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- Lucas: Luna, I want to start with a stat that's been sitting with me since I read the National Longitudinal Survey data from the Bureau of Labor Statistics. Luna: I'm listening. Which cohort? Lucas: The cohort that entered the workforce between 2017 and 2020. If your first job out of college lasted less than 18 months, you were 40 percent more likely to leave your second job within two years compared to someone whose first job lasted three years or more. Luna: Forty percent? That's a huge behavioral signal. So your first job isn't just a resume line—it sets a pattern. Lucas: Exactly. Researchers call it 'tenure anchoring.' The first real job creates a reference point for what feels normal. If you left after 12 months, your brain starts treating that as the default timeline. Luna: So it's almost like a commitment habit. If you break it early, you're more likely to break it again. Lucas: Right. And it's not just correlation—there's a feedback loop. Short tenure means you miss out on the deeper learning curve that happens in year two, which means you're less invested, which makes leaving easier next time. Luna: But isn't that also a reflection of the job market? Maybe people who leave early are just in industries where churn is normal, like tech startups. Lucas: That's the big confound. The data does control for industry, though. Even within the same sector, the pattern holds. The effect is largest for people who left their first job voluntarily, not due to layoffs. Luna: So what about someone who started in a bad fit? They leave after eight months because the culture was toxic. That's smart, not pathological. Lucas: Absolutely. The research isn't saying all short first jobs are bad. It's saying that after that first move, you have to be intentional. Because the default pattern can become a trap. Luna: I want to hear an example of someone who broke that trap. Lucas: Sure. There's a case from a career coach I spoke with—a software engineer, let's call him Mark. His first job out of college was at a midsize SaaS company. He stayed 11 months, left for a startup, stayed 14 months, then another startup for 10 months. Luna: So by year four, he'd had three jobs. Classic pattern. Lucas: Right. And he was getting interviews, but he started noticing that in final rounds, hiring managers would say things like 'we're looking for someone who will grow with us.' He realized his resume was a red flag. Luna: What did he do? Lucas: He worked with a coach who reframed his narrative. Instead of listing each job separately with short durations, he grouped them under one heading: 'Early Career Exploration Phase—2019 to 2023.' Then he highlighted the skills he built across all three, not the dates. Luna: That's clever. It changes the frame from 'job hopper' to 'deliberate learner.' Lucas: Exactly. And he committed to staying at his next role for at least three years. He's now two and a half years in at a larger company, and he told me the first time he hit the 18-month mark, it felt like a psychological milestone. Luna: He had to unlearn his own pattern. That's harder than just updating a resume. Lucas: If today was actually useful to you—maybe you're thinking about your own tenure pattern or helping a friend reframe their resume—the way this show stays ad-free is listener support. You can keep that going at buy me a coffee dot com slash fexingo. No pressure, just if it's worth a coffee to you. Luna: Yeah, and honestly, we love hearing from listeners who've been through this. It keeps us honest. Lucas: So back to the data. LinkedIn's 2025 workforce report had a similar finding. They looked at the first job tenure of Gen Z workers—people born after 1997—and the median is 1.8 years. For millennials in their first job, it was 2.5 years. Luna: So Gen Z is already anchoring shorter. That's going to compound. Lucas: It might. But here's the nuance: shorter tenures in early career don't necessarily predict shorter tenures later if you have a deliberate break. The key is making a conscious choice about your second or third job, not just drifting. Luna: What does a conscious choice look like in practice? Lucas: You set a minimum tenure goal before you accept the offer. Not 'I'll stay as long as it's good' but 'I commit to 24 months unless something fundamental changes—like a layoff, a toxic manager, or a once-in-a-career opportunity.' Luna: That's a rule. Do people actually follow that? Lucas: The ones who do break the pattern. I talked to a product manager who had three jobs in four years. She set a rule: no matter what, she would stay at her next job for three years. She hit two years and got a great offer. She turned it down because of her rule. Luna: That takes discipline. Did she regret it? Lucas: She's at year three now, and she says staying gave her the chance to lead a major product launch that she wouldn't have had if she left. That launch is now the centerpiece of her resume. Luna: So the longer tenure let her build a signature achievement. That's hard to replicate in short stints. Lucas: Exactly. A 12-month job is often just orientation and first projects. You rarely get to see the full cycle. In a three-year role, you can own a product from concept to launch to iteration. Luna: I want to circle back to the anchoring idea. Is there research on how long the anchoring effect lasts? Lucas: Yes. The NLS data shows that the pattern is strongest for the first three jobs. After that, the effect weakens. So if you have two short jobs in a row, your third job is still influenced. But by job four or five, your more recent tenures start to dominate the pattern. Luna: That's hopeful. It means you can overwrite the anchor with new data. Lucas: Right. And the overwriting is faster if you have a long tenure. One three-year job can reset the expectation. Luna: What about the flip side? Someone whose first job was six years. Do they struggle to leave later? Lucas: There's evidence for that too. They anchor to long tenure and may stay too long in a role that isn't growing them. They have to learn to leave. Luna: So either extreme can be a trap. The sweet spot is intentionality. Lucas: Exactly. The goal isn't a specific number of years. It's being aware of your own pattern and asking: 'Is this move driven by opportunity or by habit?' Luna: I think that's the most practical takeaway. For anyone listening, look at your own tenure history. What's the mode? If it's 14 months, you have a pattern. Lucas: And then decide: does that pattern serve your career goals? If yes, great. If not, you know what to change.