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The Silent Struggle of the Monufia Bride · Crime Night

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  Speaker 1: Imagine a quiet village street. It's the middle of the day,
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  Speaker 1: the air is heavy with the afternoon sun. Just a
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  Speaker 1: completely ordinary.
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  Speaker 2: Scene until it's not. Suddenly there's this tearing sound, the
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  Speaker 2: screech of a tuck Tuck's breaks locking up.
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  Speaker 1: And everyone's head turns. But what they see isn't a
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  Speaker 1: minor accident. A white sheet just wrapped around something tumbles
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  Speaker 1: from the back of the vehicle.
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  Speaker 2: It lands hard on the asphalt, and it's not luggage.
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  Speaker 2: It's it's a person, a young woman, Karima.
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  Speaker 1: The sheet comes undone, and all anyone can see is
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  Speaker 1: this blood soak nightgown. It's just a moment of absolute horror.
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  Speaker 2: Right the driver, the neighbors, they're frozen. Then two figures
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  Speaker 2: just scramble out of the tuik took, a man aiming
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  Speaker 2: and his.
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  Speaker 1: Mother, and they're panicked. They're trying to drag Karima's body,
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  Speaker 1: she's unconscious, obviously severely injured, back toward their house.
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  Speaker 2: They manage to get her inside and just slam the
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  Speaker 2: door shut. And when the neighbors rush over to see
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  Speaker 2: what's happened.
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  Speaker 1: The mother in law comes out and her response is
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  Speaker 1: just it's chilling. She says it's just a fight, but
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  Speaker 1: between a man and his wife, no one interferes and that.
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  Speaker 2: Moment, that horrifying public collapse, and that immediate, cold blooded
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  Speaker 2: cover up. That's the end of a four month story
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  Speaker 2: of escalating abuse.
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  Speaker 1: So in this deep dive, our mission is to trace
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  Speaker 1: how this happened, the control, the isolation, the social pressure
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  Speaker 1: that trapped her from the moment she was married.
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  Speaker 2: We need to dissect the strategy here. So to really
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  Speaker 2: understand that moment on the street, we have to go
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  Speaker 2: back five years, back to who Kareema was and the marriage.
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  Speaker 2: She thought she was gay.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, let's unpack this five years earlier.
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  Speaker 2: Kareema is just fifteen. She's living in a different village,
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  Speaker 2: and her family is where they're struggling financially. Her father's
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  Speaker 2: a carpenter, a good man, but always in debt.
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  Speaker 1: And Kareema, even as a teenager, she's pulling her weight.
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  Speaker 1: She worked for five years in a vegetable packing factory.
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  Speaker 2: Right and that salary was it was crucial. It helped
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  Speaker 2: with bills, It gave her a little independence. She was
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  Speaker 2: a key support for her family.
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  Speaker 1: That independence is so important. And then Aimon enters the picture.
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  Speaker 1: His real name was gamal, but he went by amen.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, he sees her when she's visiting a relative in
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  Speaker 2: his ville night. He's immediately interested, and he asks for an.
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  Speaker 1: Introduction, and he presents this perfect picture.
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  Speaker 2: Right, a perfect picture. He tells her family. He owns
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  Speaker 2: his home, he works as a heavy truck driver's assistant
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  Speaker 2: to babajoe, and this was the key. He swore he
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  Speaker 2: was clean, no smoking, no drugs, which.
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  Speaker 1: For her family, that was everything the promise of sobriety exactly.
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  Speaker 2: And his mother is there looking all sympathetic. She'd recently
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  Speaker 2: lost another son, so she's sort of played on that.
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  Speaker 1: But the red flags started immediately with the engagement itself.
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  Speaker 2: Immediately he demands a short engagement, and he insists she
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  Speaker 2: quit her factory job. His reason was, we don't have
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  Speaker 2: women who.
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  Speaker 1: Work, wow. And she complies.
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  Speaker 2: She complies. I mean, you have to remember, her father
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  Speaker 2: is going deep into debt at this exact moment, buying
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  Speaker 2: furniture appliances, all on installment plans for this wedding.
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  Speaker 1: So by quitting her job actually increasing the financial pressure
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  Speaker 1: on her own family right before she gets married, she's.
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  Speaker 2: Removing her only source of leverage, her only independence, and
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  Speaker 2: then came the next.
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  Speaker 1: Move, the engagement gold.
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  Speaker 2: Yep, the small amount of gold he himself had bought
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  Speaker 2: for her. He asks for it back, says he needs
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  Speaker 2: the money to get a Grade one professional driving license.
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  Speaker 1: And he promises to replease it of course, of.
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  Speaker 2: Course, with something much better after the wedding, so she
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  Speaker 2: hands it over. At this point, she has no job,
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  Speaker 2: no savings, no gold. The entire foundation is built on
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  Speaker 2: his promises.
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  Speaker 1: So fast forward to the wedding day and the photos
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  Speaker 1: from that day. They tell a.
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  Speaker 2: Story, they really do. In her solo pictures, Kareema is
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  Speaker 2: just beaming pure hope. But there's this one picture with.
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  Speaker 1: Her mother in law and the tension is obvious.
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  Speaker 2: It's written all over their faces. It's like they both
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  Speaker 2: know something terrible is.
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  Speaker 1: Coming, and it arrives on the wedding night.
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  Speaker 2: Immediately, the confinement starts that night. The mother in law
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  Speaker 2: doesn't just stay for dinner, she stays in the apartment
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  Speaker 2: until five am the next morning.
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  Speaker 1: Wait until five in the morning on their wedding night.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, yes, it's not about being rude. It's a power play.
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  Speaker 2: It sends a very clear message to Karema, you are
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  Speaker 2: not in charge here. I am.
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  Speaker 1: She's not a wife, she's the new subordinate in the house.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly, and that control turns physical almost instantly. After just
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  Speaker 2: one week of marriage, Kaarreema suffers severe bleeding from Amon's
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  Speaker 2: violent relations and.
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  Speaker 1: She's seriously injured. What happens.
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  Speaker 2: She's silent at first, but finally she tells them, and
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  Speaker 2: the mother in law just steps in. No doctor, no help.
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  Speaker 2: She tells Kareema to be tougher and dismisses it as
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  Speaker 2: just a little bleeding.
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  Speaker 1: So Kareema calls her family.
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  Speaker 2: She calls her mother. Her parents rush over, they see
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  Speaker 2: what's happening, and they take her home. They immediately start
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  Speaker 2: talking about.
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  Speaker 1: Divorce, but she doesn't do it.
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  Speaker 2: Why this is the trap. She's thinking about the debt
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  Speaker 2: her father took on all that furniture, and she's terrified
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  Speaker 2: of the shame of what people will say if she
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  Speaker 2: gets divorced after just one week.
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  Speaker 1: And you have to understand that phrase. What people will say,
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  Speaker 1: it's not just embarrassment. It's about her family's reputation, their
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  Speaker 1: honor in the community. It's a crushing weight, a weight.
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  Speaker 2: That Amon and his mother knew exactly how to use.
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  Speaker 2: They send community mediators to pressure her family, and in
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  Speaker 2: the end, Karreema agrees.
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  Speaker 1: To go back, but under a new set of rules.
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  Speaker 2: A terrifying new contract. Rule one, she's confined to the house,
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  Speaker 2: never to leave. Rule two, all calls must be on
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  Speaker 2: Aiman's phone on speaker so they can listen. And the
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  Speaker 2: third rule, she must never deny him intercourse, even if
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  Speaker 2: she's sick. Even if she's and the source says this dying,
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  Speaker 2: her body is no longer her own.
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  Speaker 1: A couple of months into this, she discovers she's pregnant.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, she's just entering her third month. You can just
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  Speaker 2: imagine the little flicker of hope that must have given
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  Speaker 2: her and her family. Maybe maybe the baby will change things.
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  Speaker 1: But it doesn't.
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  Speaker 2: It makes it worse. Her doctor tells her she needs
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  Speaker 2: complete rest, no physical intimacy, the pregnant.
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  Speaker 1: He is fragile, and the mother in law's reaction complete disregard.
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  Speaker 2: She forces Kareema to do heavy chores, cleaning rugs, washing
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  Speaker 2: the stairs. The control was more important than Kareema's life
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  Speaker 2: or the.
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  Speaker 1: Babies, and the meetings were getting worse.
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  Speaker 2: Constant, so loud the neighbors could hear her screaming. And
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  Speaker 2: this is when she confindes in her young aunt, and
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  Speaker 2: she reveals Amon's most specific threat.
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  Speaker 1: He told her he would throw her from the balcony.
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  Speaker 2: And claims she committed suicide.
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  Speaker 1: That's not a threat made in anger. That's premeditated. He's
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  Speaker 1: planning the cover up.
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  Speaker 2: He's planning the cover up. And she also confirms the
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  Speaker 2: truth about him, the clean man. He pretended to be
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  Speaker 2: a complete lie. He was an attic.
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  Speaker 1: So when Amon finds out she talked to her aunt,
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  Speaker 1: that's it.
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  Speaker 2: That's the last link to the outside world severed. He
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  Speaker 2: cuts off all communication, total isolation.
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  Speaker 1: And she makes one last visit to her parents. They
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  Speaker 1: see the bruises. Her father begs her to leave him.
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  Speaker 2: He insists, you have to divorce him now. But Kareema,
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  Speaker 2: she's still holding on to that tiny, fatal hope that
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  Speaker 2: the baby will fix everything. She says she has to
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  Speaker 2: endure it for her home, and.
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  Speaker 1: She goes back for the last time, which brings us
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  Speaker 1: back to that day noon. Aimon comes home early.
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  Speaker 2: A huge fight erupts. The neighbors hear the screaming again,
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  Speaker 2: just like they always do. The mother in law hears it,
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  Speaker 2: and again no one does anything, and then.
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  Speaker 1: It just stops. The screaming stops.
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  Speaker 2: Kareema has collapsed unconscious.
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  Speaker 1: This is when the panic sets in for them, right.
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  Speaker 2: Amon and his mother. They wrap her in that sheet.
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  Speaker 2: They need to get her out of the house dispose
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  Speaker 2: of the problem, which leads them to the Tuck Tuck
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  Speaker 2: and that horrible public discovery on the street.
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  Speaker 1: After they drag her back inside, they lock the door
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  Speaker 1: and the final stage of the cover up begins.
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  Speaker 2: They take her to the bathroom, They clean all the blood,
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  Speaker 2: They change your clothes. The plan is to make it.
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  Speaker 1: Look like an accident, and the mother in law goes
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  Speaker 1: to a local doctor and tries to get a burial permit.
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  Speaker 2: She pressures him, but this doctor, this is the one
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  Speaker 2: person who breaks the chain of complicity.
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  Speaker 1: He refuses.
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  Speaker 2: He sees the bruises, the wound us he knows this
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  Speaker 2: wasn't a fall. He realizes there's foul play, and he
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  Speaker 2: alerts the security forces.
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  Speaker 1: It's not until seven pm that Karama's mother gets.
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  Speaker 2: A call from a neighbor with the prepared lie Kareama
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  Speaker 2: fell down the stairs.
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  Speaker 1: They rush over, but all the phones are off. When
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  Speaker 1: they get there, the police are everywhere and they learn
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  Speaker 1: the truth. Their daughter died.
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  Speaker 2: At noon and the forensic report confirms everything. It directly
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  Speaker 2: contradicts the mother in law's story. It states Kareema was
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  Speaker 2: subjected to a brutal beating that caused acute circulatory failure.
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  Speaker 1: The cause of death was the assault period, and.
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  Speaker 2: It confirmed the pregnancy early third month.
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  Speaker 1: The cover up was finished, Amon fled, his parents disappeared.
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  Speaker 2: It's telling, though, that later the mil gave these media
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  Speaker 2: interviews trying to get neighbors to lie for her. She
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  Speaker 2: even tried to paint her son as generous, saying he
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  Speaker 2: gave Kareema two hundred Egyptian pounds a week, which was nothing,
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  Speaker 2: an insult, barely enough for transportation. It was just a
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  Speaker 2: last pathetic attempt to control the narrative. Justice was on
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  Speaker 2: said in motion because of that one doctor.
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  Speaker 1: When you look at the whole pattern, it's just a
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  Speaker 1: devastating blueprint of how you trap someone isolation, debt, violence,
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  Speaker 1: and this crushing fear of shame.
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  Speaker 2: And it makes you wonder if his plan from the
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  Speaker 2: start was to control and isolate her this completely, What
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  Speaker 2: did he even want. It wasn't a wife, It was
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  Speaker 2: a captive and the fear of what people will say
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  Speaker 2: was the strongest lock on her cell.
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  Speaker 1: She was trapped between her duty to endure for her
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  Speaker 1: home and the reality that her home was killing her.
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  Speaker 2: Which leads a really difficult question for you listening at
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  Speaker 2: home in any relationship, when does that commitment cross the
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  Speaker 2: line into silence about your own safety of what happens.
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  Speaker 2: When the fear of what people will say becomes more
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  Speaker 2: lethal than the physical danger itself, that is the price
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  Speaker 2: of silence.