Latest / Beyond Limits With Olivia Marie / Do This and Watch Everything Come to You
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- 0:48SPEAKER_01: Hello everyone.
- 0:49SPEAKER_01: Welcome back to the Beyond Limits podcast.
- 0:52SPEAKER_01: Today, we are talking about how to have everything come to you, right?
- 0:57SPEAKER_01: How to be that woman who is a force of nature.
- 1:01SPEAKER_01: Because the woman who is a force of nature is the one who watches everything come to her.
- 1:08SPEAKER_01: Now, when I say force of nature, I don't mean that she's destructive or chaotic or overly like louder in your face.
- 1:18SPEAKER_01: In fact, to be a force of nature means to be someone who is so powerful, so like energetically oozing and unstoppable that they seem beyond normal logic, right?
- 1:31SPEAKER_01: Things just work differently for that type of person, right?
- 1:34SPEAKER_01: Some people call it luck, or they say, like, she just has it, right?
- 1:39SPEAKER_01: There's just something about her, this woman with overflowing charisma and certainty.
- 1:46SPEAKER_01: That type of woman, she's obsessed, right?
- 1:48SPEAKER_01: She's obsessed with her evolution.
- 1:50SPEAKER_01: She is certain when she moves.
- 1:52SPEAKER_01: And we're actually going deep into this inside of the out of this world book club this month on this exact topic for this exact reason.
- 2:01SPEAKER_01: Because when I think about being an out of this world woman, there are women who chase and there are women who the room reorganizes around.
- 2:09SPEAKER_01: There are women who try to be seen, and there are women who don't need to be seen, and yet they are the most seen because they don't need it.
- 2:17SPEAKER_01: Right.
- 2:18SPEAKER_01: There are women who push and overwork and hustle and grind for opportunities.
- 2:22SPEAKER_01: And then there are women who become a force of nature and opportunities just seem to land in their lap.
- 2:28SPEAKER_01: So that's what I mean when I say an out-of-this world woman, right?
- 2:32SPEAKER_01: The woman who is a force of nature.
- 2:34SPEAKER_01: And you can either be frustrated or jealous or upset that it just seems to happen for them, or you can learn how this happens and apply it to you in your own life.
- 2:45SPEAKER_01: Because it is something you can turn on and turn off as easily as a light switch.
- 2:50SPEAKER_01: So, first off, if you want to be the woman, right, who everything comes to you, you need to stop chasing.
- 2:59SPEAKER_01: To stop chasing, stop seeking.
- 3:02SPEAKER_01: And this is important because if you are running around chasing, whether that's chasing money, chasing sales, chasing a relationship, love, status of any kind, you can't be the one it comes to because you're too busy running around.
- 3:17SPEAKER_01: What's literally yours can't find you.
- 3:19SPEAKER_01: It's like Amazon comes to deliver the package and you're not home because you're running around seeking as if it's outside of you.
- 3:27SPEAKER_01: And so this is what you have to do is to stop chasing, right?
- 3:31SPEAKER_01: When you do this, you when you stop seeking something outside of you, then it comes to you.
- 3:37SPEAKER_01: But this is usually where a lot of people flinch, right?
- 3:41SPEAKER_01: Because when you want the thing and you stop chasing it, you stop seeking it outside of you, you have to sit in your personal power.
- 3:50unknown: Right.
- 3:50SPEAKER_01: In order to stop chasing, stop seeking, it requires personal power inside of your nervous system.
- 3:56SPEAKER_01: But when you're unable to sit in your power inside of the void, in the in between for it to come, then it doesn't get to come, right?
- 4:06SPEAKER_01: The nervous system panics and it goes back to chasing to seeking behavior.
- 4:12SPEAKER_01: And sometimes it's subtle.
- 4:14SPEAKER_01: It's like I don't watch clients do this.
- 4:17SPEAKER_01: It's like, okay, let me just see if, okay, let me just do this thing.
- 4:21SPEAKER_01: Let me just, okay, well, what if this?
- 4:23SPEAKER_01: And it's this subtle chasing, seeking outside of them, wanting the outside to confirm it, right?
- 4:30SPEAKER_01: Because the personal power is externally sourced.
- 4:34SPEAKER_01: But even in those subtle chasing behaviors, it takes you out of your power, right?
- 4:40SPEAKER_01: It collapses your power and puts you back into chasing to get something.
- 4:44SPEAKER_01: And this doesn't matter if it's money, if it's men, if it's anything in between.
- 4:49SPEAKER_01: And this is important because when you go into chasing mode, you dull your energy, you dull your magnetism.
- 4:57SPEAKER_01: But when you are seated in your power, you have this magnetism that just draws things in, right?
- 5:04SPEAKER_01: You want to watch things come to you.
- 5:06SPEAKER_01: That magnetism has to be on.
- 5:08SPEAKER_01: When we think about opposing forces, right?
- 5:11SPEAKER_01: Opposing forces either attract or repel.
- 5:13SPEAKER_01: It's like a magnet, right?
- 5:14SPEAKER_01: So we talk about magnetism like an actual magnet.
- 5:17SPEAKER_01: If you're in chasing and seeking, well, you can't be in receiving, right?
- 5:22SPEAKER_01: It doesn't work that way because you are in seeking outside, chase force.
- 5:26SPEAKER_01: It's forward.
- 5:27SPEAKER_01: When you're in your power, it's then drawn to you.
- 5:30SPEAKER_01: You can even see when I lean back, oh, I'm pulling things towards me.
- 5:35SPEAKER_01: Now, let's take this a layer deeper.
- 5:37SPEAKER_01: Because what you actually think is being drawn to you through magnetism from the outside is actually coming from you through you.
- 5:47SPEAKER_01: So attracting does not mean that it comes from the outside, it comes through you as you.
- 5:54SPEAKER_01: And this is because most people think, well, I need to do something magnetic to attract.
- 5:59SPEAKER_01: I need to do something to attract it.
- 6:01SPEAKER_01: I need to do.
- 6:02SPEAKER_01: Do you see how I need to do something which still assumes the power is outside of you, the result is separate from who you are, and your job is to signal or pull in what you want.
- 6:17SPEAKER_01: But for everything to come to you, it's actually identity-based.
- 6:21SPEAKER_01: So it's less about pulling things toward you and rather becoming the field that things can't help but land inside.
- 6:28SPEAKER_01: Right.
- 6:29SPEAKER_01: So it's a completely different energy.
- 6:31SPEAKER_01: If you want to watch things come to you, you have to be so seated in your power that things drop and land in.
- 6:38SPEAKER_01: And the truth of it is, is that you don't receive something because you're trying to attract it.
- 6:43SPEAKER_01: You receive it because your signal is undeniable.
- 6:47SPEAKER_01: You are in your power, emitting such a strong, consistent signal that it cannot be disrupted, that it doesn't flinch based on what's going on the outside.
- 6:57SPEAKER_01: And because it is so potent, it is so powerful, it cannot help but land.
- 7:02SPEAKER_01: So you're not chasing, you're not seeking, you're not reaching, you're not proving.
- 7:07SPEAKER_01: You become the abonment of what already exists.
- 7:10SPEAKER_01: This means that the desire isn't actually out there.
- 7:14SPEAKER_01: So anything that you desire, doesn't matter what it is, is not outside of you.
- 7:17SPEAKER_01: It's activated from within.
- 7:20SPEAKER_01: You don't even need to chase alignment.
- 7:23SPEAKER_01: You are the alignment.
- 7:24SPEAKER_01: And this is why chasing and seeking is so exhausting because it's draining for the nervous system.
- 7:31SPEAKER_01: Right.
- 7:31SPEAKER_01: So how do you stay in the frequency, right?
- 7:33SPEAKER_01: How do you stay in the frequency that things come to you, things happen out of nowhere, things just happen to drop and land as if by magic?
- 7:43SPEAKER_01: How do you learn to live from the place where you're so solid in your power and things just come to you?
- 7:49SPEAKER_01: You need to be so rooted in your power and be in wholeness, i.e., you need nothing to complete you.
- 7:59SPEAKER_01: That's when it comes.
- 8:02SPEAKER_01: Where you're not showing up to get something, you are showing up from the fullness because it's who you are.
- 8:09SPEAKER_01: And that's what wholeness is, right?
- 8:11SPEAKER_01: Wholeness is actually what creates that gravitational pull.
- 8:15SPEAKER_01: And when you have that pull, then things land.
- 8:18SPEAKER_01: But that pull comes through you because you are dense enough in your power.
- 8:24SPEAKER_01: But if your power is wobbly, right?
- 8:26SPEAKER_01: If your personal power is conditional and it's only you only have power when things are working, right?
- 8:33SPEAKER_01: When it's your highest cash month and everyone says you're amazing and the sales are popping off, and like you feel a vibe in your body, and like all these things, whatever it is, then the signal is wonky.
- 8:46SPEAKER_01: There isn't a density to your power, there is no gravitational pull.
- 8:52SPEAKER_01: But when you feel whole, right, there is no leakage, there is no seeking.
- 8:57SPEAKER_01: What would why would you need to seek if you're already whole?
- 9:00SPEAKER_01: There's no signaling for approval, there's no chasing for anything because it's already here.
- 9:05SPEAKER_01: Why would you chase what's already here?
- 9:09SPEAKER_01: But what happens is when you don't feel whole and complete, you exit your power because you think that thing outside you is going to make you whole and complete, which creates this carrot dangling in front of a horse energy.
- 9:19SPEAKER_01: You never end up getting a carrot because you are coming from lack, right?
- 9:24SPEAKER_01: You're not coming from wholeness.
- 9:25SPEAKER_01: Versus when you are coming from that wholeness because you're so seated in your power, and your power doesn't need anything outside of it because you are whole and complete.
- 9:36SPEAKER_01: That's when people start saying, you know, I don't know why, but I just had to reach out to you.
- 9:40SPEAKER_01: Or there's just something about you, or just like want to sign up for this thing and I want to do this thing.
- 9:46SPEAKER_01: And this is the woman who has everything come to her, who gets everything she wants because she becomes a force of nature, because her frequency, her energy is whole and complete.
- 9:56SPEAKER_01: And there is no begging in her energy.
- 9:58SPEAKER_01: There is no I need this.
- 10:00SPEAKER_01: There is just I am this.
- 10:02SPEAKER_01: She has this power.
- 10:03SPEAKER_01: So she doesn't go into seeking or chasing behavior.
- 10:06SPEAKER_01: She doesn't go into over-efforting or doing something from compensation just to give her the feeling of, you know, forward momentum and then get disappointed when the result doesn't result as the way she wanted.
- 10:18SPEAKER_01: When you are rooted in your power, you are in it no matter what.
- 10:23SPEAKER_01: Whether or not it has been mirrored yet.
- 10:26SPEAKER_01: And that's what makes it inevitable.
- 10:28SPEAKER_01: And that's what makes things want to chase you.
- 10:31SPEAKER_01: There are so many times things have come into me, or even for my clients, money, opportunities, emails.
- 10:38SPEAKER_01: Actually, when this happened before we were recording this podcast, people just going out of their way for you.
- 10:45SPEAKER_01: And it all comes down to this: you need to be rooted in your power.
- 10:50SPEAKER_01: So that, right, that energetic frequency gets flipped.
- 10:53SPEAKER_01: You're not chasing, seeking, reaching outside.
- 10:56SPEAKER_01: You're in your power.
- 10:58SPEAKER_01: You're in your power consistently because you are whole and complete and you don't need anything else.
- 11:02SPEAKER_01: So that becomes dense.
- 11:04SPEAKER_01: There's a weight to your power, and then that weight and that power draws things in, right?
- 11:09SPEAKER_01: So this is the formula, if you will, if you want to watch everything come to you, is to be rooted in your power, right?
- 11:17SPEAKER_01: Full and whole in your identity and empty of seeking, right?
- 11:22SPEAKER_01: No seeking, chasing, reaching.
- 11:25SPEAKER_01: That will make you magnetic as your default state.
- 11:28SPEAKER_01: And this is why I call it a force of nature.
- 11:31SPEAKER_01: Because the woman who is a force of nature can walk into a room anytime, anywhere, and shift people around her.
- 11:38SPEAKER_01: Right?
- 11:38SPEAKER_01: To be a force of nature is to be unmoved by the world while moving it.
- 11:44SPEAKER_01: That's the key.
- 11:45SPEAKER_01: Well, you walk in, your energy, your magnetism makes other people move, but yet at the same time, you are unmoved by reality.
- 11:55SPEAKER_01: You're not swayed by numbers, by likes, by responses, by what's happening or not happening in your reality right now.
- 12:02SPEAKER_01: Because you're not tuning, right?
- 12:06SPEAKER_01: And you're not running yourself, your business, your money from ego.
- 12:12SPEAKER_01: You're running it from frequency.
- 12:14SPEAKER_01: You're not wondering if you're magnetic.
- 12:16SPEAKER_01: You know you are.
- 12:18SPEAKER_01: And so I think about this client recently who came to the telegram.
- 12:21SPEAKER_01: Like, Liv, how can I become magnetic?
- 12:25SPEAKER_01: And I was like, girl, first of all, you already are.
- 12:29SPEAKER_01: You just gotta, your natural default is magnetic.
- 12:32SPEAKER_01: You just go into seeking behavior, right?
- 12:34SPEAKER_01: And so, but then we have to just dissolve all of the places you are seeking and reaching for something outside of you, right?
- 12:39SPEAKER_01: And so the woman who's magnetic, it's not like, well, I'm magnetic because of this.
- 12:43SPEAKER_01: No, I'm magnetic because it's who I am.
- 12:46SPEAKER_01: And then that energy is felt.
- 12:49SPEAKER_01: And this is so free, right?
- 12:50SPEAKER_01: And out of this world, woman is free because she's not dressing up her frequency for relatability.
- 12:56SPEAKER_01: She's not using tactics to feel safe.
- 12:58SPEAKER_01: She remembers who she is.
- 13:00SPEAKER_01: And in that remembrance, in knowing that she's magnetic, everything responds.
- 13:04SPEAKER_01: Because at the end of the day, magnetism is less about pull, right?
- 13:08SPEAKER_01: Because if you are still trying to pull things from outside of you because you need that to feel whole and complete, right?
- 13:15SPEAKER_01: You want a certain level of income, right?
- 13:17SPEAKER_01: Oh, if I make a million dollars this year, then I will.
- 13:19SPEAKER_01: If I become a millionaire, I will.
- 13:20SPEAKER_01: If I marry a man who's 6'4 and ripped with, you know, billions of dollars, then I will, or if I have this house, then I will, or if I have this amount of followers, or whatever it is that you're, you have to notice the energy you're trying to pull from.
- 13:34SPEAKER_01: If you are trying to pull andor attract from a lack of wholeness, all you're doing is sending out more lack of wholeness, which is delaying it.
- 13:44unknown: Right.
- 13:44SPEAKER_01: So magnetism is less about what you pull and it's about truth, right?
- 13:48SPEAKER_01: A woman who is rooted in her power, complete in her identity, and unapologetically expressed, doesn't attract everything.
- 13:55SPEAKER_01: She just becomes the reason it arrives.
- 13:58SPEAKER_01: And in future episodes, we are going to be diving into how to really detach, right?
- 14:03SPEAKER_01: How to detach from the outcomes, how to detach from things so that you can even amplify your magnetism even more.
- 14:10SPEAKER_01: But this is what I would call like step one.
- 14:12SPEAKER_01: If you want to become more magnetic, you want to flip it back, you've been in maybe some chasing or seeking behaviors.
- 14:18SPEAKER_01: This is what you need to do in terms of really densifying that personal power and remembering, all right, if I already am magnetic, why would I be chasing, seeking, or reaching for something outside of me?
- 14:30SPEAKER_01: And how do I really sit in that and be the woman who, when reality hasn't confirmed it yet, might my nervous system's not going into panic.
- 14:39SPEAKER_01: When it hasn't been mirrored yet, as fast as I wanted to, I don't go into panic.
- 14:43SPEAKER_01: And because you don't, right?
- 14:45SPEAKER_01: Because you anchor such personal power in your nervous system, you become unstoppable.
- 14:50SPEAKER_01: And the more you do that, the more things happen instantaneously.
- 14:54SPEAKER_01: Right.
- 14:55SPEAKER_01: So yes, it does get to reflect instantaneously, but that is only a byproduct of a woman who's been seated in her power for a long time.
- 15:04SPEAKER_01: A woman who hasn't been reacting to her reality for a long time.
- 15:08SPEAKER_01: I always say this in my world the first mark of change isn't that your reality changes, it's that your response to reality changes.
- 15:15SPEAKER_01: So let this land, and I will see you in future episodes.