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Ep 7. Step Into Your Future Selves Shoes · The Manifestation Station

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Music.
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You're listening to the Manifestation Station podcast. I'm your host Holly Edwards
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and together we can help create your magic.
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Hi and welcome back. Another week done and dusted.
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I hope you've all had such a lovely week. I was just thinking about each and
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every person listening to this today.
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I'm just thinking where are you what struggles
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have you got going on what are you happy about
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what are you giving gratitude about and wherever
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you are I just want you to know that I know that
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each person has their own things going on I
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sometimes get messages going look I've figured out
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figured out how to find love I've figured out how to
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sort out my career but I just need the money or I've
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figured out money but I just want to manifest the
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love of my life you can do it all but
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also I'm here to tell you that whatever you're going through
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whatever your struggles are and I think we all have them
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we all have our own personal struggles and I'm
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here at the other end of your speaker the other end of your whatever you're
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listening on at the moment if you're in the car if you're having a walk you're
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having a bath if you're going to bed I'm with you You're not alone and this episode,
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I am really so excited about this episode and I think this is something that
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I've wanted to talk about since I started the podcast and I'm.
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I've been into manifesting for quite a long time now. I've been doing it almost 20 years.
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But this step that we're talking about today, I feel like this only really properly
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resonated with me and clicked, I would say, in the last couple of years.
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And I don't think it's spoken about enough. I don't think there's enough emphasis
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on this part of manifesting.
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So I think if you can nail this step
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and if you want to make steps towards
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your manifesting goals and really attract them in and elevate your manifesting
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game this is the step to take note of and this step is about aligning your behaviors
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and stepping into your future selves shoes that's actually one of my favorite quotes,
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step into your future self's shoes.
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So what does that mean? Now you might, if you're into manifesting,
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you may have heard of this before that you have to act now as if you already
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have received your desires.
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So I used to kind of look at that step and think, okay, I have to act really happy.
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I have to act really happy that I've received my manifestation as if it had already happened.
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So say when I was looking for to meet my soulmate, I'd almost,
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I'd visualize, I would write down what I was looking for in a partner,
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I would put it on a vision board.
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And then I'd kind of visualize being feeling really happy now as if they've arrived.
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And I kind of thought that's all it meant. Just acting as if you had it now
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was acting happy as if you've got it now.
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And that is very much a part of it, but that is not all of it.
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And I think the key word here is act.
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Act as though you already have received your desires. Act as if you've already
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received your manifestations.
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Stepping to your future self's shoes means you will be acting as though you
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have already received your desires.
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Aligning your behaviors.
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Are you aligning yourself now? Not just feeling happy now as if you've already
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received your desires, but are you aligning your behaviors?
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Behaviors so this is about acting it's about
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our behaviors what are we doing now to
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show the universe that we have already received our
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desires now i'm going to go into a little bit more detail here because you may
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be confused at the moment thinking well yeah i'm acting happy as if i've got
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my desires but they're not actually here yet but the point is that it's a crucial
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step that gets really overlooked.
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So we've talked about getting really clear on what it is that you want to manifest.
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You're being more positive and you're trying to raise your vibrations and you're
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trying to step onto the right frequency in order to align with your manifestations.
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And then what do you do? A lot of people carry on living the exact same life
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in the exact same way that they were living before putting out to the universe
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about what it is that we wanted to manifest.
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So you are, I'm not saying you are doing this, but some people are.
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And I think a lot of people are putting out what they want to manifest and then
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they are waiting, waiting for their manifestations to come knocking at the door.
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But that is not aligning your behaviors. So
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if we're talking about frequencies and and the
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need to operate on the same frequencies as
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your dreams so by waiting for your
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manifestation to come knocking at the door is not aligning
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your behaviors and you're likely not
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operating on the same frequency as your
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desire so it's time to change the channel tune into the new channel that is
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operating on the same frequency as your desire Your dreams are not going to
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be able to reach you if you're on the wrong channel because you are operating
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on a different frequency.
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The magic will start happening when you start becoming your future self.
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You can start today and take small steps today to start living life now as if
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those desires have already come to you. So imagine like now that it's like a dress rehearsal.
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Imagine if you landed your dream tomorrow.
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Imagine then that you haven't actually been practicing and preparing yourself
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for this version of your life,
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that it will be a waste to receive it tomorrow because you're not going to be
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ready and you won't know who you are meant to be once you've received it.
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Now there's been studies that have been done where this happens a lot to people
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who have won the lottery.
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Now don't ask me, I always say if I win the lottery tomorrow,
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don't worry, I'll know exactly how to spend it.
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And I know exactly how to manage the money.
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But it's true. And you see a lot of lottery winners that blow their money in
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a few years and kind of end up in therapy.
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And they say, I was happier before I won the money.
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I know. I know. You're all shaking your head now going, why did these people
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win the lottery? Why not me?
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But the thing is, it does come into the same process of aligning your behaviors.
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So those people likely probably hadn't had the chance yet to change their money
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mindset and align their money behaviors.
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They hadn't stepped into their future self shoes.
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They still hadn't changed their old established money ideologies.
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So believe it or not, just getting the money doesn't change your money mindset.
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But working on shifting your subconscious thoughts and working through your blockages does.
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That's why it's so important to align your behaviors with who you want to become.
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If you start becoming your future self now, this will show the universe that
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you are ready to receive.
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And therefore, when you feel like you are ready to receive, you will automatically
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become more proactive about your goals.
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You'll put yourself in situations which are more aligned with your goals,
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you'll be happier now because you'll also be operated on a frequency which is
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authentic to your passions and your dreams.
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So how do you align your behaviors and how do you step into your future self shoes?
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If you want to manifest love, for example, let's imagine that you've put out
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there exactly what you're looking for in a dream partner.
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Maybe you've made a list of the characteristics that you want to attract in
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with your future partner.
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But if you've put out your list and you've visualized your new partner,
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but you're sitting indoors,
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maybe every day in your PJs, not having showered, you're binging on a TV series
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every day, scrolling endlessly on your phone, feeling low.
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Eating junk food, not moving your body, self-worth's not great,
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you're not keeping yourself mentally or physically fit, then the chances of Mr.
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Right or Mrs. Right knocking on your front door tomorrow is unlikely.
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Because you're not operating on the love channel, on the love frequency.
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And more importantly, you're not behaving as though you've already received love.
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If you met the love of your life tomorrow, would you be having the same day today?
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They're sitting in your PJs, they're scrolling on your phone,
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they're eating junk food. It doesn't mean that all of those things are wrong.
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I've said this before in other podcasts. off. Nothing wrong with lounging around
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in your PJs, having a lovely TV binge, eating chocolate.
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Oh my gosh, nothing wrong with that. But if this is kind of your day-to-day
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life, you're not showing up for yourself and you're not showing the universe
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you're ready to receive love.
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If you met the love of your life tomorrow, would you stay in your PJs tomorrow?
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Would you not wash your hair? Would you not shower?
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Would you, I don't know, eat three McDonald's
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in a row and then eat your chocolate and maybe you would
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do some of those things but the likelihood is you'll probably
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feel as though you have more self-worth tomorrow
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once you've met your partner and this is
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the key here you need to bring your self-worth and your self-care in now today
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to align your behaviors with your goal so imagine yourself to be in love with
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your soulmate and they love you back and And you're in a happy, fulfilling,
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loving relationship where they have chosen you and you have chosen them.
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How would you feel? How would you behave? What would your new routine look like?
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What would you be doing differently today in your day-to-day life that you haven't
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been doing prior to meeting your soulmate?
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Would you be planning new dates? Start taking steps now.
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That align with your desire. Start visiting new places that you want to take your partner to.
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Go with friends, go alone, start seeing the world as you would do once your partner has arrived.
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Would you love yourself more because you're now in a relationship and someone
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else is able to see your self-worth?
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The best way to align your behaviors, if you're looking for love for example,
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is to start loving yourself now.
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I think we hear this battered around quite a lot, start, you know,
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love yourself before someone else can love you.
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But actually, if you think about it, that is a way of aligning your behaviours.
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How can you expect someone else to come along and see your self-worth if you're
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not showing up for yourself and loving yourself now?
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You're not showing the universe that you love yourself now. You're not showing
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the universe you are worthy of love.
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You're not showing the universe that you know how to deal with that love once it comes along.
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You need to get yourself in the best shape mentally now before your love arrives
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so that you are ready to receive your love.
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Start ways now to find, to align your behaviors now to start loving yourself now.
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Find ways to improve that self-worth. Start
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taking care of your body because this in
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turn will help your mind exercise move even the smallest of goals drink more
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water eat your five a day this is showing yourself and showing the universe
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you are worthy and that you love yourself and that you treat yourself with love and kindness.
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This is not saying that you have to have the perfect body in order to meet someone.
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It's about being happier in your own skin now so that that happiness and that
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self-love and that self-worth radiates from you when you meet the love of your life.
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And it's about taking actions now that support who you want to become.
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If we use the love, I'm going to carry on using the love example for a minute.
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It. We'll bring in some other examples depending on what your desire is.
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But say you're looking for love and you're currently single.
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Take up a new hobby that you enjoy that gives you happy hormones.
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This will add new light, new focus and new interest in your life.
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This will add another dynamic to your life that you will want to share with your partner.
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And even if it's something you you want to do alone and continue to do alone
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and not include your partner, it will give you something to talk about,
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more interest around you.
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It's something that you'll become invested in and you'll start enjoying your life more now.
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That's aligning your behaviors now with who you want to be.
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Starting to enjoy your life now on your own as if you were with someone and
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as if you were loved now, you're also adding value to your life.
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You'll become more interesting and it's really important if you're looking for
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love but also if you're looking for a promotion or a new job or,
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you know, a way to create new income.
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Taking up this new hobby is creating interest and it's a form of social collateral
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for when you meet your new partner.
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It gives you something to talk And I think growing yourself and growing your
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hobbies and becoming the most interesting person in the room so that when you
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get asked out on that date tomorrow with your soulmate,
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you have stories to tell.
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You will light up when you tell them about your hobby.
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And these people will see that energy in you.
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This love of your life, this soulmate, will see that energy radiating from you.
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People will be more attracted to you you
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will become more attractive to others but
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also most importantly more attractive to yourself
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so you are you are then aligning your behaviors you are becoming more attractive
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in yourself you will then you are aligning your behaviors to be more attractive
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so that when you go out and meet people you can communicate with them you can flirt with You know why?
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Because you feel good about yourself now.
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You have more to offer in a relationship now because you are growing.
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You are looking after your mind and your body.
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You are moving. You are drinking water. You're eating your vegetables.
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You're enjoying a new hobby.
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Even if that is, I don't mean to say that you need to get super fit and start running marathons.
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That may be that, I don't know, your hobby is watching a new series on Netflix.
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There's nothing wrong with that, but it's making sure you grow in yourself and
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you're becoming happy now.
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Come the most interesting person in the room. So let's stick with this love example.
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Let's say you're waiting for your soulmate. No, you're not waiting.
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Let's not say that because you are definitely not waiting.
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You are acting as though you already have your soulmate.
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But let's imagine that you went on a date tomorrow and it is the man or the woman of your dreams.
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They are everything you envision. It is the best date you have ever,
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ever had. You're wanting to invite them around to yours afterwards.
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Would you be happy inviting them into your home? I don't mean in terms of the first date here.
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I mean, in terms of your home and wherever you live, is it tidy?
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Is it tidy enough that you would invite your soulmate around now?
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Or are you embarrassed to bring someone around? Because maybe you've got a pile
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of clothes somewhere that you've been meaning to clear out for ages.
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You've got a couple of broken doors that you've been meaning to get someone in to fix.
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Maybe there's dirty washing everywhere, overflowing in the laundry room.
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Easy to do. maybe you've been waiting to declutter
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would you be happy inviting your soulmate around today think about that for
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a minute this is a form of aligning your behaviors are you ready to receive
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them are you ready to receive them into your home if your answer is no then start decluttering.
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Decluttering is so good for you mentally and physically but it's also showing
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up as showing Showing the universe you are making room and ready to receive your desire.
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So if it is your soulmate and the love of your life that you're trying to manifest, declutter.
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Clear out all of those useless items that you've been holding on to.
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Make room for your partner and be ready to welcome them into your home.
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Is there room on the side table next to the bed for them to start staying over?
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Maybe clear the side table on their side of the bed.
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Start sleeping on side of your side of the bed now. All of these things are
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aligning your behaviors.
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You are stepping into your future self's shoes.
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That your house and that your home and that your bed and that your bedside table
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is ready to receive your love, ready to receive your desires.
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Your actions are showing that they are aligned with your desires.
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So when you meet this person, when you meet this soulmate, you should be proud
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of yourself and acting as the self now who is ready to receive that love.
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Have you done the work on yourself already in order to receive that love?
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Your actions influence everything free thing around you, including who is drawn to you.
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So this includes dating people who don't respect you or don't accept your boundaries.
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I see time and time again, I think people who are constantly going back to their
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exes, exes that have treated them badly, exes that haven't changed because maybe
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they're feeling lonely.
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So it's easy, isn't it? When, And, you know, that person from your past texts
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you and you want to meet up and you're so tempted to go back and form those
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same habits that you've been stuck in relentlessly.
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That is not aligning your behaviors with your new desires.
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If you want to meet your soulmate, or even if you think your ex is your soulmate,
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if you are adopting the same behaviors,
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accepting the same bad behaviors from your ex-partner, you are not aligning
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your behaviors with who you want to become.
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If who you want to become is living in a relationship with your your absolute
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soulmate who treats you well, accepts your boundaries,
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shows you love, shows you loyalty,
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then by letting these same people who you know are no good for you,
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that is not aligning your behaviors with your future self.
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So start taking a close look who you're letting in by letting in these people
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who are not treating you as worthy.
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You're basically saying to the universe, here you go. I know I'm not worthy.
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So just bring me more people who show me I'm not worthy.
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It's also showing that you don't know what it is that you actually want.
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You're showing the universe by accepting kind of these dates and these offers
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of just slipping back with an ex-partner or attracting the wrong kind of people.
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And you're kind of showing the universe that you actually don't know really
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what you want and that you're not aligning yourself with those desires.
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You may have put on a list of all the characteristics you're looking for in someone.
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And when you're constantly letting these low-graded, low-level people come in and treat you badly,
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you're not showing up for yourself and you're definitely not,
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your actions are not aligning with your future desires of finding that perfect kind of love.
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It's the best way to align your behaviors and to start stepping into your future
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self shoes is to look at your habits on a daily basis and see if they relate to your desire.
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Start writing them down and,
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and circle anything that's not aligned with your goal.
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So if you want that new job, for example, how would you behave if you got offered that new job today?
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Start dressing for the job that you want. That is aligning your behaviours to your goal.
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If you got offered this new job, maybe it had a huge pay rise and you'd felt
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more fulfilled, what would your new daily routine look like?
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What would you be doing today that's different from who you have been before
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you got the promotion emotion, would you join the 5am club?
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Start setting your alarm an hour earlier to work out or start working on pitching
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your ideas for the meeting that you have later that day.
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If you run your own business or you want to start your own business,
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would you be posting more content about what you do on social media?
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I think some people can get kind of like a crippling embarrassment or or a crippling
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imposter syndrome about starting to do that now.
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But that is not aligning your behaviors.
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Don't wait until you get there to start adopting these behaviors.
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To start now is attracting your desires now.
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Immediately, you are elevating your manifesting game.
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And once you become your future self now, there is no other way than what to
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receive other than your desires being attracted to you.
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There is no other way than what you want to manifest coming your way because
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you are on the same frequency, you are on the same channel and you are aligning your behaviours.
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When you become your future self now and start aligning your.
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You will be putting yourself in rooms with like-minded people.
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You will have the courage and the confidence to go to events that align with your goals.
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So it's interesting, actually. It reminds me of a conversation recently that
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I had with one of my sisters.
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She is an incredible cook, an incredible baker. She bakes everything from scratch.
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She makes cakes, desserts for the kids without any refined sugars.
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Burgers she is literally the Delia Smith of
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the family if she makes sandwiches for the kids they
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probably never have sandwiches actually that's a silly suggestion but
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if she makes some sandwiches for the kids she home bakes her
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own bread the whole their whole of
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their packed lunches are homemade I even laughed the other
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day that she makes homemade chicken nuggets she is she
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is so talented and I was chatting to her
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and I was saying look you should really do some
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of this like put some of these good skills these
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amazing skills into a business because when she
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talks about her baking and she talks about her cooking she's
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so good at it and the way she runs she's got
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four kids and the way that she runs her family so
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well and that she feeds them from scratch and
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you know she's a she's she's a busy busy
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mum I suggested that she put some of
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this put some of her skills into a business and start
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channeling it and I said look she said
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I don't know where to start where do I start with
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that but she also comes alive when she talks about her
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baking and her cooking so I said look why don't you start putting some pictures
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on social media put some recipes and you know how you've made this people would
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be interested but she was reluctant she was hesitant because she was like I
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don't see what the point is who would be looking I don't really have any followers.
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So I talked to her about aligning behaviors and said, look, if you want to make
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a business of it, there's no point in doing it behind closed doors and not letting
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anyone in on the experience of her baking.
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So I said, look, imagine, for example, imagine now if you were a successful,
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famous cake maker, for example, what would you be doing today?
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You would be shouting outing about it from the rooftops.
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You would be sharing it on social media, sharing your recipes,
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selling your cakes, hanging out with other like-minded businesswomen who have
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their own cake businesses,
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following other cake baking accounts, booking a business course about how to
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grow your cake business,
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hosting local coffee mornings to showcase your cakes,
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offering to cater for a local party or an event.
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You can't even imagine what opportunities will will come to you until you start
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acting as though you've already received your manifestations.
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So the world really is your oyster. The only thing holding you back right now is yourself.
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And by making the crucial mistake
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of sitting and waiting for your goals to come knocking at the door.
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Happiness is not the destination, it's the journey. We've heard that a lot before.
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But it's true and it's more than that. The fun is about who you become on that journey.
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Journey start looking at your daily habits what
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small changes can you make today that will
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align your behaviors with your desires maybe
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it's getting up I don't know 15 minutes
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earlier and doing yoga in the morning to set
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you up for the day maybe it's starting your day with the green juice
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I've got a friend at the moment who wants to become a yoga instructor and
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we were talking about aligning your behaviors how does your day look
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different she said I would get up up earlier I would
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do yoga in the morning as the sun rises she doesn't
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do that now instead of grabbing a quick
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McDonald's breakfast she said she'd have a green juice she'd maybe
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post about that on Instagram she would get outside in
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nature for maybe half an hour so maybe that's a morning walk or walk to take
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the children to school she said one of the main things she would change in terms
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of her business or not change but in some way that she would start acting now
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would be to to start posting content every day,
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just because she was saying to me, I'm really good at yoga. I teach yoga.
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I do it really well. But she just assumes that everybody knows all of the things that she knows.
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So she said to align her behavior, she would start posting regularly,
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maybe like a daily blog, a daily vlog of how to master one of the yoga positions. Yeah.
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And I said, look, I would be interested in that. I want to start doing yoga.
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If I've got any really good yoga teachers who listen to the podcast,
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please get in touch because I definitely need to kind of find a new class,
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whether that's online or locally.
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And I need to listen to my own advice and go and find myself a class.
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But she said that she would start posting regularly. She wasn't doing that yet.
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And do you know why? Because she said she hasn't got the followers yet.
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That doesn't matter. because to start becoming who you want to be now you have
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to act as if those followers are already there your followers are not going
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to come in yet until you start showing up consistently.
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Aligning your behaviors consistently that is how you will build the business
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and it makes me think about when I started writing my manifesting book which
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is I would say about three quarters of the the way through now.
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It's a step-by-step process of how to manifest.
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It's got some amazing kind of new ideas on how to manifest with a really,
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really amazing game that I've created called the 24-hour manifesting game.
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I haven't shared it yet, but it will be in the book due to be published next year in 2025.
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Now, I've had the idea of writing this book for years and I've I've wanted to
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help people with manifesting and sharing my own manifesting stories for years.
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But life has been busy. I've also had an amazing career in Hollywood and designing
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makeup and hair for TV and film,
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which I put down to a lot of manifesting skills and manifesting amazing jobs
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and amazing actors and directors that I've worked with.
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And I've been wanting to write this book for a long time. and when I look back
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I wasn't aligning my behaviours.
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When I started writing last year I felt a little bit hesitant about telling
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people about my manifesting book and I think it's because I felt like I had
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the like an imposter syndrome because I wasn't aligning my behaviours.
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I would kind of just tell people I felt really close
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to look I'm writing this book and they go that's amazing you
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know what's the book about and I'd tell them it's about manifesting and
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and they'd be really interested and the more
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I started adopting the mindset of I am an author I am writing a book I then
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started reaching out to publishers and friends who have links to publishing
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agents and that started to grow and that world that I was in started to grow I started
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to follow published authors online.
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I've started sharing my journey of writing my book.
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And then came the podcast that kind of forced me, you know what,
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I'm going to start sharing this now.
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And that was a way of aligning my own behaviors with my manifesting book.
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Share my skills now with whoever wants to hear.
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I don't know who wants to hear. And there was a part of me that thought,
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you know what, maybe one person, maybe one person, probably my mother.
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Hi, mom, if you're listening. Probably one person might listen, but that's okay.
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I'm aligning my behaviors. I know that people enjoy manifesting.
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I know that I'm good at manifesting. I've had amazing experience with manifesting.
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I know that I'm a real person. Hopefully people will understand and resonate
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with just a real girl over here manifesting her way through life.
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Life so those are just some of
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the ways that I started aligning my behaviors and
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the more I grow the more I
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align and that's with a whole load of other desires as
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well I aligned my behaviors when I was dating and I
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was really really got to a point where I thought no my main
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thing I want to manifest is a perfect
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partner I'm ready to receive love
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and I really worked on myself I spent
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years growing my confidence I took
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up new hobbies I ran a marathon which just brought so
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much focus and life into my life
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I set strong boundaries I released ex-partners that
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no longer served me I started to
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get excited about dating and I kind of set myself kind of goals to date regularly
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which I did and I really enjoyed and I had some lovely amazing dates and I had
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some wacky ones But even with the really maybe bad ones,
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I don't even want to say bad because every date came with a lesson and every date came with a story.
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And I have some hilarious dating stories.
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And again, that created interest in it and it gave me something to talk about.
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And with each date brought me confidence of how to date.
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And I tried to align my behaviors as best as I could, including setting boundaries
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about what I wanted a partner and what I would tolerate and what I wouldn't
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tolerate and what I was willing to accept.
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And the only way I was willing to settle was if someone truly enriched my life. And that's what I found.
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And I used aligning behaviors with work and my career.
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And, you know, I owe that to a really successful career as well.
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So it's something I really, really want you to take on board.
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And I think it will be the most important thing that I drum on about all the
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time, aligning behaviors.
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Don't let anything hold you back. Post the content, post on social media if you've got a business.
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On that note, if you're not following me yet, please follow me.
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I'm at TheHollyEdwards on Instagram and at TheHollyEdwards on TikTok.
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I constantly try and share my tips and my own experiences.
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So please follow my journey. If you get a chance to rate the podcast,
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I would be oh so grateful because it really does me a favor, you know.
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So thank you for listening. I hope you feel excited about manifesting,
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excited about stepping into your future self's shoes.
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Please get in touch with me. Send me a DM. Let me know how you're aligning your behaviors.
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I want as many examples as possible because I really want to share them with
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people and I really want to share what you're all doing.
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So many of you, thank you so much. You have
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reached out and sent messages about how your
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lives have have changed since you've been manifesting
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and the way in which it happened I find
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them so fascinating and it always gives me
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new insight myself that ah that's
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a really good technique for manifesting someone actually sent
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me a message last week and she
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said that she wanted a new job and she actually
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put the number of the new job so the
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the telephone number of the new job and she put her work she put
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it as her work number she saved it in her phone as
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her new work number and then she ended up getting the job and
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I thought that was quite an amazing one I kind of hadn't thought
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about that but it's kind of a line in behaviors and also acting like
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you've already received your manifestation so I
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really liked that one any other tips and
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tricks you've got fire them my way I will
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carry on sharing online so thank
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you you for coming along for the journey today I've thoroughly
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enjoyed it I actually feel like I've lifted my spirit
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sharing about aligning behaviors it's awoken
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something in me again and I'm going to take stock myself and
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get my notepad out and just check check alongside my desires I'm going to write
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a list of my desires and a list of the behaviors that I'm kind of doing that
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align with them or that don't align with them and I'm going to circle those
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ones that don't align with them and I'm going to change them.
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And I'm going to change them today.
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And I think the really important thing to say about this is that you can start
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aligning your behaviors today.
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They don't need to be huge, huge steps. Don't think of it as daunting.
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Start small steps today. Like I said to you before, wake up 10 minutes earlier
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if you want to become a more proactive person, if you want to to get more done in your day.
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Wake up 10 minutes earlier, wake up half an hour earlier, become part of the 5am club.
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But the point is you can set small goals today to align your behaviors.
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The more you will start aligning yourself, more opportunities will come to you
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and more thoughts will come to you about how you can align yourself.
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And the more your confidence grows, because you will start believing that you
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already are that person that you want to become.
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You will start believing it and more importantly you will
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start feeling it and when you start feeling
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it that is when the magic will happen and that
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is when you will then set yourself an even higher goal
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and align yourself even more so that imposter syndrome will disappear or just
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you know become a little bit more invisible and your confidence will grow and
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you will start becoming that person and subconsciously and consciously.
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So I'll leave you with this today.
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You are manifesting everything you desire.
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So start acting like it. Goodbye.
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Music.