56Speaker 2: And then you know the show used to be hosted
- 35:58Speaker 2: by Tiffany Hattis and do y'all cold. They were revamping
- 36:01Speaker 2: it and so they did like a big casting call
- 36:04Speaker 2: so when we got called and sometimes when you get
- 36:06Speaker 2: to a certain level, you're like, oh, I still got
- 36:08Speaker 2: a kip test. Yeah, I was like, So we did
- 36:11Speaker 2: the kym test and it was it was actually like
- 36:13Speaker 2: a family reunion. It was about twenty about what befteen women,
- 36:17Speaker 2: fifteen men. Yeah, and we were kim testing with our friends.
- 36:20Speaker 2: So it was like a big day. We got in trouble.
- 36:24Speaker 2: It took all day long.
- 36:25Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like you you spend five minutes with
- 36:27Speaker 1: this person and okay, y'all done and this person and
- 36:29Speaker 1: when Nina and I went, it was like this sounds cliche,
- 36:33Speaker 1: but I was like, I forgot we were even auditioning.
- 36:35Speaker 2: We were just chopping it up and they stopped us.
- 36:37Speaker 2: We were like, okay, cool. I was like this, we
- 36:39Speaker 2: got this. Like there's sometimes I feel like you get
- 36:41Speaker 2: that little voice you know when you're when you're in
- 36:43Speaker 2: this industry, you just know when something that is magic.
- 36:46Speaker 2: And we were sitting next to each other and it
- 36:48Speaker 2: was so easy with him. And I've had a lot
- 36:51Speaker 2: of co hosts over the years, and keV is by
- 36:54Speaker 2: far like the easiest person I've ever worked with.
- 36:56Speaker 4: Oh that's an ultimate compliment.
- 36:58Speaker 2: By the way, it's not just to him as to
- 37:00Speaker 2: his wife Melissa, right, because his wife is he knows
- 37:04Speaker 2: how to there is a there's a dance, as you
- 37:07Speaker 2: guys know. And then when you have like a co
- 37:09Speaker 2: host who knows how to communicate in a healthy way
- 37:14Speaker 2: with a woman, it's just like even like he'll be
- 37:16Speaker 2: like do you need to sit? I'm like what because
- 37:18Speaker 2: I'm used to people being like get off the way,
- 37:21Speaker 2: and it's just he's very kind. So it just makes
- 37:23Speaker 2: it so easy to work with. Nina.
- 37:25Speaker 14: Go ahead, I tell you that all the time. When
- 37:27Speaker 14: somebody says you're easy to work with, that's beautiful. When
- 37:30Speaker 14: somebody says you're a pleasure to work with, you always work.
- 37:33Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's so long. The work is hard.
- 37:36Speaker 1: So talent is evenly distributed, you know in La New York,
- 37:39Speaker 1: but good people to work with is not so much.
- 37:42Speaker 1: And then it's already stressedful you got early call times
- 37:44Speaker 1: and all that stuff. If you're also a jerk on
- 37:46Speaker 1: top of that, it's like, bro, I don't even want
- 37:48Speaker 1: to do it.
- 37:48Speaker 2: It's life be lifing, as you know, so it's like
- 37:50Speaker 2: it's hard to get on and have to like turn
- 37:52Speaker 2: all of that off. You know in filming. So when
- 37:54Speaker 2: you have somebody that's like keV is really like my
- 37:57Speaker 2: real life brother, you know, I really love him. I
- 38:00Speaker 2: love his wife like, we have dinners like and so
- 38:02Speaker 2: it's just it doesn't it truly doesn't feel like work.
- 38:05Speaker 2: So we just be cutting up, and you know, this
- 38:07Speaker 2: show really allowed me to be funny and like really
- 38:09Speaker 2: tap into cause I feel like I've done so much
- 38:11Speaker 2: formal journalism. This was like a different This was more vulnerable,
- 38:15Speaker 2: and keV is more of my coach sometimes where he's
- 38:17Speaker 2: like just say it, like, you know, cause I'm so
- 38:19Speaker 2: trained that sometimes it's a little bit more stiff, so
- 38:22Speaker 2: he's like, just say it. They ain't gonna care.
- 38:23Speaker 1: Yeah, and we need to helped me too, because I
- 38:25Speaker 1: had never done official TV, never worked off a prompt before.
- 38:29Speaker 1: So the first day I was like, dang man, like
- 38:31Speaker 1: there's a lot of pressure and you can't really mess up.
- 38:33Speaker 1: It's time for you to do your job right. And
- 38:35Speaker 1: he was like, oh, it's all good. There's how you
- 38:37Speaker 1: doing us run through it once and Nina, man, let
- 38:39Speaker 1: me tell you what she big sis for real, because
- 38:41Speaker 1: when I don't want to do stuff, she'd.
- 38:43Speaker 2: Be like, ah, we ain't doing that, y'all. We are
- 38:45Speaker 2: doing this.
- 38:46Speaker 1: Like you can tell she's been in the game for
- 38:48Speaker 1: a long time, never rude or anything like that, but
- 38:50Speaker 1: she she knows how to assert herself and people respect
- 38:53Speaker 1: her for that.
- 38:54Speaker 2: And I'm more of like, I never done this, so
- 38:56Speaker 2: whatever y'all say is cool. But also when you've done
- 38:58Speaker 2: it a long time, you know when people are patty time,
- 39:00Speaker 2: like you're like, we don't need we got this. We
- 39:02Speaker 2: can just roll through this, like y'all ain't got a
- 39:04Speaker 2: babys Like, we're gonna come in, we gonna knock this out,
- 39:06Speaker 2: and we're gonna go home. Everybody gonna get home on time, y'all,
- 39:08Speaker 2: hill over time stop.
- 39:10Speaker 1: Is hard for you, keV being on a production that
- 39:12Speaker 1: you don't control, no low key, Actually it's free because someone,
- 39:19Speaker 1: oh my god, there's a certain amount of stress when
- 39:22Speaker 1: you control it, Like the talent is just one aspect.
- 39:24Speaker 1: Then you got to worry about the budget and the controlling,
- 39:26Speaker 1: the editing, the delivery day. That vibes brother, When it's
- 39:29Speaker 1: over all right, y'all, and it's it is, it is
- 39:33Speaker 1: a welcome reprieve from having a duel. I don't want
- 39:36Speaker 1: to have to worry about post edit deliveries, time code
- 39:39Speaker 1: you know, s and p leave it at the door coffee? Yes,
- 39:44Speaker 1: what time is lunch?
- 39:45Speaker 2: Okay? Perfect, see you all tomorrow. Just come on time.
- 39:47Speaker 8: Do my job.
- 39:48Speaker 2: Chopping up with Nina, I knew we was cool. Need
- 39:50Speaker 2: to let me her she was getting braided down, like
- 39:54Speaker 2: y'all real friends, man, you let me see the the breakdown.
- 40:05Speaker 1: No, That's why I think that camaraderie and chemistry from
- 40:08Speaker 1: the audition through the show, it just carries on throughout.
- 40:10Speaker 1: And then that's why the show feels so natural. Our
- 40:13Speaker 1: guests come on, they feel really natural with us, you
- 40:15Speaker 1: know what I'm saying.
- 40:15Speaker 2: So, and it doubled the ratings. So we did the
- 40:17Speaker 2: first season, we only had like twelve episodes, so it
- 40:19Speaker 2: was just the first Friday of every month, which right now,
- 40:22Speaker 2: you know, TV is very difficult. They actually doubled our
- 40:24Speaker 2: episode order because they were saying that our interviews with
- 40:28Speaker 2: each other and with our guests were spiking over the movies. Yeah,
- 40:32Speaker 2: so I mean listening to get a double order during
- 40:35Speaker 2: this time, we feel very blessed.
- 40:37Speaker 13: Were still picking it with Nina, Parker and keV on
- 40:39Speaker 13: stage the new show Friday Night vibes is on TVs Lauren.
- 40:43Speaker 18: I was going to ask you, Nina, because for us
- 40:44Speaker 18: in the journalism where you talk about brooking and hard journalism,
- 40:47Speaker 18: I know you come from TMZ. Your career and how
- 40:50Speaker 18: you've been able to diversify your resume. We all watch
- 40:53Speaker 18: it like how because it is hard when you're such
- 40:56Speaker 18: a journalist and do things where they allow you to
- 40:57Speaker 18: show your personality. What was your first lesson in like
- 41:00Speaker 18: I even want to try to diversify.
- 41:01Speaker 2: Well, my first lesson was I got fired and you know,
- 41:06Speaker 2: as you know, it's like you got fired from well,
- 41:09Speaker 2: I got fired my first week from TMZ. I didn't
- 41:11Speaker 2: know it.
- 41:12Speaker 6: So my first.
- 41:15Speaker 16: I'm gonna let her talk her story.
- 41:18Speaker 2: So the first time I got fired was my first
- 41:20Speaker 2: week in TMZ. I just moved to la and I
- 41:22Speaker 2: was not even a PA yet. I was a runner.
- 41:25Speaker 2: I didn't know anybody in l A. I literally got
- 41:28Speaker 2: the job by emailing contacts they used to have like
- 41:30Speaker 2: a contact TMZ, and I just emailed and was like,
- 41:34Speaker 2: I got a degree, can I like you know? And
- 41:35Speaker 2: they were like, you've been out the game for a
- 41:37Speaker 2: little bit, because I had stopped working in journalism and
- 41:40Speaker 2: so they were like, we'll make you a runner. You
- 41:41Speaker 2: can get the lunches. But this was before GPS, so
- 41:45Speaker 2: I had like a Thomas Guide.
- 41:46Speaker 15: Oh wow, yeah, that's age of myself.
- 41:50Speaker 2: But I was I got lost. La is very difficult
- 41:52Speaker 2: to navigate. You like, why is it too sa? So
- 41:57Speaker 2: I got lost, So Paris Hilton got arrested, and I
- 42:00Speaker 2: had to go get the tape from the paparazzi of
- 42:01Speaker 2: her coming out of CNN for her first interview with
- 42:04Speaker 2: Larry King.
- 42:04Speaker 16: Oh my heart just dropped for you. Yeah, got lost
- 42:06Speaker 16: with that tape.
- 42:07Speaker 2: And I got lost, and if you know, CNN was
- 42:10Speaker 2: on sunset and I took Highland to get back to
- 42:14Speaker 2: the valley, and Harvey was like, why would you take
- 42:17Speaker 2: Hiland and not Kawanga? What's wrong with you? Your fire
- 42:20Speaker 2: in front of everybody? Choice, do you understand how that's
- 42:26Speaker 2: very different? And you know, like this is before you
- 42:30Speaker 2: could transfer digitally. You had to have the tape, so
- 42:33Speaker 2: I cost them like fifteen twenty minutes and they wanted
- 42:35Speaker 2: it up first. So he fired me in front of
- 42:37Speaker 2: the whole newsroom and I went to the bathroom. I
- 42:39Speaker 2: had only been in La like three months. I went
- 42:42Speaker 2: to the bathroom and I was crying, like Ego kicked in.
- 42:44Speaker 2: It was like at this place, go somewhere else. You
- 42:46Speaker 2: don't need this place. And there was this really quiet
- 42:49Speaker 2: voice with that was like, just go apologize. And I
- 42:53Speaker 2: went to my managing editor and Harvey was in his office.
- 42:55Speaker 2: I went to the managing editor and I had been
- 42:57Speaker 2: staying late every day and I would just ask her
- 42:59Speaker 2: she needed anything, so if she needed her trash taken out, whatever,
- 43:02Speaker 2: I would just stay late for hours, just helping her
- 43:04Speaker 2: and not getting paid. And I said, hey, you know,
- 43:06Speaker 2: I'm really sorry if I can work with you, and
- 43:08Speaker 2: if you she was like, what are you talking about?
- 43:09Speaker 2: And I said, Harvey just fired me. And she goes
- 43:11Speaker 2: crossing down everywhere, and she went in his office and
- 43:14Speaker 2: yelled at him, and he heard him say will you
- 43:17Speaker 2: take her? And she came back out and offered me
- 43:19Speaker 2: a year contract and was like, do you want to
- 43:20Speaker 2: be my writing pa?
- 43:21Speaker 6: Wow?
- 43:22Speaker 2: And then that was in June of two thousand and seven.
- 43:26Speaker 2: The show started in September of two thousand and seven,
- 43:29Speaker 2: and by then he had heard me just talking. I
- 43:31Speaker 2: would do my stories and talk out loud, and he
- 43:33Speaker 2: thought I was funny, and he was like, I want
- 43:35Speaker 2: you to pitch for the show, and I was like, no,
- 43:37Speaker 2: I just want to write. He was like, I'm not
- 43:38Speaker 2: asking you. You're gonna get on the show. And that's
- 43:41Speaker 2: really how it started. That was the first time I
- 43:44Speaker 2: got fired, and I was just like, I'm gonna just
- 43:46Speaker 2: go for it. And I just was like, I'm not
- 43:48Speaker 2: going to allow like one person to have the keys
- 43:50Speaker 2: to like drive my car. Like I got to have
- 43:53Speaker 2: these options open, and I have to like eat my
- 43:54Speaker 2: ego a little bit. And I think our ego gets
- 43:57Speaker 2: us in a lot of trouble in this industry. There's
- 43:59Speaker 2: a lot of misunderst standings that happened that you you
- 44:01Speaker 2: take it the wrong way. And I just learned to
- 44:03Speaker 2: like drop that and it's helped me. Well what got
- 44:06Speaker 2: you fired?
- 44:06Speaker 6: For real?
- 44:08Speaker 2: I didn't. I was fired from CBS. Okay, they didn't
- 44:11Speaker 2: renew my contract, so the well you're just kind of fired,
- 44:14Speaker 2: you know, You're like it's like we don't we're not
- 44:16Speaker 2: having you back. I had like a two year contract
- 44:18Speaker 2: and I had it was the most money I had
- 44:20Speaker 2: ever made. Because now I'm an official course spind and
- 44:22Speaker 2: I'm doing red carpets and I made all this money
- 44:24Speaker 2: and I blew it. I was buying bags. I remember
- 44:26Speaker 2: I went on my first check and bought a Gucci
- 44:28Speaker 2: and Louis vuita bag, both just both. Because I have
- 44:31Speaker 2: been I was making four fifty a week at TMZ
- 44:33Speaker 2: who before taxes, so I wasn't making any money. So
- 44:38Speaker 2: when I was getting the CBS money, I lost my
- 44:41Speaker 2: damn mind. And I had no I had bad credit,
- 44:44Speaker 2: I had no financial literacy all you had to be.
- 44:51Speaker 2: And so when I lost the job, I was broke
- 44:54Speaker 2: because I had I was, you know, even though I
- 44:56Speaker 2: had money, I was spending every check. I was you know,
- 44:59Speaker 2: I was at at the brunches, spending money like a
- 45:02Speaker 2: drug dealer. I was just like, come on, let's let's
- 45:05Speaker 2: get the bottles, you know, and just ridiculous. And what
- 45:09Speaker 2: I realized was, I thought to myself, I had to
- 45:11Speaker 2: downsize everything. I got a car accident, I lost my car,
- 45:15Speaker 2: so I had to get a used car with the
- 45:17Speaker 2: red light always on. And I had to get into
- 45:19Speaker 2: a smaller apartment that was like a little bit more,
- 45:21Speaker 2: you know, in a bad neighborhood. And I told myself,
- 45:25Speaker 2: I was like, when I get my next thing, because
- 45:26Speaker 2: I knew it was gonna come. I educated myself on
- 45:29Speaker 2: how to get good credit. I fixed my credit, I
- 45:32Speaker 2: figured out what I needed to save. I was like,
- 45:34Speaker 2: I need multiple income. I was talking to Kevin Fraser
- 45:37Speaker 2: who was at CBS, and he was kind of telling me, like,
- 45:39Speaker 2: you acting crazy, you know. I talked called him my
- 45:42Speaker 2: toxic mentor because he would give me advice, but it
- 45:44Speaker 2: was always like really harsh. And I was like, the
- 45:46Speaker 2: next time, I get it, and I got love and
- 45:48Speaker 2: hip hop reunions and I just started saving everything. I
- 45:50Speaker 2: started living under my means. So I was like, let
- 45:52Speaker 2: me build this so that, like I can have two
- 45:55Speaker 2: years of income so that the next time, I'm not
- 45:57Speaker 2: gonna let this network decide like whether I eat or not.
- 46:01Speaker 16: Do you when you left? To go back a little bit,
- 46:05Speaker 16: when you left TMZ, were you seeing your news producer?
- 46:07Speaker 2: Where were you when I left TMC, I did not
- 46:09Speaker 2: have a job. I quit because they did not want
- 46:11Speaker 2: to pay me.
- 46:12Speaker 16: Okay, because there's always been a conversation. I don't know.
- 46:15Speaker 18: I was told this before I went there, so not
- 46:17Speaker 18: even just internally, but just in the journalism world, that
- 46:19Speaker 18: you had been offered news director or something like that.
- 46:22Speaker 18: But they didn't want to, Like they didn't you thought
- 46:24Speaker 18: you should have news director, but they didn't want to
- 46:25Speaker 18: give it to you.
- 46:26Speaker 2: It was a news director. But what actually happened, I've
- 46:29Speaker 2: never told anybody this. I accidentally got my coworker's check
- 46:35Speaker 2: and we were sitting next to you, you know, TMZ
- 46:37Speaker 2: would have the desks where there was a divider, and
- 46:39Speaker 2: they said his check next to me, and I was
- 46:41Speaker 2: just opening it blindly. And he was making six figures.
- 46:45Speaker 1: I was not.
- 46:46Speaker 2: I was making well under that. And I had been
- 46:49Speaker 2: there and I was contributing. I was breaking stories. I
- 46:52Speaker 2: was a part of Michael Jackson's death being broken. I
- 46:55Speaker 2: was a part of major store is Bernie mac dyan.
- 46:57Speaker 2: I was the managing editor on weekends, so it was
- 46:59Speaker 2: just me and in that office in a PA. I
- 47:01Speaker 2: was in there working. I only had Wednesdays off. I
- 47:04Speaker 2: gave up my weekends for three years, and I was like,
- 47:07Speaker 2: I put in the work.
- 47:08Speaker 7: I was.
- 47:08Speaker 2: It was my life. I didn't have a boyfriend, I
- 47:10Speaker 2: didn't have friends. I wasn't going to the club, and
- 47:13Speaker 2: I felt like I was old.
- 47:15Speaker 6: This money.
- 47:16Speaker 2: I think I was maybe making like fifty k Jesus
- 47:20Speaker 2: and I just wanted what he was making. He was
- 47:22Speaker 2: a white male, yes he was, and they were like no,
- 47:27Speaker 2: And I was on every show and I was just like,
- 47:31Speaker 2: y'all not gonna pay me. And we went into a
- 47:33Speaker 2: little negotiation and I think maybe they offered me like
- 47:35Speaker 2: ten more percent. I did not have another job. I
- 47:37Speaker 2: did not have an agent, and I was like, I quit.
- 47:41Speaker 2: I didn't have nothing, but I knew people liked me.
- 47:44Speaker 2: And I reached out to a woman who used to
- 47:45Speaker 2: be at Telepictures and she had just got an SBP
- 47:48Speaker 2: job at CBS, and I was like. She was like, hey,
- 47:50Speaker 2: we have the Insider once you come test for the Insider,
- 47:54Speaker 2: and so I went tested for that and I got
- 47:56Speaker 2: the Insider. But I didn't have anything when I left TMC,
- 47:58Speaker 2: I didn't know what I was going to do. The
- 48:00Speaker 2: good thing about being young is because I was still
- 48:02Speaker 2: in my twenties at the time, you little crazy, So
- 48:04Speaker 2: you know, had I been this age, I might have
- 48:05Speaker 2: been like, let me just figure something out. But now,
- 48:08Speaker 2: you know, cause I got bills and big bills. But
- 48:10Speaker 2: back then I was like, it ain't nothing for me
- 48:11Speaker 2: to pack up the studio apartment, get on that couch.
- 48:16Speaker 2: That was like you ain't trap me, and they was
- 48:20Speaker 2: the best decision I could have made. I mean I
- 48:21Speaker 2: left really at the Pinnacle. Vantage just started like it
- 48:25Speaker 2: was really a good time to be there, and everybody
- 48:27Speaker 2: told me not to quit. Everybody like socially TMC was
- 48:31Speaker 2: really hot and like, cause this is the Paris Hilton
- 48:33Speaker 2: Britney Spears era, so people were like, you're crazy to leave.
- 48:37Speaker 2: But I was just like, this is not serving me.
- 48:39Speaker 2: And they not only that, Like this was before paid
- 48:41Speaker 2: disparity was really a thing, so it was just accepted
- 48:43Speaker 2: that the women take less. And I was like, I
- 48:45Speaker 2: work harder than all these people up in here, and
- 48:47Speaker 2: I'm a black woman. And I mean when you guys
- 48:50Speaker 2: started the Breakfast Club, that's how we met. We were
- 48:52Speaker 2: started emailing, like dude, was like I got this new show.
- 48:54Speaker 2: I was like, we're gonna put you on the show.
- 48:56Speaker 2: And I've made a lot of contacts because I would
- 48:58Speaker 2: reach out to black media and be like it on
- 49:00Speaker 2: our bloc row, let me send you the break of news.
- 49:02Speaker 2: Like I really cultivated. I still have all those relationships
- 49:05Speaker 2: because I really was like I can't prevent them from
- 49:08Speaker 2: putting this story out about black people, but I can
- 49:10Speaker 2: at least give our side and if you call me,
- 49:12Speaker 2: I'm gonna give your side out there because they didn't care.
- 49:15Speaker 2: They would just put it up. And so that was
- 49:17Speaker 2: really for me, like my time.
- 49:19Speaker 13: So I was like, you're not gonna pay me, but
- 49:20Speaker 13: still kicking it with Nina Parker and keV on stage.
- 49:23Speaker 2: The new show Friday Night Vibes is on TBS. Was
- 49:26Speaker 2: it toxic working there?
- 49:28Speaker 16: Indeed?
- 49:29Speaker 2: What I mean, listen this is I've heard. It's not
- 49:32Speaker 2: like that anymore. I don't know, And this is one
- 49:35Speaker 2: of the reasons you and I haven't talked because I
- 49:38Speaker 2: checked out of all things TMZ. I never watched the
- 49:40Speaker 2: show again. When I stopped like, I didn't, I stopped community.
- 49:43Speaker 2: I didn't even I'm not commun here with people I knew,
- 49:45Speaker 2: but anything like I just kind of shut that part
- 49:47Speaker 2: of my braain off because I had a lot of
- 49:50Speaker 2: PTSD and it was you have to think about it.
- 49:53Speaker 2: This was like the birth of New age media. There
- 49:56Speaker 2: were no rules, so we would work like fourteen hours
- 50:00Speaker 2: a day. You would get in trouble for taking a lunch.
- 50:03Speaker 2: You couldn't leave like your desk. You had to answer
- 50:06Speaker 2: your phone at four in the morning. It was you
- 50:08Speaker 2: would work weekends and you couldn't say no. We would rock.
- 50:11Speaker 2: People would walk around with their laptop. We would go
- 50:13Speaker 2: to a concert. You have to have the laptop in
- 50:15Speaker 2: your back because if you got a call it for
- 50:17Speaker 2: you didn't answer, you would get fired for it was
- 50:20Speaker 2: over for you. So and I made the decision to
- 50:22Speaker 2: participate in that because I didn't have anybody, I didn't
- 50:25Speaker 2: have anything else. I didn't have a team. We were
- 50:27Speaker 2: kind of deterred from getting a team, like you know.
- 50:31Speaker 2: So the things I know now this is this is
- 50:35Speaker 2: there was no HR no H.
- 50:39Speaker 16: Was very new, and there there was the union. Things
- 50:41Speaker 16: that come in when you have in your protection they
- 50:43Speaker 16: got rid of.
- 50:44Speaker 2: That didn't exist back then. Like they had Telepictures that
- 50:47Speaker 2: was the parent company that technically you could go, but
- 50:50Speaker 2: you didn't know anybody there because they weren't You only
- 50:52Speaker 2: knew who was in the building. So it was it
- 50:56Speaker 2: was really the wild West. And I probably I mean
- 50:58Speaker 2: when Michael Jackson died, I didn't leave the office for
- 51:00Speaker 2: three days, like we slept there and.
- 51:03Speaker 15: That was your salary of fifty thousand dollars or less.
- 51:05Speaker 2: What I mean, I think I was still making like
- 51:07Speaker 2: the PA salary thing, which was I think I had
- 51:09Speaker 2: got boosted like six fifty a week. Crazy thing is
- 51:11Speaker 2: when Lauren started working here.
- 51:13Speaker 13: You ever see that dog that they and I'm not
- 51:15Speaker 13: comparing you to a dog, that dog that when you
- 51:17Speaker 13: get out the shelter right and you put your.
- 51:19Speaker 2: Hand up to pettit.
- 51:20Speaker 13: And that's how Lauren was. Lauren was like, wait a minute,
- 51:25Speaker 13: you guys just said the good job like it was.
- 51:27Speaker 13: I'm like what I thought she was joking? Then I
- 51:29Speaker 13: realized no, she was traumatized.
- 51:34Speaker 2: How long were you there?
- 51:35Speaker 18: How was that TMC for eight years? And when you
- 51:38Speaker 18: come in you hear well from the black people there,
- 51:40Speaker 18: you hear so much about you. Van was always really
- 51:42Speaker 18: big about, you know, talking to me about you. He
- 51:44Speaker 18: was there when I was. When I was there, so
- 51:45Speaker 18: was Raquel. And then they left, and when they left
- 51:48Speaker 18: it was me and I was like, what.
- 51:50Speaker 2: At least you had the camaraderie.
- 51:52Speaker 18: But then they left, right and then George Floyd and
- 51:54Speaker 18: i'm o Avrey happened and it was like, oh.
- 51:56Speaker 2: And you're fighting by yourself Because there's a lot of microaggression,
- 52:00Speaker 2: there's macro too, and one of the things that was
- 52:03Speaker 2: hard for me was like at the time, and this
- 52:05Speaker 2: was before Van even got there. I was the only
- 52:06Speaker 2: black person on camera. And so you are yes, yes,
- 52:12Speaker 2: the stories you tell me yourself, and you feel an obligation,
- 52:15Speaker 2: but sometimes you're tired. Right, But the thing is with
- 52:20Speaker 2: black talent, especially, you don't have the luxury of being
- 52:24Speaker 2: silent when it's a black issue, because they're gonna look
- 52:27Speaker 2: at you in this room full of white people and
- 52:28Speaker 2: wonder why you didn't say anything. They're not gonna think
- 52:30Speaker 2: about Like I've been doing this every single day. I
- 52:32Speaker 2: got a migraine. I'm tired, Like I'm tired of arguing.
- 52:35Speaker 2: I know, their race baiting me. They bait you on purpose.
- 52:38Speaker 2: But at the same time, I'm like, I got to
- 52:39Speaker 2: think about the people who are watching that look like me,
- 52:41Speaker 2: that are like me, and why didn't you speak up?
- 52:43Speaker 2: But you know, you know, as you age, fighting every
- 52:46Speaker 2: day gets exhausting. And also when you get in baited
- 52:50Speaker 2: because it's like, I don't mind having a healthy discussion,
- 52:52Speaker 2: but you're purposely trying to bait me to have this
- 52:53Speaker 2: conversation so you can have content, and I'm not really
- 52:56Speaker 2: with that, And so you get tired of being used.
- 52:58Speaker 2: You get tired of like when men being talked about,
- 53:01Speaker 2: you know, you feel like I'm in this space. When
- 53:03Speaker 2: I was there, it was very toxic, like we would
- 53:06Speaker 2: get they had a relationship with Vivid because you know
- 53:09Speaker 2: Kim Kardashians sex tape and they Vivid would send like
- 53:11Speaker 2: sex tapees in and sometimes people would just watch him
- 53:15Speaker 2: in the office, you know, and it was like you
- 53:16Speaker 2: were like what am I What's going on? But then
- 53:19Speaker 2: also you're like, well, what are my other options? And
- 53:21Speaker 2: that's when you start to build these relationships and you're like,
- 53:23Speaker 2: I got to make an exit plan.
- 53:25Speaker 18: I had a I just want to say this real quick.
- 53:27Speaker 18: Then we can move away from tim Z because you
- 53:28Speaker 18: have moved away.
- 53:29Speaker 2: But I met.
- 53:34Speaker 18: About I met you a long time ago in LA
- 53:37Speaker 18: and our interaction you weren't rude, but it just wasn't
- 53:40Speaker 18: the best. And one I was about to leave, Ban
- 53:42Speaker 18: was like, you should call me, and I was like,
- 53:43Speaker 18: I don't think she cares for me that much, and
- 53:45Speaker 18: he was really and I was like, well, and I
- 53:47Speaker 18: told him, but now here in your I don't know
- 53:49Speaker 18: if you even knew who I was, But if so,
- 53:52Speaker 18: I'm thinking like maybe that I had nothing to do
- 53:54Speaker 18: with that. But I never thought about this because when
- 53:56Speaker 18: you're in that environment, you think it's regular, you think
- 53:58Speaker 18: it's okay, right, I never thought about like what your
- 54:01Speaker 18: post life felt like mentally having to go through and
- 54:04Speaker 18: deal with all of that.
- 54:05Speaker 2: I think that so I got to do you telling
- 54:07Speaker 2: the world that Nina no I said, why would you
- 54:11Speaker 2: do that?
- 54:14Speaker 18: The reason I want to say that is because now
- 54:15Speaker 18: I'm sitting here and I felt your emotion just now
- 54:17Speaker 18: when you're talking about your experience, and I identify with
- 54:20Speaker 18: it so much, and it made me think about if
- 54:22Speaker 18: I were to run into someone right in that same
- 54:25Speaker 18: predicament unknowingly, I might not like, you know, do you
- 54:28Speaker 18: know what I'm trying to Well.
- 54:29Speaker 2: You're reacting to the place, not the person, yes, And
- 54:32Speaker 2: so you you know, it's like if someone brings up
- 54:34Speaker 2: a relationship that hurts you, you're kind of like, especially
- 54:38Speaker 2: if you're not in a space to like say, you're
- 54:40Speaker 2: not thinking about it, and it jars you for a
- 54:42Speaker 2: second where you're just like And also, I'm very media trained, right,
- 54:47Speaker 2: so sometimes I don't want to speak bad on a place,
- 54:51Speaker 2: and I don't know if my experience would be your experience.
- 54:53Speaker 2: So there's a lot. I can't say to you without
- 54:55Speaker 2: saying it right where I can. It's like, how do
- 54:59Speaker 2: I tell this person that in the trenches and like
- 55:02Speaker 2: get out quickly? Yes, because that may not be your journey.
- 55:04Speaker 2: So how do I say that to you with because
- 55:06Speaker 2: it's so nuanced. So it's just such a layered thing.
- 55:10Speaker 2: So sometimes if like people come up and be like
- 55:11Speaker 2: I'm at TMZ, I'm kind of and I'm like, yeah,
- 55:14Speaker 2: I don't know what to tell you, because this is
- 55:17Speaker 2: it's only something you understand if you've been there. It's
- 55:19Speaker 2: like being in a sorority. But at the same time,
- 55:21Speaker 2: and I think I've just healed from being there probably
- 55:24Speaker 2: within the last like four years, four or five years.
- 55:27Speaker 2: You I have this thing now where I'm my friends
- 55:30Speaker 2: say I'm the fastest responder because you had to be
- 55:32Speaker 2: this thing, right, I always Even now I'm not really
- 55:36Speaker 2: in news anymore, like I'm a host for shows, and
- 55:38Speaker 2: even now I feel like I got to look at
- 55:40Speaker 2: these headlines, I'm like, what am I doing? I am
- 55:41Speaker 2: posting about no news. I'm the first to post a
- 55:45Speaker 2: tweet about it. Like, so you have these things so
- 55:48Speaker 2: I don't remember the the interaction, but I'll say that
- 55:53Speaker 2: it was so traumatizing that sometimes it was hard to
- 55:58Speaker 2: react positively about it. And also, you know, as you grow,
- 56:02Speaker 2: you learn how to temper that a little bit better.
- 56:05Speaker 2: But I think probably when we met, I hadn't really
- 56:07Speaker 2: quite learned time.
- 56:08Speaker 16: It wasn't nothing crazy, but I just I felt your shock.
- 56:11Speaker 16: I just didn't.
- 56:12Speaker 18: I didn't under Yeah, I didn't understand what I felt
- 56:14Speaker 18: until this moment and you were dealing with But I
- 56:18Speaker 18: didn't know because when when we hear about your journey,
- 56:20Speaker 18: then we just hear.
- 56:21Speaker 2: Well, I've never talked about this is the first time.
- 56:23Speaker 2: I think we always said things positively because ultimately it
- 56:26Speaker 2: was a positive experience because I have never learned. You
- 56:29Speaker 2: learned kind of when you're in that because it's like
- 56:32Speaker 2: the army.
- 56:33Speaker 16: But I tell people it was the best boot camp
- 56:35Speaker 16: I've ever been.
- 56:35Speaker 2: To, the best book camp you'll never And one thing
- 56:37Speaker 2: I will say about Harvey is he, to this day
- 56:39Speaker 2: probably the hardest work ethic of anyone I've ever known
- 56:42Speaker 2: in the industry. But you you get a lot of
- 56:44Speaker 2: trauma from it, and it's very difficult to express if
- 56:47Speaker 2: you haven't been there. And then also it's like I
- 56:49Speaker 2: don't want to make that my story. So you know,
- 56:52Speaker 2: when I'm meeting somebody and we in a social setting,
- 56:54Speaker 2: it's like it's still now. Some people say, oh, I
- 56:56Speaker 2: know you from TMZ, and I cringe a little bit,
- 56:58Speaker 2: not because I'm ashamed of it. I've done so much,
- 57:01Speaker 2: but it's still something that's always associated with you and
- 57:03Speaker 2: will always be, as you will know it will always be,
- 57:06Speaker 2: and there's going to be a time where you just
- 57:07Speaker 2: don't want to hear about it because you've accomplished so
- 57:09Speaker 2: much more, and so it's a little triggering when someone
- 57:11Speaker 2: comes up to you and wants to talk about it
- 57:12Speaker 2: and you're just like, so like bringing up an X
- 57:14Speaker 2: that you don't at all.
- 57:16Speaker 4: Do it anymore, because what you really wanted to say
- 57:18Speaker 4: to her probably was good luck.
- 57:20Speaker 2: Yeah, what am I supposed to say if you're in it?
- 57:27Speaker 7: No?
- 57:27Speaker 18: Yeah, I mean I needed the money, but I forget
- 57:29Speaker 18: what was going on at the time. But I think
- 57:31Speaker 18: this was one of the times where I been wanted
- 57:32Speaker 18: to quit and I just didn't. People think you're crazy
- 57:34Speaker 18: to say that, and I was like, oh, I could
- 57:36Speaker 18: talk to her.
- 57:37Speaker 2: And then I wish we would have been introduced through
- 57:40Speaker 2: VAN because there I would have loved to have talked
- 57:43Speaker 2: to you one on one, like privately and just really
- 57:45Speaker 2: give you a good download, because I know that you
- 57:48Speaker 2: did reach out and DM and I never even saw
- 57:50Speaker 2: them because weren't I wasn't following you, and I didn't
- 57:52Speaker 2: even see him until I followed you, and I was like, dang,
- 57:54Speaker 2: there's DMS in here, and I didn't even see this
- 57:57Speaker 2: cry out for help. This is gonna be my last
- 57:58Speaker 2: thing about the PD. What I found is a lot
- 58:02Speaker 2: of people who leave only find their worth in posting
- 58:05Speaker 2: news because they that's how you were rewarded then you
- 58:10Speaker 2: were only you were. You could have been fired for
- 58:12Speaker 2: not producing enough, so you find like you're worth in
- 58:16Speaker 2: producing stuff. That's why, Like when I left, I would
- 58:18Speaker 2: be posting breaking news and I didn't even have an
- 58:20Speaker 2: outlet to attribute it to. And what it's what it
- 58:23Speaker 2: allowed me to do when I took a step back
- 58:25Speaker 2: was start to put more worth in like me, what
- 58:27Speaker 2: I'm saying and the other things, because I was like,
- 58:29Speaker 2: I don't even know if I really like news anymore,
- 58:32Speaker 2: Like I don't know if this is something I even
- 58:33Speaker 2: enjoy anymore, Like I enjoy talking to people, I enjoy
- 58:37Speaker 2: x y Z, like what else can I dive into?
- 58:39Speaker 2: And for you, what I would like to say is,
- 58:41Speaker 2: and I think you're very good at it, but you know,
- 58:43Speaker 2: and I know you have other things that you like to,
- 58:45Speaker 2: you know, get into, and I just don't want you
- 58:47Speaker 2: to get caught up in this thing of like I
- 58:49Speaker 2: have to produce to be value because it's like what
- 58:53Speaker 2: who you are that brings the value, not being first
- 58:56Speaker 2: because we're we kind of are taught to like we
- 58:58Speaker 2: got to be first, even just have.
- 59:03Speaker 1: Heard.
- 59:09Speaker 2: I'm just saying that the value is not in being
- 59:11Speaker 2: first anymore because this is what I have learned. It's
- 59:14Speaker 2: what you're going to talk about that is valuable because
- 59:17Speaker 2: you're not technically in the news place that has to
- 59:19Speaker 2: be first.
- 59:20Speaker 16: And just sometimes you when you hear that, did you
- 59:22Speaker 16: hear that?
- 59:28Speaker 2: A sense of urgency is what makes you special because
- 59:31Speaker 2: you care and that's important. But I think people care
- 59:33Speaker 2: just they want to know that these days everybody can
- 59:35Speaker 2: get it anywhere correct. They want your take on it.
- 59:38Speaker 2: So and you were correct and everybody else is wrong. Yeah,
- 59:41Speaker 2: I know I was.
- 59:46Speaker 16: Correct.
- 59:46Speaker 2: Friday Night Vibes on TV.
- 59:49Speaker 15: We appreciate you guys coming up and don't be strange.
- 59:51Speaker 2: You could come home feel like you need a girl.
- 59:55Speaker 2: I was watching too. I was like, oh my god,
- 59:57Speaker 2: this is really happening. They're gonna put this on team.
- 1:00:03Speaker 15: But please come on, if you are in town, please
- 1:00:07Speaker 15: come on away.
- 1:00:09Speaker 2: Seven years to get Kemp. So yeah, well, y'all just
- 1:00:11Speaker 2: had him.
- 1:00:12Speaker 6: So this was fine.
- 1:00:14Speaker 2: I was fullying. I was in the coverage, tweeting fill
- 1:00:19Speaker 2: into yes, yes, I have a I have a clothing
- 1:00:21Speaker 2: line for plus women sizes twelve to thirty is. Yes,
- 1:00:24Speaker 2: it's in stores, is at Macy's. It's doing very well,
- 1:00:27Speaker 2: and so this is one of the designs. So yeah,
- 1:00:29Speaker 2: it's do you know the multiple streams is always needed
- 1:00:32Speaker 2: me to parking, not the little to keep a check.
- 1:00:35Speaker 13: It's Nina Parker kept on stage Friday night vibes on TBS.
- 1:00:39Speaker 2: It's the breakfast club.
- 1:00:40Speaker 15: Good morning, that donkey, donkey that don't don't don't jump
- 1:00:44Speaker 15: dunk the.
- 1:00:44Speaker 12: Other day, right, there's a breakfast club.
- 1:00:48Speaker 2: Bitches, you can call me the donkey of the day,
- 1:00:50Speaker 2: but like I need no harm, Yes donkey, whoa why
- 1:00:53Speaker 2: the hell I'm so loud? Scar myself?
- 1:00:55Speaker 1: Don'ty today goes to a Pennsylvania woman named Christina solar Meado.
- 1:00:59Speaker 1: Christine this Solemido is forty four years old, and she
- 1:01:02Speaker 1: did something that people figuratively talk about doing. And I
- 1:01:06Speaker 1: wish I could cress on the radio but I can't.
- 1:01:09Speaker 1: But just know Bicki MinID wrote the song about doing
- 1:01:12Speaker 1: this to her ops. She called it did it on him.
- 1:01:14Speaker 1: But that's the clean version. Yeah, let's hear some of
- 1:01:16Speaker 1: this classic.
- 1:01:18Speaker 2: Can you remember this right? Yes, that's how a clean
- 1:01:21Speaker 2: version go. No, it was okay, turn it up, let
- 1:01:25Speaker 2: me hit it.
- 1:01:30Speaker 4: Okay, keep the instrumental going for me.
- 1:01:33Speaker 8: Uh.
- 1:01:34Speaker 1: Yes, See all of y'all talk about releasing snak missiles
- 1:01:37Speaker 1: on your ops, but she never actually released the chocolate hostages.
- 1:01:40Speaker 4: But Christina actually did. Let's go to NBC ten Philly
- 1:01:42Speaker 4: for the report.
- 1:01:43Speaker 21: Police the police chief or Prospect Park says he has
- 1:01:45Speaker 21: seen some road reach cases during his career. Somebody cuts
- 1:01:50Speaker 21: someone off, then the drivers might get into a heated exchange,
- 1:01:54Speaker 21: then they typically drive away. But in this case on Tuesday,
- 1:01:58Speaker 21: there was a little more to that, and the incident
- 1:02:01Speaker 21: was captured on video by a bystander. That video, shared
- 1:02:07Speaker 21: thousands of times on Instagram, shows a woman identified Thursday
- 1:02:12Speaker 21: as Christina Solometto walking to another woman's car.
- 1:02:15Speaker 16: The forty four year old sits on the hood or not,
- 1:02:18Speaker 16: showing the.
- 1:02:19Speaker 21: Most graphic parts of the video, including when she appeared
- 1:02:22Speaker 21: to defecate on the car. Solometto was brought to the
- 1:02:26Speaker 21: Prospect Park Police Department Thursday in handcuffs, offering no remarks.
- 1:02:31Speaker 21: She faces a number of charges, including in decent exposure
- 1:02:35Speaker 21: and depositing waste on a highway.
- 1:02:39Speaker 4: Imagine how mad you got to be the weaponize your
- 1:02:41Speaker 4: own digestive system.
- 1:02:42Speaker 2: Okay, this is biological warfare, all right.
- 1:02:44Speaker 1: I respect people who can back the brown Caldillac out
- 1:02:47Speaker 1: of the garage in public.
- 1:02:48Speaker 4: Okay, I'm not one of those people.
- 1:02:50Speaker 2: Now. I am very regular. Okay, eight thirty am every.
- 1:02:53Speaker 4: Morning, I'm making a tombstone in the water grave here
- 1:02:55Speaker 4: at work. But if somebody comes in the bathroom or
- 1:02:58Speaker 4: sits in the stall next to me, I can't do it.
- 1:03:00Speaker 1: Okay, I'm a cowboy fan, but I can't take the
- 1:03:02Speaker 1: Browns through the Super Bowl if someone else is in
- 1:03:04Speaker 1: the bathroom with me.
- 1:03:04Speaker 4: So the fact this woman was able to bake some butt.
- 1:03:07Speaker 1: Brownies in public on Q It's impressive, but I'm gonna
- 1:03:10Speaker 1: tell you something, Christina. The reason you get in the
- 1:03:13Speaker 1: biggest he hards because, according to the police Affidavid, you said,
- 1:03:16Speaker 1: and I quote, I wanted to punch you in the face,
- 1:03:19Speaker 1: but I pooped on our car instead and went home.
- 1:03:21Speaker 2: I would rather you punched it in the face.
- 1:03:23Speaker 4: Okay. It takes way more energy to pull your pants.
- 1:03:26Speaker 1: Down and birth a creamy behemoth in public than it
- 1:03:29Speaker 1: does to punch someone in the face. Now, Christina allegedly
- 1:03:32Speaker 1: told cops that it was a clean poop.
- 1:03:35Speaker 4: I didn't have to wipe.
- 1:03:37Speaker 2: True.
- 1:03:37Speaker 1: Quote For the record, there is no such thing as
- 1:03:40Speaker 1: a clean wipe, okay, are a clean poop?
- 1:03:42Speaker 4: When you release the mud monkeys, the antal area.
- 1:03:44Speaker 2: Becomes soiled with stool and you gotta clean it, okay.
- 1:03:47Speaker 1: Fecal mata contains bacteria and other micro organisms that can
- 1:03:51Speaker 1: cause infections, are spread if not properly cleaned the way
- 1:03:54Speaker 1: and having residual dookie around the rim of your bookie
- 1:03:57Speaker 1: can cause discomfort, okay, itching and irritation whenever the inside
- 1:04:01Speaker 1: of your bonky itchin guarantees you didn't wipe properly. But
- 1:04:04Speaker 1: there is no clean kills. When you push you out
- 1:04:06Speaker 1: a suel snake. Okay, when you launch for torpedos, there
- 1:04:08Speaker 1: is always a casualty.
- 1:04:11Speaker 4: That's all I got. Please give Christina Solar medal the
- 1:04:14Speaker 4: biggest he hull he ha he ha.
- 1:04:17Speaker 2: You stupid mother.
- 1:04:19Speaker 10: Are you dumb the amounts of effort in which you
- 1:04:23Speaker 10: put that presentation?
- 1:04:25Speaker 2: Yes, you did? You literally, boy, like you ate that
- 1:04:32Speaker 2: I would never eat.
- 1:04:36Speaker 10: But what I'm saying you literally you told that story
- 1:04:39Speaker 10: like Maya Angela.
- 1:04:47Speaker 15: All right, well, thank you for that donkey of the day.
- 1:04:51Speaker 2: Now when we come back, thank you for that douchy.
- 1:04:53Speaker 16: Of the day.
- 1:04:56Speaker 6: The Breakfast Club.
- 1:05:00Speaker 15: DJ n V Jess hilarious, Chela mean the.
- 1:05:03Speaker 13: Guy we are the Breakfast Club Laura l Rossa Field
- 1:05:05Speaker 13: in for just today we got a special guest in
- 1:05:07Speaker 13: the building.
- 1:05:08Speaker 2: Yes, indeed we have the brother Leon Thomas.
- 1:05:10Speaker 14: Welcome, Bro, It's good, it's good. Hey y'all feeling how
- 1:05:12Speaker 14: you feeling? Bless Black and Holly favorite Leon. You are
- 1:05:14Speaker 14: by far the greatest new male R and B singer
- 1:05:17Speaker 14: doing it today.
- 1:05:18Speaker 2: Man, thank you so much.
- 1:05:19Speaker 4: That shouldn't even be up with debate.
- 1:05:21Speaker 2: Man, I really appreciate that.
- 1:05:23Speaker 4: Man, how do you receive it?
- 1:05:25Speaker 3: I mean, you know, to be honest, I try to
- 1:05:27Speaker 3: just take it one step at a time. You know,
- 1:05:29Speaker 3: I try to stay humble with everything. But I'm glad
- 1:05:32Speaker 3: to be a new voice in R and B. You know,
- 1:05:34Speaker 3: it's a genre that I love. You know, I'm trying
- 1:05:37Speaker 3: to bring back live musicianship, real songs.
- 1:05:40Speaker 7: You know.
- 1:05:41Speaker 3: Writing with the team that I have has been an
- 1:05:44Speaker 3: amazing pleasure. And you know, just bringing like that, that
- 1:05:47Speaker 3: organic feeling back to the live stage is like a
- 1:05:49Speaker 3: big thing for me.
- 1:05:50Speaker 13: You know, for people that don't know Leon Thomas, you
- 1:05:52Speaker 13: know you started on Broadway. Tell everybody how you got
- 1:05:54Speaker 13: your start and your way into being this R and
- 1:05:58Speaker 13: B star. Well, listen, I grew up in New York,
- 1:06:00Speaker 13: started on Broadway out here. I did three Broadway plays
- 1:06:03Speaker 13: from Lion King the Carolina changed the color purple.
- 1:06:07Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I was assembling in Lion King. And then
- 1:06:09Speaker 3: you know, I started booking movies and TV show.
- 1:06:12Speaker 2: How How was that?
- 1:06:13Speaker 15: I just took my kids to see. You know, it
- 1:06:15Speaker 15: was insane, was that training? Because it's a lot of.
- 1:06:17Speaker 3: Shows, a lot of people in it's live, so you
- 1:06:20Speaker 3: can't mess up. No, no, no, you can't mess up.
- 1:06:22Speaker 3: It's eight shows a week. I was ten years old
- 1:06:24Speaker 3: when I did my first Broadway play. Shout out to
- 1:06:26Speaker 3: my mom and my family for you know, supporting me
- 1:06:29Speaker 3: through that whole journey. And yeah, man, I went from
- 1:06:31Speaker 3: being a regular kid to starring on Broadway and a
- 1:06:33Speaker 3: matter of months.
- 1:06:34Speaker 2: You know, Now, how was that?
- 1:06:36Speaker 13: Because it's not the typical thing New York kids do, right,
- 1:06:39Speaker 13: So you're singing, you're dancing, you're doing that.
- 1:06:41Speaker 2: So how did you get it to.
- 1:06:42Speaker 13: That point of No, because you go to Broadway. I
- 1:06:44Speaker 13: don't know anybody they went to Broway, it's very differ.
- 1:06:50Speaker 6: I don't know.
- 1:06:51Speaker 3: I had a couple homies who ended up in different plays,
- 1:06:53Speaker 3: but for the most part, yeah, yeah, it was definitely
- 1:06:55Speaker 3: like a bit of an anomaly for my neighborhood in Brooklyn.
- 1:06:58Speaker 11: It was.
- 1:06:59Speaker 3: It was kind of weird playing it to my homies
- 1:07:00Speaker 3: in school, like, yeah, I was just doing a show
- 1:07:02Speaker 3: last night.
- 1:07:02Speaker 2: They're like, what was going on?
- 1:07:05Speaker 4: Yeah, we're not from New York, from the hoods of
- 1:07:09Speaker 4: New York.
- 1:07:09Speaker 3: Okay, but no, it was definitely a real pleasure, you know.
- 1:07:16Speaker 3: But but but from there, I ended up doing a
- 1:07:17Speaker 3: lot of TV and film.
- 1:07:19Speaker 7: You know.
- 1:07:19Speaker 3: I shot my first movie out here with Robin Williams
- 1:07:22Speaker 3: and Terrence Howard called August Rush, which was an amazing pleasure,
- 1:07:25Speaker 3: and that kind of brought me into a lot of
- 1:07:27Speaker 3: a lot of TV after that with Nickelodeon and Victorious Yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 1:07:32Speaker 3: with Arianna Grande, and you know, that was a big journey.
- 1:07:35Speaker 3: That was the number one show on the network at
- 1:07:37Speaker 3: the time. We were beating out American Idol and it
- 1:07:39Speaker 3: was a way for the rest of the world to
- 1:07:41Speaker 3: kind of really tap into who I am as a creative.
- 1:07:44Speaker 3: But it took years of really honing in on who
- 1:07:46Speaker 3: I am as an artist to get to this point,
- 1:07:49Speaker 3: producing and writing for a bunch of different artists, went
- 1:07:52Speaker 3: in a Grammy, working with Siza and a Babyface Drake,
- 1:07:57Speaker 3: a bunch of different people. It's been a actually dou
- 1:08:00Speaker 3: for Drake, but but you know, shout out to him
- 1:08:02Speaker 3: and yeah, allegedly, man, but you know, from me, I
- 1:08:06Speaker 3: don't think there's anything wrong with it either. But it
- 1:08:08Speaker 3: was a blessing to I mean, it's interesting because I'm
- 1:08:11Speaker 3: an artist and people see me as a singer, they
- 1:08:13Speaker 3: kind of forget that I also produced a lot of
- 1:08:15Speaker 3: big records.
- 1:08:16Speaker 2: You know, my production game is pretty tight. So yeah,
- 1:08:20Speaker 2: all purpose your lyrics like that of a rap.
- 1:08:23Speaker 14: But that's why when I see Freddie Gibbs on your records,
- 1:08:26Speaker 14: But it makes so much sense to be you're still
- 1:08:28Speaker 14: touching anybody from.
- 1:08:29Speaker 3: Victoria's absolutely man, you know, I'll chop it up with
- 1:08:32Speaker 3: Ari Avan. Joe Gia is a really good friend of mine.
- 1:08:35Speaker 3: You know, Matt Bennett, a lot of the cast. We
- 1:08:37Speaker 3: all hang out and do lunch. It's kind of like
- 1:08:39Speaker 3: my last two years of high school were with them,
- 1:08:41Speaker 3: so that's like my graduating class. Essentially. We were all
- 1:08:44Speaker 3: in school together, so we filmed, but we also went
- 1:08:47Speaker 3: to school. So Tho was my really good friends.
- 1:08:49Speaker 4: To Victoria and her mom. I did a host of
- 1:08:51Speaker 4: the New Year's Eve special with them for real.
- 1:08:53Speaker 2: Oh that's dope. People.
- 1:08:55Speaker 3: You ever wrote for a Yeah? Actually I worked with
- 1:08:58Speaker 3: her on her first album. That was my first time
- 1:09:00Speaker 3: on number one with an album. I did about like
- 1:09:02Speaker 3: four songs on her first album, Yours truly Wow, So
- 1:09:06Speaker 3: that was a real pleasure.
- 1:09:07Speaker 2: Yeah. Did you know you always wanted to be an
- 1:09:09Speaker 2: R and B singer? Like?
- 1:09:10Speaker 13: It was that the goal as a kid growing up?
- 1:09:12Speaker 13: You always wanted to be an actor? Like and when
- 1:09:13Speaker 13: did you pivot? When he was like this is what
- 1:09:15Speaker 13: I want to do.
- 1:09:16Speaker 2: Listen.
- 1:09:16Speaker 3: I feel like I did this role with Katherine Bigelow,
- 1:09:19Speaker 3: She's an Oscar Award winning director, but I had to
- 1:09:22Speaker 3: cut my dreads for it, and that was kind of
- 1:09:24Speaker 3: like my last straw in acting.
- 1:09:25Speaker 1: You know.
- 1:09:25Speaker 3: I did this role for Detroit and I felt like,
- 1:09:28Speaker 3: you know, I need to kind of tap back into
- 1:09:30Speaker 3: who I am as an artist. You know, grew my
- 1:09:32Speaker 3: dreads back, really got into my internal self meditating, really
- 1:09:37Speaker 3: like tapping into who I am as a human being,
- 1:09:39Speaker 3: and a lot of great music came out of that.
- 1:09:42Speaker 3: You know, I always knew I wanted to be a singer,
- 1:09:45Speaker 3: but I knew for a fact I needed to really
- 1:09:48Speaker 3: present myself as who I truly was. It's so easy
- 1:09:51Speaker 3: to play a character when you're always acting. You know,
- 1:09:54Speaker 3: I needed to come to the world as my true
- 1:09:56Speaker 3: self when you were on.
- 1:09:58Speaker 18: The like the sets when you like even with like
- 1:10:00Speaker 18: Victorious and stuff like that. What was your mom and
- 1:10:03Speaker 18: like your parents there often or talked a lot about
- 1:10:06Speaker 18: that too, Like parents were close.
- 1:10:08Speaker 2: Now they were there, they were there.
- 1:10:10Speaker 6: You know.
- 1:10:11Speaker 3: My mom was never like a mamager like over my
- 1:10:14Speaker 3: over my shoulder kind of mom, but she was also
- 1:10:16Speaker 3: very protective of my piece and mental health and making
- 1:10:21Speaker 3: sure that I'm just like in a good, good space
- 1:10:23Speaker 3: while I'm while I'm trying to create something timeless, and
- 1:10:26Speaker 3: you know, shout out to her for just always you know,
- 1:10:28Speaker 3: creating safe spaces for me throughout that journey. You know,
- 1:10:32Speaker 3: from getting slimmed, it was definitely nuts, definitely nuts, you know,
- 1:10:39Speaker 3: seeing seeing how everything with them, Definitely it's definitely definitely insane.
- 1:10:44Speaker 4: Don't say that, definitely nuts after that.
- 1:10:46Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, I know, you know it's crazy. It's
- 1:10:49Speaker 3: crazy because you know, I just saw the doc not
- 1:10:52Speaker 3: too long ago. It's definitely eye opening. And a lot
- 1:10:55Speaker 3: of my castmates we hopped on a Zoom call. We
- 1:10:57Speaker 3: all wanted to talk about it. And luckily during during
- 1:11:00Speaker 3: in our seasons, it was it was very wholesome and chill.
- 1:11:04Speaker 3: But you know, shout out to anybody who dealt with
- 1:11:07Speaker 3: anything bad. I mean, I you know, my heart definitely
- 1:11:10Speaker 3: goes out to them.
- 1:11:10Speaker 14: The thing I love about your music too is number one,
- 1:11:13Speaker 14: I can tell you you got a sense of freedom. Yeah,
- 1:11:15Speaker 14: but did that come with money or does that come
- 1:11:18Speaker 14: with just how you came up? You know, with your
- 1:11:20Speaker 14: mom doing music, so you always felt free as an artist.
- 1:11:23Speaker 3: I mean, you know, I think the greatest thing about
- 1:11:26Speaker 3: being an artist is that it's a it's a great
- 1:11:28Speaker 3: representation of being a free black man, you know, like,
- 1:11:31Speaker 3: you know, being able to wear what I want, you know,
- 1:11:33Speaker 3: say what I want on on record is really important
- 1:11:36Speaker 3: to me.
- 1:11:37Speaker 7: You know.
- 1:11:38Speaker 3: I try to stay as grounded and uh as real
- 1:11:41Speaker 3: to who I am as I can be. I mean,
- 1:11:43Speaker 3: I think it's it's it's really easy to want to
- 1:11:45Speaker 3: be an artist and play a character who you think
- 1:11:47Speaker 3: people want you to be. But I'm doing my best
- 1:11:49Speaker 3: to just like kind of just say what I want
- 1:11:52Speaker 3: what I want, you know, when you come up.
- 1:11:54Speaker 18: With songs, but like I like feelings on Silent I
- 1:11:56Speaker 18: love but songs like that, Like when I listen to it,
- 1:11:59Speaker 18: each time I get something different from it. So the
- 1:12:01Speaker 18: first time I listened, I was like, Oh, this is
- 1:12:03Speaker 18: like guys just being like we keep her feelingce to herself.
- 1:12:05Speaker 18: And then the second time I listened, I'm like, this
- 1:12:06Speaker 18: is the trauma that they deal with because like he
- 1:12:09Speaker 18: mentions PTSD and a bunch of other things, like how
- 1:12:12Speaker 18: do you first of all, sitting.
- 1:12:13Speaker 16: Back you wrote that, Yeah, yeah, yeah, I sitting back
- 1:12:16Speaker 16: and writing with him.
- 1:12:18Speaker 18: How do you be like, Okay, here's all the things
- 1:12:20Speaker 18: that we want people to get when they hear this,
- 1:12:22Speaker 18: or do you guys just write and whatever people get
- 1:12:24Speaker 18: they get, Like were you dealing with something yourself then?
- 1:12:26Speaker 2: Or you know? The way I wrote that record was
- 1:12:29Speaker 2: really interesting.
- 1:12:30Speaker 3: I was in I was in Italy actually, I was
- 1:12:32Speaker 3: working with Ya and TOI Dollars on the Vultures one project,
- 1:12:36Speaker 3: and I just had some lyrics kind of you know,
- 1:12:39Speaker 3: bubbling up in my head. But I think it was
- 1:12:41Speaker 3: one of those moments that it was just kind of
- 1:12:43Speaker 3: stream of consciousness. I didn't really think too hard on
- 1:12:46Speaker 3: my sections. That was like my second take that you're
- 1:12:48Speaker 3: hearing there. It wasn't like me like kind of really
- 1:12:51Speaker 3: punching in a bunch of different ideas. It was just
- 1:12:53Speaker 3: kind of flowing. And when Wile heard it, that was
- 1:12:56Speaker 3: probably the hardest verse to get because we did probably
- 1:13:00Speaker 3: we did like five sessions to get that one verse.
- 1:13:03Speaker 3: But Yo, he's so talented and seeing how he crafted
- 1:13:06Speaker 3: his verse, I mean, he would do like five bars
- 1:13:08Speaker 3: at the time, and he really cared about the poetry
- 1:13:11Speaker 3: of it all. And it's why I really respect him
- 1:13:14Speaker 3: as an artist. He's just a true lyricist who.
- 1:13:16Speaker 13: Of course Leam Thomas a singer, songwriter, producer and acting.
- 1:13:19Speaker 13: His album Mutt is out right now, and we got
- 1:13:21Speaker 13: to congratulate you because you gotta Grammy for your record
- 1:13:23Speaker 13: with Sism. We tell everybody that we helped with that
- 1:13:26Speaker 13: because we played Snooze every morning four times.
- 1:13:31Speaker 2: You wrote Snooze produced on Snooze.
- 1:13:34Speaker 8: Man.
- 1:13:34Speaker 3: First of all, let's clear this up. Shout out to
- 1:13:36Speaker 3: Scissen for writing that record. We were producing in a
- 1:13:39Speaker 3: separate room and she heard the instrumental and was like, yo,
- 1:13:42Speaker 3: what is that? And you know, there there is something
- 1:13:45Speaker 3: that I do where I like take my voice and
- 1:13:47Speaker 3: I chop it up like a sample because clearing samples
- 1:13:49Speaker 3: is really expensive and cuts into the publishing. So rather
- 1:13:53Speaker 3: than it's like actually doing a sample, I'll just you know,
- 1:13:55Speaker 3: red sing a little something, right.
- 1:13:57Speaker 2: So she really liked that and then took it into
- 1:13:59Speaker 2: the other.
- 1:13:59Speaker 3: Room and wrote an amazing song and being a part
- 1:14:02Speaker 3: of the production on that with Babyface legendary baby Face
- 1:14:05Speaker 3: was a true pleasure man. I mean, it was a
- 1:14:08Speaker 3: real journey to see that song go from like a
- 1:14:10Speaker 3: crowd favorite to a Grammy Award winning r and B
- 1:14:13Speaker 3: song Man.
- 1:14:14Speaker 2: That was definitely life changing for me.
- 1:14:15Speaker 4: You got a deduction team, right, yeah?
- 1:14:18Speaker 2: Yeah, the Rascal was me, Me and and Chris tians Man.
- 1:14:21Speaker 3: We've been working together since we were like eighteen, so
- 1:14:23Speaker 3: it's really cool to see the growth. I mean, we
- 1:14:26Speaker 3: started off, you know, a little shaky when it came
- 1:14:28Speaker 3: to production, but it's nice to see us, you know,
- 1:14:30Speaker 3: really develop into the producers we are now. We had
- 1:14:32Speaker 3: great mentors.
- 1:14:33Speaker 18: Man, you have such big moments like even before that
- 1:14:36Speaker 18: and during that, but it's like, I don't know, like
- 1:14:38Speaker 18: when do you feel like things started like to click
- 1:14:41Speaker 18: finally where people were like, oh shoot, Leon, like.
- 1:14:43Speaker 16: We get it now.
- 1:14:44Speaker 2: It's really interesting.
- 1:14:45Speaker 3: I like to call it the Drake effect when I
- 1:14:48Speaker 3: was working when I was working with Drake, all of
- 1:14:51Speaker 3: a sudden, label executives who have known me for years
- 1:14:53Speaker 3: were like, eh, I think you could be an artist,
- 1:14:55Speaker 3: you know, And I was like, okay, So I kind
- 1:14:58Speaker 3: of peeped that, and I said, okay, well let's start
- 1:15:00Speaker 3: kind of building this out. But I knew I wanted
- 1:15:02Speaker 3: that that same formula that Drake had with a Lil
- 1:15:05Speaker 3: Wayne and and and you know, working with Todd dallas
- 1:15:07Speaker 3: Son was a really smart move, not only because he's
- 1:15:10Speaker 3: just an amazing artist, but because it was just nice
- 1:15:14Speaker 3: to have a mentor who had done it already.
- 1:15:16Speaker 2: So he's he's just like kind of like, yo, try this.
- 1:15:19Speaker 3: Make sure the look has this, or you know, even
- 1:15:21Speaker 3: when it came to the music, like here's how you
- 1:15:23Speaker 3: really format an album, and I'm definitely doing a lot
- 1:15:26Speaker 3: of studying, you know, shout out to Todd dallas Sign
- 1:15:28Speaker 3: for sure. He definitely, you know, saw something in me
- 1:15:31Speaker 3: that a lot of label executives were not sure about,
- 1:15:34Speaker 3: and uh, it's cool to see it developing.
- 1:15:36Speaker 2: How did you real, Tom?
- 1:15:37Speaker 6: How did you tie me?
- 1:15:39Speaker 3: I was actually working on his album as a producer
- 1:15:41Speaker 3: on featuring Todd dallas Sign. I was like one of
- 1:15:44Speaker 3: I think nine producers on a song with Kanye and
- 1:15:46Speaker 3: Thundercat and a bunch of other people.
- 1:15:49Speaker 4: Nine producers on one record.
- 1:15:50Speaker 3: Yeah, because it's like when it it was like point five,
- 1:15:53Speaker 3: like I was just there out of this or that
- 1:15:55Speaker 3: vocal and like some bass or something. But but he
- 1:15:58Speaker 3: had everybody play like their un least records and I
- 1:16:00Speaker 3: played on some of my first album as like demos,
- 1:16:04Speaker 3: and Todd was like, yo, you really You're really tight,
- 1:16:07Speaker 3: you know as an artist, he was like man and
- 1:16:09Speaker 3: he was originally trying to record one of the songs
- 1:16:12Speaker 3: that I had, but I was like, nah, I want
- 1:16:13Speaker 3: you to feature on it. And over the years we
- 1:16:16Speaker 3: became really good friends. I was working with him a
- 1:16:17Speaker 3: lot and just kind of developed into a into a
- 1:16:20Speaker 3: whole situation with Sean Baron. Sean Barron is the guy
- 1:16:23Speaker 3: who officially like put it all together with Easy Money
- 1:16:26Speaker 3: in Motown.
- 1:16:27Speaker 18: Is it tough navigating because people are getting to know
- 1:16:30Speaker 18: you now and everybody's fall in love with your music now,
- 1:16:32Speaker 18: and like you have such a close association with Drake,
- 1:16:34Speaker 18: you have to like pick and choose where you go
- 1:16:36Speaker 18: musically and what you do musically with.
- 1:16:37Speaker 2: Who you know.
- 1:16:38Speaker 4: Honestly, can you work with Kendrick Lamar if you want to? Yeah?
- 1:16:42Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I know that's what she's asking. I mean,
- 1:16:43Speaker 3: the way, the way I really look at it is
- 1:16:45Speaker 3: just like on a political level, I make R and B.
- 1:16:48Speaker 3: You know, obviously I make hip hop too, but I'm
- 1:16:51Speaker 3: really focused on my artist journey. So I mean, Kendrick
- 1:16:54Speaker 3: is such a huge artist. I don't really foresee us
- 1:16:56Speaker 3: working together in the near future. And even with Drake.
- 1:17:00Speaker 3: You know, I still want to take my steps to
- 1:17:02Speaker 3: really build on my own two feet as an artist.
- 1:17:04Speaker 3: So I'm doing what i have to do right now
- 1:17:06Speaker 3: to really like grow my own business. Touring is a
- 1:17:09Speaker 3: big thing for me. I'm really focused on that. I'm
- 1:17:11Speaker 3: hitting the road all this year and working on more records.
- 1:17:14Speaker 3: So I mean shout out to everybody, but but I'm
- 1:17:17Speaker 3: definitely focused on me.
- 1:17:18Speaker 1: How old were you when you realize Vibes Don't Lie?
- 1:17:20Speaker 1: One of my favorite records, When you first realized Vibes
- 1:17:24Speaker 1: Don't Lie?
- 1:17:26Speaker 2: I think that was that was definitely early twenties.
- 1:17:29Speaker 3: I think uh LA is filled with facades and people
- 1:17:33Speaker 3: who are pretending to be something they aren't, people who
- 1:17:36Speaker 3: move from their hometown and create a whole new persona.
- 1:17:39Speaker 3: So I think for me, just really studying folks, especially
- 1:17:42Speaker 3: a lot of the women you deal without their you know,
- 1:17:44Speaker 3: it's really important to study their actions and not their words.
- 1:17:47Speaker 14: I love the fact that you are encouraging women women
- 1:17:50Speaker 14: to keep their healthy Yes, did you ever want to
- 1:17:54Speaker 14: be a gun of collusest?
- 1:17:55Speaker 7: No?
- 1:17:58Speaker 6: No, no, no, it wasn't on the list.
- 1:18:00Speaker 2: Listen, Yeah, I just listen. I just listen. Man, They
- 1:18:03Speaker 2: tell you like, Hey, I'm feeling the best of this.
- 1:18:06Speaker 7: No.
- 1:18:06Speaker 2: I mean, I just think pH balance is a conversation
- 1:18:08Speaker 2: and you know, I just listen.
- 1:18:14Speaker 14: You was very very specific. She said, uh, she only
- 1:18:18Speaker 14: drink water. She keep that healthy.
- 1:18:21Speaker 18: They said on Twitter, you'd be talking crazy like that,
- 1:18:23Speaker 18: but you sing it, so people can't be you had
- 1:18:26Speaker 18: that conversation in real life, which your home.
- 1:18:28Speaker 16: Like you're not your homegrow.
- 1:18:31Speaker 3: I'm just big on shock value. I think songs, especially
- 1:18:33Speaker 3: R and B songs, have gotten a bit not boring.
- 1:18:36Speaker 3: But I think we've we've kind of already hit the
- 1:18:38Speaker 3: the golden era of R and B. So I'm just
- 1:18:40Speaker 3: finding new ways to make people's ears, you know, perk
- 1:18:43Speaker 3: up and their minds move. I think social media and
- 1:18:47Speaker 3: podcasts are really interesting to me. You know, these phone
- 1:18:50Speaker 3: mics bring out so many conversations, and I think as
- 1:18:53Speaker 3: an R and B artist, I want to find ways
- 1:18:55Speaker 3: to let that live on the record, and it doesn't
- 1:18:58Speaker 3: always have to be like verbating of what I'm going
- 1:19:00Speaker 3: through in real life.
- 1:19:02Speaker 2: I think it's important to create the drama.
- 1:19:04Speaker 1: You know.
- 1:19:04Speaker 3: I kind of see music as you know, scripting the score.
- 1:19:08Speaker 3: So sometimes the records are just like really good dramatizations
- 1:19:11Speaker 3: of like what I'm seeing.
- 1:19:15Speaker 2: You never think everybody?
- 1:19:16Speaker 16: But but like, why does that go for you?
- 1:19:19Speaker 7: Now?
- 1:19:20Speaker 2: I mean I don't think. I don't think it's now.
- 1:19:22Speaker 18: Expecting you to be like, all right, here's the check,
- 1:19:24Speaker 18: Like how do you because you got the songs?
- 1:19:26Speaker 3: Like yeah, yeah, you know, I definitely got the songs.
- 1:19:28Speaker 3: But I think it's just important to be honest with
- 1:19:30Speaker 3: your partner, you know, communicate. But but I think it's
- 1:19:33Speaker 3: it's a it's a pretty interesting conversation. I try to
- 1:19:36Speaker 3: stay out of if I don't have to. You know what, No,
- 1:19:39Speaker 3: I don't even know what that is you putting me
- 1:19:42Speaker 3: right now?
- 1:19:44Speaker 2: Test a little bit, a.
- 1:19:46Speaker 1: Little wax on it, a little pinky, put the pinky
- 1:19:49Speaker 1: inside of hold on what you got something?
- 1:19:54Speaker 2: It should be. I don't know where that is nothing
- 1:20:03Speaker 2: that South Carolina the road thing that they do. It doesn't.
- 1:20:07Speaker 2: I do not try that.
- 1:20:09Speaker 16: That doesn't Your mom never told you you got to
- 1:20:13Speaker 16: make it.
- 1:20:13Speaker 4: Go drink gingerrels talking.
- 1:20:15Speaker 16: About people everything, not earwax. Don't listen to him.
- 1:20:27Speaker 8: That's what.
- 1:20:30Speaker 2: It's crazy.
- 1:20:30Speaker 16: Macarmo used to be like, go get some ginger and
- 1:20:32Speaker 16: lay down.
- 1:20:33Speaker 2: Wow about we love gingerrel around here.
- 1:20:39Speaker 4: Did your therapist really tell you that you're too detached
- 1:20:42Speaker 4: or that you don't commit?
- 1:20:45Speaker 5: Nah?
- 1:20:46Speaker 3: I think I think you know that bar for me.
- 1:20:49Speaker 3: I have a colt writer, Busy Cruk, and he lives
- 1:20:52Speaker 3: in Miami, great rapper. That was a bar that came
- 1:20:54Speaker 3: from him. He's very deep into therapy. But I'm glad
- 1:20:57Speaker 3: that we talked about it on record because I mean
- 1:20:59Speaker 3: it's something I definitely did try out over the pandemic
- 1:21:02Speaker 3: and it's something that I actually really respect you a
- 1:21:04Speaker 3: lot for a champion and.
- 1:21:05Speaker 2: You know, but but but yeah, that was a that
- 1:21:07Speaker 2: was a bar from Busy. But I thought it was
- 1:21:09Speaker 2: important to add in there.
- 1:21:10Speaker 16: You know, don't try to blame Busy now.
- 1:21:12Speaker 6: Nah.
- 1:21:12Speaker 2: I mean, you know that's my code, Roger. You know,
- 1:21:16Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.
- 1:21:16Speaker 3: Like, we we write a lot of our songs together,
- 1:21:19Speaker 3: and I really respect a lot of the perspectives he
- 1:21:21Speaker 3: brings to a lot of my poignant records.
- 1:21:23Speaker 2: You know, you have some great bars for dancing with.
- 1:21:27Speaker 18: When I listened to Dancing with the Demons, do you
- 1:21:29Speaker 18: ever get like Miguel references sometimes?
- 1:21:31Speaker 2: Absolutely, I'm like.
- 1:21:33Speaker 16: Oh my gosh, Like I wonder if like that, Like,
- 1:21:36Speaker 16: are y'all do you know him?
- 1:21:37Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 1:21:37Speaker 3: Yeah, that's like my big bro. We actually did a
- 1:21:39Speaker 3: movie together. He was in Detroit when I had to
- 1:21:41Speaker 3: cut my hair for he was. He was an amazing,
- 1:21:45Speaker 3: amazing mentor for me for some years. You know that
- 1:21:48Speaker 3: bridge between R and B and rock and roll, He's
- 1:21:51Speaker 3: traveled across that bridge many a time. I definitely look
- 1:21:54Speaker 3: up to him when it comes to that. And you know,
- 1:21:56Speaker 3: for me, because I played multiple instruments, you know, I
- 1:21:59Speaker 3: definitely try to just embody a lot of that energy.
- 1:22:02Speaker 3: But but I think we both have the same influences
- 1:22:04Speaker 3: as well.
- 1:22:05Speaker 14: I agree with Lauren on that Miguel to me before
- 1:22:08Speaker 14: you was the last great R and B male R
- 1:22:12Speaker 14: and B singer. To me, I'm just talk about the
- 1:22:14Speaker 14: new guys. You know the legend I'm talking about. He
- 1:22:17Speaker 14: was the last one to me. And I felt the
- 1:22:20Speaker 14: same way when I heard Dancer with the Demons. I
- 1:22:21Speaker 14: feel like I feel like you're talking to yourself on
- 1:22:23Speaker 14: that record. Though you said you can't seem to save yourself,
- 1:22:25Speaker 14: never learn to ask for help going out all night
- 1:22:28Speaker 14: searching for a feeling. So so what what what have
- 1:22:32Speaker 14: you learned to ask for.
- 1:22:33Speaker 16: Help and so what I thought, I took it as
- 1:22:36Speaker 16: it wasn't talking about a woman.
- 1:22:37Speaker 2: Point.
- 1:22:38Speaker 3: Well, I mean it's interesting for me, like that record.
- 1:22:41Speaker 3: When I wrote it, I wrote it in two different days.
- 1:22:44Speaker 3: The first day I was you know, micro dosan on shrooms,
- 1:22:47Speaker 3: so it's a bit of a haze. The next day
- 1:22:49Speaker 3: I listened to it and I was like, man, this
- 1:22:50Speaker 3: is really poignant stuff. I mean, it's just really talking
- 1:22:53Speaker 3: about being up all night and searching for a feeling,
- 1:22:55Speaker 3: and it's trying to fill voids. I feel like, as uh,
- 1:22:58Speaker 3: you know, when you're in your single journey, you can
- 1:23:01Speaker 3: you can try to fill a void with a with
- 1:23:03Speaker 3: a stranger and that's not always very healthy.
- 1:23:06Speaker 2: And it could be fun.
- 1:23:07Speaker 3: It could be fun, for sure, But but but and
- 1:23:10Speaker 3: then especially when you're when you're in the limelight. The
- 1:23:13Speaker 3: second verse is more so talking about being in the
- 1:23:15Speaker 3: limelight and trying to fill voice. Nobody really talks about
- 1:23:18Speaker 3: the darkness that comes with the flashing lights. And yeah,
- 1:23:22Speaker 3: that that that record was very deep and very personal
- 1:23:24Speaker 3: for me. You know, I'm glad that people resonate with it.
- 1:23:26Speaker 13: Now you talk about Micaro Dosin on shrooms, but what
- 1:23:29Speaker 13: does that put your mind and do you always do
- 1:23:31Speaker 13: that to produce and write?
- 1:23:32Speaker 7: Nah?
- 1:23:32Speaker 3: Nah, I mean I think I think for this this album,
- 1:23:35Speaker 3: it was an interesting opportunity to to kind of unplug.
- 1:23:38Speaker 3: I mean, I wasn't doing as many shows around that
- 1:23:41Speaker 3: time too, so it was really helpful to to kind
- 1:23:43Speaker 3: of just get into my own head and try to
- 1:23:45Speaker 3: figure out who I am, you know. I I I
- 1:23:47Speaker 3: definitely did a lot of manifest and a lot of
- 1:23:49Speaker 3: just like writing down who I wanted to be as
- 1:23:52Speaker 3: a human being around that time, a lot of journaling,
- 1:23:55Speaker 3: you know, and looking back at that season in my life,
- 1:23:58Speaker 3: it was it was a journey for me to evolve
- 1:24:00Speaker 3: into who I am right now. I wouldn't suggest people
- 1:24:03Speaker 3: just go super crazy on shrooms or anything, but I
- 1:24:06Speaker 3: think microdosing, you know, a small amount, could be healthy
- 1:24:09Speaker 3: if you're trying to just find yourself, you know.
- 1:24:11Speaker 2: And at the time, I was trying to find myself,
- 1:24:13Speaker 2: you know, micro do.
- 1:24:15Speaker 16: You said you were trying to find yourself. Did you
- 1:24:17Speaker 16: find yourself?
- 1:24:18Speaker 6: Yeah?
- 1:24:18Speaker 3: But I mean I feel like that's a constant journey.
- 1:24:19Speaker 3: That's like the whole part of finding yourself. You realize
- 1:24:22Speaker 3: it it never stops because we're always evolving, you know,
- 1:24:26Speaker 3: but it's it's great that I was able to do
- 1:24:28Speaker 3: it through music that that that was like a version
- 1:24:30Speaker 3: of musical therapy for me, And I'm glad that people
- 1:24:32Speaker 3: are resonating with it.
- 1:24:33Speaker 7: You know.
- 1:24:33Speaker 4: I love how you're normalizing dogs on but I'm not
- 1:24:36Speaker 4: a dog anymore.
- 1:24:37Speaker 14: There is a young, unhealed version of me that would
- 1:24:40Speaker 14: have really appreciated that that record, because you make it
- 1:24:43Speaker 14: sound so fun. It's almost like women are just gonna
- 1:24:47Speaker 14: bring you in, like, oh, let me domesticate you.
- 1:24:51Speaker 1: Nah.
- 1:24:52Speaker 3: I mean I was really just documenting what I saw,
- 1:24:55Speaker 3: but nah, nah nah, it's definitely.
- 1:24:58Speaker 2: Its definitely talks to me.
- 1:25:04Speaker 3: Post you know, post breakup, where where I just had
- 1:25:07Speaker 3: to I just had to figure it out. But I
- 1:25:09Speaker 3: think that's all a part of living, you know, you
- 1:25:11Speaker 3: get nervous though. This is a post breakup album. Yeah,
- 1:25:15Speaker 3: this is a post breakup album. So this is me documenting,
- 1:25:18Speaker 3: you know, finding myself first off, like you know, you
- 1:25:21Speaker 3: you're you're kind of broken after that, and then you
- 1:25:22Speaker 3: got to you gotta put the pieces back together.
- 1:25:24Speaker 2: Her fault, Yes, No, it's not her fault.
- 1:25:27Speaker 1: It's it's her fault that you ended up being a dog,
- 1:25:30Speaker 1: you went through your own I think it's very commendable
- 1:25:35Speaker 1: to that. On the song safe place, you let the
- 1:25:38Speaker 1: person you're dealing with, no, this isn't a safe place.
- 1:25:40Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean I think knowing that I wasn't
- 1:25:44Speaker 3: necessarily ready to settle down. I think that conversation definitely
- 1:25:47Speaker 3: came up a lot during I guess you would call
- 1:25:49Speaker 3: them all face you know, just understanding like, yo, I'm
- 1:25:51Speaker 3: I'm not trying to settle down. This is a this
- 1:25:53Speaker 3: is a fun place, you know. This is a a
- 1:25:56Speaker 3: time period where I'm just figuring me out. Work is crazy,
- 1:25:58Speaker 3: it's ecnic, you know, And I think having that conversation
- 1:26:01Speaker 3: was important to, like you said, just avoid people not
- 1:26:05Speaker 3: understanding what it was at the time.
- 1:26:07Speaker 13: That's a personal because you're honest in music. But it's
- 1:26:09Speaker 13: difficult to be face to face with somebody and be
- 1:26:11Speaker 13: like it's very this is very difficult.
- 1:26:14Speaker 7: You know.
- 1:26:14Speaker 3: I really try my best to be as honest as
- 1:26:16Speaker 3: I can, but yeah, those are hard conversations, man. You know,
- 1:26:18Speaker 3: I can't sit here and say I've always done it
- 1:26:21Speaker 3: right or I'm perfect or anything. But I try I
- 1:26:24Speaker 3: try to be like real, you know, I try to
- 1:26:26Speaker 3: explain myself. But even when you explain yourself, sometimes wires
- 1:26:29Speaker 3: get crossed, you know. So I'm packing it and communicating,
- 1:26:32Speaker 3: you know, it's an important thing later on.
- 1:26:34Speaker 6: No woman want to hear that.
- 1:26:35Speaker 4: She just lets you hit wrong.
- 1:26:36Speaker 18: Yeah, it's it's yeah, it's not as a woman ever
- 1:26:39Speaker 18: said that to you when you were trying to like create,
- 1:26:41Speaker 18: like all right, maybe this is like a thing and
- 1:26:43Speaker 18: she's like, yo, I.
- 1:26:45Speaker 2: Don't want to do that.
- 1:26:47Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 1:26:47Speaker 3: Actually yeah yeah. In my in my early twenties, I
- 1:26:50Speaker 3: was talking to this amazing artist. Uh and yeah she
- 1:26:53Speaker 3: was just like listen baby, the same safe place kind
- 1:26:56Speaker 3: of thing.
- 1:26:56Speaker 2: You know, anybody know that. She's like, no, no, no,
- 1:26:59Speaker 2: I don't think you got it up a little bit.
- 1:27:01Speaker 2: Yeah no, no no.
- 1:27:01Speaker 3: It was all good for me at that point. But yeah, yeah,
- 1:27:09Speaker 3: you know, it was definitely you know, it was definitely
- 1:27:12Speaker 3: a realization for me. I was like, oh, it can
- 1:27:14Speaker 3: happen on that side too. I was like twenty maybe twenty.
- 1:27:16Speaker 2: One, you know. Yeah, yeah, so I was like real
- 1:27:19Speaker 2: young green like, oh okay, alright, cool.
- 1:27:22Speaker 3: So you're all looking for a relationship now if the
- 1:27:24Speaker 3: right person, Yeah, yeah, I'm definitely I'm definitely.
- 1:27:26Speaker 2: In that mode.
- 1:27:27Speaker 6: Right now?
- 1:27:27Speaker 16: Are you would you date other like artists celebrities or
- 1:27:30Speaker 16: do you like, how does that work? Are you doing?
- 1:27:32Speaker 2: It's just hectic.
- 1:27:33Speaker 3: I mean, you're kind of inviting the media into your
- 1:27:36Speaker 3: life like the one safe place you have. But I mean,
- 1:27:39Speaker 3: who knows if I really catch a vibe with somebody
- 1:27:41Speaker 3: who happens to be fans. I mean, I don't really
- 1:27:43Speaker 3: care about that side of things. You know, I've been
- 1:27:45Speaker 3: in the game a long time. I've met some beautiful
- 1:27:47Speaker 3: women who are amazing artists. But it's just about the
- 1:27:49Speaker 3: human being and it can be tough to to really
- 1:27:52Speaker 3: build something if both of your schedules are super hectic.
- 1:27:55Speaker 2: So I don't know.
- 1:27:56Speaker 14: I don't want to have a question two about another
- 1:27:59Speaker 14: record on far Fit. Yeah, you said, because he was
- 1:28:02Speaker 14: having a big conversation this week about Tricken Because you know,
- 1:28:03Speaker 14: Skip Bail is a legedly, Oh my god, for somebody
- 1:28:05Speaker 14: one point five million, and you say paid for my
- 1:28:08Speaker 14: mistakes and benes and diamonds two fifty fronted like you
- 1:28:11Speaker 14: was my autist. Five g's just across the Atlantic. We
- 1:28:14Speaker 14: sat in silence for almost two hours.
- 1:28:16Speaker 16: Yeah, that's a horrible BACA quarter million dollars.
- 1:28:18Speaker 4: Yeah, benzes and diamonds.
- 1:28:20Speaker 3: Well, listen, when I wrote that record, it was not
- 1:28:23Speaker 3: for me. That was not a joint that I was
- 1:28:26Speaker 3: originally gonna use for me. It was for somebody really
- 1:28:29Speaker 3: famous and really rich. But I just love the way
- 1:28:31Speaker 3: it sounded, and I was like, well, you know what,
- 1:28:33Speaker 3: I love to speak in a world where I can
- 1:28:34Speaker 3: actually afford that.
- 1:28:35Speaker 2: Why not let's manifest that.
- 1:28:37Speaker 1: No elucid dreams. You talk about your significant other leaving
- 1:28:40Speaker 1: things behind.
- 1:28:41Speaker 14: Yeah, that was That was a fun record with Maseego
- 1:28:43Speaker 14: after a breakup. Why do you think that the topic
- 1:28:45Speaker 14: is taboo?
- 1:28:45Speaker 3: I don't really consider it taboo necessarily, but I think
- 1:28:48Speaker 3: it's just like it's just funny because for me, I
- 1:28:51Speaker 3: was living with my ex for like a couple of years,
- 1:28:53Speaker 3: so she just had like a closet filled with clothes
- 1:28:56Speaker 3: at my crib and it had been like a year
- 1:28:58Speaker 3: and a half since we were broken up. Uh, So
- 1:29:00Speaker 3: we were in the studio talking about different things.
- 1:29:03Speaker 6: Uh.
- 1:29:03Speaker 3: The guitarist and producer on that song Freaky Rob his
- 1:29:06Speaker 3: girl left a flat screen at the house that he
- 1:29:10Speaker 3: had to use to watch Netflix. He was like, man,
- 1:29:12Speaker 3: when is she gonna take this flat screen? And uh,
- 1:29:14Speaker 3: you know, Masago also had a similar situation like that
- 1:29:17Speaker 3: at his crib with the couch. So we were all
- 1:29:19Speaker 3: just kind of using all of our different experiences putting
- 1:29:22Speaker 3: it into a song and you know, just locking it in.
- 1:29:24Speaker 4: It's different when it's closed.
- 1:29:25Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 1:29:26Speaker 3: Did you clear you cleared out the class Yeah, definitely
- 1:29:28Speaker 3: clears out the h Yeah, clear.
- 1:29:29Speaker 2: Out the closet.
- 1:29:30Speaker 16: Did you move out of the apartment or you just
- 1:29:31Speaker 16: cleared out the closing.
- 1:29:32Speaker 2: Nah, I'm still at the crib, you know what I mean,
- 1:29:34Speaker 2: still at the crib.
- 1:29:35Speaker 3: You know, there's definitely a certain interior design choices I'm
- 1:29:38Speaker 3: gonna switch up, so but it's like real reason Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 1:29:42Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:29:43Speaker 15: The album is out right now. Make sure you pick
- 1:29:45Speaker 15: it up. And we appreciate you.
- 1:29:46Speaker 2: For joining us. Thank you so much for having me man,
- 1:29:48Speaker 2: it's a big opportunity. Thank you so much.
- 1:29:50Speaker 13: It's Leon Thomas the album What is out now and
- 1:29:52Speaker 13: it's The Breakfast Club. Good Morning Warning, Everybody's team Jay
- 1:29:56Speaker 13: and v Jesse, Larry Challaman, the guy we are The
- 1:29:58Speaker 13: Breakfast Club's time to get about.
- 1:30:00Speaker 2: They show them and you get a positive note down.
- 1:30:01Speaker 14: A positive noteice simply this, I swear because we were
- 1:30:04Speaker 14: talking about this earlier, about not being able to say no.
- 1:30:06Speaker 14: We were talking about a glorilla when the girl walked
- 1:30:08Speaker 14: up to her asking her for money, you know, for
- 1:30:10Speaker 14: her tuition. Nothing has caused more problems for me and
- 1:30:13Speaker 14: my life than my inability to say no or turn
- 1:30:16Speaker 14: people down. Soft and empathetic nature cost you a lot.
- 1:30:20Speaker 14: Remember that and know is a complete sentence. Have a
- 1:30:22Speaker 14: blessed date?
- 1:30:23Speaker 4: Oh my god, Now I like that.
- 1:30:24Speaker 10: When drive a queen's bone for that? Because this man
- 1:30:27Speaker 10: is right, breakfast cup, you don't finish her, y'all dump