Latest / Hurdle with Emily Abbate / Why Discomfort Breeds Success: 5X World Champion Melissa Jefferson-Wooden on Handling Pressure, Bouncing Back from Injury & Leveling Up with Star Athletics
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- 0:00Speaker 1: You don't get anywhere in life by being comfortable. Most
- 0:03Speaker 1: of the time you grow, you achieve the things that
- 0:05Speaker 1: you do by being uncomfortable.
- 0:07Speaker 2: Hey everybody, Emily Abadi here. You are listening to another
- 0:27Speaker 2: episode of Hurdle. a podcast featuring the mindset secrets and
- 0:30Speaker 2: true stories of the most inspiring women in sports and wellness,
- 0:34Speaker 2: empowering you to live a healthier, happier, more motivated life,
- 0:38Speaker 2: and of course, conquer your own hurdles. This week's episode
- 0:42Speaker 2: is extra special. I finally got to sit down with
- 0:46Speaker 2: the one, the only Melissa Jefferson Wooden, live at the
- 0:52Speaker 2: Nike House of Innovation on Fifth Avenue, leading up to
- 0:56Speaker 2: Sunday's New York City Marathon. Melissa is an Olympic medalist,
- 1:00Speaker 2: a five-time world champion, and one of the fastest women
- 1:05Speaker 2: on the planet, running a blazing 10.61 in the 100
- 1:08Speaker 2: meters and a 21.47 in the 200, making her the
- 1:09Speaker 2: third fastest of all time. To say that I was
- 1:20Speaker 2: excited for this convo is such an understatement. I felt
- 1:25Speaker 2: so honored to have some of Melissa's time, especially in
- 1:30Speaker 2: such an exciting time here in New York. In our conversation,
- 1:35Speaker 2: she opens up about the mindset required to navigate intense pressure,
- 1:39Speaker 2: why she chose to leave her comfort zone to train
- 1:42Speaker 2: with Star Athletics alongside the best sprinters in the world,
- 1:47Speaker 2: and how she bounced back from a winless 2023 season
- 1:50Speaker 2: and a stress fracture to dominate the track in 2024
- 1:53Speaker 2: and 2025. We also dive into the launch of her nonprofit,
- 1:58Speaker 2: The Village Initiative, her favorite book recommendations, and what it
- 2:02Speaker 2: really means to toe the line and shock yourself. Before
- 2:06Speaker 2: we jump in, make sure you're following along with Hurdle
- 2:10Speaker 2: on social. It's over at Hurdle Podcast. I'm over at
- 2:13Speaker 2: Emily Abadi. And can't forget about iHeart Woman Sports over
- 2:17Speaker 2: at iHeart Woman Sports. You can listen to Hurdle on
- 2:20Speaker 2: the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get
- 2:24Speaker 2: your podcasts. And just do me a quick favor. If
- 2:27Speaker 2: you have yet to rate and review the show, it
- 2:30Speaker 2: means the world to me if you just take a
- 2:32Speaker 2: few seconds and head into wherever you're listening to this
- 2:35Speaker 2: episode and do that today. Again, a huge thank you
- 2:39Speaker 2: to Melissa for her time, Nike NYC for helping set
- 2:43Speaker 2: this up, and all of you for coming back week
- 2:46Speaker 2: after week. With that, let's get into it. Let's get
- 2:50Speaker 2: to hurtling. I appreciate you all for being out maybe
- 2:58Speaker 2: a little past your normal bedtime tonight, but with good reason,
- 3:03Speaker 2: because I have an incredible guest for us this evening
- 3:07Speaker 2: that knows a thing or two about running for sure,
- 3:10Speaker 2: and certainly a thing or two about speed. She's a
- 3:15Speaker 2: five-time world champion, an Olympic medalist, a Nike athlete and
- 3:21Speaker 2: sprinter who competes in the 100 and the 200 World
- 3:25Speaker 2: Please join me in welcoming to the stage, Melissa Jefferson Wooden. Hey, Mel. Hey, Kay.
- 3:35Speaker 2: How are we tonight? How are you doing, really? You recently,
- 3:39Speaker 2: this morning, landed in New York City. The vibes are high.
- 3:42Speaker 2: How are you doing? I'm feeling good.
- 3:44Speaker 1: I'm about over halfway through my off-season, so I'm definitely
- 3:49Speaker 1: cherishing all of the free days that I have left
- 3:51Speaker 1: before I have to go back to training, but I'm
- 3:53Speaker 1: feeling good.
- 3:54Speaker 2: Feeling good. Just to provide some context for those of
- 3:57Speaker 2: you that may not be as well versed in the
- 4:00Speaker 2: world of track and field as you are with road
- 4:03Speaker 2: running and women's marathoning. Melissa runs 100 meters, her personal
- 4:08Speaker 2: best time, 10.61 seconds. I can't even get up the
- 4:12Speaker 2: stairs from the ground level in 10.61 seconds. She runs
- 4:15Speaker 2: the 200 meter in 21.4 seconds. Seven seconds, making her
- 4:22Speaker 2: the third fastest of all time. Yeah, we're amongst greatness
- 4:27Speaker 2: right now.
- 4:27Speaker 1: Thank you. Thank you.
- 4:30Speaker 2: And so I think tonight what we should start with
- 4:32Speaker 2: here is, like I said, the energy in the room
- 4:35Speaker 2: is palpable right now. There is a lot of excitement
- 4:39Speaker 2: in New York City for what many of these women
- 4:42Speaker 2: are about to do on Sunday. You know a thing
- 4:45Speaker 2: or two about managing excitement. How do you set yourself
- 4:50Speaker 2: up for success, Melissa, when the nerves are high?
- 4:53Speaker 1: So the thing that I like to do the most
- 4:57Speaker 1: or what I deem of most importance is trying to
- 5:01Speaker 1: stay in the moment, not looking too much ahead, but
- 5:05Speaker 1: also not trying to overdo it in the process. So say,
- 5:09Speaker 1: for instance, the race is on Sunday, right? Today is Tuesday.
- 5:14Speaker 1: I'm going to be doing everything that I can, obviously,
- 5:16Speaker 1: to prepare for Sunday, but also just allowing myself to
- 5:20Speaker 1: enjoy where I am right now. Looking back at what
- 5:24Speaker 1: got you to where you are leading up to Sunday
- 5:27Speaker 1: is going to be a thing that carries you to
- 5:29Speaker 1: the start line and through the race and towards the
- 5:32Speaker 1: finish line. So I would say that's the biggest thing
- 5:34Speaker 1: is just trying to be.
- 5:34Speaker 2: In the moment. Trying to be in the moment. And again,
- 5:38Speaker 2: really hard to do when the stakes are so high. High. Inevitably,
- 5:43Speaker 2: would you say that sometimes that little nagging voice creeps
- 5:46Speaker 2: into your head? Oh, absolutely.
- 5:48Speaker 1: It's very easy, especially competing at the level that I do.
- 5:53Speaker 1: Those girls... they're fast. And so, you know, you have
- 5:57Speaker 1: to come to training. You have to wake up every
- 6:00Speaker 1: day with your mindset being at a certain level, whether
- 6:03Speaker 1: it's in, okay, we're going out there to compete today,
- 6:07Speaker 1: or even if it's just, okay, I'm going to see
- 6:10Speaker 1: how much I can improve on what I just did
- 6:12Speaker 1: yesterday in practice. And so making sure that your mindset
- 6:15Speaker 1: is where it needs to be all throughout that, I
- 6:18Speaker 1: feel like is the thing that makes the biggest difference,
- 6:21Speaker 1: but also to understanding and knowing what you bring to
- 6:23Speaker 1: the table. I don't take the line lightly or I
- 6:27Speaker 1: don't take it for granted because I know that all
- 6:29Speaker 1: of the other women that I'm competing against have worked
- 6:31Speaker 1: just as hard to get to where they are and
- 6:35Speaker 1: wanting to achieve the same things that I'm trying to achieve.
- 6:38Speaker 1: But also too, I've been learning how to have the
- 6:41Speaker 1: confidence in myself to know what I bring to the table,
- 6:44Speaker 1: what I know that I've been putting in on a
- 6:47Speaker 1: daily basis and knowing that once I do get to
- 6:49Speaker 1: the start line, that I have nothing, no room for doubt.
- 6:52Speaker 2: No room for doubt. What I'm hearing you say is
- 6:54Speaker 2: that you're putting in the reps, the mental reps ahead
- 6:58Speaker 2: of time, just like you're putting in the reps on
- 7:00Speaker 2: the track ahead of time. And when you say that
- 7:02Speaker 2: these things, these women know a thing or two about speed,
- 7:06Speaker 2: let's just be clear. So do you. You came out
- 7:08Speaker 2: of high school running a 12 flat. Again, I said
- 7:13Speaker 2: just now, Her personal best is 10-6-1. So she has
- 7:19Speaker 2: been for years working diligently to cut off 1.4 seconds
- 7:24Speaker 2: thus far. Only thus far. Uh, so give us some
- 7:28Speaker 2: context on that. I mean, you grew up and succeeded
- 7:31Speaker 2: at this sport pretty early on, but I believe I've
- 7:34Speaker 2: heard you say that you didn't really fully comprehend just
- 7:37Speaker 2: how good you could be at it until you got
- 7:39Speaker 2: to college.
- 7:40Speaker 1: Yes. So like you said, I came out of high
- 7:42Speaker 1: school running 12 flat. I went to, um, from a
- 7:46Speaker 1: really small community, um, Georgetown, South Carolina, um, My graduating
- 7:50Speaker 1: class from high school had 80 kids. So, you know,
- 7:54Speaker 1: very small town girl, used to being the underdog and,
- 7:58Speaker 1: you know, looking at all of the other schools and
- 8:01Speaker 1: what they bring to the table when it's time to
- 8:03Speaker 1: come to school. state meets or championships and things like that.
- 8:06Speaker 1: Nobody's ever really looking at the smaller school. But the
- 8:09Speaker 1: one thing that has never changed and has always been
- 8:12Speaker 1: instilled in me is that it doesn't matter where you
- 8:14Speaker 1: come from. If you put in the work and you
- 8:17Speaker 1: have people who surround you on a day-to-day basis and
- 8:22Speaker 1: they're pouring into you, they're encouraging you and saying like,
- 8:24Speaker 1: you can be who you say you want to be.
- 8:27Speaker 1: You can do more than you could ever imagine. And
- 8:29Speaker 1: being able to have those types of people around me,
- 8:33Speaker 1: not only my family, I call them my family, but
- 8:35Speaker 1: they're also what I call my village. I'm a village kid.
- 8:39Speaker 1: And they are the ones that drive me to get
- 8:42Speaker 1: to where I am. And so, like you said, I
- 8:44Speaker 1: didn't realize it until I got to college of, okay,
- 8:47Speaker 1: you know what? We can really start to see where
- 8:49Speaker 1: this thing can take us because Going to a smaller school,
- 8:53Speaker 1: I never really experienced what it was like to do
- 8:56Speaker 1: a full track and field season. So I would go
- 8:59Speaker 1: from sport to sport. One year I ran cross country.
- 9:01Speaker 1: Don't know why I did that. Shout out to you
- 9:03Speaker 1: guys who run marathons because that's not my thing. But
- 9:06Speaker 1: I will be there cheering you on. But I started
- 9:10Speaker 1: out running cross country. Then I would go from cross
- 9:11Speaker 1: country to basketball. And that career was short lived. It
- 9:15Speaker 1: was too good for the world to see. I had
- 9:17Speaker 1: to stop while I was ahead. But it was always,
- 9:22Speaker 1: you know, I was in any and everything, just trying
- 9:24Speaker 1: to stay active and trying to stay busy. So once
- 9:26Speaker 1: I got to college, I gained consistency. I gained having
- 9:32Speaker 1: a routine. And essentially, when you establish a routine and
- 9:35Speaker 1: you establish consistency, that's when you start to see the success.
- 9:38Speaker 1: That's when you start to see success. the difference and
- 9:41Speaker 1: the change before your eyes, literally. I think about it
- 9:45Speaker 1: all the time. Me and my husband, when we were
- 9:47Speaker 1: in college dating, we, after a meet, it would, I
- 9:50Speaker 1: would run really good and we would go and celebrate
- 9:53Speaker 1: at Waffle House. And I remember the days where we
- 9:55Speaker 1: would just be sitting there talking about like, oh my gosh,
- 9:58Speaker 1: like it would be so crazy, you know, if you
- 10:00Speaker 1: just went out there and ran 10-9. And just to
- 10:03Speaker 1: think about things like that now and see how far
- 10:05Speaker 1: I've came just over the years, but also just having
- 10:08Speaker 1: little moments like that with the people that you love,
- 10:11Speaker 1: joking about it, but also just speaking it too. And
- 10:14Speaker 1: also believing it, I feel like is the thing that
- 10:16Speaker 1: makes the difference.
- 10:17Speaker 2: Speaking it, believing it, putting it out into the world
- 10:20Speaker 2: and knowing that it can happen. Believing that it can
- 10:23Speaker 2: happen is a massive unlock. In that progress, in that
- 10:30Speaker 2: process of getting to a place where you began to
- 10:34Speaker 2: unlock your own potential, you also had to develop your
- 10:37Speaker 2: relationship with pressure because we know that with success comes
- 10:42Speaker 2: more eyes. Talk to me about how your relationship with
- 10:46Speaker 2: pressure has evolved over the years and how you manage
- 10:49Speaker 2: it today.
- 10:50Speaker 1: So me and pressure, we have a very interesting relationship.
- 10:56Speaker 1: And I say that because a lot of times, especially
- 11:00Speaker 1: over the past couple of years, well, really since 2022,
- 11:03Speaker 1: these last four years, I've been in a, I found
- 11:06Speaker 1: myself in a lot of high pressure races, but it
- 11:10Speaker 1: tends to be the races that I run my best in.
- 11:13Speaker 1: And not even from a standpoint of looking at the
- 11:15Speaker 1: results that I put in, but just the way that
- 11:17Speaker 1: I feel overall. And I think the idea of feeling
- 11:23Speaker 1: the pressure, but also being able to approach it, or
- 11:28Speaker 1: not necessarily approach it, but meet it, right? You meet
- 11:31Speaker 1: the pressure. You can get up every day and look
- 11:34Speaker 1: at yourself in the mirror and say, I know that
- 11:37Speaker 1: today might not be easy, but I'm going to still
- 11:39Speaker 1: give it everything I got, or I'm And a lot
- 11:43Speaker 1: of times, especially now being a professional athlete, it's waking
- 11:46Speaker 1: up every single morning, going to practice at 9 a.m.,
- 11:49Speaker 1: knowing that the workout is literally going to kill you
- 11:52Speaker 1: and you get in your car and you drive to
- 11:54Speaker 1: practice and you do the workout anyways, because, you know,
- 11:57Speaker 1: at the end of the day. if you can't meet
- 12:00Speaker 1: that pressure on that day of just getting through the workout,
- 12:04Speaker 1: then how can you expect to do what you want
- 12:06Speaker 1: to do when it comes time for the big meets?
- 12:10Speaker 1: So I think, like you said again, or I've said
- 12:12Speaker 1: it too, but it's really just training yourself to be
- 12:16Speaker 1: consistent and also just knowing like, okay, if this is
- 12:20Speaker 1: what I say I want to do, then I need
- 12:22Speaker 1: to be making sure that I'm doing everything that I
- 12:23Speaker 1: can to be able to do that.
- 12:25Speaker 2: What I think is also so impressive about you is
- 12:29Speaker 2: it's not just that you've chosen to put yourself in
- 12:31Speaker 2: these high pressure situations. You've chosen to put yourself in
- 12:35Speaker 2: tough environments so that you can excel in them better,
- 12:39Speaker 2: specifically when it comes to changing to your training group,
- 12:43Speaker 2: training with Star Athletics and working with Dennis. Talk to
- 12:46Speaker 2: me a little bit about that decision and how it's
- 12:48Speaker 2: helped you level up in the game.
- 12:51Speaker 1: Yes. So my first year professional, I decided to stay
- 12:54Speaker 1: with my collegiate coach. And it was my first year
- 12:58Speaker 1: being a professional, but it was also my coach's first
- 13:00Speaker 1: year coaching a professional athlete. And you look at what
- 13:05Speaker 1: I did in college. I won the NCAA 60 meter title,
- 13:08Speaker 1: came into the meet seated at number 12 and ended
- 13:11Speaker 1: up winning the whole thing. Shocked the whole world. Mr.
- 13:15Speaker 1: John from ESPN, he calls the Shauna Clears now butt
- 13:18Speaker 1: kicking chickens. But to be able to come off of
- 13:23Speaker 1: a year like that, go out to the NCAA outdoor championships,
- 13:27Speaker 1: but not succeed the way that you want to, and
- 13:30Speaker 1: then turn around two weeks later and become a U.S.
- 13:33Speaker 1: champion in the 100 and make your first U.S. team
- 13:35Speaker 1: that happens to be on U.S. soil. You're coming off
- 13:38Speaker 1: of a year of just, wow, okay, we might not
- 13:43Speaker 1: know necessarily what worked, but we also know that we
- 13:46Speaker 1: can build on this and that we're in a good spot.
- 13:47Speaker 1: So we go into that first year together. of saying,
- 13:50Speaker 1: you know, okay, let's do this. We're going to have
- 13:52Speaker 1: to do this differently. And that right there was a no-no.
- 13:58Speaker 1: There was a lot of things that changed throughout that
- 14:00Speaker 1: year that probably shouldn't have. But then also too, it
- 14:03Speaker 1: was just us learning together, trying to figure it out together.
- 14:07Speaker 1: And I remember going to a meet overseas or after
- 14:11Speaker 1: I didn't make the USA team For the world championships
- 14:15Speaker 1: in 2023, I went to a meet overseas and I
- 14:18Speaker 1: had a talk with my agent and he was talking
- 14:21Speaker 1: with my Nike rep and the conversation came up of like, okay,
- 14:25Speaker 1: should Melissa stay? Should she go? But then also there
- 14:28Speaker 1: was a lot of other moving factors within that. My
- 14:30Speaker 1: collegiate coach was taking a new position at a new school, which...
- 14:36Speaker 1: you add in another variable of different changes and things
- 14:39Speaker 1: like that. So a lot can happen. And now we're
- 14:42Speaker 1: going into the Olympic year. So, okay, what do I do?
- 14:47Speaker 1: And it was a conversation. It was hard conversations. It
- 14:51Speaker 1: was not easy. I actually cried because Coach G is
- 14:54Speaker 1: like family to me still to this day he is. And,
- 14:57Speaker 1: you know, I always give him credit for the relationship
- 15:00Speaker 1: that we still do have because at the end of
- 15:02Speaker 1: the day, we did what was best for one another.
- 15:05Speaker 1: And the decision that I made to leave, obviously it
- 15:09Speaker 1: wasn't one that was easy, but it was necessary. And
- 15:12Speaker 1: the one thing that I've learned, especially now being in
- 15:16Speaker 1: Claremont and training with Star Athletics is you don't get
- 15:20Speaker 1: anywhere in life by being comfortable. Most of the time
- 15:24Speaker 1: you grow, you achieve the things that you do by
- 15:27Speaker 1: being uncomfortable. No one grows from comfort. And that's what
- 15:31Speaker 1: I've been learning. I feel like with track and field
- 15:33Speaker 1: and also just with running in general, like what we do,
- 15:36Speaker 1: it isn't easy. And a lot of people we do,
- 15:40Speaker 1: and we love to do things that other sports see
- 15:42Speaker 1: as punishment, but we love it because it brings us joy.
- 15:45Speaker 1: It brings us peace. It gives us insight to, you know,
- 15:50Speaker 1: think differently and whatever the case may be. And so
- 15:53Speaker 1: understanding that and bringing that to the table every single
- 15:57Speaker 1: day of just saying like, you know, I know that,
- 16:01Speaker 1: Each time that I step to the line, you know,
- 16:03Speaker 1: it might not be easy or whatever the case may be,
- 16:06Speaker 1: but also I know that I need to do this
- 16:08Speaker 1: in order to get to where I want to go.
- 16:27Speaker 2: Something I think that's so important also about your story
- 16:30Speaker 2: and you mentioned 2023 is that you didn't win a
- 16:33Speaker 2: single race in 2023. And I bring that up not
- 16:36Speaker 2: to highlight necessarily the fact that you didn't win a
- 16:39Speaker 2: single race in 2023, but more so to highlight what
- 16:42Speaker 2: happened afterward and the mindset that was required to keep
- 16:46Speaker 2: showing up when things weren't going your way. To recap
- 16:49Speaker 2: again for those people that may not be well-versed in
- 16:52Speaker 2: track and field, In 2025 at the World Championships, Melissa
- 16:56Speaker 2: did something that has never really been done. She won
- 16:59Speaker 2: the 100, she won the 200, and she won the
- 17:03Speaker 2: 4x100 relay. Yeah. Absolutely phenomenal. And this is just two
- 17:11Speaker 2: years after not winning a single race. Talk to us
- 17:16Speaker 2: about that mindset. Talk to us about pulling yourself up
- 17:20Speaker 2: when things aren't going as you planned, whether that be
- 17:23Speaker 2: in the moment, like some of these women are going
- 17:25Speaker 2: to do on Sunday or just when life hands you lemons.
- 17:28Speaker 1: Yes. So once I made the decision to leave, it's
- 17:32Speaker 1: kind of like, okay, like we're going to see how
- 17:34Speaker 1: this goes. I started out the year training and got injured. Well,
- 17:39Speaker 1: I already had a lingering issue, but it just turned
- 17:42Speaker 1: into a full blown injury. I had a stress fracture
- 17:45Speaker 1: in my shin. Um, and it, basically set me back
- 17:50Speaker 1: like two and a half months. So I made this
- 17:53Speaker 1: big change. I left my collegiate coach. I went, I
- 17:56Speaker 1: chose to come to Star Athletics. It was a decision
- 17:59Speaker 1: that I felt was best for me at the time.
- 18:01Speaker 1: I knew the biggest thing that I needed going forward
- 18:04Speaker 1: was training partners. And so to be in a group
- 18:07Speaker 1: where you train with the likes of Tanya Chateri, Sha'Carri Richardson,
- 18:11Speaker 1: Kayla White, like you're going to get that feel of
- 18:14Speaker 1: that high intensity and that pressure day in and day out.
- 18:17Speaker 1: And so- you start out the year with injury and
- 18:20Speaker 1: you're like, well, man, did I make the right decision?
- 18:22Speaker 1: Like now I'm questioning everything because I thought that I
- 18:25Speaker 1: was on track to, you know, right. The things that we,
- 18:29Speaker 1: that we may not have done right in 2023. And
- 18:33Speaker 1: at that point I developed a saying of, you know,
- 18:36Speaker 1: one day, one practice, one meet at a time, because
- 18:38Speaker 1: after I got over my injury, it was the mental
- 18:41Speaker 1: part of it that I had to get back, you know,
- 18:43Speaker 1: telling myself every day that even though these girls have
- 18:46Speaker 1: been training and you know, they haven't really missed any
- 18:49Speaker 1: time and anything like that. You have to look at
- 18:52Speaker 1: where you are and look at your small gains every
- 18:55Speaker 1: day and take that as a win. I started, I
- 18:59Speaker 1: had to do that. And I feel like it was
- 19:01Speaker 1: the best thing that ever happened for me. And so
- 19:04Speaker 1: when I ended up making the Olympic team, we made
- 19:06Speaker 1: it together as three training partners. It was something that's
- 19:09Speaker 1: never been done. And we go to Paris and I
- 19:12Speaker 1: win a bronze medal individually. And I just remember crying
- 19:15Speaker 1: because it was like, you know, it paid off. And
- 19:19Speaker 1: in my eyes, my bronze medal is a gold medal
- 19:21Speaker 1: because of everything that went into that, every decision, every setback,
- 19:25Speaker 1: no matter what it was, it was a gold medal
- 19:27Speaker 1: in my eyes. And so also at the time I
- 19:30Speaker 1: was planning a wedding. So we were, my husband told
- 19:34Speaker 1: me once he proposed, he said, we're not going to
- 19:37Speaker 1: be at any venue or anything like that until after
- 19:39Speaker 1: you make this team and after you get a medal.
- 19:41Speaker 1: So you better figure it out. So I was like, okay, okay, okay.
- 19:45Speaker 2: And so- No pressure.
- 19:47Speaker 1: No pressure. All the pressure, actually. So we get to
- 19:52Speaker 1: the end of the 2024 season. I shut it down.
- 19:55Speaker 1: I'm doing things here and there. And we get into
- 19:59Speaker 1: the new season, 2025, and we get married. And so
- 20:03Speaker 1: after that, we go on a little getaway trip And
- 20:07Speaker 1: because we decided to wait until after the season was
- 20:09Speaker 1: over to have an actual honeymoon. And so on that trip,
- 20:13Speaker 1: Roland got this composition book and we named it. It's
- 20:18Speaker 1: called Wouldn't Have It Any Other Way after our last name.
- 20:24Speaker 1: And it was a book that he said that he
- 20:27Speaker 1: wanted us to be our guidelines of, you know, when
- 20:30Speaker 1: time gets hard, when we feel like things may not
- 20:35Speaker 1: look bright, but we want to be able to look
- 20:37Speaker 1: back on the days where it wasn't good or it
- 20:39Speaker 1: was good and be able to share this with our
- 20:42Speaker 1: future children. And so when I write in a book,
- 20:44Speaker 1: it's my way of not only talking to our future kids,
- 20:47Speaker 1: but also to God. And when he's writing in the book,
- 20:50Speaker 1: he's solely writing to our children. And so in that moment,
- 20:55Speaker 1: he asked me, he said, what do you want to
- 20:56Speaker 1: do with this year? And I said, well, I don't
- 20:58Speaker 1: know how to feel One, I don't know where I
- 21:00Speaker 1: truly stand, but also I was so content with how
- 21:04Speaker 1: 2024 went last year because I knew everything that had
- 21:08Speaker 1: happened going into that. And so the one thing that
- 21:12Speaker 1: stuck true to that was even though I was happy
- 21:14Speaker 1: and content, it is also okay to still be a competitor.
- 21:18Speaker 1: at the end of the day. And so at that moment,
- 21:21Speaker 1: I made the decision to say, okay, I wasn't just
- 21:24Speaker 1: going to be in the mix anymore. I wanted to win.
- 21:26Speaker 1: And once I had that kind of switch, 2025 just
- 21:30Speaker 1: took off into something that I could never imagine.
- 21:33Speaker 2: Never imagine. What a story, right? I need a journal
- 21:37Speaker 2: like this. There is something so valuable that you highlighted
- 21:42Speaker 2: about the importance of both being able to stay in
- 21:45Speaker 2: your own lane and and also the power of community.
- 21:50Speaker 2: We sit here tonight in community with one another. Again,
- 21:54Speaker 2: when so many of these women toe the line on Sunday,
- 21:59Speaker 2: they'll be in community with so many others. Talk to
- 22:04Speaker 2: me about how pivoting, working with this training group and
- 22:08Speaker 2: surrounding yourself with people that challenge and inspire you has
- 22:12Speaker 2: been for your betterment.
- 22:14Speaker 1: It's been the world. I've I don't think I have
- 22:17Speaker 1: the success that I do if I'm not in this
- 22:20Speaker 1: training group, in Star Athletics. And it challenged me in
- 22:25Speaker 1: ways that I never thought I could be challenged, not
- 22:27Speaker 1: only physically, like with the workouts and everything, because we
- 22:30Speaker 1: be out there dying, y'all. I'm not going to lie
- 22:32Speaker 1: to y'all. The workouts are not easy, but also mentally challenging.
- 22:36Speaker 1: You know, you come to practice every day and it's
- 22:39Speaker 1: not like we're all in different events. We all run
- 22:41Speaker 1: the same thing. And so luckily for the last couple
- 22:45Speaker 1: of years, you know, there's been at least three of
- 22:49Speaker 1: us competing for the same event. So, you know, you
- 22:52Speaker 1: have that camaraderie of us all trying to make the
- 22:55Speaker 1: team together. Whereas on the men's side within Star Athletics,
- 22:59Speaker 1: there's about, there was nine of them and there's only
- 23:03Speaker 1: three spots, right? So, you know, the the intensity or
- 23:08Speaker 1: the vibe of that is slightly different. We're still a
- 23:12Speaker 1: family at the end of the day, but you can
- 23:14Speaker 1: feel it on a regular day basis. And so being
- 23:17Speaker 1: in this group, training with these girls, it taught me
- 23:20Speaker 1: to always cherish where you are and never take for
- 23:26Speaker 1: granted what you have and the gift that you have,
- 23:28Speaker 1: but also being able to lean on one another to
- 23:32Speaker 1: get to where you need to be. Those girls, they
- 23:34Speaker 1: are my sisters. And like I said before, like if
- 23:39Speaker 1: I don't, I don't know if I have the success
- 23:40Speaker 1: that I do without them, because not only do we
- 23:43Speaker 1: get the testing physically and mentally, but we're also there
- 23:46Speaker 1: for one another. We're a family at the end of
- 23:48Speaker 1: the day. And we're there to have the hard conversations
- 23:51Speaker 1: with one another. If one of us is slacking, hey,
- 23:53Speaker 1: get it together. Or I can go to someone like
- 23:57Speaker 1: TT or Kayla and be like, hey, I don't know if, like,
- 24:02Speaker 1: I don't know, I just feel off. And they're pouring
- 24:04Speaker 1: into me like, you know, do you realize who you are? Like,
- 24:07Speaker 1: do you understand the things that you've already done? But
- 24:09Speaker 1: then also too, and them doing that to me, I'm
- 24:11Speaker 1: doing that to them too. So it's reciprocated and, you know,
- 24:14Speaker 1: it's just a really great thing to be a part of.
- 24:17Speaker 1: And it's just beautiful.
- 24:18Speaker 2: Yeah, it fills up your cup. Again, we're a sum
- 24:21Speaker 2: of the people that we spend our time with, right?
- 24:23Speaker 2: And you guys are spending a lot of time together
- 24:26Speaker 2: doing really hard things, really hard, exhausting things. I want
- 24:31Speaker 2: to talk about where your mind goes when things feel
- 24:35Speaker 2: like you are just out of gas. Now, again, I
- 24:39Speaker 2: recognize that a 10, 20 second race is very different
- 24:43Speaker 2: than a marathon. However... You still have to have a
- 24:47Speaker 2: certain amount of self-talk to handle the type of training
- 24:49Speaker 2: that you do. So talk to us a little bit
- 24:52Speaker 2: about how you navigate the windy road of physical exhaustion.
- 24:57Speaker 2: And what do you say to yourself when it feels
- 24:59Speaker 2: really hard?
- 25:00Speaker 1: So the one thing that I always say to myself
- 25:02Speaker 1: when it gets really hard is... Just especially now, I'm
- 25:07Speaker 1: about to go back into fall training. And so fall
- 25:09Speaker 1: training is about as close as I would get to
- 25:11Speaker 1: ever thinking that I could run a marathon one day
- 25:13Speaker 1: because we don't run... I run the 100 and 200,
- 25:16Speaker 1: but everything we do in fall training is above 200 meters.
- 25:18Speaker 2: So.
- 25:20Speaker 1: I'm telling myself every day, just get through fall training.
- 25:23Speaker 1: And then once we get through fall training and the
- 25:26Speaker 1: workouts kind of shift a little bit, but they're still hard,
- 25:28Speaker 1: I'm like, you just got to get to the week
- 25:30Speaker 1: of the first meet. And then once you do that,
- 25:33Speaker 1: it's kind of like a stepping stone. I look at
- 25:35Speaker 1: it in different stages and just give myself a goal
- 25:39Speaker 1: or something to look forward to that can get me
- 25:41Speaker 1: to that next point.
- 25:42Speaker 2: Tell them about the 5-2-5. Okay, so....
- 25:46Speaker 1: The 5-to-5 is a 500, two minutes rest, and then
- 25:50Speaker 1: another 500. Now, when we do this, all of our
- 25:53Speaker 1: fall training happens in the grass. So for a short sprinter,
- 25:56Speaker 1: someone like me who only runs 10 seconds, a 500 is,
- 26:01Speaker 1: that's a little long. It's a little long. But crazy enough,
- 26:07Speaker 1: when I first joined the group, I had never, I
- 26:11Speaker 1: don't think I ran a 500 in a workout before.
- 26:15Speaker 1: probably since my freshman year of high school. And the
- 26:17Speaker 1: first week I got to Florida, I ran three 500s
- 26:21Speaker 1: in one week and I came home and I looked
- 26:24Speaker 1: at Roland and I said, I don't know who I
- 26:26Speaker 1: thought I was or what I wanted to do, but this.
- 26:28Speaker 2: Is not for me.
- 26:30Speaker 1: This is not for me.
- 26:31Speaker 2: This is not for me. But again, you know that
- 26:34Speaker 2: you're the kind of person who does hard things and
- 26:37Speaker 2: you choose a tough path to get to where you
- 26:39Speaker 2: want to go. A tough path, again, that is one
- 26:43Speaker 2: that is not often... traveled. Speaking of this, it also
- 26:47Speaker 2: requires you to often put on a persona. We've seen
- 26:51Speaker 2: your serious face when you get on the track and
- 26:53Speaker 2: it is very real. With that said, have you ever
- 26:57Speaker 2: felt pressure to perform in a certain way to put
- 27:01Speaker 2: on that persona? Do you feel like it helps you?
- 27:03Speaker 2: It hinders you? Give us the lowdown on what that's like.
- 27:07Speaker 1: So I don't really think necessarily I have a I
- 27:13Speaker 1: genuinely just think it's me. Like, you get to see
- 27:18Speaker 1: the different parts of who Melissa is. And I say
- 27:22Speaker 1: that all the time because, like I said, I came
- 27:23Speaker 1: from a small town and, you know, there's not a
- 27:27Speaker 1: lot of people out there who they know of me,
- 27:29Speaker 1: but they don't know me, right? And so to be
- 27:32Speaker 1: able to showcase, you know, different sides of myself that
- 27:36Speaker 1: is all true and authentic to who I am and
- 27:39Speaker 1: what I feel like is important at the end of
- 27:41Speaker 1: the day, I feel like is You know, it's something to,
- 27:44Speaker 1: I like it. It's so crazy because this guy, his
- 27:49Speaker 1: name's Tristan. He does a lot of my content for me.
- 27:52Speaker 1: And he was at the Prefontaine meet this year. And
- 27:55Speaker 1: it was his first time traveling to a meet with us.
- 27:58Speaker 1: And he said he like, watched me in real time
- 28:02Speaker 1: kind of like transform from being like, oh, like laughing,
- 28:06Speaker 1: joking around and stuff. And it had just got really serious,
- 28:09Speaker 1: really fast, but it was pre-me and we got business
- 28:12Speaker 1: to handle. So, you know, I was like, okay. But
- 28:15Speaker 1: I think, I think also too, at the end of
- 28:18Speaker 1: the day, like being in, being in track and field,
- 28:23Speaker 1: but also being a sprinter, especially in today's world of sprinting,
- 28:26Speaker 1: you know, you have to have that level of Confidence
- 28:30Speaker 1: or kind of like zeroed in, locked in kind of
- 28:36Speaker 1: ordeal going on. But it's just to really showcase who
- 28:42Speaker 1: you are and what you're about to do.
- 28:44Speaker 2: The competition is real. Yes. And there's a lot of it.
- 28:46Speaker 2: There's a lot of really amazing women at the top
- 28:49Speaker 2: of their game right now. You talked about maybe what
- 28:52Speaker 2: people see when you step onto the track. Right now,
- 28:54Speaker 2: if someone goes to your Instagram page, they see... a
- 28:58Speaker 2: world champion five times over with 175,000 people plus following her.
- 29:04Speaker 2: But when you look in the mirror, Melissa, what is
- 29:06Speaker 2: it that you see looking back at you?
- 29:08Speaker 1: That's a good one. I just see a girl, well
- 29:15Speaker 1: now a woman, who has done nothing but always wanted
- 29:23Speaker 1: to be a good person. And someone who wants the
- 29:27Speaker 1: world to see her for who she truly is. And
- 29:30Speaker 1: then also, like you say, you know, there are people
- 29:34Speaker 1: at the end of the day, like there are always
- 29:35Speaker 1: going to be narratives of like, oh, who's your favorite?
- 29:38Speaker 1: Who's not your favorite? Or what do you think this
- 29:42Speaker 1: person can do versus that person? But when I look
- 29:46Speaker 1: at myself in the mirror, I want to be able
- 29:48Speaker 1: to be proud to look at who I am and
- 29:50Speaker 1: proud of the things that I'm doing. But not only
- 29:52Speaker 1: on the track, I don't take lightly family matters. Family
- 29:58Speaker 1: is a big one for me. Family and friends, spending
- 30:00Speaker 1: quality time with family and friends, making sure that whatever
- 30:03Speaker 1: I'm doing, it's intentional. And it's not just I'm just
- 30:08Speaker 1: going with the flow or doing stuff because it looks
- 30:11Speaker 1: good or whatever the case may be. I want it
- 30:13Speaker 1: to be because it speaks to who I am authentically.
- 30:33Speaker 2: Speaking of things that make you proud, you've had a
- 30:35Speaker 2: big week. Yes. Do you want to tell them about
- 30:38Speaker 2: something that makes you proud that you've done this week?
- 30:42Speaker 2: A little nonprofit action? A little charity action? Yes.
- 30:48Speaker 1: So... I recently launched my nonprofit, The Village Initiative Incorporated,
- 30:55Speaker 1: and our mission is to empower youth in communities everywhere
- 30:59Speaker 1: through connection and opportunity. Being a place where families can unite,
- 31:04Speaker 1: youth can dream boldly, and entire villages can thrive through events, mentorship,
- 31:09Speaker 1: and meaningful growth.
- 31:10Speaker 2: You've never said that before. That was perfect. Oh, thanks.
- 31:13Speaker 1: You know, I've really been practicing that at home. I'm like,
- 31:15Speaker 1: I got to get it together. But so this past,
- 31:21Speaker 1: these past two weeks, I did a two-part launch. And
- 31:24Speaker 1: so we did a festival in South Carolina back at,
- 31:26Speaker 1: back in my hometown at my high school where it
- 31:29Speaker 1: all began. And it was just my way of trying
- 31:32Speaker 1: to introduce us into the community and saying like, We're
- 31:35Speaker 1: bringing out different community vendors and retail vendors and things
- 31:39Speaker 1: like that for people within the community to see what
- 31:43Speaker 1: all is at their hands, what all resources are there
- 31:47Speaker 1: for you to have. A lot of times I feel
- 31:49Speaker 1: like people nowadays... You have families, you have communities, but
- 31:54Speaker 1: I don't feel like it's as strong as it used
- 31:56Speaker 1: to be. And so I want to do my part
- 31:58Speaker 1: in trying to bring that back. And because I say
- 32:01Speaker 1: all the time, I'm a village kid. I didn't get
- 32:03Speaker 1: to where I got to today because my parents thought
- 32:05Speaker 1: that they could do it all by themselves. And so
- 32:08Speaker 1: I think it's so important now, especially for our youth
- 32:11Speaker 1: today and really young women as well, just knowing like,
- 32:15Speaker 1: you know, you don't have to do it alone in
- 32:17Speaker 1: a world where you're told oftentimes that you can't. obviously
- 32:21Speaker 1: you can, you just need the people backing you and
- 32:24Speaker 1: in your corner to be able to push you and
- 32:27Speaker 1: say like, hey, you can do that. And actually what
- 32:29Speaker 1: people say you can do, it doesn't matter. And so
- 32:32Speaker 1: after we did the festival, we did a gala in Orlando, Florida,
- 32:36Speaker 1: which I now reside. And it was our main source
- 32:40Speaker 1: of fundraising for what we plan to do. And it
- 32:43Speaker 1: was a beautiful night. I could only, I it was
- 32:48Speaker 1: like one of those where you just had to be
- 32:49Speaker 1: there to see. But it was a beautiful night. We
- 32:53Speaker 1: met our goal, sold out crowd for the first year.
- 32:56Speaker 1: And it just made me really excited for what's to come.
- 33:00Speaker 1: We have some initiatives coming up where we're going to
- 33:04Speaker 1: be doing our part in the community where we're pouring
- 33:09Speaker 1: out resources for underserved and Title I schools, whether it
- 33:12Speaker 1: be in the athletic, academics, or fine arts and STEM department,
- 33:17Speaker 1: you know, being a resource there for the schools and
- 33:20Speaker 1: saying like, hey, you know, you're here teaching our kids, but,
- 33:24Speaker 1: you know, you don't have to do it alone as well.
- 33:26Speaker 1: And then also trying to take the burden of that
- 33:29Speaker 1: from the school system, but also the parents as well
- 33:32Speaker 1: and the families.
- 33:33Speaker 2: Really beautiful way to give back and congratulations on hitting
- 33:36Speaker 2: your goal. That's so, so exciting. Now, As you said,
- 33:40Speaker 2: this is a lot to be excited about beyond the nonprofit.
- 33:43Speaker 2: What else are you looking forward to right now?
- 33:46Speaker 1: Right now? Um, I'm looking forward to just seeing, seeing
- 33:52Speaker 1: what happens next. Um, I say I'm trying to do
- 33:55Speaker 1: a better job of, you know, being more active and
- 33:58Speaker 1: stuff on social media and, but also to like wanting
- 34:02Speaker 1: to showcase to the world who I, who I am.
- 34:04Speaker 1: You know, I like to game. I like spending time
- 34:07Speaker 1: with friends and family. I like reading. We just got
- 34:11Speaker 1: a lot of renovations done in the house, so I'm
- 34:13Speaker 1: enjoying the new house. I'm trying to get everything done
- 34:16Speaker 1: and situated before we start back training because once that happens,
- 34:20Speaker 1: it's like, okay, whatever is done in here is done.
- 34:23Speaker 1: But just really looking forward to what's next.
- 34:25Speaker 2: Do you have a book recommendation for the newly formed,
- 34:28Speaker 2: as of this moment, Nike running New York book club?
- 34:31Speaker 1: Okay, so... Um, off rip, I would say Verity by
- 34:37Speaker 1: Colleen Hoover.
- 34:38Speaker 2: I'm seeing a lot of head nodding. Yes.
- 34:41Speaker 1: She's a good one. And I would also say Liz Tomford.
- 34:46Speaker 1: She has a series called the Windy City Series. It's
- 34:49Speaker 1: five books. And then you have a sixth book that's
- 34:52Speaker 1: kind of like not really a part of the series,
- 34:54Speaker 1: but all of the characters are like, um, within. And
- 34:57Speaker 1: then also to, um, Anything, I'm all things Kennedy Ryan.
- 35:02Speaker 1: I love her. She, the Skyland series, the Soul series,
- 35:10Speaker 1: the Renaissance series, all of them. I love all of them.
- 35:12Speaker 1: But Liz Tomford, Colleen Hoover, and Kennedy Ryan, those are
- 35:16Speaker 1: my girls.
- 35:16Speaker 2: I see the notes apps out open. So we're all
- 35:19Speaker 2: good here. Okay.
- 35:19Speaker 1: Yes.
- 35:20Speaker 2: Before I let you go, two things. Firstly, you have
- 35:23Speaker 2: an opportunity to offer yourself a piece of advice. Looking
- 35:26Speaker 2: back on that really difficult 2023, not knowing that you
- 35:29Speaker 2: had a historical 2024, 2025 on deck, knowing what you
- 35:34Speaker 2: know now, what advice would you offer to your younger self?
- 35:38Speaker 1: I would say to.
- 35:41Speaker 1: Keep dreaming like your dreams aren't too big. And even
- 35:45Speaker 1: though sometimes they may seem big, they might they may
- 35:48Speaker 1: seem like it's a lot. As long as you stay
- 35:51Speaker 1: true to who you are and you know that your
- 35:54Speaker 1: intentions are good, you're going to continue to shock yourself.
- 35:57Speaker 1: You're going to continue to be in spaces where you
- 36:00Speaker 1: didn't think you belong or didn't deserve to be. And
- 36:04Speaker 1: now look at where you are. So just just keep
- 36:06Speaker 1: being Melissa.
- 36:07Speaker 2: Keep being Melissa. Keep being Melissa. All right. Before, finally,
- 36:11Speaker 2: I really let you go. We have a little rapid fire.
- 36:15Speaker 2: Nothing like a rapid fire at a live event. Okay.
- 36:18Speaker 2: I think we know the first one. Sprint versus distance, Melissa. Sprint.
- 36:23Speaker 1: That is the fastest I've ever answered a rapid fire question,
- 36:26Speaker 1: by the way.
- 36:26Speaker 2: What is something about marathon runners that actually blows your mind?
- 36:31Speaker 1: The fact that y'all can run for that long. Like,
- 36:34Speaker 1: that is insane. me trying to process someone running a marathon,
- 36:39Speaker 1: like 26.2, 26. Thank you. Thank you. I didn't look
- 36:44Speaker 1: that one up. I think I knew that one for real,
- 36:47Speaker 1: but no, like running 26.2 miles and not stopping. I
- 36:53Speaker 1: don't think people understand how incredible that is. It's, it's
- 36:59Speaker 1: very inspiring and essentially like it goes to life, right? Like,
- 37:04Speaker 1: Just keep going. Don't stop.
- 37:06Speaker 2: Don't stop. Melissa's ready for Celebrity Jeopardy at any given moment.
- 37:11Speaker 2: Have you ever run in Central Park?
- 37:13Speaker 1: No, I've never ran in Central Park.
- 37:14Speaker 2: Melissa's now accepting candidates to go for a run in
- 37:16Speaker 2: Central Park with. When I think of New York, my
- 37:19Speaker 2: first thought is pizza. All right. If you had to
- 37:23Speaker 2: answer that question again, what would your second thought be? Cheesecake. Oh, weird.
- 37:29Speaker 2: She's like regretting that answer. And last but not least
- 37:32Speaker 2: on our rapid fire here today, subway, taxi, or Uber? Uber. Uber.
- 37:38Speaker 2: When you're not local, it makes sense.
- 37:40Speaker 1: I'm going to give that to her. Yeah, I'm sorry.
- 37:41Speaker 1: I came here a couple years ago and I was
- 37:44Speaker 1: on the subway and let's just say I was like,
- 37:47Speaker 1: Can't do it.
- 37:48Speaker 2: I can't. We have all been there. Melissa, last departing
- 37:54Speaker 2: words for those that are toeing that starting line coming Sunday.
- 37:57Speaker 2: What do you have to say to them?
- 37:59Speaker 1: Go to the line on Sunday wanting to be the
- 38:03Speaker 1: best version of yourself that you can be. And if
- 38:07Speaker 1: you go to the line trying to be or being
- 38:09Speaker 1: the best version of yourself that you can be, I
- 38:11Speaker 1: guarantee you, you will shock yourself. I do it every time.
- 38:15Speaker 2: Yes. Well, that was amazing. I'm inspired for the next
- 38:20Speaker 2: week and then the next year and then the years
- 38:22Speaker 2: to come after that leading up to LA 28. Melissa,
- 38:25Speaker 2: thank you so much for sitting down with me today.
- 38:27Speaker 2: As I say on the show, another hurdle conquered. Catch
- 38:31Speaker 2: you guys next time.
- 38:32Speaker 1: Thank you.