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New-Dirty Little Secret: “Should You Ever Take Off Your Wedding Ring? · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: This is Dirty Little Secrets.
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  Speaker 2: God, Nick's one on two point nine. Good morning, it's
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  Speaker 2: Bailey the Kid. Candice Lopez is here, producer who is here?
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  Speaker 2: Don't forget tomorrow. I'm so excited for this seven point thirty.
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  Speaker 2: We have on the ex girlfriend of the guy who
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  Speaker 2: proposed yep last Friday, and it's taken a long time
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  Speaker 2: because she works, and I'm just like, I'm trying to
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  Speaker 2: do my best to get her on. I wanted heron
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  Speaker 2: immediately the same day, but this guy broke up with her,
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  Speaker 2: the girl who was calling in to propose to his ex.
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  Speaker 3: And he did it all.
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  Speaker 2: Within a few days of each other, if you missed it,
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  Speaker 2: which it was just a wild three days. He literally
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  Speaker 2: is like, yeah, my ex reached out, she's sober now
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  Speaker 2: I want to get back with her. You know, this
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  Speaker 2: was a once in a lifetime kind of deal. And
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  Speaker 2: so I broke it off with the girl I'm dating
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  Speaker 2: for nine months. Well, the girl he was dating for
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  Speaker 2: nine months has a couple of things to say. I
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  Speaker 2: don't really know what, but I know that she's She
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  Speaker 2: didn't sound thrilled, yeah about what happened, but he didn't
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  Speaker 2: say a bad thing about her. I think that's important
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  Speaker 2: to say because he's I think he's upset with me
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  Speaker 2: because that I'm.
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  Speaker 3: Putting her on. Yeah, but I'm like, no, this is
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  Speaker 3: I can't be biased. I'm not gonna just put your show.
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  Speaker 4: It makes me feel like there is more to the story.
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  Speaker 4: He was hiding something or I don't know. She He
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  Speaker 4: didn't bad mouth her.
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  Speaker 3: And I didn't put her on the day.
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  Speaker 2: Originally she tried to call in on the day of
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  Speaker 2: the proposal, yeah, and poof fumbled the bag and said
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  Speaker 2: put her on hold, and then she hung up.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I was we were getting belown up.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't know.
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  Speaker 3: I know.
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  Speaker 2: But if someone calls in and like, hey, I'm that
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  Speaker 2: guy's ex girlfriend, hold on what no, put.
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  Speaker 3: Her through immediately lave your hands and I'll put her
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  Speaker 3: on the air right then. But it's okay.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't put her on the air that day anyway
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  Speaker 2: because I didn't want to ruin the proposal. So either way,
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  Speaker 2: we're going to talk to her tomorrow at seven thirty.
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  Speaker 2: Dirty little Secret, feel free to call in. I don't
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  Speaker 2: care if your secret is ten minutes old, ten years old,
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  Speaker 2: if it's a crazy confession, something silly whatever. Eight three
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  Speaker 2: three seven eight seven one o two nine. You have one,
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  Speaker 2: all right.
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  Speaker 5: I'm gonna fest this right now. Sometimes you know, when
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  Speaker 5: I go out, I think, I think my ring go.
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  Speaker 3: So that's what they call.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, that's what producer was telling me behind the scenes,
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  Speaker 2: because you got to hear this guy you take you
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  Speaker 2: take your wedding ring off.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah. Why, I've been married for a long time. You know,
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  Speaker 5: me and wife. You you know, we you know, we
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  Speaker 5: have a little tension between us, and you know we
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  Speaker 5: don't have that sparkle we used to. So I want
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  Speaker 5: to see if I still got it. So when I
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  Speaker 5: go out on the streets, you know, go to a bar,
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  Speaker 5: stuff like that, and I take my ring off for
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  Speaker 5: a minute, it just to see if I still have it.
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  Speaker 5: You know, I might buy aways rings for it a
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  Speaker 5: little bit, but nothing. I don't frost any lines. I
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  Speaker 5: don't take nobody home. I don't even get nobody's number.
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  Speaker 5: But at the same time, you know, I want to
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  Speaker 5: still to see if I still got it.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I don't ring off, But don't you think
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  Speaker 2: you don't cross the line. That's great, but don't Maybe
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  Speaker 2: crossing the line is taking your ring off and flirting
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  Speaker 2: with women maybe that's.
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  Speaker 4: The line you're spending money on any other woman, but me,
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  Speaker 4: it's not right.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't take any numbers.
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  Speaker 5: Numbers I mean for the most part, I got maybe
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  Speaker 5: I go on Tuesdays to a bar. They have to
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  Speaker 5: you two for one specials, so I get by a
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  Speaker 5: word tooth for one and then whoever I'm talking to,
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  Speaker 5: I order him they get that a drink. So it's
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  Speaker 5: like it's not even like charge like multiple drinks. Like
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  Speaker 5: I'm just doing my one drink, giving giving the person
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  Speaker 5: another drink, and you know, moving forward, having a good conversation.
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  Speaker 5: So I see seeing it myself have it, you know,
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  Speaker 5: so have that flir, have that you know that brabido
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  Speaker 5: you know, as a single man. But at the same time,
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  Speaker 5: I'm not single. I know I'm married, you know I'm faithful.
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  Speaker 5: But at the same time, you know, I want to
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  Speaker 5: still see.
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  Speaker 3: If I have it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I get it, But why do you feel like
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  Speaker 2: you need the attention from other women because.
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  Speaker 5: My wife, man, it just seems like, you know, we
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  Speaker 5: don't have to give her like we don't have that
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  Speaker 5: bond anymore any I don't feel like you know, she
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  Speaker 5: does me anymore. We're not physical like that she's always
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  Speaker 5: not in the mood anymore. So it's like, you know what,
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  Speaker 5: what can a man do? Like, I mean, I gotta
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  Speaker 5: do something like I still feel like, you know, I'm
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  Speaker 5: the man in some way in some fashion.
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  Speaker 1: Have you talked to her about this?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I've talked to her multiple times about this.
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  Speaker 3: I can't speak for women can as you can.
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  Speaker 2: I mean usually, when let's say a woman is not
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  Speaker 2: in the mood or she's never in the mood, it's
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  Speaker 2: not because she's not attracted. It's usually an emotional something
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  Speaker 2: that's going on. It's triggering her body to go.
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  Speaker 4: She's busy and has kids and her hormones are changing.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, that's just like part of the gig honestly,
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  Speaker 4: Like men just have to get used to it.
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  Speaker 1: That's just my opinion. We're doing all we can to.
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  Speaker 4: Be better for you, but it's the slum.
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes I'm not saying this is his behavior is acceptable,
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  Speaker 2: but no or hers.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe she has to address it as well. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 4: mean there's two people involved.
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  Speaker 5: She should feel lucky. I mean, like she's a good
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  Speaker 5: guy that's not out here like wowing out just you know,
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  Speaker 5: go out there seeing if he still has it. Okay,
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  Speaker 5: let's say MYRLF occasionally. That's it.
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  Speaker 3: Let's not say that to her.
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  Speaker 2: You should feel lucky, you should feel lucky that I'm here.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, you don't really think that.
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  Speaker 5: Though she should be lucky. I know, guys, they're in
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  Speaker 5: the same situation at me and they're out here doing
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  Speaker 5: way worse.
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  Speaker 3: So yeah, but that is't that bad.
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  Speaker 1: But she's married to you, right, What.
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  Speaker 3: Would you do if you found out she was doing
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  Speaker 3: the same thing.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know. I can't say.
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  Speaker 4: I have a feeling you wouldn't appreciate it.
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  Speaker 5: I don't cost any lines, though I don't really cost
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  Speaker 5: any lines. There's no great area between you, I said,
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  Speaker 5: I don't get nobody's number.
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  Speaker 6: You know, I don't you know, well, I think I
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  Speaker 6: think the gray area is the fact that you're taking
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  Speaker 6: your ring off and talking to other women.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to give you credit for not cheating,
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  Speaker 2: just because that's something you shouldn't do in the first place.
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  Speaker 2: So it's hard to give someone credit for not cheating.
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  Speaker 2: But it's good that you don't, I guess. I just
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  Speaker 2: I think that you have to address some things in
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  Speaker 2: your relationship if you if you want things to get
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  Speaker 2: better with your wife on the physical front. I think
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  Speaker 2: you got to put in the work on the emotional
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  Speaker 2: front to see what's really going on because something's obviously
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  Speaker 2: not clicking for a reason.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, true, true, who's roommates.
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  Speaker 4: Like No woman wants to be that way either, she's
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  Speaker 4: not making a choice to be like that.
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  Speaker 3: You know, I can't say it's not it's not always
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  Speaker 3: the guy's fault.
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  Speaker 1: No, I'm not saying that. I'm saying it's not. You
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  Speaker 1: have to talk to her about it.
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  Speaker 3: It's a mutual thing.
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  Speaker 1: Women who are in that position don't want to be
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  Speaker 1: in that position.
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  Speaker 3: That's you know.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes it's just life is life.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right, I can see that. So maybe you guys,
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  Speaker 2: you talk about it. I do know, though, I will say,
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  Speaker 2: and I'm not I'm not going to give you any
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  Speaker 2: kind of grace for doing what you're doing. But it
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  Speaker 2: is for men and women when you don't feel like
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  Speaker 2: you're wanted. I can see why you do want to
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  Speaker 2: get attention in other places.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just psychology, right, it's just psychology.
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  Speaker 2: Sure, right, So but you got but you're married, so
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  Speaker 2: you got to fix it and right, yeah, figure it out.
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  Speaker 3: We appreciate you calling up good luck and let us
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  Speaker 3: know if anything changes. Okay, we'll know.
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  Speaker 2: Who got lit up today lit up today over this
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  Speaker 2: because I'm telling you, just because it's not working out
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  Speaker 2: at home physically doesn't mean you could.
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  Speaker 3: Take your ring off. That's my whole point. It just doesn't.
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  Speaker 3: It doesn't make it okay. I mean I understand that,
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  Speaker 3: but my whole point is take care of your man. Lady,
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  Speaker 3: take care of you, take care of your wife.
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  Speaker 4: Right, there's two people in the relationship. You don't want
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  Speaker 4: me to read it out individually. Every relationship is different.
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  Speaker 2: You don't want me to read the DMS I got
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  Speaker 2: about you on this. Oh yeah yeah. They're like, who
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  Speaker 2: ain't helping himself? Who's going to be single forever? Tell
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  Speaker 2: who to shut up?