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Don't make love to be seen as silliness 22924 · Talk to Prince Show - Solving World's Problems

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  I always advise married man and to be careful what is out there. And
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  most of the times and a married man has everything ready made for him by
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  him and through the help of others. And sometimes when people are married and
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  in relationships and a spouse other couples, sometimes they stay for so long that
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  and to some start thinking. They start to think that maybe I need to
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  spice things are power. You know, they got this group of friends that
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  will tell them you have been married for so long, you know, why
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  not come on, yes, okay, just go take a different girl and
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  try the world and have some spies try something new. That's a temptation right
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  there. And I always tell people when I talk to them that if you
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  get a beautiful apple home, yeah, apple is just an analogy for your
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  wife or your spouse and your partner or your girlfriend. If you have an
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  apple home, a beautiful apple, why should you be called stealing an apple
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  somewhere else? You can let eat one apple at a time. You'll be
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  silly and stupid for you to be eat into apples at the time. And
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  the question becomes, why go try a new apple, a wild apple?
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  You don't know the viruses or the risk. Who has the apple before always
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  involved with the apple, or who is setting you up with that apple,
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  and what that apple is, what that apple is hiding from you? You
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  know, temptations are easier for men who were married because some women see those
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  men as safe bets do that if you can stay for so long with a
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  woman and peaceful, so I can dad you peacefully and try to keep a
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  secret for you. Let that secret when they become a news, a news
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  on your leg and a thread and a handsome that is used against you as
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  a matter of time, and you know I was er it's it's it takes
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  time to laugh, and it takes them to be truly laugh, and it
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  takes time to see the woman as a love of your life. For some
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  is at full sight of first sight and for some may text time. And
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  when you're married and have children, have a home. If you marry the
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  beauty of your life, what else do you want in life? Assuming a
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  beauty is subjective. A married man found the beauty of his life, that's
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  a fact, as they will not be married. You know, you just
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  be careful that marriages are not perfect and relationships are not perfect, and you
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  know, people lie allot to themselves or they pretend to one another, they
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  give fairy tales to get married or to date and to get to come together
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  and start to live together, and people start to understand one another much better,
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  you know, and you should always remember not to mess things up for
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  you if you get it going, you know, don't look so us or
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  you're already married. If you want to go away your friends, just be
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  mindful of the friends who might wish to take away from you the only source
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  of happiness, your source of comfort, or your family, and especially the
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  way have children. You need to be very mindful about the lives of those
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  kids, not to jeopardize that for being drunk, being tempted and find yourself
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  in bed with your own person or or with an entrappedment, your trap from
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  friends. And if you be worried about your alcoholic consumption or whatever dropping drugs,
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  you take away was remindful of MPB MPB measurement proportionality and balance. And
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  it's good sometimes to hang out with your friends. You know, the societies
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  of my networking and work out. But a married man is expected by society
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  to behave differently, to act differly, and to carry themselves differently. And
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  if you're married and a handsome person, a person with some change in the
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  packet, with some charisma, and you know you will be attracted to so
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  many other women oh, or partners depending on your sexual orientation. And the
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  challenge becomes how to stick with one person despite sometimes the marital quarrels or conflict
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  or you know, misunderstanding or disagreements. And it's just defined it to be
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  happy with the person that you are with and always think of the beginning,
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  Oh, how much time it took you to build that person, and how
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  it felt like when that person accepted you, and how it feels for that
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  person surrendering the aid being on preparing the world and preferring to be with you
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  and spend their lives on time with you. And for respect for that person,
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  and for respect for the family, and for respect for the friends,
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  and especially respect for the children or the kid or even the pets, and
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  respect for yourself. There are certain things you can do, you know,
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  talk about abstinence, talk about restrain, and just empty, be right and
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  just be careful not to do one stupid things that messes up everything. A
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  woman can love you foolishly, as you may think, but don't take that
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  for granted. Don't take her sentiments, emotions and feelings for you and the
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  care she gives to you for granted. And equally remember that you're don't getting
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  any younger. Before you met your wife, the way you look before you
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  met your wife, it's not the same you look now. Things have changed,
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  expectations have changed, The Internet has changed, technology has changed. Yes,
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  Dill, it was Google, so let's charge GPT and sorrow. The
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  point in that was about Microsoft. But now you got opened their eye.
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  You got in VideA, you got WAWE, and you got Testler, and
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  you got Amazon, you know, and it's just an example that the market
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  escape. You know, you got a harmony. If I say, right,
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  he got digital did in sides and people come by presents from Amazona,
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  buy a car from Tesla, people come buy software, and so relationships today
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  is different, right, and the expectations are different. You know, maybe
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  you got it shaped. If you break up today, we were expensive for
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  you. And the way people think today is different the way people thought yesterday.
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  There are from today. People just thought last week. It's different from
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  this week. And the way people are thinking now in a way they will
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  think tomorrow and the point is that don't take relationship or granted because a relationships
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  sometimes with the women come with sympathy considerations, and some women are thinking sometimes
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  that if I let this guy, what would he do with his life?
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  So don't take that love for you and kindness and compassion and emotions and sentiments
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  and feelings for granted, and don't cheat. And sometimes the conditions, the
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  circumstance and situations are always different. And I always prayer when that time comfort
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  me. I should be guided by MPP and by wisdom and by reason and
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  feelings and selflessness not to mess things up. And if you guide yourself against
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  temptations and drugs or alcohol or excitement or exuberance, and you should be able
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  to say now, because sometimes good people don't cheap because they want to cheat.
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  It's because they get people expose themselves to them and box them in a
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  corner that you know, either do it or not, you're gonna get burnt.
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  If you don't do it, you were accues for doing it or attempted
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  to do it. And if you do it and know, super on your
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  neck or a ransom. So don't put yourself in those situations. And men
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  sometimes when they have trouble at home, and they go to see some friends,
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  and the friends take them out to drink a bottle of beer, and
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  one bottle becomes two bottles and three bottles. You're a careful the better up
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  of drugs you take, and you know, the mind gets impaired, they
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  judgement get impaired. So now you find yourself in a very difficult or challenging
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  situation, conditions of circumstance that you expose yourself to, this vulnerability, that
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  you end up with a wrong person, end up doing the wrong thing,
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  that the next day you get to regret, and sometimes you regret or innocence
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  will not be enough to be accepted by your wife or by a spousible partner.
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  And then things can't get really really nasty, and things can't get really
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  bad just by a blip or the flip of a finger or corn. And
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  you know, when things happen, it's difficult to walk it back, difficult
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  to go back. You know, you can go back in time in a
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  movie to correct time in time capsule, but when you mess things up,
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  it's still going back. You learn on the charity of others to beg for
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  forgiveness you depends on the simplethy of others now to let go and to move
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  on. But if you findself in a situation that it's unforgivable and unforgettable,
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  it cannot be very messed up for her. And if you come a situation
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  where the woman was just was already on the edge and just trying to put
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  things together, and you push that to that, you know just a little
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  bit, she would not take it any more. I got to see the
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  colors of somebody who once loft ill. And you take her for granted,
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  or you take advantage of her, you may not get it back. Someone
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  forgive based on their religion or their faith, based on the sense of self,
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  that sense of sufficiency, the sense of adequacy, that sense of security.
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  Then I forgive you, or some of my forgive based on their traditional
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  religions and culture. Some I forgive based on the children, or based now,
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  something that you guys got together, But don't put your partner in a
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  very tight spot to do something so blatantly obvious and so shamefully explosive that she
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  is forced to divorce you, not because she really likes it, but because
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  what would the world say, or her friends said, or her parents say,
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  or would think of herself if she doesn't do that, And she's gonna
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  do this now, regrettably painfully, and it's gonna cost her own life,
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  instability of her life. It's gonna beat down her dignity and a sense of
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  self and security. I'm gonna create a gaping hole in her unnecessarily just because
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  of your ego, your selfishness, or your stupidity. Good people paid the
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  price with their stupidity or foolishness, and I hate to see good people suffer.
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  I have to see good people suffer. If you have your marriage,
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  do everything to keep it together. We can break up, we can divorce,
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  But how many breakups do you want to have? How many divorces do
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  you have? I get married in the first place. I'm quick to divorce
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  or separate. I get married and do the things that forces the other spouse
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  to divorce because sometimes people sometimes people don't divorce because they want to. Sometimes
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  people divorce because they are foster. Don't say it again. Sometimes people don't
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  divorce because they want to. People divorce because they are faster. I beg
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  upon you, to the best of your ability, to do everything your problem
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  and put things together and be the one you love. I don't say this
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  that I am the judge. I don't say this that I'm a perfect human.
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  I don't say it because I have it all or I know it all.
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  I said, Oh, I said this because all of us are vulnerable,
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  and all of us. Our judgments are flowed all of us, and
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  nobody is perfect over those imperfections. We pray not to put ourselves in difficult
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  situations or into temptations that make us to mess it up for ourselves. And
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  if we do mess it up, we should forgive for ourselves, asks for
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  forgiveness, rebeal ourselves, rehabilitate ourselves, and restored our which we are broken.
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  Either we choose to move on or beg on the person to take us
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  again, and if they do, we shall vow never to repeat such mistakes
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  again. Such as life. Such as life, it'll know what you really
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  have and how well you have it at your stupidity or foolishness message it up.
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  We should be timeful those who are wait. We should be grateful for
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  the life we have and blissful for the blessings we have. Don't mess it
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  up. Respect us, you love, don't take advantage of love, and
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  let goodness be seen us weakness or love. Be seen us silliness Hm