Latest / Your Hope-Filled Perspective with Dr. Michelle Bengtson podcast / Summertime Sadness: Why Depression Can Spike in Summer and How to Find Hope
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- 0:02Speaker 1: Life Audio.
- 0:05Speaker 2: Summer is supposed to be the season of sunshine, vacations,
- 0:09Speaker 2: and smiling social media photos, but for many people, it's
- 0:14Speaker 2: when depression quietly deepens. If you've ever felt more anxious, lonely,
- 0:20Speaker 2: or emotionally exhausted during the summer months, you're not imagining
- 0:25Speaker 2: it and you're not alone. In today's episode of Your
- 0:28Speaker 2: Hope Filled Perspective, I am going to talk about summer's sadness,
- 0:34Speaker 2: why depression and mental health struggles can actually spike during summer,
- 0:40Speaker 2: and we'll talk about what brain, science, psychology, and scripture
- 0:46Speaker 2: reveal about this misunderstood phenomenon. Whether you're battling low mood,
- 0:50Speaker 2: disrupted sleep, increased comparison, or the pressure to feel happy,
- 0:56Speaker 2: this conversation will help you understand what's happening in your mind,
- 1:00Speaker 2: mind and body, and how God meets you with hope
- 1:03Speaker 2: even in the brightest seasons. Welcome back to your Hope
- 1:06Speaker 2: Filled Perspective, where it's always our goal to restore hope,
- 1:10Speaker 2: renew minds, and empower listeners to live in your God
- 1:13Speaker 2: given identity. I'm your host, doctor Michelle bankson Board, certified
- 1:18Speaker 2: clinical neuropsychologist, author, speaker, and companion on the journey to mental, emotional,
- 1:26Speaker 2: and spiritual wellness. I'm so grateful for your joining me
- 1:29Speaker 2: today for this episode. Today we are going to talk
- 1:32Speaker 2: about summer's sadness, why depression can spike in summer, and
- 1:38Speaker 2: how to find hope. We'll dive in right after this
- 1:40Speaker 2: brief word from our sponsor. Summer often comes with unspoken
- 1:50Speaker 2: expectation you should be happy right now. Longer days, family gatherings,
- 1:55Speaker 2: beach trips, and backyard barbecues can amplify joy, or they
- 2:01Speaker 2: can magnify grief, loneliness, exhaustion, and depression. If summer feels
- 2:08Speaker 2: heavier instead of lighter, this episode is for you today
- 2:12Speaker 2: on your Hope Filled Perspective podcast, we're exploring why depression
- 2:18Speaker 2: can worsen in summer, how emotional, relational, and spiritual factors
- 2:24Speaker 2: collide during this season, and where to find genuine hope
- 2:29Speaker 2: when sunshine doesn't necessarily translate into joy. If you've ever
- 2:34Speaker 2: felt shame for struggling when life looks good, I want
- 2:39Speaker 2: you to know you are seen, You're not weak, and
- 2:43Speaker 2: God's presence is not dependent on the season. Let's begin
- 2:51Speaker 2: by naming something that often goes unspoken for many people.
- 2:57Speaker 2: Summer is not easier. It's actually harder. We've talked on
- 3:03Speaker 2: this podcast, and I've written in books and on blog
- 3:06Speaker 2: posts and in articles about seasonal effective disorder or the
- 3:10Speaker 2: winter blues or the post holiday blues. So many of
- 3:14Speaker 2: us are familiar with the experience of some depressive tendencies
- 3:20Speaker 2: in the dark, gloomy winter, but rarely do we talk
- 3:24Speaker 2: about experiencing those things during the longest days of the year,
- 3:29Speaker 2: in the midst of summer. And that can be deeply confusing,
- 3:34Speaker 2: because when the sun is shining and everyone else seems happier,
- 3:39Speaker 2: we start asking ourselves questions like what's wrong with me?
- 3:44Speaker 2: Why can't I just enjoy this? Or why do I
- 3:49Speaker 2: feel worse when I should feel better. I want to
- 3:54Speaker 2: say this clearly from the start. Struggling in summer does
- 3:59Speaker 2: not mean that you are broken. It does not mean
- 4:02Speaker 2: that your faith is weak, and it does not mean
- 4:06Speaker 2: that you're failing things like gratitude. In fact, there's a
- 4:10Speaker 2: well documented phenomenon known as summer pattern depression, or what
- 4:17Speaker 2: many people call summertime sadness. While seasonal effective disorders most
- 4:21Speaker 2: commonly associated with winter, research shows that for a significant
- 4:27Speaker 2: number of people, depressive symptoms actually intensify in the summer months,
- 4:34Speaker 2: and when we don't talk about it, shame fills the silence. Sotay,
- 4:42Speaker 2: I want to talk honestly about why depression can spike
- 4:47Speaker 2: in summer, what's happening in your brain, body and relationships,
- 4:53Speaker 2: and why faith doesn't make you immune to emotional pain,
- 4:58Speaker 2: as well as how God offers real hope, not pressure
- 5:04Speaker 2: in this season that you might be experiencing. Let's talk
- 5:07Speaker 2: first about the biology of summer depression. Let's start with
- 5:12Speaker 2: the brain and the body, because depression is not just
- 5:17Speaker 2: emotional or just spiritual. It's actually biopsychosocial, meaning that it
- 5:24Speaker 2: involves biology, psychology, and environment. One major factor that can
- 5:32Speaker 2: contribute to summertime sadness is the circadian rhythm disruption during summer,
- 5:39Speaker 2: longer daylight hours can interfere with our natural sleep wake cycles.
- 5:45Speaker 2: Even subtle changes like staying up later, walking earlier, traveling
- 5:50Speaker 2: across time zones, or inconsistent routines can impact our melotonein production.
- 5:57Speaker 2: And let's face it, when sleep suffers, mood regulation suffers.
- 6:03Speaker 2: Sleep deprivation affects the prefrontal cortex of the brain, which
- 6:07Speaker 2: helps with judgment and emotional regulation. But sleep deprivation also
- 6:13Speaker 2: affects the amygdala, which processes threat and emotional intensity. So
- 6:19Speaker 2: when those two systems are disregulated, what we find is
- 6:24Speaker 2: that frequently anxiety increases, emotional resilience decreases, and depressive symptoms worsen. Now,
- 6:35Speaker 2: another biological factor that many don't even think about is
- 6:38Speaker 2: heat sensitivity. Heat increases cortisol, which we know is the
- 6:44Speaker 2: stress hormone. For individuals already prone to anxiety or depression,
- 6:49Speaker 2: prolonged heat exposure can heighten irritability, fatigue, and emotional volatility.
- 6:57Speaker 2: And then, as if that's not an an if there's
- 7:01Speaker 2: neurotransmitter imbalance. While sunlight is great because it can increase
- 7:07Speaker 2: serotonin for some people, for others, especially those with mood disorders,
- 7:12Speaker 2: excess light and heat can contribute to agitation rather than
- 7:18Speaker 2: a sense of calm. So if you have noticed feeling
- 7:22Speaker 2: more restless than peaceful, more irritable instead of relaxed, or
- 7:28Speaker 2: more exhausted instead or despite doing less, that is not
- 7:36Speaker 2: a moral failure. That is actually your nervous system responding
- 7:41Speaker 2: to environmental changes. Friends, We're going to take a short
- 7:45Speaker 2: break for a message from our sponsor, but when we return,
- 7:48Speaker 2: we'll continue our conversation about summer sadness and address the
- 7:52Speaker 2: psychological pressures of summer. We'll be right back, all right,
- 8:02Speaker 2: Let's turn the conversation to address the psychological pressures of summer.
- 8:07Speaker 2: Beyond biology, summer introduces unique psychological stressors, and one of
- 8:15Speaker 2: the biggest is expectation pressure. Yes, expectation pressure. Now, if
- 8:21Speaker 2: you've been following me for any length of time, you
- 8:23Speaker 2: know that I often talk about this during the holidays
- 8:26Speaker 2: because those expectations and or unmet expectations can contribute to
- 8:32Speaker 2: our stress and our struggle with mood, especially during the holidays.
- 8:37Speaker 3: Now.
- 8:38Speaker 2: Typically, summer is marketed as the season of happiness, fun, freedom, connection,
- 8:45Speaker 2: and when our internal experience doesn't match the external narrative,
- 8:51Speaker 2: we experience cognitive dissonance, a distressing gap between how we
- 8:57Speaker 2: feel and how we believe we should feel. This often
- 9:02Speaker 2: leads to self criticism, comparison, and emotional suppression. And my
- 9:10Speaker 2: friend's social media intensifies this Why Because we see everyone
- 9:18Speaker 2: else's highlight reels of vacations, family gatherings, and smiling faces,
- 9:25Speaker 2: and yet often your life feels lonely, painful, or stagnant.
- 9:32Speaker 2: That contrast alone can deepen despair. Another psychological factor is
- 9:38Speaker 2: increased unstructured time. For some, summer disrupts routines that provide stability,
- 9:48Speaker 2: like school schedules, work rhythms, ministry calendars. And while rest
- 9:55Speaker 2: is important, too much unstructured time can amplify rumination. And
- 10:00Speaker 2: I remember this pressure when my kids were in school
- 10:04Speaker 2: and we neared the end of the school year. I
- 10:08Speaker 2: felt so much pressure to figure out how I was
- 10:11Speaker 2: going to keep them busy or keep them entertained during
- 10:15Speaker 2: the summer because they no longer had that routine. Here's
- 10:19Speaker 2: what it happens in the brain. The mind fills silence
- 10:24Speaker 2: with unanswered questions like why am I struggling, Why hasn't
- 10:31Speaker 2: this changed yet? And why does everyone else seem to
- 10:36Speaker 2: be moving forward. For those who have experienced trauma or loss,
- 10:43Speaker 2: summer can also bring anniversary reactions memories that are tied
- 10:48Speaker 2: to specific dates, smells, or activities. You say, grief in
- 10:56Speaker 2: and of itself doesn't take a vacation. Talk about the
- 11:00Speaker 2: relational and the spiritual weight of summer. Summer often highlights
- 11:08Speaker 2: relational pain. Think about it. Holidays, family barbecues, weddings, and
- 11:15Speaker 2: vacations can magnify feelings of loneliness or estrangement, unmet longing,
- 11:22Speaker 2: or even anxiety about how people are going to act
- 11:25Speaker 2: or respond or not act or respond. And if you've
- 11:31Speaker 2: lost someone, summer can feel painfully loud with reminders of
- 11:37Speaker 2: what's missing. If your relationships are strained, summer can feel
- 11:43Speaker 2: isolating rather than connecting spiritually. Summer sadness often triggers false
- 11:51Speaker 2: conclusions about God. Thoughts like if God was really with me,
- 11:57Speaker 2: I wouldn't feel this way, or condemning and shameful thoughts
- 12:01Speaker 2: like I should be more grateful, or comparison, and thoughts
- 12:07Speaker 2: like others seem so joyful, what's wrong with me? But
- 12:13Speaker 2: scripture tells a very different story. Elijah, after a great
- 12:18Speaker 2: spiritual victory, collapsed into despair and asked God to take
- 12:23Speaker 2: his life. But God did not rebuke him. God fed him,
- 12:29Speaker 2: God let him sleep, and God meant him gently. That
- 12:35Speaker 2: really tells us something profound in that God addresses emotional
- 12:40Speaker 2: suffering with compassion, not condemnation. Now I want to talk
- 12:47Speaker 2: about what summer depression is not. And first I think
- 12:51Speaker 2: it's really important that we clear up some damaging myths.
- 12:55Speaker 2: Summer depression is not a lack of faith. Depression is
- 13:01Speaker 2: not a failure to trust God. Summer depression is not ingratitude,
- 13:08Speaker 2: and it is most certainly not weakness. Depression is not
- 13:15Speaker 2: a spiritual shortcut. It's a complex condition, evolving the brain,
- 13:21Speaker 2: the nervous system, the body, emotions, as well as our
- 13:27Speaker 2: lived experiences. Friends, you can love God deeply and still
- 13:32Speaker 2: feel deeply sad. You can pray faithfully and still need rest,
- 13:41Speaker 2: support and treatment. The psalms alone are full of people
- 13:46Speaker 2: who loved God and still cried out in anguish. So remember,
- 13:52Speaker 2: biblical faith doesn't deny pain. It actually allows us to
- 13:58Speaker 2: bring our pain into the presence of God. Friends, I
- 14:02Speaker 2: need to take a real short break for a message
- 14:04Speaker 2: from our sponsor. But when we return, we'll turn our
- 14:07Speaker 2: conversation to discussing how to find hope and offer practical,
- 14:12Speaker 2: gentle steps for managing summer sadness. We'll be right back,
- 14:21Speaker 2: all right, Let's talk about the practical. Let's talk about
- 14:25Speaker 2: how to find hope through some gentle steps. Because, as
- 14:31Speaker 2: someone who has treated thousands of patients with depression and
- 14:35Speaker 2: someone who has experienced it herself, I'm fully aware that
- 14:40Speaker 2: when we feel this way, whether it's summer or other
- 14:43Speaker 2: time of the year need people to be gentle with us,
- 14:46Speaker 2: and we need to be gentle and compassionate towards ourselves
- 14:50Speaker 2: because God is. So let's talk about hope not as
- 14:54Speaker 2: a feeling, but as a practice. First, let's talk about
- 15:00Speaker 2: about restoring rhythm before chasing relief. It's important that we
- 15:07Speaker 2: prioritize consistent sleep and wake times. We need to prioritize
- 15:13Speaker 2: regular meals with nutritional food and I know we don't
- 15:18Speaker 2: talk about it very much on this podcast, but can
- 15:22Speaker 2: I just remind you that our gut has been found
- 15:25Speaker 2: to be like a second brain, and many of our
- 15:28Speaker 2: neurow transmitters are actually replenished in the gut. But when
- 15:33Speaker 2: we're feeding our gut non nutritive foods, think about those
- 15:39Speaker 2: processed foods that were created to sit on grocery shelves
- 15:43Speaker 2: or in our pantries for months or years without going bad.
- 15:48Speaker 2: That is not helping us to fight things like anxiety, depression,
- 15:54Speaker 2: heart disease, stress. So I want you to engage in
- 15:58Speaker 2: regular meals. I also want you to focus on eating
- 16:02Speaker 2: more nutritive foods. It's also important to prioritize gentle movement. Now,
- 16:10Speaker 2: whether that is a ten minute walk three times a
- 16:13Speaker 2: day after each of your meals, or its weight training,
- 16:17Speaker 2: or it's doing rebounding or even utilizing things like a
- 16:21Speaker 2: vibration plate. Get out there and move because movement will
- 16:27Speaker 2: help decrease the cortisol, which helps fuel things like depression, sleep, disturbance,
- 16:33Speaker 2: that kind of thing. But also prioritize time in the
- 16:38Speaker 2: shade and cooling environments frinds. What I want you to
- 16:42Speaker 2: know is that your nervous system heals through predictability. So
- 16:48Speaker 2: the more you can set yourself up with good, gentle
- 16:52Speaker 2: daily habits, the better you will feel physically, emotionally, mentally,
- 16:58Speaker 2: and spiritually. Recommendation is to limit comparison triggers. If social
- 17:05Speaker 2: media increases your feelings of despair, despondency, isolation, rejection, it
- 17:15Speaker 2: is not a lack of discipline to step back in actuality.
- 17:21Speaker 2: Its wisdom. Third, I would recommend that you name what
- 17:26Speaker 2: you're grieving. Ask yourself what feels missing right now? Ask
- 17:32Speaker 2: yourself what expectations feel unmet? And ask yourself what loss
- 17:39Speaker 2: has summer made more visible? You see, when we acknowledge grief,
- 17:45Speaker 2: it loses some of its power, It loses some of
- 17:49Speaker 2: its weight, and it loses some of its influence in
- 17:52Speaker 2: our mind, to heart and our emotions. And the fourth,
- 17:56Speaker 2: I encourage you to invite God into the honesty, not
- 18:00Speaker 2: the performance. And keep in mind that as you invite
- 18:04Speaker 2: God in and you engage in prayerful dialogue with him,
- 18:08Speaker 2: remember that prayer does not require positivity. It actually requires
- 18:12Speaker 2: being still in, being in His presence. So maybe when
- 18:17Speaker 2: prayer might even feel difficult because of summer sadness, consider
- 18:21Speaker 2: praying something like, God, this feeling, it just feels so
- 18:27Speaker 2: heavy this season. I don't understand why, but I need
- 18:31Speaker 2: you here. Friends. That's a holy prayer, that's honest. That's
- 18:36Speaker 2: taking your raw emotions and your need for God's intervention
- 18:42Speaker 2: straight to him, and as a loving father, he longs
- 18:46Speaker 2: to hear from you. And Fifth, please seek support because
- 18:52Speaker 2: depression thrives in isolation, and healing frequently happens in connection.
- 18:59Speaker 2: If symptoms for like a low mood or sadness, feelings
- 19:03Speaker 2: of hopelessness, sleep, disruption, loss of interest, and things that
- 19:09Speaker 2: you previously enjoyed, please reach out to a trusted professional.
- 19:13Speaker 2: Seeking help is not a lack of faith, it's stewardship.
- 19:18Speaker 2: For instance, we close out this episode and want to
- 19:22Speaker 2: leave you with the following hope Field perspective, God is
- 19:25Speaker 2: not more present in your bright seasons than in your
- 19:29Speaker 2: dark ones. In fact, scripture consistently shows God drawing nearer
- 19:34Speaker 2: to the broken hearted. I hope you'll remember that summer
- 19:38Speaker 2: sadness does not disqualify you from joy. Summer sadness does
- 19:44Speaker 2: not disqualify you from joy. And if you're struggling because
- 19:49Speaker 2: you just don't feel joyful, please go back and listen
- 19:54Speaker 2: to the episode that we did a couple months ago
- 19:57Speaker 2: on how to cultivate joy and difficulties. Also, summer sadness
- 20:03Speaker 2: does not erase God's goodness, and summer sadness does not
- 20:08Speaker 2: define your future. It simply tells us that your soul
- 20:12Speaker 2: is asking for care and frience. God listens to that cry.
- 20:17Speaker 2: And because God listens when we pray, I want to
- 20:21Speaker 2: pray for you. Lord. You see every listener who feels confused, heavy,
- 20:27Speaker 2: or ashamed for struggling in this season, and you know
- 20:31Speaker 2: the biology of their bodies. You created it. You know
- 20:35Speaker 2: the story of their hearts, and you know the burdens
- 20:38Speaker 2: that they quietly carry. Would you please, Lord, meet them
- 20:41Speaker 2: with gentleness, restore their rhythms, quiet their nervous system, replace
- 20:47Speaker 2: lies with truth and remind them that your presence is
- 20:52Speaker 2: not seasonal. You are near even now because of and
- 20:58Speaker 2: in the mighty name of Jesus. Pray Amen friends, thank
- 21:02Speaker 2: you for spending this time with me on your Hope
- 21:04Speaker 2: Field Perspective podcast. I hope that there was something in
- 21:08Speaker 2: today's episode that encouraged you, that motivated you, that gave
- 21:13Speaker 2: you pause to think about how you might do things differently.
- 21:16Speaker 2: If today's episode has touched your heart, or you know
- 21:19Speaker 2: someone who's struggling with sadness in the summertime, please consider
- 21:24Speaker 2: sharing this episode with a friend who needs a biblically
- 21:27Speaker 2: based hope Field perspective. I'm looking forward to being with
- 21:30Speaker 2: you again next week, but in the meantime, it's my
- 21:33Speaker 2: prayer for you that you have a hope filled week.
- 21:38Speaker 1: Depression is now our greatest epidemic worldwide, greater than heart disease, cancer,
- 21:44Speaker 1: and aids all put together. If you have looked for
- 21:48Speaker 1: help with depression, you have found that there's a scarcity
- 21:52Speaker 1: of biblically based resources that identifies the spiritual component that
- 21:56Speaker 1: will actually help with the depression and also will help
- 22:00Speaker 1: the loved ones who are trying to support the ones
- 22:02Speaker 1: who are depressed. Over her thirty year career, doctor Benkson
- 22:06Speaker 1: has treated thousands of individuals with depression and has even
- 22:09Speaker 1: suffered from it herself. Because of her suffering, she understands
- 22:13Speaker 1: the need to address the spiritual dimension of depression along
- 22:16Speaker 1: with the physiological and emotional components. Doctor Benkson has written
- 22:21Speaker 1: an award winning book, Hope Prevails, Insights from a doctor's
- 22:25Speaker 1: personal journey through depression. For she shares with us her
- 22:28Speaker 1: own experiences, and she combines decades of professional expertise in
- 22:32Speaker 1: mental health with her personal insights so she can help
- 22:35Speaker 1: us overcome depression. Script Jennifer Strickland, author of Beautiful Lies,
- 22:41Speaker 1: had this to say about Hope Prevails. Hope Prevails as
- 22:44Speaker 1: a treasure trove of scripture, music, and medicine for the soul.
- 22:48Speaker 1: This book shares truth upon truth for anyone encountering the
- 22:53Speaker 1: obscurity of depression. Is a very important work that should
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- 23:00Speaker 1: Most of all is honest. Michelle genuinely opens up a
- 23:04Speaker 1: window of her heart, shamelessly revealing her own darkest hours
- 23:09Speaker 1: in order to shine a light of hope for you
- 23:11Speaker 1: and me. If you or anyone you love touch even
- 23:15Speaker 1: the fringe of depression. I highly recommend this work as
- 23:18Speaker 1: a key doorway to your journey towards joy peace in
- 23:22Speaker 1: the full life we can have in Christ. Hope Prevails
- 23:26Speaker 1: is available from Amazon dot com and other fine online retailers,
- 23:31Speaker 1: or you your website at doctor michellebe dot com. You
- 23:35Speaker 1: can obtain your copy today and begin your healing journey
- 23:38Speaker 1: from depression. Thank you for joining doctor banks and to
- 23:46Speaker 1: your hope build perspective. We hope you are encouraged by
- 23:50Speaker 1: her authenticity, vulnerability and biblical truths. If you enjoy today's conversation,
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