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Rabbi Moshe Haber Path of the Just-Divine Connection Through Expanded Mitzvah Performance 8.28.25 · Rabbi Moshe Haber - Daily Mussar/Weekly Perasha

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  So the idea is, is that he's telling us this constantly
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  becoming a Hasid means, I mean, a person does more than he feels
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  like he has to. And the reason he does so is
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  because he does perform miss foot.
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  I have love and the constant of love over here in this, in this
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  context is is that a person or in their love with someone, they
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  try to find ways to make that person happy.
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  They think about you know what maybe they can get them even
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  though they're so and so didn't ask.
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  They think about how they can surprise them.
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  How can they do more than demanded.
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  That's the concept that comes out of love.
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  That's how it works. You find out what they need,
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  what they want, and you get it to them and surprise and that's
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  all the concept of love colors by The Who in a similar vein,
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  that's the idea a person's a hassir is someone who's trying
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  to find different ways to make to be make God happy.
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  Basically Shaw Hashem how much she loves and that mindset will
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  bring out hey, I want to make God happy I want to do extra I
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  want to do this I think God would like that I don't want to
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  do that. I think I shall not like that
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  and in my mind, whenever I'm doing this, I'm not simply doing
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  them because I have to, I'm rather doing them because I like
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  to and I feel the connection and that brings out a CERN driver
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  and a CERN motivation to do more.
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  Know what that means exactly of the seat I'm.
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  Like but I have to have to. Say yeah, yeah.
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  Definitely. We haven't been smart to love a
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  chef. His point is Adam that love
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  should develop interest, should inspire us and bring us to to do
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  more. I see the words inside.
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  OK, so the overall was stopping his words.
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  Someone loves our shame. This all plays out.
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  Come get a minute true love he got with me.
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  Suva or vima teena love mitzvot, a shed savim kaluyima.
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  Something that good about all right to him it's what are to
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  him even the it's what that we do all will of Hashem.
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  There's a big concept over here that when a person does even if
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  it's what they have to do. Are they doing them because they
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  have to or are they doing so because that's what Hashem wants
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  a dodge and I wouldn't tell it so no, they have told the
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  production more by Hashem giving us it's what besides like this
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  person is extra by Hashem giving this term.
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  It's what you have a structure of what God likes.
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  God clearly likes Hasse. Karl Ker likes being nice.
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  Karl Kerr likes character, but someone clearly appreciates to
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  our learning. He's the things that Hashem
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  wants. And because you know what he
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  wants from his mitzvah, you do more of it.
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  You go almost to even though we never really delve into the
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  reason behind mitzvah. We don't do Dahmer mitzvah with
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  reasoning, but we do take away from Hashem mitzvah what Hashem
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  appreciates. And I want to do more of that
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  act. I'm not going to hit the core
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  and skip the mitzvah. That's how I go to only tap into
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  the reason, not to the reality, but I am going to do more
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  actions that are related to Hashem's will.
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  I was lawyer Madali the Mashamumi faroosh.
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  The person won't say OK, it says that's for example, Vegita Bo
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  your Mama Leila. A person has to learn your Mama
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  Leila. What does it mean?
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  Send me your Mama Leila learn day and night, day and night.
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  So that could either mean learn all day and all night, or it can
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  mean all night today, right? Same thing.
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  Or it can mean exactly, or it can mean fill your quota, half
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  hour in the morning, half hour at night.
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  But worse than that, a drop in the morning, drop at night.
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  And the government, I hold even these opinions that go extremely
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  small to define those words Your Mama Leila.
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  One opinion says maybe even Shema does the trick saying
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  Shema is fulfilling the bazook. So the same bus.
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  So your Mama Lila can mean as we always know what they mean all
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  day and all night, or it can mean 1/2 hour, 20 minutes, 10
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  minutes, or part of my Tefila. What's the difference?
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  The difference? If I'm checking the box, I'm
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  going to find the smallest amount.
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  If I like doing Hashem likes, I know the God appreciate sort of
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  learning. I'm pretty clear everything he
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  tells us and everything that we see and everything that we read
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  indicates that Toronto learning is a valuable thing.
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  Hashem's eyes. So I like to do more of it.
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  Even if I have an excuse to get out of it, I still like to do
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  more of it. And I was bi.
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  My nephew's running the other night and his uncle, thank you.
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  I mean his uncle, You're there for how many hours to go to your
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  niece and nephew running? 4 hours.
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  And I'm staying there saying to myself, wow, beautiful thing.
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  Great, wonderful to be here. I really waste some of my time.
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  There's no reason I mean, to be sitting around.
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  I'm trying to, you know, socialize.
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  I'm not dancing more than 10 minutes.
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  I don't dance anymore. All right, My, my, my wife is
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  here. And then she had to go back,
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  'cause they're a baby. Anyhow, like, why am I here?
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  That's something to myself. You know, those people who find
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  a way to learn during these type of events.
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  I used to look at them cross eyes.
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  I used to say the guy comes with the book, you know, not my type.
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  OK, It's still not my type. I'm not a big book by the table
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  guy. I'm not a big guy walking around
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  with AC dude. We're a Sanford, a little place
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  guy in the body events 'cause it doesn't look right.
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  But I am finding out. I did find out.
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  And if I really wanted to learn, I could have easily snuck out of
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  her hair. California minutes, pockets of
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  time I wasn't missing. There was no moment.
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  The Hoopala was the moment. The going away is the moment.
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  Beyond that, a lot of people doing a lot of dancing and a
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  dark room. I don't.
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  Want to So I would say your mom Vidalia is everything you do is
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  Torad in the background like as let's say your brother gave the
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  speech he went bowling and he's figuring out when he's looking
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  at bowling how to worship God better from doing that.
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  So the same thing you're at a wedding.
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  You can speak to people, you understand more people, you talk
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  to people and it gives you a better, you know good that it
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  helps you. That's something, yes, that is
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  definitely something. Utilizing everything.
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  Translate everything into Torah related things. 100% that's
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  true. And it's glad you just stuck in
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  the book because Toradah is not in the book.
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  No. So for you it's actually living
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  the Torah. Yolanda, that means in
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  everything you do, you don't just sit in the book and just
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  learn all day. I understand to be out there.
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  Oh. Definitely this combination of
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  both, but the book is definitely the.
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  I'm saying not only. Learning right, what I'm saying.
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  So yeah, it's true Yolanda can be across the board and it's
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  true it can apply to translate any problem and I ain't the
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  Yolanda as well. But there's also the core of the
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  actual learning itself that they can be done.
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  Moreover, less of that's how much you're interested in it.
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  Oh, I'm interested and I realized that you mean you have
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  we have to strengthen our drive, whether you strengthen our
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  interest in something and when we do, more will come out.
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  But it's definitely true that the entire life can be same
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  thing, by the way, everything you're doing can be I'm doing it
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  for the sake of love Hashem or I'm not.
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  And it all comes back to what does God want?
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  You know, if God wants this, I want to do more of it.
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  He doesn't like it. I like to do less of it.
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  And Hazid creates his entire structure and his life based on
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  that. We all have to do.
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  We have to do that for sure. And then we all have areas that
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  we can do more. And this person knows what that
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  is based on, what Shank's will is.
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  Once I found and I realized the God's will is interested in
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  certain things, it'll be my God to to expand this concept to
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  expand these areas of my life. Any way I can't show haladun.
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  Any area that I can figure out that Hashem wants was a Hanukkah
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  or set Nahuat rockley. So this is the definition of the
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  words someone's feeling God's will.
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  He's already mean, he doesn't support, of course.
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  No, he's hitting the spots Hashem likes.
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  But this is the core concept. Nemtzah.
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  Turns out, koala hassidut, the rule of being a hassid means
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  alkhavat to expand kyung koala mitzvot, performance of Alder
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  mitzvot, berhola seddin matenaim shereen.
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  Any way, any method that you can do more in a way that you see,
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  Hashem wants us, That's a hassid.
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  It is not doing extremes. No, it's not.
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  It's rather doing more of the same, more of learning, more of
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  hesed, more of hesu, more of tefillah, more of the same in a
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  way that you sense. I know God likes this.
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  I know I'm not doing anything wrong with this.
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  I know I'm not taking anyone off.
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  I'm not going my mind to an extreme place.
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  Then I'm staying normal. I'm doing more good while I'm
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  normal. That's a real Hasid and that's
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  person who actually develops because the more time you put
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  into good and things that God appreciate is good, guaranteed
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  the more you're shy you're going to be, the more developed you're
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  going to be because you're doing more godly stuff at that time.
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  If you go to extremes for the sake of Hasidut you're running
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  the great risk extremes. I mean starving yourself McVeigh
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  every minute all these things you're running the great risk of
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  doing external stuff and in the process not really you know they
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  may be actually you think are based on God's concepts purity,
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  you know control these concepts be a very possibly especially in
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  a healthy and unhealthy way at present is very possibly doing
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  other things not related to Hashem.
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  When they do that when they pull to the extremes and very
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  possibly being busy with those things and not really being busy
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  with Hashem when you repeat what God wants, just doing more of it
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  like learning, praying to the OR even spend time with your
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  family. Not even that as well.
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  All these different areas, if you do more of them more than
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  for the right reason, because you know God likes us, then
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  you're going to develop and expand yourself and just
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  becoming more of yourself, more of the better version of
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  yourself. OK, I'm not just simply going to
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  check in and check out and anything I do, I'm going to do
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  it with fervor, with love, with extra time, with focus, with
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  interest. That'll develop your extra time.
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  That's a concede. But we have the batik human, and
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  if you ever go to it, they go to the sunrise, to the second, to
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  the this, to the that, not even focusing on prayer because what?
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  It's true. So they're running their risk.
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  Now those who do it right, of course they are running the same
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  risk 100%. Now the the key is unique
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  because with the key in the, the camera does say, and it's one of
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  those months if you like, which means in a certain sense, but
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  the key is not an extra. It's considered this man.
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  And there are backups, man. So it's a little bit trickier.
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  Yeah, but they're like on their watch.
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  And the Mona, yes, I've seen that.
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  You know, I definitely. To buy fast enough, did we not?
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  I've seen stops, I've seen the stopwatch I've seen.
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  I always had the same question, does God really care?
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  But yes, it is definitely says that the time itself is a thing.
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  But there definitely is a is a good example of all of a person
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  being busy with certain item and possibly taking away from the
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  beauty of this hot. And how do you find the fine
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  line that's case by case. Veneto air turns out Shah razdut
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  mamina patient being a gazini related to being someone who's
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  who controls himself. Alecia prasud belavin vah
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  hasslut vahsin is a key point. The same way a paresh is someone
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  who says, you know what, I don't eat that much, but I make sure
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  they're soft to have soft control.
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  When I eat all that stuff, it's a guy who's controlling himself
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  for the sake of our shin. A hasid is someone who's saying
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  the opposite comes to it's what's coming to me.
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  It's what I said to do I do I want to do a little more.
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  A Paresh means I control myself. I'm going to control myself a
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  little more. A Hasid I'm going to do, I'm
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  going to do a little more. And that mindset is a very
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  positive, driven, pushing, good, beautiful developmental mindset.
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  That's a that's a Hassid Shneham and Yannekhat both the same idea
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  to Hassif to aid, but not in a way of adding extremes, rather
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  in doing more of the same in a more beautiful way and therefore
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  developing yourself greater. That's his time.
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  What's time for this?