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The House in the Middle of the Forest – Conversation 12 | Part III: Why We Open the Windows · PAMOJA PODCAST | PAMOJA MINISTRY, A LIFE OF CHRIST INTERNATIONAL MINISTRIES

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  Welcome to Pamoja Podcast, a ministry of Life
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  of Christ International Ministries, the place
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  where stronger lives are built, faith is strengthened,
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  hearts are encouraged, and Christ -centered homes
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  are shaped through ordinary conversations that
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  become extraordinary encounters with God's truth.
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  One conversation, one story, one revelation at
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  a time. In our previous conversations, we discovered
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  that every house has windows. We learned that
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  houses rarely collapse because of the storms
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  outside. They collapse because of what is allowed
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  to enter. Then we met the traveler. He never
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  forced the door open. He was welcomed. He left,
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  but his voice remained. Today, I want to ask
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  a different question, one that may be uncomfortable,
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  one that every husband and wife Every believer
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  and every family should honestly answer Why do
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  we open the windows because if we never answer
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  that question? We'll spend our lives repairing
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  broken glass Without ever understanding why it
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  keeps breaking I've never met a couple who stood
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  before the altar saying one day will destroy
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  this marriage I've never met a believer who woke
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  up saying today. I want to drift away from God
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  It doesn't happen that way. People don't usually
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  choose destruction. They choose relief. They
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  choose comfort. They choose understanding. They
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  choose attention. They choose escape. And somewhere
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  along the way, the window opens. Think about
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  it. A person doesn't usually begin an inappropriate
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  relationship because they wanted adultery. Many
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  begin because they wanted someone to listen.
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  Someone to understand. Someone to notice them.
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  The relationship wasn't the first step. The unmet
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  need was. The enemy simply found an open window.
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  Sometimes, the window opens because of disappointment.
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  Something happened inside the house. A promise
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  was broken. Words were spoken. Trust was damaged.
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  Instead of bringing the pain into the light,
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  we quietly carry it. Then someone else notices.
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  Someone asks, are you okay? And because our heart
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  has been waiting to be heard, we begin speaking,
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  not realizing that every conversation is opening
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  the window a little wider. Sometimes the window
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  opens through comparison. You look at another
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  marriage, another family, another ministry, another
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  life. Social media becomes a gallery of everyone's
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  highlights while you're living through your ordinary
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  Tuesday Comparison whispers you deserve better
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  You settled you're missing out. It doesn't shout
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  it suggests and Suggestions have started many
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  storms Sometimes we open the window because we're
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  tired spiritually tired emotionally tired physically
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  tired This is why Jesus invited the weary to
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  come to him. Not because weariness is sin, but
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  because weariness makes us vulnerable. A tired
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  guard is more likely to leave the gate unattended.
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  I've also learned that loneliness is dangerous,
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  not because being alone is sinful. Jesus often
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  withdrew to lonely places to pray, but there
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  is a difference between solitude with God and
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  isolation without him. Isolation begins convincing
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  us that no one understands us. Then the first
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  person who seems to understand us becomes unusually
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  important. Again, the enemy didn't create the
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  loneliness. He simply stood near the window,
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  waiting. This reminds me of King David. Many
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  people say David fell because of Bathsheba. I
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  don't think that's where it began. The Bible
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  says, in the spring, at the time when kings go
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  off to war, David remained in Jerusalem. The
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  first window opened before he ever saw Bathsheba.
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  He was somewhere he wasn't supposed to be. One
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  decision. One evening. One rooftop. One glance.
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  One conversation. One family forever changed.
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  Windows are rarely opened all at once. They are
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  opened inch by inch. Perhaps you're listening
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  today and you recognize yourself somewhere in
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  this conversation. Maybe your window is an immorality.
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  Maybe it's resentment. Maybe you've been replaying
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  the same offense for years. Maybe you've quietly
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  withdrawn from your spouse. Maybe comparison
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  has stolen your gratitude. Maybe disappointment
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  has convinced you that no one cares. If that's
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  you, don't feel condemned. Feel invited. Because
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  Jesus doesn't merely point out the open window.
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  He walks into the room to help you close it.
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  One of the most beautiful truths in scripture
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  is this. God never asks us to pretend the window
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  isn't broken. He asks us to bring it to Him.
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  The grace of God doesn't ignore broken glass.
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  It restores it. So before we talk about which
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  windows need guarding, we must first understand
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  why we walk toward them. Because healing doesn't
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  begin with behavior. Healing begins in the heart.
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  Next time, we'll identify the specific windows
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  that most often threaten a covenant. The window
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  of words, the window of comparison, the window
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  of influence, the window of offense, the window
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  of secrecy, the window of entertainment. And
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  we'll discover that every window has one question
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  attached to it. What are you allowing to enter
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  your house? Until next time, remember this. People
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  rarely open windows because they hate their house.
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  They open them because something inside the house
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  is longing for relief. And when Christ becomes
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  the one who meets that deepest need, the windows
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  no longer become an escape. They become something
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  we gladly guard.