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Dinner for One? · Second Date Update

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  Speaker 1: Will they go on a second date or will must
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  Speaker 1: be the last time they ever talked?
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  Speaker 2: Kiss in the morning Second date update.
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  Speaker 1: I'm kiss ninety five seven. All right, are you guys
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  Speaker 1: ready for a little second date update?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, all right, today we're going to Cromwell, we have
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  Speaker 3: got Rich on the line.
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  Speaker 4: Good morning Rich, Hi, good morning Hey.
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  Speaker 3: So obviously you know second date update. You apparently went
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  Speaker 3: on a great first date. You were getting ghosted and
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  Speaker 3: you want to know why?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so the producer says, you went out with a
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  Speaker 3: girl named Lauren.
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  Speaker 1: Tell me about this great date.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, so my friends actually sent me up with Floren. Uh,
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  Speaker 4: you know, I live in the city, but my my friends,
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  Speaker 4: I'm from here in Connecticut. So my friends sent me
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  Speaker 4: up with this girl from home, and they said she was,
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  Speaker 4: you know, an absolute perfect match. So I made the
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  Speaker 4: track and I you know, offered to take her out
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  Speaker 4: around here. So I came back and we met at
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  Speaker 4: a restaurant, and I mean it was a great time.
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  Speaker 4: It was a really good time. You know, she was funny,
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  Speaker 4: she's really smart. Okay, I mean she's definitely really hot.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, that's good.
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  Speaker 4: Beautiful, Yeah, yeah, no, she was like beautiful all around.
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  Speaker 4: I had a really good time. I thought she had
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  Speaker 4: a really good time. So after you know, it ended
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  Speaker 4: and I reached out to her for a second date.
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  Speaker 5: No answer.
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  Speaker 1: All right, so you're getting ghosted.
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  Speaker 3: Basically, you thought the date was great, you you felt
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  Speaker 3: a connection. You thought she was hot. I mean, did
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  Speaker 3: you make her laugh? Did she seem comfortable?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean she seemed I mean I thought so
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  Speaker 4: that was my perspective of things, you know. So okay,
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  Speaker 4: I mean I thought it was a good date.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like it's a straightforward kind of date. So
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  Speaker 3: why don't we just call her? Yes, all right, Rich,
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna put you on hold. You're gonna be listening in.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna call up Lauren.
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna ask her to be honest, and you can
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  Speaker 3: feel free to jump in at anytime.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, yep, sounds good.
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  Speaker 1: Hold on, sounds like a great guy.
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  Speaker 6: I know.
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  Speaker 2: You know what's so funny is I feel like when
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  Speaker 2: you're set up, it's actually better because your friends know you.
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  Speaker 2: Like I was set up, and that's why my husband,
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  Speaker 2: Oh look stopped, he's a very lucky Hi.
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  Speaker 1: Is this Lauren? Yes, hey, Lauren, it is Courtney Lauren,
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  Speaker 1: it's Walmart Jeff.
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  Speaker 6: Hey, Lauren, it's Savannah Hei.
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  Speaker 1: You're on the radio. Hi, Hey, all right, listen.
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna just be honest, and I want you to
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  Speaker 3: be honest with us as well.
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  Speaker 1: You are on second date update.
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  Speaker 3: So apparently you went on a first date and it
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  Speaker 3: was fabulous and you are ghosting somebody.
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  Speaker 1: And that's somebody you're ghosting is Rich.
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  Speaker 5: Oh boy, Yeah, okay, I did.
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  Speaker 1: All right.
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  Speaker 3: So I just I mean, obviously you're familiar with the show.
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  Speaker 3: We just want you to be honest. Rich Rich called us.
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  Speaker 3: He said the date was fabulous. He came in from
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  Speaker 3: the city to take you to dinner. He's I think
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  Speaker 3: he said she's hot, smoking hot.
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  Speaker 6: Definitely, he definitely said smoking.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, and he had a great He's reached out to
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  Speaker 3: you a couple times. He thought the date was great.
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  Speaker 3: Now you're ghosting him. Why are you ghosting him?
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  Speaker 2: So?
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  Speaker 5: I don't know if he told you this. He probably didn't, okay,
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  Speaker 5: because I guess I wouldn't vivoit with him. But before
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  Speaker 5: he came to meet me. On his way to come
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  Speaker 5: get me, he stopped at his parents' house and his
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  Speaker 5: mom was cooking dinner. And he ate dinner there. Before
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  Speaker 5: the date, he like was raving about his mom's food
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  Speaker 5: and how it's like so delicious, and so by the
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  Speaker 5: time he got to the restaurant, he wasn't hungry, and
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  Speaker 5: so I sat there eating a meal by myself. Oh
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  Speaker 5: and it was Yeah, it was weird. The vibes were
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  Speaker 5: weird because he was just kept talking about his mom
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  Speaker 5: and like, listen, I love a guy who like loves
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  Speaker 5: his family, Like that's actually pretty important to me. But
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  Speaker 5: it was. It was to the point where, you know,
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  Speaker 5: it felt like he was dating her and me. I
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  Speaker 5: don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, but if he wanted to have dinner at his
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  Speaker 2: mom's and why wouldn't he like invite you to drinks
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  Speaker 2: and like just not dinner, Like that doesn't make sense.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know. I agree, that's yeah, So he
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  Speaker 5: did weird.
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  Speaker 3: You're telling me, Lauren, he didn't eat anything like he
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  Speaker 3: should have at least faked it and ate something. You
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  Speaker 3: sat by yourself, ate dinner, and all he did was
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  Speaker 3: talk about his mother.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, although might like total mama's boy. And I've had
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  Speaker 5: experiences in the past, and it's kind of a red
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  Speaker 5: flag for me at this point because of how many.
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  Speaker 3: All right, well, listen, I want to bring rich in.
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  Speaker 3: Rich are you listening? Are you a mama's boy?
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  Speaker 1: Did you make her sit and eat dinner all by herself?
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  Speaker 4: But first of all, I mean, yes, I love my
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  Speaker 4: mother very much. I think that should be a huge
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  Speaker 4: green flag. But besides that point, I mean, it's not
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  Speaker 4: like I intended to, you know, go home and eat
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  Speaker 4: a full meal and then go on to state. I
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  Speaker 4: just happened to go home and my mom's cooking, and
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  Speaker 4: I rarely go home, I like rarely get to go home,
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  Speaker 4: and it just smelt so good. And my mother is
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  Speaker 4: such a good cook, and so I ate dinner. And
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  Speaker 4: she was really happy, and me and my mother really happy.
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  Speaker 4: And you know, I feel like at this age we
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  Speaker 4: should prioritize think our parents happy sometimes, right, so I.
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  Speaker 5: Would prioritize making myself happy at this age, I feel
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  Speaker 5: like I don't know, I mean, I remember things.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, it was a little shocking me here,
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  Speaker 4: Like you want somebody who's like mean to their mom.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I wonder how well that will work out
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  Speaker 4: for you?
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  Speaker 2: Wait, hold on, hold on, Rich There's like a big
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  Speaker 2: difference between being like a family kind of guy, which
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  Speaker 2: is wonderful.
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  Speaker 6: Like being a family guy is wonderful.
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  Speaker 1: I love that.
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  Speaker 2: But when you're like an od mama's boy and it's
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  Speaker 2: like intrusive into the relationship, that causes issues in itself.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not a therapist, but that's just my
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  Speaker 2: two cents.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know I would like I said,
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  Speaker 4: I wouldn't call myself mama's way, but yeah, I love
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  Speaker 4: my mom.
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  Speaker 1: Said Rich, Rich, we can't fall No, but he's a
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  Speaker 1: mama's boy. Rich. You came in all the way from
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  Speaker 1: this city.
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  Speaker 3: And my guess is Lauren uh spent time on what
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  Speaker 3: she was gonna wear, maybe her makeup. She probably didn't
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  Speaker 3: have a lot to eat that day. She was gonna
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  Speaker 3: go to dinner with you and sit and chat and eat,
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  Speaker 3: And she sat and ate dinner by herself as a
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  Speaker 3: single woman. I'm sure Lauren, you felt I should have
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  Speaker 3: just stayed home, had dinner by myself, me and the dog.
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  Speaker 3: Because you're sitting there eating by yourself at a restaurant.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, you know how awkward it is to just slurp
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  Speaker 5: up spaghetti. Yea's the only one eating.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's weird. It's weird. Okay, it's kind of sexy
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  Speaker 1: if you really think about it.
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  Speaker 3: Listen, Lauren, would you consider going on a second day
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  Speaker 3: you guys, if I paid for.
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  Speaker 1: It and we'd like not have the food.
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  Speaker 5: No, I'm sorry, I don't think I'm interested in the
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  Speaker 5: second date?
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  Speaker 1: All right, all right, well listen, Rich tell you mom
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  Speaker 1: we said hi.
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  Speaker 4: I will. Yeah, nothing I could do about that.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure she's fabulous and she's a great cook. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: all right, Well listen.
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  Speaker 3: It's not a love match, obviously, but I appreciate both
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  Speaker 3: of you guys being on second date.
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  Speaker 1: Update. I appreciate you.
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  Speaker 3: Both being very honest too, and I hope you have
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  Speaker 3: a fabulous day.
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  Speaker 5: Y