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- 0:00Speaker 1: Good morning, Usa yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
- 0:03Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
- 0:05Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
- 0:07Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo.
- 0:08Speaker 2: Yo yo Yo.
- 0:09Speaker 3: Jess is out today.
- 0:10Speaker 4: What up?
- 0:10Speaker 3: Lo La rose up?
- 0:11Speaker 5: Good morning y'all.
- 0:12Speaker 1: Chlaman is running a little late and it's Friday.
- 0:17Speaker 3: Weekend is here. Damn how you feeling?
- 0:19Speaker 5: I feel good? I can't wait to sleep.
- 0:21Speaker 3: You can't wait to sleep? There last night?
- 0:23Speaker 5: No, no, not even going anywhere. I just had a
- 0:24Speaker 5: long week.
- 0:25Speaker 6: Like I'm getting adjusted to work a daily podcast. I
- 0:29Speaker 6: have a show that I do a BT now I'm
- 0:31Speaker 6: called Beet Talks, and then I'm here. So I've been like,
- 0:35Speaker 6: it's a lot. Yes, I'm getting adjusted, but I can
- 0:37Speaker 6: car I'm asleep tonight.
- 0:39Speaker 3: It's a lot.
- 0:40Speaker 1: Well, Yes, the weekend is here. Salute to everybody you know.
- 0:44Speaker 3: Me and the wife.
- 0:44Speaker 1: We have a book, our second book, which is coming
- 0:47Speaker 1: out April fifteenth, which is next Tuesday, not this Tuesday,
- 0:50Speaker 1: coming up the following Tuesday.
- 0:52Speaker 3: And we've been doing a lot of press.
- 0:53Speaker 1: And we've been doing a podcast, we've been doing interviews,
- 0:56Speaker 1: so we've been heavy about this book. So yesterday a
- 1:00Speaker 1: bunch of podcasts, a bunch of podcasts from the West coast.
- 1:02Speaker 1: It was like father podcast. I didn't know it was
- 1:03Speaker 1: that many dad podcasts. It's just like the Tired Dad
- 1:06Speaker 1: podcast and this podcast. There's a lot of fathers that
- 1:09Speaker 1: do podcasts. And we just had hour long conversations about
- 1:12Speaker 1: raising kids and how difficult it is and being a
- 1:14Speaker 1: girl dad and all that. So, if you haven't pre ordered,
- 1:17Speaker 1: pre ordered Our Brooks' Real Life, Real Family. We just
- 1:19Speaker 1: talk about raising empowered children and the process of doing it.
- 1:23Speaker 1: And you know, we have six starts from the age
- 1:26Speaker 1: of twenty three to three. So again, if you haven't
- 1:29Speaker 1: pre ordered, pre ordered the book, and hopefully we're gonna
- 1:31Speaker 1: be going on a tour, so hopefully we hit a
- 1:33Speaker 1: city near you and can't wait to see you guys.
- 1:35Speaker 1: All right, well, let's get the show cracking. Melanie Fiona
- 1:38Speaker 1: will be joining us now. Melanie Fiona, she has a
- 1:40Speaker 1: new EPCA. Yes, we haven't seen her in about what
- 1:42Speaker 1: thirteen years the last time she dropped the project, So
- 1:46Speaker 1: we're gonna be kicking it with Melanie Fiona. She got
- 1:48Speaker 1: recently got married, she has a child, so we'll talk
- 1:51Speaker 1: to her about that and then John Hope Bryant will
- 1:53Speaker 1: be joining us. You know, he's a financial literacy entrepreneur.
- 1:57Speaker 1: He's a businessman. He always talks about iterational wealth, but
- 2:00Speaker 1: he tells you how to get there. And we're gonna
- 2:02Speaker 1: be kicking in with John Hope Bryant. All Right, you good,
- 2:06Speaker 1: I'm good.
- 2:06Speaker 6: This is more quiet I ever heard you, because I
- 2:08Speaker 6: mean I just ran in here. I'm just like getting
- 2:10Speaker 6: adjusted with life.
- 2:11Speaker 7: All right.
- 2:12Speaker 1: All right, let's cut the show crack and we got
- 2:14Speaker 1: front page news.
- 2:15Speaker 3: This the breakfast Club. Good morning morning everybody.
- 2:17Speaker 1: It's DJ env Jesse, Larry Chelamaine to god, we are
- 2:21Speaker 1: the breakfast Club. Let's get in some front page news.
- 2:24Speaker 1: Good morning Morgan, Good morning y'all.
- 2:27Speaker 8: Happy Friday, and cheez to the freaking weekday. Yes, all right,
- 2:33Speaker 8: so let's get into it. President Trump and the tariffs. Yeah, so,
- 2:37Speaker 8: he says the tariffs imposed on other countries are having
- 2:41Speaker 8: the desired effect, and he's now open to negotiations. He
- 2:44Speaker 8: made the comments while speaking to reporters aboard Air Force one,
- 2:48Speaker 8: saying his initial plan is over and now he's watching it.
- 2:51Speaker 9: Just settle in. Let's take a listen to President Trump.
- 2:55Speaker 10: As if somebody said that we're gonna give you something
- 2:57Speaker 10: that's so phenomenal.
- 2:58Speaker 3: As long as say giving us something, it's good.
- 3:01Speaker 7: Every country's called bless that's the beauty of what we do.
- 3:06Speaker 8: Put ourselves in the drivers, saying, now I do like
- 3:09Speaker 8: the idea of America being the driver. But Trump said
- 3:13Speaker 8: that every country has called asking to cut a trade
- 3:16Speaker 8: deal with the US to avoid the tariffs, adding that
- 3:19Speaker 8: he's seen in upticking plans to bring manufacturing plants back
- 3:23Speaker 8: to the US. So if that was the plan all along,
- 3:26Speaker 8: then it does appear to be working. Only just twenty
- 3:28Speaker 8: four to forty eight hours later.
- 3:30Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what they were saying. They were saying, these
- 3:31Speaker 1: tariffs a short term plan. It was really done to
- 3:35Speaker 1: shake things up and to get people to negotiate a
- 3:37Speaker 1: lot a little better. But in return it's affected. They
- 3:40Speaker 1: said that the stock market has dropped. They said, the
- 3:42Speaker 1: Dow drop sixteen hundred points, nastag full six percent. Is
- 3:45Speaker 1: a lot of people that's investing that stock market are losing.
- 3:48Speaker 1: To ask, but Mark, can I have a question for you.
- 3:50Speaker 6: If what he's doing is working, why are people so
- 3:53Speaker 6: upset when he says that he's going to do it?
- 3:55Speaker 6: If it works, and he kind of like backs away
- 3:56Speaker 6: from it so that like we're not affected as bad.
- 3:59Speaker 8: You know what it is, Lauren, and I think that
- 4:01Speaker 8: we just don't like change. You know, change is inevitable,
- 4:04Speaker 8: and change that's too abrupt.
- 4:05Speaker 9: Could be you know.
- 4:06Speaker 8: It's like it's scary, it's you know, people don't know
- 4:08Speaker 8: what's happening. But meanwhile, Europe and China are vowing to
- 4:12Speaker 8: respond to President Trump's new tears. Commerce secretary come on Friday,
- 4:17Speaker 8: US Commerce Secretary Howard Lutnik says countries should instead focus
- 4:21Speaker 8: on reevaluating their current trade policies with the US, and
- 4:24Speaker 8: he's confident that the US will end up on the
- 4:26Speaker 8: winning end of any potential tear for Let's hear more
- 4:29Speaker 8: from US Commerce Secretary Howard Lutnik.
- 4:32Speaker 11: Stop saying that we can't sell our corn to India,
- 4:35Speaker 11: stop saying that we can't sell our beef anywhere. Just
- 4:39Speaker 11: stop treating us so poorly. You're going to see American
- 4:43Speaker 11: production start to rise and finally be fair. Yeah.
- 4:49Speaker 8: So, Trump on Wednesday, of course, unveiled the list of
- 4:51Speaker 8: over one hundred and eighty countries and territories that were
- 4:54Speaker 8: hit with reciprocal tariffs and the news sent market, our market,
- 4:58Speaker 8: excuse me? Sliding down in Europe and Asia, and the
- 5:00Speaker 8: world's biggest economies vowed retaliation. Now in Brussels, the head
- 5:04Speaker 8: of the European Commission warned, you take If you take
- 5:08Speaker 8: on one of us, you take on all of us.
- 5:10Speaker 8: China's Commerce ministry describes the terraces as unilaterally bullying and
- 5:16Speaker 8: said they will resolutely take countermeasures to safeguard its own
- 5:20Speaker 8: rights and interest and here domestically in the States, as
- 5:23Speaker 8: you mentioned, v, the stock market is coming off its
- 5:25Speaker 8: worst day in nearly five years. Yesterday, just one day
- 5:28Speaker 8: after President Trump announced his sweeping global terrafs, the smp
- 5:33Speaker 8: plunged five hundred points nearly five percent. That's the biggest
- 5:36Speaker 8: drop for the broad market in deck since June of
- 5:40Speaker 8: twenty twenty. With investors fearing a global trade war. The
- 5:43Speaker 8: Dow Jones Industrial average closed four percent lower, while the
- 5:48Speaker 8: tech heavy NASDAK dropped six percent. Retail stocks were hit hard,
- 5:51Speaker 8: with Nike shares falling more than fourteen percent. And let's
- 5:54Speaker 8: see if the market can stand to bounce back today
- 5:57Speaker 8: as the week ends on what we hope is a
- 6:00Speaker 8: strong note, So any thoughts on what's going on there.
- 6:03Speaker 3: But let me do ask you this.
- 6:05Speaker 1: If they're saying that the terrorists that he's putting on
- 6:08Speaker 1: is could be actually working, do we give him some time?
- 6:11Speaker 1: Because you know, the first thing that people said was
- 6:12Speaker 1: they were upset it was going to cost you know, everything,
- 6:14Speaker 1: the cost of home building, the cost of cars, the
- 6:17Speaker 1: cost of goods were going to go up. But now
- 6:19Speaker 1: they're saying that these countries are actually coming back and
- 6:21Speaker 1: trying to negotiate, so it could possibly be a good thing, right.
- 6:25Speaker 8: Yeah, absolutely, And do we have any choice but to
- 6:28Speaker 8: give President Trump time? I mean, he's got four years,
- 6:30Speaker 8: he's only two or three months in his term, and
- 6:33Speaker 8: it doesn't seem like we really have much of a
- 6:34Speaker 8: choice in terms of giving the man time. But we
- 6:37Speaker 8: will see, you know, we'll see what happens. I will
- 6:40Speaker 8: add that the Canadian Prime Minister Mark Harney says his
- 6:43Speaker 8: country will impose counter auto tariffs in response to President
- 6:46Speaker 8: Trump's announcement, adding that this he expects that it will
- 6:50Speaker 8: impact the world, and he also added that the global
- 6:53Speaker 8: economy is now fundamentally different than it was just days ago.
- 6:56Speaker 8: Carneie also said previously that retaliatory tariffs will remain in
- 7:00Speaker 8: effect for Canada, and he said he doesn't believe Trump
- 7:03Speaker 8: will change direction until the pain is felt by Americans
- 7:06Speaker 8: due to the tariffs going so hard and being too
- 7:09Speaker 8: hard to ignore.
- 7:10Speaker 9: So we will see.
- 7:12Speaker 8: It's it's one of those only time will tell type
- 7:15Speaker 8: of things, it seems like.
- 7:16Speaker 1: So yeah, well I did see Ford post something yesterday
- 7:19Speaker 1: which I thought was very interesting. After all of this,
- 7:21Speaker 1: so Ford on the Instagram page posted Ford who assembles
- 7:25Speaker 1: the most vehicles in the US? Ford Motor Company, Ford
- 7:28Speaker 1: America for America, and he started posting on their cars.
- 7:31Speaker 1: So I just thought that that was a shop like, hey,
- 7:33Speaker 1: we're building a lot of these cars in America here
- 7:35Speaker 1: outside of a lot of these other car companies.
- 7:37Speaker 3: So I thought that was a.
- 7:38Speaker 5: That was that was kind of smart thing.
- 7:40Speaker 3: I thought that was different.
- 7:41Speaker 8: Yeah, happened with the ads before. How much them cars
- 7:45Speaker 8: gonna beat out? Now, I'm not gonna get too much
- 7:47Speaker 8: into that, but that's your front page news for six
- 7:49Speaker 8: a m.
- 7:50Speaker 9: Stick around at seven.
- 7:51Speaker 8: We will be talking about voting and whether or not
- 7:54Speaker 8: a third term is truly viable.
- 7:56Speaker 9: We'll get into that.
- 7:57Speaker 1: All right, everybody else, get it off your chest. Eight
- 7:59Speaker 1: hundred five eight five one o five one. If you
- 8:01Speaker 1: need to vent phone lines to wide open again. Eight
- 8:04Speaker 1: hundred five eight five one oh five one. It's the
- 8:06Speaker 1: breakfast club. Good morning, the breakfast Club. Wait, this is
- 8:14Speaker 1: your time to get it off your chest. Eight hundred
- 8:16Speaker 1: and five eight five one oh five one. We want
- 8:18Speaker 1: to hear from you on the breakfast clubs.
- 8:21Speaker 2: Hello, who's this?
- 8:22Speaker 3: Yo?
- 8:23Speaker 7: What up? Eight o three?
- 8:25Speaker 8: Hey?
- 8:25Speaker 12: What's happening in the met You will say? You sound
- 8:27Speaker 12: like you're about to slide, just like yeah, who now?
- 8:30Speaker 2: No man?
- 8:31Speaker 7: Late for work?
- 8:31Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?
- 8:32Speaker 12: Yeah, me too, about to add man, me too. I
- 8:35Speaker 12: took my time this morning too.
- 8:37Speaker 3: You know all that I'd rather.
- 8:38Speaker 2: Be there, not get that all. What I'm gonna tell
- 8:40Speaker 2: you about that?
- 8:40Speaker 3: That's that's right. What's happening though?
- 8:44Speaker 2: Man? Just I'm so tired of hand about the terrors
- 8:46Speaker 2: and Donald trut What a good news coming?
- 8:49Speaker 7: Man?
- 8:50Speaker 12: Shoot, you can make good news this weekend. You ain't
- 8:52Speaker 12: got I mean, listen here the thing we don't got
- 8:54Speaker 12: to listen to none of it, even though it's gonna
- 8:55Speaker 12: affect us anyway.
- 8:56Speaker 3: Yep, we can. You know, ignorance is bliss.
- 8:59Speaker 2: You're right, You're right.
- 9:00Speaker 12: We need to know what's going on though, brother, Yeah,
- 9:02Speaker 12: but you can always Yeah, you're right, You're it's gonna
- 9:05Speaker 12: it's gonna affect you either way, so you might as
- 9:07Speaker 12: well know.
- 9:08Speaker 7: You know.
- 9:08Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I appreciate it for it too.
- 9:11Speaker 3: Yes, sir, I appreciate you.
- 9:12Speaker 12: Bro may yes, sir, but I even met a black
- 9:16Speaker 12: and head man. Man, I got you, you know, dang, Yeah,
- 9:20Speaker 12: I do got you. We got something coming in you know.
- 9:21Speaker 12: You gotta come to that. You should come to the
- 9:22Speaker 12: Black Effect Podcast Festival Saturday, April twenty sixth in Atlanta, Georgia.
- 9:27Speaker 12: Pullman yards Man.
- 9:28Speaker 3: Hold On, We're gonna get you in for hold on.
- 9:29Speaker 7: All right, all right, hey bro, appreciate that.
- 9:31Speaker 12: There, y'all.
- 9:32Speaker 2: I do man number love.
- 9:34Speaker 12: Yes, Hello, who's this?
- 9:36Speaker 7: Hey?
- 9:37Speaker 2: That's Ron?
- 9:38Speaker 7: Ron?
- 9:38Speaker 3: What's up? Get off your chest?
- 9:39Speaker 7: Brother?
- 9:40Speaker 13: Hey?
- 9:40Speaker 2: So mvy uh man what they did? It's crazy?
- 9:45Speaker 3: So he said what you know? What you said? Eight terror?
- 9:50Speaker 2: We know in nineteen thirty.
- 9:52Speaker 12: Hey, we saw the know another one in twenty twenty five.
- 9:54Speaker 3: We saw the meme.
- 9:55Speaker 12: Man, we saw the same meme that we saw the
- 9:58Speaker 12: same meme that you saw your today going around on
- 10:01Speaker 12: social media.
- 10:01Speaker 2: Yeah, but they is the parents. They it's gonna it's
- 10:06Speaker 2: gonna be some major effects that's gonna happen. So I
- 10:09Speaker 2: used to work for Ford and I'm an actuary now
- 10:12Speaker 2: and I'm also going to school to be a lawyer,
- 10:14Speaker 2: and these tears. It's gonna be bad. People don't think
- 10:17Speaker 2: it's gonna be bad, but late ninety days and see
- 10:20Speaker 2: what happened.
- 10:21Speaker 12: My brother casts you a question. I'm just asking seriously,
- 10:24Speaker 12: who don't think it's gonna be bad. Everybody knows they's
- 10:26Speaker 12: gonna be.
- 10:27Speaker 2: Oh no, no, no, no, I'm gonna tell you.
- 10:29Speaker 7: I grew up.
- 10:30Speaker 2: So look, I grew up in Chicago and lived in Indiana.
- 10:34Speaker 2: And you know how those people are in Indiana, Man,
- 10:36Speaker 2: they say something else. Man. You try to explain that
- 10:39Speaker 2: to a lot of those people there, and they're like, oh, no,
- 10:41Speaker 2: this is a great thing. It's a great thing, but
- 10:43Speaker 2: it's not because a lot of the manufacturing companies are there.
- 10:49Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know, just talking about well, you know, when.
- 10:52Speaker 7: When you're talking about path and doing this and doing.
- 10:55Speaker 2: That, they know that is gonna be bad. But you
- 10:59Speaker 2: try to tell them and they know they don't want
- 11:02Speaker 2: to listen.
- 11:03Speaker 3: Yeah, So.
- 11:05Speaker 1: Yeah, what did you do the conversation we was having
- 11:08Speaker 1: earlier is they were saying that Donald Trump saying that
- 11:11Speaker 1: the tariffs was kind of like a short term play
- 11:13Speaker 1: to get nations to renegotiate some of the plans that
- 11:16Speaker 1: they actually had. Now and he was saying, Morgan was
- 11:19Speaker 1: saying the front page News that these nations are allegedly
- 11:21Speaker 1: reaching out to Trump to make these deals. So what's
- 11:24Speaker 1: happened the desired effect that he wanted. That's what we
- 11:26Speaker 1: said earlier during from Page New.
- 11:28Speaker 12: Well, we'll see, I mean, that's what John O'Brien is
- 11:30Speaker 12: gonna be here talking about this morning, you know, but
- 11:32Speaker 12: we'll see. I mean, you know, if you look at
- 11:34Speaker 12: history though, and you look at what task have done
- 11:35Speaker 12: in the past, it caused, you know, stock market crashes,
- 11:38Speaker 12: It caused the beginning of the Great Depression in the
- 11:40Speaker 12: nineteen twenties, It caused the collapse of the money supply.
- 11:43Speaker 12: So I mean, you know, like John O'Brien has said repeatedly,
- 11:45Speaker 12: and I'm sure he'll say again this morning, you know,
- 11:47Speaker 12: the longer it lasts, the worse it's gonna be.
- 11:50Speaker 5: I was gonna say, how long does this have to
- 11:52Speaker 5: like last for to get that back?
- 11:54Speaker 12: I mean, shoot it's bad now. Yeah, a draft of
- 11:57Speaker 12: I mean stock is back now and you know the
- 11:59Speaker 12: price are good is gonna shoot up now we'll.
- 12:01Speaker 1: Get it off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five
- 12:04Speaker 1: one oh five one. If you need to vet, hit
- 12:05Speaker 1: us up now. It's the Breakfast Club.
- 12:06Speaker 3: Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
- 12:12Speaker 1: Ray right, Ray, Yo, Charlote Macavy, what up are we lost?
- 12:16Speaker 3: This is your time to get it off your chest.
- 12:18Speaker 3: I got an indoor pool. We want to hear from
- 12:21Speaker 3: you on the Breakfast Club.
- 12:22Speaker 2: Get on the.
- 12:23Speaker 14: Phone right now.
- 12:24Speaker 2: He'll tell you what it is.
- 12:25Speaker 8: We live.
- 12:26Speaker 3: Hello.
- 12:27Speaker 7: Who's this Brittany?
- 12:28Speaker 1: Hey, Brittany, good morning, Get it off your chest.
- 12:31Speaker 4: I just want to say I think Trump is very
- 12:33Speaker 4: dumb for imposing his tars.
- 12:35Speaker 15: And thinking that bring you back to the manufacturing jobs.
- 12:38Speaker 5: To the United States is a smart idea.
- 12:40Speaker 15: Who's actually gonna work them? When we barely want to
- 12:42Speaker 15: work the jobs.
- 12:43Speaker 3: That are here?
- 12:44Speaker 12: Yeah, that manufacturing thing is I don't see how that's
- 12:46Speaker 12: gonna happen when it costs so much to manufacture here
- 12:49Speaker 12: here in America.
- 12:51Speaker 3: Like, I just don't get it.
- 12:51Speaker 1: Like she's saying people don't want to work, That's what
- 12:53Speaker 1: she's saying. She's saying people don't want to work these days.
- 12:55Speaker 12: Yeah, but even if they don't want to work, it
- 12:57Speaker 12: just costs too much. It just costs too much. The
- 12:59Speaker 12: MANUFAC actually things here in America.
- 13:01Speaker 15: And they don't want to pay us good money.
- 13:03Speaker 16: So it isn't not a smart as.
- 13:05Speaker 6: Hey definitely not gonna pay a lot of money if
- 13:07Speaker 6: the date is costing no more.
- 13:08Speaker 1: Thank you, Brittany than on her.
- 13:12Speaker 5: Way back to sleep.
- 13:14Speaker 3: Hello, who's this yo?
- 13:16Speaker 2: It's a dude from North New Jersey, owner the spamous
- 13:19Speaker 2: Abbey's the sandwich specialist. I got and I want to
- 13:22Speaker 2: go off my chest with Charlemagne to god Man bro
- 13:24Speaker 2: He was a keynote speaker at the Mayor's north Man's
- 13:27Speaker 2: meeting breakfast the mayor rat rackets do a man's breefast
- 13:31Speaker 2: and Charlamagne is gonna show it to my restaurant man.
- 13:33Speaker 3: That was a couple of years ago.
- 13:34Speaker 2: I came with beautiful speaks. That was last year. It
- 13:37Speaker 2: was a two twenty three. I supported his business in
- 13:40Speaker 2: North He got to come to support mans Man. I'm
- 13:41Speaker 2: from North I want that support man. I listen to
- 13:44Speaker 2: the breakfast club every morning.
- 13:45Speaker 3: What's the name of the spot is it is the
- 13:47Speaker 3: sub Sandwich Spot.
- 13:48Speaker 2: Yeah, Abbey Charlo Man, I was on the stage. I
- 13:51Speaker 2: gave a speech.
- 13:51Speaker 11: Man.
- 13:52Speaker 2: I remember the real estate development and stuff year I
- 13:55Speaker 2: finally moved in North Man. I bought a building in
- 13:57Speaker 2: North I got my restaurant in North. I was located
- 13:59Speaker 2: in Urge when we sp that day.
- 14:00Speaker 12: Oh, so, how I'm gonna come to North Can you
- 14:02Speaker 12: just got there? I'm gonna pull up there. Oh, I thought,
- 14:07Speaker 12: I remember this, I remember this, I remember I remember
- 14:09Speaker 12: you though in the sub Sandwich spot.
- 14:10Speaker 3: Though.
- 14:10Speaker 1: Let's shout it out now, Abbys you two sixty three
- 14:13Speaker 1: little ten Avenue north.
- 14:14Speaker 3: Right, no doubt, no doubt.
- 14:15Speaker 12: Go check him out of her open at eleven as
- 14:17Speaker 12: this morning. I'm well, thank you for supporting hash story.
- 14:20Speaker 12: I'm gonna pull up there in the next week or so.
- 14:22Speaker 12: You know, were having a weekend of events that hash
- 14:25Speaker 12: story during the weekend of four to twenty. So I'm
- 14:27Speaker 12: gonna come see you at Abbey's. That Abby's then around then,
- 14:30Speaker 12: no doubt.
- 14:30Speaker 2: No doubt. My brother appreciate it. Man. Y'all keep doing
- 14:33Speaker 2: your thing up there, man, and.
- 14:34Speaker 1: You can follow them on a ig. That's Abbey's underscore.
- 14:37Speaker 1: The underscore Sandwich specialist.
- 14:40Speaker 3: Brother.
- 14:42Speaker 1: Yes, sir, appreciate you, brother, get it off your chest.
- 14:44Speaker 1: Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. If
- 14:47Speaker 1: you need the vent, you can hit us up.
- 14:48Speaker 8: Now.
- 14:48Speaker 1: We got the latest with Laura coming up. We're talking
- 14:50Speaker 1: about we do.
- 14:50Speaker 6: We want to talk about Young Thug and this probation
- 14:52Speaker 6: thing because they came to a decision yesterday.
- 14:55Speaker 3: Okay, we'll get into that next. It's the Breakfast Club.
- 14:57Speaker 3: Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
- 15:02Speaker 1: Warning everybody, it's DJ n V Jesse Larry Charlamage the guy.
- 15:06Speaker 3: We are the Breakfast Club. Let's get to the latest
- 15:08Speaker 3: with Lauren.
- 15:09Speaker 14: Lauren becoming a straight fast she gets into somebody that
- 15:13Speaker 14: knows somebody detail.
- 15:15Speaker 5: I'm a homegirl that knows a little bit about everything.
- 15:18Speaker 3: She'd be having the latest on you. The latest with
- 15:23Speaker 3: Lauren la Rosa.
- 15:23Speaker 12: Sometimes you have facts, sometimes you have details, sometimes you
- 15:26Speaker 12: have a little bit of everything.
- 15:27Speaker 3: It's the latest on the Breakfast Club.
- 15:29Speaker 5: Talk to me, all right.
- 15:32Speaker 6: So we talked about Young Thug and the fact that
- 15:35Speaker 6: uh the Fulton County UH Prosecutor's office was asking for
- 15:40Speaker 6: his probation to be revoked because he had tweeted about
- 15:44Speaker 6: one of the investigators that works with their team.
- 15:47Speaker 5: Now I really thought that.
- 15:49Speaker 6: I mean, I don't know if I thought that it
- 15:50Speaker 6: would go through, But a judge has denied that request,
- 15:54Speaker 6: and I was a little bit surprised at the footnote
- 15:57Speaker 6: that the judge left.
- 15:58Speaker 5: So take a listen to this.
- 15:59Speaker 6: To just said is while the court does not find
- 16:01Speaker 6: that the sited social media posts rises to the level
- 16:04Speaker 6: of a violation of the defendants probation, it may be
- 16:07Speaker 6: prudent for the defendant to exercise the strength regarding certain topics.
- 16:11Speaker 12: You think, yeah, leading people alone, your business.
- 16:15Speaker 3: He definitely shoul leading people alone.
- 16:16Speaker 1: But he does have free speech, so he's able to
- 16:18Speaker 1: say what he says what he wants to say without
- 16:20Speaker 1: threatening somebody. So it wasn't necessarily violating its probation. But
- 16:24Speaker 1: the judge is being like, be smarter.
- 16:26Speaker 12: Yeah.
- 16:26Speaker 6: But the only reason why I was a little bit surprised.
- 16:28Speaker 6: I didn't think that it would send them back to
- 16:29Speaker 6: jail full even though that was on the line. I
- 16:31Speaker 6: just thought that the judge would come out swinging a
- 16:33Speaker 6: little bit stronger because the woman is saying, my family
- 16:36Speaker 6: is being threatened. Their address has been lead there, like
- 16:39Speaker 6: like all this stuff. The woman that he posted, because
- 16:41Speaker 6: it is like docxing in a way.
- 16:43Speaker 12: Right when you post a woman's picture and you post
- 16:45Speaker 12: her name, social media gets active active, So guess what
- 16:48Speaker 12: you do have to take those threats seriously, So thug
- 16:50Speaker 12: need to relax leading people alone.
- 16:52Speaker 3: Man, you saw Fanny Willis.
- 16:53Speaker 6: Said yesterday, oh oh yeah about that was another reason
- 16:57Speaker 6: why she basically said that they're trying to make this
- 16:59Speaker 6: as game activity.
- 17:01Speaker 5: And that's why I was like, I don't know what
- 17:03Speaker 5: is happening up there in the sky.
- 17:04Speaker 6: But when I tell you, Doug got some angels around
- 17:06Speaker 6: him because he keeps teetering that line and every time
- 17:09Speaker 6: it's like, oh no. And even his attorney yesterday, Brian Steele,
- 17:12Speaker 6: had came out and basically said to the court, y'all
- 17:15Speaker 6: are like stopped playing with us, like jokingly. You shouldn't
- 17:18Speaker 6: be trying to send somebody back to jail for something
- 17:20Speaker 6: that didn't violate his rights whatsoever. Like it shouldn't even
- 17:24Speaker 6: that shouldn't even be a conversation. I was surprised the
- 17:26Speaker 6: attorney said that. I'm like, does no one else see?
- 17:29Speaker 12: You know?
- 17:29Speaker 5: I kind of saw where if any Wilison team were
- 17:31Speaker 5: coming from.
- 17:31Speaker 12: Don't get him a reason thug, Yeah, they don't need
- 17:34Speaker 12: one right. Well.
- 17:37Speaker 6: In other news, so Damon Wayams sat down with Shannon
- 17:41Speaker 6: Sharp for Club Station and they had an interested conversation.
- 17:44Speaker 6: It was really to me, I felt like it was
- 17:47Speaker 6: more about just you know, how they the Wayne's brothers
- 17:50Speaker 6: tell such great stories about their life and their growing up.
- 17:52Speaker 5: It was a lot of that.
- 17:53Speaker 6: But they started having a conversation about you know, the
- 17:56Speaker 6: higher you go up in Hollywood, the less black people
- 17:59Speaker 6: you see, and how you know, if you're raising a
- 18:02Speaker 6: kid in Hollywood, how that affects them and now as
- 18:03Speaker 6: a parent, like things changed.
- 18:05Speaker 5: That's take a listen to that.
- 18:06Speaker 16: The more money you make, the less black people you see.
- 18:09Speaker 16: Money brings you into a new category. You move to
- 18:13Speaker 16: a different house in a different neighborhood, and you get
- 18:16Speaker 16: different friends and money. The complexion changes. I like what
- 18:20Speaker 16: I love about Like Lebron you know he's got.
- 18:23Speaker 3: He got got mad, but he got ready and he
- 18:25Speaker 3: got rich. Yeah.
- 18:27Speaker 10: You know, at a certain point they sit you down,
- 18:30Speaker 10: you know, Beyonce's father, all right, we got it from here.
- 18:33Speaker 7: The Jackson's all right.
- 18:34Speaker 3: Joe, we got it, we got it.
- 18:36Speaker 10: You know you said that and go what you know
- 18:39Speaker 10: Venus Cuerna, we got them.
- 18:41Speaker 3: You know.
- 18:41Speaker 10: But it's and if you want them to be successful,
- 18:45Speaker 10: you have to kind of let it happen and then
- 18:47Speaker 10: they hit new heights, but you become a liability.
- 18:52Speaker 6: I thought that that was pretty interesting, the liability part,
- 18:55Speaker 6: only because I'm sitting here thinking about it and I'm like,
- 18:58Speaker 6: okay with beyonce story. We know, you know, her dad
- 19:01Speaker 6: stepped in, her mom was by her side the full time.
- 19:04Speaker 6: The Jackson's as well. So there's so many kids stars
- 19:06Speaker 6: who like the parents are right there with them. But
- 19:08Speaker 6: I never thought about how like an agent and a
- 19:11Speaker 6: manager a lawyer would look at it parent because it's
- 19:13Speaker 6: like there, I'm assuming he's saying liability. And from the
- 19:15Speaker 6: conversation I took that he was saying liability because it's like,
- 19:19Speaker 6: it's not too many of you guys up here, and
- 19:20Speaker 6: they don't want the parent to get in the way.
- 19:22Speaker 3: Most parents did.
- 19:23Speaker 1: I think with emotion when it comes to their children,
- 19:24Speaker 1: especially when they're doing deals, it's more emotional. Agents and
- 19:27Speaker 1: managers have no usually have no emotion in it, right,
- 19:29Speaker 1: because it's all about business. I would assume it isn't.
- 19:31Speaker 12: A lot of that on the artist though, Like if
- 19:33Speaker 12: somebody sit you down and say, you know what, you
- 19:35Speaker 12: know your parent has only got you but so far,
- 19:38Speaker 12: you know that's something you to make that choice, right,
- 19:40Speaker 12: that's up to you to say, you know what, You're right.
- 19:41Speaker 1: I don't want my parents managing me no more. It
- 19:43Speaker 1: depends what your dad or your parent knows. I was
- 19:45Speaker 1: about to say, because you know, you get to a
- 19:47Speaker 1: certain plots, didn't need them. People do it for a living.
- 19:49Speaker 3: Why not cold manage you can do that.
- 19:51Speaker 12: I mean, you can't come like you You should want
- 19:53Speaker 12: somebody protecting you at all times, and you know your
- 19:56Speaker 12: parents got your best interests at her.
- 19:57Speaker 6: I think it is for some people, especially back in
- 20:00Speaker 6: the times of like you know, when the waves are
- 20:01Speaker 6: coming up and Beyonce, Beyonce was very lucky. Her dad
- 20:03Speaker 6: knew so much, he was a businessman, her mom was around.
- 20:06Speaker 6: But not everybody had that, so the parents might have
- 20:09Speaker 6: to step back. I don't know, just ability.
- 20:13Speaker 3: We've seen it with a shanty. Shanty's mom manages and
- 20:15Speaker 3: still manages her to this day.
- 20:16Speaker 12: Let me tell you what I want, the kind of money,
- 20:19Speaker 12: the way I see less people period. Okay, I don't
- 20:22Speaker 12: care what race to y'all. I don't want to interact
- 20:23Speaker 12: with too many humans at all. Okay, that's the kind
- 20:26Speaker 12: of money I want. I want to live in isolation.
- 20:29Speaker 3: But your kids still friends, O friends kids.
- 20:34Speaker 5: He's gonna buying robots.
- 20:36Speaker 3: We all have.
- 20:37Speaker 12: Robot kid friends. All our kids still our kids friends
- 20:40Speaker 12: are gonna be robots in the future.
- 20:42Speaker 1: You still want your kids to have friends. You still
- 20:43Speaker 1: want them to have some type of normal life based you.
- 20:45Speaker 12: Know normallest subjective. Normal is whatever your life is. Blue
- 20:51Speaker 12: Ivy and them, they life is normal.
- 20:53Speaker 1: They got friends, but I'm sure they got friends of stuff.
- 20:57Speaker 5: Yeah, she went to go see what was it? What
- 20:59Speaker 5: festival was that?
- 21:00Speaker 12: Roland?
- 21:00Speaker 5: She was at rolling aloud with Rihanna.
- 21:02Speaker 3: Remember that Rihanna is not her friend, but.
- 21:04Speaker 5: I'm saying she was there.
- 21:05Speaker 3: She was there with the same age.
- 21:07Speaker 12: No, Auntie, that's Auntie.
- 21:08Speaker 5: That's not that's a friend.
- 21:09Speaker 6: But I'm saying it because she was there with other people,
- 21:12Speaker 6: you know what I mean, like her, like she has friends.
- 21:14Speaker 12: Man, get the kind of money where you can see
- 21:16Speaker 12: less people, period. The less people you see, the better
- 21:20Speaker 12: life is.
- 21:20Speaker 1: Charlmann, kids will be playing with robots, right the robots
- 21:23Speaker 1: black white, I don't care.
- 21:25Speaker 6: It was making sure, yeah, rolling out what happened.
- 21:30Speaker 12: Y'all acting like big circles are important. Your circle should
- 21:35Speaker 12: be so small and almost a dot.
- 21:37Speaker 5: I agree with that.
- 21:38Speaker 12: But in business, you don't have a big circle now.
- 21:40Speaker 5: But would you agree? But so, yes, I don't have
- 21:43Speaker 5: a big circle now.
- 21:44Speaker 6: But the people that I'm doing business with have expanded
- 21:46Speaker 6: and it will things change and expand as they.
- 21:49Speaker 12: Are no permanent friends our enemies when it comes to business.
- 21:53Speaker 1: In fact, my friend to do business for some people, well,
- 21:58Speaker 1: I'm going, but I'm not. I'm not doing business with
- 22:01Speaker 1: enemies or people I don't like it. This is what
- 22:02Speaker 1: it is. I'm happy, I'm comfortable, and I'm good with
- 22:05Speaker 1: I'm at If I don't like you, I'm not doing it.
- 22:07Speaker 3: I'm good. I don't need that dollar.
- 22:08Speaker 12: I agree with that. But the general sentiment is there
- 22:10Speaker 12: are no friends and enemies when it comes to business.
- 22:12Speaker 12: It's just business at the end of the night.
- 22:14Speaker 3: I know that phrase.
- 22:15Speaker 1: But there's some people I'm not doing business with and
- 22:17Speaker 1: I don't care how much it's gonna get me.
- 22:18Speaker 12: I'm good, I agree with them.
- 22:19Speaker 3: Happy.
- 22:20Speaker 5: Well, that's one that's part of the conversation. I thought
- 22:21Speaker 5: was interesting.
- 22:22Speaker 6: Damn all talked about like how they used to be
- 22:24Speaker 6: disciplined amongst the brothers and sisters, like when they were
- 22:27Speaker 6: getting into it.
- 22:27Speaker 12: Let's say, listen, I read that when you guys would fight,
- 22:31Speaker 12: your mom would make you guys kiss in the mouth.
- 22:35Speaker 1: I learned how to tongue kids with marline right now.
- 22:42Speaker 3: But like once you kiss your brother and you don't
- 22:45Speaker 3: want to do that, you don't want to fight. Yeah,
- 22:48Speaker 3: we'll take this.
- 22:49Speaker 7: We go outside, we'll find a place to sentience this.
- 22:52Speaker 16: But like we didn't like kissing each other, but to
- 22:54Speaker 16: finish the kiss something.
- 22:56Speaker 3: Yeah, Like to this day, we all kiss. I noticed
- 22:59Speaker 3: that hello and good bye.
- 23:01Speaker 16: I noticed that because you never know what's gonna happen
- 23:03Speaker 16: when they walk out the door, even if I get
- 23:04Speaker 16: into an argument and we're yelling and screaming.
- 23:08Speaker 5: I thought y'all was the only one who did that.
- 23:11Speaker 3: I do that with my family. No, but you know
- 23:15Speaker 3: I do that with my family.
- 23:16Speaker 1: Your family, if they fighting, I make them give each
- 23:20Speaker 1: other a hug and a kiss, and they never want
- 23:21Speaker 1: to fight again.
- 23:22Speaker 3: Really, yes, absolutely, a little bit.
- 23:25Speaker 12: I thought you all the time the prison, like you
- 23:29Speaker 12: fight to get a kiss in prison, You make them
- 23:32Speaker 12: kiss after they never want to fight again.
- 23:35Speaker 1: They never want to fight again. Me and my way
- 23:37Speaker 1: do that all the time, but not no matter. We
- 23:38Speaker 1: make them kiss on the chek and give us give
- 23:40Speaker 1: each other hug, and they hate it. Never did that
- 23:42Speaker 1: and they never want to fight again.
- 23:43Speaker 12: What about you, Red? Never did that one where your.
- 23:46Speaker 1: Kids with my kids is fighting, They fighting like my especially.
- 23:49Speaker 1: Never kissed the man in the mouth for any reason, Logan, Logan.
- 23:53Speaker 5: And Madison, why you were supposed to say me either.
- 23:57Speaker 3: Never kissing man in the mouth.
- 23:58Speaker 5: Yeah, you just laughed.
- 23:59Speaker 3: I kiss my props will was this before? I love
- 24:01Speaker 3: my pops.
- 24:01Speaker 12: I kissed my mom on the little.
- 24:04Speaker 2: You know what?
- 24:06Speaker 5: Now not fighting here. I'm gonna make y'all kids, y'all
- 24:09Speaker 5: stop fighting him. Make yall kids.
- 24:11Speaker 17: You told you better, y'all better than that.
- 24:14Speaker 2: Do.
- 24:17Speaker 12: So hold on? So you the mouth driving the clues bump.
- 24:22Speaker 7: What you mean?
- 24:23Speaker 12: Don't kiss no man? You just admitted the kiss had
- 24:25Speaker 12: been on the mouth.
- 24:26Speaker 17: I kissed my pops and my son on the mouth. Yes,
- 24:28Speaker 17: those men, my father and my son. And still kiss
- 24:32Speaker 17: your dad in the.
- 24:32Speaker 5: Mouth at this age.
- 24:34Speaker 1: Not kissing on the cheap, but I would, Okay, kissing.
- 24:38Speaker 3: It's my pops.
- 24:38Speaker 12: I see Italians do it all the time. I kised
- 24:40Speaker 12: my pop with kiss in the mouth was a little crazy.
- 24:42Speaker 1: I used to kiss my son on on the mouth
- 24:43Speaker 1: until he got your certain age.
- 24:44Speaker 2: In the mouth.
- 24:45Speaker 5: That fifty five is crazy.
- 24:46Speaker 12: But we got to Now you see why I'm minded
- 24:48Speaker 12: my business. When I saw Envy giving the doue mouth
- 24:50Speaker 12: to mouth, what's that sassitation the other day and they
- 24:54Speaker 12: were on the ground, I ain't see nobody else around.
- 24:56Speaker 7: I was.
- 24:56Speaker 12: I literally minded my business.
- 24:59Speaker 3: That is a lie. I did not get know. Man, CPR,
- 25:02Speaker 3: I don't even know CPR.
- 25:03Speaker 12: Now you don't know.
- 25:04Speaker 5: We gotta go, We gotta go.
- 25:09Speaker 6: We gotta get out of here, y'all.
- 25:13Speaker 3: You're like into the breakfast club. Good morning, everybody. It's
- 25:16Speaker 3: d J n V.
- 25:17Speaker 1: Just hilarious, Charlamagne and God we are the breakfast Club
- 25:20Speaker 1: just is out today. Lorna Rosa filling in and let's
- 25:22Speaker 1: get in some front page news now. The n C
- 25:25Speaker 1: Double A Women's Tournament Tonight, Texas take on South Carolina
- 25:28Speaker 1: game Cocks at seven, come on now, and Connecticut takes
- 25:31Speaker 1: on the u c l A Bruins tonight at nine.
- 25:33Speaker 12: Let's go Cox. Yeah, that's what we say in South Carolina.
- 25:37Speaker 12: Gold Cox.
- 25:37Speaker 3: I'm say that your mind out the gun. I can
- 25:40Speaker 3: see you running around the stream. I could see you.
- 25:45Speaker 7: Wow.
- 25:46Speaker 5: I want them to hear you.
- 25:47Speaker 12: You got damn right, South Carolina. That's my wife, Alma Motel. Okay,
- 25:50Speaker 12: we were big game cocks over here.
- 25:53Speaker 3: Okay, good morning, good morning. Let's do No, you're not
- 25:57Speaker 3: with the Cox.
- 25:59Speaker 9: I'm you know that.
- 26:01Speaker 12: Now it's time to call each a know you're not
- 26:08Speaker 12: reserved Carolina. There's no reason for him to say that
- 26:11Speaker 12: to you.
- 26:11Speaker 3: You might be a game god fan.
- 26:12Speaker 7: I don't know.
- 26:13Speaker 3: I'm just asking.
- 26:14Speaker 8: Let's get into the front face news, y'all. So let's
- 26:17Speaker 8: talk elections. In voting so Arizona's attorney general issuing the
- 26:20Speaker 8: federal government over President Trump's executive Order on elections now.
- 26:25Speaker 8: Trump's executive order would require people to show proof of
- 26:28Speaker 8: citizenship while registering to vote in federal elections. It would
- 26:31Speaker 8: also force states to stop accepting mail in ballots that
- 26:35Speaker 8: arrive after election days. So Arizona Attorney General Chris May
- 26:40Speaker 8: said during a Thursday news conference that the state's election
- 26:43Speaker 8: laws are protected by the US Constitution.
- 26:46Speaker 9: Let's take a listen to Attorney General Mace, I.
- 26:49Speaker 18: Will not allow our legislature's lawmaking ability to be trodden
- 26:54Speaker 18: upon by a wanna be king. Our constitution is absolutely
- 26:59Speaker 18: clear the state have the primary responsibility for regulating elections.
- 27:03Speaker 18: Under the constitution, the Arizona Legislature has the power to
- 27:09Speaker 18: regulate elections in our state.
- 27:12Speaker 8: So nineteen states have now filed a suit against the
- 27:15Speaker 8: executive order. And you know, I think this is really
- 27:18Speaker 8: interesting because you have a lot of primaries going on,
- 27:22Speaker 8: a lot of local elections going on, and then of
- 27:24Speaker 8: course in another four or three or so year, three
- 27:27Speaker 8: to four years or so, we will have another federal election,
- 27:30Speaker 8: presidential election. So this comes as more than half of
- 27:33Speaker 8: voters for Dick's president. Trump will try to serve a
- 27:35Speaker 8: third term in the White House. That's according to a
- 27:37Speaker 8: new yugav poll over the weekend. Trump said he's not
- 27:40Speaker 8: joking about attempting to serve a third term. In a
- 27:43Speaker 8: call with NBC News, he said there are methods which
- 27:46Speaker 8: you could do it.
- 27:47Speaker 7: Now.
- 27:47Speaker 8: Republicans had largely shrugged off Trump's comments about a third
- 27:50Speaker 8: term as a joke. Meanwhile, nearly seven to ten survey
- 27:55Speaker 8: respondents said Trump shouldn't be allowed to seek another term.
- 27:58Speaker 8: But you know, it seems to be a comp conversation,
- 28:00Speaker 8: an ongoing conversation, even though the twenty second Amendment and
- 28:04Speaker 8: the twelfth Amendment pretty much make it null and void.
- 28:06Speaker 8: So I'm curious to know what Trump's quote methods.
- 28:11Speaker 12: No, I'm not. I'm not curious about any of this.
- 28:14Speaker 12: We have to stop talking about this like it's normal.
- 28:17Speaker 12: It's unconstitutional to even speak like this, And if he
- 28:20Speaker 12: wants to do something like this, it's unconstitutional. So if
- 28:23Speaker 12: we're if you don't like being called a fascist, and
- 28:26Speaker 12: you don't like, you know, people saying this is authoritarian rule,
- 28:29Speaker 12: and stop doing and saying things that fascists and authoritarian
- 28:32Speaker 12: leaders were doing.
- 28:33Speaker 6: Safe, But don't you want to be like like, you
- 28:36Speaker 6: want to know what's happening. So like what she's saying
- 28:38Speaker 6: is like you just want to know what You gotta
- 28:39Speaker 6: know what you're up against.
- 28:40Speaker 12: No, you know what I'm saying. We shouldn't be acting
- 28:43Speaker 12: like this is normal. We shouldn't be taught, we shouldn't
- 28:45Speaker 12: be talking to people like this is normal. Like, hey,
- 28:48Speaker 12: Trump saying you want to run for a third term. No,
- 28:50Speaker 12: that's unconstitutional. That is literally the pure definition of fascism,
- 28:54Speaker 12: just speaking like that, like.
- 28:54Speaker 6: It's normal, but don't you need to know that it
- 28:58Speaker 6: is that in order to be like this is not normal.
- 29:00Speaker 3: Now, if you're not gonna do nothing about it? Who
- 29:02Speaker 3: ask the question? What a's the press question? Like, hey,
- 29:04Speaker 3: you runner the third term? Like who even asked that question?
- 29:06Speaker 8: Like is because he's mentioned it, he's been joking about it.
- 29:11Speaker 9: Well, you know that's what they're saying.
- 29:13Speaker 8: He's you keep joking about it, and he's like, it's
- 29:16Speaker 8: not a job.
- 29:16Speaker 12: But to Nb's point, the reporter that's talking to Trump
- 29:19Speaker 12: when they're doing that, why aren't you saying, Trump, don't
- 29:21Speaker 12: you know that's unconstitutional? Don't you know that's fascism. Don't
- 29:24Speaker 12: you know that's what authoritarian leaders do. You don't ask
- 29:27Speaker 12: ask him the question like it's normal, but Trump, are
- 29:29Speaker 12: you really thinking about running for a third term? You
- 29:31Speaker 12: know what happens and that's that's that's that's the problem
- 29:34Speaker 12: with the media in twenty twenty five.
- 29:36Speaker 8: Hey, look, hey, when you get in and you have
- 29:38Speaker 8: access or when you don't, I'm just gonna say, you're
- 29:41Speaker 8: gonna try to ask what you want to ask, But
- 29:43Speaker 8: let me not get too much into that.
- 29:44Speaker 9: This last story is for anyone who travels.
- 29:47Speaker 8: This is domestic, this is stateside, this is if you
- 29:50Speaker 8: fly period. Okay, So if you want to get on
- 29:52Speaker 8: a flight, or you want to find yourself on a
- 29:54Speaker 8: flight at all, and it's just stateside, you need to
- 29:57Speaker 8: listen up. You have just over a month before the
- 30:00Speaker 8: TSA's deadline to have a real ID license kicks in.
- 30:03Speaker 8: I believe it's May seventh. TSA spokesperson Lisa Farbstein says
- 30:08Speaker 8: Americans will need to have a real ID compliant driver's
- 30:12Speaker 8: license to take domestic and international flights, and she said
- 30:16Speaker 8: it's best to get ahead of the deadline again May seventh.
- 30:19Speaker 8: Let's take a listen to TSA spokesperson Lisa Farbstein, do
- 30:22Speaker 8: not have.
- 30:22Speaker 15: A real ID, like we need them to bring another
- 30:25Speaker 15: form of acceptable ID, such as a passport Global Entry card,
- 30:29Speaker 15: something of that nature. We have the list of other
- 30:32Speaker 15: acceptable IDs on the TSA website, that TSA dot com.
- 30:36Speaker 15: Or maybe there's a wedding, or maybe there's a funeral,
- 30:38Speaker 15: or maybe there's a job interview in another state. And
- 30:41Speaker 15: so again, like insurance, you don't need it, so you
- 30:44Speaker 15: need it, so you want to do it get your
- 30:46Speaker 15: real ID travel like a prown.
- 30:48Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask it just a stupid question, right, And
- 30:50Speaker 1: maybe it's just me. What is a real ID right now?
- 30:53Speaker 1: I know I don't have one right because I'm looking
- 30:55Speaker 1: at my license right now and it's just not not
- 30:57Speaker 1: for real ID purposes.
- 30:58Speaker 3: But I just got my license. So what do I
- 31:00Speaker 3: gotta do different?
- 31:01Speaker 8: Now?
- 31:01Speaker 3: What's the difference?
- 31:02Speaker 8: Take it back to the MBA or excuse me, MBA
- 31:04Speaker 8: will be what we call it here in Maryland, or
- 31:06Speaker 8: the DMV. Take it back to the DMV, or not
- 31:09Speaker 8: take it back, but go back to the DMV and
- 31:11Speaker 8: ask them for real ID compliance issued license. So TSA
- 31:16Speaker 8: officials say New Yorkers with enhanced licenses don't have to
- 31:19Speaker 8: worry about making the switch since it's already a real
- 31:21Speaker 8: ID and they'll know if they have it on if
- 31:24Speaker 8: there's a flag in the corner. So meantime, DMV's across
- 31:28Speaker 8: New York will start extending hours, and some in New
- 31:31Speaker 8: Jersey will offer mobile events that could be for you
- 31:34Speaker 8: m V, so you could just pull up to one
- 31:36Speaker 8: of those mobile events. But here what I will say
- 31:39Speaker 8: here in Maryland, they've been pushing this for years and
- 31:42Speaker 8: what I understand is that supposedly something like eighty to
- 31:45Speaker 8: ninety percent of Marylanders are already compliant with this, and
- 31:48Speaker 8: they make it easy for us that you know, when
- 31:51Speaker 8: you go renew the new ID is going to be
- 31:54Speaker 8: real ID compliant. So I'm just saying that to people
- 31:57Speaker 8: that you know, if you want to get on a
- 31:59Speaker 8: flight real quick, it ain't gonna be real quick if
- 32:01Speaker 8: you don't have a real ID.
- 32:03Speaker 9: If you're not real security.
- 32:04Speaker 1: What's the difference between the real idea? They're both licenses,
- 32:07Speaker 1: So what's what's the difference? Like, is there in the
- 32:10Speaker 1: back different Real I D.
- 32:12Speaker 12: Has a different I don't know if it's different, but
- 32:14Speaker 12: it has certain security standards that are specific to the
- 32:18Speaker 12: real liity that's not for the regular drivers.
- 32:20Speaker 3: Like, I don't know what's the difference, but okay, but.
- 32:22Speaker 5: It's so hard to take.
- 32:23Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, specific standards that verify the identify identity and
- 32:28Speaker 8: is required for accessing certain federal facilities and boarding domestic flights.
- 32:34Speaker 3: So yo, what DMV can get me in and out
- 32:36Speaker 3: real quick?
- 32:37Speaker 12: You know what I'm saying.
- 32:37Speaker 3: Shout out to all the.
- 32:38Speaker 12: DMVs and jer Jersey with somebody hit me up, you know,
- 32:41Speaker 12: ms Barber out there and mont Claire, how are you okay?
- 32:44Speaker 12: We'ld love to get in and out real quick, real
- 32:47Speaker 12: real quick.
- 32:47Speaker 9: And the other thing that I'm seeing too that just
- 32:50Speaker 9: came up.
- 32:50Speaker 8: You want to make sure that you have one because
- 32:52Speaker 8: it can also further help you with voting. It's one
- 32:56Speaker 8: of those things that basically say you are who you are.
- 32:59Speaker 8: So as voting becomes and elections become a thing, and
- 33:02Speaker 8: we see that's becoming a thing, you might want to
- 33:05Speaker 8: go ahead and get real I D compliant.
- 33:08Speaker 9: That's your front faced news.
- 33:09Speaker 15: Y'all.
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- 33:19Speaker 9: great weekend.
- 33:20Speaker 1: All right later Morgan, It's welcome everybody else. When we
- 33:25Speaker 1: come back, Melanie Fiona will be joining us. She has
- 33:27Speaker 1: a new EP, Say Yes out today and we're gonna
- 33:29Speaker 1: talk to Melanie Fiona. It's the Breakfast Club, The Morning.
- 33:32Speaker 3: The Breakfast Club, Good Morning.
- 33:36Speaker 1: Everybody's dj n V Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne to God. We
- 33:40Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest in
- 33:42Speaker 1: the building. Yes, indeed, Melanie Fiona.
- 33:44Speaker 4: Welcome, Hello, hoor long time no see man, I'm so
- 33:48Speaker 4: happy back rise.
- 33:49Speaker 5: It's so cold. Tell me not in here streets?
- 33:54Speaker 1: Yes, seventy eighty threes a couple days ago.
- 33:58Speaker 5: How can we keep that same energy you used to with?
- 34:01Speaker 19: No more?
- 34:01Speaker 4: No, no, no, I'm in California. My Canadian blood is
- 34:05Speaker 4: hass gone. It's not no, it's never gone. But the
- 34:07Speaker 4: Caribbean blood is living. She's thriving.
- 34:09Speaker 12: Now, how has it been for a woman from Toronto
- 34:11Speaker 12: living in uh La? Nor in the Kendrick Lamar era.
- 34:14Speaker 3: He starts right up? Wow, wow, welcome?
- 34:18Speaker 5: Was active? Ex active? You know, I'm very Canadian in La.
- 34:22Speaker 5: That's my position.
- 34:23Speaker 3: You're yeahw are you doing? How are you doing? We
- 34:27Speaker 3: haven't seen for me in a long time.
- 34:28Speaker 12: How is everything?
- 34:29Speaker 5: You know what? Life is?
- 34:30Speaker 12: Blessed?
- 34:31Speaker 4: I'm I feel very you know, blessed to be here
- 34:33Speaker 4: again talking about new music, motherhood.
- 34:37Speaker 5: Yes, it's a full scope journey for me.
- 34:39Speaker 4: I'm just like I said, I'm just blessed to have
- 34:40Speaker 4: gas in the tank, still have creativity, to still have opportunity,
- 34:44Speaker 4: and I'm just doing everything that I love to do. So,
- 34:46Speaker 4: you know, I'm happy, I'm grateful. Congratulations you got married.
- 34:50Speaker 4: I still think four years ago was recently four five
- 34:53Speaker 4: years ago?
- 34:54Speaker 12: It is?
- 34:54Speaker 5: It is recently.
- 34:55Speaker 4: And we've been together for like, you know, thirteen years now,
- 34:57Speaker 4: so it's twelve I don't know, don't quite me a
- 35:01Speaker 4: long time, but you know it, it's getting married. Except
- 35:04Speaker 4: we did it in the pandemic, and that was really
- 35:06Speaker 4: just a testament to making it happen. However you got
- 35:10Speaker 4: to make it happen. We had planned a huge wedding,
- 35:13Speaker 4: just decided, you know what, we're just going to walk
- 35:14Speaker 4: down get this done. And it was really one of
- 35:16Speaker 4: the best decisions we made.
- 35:17Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, it's interesting.
- 35:18Speaker 12: People always talk about during the pandemic, holl folks got
- 35:20Speaker 12: divorced because they realized that they didn't really like their
- 35:23Speaker 12: significant other. But then there's the other side too, like
- 35:27Speaker 12: your story.
- 35:27Speaker 4: Yeah, we we we did realize in that year. We
- 35:30Speaker 4: were like, I really do like you. I mean we'd
- 35:32Speaker 4: already had a kid at that point, but we were like,
- 35:34Speaker 4: I really like you, Like, let's see this.
- 35:36Speaker 5: It actually made us closer.
- 35:37Speaker 4: And then actually at the end of twenty twenty three,
- 35:39Speaker 4: we had a like a ceremony in our backyard just
- 35:41Speaker 4: for our family, because we didn't have any family when
- 35:43Speaker 4: we did it, so that was really special too, you
- 35:45Speaker 4: know how my dad walked me down the all I
- 35:47Speaker 4: got to wear the dress I never wore, so it
- 35:49Speaker 4: was it was special. And I think that that's kind
- 35:51Speaker 4: of what the last few years of my life has
- 35:52Speaker 4: taught me, is that you just got to make the
- 35:54Speaker 4: moments like we don't know if tomorrow's promised, so.
- 35:57Speaker 5: You got to say yes today and that.
- 35:59Speaker 4: And is that what the scope of say yes?
- 36:02Speaker 5: Yes? Absolutely so as the journey of.
- 36:05Speaker 4: Life goes, you know, I think a lot of people
- 36:06Speaker 4: talk about saying no a lot, you know, we say
- 36:09Speaker 4: no how to set boundaries. I have had to do a
- 36:11Speaker 4: lot of that in my life throughout my career, and
- 36:13Speaker 4: I think that everything remarkable that I've really learned, that
- 36:16Speaker 4: I've seen that I can do, has come on the
- 36:17Speaker 4: other side of saying yes, you know, saying yes to
- 36:20Speaker 4: overcoming fears, saying yes to the love and the life
- 36:23Speaker 4: that you want to desire, saying yes to the people
- 36:25Speaker 4: who show up for you and say.
- 36:26Speaker 5: How can I be down? How can I help?
- 36:28Speaker 4: But obviously with discernment that takes work, So I just
- 36:31Speaker 4: want people to hear Say Yes as a musical project,
- 36:33Speaker 4: but also to have affirmative language in their life. Say yes,
- 36:36Speaker 4: say yes to you, Say yes to whatever it is
- 36:38Speaker 4: that you want, and go for it.
- 36:39Speaker 3: Deshonda Rohmes book influenced this.
- 36:41Speaker 5: You know, it's so funny. You yes, I was reading it. Yeah, absolutely,
- 36:44Speaker 5: yeah cool.
- 36:45Speaker 1: Thirteen years off the grid? What you've been doing for
- 36:48Speaker 1: thirteen years? Last time we seen off the grid?
- 36:52Speaker 3: Off the grid? You know, But you know what I was.
- 36:54Speaker 4: I really wasn't. I really wasn't. I was outside in
- 36:58Speaker 4: different ways.
- 36:59Speaker 7: You know.
- 36:59Speaker 4: I was making a life as well as a living.
- 37:02Speaker 4: I continue to do shows. I am a part of
- 37:05Speaker 4: a podcast now called The Mama's Dan. It's a motherhood podcast,
- 37:08Speaker 4: a collective. I just started developing motherhood community and initiatives.
- 37:12Speaker 5: You know.
- 37:13Speaker 4: I decided to expand my wingspan and just really step
- 37:18Speaker 4: into everything I could possibly do with my voice, all
- 37:21Speaker 4: while figuring out how I.
- 37:22Speaker 5: Wanted to continue to do music.
- 37:24Speaker 4: You know, the industry is one one siloed experience of this,
- 37:30Speaker 4: and you know, after everything that I had went through
- 37:32Speaker 4: the peak of success, enjoying that, having difficulties with my voice,
- 37:36Speaker 4: like just all these things. It really made me ask myself,
- 37:39Speaker 4: how do I want to live and create for the
- 37:41Speaker 4: rest of my life? And so that took some shifting,
- 37:43Speaker 4: That took some refocusing, that took some severing conversations and
- 37:47Speaker 4: relationships and just going independent, you know, and really just
- 37:52Speaker 4: figuring out how I want to live my life.
- 37:54Speaker 5: And so you need experience, you.
- 37:57Speaker 4: Need to love and learn and live and make new
- 38:00Speaker 4: music and get inspiration for all of that. So I
- 38:02Speaker 4: think a lot of people, especially in the music industry,
- 38:04Speaker 4: we live in this space or an entertainment where you
- 38:08Speaker 4: feel like there's this clock ticking.
- 38:10Speaker 5: On you, you know, this clock ticking, and the only
- 38:12Speaker 5: clock I'm on is God's clock.
- 38:14Speaker 4: If I'm alive and I have another opportunity, I will
- 38:17Speaker 4: show up when I am called to show up and
- 38:19Speaker 4: when I have something to say, when I have something
- 38:21Speaker 4: to offer, And I feel like I'm in that space now.
- 38:23Speaker 4: And so my madra for myself and for anyone out
- 38:27Speaker 4: there is take your time. It's yours to take Like
- 38:30Speaker 4: we don't work on anybody else's clock. So, you know,
- 38:33Speaker 4: I just feel grateful that in all that time, I've
- 38:35Speaker 4: still been able to reach the fans, continue to build community,
- 38:38Speaker 4: continue to build fan base and like I said, just
- 38:41Speaker 4: have more products and creativity to put out.
- 38:43Speaker 5: So, you know, thirteen years to still have people checking
- 38:46Speaker 5: for you.
- 38:46Speaker 4: Oh yeah, it's a blessing because some people nobody's calling
- 38:49Speaker 4: for them, you know, and God bless those people because
- 38:52Speaker 4: they don't know how they're going to work or what
- 38:53Speaker 4: else they can do. So in that space, I figured
- 38:56Speaker 4: out what else I can do, what else I can create?
- 38:57Speaker 4: You have sit down and did an interview would be
- 39:00Speaker 4: where you were talking about the sanity of moms and
- 39:02Speaker 4: us feeling like we don't have the safe space to
- 39:04Speaker 4: be able to say things like I don't feel like
- 39:06Speaker 4: mommy and today and things like that because we'll feel
- 39:09Speaker 4: bad for it. Do you feel that you have that
- 39:12Speaker 4: you're in that safe space today?
- 39:14Speaker 12: Yes?
- 39:14Speaker 9: Yeah.
- 39:15Speaker 4: And I think it took having a second child. I
- 39:17Speaker 4: never thought I was going to have a second child,
- 39:19Speaker 4: but again, God's plan and you know, a little bit
- 39:23Speaker 4: of reckless behavior during the pandemic, but you know it,
- 39:27Speaker 4: really it was me allowing myself the permission to understand
- 39:30Speaker 4: that it's gonna be okay, and that I'm doing a
- 39:33Speaker 4: great job and I love my children. And also the
- 39:36Speaker 4: thing that I always want to encourage women who are
- 39:38Speaker 4: mothers in any capacity of their lives, is your children need.
- 39:42Speaker 5: To see you being you.
- 39:44Speaker 4: You know how many of us have seen there our
- 39:45Speaker 4: moms be like, my mom was so self sacrificing.
- 39:47Speaker 5: She's miserable.
- 39:48Speaker 4: She got back pain and stress and high blood pressure
- 39:51Speaker 4: because she was so self sacrificing for everyone else.
- 39:54Speaker 5: There's no reward for that.
- 39:55Speaker 4: You know, you have to pour into yourself and so
- 39:58Speaker 4: that whole empty cup analogy and metaphor, like, it's a
- 40:02Speaker 4: real thing.
- 40:03Speaker 5: We poor as women. We are nurturers.
- 40:05Speaker 4: We are nurturing the earth, We are nurturing our offices,
- 40:07Speaker 4: We are nurturing our children, our partners. We have to
- 40:10Speaker 4: create space and demand that we have space.
- 40:14Speaker 5: To pour into ourselves. It's the only way we could
- 40:16Speaker 5: show up.
- 40:16Speaker 12: And that's why it's very important for you know, kids,
- 40:19Speaker 12: even at our age, get to know your parents, like
- 40:22Speaker 12: to have conversations with them and learn who they were
- 40:24Speaker 12: before they were your parents.
- 40:25Speaker 4: Yes, absolutely, you know it's interesting because somebody asked me
- 40:29Speaker 4: about this the other day. They're like, how do you
- 40:30Speaker 4: feel your perspective has changed making music now versus making
- 40:34Speaker 4: music before? You know, before children, I was singing heartbreak
- 40:37Speaker 4: love songs and people love me for that. And you know,
- 40:40Speaker 4: my kids now they listen to songs they don't really
- 40:41Speaker 4: have the context, but they're going to understand the journey
- 40:44Speaker 4: of who their mother was as a woman, and they're
- 40:45Speaker 4: going to hear these songs on say Yes and know
- 40:47Speaker 4: that these songs are a reflection of transformative, affirmative love
- 40:51Speaker 4: and they're going to understand that they're a part of that.
- 40:53Speaker 4: And so I do think it's important that your children
- 40:56Speaker 4: know who you are. This generation that we all cloaking
- 40:59Speaker 4: down and secrets and traumas like that's done.
- 41:02Speaker 5: No, we can't do that for our children anymore.
- 41:04Speaker 3: We didn't do ourselves no favors, keeping.
- 41:06Speaker 5: Secret no, no, no no.
- 41:08Speaker 4: And our children deserve to know who we are so
- 41:10Speaker 4: that they have permission to be who they can be
- 41:12Speaker 4: in their lives and understand that it's not a straight
- 41:15Speaker 4: line and there's no perfect you know, you just do
- 41:17Speaker 4: your best.
- 41:17Speaker 1: All We have more with Melanie Fiona when we come back,
- 41:20Speaker 1: don't move.
- 41:20Speaker 3: It's the Breakfast Club.
- 41:21Speaker 1: Good Morning Morning, Everybody's dj n V, Jess Hilarious, Charlamage
- 41:26Speaker 1: and the God.
- 41:26Speaker 3: We are the Breakfast Club.
- 41:27Speaker 1: We're still kicking it with Melanie Fiona. Now you're an
- 41:30Speaker 1: independent artists, right, You're no longer with a UMG or
- 41:32Speaker 1: Rock Nation. You know, why did you decide to go independent?
- 41:35Speaker 4: You know, that's just like the trajectory of life. I
- 41:37Speaker 4: had the opportunity to and I took it. You know,
- 41:40Speaker 4: it wasn't a bad situation. You know, shout out to
- 41:43Speaker 4: Steve Rifkin and SRC Records. You know, I had the
- 41:46Speaker 4: opportunity to make an exit, to change the trajectory of
- 41:49Speaker 4: my life, and I took it. And again, even that
- 41:51Speaker 4: had his issues going independent, and even that had its
- 41:54Speaker 4: learning curves. But you know, now in this space, this project,
- 41:57Speaker 4: I've partnered with the Canadian label. You know, some friends
- 42:00Speaker 4: from back home who were like, yo, what do you
- 42:01Speaker 4: want to do? And I was like, I want to
- 42:03Speaker 4: put out some new.
- 42:04Speaker 5: Music and they were like, bet will help you.
- 42:06Speaker 4: You know, And even in that space with a little
- 42:08Speaker 4: bit of help, it's still a lot on me. So
- 42:10Speaker 4: I'm still driving this ship. I'm still steering how I
- 42:13Speaker 4: want it to feel and look like. And having the
- 42:15Speaker 4: long existing relationships of people that you have history with
- 42:19Speaker 4: and coming back to see them. So I don't feel
- 42:22Speaker 4: like I'm starting from scratch. I'm just starting again and
- 42:25Speaker 4: it feels good, like it feels free. And also I
- 42:28Speaker 4: think for me creatively, I'm not trying to chase who
- 42:30Speaker 4: I was. I've already done that. It kills me, exists
- 42:33Speaker 4: for him, exists wrong side of a love song full
- 42:35Speaker 4: for you, they already exist, They've already amounted the success
- 42:38Speaker 4: I want to be and create new art that it
- 42:41Speaker 4: has its own light and own life.
- 42:43Speaker 5: So you know, it's it's good.
- 42:45Speaker 4: You know, people, artists, everybody's like, you know, get to
- 42:49Speaker 4: the artists are the bag, Like you're you're the bag.
- 42:53Speaker 5: So you have value Once you know that.
- 42:55Speaker 4: People come to you and they want to help and
- 42:56Speaker 4: they want to collaborate with you. But it definitely takes
- 43:00Speaker 4: a team, and so I'm rebuilding my team. It's been
- 43:04Speaker 4: you know, as I expand in the motherhood space in
- 43:07Speaker 4: different ways to use my voice, that team will continue
- 43:09Speaker 4: to expand.
- 43:10Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a lot of responsibility.
- 43:12Speaker 4: And I got two kids now, so it's way more responsibility.
- 43:15Speaker 4: But again it's blessed stress as I call it. You know,
- 43:18Speaker 4: we're all stressed about something. At least be stressed about
- 43:20Speaker 4: what you love doing. There you go do you have
- 43:22Speaker 4: ever feel guilty, have those guilty thoughts that you're not
- 43:25Speaker 4: spending enough time with your children because now you're you're
- 43:28Speaker 4: delving back into music and you're you have all your
- 43:31Speaker 4: podcasts and everything else that do you still feel yourself
- 43:35Speaker 4: struggling in areas where you like can improve, where you
- 43:38Speaker 4: want to improve? You know what I mean? Definitely? You know,
- 43:40Speaker 4: I'm getting ready to go on tour. You know, this
- 43:42Speaker 4: is the first time I'm going on tour with two kids,
- 43:46Speaker 4: and since having both three and nine, and I got.
- 43:52Speaker 3: Two of old in the house.
- 43:53Speaker 12: You really do nine? Three? Yep?
- 43:54Speaker 4: Wow, you like that jump? You'd like that space of
- 43:56Speaker 4: the two I actually got.
- 43:57Speaker 12: I got three, six and nine and then a sixteen
- 43:59Speaker 12: year old that could do.
- 44:01Speaker 5: Me one more time?
- 44:04Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I really, I really am kind of bracing
- 44:09Speaker 4: myself for that. What that's gonna be like to be
- 44:11Speaker 4: away from my children for three weeks. I mean, they'll
- 44:13Speaker 4: probably pop out and say hi on a couple of shows,
- 44:15Speaker 4: but you know, they have they have school now.
- 44:17Speaker 5: And that's a big part of here.
- 44:20Speaker 3: Yeah, television gonna be calling you everywhere. It sucks.
- 44:26Speaker 4: No, Actually, he's really good and we have help right now.
- 44:28Speaker 4: We have family with us who know how we kind
- 44:31Speaker 4: of run our house, so we've kind of had to
- 44:33Speaker 4: enlist that help. But I think that that's one way
- 44:35Speaker 4: that I kind of give myself permission and I try
- 44:39Speaker 4: to quiet the guilt down. I think guilt is a
- 44:42Speaker 4: thing that naturally comes up, but you have to work
- 44:44Speaker 4: actively to say.
- 44:46Speaker 5: That's not really real.
- 44:47Speaker 4: Like my kids are actually taking care of I'm actually
- 44:50Speaker 4: out here doing what I need to do. They're cared
- 44:53Speaker 4: for their loved and it's temporary. Everything is temporary. Like
- 44:58Speaker 4: my parents are immigrants. I think about my parents leaving
- 45:02Speaker 4: my brother in Guyana to come and immigrate to Canada,
- 45:06Speaker 4: to set the life up, to bring their children and
- 45:08Speaker 4: their family up to Canada, and how devastating that must
- 45:12Speaker 4: have been to be like, we don't know if it's
- 45:13Speaker 4: going to work, we don't know what's going to happen.
- 45:15Speaker 4: But I have to leave my child in a different
- 45:17Speaker 4: country and re establish my life, you know. So I
- 45:22Speaker 4: always use that as as a guiding light for me
- 45:25Speaker 4: every time I think about guilt, and every time I
- 45:27Speaker 4: think about what's possible, because we made it, we all
- 45:30Speaker 4: made it, and we're doing all right.
- 45:31Speaker 3: What did you beat your husband how did y'all meet?
- 45:33Speaker 12: Ooh, are you looking for.
- 45:37Speaker 3: I've been four years, six kids. Thank you very much.
- 45:42Speaker 1: I don't know what you're talking about. He wants to
- 45:44Speaker 1: be based so bad. He wants to be based.
- 45:48Speaker 5: Y'all still messy.
- 45:49Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, you'll message.
- 45:55Speaker 12: Where you meet your husband because he.
- 45:57Speaker 5: Talks about he's asking the thoughtful. It's just I love
- 46:00Speaker 5: this question. Thank you very much for asking me.
- 46:02Speaker 4: So there's a fun A funny story is we actually
- 46:07Speaker 4: used to work in the same studio, right next to
- 46:10Speaker 4: each other and didn't even know for years, and one
- 46:12Speaker 4: day he used to be a songwriter. Now he's a
- 46:14Speaker 4: manager and an executive. He's a partner at a media company.
- 46:17Speaker 4: He's doing very well. I'm very proud of him. But
- 46:19Speaker 4: at that time he was a songwriter and I was
- 46:21Speaker 4: working on my second project. And the first time we
- 46:23Speaker 4: met this guy for my team was like, Hey, these
- 46:25Speaker 4: guys next door want to play you a song. And
- 46:27Speaker 4: then she stepped next door and go so I walked inside.
- 46:29Speaker 4: That was the first time we met, but we were
- 46:30Speaker 4: both in different relationships, and then cut to like a
- 46:33Speaker 4: few years later, we're both out of relationships and we're
- 46:36Speaker 4: in a writing trip. We're like on a writing camp
- 46:39Speaker 4: and we ended up on an island together artist. It
- 46:43Speaker 4: was just like a writ like a creative you write
- 46:44Speaker 4: for you just write and then like you place the
- 46:47Speaker 4: songs or whatever. And it was my first writing camp
- 46:49Speaker 4: and I didn't even know him. We took the same flight.
- 46:51Speaker 4: We got off the flight and we saw each other
- 46:53Speaker 4: and it was like, oh, hey, I know you.
- 46:54Speaker 3: I know you, but.
- 46:55Speaker 4: Instantly we were just like really familiar. And that's how
- 46:59Speaker 4: that's how it started. Just met on this island and
- 47:01Speaker 4: I was like, this is like I don't know, this
- 47:03Speaker 4: is really weird. And I had actually gotten out of
- 47:05Speaker 4: a relationship like a year and a half before.
- 47:07Speaker 5: I was doing my dating thing being outside.
- 47:10Speaker 4: And I remember right before I went on that trip,
- 47:13Speaker 4: I said to my friend at the time, I was like,
- 47:15Speaker 4: I think I'm ready to meet someone for real, for real,
- 47:17Speaker 4: Like i think I'm ready to like venture into a
- 47:19Speaker 4: serious relationship again. And I went on that trip and
- 47:24Speaker 4: we met, and then we came back to New York
- 47:26Speaker 4: and we kind of started dating. We dated for almost
- 47:30Speaker 4: a year like kind of figuring it out, and then
- 47:32Speaker 4: we broke up.
- 47:33Speaker 3: No good story from there.
- 47:39Speaker 5: It's a brilliant story. No, you know what the thing is.
- 47:41Speaker 4: I always say this because I always used to say
- 47:43Speaker 4: I was like, no, U turn like at that point
- 47:45Speaker 4: in my life, I was like, I've already done the
- 47:47Speaker 4: you know how it's going to work out when you
- 47:49Speaker 4: make when you spend the block. If you have this turnaround,
- 47:52Speaker 4: it usually don't work. So what I always do. What
- 47:54Speaker 4: I said was is like I just kept going and
- 47:56Speaker 4: he met me where I was at. So yeah, because
- 47:59Speaker 4: I was looking back, I was like, if you are
- 48:01Speaker 4: my person, we will align. I don't have to pull
- 48:05Speaker 4: back and you don't have to like, You're gonna meet
- 48:07Speaker 4: me where I'm at. And I had done a lot
- 48:09Speaker 4: of work at that time, so I wasn't willing to
- 48:11Speaker 4: compromise the amount of self work I had done. I
- 48:14Speaker 4: knew the love that I deserved, I knew the love
- 48:16Speaker 4: that I wanted. I felt like we could have it.
- 48:18Speaker 4: But again, you got to say yes to overcoming some
- 48:22Speaker 4: of those things.
- 48:23Speaker 3: So why y'all break up?
- 48:25Speaker 4: You know, at that time, I'll say this, We've both
- 48:30Speaker 4: gotten out of long relationships and I had done the
- 48:32Speaker 4: work to figure out how to move on from that.
- 48:34Speaker 4: And I don't think that he had at the time,
- 48:36Speaker 4: he had never given himself permission to be single. He'd
- 48:38Speaker 4: never enjoyed that part, and so I think when he
- 48:41Speaker 4: met me, I think it was a moment where he
- 48:43Speaker 4: was kind of like, WHOA, I think I just met
- 48:45Speaker 4: the person I'm gonna be with for the rest of
- 48:46Speaker 4: my life, Like, am I ready for that?
- 48:48Speaker 3: I need to be the man that she deserved for.
- 48:50Speaker 4: Sure, And I respected him for that, And when we
- 48:53Speaker 4: parted ways, it was in love. Like that was one
- 48:55Speaker 4: of the most beautiful breakups I think I'd ever had,
- 48:57Speaker 4: because we saw each other for who we were as individuals,
- 49:01Speaker 4: and I was just like, whatever work you need to
- 49:04Speaker 4: do for yourself has nothing to do with me, and
- 49:07Speaker 4: I actually don't even want to be the catalyst for it.
- 49:09Speaker 5: So I'm going to remove myself so that you have.
- 49:11Speaker 4: The space to go and do and be what you
- 49:13Speaker 4: want to do and be without my influence or me
- 49:17Speaker 4: planting seeds. And so I know that if you show
- 49:19Speaker 4: back up, you showed up because you want to be here.
- 49:21Speaker 4: You showed up because this is where you know you're
- 49:22Speaker 4: supposed to be, not because I've been planting the seed
- 49:26Speaker 4: of hope, Like, hey, I'm still here now. I started
- 49:28Speaker 4: dating someone else, like we really started.
- 49:31Speaker 12: He called the lady. Immediately after that, he got the
- 49:33Speaker 12: therapist online.
- 49:34Speaker 5: What a but he did that work.
- 49:36Speaker 4: He did that work, and when he showed back up,
- 49:39Speaker 4: it was on like whatever reservations that I had thought
- 49:42Speaker 4: about spinning the block or getting back together with an X,
- 49:45Speaker 4: they were just gone.
- 49:46Speaker 5: I was like, I'm choosing to do this with you.
- 49:49Speaker 1: Absolutely, let's get into a joint off the eping.
- 49:51Speaker 3: What you want to hear?
- 49:53Speaker 5: Yes, we're gonna do make me feel. Featured in larussell Summer.
- 49:57Speaker 1: Bok Guy Russell loved Russell. Let's get into it right now.
- 50:00Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning morning everybody in Steve
- 50:03Speaker 1: j V Jess, Hilarie Charlamane the guy. We are the
- 50:06Speaker 1: breakfast Club. We're still kicking it with Melanie Fiona.
- 50:09Speaker 4: Yes, So what was the moment that it was okay,
- 50:12Speaker 4: he's ready? Like, what was it or did you just
- 50:15Speaker 4: feel because I just I just knew he he came back.
- 50:18Speaker 4: We didn't talk for six months. I'm like a no
- 50:20Speaker 4: contact kind of person.
- 50:22Speaker 3: Lady text exactly.
- 50:26Speaker 12: He hit me.
- 50:27Speaker 4: I told him, I said, don't call me, so don't
- 50:28Speaker 4: call me about the weather. And I said don't ask
- 50:30Speaker 4: me how I'm doing. I'll be fine. But I was like,
- 50:32Speaker 4: when you call me, have something to say, you know,
- 50:40Speaker 4: granded some risings queen. No, you know, he just hit
- 50:43Speaker 4: me and he was like, you know, hey, I was
- 50:45Speaker 4: just you know, calling to see how you were doing.
- 50:47Speaker 5: I was like, I told you I'm doing good. You know,
- 50:49Speaker 5: I'm doing good.
- 50:50Speaker 4: Tough cookie, the work I had I had to. And
- 50:56Speaker 4: then finally he hit me. I was in l a
- 50:58Speaker 4: and you know, he was like, he was like, hey,
- 51:00Speaker 4: will you have dinner with me? And I was like no,
- 51:03Speaker 4: and yeah, no, I was I was really trying to.
- 51:05Speaker 4: I was trying to and a friend of mine was like,
- 51:07Speaker 4: she was like, you love this person, why don't you
- 51:09Speaker 4: just go have dinner with them?
- 51:10Speaker 5: Like he wants to see you, And so I.
- 51:12Speaker 4: Went and we had dinner, and you know, he was
- 51:15Speaker 4: like hey, Like I was just hoping.
- 51:16Speaker 5: He was living in out of state at the time.
- 51:18Speaker 4: He was living in Florida and I was living in California,
- 51:20Speaker 4: and he was like, you know, He's like, I was
- 51:22Speaker 4: wondering if you know you come out and like just
- 51:24Speaker 4: you know, hang out with me. And I was like no,
- 51:26Speaker 4: I was like, I'm not coming out, He's like, Okay, well,
- 51:29Speaker 4: then I'm coming back to LA. And so then he
- 51:31Speaker 4: came out to LA and this this is like my
- 51:33Speaker 4: favorite part of the story because I was like, don't
- 51:36Speaker 4: do this, like I don't do this if you're not
- 51:39Speaker 4: read like for real, like I'm not playing. So then
- 51:41Speaker 4: after he's like, I'm coming to LA and he's like,
- 51:43Speaker 4: I will be here for three days and he's like,
- 51:46Speaker 4: if you will see me, he was like, this is
- 51:49Speaker 4: where I'll be and I was like, I'll let you know,
- 51:51Speaker 4: and I didn't even and then I called him thirty
- 51:53Speaker 4: minutes before and I was like, I'm pulling up in
- 51:55Speaker 4: thirty minutes. He's like, I'm here, So he really posted
- 51:58Speaker 4: up and when I went there, excuse your house. Wait no, no, no,
- 52:01Speaker 4: this was at a hotel. He was at a hotel
- 52:03Speaker 4: in LA and I but I was really I really
- 52:06Speaker 4: was like, let me see if you're really about that action.
- 52:08Speaker 4: But like I wasn't making it difficult for him. I
- 52:10Speaker 4: was just really being firm on my boundaries.
- 52:12Speaker 12: Did you get you know?
- 52:14Speaker 3: I did you know?
- 52:16Speaker 5: Cause if it's last time you gonna see.
- 52:18Speaker 4: Somebody, you gotta leave it impression, But it wasn't it
- 52:21Speaker 4: really wasn't. And and you know the things that he said,
- 52:24Speaker 4: it was just the most genuine. I just knew spirit
- 52:27Speaker 4: was like we're aligned here, and I knew that it
- 52:30Speaker 4: was it was the right decision for me. I knew
- 52:33Speaker 4: that I was going and that's you know. Even on
- 52:34Speaker 4: the EP, I wrote this song called I Choose You
- 52:37Speaker 4: because I think that choice is the greatest thing we have,
- 52:40Speaker 4: and when we exercise it in empowerment, it can be
- 52:42Speaker 4: so beautiful. And so for me, I was like, all right,
- 52:45Speaker 4: I'm gonna choose to say yes to this. You're choosing
- 52:49Speaker 4: me and I'm choosing you, and we are going to
- 52:51Speaker 4: do this together. We know where we've come from, we
- 52:54Speaker 4: know what we've been through. With all of that said,
- 52:56Speaker 4: let's choose to do this together.
- 52:59Speaker 5: And so we did. Any six months I was pregnant.
- 53:01Speaker 5: Oh so this is about him. Yeah, listen, listen. Let
- 53:06Speaker 5: me tell you something.
- 53:07Speaker 4: That moment of us finding out I was pregnant again,
- 53:11Speaker 4: Like I didn't think I that wasn't the plan, but
- 53:14Speaker 4: it was God's plan. And when I really happened, like
- 53:17Speaker 4: as soon as we got pregnant and then we had
- 53:18Speaker 4: our son, I literally was just.
- 53:19Speaker 5: Like, oh, this is why.
- 53:22Speaker 4: Like I, of course we have a beautiful love and
- 53:24Speaker 4: life and connection and I really do feel like that
- 53:26Speaker 4: is my person. But when we had our son, I
- 53:29Speaker 4: literally was like, oh this, yeah, this little spirit wanted
- 53:34Speaker 4: us to get our together so that he could be here.
- 53:36Speaker 12: There's so much that I'm hearing in what you said.
- 53:39Speaker 12: Number one, the power of intention, absolutely, because you told
- 53:42Speaker 12: your homegirl, I need to find my person. The set boundaries,
- 53:46Speaker 12: find peace, peace feet. The set boundaries find peace part
- 53:49Speaker 12: is very important, and you know, just people doing the
- 53:52Speaker 12: work and what's for you want to escape you.
- 53:55Speaker 4: It's there for you time and time again. You just
- 53:57Speaker 4: have to trust the process, you really do. You have
- 54:00Speaker 4: to be willing to journey and pay attention and learn
- 54:03Speaker 4: and allow yourself to be a student of life. Like truly,
- 54:07Speaker 4: like in all the work that I feel like I've
- 54:09Speaker 4: done on myself, I'm still learning. I'm still being tested.
- 54:12Speaker 4: These kids come along and test you. They show you
- 54:14Speaker 4: parts of yourself that you didn't even know. You know
- 54:16Speaker 4: that you still needed to work on in marriage, even
- 54:19Speaker 4: at this time right now, we're both in the busiest
- 54:21Speaker 4: seasons of our lives together and that's a challenge, you know.
- 54:25Speaker 4: So how do we navigate that we're not the same
- 54:27Speaker 4: people we were. We have more responsibilities, more stress, so,
- 54:30Speaker 4: you know, it's just it's an evolution always. But the intention,
- 54:34Speaker 4: the power of intention is everything. You cannot do anything
- 54:37Speaker 4: without intention.
- 54:38Speaker 12: Yeah, but the settin boundaries part though, just the fact
- 54:41Speaker 12: that you were firm in your nose.
- 54:42Speaker 3: No one could expound on that. Why is that important?
- 54:45Speaker 5: You know?
- 54:46Speaker 4: I think for a lot of my life I was
- 54:47Speaker 4: a people pleaser, and I think for a lot of
- 54:50Speaker 4: my life I felt like I had to be nice
- 54:52Speaker 4: and I had to get along and I had to
- 54:54Speaker 4: go with the flow and not rock the boat. And
- 54:56Speaker 4: I really realized that you get more by people knowing
- 55:00Speaker 4: that you know who you are and that you can't
- 55:02Speaker 4: be swayed on that. And I think that no is
- 55:06Speaker 4: we hear it a complete sentence, you know, and you
- 55:08Speaker 4: don't have to be rude about anything like no, thank you,
- 55:12Speaker 4: Yeah you know what not at this moment, I appreciate that,
- 55:15Speaker 4: but no thank you, I'll pass Like there's so many ways,
- 55:17Speaker 4: you know, that doesn't align with me right now, there's
- 55:20Speaker 4: so many ways we can say no.
- 55:21Speaker 5: That's still empower us.
- 55:22Speaker 4: And if you don't want to feel offensive, but the
- 55:25Speaker 4: setting boundaries is everything, because again, I think because of
- 55:28Speaker 4: the boundaries that I've set for myself in my life,
- 55:31Speaker 4: I can now freely say yes and feel like I'm
- 55:34Speaker 4: doing it from wisdom, from experience, from divine protection. I
- 55:37Speaker 4: feel like the universe responds when you operate at a
- 55:39Speaker 4: high frequency, and so I know that I've done the work.
- 55:42Speaker 4: You cannot get to that free space of saying yes
- 55:45Speaker 4: by just being like I'm gonna just say yes to
- 55:46Speaker 4: everybody that's people please intending yes. The say yes from
- 55:49Speaker 4: a points of empowerment comes from setting those boundaries, so
- 55:51Speaker 4: they go hand in hand.
- 55:52Speaker 12: Another thing that you've talked about, You know, this conversation
- 55:55Speaker 12: that I would love to just expound on because somebody
- 55:57Speaker 12: was up here. I forgot who it was, and they
- 55:59Speaker 12: were just saying how work life balance does not exist, Like,
- 56:01Speaker 12: there's no such thing. It's a lie that we tell ourselves.
- 56:04Speaker 12: You're gonna give your energy to your family, and that's
- 56:07Speaker 12: gonna be that you're gonna give your energy to your work,
- 56:09Speaker 12: and that's gonna be that. Like you said earlier, it's
- 56:11Speaker 12: not gonna be fifty to fifty. It might be ninety ten.
- 56:13Speaker 12: Cold you just expound on that little Yeah.
- 56:14Speaker 4: You know, they say something that I've heard many people says,
- 56:17Speaker 4: you can have it all, you just can't have it
- 56:18Speaker 4: all at the same time. And so, you know, I
- 56:21Speaker 4: think for the well being of ourselves, we have to
- 56:24Speaker 4: give ourselves grace to be able to just be like,
- 56:26Speaker 4: I want to show up one hundred percent in everything,
- 56:29Speaker 4: But all you got to do is show up one
- 56:31Speaker 4: hundred percent where you're at in that moment. If that's
- 56:34Speaker 4: cooking dinner, that's what I'm doing today. I'm cooking dinner.
- 56:37Speaker 4: I'm doing that. Multitasking is this thing that they've told us,
- 56:40Speaker 4: you know, like it's not actually real. We're not supposed
- 56:43Speaker 4: to be able to multitask. Like the only thing we
- 56:45Speaker 4: really can do is like talk and look at the
- 56:47Speaker 4: same time walk maybe and talk. You know, in order
- 56:50Speaker 4: to be present and really great at something, you really
- 56:52Speaker 4: do have to give it your full attention, parenting, marriage,
- 56:55Speaker 4: all of these things. So you can only do that
- 56:56Speaker 4: in certain times of your day. You know, I don't
- 56:59Speaker 4: know how how many hours Beyonce has because they say,
- 57:02Speaker 4: you know, she got more than twenty four hours because
- 57:03Speaker 4: she'd be getting done. But you know, in my twenty
- 57:05Speaker 4: four hour day. I just do the best I can
- 57:07Speaker 4: in the moment. You know, right now I'm not checking
- 57:10Speaker 4: on my kids.
- 57:11Speaker 5: Yeah I can't. I'm here.
- 57:13Speaker 4: So you just have to give yourself the grace to
- 57:15Speaker 4: just say, like I said, sometimes it's ninety, sometimes it's ten.
- 57:19Speaker 4: Just do the best every day, one hundred percent. And
- 57:21Speaker 4: if you and if you're one hundred percent.
- 57:23Speaker 5: See we don't do have little lips. But she is smiling.
- 57:26Speaker 5: Once time zoomed all the way in Melanie.
- 57:28Speaker 12: He does about how you focus your your head? Who
- 57:32Speaker 12: picture fast?
- 57:32Speaker 3: Right?
- 57:33Speaker 4: And I had no idea that she was really smiling.
- 57:35Speaker 5: So what is she looking at?
- 57:37Speaker 3: What is she is? She?
- 57:38Speaker 5: Is she stoic? Is she happy? Is she said? We
- 57:40Speaker 5: don't know what her I say, I say that she
- 57:42Speaker 5: is said.
- 57:43Speaker 12: We don't even know if that's a woman. We do it.
- 57:45Speaker 5: And that's the thing. There's so much conversation about the moment.
- 57:47Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, all right, we appreciate you for joining us.
- 57:49Speaker 1: Thank a thirteen year stranger.
- 57:51Speaker 4: Never I won't be, don't I won't be. I really
- 57:54Speaker 4: won't be. New York always has a special place in
- 57:55Speaker 4: my heart. So I'm just happy to be back here.
- 57:57Speaker 5: Thank you all.
- 57:57Speaker 4: And I got to tend into your podcast. Girl, I'm
- 58:00Speaker 4: and mommy stuff.
- 58:01Speaker 5: Let's have you on it. Yeah, next time you're in
- 58:03Speaker 5: la please come through.
- 58:04Speaker 4: Okay, we can talk about all the things and he
- 58:06Speaker 4: is a safe space, absolutely all right.
- 58:08Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club, is Melanie Fielia? All right, Well,
- 58:11Speaker 1: let's get to the latest with Laurie.
- 58:13Speaker 14: Lauren becoming the street fast she gets them somebody that
- 58:18Speaker 14: knows somebody detail.
- 58:20Speaker 5: I'm a long girl that knows a little bit about everything,
- 58:22Speaker 5: and she'd.
- 58:23Speaker 3: Be having the latest on this the latest with Lauren
- 58:27Speaker 3: la Rosa.
- 58:28Speaker 12: Sometimes you have facts, sometimes you have details, sometimes you
- 58:30Speaker 12: have a little bit of everything.
- 58:31Speaker 3: It's the latest on the Breakfast Club to me.
- 58:36Speaker 8: So.
- 58:36Speaker 6: Jason Wilson was on All the Smoke with Matt Barnes
- 58:39Speaker 6: and Stephen A seven Stephen Jackson, Oh sorry, I wrote Stee.
- 58:45Speaker 12: Jackson All the Smoke podcasts. You can listen to All
- 58:47Speaker 12: the Smoke podcasts on the blackfect Her Radio podcast.
- 58:49Speaker 5: Yes, Friends of the Room. Now. They talked about the
- 58:53Speaker 5: power of men crying. That's sa listen.
- 58:56Speaker 19: You spoke to the power of crying and I, you know,
- 58:58Speaker 19: kind of briefly shared my story of growing up by
- 59:01Speaker 19: racial black dad, Italian mom, drugs abuse, alcohol, violence, losing
- 59:07Speaker 19: my mom at twenty seven, so it'll be eighteen years
- 59:10Speaker 19: this November, and I haven't cried. Like I'm starting to
- 59:13Speaker 19: feel it down, you know, and I feel like I'm
- 59:14Speaker 19: almost pouring from an empty cup. And you know, through
- 59:16Speaker 19: my actions, I literally just lost my family. I wasn't
- 59:20Speaker 19: there emotionally, I wasn't empathetic. So my question is, like,
- 59:23Speaker 19: how do you cry if you don't, I don't won't
- 59:26Speaker 19: say I don't know how to cry because I've cried before,
- 59:27Speaker 19: but I haven't cried in probably thirty years.
- 59:29Speaker 20: Your guard, you have to change your perspective of what
- 59:32Speaker 20: crying is. It's really is a sign of you being human,
- 59:35Speaker 20: and until we get to the place where we can
- 59:37Speaker 20: release it, that's when you always feel this raise, this anger,
- 59:41Speaker 20: never feeling settled. You gotta smoke some weed, You gotta
- 59:44Speaker 20: get something to drink.
- 59:45Speaker 12: You need to call on that girl, like when is
- 59:47Speaker 12: enough is enough?
- 59:48Speaker 20: Peace is not the absence of chaos, trials, tests, adversity.
- 59:54Speaker 20: It's having a calm heart in the midst of those things.
- 59:57Speaker 3: Dropping cluse mother Jason Wilson to I love that black man.
- 1:00:01Speaker 3: Right there, you hit me.
- 1:00:02Speaker 6: It was a great conversay. All should go watch the conversation.
- 1:00:04Speaker 6: It was a great conversation. I'm going to send it
- 1:00:06Speaker 6: to I've already sent it to a few people that
- 1:00:08Speaker 6: I think she'll watch it. But now he mentioned Matt
- 1:00:11Speaker 6: Barnes mentioned losing his family and when he started talking,
- 1:00:14Speaker 6: so a while back up, maybe like a month or
- 1:00:16Speaker 6: two back, his then fiance and Anti Sims.
- 1:00:20Speaker 5: I believe that's how I say her name. Sorry if
- 1:00:22Speaker 5: it's incorrect.
- 1:00:23Speaker 6: She seemingly like accused, not even seemingly, she accused Matt
- 1:00:27Speaker 6: Barnes of cheating with eight different women.
- 1:00:29Speaker 5: Back in January. She went on.
- 1:00:31Speaker 6: Instagram and was like she posted this post and it
- 1:00:33Speaker 6: was like dang, Matt, eight different women. And then she
- 1:00:35Speaker 6: came back out and was like talking about who the
- 1:00:38Speaker 6: different women were and stuff like that. But then it
- 1:00:39Speaker 6: was all taken down and we heard nothing about it.
- 1:00:42Speaker 6: And then now this clip surfaces, so people are like, oh, shoot,
- 1:00:45Speaker 6: so that really did happen. And you know, they have
- 1:00:48Speaker 6: kids together, she had just welcomed their baby boy, so
- 1:00:52Speaker 6: people were trying to figure it out. He just he
- 1:00:54Speaker 6: just you know, answered a lot of like the speculation,
- 1:00:57Speaker 6: but it triggered her, so she posted in respond, if
- 1:01:00Speaker 6: you're going to talk publicly about our personal business, tell
- 1:01:02Speaker 6: the whole story. You don't post have truths about me
- 1:01:04Speaker 6: and our past relationship became sympathy from the masses. I'm
- 1:01:07Speaker 6: in the trenches doing the hard work making sure all
- 1:01:09Speaker 6: of our kids are okay. You made no effort to
- 1:01:11Speaker 6: emotionally support all of our children through this traumatic transition
- 1:01:15Speaker 6: that you caused, but you're willing to be vulnerable for
- 1:01:17Speaker 6: strangers on the ground for profit. Please keep my name
- 1:01:19Speaker 6: out of your mouth. Since I've left, I said nothing
- 1:01:21Speaker 6: about you, and you know there's so much I can
- 1:01:22Speaker 6: say about the man you truly were to me. If
- 1:01:24Speaker 6: you don't have respect for me, at least have respect
- 1:01:26Speaker 6: for our children who follow you and see your posts.
- 1:01:28Speaker 6: Your posts are triggering for the kids and I. While
- 1:01:30Speaker 6: we're in the midst of healing and rebuilding our lives,
- 1:01:32Speaker 6: we're we're the ones who reaped all of the damage
- 1:01:35Speaker 6: you caused by your constant, selfish, toxic choices. You didn't
- 1:01:38Speaker 6: consider our kids and your actions before, so please try
- 1:01:41Speaker 6: to consider them now. If you want to do some good,
- 1:01:43Speaker 6: please don't speak about me. Go get consistent therapy, and
- 1:01:45Speaker 6: most importantly, start building a relationship with God, peace and blessings.
- 1:01:49Speaker 12: I mean, her feelings are valid. I don't know if
- 1:01:53Speaker 12: it's fair for her to say that. You know, are
- 1:01:55Speaker 12: imply that what Matt is doing is performative because he
- 1:01:58Speaker 12: said it on his podcast and content matters, right, Like
- 1:02:00Speaker 12: Jason Wilson, he really does have that effect on people.
- 1:02:03Speaker 12: If you've ever read his book Battle Cry or Cry
- 1:02:05Speaker 12: Like a Man, or you know his new book Demand
- 1:02:08Speaker 12: the Moment Demands, Jason has that impact on people. And
- 1:02:11Speaker 12: if you read those books, maybe Matt felt like that
- 1:02:14Speaker 12: was a safe space for him to have that conversation
- 1:02:16Speaker 12: and be vulnerable. Like if you want to be vulnerable
- 1:02:18Speaker 12: with somebody, you know, it should be with somebody like
- 1:02:20Speaker 12: a Jason Wilson.
- 1:02:22Speaker 1: Yeah, but she might feel also that you know, they
- 1:02:24Speaker 1: never dealt with their problems and to hear it online
- 1:02:26Speaker 1: could be triggering to them. So but also, like you said,
- 1:02:29Speaker 1: is he's being vulnerable. He's saying he lost his family,
- 1:02:32Speaker 1: He's saying maybe he needs to cry. So it's a
- 1:02:34Speaker 1: tough space because if I want to talk about my feelings,
- 1:02:37Speaker 1: I want to talk about my feelings, but I don't
- 1:02:38Speaker 1: want to affect you. I'm sure he didn't want to
- 1:02:40Speaker 1: trigger her. I'm sure that wasn't his intention. But you know,
- 1:02:43Speaker 1: they were just having a normal conversation.
- 1:02:44Speaker 12: Yeah, and I heard, I mean from what I heard
- 1:02:46Speaker 12: from that clip. I haven't listened the whole conversation yet.
- 1:02:47Speaker 12: I will this weekend. It sounds like he was feeling
- 1:02:50Speaker 12: like he needed to take accountability in that moment. It's
- 1:02:52Speaker 12: not like it was some things that he had been
- 1:02:54Speaker 12: thinking about for a while, and once again he felt
- 1:02:57Speaker 12: like he was in a safe space to share that
- 1:02:58Speaker 12: with somebody like Jason Wilson.
- 1:03:00Speaker 19: Yeah.
- 1:03:00Speaker 6: I think that when you watch it you'll realize, Like
- 1:03:02Speaker 6: the lead up to the conversation, Jason Wilson talks about
- 1:03:05Speaker 6: his wife and like a time where he had met
- 1:03:08Speaker 6: well they're perfect, Yeah, And he said that there was
- 1:03:10Speaker 6: one point where, like they were in the kitchen, he
- 1:03:12Speaker 6: said to his wife like, dang, I really want to
- 1:03:13Speaker 6: spend time more time with our son, And his wife
- 1:03:15Speaker 6: was spinding to say, I wish you would want to
- 1:03:16Speaker 6: spend more time with me, like you want to spend
- 1:03:18Speaker 6: with your son, And in that moment, he had to
- 1:03:20Speaker 6: take accountability for how absent he was without even kind
- 1:03:22Speaker 6: of like consciously thinking about it. And I think, you know,
- 1:03:25Speaker 6: as the conversation went along, because that was the very beginning,
- 1:03:27Speaker 6: This is kind of like midpoint. It made Matt like,
- 1:03:30Speaker 6: I think he felt he identified, he saw himself because
- 1:03:33Speaker 6: he said that he had been cold in a lot
- 1:03:35Speaker 6: of the situations like you mentioned, because of the things
- 1:03:37Speaker 6: he went through.
- 1:03:37Speaker 12: So you have to know who Jason Wilson is. You know,
- 1:03:40Speaker 12: Jason's been up here on Breakfast Club a bunch of times.
- 1:03:43Speaker 12: He comes to my mental Wealth ex for every year
- 1:03:45Speaker 12: I've read his books. If you know who he is,
- 1:03:47Speaker 12: you would know why Matt felt like that was a
- 1:03:49Speaker 12: safe space to have that conversation.
- 1:03:51Speaker 6: And I can also understand though her feeling a little
- 1:03:53Speaker 6: triggered by hey, there's this whole picture of us. We
- 1:03:56Speaker 6: just had the happy family and then boom, all these
- 1:03:58Speaker 6: women and all these different things that she's a legends.
- 1:04:00Speaker 1: But also this might be the starter and hopefully that
- 1:04:02Speaker 1: could open up to that conversation if they both need
- 1:04:04Speaker 1: to have that conversation.
- 1:04:05Speaker 12: And what you said, absolutely we all need therapy and
- 1:04:07Speaker 12: we all need God one hundred percent believe in therapy.
- 1:04:10Speaker 6: And got well switching gears, Uh, you did this story
- 1:04:14Speaker 6: for Dunkey today. Chris Lewis, the guy who left his
- 1:04:17Speaker 6: kids in the car where he was at the job
- 1:04:19Speaker 6: interview slash not job interview.
- 1:04:21Speaker 5: The back and forth that's happening right now.
- 1:04:22Speaker 6: Well, I had actually reached out to go fund me
- 1:04:25Speaker 6: because Antonio Brown created us.
- 1:04:27Speaker 3: Reached out to go fund me.
- 1:04:28Speaker 6: Yes, because now, let me tell you so, Antonio Brown
- 1:04:33Speaker 6: created a go fund He's like, I want to raise
- 1:04:36Speaker 6: money for this family because from what he had been
- 1:04:38Speaker 6: told by Chris Lewis's girlfriend, they were homeless, it was
- 1:04:41Speaker 6: a job interview, whatever, whatever. There's a police report that
- 1:04:43Speaker 6: came out that said the complete opposite that debunked that, right,
- 1:04:46Speaker 6: So then Ab had to come out and say he
- 1:04:47Speaker 6: was still working on figuring out if this was real
- 1:04:49Speaker 6: or not. He has said in previous posts, if it
- 1:04:52Speaker 6: wasn't real, everybody's getting everybody would be refunded. And I
- 1:04:55Speaker 6: just felt like, okay, because there's so much like we
- 1:04:58Speaker 6: don't know, speculation back and forth.
- 1:05:00Speaker 12: What don't we know them?
- 1:05:01Speaker 3: Well, we know he wasn't on a job interview.
- 1:05:04Speaker 5: He's posting as if he's going to figure out some
- 1:05:06Speaker 5: more information.
- 1:05:07Speaker 12: The players already put out the whole report. The baby
- 1:05:09Speaker 12: mama has spoken, the ten year old job is spoken.
- 1:05:11Speaker 6: Well, there are people who still believe that this man
- 1:05:13Speaker 6: should have some sympathy. There are people that feel like
- 1:05:15Speaker 6: he shouldn't. I just want to see where a go
- 1:05:16Speaker 6: fundme sat at, because I feel like, if you've given
- 1:05:19Speaker 6: money and it's disconfusing, I want my money right now,
- 1:05:22Speaker 6: but I gotta wait until it's dispersed.
- 1:05:23Speaker 5: So I want to figure out how that was going
- 1:05:24Speaker 5: to work.
- 1:05:25Speaker 6: But what they said to me was that the fund
- 1:05:27Speaker 6: raiser at this point is it returned, it remains within
- 1:05:30Speaker 6: their terms of service. So basically they have to like
- 1:05:34Speaker 6: go with whatever their trust and the safety of those
- 1:05:36Speaker 6: terms of service is. And then once they get to
- 1:05:38Speaker 6: a final decision, like they're trying to figure it out
- 1:05:40Speaker 6: as well too, then yes, funds will be refunded. But
- 1:05:43Speaker 6: I thought that because of all the debunking, all the
- 1:05:45Speaker 6: things that came out, people would start getting refunds right now.
- 1:05:47Speaker 6: But I'm looking at and the go fundme is still here.
- 1:05:49Speaker 6: You can still donate that eighty three thousand dollars. Over
- 1:05:52Speaker 6: eighty three thousand dollars, No.
- 1:05:53Speaker 12: Baby should talk to the baby mama, he said. He
- 1:05:55Speaker 12: spoke to a girlfriend. He should talk to the mother
- 1:05:57Speaker 12: of the child, the mother of the child, who said
- 1:05:59Speaker 12: in the police report she has told him to stop
- 1:06:02Speaker 12: leaving these kids unattended multiple times.
- 1:06:04Speaker 6: Well, also to go funny said that they do have
- 1:06:06Speaker 6: a policy where like you can go and requst your
- 1:06:08Speaker 6: refund and get your money. Now, I just thought like
- 1:06:10Speaker 6: a mass disperson was going to happen, and ab did
- 1:06:12Speaker 6: mention that too, he said, you know, he said, he's
- 1:06:14Speaker 6: still gathering additional information.
- 1:06:16Speaker 12: Get them money to the baby mama. Get the money
- 1:06:18Speaker 12: to the baby mama, because if you know those kids
- 1:06:20Speaker 12: are being left unattended by the baby's father, give the
- 1:06:23Speaker 12: give the money to the baby mother.
- 1:06:26Speaker 3: Let the baby mother. Have the mom not absolutely let the.
- 1:06:28Speaker 12: Baby mother of the three kids who got left unattended,
- 1:06:31Speaker 12: let them get the money.
- 1:06:31Speaker 1: Maybe she could put them in daycare or whatever whatever
- 1:06:34Speaker 1: she wanted.
- 1:06:34Speaker 12: To give it to the mother of those three children.
- 1:06:37Speaker 1: But I think you have to make sure that's a
- 1:06:39Speaker 1: proved by the people donating money, because they donating money
- 1:06:42Speaker 1: for a particular reason.
- 1:06:43Speaker 3: But I think you have to make sure that's fine
- 1:06:44Speaker 3: to do as well.
- 1:06:45Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm pretty sure, I'm not for sure how that works,
- 1:06:48Speaker 6: but I can ask. But yeah, just wanted to give
- 1:06:50Speaker 6: that little update there that's still here and go fund
- 1:06:52Speaker 6: me said, at this point, they're not doing anything wrong.
- 1:06:54Speaker 12: And by the way, if, if, if the father is
- 1:06:57Speaker 12: very responsible with the kids, you think he's gonna be
- 1:06:58Speaker 12: responsible with money.
- 1:07:00Speaker 3: What are we talking about, y'all?
- 1:07:02Speaker 5: Eighty three thousand dollars?
- 1:07:04Speaker 3: Y'all be having so much sympathy for niggas and niggas.
- 1:07:06Speaker 1: But whatever, all right, you forgot where he came from.
- 1:07:12Speaker 3: You forgot I forgot that you used the kids.
- 1:07:14Speaker 12: Just get clean on the map.
- 1:07:17Speaker 17: You Aaron, and say that nobody said that.
- 1:07:22Speaker 12: You said, stop with them. We'll play the clip back later.
- 1:07:26Speaker 12: You did, I didn't. You said you kidded somebody in
- 1:07:28Speaker 12: the mouth something man, I said, my pops, oh my
- 1:07:31Speaker 12: coul Son, Oh my bad, God, damn it.
- 1:07:35Speaker 5: He just he made he suns you and made you
- 1:07:38Speaker 5: gay in ten seconds.
- 1:07:40Speaker 12: Uh, Mayor Tom Ross and off. The colder needs to
- 1:07:42Speaker 12: come to the front of the congregation. We like to
- 1:07:44Speaker 12: have a word with him.
- 1:07:44Speaker 7: Police.
- 1:07:44Speaker 3: Cludn't like when you play with his name.
- 1:07:46Speaker 12: Well, you need to stop playing with CLO's names.
- 1:07:48Speaker 3: Man, it's the breakfast Cloak, Good morning, I just.
- 1:07:52Speaker 2: Wanted to know how you came up with them.
- 1:07:54Speaker 12: Don't the other day tell us man, because you did.
- 1:08:01Speaker 12: There's a bunch of donkeys. That is why Charlemagne remember
- 1:08:06Speaker 12: life where we might are tongue based off cool may
- 1:08:08Speaker 12: a thing we never was saying on the breakfast club
- 1:08:16Speaker 12: the words of Charlemagne to God, he's a donkey.
- 1:08:23Speaker 3: Charlamagne, you've given donkey the day to who.
- 1:08:25Speaker 12: Now well bustermes donky. Today for Friday, April fourth, goes
- 1:08:29Speaker 12: to Tom Ross. Tom Ross is the mayor of a
- 1:08:33Speaker 12: North Dakota city. And before we continue, I need you
- 1:08:36Speaker 12: to know it's Friday, so you know what that means
- 1:08:37Speaker 12: right in b.
- 1:08:38Speaker 2: It's freakie, freaky, freaky Friday.
- 1:08:42Speaker 12: The reason I'm telling you this is because Tom Ross
- 1:08:44Speaker 12: is fam and by fam I mean a freaking ass man. Okay.
- 1:08:48Speaker 12: I want all the beautiful working class people out there
- 1:08:50Speaker 12: listening to my voice to think about what do you
- 1:08:53Speaker 12: usually do on your lunch break?
- 1:08:56Speaker 3: Okay?
- 1:08:56Speaker 12: Most folks go get something to eat, right, Most folks
- 1:08:59Speaker 12: try to get a quick In more recent years, I've
- 1:09:01Speaker 12: heard people say they even take the time to meditate,
- 1:09:04Speaker 12: do some breaf work. But some people like to do
- 1:09:07Speaker 12: something that starts with an M and half three syllables.
- 1:09:09Speaker 12: But it's not meditate, it's masturbate. I can see people
- 1:09:13Speaker 12: doing it for scratch reduction. And that's why, as I've
- 1:09:15Speaker 12: gotten noted, I'll be shaking everybody hand. Okay, I get
- 1:09:18Speaker 12: pounds because folks be out here going, you know, on
- 1:09:21Speaker 12: call of duty, solo missions, on their lunch breaks and
- 1:09:23Speaker 12: coming back in the workplace like that's just mayonnaise from
- 1:09:26Speaker 12: a tuna sandwich on their thumb. And that's the story
- 1:09:30Speaker 12: with Tim Ross. Okay, would you like to hear more? Yes,
- 1:09:33Speaker 12: let's go to KAX News for the report.
- 1:09:34Speaker 13: Police mine Not Mayor Tom Ross has now resigned. This
- 1:09:38Speaker 13: comes after an internal investigation was conducted after mayn Not
- 1:09:41Speaker 13: City attorney Stephanie Staalheim submitted a sexual harassment complaint. KAX
- 1:09:46Speaker 13: News obtained the full investigative report. The report states on
- 1:09:50Speaker 13: the morning of January fourteenth, Ross called Stalheim to inform
- 1:09:54Speaker 13: her that an officer with may Not Police had died.
- 1:09:58Speaker 13: Eleven minutes after that phone call, the report states that
- 1:10:01Speaker 13: she received a text message from Ross with a video
- 1:10:04Speaker 13: attached to it. Ross then called Stalheim asking her not
- 1:10:08Speaker 13: to watch the video and simply delete it, saying it
- 1:10:11Speaker 13: was intended for Ross's girlfriend. The report says she was
- 1:10:14Speaker 13: under distress after hearing of the officer's passing, then being
- 1:10:18Speaker 13: told by the mayor to delete a message. Just eleven
- 1:10:20Speaker 13: minutes later, she was being consoled by other colleagues and
- 1:10:23Speaker 13: Stallheim then tried to delete the video but accidentally hit play.
- 1:10:27Speaker 13: There was a sexually explicit video of Ross. Ross has
- 1:10:31Speaker 13: since resigned as mayor. Just after three o'clock this afternoon.
- 1:10:35Speaker 12: Now Tom put out a statement and he said, I
- 1:10:38Speaker 12: do take responsibility for this mistake. As if anyone else
- 1:10:40Speaker 12: could take responsibility, and if it was anyone else's fault,
- 1:10:43Speaker 12: it's your penis your hand. Nobody was buffing your browser,
- 1:10:46Speaker 12: but you okay, you open that self care app yourself.
- 1:10:49Speaker 3: You swiped right solo.
- 1:10:50Speaker 12: Who else could take responsibility?
- 1:10:52Speaker 3: Tom?
- 1:10:52Speaker 12: What else I found funny was when he said I
- 1:10:55Speaker 12: tried to immediately correct it and was unable. What does
- 1:10:57Speaker 12: that even mean? You can't injerk yourself? You mean you
- 1:11:00Speaker 12: tried to unsend the picture but the person you sent
- 1:11:02Speaker 12: it to didn't have an iPhone?
- 1:11:03Speaker 3: Is that what that was?
- 1:11:04Speaker 7: Damn?
- 1:11:06Speaker 12: What do you mean? You tried to correct it but
- 1:11:07Speaker 12: was unable. You were engaging and gentlemanly jousting. Okay, by
- 1:11:11Speaker 12: the way, nothing wrong with that, but it's a time
- 1:11:13Speaker 12: and a place for everything, and on your lunch break
- 1:11:16Speaker 12: isn't the place nor the time. And what makes this
- 1:11:18Speaker 12: story extra funny is he sent it to Stephanie Stallhim,
- 1:11:22Speaker 12: who's the city attorney. You just heard the news report
- 1:11:24Speaker 12: and she told investigators she had just spoken to Ross
- 1:11:27Speaker 12: about the police officer's passing, okay, just minutes before she
- 1:11:31Speaker 12: received a video of the mayor doing the five finger shuffle.
- 1:11:36Speaker 12: She told the mayor that a police officer had just transitioned,
- 1:11:40Speaker 12: had just passed away, and he responded by sending a
- 1:11:43Speaker 12: video of him making the bald man cry yogurt. Can
- 1:11:46Speaker 12: you imagine? Okay, I told you about an officer passing away,
- 1:11:50Speaker 12: and you send me a video of you making tartar
- 1:11:53Speaker 12: sauce rainbows. I prayed, Tom, didn't you know? Hang up
- 1:11:56Speaker 12: with her and tell her I'm going to send you
- 1:11:58Speaker 12: something to lift your spirits or send you something to
- 1:12:00Speaker 12: put things in perspective. You searching for a Maya Angelou
- 1:12:03Speaker 12: video and end up sending the video.
- 1:12:05Speaker 3: Of you hulks smashing your slong.
- 1:12:08Speaker 12: Today's my Angelw's birthday.
- 1:12:09Speaker 5: I was wondering why you brought her into this.
- 1:12:11Speaker 12: She was on my spirit. I think it's it's her
- 1:12:12Speaker 12: birthday record. Yes, okay, Now, for the record, Tom didn't
- 1:12:15Speaker 12: mean to blow the horn and send the video and
- 1:12:17Speaker 12: him making pearl jam to Stephanie. You heard the news report.
- 1:12:20Speaker 12: He meant to send something structure to his girlfriend, but
- 1:12:23Speaker 12: mistakes happened and he sent the video of him making
- 1:12:25Speaker 12: some beef beef stroking off to the wrong person. Okay,
- 1:12:29Speaker 12: Stephanie fid and official harassment complaint as she should have.
- 1:12:32Speaker 12: She asked for a formal apology from the mayor, which
- 1:12:34Speaker 12: she got, and she requested that he consider resigning, which
- 1:12:38Speaker 12: he did. Listen, man, this is why I just believe
- 1:12:41Speaker 12: some things just have to be done the old fashioned way,
- 1:12:45Speaker 12: and things that you do in your bedroom, in the
- 1:12:48Speaker 12: privacy of your own residents should stay there. Everything isn't
- 1:12:52Speaker 12: for digital consumption. Everything isn't, you know, to share on smartphones.
- 1:12:57Speaker 12: Do we even call private parts pride it anymore? We
- 1:13:01Speaker 12: should get back to that. Do we have to record
- 1:13:03Speaker 12: and share every single damn thing nowadays? Especially intimate moments
- 1:13:08Speaker 12: like that. I don't know who needed to hear this today.
- 1:13:11Speaker 12: But your phone is not a safe space, never has been,
- 1:13:15Speaker 12: never will be, especially if you got social media. A
- 1:13:18Speaker 12: safe space, last time I checked, was a place where
- 1:13:21Speaker 12: you can be yourself without fear of judgment or punishment.
- 1:13:26Speaker 12: Can't find that place on your phone. A safe space
- 1:13:29Speaker 12: is a place where you can be alone, you know
- 1:13:31Speaker 12: if you want, not when you seeking comfort and validation
- 1:13:34Speaker 12: from social media apace. A safe space is populated with
- 1:13:38Speaker 12: things that can make you happy and satisfied. You not
- 1:13:42Speaker 12: finding none of that on your phone. So why would
- 1:13:45Speaker 12: you share some of your most intimate moments with this device?
- 1:13:50Speaker 12: Please give Mayor Tom Ross of North Dakota the sweet
- 1:13:54Speaker 12: sounds of the Hamiltons.
- 1:13:55Speaker 3: Oh no, you are the dog.
- 1:14:00Speaker 7: Of the day, all the day.
- 1:14:09Speaker 17: Ye you're hitting, you're hitting folders. Not a safe space,
- 1:14:15Speaker 17: I don't think so. I don't know why we're so
- 1:14:17Speaker 17: comfortable with our with our smartphones. I really don't eat it.
- 1:14:20Speaker 5: I don't like that calculated. That's really not a calculator.
- 1:14:23Speaker 3: I don't know what you're talking about, but I don't know.
- 1:14:27Speaker 3: I don't know what you don't know? Is that fair?
- 1:14:32Speaker 2: Oh? God?
- 1:14:34Speaker 12: Is what fair?
- 1:14:37Speaker 1: I'm playing with my one eyed snake, right, little pocket pinball,
- 1:14:41Speaker 1: and I.
- 1:14:42Speaker 3: Send it to my wife.
- 1:14:43Speaker 1: Yeah, and instead of typing GEA, I type Charla by
- 1:14:48Speaker 1: accident and you get it. Now I get fired. I
- 1:14:52Speaker 1: didn't need to send it to you. It wasn't my
- 1:14:54Speaker 1: intention to send it to you. I made a mistake.
- 1:14:57Speaker 1: And because you get it, you're gonna go to human resources.
- 1:14:59Speaker 1: And now I gotta resign because you see me playing
- 1:15:02Speaker 1: with my one eye snake by accident?
- 1:15:04Speaker 5: Is this you putting this on public record for a reason?
- 1:15:06Speaker 5: What's going on here?
- 1:15:07Speaker 1: I don't know if that's It's not like he did
- 1:15:10Speaker 1: it on purpose.
- 1:15:10Speaker 3: It's not like I said, I'm gonna say, charlommade my
- 1:15:12Speaker 3: one my one eye Willie. And you know he didn't.
- 1:15:14Speaker 3: You got my instrumental in the man got my song.
- 1:15:17Speaker 3: You know what I want to hear?
- 1:15:18Speaker 12: Right now?
- 1:15:18Speaker 7: You know what I want?
- 1:15:19Speaker 12: It's not you know what I want? Is that really?
- 1:15:23Speaker 3: Is that?
- 1:15:24Speaker 7: Really?
- 1:15:25Speaker 12: He didn't do it on purpose? So the man loses
- 1:15:27Speaker 12: his He could be he.
- 1:15:28Speaker 1: Could have been a great mayor. He wanted to send
- 1:15:30Speaker 1: something sexy to his girlfriend. I'm sure you said something
- 1:15:33Speaker 1: sexy to your boyfriend right period. Now let's say you
- 1:15:35Speaker 1: said it to Charlemagne by accident.
- 1:15:37Speaker 3: Oh what turn it up?
- 1:15:40Speaker 1: Wig go off and all that. Now Charlamage sees that
- 1:15:43Speaker 1: he goes human resources. I'm going on this riding, then
- 1:15:45Speaker 1: you get fired. I'm going on this ride along and
- 1:15:48Speaker 1: I'm house.
- 1:15:49Speaker 3: He didn't do it on purpose. I'm going on one house.
- 1:15:51Speaker 3: We need one person.
- 1:15:53Speaker 17: If one person, that one out, she got a good beingful.
- 1:15:59Speaker 12: You know what I mean?
- 1:16:00Speaker 3: Fairly?
- 1:16:00Speaker 12: You know what I saw, just wanted all jokes aside,
- 1:16:02Speaker 12: all jo Side. I was behind a car right and
- 1:16:05Speaker 12: I'm looking and people just kept getting out this car.
- 1:16:09Speaker 12: It was a Handai odyssey, all jose aside about it
- 1:16:12Speaker 12: was about ten I don't know, no, but it was
- 1:16:16Speaker 12: about ten Mexicans or something literally, and they just kept
- 1:16:21Speaker 12: getting out, Like y'all thought this only happened in the movies.
- 1:16:23Speaker 5: I thought that's only a happened to hav Be souse.
- 1:16:26Speaker 12: But all joll jo Side, we need to detain you
- 1:16:30Speaker 12: for just a little.
- 1:16:32Speaker 5: Bit, you know what, just a little I don't understand.
- 1:16:35Speaker 12: I don't understand anything that you say anymore.
- 1:16:38Speaker 3: He was sixty nine, guys.
- 1:16:41Speaker 12: Make no say he don't want nobody to have no
- 1:16:42Speaker 12: consequences he made a mistake. Sure people can't make a mistakes.
- 1:16:47Speaker 12: And you know what he decided to do when he
- 1:16:49Speaker 12: made his mistake. He decided to resign.
- 1:16:51Speaker 1: Because she asked him to. She was like, you should
- 1:16:53Speaker 1: resign an apology and you should design.
- 1:16:55Speaker 3: He felt like that was the right thing.
- 1:16:57Speaker 17: And you know something else, you keep talking like, don't
- 1:17:00Speaker 17: tell them nothing, all right, Corey Booker, like relax, actually.
- 1:17:07Speaker 12: Right today, I just want to say he actually said,
- 1:17:12Speaker 12: the decision I made falls in line with all my
- 1:17:14Speaker 12: work on behalf of the city of me note or
- 1:17:16Speaker 12: whatever it's called. I put my heart and soul into
- 1:17:18Speaker 12: this community. So he decided that was the honorable thing
- 1:17:21Speaker 12: to do.
- 1:17:22Speaker 5: I respect you, yeah, because he's putting that heart and
- 1:17:24Speaker 5: so into other places.
- 1:17:26Speaker 1: John Hope Brian, when we come back, don't move. It's
- 1:17:28Speaker 1: the Breakfast Sloco Morning, the Breakfast Club.
- 1:17:33Speaker 7: Morning.
- 1:17:34Speaker 3: Everybody is the j n V.
- 1:17:36Speaker 1: Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne the God, We are the Breakfast Club.
- 1:17:39Speaker 3: We got a special guest in the building.
- 1:17:41Speaker 1: Yes, indeed we have John Hope Brian, welcome back, brother here,
- 1:17:44Speaker 1: how you feeling?
- 1:17:45Speaker 3: And John O'Brien is here. I mean that there's some
- 1:17:47Speaker 3: good things going on in the world.
- 1:17:48Speaker 12: First of all, you can't paring gifts or bad but
- 1:17:52Speaker 12: at least the things that are bad you can explain,
- 1:17:54Speaker 12: especially when it comes to some financial stuff.
- 1:17:56Speaker 7: Rainbows only follow storms. You cannot have a rainbow without
- 1:17:59Speaker 7: a storm. First scientifics fact, actually, but.
- 1:18:02Speaker 1: Let's let's jump right into it. I was actually thinking
- 1:18:03Speaker 1: about you the other day. With all the tariffs that
- 1:18:05Speaker 1: that Trump is putting on the country, and you know,
- 1:18:07Speaker 1: people are looking to purchase their force homes all that,
- 1:18:10Speaker 1: what would you advise.
- 1:18:11Speaker 3: People to do?
- 1:18:12Speaker 1: Right, Because they're saying with the tariffs, they're saying the
- 1:18:13Speaker 1: price of materials are going to go up in price.
- 1:18:15Speaker 1: They're saying the price of cars and the parts are
- 1:18:19Speaker 1: going to be shooting up. What would you advise people
- 1:18:21Speaker 1: to do if they're looking for home ownership at this
- 1:18:23Speaker 1: point in their life.
- 1:18:24Speaker 7: Ignore the noise. It's just noise, Just like DEI was
- 1:18:27Speaker 7: a distraction. Why are we all getting over the EI
- 1:18:29Speaker 7: We're fifth on the list? Why are we the poster
- 1:18:31Speaker 7: child for TI? Right? But they wanted us to be
- 1:18:34Speaker 7: the poster child somebody did Somebody wanted black people to
- 1:18:37Speaker 7: be because that triggers racial overtones and all that other
- 1:18:40Speaker 7: kind of stuff that wasn't even our fight. This is
- 1:18:43Speaker 7: not our fight. This is this is somebody else's problem
- 1:18:45Speaker 7: at the moment. This is like hitting if you want
- 1:18:48Speaker 7: to get in a fight. It's like hitting your face
- 1:18:51Speaker 7: on my fist if you want to fight. That's what.
- 1:18:57Speaker 7: This is the biggest economy on the planet, America. We're
- 1:19:00Speaker 7: twenty five percent of the global economy. We're forty percent
- 1:19:03Speaker 7: of global wealth in the world. We're big ballists. Out
- 1:19:06Speaker 7: of eight billion people, it's only three to fifty million people,
- 1:19:09Speaker 7: but we lead the whole world. But seventy percent of economy.
- 1:19:12Speaker 7: It's not rich people, it's not big business. It's you
- 1:19:14Speaker 7: and me paying for car notes and mortgages. And it
- 1:19:17Speaker 7: was a car service that brought me here. It's a
- 1:19:20Speaker 7: breakfast that we had this morning. So this economy can't
- 1:19:23Speaker 7: succeed without us succeeding first of all. So this party
- 1:19:27Speaker 7: ultimately will pivot back to what's going to drive the
- 1:19:30Speaker 7: economy because this is a capitalist democracy, big c little deep,
- 1:19:35Speaker 7: it's a free enterprise to mine. So I tell people
- 1:19:37Speaker 7: ignore the noise this stuff. If it's not working, Washington's
- 1:19:40Speaker 7: gonna have to pivot. There's a strategy in Washington I
- 1:19:43Speaker 7: was at the Secretary of the Treasury a couple of
- 1:19:44Speaker 7: days ago. Who I actually like. I think he's actually
- 1:19:46Speaker 7: a decent guy.
- 1:19:47Speaker 12: Please break that down because I need to know the strategy.
- 1:19:49Speaker 12: I don't understand it.
- 1:19:50Speaker 7: Well, no, no, I didn't say understood it.
- 1:19:54Speaker 12: You're gone too far.
- 1:19:56Speaker 7: I said. First of all, I said, I like him,
- 1:19:58Speaker 7: and he and I got to work together on financial literacy.
- 1:20:00Speaker 7: We don't you know, we're not gonna agree on everything.
- 1:20:01Speaker 7: I was with him for an hour. I didn't break
- 1:20:03Speaker 7: I didn't address this issue because his boss has already
- 1:20:05Speaker 7: made up his mind, and I know I didn't want
- 1:20:07Speaker 7: to put him in an uncomfortable situation ask him questions
- 1:20:10Speaker 7: that he can't answer. Uh, this has to play itself out.
- 1:20:13Speaker 7: I mean, the country is having one big colonic right now,
- 1:20:16Speaker 7: so it's gonna take as long as it will take.
- 1:20:18Speaker 7: I don't think it's gonna take very long. You're not
- 1:20:20Speaker 7: talked about this, and either he's writer or he's not.
- 1:20:23Speaker 7: The only way is terrfts work. And I could break
- 1:20:25Speaker 7: down what a tariff is by the way it's those
- 1:20:26Speaker 7: people understand it. The only way a tariff works is
- 1:20:29Speaker 7: if it's short term and it's tied to you negotiating
- 1:20:33Speaker 7: something from whoever you're trying to extract something from another country.
- 1:20:36Speaker 7: If it's your long term strategy in a country that
- 1:20:39Speaker 7: is consumer spending, it's a disaster because it's a tax
- 1:20:44Speaker 7: on you and me. And I'm getting ahead of myself.
- 1:20:47Speaker 7: Let me the tariff for a tariff, and as simple
- 1:20:50Speaker 7: as I can describe, it is a tax on American
- 1:20:54Speaker 7: businesses and American conservatives. So this concept of I'm gonna
- 1:20:58Speaker 7: you've hit me, you're a China, your Russia, wherever India
- 1:21:02Speaker 7: you hit me, I'm gonna hit you back now a
- 1:21:05Speaker 7: tear might because the cost of the thing has gone up.
- 1:21:08Speaker 7: Might mean we find Chinese goods less attractive, we find
- 1:21:12Speaker 7: Indian goods less attractive because what costs a dollar now
- 1:21:15Speaker 7: costs a dollar eighty. So maybe we say, oh, I
- 1:21:17Speaker 7: don't want any more of that. But the important the
- 1:21:20Speaker 7: American business pays the tax at the duty station, and
- 1:21:24Speaker 7: what is that import going to do. What is a
- 1:21:26Speaker 7: big company going to do when they get hit with
- 1:21:29Speaker 7: higher prices that there's no fault of their own increase?
- 1:21:31Speaker 7: It's common sense. This is a radical movement of common sense.
- 1:21:35Speaker 7: They pass that on to you with me, so our
- 1:21:38Speaker 7: prices of everything is going to go up unless in
- 1:21:42Speaker 7: a month he changes his mind again, which he's apt
- 1:21:46Speaker 7: to do and says I was just kidding. Now, let
- 1:21:48Speaker 7: me go one step further and tell you how that's
- 1:21:51Speaker 7: the only way this could have worked. If he's saying
- 1:21:53Speaker 7: he wants to promote domestic production, he wants to bring
- 1:21:55Speaker 7: everything back home. Their argument, although American American manufacturer very good.
- 1:22:00Speaker 7: American as a matric manufacturing hub of old school manufacturing
- 1:22:04Speaker 7: ended in the nineteen seventies. That's why there's more poor
- 1:22:07Speaker 7: whites in America than poor anybody else, because they had
- 1:22:09Speaker 7: a high school education, hustle, and the jobs they were
- 1:22:13Speaker 7: doing walked away. In nineteen forty nineteen fifty, Detroit was
- 1:22:19Speaker 7: the richest city in the world for automotive in the world,
- 1:22:24Speaker 7: richer than prayers, richer than that relates. That was one
- 1:22:27Speaker 7: of the poorest because the business plan for manufacturing walked
- 1:22:31Speaker 7: away from America. It went to places that were cheaper.
- 1:22:33Speaker 7: Now we can be America, we can be a manufacturing
- 1:22:36Speaker 7: center today, but it's gonna be high tech manufacturing. It's
- 1:22:38Speaker 7: gonna be artificial and ti legends and robotics, which you
- 1:22:41Speaker 7: need education for Back to the story. The only way
- 1:22:44Speaker 7: this would have worked is if the president said, you know,
- 1:22:46Speaker 7: a year before elected, get all the bankers together, get
- 1:22:49Speaker 7: all the fortune five hundred companies together, and look, you
- 1:22:51Speaker 7: got it. I'm gonna be president of the year. Just
- 1:22:53Speaker 7: believe me. What I need you to do. Go to
- 1:22:55Speaker 7: your boards, Go to your governance committees at the boards.
- 1:22:57Speaker 7: Go to your bankers who allocate capital. Go to Walt
- 1:23:00Speaker 7: tell them I'm coming and tell them to put capital
- 1:23:03Speaker 7: aside for manufacturing at home. Also because I'm gonna have terrace. Also,
- 1:23:06Speaker 7: I need you to go to Staten Island. I need
- 1:23:09Speaker 7: you to go to little towns in Cleveland. I need
- 1:23:11Speaker 7: you to go to Detroit where and cut deals for land.
- 1:23:14Speaker 7: I'm just breaking this down right, and and get the
- 1:23:16Speaker 7: cities to support you and we By the way, you
- 1:23:18Speaker 7: need get a AI. You're gonna need a bunch of
- 1:23:21Speaker 7: energy to fuel these AI factors. You need to get
- 1:23:24Speaker 7: some uh you know, electricity and water things generated I need.
- 1:23:28Speaker 7: I'm gonna give you a year because it's gonna be
- 1:23:29Speaker 7: tens of billions of dollars in investment. And now that
- 1:23:33Speaker 7: I'm committed to this, my whole president, this is a
- 1:23:36Speaker 7: new America and the CEOs go, okay, we're with you.
- 1:23:38Speaker 7: We want to bring this back. And by the way,
- 1:23:40Speaker 7: what's what's what's in it for us? And he has
- 1:23:41Speaker 7: these economic models and shows blah blah blah period of time.
- 1:23:44Speaker 7: This is gonna be short term pain, long term game. Okay,
- 1:23:47Speaker 7: none of that happened. Look, I'm not four against. I'm
- 1:23:50Speaker 7: just saying I like math that doesn't have an opinion.
- 1:23:53Speaker 7: I'm just saying, my friend Stevie Wanner can see this.
- 1:23:56Speaker 7: None of this is going to work long term because
- 1:23:59Speaker 7: there is no planning.
- 1:24:01Speaker 12: And that's what I wanted to talk about. Like, I
- 1:24:02Speaker 12: love the conversation you were having, but I want to
- 1:24:03Speaker 12: put some boots on the ground with it. When you
- 1:24:05Speaker 12: talk about these working class people, the average everyday person
- 1:24:08Speaker 12: living check the tech, just trying to pay their rent,
- 1:24:10Speaker 12: just trying to buy groceries, what should they do in
- 1:24:12Speaker 12: regards to these tasks, like could you tell you know,
- 1:24:14Speaker 12: you're telling everybody else just to be cool and silence
- 1:24:17Speaker 12: and noise.
- 1:24:17Speaker 3: They don't have that luxury.
- 1:24:19Speaker 7: Oh no, this is our time. You can't fall from
- 1:24:21Speaker 7: the floor. Black folks, we've been in Brown folks, we've
- 1:24:23Speaker 7: been doing so much with so little for so long,
- 1:24:25Speaker 7: we can almost do anything with nothing. I mean a
- 1:24:27Speaker 7: crisis for us is Tuesday. I mean we wake up
- 1:24:30Speaker 7: in christ this is actually our asset and our problem.
- 1:24:32Speaker 7: Before now it was just our problem. I wrote my
- 1:24:35Speaker 7: last book of financial literacy for all, which, by the way,
- 1:24:37Speaker 7: thanks for helping me launch. It is still number one
- 1:24:39Speaker 7: a year later in business finance, not black just black history.
- 1:24:42Speaker 7: If something is business finans in the world. But two
- 1:24:44Speaker 7: books before was a book called The Memo. And in
- 1:24:47Speaker 7: the Memo I said, basically, there's something that is what
- 1:24:50Speaker 7: we don't know that we don't know. No one gave
- 1:24:52Speaker 7: us a memo on how the economy works. And I said,
- 1:24:54Speaker 7: there's three times of people. There's a surviving mindset. There's
- 1:24:56Speaker 7: a thriving mindset as a winning building mindset. Most people
- 1:25:00Speaker 7: talk about their ideas. Poor people talk about other people.
- 1:25:03Speaker 7: So if you have a surviving mindset that the glass
- 1:25:05Speaker 7: is half empty, not half full, it's the same glass.
- 1:25:07Speaker 7: But whether you believe you can, whether you believe you can't,
- 1:25:09Speaker 7: you're right right.
- 1:25:10Speaker 3: We got bored with John Hope Bryant.
- 1:25:12Speaker 1: When we come back, it's the breakfast Club. Good morning, Morning,
- 1:25:14Speaker 1: everybody Envy Jesse, Larry Charlamage the God.
- 1:25:18Speaker 3: We are the Breakfast Club.
- 1:25:19Speaker 1: We're still kicking it with John Hope Bryant. Now what
- 1:25:22Speaker 1: are you doing this weekend?
- 1:25:23Speaker 3: Again?
- 1:25:23Speaker 7: Screen forward what you're involved in. And I would love
- 1:25:27Speaker 7: to have all of you involved in, by the way,
- 1:25:29Speaker 7: because you're all voices for this generation. This is a
- 1:25:33Speaker 7: meeting between Republicans and Democrats. We have Second Senator Raphael
- 1:25:38Speaker 7: or Not, who is the fifth chap pastor of Ebenezer
- 1:25:41Speaker 7: Church and a Democrat senator. We have Mick Molvaney, former
- 1:25:44Speaker 7: chief of staff for Trump. We have the Black Pope,
- 1:25:48Speaker 7: Bishop T. D. Jakes. We have the man who is
- 1:25:51Speaker 7: on the balcony with doctor King, Ambassador Andrew Young. We
- 1:25:54Speaker 7: have doctor King's daughter, Doctor Bernice A.
- 1:25:56Speaker 19: King.
- 1:25:56Speaker 7: She's a great person. We've got a brother killing my killer,
- 1:26:00Speaker 7: Mike t I. It is an amazing lineup. I just
- 1:26:04Speaker 7: talked to doctor Ben Chavis this morning. There's one hundred delegates,
- 1:26:08Speaker 7: Bounty delegates of Mark Morrell, the National Urban League. Everybody
- 1:26:12Speaker 7: who you think of or may or may not have
- 1:26:14Speaker 7: known about who is at the top of the mark.
- 1:26:17Speaker 7: They're going to be there. In fact that we just
- 1:26:20Speaker 7: now yesterday. The dropping the drop the Mike keynote to
- 1:26:23Speaker 7: walk out the stage is Sam Altman, who is the
- 1:26:25Speaker 7: Steve Jobs of this generation. That's AI. So it is
- 1:26:30Speaker 7: a way to honor doctor King, not by just marching
- 1:26:33Speaker 7: in the streets, but cutting business deals in the suites.
- 1:26:35Speaker 7: It is continuing his unfinished work of the Poor People's Campaign.
- 1:26:39Speaker 7: It is his last book. Whatever we go from here
- 1:26:41Speaker 7: is answering that with a dream forward. And there's no complaining.
- 1:26:45Speaker 7: There's no politics, there's no whining, there's no talking about politicians.
- 1:26:50Speaker 7: This is about us moving forward for two hours, a
- 1:26:53Speaker 7: positive plan, and people will be able to download the
- 1:26:56Speaker 7: business plans we wrote and you can have it. You
- 1:26:59Speaker 7: can talk about to the kitchen table, you can mark
- 1:27:01Speaker 7: it up, change it. But this is full transparency. We
- 1:27:04Speaker 7: wrote a plan. Typically this happens behind closed doors. We've
- 1:27:08Speaker 7: written these plans and they will be available to everybody.
- 1:27:10Speaker 7: People can register at operational dot org and actually listen
- 1:27:13Speaker 7: to the Global town hall. Roland Martin is gonna be
- 1:27:16Speaker 7: streaming it. You guys are going to be there. We've
- 1:27:19Speaker 7: gotten I think that the Associated Press is going to
- 1:27:22Speaker 7: be there. We have all the networks, we have moderators,
- 1:27:24Speaker 7: part of it. We've tried to be as inclusive as
- 1:27:27Speaker 7: we can. We've got a video yesterday from the new
- 1:27:30Speaker 7: Chairman of the Senate Bank Committee, Tim Scott Brother and
- 1:27:34Speaker 7: that's all.
- 1:27:35Speaker 3: What time.
- 1:27:36Speaker 7: It's one to three pm Eastern Standard time today, Yeah,
- 1:27:41Speaker 7: and it's noon to two Central Standard time. Doctor King,
- 1:27:46Speaker 7: by the way, was assassinated April fourth, nineteen sixty eight,
- 1:27:49Speaker 7: at six pm Central time. That's the exact time. He
- 1:27:52Speaker 7: actually had a pillow fight. Right before he was assassinated,
- 1:27:55Speaker 7: he had just relaxed, and he knew he was gonna
- 1:27:58Speaker 7: be He knew he was gonna be killed. The night before.
- 1:28:01Speaker 7: It was the only time he ever collapsed on stage.
- 1:28:04Speaker 7: He gave a speech called the Mountaintop. I've been to
- 1:28:07Speaker 7: the mountain. I've seen the mountaintop. I may not get
- 1:28:09Speaker 7: there with you. He knew it, and he collapsed in
- 1:28:12Speaker 7: his and Andrew Young and Jesse Jackson's arms and others.
- 1:28:16Speaker 7: And the next day they Andrew Young tells me they
- 1:28:20Speaker 7: had this incredible pillow pillow fight in the hotel. Will
- 1:28:22Speaker 7: be at the Lorae Motell, by the way, I will
- 1:28:24Speaker 7: today and he just thought it was eerie that Doctor
- 1:28:28Speaker 7: King was so light, and he walked out that balcony
- 1:28:31Speaker 7: and the world changed. And what nobody knows is later
- 1:28:35Speaker 7: on the FBI told and Bashador Young the instructions for
- 1:28:39Speaker 7: the shooter was if you if you missed, the dreamer
- 1:28:42Speaker 7: killed the strategies. That's Andrew Young. So he hasn't been
- 1:28:46Speaker 7: able to sleep for all these years. Wow, the guy
- 1:28:50Speaker 7: who created the Ozzie and a Harrietville for black people
- 1:28:52Speaker 7: in the world. Atlanta, Georgia is the only international city
- 1:28:54Speaker 7: in the South five hundred and fifty billion dollars economy,
- 1:28:58Speaker 7: the same size as Singapore, by the way, So we
- 1:29:00Speaker 7: prove and we can build a world economy. The guy
- 1:29:02Speaker 7: who did that brought the Olympics to Atlanta, the only
- 1:29:05Speaker 7: mayor of it, mentored by doctor King. Can't sleep, so
- 1:29:08Speaker 7: we owe him a debt. We owe all the heroes
- 1:29:12Speaker 7: and heroes and leaders who came before us a debt.
- 1:29:14Speaker 7: We owe those who are trying to fight for our
- 1:29:16Speaker 7: civil rights now a debt to carry on this work
- 1:29:20Speaker 7: and not just be about me, but to be about we.
- 1:29:23Speaker 7: This is you can't just be selfish anymore. Like we
- 1:29:26Speaker 7: have got to be about all of us, and this
- 1:29:28Speaker 7: is this is our time. If you want to be
- 1:29:30Speaker 7: a part of history. You want to feel like your
- 1:29:32Speaker 7: life really mattered. It's right now in my opinion, and
- 1:29:35Speaker 7: there are answers to these questions. I mean, there's nothing
- 1:29:37Speaker 7: that we talked about this morning that's rocket science.
- 1:29:42Speaker 3: On financial inclusion. And what's the website again?
- 1:29:46Speaker 7: You can tune in at Operationhope dot org where you
- 1:29:48Speaker 7: can register at operation dot organ It will stream and
- 1:29:50Speaker 7: hopefully the Breakfast Club and I heard, by the way,
- 1:29:54Speaker 7: is covering it. Black Information Network is covering it. Uh,
- 1:29:59Speaker 7: we have many many maybe platforms again, Roland Martin's gonna
- 1:30:02Speaker 7: be covering it, and we have our own strengths. If
- 1:30:05Speaker 7: you get lost, just go to Operation Hope dot or
- 1:30:07Speaker 7: work and you there'll be instructions there, or just follow
- 1:30:10Speaker 7: Charlott Mane He'll he'll be with us. But this is
- 1:30:15Speaker 7: you know this, This is no time to be I
- 1:30:18Speaker 7: understand stress, and I understand this is serious. But unless
- 1:30:22Speaker 7: you just gonna give up, throw your hands up, you
- 1:30:24Speaker 7: might as well be positive about it. I can't guarantee
- 1:30:26Speaker 7: you that being positive is gonna make you succeed, but
- 1:30:29Speaker 7: I absolutely guarantee you that being negative is gonna make
- 1:30:31Speaker 7: you fail. Absolutely. And these folks want you to give up.
- 1:30:35Speaker 7: By the way, they want you to throw your hands up.
- 1:30:37Speaker 7: That's why they did all this stuff in the first
- 1:30:39Speaker 7: sixty days, was to flood the system, overwhelm you. You
- 1:30:42Speaker 7: throw your hands up and you give up. No, no,
- 1:30:45Speaker 7: we're not gonna give up. We're gonna double down, and
- 1:30:48Speaker 7: we're gonna be a north star. What I want at
- 1:30:51Speaker 7: this meeting is civility. I want us to be civil.
- 1:30:54Speaker 7: I want us to be inelegant. I want us to
- 1:30:56Speaker 7: be intelligent. I want us to be thoughtful. I want
- 1:30:59Speaker 7: Emmy universities are signed up to work on the plan.
- 1:31:02Speaker 7: They were so impressed with what we were doing. Their
- 1:31:05Speaker 7: economics department said, this is a great plan. We, along
- 1:31:09Speaker 7: with the clock Atlanta University Business School, will work the
- 1:31:11Speaker 7: builders out for six months between now in the whole
- 1:31:14Speaker 7: global forum in December, where we have another version of
- 1:31:17Speaker 7: the plan and everybody gets to participate in that. Everybody
- 1:31:19Speaker 7: but the one hundred delegates will get to participate and
- 1:31:22Speaker 7: help to shape the plan. So what's going to be
- 1:31:24Speaker 7: announced at the meeting is of the framework of the
- 1:31:27Speaker 7: business plan. I talked a little bit about that today.
- 1:31:29Speaker 7: I mentioned there's seven and fifty billion available just for
- 1:31:33Speaker 7: this is the Black American plan through credit score increases.
- 1:31:36Speaker 7: We can do that ourselves. I'm doing that at Operation Hope.
- 1:31:38Speaker 7: Increasing increasing credit score is fifty to one hundred points.
- 1:31:41Speaker 7: By the way, don't pay anybody to raise your credits
- 1:31:43Speaker 7: that you don't need that. We do it for free.
- 1:31:45Speaker 7: You can be a homeowner. Forty four percent of black
- 1:31:47Speaker 7: people own a home compared to seventy five percent of
- 1:31:49Speaker 7: our white counterparts. The number one way you build wealth
- 1:31:52Speaker 7: in America is homeownership.
- 1:31:54Speaker 1: Well, today it's going to be a financial inclusion. Dream
- 1:31:57Speaker 1: Forward is a virtual town hall. And we appreciate you
- 1:32:00Speaker 1: joining us. Aways my brother, thank you so much.
- 1:32:02Speaker 12: Make sure you subscribe to John O'Brien's podcast, the Money
- 1:32:05Speaker 12: and Well podcast on the Black Effect. I heart of
- 1:32:06Speaker 12: your podcast network. You can get information like this, by
- 1:32:09Speaker 12: the way, time.
- 1:32:10Speaker 3: And we appreciate you for joining us the Operation Hope.
- 1:32:12Speaker 12: Thank you, John.
- 1:32:12Speaker 1: It's John Hope Briant. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
- 1:32:16Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club.
- 1:32:19Speaker 12: Morning.
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- 1:33:48Speaker 21: She actually performed at my last concert that I do
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- 1:34:10Speaker 5: But she's a Haitian I can hear that, so she's.
- 1:34:12Speaker 21: Given like Haitian Tyler, but she's from the d m V.
- 1:34:15Speaker 5: Okay, shout out to the.
- 1:34:16Speaker 15: D m V.
- 1:34:17Speaker 3: You said, just now, what is that new slang?
- 1:34:19Speaker 5: That's period kind of but he just wanted to be
- 1:34:24Speaker 5: He just want to say person listening to what the
- 1:34:26Speaker 5: young are doing, like like Clockett.
- 1:34:29Speaker 3: Okay, okay.
- 1:34:30Speaker 5: When you say Clockett.
- 1:34:33Speaker 12: When we were talking about kiss incluing the moth earlier,
- 1:34:35Speaker 12: I should have said Perocket, Clocket too, Clocket per.
- 1:34:46Speaker 5: I assume you all right.
- 1:34:49Speaker 21: The last record is going to go to Ivery Scott,
- 1:34:51Speaker 21: who just drop the R and B project last Friday.
- 1:34:53Speaker 21: Definitely tapping with him. Phenomenal songwriter but also a really
- 1:34:56Speaker 21: dope R and B artist. My favorite record on there is.
- 1:34:58Speaker 5: Called control It.
- 1:34:59Speaker 12: I like that, but that he chop on the remix,
- 1:35:01Speaker 12: it could be a seeming retention anthem.
- 1:35:03Speaker 21: Oh man, all right, I wasn't expecting that. No, I
- 1:35:08Speaker 21: don't want that, but that is Tink.
- 1:35:10Speaker 5: You love Tinks? Think is on there?
- 1:35:13Speaker 3: Okay, I love Tink?
- 1:35:15Speaker 5: Yes, I know.
- 1:35:15Speaker 21: So if you guys like those records, make sure you
- 1:35:17Speaker 21: guys tune into the Certified Vibe playlist. It's on certified
- 1:35:20Speaker 21: Vibe dot com or you can follow me on Instagram
- 1:35:22Speaker 21: click the link in bio.
- 1:35:24Speaker 12: Will you be vlogging a lot of content from a
- 1:35:26Speaker 12: dreams for us all weekend log?
- 1:35:28Speaker 5: I'm so excited, you know, Lie.
- 1:35:29Speaker 12: And I would like to go do things secretly and
- 1:35:31Speaker 12: don't be showing nobody.
- 1:35:33Speaker 6: Recorded and then like won't but you've been She's been
- 1:35:35Speaker 6: a lot better at like doing her daily.
- 1:35:37Speaker 3: That's why she's so because she enjoys the moment.
- 1:35:39Speaker 5: Oh I do I she ready to go home? That
- 1:35:42Speaker 5: she'd be ready to go home.
- 1:35:44Speaker 21: Yeah, I'm always ready to go home. But I will
- 1:35:46Speaker 21: say I am actually gonna vlog this. I'm not sure
- 1:35:49Speaker 21: if I'm gonna blog it on the story.
- 1:35:50Speaker 5: Thank Laurence.
- 1:35:51Speaker 21: Right, I record it and I just keep it for myself.
- 1:35:53Speaker 21: I just feel like, not everything's for everybody.
- 1:35:56Speaker 12: Yes, but your generation likes to see that type of content.
- 1:35:59Speaker 12: And you in the mix now yeah fast. Allegedly you're
- 1:36:02Speaker 12: a certified Vibert.
- 1:36:04Speaker 5: I know, but I want people to see what I
- 1:36:06Speaker 5: want to people to buy, So choose with the clips
- 1:36:09Speaker 5: you put in.
- 1:36:09Speaker 21: Fine, I'm gonna blog it. I am gonna block it.
- 1:36:11Speaker 21: But I'm excited because I've been to every single dream
- 1:36:14Speaker 21: of Fest.
- 1:36:14Speaker 5: I started off as a fan to.
- 1:36:16Speaker 21: Work and get to now throwing my own event there,
- 1:36:19Speaker 21: so it feels like like a full circle.
- 1:36:22Speaker 3: I'll be there Sunday morning. We've been June flying.
- 1:36:23Speaker 5: On Sua Sturday morning, Oh my god, performing Sunday, going
- 1:36:28Speaker 5: there and then coming right back.
- 1:36:30Speaker 7: Yes, that's Howl likes.
- 1:36:31Speaker 12: Work this weekend, Riley blowing the kids with guys. All
- 1:36:36Speaker 12: you guys.
- 1:36:39Speaker 6: My first thought was there, you can't even go to
- 1:36:40Speaker 6: no after party?
- 1:36:42Speaker 5: Yeah, the party because you got to come back to
- 1:36:44Speaker 5: go to work.
- 1:36:44Speaker 3: Yes, we're gonna go to concert to come back.
- 1:36:48Speaker 5: Why do you only want to see that?
- 1:36:50Speaker 15: You know?
- 1:36:50Speaker 12: I see? Wayne?
- 1:36:51Speaker 5: Did you being the hot.
- 1:36:52Speaker 3: Boys as a father when you have dance competition? You
- 1:36:56Speaker 3: have to be a dad?
- 1:36:57Speaker 12: All right?
- 1:36:57Speaker 5: I ain't never going to fatherhood.
- 1:36:59Speaker 1: All right, I'll be there Sunday morning, okay, cool, Monday morning, all.
- 1:37:03Speaker 3: Right, big nihali y'all. That's right.
- 1:37:05Speaker 1: Certified biber All right, now when we come back, we
- 1:37:07Speaker 1: got the People's Choice mixed and we're gonna keep it
- 1:37:09Speaker 1: all R and B.
- 1:37:10Speaker 3: This morning, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, you're checking
- 1:37:12Speaker 3: out the Breakfast Club one.
- 1:37:14Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ MV, Jess Hilarius, Charlamagne the God.
- 1:37:18Speaker 3: We are the Breakfast Club.
- 1:37:19Speaker 1: Lawna rosaphilated in for jests and we got a salute
- 1:37:22Speaker 1: to John hopbrien.
- 1:37:23Speaker 3: For joining us this morning. Man flu to John ho'brien.
- 1:37:26Speaker 12: Today we are doing the dream Forward Virtual town Hall
- 1:37:31Speaker 12: on financial inclusion with John hopbrien. It is live from
- 1:37:35Speaker 12: the National Civil Rights Museum and if you go to
- 1:37:38Speaker 12: Operation Hope dot org slash dream Forward you can watch
- 1:37:44Speaker 12: Operation Hope dot org slash dream Forward. Okay, it starts
- 1:37:49Speaker 12: at one pm today. John will be live from the
- 1:37:52Speaker 12: National Civil Rights Museum in Memphis, but we'll be on now.
- 1:37:56Speaker 12: I'm actually gonna be on the panel at two twenty
- 1:37:59Speaker 12: for part two of the dream Forward event, where do
- 1:38:01Speaker 12: we go from here from the streets to Wall Street
- 1:38:03Speaker 12: redefining wealth for all? And it'll be myself along with
- 1:38:07Speaker 12: Nicole pulland Ross, who's the head of Sports and Entertainment
- 1:38:10Speaker 12: Solutions at Golden Sacks and my guy Ti and it's
- 1:38:13Speaker 12: moderated by Jabari Young, the editor of Forbes BLK. So
- 1:38:18Speaker 12: make sure you get on Operation Operation Hoope dot org
- 1:38:21Speaker 12: slash dream forward today to watch the virtual town hall
- 1:38:24Speaker 12: on financial inclusion at one pm.
- 1:38:27Speaker 1: All right, well, oh, Melanie Fiona two, and also salute
- 1:38:30Speaker 1: to Melanie Fiona for joining us.
- 1:38:31Speaker 3: Yes Sluthor Melanie Fiona Man.
- 1:38:33Speaker 12: Her new EPCA Yes is out the day and her
- 1:38:35Speaker 12: tour begins on April twenty seven, So Salutor Melanie Man.
- 1:38:39Speaker 1: All right, when we come back, we got the positive
- 1:38:40Speaker 1: notice to Breakfast Club.
- 1:38:41Speaker 3: Good morning morning.
- 1:38:42Speaker 1: Everybody is dej NV, Jess hilarious, Charlamage the guy we
- 1:38:46Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club Law and LaRosa fild In for.
- 1:38:48Speaker 3: Jess and it's time to get up out of here. Yeah, man,
- 1:38:51Speaker 3: I want to tell everybody to thank you.
- 1:38:53Speaker 12: You know, we are a couple of weeks away from
- 1:38:56Speaker 12: the third annual Black Effect Podcast Festival. Lauren, you ain't
- 1:38:59Speaker 12: tell I was gonna be at the podcast festival.
- 1:39:02Speaker 5: I didn't know I could announce it. I didn't know
- 1:39:04Speaker 5: if it was all done.
- 1:39:06Speaker 3: I mean that's what they told me yesterday.
- 1:39:07Speaker 6: I mean, I am gonna be there and it's moderating
- 1:39:10Speaker 6: her panel. But yes, I am moderating a panel. I
- 1:39:12Speaker 6: don't even know all the information yet, but I will
- 1:39:14Speaker 6: be my panel.
- 1:39:14Speaker 12: You're moderating a panel on mental health.
- 1:39:17Speaker 5: Yes, yes, I did. I know that it was mental health.
- 1:39:19Speaker 5: But I will be moderating a panel.
- 1:39:21Speaker 6: I will be there, and people who have been asking
- 1:39:23Speaker 6: me while I be there because I didn't make it
- 1:39:24Speaker 6: last year, so I'm excited.
- 1:39:25Speaker 5: This is my first time.
- 1:39:26Speaker 3: It's a great event.
- 1:39:27Speaker 15: Man.
- 1:39:28Speaker 12: You know, we got some great people that's gonna be
- 1:39:29Speaker 12: there this shit. Carrie Champion is gonna be doing her
- 1:39:31Speaker 12: Neked podcast live from there, Tanking J Valentine will be
- 1:39:35Speaker 12: doing their R and B Money podcast live from there,
- 1:39:38Speaker 12: and Sarah Jakes Roberts will be doing her Woman of
- 1:39:40Speaker 12: All podcast live from the third annual Black.
- 1:39:43Speaker 3: Effect Podcast Festival.
- 1:39:44Speaker 12: So go get your tickets this weekend Black Effect dot
- 1:39:47Speaker 12: Com Slash Podcast Festival. Go get your tickets and we'll
- 1:39:50Speaker 12: see you Saturday, April twenty six at Pullman Yards in Atlanta, Georgia.
- 1:39:53Speaker 12: Now the positive note is this today is Maya Angelou's
- 1:39:56Speaker 12: born day. How old would I have been today that
- 1:39:58Speaker 12: we know she would.
- 1:39:59Speaker 5: Be ninety seven? Years old today, she would.
- 1:40:02Speaker 3: Be ninety seven. Now.
- 1:40:03Speaker 12: Actually, you know, I'm gonna tell you that. I'm gonna
- 1:40:05Speaker 12: tell you why that's important. A lot of times we'd
- 1:40:06Speaker 12: be saying she a person would have been an age
- 1:40:09Speaker 12: that they would not have been. She potentially could have
- 1:40:11Speaker 12: been ninety seven. Still, sometimes we'd be like, such and
- 1:40:13Speaker 12: such would have been one hundred and thirty two. They no,
- 1:40:15Speaker 12: they wouldn't have Okay, but ninety seven she would have been.
- 1:40:17Speaker 12: But one of my favorite quotes from Maya Angelou, and
- 1:40:19Speaker 12: this is the positive note. If you don't like something,
- 1:40:21Speaker 12: change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude.
- 1:40:24Speaker 12: That is just a reminder to shift your mindset. When
- 1:40:27Speaker 12: you can't control a situation, remember that this weekend and
- 1:40:31Speaker 12: have a great weekend.
- 1:40:32Speaker 1: Breakfast club bitch is you don't finish or y'all done.