Latest / Lately with Lexi / 15. Ishvara Pranidhana: Surrounding to the Divine
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- 0:00SPEAKER_00: Hello and welcome back to Through the Veil.
- 0:02If you are listening to this on December 22nd or anytime in
- 0:07this final week of
- 0:09SPEAKER_00: December,
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- 0:13SPEAKER_00: I am recording this on Sunday, December 21st in the afternoon.
- 0:18So we just wrapped up a winter solstice workshop in Lakewood
- 0:24Ranch,
- 0:25Florida.
- 0:26SPEAKER_00: And I'm just, I'm feeling I'm in the good vibes.
- 0:30SPEAKER_00: And I hope you can feel that through today's podcast.
- 0:35SPEAKER_00: And a quick note,
- 0:37I'll just share if you're curious about the solstice or these
- 0:44different points in
- 0:45SPEAKER_00: the year that are really common to gather in community and in circle,
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- 1:00SPEAKER_00: There's some really beautiful opportunities to gather in circle.
- 1:05SPEAKER_00: and the solstices,
- 1:06SPEAKER_00: the equinoxes,
- 1:07these are such pivotal moments for spiritual seekers and
- 1:10meditators to go internal
- 1:13SPEAKER_00: and to spend more time in contemplation and reflection.
- 1:17SPEAKER_00: It's one of my all-time favorite things ever,
- 1:21and I'll kick it off with a couple updates and things that are
- 1:25coming down the
- 1:26SPEAKER_00: track on my end.
- 1:27SPEAKER_00: So
- 1:28SPEAKER_00: I will be leading a gentle yoga class on Saturday at 11 AM.
- 1:34SPEAKER_00: And this will be again in Southwest Florida,
- 1:37SPEAKER_00: if you're a local and would love to have you,
- 1:40SPEAKER_00: it's going to be sort of a special,
- 1:41SPEAKER_00: uh,
- 1:42SPEAKER_00: Valentine's day,
- 1:43SPEAKER_00: gentle yoga class.
- 1:45SPEAKER_00: So I would love to have you there.
- 1:46SPEAKER_00: We may even do some partner yoga.
- 1:48SPEAKER_00: So bring a friend and then, uh, for, uh, actually I'm going to go
- 1:53SPEAKER_00: backwards.
- 1:54SPEAKER_00: So for New Year's Day,
- 1:55I will also be leading a special kundalini class and workshop
- 2:01in the afternoon on
- 2:02SPEAKER_00: New Year's Day.
- 2:03SPEAKER_00: So stay tuned,
- 2:05SPEAKER_00: reach out to me if you want the links to any of my upcoming workshops,
- 2:09SPEAKER_00: retreats,
- 2:10SPEAKER_00: would love to get together in person.
- 2:13That's really where I think we can grow the most spiritually is
- 2:17together and in community.
- 2:19SPEAKER_00: So
- 2:20SPEAKER_00: So all of that being said, let's get into today's episode.
- 2:25SPEAKER_00: I cannot believe it.
- 2:26SPEAKER_00: We are exploring the fifth and final Niyama of the Yoga Sutras.
- 2:33SPEAKER_00: These are a part of the eight limbs of yoga.
- 2:37So this is getting into some of the ethics and practices of
- 2:41yoga outside of our yoga mat.
- 2:44SPEAKER_00: So
- 2:45We're going to be exploring this final niyama,
- 2:48if you can believe it or not.
- 2:50And this niyama is the practice of surrendering to the divine
- 2:55and the peace that
- 2:56SPEAKER_00: comes from releasing our grip on control.
- 3:01SPEAKER_00: So this niyama is called the Ishavara Pradihana niyama.
- 3:09SPEAKER_00: And it invites us to let go and trust something greater than ourselves.
- 3:16And I think there's something really beautiful about that
- 3:18because so often when
- 3:19we're in our ego mind and we're feeling anxious and
- 3:24anticipating the future or
- 3:26SPEAKER_00: we're reminiscing on the past,
- 3:29SPEAKER_00: when our mind wanders into either one of those directions,
- 3:33SPEAKER_00: we're not present.
- 3:34SPEAKER_00: And if we're not present, we likely aren't trusting ourselves
- 3:39SPEAKER_00: path and we're likely holding on or reaching.
- 3:43And so this practice of surrender really helps us to find our
- 3:50own personal God
- 3:52SPEAKER_00: spark and that inner compass that we all have,
- 3:56that divine wisdom that can guide us so that we can lead our
- 3:59lives with more peace,
- 4:00SPEAKER_00: with more joy,
- 4:01SPEAKER_00: with more love,
- 4:03SPEAKER_00: and to feel more compassion both for ourselves and the people around us.
- 4:08SPEAKER_00: So this, um, term ishavara pradihana, it comes from two Sanskrit words.
- 4:16SPEAKER_00: So the first ishavara meaning the supreme being,
- 4:20SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 4:21SPEAKER_00: God or universal consciousness,
- 4:23SPEAKER_00: or,
- 4:23SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 4:23whatever represents a higher power to you and pradihana meaning
- 4:28to dedicate,
- 4:29SPEAKER_00: to dedicate,
- 4:30SPEAKER_00: to surrender,
- 4:31SPEAKER_00: to fix one's focus.
- 4:33SPEAKER_00: Um,
- 4:34So this translates as surrendering to the divine or devotion to
- 4:40a higher power and
- 4:42SPEAKER_00: dedication to something greater than our ego.
- 4:47SPEAKER_00: And in the yoga sutras,
- 4:48SPEAKER_00: Patanjali tells us that through devotion and surrender to the divine,
- 4:53SPEAKER_00: we attain the ultimate state of yoga,
- 4:57SPEAKER_00: which is union with the source of all that is.
- 5:00SPEAKER_00: It's very poetic.
- 5:02And this is really the culminating practice of the five niyamas
- 5:07that we've been
- 5:08SPEAKER_00: speaking about over the last several weeks.
- 5:10SPEAKER_00: Because after we've cultivated purity,
- 5:13SPEAKER_00: contentment,
- 5:14SPEAKER_00: discipline,
- 5:15SPEAKER_00: and self-study,
- 5:16SPEAKER_00: we arrive at the most liberating realization of all.
- 5:21SPEAKER_00: That we're not in control and that's not a problem.
- 5:26SPEAKER_00: That's freedom.
- 5:28SPEAKER_00: Now,
- 5:28SPEAKER_00: I'm going to be honest,
- 5:31surrender has been one of the more challenging lessons for me
- 5:39to learn and that I'm
- 5:41SPEAKER_00: always learning and relearning.
- 5:44SPEAKER_00: Because I'm someone who loves to plan.
- 5:47SPEAKER_00: Like I am a planner.
- 5:49SPEAKER_00: I'm a strategist.
- 5:50SPEAKER_00: I'm a marketing consultant and sales advisor by day.
- 5:55So when it comes to surrendering spiritually,
- 5:58this takes a conscious effort for me.
- 6:02SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 6:03SPEAKER_00: You know,
- 6:03SPEAKER_00: although I've,
- 6:04SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 6:04SPEAKER_00: built businesses,
- 6:05SPEAKER_00: traveled across the world,
- 6:06SPEAKER_00: led healing retreats,
- 6:07SPEAKER_00: studied,
- 6:08SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 6:08SPEAKER_00: more disciplines than I can count on my hands.
- 6:12SPEAKER_00: They've all been through effort and determination.
- 6:16And the thing that life teaches me and this sutra teaches me
- 6:21over and over again is
- 6:22SPEAKER_00: that there's only so much I can control.
- 6:24SPEAKER_00: And am I really in control even in those moments when I think that I am?
- 6:28SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 6:29SPEAKER_00: And ironically,
- 6:30SPEAKER_00: a lot of times the more I force or aim to control an outcome in my life,
- 6:37SPEAKER_00: the less present I am and the less present we are,
- 6:40SPEAKER_00: the more we suffer.
- 6:42SPEAKER_00: And I've learned this through big moments,
- 6:44like when I moved to France and Italy last year with the
- 6:47intention of relocating
- 6:49SPEAKER_00: permanently,
- 6:50SPEAKER_00: only to realize that the divine definitely had other plans for me.
- 6:56SPEAKER_00: I've learned it through small moments, like when trying to force, I
- 7:06SPEAKER_00: Not until I surrender.
- 7:07I surrender to what it is that wants to come through me so that
- 7:13I can truly just be
- 7:14SPEAKER_00: a vessel for my creativity.
- 7:18I've also learned this practice of surrender through my Kriya
- 7:22Yoga practice with
- 7:23SPEAKER_00: the Self-Realization Fellowships and the teachings of Yoganandra.
- 7:28where the entire foundation is about attuning yourself to
- 7:33divine will rather than
- 7:36SPEAKER_00: the will of the ego.
- 7:38And the thing that's important to point out,
- 7:40surrender doesn't mean giving up.
- 7:42SPEAKER_00: It doesn't mean being passive or not taking action.
- 7:46SPEAKER_00: Surrender means doing your part with full dedication and devotion and
- 7:51SPEAKER_00: and then releasing your attachment to how it all unfolds.
- 7:56SPEAKER_00: It means trusting that there's a greater intelligence at work,
- 8:00SPEAKER_00: whether you call it God,
- 8:01SPEAKER_00: the universe,
- 8:02SPEAKER_00: divine consciousness,
- 8:03SPEAKER_00: or your higher self.
- 8:05SPEAKER_00: It means recognizing that you are not the doer,
- 8:09SPEAKER_00: but the instrument through which the divine works.
- 8:14SPEAKER_00: So our true peace, something that we all long for,
- 8:18SPEAKER_00: It doesn't come from controlling life, but from surrendering to it.
- 8:22SPEAKER_00: And there's a beautiful paradox at the heart of this practice.
- 8:27SPEAKER_00: On one hand,
- 8:28SPEAKER_00: we're called to show up fully,
- 8:29SPEAKER_00: to practice discipline,
- 8:31SPEAKER_00: to do our work,
- 8:32SPEAKER_00: to take action.
- 8:33SPEAKER_00: And then on the other hand,
- 8:35SPEAKER_00: we're called to let go of the outcome,
- 8:39SPEAKER_00: to trust and enjoy the process and
- 8:42And also to release the illusion that we're in control because
- 8:46we're really not.
- 8:48And this is something that Krishna actually teaches Arjana in
- 8:53the Bhavagad Gita,
- 8:55SPEAKER_00: where he says,
- 8:56SPEAKER_00: you have the right to work,
- 8:59SPEAKER_00: but never to the fruit of the work.
- 9:02SPEAKER_00: You should never engage in action for the sake of reward, right?
- 9:06SPEAKER_00: nor should you long for inaction.
- 9:09SPEAKER_00: Well, what does that mean?
- 9:11SPEAKER_00: Do our dharma, do our divine work in the world.
- 9:16SPEAKER_00: You know,
- 9:16SPEAKER_00: show up,
- 9:17SPEAKER_00: help others,
- 9:18SPEAKER_00: give your best effort,
- 9:20SPEAKER_00: and then surrender the outcome to the divine.
- 9:23SPEAKER_00: And from a yogic perspective,
- 9:25SPEAKER_00: the ego believes it's the only one making everything happen,
- 9:29SPEAKER_00: right?
- 9:29SPEAKER_00: It thinks, you know, I built this business.
- 9:32SPEAKER_00: I built this career.
- 9:33SPEAKER_00: I built my home.
- 9:34SPEAKER_00: I healed this thing.
- 9:35SPEAKER_00: I achieved this goal.
- 9:36SPEAKER_00: But the truth is we are all channels.
- 9:40We're all vessels through which divine intelligence flows and
- 9:44expresses itself.
- 9:46Yogananda taught that the biggest obstacle to spiritual
- 9:50awakening is the ego's
- 9:51SPEAKER_00: insistence that I am the doer.
- 9:55And this creates suffering because it places an impossible
- 9:58burden on us where we
- 10:01SPEAKER_00: think we have to control everything,
- 10:03SPEAKER_00: figure everything out,
- 10:04SPEAKER_00: make it all work,
- 10:05SPEAKER_00: have understanding of the experiences that show up in our lives.
- 10:09SPEAKER_00: But when we practice surrendering to the divine,
- 10:13SPEAKER_00: we start to recognize I am not the doer.
- 10:16SPEAKER_00: The divine is working through me.
- 10:19SPEAKER_00: My only job is to align myself with that higher will,
- 10:23SPEAKER_00: to dedicate my actions as offerings and to trust the unfolding.
- 10:28SPEAKER_00: And this doesn't mean we become passive or complacent.
- 10:32SPEAKER_00: It means we take divinely inspired action and
- 10:35SPEAKER_00: and then release our attachment to specific outcomes.
- 10:39SPEAKER_00: It means we trust that even when things don't go according to our plans,
- 10:44they're unfolding exactly as they need for our highest growth
- 10:49and evolution.
- 10:51SPEAKER_00: I think about the times in my life when I've been most at peace,
- 10:56SPEAKER_00: and maybe you can relate to this.
- 10:58It's never been when I had everything figured out or when
- 11:01everything was going
- 11:03SPEAKER_00: according to plan.
- 11:04SPEAKER_00: It's been in the moments when I surrendered,
- 11:07SPEAKER_00: when I let go,
- 11:08SPEAKER_00: when I said,
- 11:08SPEAKER_00: okay,
- 11:08SPEAKER_00: God,
- 11:10SPEAKER_00: I don't know how this is going to work out,
- 11:13SPEAKER_00: but I trust you.
- 11:14SPEAKER_00: Show me the way.
- 11:17That's the point when the miracles happen,
- 11:20when we create space for the miracles.
- 11:23SPEAKER_00: That's when doors open that we didn't even know existed.
- 11:27That's when the path reveals itself in ways more beautiful than
- 11:31anything we could
- 11:32SPEAKER_00: have ever orchestrated on our own.
- 11:34SPEAKER_00: And here's the challenge.
- 11:36SPEAKER_00: Surrender requires faith.
- 11:38SPEAKER_00: It requires trust.
- 11:40It requires letting go of the need to know how everything is
- 11:44going to unfold.
- 11:46And in a culture that values order and control and certainty
- 11:51and productivity above
- 11:52SPEAKER_00: all else,
- 11:53SPEAKER_00: that can feel really terrifying.
- 11:56So this week I want to invite you and myself and all of us to
- 12:01reflect on a couple things.
- 12:04SPEAKER_00: Like where in your life are you gripping too tightly?
- 12:08SPEAKER_00: Where are you trying to control outcomes that aren't yours to control?
- 12:14What would it feel like to do your best and then surrender the
- 12:18results to something greater?
- 12:20SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 12:22How would your life change if you truly trusted that the
- 12:26universe is working for
- 12:27SPEAKER_00: your highest good,
- 12:29SPEAKER_00: even when you can't see the bigger picture?
- 12:33SPEAKER_00: What does surrender mean to you?
- 12:35SPEAKER_00: And what's blocking you from fully surrendering?
- 12:38SPEAKER_00: You know, sit with these questions.
- 12:40SPEAKER_00: Notice where resistance arises.
- 12:43SPEAKER_00: Notice where your ego wants to hold on,
- 12:46SPEAKER_00: figure everything out,
- 12:47SPEAKER_00: stay in control,
- 12:49SPEAKER_00: and then tell yourself.
- 12:52SPEAKER_00: God's got this.
- 12:54SPEAKER_00: See if you can soften that grip just a little bit.
- 12:58And I want to share just two really simple practices for you
- 13:02this week that can
- 13:03SPEAKER_00: help support facilitating this cultivation of surrender and devotion.
- 13:10SPEAKER_00: So the first is creating a daily surrender practice.
- 13:14Each morning before you begin your day,
- 13:17it might even be before you get out of bed.
- 13:18SPEAKER_00: That's how I like to do this.
- 13:21You might say to yourself something of a prayer where you are
- 13:28giving an offering,
- 13:29SPEAKER_00: giving your day ahead up to God.
- 13:32SPEAKER_00: You might say something like,
- 13:34SPEAKER_00: Today, I dedicate all of my actions as an offering to the divine.
- 13:39God,
- 13:40please guide me,
- 13:41work through me,
- 13:43help me to see and serve your will,
- 13:46not mine.
- 13:47SPEAKER_00: I surrender all outcomes.
- 13:49SPEAKER_00: I trust the folding.
- 13:50SPEAKER_00: I enjoy and find pleasure in the path, even if the future is unknown.
- 13:58SPEAKER_00: And then at the end of the day, practice releasing.
- 14:02SPEAKER_00: Reflect on what happened,
- 14:04SPEAKER_00: what went according to plan,
- 14:05SPEAKER_00: what didn't,
- 14:06SPEAKER_00: and then consciously let it go.
- 14:08SPEAKER_00: I love visualizing a vacuum.
- 14:11SPEAKER_00: We did this actually in my workshop this morning.
- 14:14When we're bringing to our mind's eye things that we're ready
- 14:17to let go of and
- 14:18SPEAKER_00: release,
- 14:19SPEAKER_00: visualize a vacuum,
- 14:21just energetically sucking up any of those things that you're
- 14:25ready to surrender or
- 14:26SPEAKER_00: you're ready to let go.
- 14:28SPEAKER_00: And maybe before you go to bed, you tell yourself, I release this day.
- 14:33SPEAKER_00: I surrender any attachment to how things should have or could have been.
- 14:36SPEAKER_00: I trust that everything unfolded exactly as it needed to.
- 14:42SPEAKER_00: So this bookend practice of starting your morning,
- 14:45SPEAKER_00: surrendering to God,
- 14:47SPEAKER_00: and then ending your day,
- 14:49SPEAKER_00: releasing anything that maybe you want to hold on to is
- 14:53SPEAKER_00: This bookend practice,
- 14:55SPEAKER_00: it trains your subconscious mind to hold your life with an open hand,
- 15:00SPEAKER_00: to have a loose grip on the things that you are striving for.
- 15:08SPEAKER_00: And then the second practice is to dedicate your actions as offerings.
- 15:15SPEAKER_00: So choose one area of your life.
- 15:18SPEAKER_00: Maybe it's work,
- 15:19SPEAKER_00: maybe it's relationships,
- 15:21SPEAKER_00: your creative pursuits,
- 15:22SPEAKER_00: your personal healing,
- 15:24SPEAKER_00: your family,
- 15:26and just choose one of those areas of your life and consciously
- 15:30dedicate it as an
- 15:31SPEAKER_00: offering to the divine.
- 15:32SPEAKER_00: So
- 15:32SPEAKER_00: So instead of,
- 15:33SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 15:34SPEAKER_00: pursuing growth in one of these areas for recognition,
- 15:38SPEAKER_00: achievement,
- 15:38SPEAKER_00: or validation,
- 15:40SPEAKER_00: practice this as an act of devotion.
- 15:42SPEAKER_00: Let your effort, your actions, your work be a living prayer.
- 15:48SPEAKER_00: Let your actions be this offering.
- 15:51Allow your life to be an expression of something greater moving
- 15:55through you.
- 15:57And this really invites this beautiful practice of
- 16:00non-attachment,
- 16:01of letting go.
- 16:03SPEAKER_00: Yogananda called this actionless action,
- 16:06SPEAKER_00: where you're fully engaged in the doing,
- 16:09SPEAKER_00: but you're not attached to being the doer.
- 16:13SPEAKER_00: So you're holding what we call in yoga second attention.
- 16:16SPEAKER_00: You are the witness, you are the observer of your human self, right?
- 16:22So you give your best effort and then you surrender the fruits
- 16:26of your labor.
- 16:27SPEAKER_00: And remember what Patanjali taught.
- 16:30Through devotion and surrender to the divine,
- 16:33we attain union with the source of all that is.
- 16:40SPEAKER_00: This is the art and practice of yoga.
- 16:44SPEAKER_00: The peace that you've been seeking isn't found in controlling.
- 16:47SPEAKER_00: It's found in surrendering.
- 16:50And there's a freedom that comes from knowing that you don't
- 16:53have to have it all figured out.
- 16:56SPEAKER_00: You don't have to have all the answers.
- 16:58SPEAKER_00: You don't have to have everything perfectly curated in your life.
- 17:01SPEAKER_00: You don't have to control every outcome.
- 17:03SPEAKER_00: You don't have to carry the weight of the world on your shoulders.
- 17:07SPEAKER_00: Like who put it there anyway?
- 17:09SPEAKER_00: Ourselves, right?
- 17:11SPEAKER_00: Or a story that we've created about someone else.
- 17:15SPEAKER_00: So it's time to unlearn that.
- 17:17SPEAKER_00: It's time to let it go.
- 17:18SPEAKER_00: It's time to let that weight just drift away off our shoulders.
- 17:22SPEAKER_00: Grab that vacuum and energetically suck that up.
- 17:28SPEAKER_00: So you just have to show up.
- 17:31SPEAKER_00: Do your part, give your best effort, and then trust.
- 17:35SPEAKER_00: Trust and surrender.
- 17:36SPEAKER_00: Turn everything up and over to God.
- 17:40SPEAKER_00: Trust that the universe is conspiring in your favor.
- 17:45SPEAKER_00: Trust that even the detours and the disappointments,
- 17:49SPEAKER_00: they're a part of your path and you will find gratitude in them.
- 17:55SPEAKER_00: Trust that you're being guided,
- 17:57SPEAKER_00: supported,
- 17:57and held by something greater than your limited human
- 18:01perspective could ever even
- 18:03SPEAKER_00: comprehend.
- 18:04SPEAKER_00: This is really the gift of Ishavara Pradhyana.
- 18:11SPEAKER_00: This is the peace that comes from surrender.
- 18:14SPEAKER_00: This is what it means to live in alignment with the divine.
- 18:19SPEAKER_00: And as you move through this week, practice letting go.
- 18:23Practice trusting,
- 18:25practice saying prayer,
- 18:26practice giving it up to God or your higher power.
- 18:30SPEAKER_00: Practice offering your actions as devotion rather than obligation.
- 18:35And notice what happens when you stop trying to force life to
- 18:41bend to your will and
- 18:43instead allow yourself to flow with a greater current that's
- 18:46already carrying you.
- 18:49SPEAKER_00: And just remember, you are not alone.
- 18:53SPEAKER_00: You are not in control.
- 18:55SPEAKER_00: And that is the most liberating truth of all.
- 19:00SPEAKER_00: This is the sacred practice of surrendering to the divine.
- 19:03SPEAKER_00: And this is how we find peace in the unknown.
- 19:09SPEAKER_00: Thank you so much for listening to Through the Veil.
- 19:14SPEAKER_00: We have now completed our journey through all five of the niyamas,
- 19:19the personal observances that guide us towards inner
- 19:23transformation and spiritual
- 19:25SPEAKER_00: awakening.
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- 19:28SPEAKER_00: And if you want to book an energy healing session or consult with me,
- 19:32SPEAKER_00: all of the links to work with me are in the show notes below.
- 19:36SPEAKER_00: Have a beautiful week.
- 19:39SPEAKER_00: Have a beautiful holiday season.
- 19:41SPEAKER_00: I will see you next week.
- 19:45SPEAKER_00: Well, I won't see you, but you'll hear me and I'm going to feel you.
- 19:50So next week,
- 19:51we're going to continue moving through the remainder of the
- 19:55eight limbs of yoga.
- 19:56SPEAKER_00: We'll dive into, uh, asana.
- 20:00SPEAKER_00: which is the third of the eight limbs of yoga.
- 20:05So we're making our progress through the yoga sutras,
- 20:09the yoga off the mat.
- 20:11SPEAKER_00: Super excited to share more with you.
- 20:13SPEAKER_00: I have a lot to say about our asana practice.
- 20:16SPEAKER_00: So get ready, have a beautiful week.
- 20:19Drop your comments on Substack,
- 20:20reach out,
- 20:21email me anytime with reflections or questions.
- 20:24SPEAKER_00: Thank you so much for tuning in.
- 20:26SPEAKER_00: Om, peace, amen.