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#90: đź’– Fake Confidence vs. Real Confidence

In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee dive into the difference between fake confidence and real confidence—and why the two can look very similar from the outside.

They talk about how some people show up bold, loud, and untouchable online, but are completely different in person. Is it confidence? Is it performance? Or is it just a mask people use to avoid doing the real inner work?

This conversation explores:

Why people fake confidence instead of building it

How social media rewards performance over authenticity

The difference between being loud and being secure

Why real…

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