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She Built an AI Version of Herself to Help People Heal 24/7 | Coach Riana Milne [Ep 77] · Glovisor Podcast

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  Speaker 1: Breaking toxic patterns isn't just about finding the right person.
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  Speaker 1: It starts with understanding yourself, rebuilding your self-worth, and learning
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  Speaker 1: what healthy love really looks like. Welcome to the Goalvisor podcast,
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  Speaker 1: where we explore business growth, communication, and personal development through
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  Speaker 1: real conversations with people who make an impact. Our guest
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  Speaker 1: has spent more than 40 years helping people transform their lives,
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  Speaker 1: including more than 27 years as a licensed mental health counselor.
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  Speaker 1: She specializes in helping people heal from relationship trauma, rebuild self-worth,
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  Speaker 1: break toxic patterns, and create healthier, more fulfilling relationships. She's
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  Speaker 1: also a number one Amazon bestselling author, internationally recognized coach,
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  Speaker 1: and host of the Lessons in Life and Love podcast.
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  Speaker 1: Glowvisor welcomes Coach Rihanna Milne.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, everyone. It's so nice to be here. Thanks for
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  Speaker 2: asking me on.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, pleasure.
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  Speaker 2: All right.
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  Speaker 1: So, Rihanna, please share with us, what specific problems do
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  Speaker 1: you solve and who do you help?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, wow. There's so much. Yeah. I am known for
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  Speaker 2: healing childhood and love trauma, but also when I work
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  Speaker 2: with a client, we look at their whole life wheel.
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  Speaker 2: So friendships, finances, family interactions with siblings, parents, we look
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  Speaker 2: at everything. That's what a life coach does. But I
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  Speaker 2: am known for healing childhood trauma, which is a mental
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  Speaker 2: health issue. And then love trauma. So people coming from abusive,
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  Speaker 2: toxic relationships will often turn to me to heal first
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  Speaker 2: and then learn the skills to go on to date
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  Speaker 2: an emotionally healthy partner and understand and be more alert
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  Speaker 2: to the red flags that happen in the dating process.
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  Speaker 2: Very often, psychologically, they want love so bad that they settle.
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  Speaker 2: Or they think things will get better and they don't
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  Speaker 2: want to notice the red flags. So that new education
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  Speaker 2: that they get to date successfully all leads to more
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  Speaker 2: emotionally healthy, conscious relationship. So who do I work with?
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  Speaker 2: Anyone 18 plus around the world. Men, women, straight, LGBTQ, singles,
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  Speaker 2: and couples. And my new invention, Rihanna AI, speaks in
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  Speaker 2: 175 languages. So now I launched her February, Valentine's Day,
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  Speaker 2: as a love coach. I thought that was very appropriate.
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  Speaker 2: That was my goal. And she does work, again, 24-7
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  Speaker 2: in 175 languages. So now there is no barrier to
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  Speaker 2: helping everyone around the world. So I'm very excited about that.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, you really literally work with anyone.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: That's amazing.
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  Speaker 2: Now I can. Before, I could only speak English and
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  Speaker 2: a little bit of Spanish, but not well enough to
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  Speaker 2: really help someone live. So my avatar that looks like me,
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  Speaker 2: sounds like me, and has my personality, which is calm
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  Speaker 2: and loving, that's housed at RihannaAI.com for international wellness and
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  Speaker 2: life transition. And then for love issues, I have LoveCoachOnline.com.
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  Speaker 2: So both Rihanna AI is housed in those areas. And
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  Speaker 2: there's all kinds of free resources there for everyone. You
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  Speaker 2: can give it a try for free as well. The
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  Speaker 2: tech spot also speaks 175 languages. So it's pretty exciting.
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  Speaker 2: I was really psyched to launch that. Yeah, it sounds
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  Speaker 2: like it.
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  Speaker 1: But before we go on, can you take us back
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  Speaker 1: to 40 years ago? What made you choose this career path?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, it actually started when I was 16 years old.
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  Speaker 2: It's kind of a sad story. I did lose my
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  Speaker 2: very best childhood friend. He was killed by a drunk driver.
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  Speaker 2: And I asked my mom if I could go to
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  Speaker 2: a counselor to help heal and handle the grief. And
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  Speaker 2: she said, no one in this family will ever go
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  Speaker 2: to a counselor. And I said, watch me. I will
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  Speaker 2: grow up and become one. So that's the first that
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  Speaker 2: I used to watch me mindset for success, which is
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  Speaker 2: now trademarks. And I've been coaching that since my 20s.
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  Speaker 2: So I couldn't go to counseling. I was too young
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  Speaker 2: to do it on my own. And back then it
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  Speaker 2: was considered a stigma. My mother did not want us
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  Speaker 2: to go to a counselor. But I did turn to books,
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  Speaker 2: spiritual guidance, books like From the Dalai Lama and The
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  Speaker 2: Course of Miracles and business-type books that worked with spirituality.
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  Speaker 2: So that's how it all began. Then, a few years later,
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  Speaker 2: I lost my best friend and roommate. She was murdered
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  Speaker 2: by her boyfriend at Penn State. So with that, I
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  Speaker 2: dedicated my life to helping people with addictions. That was
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  Speaker 2: for Michael and for Corinne, helping people with love trauma.
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  Speaker 2: So my grief then turned to purpose. So I took
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  Speaker 2: my pain and made it my purpose and my passion.
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  Speaker 2: At 26 years old, I opened a model and talent
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  Speaker 2: agency in school that I had for 10 years. But
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  Speaker 2: with all that reading and studying, I started teaching the
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  Speaker 2: mindset for success. So I had models, actors, singers, dancers
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  Speaker 2: from Erie, Pennsylvania, a very small town, who wanted big
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  Speaker 2: city stardom and success in New York, L.A., Miami, and internationally.
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  Speaker 2: So that's when I started coaching the mindset for success philosophy.
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  Speaker 2: So these everyday people, like one of the dancers in
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  Speaker 2: the area wanted to be a rockette. She became a rockette.
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  Speaker 2: I had an auto mechanic that wanted to be on Baywatch,
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  Speaker 2: which was a show many years ago about lifeguards on
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  Speaker 2: the beach. He ended up on Baywatch. So, you know,
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  Speaker 2: it was, I was called the dream maker. I would
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  Speaker 2: take people's dreams and teach them mindset for them to
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  Speaker 2: succeed using the talent they came in the door with.
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  Speaker 2: So I love that work as well, but I always
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  Speaker 2: knew I wanted to be a counselor. So at 40,
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  Speaker 2: I went back and got a triple master's in psychology
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  Speaker 2: and started my practice in year 2000 called Therapy by
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  Speaker 2: the Sea.
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  Speaker 1: It's so interesting. You turn some tragedies into purpose. That's
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  Speaker 1: great that you were able to make that transition to
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  Speaker 1: do more to help others that have gone through the same.
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  Speaker 1: But you mentioned spirituality. You were reading some of those books.
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  Speaker 1: Is that still a big part of your life today?
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  Speaker 2: Yes. I'm also Reverend Rihanna Milne. since 1996 when I
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  Speaker 2: lived in the South Jersey area of Atlantic City. I
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  Speaker 2: was doing a lot of the weddings. I was the
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  Speaker 2: busiest book minister, maybe doing four to five weddings in
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  Speaker 2: a weekend. And I'm fun and I'm down to earth
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  Speaker 2: and I'm easy to work with and if I have
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  Speaker 2: a nervous bride, I was always able to do mental
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  Speaker 2: health work and calm down her anxiety. So I served
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  Speaker 2: in many different ways on their wedding day, but it
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  Speaker 2: was a real honor to be A part of that
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  Speaker 2: and all my wedding ceremonies, that's a business I have
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  Speaker 2: called Ceremonies by Rihanna, is all custom written because I'm
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  Speaker 2: a writer. So it wasn't just open a book and
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  Speaker 2: read it. It was a custom loving ceremony once I
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  Speaker 2: knew their two stories. And yeah, so it's still a
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  Speaker 2: big part and it is a big part of healing. Also,
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  Speaker 2: according to research, it's one of the number one things
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  Speaker 2: couple needs to have a sustainable relationship over time is
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  Speaker 2: a sense of shared faith. It doesn't matter what religion
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  Speaker 2: it is. It's a spiritual belief system and how you
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  Speaker 2: act 24-7 with accountability and integrity and honor that makes
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  Speaker 2: you answer to a higher power so you're not out
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  Speaker 2: there cheating or doing other things that are not faith-based, right?
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  Speaker 2: So healing is a big part of having spirituality as
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  Speaker 2: a part of that.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, totally agree. Now, you know, it's interesting. I probably
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  Speaker 1: should have asked, what don't you do? Because it seems
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  Speaker 1: like you've.
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  Speaker 2: Done a lot. Well, yeah, I'm also a mom and
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  Speaker 2: a grandma and a fiance to my partner, Chris. Congrats.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, I've always loved writing. My first book I
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  Speaker 2: wrote was a model and talent textbook of 250 pages
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  Speaker 2: for my school because they didn't have one on commercial
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  Speaker 2: real people modeling. And I had people from five to
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  Speaker 2: 84 years old. So that's when I started writing. And
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  Speaker 2: then I wrote my master's theses, which was over 200 pages.
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  Speaker 2: But you can actually find that on the Internet today.
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  Speaker 2: I think that's pretty cool. Because when that book came out,
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  Speaker 2: it was donated to science. You didn't get it on
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  Speaker 2: the internet. But if you just put in, you know,
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  Speaker 2: Rihanna Milne, and it was healing adolescence, lack of self-esteem,
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  Speaker 2: and fears of the future, and then improving them in
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  Speaker 2: many ways. So their self-love, their grades, their personality, their
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  Speaker 2: social confidence, So I did a six-month program free for
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  Speaker 2: the Atlantic City inner city kids to help them be
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  Speaker 2: more successful. And I definitely taught a lot of the
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  Speaker 2: mindset for success information then to them. And it was
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  Speaker 2: really great to see them excel. So this is a
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  Speaker 2: more technological science-based book, pre and post tests about how
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  Speaker 2: much they've changed. So, yeah. That was the second one.
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  Speaker 2: And then live and love beyond your dreams. Love beyond
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  Speaker 2: your dreams from fear and is break free of toxic
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  Speaker 2: relationships to have the love you deserve and live beyond
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  Speaker 2: your dreams is from fear and doubt to personal power,
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  Speaker 2: purpose and success. So that's about mindset and love is
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  Speaker 2: about emotionally healthy, conscious love. But they are meant to
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  Speaker 2: go together. They're sister books because you can't have great
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  Speaker 2: love if you don't have a sense of spirituality and
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  Speaker 2: a great mindset. Right. So they are meant to go together.
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  Speaker 1: You were a counselor and then became a coach.
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  Speaker 2: Correct.
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  Speaker 1: What is the difference between the two and why would
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  Speaker 1: you make that shift?
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  Speaker 2: That's a great question. Yes, I graduated with a triple
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  Speaker 2: master's in applied clinical and counseling psychology. From there, I
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  Speaker 2: got licensed and was licensed in New Jersey, where I
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  Speaker 2: lived at the time. I'm now in Florida. So what
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  Speaker 2: was called up there was LPC, licensed professional counselor. Down
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  Speaker 2: here is licensed mental health counselor. So when I moved
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  Speaker 2: 14 years later, I had a retest. I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: my God, how am I going to remember everything I
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  Speaker 2: learned 14 years ago and retake this test for Florida?
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  Speaker 2: But that's what we had to do back in the
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  Speaker 2: time that I moved here. there's a lot of different rules.
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  Speaker 2: Like I can only work within my state as a
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  Speaker 2: licensed mental health counselor. So as soon as certification came out,
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  Speaker 2: I went to RCI, Relationship Coaching Institute, and became certified
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  Speaker 2: over two years, one year for singles work and one
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  Speaker 2: year for couples work. And that was quite an intensive
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  Speaker 2: course to be certified back then as a coach. I
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  Speaker 2: know today people are just saying, I'm a coach. And
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  Speaker 2: it's like, okay, you know, How much education did you have?
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  Speaker 2: But I love the coaching model because I can coach
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  Speaker 2: internationally and I don't have to keep charts and I
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  Speaker 2: don't have to keep a diagnosis on someone. I always
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  Speaker 2: called my counseling people clients. I never called them patients
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  Speaker 2: because the word patients connotates that they're sick. To me,
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  Speaker 2: that's not the point. They're going through a tough transition. Right.
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  Speaker 2: So they might have lost a spouse and they're depressed
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  Speaker 2: right now. But why put that diagnostic label of depression
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  Speaker 2: on someone that's in their charts for the rest of
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  Speaker 2: their life? They're going through a life transition. With coaching,
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  Speaker 2: we don't have to give any of those codes. So
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  Speaker 2: to me, that's a huge, huge example. I have a
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  Speaker 2: lot of entertainers. I have police officers, EMT, And I've
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  Speaker 2: had people who are air marshals that don't want, people
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  Speaker 2: in the military that don't want a diagnostic code, but
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  Speaker 2: they want help. So they come to me for coaching.
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  Speaker 2: To me, that sense of privacy is really important, you know,
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  Speaker 2: because if there's a police officer and he and his
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  Speaker 2: wife had a fight and there's domestic issues, he could
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  Speaker 2: lose his job, right? So he wants help. but they
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  Speaker 2: hesitate to go to a counselor because they could lose
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  Speaker 2: their job with that. So to me, these are huge differences,
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  Speaker 2: and this is why I always love the coaching model. Also,
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  Speaker 2: the coaching model is more educational. I have written 150-page
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  Speaker 2: workbooks for relationship rescue for couples and dating to mating
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  Speaker 2: for singles. And what it's called is like bibliotherapy. They
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  Speaker 2: fill out the worksheets from what they tell me, and
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  Speaker 2: I know how to coach them on the next session.
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  Speaker 2: So we work as a team. It's back and forth.
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  Speaker 2: We're counseling. You're always processing the past. Now, do I
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  Speaker 2: process the past? Yes, that's extremely important to me because
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  Speaker 2: I need to know their childhood traumas and their experiences
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  Speaker 2: that are leading them to difficulty today as an adult.
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  Speaker 2: But we don't stay there. We process it. We understand it.
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  Speaker 2: We forgive whoever we have to forgive from that. And
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  Speaker 2: then we move forward with the new skills. especially for couples,
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  Speaker 2: communication skills and the dating skills for the singles so
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  Speaker 2: they can have more success in those areas and other
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  Speaker 2: life areas as well.
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  Speaker 1: And I can see that that would be very difficult.
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  Speaker 1: But you mentioned dating because that's something that keeps coming
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  Speaker 1: up very often. The issues that the younger generation, it's
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  Speaker 1: not dating enough or getting married or following the traditional
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  Speaker 1: process that we used to back in the day. Have
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  Speaker 1: you seen that in your practice?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I'm seeing that marriage rates are definitely slowing down.
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  Speaker 2: I still feel a lot of women want children. The
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  Speaker 2: men are postponing marriage because they feel they don't have
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  Speaker 2: the income to support a family, even if they want kids.
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  Speaker 2: So I see marrying much later or not marrying at all,
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  Speaker 2: feeling that they can't support a family.
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  Speaker 1: You mentioned A.I., What were you doing that you made
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  Speaker 1: that change to embrace AI, all of this new technology
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  Speaker 1: and to bring it into your practice? Tell us a
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  Speaker 1: little bit more about that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a pretty funny story because when I was young,
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  Speaker 2: I always should turn to my two daughters, Alexi and Stefana,
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  Speaker 2: to help me with tech. It's like mom's terrible at tech.
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  Speaker 2: You know, you've got to help me with this. So
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  Speaker 2: being in business, you learn. And as soon as AI
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  Speaker 2: came out, I knew this is the future and I
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  Speaker 2: am not going to be behind on it. I'm going
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  Speaker 2: to be ahead of the curve. I've always been that
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  Speaker 2: way in marketing my business, no matter which business it was,
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  Speaker 2: the talent industry or my therapy practice or coaching practice.
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  Speaker 2: I started taking classes right away and enjoyed it. I
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  Speaker 2: was one of the first, I think the only counselor
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  Speaker 2: for quite a while that had my own tech spot
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  Speaker 2: Rihanna AI on rihannamilm.com, my main website for therapy and coaching.
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  Speaker 2: So people could go in and ask it any questions.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm like, this is really cool. I love it.
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  Speaker 2: And then I started calling around different companies. And I said,
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  Speaker 2: I would like a coaching avatar that looks like me
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  Speaker 2: and sounds like me. They're like, no, nothing's out there
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  Speaker 2: like that. It's not out there. It's not out there.
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  Speaker 2: I kept watching for it. Finally, I found a company
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  Speaker 2: in January of this year. that had the development ready.
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  Speaker 2: And I pulled from different other sites to put it together.
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  Speaker 2: And I built my avatar. And then I hired a
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  Speaker 2: company to build the website for me, which is lovecoachonline.com.
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  Speaker 2: And then recently, just in, I guess it was the
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  Speaker 2: end of July, early August, I know I was heading
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  Speaker 2: out to a cruise and I signed the agreement that
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  Speaker 2: was in August. with Pain2Care. com, which is based in Finland.
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  Speaker 2: And a gentleman named Sergio, who works a lot with
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  Speaker 2: that company and with Brazil, he's based in Orlando, but
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  Speaker 2: he saw my work on LinkedIn, gave it to the
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  Speaker 2: couple in Finland and said, you should talk with Rihanna.
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  Speaker 2: You guys are doing the same type of AI work.
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  Speaker 2: And Pain2Care handles that. physical trauma. So someone gets into
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  Speaker 2: a car accident, you know, and they have physical pain
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  Speaker 2: in their body and physical trauma. And I said, I
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  Speaker 2: love what you're doing, but there's nobody to talk to.
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  Speaker 2: Would you like to partner and do Rihanna AI? And
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  Speaker 2: we'll be on each other's websites. So we did a collaboration.
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  Speaker 2: And because of that, I had to build the second website,
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  Speaker 2: which I am building myself now with ChatGBT. called RihannaAI.com.
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  Speaker 2: So that's more for emotional wellness and life transition, like
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  Speaker 2: people from the hospital systems that Pain2Care works with. So
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  Speaker 2: they have hospital systems in Finland, Germany, and the UK.
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  Speaker 2: So now my Rihanna AI is speaking to people in
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  Speaker 2: three countries and, you know, more languages and helping more people.
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  Speaker 2: So it's a very exciting new partnership that just happened
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  Speaker 2: a month ago. There's been a lot going on this year,
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  Speaker 2: but it's been a fabulous year. That is exciting.
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  Speaker 1: But before we move on, can you share with us,
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  Speaker 1: when you say that I can go into this tech spot,
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  Speaker 1: into your website, what can I ask? Can I ask
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  Speaker 1: about some of my issues that I'm having at home
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  Speaker 1: or maybe an argument? And I'll get a response.
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  Speaker 2: Yes. The text bot is written. So if you only
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  Speaker 2: speak Spanish, you speak your native language, you say, Hi,
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  Speaker 2: I'm Joe. I'm 42 years old and I'm struggling with
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  Speaker 2: my wife. And the text bot will write back, Oh,
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  Speaker 2: I'm sorry to hear that, Joe. Let's dive into this
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  Speaker 2: a little bit further. Now, if you're on my avatar...
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  Speaker 2: It's like me talking to you right now on Zoom
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  Speaker 2: or something, you know, where I do my coaching sessions.
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  Speaker 2: It looks like me. It sounds like me. You just say, hey,
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  Speaker 2: I'm Jill. I'm 45 years old. I'm struggling with my
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  Speaker 2: boyfriend and communication. And she will say, geez, Jill, I'm
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  Speaker 2: sorry to hear that. Let's do some role play on
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  Speaker 2: some issues that have come up lately that you can
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  Speaker 2: practice and take back to your boyfriend's. Or if you
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  Speaker 2: speak a different language, hi, I'm Jill and I speak Japanese.
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  Speaker 2: This is what I need help on. And she will
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  Speaker 2: talk back in Japanese. It is really amazing. I'm still
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  Speaker 2: amazed at it. And I'm really thrilled that I built it.
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  Speaker 2: I was telling my girls about it. They're like, what, mom,
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  Speaker 2: you invented an avatar that speaks all these languages? So
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  Speaker 2: they're pretty proud of me about that, you know, a
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  Speaker 2: senior citizen in their 60s, you know, on the head
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  Speaker 2: of the curve. And I was the first in the world,
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  Speaker 2: the first therapist to come out with this. It is
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  Speaker 2: not for mental health counseling because there is no diagnosis
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  Speaker 2: or charts or codes. It is coaching support. And you
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: must be over 18 to use it. And if someone
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: came and said, I'm feeling suicidal, she is programmed to say,
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: then please hang up. This is not appropriate. call your
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: emergency services, 911 in America or suicide helpline, and she'll
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: give that number out. So there's all kinds of safety
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: stops in there. And the other thing that is cutting
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: edge and new is I'm still a working coach, right?
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: So they can do a hybrid where they have Rihanna
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: AI that's available 24-7. If they have a breakup at midnight,
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: they have someone to talk to. But if they say,
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: you know what, I want some more advice from Rihanna herself,
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: then they can get coaching from me. So it's hybrid,
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: meaning both, you know, support, live coaching or Rihanna AI coaching.
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  Speaker 2: And a lot of people enjoy using both systems. You know,
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: I have laser coaching if you just want a quick answer,
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: or I have the programs like Dating to Mating or
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: Relationship Rescue if you want more intensive help.
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  Speaker 1: So that brings up a good question. Do I have
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  Speaker 1: to have a membership ongoing with you? Because you said
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  Speaker 1: something about a laser question. I'm thinking I have an
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: issue at this moment. And I remember I heard Rihanna
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: on the Glowvisor podcast and she said I.
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: Can get an answer.
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  Speaker 1: Can I go ahead and log in immediately and get
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: that answer?
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: Yes, you could get the immediate answers from either Rihanna
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: AI or Love Coach Online. But if you want me,
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: you go to RihannaMilne.com. That's my live coaching site. buy
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: a couple laser coaching sessions. If it's a couple, I
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: usually suggest three. I meet with partner A, partner B,
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: then the couple together on the third one. So each
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: couple's being heard. I have full understanding of the problems
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: from each one. They both are being heard without being interrupted.
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  Speaker 2: And then the third one is all my suggestions that
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: I want them to try. And if they want to
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: keep continuing laser coaching, they can. So that works out
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: really great for a lot of people. But some people
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: want more intensive work for healing with me, and that's
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: when the four or six-month programs are available to them.
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: So I try to hit every area. What do people want?
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: What do they need for their healing? And then many
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: people like, you know, the Rihanna AI system, just to
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: be able to talk to it 24-7 without worrying about
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: an appointment, you know. Right. I always think of, you know,
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: women in other countries that don't have access to coaching
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: and counseling. All they need is an internet and they
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: can get some help, real help from someone that has
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: my clinical background. You know, so Rihanna AI is trained
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: totally in my systems. All my podcasts, all my books,
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: I've written now 20 books. You know, my expertise as
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: a counselor, my expertise as a coach. So over 40
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: years of expertise is fed into Rihanna AI. So the answers,
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: people always say, oh my God, that was amazing. Like
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: I felt like I was in a real coaching session.
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: And they're kind of shocked, and I still am too,
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: that the answers were like, so, I said, I exactly
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: would have said that. Yup, she said exactly what she
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: should have said. So it is an amazing process, and
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: I'm really thrilled that I could develop it for people
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: that need help around the world.
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, sure. Now that you're done pioneering in all these aspects,
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: what else are you working on?
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: Well, I got two phone calls over the summer. One
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: was from Two Market Media in New York City. They're
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: a great marketing firm that has launched like Mel Robbins
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: and Grant Cardone, and they wanted me to be under
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: their wing, which is really great. So I'm working on
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: that and getting more out there with IG, which I
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: never had time to use Instagram and TikTok. So I've
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: started that process. And from there, the company Inside Success
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  Speaker 2: TV found me and they're launching a brand new series
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  Speaker 2: called Love Experts. And it's documentaries on our lives. So
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: I was asked to be on that. So it's a
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: life story. And also I'm there training people in some
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: of the tips that I give as a coach. So
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: it'll be about a half hour show and they're editing
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: it now. So it was very exciting about that. They
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: have all kinds of great documentaries on superstar athletes like
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: Serena Williams and singers, actors, dancers, you name it. And
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: I was asked to be part of this Inside Success
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: TV series. So I was really thrilled about that.
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: Sounds like an awesome project.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: You've had many years of experience. Would you be able
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: to share with us a client case study that really
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: shows a transformation of your work?
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  Speaker 2: Sure. This one always comes to mind because the way
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: it unfolded was very interesting. I was running around preparing
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: my house in Florida for Hurricane Irma and I had
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: a ponytail and shorts and a t-shirt on and boarding
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: up my windows and someone called out of the blue crying.
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: It's like, oh my God, I just heard your podcast
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: and I really need to talk to you. I finally
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: understand childhood trauma has led me to this love trauma
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: and I need your help. So I called her back
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: right away, and she's allowed me to share her story.
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: Her name is Ola, lovely girl. She was in her
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: young 30s at the time, but she was a Russian immigrant,
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: came to the States at 18 with like $ 250 and
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: married Young, the first man that gave her loving attention.
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: And they had a son together, but the man was
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: very abusive. And then the son started saying things that
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: were abusive. And, you know, she's there, I can't do
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: this anymore. I'm trying my best, but I don't know
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: what more to do. So I helped her through that process.
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: She ended up divorcing, but it was a loving divorce.
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: And we helped grow her business. I do business growth
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: and mentoring too. She loved everything I was doing. She goes,
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: I want to be a health coach. Can you help
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: me grow my coaching? Yes, I can. So I mentored
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: her with that. Now that someone is an example of
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: a six-month client because I'm doing life transition through a divorce,
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: getting to the other side of divorce, helping to build
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: her a business and helping her to get back out
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: there and date again. Long story short, we got her
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: back out there dating. She met a wonderful man very
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: soon after they married. They have a daughter and they
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: have a beautiful beachside mansion in the Carolinas. So that's
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: one success story that I've always loved.
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: What would you say is the most important takeaway that
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: you want our listeners to remember from this conversation?
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: Life is short. You know, if you're unhappy in life, love,
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: you need help building your business, get help. Coaching is
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: a tax deduction too, by the way, in America and
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: in many other countries. So invest in yourself. Now, my
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: slogan is now is the time to create the life
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: you desire and have the love you deserve. Keep being
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: excited about your life. Have purpose that helps someone else
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: or the earth or an animal, something that you're excited about. But,
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: you know, it's such a blessing and a gift every day.
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: So just keep growing. And if I can help you
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: in any way, heal the past trauma that you've had
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: from childhood, love trauma, certainly reach out to me. I
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: always say I'm internationally known, but I give small town service.
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: You know, you email me, I email you back. I
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: don't have a secretary. I haven't had a secretary in
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: 27 years, even at my model company, 40 years in business.
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: I always wanted to be the one to help that person,
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: not hand that off to someone else. I thought that
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: was an important difference. So rianamillin at gmail.com. There it is. Or,
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: you know, contact me, rianamilne.com is my website. Or there's
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: contact me on rianai.com for wellness and life transition. And lovecoachonline.com
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: for any love issues that you're going through. But if
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: you want me, you'll find me. I'm not that hard
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: to find, really. And I'd be glad and honored to
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: help you.
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: You're just one search away.
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: That's it.
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: Now, Rianna. Thank you so much for joining us. We
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: really appreciate your time and all the value you shared today.
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: Thanks, Joe. I really appreciate having me on your show.
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: Oh, you're welcome. Thanks, everyone, for listening. If this episode
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: inspired you, make sure you share it with someone who
• 29:05
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  Speaker 1: for more conversations that make an impact. Till the next time.