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- Lucas: So, Luna, I want to start with a story that's been stuck in my head since I read it a few weeks ago. There's this software engineer, Priya, who decided to cut her working hours by twenty percent. Not because she was asked to, but because she was on the verge of burnout. Luna: That's gutsy. How did she manage that without getting fired? Lucas: She didn't announce it. She just stopped checking emails after six, blocked out two afternoons a week for what she called 'thinking walks,' and started being brutally honest about which meetings she actually needed to attend. And here's the kicker: after three months, her productivity metrics went up. Her code reviews were faster, her bug counts dropped, and her manager actually praised her for her 'increased output.' Luna: Wait, she did less and got more done? That feels like it violates the laws of office physics. Lucas: It sounds that way, but there's a real phenomenon behind it. It's sometimes called the 'slow down to speed up' paradox. The idea is that our default workday is so fragmented with interruptions, context switching, and low-value tasks that we never hit the deep focus state where actual quality work happens. When Priya cut the noise, the signal got stronger. Luna: So she wasn't really doing less work, she was doing less junk. That makes sense. But is there evidence beyond one engineer's anecdote? I mean, I've seen those studies on the four-day workweek. Lucas: Exactly. The four-day workweek trials are the most visible proof. In the UK trial that ran in 2022, sixty-one companies participated, and I think something like ninety percent of them reported they'd continue with the reduced schedule after the pilot. Productivity either stayed the same or improved for most of them. Luna: Right, but that's a structural change, not an individual one. What about someone who can't just decide to work four days a week? Priya, for example, she did it unilaterally. How does that scale for the average listener? Lucas: That's the question, and I think the answer lies in a principle that predates tech altogether. Parkinson's Law. Work expands to fill the time available for its completion. If you give yourself eight hours to do four hours of meaningful work, you'll find eight hours of things to do, most of it not meaningful. Luna: So the fix is to shrink the time box? Like, force yourself to do a task in half the time? That sounds like a recipe for rushed, sloppy work. Lucas: No, and that's where the nuance comes in. It's not about speed, it's about scarcity. When you have fewer working hours, you're forced to prioritize ruthlessly. You stop doing things that don't matter. The real insight from Priya's story isn't that she worked less; it's that she got clearer about what her job actually was. Luna: Okay, so let's get concrete. What does that look like in practice? I'm imagining someone with a calendar full of back to back meetings and a to-do list that never gets shorter. How do they start applying this? Lucas: There's a really practical framework I've come across called the '70 percent rule.' The idea is that you aim to have your calendar filled only seventy percent of the time, leaving thirty percent of buffer and space for deep work. That sounds like a luxury, but it's actually an investment. You're buying time to think, which most knowledge workers never get. Luna: I love that. But I can almost hear some manager in my head saying, 'We're already understaffed, we don't have time for thinking.' How would you respond to that? Lucas: I'd say that's exactly the thinking that leads to burnout and turnover, which costs more in the long run. There's a reason why companies like Basecamp, the project management software company, famously capped their workweek and still built a hugely successful product. They've said that their constraint is what forces them to be creative and efficient. Luna: Basecamp, that's a good example. They're a durable player. But they're also a company with a very specific culture. For the rest of us in more traditional settings, what's a smaller step than declaring 'I'm only working four days a week'? Lucas: Start with an energy audit, but not the kind we've talked about before. This one is about mapping your peak focus hours. Most people have about two to three hours a day where they're truly sharp. If you identify those and protect them from meetings, you can get more done in those hours than in the other six alongside them. Luna: So you're saying block off your calendar every morning from, say, nine to eleven, and just say 'this is my deep work time'? What if someone important wants to schedule something then? Lucas: You learn to say no, or at least 'not then.' It's about setting an expectation. If you consistently protect that time, people start to respect it. I've seen it work in all sorts of organizations, from law firms to marketing agencies. The key is to be transparent about it. Say, 'I'm most productive in the morning on complex tasks, so I'm keeping that time for focused work. I'm available after lunch.' Luna: That requires a certain level of confidence, though. I think a lot of people worry that if they're not constantly available, they'll be seen as lazy or not a team player. Lucas: And that's the cultural shift we're all navigating. But here's the thing: the evidence is mounting that the always-on model is not only bad for our mental health, it's bad for business. Look at the research on multitasking. Gloria Mark, a professor at UC Irvine, found that it takes an average of twenty-three minutes to refocus after an interruption. If you're being interrupted every few minutes, you're never actually working. Luna: Twenty-three minutes, that's wild. So the cost of being responsive is that you're basically in a state of constant partial attention, which feels busy but produces very little. Lucas: Exactly. And that's where the 'slow down' really means 'reduce the switching.' It's not about working slowly; it's about working in longer, uninterrupted blocks. Cal Newport calls it deep work, and he's been writing about this for over a decade. The people who can do that are the ones who produce the most valuable output. Luna: So, give me an example of someone who's actually done this in a non-tech, kind of traditional corporate job. I'm thinking of a lawyer or an accountant. Lucas: Sure. I read about a lawyer in New York who started blocking out three-hour chunks in the afternoon to work on the most complex part of a case — the legal research. He told his team he was unavailable during those hours unless there was an actual emergency. His billable hours went up, because he was producing higher-quality work, and the partners noted that he seemed less stressed. Luna: Interesting. So he wasn't actually working fewer hours in that case, just restructuring them. But the effect is the same. You feel less overloaded, and you perform better. Lucas: Right, and that's the core message of this episode. It's not about slacking off; it's about being intentional with your energy. Which brings me to another piece of this: the power of strategic undercommitment. Instead of saying yes to every request, you consciously say no to things that aren't aligned with your top priorities. Luna: That sounds like the two-list rule we talked about a while ago, where you have a to-do list and a not to do list. But how do you actually decide what goes on the not to do list? That's the hard part. Lucas: It comes down to asking a simple question: if I didn't do this, what would happen? If the answer is 'nothing, or not much,' then it's a prime candidate for deletion. Priya, the engineer, told me she used to spend two hours a week reformatting reports that nobody ever read. Once she stopped, the only feedback was from someone who asked where the reports went, and she showed them the data, and they said 'oh, I never even opened those.' Luna: That's so satisfying. And it's a real, concrete example of reclaiming time. But I also wonder about the flip side. Could someone take this 'slow down' idea too far and actually underdeliver? What's the line between strategic undercommitment and just being lazy? Lucas: That's a fair challenge. The difference is in the intent and the outcome. Strategic undercommitment is about choosing what to do with your limited energy, not avoiding work. It's a deliberate trade-off. Laziness is a lack of intent. When you undercommit strategically, you're saying 'I'm not doing this because it doesn't matter,' and you're willing to stand behind that. And if you're wrong, you have a conversation about it. Luna: So it's about being accountable for your choices. That makes sense. It's not just about cutting things; it's about being clear about your priorities and communicating them. Lucas: Exactly. And that clarity often comes from a simple exercise: write down your top three responsibilities in your job. Not the things you think you should list, but the things that actually move the needle for your team or your clients. Once you have those three, you can start asking yourself every time you're asked to do something new: does this help me do those three things better, or is it a distraction? Luna: I like that. It's a filter. And I guess that's what Priya did, even if she didn't use those words. She realized that her job was to write code that solves problems, not to be in every meeting or answer every email instantly. Lucas: Right. And here's a fun little experiment you can try this week. Pick one day where you'll work from nine to five, but treat it as if you had to leave at three. What would you focus on? You'd probably drop half your meetings and get your real work done in the morning. That's the 70 percent rule in action. Luna: That's a great exercise. I might actually do that. And I think the listeners can see that it's not about being dramatic; it's about making small changes that compound. Lucas: And that's the thing, this isn't about a one-time overhaul. It's about continuously reevaluating how you spend your time. Which reminds me, if this conversation is sparking ideas for you, that's exactly what we hope for. And if you're getting value from these episodes, a small contribution makes a real difference. A couple of dollars a month is genuinely what keeps these going. You can find us at buy me a coffee dot com slash fexingo. Luna: Yeah, it really does help us keep making these ad-free, and it's a way to say thanks if you've gotten something out of them. No pressure, just an option. Lucas: So, back to the slowdown. Let's talk about the long-term career impact. A lot of people worry that if they slow down, they'll be passed over for promotions. But I'd argue the opposite. When you're doing your best work, you're more visible for the right reasons. You're not just busy; you're impactful. Luna: That's a good point. I've seen people who are constantly frazzled, and they're not the ones who get promoted. The ones who seem calm and deliver great results are the ones who move up. It's that perceived confidence and control. Lucas: Exactly. And there's a growing body of research on 'time affluence' — the feeling of having enough time. It's a better predictor of well-being than income, actually. So by slowing down, you're not just improving your performance, you're improving your life. Luna: That's a powerful way to think about it. I think for many of us, the challenge is that our identity is wrapped up in being busy. We wear it as a badge of honor. Lucas: And that's the cultural narrative we need to question. The next time someone asks 'how are you?' and you say 'busy,' try saying 'I've been prioritizing' instead. See how that feels. Luna: I might try that this week. So, let's wrap up with a final takeaway. If someone wants to start this today, what's the single most important step? Lucas: I'd say it's to take one afternoon this week, maybe a couple of hours, and do a 'time audit.' Look at your calendar for the last month. Identify the top three things that actually moved the needle, and the bottom three that were pure filler. Then, next week, try to block out two hours a day for the top three, and see what happens to your energy and your output. Luna: That's a concrete, actionable starting point. And it's a small step that can lead to a big shift in how you experience work. Lucas: Exactly. So, give it a try, and let us know how it goes. We'd love to hear your stories. And until next time, remember that doing less can sometimes mean achieving more.