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First Date Gone Wrong! Lady Harassed After Her Date Was Unable to Pay For Her $25 Food · DidiLawren

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  Hello, welcome back to another episode of Brunswick Florencia.
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  Let us dive into today's topic, there's this video floating on
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  Tick-Tock so let me just do that with you before I even start
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  getting into it for you to see now what this video?
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  Yeah. How can you eat food off?
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  Now after this video went viral? The lady actually came out
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  because everybody was not accusing her of being to a
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  glutton. Basically, how could you go on a
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  date? You don't have money.
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  You asked things, what? 12,000 naira we're talking about
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  naira guys, but I'm talking about dollars when I'm talking
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  about pounds, you just about Euro, this is 12,000 Arab.
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  I can understand, you know, the current situation of the country
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  is a bit hard so people for hot food kind of Oh, that's all.
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  I don't even know how I feel about this because according to
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  her she was walking on the street or whatever she was
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  walking. This guy stopped his car
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  approached. Her asked for her number.
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  She gave the guy the number because according to her he
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  didn't want to be rude. So after giving her him, the
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  number, he started contacting her.
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  They were talking for some time before he asked her out on a
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  date. Now, he asked out told her Then
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  you picked out, follow me on this.
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  She did not choose the venue. He chose the venue.
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  He in fact picked her up when they got to the place.
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  She ordered spaghetti according to her milkshake and water.
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  So she start down there, the edge where she was.
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  She said when she was eating the guys are they complaining about
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  his banking app? Not working that he's having
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  issues with network banking up. His battery was down, she said
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  he was, he just that they gave giving all sorts of excuses.
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  So because he said that his prized was done, she gave him
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  her power bank to charge his phone, so that he can access his
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  banking at. Because according to him, trying
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  to access the app actually run down his battery.
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  Not only was he sitting down, she was eating, I don't know,
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  she cause she did not mention what he actually ordered, so
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  they were sick. Now eating and then he was like
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  to complain about the the banking up and said he was going
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  to go to the car to check if he could access it there.
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  Maybe network was not good at that place.
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  She was like okay no problem so he stepped out she was still in
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  the restaurant waiting at this point.
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  She said her, but she was running down now, he was there
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  for a couple of minutes. She called him and said, have
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  you certainly saw? She said, no, she still have
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  that problem. Or he's going to call a friend
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  that would help him pay the bills.
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  She was still thinking okay, you know, this problem, he's having
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  issues because according to high, he never mentioned that.
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  The money wash all that was too much, or he will not be able to
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  pay. He just said he had issues
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  accessing his power bank. Now, she was still sitting down
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  there using her phone, obviously onto the phone went down.
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  So she came out of In the restaurant to be like, okay,
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  what is going on? How you going to solve this
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  problem? I want to go home.
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  That was at that point that she realized that the friend
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  actually. The first I was supposed to give
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  him the money came and started accusing her of ordering
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  something was of 12,000 when she was not.
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  He would like you could see what he was saying.
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  In the video, you you are claiming to be.
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  What you're not on top of 12,000.
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  On top of 12,000. These two people, they just
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  wanted to discuss this goal because if you're going to go to
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  a restaurant where you know, you can't afford these on the menu
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  as she was ordering. All you need to do is to tell
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  her listen. I only have money for meat pie
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  hourly have money for bottle of water or I just want us to sit
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  down here because of the environment and enjoy or talk or
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  whichever or he did not do that. He watched her order the new and
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  then literally Disgraced her made her pay for reads and all
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  that, which I think is just is just ridiculous.
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  This gave me PTSD because I have encountered this kind of guy.
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  So I went to an event. I was trying to get into the
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  media because I was studying media and communication so
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  trying to get into Nigeria and party scene to maybe report on,
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  you know, nightlife NG party sees or Nigerian parties in
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  London basically the videos posted YouTube or just blog
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  about it basically. So that was always trying to do.
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  So somebody invited me to this party and said, you know,
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  somebody that organized States I was like okay I don't have I
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  don't mind you introducing me to the person.
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  If the person is kind of an organizer, they need to be
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  easier for me to tag along to this parties or just get
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  informations about parties or happening big parties going on
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  that I can talk about. Now we go to the party.
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  Here to dismiss the person we sat down exchange numbers.
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  I was like okay how do we talk about this was like oh this
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  place is too noisy. We talk about it later.
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  We need to just miss and you know not also plan.
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  I will tell everything and then we talk about how we're going to
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  go about it. I was like, fine.
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  He called me up and said oh, let's me that this restaurants.
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  I was like, okay, no problem. What time he said?
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  I should meet him there 7:00. I was like, no worries.
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  So So 7:00, I got ready, went to the restaurant, he was not
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  there. So I went inside asked, if you
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  know anybody booked a table in our names, they said, no.
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  So they stopped me them because it's kind of, not really Porsche
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  but you know how whites restaurants is, they have to
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  like, sit you on tables. So I sat down, I always have a
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  glass of wine. It was an evening, was a Friday,
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  I sat down and ordered for a glass of wine.
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  And I was just sitting down sippin, my glass.
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  Ten minutes, 15 minutes I tried calling him and the number was
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  not going through I was like okay maybe this guy had
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  different things or maybe they were just something I just made
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  a decision to sip my wine. Other burger and fries and then
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  go home. I do have already zeroed my mind
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  saying that's okay. I'm not even bother about this
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  guy, maybe he had better things to do.
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  Maybe we can reschedule whoever because the number was not even
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  going through. So I Added you know, Friday
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  nights. I'm already dressed.
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  What could go wrong. So, just sitting down.
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  Drinking my wine, waiting for the burger to arrive.
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  This is down, 7:20. He told me 7:00.
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  He gave me the location, so I was already there.
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  Chilling, waiting for my order, and my phone rang.
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  It was, he was the one I picked it and he said, oh, where are
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  you? I said, I am at Power Star.
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  He said, oh, he's dead. Now, where are you?
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  I said, I mean, sir, Do the way he was, it was so condescending.
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  It was like, two different people from the one I met at the
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  party. And the person talking to me
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  was, like, totally two different people.
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  He was like, oh, where, where are you?
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  I said, I'm inside and he said, who told you to go inside?
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  Hey, hey. As soon as scuse me she said oh
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  who told you to go inside and do not tell it to go inside?
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  I said you chose this place. He said, yes, he was just trying
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  to like a middle place to pick me up and then we'll go to his
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  house. I said, are you are, you know,
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  Ma is there something wrong? Like, are you kidding me right
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  now? He said, what am I saying that I
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  should start coming out. I said, excuse me, I have made
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  my order. I am going to sit down here if
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  you want to come in. You're free to come in if you
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  don't want, go back to wherever you're coming from.
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  Because I have a burger and fries are glass of wine to to
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  demolish before I wouldn't get to talk to you at this point.
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  He was how but that was not the plan.
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  I also like, okay, what was the plan?
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  You did not tell me to that. I was going to To go to your
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  house, you gave me this location.
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  You told me 7:00 at this point it was like 725 and this was not
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  so much. So I said, well you expecting me
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  to stand outside for 25 minutes in the cold for you to come?
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  He said, no, I did not call him at this point, I was screaming.
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  I said everybody was looking at me, I didn't even I didn't even
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  give a flying F. I was screaming at him.
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  Block team sat down the, there was like a bed, a party going on
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  beside me. So I literally kind of join the
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  apart. I literally kind of join their
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  party. I was little, I had a good time
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  and I left in fact, I got a gift from the from the group and then
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  I left. So when this lady was talking
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  about this, I could I could relate because some people are
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  just crazy. Maybe His intention was to get
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  her there, maybe they drink a bottle of water and then he
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  takes her to his house because he knew that he couldn't tell
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  her that from maybe she would not have gone to his house
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  street. So, he needed to take us
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  somewhere, then take out to his house.
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  These people are crazy and maybe during the course of that
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  conversation, and she wasn't telling him what he wanted to
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  hear. And he said I complain about
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  Bank app and everything complain about all 12,000 was Watch these
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  guys are predators and they look for younger women to do these
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  things to make visually was the order.
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  I don't know meat pie, but I think if that was his project,
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  he should have said something. If he can only afford meat pie,
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  when she was ordering for all these things, he would have
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  said, listen, I don't have this money, you cannot order that.
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  Why don't you order what? I can afford that way, they have
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  an understanding. I don't think if He had told her
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  that, or if he had been open about what his budget was for
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  that day's or don't even take her to the restaurants.
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  They got to book her. If she does not want to go on
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  that day because of the, you to book a place, they, you know
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  that. Okay, this person is above me
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  but just judging somebody, maybe on that day, she was just
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  walking. I was complaining that all you
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  are with an iPhone, you always an iPhone.
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  You're claiming to be a big deal obviously.
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  Listen know, the kind of people you will need it, fits everybody
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  shine their eyes shine rise. Ooh, don't go unless somebody
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  disgrace you and I was even happy that she had the money to
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  pay. Just imagine if she did not have
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  that money. That would have been a different
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  story board. She had she paid this happens
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  every day. Every day happens.
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  And there are some people who get into this.
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  Situation and they don't have 12,000 naira to pay, what do not
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  tell them who he gets into. The car goes, let's go to my
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  house and some of them will not have any choice than to do that.
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  So I think he met somebody that he knew, he could not manage
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  plates that way, and he decided to disgrace her online.
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  According to her, she's taking up the matter legally, and her
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  lawyers are going to contact him.
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  So my sister's have your vexed money if anybody's asking her
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  out on a date. And said, okay, meet me at this
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  restaurant, for the restaurant, make sure you check out our
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  restaurants. Make sure you check out the
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  prices because even if they don't have a menu with the
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  prices, make sure you find out before you order anything.
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  And if you cannot afford, what you're Audrey, don't all die.
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  It's hand. If the money, your accounts
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  cannot carry what you're owed, regardless of who you're with
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  and guy. On the other hand, I hope he
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  gets everything that is coming for him.
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