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Yoreh De’ah 235:1-3. Vows: Between Spouses, Marital Obligations, When Divorce Is Required · SHULCHAN ARUCH YOMI: Own the Halacha in 25 minutes a day!

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  OK, we're continuing with Simon Raish Lahmed.
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  Hey now, this is actually quite a continuation from the end of
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  Raish Lahmed Dalit talking about Nadarim between man and husband
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  and unfortunate sometimes there's a little spots and
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  issues between husband and wife. I don't know what I said then.
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  I know it's husband and wife and therefore they're making Nadarim
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  on each other and on each other's family.
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  But the focus of this Simon is a little bit more on time limits.
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  How do you deal with it and do you have to get divorced and how
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  bad is the nether? Last Simon was more about how
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  far can you or cannot now or it's OK.
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  We're building on that. So Reish al Ahmed hey alef
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  hamadir ET ishto mitash Misha mita.
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  The person makes a nether that against having Tash Misha Mita
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  with his wife Shamar. Now there's two ways to do it.
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  One way will be valid. We learned one way will be
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  invalid. It will not work as it will not
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  work. It will be Khal as another
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  Shamar Konam Tashmi Shah ally. So he's saying that he's he's
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  making another against any enjoyment from Tashmi from his
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  wife, but he's prohibiting himself from getting any
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  enjoyment. So that is Khal because that's
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  it's his right to get enjoyment. He can't prohibit himself from
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  giving Hana to his wife because that he's obligated to give him.
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  So that won't be called that we learned already.
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  So here this is just this part is just a review.
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  So he does it in a way where it's going to make living
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  together impossible or very difficult.
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  But it's called because it's it's the consequence that's the
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  problem. But the initial the Ikarnader is
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  not technically impossible. So anyways, let's keep reading.
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  So then what do we do? Yekayem OTA Shiva yamim.
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  So you stay. So you remain married for
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  another seven days. We do not advise them to get
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  divorced being Shahidira, Befera, Shiva Yamim.
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  Oh you tear whether he says I'm making this nether not to get
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  Hana from you, whether he says it's for a full 7 days or more
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  than that. Oh, she had your stum or he
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  doesn't give a time limit. It just says I'm making the Hana
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  from you as through a nether. And so then if we say stum,
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  right, we already learned if you don't specify an expiration or
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  time limit, then it's eternal, right?
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  If you make a stop nether not to enjoy an item, so then that item
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  is usser forever. If he didn't put a time limit on
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  it ullahar Shiva yamin. And then the allaha is after
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  seven days. So then the allaha is he must do
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  a must. He must give her a get and he
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  has to give her the pay, the Kasuba, whatever is deserving to
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  her because he made his life, their life impossible to
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  continue. They can't, You can't have a
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  marriage when they're never allowed to be together and have
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  relations. And so therefore, 'cause I'll
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  say, but we give you 7 days. Why 7 days?
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  Because we're hoping that, that that's the time limit for
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  Tashmish. We again, this is not, it
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  doesn't mean it's recommended to have it once a week or more
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  spread apart, but it's normal in a marriage every so often that
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  she goes a week without having relations and it's considered
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  normal or acceptable, at least on at least on occasion.
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  All right, So that's why it's up to a week and then it becomes,
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  OK, this is not, this is not acceptable.
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  And so then we, we say he must give her a get and a tsuba, pay
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  for the tsuba, whatever it is. And, but if you would, if you
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  would make such a net there against Tashimish for less than
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  7 days, if you would specify it's for one day up to six days.
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  So then we say there's no obligation whatsoever.
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  Let him keep his Ned there. And then in a week they'll be
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  together. That's that's that's normal.
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  That's acceptable. OK.
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  And we want to give it a week. Even if he makes the Ned there
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  for an entire for a lifetime or a month or whatever it is.
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  We want to give them a week before we force him to do a a
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  get why we know they they can't be together if he's going to
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  stick to his nether because we're hoping that he will do
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  Ataris Nadarian and they can stay happily, happily married
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  and live happily ever after. So that's what we want.
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  So we're hoping so we we give them a week to calm down,
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  hopefully do what Tars Nadarim. But then after that, we can't do
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  it anymore. And the shock just points out
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  we're dealing in this Simon. We're dealing with difficult
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  people who are into their Nadarim and OK, fine, whatever.
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  So let's let's go on to the next second.
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  When I say yeah, OK. But Hadira, he makes a nether on
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  her shalod to Hanemi menu that he is not that she's not going
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  to benefit from him. Right?
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  Can you do that? They know Khal.
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  It's not Khal Shaharay who Mashuba, he is obligated on to
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  her. He he has certain rights, he
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  must give. She has certain rights and he
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  must give to her and vice versa. So on.
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  We already right. We already expelled that out.
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  So on that it wouldn't be called fine.
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  So let's keep reading the EM amarlat si EMA saya dekha, the
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  he Muspecat behemoth varam gadolin.
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  They ain't on a specular dwarim Katani.
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  So OK, so now let's say he makes another.
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  He tells her, I guess through another that she can only that
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  she is going to whatever she makes, whatever she earns, then
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  that's fine. She gets to keep it and then and
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  he's not going to be and then he doesn't want to have to support
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  her and give her a, you know, a weekly salary or money or
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  support or whatever, whatever it is, he says you take care of it
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  yourself. And she earns enough that for
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  the main major expenses, it works or the OR actually for the
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  more or the more necessary items, she is able to take care
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  of herself. She earns enough, but she's not
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  doesn't she's not able to pay for every little thing.
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  I think this is referring to more luxury items.
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  So let's keep reading in Kalmisch Bhatta regulin the otam
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  Devarian Catanian Enochal. If he makes another against
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  supporting her for these little things or these luxuries that
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  that she's she grew up accustomed to.
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  So then it's not it's not called because Shaharay who Mishu Bedla
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  because he is obligated. She's obligated to to keep to
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  the certain standards. When they get married, then he's
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  obligated to keep to her standards.
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  The EME aim Komish Bakhtari gilim Behem.
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  But her family that she comes from, they don't usually get
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  these luxuries. They're not used to it.
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  Allah Shereen only you know certain rich people in her
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  family or her father Velvia Ashir Viragil Behem, he's the
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  father is regular to it. But I guess not all the kids in
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  the family have these same luxuries.
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  Uba Allah Eno Usher and her husband is is not so wealthy and
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  is not accustomed to these things.
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  So then this husband Eno ragil behem Khal ha neder.
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  So then the Neder is Khal because right, it depends
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  whatever he is, then this is more for Evan Ezzar.
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  But whatever he's obligated to do for her, right when they get
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  married based on their their marriage contract or whatever,
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  whatever norms the the norms. So whatever he's obligated, he
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  cannot make an Ed there on those items.
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  And to restrict her from it, it's not call at all.
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  It's the extras that he is not obligated.
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  So that can be or that it is call if he makes another OK?
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  So on these items that we just said that he's regular to
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  accustomed to the husband or if she grew up and she and her
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  siblings were accustomed to it. So then Khaled, wait a second,
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  the anal regular OK, So then it wouldn't be Khal.
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  But if it is things that she's not accustomed to and he's not
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  accustomed to, so then Khaled another Shahray Enochayev Baham,
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  he's not obligated in them. OK, Umiko Malcolm cave on
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  Shahidira Mimeno. But since he's making a neder
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  from giving her these small things, we joseret labate aviha.
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  So what happens though, is if he tells her I'm not going to pay
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  for for certain for certain items for her.
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  So then she can't she, she does she, she can't live with her
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  husband anymore. They're not comfortable living
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  together anymore. So if he makes it in a way that
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  she is now leaving her house, right, they're getting separated
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  and she's going to go back and live with, with her parents.
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  So then who meet Kayevla Atabahem.
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  So now he does become obligated in these items.
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  Hilcach Ajlo Shimyom 1 2nd Kevin This is going on.
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  How do we say this since since since she is no longer eating
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  with him then he is, we say he's hired immediately to pay now if
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  he made a neder. Is this going on the basic
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  stuff? Oh boy.
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  He. He just said supporting, not
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  supporting with anything. Ben Gadoli and Ben Katani and
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  her and her, her, her. Work she's able to support us
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  with. With Barney Gadoli, yeah, she
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  moves that. He goes back, right?
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  So she moves out because he's not paying for for anything.
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  So if so, we're assuming it's a case when it's Hull.
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  So in a case when it's Hull, because she could support, but
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  since he's not supporting her, she moves out.
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  Exactly. We're talking about a case when
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  it was Hull, right? Because she's able to support
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  herself enough. But this is not a but she's
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  gonna if if he's not gonna support her, she's moving out.
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  He's causing her to move out. So once she's moving out, now he
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  has to pay for everything immediately, but he can't pay
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  for him. But she can't.
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  He can't pay for her. He's obligated to pay her, even
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  for the Gadolin. But she moved out for
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  everything. But he OK, So once she moves
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  out, he supports. So here.
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  So he's supposed to, right? He's still supposed to pay her
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  for the Divine Katani, Maidi Parnas.
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  So he's supposed to, right? He's still supposed to pay her
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  for the Divine Katani. But it is.
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  But the nether is still Khal. So therefore he's not because of
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  the nether, he can't pay for the Divine Katani.
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  He's supposed to pay, but he can't pay because of his nether.
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  So what does he say, Shayomar? He says like this out loud to
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  somebody, Cole Hazan, Eno Masid, whoever supports my wife and
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  pays for the Divine Catanium because he's monetarily he must
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  pay for it, but the Nether doesn't let him.
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  So then he lets somebody else pay those things for her via Zun
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  OTA Akhter. So someone else supports her and
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  then he goes this other person who paid for the husband, he
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  goes collects the money from the husband was really the husband
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  has to pay for it. And the husband alluded to that
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  when he said Kolazan ain't no Mapsi don't worry.
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  You pay for me. Trust me, you're not going to
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  lose out. So right, that's like a hint.
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  Don't worry, he's going to pay for you.
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  That's Ronian. Discuss if he's mamish, if
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  there's a if he's mamish hive to pay or not, That's more of a
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  technicality, but he's supposed to pay at least.
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  And he OK loesch but OK loeschena hedira sloshim Yom or
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  yatir oshihedira Stam ahar sloshim Yom.
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  Sorry, it makes no difference whether he makes this Ned there
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  for 30 days or more because because once it's 30 day or you
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  just say stump. Because once you say 30 days or
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  more than a woman does not want to be supported by this
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  stranger, by this third person and it becomes very
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  uncomfortable for her and embarrassing for her.
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  So therefore you can't, the husband can't force her to stay
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  like this. And we're being supported by a
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  third party. So the Alaka is once 30 days up
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  to 30 days. We say it's quiet, we don't
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  announce it. Someone supports her, fine.
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  But once 30 days come out, it's it becomes too much for her.
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  And it also could become more public.
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  And therefore the Alaka is after 30 days.
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  If then he must give a get and pay for the ksuba that she he
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  owes her, unless of course, he does Hataris Nadar.
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  OK, fine, let's do gilmo Adira. She makes a oshala tohal.
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  He or she Let's see, he OK, he did.
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  She makes right. She he makes her right.
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  He makes her make a Nader not to wear jewelry Oshala Tohal ekhad
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  miyaminium or not to eat something, right?
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  We're going to see how this is possible because right right off
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  the bat, he has no jurisdiction on her right.
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  A person cannot prohibit someone else from doing anything.
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  He can't. No one can ever tell anybody.
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  Even a husband can't tell his wife.
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  I'm making a neder a chavou on you.
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  You can't put on makeup because it's that's she could do
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  whatever she wants. It's her body.
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  It's it's her right to put on makeup unless perhaps it's his
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  make up if he makes a neder from his make up.
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  Not for her not to use, correct, But certainly that's OK.
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  So depends how it's worded. Certainly a shivua can never
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  work afiluhu RA velut TA am tome ulam.
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  Even if it's bad for her and she doesn't like the taste or the
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  smell or the flavor or the looks, whatever it is, it
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  doesn't matter. He can't prohibit her, but how
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  can he prohibit her from wearing makeup or what or anything
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  right, Anything. It's you say if you do this
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  item, then vital Oh Vitash. Then he makes a secondary
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  nether. In other words, then that's his
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  real nether. He says he doesn't want her to
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  do something. So he says, yeah, if you're
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  going to do this, then I'm going to make a nether on you.
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  That is called so that's how you can get her for or anybody or
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  each other with a a nether. So anyways, so he does it in a
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  way that he says right? He if you do XY and Z like we
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  learned before shamar konam tashmi shaka lie that I'm not
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  going to get benefits from you. So then it's called such a
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  nether or imtit kashti. You totally mean paloni.
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  If you put on this type of makeup or you put on this, you
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  eat this food or I'm going to make again, same thing I'm going
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  to make another from Hana, from Tashmish from I'm not going to
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  get benefit from you. IME Telhi Labetavira.
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  So this is he doesn't want her to go to his.
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  He does not want her to go to her father's house.
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  So if he makes it for more than a month, if it's less than a
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  month, so then that's that's not grounds for it's not grounds
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  expressions dismissal. It's not grounds for divorce,
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  right, Because it's normal for her not to go to her father for
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  a couple weeks. They don't be all right.
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  At least that's the standard, right?
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  Obviously every individual is different, but that's the that's
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  the standard is less than a month.
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  Then it's not so severe that we don't say you have to get
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  divorced. A woman can live going, can wait
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  a few weeks to go to her father's house, but more than
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  that or stung because there's no time limit.
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  So then that becomes a problem. That's in Hudar IMA Bahir.
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  That's if he lives or they live near the father.
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  The father lives near in the same city that she normally
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  goes. And and the shock also points
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  out we're talking about someone who normally visits even if they
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  live in the same city and she never goes.
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  So then you get more time before you force him to get the nether
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  can be for longer before you're forced to get divorced.
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  He's before he's forced to give her a get.
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  Oh, you're tear me regal, right. And we're always hoping in the
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  meantime that they do Ataris Nadaram and that they make up
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  Oh, you're tear me regal or if it's more than a regal Imhu
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  Darba ear. Ah, herit.
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  So then or if it's he makes it for longer than a longer than a
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  regular if they live in a different city.
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  So if they live in the same city, you get 30 days if you get
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  she was in a different city. So then you get to the next to
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  the next regular. OK, so.
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  This matter was if you go to your father within the next 30
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  days, then contraction shift alive and if they live and if
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  the father lives in a different city, he goes.
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  If you go to to your to your father between now and the next
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  regular, then contraction shift alive.
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  That's right. And then we give him.
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  Seven days. So then then we give you 7 days,
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  right, Right, right. IMU darba era U tare MI regal
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  IMU darba era herit. So if he lives in a different
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  city, ikayem shivaya meme Vaz yosi vitenk tuba.
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  So right the the timing of the nether is what we said based on
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  30 days of our regal. But once you made that neder,
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  then we act. Then we say, OK, we don't have
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  to wait. We don't have to make her wait
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  30 days to get the Katuba. We say after seven days he's
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  obligated to get divorced and give her pay for the Katuba.
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  But how's you see, if we think Katuba the EMI Nadra Shamrat,
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  what if she makes the Neder Shamrat Konen mean Polonia lie?
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  I'm you know I'm not going to get nether from this person.
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  Akonam shot Kashet Pikishit Paloni.
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  I know I'm not going to get I'm making in a shavua, whatever it
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  is, not to get, not to put on makeup.
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  From the makeup from somebody. Oh, Shamra.
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  Yeah, Sir Tashmishek a lie or she prohibits on to tashmish
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  that she forbids herself so that affects him mean Ploni.
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  If I eat this item. Oh, it's Kashad Bakshi's ploni.
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  Or if I right, this is she's going to prohibit the tashmish
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  if she does this item with eating this item with the she
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  gets makeup from this person OIM ayla labet Avi or if I go to my
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  father's house. So then Vahushama now he hears,
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  he hears her make this shivua that's going to prohibit them
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  from being together. It's going to make living
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  together and difficult or impossible.
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  Vahushama He hears about it Velohe Ferbla and he doesn't
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  protest so she he hears her make this nether that's very damaging
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  to their marriage and he doesn't protest.
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  So the Halafa says Yotzi Miyad Vitain Katuba you don't even
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  have to wait seven days. Alafa is he must give her a get
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  pay for katuba right now so they can move on with their lives.
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  Why is it so bad? So if it's there are two reasons
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  given depends on which case and again, depending how you
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  understand it could be the same reason, more or less the same
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  reason or more or less two different reasons depending how
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  you define it. But basically the two reasons
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  are given is because either by not protesting, then it shows
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  demonstrates to the wife that the husband really hates and
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  despises his wife or he wouldn't allow like if if it's specially
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  if it's referring to the case of tashmish and he goes OK, that's
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  fine. So now she understands that if
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  he doesn't want to have tashmish with her ever that that he hates
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  her and she is really uncomfortable, right?
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  Makes sense and understandable. And therefore the marriage is
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  over and he doesn't have to get to.
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  And then if the husband hates her, we don't she doesn't even
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  want them to get. He doesn't want her to make
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  Katara Sardarian. And therefore the Laka is you
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  get divorced right away. You don't have to get divorced,
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  right? They could still make up.
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  But the halakha is if she wants a get right now, we obligate the
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  husband to give a get right now because that's what she wants
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  and that's what she deserves. And the other expression is also
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  given. It's like putting a finger
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  between her teeth and that's so she now she can't chew, she
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  can't bite anything, right. If you have something, if
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  someone's finger between your teeth, you can't eat.
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  So it's an expression of now she's totally stuck.
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  And it's called living in an impossible situation.
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  And when a person does that and demonstrates that to her to to
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  her by not doing that Fara, the halakha is if she wants to get
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  right now, we give it to her right now.
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  La haramba benad rahiv vikkiyam la according to the ramba, she
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  makes the nether and he let's upholds it.
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  So then vikkiyam la vikkiyam la who wrote Salisha villa tocha me
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  Otto. I mean, she wants to stay right?
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  She right, So she wants to stay married and not eat it.
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  So Taisha so she can the IM who O merit vima.
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  Yeah, Vimhu America actually Isha Nadranit.
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  And if he says I cannot live with such a lady, she's always
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  making crazy nedders. It's impossible to live with
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  such a lady. So then we let him also get
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  married. Divorce.
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  Thank you Yotzi the Yi tink ktuba.
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  But he still has to pay for the ktuba and The Who hadin IM Nadra
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  Shalotela Khabet Aviya. Also she makes such a neddler
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  that she's not going to go to her house, her father's house.
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  Shamra konam tashmi shakalai e-mail like labet Avi bisham
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  mahabala. He hears about it, he doesn't do
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  how far same Allah konam tashmi. She says that again.
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  She makes another that would be called if I, if I go to this
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  base, Alwale base Mishta. And again, that's difficult for
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  her to never be able to go. That's the case of Inui Nephesh
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  Mushama Volahifilah. And he heard it and didn't undo
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  it, right. But this is an area of Inui
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  Nephesh. He's able to undo it, but he
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  doesn't. And now it makes it impossible
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  again for them. But who?
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  I didn't even but he shows he doesn't care The Who I didn't I
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  amrah koonam tashmi Shah Allah IMA says shumalaka.
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  So till she says again, you do anything and then I'm making
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  this now there's going to be called for Tashmi Shumalaka, the
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  shaman. He listens Vilahe Fairla and he
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  doesn't he doesn't protest, he doesn't write separate and all
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  it. But who I didn't IM Amrah koonam
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  tashmi Shah Allah. IM Misha mishkani mishkani Klum
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  O ash ilam Klee. Or again she goes, if I'm going
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  to borrow something from my neighbors or lend it out
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  anything to my neighbors, I'm never going to do that or I'm
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  going to be us or batash Amish. So again, she's a person cannot
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  live in life without benefiting and sharing and helping out with
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  neighbors. She can't cut herself off from
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  her neighbors and therefore or the Tasha mission, right, It's
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  going to be get in the way. So they can't live like this.
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  The Shama Veloheifer and he doesn't do Hafara.
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  So the same Mulaka is going to be Yosi that he's obligated to
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  give a get and a Katuba I believe Miyad.