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Episode 33"The Culture Deserves It" Feat. Kenny Burns w/ Ferrari Simmons & Su Solo Prod: iHandlebars · The Baller Alert Show

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Speaker 1: The tree is real. It's about to go down. Wake
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Speaker 1: up your turn me down. You know, if you're gonna shoot,
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Speaker 1: you better shoot straight because we did. I don't know.
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Speaker 1: Listen the worst thing you can deal with. Welcome to
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Speaker 1: the ball Alert Show featuring your lifestyle specialists, did He
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Speaker 1: Burns so long and Ferrari Simmons. The trees is threal
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Speaker 1: Like style specialist Kenny Burns, This is the ball Alert Show.
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Speaker 1: We Love Love you coming, Little Rody Poley work for love,
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Speaker 1: Stuffy Ruby, I don't I was trying to be CUBI.
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Speaker 1: That didn't come out right. Us sold those out sick today.
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Speaker 1: Rory Simmons had burns. How was your weekend, brom It
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Speaker 1: was good. Uh my daughter turned one yesterday over the weekend.
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Speaker 1: Um baby Chase super lit by Chase. Since I got
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Speaker 1: two birthdays in June, uh might soon to be ten
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Speaker 1: year old. We're gonna do the birthday parties together. I
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Speaker 1: saw you with the training wheels out this week. I
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Speaker 1: was getting little Rory on the bike. Put put it,
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Speaker 1: put it on the screen. I got a little We
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Speaker 1: had two training wheels right now. We're taking off the
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Speaker 1: training where we're taking off one this week. And then
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Speaker 1: were a boy, he's gonna need me pass elbow pass
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Speaker 1: all that because we're on training wheel lists pad pad
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Speaker 1: him up? Was your activities in the club? Activities the
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Speaker 1: club is always standard, super super dumb lit. You know
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Speaker 1: what I'm saying about your chain, and I'm tired of
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Speaker 1: you saying this new boy. It was the normal's turnout.
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Speaker 1: We you know, we did our thing. Okay, that's a
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Speaker 1: new big old those gold to the big one. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I mean around your wife. What's the wife? The wife
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Speaker 1: way you are? Yeah, you're getting money right? What's going
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Speaker 1: on you man? You know I would that I'm saying,
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Speaker 1: you constantly promoting you're your collection. I'm actually transitioning from
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Speaker 1: one type of case to the next type of case.
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Speaker 1: I need that case. I think maybe because the cases
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Speaker 1: that I have, if I need something on the bottom,
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Speaker 1: like I'm doing the new joints right and joint can
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Speaker 1: just go out with. Yeah, super, its sounds like a
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Speaker 1: whole movement you got going on. She's saving some of
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Speaker 1: your money because I'm saying a lot of a lot
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Speaker 1: of Okay, say half you make and then you save
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Speaker 1: half immediately, and then you know what I mean in
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Speaker 1: the taxes, everybody out there and not saying everybody out
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Speaker 1: there not paying your taxes, you should really just stab
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Speaker 1: yourself in the thigh, because that's something serious. You have
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Speaker 1: to pay attention to that because the tax man would
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Speaker 1: come and get you wrong. Now, definitely, I'm not saying
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Speaker 1: you some as that. El See. Then I got my
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Speaker 1: personal stuff, and it's a lot of right offs you
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Speaker 1: can get. Yeah, you can do a lot. Especially my
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Speaker 1: account is a beast man. I'm talking about your head
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Speaker 1: cut your personal I put everything on the debit card
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Speaker 1: and my bank account. He digitizes my bank account all that. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: and I'll be trying to tell people all the time
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Speaker 1: it's best to pay from your accounts so you can
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Speaker 1: have records. You know what's Listen, in our business, a
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Speaker 1: lot of cash is moving around Jordas, all them Jordan's
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Speaker 1: I'll be getting and you want to report your cash.
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you because when it comes time for
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Speaker 1: credit and come time for you to go get you
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Speaker 1: some ship, they're gonna be like, well how much money
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Speaker 1: you man? You be like, I make way it's at
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Speaker 1: we don't see it. It's not on paper and therefore
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Speaker 1: it does not exist. My weekend was stellar. My week.
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Speaker 1: I mean, we was off of ball alert for weeks,
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Speaker 1: felt like a month. Yeah, I was traveling, and I
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Speaker 1: felt like an awful long time, too much when we're
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Speaker 1: not on that And a whole bunch of stuff happened
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Speaker 1: too and then but it also happened in the middle
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Speaker 1: of the week. Damn it happened in the middle of
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Speaker 1: the week. A matter of fact, let's just get right
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Speaker 1: into it in case you case, Um, if you've been
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Speaker 1: hiding under a rock, then you don't know that. Kanye
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Speaker 1: West invited a lot of celebrities and young dignitaries and
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Speaker 1: socialites out to h Wyoming Jackson Hole, Wyoming. Yeah, that's
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Speaker 1: the name of the city, right, Jackson Hole is the place.
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Speaker 1: It's an actual it's an actual famous recording facility, and
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Speaker 1: a lot of people have recorded there, not a lot
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Speaker 1: of rappers, um, but yeah, so he always young dignitaries, um,
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Speaker 1: celebrities and media influence and so forth. And so I'll
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Speaker 1: come out there to debut YEA the album. You We're
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Speaker 1: gonna get into that. But um, including from Baller, she
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Speaker 1: went out there and she got a taste of uh
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Speaker 1: the festivate little you know. And before we get into
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Speaker 1: the time, because really want to break this album down.
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Speaker 1: You know, we've been talking on the ball Alert show
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Speaker 1: about Yea and his his his his choice of words
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Speaker 1: and things he's been saying in the press in Octavia.
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Speaker 1: You know, I'm gonna needs you to represent for all
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Speaker 1: women in the world. Um, this conversation for the people
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Speaker 1: who really don't care about Kye anymore. Okay, Gus shot shooting.
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Speaker 1: I don't know, but it's fine. Um, it's fine. So
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Speaker 1: I'm built for bolling nations. Stay with me. Um. So
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Speaker 1: you know, I'm concerned a little right when I was
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Speaker 1: watching the reports after Wyoming. Concerned a little bit, certain,
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Speaker 1: a little bit because there's such thing as friends, right, elaborate, sir,
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Speaker 1: and Kanye's friends came out to support. It was a
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Speaker 1: lot of backlash for certain artists supporting and coming out
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Speaker 1: and you know, just going to Wyoming and being a
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Speaker 1: part of this spectacle in which it was. I mean,
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Speaker 1: it was rather impressive of all those private present. But
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Speaker 1: there was a um. Um, let's gets a perfect word
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Speaker 1: for you millennials. Um, it was quite a testament to
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Speaker 1: who he inspires and who looks up to him and me.
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Speaker 1: If you want to talk about notables who were in
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Speaker 1: y me. We could talk about. Nahs, we can talk
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Speaker 1: about to Chris Rock uh Jonah, the the White Boy
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Speaker 1: from the movie. He had literally I mean it was
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Speaker 1: way more people than that. Um, it was a whole
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Speaker 1: lot of it was a whole lot of it. Uh seven.
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Speaker 1: We will talk about that in a minute. Her verse
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Speaker 1: on ghost Town. Okay, but we're gonna We're gonna just
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Speaker 1: get into some things, right. So I want to start
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Speaker 1: with the album and I want to come back and
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Speaker 1: I want to just kind of dive all the way into,
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Speaker 1: you know, to the whole thing. Right. So as I
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Speaker 1: as I cut the album all on, sorry, um, almost
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Speaker 1: immediately cut it off because I've been around y'all, right,
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Speaker 1: and I've been paying attention to social media, right, and
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Speaker 1: I've been in my bag right because I mean, everybody
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Speaker 1: knows my history if you don't have a very long
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Speaker 1: history of getting into that too with Kanye, and I'm
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Speaker 1: very thoughtful when it comes to all celebrities here on
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Speaker 1: the Ballers Show, and I've tried to even spread it, right. So,
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Speaker 1: but when I listened to the first couple of bars
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Speaker 1: of I thought about killing you. I was concerned. I
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Speaker 1: thought he had really jumped off the cliff, and I
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Speaker 1: thought it was a outward cry, therapy, whatever you wanna
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Speaker 1: call it, for help. But as the song went on
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Speaker 1: and that be dropped, I really focused on the music, right,
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Speaker 1: I got past the rhetoric and what he was saying
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Speaker 1: initially and the whole thing, and I focused on the
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Speaker 1: music and I started to be more optimistic. I still
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Speaker 1: was like because of the entry intro the song, which
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Speaker 1: a lot of people don't let you get past the intro.
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Speaker 1: A lot of people are not thoughtful enough to listen
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Speaker 1: to the whole song or anybody song. They don't like
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Speaker 1: the first couple of seconds. It's a rap, which got
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Speaker 1: me into yikes, yikes. He's on his ya ship, He's
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Speaker 1: on his braggadocious, his bravado. You know what I'm talking about.
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Speaker 1: He's a you know, I'm a superhero. Um. Then I
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Speaker 1: got to all my feature and ty dollar sign, which
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Speaker 1: I thought was a little I thought it was hella dope.
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Speaker 1: I felt like it was more in the pocket, even
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Speaker 1: going into UM wouldn't leave when he started saying he
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Speaker 1: gave him the opportunity to leave in the midst all
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Speaker 1: the controversy, the latest controversy. He was, you know, creating
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Speaker 1: um and then no mistakes. I felt like, back to
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Speaker 1: back to back those three records, he was back in pocket. Now,
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Speaker 1: did I hear a single? You know? I can't. I
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Speaker 1: can't say I heard a single. Did I hear UM
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Speaker 1: anything better than records on you know, college, dropout and
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Speaker 1: and graduate? I don't. I don't know, I don't know,
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Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm just saying this is. People have
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Speaker 1: their opinions. I've heard the most highest praise and I've
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Speaker 1: heard the lowest. So I'm just giving you my personal opinion.
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Speaker 1: I want to bring y'all in. Then there's ghost Town.
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Speaker 1: Ghost Town. First of all, I want to say, oh,
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Speaker 1: seven oh Shake, that's her name, right, yester users artist?
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Speaker 1: Is that her name? Shake? Is that? We'll confirmed that.
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Speaker 1: But I felt like that should have been her song.
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Speaker 1: I'm yes, Jules, I would have been live being with
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Speaker 1: Kanye letting me have this one, because I felt like
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Speaker 1: as I listened to Kanye singing and doing whatever he
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Speaker 1: was doing on that song, I really didn't and then
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Speaker 1: here in seven oh that's her name right? So then
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Speaker 1: after hearing her, I felt like he shouldn't have sang
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Speaker 1: on the song, I felt like it wasn't clear, Like
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Speaker 1: I think what heartbreaks when you heard him singing for
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Speaker 1: the first time and melodically in the auto tune, I
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Speaker 1: think he nailed it, but I don't know. For some reason,
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Speaker 1: just didn't connect all the way. And lastly, violent crimes.
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Speaker 1: Clearly he talks about his daughter um and the fears
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Speaker 1: of raising her and what she could do or might
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Speaker 1: do or might not do, how men are so forth
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Speaker 1: and song. And then there was a lot of Kim
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Speaker 1: inspiration in that song. There was a lot of you know, wait,
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Speaker 1: I don't want you to be what my wife is.
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Speaker 1: Not that he said that, not that he said that.
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Speaker 1: I mean he mentioned body parts and how you wish.
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Speaker 1: So my point is there was a lot of things
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Speaker 1: in that that it was like, yo like, but it
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Speaker 1: was such a contradictory term, you know, so contradictory to me.
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Speaker 1: It was so like whoa like? And yes for your daughter,
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Speaker 1: you want these things to stand the third But I
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Speaker 1: then again, I'm I'm being thoughtful. I'm thinking, like, Okay,
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Speaker 1: this is his therapy for all the men out there
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Speaker 1: that think He's like, how do you deal with charity
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Speaker 1: being neked all the time? Well, how do you deal
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Speaker 1: with all the things that I'm speaking of his wife?
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Speaker 1: And I think this is therapy a lot of levels.
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Speaker 1: And then he had obviously those things to say about
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Speaker 1: with his wishes for his daughter. So please, seven songs,
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Speaker 1: let's talk about it. Seven songs is enough, definitely. But
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Speaker 1: I've been listening to kanyeall listen to every album. My
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Speaker 1: favorite album is Late Registration, the second one. This is
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Speaker 1: a album. Um. Of course I listen to about five times.
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Speaker 1: U yikes. I could tell that yikes happened approximately around
10:51
Speaker 1: the time the TV the slave comment and everybody was
10:55
Speaker 1: on them because he was very cocky. But at the
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Speaker 1: same time, that's my favor a song on the on
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Speaker 1: the album. Um. But I can tell that he's definitely
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Speaker 1: a musical genius, and so in my opinion, sometimes when
11:08
Speaker 1: you're a genius in one area, you're really bad in
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Speaker 1: another area. That's getting the films across. But did he
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Speaker 1: say that on a lot of records. Of course, was
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Speaker 1: saying like I tried certain things, I just can't. I
11:19
Speaker 1: don't know how to Like he was saying these things again,
11:23
Speaker 1: that's why I'm over here, like bro, like just use
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Speaker 1: your gift, like the comment he made about the slaves
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Speaker 1: and all that, maybe he could have creatively did that
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Speaker 1: better in a record, on a song instead of saying it,
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Speaker 1: because you really have to break it all the way
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Speaker 1: down to kind of get what he was saying. But
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Speaker 1: initially you over here that now, bro, now I won't
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Speaker 1: hear that. Yeah. I think a lot of people just
11:44
Speaker 1: aren't smart enough to be honest, to put all the
11:46
Speaker 1: pieces together to even try to understand. I think they
11:49
Speaker 1: hear something you just don't want to well, and not
11:51
Speaker 1: not to mention our Titus fan is shot, but you know,
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Speaker 1: as a person who has passed the Kanye at this point,
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Speaker 1: you know, but I still, yeah, who once was a fan.
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Speaker 1: I still listen simply because I'm a music analyst, and
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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, I have to care what
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Speaker 1: he's speaking to these people because he has a mass following,
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Speaker 1: you know. So, um, when I first turned it on
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Speaker 1: and you know, the murder thing and all that premeditated whatever,
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Speaker 1: I was like, okay, and so I keep going to
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Speaker 1: the next song, next song, and the whole feeling of
12:23
Speaker 1: it for me was just depressing, you know what I'm saying.
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Speaker 1: And that's where it was really dark. And you know,
12:29
Speaker 1: every artist goes through things or whatever. This is where
12:31
Speaker 1: he is in his life. But um, the last song
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Speaker 1: for me was the best song. And what was n when?
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Speaker 1: I love that too because she wrote that part that
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Speaker 1: he said. I'm saying it like I want to do
12:42
Speaker 1: it it like Nikki oh man, I promise I'm gonna
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Speaker 1: turn it to a month to but no manages. I
12:48
Speaker 1: don't know how he's saying it, but let me have this.
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Speaker 1: I hope she like Nicky y'all mak a monster. Not
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Speaker 1: having manages? That was that was hard. I liked that
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Speaker 1: and I like how he gave her it for that. Um,
13:02
Speaker 1: but you know me, especially in this time that we're
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Speaker 1: in and how sensitive everybody is and stuff like that,
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Speaker 1: I'm on to pass going forward. I want to be uplifted,
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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. I'm on the fourth still,
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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. That's where I'm at, superscious.
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Speaker 1: I don't I don't want to hear this, you know,
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Speaker 1: I don't want to hear this, right, So That's where
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Speaker 1: I'm at with it. Okay, So but you don't think
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Speaker 1: that like people that are going through that like this,
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Speaker 1: this is my thing and that's what Jessica said. Jessica
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Speaker 1: said this morning to me, she was like, you know,
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Speaker 1: it's it's amazing that he's so you know, uh bragg
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Speaker 1: ads is on one end with a song like yikes,
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Speaker 1: and then so you know, so timid and so uh.
13:43
Speaker 1: But that's the bipolar thing. He would talk exactly. A
13:45
Speaker 1: lot of people are exactly and people aren't diagnosed or bipolis.
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Speaker 1: He said, he was just diagnosis last year. He said,
13:52
Speaker 1: he's not yet when. But but my thing is this though,
13:57
Speaker 1: so so unknowing that you know what I'm saying. Is
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Speaker 1: it an envelope pushing thing culturally because a lot of
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Speaker 1: people like I mean, I'm talking about on social I
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Speaker 1: don't care, he said, X Y and Z. I don't care,
14:12
Speaker 1: he said, X Y Z. And my point is like, okay, well,
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Speaker 1: is he not important to the culture anymore. It's his
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Speaker 1: contribution not worth anything. I just think people just don't
14:21
Speaker 1: want to tolerate that. But that's what Okay, But the
14:26
Speaker 1: difference is tolerate what like, what's the alternative? No, I'm
14:29
Speaker 1: just saying that you not if we continue, if we
14:32
Speaker 1: continue to, yeah, we gotta hold people accountable. We got to.
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Speaker 1: He was just in an uncontrolled space emotionally when he
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Speaker 1: was on television. When you are on television and you
14:45
Speaker 1: have to have some type of control, you have to
14:48
Speaker 1: understand that there are people that listen to her every
14:51
Speaker 1: word and look up to you. So therefore you cannot
14:53
Speaker 1: say certain things for people to take it the wrong way,
14:57
Speaker 1: which is what he did. Yeah, but a lot of
14:59
Speaker 1: a lot of people, a lot of people, and a
15:01
Speaker 1: lot of people didn't take it the wrong But again,
15:04
Speaker 1: he intellectually did not say it in a way that
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Speaker 1: the masses understood what he said. That's all. I guarantee you.
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Speaker 1: If he would have put all that in a song,
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Speaker 1: it would have came across exactly perfect how he wanted
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Speaker 1: to be. That My point is he's a genius musically,
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Speaker 1: but socially he's not. He's probably the worst person you
15:24
Speaker 1: want to speak to socially on the public farm. I'm
15:28
Speaker 1: pretty sure in the industry for us speak for us,
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Speaker 1: the whole nine. That's all. That's my point. That's why
15:33
Speaker 1: I'd be like, bro, I'm cool, Like I'm cool on
15:34
Speaker 1: you right now, because you do have some people, the
15:36
Speaker 1: white people who watched me teop like that's how people
15:39
Speaker 1: act watch loving hip hop. Man. That's how all black
15:41
Speaker 1: girls at Jam Sam Sam, you did it, you won't
15:47
Speaker 1: black and you can never be black. And your perpetrating
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Speaker 1: ask is taking the only thing that I got left
15:54
Speaker 1: my culture. We'll make you think you know what goes
15:57
Speaker 1: down up in the hood anyway. Huh again. Look at
16:01
Speaker 1: jay Z though, look at his stance on everything. That's
16:03
Speaker 1: why I'm paying assestion to everything. He's kind of like, yeah,
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Speaker 1: he always changing, how you're changing on me? I ain't feeling.
16:12
Speaker 1: That's kind of like if you have a real friend
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Speaker 1: and they'd be on some bullshit you over here, like, Bro,
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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure jay Z had reached out to Kanye. Bro,
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Speaker 1: you're good right now, and he probably didn't take the
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Speaker 1: advice or didn't take what he said or all right, bro,
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Speaker 1: I'm cool. Well I want to say this. So NAS
16:28
Speaker 1: had posted basically that you know, Kanye was the artists, artists,
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Speaker 1: that he was the example of bravery and arts, that
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Speaker 1: he was musically. Definitely what I'm saying, And I think
16:42
Speaker 1: he's feelings. But my thing is like, I just think
16:44
Speaker 1: it's at all time high. Our superheroes, and I said
16:48
Speaker 1: this before, our superheroes are in mind you, they put
16:52
Speaker 1: themselves in this position a lot of the times. But
16:55
Speaker 1: when you are of the culture and you know what
16:59
Speaker 1: comes with is the psyche of these types of artists
17:03
Speaker 1: or these types of you know, gifts creatively to us,
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Speaker 1: we gotta be more understanding. I'm not saying forgive the comment,
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Speaker 1: but the comment was wrong. I am saying forgive the
17:15
Speaker 1: overall action because sometimes these creatives fucking have to rest
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Speaker 1: at the mouth. Sometimes they say things that they're just
17:23
Speaker 1: in the moment and they think it's coming out good
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Speaker 1: and it comes out horrible. I just don't like killing
17:28
Speaker 1: off our superhero. Didn't kill him off? No, No, people
17:31
Speaker 1: are bro' accountable the yeah, he's really not a superhero.
17:38
Speaker 1: Who's a super Give me an example of a superhero.
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Speaker 1: Angela Davis, Angela Rye. Right now, you know what I'm
17:43
Speaker 1: saying to people, who is really who are really doing something?
17:46
Speaker 1: Who are speaking intelligence? Amanda Seals. You know what I'm
17:49
Speaker 1: saying right now? You know what I'm saying. Who's making
17:51
Speaker 1: noise out here? Who is representing us in the highest light?
17:54
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, who is making you know,
17:56
Speaker 1: putting platforms out here for everybody to get it showing
17:59
Speaker 1: people like myself as a black woman, how to get it.
18:02
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, jay Z, you know what
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Speaker 1: I'm saying, who turned his life around and it's represented
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Speaker 1: for his kids. I'm just saying, I like how again,
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Speaker 1: I like how jay Z creates the narrative. He creates
18:15
Speaker 1: the narrative. He's not part of a falling falling and
18:19
Speaker 1: shambles on television and then someone reading you on TV
18:23
Speaker 1: and then he just looking crazy on the TV. That
18:26
Speaker 1: was the craziest part for me. I just kind of
18:28
Speaker 1: felt let down when Kanye did that. Yeah, I mean
18:30
Speaker 1: we we all felt felt let down with the comments.
18:33
Speaker 1: I just look at like the action, the affection his
18:38
Speaker 1: peers half of him, and I think a lot of
18:41
Speaker 1: times people aren't appreciated for those efforts until they're gone.
18:45
Speaker 1: When they're gone, and then you could process all that happened.
18:50
Speaker 1: Not to interrupt you, but he still had Donald Trump
18:53
Speaker 1: autographed to have no listen to Donald Trump, donald Trump
18:56
Speaker 1: thing Donald. But that's gone to me now, you know
18:59
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. What's left is the college dropouts, the
19:03
Speaker 1: relay registrations, the graduations, and it's like that is the
19:07
Speaker 1: that's the that's my beautiful doctoris and fantasy is not anybody.
19:11
Speaker 1: No one loves that. I mean that was cool too,
19:13
Speaker 1: but it ain't like change the visuals and that We're away,
19:19
Speaker 1: run Away, the movie, all of it. Yeah, it was cool.
19:25
Speaker 1: Heartbreaks this point, I was heartbreaks wasn't changing. I wasn't
19:30
Speaker 1: that wasn't changed about it. I wasn't too thrilled about it.
19:32
Speaker 1: It was game changing, but it was cool. I mean
19:35
Speaker 1: it was Do you think to me, like, well, I'm
19:37
Speaker 1: not saying me gooes get their whole style from but
19:40
Speaker 1: I want to know what y'all doesn't mean we have to.
19:44
Speaker 1: It does not mean that. But as a as a
19:47
Speaker 1: curator of culture Ferrari Simmons, as a curator of culture,
19:52
Speaker 1: Octavia March Burns, y'all have a responsibility to put it
19:57
Speaker 1: in perspective. We ain't gotta agree, y'all don't have to agree, no, no, no,
19:59
Speaker 1: we but y'all have it's it's our responsibility to frame
20:03
Speaker 1: it in a way that it was intended right or wrong.
20:07
Speaker 1: Our beliefs are not. And that's all I'm saying, because
20:09
Speaker 1: it's just it's a body of work. That's how did y'all.
20:12
Speaker 1: I just represent a different part of number one for me. Yeah, yeah,
20:22
Speaker 1: I get it. I want to say this about Prince
20:25
Speaker 1: and Michael Jackson. Y'all watch reels are e l Z.
20:29
Speaker 1: They've been doing these re enactment stories. You gotta watch
20:33
Speaker 1: these stories. And I want to say this, the majority
20:36
Speaker 1: of superheroes in general music superhero I'm talking about white, black,
20:41
Speaker 1: and different. You can go to the Seven Club, which
20:44
Speaker 1: Kurt Cobain, Amy Winehouse, Jimmy Andrix all died at seven.
20:49
Speaker 1: You can look at Michael Jackson how he was, you know,
20:53
Speaker 1: beat as a child and never you know, kind of
20:56
Speaker 1: got into a childhood. And you can look at Prince,
20:58
Speaker 1: his daddy and mama wanted to be artists, but they
21:00
Speaker 1: was Bible thumpers when you know. But then you can
21:03
Speaker 1: look at majority of all the jazz artists and how
21:06
Speaker 1: they shot up heroin in their life in their twenties.
21:08
Speaker 1: Exactly what my point is, these stories are fucked up,
21:14
Speaker 1: like these stories that people go through with mental issues
21:18
Speaker 1: not diagnosing, with growing up a certain way and taught
21:21
Speaker 1: certain things and all the bad things that help you
21:24
Speaker 1: you don't help you have a great life. Exactly what
21:27
Speaker 1: my point is, I don't want all that being conscious
21:31
Speaker 1: of all that you know I'm talking about is I mean,
21:36
Speaker 1: we have to be able to have some type of
21:38
Speaker 1: compassion to understand for, not acceptance for bullshit and bullshit
21:41
Speaker 1: statements and dumb shit I'm talking about at least try
21:45
Speaker 1: to put in perspective to this understanding exactly because because
21:48
Speaker 1: I just think the tearing down because of social media
21:51
Speaker 1: is crazy. Like if you're not I'm not, y'all, I'm
21:56
Speaker 1: saying society, they're not. What do y'all watching you look
22:00
Speaker 1: look at Caesar's face when y'all say like that, I
22:03
Speaker 1: just think they're really holding them accountable. But they're trying
22:06
Speaker 1: to kick bro. They're trying to compassionate put on that
22:11
Speaker 1: hat or when he said things like when you got
22:14
Speaker 1: the autograph hat. No, I am not saying that all
22:17
Speaker 1: in the same realm like that came like that's like
22:20
Speaker 1: his wife going to the fucking White House prison reform.
22:24
Speaker 1: But my point is, but my point is, people do
22:27
Speaker 1: things for their own selfish gain at times, for their
22:31
Speaker 1: own purpose. I'm talking about how we It's like me
22:34
Speaker 1: knowing all I know about stainers and then letting that
22:36
Speaker 1: hate spew so the next mother grow and that's all
22:40
Speaker 1: I'm saying. It said somebody else to the White House.
22:42
Speaker 1: Not can't cart that, bro. I mean, I'm not saying,
22:44
Speaker 1: do you get I got your point. I'm just saying
22:46
Speaker 1: there's an election coming up. They woke, stay woke like
22:50
Speaker 1: a motherfucker. But that's a whole another topic. So on
22:54
Speaker 1: to Drake and push your t um what's out of that?
22:57
Speaker 1: Push your t artwork? One time for pushing te so
23:00
Speaker 1: he loves the artwork even though the artwork thing. Another instance,
23:07
Speaker 1: back Kanye, do it when this pushes out and push
23:14
Speaker 1: your note. This is the art work. I did it,
23:22
Speaker 1: you know I did it. Put the album together how
23:24
Speaker 1: usually goes is you know, I picked beats, rhyme over
23:27
Speaker 1: the boom uh bringing for ya that I'm hearing he
23:30
Speaker 1: picked some beats you know, disregards some of the ones
23:33
Speaker 1: I did, go back, rhyme over and bring it all back.
23:35
Speaker 1: So I go back to um. You know, I come
23:38
Speaker 1: back with a finished product, bringing bringing to him like, look,
23:40
Speaker 1: I feel like this is my album. He was like, yeah,
23:43
Speaker 1: it's rocking, you know. So we we rocked for like
23:45
Speaker 1: two days. I stayed in l A for two days.
23:47
Speaker 1: Third day he wake up, he was like, yo, man um,
23:51
Speaker 1: I feel like I could produce these beats better myself.
23:53
Speaker 1: Just just do it myself. The artwork, um, you know,
23:58
Speaker 1: it was pictures that we all agreed on. So he
24:01
Speaker 1: you know, he picked this photographer these pictures. I was like, yeo,
24:04
Speaker 1: the's a fresh We picked all of these pictures out.
24:07
Speaker 1: He um, he had like a little, you know, a
24:09
Speaker 1: little added to it of how he wanted the the
24:13
Speaker 1: actual grading of the picture to look. Picked the pictures great,
24:17
Speaker 1: we love it. Boon wom was good one am my
24:21
Speaker 1: phone rings, no caller. I d know, Hey, yeah, I
24:25
Speaker 1: think you know we should change the artwork. And I like,
24:28
Speaker 1: I like this other artwork. Now, this other artwork is
24:30
Speaker 1: eighty five grand of that SUTs out of your budget.
24:35
Speaker 1: I said, hey, I don't want to pay for that.
24:37
Speaker 1: And I wasn't even gonna ask you to pay for that.
24:38
Speaker 1: We picked when we picked the you know, it's it's
24:42
Speaker 1: it's here, it's ready. No, this is what people need
24:45
Speaker 1: to see to go along with this music. I'm gonna
24:48
Speaker 1: pay for that. So how do you feel about put
24:50
Speaker 1: yours album? I like it. I like fishing tease lyrics,
24:53
Speaker 1: and I like some of the beats on there like
24:56
Speaker 1: push teeth before all this extra push your in general,
25:00
Speaker 1: I love Push your Tea. I never loved his music.
25:03
Speaker 1: I mean I just said, I've had some joints that advised,
25:05
Speaker 1: but I never it was never a thing. But this
25:08
Speaker 1: Drake thing is huge news. This Drake thing is uh
25:13
Speaker 1: superseding any rap beef um in a long time, including
25:17
Speaker 1: some Yeah, I mean, let's talk about that the whole thing. Right,
25:23
Speaker 1: So Drake came out with his offering, then Push your
25:25
Speaker 1: t came out with his offering and push your tea.
25:29
Speaker 1: I'm talking about the facts or not, because he hasn't
25:33
Speaker 1: come out and said that, right, he didn't say it wasn't,
25:36
Speaker 1: but it was so because you would make a statement.
25:40
Speaker 1: So why do you think he didn't do that? I
25:42
Speaker 1: didn't do it. Do it? Why hasn't Drake come back
25:44
Speaker 1: with it? Because when it was him and Meek, it
25:46
Speaker 1: was every other day and we're supposedly j Prince order
25:52
Speaker 1: Drake not to respond. He ordered, suggested, suggested or a
25:56
Speaker 1: man to attack a man mother, his father, a man,
26:00
Speaker 1: and it's dying. I feel less disrespectful. Imagine we got
26:03
Speaker 1: into a fight and I go with your mama, y'all
26:08
Speaker 1: I call it a pig pin mentality. I spoke with Drake,
26:12
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I made over g called
26:14
Speaker 1: to Drake telling them, I don't want you to respond
26:16
Speaker 1: to this. We're gonna put this to bed. We can't
26:19
Speaker 1: get in in a pig pin with pigs and then
26:22
Speaker 1: because pigs turned into hogs and then hogs get slaughter.
26:28
Speaker 1: Why why would you think that Drake has not responded
26:32
Speaker 1: when he is historically responded a lot. It was so deep, Well,
26:37
Speaker 1: push your response. Drake had to go deeper because it's
26:40
Speaker 1: real rap at the end of the day. Right now,
26:42
Speaker 1: right here, this is a battle. We have a real
26:45
Speaker 1: old school battle somebody. I'm not nothing against Meek Mill
26:48
Speaker 1: or anything like that, but that was kind of a
26:50
Speaker 1: millennial type battle type thing to me. Now we're getting
26:54
Speaker 1: into something like, okay, we're in a we're in the
26:57
Speaker 1: dig for this. It's like some real old school type
27:01
Speaker 1: came all around. He first of all to beat the
27:03
Speaker 1: jay Z beat from the album um the Story of
27:05
Speaker 1: Oh J. Then he made story of added On, which
27:10
Speaker 1: is uh infamously I think Drake's uh as offering, which
27:15
Speaker 1: supposedly is named after his son. No, there's a lot
27:20
Speaker 1: of seemens seemingly fast information. You see the similarity, though, no,
27:26
Speaker 1: I listen. I think what Pusha did was probably the
27:29
Speaker 1: biggest thing he's ever done in his career from a
27:31
Speaker 1: social standpoint. Social I think that, and I'm somewhat socially
27:35
Speaker 1: consumed as well. Like I mean, grinding was probably his
27:39
Speaker 1: biggest you know record today, um in my opinion, but
27:45
Speaker 1: this was this was like like you did not expect
27:49
Speaker 1: killed Drake and has been so witty and thoughtful with
27:53
Speaker 1: his battles and then he just says nothing for a week.
27:56
Speaker 1: I mean it's too you know, Drake has fans. I
27:58
Speaker 1: don't know what this d his Drake's fans are called,
28:00
Speaker 1: because you know, Brianna as the Navy and Beyonce has
28:03
Speaker 1: to be happy. Fans Drake fans like they are like
28:06
Speaker 1: a cult following. They were all page who are you?
28:10
Speaker 1: I've never heard of you before? But that boy Streams
28:12
Speaker 1: is heavily in rotation now pushing Streams is lit. Yeah.
28:16
Speaker 1: I just think that. I just think that Drake is
28:18
Speaker 1: too witty and too smart not to have you might
28:26
Speaker 1: come out with something today, but I think he I
28:28
Speaker 1: think I'm curious as to why not and There's been
28:32
Speaker 1: reports that he was gonna address this on his new
28:34
Speaker 1: Album's Corpion. That's the only thing I can think of.
28:36
Speaker 1: He probably is gonna address it on the album. So
28:38
Speaker 1: now you have to get the album. That's the only
28:40
Speaker 1: thing that makes sense. Why are dressing now when the
28:43
Speaker 1: album's coming out in June? But you got way more
28:47
Speaker 1: success bars then probably the most you could say. I mean,
28:53
Speaker 1: you have way more success success and it's a braggadoci
28:57
Speaker 1: sport go because he's the one. So what I got
29:01
Speaker 1: a son saying on the album? It's coming on the album.
29:06
Speaker 1: That's the only thing that makes sense. That's the only
29:07
Speaker 1: thing that's going to get the streams heavily. I want
29:10
Speaker 1: to say this, though, who would be proud of slipping
29:12
Speaker 1: up in a porn star? Who would brag be bragging about,
29:16
Speaker 1: Oh I went wrong on accident in the known porn
29:21
Speaker 1: Stop good, it's not. That's not all good. That's that's horrible,
29:25
Speaker 1: that's infection. I'm scared. That's all right, But it's happening
29:34
Speaker 1: that here boy that no, I'm just saying no, But
29:37
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that's at a certain point, he has
29:39
Speaker 1: more success bars. Why are you not going coming on
29:44
Speaker 1: the album. That's gonna tell you it's way too close
29:46
Speaker 1: to the album for him to put something out right now,
29:48
Speaker 1: wait put it on the album? What was that thing
29:50
Speaker 1: that you know he tried it in the first In
29:52
Speaker 1: the first disce, he was trying to say, you know,
29:54
Speaker 1: you ain't sold millions or whatever, but this to that
29:58
Speaker 1: hitch boom hit him was something else. It was just like,
30:02
Speaker 1: I'm not even a rapper. And the first thing, I
30:04
Speaker 1: think I got way more paper you didn't. Where's your brother? Then?
30:07
Speaker 1: Second then like I'm going to other safe. That's fine,
30:10
Speaker 1: but that's what I'm saying. There's so many plays, Okay, whatever,
30:13
Speaker 1: what was that performance? Um? This weekend? That pusher came
30:16
Speaker 1: out and when I tell he came out, it was
30:17
Speaker 1: like Jesus Christ Interdeveno was the Phillip Picnic. I mean,
30:21
Speaker 1: that's what hip hop is looking forward to. Performance was
30:25
Speaker 1: that was it? Rude festival? Okay? He came out and
30:29
Speaker 1: that's a weird ship fact check that he had some
30:31
Speaker 1: weird shirt. When I tell you he came out and
30:33
Speaker 1: it was I said, I've never seen a crowd react
30:36
Speaker 1: to push it like that. You know, he's definitely um
30:39
Speaker 1: that's it's really like a dark skinned light skin thing
30:41
Speaker 1: too going on. No, it'sn't really about good bars versus
30:45
Speaker 1: bad bars. It's like remember when UM tell you it's
30:51
Speaker 1: another ship going on? Remember when she said it in
30:57
Speaker 1: the rap here ain't napping up? I look, I remember
31:03
Speaker 1: really came with that disk with it on the ether.
31:06
Speaker 1: Remember how crazy everybody went for that. Now you have this.
31:09
Speaker 1: Then she dropped hold on but really fucked up and
31:12
Speaker 1: dropped another disk and it wasn't good. Remember that after
31:17
Speaker 1: the ether drop another diss and the songs nobody remembers that.
31:23
Speaker 1: I'm saying, No, you don't know how the ship died
31:26
Speaker 1: down so fast that she just did. But I'm saying
31:29
Speaker 1: I'm just like on how the crowd reacted to the
31:31
Speaker 1: ether and then you know that's how That's how I
31:34
Speaker 1: feel like they're reacting to this, to the story I've
31:38
Speaker 1: added on whatever record? People, just did you see the
31:43
Speaker 1: porn star's face? Okay, we're leaving for another episode. That's okay. Hey,
31:51
Speaker 1: what's up for all my baller nation that sent me this?
31:55
Speaker 1: I had like several um, it's actually a group chat
31:58
Speaker 1: baller mail, these girls that send me these uh in
32:01
Speaker 1: the group chat. They send things now chocolate and um carmel,
32:07
Speaker 1: so you following them all back. Seven reasons why you
32:12
Speaker 1: may not be ready for marriage. M oh peace, kiss, Okay, yeah,
32:19
Speaker 1: in a while, she's in the club on. All of
32:25
Speaker 1: your friends are getting married and for some reason you
32:27
Speaker 1: can't find Mr Wright doesn't seem like every man you
32:32
Speaker 1: get seems to run for the hills when the subject
32:34
Speaker 1: of marriage gets marriage gets brought up, and maybe that
32:37
Speaker 1: you're not marriage material. Although many women want to get married,
32:41
Speaker 1: it's possible that some may not be marriage material. Here
32:45
Speaker 1: are seven reasons why you're not marriage material. If you
32:50
Speaker 1: refuse the girl grow up, you're but you act like
32:53
Speaker 1: you're fifteen. Every time things don't go your way, you
32:56
Speaker 1: become braddy. You run to you run back to mom
32:59
Speaker 1: and dad every time you need help. Rather use your
33:01
Speaker 1: own problem. Rather than use your own problem solving skills.
33:04
Speaker 1: Men are looking to adopt a kid when they are
33:07
Speaker 1: with you, they're looking. You're actually scaring them away. Your
33:11
Speaker 1: reputation precedes you. M people talk. God supplies. If you're dirty,
33:16
Speaker 1: pass finds its way into your future. This could be
33:18
Speaker 1: the reason why men are less likely to put a
33:20
Speaker 1: ring on it The best thing you can do in
33:22
Speaker 1: this situation is be opening up front from the beginning.
33:26
Speaker 1: As long as you laid the cards on the table,
33:28
Speaker 1: no one else could come back to tell your anything different.
33:32
Speaker 1: Number three, you are jealous and insecure. If you can't
33:35
Speaker 1: trust him, you're only going to drive him away. Man
33:38
Speaker 1: only think one of two things when they deal with
33:40
Speaker 1: the jealous woman. They either think that you are crazy
33:43
Speaker 1: and that they'll have the genital sniffings and thorough comb
33:48
Speaker 1: through of the car, or they think that you may
33:52
Speaker 1: be onto no good and that it's your conscience acting up.
33:56
Speaker 1: No man wants his wife to be a parole officer.
34:00
Speaker 1: Do you want me? The other ones on the baer
34:01
Speaker 1: dot com So, uh, why do you think most women
34:05
Speaker 1: aren't marriage material? Oh? Yoda Kenny Burns old yoda? O
34:11
Speaker 1: yoah yoda? No no, no, you said, oh this um
34:16
Speaker 1: being the oldest tenured married person in the building. UM.
34:20
Speaker 1: I just think if you're a selfish person, marriage isn't
34:23
Speaker 1: for you. And I mean that like selfish and like
34:27
Speaker 1: you gotta have what you gotta having that sick you're
34:28
Speaker 1: not willing to share, Like you have to have things
34:30
Speaker 1: a certain way to stand. The third now I've been
34:32
Speaker 1: married nineteen years, it's October, and yeah, thank you, thank you,
34:37
Speaker 1: But I clearly don't like different like milk. If I
34:43
Speaker 1: drink Rizon two percent black toast free mekis I want
34:48
Speaker 1: and my wife would occasionally buy some other type of
34:51
Speaker 1: milk like try this, but no, I don't want to
34:53
Speaker 1: try that. Now, that kind of selfish is okay because
34:56
Speaker 1: you're just like a certain things I'm talking about selfish with.
34:59
Speaker 1: You're gonna put yourself first before the family. You're gonna
35:03
Speaker 1: put yourself first before your mate. You're not really built
35:07
Speaker 1: for marriage if you if you're if you're that you
35:09
Speaker 1: know what I mean, And I will tell you this.
35:10
Speaker 1: It gets harder as you get older to find a
35:15
Speaker 1: partner because see nine times I'd attended to partnership. You
35:19
Speaker 1: grow together, meaning you grow up together, you experience things. Again,
35:24
Speaker 1: there's certain things that happened in your twenties that you
35:26
Speaker 1: should try to grow up with a person, with another
35:29
Speaker 1: person with you know what I'm saying, Things you should
35:31
Speaker 1: go through with another person because that is your experimental age.
35:36
Speaker 1: You're trying to figure it out. You're learning who you are,
35:39
Speaker 1: you're learning what you know turns you on sexually, what
35:41
Speaker 1: you are willing to do sexually, what you're willing to professionally,
35:44
Speaker 1: where you're you know, willing to move, things you're willing
35:47
Speaker 1: to do, And by the time you get to thirty,
35:50
Speaker 1: you're kind of like a traveling enough place has been
35:53
Speaker 1: enough place. I not want to be here, I want
35:54
Speaker 1: to do this it is, you know professional. Nine times
35:57
Speaker 1: out of ten shows ain't too much bending in that. UM.
36:01
Speaker 1: And then you know, meeting somebody in your thirties and
36:03
Speaker 1: forties gets harder because you're more setting your ways, and
36:07
Speaker 1: the more you're setting your ways, the harder is for
36:10
Speaker 1: somebody to try to come in and be a part
36:11
Speaker 1: of that space. So you know, you can't be selfish
36:14
Speaker 1: you want to be Uh. Let me ask you a question.
36:17
Speaker 1: Do you think that people should get married before the
36:20
Speaker 1: age of thirty? Um? I think people should dive into
36:26
Speaker 1: the possibility of getting married in the twenties and that
36:29
Speaker 1: way they can. I think twenties period some people mature
36:33
Speaker 1: fast enough, but I definitely think before you're thirty. And
36:35
Speaker 1: the reason I think that is because at the end
36:36
Speaker 1: of the day, if you look at like, um, you
36:40
Speaker 1: know where you're at in your life. Nine times other time,
36:43
Speaker 1: you're just coming out of college, you just finished you
36:45
Speaker 1: know what I mean, You're going in to the army,
36:47
Speaker 1: you're coming out the army. All these things are happening,
36:49
Speaker 1: you know, in your twenties, and I think that those
36:52
Speaker 1: are life defining things and if someone's not a part
36:56
Speaker 1: of that, then there's a whole piece of your life,
36:58
Speaker 1: like a major piece to your early life, that they're
37:01
Speaker 1: not a part of, you know what I mean? And
37:02
Speaker 1: I gave those as examples, but obviously you know, different
37:05
Speaker 1: strokes for different folks. But I think, you know, you
37:08
Speaker 1: got to really assess that because by telling you in
37:09
Speaker 1: your third year, I've done enough life, you're like, wait,
37:12
Speaker 1: why would I even listen to you with that? You
37:14
Speaker 1: weren't there or you know what I I mean, not that
37:15
Speaker 1: you're saying that, but subconsciously you're thinking that, like, you
37:18
Speaker 1: don't know my life. You here, you women, you couldn't
37:20
Speaker 1: possibly understand. No, I was right, Then you're tripping and
37:23
Speaker 1: then they would have to listen if you were. I
37:26
Speaker 1: want to. I do want to talk about the male
37:28
Speaker 1: psyche because you know, oftentimes we tend to mature very
37:33
Speaker 1: slow compared to a woman. Because I've always seen that
37:37
Speaker 1: women be ready to get married or or ready for
37:41
Speaker 1: you know, a very committed all the way in relationship
37:45
Speaker 1: at like, and I've seen that, you know, males definitely
37:53
Speaker 1: in this generation, like most males ain't ain't ready to
37:55
Speaker 1: settle down until you know, late twenties. Yeah, I think
37:58
Speaker 1: you should kind of wait until your thirties too. They
38:04
Speaker 1: want to potentially get married or whatever could be whenever
38:09
Speaker 1: in your thirties. Um, but I think twenties when you
38:11
Speaker 1: need to just go out be coming out of high school,
38:14
Speaker 1: like you know from your teenage years, you're going into
38:16
Speaker 1: college and all that stuff. If you haven't you know,
38:18
Speaker 1: already been in there. But you know, you're just finding
38:21
Speaker 1: your way. You're trying to get your career together, you know, say,
38:24
Speaker 1: you're finding out who you are. And I think it's
38:27
Speaker 1: important to know yourself first and you know, accept yourself
38:32
Speaker 1: before you can, you know, try to add something else
38:35
Speaker 1: to your life. I just think it's a chemical imbalancing men.
38:41
Speaker 1: Women are a lot more sure on that department then,
38:46
Speaker 1: because I think in our twenties as a man, like,
38:48
Speaker 1: we're kind of like trying to figure out, Okay, I'm
38:50
Speaker 1: a man, you know what I'm saying like, Okay, what
38:53
Speaker 1: I want to do, what I want to become. You
38:54
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like you're just so focused on
38:56
Speaker 1: like the grind, the hustle, you know what I'm saying.
38:59
Speaker 1: Like it could be what you and what you're focused on.
39:02
Speaker 1: Like you said, what you focused on if you're trying
39:04
Speaker 1: to you know, make it in your career, trying to
39:05
Speaker 1: get money or whatever like that, and you're so focused
39:08
Speaker 1: on trying to be in a relationship, trying to be
39:10
Speaker 1: a good girlfriend or a good boyfriend or whatever like that,
39:13
Speaker 1: and stressing yourself over something that you know, whoever may
39:18
Speaker 1: not like or whatever. I just feel like it it's
39:20
Speaker 1: kind of distracting. Yeah, I think to um that whatever
39:25
Speaker 1: distractions comes from, especially for men, whatever distractions come from
39:29
Speaker 1: the opposite sex or you know, in the process of
39:33
Speaker 1: trying to figure yourself out, locking in early excludes all that,
39:37
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. It kind of puts you
39:39
Speaker 1: in the frame of mind to focused on home and
39:43
Speaker 1: realize that that's what's most important, the most important thing saying,
39:46
Speaker 1: and then everything else kind of falls in place. I think,
39:49
Speaker 1: you know, a lot of confusion comes with people thinking
39:51
Speaker 1: there's something else or thinking it's gonna be better, or
39:54
Speaker 1: thinking there's another version out there that exists for them
39:57
Speaker 1: that's gonna you know, put them in this whole and
40:00
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, box of Yes, I hate
40:04
Speaker 1: to say it, but you know, for a man to
40:06
Speaker 1: not cheat, that is a job. That is a job
40:12
Speaker 1: because when the uh nine signs of the tent, when
40:14
Speaker 1: someone sees a nice, faithful man, that's very attractive sandwich,
40:20
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So when you're a favorable man,
40:22
Speaker 1: you over here like ship, well, you ain't gonna say
40:31
Speaker 1: that that ship as a whole. There's a whole bunch
40:36
Speaker 1: of buckery going on one. They're trying to get you
40:39
Speaker 1: what because it's not a lot of people out there
40:41
Speaker 1: that are in relationships and I think they're psyche, but
40:45
Speaker 1: it's a lot of open relationships to have. That's don't
40:48
Speaker 1: put that on table. It's a lot of open relationships. Now,
40:52
Speaker 1: are you cool with all that? Cool? You want to
40:55
Speaker 1: take them up that you want sexual preference, I guess,
40:57
Speaker 1: But as far as relationships, you just gotta you know,
41:00
Speaker 1: you can't be selfish and expect to get that one.
41:02
Speaker 1: And then you also got to look at what happens
41:04
Speaker 1: in your twenties. You know what I'm saying, Like, yeah,
41:06
Speaker 1: you're trying to figure out yourself. Yeah, you're trying to
41:09
Speaker 1: you know, get your coin, and you're trying to grow,
41:11
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But like, imagine building that
41:14
Speaker 1: with somebody that's like minded, because you know, you run
41:17
Speaker 1: across a bunch of motherfucker's. It ain't on your page.
41:19
Speaker 1: I'm talking about professionally, personally, you know, and it's nothing
41:23
Speaker 1: like building something and seeing the fruits of your hard
41:26
Speaker 1: work and your labor. Because they don't get easy. They don't.
41:30
Speaker 1: I mean, you know what I'm saying, It will get
41:32
Speaker 1: easier to come, you know, the ladder portion. And you're
41:36
Speaker 1: older and you've you know, accomplish your saving goal. Your
41:39
Speaker 1: kids are great, and all you got to do is
41:42
Speaker 1: talk about what you know life has given you, which
41:44
Speaker 1: at that point is gold. If your kids are healthy,
41:48
Speaker 1: doing what they're supposed to do, if you can have conversation, dialogue,
41:52
Speaker 1: still laugh, still on the whole hands. My point is like,
41:54
Speaker 1: you just waste a lot of time. And I feel
41:56
Speaker 1: like I say this all the time of all the
41:58
Speaker 1: radio people. Really honestly, people really really waste people's time
42:05
Speaker 1: these days, because you go six seven years in the relationship.
42:08
Speaker 1: I tell I got you know, I'm mentor a whole
42:10
Speaker 1: bunch of people. You waste some people's time, six seven
42:12
Speaker 1: years of the life, and y'all ain't trying to do
42:14
Speaker 1: nothing with it, especially if you know somebody gonna hold
42:16
Speaker 1: you down to do right by you and do the
42:18
Speaker 1: things that other people haven't done. And what you're gonna
42:21
Speaker 1: experience different, you know what I'm saying. I mean, obviously
42:23
Speaker 1: you're gonna get some new it's going to be a
42:25
Speaker 1: new sexual experience. Obviously sex in any relationship. At the
42:28
Speaker 1: beginning this oh my god, you know I'm talking about.
42:32
Speaker 1: But then that wears off. And then what you missed
42:34
Speaker 1: the way she used to fry the megs? You know
42:36
Speaker 1: what somethow you missed the way he used to pick
42:38
Speaker 1: you up. You know what I'm talking about. To take you,
42:40
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like, you just gotta really realize what's
42:43
Speaker 1: for you. And like I said at the beginning, if
42:45
Speaker 1: you're selfish, then you know, I think if you are saying,
42:50
Speaker 1: that's the perfect time to be extremely self I mean,
42:53
Speaker 1: and there's a period in life you should be. But
42:55
Speaker 1: I think when you're when you start having sex, at
42:58
Speaker 1: that point, that should be your figure it out. I'm
43:01
Speaker 1: gonna try to stand the third. I'm gonna get find
43:03
Speaker 1: out who I am sexually by telling you in your
43:05
Speaker 1: mid twenties you pretty much know who you are sexually.
43:08
Speaker 1: They don't have a class about this. I'm telling they
43:10
Speaker 1: don't have a class because you know who you are
43:12
Speaker 1: sexually and there's no real trying to after that is
43:14
Speaker 1: really busy. Like your business minded, I mean, your business
43:18
Speaker 1: mind should kick in. How am I going to live?
43:20
Speaker 1: What's what's gonna be my path? You know what I'm saying?
43:24
Speaker 1: In business? Um, what am I gonna do professionally? So
43:27
Speaker 1: I think twenties are a great year to figure some
43:29
Speaker 1: stuff out. But by the end of your twenties you
43:31
Speaker 1: gotta lock in. Twenties have a lot of distractions though,
43:35
Speaker 1: have a lot of distractions yet, but yeah, you know,
43:39
Speaker 1: but you gotta be focused on what you're trying to do.
43:42
Speaker 1: And to be honest, I want to say this to
43:43
Speaker 1: everybody out there in ball the nation. If you believe
43:46
Speaker 1: in karma, it applies to you. Com back on. If
43:50
Speaker 1: you believe in karma, it applies to some people don't
43:52
Speaker 1: believe in it, So don't you be wondering why that
43:54
Speaker 1: motherfucker's asked? So you know shot fourteen, motherfucker's he getting
43:57
Speaker 1: all the money in the world. You know I'm talking
43:59
Speaker 1: about that. No, trust me. If day coming, but if
44:03
Speaker 1: you believe in Carmel, it applies to you. So yeah,
44:07
Speaker 1: y'all good, keep the ball ball of mail coming, y'all.
44:13
Speaker 1: At Ferrari Simmons, how at me one time of my
44:15
Speaker 1: group chat, they said not to not to mention them,
44:18
Speaker 1: so you know, but yeah, we canna have a conversation
44:20
Speaker 1: after they watched the episode. Al Right, cool and now
44:23
Speaker 1: side for coming and creeping shoes all are we gonna
44:26
Speaker 1: hold you down? Keep creeping? All right? Y'all know who
44:33
Speaker 1: lyrical lore is, huh? Her cross ex She had a
44:39
Speaker 1: really large gluyas Maximus is really large. So she posted
44:43
Speaker 1: a picture and it says, crack is whack. But in
44:45
Speaker 1: this case, you know, showing a crack, you can see
44:48
Speaker 1: you can definitely see the line. Right, So Heavenly Heavenly
44:54
Speaker 1: ops says, how many dicks did you have to suck
44:57
Speaker 1: to get where you are today in life? Make in
45:00
Speaker 1: my head? Now, she says, how many did you suck?
45:03
Speaker 1: And yet you're nowhere. Furthermore, she didn't say, she didn't
45:07
Speaker 1: deny the allegations. Yeah, very funny. Also one more can
45:14
Speaker 1: sue her your back to K B M K E
45:17
Speaker 1: two X when y'all going to make a New Friday,
45:20
Speaker 1: ice Cube finishing the script. So a New Friday is
45:23
Speaker 1: on the way. I can't wait to see that. That's
45:25
Speaker 1: one of my favorite franchise. Chris talk is gonna be
45:27
Speaker 1: in the movie, though, Non't I need Mike Epps over
45:30
Speaker 1: Chris Talker one? Why not both? Chris Tucker made Friday
45:34
Speaker 1: Hello on Friday without Chris not matter, Mike Epps and
45:39
Speaker 1: then Cat Williams. You need all like I would like,
45:41
Speaker 1: you need all everybody I would like to has to
45:44
Speaker 1: be in. But I saw I saw Mike Epps and
45:46
Speaker 1: some of the promos. You gotta be called like the
45:48
Speaker 1: Last Friday. That's a really dope franchise. You can't stop.
45:53
Speaker 1: You gotta be the Friday before Last. I just want
45:56
Speaker 1: to add all of them and everybody. That's kind of hard.
46:03
Speaker 1: Sorry now signed for Confucius says, you see that little
46:10
Speaker 1: more fucking back. She did that. She was on time,
46:13
Speaker 1: and she was like um my happy Monday. Uh. This
46:20
Speaker 1: week I posted never compare your grind with others. You
46:25
Speaker 1: are not the same. A lot of times we get
46:28
Speaker 1: caught up out here, you know, even myself. When I
46:31
Speaker 1: was twenty years old, I patterned my whole life after
46:34
Speaker 1: Sean Puff Daddy Calmbs. I said, I gotta have a
46:36
Speaker 1: record label. About twenty three, I gotta have a cloth.
46:39
Speaker 1: I tried to emulate success I had seen, but that
46:45
Speaker 1: wasn't my journey. I wasn't supposed to be bad boy.
46:48
Speaker 1: Do that means part two for you, friendless mother Fox.
46:52
Speaker 1: I was supposed to walk on my own journey. I
46:55
Speaker 1: was supposed to identify life as I knew it and
46:58
Speaker 1: walked down my path that I called. And when we
47:01
Speaker 1: compare ourselves to other people, what they're doing and how
47:06
Speaker 1: they're doing it, comparing is crippling. Comparing put you in
47:12
Speaker 1: a mindset that you have to be like rather than
47:16
Speaker 1: you have to be you. I'm not trying to be
47:20
Speaker 1: like nobody else, even Mike. So go forth, balling Nation
47:24
Speaker 1: and be you. The dream is really we did that. Hey,
47:29
Speaker 1: lebron is seven, lebron o Jesus, It's for you,