Latest / Repcolite Home Improvement Show / The Importance of Skilled Trades: A Conversation with Drew Anderson
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- 0:02Speaker 1: Well, good morning, everybody, Happy Saturday. You're listening to the
- 0:04Speaker 1: Repcolite home improvement show sponsored by Benjamin Moore, And this
- 0:08Speaker 1: week I've got kind of a special episode planned. You know,
- 0:12Speaker 1: most of the time, most weeks, we cover a relatively
- 0:15Speaker 1: wide variety of different topics. But this week I'm playing
- 0:20Speaker 1: just a long conversation that I had with Drew Anderson
- 0:23Speaker 1: from Harmel Academy of the Trades in Grand Rapids. Now,
- 0:26Speaker 1: I know Drew a little bit from church, and when
- 0:29Speaker 1: I saw something on his Facebook page recently talking about
- 0:32Speaker 1: the importance of the skilled trades, I was super pumped
- 0:35Speaker 1: to talk to him about all of that on the show.
- 0:38Speaker 1: So today that's what I've got for you, a long
- 0:41Speaker 1: conversation about the value of the trades, about the value
- 0:44Speaker 1: and dignity of work, you know, work itself. If you've
- 0:48Speaker 1: got young people in your life, you know, whether they're
- 0:50Speaker 1: your own kids or maybe nephews and nieces, maybe grandkids,
- 0:55Speaker 1: whatever the case, there's a lot of good stuff in
- 0:58Speaker 1: this conversation. So with all of that out of the way,
- 1:00Speaker 1: let's just jump in. Drew, thanks for being.
- 1:03Speaker 2: Here, Dan, thanks for having me on. Greatly appreciate it.
- 1:06Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm excited to talk about this, and you know,
- 1:08Speaker 1: you represent a school helping, you know, get men, young
- 1:12Speaker 1: men trained, and we're going to get into that. But
- 1:15Speaker 1: the conversation that I want to have is actually bigger
- 1:17Speaker 1: than just any particular school. I want to really celebrate
- 1:21Speaker 1: and dig into the trades and why they matter more
- 1:24Speaker 1: than ever you know right now, and I guess to
- 1:27Speaker 1: get us started, let's just jump in with this. Why
- 1:30Speaker 1: are you so passionate about the trades? You know, why
- 1:34Speaker 1: do you think this work matters so much for me?
- 1:36Speaker 2: I mean, it's got a deeper meeting. I come from.
- 1:39Speaker 2: My great grandfather was a cabinet maker when he came
- 1:43Speaker 2: over to the United States, so there's a personal connection there.
- 1:47Speaker 2: And in my family though my grandfather and my father
- 1:52Speaker 2: and myself were not directly tradesmen, but we're always men
- 1:56Speaker 2: that worked with our hands, and so that was always
- 1:59Speaker 2: past down and that was just so important and that's
- 2:04Speaker 2: why I'm passionate about it. I also have you know,
- 2:07Speaker 2: three children that right now that I want to pass
- 2:09Speaker 2: that on to, and it's just so important right now
- 2:12Speaker 2: because one where we have we have a crisis of
- 2:17Speaker 2: people in the trades, but a crisis and character of
- 2:19Speaker 2: word crisis and the character of men and and people
- 2:22Speaker 2: that simply just don't know how to use their hands.
- 2:25Speaker 2: And it's really unfortunate because I really think we were
- 2:27Speaker 2: made to do that.
- 2:28Speaker 1: Yeah, I completely agree. Your great grandfather he was a
- 2:31Speaker 1: cabinet maker and passed the importance of working with his hands.
- 2:36Speaker 1: Pass that on to your dad. Your dad passed that
- 2:37Speaker 1: on to you as you're growing up. What kind of
- 2:40Speaker 1: things were you doing, you know, what kind of little
- 2:43Speaker 1: jobs were you tackling.
- 2:44Speaker 2: We had rentals growing up, so we were constantly doing
- 2:48Speaker 2: repairs and renovations and working with our hands, so you know,
- 2:52Speaker 2: it would be you know, school five days a week,
- 2:55Speaker 2: and then on the weekends it was it was working
- 2:57Speaker 2: on rentals when you know people move out. Yeah, so
- 3:00Speaker 2: I mean it was it was learning all these things.
- 3:03Speaker 2: And I look at it just like what a gift
- 3:05Speaker 2: that was and something that I can pass down to
- 3:09Speaker 2: my kids. And now being at Harmel, it's got a
- 3:11Speaker 2: deeper I would call it even like a deeper spiritual meaning.
- 3:14Speaker 2: For me. It's not just a means to an end,
- 3:17Speaker 2: but it's like it's the gospel of work that we've
- 3:20Speaker 2: been called to do.
- 3:21Speaker 1: Because harl is is it affiliated with a particular church
- 3:25Speaker 1: or is it help me understand that a little bit.
- 3:27Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, Yeah. So so we're we're affiliated with the
- 3:30Speaker 2: Catholic Church where we're a men's Catholic trade school, and
- 3:33Speaker 2: so you know, we hit deeply on the trades, uh,
- 3:37Speaker 2: and also the humanities, you know, studies of philosophy and
- 3:40Speaker 2: literature and theology and the and the deep spiritual formation
- 3:43Speaker 2: of men. Because at the end of the day, you know,
- 3:46Speaker 2: we kind of see it as we've got we've got
- 3:49Speaker 2: a problem with young men, and we definitely think it's
- 3:51Speaker 2: a it's at the root of it, it's a spiritual one.
- 3:54Speaker 1: All right. All right, so let's we'll get into some
- 3:56Speaker 1: of that, you know, And I guess what I want
- 3:58Speaker 1: to get back to is the shortage in the trades.
- 4:01Speaker 1: You know, we hear about that, you referenced it. How
- 4:04Speaker 1: real is that gap? You know, we hear a lot
- 4:06Speaker 1: of things. There's always a problem with something, something that's
- 4:10Speaker 1: you know, the bottom is dropping out of everything all
- 4:12Speaker 1: the time. It seems like, how real is this problem
- 4:15Speaker 1: that we've got in the trades And what's behind it?
- 4:17Speaker 1: Do you think?
- 4:18Speaker 2: So I'm just going to shoot out a few a
- 4:19Speaker 2: few numbers, and so the Manufacturing Institute estimates that by
- 4:24Speaker 2: twenty twenty eight there will be a shortfall of two
- 4:26Speaker 2: point four million skill trade workers and for five retiring
- 4:33Speaker 2: baby boomers, only two younger workers are stepping up to
- 4:36Speaker 2: replace it. And beyond numbers, like the basic skill levels
- 4:39Speaker 2: are just declining, Like plant managers are just lamenting that
- 4:43Speaker 2: they struggle to find workers who can even read a
- 4:46Speaker 2: measuring tape. I mean, and and that's just like, that's
- 4:51Speaker 2: like that is just a crazy problem that we see
- 4:55Speaker 2: right now simply within manufacturing. And we all feel it
- 4:59Speaker 2: right now. I mean, and you know, try to try
- 5:01Speaker 2: to get a uh you know, someone that's working and
- 5:03Speaker 2: plumbing things like that, you're getting waitlisted. And you know
- 5:08Speaker 2: why I think we're feeling it right now.
- 5:10Speaker 1: What do you think? All?
- 5:13Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what, I'll be honest with you. I
- 5:15Speaker 2: think it's because for decades we wrongfully shamed the trades
- 5:21Speaker 2: as like second class compared to college education. There's nothing
- 5:25Speaker 2: wrong with college education, you know. And I was at
- 5:27Speaker 2: an event with micro on the east side of the
- 5:29Speaker 2: state at the beginning of this month, and he was
- 5:31Speaker 2: talking about when he was in high school they had
- 5:34Speaker 2: this picture of like this college graduate with this bright,
- 5:36Speaker 2: smiling face on their diploma, and then on it was
- 5:40Speaker 2: was a tradesman who just looked weirdy, wearied down and
- 5:45Speaker 2: disheveled and things like that. So it's it's something that
- 5:48Speaker 2: we've been doing in our society for generations right now.
- 5:51Speaker 2: And like you know, so just young people and particularly
- 5:55Speaker 2: young men are just disinterested, disillusion and really ill prepared.
- 6:00Speaker 1: I mean, I know when I was in high school,
- 6:02Speaker 1: it certainly wasn't something that was talked about as any
- 6:06Speaker 1: any kind of positive you know, if you couldn't cut
- 6:08Speaker 1: it in college, you know, there was always this you know,
- 6:12Speaker 1: you could always go and do that, I guess. But
- 6:14Speaker 1: like you're just explaining, you know, all the marketing that
- 6:18Speaker 1: we'd see is the college graduate full of smiles and bright,
- 6:21Speaker 1: shiny teeth, and then the trades person just looks weighed
- 6:25Speaker 1: down by the way to the world, right, So who's
- 6:27Speaker 1: going to choose that?
- 6:29Speaker 2: Well, And it's the perception, right, And I mean and
- 6:33Speaker 2: the you know a lot of times we say perception
- 6:35Speaker 2: reflects reality, and I'm sorry in this way, it doesn't.
- 6:38Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know how many college students are
- 6:41Speaker 2: smiling over the amounts of debt that they have. And
- 6:45Speaker 2: I'm not going to say that going in the skilled
- 6:47Speaker 2: trades is an easy thing either, But I don't look
- 6:50Speaker 2: at the young men that have just gone through Harmel
- 6:52Speaker 2: and they're starting families. They have no debt, they have
- 6:57Speaker 2: fantastic jobs, and they're on a career path development. That's
- 7:01Speaker 2: just amazing.
- 7:02Speaker 1: No, it is, Yeah, incredibly much so. Because you know,
- 7:05Speaker 1: I'm on the phone with Drew Anderson from Harmel Academy
- 7:08Speaker 1: of the Trades. You guys are located in Grand Rapids, right.
- 7:11Speaker 2: Correct, yep, yeah, yeah, and actually we're moving to a
- 7:14Speaker 2: new location the summer within Grand Rampage, which is really exciting.
- 7:17Speaker 2: We could talk that about that a little bit la there.
- 7:19Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll get to that. So on the phone Withdrew
- 7:21Speaker 1: and yeah, you're you're what you're talking about. My kid
- 7:24Speaker 1: is living. I've got a son who's an electrician apprentice.
- 7:28Speaker 1: He's working on Journeyman's you know, taking that test and
- 7:31Speaker 1: all of that. But everything you just said I can
- 7:34Speaker 1: attest to. You know, he doesn't have any debt. He
- 7:37Speaker 1: well he's got a vehicle and that's his debt. And
- 7:41Speaker 1: he went straight out high school into this work. He's
- 7:44Speaker 1: got a really nice savings account going, he's making really
- 7:48Speaker 1: good money, and yeah, he's socking it away. He's got
- 7:52Speaker 1: a future where he's not going to be digging out
- 7:54Speaker 1: from underneath, you know, a mountain, a mountain of debt.
- 7:58Speaker 1: Because I've got other friends, other other friends who've got
- 8:01Speaker 1: kids who they're talking about it's monumental how much debt
- 8:06Speaker 1: they're gonna be digging out of and how how many
- 8:07Speaker 1: years they're gonna be working just to pay for that. Now,
- 8:10Speaker 1: that's not to say that college isn't like you said
- 8:12Speaker 1: everything you said, college is a path for a group
- 8:15Speaker 1: of people that is the way to go. I went
- 8:17Speaker 1: to college. You know, I don't have any problems with that,
- 8:20Speaker 1: But this is certainly something that is it should certainly
- 8:24Speaker 1: be considered. The work is needed, the jobs are out
- 8:27Speaker 1: there and they pay well. It's not anything like what
- 8:29Speaker 1: I was presented in high school.
- 8:32Speaker 2: Right, And I mean, I'll tell you I can ebe.
- 8:34Speaker 2: We'll talk about this a little bit later too. Is
- 8:36Speaker 2: the trades have changed and they're gonna you know, we'll
- 8:40Speaker 2: talk a little bit later on of just how much
- 8:42Speaker 2: they've changed since the time we've been in school and
- 8:46Speaker 2: what the future is looking like. And it's looking really
- 8:49Speaker 2: bright right now for trades. But we're in this crisis
- 8:52Speaker 2: right now that we've for decades we've made it second class,
- 8:57Speaker 2: even third class, and we didn't see it as as
- 9:00Speaker 2: a as an equal opportunity for people, you know, So do.
- 9:05Speaker 1: You think it's coming around? Are we starting to see
- 9:07Speaker 1: it turn? I know Mike grow you mentioned him earlier. Yeah,
- 9:11Speaker 1: he's made a you know, the last I don't know
- 9:15Speaker 1: how many years that this has really been something he's
- 9:17Speaker 1: been driving home. Do you see a change coming?
- 9:20Speaker 2: You know what? I can't. I see it with our
- 9:23Speaker 2: men at Harmel Academy all the time. But it's going
- 9:27Speaker 2: to take a larger change than just like creating trade
- 9:31Speaker 2: schools and incentives like and that hits to like a
- 9:33Speaker 2: second crisis, like as a crisis of character work and
- 9:37Speaker 2: in the hiring standard right now, Dan is just it's
- 9:40Speaker 2: so painfully low, like you show up mostly on time,
- 9:44Speaker 2: you pass the drug test perhaps, and still employers are
- 9:48Speaker 2: still struggling to find workers that meet even like these
- 9:51Speaker 2: basic expectations and like family, church, community, all these pillars
- 9:56Speaker 2: of character formation, like they've really weakened and they'll leave
- 10:00Speaker 2: being particularly young men, but women as well, without the
- 10:03Speaker 2: formation that is necessary for a certain level of excellence.
- 10:06Speaker 2: You know, we we look at kind of our past
- 10:11Speaker 2: and I think we've come very complacent and we just
- 10:15Speaker 2: we have this crisis of character. So I'm thinking, like
- 10:18Speaker 2: that's before we're even like can we solve this thing
- 10:21Speaker 2: at the skill trades? Like we got to have people
- 10:23Speaker 2: see that, like work is a really good thing. It's
- 10:27Speaker 2: not just something that we have to drudge about on.
- 10:29Speaker 2: It doesn't mean I mean it's not hard, but it's good.
- 10:32Speaker 1: Well we'll dig into that a little bit. Why is
- 10:34Speaker 1: it so good? I mean there's a million reasons I
- 10:37Speaker 1: can say that. Right, You're you're living in this world,
- 10:39Speaker 1: you're preaching this message, so right, run with it.
- 10:43Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, absolutely, Well I mean for me just you know,
- 10:47Speaker 2: I'll go into religious aspect a little bit, but I
- 10:49Speaker 2: think it can really speak to everybody. Is like we
- 10:52Speaker 2: were made for a purpose. And as a Catholic, like
- 10:55Speaker 2: I believe that that we were made for work. You know,
- 10:59Speaker 2: work isn't bad, work was good, but the pain of
- 11:03Speaker 2: sin is like toil and work, right, Like I'm not
- 11:05Speaker 2: gonna say every time in work is oh yeah, it's
- 11:08Speaker 2: just amazing. And I always remember my my dad saying like,
- 11:12Speaker 2: if you love what you do, you'll never work a
- 11:14Speaker 2: day in your life. I'm like, well, no, you'll work.
- 11:18Speaker 2: But I think it's like we were made for it.
- 11:21Speaker 2: And I think why, like why we're struggling as a
- 11:24Speaker 2: society is we've failed to see what we were made for.
- 11:30Speaker 2: And I think work is just such a good thing.
- 11:34Speaker 2: But we live in a society today in which the
- 11:37Speaker 2: aspects the character of work are just not valued. And
- 11:41Speaker 2: it's kind of like I want to apply to like running, right,
- 11:44Speaker 2: Like I mean, I'm not like, I'm not like the
- 11:47Speaker 2: biggest runner. I don't love running. There other things that
- 11:49Speaker 2: I love it, but.
- 11:51Speaker 1: Runner, true, I only run if I'm being chased, and
- 11:54Speaker 1: even then I've got to decide if it's worth it.
- 11:56Speaker 2: But you talk about like some of these people they
- 11:59Speaker 2: experience are running high, and you can say, like, oh, man,
- 12:01Speaker 2: like you got some people that were really made for that.
- 12:05Speaker 2: I firmly believe that every single person has been made
- 12:11Speaker 2: to work. And I don't mean like subservient work or
- 12:15Speaker 2: things like that, but like the dignity of work, and
- 12:17Speaker 2: that's probably what what kind of cultivates this crisis of
- 12:20Speaker 2: character and work is people don't see the dignity and work,
- 12:23Speaker 2: Like you know, we saw the trades as like second
- 12:26Speaker 2: class and it's like, oh, if you're a trash man,
- 12:28Speaker 2: like I mean, how many times maybe that I don't
- 12:31Speaker 2: know if you heard of this in high school, but
- 12:32Speaker 2: like you know, we get jokes from like teachers, you know,
- 12:35Speaker 2: people that we look up to, and they're like, well,
- 12:37Speaker 2: you know, if you don't do well, you're gonna have
- 12:39Speaker 2: to say, you know, would you like fries with that?
- 12:40Speaker 2: It's just like we've we've lowered the dignity of work.
- 12:44Speaker 2: Every person that's doing a job is doing a great
- 12:48Speaker 2: service to our society and we have to recognize that. Well.
- 12:51Speaker 1: And I think it's so interesting you talked to you,
- 12:53Speaker 1: you hinted at and then you didn't go completely into it,
- 12:56Speaker 1: but you said the trash man or whatever. That was
- 12:59Speaker 1: literally what nobody ever said the fries thing to me,
- 13:02Speaker 1: But it was always you're going to have to pick
- 13:04Speaker 1: up garbage, you know, if you don't get this figured
- 13:07Speaker 1: out and get this college, you're going to end up
- 13:08Speaker 1: picking up garbage. Well, thank goodness, we've got people that
- 13:11Speaker 1: pick up garbage, right, I mean, there's still incredible importance
- 13:17Speaker 1: and value to that. And you know, like my kid
- 13:19Speaker 1: would the electrical work. You don't always think about that,
- 13:24Speaker 1: as you know, dignified work and important work, until you
- 13:27Speaker 1: need it, and then all of a sudden you realize
- 13:30Speaker 1: how important this is and how glad you are that
- 13:33Speaker 1: you've got people who take care of all of those things,
- 13:35Speaker 1: your furnaces and your car, all of these things. And
- 13:38Speaker 1: in fact, what happens to me, I'm assuming it happens
- 13:42Speaker 1: to most of us out there, is we didn't think
- 13:46Speaker 1: about that work, you know, back when we were making
- 13:48Speaker 1: the big career choices and you know, we went to
- 13:50Speaker 1: college or whatever we did. And now I'm thinking, oh,
- 13:54Speaker 1: my goodness, if I had just figured out how to
- 13:57Speaker 1: fix a car, do you think, do you realize how
- 13:58Speaker 1: much money I would have saved myself? Or if I've
- 14:00Speaker 1: figured out how to do plumbing, or if I or
- 14:02Speaker 1: if I now I can do some of those things still,
- 14:06Speaker 1: But my kid has specialized in it, and man, he
- 14:09Speaker 1: is helping people out left and right, you know, I
- 14:12Speaker 1: mean right, and whether he's being paid for it, whether
- 14:14Speaker 1: he's bailing my parents out on a weekend or whatever
- 14:17Speaker 1: he's doing. Yeah, he's feeling great about it. Like you
- 14:20Speaker 1: said that, the dignity of it and the value of it.
- 14:23Speaker 1: A weekend where I sit around all weekend long. You know,
- 14:27Speaker 1: it's rainy, it's dreary, I'm lazy, whatever it is. Yeah,
- 14:30Speaker 1: by the end of that weekend I've sat around, I
- 14:32Speaker 1: don't necessarily usually feel very good about myself. The weekends
- 14:35Speaker 1: where I've gone out there and I've laid patio blocks
- 14:38Speaker 1: or something. I'm sore, I'm completely hunched over because my
- 14:41Speaker 1: hands hurt, my back hurts, I'm a mess, But I
- 14:44Speaker 1: feel great because I've been out there working. There is
- 14:47Speaker 1: something really true about what you're saying.
- 14:49Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm going to say. You know, we talk about
- 14:51Speaker 2: the runners high. That's the workman's high, you know, and
- 14:54Speaker 2: I think everybody feels that.
- 14:55Speaker 1: You know, mm hmm, No, like we talk about paint
- 14:58Speaker 1: and houses, painting rooms. You know, that accomplishment. It's not
- 15:02Speaker 1: just the accomplishment of what you've made. I mean, that's
- 15:04Speaker 1: a big part of it, but just having done the
- 15:07Speaker 1: work and knowing that you can accomplish it, that you've
- 15:10Speaker 1: figured out whatever it was that you maybe didn't know.
- 15:12Speaker 1: You know, That's what my kid's having that's the thing
- 15:15Speaker 1: I love about the trades that I think is completely
- 15:17Speaker 1: It makes me so annoyed. I guess it's the right word.
- 15:21Speaker 1: With all of the prep that I had in high
- 15:24Speaker 1: school and stuff leading up to college, that the idea
- 15:27Speaker 1: that the trades like, if you want to learn, you
- 15:30Speaker 1: go to college. If you want to just do something,
- 15:32Speaker 1: I guess you go into the trades. My kid is
- 15:35Speaker 1: learning NonStop. I mean, every single job he goes to
- 15:38Speaker 1: there's something new happening that he's got to figure out
- 15:41Speaker 1: and problem solve. His brain is incredibly active and he's
- 15:45Speaker 1: constantly figuring out new things. You're learning all the time,
- 15:47Speaker 1: and there's so much value in that.
- 15:50Speaker 2: Well, you know, and Dan, both you and I work,
- 15:52Speaker 2: and we've learned through our work, and I just you know,
- 15:54Speaker 2: I'm going to do a shameless plug for Rep. Collite.
- 15:57Speaker 2: Is you know I've gone into Rep. Colite and I
- 16:00Speaker 2: going in there because I'm talking to somebody who's passionate
- 16:04Speaker 2: about paint. I can start having a conversation, I can
- 16:07Speaker 2: start answering these deeper questions. And this work isn't belower
- 16:12Speaker 2: beneath me, Like it's like I can talk about it
- 16:15Speaker 2: and it's just so great to be with people that
- 16:17Speaker 2: are passionate about what is important to me in that moment,
- 16:21Speaker 2: in that moment when I'm at Rep. Colite, Like it's
- 16:23Speaker 2: about getting the right paint, but it's more than that,
- 16:26Speaker 2: it's about doing the job right. Like I mean, I
- 16:29Speaker 2: love That's why I love like your minutes with Rep. Coolite,
- 16:32Speaker 2: because I'm like, oh, man, next time, I'm going to
- 16:34Speaker 2: do that. Because a lot of us just like hop
- 16:36Speaker 2: into doing the work and then we don't realize what's
- 16:39Speaker 2: really needed to be gone.
- 16:40Speaker 1: Oh yeah, absolutely, I think that's a really good point.
- 16:43Speaker 1: You know, it's easy sometimes to think about my time
- 16:46Speaker 1: in the store. I was working a store at Repcolite
- 16:49Speaker 1: for about ten years. I was going to be a
- 16:51Speaker 1: teacher and then a pastor, and then I ended up
- 16:54Speaker 1: working in the paint store. And it was easy to
- 16:56Speaker 1: think in the beginning that what I was doing was
- 16:58Speaker 1: not important work. And yet as I started to realize,
- 17:02Speaker 1: you know, as the years went by, I realized it
- 17:05Speaker 1: was important. You know, I'm not just selling you paint.
- 17:08Speaker 1: I'm selling you or helping you through a project, helping
- 17:11Speaker 1: you through something that you're not familiar with so that
- 17:13Speaker 1: you can get to spending time with your family or
- 17:16Speaker 1: enjoying your home or whatever. There's a bigger dignity to it.
- 17:20Speaker 1: And yeah, I just love that aspect of it. Every
- 17:23Speaker 1: every every trade out there, everything that we do, there
- 17:26Speaker 1: is dignity in it. You just got to sometimes look
- 17:29Speaker 1: a little harder.
- 17:30Speaker 2: Well, yeah, and I would say, I mean, and we're
- 17:33Speaker 2: looking beyond the jobs in trades. I mean, any job,
- 17:37Speaker 2: there's there's that great thing of you know, putting that
- 17:40Speaker 2: and if we see, actually we have a we have
- 17:42Speaker 2: a for a formation for our men. We actually have
- 17:46Speaker 2: a part where were taught, like throughout our theme of
- 17:49Speaker 2: our first year, we have this class called work as service.
- 17:53Speaker 2: And that's the thing. If we look at our work
- 17:56Speaker 2: not as an ends to a mean, but as what
- 17:58Speaker 2: we're called to do, called to serve, it's so much
- 18:01Speaker 2: more fulfilling. It's really the work itself is not changing
- 18:06Speaker 2: in the tangibles, but like it's the spiritual side of
- 18:10Speaker 2: how we look at things, you know, It's like that
- 18:14Speaker 2: can make a huge change. It. It's like being a parent,
- 18:16Speaker 2: you know, being a it's I probably do the same
- 18:21Speaker 2: things that all a lot of other parents do, but man,
- 18:25Speaker 2: I love being a father. I love being a husband,
- 18:28Speaker 2: and it's not because I'm doing something radically different than
- 18:31Speaker 2: other husbands and fathers. I really think it's a mindset
- 18:35Speaker 2: And that's what I think we need to look a
- 18:37Speaker 2: is we need a mindset change when it comes to
- 18:41Speaker 2: the skilled trades, when it comes to work. And I think, honestly,
- 18:45Speaker 2: the biggest problem, Dan is we have just these young
- 18:49Speaker 2: men that have lost like what their meaning is and
- 18:56Speaker 2: it's really bad. Like we're seeing workforce participation among young
- 19:01Speaker 2: men are like just collapsing. Like there's just this really
- 19:06Speaker 2: aching question that these young men have, and like they're asking,
- 19:09Speaker 2: like why should I care at all? What is an age?
- 19:12Speaker 1: When when you talk young men, what age are you talking?
- 19:15Speaker 2: What?
- 19:15Speaker 1: What constitutes young men?
- 19:17Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean I mean we could, I mean we
- 19:19Speaker 2: could say I would even I would go like high
- 19:21Speaker 2: school all the way to like men that are that
- 19:23Speaker 2: are hitting like their thirties. At Harmel, we primarily we
- 19:27Speaker 2: we serve men that are post secondary so after right
- 19:33Speaker 2: after high school. But you know, honestly, Dan, I mean
- 19:37Speaker 2: you've got kids. I've got kids. It's it actually starts
- 19:40Speaker 2: when they're really young, you know, like how do we
- 19:45Speaker 2: talk about work and how do we present work in
- 19:47Speaker 2: front of our children. Do we see it as a
- 19:49Speaker 2: burden or do we see it as an opportunity to serve?
- 19:54Speaker 2: You know, And that's that's really, that's really it. So
- 19:56Speaker 2: I think it starts at a very young age, especially
- 19:58Speaker 2: for young men.
- 19:58Speaker 1: Well right, right, and and like you mentioned, you were
- 20:01Speaker 1: brought up in it. You know, you were constantly dragged
- 20:04Speaker 1: into you know, you guys had the rentals and stuff
- 20:07Speaker 1: like that. I know my kids they all talk about
- 20:10Speaker 1: all the different projects that we tackle around the house
- 20:13Speaker 1: that they'd tag along with and help with, and sometimes
- 20:16Speaker 1: they did not help very well, they were there anyway,
- 20:20Speaker 1: you know, they have the common I think it's common.
- 20:23Speaker 1: I hope it's common. The story about the flashlight, holding
- 20:27Speaker 1: the flashlight, how a kid can't do it. No matter
- 20:31Speaker 1: where they aim that thing, it's always wrong. And Andrew was
- 20:35Speaker 1: just my middle kid, was just talking the other probably
- 20:38Speaker 1: a couple of weeks ago, just about the stress of
- 20:40Speaker 1: being handed the flashlight when we're working on something, because
- 20:43Speaker 1: he knew, no matter what I described, he would never
- 20:46Speaker 1: figure out the right thing to point it at. Someday
- 20:49Speaker 1: he'll have his own kids and they'll aim the flashlight
- 20:51Speaker 1: in a million different directions except the right one, and
- 20:53Speaker 1: he'll know what I'm talking about. But they were there
- 20:56Speaker 1: for the whole thing. They were a part of the process.
- 20:59Speaker 1: I guess that's it. Let's talk to the parents or
- 21:02Speaker 1: young adults maybe that are listening. Parents of the young adults,
- 21:04Speaker 1: grandparents the young adults themselves. Maybe they feel stuck. Maybe
- 21:09Speaker 1: it's you know, like I said, their kid and they
- 21:11Speaker 1: hate desk work or whatever. They're wondering if college is
- 21:14Speaker 1: the right path, what makes a trade? Are the trades
- 21:18Speaker 1: or any of this a compelling option for them besides
- 21:21Speaker 1: some of the things you said, Well.
- 21:23Speaker 2: I think you know a lot of young people, young men,
- 21:27Speaker 2: they come out of high school and they don't know
- 21:29Speaker 2: what they want to do, and I think at least
- 21:32Speaker 2: an exploration or hopping into a job. But what I
- 21:35Speaker 2: like about what we do at Harmel Academy is our
- 21:38Speaker 2: first year program is like it's an it's a it's
- 21:41Speaker 2: a full introduction to like ten different trades. So they're
- 21:44Speaker 2: getting like test things out, tease things out. And what
- 21:47Speaker 2: I think, because you know, we have these young men
- 21:52Speaker 2: that were like so you know, squeezed into a classroom,
- 21:58Speaker 2: you know, sit at a desk, do this instead of
- 22:00Speaker 2: like working with their manual genius and young women too,
- 22:05Speaker 2: but now like they've just they've they've they've gotten through
- 22:08Speaker 2: the thing and they have no idea what they want
- 22:11Speaker 2: to do. Sure, so I think, you know, like whether
- 22:14Speaker 2: that's you know, coming to a place like Carmel, which
- 22:17Speaker 2: I heavily encourage because we focus more than just on
- 22:20Speaker 2: the trades aspect. There's a communal aspect, there's a whole
- 22:23Speaker 2: human formation aspect. But like for a young person to
- 22:29Speaker 2: get into a community which the trades are valued is
- 22:33Speaker 2: really important because it gets them thinking in a different way,
- 22:37Speaker 2: gets them working in different ways. And let's be honest,
- 22:43Speaker 2: I think now it's really hard for homeowners, right for
- 22:46Speaker 2: young people to become homeowners right now. We got to
- 22:49Speaker 2: work on that in our society. But how many people
- 22:53Speaker 2: have their houses owned them instead of them owning their houses.
- 22:59Speaker 2: And that goes to like it's not necessarily having Like
- 23:02Speaker 2: I'm not a tradesman by my profession, but my house
- 23:06Speaker 2: doesn't own me. I own my house and I'm able
- 23:09Speaker 2: to do some pretty general stuff with it, you know,
- 23:14Speaker 2: cutting my own lawn, fixing my own lawn. More when
- 23:17Speaker 2: it breaks down doing my own simple electrical or plumbing work,
- 23:22Speaker 2: painting there you go. Rep Coo right right there, you
- 23:26Speaker 2: know those things. And I think at least like exploring
- 23:30Speaker 2: or being introduced to a trades and I've got to
- 23:32Speaker 2: make out the appeal for our high schools and our
- 23:35Speaker 2: learning institutions, like we got to start teaching this in
- 23:38Speaker 2: high school. But you know what, it's also putting tools
- 23:43Speaker 2: in the hands of parents and saying don't be afraid.
- 23:47Speaker 2: You know, you don't need to do it perfect, just
- 23:50Speaker 2: do something with your kids.
- 23:52Speaker 1: No, I think that's so good. I can't remember. I'm
- 23:54Speaker 1: trying to remember an article that I ran into probably
- 23:58Speaker 1: five years ago, and it was out of it was
- 24:00Speaker 1: you know, a London area, you know, so across the
- 24:04Speaker 1: pond drew. And the story though, was about all these
- 24:08Speaker 1: young kids, you know, high school or college age kids.
- 24:12Speaker 1: And the article focused on all these different things that
- 24:15Speaker 1: they struggled with. It like they took this huge survey,
- 24:18Speaker 1: you know, big sample of people, and they had ridiculous
- 24:21Speaker 1: numbers of people that didn't quite feel comfortable with crazy
- 24:25Speaker 1: things like you know, dealing with a tripped circuit breaker
- 24:29Speaker 1: and you know they didn't know what that meant, or
- 24:32Speaker 1: switching light bulbs out, and it sounded ridiculous. We at
- 24:35Speaker 1: first thought when we ran into the article that it
- 24:36Speaker 1: was a joke article, but it wasn't. It was real data.
- 24:40Speaker 1: And some of the jobs that they were unfamiliar with
- 24:43Speaker 1: or not comfortable with were you know, things at least
- 24:46Speaker 1: you can kind of wrap your brain around painting and
- 24:48Speaker 1: stuff like that. But even then, you know, that is
- 24:51Speaker 1: hard for me to understand because I guess I've grown
- 24:55Speaker 1: up with painting, you know, not just here, but mom
- 24:58Speaker 1: painting all the time, and there's not much to it,
- 25:01Speaker 1: and there's so many jobs out there that you know,
- 25:04Speaker 1: Electrical things can go wrong, right, you know, and you
- 25:07Speaker 1: can have some problems. Plumbing things can go wrong. I
- 25:09Speaker 1: get that, But even then, there's a lot of plumbing
- 25:12Speaker 1: things that you can do that are really straightforward that
- 25:16Speaker 1: people just aren't comfortable doing and they call for help
- 25:20Speaker 1: on and you end up paying a huge amount of
- 25:22Speaker 1: money to people who come out you wait, like you said,
- 25:25Speaker 1: sometimes because you can't get somebody out there. You know,
- 25:28Speaker 1: I had my dryer once, you know, right right at
- 25:31Speaker 1: the beginning of home ownership, the dryer quit working and
- 25:35Speaker 1: we didn't have money at that point. I mean, like
- 25:37Speaker 1: now I roll in the cash. You know, I don't
- 25:40Speaker 1: know money now even but back then I had way
- 25:43Speaker 1: less and trying to get somebody out there. They couldn't
- 25:46Speaker 1: come right away. We had a bunch of kids at
- 25:48Speaker 1: that point. We needed the dryer, and I thought, forget it.
- 25:51Speaker 1: You know, Dad used to fix everything, and I watch them,
- 25:55Speaker 1: and so I thought, I'm going to look it up.
- 25:57Speaker 1: So I'm looking online, looking on YouTube, and I found
- 26:00Speaker 1: out a dryer. There's almost nothing going on in the dryer,
- 26:03Speaker 1: you know, if the motor part works, there's not a
- 26:06Speaker 1: whole lot else in there. I mean little things that
- 26:08Speaker 1: you can fix here in there. And for thirteen bucks,
- 26:11Speaker 1: I figured out what was going on, got the new
- 26:12Speaker 1: belt or whatever it was. What an incredible feeling of success.
- 26:17Speaker 1: I saved myself that big bill and it was a
- 26:20Speaker 1: doable thing, even though it seemed like a mountain that
- 26:22Speaker 1: was big to climb. So yeah, getting into the trades,
- 26:25Speaker 1: even though you get into something that you know, my
- 26:27Speaker 1: kid's inelectrical. You know, that's what he does, and that's
- 26:29Speaker 1: what he's really comfortable with. But what he finds is
- 26:33Speaker 1: that everything else seems accessible now and he's willing to
- 26:36Speaker 1: try and to dig into it, and he learns new
- 26:38Speaker 1: tasks and new skills along the way. And when he's
- 26:41Speaker 1: got a house, I mean, there's so many things he's
- 26:44Speaker 1: going to be able to do to that thing, right.
- 26:46Speaker 2: And you know where I think it goes back to Dan.
- 26:49Speaker 2: It's that time of holding the flashlight. You know, kids
- 26:53Speaker 2: aren't seeing their parents, and whether it's like the parents
- 26:57Speaker 2: aren't doing it themselves, or the parents are like, oh
- 27:00Speaker 2: my gosh, like I can just do it so much
- 27:02Speaker 2: faster on my own, like I don't even know. Like
- 27:04Speaker 2: that's part of our job as parents is to form
- 27:08Speaker 2: these young people to be adults, not to not to
- 27:12Speaker 2: be efficient children, but to be young, you know, to
- 27:16Speaker 2: be capable adults that can that can't do these things.
- 27:19Speaker 2: And so you know, there is appropriate times where you know,
- 27:24Speaker 2: we have them start doing like little things and you know,
- 27:27Speaker 2: I have I have a one year old will be
- 27:30Speaker 2: two in August, and he helps empty the dishwasher with
- 27:33Speaker 2: his five year old in four year old siblings, and
- 27:37Speaker 2: it is super inefficient. I could do it so much faster,
- 27:41Speaker 2: I know, But that's not the purpose. The purpose, though,
- 27:45Speaker 2: is he sees the value in the dignity of work.
- 27:49Speaker 3: And he now less than two years old, goes out
- 27:53Speaker 3: and seeks to help out with work, and it's like
- 27:57Speaker 3: there we go, like it's so true.
- 27:59Speaker 2: The problem I.
- 28:00Speaker 1: Think, I think that is probably you know, nobody said
- 28:02Speaker 1: parenting is going to be easy. In fact, most people
- 28:04Speaker 1: say there's it's pretty complicated. And I'm pretty sure that
- 28:08Speaker 1: probably the hardest part, one of the hardest parts of
- 28:10Speaker 1: parenting is letting them help at their pace, because for
- 28:14Speaker 1: my personality, that's brutal. But I know, I know, I've
- 28:18Speaker 1: got to let them do it. I've got to let them,
- 28:21Speaker 1: you know, cut the lawn in such a way that
- 28:23Speaker 1: it just, oh, my goodness, guys, and then I can
- 28:26Speaker 1: walk them through what they need to learn, but I
- 28:28Speaker 1: got to let them do it, and that's how they learn.
- 28:29Speaker 1: I've got lots of pictures of the kids doing exactly well.
- 28:32Speaker 1: We never had a dishwasher. I've never in my whole
- 28:35Speaker 1: life if I had a dishwasher, I don't even know
- 28:37Speaker 1: what that's like.
- 28:38Speaker 2: But the thing is, you've you've always had dish washers,
- 28:42Speaker 2: you or your kids rights washers.
- 28:45Speaker 1: Yeah, And I've got lots of pictures of them sitting
- 28:48Speaker 1: at the sink washing dishes with these huge, ridiculous, cheesy
- 28:52Speaker 1: grins on their faces because for some reason it's fun
- 28:56Speaker 1: to them. I don't get it, but when they're little
- 28:59Speaker 1: it's fun. Another fun fades very quickly once it becomes
- 29:03Speaker 1: a job. But they do see that. Yeah, I think
- 29:07Speaker 1: they see the value of it, and maybe even more,
- 29:10Speaker 1: not more importantly, but maybe more so, they see the
- 29:13Speaker 1: necessity of it, you know, because not everything I do
- 29:16Speaker 1: at the like you said, I think you said that earlier.
- 29:18Speaker 1: Not everything we do is fun.
- 29:20Speaker 2: You know.
- 29:20Speaker 1: It's not like I love you know, I get all
- 29:22Speaker 1: giggly when it's time to clean the dishes. You know.
- 29:25Speaker 1: That's not how I get how I am. But I
- 29:27Speaker 1: do know the necessity of it. The kids know the
- 29:29Speaker 1: necessity of it. The house needs this to keep running,
- 29:33Speaker 1: and the goodness of that, and right in the value
- 29:36Speaker 1: of the clean dishes, the value of an organized place,
- 29:40Speaker 1: and what all the good things that come from that,
- 29:43Speaker 1: lots and lots of good stuff. At Harmel Academy, you've
- 29:47Speaker 1: mentioned it, You've talked about it. You're training young men
- 29:48Speaker 1: in the trades with a unique approach. You've kind of
- 29:51Speaker 1: hinted at that. Give us a quick snapshot, you know,
- 29:54Speaker 1: what's the heart of what you're doing out there for sure.
- 29:57Speaker 2: Well, I mean again I want to talk to you know,
- 30:00Speaker 2: like you know, with our kids, and like what we
- 30:01Speaker 2: can do and what we have at Harmel is Harmel
- 30:04Speaker 2: is a place where these men and I mean in
- 30:08Speaker 2: this and most honest and genuine way, is a place
- 30:10Speaker 2: where they can fail. You talked about that statistic over
- 30:13Speaker 2: you know, over in Europe of you know, they just
- 30:16Speaker 2: feel so much anxiety of doing these small, simple tasks
- 30:19Speaker 2: because they haven't learned how to fail and then get
- 30:22Speaker 2: back up. And at Harmel, that's what we're forming these
- 30:27Speaker 2: young men. We're forming them through the trades so that
- 30:31Speaker 2: they apprentice themselves to Jesus Christ, you know, becoming better
- 30:34Speaker 2: husbands and fathers, but also like learning that failure is
- 30:38Speaker 2: not the end. Honestly, failure is just the beginning. But
- 30:41Speaker 2: then it's it's working past that. And I think that's where,
- 30:47Speaker 2: like we talk about the crisis and the skilled trades,
- 30:49Speaker 2: the crisis and character, the crisis of meaning is you know,
- 30:53Speaker 2: we don't we stop at the failure and we and
- 30:55Speaker 2: we don't push beyond it. I think that's maybe what
- 30:58Speaker 2: we're struggling in our society.
- 30:59Speaker 1: You think you see a lot of that. The people
- 31:01Speaker 1: that failure just that's the end of the line. We
- 31:04Speaker 1: fail out something and then we want ditch and move
- 31:07Speaker 1: on to something else. Is that what you're thinking?
- 31:09Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I mean so you know you talked about,
- 31:12Speaker 2: you know, being a teacher. I was a teacher wants
- 31:13Speaker 2: to and it's just like you know, you'd see these
- 31:16Speaker 2: kids they get these grades and they just be completely
- 31:19Speaker 2: deflated and it would like just like set them off
- 31:22Speaker 2: spiringing instead of saying, hey, you know what we can
- 31:26Speaker 2: we can fix this. And probably as you know, as
- 31:30Speaker 2: a teacher, I'm thinking, like I didn't do it. I
- 31:32Speaker 2: don't think I did a good enough job of like
- 31:34Speaker 2: where you gets fixed us. And my dad so so
- 31:37Speaker 2: my I should say, actually, my dad is a tradesman.
- 31:40Speaker 2: You know, he's a he's a teacher, but he actually
- 31:42Speaker 2: spent twenty years in the Marine Corps as a as
- 31:45Speaker 2: a missile technician, so he was a tradesman pretty much. So,
- 31:50Speaker 2: but he had something different when he was teaching. He
- 31:52Speaker 2: would let these kids retake, redo the work, retake the test,
- 31:58Speaker 2: and like give them like like they can build it
- 32:01Speaker 2: all the way back up to ninety percent. I'm like
- 32:03Speaker 2: oh man. I think about so many teachers that are
- 32:06Speaker 2: just like they just let the kids fail and then
- 32:08Speaker 2: that's it, Like that's the end. Nope, you messed up,
- 32:11Speaker 2: You're done. It's like, no, that's.
- 32:14Speaker 1: A lot of right, but that's so much life. I mean,
- 32:17Speaker 1: last week on the show, or a couple of weeks ago.
- 32:20Speaker 1: I don't know when you're in when this interview, particular
- 32:22Speaker 1: particular conversation is going to air, but I was talking
- 32:26Speaker 1: about wrong colors, you know, painting a living room. I
- 32:29Speaker 1: painted a living room and I'm I wasn't sure when
- 32:31Speaker 1: I got done if I had the right color. And
- 32:34Speaker 1: at the very you know, we walked through a bunch
- 32:35Speaker 1: of things you can do and all of that to
- 32:37Speaker 1: work through those situations when you find yourself, if you
- 32:39Speaker 1: find yourself in that situation. And at the very end
- 32:42Speaker 1: of the show, I was trying to just sum everything up, like, Okay,
- 32:46Speaker 1: you know, worst case scenario, you've got the wrong color,
- 32:49Speaker 1: you know, just write it off. You know, this is
- 32:51Speaker 1: one of those things where you know, most of us
- 32:53Speaker 1: have projects. I would say almost all of us have
- 32:55Speaker 1: projects that we tackle that we mess up, we fail,
- 32:58Speaker 1: we have to redo them. You know, it's not the
- 33:01Speaker 1: way we wanted. This might be yours. You know, that
- 33:03Speaker 1: particular color thing that might be mine I might need
- 33:05Speaker 1: to just buy into. I've got to repaint that one
- 33:07Speaker 1: and move on. Oh, there are my lessons and move on.
- 33:10Speaker 1: That is literally, that is life is just NonStop failing
- 33:15Speaker 1: at something, figuring out why you failed at it or
- 33:17Speaker 1: not succeeding as well as you wanted to, figuring out
- 33:21Speaker 1: what went wrong where you drop the ball, learning from that,
- 33:25Speaker 1: and moving on. And yet I know for a fact
- 33:28Speaker 1: everything you're saying is true that people get frozen by
- 33:31Speaker 1: the idea of failing. And sometimes they're frozen so badly
- 33:35Speaker 1: they don't even start something because they're afraid they're not
- 33:38Speaker 1: going to be able to take it to the hoop
- 33:40Speaker 1: or whatever, you know, sports analogy you want to make.
- 33:43Speaker 1: And yet that's just so unrealistic in most things. Yeah,
- 33:46Speaker 1: we have to fail. That's how we grow, how we learn,
- 33:50Speaker 1: how we pick ourselves up and keep moving.
- 33:53Speaker 2: We can't let the perfect or the ideal be the
- 33:57Speaker 2: enemy of the good, and we do that so much
- 34:00Speaker 2: much because we have this idea like it's either perfection
- 34:03Speaker 2: or nothing. It's just like, what what have we built?
- 34:07Speaker 2: It's like no, like we we go and we build,
- 34:11Speaker 2: we continue to build. I mean that that and we
- 34:14Speaker 2: when we persevere and we push through. And yeah, it's
- 34:18Speaker 2: you know, and the thing that if you just fail
- 34:20Speaker 2: in the small ways and the bigger ways, you're gonna
- 34:23Speaker 2: be just finem you know, because because you'll you'll reiterate
- 34:27Speaker 2: those those you know. Harmel Academy has been around for
- 34:31Speaker 2: five years and uh, you know, we haven't done everything perfectly.
- 34:35Speaker 2: We've actually learned a lot from our mistakes. But we
- 34:39Speaker 2: keep on going and we keep on reiterating, and I
- 34:41Speaker 2: think that's we've actually come up with something pretty amazing
- 34:45Speaker 2: because we didn't stop, because we kept on going.
- 34:49Speaker 1: Right, And I do think that's really completely true where
- 34:52Speaker 1: you run into sometimes it's the failures that end up
- 34:56Speaker 1: producing you know, after we go through the work of
- 34:59Speaker 1: dealing with that failure and adjusting to it, we end
- 35:01Speaker 1: up with a better result then than we might have
- 35:03Speaker 1: had right from the bat, you know, right off the
- 35:05Speaker 1: bat with our original plan.
- 35:07Speaker 2: You know.
- 35:08Speaker 1: So failure shouldn't be something that that we freak out
- 35:10Speaker 1: about and run away from. So let's say somebody listening
- 35:14Speaker 1: is you know, pumped up, inspired or curious, they want
- 35:17Speaker 1: to dip their toes into the trades or just learn
- 35:19Speaker 1: enough to tackle some projects at home. Just you know,
- 35:23Speaker 1: you can't run them through a whole game plan for life.
- 35:26Speaker 1: But what's one practical step they could take today?
- 35:29Speaker 2: Well, I mean, if they're if they're gonna if they're
- 35:31Speaker 2: gonna paint, I mean it metal with rep Collide is
- 35:33Speaker 2: where I would start.
- 35:34Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go, there you go. You know, you
- 35:36Speaker 1: know how to do this. You've done these kinds of things,
- 35:38Speaker 1: kinds of things.
- 35:41Speaker 2: I mean but seriously though, No, it's it's picking up
- 35:43Speaker 2: these little things, and it's it's it's starting small. I
- 35:46Speaker 2: think people really we talk about that failure. It's like
- 35:50Speaker 2: because people try to try to do like this big
- 35:52Speaker 2: colossal thing and and they're and they're gonna fail uh,
- 35:57Speaker 2: and they're gonna fail hard. It's like, Okay, let's start
- 36:00Speaker 2: out with something small. You know, if you don't know
- 36:04Speaker 2: how to drive a nail or screw uh or screw
- 36:08Speaker 2: screw like, you know, just just practice. And part of
- 36:11Speaker 2: the problem that we have, Dan is like people are
- 36:15Speaker 2: not connected with each other, Like talk with somebody that's
- 36:20Speaker 2: just a little bit of a level up ahead of
- 36:21Speaker 2: you and and see if you can offer a hand
- 36:24Speaker 2: or just learn or just do something. I mean, YouTube's phenomenal.
- 36:29Speaker 2: But but even then it's like, all right, get get
- 36:32Speaker 2: the right size project. You know. For me, Dan, like
- 36:36Speaker 2: I hadn't had a lot of Like my my father
- 36:39Speaker 2: in law, he's like he's a total gear kid. He's
- 36:41Speaker 2: actually a tradesman. Uh you know. He he did a
- 36:44Speaker 2: lot of stuff within manufacturing. But he loves cars. I
- 36:47Speaker 2: mean this, and he's so good with him And for
- 36:51Speaker 2: early on in my wife and I his marriage, I
- 36:53Speaker 2: would just i would hand off.
- 36:54Speaker 1: The car to sure to.
- 36:56Speaker 2: Him and his buddy who's a mechanic, and and they
- 36:58Speaker 2: take care of him, be great. And now I'm seeing,
- 37:01Speaker 2: wait a second, I'm not gonna be able to teach
- 37:03Speaker 2: my kids some of these day. Yeah, so I need
- 37:04Speaker 2: to hop in there and do these things. So it's
- 37:07Speaker 2: just one is connecting with with someone that knows something
- 37:11Speaker 2: and build up a great relationship. So I would I would, honestly,
- 37:15Speaker 2: I'd start with connecting with the human being that is
- 37:18Speaker 2: that is probably the best thing I think can happen.
- 37:21Speaker 1: Now, I really like that. And you know, specialty stores,
- 37:25Speaker 1: I mean, if you don't even have somebody in your life,
- 37:26Speaker 1: specialty stores, stores that really specialize in whatever they're doing.
- 37:30Speaker 1: There's people there who know what they're talking about, you know,
- 37:34Speaker 1: and they care, they care about it. But find those
- 37:37Speaker 1: people because you know, sometimes I don't know, it depends
- 37:40Speaker 1: on the personalities. Some people don't think about it. I
- 37:42Speaker 1: always think, oh, this is going to be intrusive. They're
- 37:44Speaker 1: not going to want me around. You know, it's going
- 37:46Speaker 1: to be annoying to have me sitting there watching everything.
- 37:50Speaker 1: Most of my experiences with people who know how to
- 37:53Speaker 1: do stuff and you express an interest in learning it,
- 37:56Speaker 1: they're very excited to share the info. Oh yeah, it's
- 38:00Speaker 1: kind of a it's near and dear to their heart.
- 38:02Speaker 1: I'm assuming that your father in law doesn't get annoyed
- 38:06Speaker 1: at the thought of you hanging around. He's probably excited
- 38:08Speaker 1: to show you all these different cool things that he
- 38:10Speaker 1: knows and you can pick it up along the way.
- 38:14Speaker 2: Yeah, it's rue. I mean we have so like every
- 38:16Speaker 2: every Monday night we actually have like our our family dinner,
- 38:19Speaker 2: and so like my in laws come and my sister
- 38:22Speaker 2: in law comes over, and any you know, my wife's
- 38:26Speaker 2: grandmother comes over. They're all from this area. And I
- 38:29Speaker 2: love it because, like I could say, hey, hey, Randy,
- 38:31Speaker 2: hop into the garage with me, like I want to
- 38:33Speaker 2: ask you this question, or hey outside, and it's such
- 38:36Speaker 2: good for like our relationship. I mean, I love my
- 38:39Speaker 2: father in law. Like I think about some people that
- 38:42Speaker 2: they hate their in laws. I'm like, that really sucks
- 38:45Speaker 2: for you, because I love my laws.
- 38:47Speaker 1: Please speak in your comers. He's showing you all this
- 38:49Speaker 1: stuff and showing me you connect too.
- 38:53Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think that's probably maybe where we see
- 38:56Speaker 2: this crisis is everybody wants to just you know, they
- 39:00Speaker 2: want to kind of stick with their own generation. I
- 39:03Speaker 2: think like intergenerational part too. That's part of it is,
- 39:07Speaker 2: you know, and not to say that you know I've
- 39:10Speaker 2: learned you know Dan, you know me, I worked in
- 39:14Speaker 2: a church before, and I learned so much from the
- 39:17Speaker 2: young adults that I would be with and i'd mentor.
- 39:21Speaker 2: I took so much from them, and they took a
- 39:24Speaker 2: lot from me. So that's that relationship is really key
- 39:27Speaker 2: and crucial.
- 39:28Speaker 1: No, right, And it's all across all different generations because
- 39:32Speaker 1: like my kid, like I said, he's got all this
- 39:34Speaker 1: electrical knowledge and it's amazing what he's picked up and
- 39:37Speaker 1: what he's comfortable doing he's talking about his buddies at
- 39:40Speaker 1: work and they're drywall in house you know, they're buying
- 39:44Speaker 1: houses up, you know, and drywall in them and all
- 39:48Speaker 1: these things that they know how to do that they're
- 39:50Speaker 1: really comfortable doing. You know, I know how to dry wall,
- 39:52Speaker 1: I know how to do that. But I'm blown away
- 39:55Speaker 1: that people that age know way more than I've picked
- 39:59Speaker 1: up over the years of doing So if I want
- 40:00Speaker 1: to get some tips and tricks, I don't have to
- 40:02Speaker 1: necessarily go find somebody older than me. I can actually,
- 40:06Speaker 1: I mean it's it's it's across all different generations. I
- 40:08Speaker 1: can go find those younger guys and oh my goodness,
- 40:11Speaker 1: the stuff they know. Oh yeah, it's amazing. I just
- 40:14Speaker 1: connect with people. I think that's really smart. Last thing
- 40:16Speaker 1: I got for you is where do you see trades?
- 40:19Speaker 1: You know, everything heading in the next decade or so.
- 40:22Speaker 1: You know, what do you see coming? Do you think
- 40:23Speaker 1: we're going to round the corner on this thing or
- 40:24Speaker 1: is it going to get worse before it gets better?
- 40:27Speaker 2: You know? I think I think it's I think it's
- 40:29Speaker 2: gonnat a little worse before it gets better. But I
- 40:32Speaker 2: do I am an optimist, so I think I'm an
- 40:35Speaker 2: optimistic like you know, we're going to rise to the occasion,
- 40:38Speaker 2: and I mean we right now. We're in the midst
- 40:41Speaker 2: of a lot of things going on in the world,
- 40:43Speaker 2: but one of them is a strong desire for people
- 40:48Speaker 2: to see manufacturing returning back to the United States, across
- 40:52Speaker 2: the aisles, across political spectrums, these things like people want
- 40:55Speaker 2: to see this and so that is really exciting. And
- 41:00Speaker 2: I alluded to earlier, like the trades now were not
- 41:04Speaker 2: necessarily like the trades back then, Like some of these
- 41:06Speaker 2: shops that I go into, I mean, Dan, it is
- 41:09Speaker 2: just wow, Like it is incredible the technology that's being
- 41:16Speaker 2: used in the knowledge and the infrastructure and things like that.
- 41:19Speaker 2: So it's the trades are not that like when Micro
- 41:22Speaker 2: would talk about like you know a guy that's just
- 41:25Speaker 2: down on his luck and well, I guess I'll just
- 41:27Speaker 2: do the trade. No, actually, the trades are. I mean
- 41:30Speaker 2: you talk about it like that is where a lot
- 41:33Speaker 2: We're going to see a lot of investment go towards
- 41:37Speaker 2: and I see that within the next decade. So I
- 41:40Speaker 2: would tell people, hop on the train right now, Harmel Academy,
- 41:43Speaker 2: we were are are we still focus on it. We
- 41:46Speaker 2: have a second year program that's geared towards manufacturing and
- 41:50Speaker 2: man that what these guys learn and what they're able
- 41:53Speaker 2: to do in the shops that they're in, I mean,
- 41:55Speaker 2: it is incredible, you know, and it's just it really
- 42:01Speaker 2: is exciting. But even within like plumbing, electrical, these things
- 42:04Speaker 2: like that, I mean, it is fascinating to see the
- 42:09Speaker 2: tools and technology. It is so cool. It's so cool.
- 42:13Speaker 1: It's amazing where things going. It's really positive, it's really hopeful.
- 42:17Speaker 1: And yeah, definitely if you're you know, on the fence,
- 42:21Speaker 1: you know, you're a young person on the fence, thinking
- 42:23Speaker 1: about college, thinking about you know, the trades which one
- 42:27Speaker 1: dig into it a little bit, do some digging. You
- 42:30Speaker 1: just realize the jobs are out there. I mean, they
- 42:32Speaker 1: are just clamoring for work. The money is good and
- 42:36Speaker 1: there's such a value to working with your hands and
- 42:39Speaker 1: you know, helping people because a lot of these trades
- 42:41Speaker 1: you are directly helping people, you know, live their lives
- 42:45Speaker 1: in a better way. You know, homeowners, you're fixing their plumbing.
- 42:48Speaker 1: When my toilet's plugged, that nobody's living a happy life
- 42:52Speaker 1: at that moment, or a hot water heater isn't working,
- 42:56Speaker 1: or you know, there's a lot of misery and when
- 42:58Speaker 1: when you can come through and fix those things, you know,
- 43:02Speaker 1: you know, yeah, Harmel. If people want to, you know,
- 43:05Speaker 1: go online, look for more information. How's the best way
- 43:08Speaker 1: to contact you guys.
- 43:09Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, And I told you we have some exciting
- 43:12Speaker 2: news where you know, we've been around for five years
- 43:14Speaker 2: and we're excited for the next five. We're actually moving.
- 43:17Speaker 2: We just signed a lease with Aquinas College, so we're
- 43:20Speaker 2: going to be on the east side of their campus,
- 43:23Speaker 2: operating out of what used to be the old minor
- 43:25Speaker 2: seminary for the Diocese of Grand Rapids, which is really cool,
- 43:28Speaker 2: like we kind of see that formation kind of coming
- 43:31Speaker 2: full full circle. But yeah, we're we're moving over this summer.
- 43:35Speaker 2: A great place to connect with us is at Harmel
- 43:38Speaker 2: Academy dot org and they can kind of see, you know,
- 43:43Speaker 2: what we're doing and this exciting move that we're doing
- 43:49Speaker 2: and being a part of that and being we We
- 43:52Speaker 2: also have events and things like that where people can
- 43:55Speaker 2: be a part of it. You know, it is about
- 43:56Speaker 2: these guys, these young men, sure, but you know, a
- 43:59Speaker 2: lot lectures and opportunities for people to be a part
- 44:02Speaker 2: of it and kind of dive into work and we're
- 44:04Speaker 2: excited for the next five years because we've been really
- 44:07Speaker 2: focusing on these menu you talk about what's six exciting
- 44:10Speaker 2: in the next ten years and trades. We started out
- 44:13Speaker 2: with six men five years ago. Oh wow, we have
- 44:16Speaker 2: we have We have formed over sixty men and we
- 44:19Speaker 2: have thirty men coming to Harmel next year. So that's
- 44:23Speaker 2: super exciting. So we want a lot of people to
- 44:25Speaker 2: be a part of this move and move with us
- 44:30Speaker 2: as we start this new chapter. But yeah, Harmel Academy
- 44:33Speaker 2: dot org perfect is a great place to see what
- 44:36Speaker 2: we're doing and all the good work that we're doing
- 44:38Speaker 2: here in Grand Rapids.
- 44:39Speaker 1: I'll put links to that in our show notes and
- 44:41Speaker 1: all of that, And yeah, you guys are one of
- 44:44Speaker 1: all these other places where people can learn more about
- 44:47Speaker 1: the trades, jump in, you know, even you know, whatever
- 44:51Speaker 1: you need to do, talk to some plumbers to I've
- 44:53Speaker 1: had some plumbers on the show once where I asked,
- 44:56Speaker 1: how do you get started, and they said, just stop
- 44:58Speaker 1: out talk to us about apprenticeship and they'll walk you
- 45:01Speaker 1: through what that would look like and whatever you've got
- 45:05Speaker 1: to do. Dig into it. Like I said, I'll put
- 45:07Speaker 1: links to Harmel in the show notes and people can
- 45:09Speaker 1: check it out. Drew, thanks so much for hanging out
- 45:12Speaker 1: with me, taking all this time to talk about something
- 45:14Speaker 1: so important.
- 45:16Speaker 2: Yeah, Dan, thank you very much. You appreciate it and
- 45:18Speaker 2: appreciate your Rep Colite and this opportunity to talk about
- 45:22Speaker 2: what Harmel is doing and how we're trying to make
- 45:24Speaker 2: an impact in the trades but in work and especially
- 45:28Speaker 2: in the lives of young men.
- 45:30Speaker 1: Excellent. I appreciate it, and that's going to do it.
- 45:32Speaker 1: Whatever you've got planned this weekend makes your paints a
- 45:35Speaker 1: part of it. I do want to highlight the fact
- 45:37Speaker 1: that right now we've got basically a deck coding sale
- 45:41Speaker 1: going on. So if you've got to do your deck
- 45:43Speaker 1: this summer yet, we've got all the products that you're
- 45:46Speaker 1: going to need on sale. Benjamin Moore's Woodlucks is on
- 45:49Speaker 1: sale for twenty percent off, and Repcollites Deck and doc
- 45:53Speaker 1: would Protector, our premium go to product for decks. We've
- 45:57Speaker 1: got a water based version and our traditional VOC compliant
- 46:00Speaker 1: oil based version. Both of those are on sale the
- 46:04Speaker 1: lowest price I think we've ever sold them at. I
- 46:06Speaker 1: guess I'm not technically sure of that. If it's not
- 46:09Speaker 1: the lowest price, it's really close. I'm going to be
- 46:12Speaker 1: talking about decks next week on the show. I'm going
- 46:15Speaker 1: to walk you through what a deck project looks like,
- 46:17Speaker 1: and we'll cover everything you need to know. In the meantime,
- 46:20Speaker 1: just be aware deck products are on sale at Repcolite
- 46:23Speaker 1: until June sixteenth, so you've got time to take advantage
- 46:26Speaker 1: of that. All right, have a great weekend everybody, and
- 46:28Speaker 1: I'll see you next week. I'm Dan Hansen. Thanks for listening.