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Are You a Girls Girl? · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, a production of iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network. Talk, talk, talk to them.
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  Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who
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  Speaker 2: talk back.
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  Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in to season four, okay,
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  Speaker 1: of We Talk Back with a new episode dedicated to
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  Speaker 1: you dreamers and chasers. This is your co-host, AJ Holiday.
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  Speaker 1: What's up, Tam?
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  Speaker 2: Hey, y'all. I love y'all. I love you too, AJ.
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  Speaker 1: Hey. I love you back.
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  Speaker 2: How was your weekend?
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  Speaker 1: Rainy as fuck. That's about it.
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  Speaker 3: I did do a little bit of hanging out, depending
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  Speaker 3: on who fucking listening. Depending on who listening, child. I
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  Speaker 3: didn't do much this weekend. Yeah, it was just nasty, cold,
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  Speaker 3: rainy where I was at.
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  Speaker 2: I can't say the same. I went to Tulum, Mexico
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  Speaker 2: over the weekend.
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  Speaker 1: How was that? Did you take a picture in the cave?
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  Speaker 2: I didn't take a picture. I couldn't get in the
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  Speaker 2: cave because you had to swim to that. And I
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  Speaker 2: was just scared. So I wouldn't swim over there. But
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  Speaker 2: I did take a picture.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't swimming over there. Man, you whack, man. You're
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  Speaker 1: supposed to take a picture in there.
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  Speaker 2: Aerial picture i didn't see nobody looked like me swimming
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  Speaker 2: over there so i just was like yeah i'm gonna
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  Speaker 2: stay with the people who look like.
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  Speaker 1: Me you ain't no real mermaid man.
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  Speaker 2: No i'm not i never i never uh said i
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  Speaker 2: was the mermaid i stay in the water where i
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  Speaker 2: can stand up in it shame yeah but it was
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  Speaker 2: beautiful the weather was nice tulum is a nice place
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  Speaker 2: to go um It's different than Cancun, and it's not, like,
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  Speaker 2: such a party place. It's, like, almost even more romantic, honestly.
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  Speaker 2: I wish I had a little something at the beach. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I did. I wish that. But it was a good time,
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  Speaker 2: and I got to relax, so that was cool.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I cannot wait to get some beach and sun.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to go someplace.
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  Speaker 3: I'm definitely taking a solo trip this year, and I'm
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  Speaker 3: going to stay gone for at least a month. That's
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  Speaker 3: like a bucket list. for this year so it won't
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  Speaker 3: be mexico though.
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  Speaker 2: No you gotta go somewhere yeah you're gonna have to
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  Speaker 2: go somewhere in asia where your money go far for
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  Speaker 2: a month hell yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Because you know like i um some of the uh
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  Speaker 3: condos and stuff like that you paying like five and
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  Speaker 3: six hundred dollars for the.
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  Speaker 2: Whole month and it'd be a nice place yes like
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  Speaker 2: some luxury shit yeah yeah i'm with that that sound
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  Speaker 2: nice bali or.
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  Speaker 3: Something like that Yes, Bali, Thailand. The most expensive shit
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  Speaker 3: be the flight.
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  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm. You know? Food is cheap. You can get fresh
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  Speaker 1: seafood out of the ocean.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm with that.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, honey.
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  Speaker 2: You said learn how to swim?
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  Speaker 1: Yes. I can't.
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  Speaker 2: Like, if we were in a situation where my life
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  Speaker 2: depended on me swimming, I could make it, right? I
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  Speaker 2: could swim. But I just ain't jumping out there, bro.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not jumping out there if my life don't depend
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  Speaker 2: on it.
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  Speaker 3: But how deep was the water going over to the cave?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. There wasn't nobody standing up in it.
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  Speaker 2: They was all swimming. So I was like, yeah, that's
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  Speaker 2: not for me. I remember last year I was on
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  Speaker 2: a boat and it was me, Rennie Routree was on
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  Speaker 2: the boat, this other mixed girl named Brittany, and then
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  Speaker 2: other mixed girl, Shiana. And then I was on the boat.
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  Speaker 2: And these bitches is jumping in the lake. At night,
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  Speaker 2: backstroking and swimming.
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  Speaker 1: What lake?
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  Speaker 2: Murray.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, hell no. They tripping. I ain't jumping in the lake.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, y'all different, different. They was doing it.
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  Speaker 1: That white blood.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I was thinking. Because all these bitches is
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  Speaker 2: mixed race. And that's that white blood jumping out of them.
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  Speaker 2: Because y'all jumping in this dark-ass water at night talking about,
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  Speaker 2: look at the stars, girl.
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  Speaker 1: Fuck you.
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  Speaker 3: Lake and ocean water is different. The current inside a lake,
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  Speaker 3: that shit is different. Remember you had your birthday party
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  Speaker 3: on Lake Norman? I hopped off that fucking boat because
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  Speaker 3: I had just came from Anguilla like the week before.
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  Speaker 3: Swimming in the ocean, way far out in level 30 in.
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  Speaker 1: The ocean and shit. I'm thinking I could just hop in.
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  Speaker 3: Girl, that current was trying to pull me underneath the
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  Speaker 3: boat and I was drinking and nigga had to pull
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  Speaker 3: me out the water.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, like that's, I'm not doing that, especially at night.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all tripping. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: The ancestors got them. Most of them lakes is built
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  Speaker 3: on top of black communities. So they better be glad
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  Speaker 3: they have for something.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I went with it. I was very impressed with
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  Speaker 2: that shit because they was doing backflips off the side
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  Speaker 2: of the boat into the lake in the darkness. Yeah, nah. Nah, bitch,
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  Speaker 2: you got it. Let's get into stupid internet news.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: So I saw, you know, this guy, Benny the Butcher,
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  Speaker 3: he's a rapper from Buffalo, New York. And he was
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  Speaker 3: recently on The Breakfast Club. I caught him on another.
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  Speaker 1: Podcast, actually. Well, a podcast. Well, Breakfast Club is considered
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  Speaker 1: a podcast as well. And so his.
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  Speaker 3: Conversation, it started off cool. But then it just got
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  Speaker 3: really weird near the end. And I just feel like,
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  Speaker 3: why are people fucking with black women?
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  Speaker 1: Why? So, Benny the Butcher, the caption said that black
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  Speaker 1: men have a responsibility to black women. That sounds good, right? Mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 2: Successful black men.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Add that part, please. Right.
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  Speaker 3: But, oh, it did say successful black men. But once
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  Speaker 3: you hit play and get into the conversation... you realize
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  Speaker 3: a lot of these niggas is blonde, okay? Because he
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  Speaker 3: starts off cool, you know, saying black men, successful black
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  Speaker 3: men have a responsibility to black women. But then it
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  Speaker 3: goes into his homeboy marrying a white guy.
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  Speaker 1: A woman. Marrying a white girl.
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  Speaker 3: And he wants her to marry a white, he wants
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  Speaker 3: him to marry a white girl so he can marry
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  Speaker 3: into some money.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm assuming your homeboy don't have your money. Right.
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  Speaker 3: And he was like, you know, successful men. We start
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  Speaker 3: those guys want certain things. You know, I'm saying so
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  Speaker 3: now they don't got to settle for just anybody.
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  Speaker 1: They can pick who they want. Then that's where the
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  Speaker 1: conversation goes.
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  Speaker 3: And he further says how, you know, his wife was
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  Speaker 3: with him slinging dope.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 3: That's why she's still by his side today. So it's
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  Speaker 3: still like that thing, like black women have to struggle first.
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  Speaker 3: Risk their lives and their soul to marry a black man.
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  Speaker 2: I just don't get it. Do y'all not like us? Like,
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  Speaker 2: do y'all just not like us? Who like us? Raise
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  Speaker 2: your hand because that's who I want.
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  Speaker 1: Right. And the thing is, is that, you know, majority
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  Speaker 1: of black men are married to black women. That is
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  Speaker 1: a fact, right? But are you happily married?
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 3: Because there's a lot of women in unhappy marriages. And
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  Speaker 3: it could be because men are marrying some women that
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  Speaker 3: they don't tolerate me. If you thought you could get
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  Speaker 3: something different, go do that. Leave us the fuck alone.
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  Speaker 2: I just think people don't like each other like that
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  Speaker 2: no more. Like, we don't.
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  Speaker 1: I always say this, like, being in love is a
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  Speaker 1: state of mind.
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  Speaker 3: So if you with somebody, y'all got to do things
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  Speaker 3: every single day to continuously fall in love with each other.
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  Speaker 1: Or you're going to be falling out of love. But damn,
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  Speaker 1: do you at least like me?
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 3: Because don't do us no favors, sir. Go on about
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  Speaker 3: your business. So you married your wife. You probably be
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  Speaker 3: cheating on her because you probably don't respect her for real.
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  Speaker 3: You just feel obligated to her because of time.
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  Speaker 2: I be side-eyeing, like, even though it's none of my business,
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  Speaker 2: you know, be with who you want. I be side-eyeing, like, what, like,
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  Speaker 2: a man, when he's coming up, he have a black woman.
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  Speaker 2: And then when he gets successful, he have, like, some...
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  Speaker 2: something outside of black that's tall or looks like some
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  Speaker 2: type of model or something. Someone that they probably couldn't
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  Speaker 2: get before their success. And it's like, you know, it's
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  Speaker 2: almost hurtful because it's like, damn, are we not good
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  Speaker 2: enough for you in success? Are we just good enough
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  Speaker 2: if you don't have it? During struggle time. Kevin Hart
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  Speaker 2: is a perfect example of that. That's what I was
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  Speaker 2: thinking about.
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  Speaker 1: And for some reason, they expect Tori Hart to have
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  Speaker 1: this allegiance to him where he didn't have one to
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  Speaker 1: her because now she's on the Cat Williams tour. And
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  Speaker 1: people talking hella shit like she's supposed to still be
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  Speaker 1: his bottom bitch. Oh, wow.
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  Speaker 3: You were cheating on her. You were cheating on her
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  Speaker 3: with the woman that you ended up marrying, ultimately. You
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  Speaker 3: married the side bitch. Because I remember one time on
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  Speaker 3: social media, his current wife, I forgot her name, she
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  Speaker 3: was posting like, you know, happy anniversary, such and such.
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  Speaker 1: We've been together such and such years.
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  Speaker 3: And Tori commented like, oh, that overlaps my marriage. That's
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  Speaker 3: how long y'all been together?
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  Speaker 1: Interesting.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, so don't do me no favors. Go on about
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  Speaker 3: your fucking business. I could find somebody that genuinely loves me.
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  Speaker 3: Because that comes with a lot of resentment in a relationship.
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  Speaker 3: You just marrying somebody because you feel obligated or because
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  Speaker 3: of the circumstances.
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  Speaker 1: Bills, babies.
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  Speaker 2: And see, like, a part of me is like with
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  Speaker 2: Kevin Hart's situation, like, maybe he just, this woman came
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  Speaker 2: along and they were really meant to be together and
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  Speaker 2: there's just like this real beautiful love that they have, right?
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  Speaker 2: And that's what I would hope for everybody. But then
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  Speaker 2: there is that part of me that it's side eyes, like...
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  Speaker 2: like you could not have that with this beautiful black
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  Speaker 2: woman Tori like you couldn't have that with her no.
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  Speaker 3: They got it they got it would you have what
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  Speaker 3: I'm saying they all got the same wife with that
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  Speaker 3: same face they all get.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to I hate to yeah It is
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  Speaker 2: what it is, man. I just don't want to end
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  Speaker 2: up like Taraji P on acrimony on one of these niggas.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Because people watch that movie and they say Taraji was
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  Speaker 2: the wrong one.
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  Speaker 3: But do you understand how she got that way? She
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  Speaker 3: wasn't wrong. She wasn't wrong. It's like, you know, two
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  Speaker 3: things could be true. She definitely wasn't wrong in that
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  Speaker 3: movie because the nigga put a lien on her mama
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  Speaker 3: house and they lost it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. She gave everything to him.
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  Speaker 2: Everything she had.
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  Speaker 1: That's what drove her nuts.
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  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 3: She was already crazy now. Because remember, she knocked the
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  Speaker 3: trailer down the fucking hill. Like, so she was already crazy.
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  Speaker 3: He chose to still be with her.
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  Speaker 1: Right. Got married, all that shit. But she did a lot.
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  Speaker 1: She stuck in for a lot. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And then he lost that house. And I think that
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  Speaker 2: took her over the top. And then she left him.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, like, how long you supposed to struggle with him?
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  Speaker 1: How long? How long.
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  Speaker 3: How long is a black woman supposed to struggle? Like,
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  Speaker 3: how much of my soul you want before you know
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  Speaker 3: I'm the one?
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  Speaker 2: But then she was, like, feeling like that woman was
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  Speaker 2: living her life. Like, all the fruits of her labor,
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  Speaker 2: now this lady gets to come in and just have it.
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  Speaker 2: And I be wondering, do Tori feel like that?
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  Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure she does. I mean, she has his children.
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  Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure she's taken care of financially. But, I mean,
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  Speaker 3: but she's still going. She's still working. She's going on tour.
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  Speaker 3: But it's probably something she likes to do. They like
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  Speaker 3: to make jokes and say that she was writing his
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  Speaker 3: jokes anyway. So I've seen some stuff.
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  Speaker 1: She's pretty funny.
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  Speaker 2: I just hate that for us, you know? I want
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  Speaker 2: to see us win. I want to see it, like,
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  Speaker 2: go through the trenches with our men if we have
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  Speaker 2: to and receive the fruits of the labor at the end,
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  Speaker 2: you know? So that makes me sad.
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  Speaker 3: I think it's a lot of stories like that. But,
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  Speaker 3: I mean, we going based off the Internet shit.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Right?
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  Speaker 1: It's a lot of people who struggle together and still together. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: But I still like to see, like, the internet shit
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  Speaker 3: because it gives, like, a nice little sample size of
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  Speaker 3: how a lot of men still also think.
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  Speaker 2: If y'all have a story of where you and your
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  Speaker 2: man been in the trenches together and y'all still together
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  Speaker 2: very much in love, DM us so we can read
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  Speaker 2: it on the show because we share a lot of
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  Speaker 2: the stories of where the women... get lost in the sauce.
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  Speaker 2: So we want to share some of those stories of
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  Speaker 2: where y'all went together. Send it to us. I need
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  Speaker 2: to hear that shit.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So Rick Ross is, go ahead. You tell that. Cause
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  Speaker 2: I don't even be knowing these bitches names.
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  Speaker 1: Christina. Oh, Charles, your lunch is ready. No, Christina.
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  Speaker 2: You remember Christina?
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  Speaker 1: What's the movie? Um, Diary of a Mad Black Woman. Christina. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: Christina's in here.
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  Speaker 2: She left. She took all your money with her.
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  Speaker 1: Right. So Christina Mackey. Right.
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  Speaker 3: That is Rick Ross current fling thing. And, you know,
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  Speaker 3: he rotates bitches every six, 12 months. But they've been
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  Speaker 3: together or publicly together since December.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't. She's just on tour on Instagram now. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: And recently somebody asked her about Pretty V. Pretty V
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  Speaker 3: and Rick Ross are friends. I don't believe that they
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  Speaker 3: ever actually dated. I think that's like a whole little internet,
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  Speaker 3: just fucking with people type thing. So she was asked
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  Speaker 3: about him because people thought, people started saying, where's Pretty
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  Speaker 3: V after they went public, after she and Rick Ross
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  Speaker 3: went public. And she just was like, you know, I
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  Speaker 3: don't think that was this. This is what she said.
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  Speaker 3: That wasn't this. There's no pictures of them. holding hands,
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  Speaker 3: which is the truth. There's no this and there's no that.
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  Speaker 3: She didn't lie.
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  Speaker 2: It just was her delivery that was a bit crass,
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  Speaker 2: I felt like. You didn't tell a lie, but it
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  Speaker 2: almost sounded like you think you're better than Pretty V.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 2: And that's the part that I didn't like.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 3: She said, I think it's funny. It's levels to everything, right?
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  Speaker 3: And that was never this. After the host asked her
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  Speaker 3: to elaborate, Christina replied, whatever they had is not what
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  Speaker 3: we have.
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  Speaker 1: With a little laugh. She added that it's simple, but clarified.
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  Speaker 1: It's no disrespect to anybody.
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  Speaker 3: Whatever y'all think they have is not what we have
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  Speaker 3: for sure, Mackie emphasized. So I'm not worried about it.
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  Speaker 3: I see the comments too. So they, I don't believe
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  Speaker 3: that they were ever in anything. And that's why Pretty
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  Speaker 3: V did like a whole little skit eating fucking Wingstop.
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  Speaker 2: Right, because if that was her real nigga, she wouldn't
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  Speaker 2: do that, you know? Right, right.
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  Speaker 1: Girl, you the only, well, I won't.
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  Speaker 3: Say she's the only person who wants him because Rick
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  Speaker 3: Ross just had a newborn.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: So this, Christina also has a video where, you know,
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  Speaker 3: people have been calling her a pick me.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 3: And she was like, I'll be a pick me because
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  Speaker 3: I want my man to pick me all the time.
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  Speaker 1: I want us to pick each other. I'll be a
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  Speaker 1: pick me. But girl, you are misspelling or mispronouncing everything.
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  Speaker 1: dummy let's be very.
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  Speaker 3: Clear because this nigga that you be bragging about online
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  Speaker 3: just had a whole nother human being with someone else.
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  Speaker 2: Well you know I don't I don't blame her for
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  Speaker 2: being excited because they look to be very much in
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  Speaker 2: smitten with each other right now right so I don't
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  Speaker 2: blame her for being excited about yeah right now all
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  Speaker 2: we can do is the present so I don't blame
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  Speaker 2: her for being excited about this new romance that she's
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  Speaker 2: in but I just think it's her delivery. It just
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  Speaker 2: comes off very condescending. And I, and that's the part
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  Speaker 2: I don't like, but she's being attacked for, you know,
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  Speaker 2: people are attacking her. I wouldn't want to be called
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  Speaker 2: a pick me like, damn, is that what I'm giving?
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  Speaker 2: You know, uh, that's not what I'm trying to give.
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  Speaker 2: I think if someone would have asked me like, so
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  Speaker 2: what about pretty V? And that's my niggas ex are
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  Speaker 2: like publicly seeming like to be their ex. I would
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  Speaker 2: have been like, I think she's so funny. She's very funny.
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  Speaker 1: I love the.
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  Speaker 2: Jamaican skit that she does. You know, I wasn't there
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  Speaker 2: for that. So that's a question for Pretty V and
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: Rick Ross. So much love to her. I hope she
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: has an amazing 2024. Period. And move on.
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: That's some girls, girls shit. Okay. That's a brilliant response
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: and how you should respond.
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: But when you pick me, because that is what she's giving,
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: you would try to slight other women.
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: That's not what we here for. Right. I'm not really
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: here for her and her antics.
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: I don't know who found her online, but I'm kind
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: of tired of seeing her pop up on my timeline.
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: She just got to figure out a better way to
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: communicate what she's saying because it's just... What's her sign?
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: You say it.
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: She's a fucking Virgo. Let me tell y'all about Virgos, okay?
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: This is a real thing.
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: Y'all, literally, we was in a meeting yesterday, and I
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: told Tammy and Taylor, I said, this bitch a Virgo.
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: I bet y'all she a Virgo. I go look her
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: birthday up. She's a fucking Virgo.
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: One thing about Virgos, they never see their perception of
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: what's going on. It's always going to defend their decisions
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: and shit. Because they never feel like they're being played.
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: They're always above everything that's going on. And they know
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: everything that's going on. I knew that. They sign up
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: for all the things, right?
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: I have a friend who's a fucking Virgo. And when
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: I tell y'all, when I tell her my dumb bitch shit,
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: she'd be like, I don't see, I don't see how
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: y'all can do that. I don't see how you could
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: deal with niggas. Girl, bye.
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: As if you've never been played by a man before.
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: Let's be, every woman has been played by a man.
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: Like that's what dumb bitch shit is about.
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: Lisa. Okay. Stop playing with my friend now. And look,
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: Lisa's a goddamn Virgo too. That's what I'm talking about.
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: And that's not even the friend I was talking about
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: just then. There's another friend. Like, you can't tell these
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: bitches they ain't never been a dumb bitch. Okay? Y'all have.
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: Everybody has. Everybody. Men and women alike. Okay? So ain't
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: nobody exempt from this dumb bitch-ism. Cut it out. Christina,
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: you being a dumb bitch right now, girl. You know,
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: and I hope Rick Ross marries you.
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: Me too.
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: Remember he was engaged to Lyra before.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: Lyra Galore?
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: Lyra, Lyra. Yeah, Lyra Galore. And then she ended up
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: having a baby for P. Y'all, listen. I know y'all
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: gonna get on me for this type of shit, but listen.
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: I am a cute girl.
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: You are a beautiful woman.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: But, I am a beautiful woman.
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: But, one thing about it, I'm not about to risk my,
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: I'm not so selfish.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: That I'm going to risk my.
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: Child being beautiful having babies by certain niggas. Like, Lyra's baby,
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: this little girl is so, so cute.
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: But it could have went left. It could have went left.
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: This new baby that Rick Ross got is so, so cute,
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: but it could have went left. Because he got some
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: other kids that look kind of crazy. Uh-uh.
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: We not doing that with the kids now.
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: You can't be about the check so bad that you
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: don't give a fuck about your lineage.
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: Come on, man.
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: Y'all bitches can't be that selfish.
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: Be careful.
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying.
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: That is so mean, AJ.
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: That is not mean. I care about my offspring.
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: I care about my kids. And I don't love nobody
• 19:51
  Speaker 3: enough to fuck their lives up. You know, ugly people
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: have good lives too, right? That is not what my
• 19:59
  Speaker 3: middle school teacher told me. Okay, that nigga.
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: Said, if you challenge in the face, you will have
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: a hard life. If Rick Ross didn't have to check,
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: you think bitches would be on him like this?
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: Rick Ross literally thinks he's a dime. He was talking
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: crazy about Toni Braxton calling her an old lady.
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: Y'all the same age, nigga. Imagine that.
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's wild.
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: These niggas turn into bad bitches when they get the
• 20:25
  Speaker 3: check and they be treating people terribly.
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: I don't like it. I don't like it.
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: All the children are. We at We Talk Back believe
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: all children are beautiful and God's gift to the earth.
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: That is not true. Children? They might be God's gift. Dog,
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: I am not the type to be like, if I,
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: never mind, let's go on.
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: All children are beautiful. I want one, so I'm not going,
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: you know.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: I want one too, but I know like, listen.
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: Depending on how much I love this nigga, he could
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: be ugly, and I'm going to love him through.
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: The ugly baby.
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I've dated some men that wasn't as aesthetically beautiful,
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: but had great spirit and good energy and made me
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: laugh with my whole soul, and had a big old dick.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: You don't want your daughter looking like him. That is scary.
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: Look like me.
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: Girl, these girls, these... Who you look like?
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: You know, I never even considered that. I just loved him,
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: so I didn't even consider, like, I would have an
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: ugly baby, you know? I never thought about it. I
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: don't know. I get what you're saying.
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: Even while on top of that ugly dick, you ain't
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: never thought about it.
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: I just always thought, like, if I had a child,
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: the child would come out beautiful. Either way, it was
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: going to be beautiful to me, you know, because it
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: was my baby. Like, everybody look at my beautiful gargoyle. Like,
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't care. This is my beautiful gargoyle. Of course
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: you're not going to care.
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: I'm talking about the world and how the world treat people. Like,
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: I just be being realistic.
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: That's all. I'm not trying to give my kids any disadvantages.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: That's it.
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: Let's talk about tiny daughters.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: She lucky too.
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: Girl!
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: Girl! Y'all see how they've been doing Tiny on the internet.
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: Zanique is fucking lucky to her daddy part. Fine as hell. Okay.
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: Now Tiny was, Tiny was cute. Tiny should not have
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: done all that work to her, to herself. She definitely
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: was a pretty girl.
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: You so mean. She was.
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: I'm not mean. Like this is, it's just. Are you
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: a girl's girl? Are you a girl's girl?
• 22:49
  Speaker 3: I'm definitely a girl's girl, but I know when somebody
• 22:52
  Speaker 3: is not cute. Let's not play like we don't know that.
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: Okay. And you may not say it on this fucking live. Okay.
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: But we're going to talk about your ass when we
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: hang up.
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: All right. So. On Tuesday, January 9th, Zanique and Izzy
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: uploaded a question and answer video to their YouTube channel,
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: The Hunter Family. About eight minutes into the video, Zanique
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: posed a challenging question to her boyfriend. Would we still
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: be together if we didn't have our three-year-old daughter? And
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: this nigga basically says, nah, he ain't with the bullshit.
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: And he would not be with her if it wasn't
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: for the kid. On this live, and I'm impressed with
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: how she remained calm. And I admire that. Because as
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: nice as I like to be, I think that shit
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: would have turned into an episode of Cops.
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: That's all you was going to hear if it was me.
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because how you going to play with me like
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: that on this shit? We got all these people listening,
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: and you're going to tell me to my face that
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: you would not be with me. It would make me like,
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: Maybe they broke up, you know, maybe they broke up
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: after that live because I would definitely be like.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: They didn't though.
• 24:09
  Speaker 3: Cause they even posted a followup video after that. And
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: he basically was saying like, I'm here because I want
• 24:14
  Speaker 3: to be here. I got three other kids, you know
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: what I'm saying? Like this one ain't like I'm here
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: because I want to be here. Um, I think the
• 24:22
  Speaker 3: questions actually came from the audience. So somebody on the
• 24:26
  Speaker 3: live asked, you know, would they be together if it
• 24:29
  Speaker 3: wasn't for the three year old? And he said no,
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: explaining that he believes Anique had envisioned raising their daughter
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: in a two-parent household, which led her to tolerate a
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: lot of issues in their relationship. So, you recognize that
• 24:42
  Speaker 3: she is trying to keep her family together. And I
• 24:45
  Speaker 3: guess he feels like he's also doing the same thing
• 24:48
  Speaker 3: by tolerating her attitude, because he was like, um, you
• 24:52
  Speaker 3: always got an attitude. I wouldn't let no bitch, nobody
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: in general talk to me, you know, act the way
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: you be acting, is what he was saying to her. Um,
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: But we talk about this a lot, how men, like
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: women be having grievances with men, right?
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: And we voice them a lot.
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: We tell them every single day what we don't like
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: until they do course correction. But men oftentimes keep things in.
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: They don't tell the woman. So women really be thinking
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: they be above reproach out this bitch. You know, like
• 25:18
  Speaker 3: they were perfect in their relationship.
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: It's only because the nigga never told you. He probably
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: just went to the club and had Chris Sean Rock
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: sitting on his dick.
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: That's fine.
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: Instead of telling you.
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: That's how they handle it. That's how they handle their
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: issues often. I won't say all of them because I
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: don't want to just, you know, condemn all men. But
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: they will have, like, another person to alleviate the stress
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: that they have at home instead of just, like, you know,
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: battling the issues up front with your girl.
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like, tell her what's up so she can fix
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: the problem. You know what I'm saying?
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: And I know women have accountability issues, but it's on
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: their ass like they.
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: Do to you.
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: I like in hindsight of my last relationship, um, I
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: see all these, yeah, a hundred years ago, literally, I.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: Can see.
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: All the errors, fuck you, all the errors of my
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: ways that he never, like even things that he never
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: brought to my attention. I can look back and be like,
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: that was not okay. That was not it. How you
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: behaved on that, you know? And I remember him not
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: even saying nothing. So I'm thinking, like, damn, he probably
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: felt a way about that and just didn't. Or he
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: went and fucked somebody else after. You know, who knows
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: what he did. But he didn't come to me with it,
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: and he shouldn't. And I did believe in a lot
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: of ways that I was a stellar girlfriend, and oftentimes
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: I wasn't, you know. So I really couldn't identify with that,
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: you know.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think a lot of us can.
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: If we actually sit back and think, about our relationships,
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: whether you were at fault majority of the time or
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: the man was at fault, you learned something about yourself
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: through that relationship. So what did you learn about yourself,
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: negative or positive?
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: What did you learn about yourself in your last relationship?
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: I think somebody asked me that recently, and I'm still
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: thinking about it. I'm still, because it was so tumultuous.
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: I just don't know.
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: What was my, like, I know I, I always learn
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: like how I don't want to be treated. Right. There
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: are things. Okay.
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: So the tit for tat thing, I learned like, maybe
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: I shouldn't be that way. I should just walk away.
• 27:39
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying?
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: But I just, I feel like that is actually giving grace.
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: If I'm tit tatting, you know what I'm saying?
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: Because if you do something to me, right, I won't
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: necessarily leave, leave because I realized that we are just
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: humans and people going to make mistakes.
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: Right. And I want to be able to make a
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: mistake too. And you not harass me about it.
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: That might be a fucked up way of thinking.
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: But why not?
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: But if you intentionally make this mistake because they made
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: the mistake.
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: It's not really intentional. It's like, I wanted to do
• 28:10
  Speaker 3: this too. Like, why you get to do it? Why
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: do you get to do it and you think I
• 28:16
  Speaker 3: don't want to? But I'm practicing discipline in the relationship.
• 28:20
  Speaker 3: Whereas you have none. So the minute I do some shit,
• 28:24
  Speaker 3: it's like the world is about to end. That is
• 28:27
  Speaker 3: fucked up. But, I mean, men are men and women
• 28:30
  Speaker 3: are women, I guess. But I'm a grown-ass man.
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: So there's that part.
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: I think the greatest thing I learned, and I won't say,
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: it was a situation shift, honestly, because that was never
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: my man. I was never walking around saying, my man,
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: my man, my man, you know. But I learned that
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: my boundaries have to be stronger than my empathy. with
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: people like I really that's one thing I really learned
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: like I have to I would always well this happened
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: to him and that happened to him so that's why
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: he can shit on me you know and I have
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: to realize that that's one thing I definitely learned that
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: I have to be steadfast in my boundaries for myself
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: and I can't put my empathy for other people's situation
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: above the boundaries in my own life you know so
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: that was one great lesson and then another lesson is
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: that I can love someone selflessly. You know, I think
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: in my other relationships, I definitely was more selfish and
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: like me, me, me, me, me. You're lucky to.
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: Be with me.
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: Nigga, do you see me, nigga? Like I find you.
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: I'm beautiful I'm sucking your dick good I'm cooking for
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: you like and I was just a very me me
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: me bitch right and in that last situationship I was
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: able to be like very selfless to a flaw almost
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: you know to a fault.
• 29:58
  Speaker 3: Now that you're saying that I feel like in relationships,
• 30:01
  Speaker 3: I probably am not selfish enough because once somebody tell
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: me they want to do this, they want to do that.
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: I'm putting all my energy.
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: Towards whatever it is that they want to do. And
• 30:10
  Speaker 3: I put myself on the back burner. So that might
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: be like, I am learning to be a little bit
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: more selfish. And that's just even in friendship relationships, all relationships.
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: I feel like I'd be doing too fucking much and
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: I don't get nothing in return. A lot of times, um,
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: in a relationship with a man, like, if you help
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: him build a business, stuff like that, of course you're
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: going to get financial return. But are you feeling fulfilled
• 30:35
  Speaker 3: doing the things that you want to do? Because at
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: the beginning of this podcast, I was in a whole relationship.
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: And when we started this thing, it created a problem
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: in the relationship, too, because I was doing something outside
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: of him.
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 30:49
  Speaker 3: So discipline is one of the other things I learned.
• 30:52
  Speaker 3: That nigga's hella disciplined. So I need to be more
• 30:55
  Speaker 3: disciplined in this fucking struggle, because I have been doing
• 30:58
  Speaker 3: what the fuck I want for many years, and I
• 31:00
  Speaker 3: can't do that.
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: I can't move that way anymore. So that's one of
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: the things I learned. Yeah.
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: It's all about balance, you know? Not being too selfish,
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: not being too selfless. Finding that happy medium where you
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: don't feel like your boundaries are being railroaded, and you're
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: not just caring only about yourself in a relationship.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: Right. Mm-hmm.
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: Which is the slippery slope, baby.
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: That's your favorite shit to say.
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: But, y'all, when we come back after break, we want
• 31:32
  Speaker 3: to get into our main topic. And it's kind of
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: stemming from the shit with this Christina Mackey, Rick Ross's girlfriend,
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: because online they're calling her a pick me. And then
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: there's another, like, trend that had been popular on TikTok
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: and Instagram, this.
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: Girls, girls thing. <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL>.
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL>.
• 32:11
  Speaker 3: <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL> <HAL>
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: anytime somebody just does anything like to disagree with a
• 32:24
  Speaker 3: woman people in the comments like oh she is not
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: a girl's girl now that's one thing I don't agree
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: with like everybody ain't gonna like everybody right you could
• 32:34
  Speaker 3: be pleasant to everyone right this girl Christina Mackey people
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: are saying that she's not a girl's girl she's actually
• 32:44
  Speaker 3: a pick me which.
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: I consider the counter for girl's girl Tam thinks different, though.
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: So what is a girl's girl to you? To me?
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm. I guess a girl's girl to me is someone
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: who advocates for women in all ways. You know, like,
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: even the smallest of things, like just seeing a woman
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: walking down the street in a pretty dress and being like, yes, okay, dress.
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: You know, just that energy, you know, always advocating for
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: women and spreading love. Yeah. The Brooklyn Waves.
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: I call it a hype girl. Because, bitch, I be
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: hyping bitches up.
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: Okay?
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: Even if I don't know you. Like, I'm in your comments. Like,
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: if you look good, you're like, hey, girl, you look good. Da-da-da-da-da.
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: Even on the streets.
• 33:28
  Speaker 3: Those are, that's what I consider, like, one of the
• 33:31
  Speaker 3: characteristics of a girl's girl.
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: But that's the most basic. Like, if you fuck with
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: another girl's man, can you call yourself a girl's girl? So, no.
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: I have, so I've made a list. I made, well,
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: kind of, sort of.
• 33:47
  Speaker 3: And part of my list is like things where you
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: might not be considered a girl's girl if you do
• 33:51
  Speaker 3: these things. And then I have like the internet definition
• 33:56
  Speaker 3: of a girl's girl. So this, I forgot where I
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: got this from, but a girl's girl typically refers to
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: a woman who is supportive, understanding, and friendly toward other women.
• 34:07
  Speaker 3: It implies a strong sense of camaraderie and solidarity amongst women.
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: That's a basic definition of what a girl's girl is.
• 34:18
  Speaker 3: I'm definitely a girl's girl niggas really be trying to
• 34:21
  Speaker 3: get me to not be a girl's girl though and
• 34:24
  Speaker 3: those were like pick me's are people who pander to
• 34:28
  Speaker 3: men for the approval of men I have a lot
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: of guy friends who send me DM's all the time
• 34:34
  Speaker 3: trying to disparage women because we talk a lot of
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: shit about men and women on this podcast but I'm
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: a black woman first so I'm always going to show up.
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: For us it's definitely if you can put somebody in
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: position you know, and then take that opportunity to do it,
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: that's definitely a girl's girl. Now, some of these lists
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: was almost sound like lesbian. Like, the only way you
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: could be a girl's girl is if you like eating
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: pussy too. That's not necessarily true. Like, it was like,
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: girl's girls like hate men.
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: No.
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: And that's not true. Like, you can be a girl's
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: girl and love men. But, alright, so, you were saying
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: that like, a pick me is like someone who panders
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: to men. Or like, Women who say like, I'm a
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: guy's girl, like I like. I'm cooler with guys than
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: I am women. Do you feel like they're pick me?
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I don't. Those are guys, girls.
• 35:30
  Speaker 3: Those aren't girls, girls, because one of the characteristics of
• 35:36
  Speaker 3: a pick me would be someone who says I don't
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: have female friends. That's a guy's girl. I don't have
• 35:42
  Speaker 3: female friends. I only hang around guys. And the women
• 35:46
  Speaker 3: I know that, you know, stand on that, they oftentimes
• 35:49
  Speaker 3: done had sex with multiple of them homeboys of theirs
• 35:53
  Speaker 3: also that you'd.
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: Be hanging out with.
• 35:56
  Speaker 3: And they just be delusional and fucking ugly inside and out. Like,
• 36:00
  Speaker 3: I don't like women who don't like other women.
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: Pause.
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, not the pause.
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because how do you get through life without your girlfriends?
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I always find it weird, like, if I meet
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: a woman who don't have, if they wasn't a military brat,
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: you know, who traveled, like, always moving, if you don't
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: have nobody that you grew up with as a friend,
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: not even one, I'd be side-eyeing bitches like that. Like,
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: where's your homegirls at? Where's your childhood friends? Like, how
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: do you not have any?
• 36:31
  Speaker 3: When I think about the women that I no longer
• 36:34
  Speaker 3: have relationships with, like, who I considered, like, best friends
• 36:37
  Speaker 3: at the time, they don't have any childhood friends.
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: They don't have any consistent friends. They have add water.
• 36:45
  Speaker 3: For instant friends. Every three to six months, you hanging
• 36:49
  Speaker 3: out with a different group of people. Those are wishy
• 36:53
  Speaker 3: washy people. Like when I make friends with somebody, oftentimes
• 36:56
  Speaker 3: I'm friends, friends with them forever.
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: So, Oh, you know, I can't say the same. I,
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: I have, I have relationships that I've outgrown in different ways. Like, um,
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: Not because they're bad people or, but it just wasn't.
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: As we got older, our paths just took us different places.
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: So I can't necessarily say that I have everybody that
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: I've been friends with, you know. Some of them just,
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: we not like that no more. And it ain't no beef,
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: you know. It's just life. And then I do have
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: relationships or I've had relationships with people where I had
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: to exit them from my life. for whatever reason, it
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: just wasn't healthy. And I'm talking about people who were
• 37:41
  Speaker 2: close to me, you know, very close to me. And
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: I just, it wasn't healthy. The dynamic was no longer
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: suiting my life. So I had to exit them, you know,
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: and people I still love very much, you know, and
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: I still might inquire about, you know, are they good?
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: And I want them to be good, but bitch, I
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: don't fuck with you like that. You know, you don't
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: have people in your life like that.
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: I have an ex-friend who I consider a family member.
• 38:08
  Speaker 3: I consider her like a sister, a family member who
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: I don't fuck with, who I don't talk to no more.
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: I do care about her well-being and how she's doing,
• 38:16
  Speaker 3: but she's not a good friend. She's really not a
• 38:18
  Speaker 3: good person. And she always got a different group of friends.
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: Don't have no childhood friends for real. That's weird to me.
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: And I still hear stories about her friendships with other
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: women to this day.
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: Like having problems and issues and.
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: Be falling out. At some point you got to look
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: at you at some point.
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: Right. Right. Absolutely. I be falling out with bitches, but
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: typically we always come back together, but people don't, you know,
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: people either love or hate how forward I am at times.
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: Like it either is like, okay, I fuck with this
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: or I can, I can only deal with this bitch.
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: in doses or i can't deal with this bitch at
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: all but they have most the people who i am
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: very close with still understand that even with my bluntness
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: it's coming from a place of love it might come
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: off aggressive but it's not meant to be hurtful and
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: that's why they can still fuck with me.
• 39:25
  Speaker 3: This is from tiktok it says in some ways the
• 39:28
  Speaker 3: rise of the girls girls on tiktok is about pushing
• 39:30
  Speaker 3: back against the notion that we need to separate ourselves
• 39:33
  Speaker 3: from other women and craft personalities that are different from
• 39:37
  Speaker 3: those of everyone else.
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: You know how guys be like, you're just so different
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: from everybody else. Like how?
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: Because I can give you 30 bitches in my phone
• 39:46
  Speaker 3: that seem just like me.
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: Right? So it's like a tactic that men use that
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: creates pick-me's.
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: Like, you're so different. A lot of us have a
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: lot of the same characteristics. You know what I'm saying?
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: And when you start changing yourself completely to suit a male,
• 40:05
  Speaker 3: that's when it becomes, like, pick-me-ish.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: You're just going against all women. Right?
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: There's a lot of... Yeah, I see... I see a
• 40:16
  Speaker 2: lot of videos of women saying all these things about
• 40:21
  Speaker 2: what women need to do. And some of it might
• 40:23
  Speaker 2: be true, but then some of it does give off
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: this energy that you're pandering to men in a real way. Like,
• 40:33
  Speaker 2: you need to suck his dick every day when he
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: come home from work. It don't matter what happened. Like, what? Girl,
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: what are you talking about?
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: Absolutely not. That's a pick me.
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: I'm not sucking nobody dick every day.
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 40:50
  Speaker 3: So these are the things I came up with that
• 40:53
  Speaker 3: I consider a girl's girl. So a girl's girl literally
• 40:55
  Speaker 3: fixes each other's crown, even when you don't know the woman.
• 40:59
  Speaker 3: So if I see a woman with like toilet tissue
• 41:03
  Speaker 3: coming out the bathroom on her shoe, I'd be like, girl,
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: hold on.
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: Before you go back out in the club.
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 41:08
  Speaker 3: Tag sticking out. I'm tucking your tag and I don't
• 41:11
  Speaker 3: know you. Hair out of place.
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: I'm fixing your hair. Those are the type of things.
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: That- Lashes coming up. Close your eye. Your lash coming up.
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: Girl, I got some glue, girl. You know?
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: Like, you always trying to make sure their crown- Everybody
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: on point. Is good.
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: Right? Even women you don't know. With friends, you post
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: the best pics. Bitch, even if we- I look fine
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: as hell in this picture. You look fucked up. I
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: like this picture. This is the only picture we got.
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: The picture ain't going up.
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: If you don't look good in it.
• 41:38
  Speaker 3: Right. Right?
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: Right. Um, and even catching candid photos of your friend
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: where you think she looking good. Like, girl, that's a
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: good picture. Stay right there. That's a girl's girl.
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: Right. But you know what? Sometimes I, somebody will post
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: a picture of you that you, they think look good
• 41:54
  Speaker 2: of you. And you'd be like, bitch.
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: That don't look good.
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: Right. And you should have ran by me first.
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: Um, that's ugly.
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: To that one friend I was talking about.
• 42:07
  Speaker 3: Um, It could be a general consensus that I'm wearing
• 42:13
  Speaker 3: some super fly shit.
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: And I would ask her like, you like this? It
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: would always be no.
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: The bitch never liked anything I ever had. Imagine that.
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: And I remember one time she called me crying on
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: the phone and she was like crying about her boyfriend
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: at the time. She was like, I feel like he's
• 42:31
  Speaker 3: intentionally disagreeing with me. Bitch, I like to put the
• 42:34
  Speaker 3: phone on mute to laugh because I feel like you've
• 42:37
  Speaker 3: been trolling me that same way our whole friendship. intentionally disagreeing,
• 42:43
  Speaker 3: intentionally just not liking shit.
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: Cause she's country bumpkin. So how the fuck am some
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: shit I'm wearing ain't fly bitch. Are you, are you blind?
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: And everybody else thinks is nice. Yeah. She never liked it.
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: And you put the phone on mute and laugh.
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: That's mean.
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: That is not mean because you're complaining about something that
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: you literally do to other people. Right? So you got
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: somebody who's challenging you. He was challenging her. And that
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: was a problem for her. You see what I'm saying?
• 43:16
  Speaker 3: Now he's intentionally disagreeing because he's challenging you. But you
• 43:22
  Speaker 3: do that to everybody else all day long, but you
• 43:25
  Speaker 3: just don't recognize it.
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: People don't see themselves oftentimes. You know?
• 43:31
  Speaker 3: And that wasn't the time for me to say, hey,
• 43:33
  Speaker 3: you know, you do that shit to me.
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: That wasn't the time. She's crying on the phone. about
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: the man doing the shit.
• 43:38
  Speaker 3: Like I wasn't going to use that as an opportunity
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: to tell her how much of a fucking sucky friend
• 43:42
  Speaker 3: she is, but it would have been the truth.
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah. But me being a girl's girl. Yeah.
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: It wouldn't have been good.
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: I put her feelings first.
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: Well, you know, it's, it's all about delivery too. Cause
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: that could have been a, a opportunity to share like,
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: you know, how she, maybe this is why this is happening.
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: You know, like, Sometimes you can be combative with us.
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: And like, yeah, you know, even I understand where, you know,
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: you don't like, you always tell me you never like
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: anything I have on. And it's hurtful sometimes.
• 44:18
  Speaker 3: It's never hurtful because I know she was a hater then.
• 44:21
  Speaker 3: I just didn't, I didn't really realize it until the
• 44:24
  Speaker 3: end of the relationship.
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: Like you've been hating on.
• 44:25
  Speaker 3: Me because I'm not the type of person who likes
• 44:28
  Speaker 3: to say, oh, I got haters.
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: Like people are like that are delusional to me. Those
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: aren't girls, girls.
• 44:33
  Speaker 3: The people who get on the internet and claim all
• 44:36
  Speaker 3: these people just always hating on them.
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: Like you're delusional.
• 44:39
  Speaker 3: You know, it's a general consensus that you're whack as fuck.
• 44:42
  Speaker 3: Nobody's hating on you.
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: Okay. But I realized she just was a, a, a,
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: a AJ hater.
• 44:50
  Speaker 3: I realized that at the end of the relationship because
• 44:53
  Speaker 3: I'm rewinding like slick shit. She would say, you know
• 44:57
  Speaker 3: what I'm saying? Like friends joke on each other all
• 44:59
  Speaker 3: the time. You can't get mad because my jokes hit better.
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: Right?
• 45:04
  Speaker 3: So now you initiated the joking, right? And I just
• 45:08
  Speaker 3: fucking clinked your ass up right quick. Now it's a problem.
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the thing with women. Me and my friend
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: was just talking about that last night. Like, we can
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: be sensitive and some jokes are funny and then sometimes
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: the jokes hurt, you know? Like, so you just got
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: to be, don't start nothing, won't be nothing if you
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: in that joke, if you in that jokey mode.
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: Because I got an hour worth of stand-up comedy for anybody.
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: It's real. Okay?
• 45:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, so now you can't negate how your joke
• 45:36
  Speaker 3: made me feel just because I didn't cry about it.
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: I just came back harder. I'm a one-upper. Okay? Don't
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: start no shit. It won't be no shit over here.
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: So you and this girl are no longer friends?
• 45:50
  Speaker 3: No, absolutely fucking not. And over the years, she's actually
• 45:53
  Speaker 3: tried to be my friend again. But I said some
• 46:00
  Speaker 3: shit on this podcast like two years ago or so.
• 46:04
  Speaker 3: And I think she heard it, and finally she stopped.
• 46:07
  Speaker 3: Because I don't know how to be your friend, first
• 46:08
  Speaker 3: of all. I don't know how to be your friend.
• 46:11
  Speaker 3: I don't feel comfortable being your friend. I don't feel
• 46:13
  Speaker 3: comfortable telling you.
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: About my life. Nothing. Like, you're not somebody who I
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: would want to rekindle anything with. I wish you well, though.
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: I hope you're doing well all the time. You know? Because, again,
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: it's one of those things where you realize why somebody
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: is the way they are. But I don't have to
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: use it to justify how the fuck you treat me.
• 46:32
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: You got to go figure that out. You got to
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: go figure it out. One of the characteristics of someone
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: who is not a girl's girl would be a habitual
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: side bitch.
• 46:49
  Speaker 2: Always fucking with somebody, man.
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: Yes. Okay.
• 46:52
  Speaker 3: Intentionally fucking with people when you know who they fuck
• 46:55
  Speaker 3: with or who you know who their girlfriend is.
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: That's weirdo behavior to me.
• 47:00
  Speaker 3: If you have a personal relationship with people and you
• 47:04
  Speaker 3: fucking on somebody that.
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: They're with or used to be with. How about that?
• 47:12
  Speaker 3: Fucking with somebody that used to fuck with somebody that's
• 47:15
  Speaker 3: your friend.
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. Like we had an actual relationship with
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: this person.
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: And you're being deceitful and fucking with them behind their back.
• 47:25
  Speaker 2: That's crazy.
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Um... The other thing I had was says they
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: only hang with dudes.
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: Are you a girl's girl? If you fuck with a
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: man and you don't know his bitch, you still not like...
• 47:39
  Speaker 2: I guess that's not good girl's girl's behavior.
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: It's not. It's not because I always say that women,
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: they have a responsibility. They have.
• 47:51
  Speaker 3: We have a responsibility to other women. You know how
• 47:53
  Speaker 3: it feels to be hurt. You know how it feels
• 47:54
  Speaker 3: to get cheated on. We always want to blame the man.
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: But like I say, a man can't cheat unless a
• 48:01
  Speaker 3: woman is willing to compete. And bitches is always willing.
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: Right?
• 48:06
  Speaker 3: So if there was no woman that would be willing
• 48:09
  Speaker 3: to sleep with a man knowing that he has a situation,
• 48:11
  Speaker 3: knowing that he lives with his baby mama, knowing that
• 48:14
  Speaker 3: he has a wife, knowing that he, you know, fucking
• 48:18
  Speaker 3: with this... person off and on forever this is a
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: forever person in his life he would never be able
• 48:25
  Speaker 3: to really cheat if women weren't willing to cheat with
• 48:28
  Speaker 3: him so we got some responsibility in that bullshit too
• 48:32
  Speaker 3: so no that's not a girl's girl to me.
• 48:36
  Speaker 2: We got a huge responsibility in that and that's why
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: i said no pussy outside the pussy.
• 48:41
  Speaker 3: Right that's why i said habitual though if you're not
• 48:44
  Speaker 3: always doing it this is not like some normal shit
• 48:46
  Speaker 3: you do like ending up with somebody's man I wouldn't
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: say you're not a girl's girl, but if this is like,
• 48:53
  Speaker 3: this is your like main position in fucking life.
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: Like you, you always fucking with somebody who belonged to
• 48:59
  Speaker 2: somebody else.
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: All the time. Yeah.
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: You're not a girl's girl.
• 49:04
  Speaker 2: That's a problem.
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Uh, yeah, I agree. I agree.
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: You're not even for yourself.
• 49:12
  Speaker 3: You know, Khalees called out Beyonce for not being a
• 49:15
  Speaker 3: girl's girl.
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: You remember that?
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: No, what happened?
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Beyonce's last album. This is last year. And Khalees
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: went live.
• 49:24
  Speaker 3: People act like they ain't heard from Khalees in years,
• 49:27
  Speaker 3: but I've been following Khalees for years. She's one of
• 49:28
  Speaker 3: my favorite people on Instagram. I aspire to have a
• 49:31
  Speaker 3: farm and all that shit she got going on. So
• 49:36
  Speaker 3: Beyonce sampled a Khalees song. And Khalees's intellectual property has
• 49:43
  Speaker 3: been finessed by Pharrell, right? So Khalees felt like, you know,
• 49:48
  Speaker 3: Pharrell did that shit on purpose to slight her, but
• 49:51
  Speaker 3: she felt like Beyonce, you know me, you know people
• 49:53
  Speaker 3: that know me, we have mutual friends.
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: You could at least give me a heads up as
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: two black women in the industry.
• 50:00
  Speaker 3: Like people, music and stuff, be they pride and joy.
• 50:03
  Speaker 3: And then Pharrell was on a whole press tour talking
• 50:06
  Speaker 3: about how she just felt like it was a lot
• 50:07
  Speaker 3: of hypocrisy. You got Beyonce saying how she's a girl's girl,
• 50:11
  Speaker 3: make all this woman empowerment music, but the opportunity that
• 50:15
  Speaker 3: you have to actually be a girl's girl, you don't
• 50:17
  Speaker 3: do it. You don't take it. Why not tell me,
• 50:21
  Speaker 3: give me a heads up that these men are using
• 50:23
  Speaker 3: my music? Are you going to be using my music
• 50:25
  Speaker 3: and they just giving you my shit like it's nothing?
• 50:27
  Speaker 3: Even though I don't have control over it, right? It's
• 50:30
  Speaker 3: just still common courtesy, basically. Because she's like, plenty of
• 50:33
  Speaker 3: people have sampled her shit, but they will still give
• 50:37
  Speaker 3: her a heads up.
• 50:38
  Speaker 2: Beyonce said, I ain't got time to call every bitch
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  Speaker 2: who I'm on my album. Girl, bye.
• 50:48
  Speaker 3: If somebody were to sample a Beyonce anything, if somebody
• 50:52
  Speaker 3: were to do that to Beyonce, all hell would break loose.
• 50:54
  Speaker 3: But I remember seeing a video, and y'all can look
• 50:56
  Speaker 3: this up. Just Google Beyonce saying she steals. There's a
• 51:01
  Speaker 3: video out there with.
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: Beyonce laughing and kiki-ing with somebody in a studio saying,
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: people don't like when they come to their shows because
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: we're going to, we're going to steal everything after we leave.
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: She was laughing.
• 51:15
  Speaker 3: She said, she said, and then we'll go meet everybody
• 51:18
  Speaker 3: and say how great the shore was, how great the
• 51:20
  Speaker 3: show was, and then steal it. This is what she
• 51:23
  Speaker 3: said and laughing and joking about it.
• 51:26
  Speaker 2: I just, I love Beyonce so much. I just refuse
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: to believe that she's not a girl's girl. Like, I
• 51:32
  Speaker 2: feel like her music just be like empowering women. It's
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: all for the girl.
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: That's what Khalees was saying. Like you, she was like,
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: I really walk this walk.
• 51:40
  Speaker 3: You just talk. She was like, you're not a girl's girl.
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: If you're not looking out for other women, especially when
• 51:48
  Speaker 3: they being slighted by men, you're not a girl's girl.
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: You're not.
• 51:53
  Speaker 3: Cause Pharrell was going around talking about like how, um,
• 51:57
  Speaker 3: artists should be able to restructure their deals, how they
• 51:59
  Speaker 3: should have, you know, more ownership and stuff like that. Like,
• 52:05
  Speaker 3: advocating for the artist and he was ripping her off simultaneously.
• 52:09
  Speaker 3: Or he has ripped her off and she hasn't been
• 52:11
  Speaker 3: able to really.
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: Make money off of her music. But other people can
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: use her shit and not even say, hey girl, I'm
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: gonna use your shit. At least. Because this is still
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: my shit.
• 52:22
  Speaker 2: What song?
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: It was Milkshake, I believe.
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: Um.
• 52:26
  Speaker 3: It's just you can hear the sample, the music. You
• 52:28
  Speaker 3: know how this be like parts and pieces.
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but you can hear it.
• 52:32
  Speaker 2: A little snippet.
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah. It was some shit like that.
• 52:35
  Speaker 2: Damn.
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: And that's like one of her number one songs. Come on, man.
• 52:39
  Speaker 2: Well, I think we could find an example in everyone's
• 52:42
  Speaker 2: life that wasn't a girl's girl shit.
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they said talking behind women's backs. Come on.
• 52:49
  Speaker 3: I talk shit about everybody, including you.
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: Let's be clear.
• 52:53
  Speaker 3: Like, who I'm going to vent to if I'm trying
• 52:55
  Speaker 3: to work through a problem with this person? So I
• 52:57
  Speaker 3: can't talk to the problem sometimes about the problem. You
• 53:00
  Speaker 3: have to go to outside sources sometimes. It's not gossip, though.
• 53:03
  Speaker 3: I'm not telling people's personal lives to other people. But
• 53:07
  Speaker 3: just like, you know, if we're experiencing something.
• 53:10
  Speaker 2: I don't think that counts. Because I think all women
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: do that, you know? You need to vent.
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like talking behind somebody's back.
• 53:19
  Speaker 2: As long as you're not like.
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: I don't consider that really talking behind someone's back. Yeah, yeah.
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: Disparaging them.
• 53:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, just saying. Just hateful, mean hateful shit, and it's
• 53:29
  Speaker 2: supposed to be your friend. That's, I think, talking behind
• 53:32
  Speaker 2: someone's back. Yeah.
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: But other than that, I don't agree with that. Yeah,
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: me neither. Even that quiz. That quiz was like, do
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: you gossip? Like, gossip? Gossip is like telling, girl, let
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: me tell you about this bitch and who she fucking today. Right. Like, no.
• 53:49
  Speaker 3: Bitch cause we all got our little things I'm not
• 53:51
  Speaker 3: telling nobody to ask for them to be side-eyeing you
• 53:53
  Speaker 3: side-eyeing the next person when they see them in person
• 53:57
  Speaker 3: absolutely not but it'd.
• 53:59
  Speaker 2: Be like let me tell you what this bitch said
• 54:01
  Speaker 2: in the meeting just now.
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: Right absolutely nothing y'all would I tell y'all absolutely fucking
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: nothing but anyway y'all yeah so listen I want to
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: encourage all women to aspire to be a girl's girl
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: okay you may not have been one in the past.
• 54:20
  Speaker 3: Start looking out for other women, even women you aren't
• 54:22
  Speaker 3: related to, even women you don't know personally. One thing
• 54:28
  Speaker 3: I don't like today I saw on Instagram was Carisha
• 54:33
  Speaker 3: posted that she's made a million dollars off of the
• 54:35
  Speaker 3: brand Carisha Please, right? As of 2024, right? And people
• 54:42
  Speaker 3: in the comments disparaging her, you know, God takes care
• 54:46
  Speaker 3: of fools and babies.
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: All type of little weird comments.
• 54:49
  Speaker 3: I'm like, dog, I can't do nothing but congratulate that
• 54:52
  Speaker 3: young mother of two. Maybe she does things in an
• 54:56
  Speaker 3: unconventional way that I probably wouldn't do to.
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: Get the bag. But however she feels like she has
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: to do it, she's doing it. So who am I
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: to judge that?
• 55:07
  Speaker 2: It's all crazy. People just be finding a reason to
• 55:09
  Speaker 2: be mad. And it really be like, when I see
• 55:12
  Speaker 2: people like that, I'd be like wondering what's going on
• 55:14
  Speaker 2: in their own life. Are they, is their shit together?
• 55:17
  Speaker 2: Are they okay? Because why do you have so much
• 55:20
  Speaker 2: time to bring other people down? It's crazy.
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: Right. And a lot of people will say that comes
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: with celebrity. I, I.
• 55:29
  Speaker 3: Wouldn't say if I like, if I got like some
• 55:31
  Speaker 3: super duper stardom that I would be like a Cardi
• 55:33
  Speaker 3: B always trying to clap back.
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: But I don't feel like, people being nasty and mean
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: to you should come with being a celebrity. It shouldn't.
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Because the people are the.
• 55:47
  Speaker 3: Reason these people get elevated in the first place. So
• 55:50
  Speaker 3: it's almost like they think that they should also be
• 55:52
  Speaker 3: the ones to tear them down when they get too big.
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: Oh, be humble and shit like that. Like, no, bitch.
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: Pop your shit. I like when women pop their shit.
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: I saw a post.
• 56:02
  Speaker 2: Just focus on the positive energy coming your way. Because
• 56:05
  Speaker 2: as much negative energy is coming your way, there's positive too.
• 56:08
  Speaker 2: Focus on that. That's what I say.
• 56:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think a lot of times people fixate on
• 56:13
  Speaker 3: the negative shit instead of just.
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: Commenting back to the people who bigging you up. Right.
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: Comment back to the hype girls.
• 56:20
  Speaker 2: Right. The girls girls.
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: Girls who like girls. Yes. Okay.
• 56:26
  Speaker 3: We hype girls here at We Talk Back. Anyway, y'all
• 56:29
  Speaker 3: be friendly. Say hi to black women when y'all see one.
• 56:32
  Speaker 3: Say hi to each other. Tell them they look good today.
• 56:35
  Speaker 3: Bitches might be having a bad day and you saying, bitch,
• 56:37
  Speaker 3: you look good.
• 56:38
  Speaker 2: Just could change the trajectory. could change the trajectory it's
• 56:42
  Speaker 2: just about the you know treat others how you want
• 56:44
  Speaker 2: to be treated I mean you learned that in the
• 56:46
  Speaker 2: first grade so that's that.
• 56:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah or treat others how they want to be treated
• 56:52
  Speaker 3: how about that yeah but y'all find a way to
• 56:56
  Speaker 3: be nice anyway if you enjoyed this episode girls girls
• 57:01
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