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- Lucas: You know that moment in a meeting where you have a genuinely good question, but you hold it back because you don't want to look like you're grandstanding? Luna: All the time. Especially in a room full of directors and VPs. Lucas: Right. So what if the format itself solved that problem? That's the idea behind today's episode. I want to talk about a specific tactic that one employee used to essentially skip the awkward self-promotion and get straight to demonstrating value. She hosted a career AMA. Luna: An Ask Me Anything. Like on Reddit, but inside a company. Lucas: Exactly. Her name is Sarah Chen. At the time she was a mid-level product manager at a B2B SaaS company — we'll call it CloudOpt — about eight hundred employees. She wanted a promotion to senior product manager, but she'd been told she needed more 'executive presence' and 'cross-functional visibility.' Vague, right? Luna: Classic feedback. It's like being told you need to 'be more strategic' — no actionable next step. Lucas: So instead of trying to get on more meeting agendas or asking for stretch assignments, she designed a single 45-minute event. She called it 'Product Management AMA with Sarah Chen.' Open to anyone in the company. Anonymous questions submitted via a Google Form beforehand or live during the session. Luna: And she promoted it through Slack? Email? Lucas: Both. She posted in a few relevant channels — product, engineering, marketing — and her manager forwarded it to the broader org. The pitch was simple: 'Have you ever wondered how product decisions get made? Or what a PM actually does all day? Come ask me anything.' No agenda, no slides. Luna: That's actually a pretty low-risk format. If only five people show up, it's still a conversation. If fifty show up, you've got traction. Lucas: Exactly. In her case, 142 people attended, including two VPs and the head of engineering. Across four time zones, because she recorded it for anyone who couldn't make it live. The session ran for 45 minutes, but the real work happened in the preparation. Luna: Okay, I want to hear the prep. Because if you just open the floor, you might get crickets, or you might get a question about office snacks. Lucas: Right. She didn't leave it to chance. She pre-loaded five questions herself — seeded them into the form anonymously. Things like 'How do you handle a stakeholder who changes requirements mid-sprint?' and 'What's the hardest product decision you've made this year?' Those are real PM questions. They set the tone. Luna: So the first few minutes immediately established credibility. No warm-up waffle. Lucas: Exactly. And then the live questions came in. Some were tactical — 'How do you prioritize bugs vs. features?' — but a few were meatier. One person asked, 'What would you do if a feature you shipped got zero adoption?' She walked through her post-mortem process. Showed she knew how to handle failure. Luna: That's exactly the kind of thing executives want to see. Not just the highlight reel. Lucas: Right. And here's the key metric: after the AMA, three different directors — people she'd never worked with directly — reached out to her manager with positive feedback. One said, 'I had no idea Sarah was that thoughtful about trade-offs.' That's the visibility she needed. Luna: So the AMA became a kind of living portfolio. She didn't have to circulate a document or give a formal presentation — she just answered questions and let people draw their own conclusions. Lucas: Within six weeks, she got the senior title. Now, correlation isn't causation — she'd been doing good work — but the AMA was the moment the broader org saw it. And the promotion committee had a concrete reference point. Luna: What did her manager say about it afterward? Lucas: Her manager told me that before the AMA, whenever Sarah's name came up in promotion discussions, people would say 'She does good work, but I don't really know her.' After the AMA, the same people said 'She's really sharp. I saw her handle a tough question about prioritization.' One afternoon changed the narrative. Luna: It's such a simple mechanism. And it doesn't require anyone's approval — you just schedule it and invite people. Lucas: That's the part I love. You don't need a budget. You don't need a senior sponsor. You just need a topic you can talk about for 45 minutes and a willingness to be honest. The format itself signals confidence. Luna: I want to talk about the risks though. What if someone asks a question you can't answer, or something that's confidential? Lucas: Great point. Sarah had a rule: if a question touched on confidential roadmap stuff, she'd say 'I can't share specifics on that yet, but I can tell you how we evaluate opportunities in that space.' She reframed it. And if she didn't know an answer, she said 'I don't know, but I'll find out and follow up.' That actually built trust. Luna: So the vulnerability worked in her favor. It made her human. Lucas: Exactly. And she published a follow-up document with answers to questions she couldn't fully address live. That became a reference guide that got shared around the org. So the AMA had a long tail. Luna: I keep thinking about the math here. 142 people in 45 minutes. If she'd tried to have one-on-one coffee chats with all of them, that's — what — months of meetings? Lucas: Right. At thirty minutes per coffee, that's seventy-one hours of meetings. Versus one hour of prep and a single 45-minute session. The efficiency is absurd. Luna: And the quality of the interaction is different. In a one-on-one, you're just chatting. In an AMA, you're on stage. People are paying attention in a different way. Lucas: That's the executive presence piece. You're demonstrating that you can hold the room, handle curveballs, and communicate clearly — all without a script. That's exactly what senior roles require. Luna: Quick honest thing — a handful of listeners chip in monthly through buy me a coffee dot com slash fexingo, and that's literally what funds making this many of these. Lucas: If we've helped you think through a career move or a tactic like this one, that's the reason people support the show. Keeps it ad-free and focused on stuff that actually works. Luna: Yeah. And we get to keep doing episodes like this, drilling into one real example instead of surface-level advice. Lucas: So back to Sarah's approach. One thing I didn't mention: she also invited a few people from other teams to co-host with her — a designer and an engineer. They answered questions about cross-functional collaboration. That broadened the appeal and made it less about her and more about how the team works. Luna: That's smart. It takes the pressure off you to be the sole expert, and it shows you're a team player who elevates others. Lucas: Exactly. And when the VP of product heard about it, they asked Sarah to do a quarterly AMA for the whole product org. So she went from a one-time event to an ongoing responsibility. That's a promotion-friendly trajectory. Luna: What about people in more junior roles? Does this only work if you're already a PM or team lead? Lucas: Not at all. I've seen an analyst do an AMA on 'How to read a P&L statement,' and an engineer do one on 'How we ship code without breaking things.' The topic just needs to be something you know better than most people in the company. The format scales. Luna: So the key is to pick a topic where you have a clear expertise gap relative to your audience. Lucas: Right. Don't host an AMA on 'leadership principles' if you've never led a team. But if you're the go-to person for a specific skill or process, that's your AMA topic. You're not claiming to be an expert at everything — you're claiming to be an expert at one thing. Luna: That's actually more credible. Nobody believes a mid-level employee who claims to have all the answers. But someone who says 'I know a lot about X, ask me anything' — that's trustworthy. Lucas: Exactly. And the anonymous format actually helps with that. People ask harder questions when they know their name isn't attached. Sarah got questions like 'Have you ever made a decision that hurt someone's project?' and 'How do you handle a manager who micromanages?' Those are real, tough questions. Answering them well shows maturity. Luna: So if someone wants to try this, what's the minimum viable version? Just one session? Lucas: One session, 30 to 45 minutes, five pre-loaded questions, promoted in three channels, recorded for those who can't attend. That's it. If you get ten people, you've had a good conversation. If you get a hundred, you've got momentum. Either way, you've demonstrated initiative. Luna: And you've created an artifact. A recording, a Q&A document — something you can point to in your next performance review. Lucas: That's the part that seals it. Sarah's AMA recording was referenced in her promotion packet. The committee watched a five-minute clip. That's more impactful than a page of written accomplishments. Luna: I wonder if someone listening today will schedule one by end of this week. Lucas: I hope so. It's one of those moves that looks obvious in hindsight but almost nobody thinks to do. And that's exactly the kind of gap you can exploit.