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2nd DATE UPDATE: Ken & Ruby · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: The next segment we're going to do is called second
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  Speaker 1: Date Update because that's what we're going to try and
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  Speaker 1: get and that's what the bit is called.
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  Speaker 2: Second Date Update starts right now on John Jay and Ridge.
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  Speaker 3: One oh four to seven Kiss FM, John Jay and
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  Speaker 3: Rich is time for second date updates.
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  Speaker 4: You meet somebody, you go out on a date.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe you guys met because your parents set you up,
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  Speaker 3: or you met each other in church, or maybe a
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  Speaker 3: dating app or maybe you're at a bar in a restaurant.
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  Speaker 3: You meet somebody, you go ot a date, you have
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  Speaker 3: a great time, you expect there to be a second date.
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  Speaker 4: Doesn't happen. So you come to.
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  Speaker 3: Us and we're gonna help find out what went wrong.
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  Speaker 3: Let's say hello to Ken. Good morning Ken.
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  Speaker 5: Hey, how you doing?
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  Speaker 4: Hey? What's your story? Man?
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  Speaker 5: So I met this girl and I thought we really
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  Speaker 5: thought we had something. We went mini golfing, we're having
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  Speaker 5: drinks or laughing the whole night. It just felt really
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  Speaker 5: like natural and easy in the best way. So the
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  Speaker 5: conversation was great, the vibe was there, and I left thinking,
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  Speaker 5: you know, okay, finally a date that doesn't feel like
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  Speaker 5: a job interview.
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  Speaker 6: You know.
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  Speaker 5: But now exfused because after that all that, you know,
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  Speaker 5: we texted for about a week and I kept trying
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  Speaker 5: to lock in for a second date, and all of
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  Speaker 5: a sudden, she just doesn't get back to me. So,
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  Speaker 5: you know, now I'm sitting here, We're playing the whole
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  Speaker 5: night like did I say something weird? Has she just
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  Speaker 5: been entertaining me so that my feelings don't get hurt?
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  Speaker 5: Like did I come on too song? I really don't
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  Speaker 5: know what's going on, And you know, I really liked her,
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  Speaker 5: so I thought we genuinely had a great time. I
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  Speaker 5: just want to know what happened.
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  Speaker 1: What was her guys's conversations like the week after the date,
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  Speaker 1: were you guys just texting like good morning, good night
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  Speaker 1: or was it pretty consistent through the day.
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  Speaker 5: No, I was pretty consistent. We were talking, you know,
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  Speaker 5: So I was like, we're having conversations, talking about like
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  Speaker 5: our interests and different likes and dislikes and like like
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  Speaker 5: part of our life stories things like that. You know.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, So that doesn't seem like she was like just
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  Speaker 1: trying to be nice and slowly, but.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe she was.
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  Speaker 7: Maybe she was trying to give him the benefit of
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  Speaker 7: something happened at dinner she.
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  Speaker 2: Got the ick.
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  Speaker 7: But she's like, but he's so nice and we do
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  Speaker 7: get along. So she's trying, you know, and you're like
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  Speaker 7: trying to make yourself not like get rid of the ick,
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  Speaker 7: but then it just doesn't go away.
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  Speaker 2: And then finally she was like forget it.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, when you say that the job or the date
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  Speaker 3: wasn't like a job interview, can you walk us through
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  Speaker 3: what some of those dates are like that are like
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  Speaker 3: job interviews?
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  Speaker 5: Oh yeah, so you know, sometimes you just show up
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  Speaker 5: for a date and it's just like, you know, twenty questions. Okay,
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  Speaker 5: what what do you do? Like, what are your aspirations?
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  Speaker 5: What do you see yourself in twenty you know that
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  Speaker 5: kind of stuff, Like just a bunch of questions and.
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  Speaker 4: What are your strengths? What can you map quest?
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  Speaker 3: Question back in well, actually recently that on a date
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  Speaker 3: she did a map quest? All right, Well what's her name?
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  Speaker 5: Her name is Ruby?
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  Speaker 4: What a great name?
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  Speaker 3: Ruby? I love that name. All right, here's what we're
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  Speaker 3: gonna do, Ken, We're gonna get Ruby on the phone.
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  Speaker 3: We're gonna find out why she's blowing you off. We're
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  Speaker 3: going to find out what went wrong in her eyes?
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  Speaker 4: All right?
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  Speaker 3: So second Date Update continues next with John Jay and Ridge.
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  Speaker 3: John Jane Rich, we.
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  Speaker 4: Are in the middle of second date update. You got
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  Speaker 4: Ken and Ruby.
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  Speaker 2: Well, this is the story of Ken in Ruby's mini
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  Speaker 2: golf day. He thought that it went great. But did
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  Speaker 2: Ken shank his shot into the rough? Did his hole
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  Speaker 2: with one become a hole in nun? Can she not
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  Speaker 2: get as Kyle says, past the ick of Ken, We're
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  Speaker 2: about to find out.
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  Speaker 5: That's a good recap, right Ken, Yeah, I think that's
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  Speaker 5: pretty accurate.
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  Speaker 3: Went it was nice to go on a date that
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  Speaker 3: didn't feel like a job interview, you said, But then
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  Speaker 3: you've been texting her and what she just stopped returning
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  Speaker 3: the text messages.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, like one day out of the blue, she just
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  Speaker 5: kind of just stopped texting me back and I was
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  Speaker 5: trying to see about a second date. Haven't heard anything.
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  Speaker 3: Oh you know what happened? I used to say all
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  Speaker 3: the time, How do you know? You know she's not
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  Speaker 3: in the hospital, how do you know something didn't happen?
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  Speaker 3: And somebody sent me a screenshot yesterday they go, oh
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  Speaker 3: my god, she goes you popped into my brain. It
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  Speaker 3: was about a guy that went on a date with
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  Speaker 3: a girl and the girl was mad at the guy
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  Speaker 3: for ghosting him, but it turned out he got attacked
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  Speaker 3: by a bar and he's in a coma. I was like,
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  Speaker 3: oh my god, what a great what a sweet wonder
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  Speaker 3: how they found out?
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  Speaker 4: Like, yeah, so the guy literally and there's a there's
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  Speaker 4: a headline.
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  Speaker 2: How many times were you like to probably in Tacoma
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  Speaker 2: in the hospital.
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  Speaker 3: Hit by a bread truck. I gotta find that story anyway,
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  Speaker 3: all right, we're gonna call Ruby Man.
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  Speaker 4: Hang tight?
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  Speaker 3: Hi?
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  Speaker 1: Is this Ruby?
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  Speaker 2: Shame?
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  Speaker 8: Hi?
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  Speaker 1: Ruby, My name is Peyton. I'm with John, Jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 1: We just wanted to talk to you about a few
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  Speaker 1: things on the radio. If you're down.
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  Speaker 3: Oh cool, okay, yeah, okay, So Ruby, we do a
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  Speaker 3: segment on our show called Second Date Update, and it's
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  Speaker 3: usually where somebody goes out of a date with someone.
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  Speaker 3: They have a good time, and they expect there to
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  Speaker 3: be a second date, and when they don't get that
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  Speaker 3: second date, like they're being ghosted or stood up, they
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  Speaker 3: come to us and we try to peel back the
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  Speaker 3: layers of the date and investigate and give them advice.
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  Speaker 3: And that happened this morning, and the only problem is
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  Speaker 3: we are kind of stumped. We can't figure out the
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  Speaker 3: reason why you are not calling back this one guy
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  Speaker 3: named Ken.
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  Speaker 4: So we thought we would call you. You could go over
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  Speaker 4: the date.
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  Speaker 3: With us and tell us what went wrong with this guy,
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  Speaker 3: or maybe nothing went wrong.
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  Speaker 8: He's great. Actually we had a great time. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 8: just I that's why this feels so bad, Like because
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  Speaker 8: he just he really had a wonderful time, and he's
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  Speaker 8: so sweet and he's easy to talk to, and I
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  Speaker 8: really enjoyed myself. And I started thinking, like, I really
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  Speaker 8: like this man. After we went out, after we were texting,
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  Speaker 8: after the date and everything, I just kind of felt
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  Speaker 8: like we were maybe on different pages as all. It
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  Speaker 8: kind of came out that he had not gotten his GED,
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  Speaker 8: so he dropped out of high school and he didn't
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  Speaker 8: get his GED and all this, and and I just
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  Speaker 8: I don't know, I guess I just started thinking, like,
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  Speaker 8: what's the plan, Dave, Like do we do we have
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  Speaker 8: a plan? Like you don't need to be you don't
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  Speaker 8: need to be a CEO of anything, you don't need
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  Speaker 8: to be a doctor, you don't need to be you know,
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  Speaker 8: but I just need something, some kind of ambition or
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  Speaker 8: drive or just just a plan in life. Something sketched
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  Speaker 8: on a Napkins something and.
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  Speaker 2: Well, what's he doing now to make to make money?
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  Speaker 6: What's this thing he helps install pools?
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  Speaker 8: Like he has like we're luck works this pool company.
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  Speaker 8: So yeah, I mean, and that's that's great. I'm like glad,
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  Speaker 8: but I just I don't know, It's like, where are
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  Speaker 8: you going? Where you headed? What's what's the idea?
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  Speaker 6: You know?
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  Speaker 8: And I'm just kind of looking for someone with that
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  Speaker 8: in mind.
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  Speaker 2: And you don't want to help be a cheerleader for it,
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  Speaker 2: you just wanted to be there.
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  Speaker 8: I mean it just yeah, I just kind of I'm
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  Speaker 8: feeling like I'm at that stage in my life where
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  Speaker 8: I need somebody with that kind of ambition and stability
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  Speaker 8: and everything. That's just kind of where I'm sitting.
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  Speaker 6: Wow.
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  Speaker 5: So that's why you go through me, Not because I
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  Speaker 5: was weird or because I said something crazy on the date,
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  Speaker 5: but because I told you I talked out of high school.
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  Speaker 8: I'm sure, Hi, Sorry, I mean honestly, that that's why
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  Speaker 8: you didn't say anything weird. We had a great time.
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  Speaker 8: I just that's just that's just what I'm looking for.
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  Speaker 8: I'm just looking for, you know, someone that has a
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  Speaker 8: plan and has you know some ambition. I just don't
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  Speaker 8: find the same page.
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  Speaker 5: It's all right, right, ambition, you know, totally fair, which
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  Speaker 5: is funny because you know, I own a luxury pool
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  Speaker 5: design company. I've got fourteen employees, two crews working every day.
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  Speaker 5: I booked out for the next eight months. I dropped
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  Speaker 5: out by the way because my mom got sick and
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  Speaker 5: I had to work. And I turned that into a
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  Speaker 5: business that's doing really well. So you know, maybe I
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  Speaker 5: don't have a ged, but I do have three trucks,
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  Speaker 5: a warehouse, and a tax problem that my accountant says
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  Speaker 5: is a pretty good problem to have.
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  Speaker 4: Dang my drop. Yeah, keep going going?
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  Speaker 2: Why so defensive? You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 4: Because she said it no ambition.
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  Speaker 5: I know I was a loser.
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  Speaker 1: It doesn't seem like knew you were the owner, which
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  Speaker 1: is okay, right.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean, I'm sorry I didn't know you owned it.
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  Speaker 8: I that I mean that pinks a very different picture.
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  Speaker 8: I didn't mean to judge you or anything like that.
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  Speaker 9: I oh no, no, you.
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  Speaker 5: Did judge me. You did judge me. That's exactly what happened,
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  Speaker 5: which is fine. You know now I know what kind
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  Speaker 5: of person you are.
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  Speaker 8: I do apologize. I maybe couldn't have asked more questions.
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  Speaker 8: I definitely did not have the entire picture from you.
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  Speaker 8: I mean, that is the one thing that I did hear,
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  Speaker 8: you know, and I didn't know.
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  Speaker 6: The rest of it.
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  Speaker 8: And I and I came back that I did not
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  Speaker 8: ask enough questions. I could have done that, But that
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  Speaker 8: does reframe it for me.
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  Speaker 5: Well, yeah, that's that's great for you. I mean for me,
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  Speaker 5: it's like, I'm I'm not interested at this point.
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  Speaker 3: You should be a little more laid back. She just
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  Speaker 3: didn't get the full story. I'm on his side, man.
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  Speaker 7: It wasn't like she was saying he needs to make
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  Speaker 7: all this money. She just felt like, you guys weren't
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  Speaker 7: on the same page. And I kind of feel like, yeah,
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  Speaker 7: you are pretty successful, but like it seems like you're
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  Speaker 7: so like angry about it.
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  Speaker 4: Well because she said that he has no ambition, no stability.
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  Speaker 7: And she didn't I ask about But to me, that's
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  Speaker 7: actually a red flag that he's getting that angry about it.
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  Speaker 7: And it's like I think afterwards it just seems like
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  Speaker 7: really overly like punchy and defensive, but like like I
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  Speaker 7: think there's a different way to say it, like, oh, well,
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  Speaker 7: I mean, that's too bad. We're totally you were totally
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  Speaker 7: off here. I do actually own the company. I do
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  Speaker 7: actually what I've read.
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  Speaker 2: And said, it's like, well, fine, actually I.
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  Speaker 3: Own the comp Do you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 7: It's like there could have been a different approach for
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  Speaker 7: me to feel like there's to me that's a red flag.
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  Speaker 7: Like she didn't say he needs to be a CEO.
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  Speaker 7: She literally said, you don't need to be the CEO.
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  Speaker 7: I just need to see something for me. But I'm
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  Speaker 7: not seeing it.
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  Speaker 5: No, she judged me. She jumped her conclusions. I don't
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  Speaker 5: I don't put enough with that in my life. I
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  Speaker 5: don't need that.
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  Speaker 2: You guys aren't compatible.
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  Speaker 3: It's kind of like the like if the other thing
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  Speaker 3: would be a guy being on here going I owned
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  Speaker 3: five cars, I own my own company. I make four
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  Speaker 3: million a year, Like they'll be like, wow, that's a
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  Speaker 3: red flag. This guy didn't talk about his life. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: he talked about relationship, and then he made himself vulnerable
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  Speaker 3: to say, by the way, I dropped out of high
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  Speaker 3: school and don't even have a ged. It's some point
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  Speaker 3: in my mom one point in that conversation that came up.
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  Speaker 3: So now she's telling us, he has no stability, no drive.
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  Speaker 3: I don't want to go out with him. Now she
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  Speaker 3: finds out he owns the company. Oh wait a minute, Like,
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  Speaker 3: I see it that way.
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  Speaker 2: I'm with you that.
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  Speaker 4: I was like, oh, let's go out again.
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  Speaker 7: She's like, well, that reframes things, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. I take care of your mom. That's
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  Speaker 2: totally different. We talked about that.
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  Speaker 5: She didn't he didn't even try. She's just like, oh no, no,
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  Speaker 5: dd okay bye.
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  Speaker 2: Honestly, you guys don't like each other that much, because
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  Speaker 2: this would be an easy fix. And you're like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: I'm so I didn't know. I probably should ask you
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  Speaker 2: that let's go You don't like each other?
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  Speaker 3: Well, I think we're gonna have lots of comments on
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  Speaker 3: this eight seven seven, nine three seven one oh four.
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  Speaker 4: Seven your thoughts. I was seconded up there.
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  Speaker 3: Actually, Ken, I'd like to pull back the layers on
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  Speaker 3: something you brought up that I think is really really important.
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  Speaker 4: You own a luxury pool company.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, I think Kyle and I could use your help
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  Speaker 3: because the pool company that developed our pool sucks ass
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  Speaker 3: was not a luxury and destroyed our backyard. So maybe
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  Speaker 3: we can have you come by and fix some things
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  Speaker 3: for us. So forget about the dating segment. Fix our
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  Speaker 3: pool segment.
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  Speaker 2: Every week.
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  Speaker 5: I might get more out of it.
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  Speaker 3: Actually, all right, So no second date for you guys, right,
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  Speaker 3: not for me, all right, room, not for you.
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  Speaker 8: I mean it would have been, but it sounds like
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  Speaker 8: he's a little sensitive, So all right, no.
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  Speaker 4: Second date updates, no second date thanks, both of you.
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  Speaker 3: Guys are eight seven seven ninety seven L four seven
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  Speaker 3: your thoughts on the second date update?
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  Speaker 4: We're talking next man.
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  Speaker 3: Lots of people call about second update, Ramaine, go ahead,
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  Speaker 3: you're on the air.
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  Speaker 6: High Ah, good borning. I was calling about the pool guy.
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  Speaker 6: You know, sometimes you you know you're talking to somebody.
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  Speaker 6: You want them to like you and love you for yourself,
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  Speaker 6: not to what you're making. And so for now, the
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  Speaker 6: guy has a job, he said, he's working a pool.
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  Speaker 6: It doesn't matter what he is. If she enjoyed his
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  Speaker 6: company and laughter and the night was great. I mean,
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  Speaker 6: you know now that she found out he has a pool,
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  Speaker 6: and she's totally changing her mind. It's almost like it's
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  Speaker 6: saying being a gold digger right now. And second of all,
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  Speaker 6: and I understand that Kyle mentioned something about now he's
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  Speaker 6: being aggressive and so because of his tone of his voice.
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  Speaker 6: But you guys gotta understand what people are calling. They're
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  Speaker 6: all from different nationalities like Italians, Middle Easterns, and so forth.
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  Speaker 6: They all have a strong voice. That doesn't mean they're
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  Speaker 6: being angry or they're yelling or they're screaming. But sometimes
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  Speaker 6: I feel that people these days are so sensitive. You
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  Speaker 6: just gotta know how to talk to them. Otherwise he's
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  Speaker 6: gonna judge you by your voice and your tone that no,
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  Speaker 6: you're a bad person or a bad call, and that
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  Speaker 6: is not right.
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  Speaker 7: Okay, he was getting a little aggresive. He did say
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  Speaker 7: he was irritated by it.
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  Speaker 4: As well.
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  Speaker 6: I would be irritated too if somebody tells me that
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  Speaker 6: she enjoys everything else. But I have a ged But
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  Speaker 6: first of all, find out. He said he dropped off
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  Speaker 6: that the school to help his mom. He's a probably
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  Speaker 6: mom was a single mom. Then you know she needed
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  Speaker 6: to help. But you just don't judge on a first
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  Speaker 6: date or second date. Later on you'll wark about somebody.
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  Speaker 6: You just can't do it and raising or saying something
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  Speaker 6: on the phone. That doesn't mean that he's been aggressive.
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  Speaker 4: I see nervous.
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  Speaker 7: I was just getting aggression vibes from him, which was
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  Speaker 7: a red flag for me. I totally understand where you're
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  Speaker 7: coming from, and I get it. I think we all
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  Speaker 7: kind of agreed that they had really poor communication and
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  Speaker 7: should have communicated with And that was a.
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  Speaker 3: Little bit of the debate between you and me because
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  Speaker 3: I didn't think he came across aggressive.
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  Speaker 4: I thought he was like bumped out.
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  Speaker 6: I don't think he became aggressive at all. It was
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  Speaker 6: just him talking, and we said what hit his mind
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  Speaker 6: when somebody judged him by he's a pool person or
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  Speaker 6: doesn't matter who you are, what you are a long
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  Speaker 6: you've got a job. You got to roof over your
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  Speaker 6: head and that's a blessing. We don't need somebody who's
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  Speaker 6: got to have a degree. Some people they don't even
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  Speaker 6: have a degree in their way up there and doing great.
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  Speaker 6: But my main thing, and I always get that, and
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  Speaker 6: I apologize Kyle for you, but you know, when everybody
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  Speaker 6: talks and you guys judge by their voice or he's
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  Speaker 6: been a little bit aggressive, a little bit, just a
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  Speaker 6: little bit that No, it's just the way that people
• 15:02
  Speaker 6: they talk these days. They don't have time. I don't
• 15:04
  Speaker 6: have time to be sensitive or soft with somebody. Hey,
• 15:08
  Speaker 6: let's talk. You know, this is how he's conversation. I'm
• 15:10
  Speaker 6: not gonna take it on avoid.
• 15:15
  Speaker 3: All right, thanks for taking the time you call us, brother,
• 15:19
  Speaker 3: Thank you for taking the time.
• 15:21
  Speaker 4: Chris, good morning, you're on the air.
• 15:23
  Speaker 9: Good morning John j Rich Peyton call. Loved the show.
• 15:28
  Speaker 4: Thanks man. What's hey now?
• 15:31
  Speaker 9: I'm honestly, I'm I'm with John Jay one hundred and
• 15:34
  Speaker 9: ten percent. Like, I just don't think you can get
• 15:38
  Speaker 9: everything out of that first state. Like to me, he
• 15:41
  Speaker 9: was just as cool and calm, and I mean cal
• 15:44
  Speaker 9: if you hear if you hear little john oh what
• 15:48
  Speaker 9: oh yeah, yeah, like you're gonna say all of a
• 15:51
  Speaker 9: sudden like he's suggressive.
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: Little Johnny is aggressive.
• 15:58
  Speaker 9: You can agree on that. Oh, I just think out
• 16:05
  Speaker 9: of that first date, like if like you said, if
• 16:08
  Speaker 9: she was into him, she said she really enjoyed the day.
• 16:12
  Speaker 9: She enjoyed him, Like if you did, they give him
• 16:15
  Speaker 9: a second date and get to know more. You don't
• 16:17
  Speaker 9: get everything out of somebody's whole life.
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: He wasn't that into him, and he he was that
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: the chemistry was off. It was if it wasn't John thing,
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: it would have been something else that kind of pushed
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: him away.
• 16:30
  Speaker 9: Look, yeah, but I think it was more so after
• 16:32
  Speaker 9: I'm with you, John Jay one hundred and tempercent, Like
• 16:35
  Speaker 9: he didn't come off like crazier or a wild or aggressive.
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: Look, here's a Texas sound similar to what you're saying, Chris.
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: This woman says, second update, I think it's okay to
• 16:44
  Speaker 3: be upset by someone insulting you, thinking you aren't good
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: enough because she assumed he wasn't successful due to the
• 16:50
  Speaker 3: fact that he dropped out. She immediately thought he wasn't
• 16:52
  Speaker 3: good enough and chose not to ask any questions because
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: she already assumed he wasn't ambitious due to that one comment.
• 16:58
  Speaker 4: That's where the sting is is.
• 17:00
  Speaker 3: I know a lot of dropbouts who made successful lives
• 17:03
  Speaker 3: and others who became drug addicts.
• 17:04
  Speaker 4: Learn who they are before you judge their potential.
• 17:07
  Speaker 7: But I think also, like if she did really like him,
• 17:10
  Speaker 7: if there was chemistry, if she was really feeling it,
• 17:13
  Speaker 7: that wouldn't have bothered her. So it's not necessarily the
• 17:16
  Speaker 7: true stiments like that's what gave the ick.
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: Well, remember towards the beginning, we're like, hey, couldn't you
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: help him along? Couldn't you If you liked him, maybe
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: you can be the inspiration that gets in there. She
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: wasn't into it.
• 17:28
  Speaker 4: Yeah, hey Chris, I love your laugh and thanks for
• 17:30
  Speaker 4: calling in.
• 17:31
  Speaker 9: Yeah yeah, I love you guys. I love the show.
• 17:33
  Speaker 4: Thanks man,