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I Have Some Exciting News · The conspiracy

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Speaker 1: Hey, are you doing today? You're looking great? You know that.
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Speaker 1: Can you smile for me? Just smile little bright. Hello everybody,
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Speaker 1: and welcome back to my YouTube channel. And welcome to
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Speaker 1: my YouTube channel. I'm comic Chris. You can call me Chris.
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Speaker 1: And today I have extremely exciting news, big announcement how
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Speaker 1: Sounion is now available to watch on multiple streaming services,
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Speaker 1: which I didn't even know. I don't know what's going on,
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Speaker 1: and it's kind of frustrating with the movie. But it's
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Speaker 1: on Amazon, it's on Apple, it's on Direct TV, it's
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Speaker 1: on Fendango, it's on a couple other things. We'll put
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Speaker 1: them on screen here, but in the US and in
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Speaker 1: Canada to my Canadians, so go check it out rented
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Speaker 1: or buy it or super pumped that you guys are
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Speaker 1: able to watch it at home now. And I know
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Speaker 1: to my across the ponders and everywhere else. It's out
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Speaker 1: of my control when it's going to be available. But
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Speaker 1: there's VPNs. You can use VPNs. Maybe I don't know
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Speaker 1: how that works with buying stuff, but maybe maybe that's
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Speaker 1: a loop, a loophole or something. There's probably a loophole,
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Speaker 1: but make sure it's legal. I don't really know how
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Speaker 1: that works, but yeah, make sure to watch it and
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Speaker 1: rate it, let us know, let me know what you
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Speaker 1: think of it, good, bad, whatever. I'm just excited for
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Speaker 1: you guys to be able to watch it, because at
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Speaker 1: the end of the day, it is it was quite
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Speaker 1: literally made for you. So I'm very excited to announce
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Speaker 1: that and to my across the ponders, it will get
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Speaker 1: to you sooner than later, but I'm not sure on
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Speaker 1: the exact date, but stay tuned. I just want to
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Speaker 1: thank you guys for all the support. It's been a
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Speaker 1: journey doing all that stuff that we're at the end.
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Speaker 1: So it's crazy worldwood and I've been busy doing other
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Speaker 1: projects for y'all, which I'm very excited about. So today
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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, let's just chill out, you know,
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Speaker 1: let's just read some Reddit. I saw you guys wanting
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Speaker 1: me to read some Reddit stuff because it's just chill.
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Speaker 1: I do it over. We're on my second channel call
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Speaker 1: me Chris two a lot, but figure, it's just a
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Speaker 1: chill Saturday. Let's just hang out, read some other people's
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Speaker 1: drama and judge them harshly. Let's get into it, all right.
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Speaker 1: I've only read the titles of these, but I've got
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Speaker 1: some seems like juicy ones, so let's read it first. Up,
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Speaker 1: I male twenty six ask my girlfriend's female twenty six
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Speaker 1: best friend female twenty six on vacation with me when
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Speaker 1: my girlfriend canceled? What you? I already don't like this
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Speaker 1: kind of but I'm not going to prejudge even though
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Speaker 1: I just did. Let's read this is also on our
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Speaker 1: slash relationships, this one specifically. My girlfriend and I have
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Speaker 1: been together for three years now. She has a best
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Speaker 1: friend who is always around and we have become friends
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Speaker 1: over that time. Cool, innocent. My girlfriend and I have
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Speaker 1: planned a vacation in August. It's a month long trip,
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Speaker 1: A month long, I'm back to judging prematurely, okay, and
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Speaker 1: something we've been planning for years. We both get very
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Speaker 1: good vacation time, so it wasn't a problem. Something came
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Speaker 1: up with work, and now she cannot go. My girlfriend's
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Speaker 1: best friend is between work right now, and I know
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Speaker 1: she's always wanted to go on a similar trip. I
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Speaker 1: asked her to go, and she said she'd love to.
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Speaker 1: Did you ask your girlfriend if that was all right?
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Speaker 1: If you go on a month long trip with another woman, Buddy,
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Speaker 1: she needs cheering up, and she's been very down about
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Speaker 1: her job loss and job hunt. I hadn't mentioned the
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Speaker 1: plan to my girlfriend beforehand, and when she found out,
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Speaker 1: she was pissed. What peina, what that's crazy? See, she
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Speaker 1: doesn't want me to go on the trip with her
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Speaker 1: best friend. That's crazy, man. Wow, she thought I would
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Speaker 1: take one of my best friends or my brothers. See
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Speaker 1: that makes sense, but most of them are working and
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Speaker 1: wouldn't have been able to go even if I asked.
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Speaker 1: She says she can't support the two of us taking
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Speaker 1: her dream vacation without her, and it's weird that the
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Speaker 1: two of us are planning to vacation alone together. She's
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Speaker 1: barely speaking to me now what. I know that it
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Speaker 1: was hard for my girlfriend to miss this, but it
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Speaker 1: wasn't my fault and I needed someone else to go with.
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Speaker 1: I know I should have discussed it with her beforehand,
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Speaker 1: but I was so upset about trying to find someone
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Speaker 1: to go with. I didn't want to waste any time
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Speaker 1: asking her friend. Buddy, how do I put this lightly?
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Speaker 1: You're kind of an idiot to put it really nicely.
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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, it's a trip. It's a long trip.
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Speaker 1: You guys been planning it for years. I get that
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Speaker 1: it's a huge bummer, but this was like disrespectful and
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Speaker 1: just like self, you weren't thinking at all remotely about
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Speaker 1: your partner. You weren't thinking about how they feel about
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Speaker 1: the situation. They are probably really bummed that they can't go.
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Speaker 1: She also was totally cool with you going, but like
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Speaker 1: with a with a dude, best friend or a brother
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Speaker 1: or something, which is like stellar, which makes sense, and
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Speaker 1: you know, it depends on the dynamic of relationships. But
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Speaker 1: I think it's fair to say in probably most situations,
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Speaker 1: going with your partner's girl best friend in you know,
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Speaker 1: like heterosexual relationship is weird. I'd be like, what, I
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Speaker 1: don't even think I could speak. If my partner said
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Speaker 1: that to me, I'd be like, I'd maybe be like,
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Speaker 1: I think you need to go for a brain scam, Like,
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Speaker 1: is what's going on up there? You know, like what's happening.
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Speaker 1: Let's see what the comment said. This is very weird,
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Speaker 1: That's what I said. I love when Redda and I
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Speaker 1: are on the same page. You fucked up big time, buddy.
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Speaker 1: This is wholly something you should have discussed with her
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Speaker 1: ahead of time. How would you feel if she were
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Speaker 1: going on a month long trip with another dude. I
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Speaker 1: get that your friends with her friend. However, there are
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Speaker 1: certain standards and boundaries one must abide by. You just
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Speaker 1: totally overlooked that. I agree with everything. But there's an
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Speaker 1: up to it. O. First, there was an edit. I
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Speaker 1: will be meeting with the best friend tonight to apologize
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Speaker 1: for everything, but that it isn't appropriate for her to come,
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Speaker 1: and I'll be going alone. I'll tell you all know
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Speaker 1: how it goes. I can't even write grapper English. It's
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Speaker 1: also weird. Let's so, I feel like I totally love
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Speaker 1: friend out that I believe she was cool with going
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Speaker 1: and also with not talking to her friend about it.
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Speaker 1: So now it makes me think something's going on because
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Speaker 1: she did agree to it. Right, let's look back, let's
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Speaker 1: get the replay on this. Oh, yeah, she said she
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Speaker 1: would love to, so we don't have that context if
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Speaker 1: like she said she would love to, but let's ask
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Speaker 1: your girlfriend first. Still weird. I would never go on
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Speaker 1: a trip with my friend's partner. There's no scenario where
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Speaker 1: that would happen. Let's read the update, though, my lord,
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Speaker 1: I met with my girlfriend's best friend I told her
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Speaker 1: the trip made my girlfriend uncomfortable, and I could understand why,
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Speaker 1: because you asked strangers and your brain didn't work. I
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Speaker 1: said that it would be better if I went alone,
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Speaker 1: and I apologized for inviting her and disappointing her. She
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Speaker 1: got really upset and started going off about how she
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Speaker 1: screwed up her friendship with my girlfriend. Oh wait, she
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Speaker 1: got really upset and started going off about how she
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Speaker 1: screwed up her friendship with my girlfriend and me, like
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Speaker 1: she screws up everything, How she is terrible at her
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Speaker 1: job and that's why she was fired, how she's going
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Speaker 1: nowhere in life, and how she's she'll end up alone.
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Speaker 1: She told me that sometimes it's hard to speak to
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Speaker 1: my girlfriend since she's always so positive and nice about everything,
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Speaker 1: but she also has a very good life, good job,
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Speaker 1: nice boyfriend, and she was jealous of that. Yeah. See,
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Speaker 1: this is what I'm talking about when I'm saying there's
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Speaker 1: something going on. She's got a little crush, she's got
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Speaker 1: a little envy, and it's okay. If you're struggling in life,
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Speaker 1: it sucks sometimes to see other people, you know, living
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Speaker 1: what you want to be living. I understand that, but
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Speaker 1: doesn't mean, you be a shitty person. You know. At
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Speaker 1: least she's self reflecting and realizing that. And I don't
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Speaker 1: think she's like a bad personally, she's saying she is,
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Speaker 1: or she has a potential to not be because what
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Speaker 1: she did was not cool nor the guy. But let's
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Speaker 1: keep reading. She admitted she was looking forward to this
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Speaker 1: trip as a recharge for her but agreed not to come.
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Speaker 1: She said I was a good boyfriend and hoped she
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Speaker 1: could find someone like me soon. I disagree with this completely,
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Speaker 1: but oh well, we talked for a while and I
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Speaker 1: just got back. This makes me feel all kinds of
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Speaker 1: just achy. It's just like I can't go because my
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Speaker 1: girlfriend said I can't go, And now she's really out
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Speaker 1: of both of us because we wanted to go on
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Speaker 1: an oh manic month long trip together. She's such a branch.
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Speaker 1: It's like when you tell your mom, like, hey mom,
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Speaker 1: I don't want to go to this friend's house. Can
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Speaker 1: you just say I can't go? And you're like, oh
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Speaker 1: my mom said I can't go? Was I the only
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Speaker 1: one that did that? I was very antisocial as a kid,
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Speaker 1: and I'd be like, oh my mom said I can't go.
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Speaker 1: You know, he's like, oh, my girlfriend said I can't
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Speaker 1: do it. Now he's making this other girl upset. She's like,
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Speaker 1: I'm a bad friend. I'm this, which you know, in
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Speaker 1: some degree, probably a little bit, but she's obviously, you know,
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Speaker 1: got to work through her own shit. But the guy
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Speaker 1: in this is just an overhaul, an overall. It's assholen
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Speaker 1: in a sign language. He doesn't deserve to be with
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Speaker 1: this woman. The woman deserves better. The comments say, dear God,
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Speaker 1: no no no no no, no, no, no no, you
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Speaker 1: blame your girlfriend's feelings instead of admitting it was simply
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Speaker 1: inappropriate and you should never have asked. You have probably
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Speaker 1: irreparably damaged your girlfriend's friendship with her best friend. Congratulations. Ps.
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Speaker 1: It's also obvious from the girl's response how incredibly inappropriate
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Speaker 1: this trip would have been. We're on the same page
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Speaker 1: me and read it from her reaction. There is a
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Speaker 1: ninety percent chance she would have made a move on
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Speaker 1: you during the holiday. Absolutely, that's like so blatantly obvious.
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Speaker 1: She's in her own state right now, that's very vulnerable
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Speaker 1: and stuff, but nefarious things seem to be happening in
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Speaker 1: her brain, which isn't fair Again to the girlfriend, the
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Speaker 1: girlfriend are just ditch both of these people. Get out.
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Speaker 1: Next person said you used your girlfriend as a scapegoat.
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Speaker 1: That was unfair and cowardly. Why do you care so
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Speaker 1: much about the friend's feelings. I'm not saying be horrible
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Speaker 1: to her, but your girlfriend is the priority. The fact
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Speaker 1: that going on the trip with anyone rather than going
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Speaker 1: alone makes your girlfriend sound disposable. Amen. Wasn't it supposed
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Speaker 1: to be something special for the two of you. I
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Speaker 1: also agree with the other comments regarding the appropriateness of
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Speaker 1: the friend accepting. Yeah, it's it's a very weird, dynamic
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Speaker 1: captic happening. It's just super inappropriate, and you need to
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Speaker 1: grow the fuck up and use your use that little
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Speaker 1: thing in your we I don't know if you have
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Speaker 1: it up there, but that thing inside your skull, maybe
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Speaker 1: it would probably help you out. I b like next
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Speaker 1: step am I the scally wig for grabbing a teenager's
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Speaker 1: phone after he took a picture of me at the gym. Ooh,
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Speaker 1: not cool of taking a picture of somebody at the gym.
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Speaker 1: That's very weird. But I don't know if he was
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Speaker 1: like taking a picture of something else and he was
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Speaker 1: having to me on the PHONEO. Let's get contact paper,
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Speaker 1: let's get context, let's read HI. Thirty two female was
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Speaker 1: at a local gym last week finishing up a workout.
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Speaker 1: I had it into the woman's locker room to grab
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Speaker 1: my stuff and change. The gym recently started allowing teens
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Speaker 1: in with parental permission, and that day a group of
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Speaker 1: boys around sixteen were hanging out near the entrance waiting
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Speaker 1: for their moms, who were in a zuma class. As
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Speaker 1: I walked past, one of them made a crude comment,
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Speaker 1: and then I heard the shutter sound of a phone camera.
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Speaker 1: Not today, son. I turned around and saw him laughing
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Speaker 1: with his friends. He'd taken a photo of my backside.
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Speaker 1: She's kidding. You shouldn't hit a kid, That's what I
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Speaker 1: would think in my head. Anyway, I walked straight up,
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Speaker 1: grabbed his phone and told him to delete the photo.
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Speaker 1: He refused, saying it was quote just to joke. I
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Speaker 1: wasn't having it. I went to the front desk and
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Speaker 1: reported the incident. Right now, there's more to this good
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Speaker 1: grabbing the phone is a little I would have just said, like,
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Speaker 1: can you please delete that? You know, I mean, they're kids.
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Speaker 1: I was also joking about getting a kid. By the way,
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Speaker 1: I'm joking. I joke. Sorry, she needs to put that
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Speaker 1: disclaimer out. People love to clip stuff and put it
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Speaker 1: on TikTok and be like, ah, she's anyway. I probably
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Speaker 1: would have just asked the kid politely to delete it
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Speaker 1: and that that's not appropriate and that I don't really
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Speaker 1: appreciate that, and then I would have done exactly what
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Speaker 1: she did, go report it if he refuses. Totally fair,
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Speaker 1: But yeah, in that situation, I don't know what else
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Speaker 1: you can do. I mean, you know, I want to
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Speaker 1: rob the phone and be like, no, delete that. He's
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Speaker 1: just being like, no, I don't want to. I don't
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Speaker 1: know what the law is there, because to be honest,
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Speaker 1: I don't even know how many people take photos of
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Speaker 1: me when I didn't want my photo taken or a
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Speaker 1: videos taken of me in the bathroom before. And I
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Speaker 1: have had the situation happen where I have to politely
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Speaker 1: ask the person to delete that video or photo, especially
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Speaker 1: if it's in like a vulnerable setting like that, and
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Speaker 1: they've always abided. But I'm just like, hey, if you
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Speaker 1: want to, you know, if you want a picture, I
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Speaker 1: would love to take a picture with you. You know,
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Speaker 1: it's always like there's a positive thing around it, but
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Speaker 1: it's very exposing and weird and feels wrong. But if
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Speaker 1: you're in public, I think it's technically allowed depending on
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Speaker 1: where you are. So this is I don't really know
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Speaker 1: how this works, but anyway, let's read the rest of this.
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Speaker 1: His mom was called, and instead of apologizing, she accused
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Speaker 1: me of man handling her son and violating his privacy.
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Speaker 1: Bad mom award. This is an opportunity to actually teach
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Speaker 1: your kid how to respect other human beings. And I get, like,
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Speaker 1: you know, somebody like grabbing a phone out of your
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Speaker 1: kid's hand and stuff like that, but I wouldn't give
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Speaker 1: I'd be like, delete the photo, don't take photos of
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Speaker 1: of adult women's asses, and then refuse to delete it.
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Speaker 1: I don't know what the right thing is there, but
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Speaker 1: I would be very disappointed as a mom. I know
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Speaker 1: that for sure. The gym manager reviewed the security footage,
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Speaker 1: which clearly showed him taking the photo, but didn't catch
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Speaker 1: my reaction. Police were called. Police were called. I was
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Speaker 1: told I could press harassment charges. I was wondering if
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Speaker 1: that was, like, if you could do that, because it's
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Speaker 1: like I don't know, but the mom threatened to sue
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Speaker 1: me first, Oh my god, this is crazy. In the end,
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Speaker 1: the gym banned the boy and his friends for six months.
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Speaker 1: That's good at least, but I left feeling shaken and
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Speaker 1: honestly kind of unsupported. When I shared the story online,
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Speaker 1: some people said I should have just let it go.
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Speaker 1: My mother said I did the right thing. My husband
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Speaker 1: thinks I might have overreacted. I don't. I felt violated
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Speaker 1: it stood up for myself. But now I'm wondering him
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Speaker 1: of the a hole a son like I said in
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Speaker 1: that setting, and it feels Yes, you have every right
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Speaker 1: to feel violated, and you have every right to be
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Speaker 1: upset about that. Maybe grabbing the phone out of his
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Speaker 1: hands maybe wasn't the right move. But did anybody get
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Speaker 1: hurt in this process? No? Technically, legally are you allowed
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Speaker 1: to do that? I don't think so. Are you allowed
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Speaker 1: to press charges for him harassing you and stuff? Yeah?
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Speaker 1: Probably so. I don't think you're the asshole, but I
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Speaker 1: think at grabbing the phone was probably like the biggest
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Speaker 1: issue at all of this with everyone. If you just asked,
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Speaker 1: probably a lot of this wouldn't have been an issue.
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Speaker 1: But I don't know. I don't know what the right
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Speaker 1: answer is because I don't know exactly what I do
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Speaker 1: in that situation of like a little kid taking a
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Speaker 1: picture of my ass. I want to see the comment
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Speaker 1: say you should have every right to be angry, the
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Speaker 1: mom should be ashamed of herself. They should have been
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Speaker 1: banned permanently. I agree with that totally. I agree with
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Speaker 1: the mom sticking up for her kid taking inappropriate pictures
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Speaker 1: of other women, like that kid's just going to grow
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Speaker 1: up to be an asshole to women. He's going to
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Speaker 1: grow up to be the same guy in the last story.
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Speaker 1: That's who that kid's going to grow up to. Me
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Speaker 1: op said, thank you. I stood up because I didn't
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Speaker 1: want him thinking it was okay to treat woman like that. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: thank you for parenting the little piece of shit since
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Speaker 1: his mom clearly isn't up to the task. Fair Another
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Speaker 1: comment said, you receive pushback because misogyny is still so
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Speaker 1: casually accepted. Know that that's the basis for these let
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Speaker 1: it go comments, and keep a mental note of who
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Speaker 1: is making them, allow them to reveal themselves as a
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Speaker 1: casual misogynists they are, and behave Accordingly, you were absolutely
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Speaker 1: in the right that punk as a result of parenting
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Speaker 1: and the society that excuses his behavior. Shit man, amen
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Speaker 1: to that. Yeah, sadly it sounds like his own mother's
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Speaker 1: okay with them treating women that way. Now the asshole,
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Speaker 1: file those charges on that piece of shit kid in parent.
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Speaker 1: Let her try to file alt on you. It'll get
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Speaker 1: laughed right out of court. Honestly, that too. It's just like,
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Speaker 1: if you want to go through all that, you know, rigamarole,
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Speaker 1: why not? You know he'll actually learn a lesson and
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Speaker 1: it won't be from his mom. Yeah. I don't think
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Speaker 1: you're the asshole at all. Teach you kid a lesson.
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Speaker 1: Put him in jail. It is kind of crazy that
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Speaker 1: he only got banned for six months too. I don't
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Speaker 1: know understand why he wouldn't get banned for in perpetuity.
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Speaker 1: That doesn't really make sense. Let's move on all right.
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Speaker 1: Next up is am I the a hole for putting
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Speaker 1: up a camera during my neighbor's pool build and then
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Speaker 1: overhearing him say he hates us. I don't know. I
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Speaker 1: am baffled by recent encounter with my neighbor, primarily what
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Speaker 1: I overheard. I live in the US suburbs and it's summer.
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Speaker 1: I replaced my AC in March, which was significant investment
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Speaker 1: for us. Our new six months neighbor. In May, they
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Speaker 1: informed us they would be putting in a pool. This
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Speaker 1: was our first encounter with them. The pool company asked
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Speaker 1: to use the path between our houses and gave us
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Speaker 1: poorly written liability waiver and inconsistent references. I saw that
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Speaker 1: as an opportunity to be a good neighbor and reworded
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Speaker 1: it to be more clear and sent it back, which
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Speaker 1: they appreciated. Okay. A few days later, the neighbor's wife
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Speaker 1: asked to meet in person to discuss the timeline and concerns.
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Speaker 1: My wife mentioned our new AC unit and asked that
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Speaker 1: machinery avoid the condenser. We also requested their work vehicles
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Speaker 1: not park in front of our house since we have
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Speaker 1: regular services that need access. Have a Google camera that
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Speaker 1: I use for video feed of the AC unit in
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Speaker 1: case anything happened, I put it in the window in
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Speaker 1: a conspicuous location so everyone knew it was there. Okay.
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Speaker 1: Over the summer, nothing happened and we had no contact.
17:13
Speaker 1: Last week my wife asked about repairs to our grass
17:15
Speaker 1: and sprinklers, and the neighbor's wife said the project was delayed,
17:18
Speaker 1: but should finish in a few weeks. All were polite messages. Okay.
17:22
Speaker 1: This brings us to our most recent account. Or a
17:24
Speaker 1: day ago, around five pm, a work vehicle with a
17:27
Speaker 1: trailer arrives and parks directly in front of our driveway.
17:29
Speaker 1: The workers open the trailer and start doing their work.
17:31
Speaker 1: The truck is labeled for a specific service and another
17:34
Speaker 1: crew had been on site recently to perform the same service.
17:37
Speaker 1: I was mildly curious as I didn't think it was
17:39
Speaker 1: the same company. So as my wife and I head
17:41
Speaker 1: out to take our evening walk with our dog, my
17:44
Speaker 1: wife asked how long they will be there, and they
17:46
Speaker 1: respond they are about to leave. The interaction was no
17:48
Speaker 1: more than five seconds. As we arrive home, they are
17:51
Speaker 1: leaving and neighbor heading inside his house. Okay, this is
17:54
Speaker 1: like weird, it's weirdly written, all right, whatever, We have
17:57
Speaker 1: a driveway camera. I was curious if I could listen
17:59
Speaker 1: to their conversation and hear why another company was here. Yes,
18:03
Speaker 1: it's me being nosy. What I hear is not that.
18:06
Speaker 1: It's my neighbors complaining about us to these workers. He
18:09
Speaker 1: talks bad about us, mentions the camera. I can tell
18:12
Speaker 1: they discuss the parking situation. He says he does not
18:15
Speaker 1: like us repeatedly. I can clearly hear him say, man,
18:18
Speaker 1: I do not like these new neighbors, both of them.
18:23
Speaker 1: We debated this a bit. I don't know what he
18:24
Speaker 1: means by that. We came to a conclusion that he
18:27
Speaker 1: means us and his other neighbors. I'm taken aback. We've
18:30
Speaker 1: barely spoke. My wife has had maybe five back and
18:33
Speaker 1: forth text and one in person conversation. We've never spoken
18:36
Speaker 1: to him personally. My daughter says she has talked to
18:39
Speaker 1: him once, a passing low. I'm honestly not sure what
18:42
Speaker 1: I should do here. As I see it, We've done
18:44
Speaker 1: nothing to him. There's never been a personal interaction. So
18:48
Speaker 1: I'm here to ask a bunch of internet folks. Am
18:50
Speaker 1: I the a hole? What should I do here? My
18:52
Speaker 1: wife is considering confronting the neighbor wife. Confronting the neighbor
18:55
Speaker 1: wife for what for them having an opinion? I know
18:58
Speaker 1: it doesn't feel nice. Probably, what are you gonna say, Hey,
19:02
Speaker 1: why don't you like us? I feel like it's just
19:05
Speaker 1: your pride that's uh taken over. That's what you get
19:08
Speaker 1: for listening into other people's conversation, private conversations. You know
19:13
Speaker 1: you're probably gonna hear things you maybe not want to hear,
19:15
Speaker 1: But does it affect your life? Not really, And honestly
19:18
Speaker 1: bringing it up to them won't change anything, probably make
19:21
Speaker 1: them like you less. I think, Yeah, I mean I
19:23
Speaker 1: would hate to hear that from like a neighbor or whatever,
19:25
Speaker 1: but I'd be like, Okay, I guess we're not going
19:27
Speaker 1: to be friends. We're not going to be homies. And
19:28
Speaker 1: you said the other you're already not close, so there's
19:31
Speaker 1: not much to do. I get. I don't think there's
19:33
Speaker 1: anything to do. First comment says this person is the
19:37
Speaker 1: asshole according to Reddit, and first comment says, I'm honestly
19:40
Speaker 1: not sure what to do here. Nothing, there's nothing to do.
19:43
Speaker 1: Not everyone is going to like you. They're not coming
19:45
Speaker 1: up to your face and causing problems. They were talking
19:47
Speaker 1: to contractors and had no reason to believe you'd hear
19:49
Speaker 1: the conversation or be affected by it. Just move on. Yeah,
19:52
Speaker 1: And then it says my wife is considering confront of
19:53
Speaker 1: the neighbor wife. Okay, so they already don't like you,
19:56
Speaker 1: but your wife is going to tell them that you
19:58
Speaker 1: overheard them. Spying on the case. Yeah, it's just like,
20:01
Speaker 1: don't do that. You want the shovel here, you dig
20:04
Speaker 1: that whole little deeper like what he's doing. Another comment said,
20:07
Speaker 1: we were spying on your conversation and we heard you
20:09
Speaker 1: say you don't like us. I want us to know
20:11
Speaker 1: why and what we did that you're annoyed about. I
20:13
Speaker 1: don't know. Maybe it's the cameras you installed so you
20:15
Speaker 1: could spy on us. Yeah. Yeah, man, there's so many
20:18
Speaker 1: cameras everywhere now. It's like kind of weird and freaky. Yeah,
20:21
Speaker 1: you can like spy on neighbors and all that kind
20:23
Speaker 1: of stuff, But at the same time, it's good for
20:25
Speaker 1: a lot of other reasons. Yeah, it's weird. You can't
20:27
Speaker 1: do anything. Get over it. I guess. Just be nice
20:30
Speaker 1: to people. People are just gonna have opinions about you.
20:32
Speaker 1: I can also speak to that. A lot of people
20:34
Speaker 1: don't like me. A lot of people don't like me.
20:36
Speaker 1: A lot of people don't have a reason not to
20:38
Speaker 1: like me. They just they look at my face and
20:40
Speaker 1: they're just like, mmm, I don't like her. And I
20:42
Speaker 1: have to be like, Okay, I'll just be at home
20:46
Speaker 1: playing Skyrim with my dog, sitting in my lap. That's
20:49
Speaker 1: what I'm doing. But you know, you can't please everyone,
20:51
Speaker 1: and I have learned that. It's take me a long
20:52
Speaker 1: time to learn that, but I've learned that and it
20:54
Speaker 1: brings me peace. But anyway, let's move on to the
20:57
Speaker 1: next story, all right, next step from best of Rereditor updates.
21:00
Speaker 1: So you had that to look forward to. Would I
21:03
Speaker 1: be the a hole if I stayed at my parents'
21:05
Speaker 1: place while my wife stayed at the hotel? Probably? But
21:17
Speaker 1: let's see. My wife and I are going to be
21:20
Speaker 1: attending her friend's wedding, which is in the same city
21:22
Speaker 1: that I'm from, as in my parents still live there.
21:24
Speaker 1: It's on a Saturday, with some events on Sunday, and
21:27
Speaker 1: our plan is to fly out with our one year
21:29
Speaker 1: old on Friday and spend two nights there. My wife
21:32
Speaker 1: and my parents, particularly my mom, don't get along too well. Okay,
21:37
Speaker 1: here's the context. I'm fortunate that we're far enough that
21:40
Speaker 1: they have to meet infrequently, and when they do meet,
21:43
Speaker 1: they do remain cordial but distant. My mom could have
21:47
Speaker 1: been more tactful, my wife could have been more understanding too.
21:50
Speaker 1: It's just issues that cannot be bridged, and I won't
21:53
Speaker 1: try to, all right. However, I thought we could stay
21:56
Speaker 1: at my parents' house while we're there. However, my wife
21:59
Speaker 1: is adamantly opposed to the idea and says she needs
22:02
Speaker 1: us to stay at a hotel fair, especially since you
22:05
Speaker 1: understand that it is not a fun relationship for her.
22:09
Speaker 1: I brought up the fact that we meet them on
22:11
Speaker 1: important family occasions without issue, that this was a good
22:14
Speaker 1: opportunity to spend some quality time, but she said that
22:17
Speaker 1: this was different. It was her friend's wedding. She wanted
22:20
Speaker 1: to be in the correct headspace and not be stressed.
22:23
Speaker 1: All right, Like, I'm all for family stuff like stick
22:26
Speaker 1: it out sometimes, but so far from what you're saying. Ah,
22:31
Speaker 1: I'm kind of on her side so far, but we'll see.
22:33
Speaker 1: I brought up that staying at my parents would need
22:35
Speaker 1: more help with getting the clothes ready and our son
22:38
Speaker 1: the clothes all right, whatever, and our son okay, but
22:41
Speaker 1: she just flat out saying no. She says we can
22:43
Speaker 1: meet them for lunch or something when we land and
22:46
Speaker 1: before leaving, but we can't stay there. Okay, she still
22:48
Speaker 1: wants to see them, That's good. I was gonna say, like,
22:51
Speaker 1: I'm gonna see them at all, but yet whatever, I
22:52
Speaker 1: didn't push the issue further. But the more I think
22:55
Speaker 1: about it, the more unreasonable it seems to me. Us
22:57
Speaker 1: not staying is one hundred percent going to open a
22:59
Speaker 1: whole new can of worms and an already fraught dynamic.
23:02
Speaker 1: I'm considering saying that I'll spend time at my parents
23:05
Speaker 1: with our son if she's okay with that, and link
23:07
Speaker 1: up with her at the hotel after breakfast on Saturday
23:09
Speaker 1: and Sunday if she really wants to just stay at
23:12
Speaker 1: the hotel. So would I be the asshole? Yeah, you're
23:16
Speaker 1: I mean, you're supposed to be a team with your wife.
23:19
Speaker 1: You're supposed to be a team. This would create an
23:23
Speaker 1: infinite more amount of stress to the wife because she
23:26
Speaker 1: seems like a buzinatch for not going to the house.
23:31
Speaker 1: If you go to the house with the kid, but
23:33
Speaker 1: if you're willing to just like meet up a few
23:35
Speaker 1: times with them and not necessarily stay the night there,
23:38
Speaker 1: then you still get to see them. And again, I
23:40
Speaker 1: don't know what the issues are necessarily, but you're saying
23:44
Speaker 1: that they do not get along, and I'm assuming that
23:49
Speaker 1: she doesn't love them looking after her kids, so I
23:51
Speaker 1: feel like that'll just create even more stress. The verdict
23:54
Speaker 1: was that this person was the asshole, and some comments are,
23:57
Speaker 1: I feel like this would really damage your relationship with
23:59
Speaker 1: your life. How do your parents feel about her staying over?
24:02
Speaker 1: Is it a double edged sword here? True? If you
24:05
Speaker 1: stay at the hotel, you are choosing your wife over
24:07
Speaker 1: your parents and vice versa. Ultimately, you were going there
24:10
Speaker 1: for your wife and she should be able to enjoy
24:12
Speaker 1: the wedding stress free. I agree, Op says, my parents
24:15
Speaker 1: already know about the wedding and they'd love for us
24:18
Speaker 1: to stay with them. They're basically expecting it. Okay, And
24:21
Speaker 1: this is something I tried to explain to my wife
24:23
Speaker 1: that having the extra help from my parents, especially with
24:25
Speaker 1: our son, would help reduce stress, but she's refusing to listen.
24:27
Speaker 1: Another comment said, I think you should try and have
24:30
Speaker 1: a more open discussion with your wife about this. Is
24:32
Speaker 1: the reason they don't like each other? Valid? Or is
24:35
Speaker 1: it some petty things? Oh oh, we're getting some context here, Okay,
24:37
Speaker 1: this will help. Op says. It's petty in the sense
24:40
Speaker 1: that the arguments themselves were innate insane, but they both
24:44
Speaker 1: felt strongly about it, and neither one gives the other
24:46
Speaker 1: any grace anymore. My mom's attempts to be helpful can
24:49
Speaker 1: be a bit much overbearing mother in law, okay, and
24:53
Speaker 1: my wife's responses can be razor sharp okay. So we
24:56
Speaker 1: have a girl that just stands her ground. That's all
24:58
Speaker 1: I'm seeing, which is another reason. And I assumed we
25:00
Speaker 1: were going good about this because our meetups are in
25:03
Speaker 1: good spirits, with our son enjoying having my parents a
25:07
Speaker 1: dote on him. Another commenter said it, nah, I talked
25:09
Speaker 1: to her about this idea. She may think it's great
25:12
Speaker 1: to have a solo hotel stay help with the kid,
25:14
Speaker 1: You get family time, and she doesn't have to join in.
25:16
Speaker 1: If you frame it right, it seems like a win
25:19
Speaker 1: win and OP said, thanks, I'll consider that framing. Although
25:21
Speaker 1: I'm trying to keep the path open for her to
25:23
Speaker 1: see that it just makes sense in terms of comfort
25:26
Speaker 1: and help to stay at my parents. Yeah, like it
25:29
Speaker 1: could be, but I feel like it just it just
25:31
Speaker 1: separates the whole family and it's like, oh, yeah, my
25:34
Speaker 1: wife hates you and she's just gonna stay at a hotel.
25:37
Speaker 1: You know. It's just like I don't really see the
25:40
Speaker 1: win win there. It's like more like maybe win lose,
25:43
Speaker 1: but she also might be stressed with her baby staying
25:46
Speaker 1: with them, and you know, so I don't know, but
25:49
Speaker 1: we have an update. I'd received a pretty negative response
25:52
Speaker 1: to my last boast paint a wat. That's saying I'm
25:56
Speaker 1: okay with that, since that was the point, I suppose,
25:59
Speaker 1: although I I didn't think it would be a near
26:01
Speaker 1: unanimous negative response, I was coming from a place of indignation,
26:05
Speaker 1: I suppose at the fact that she wasn't even entertaining
26:08
Speaker 1: us staying in my parents as a valid suggestion. After
26:10
Speaker 1: the response, I realized that her staying at a hotel
26:13
Speaker 1: and me staying with my parents would be a bad
26:15
Speaker 1: look and make us look broken. Glad you had to
26:20
Speaker 1: go to the internet and get hundreds of strangers to
26:23
Speaker 1: point that out to you. Some people need that, which
26:25
Speaker 1: is why I'm here anyway, which is far worse than
26:27
Speaker 1: us coming across as Rood to my parents by staying
26:29
Speaker 1: at a hotel. So I put that out of my mind.
26:32
Speaker 1: This morning, during breakfast, I brought up us staying at
26:34
Speaker 1: my parents one final time, okay, but no fallback option
26:39
Speaker 1: of sleeping separately. I just tried to come at it
26:41
Speaker 1: from a place of how it could be mutually beneficial
26:44
Speaker 1: and didn't try to push her into it. She said
26:46
Speaker 1: attending the wedding is a fun thing for her and
26:48
Speaker 1: she wants it to be just the three of us.
26:49
Speaker 1: I just brought up how we were obviously not going
26:52
Speaker 1: to bring my parents along to the wedding, but to her,
26:55
Speaker 1: even the prep and dressing and the coming back from
26:57
Speaker 1: the wedding and events also needed to be a thing
27:00
Speaker 1: for just the three of us. Yep, I mean that,
27:03
Speaker 1: I get that. I mean I personally love my whole family.
27:08
Speaker 1: I don't have any like family where I'd feel like this,
27:11
Speaker 1: but I get just like wanting to go have fun
27:12
Speaker 1: at a friend's thing, and it's like, this is just
27:14
Speaker 1: a friend's trip. You know, we'll see them at this
27:16
Speaker 1: other thing. Or she already said that they'll you can
27:19
Speaker 1: see them for lunch, you can see them after. I
27:21
Speaker 1: get what she's saying. And then he said, well, I
27:22
Speaker 1: don't fully agree with her. I think that it's just
27:25
Speaker 1: going to cause a relationship with my parents to become
27:27
Speaker 1: even more on edge. A lot of the comments had
27:29
Speaker 1: said this is her event, which I agree with, and
27:32
Speaker 1: we'll be doing things her way for it. Thinks it's
27:36
Speaker 1: like you understood, and then you're like, but I'm still
27:39
Speaker 1: going to try to get my way. I understand, but like,
27:42
Speaker 1: can we not do this because I really don't want
27:45
Speaker 1: to be on the bad side of my shitty mom
27:47
Speaker 1: or whatever. I don't know. I don't know, And again
27:49
Speaker 1: we still don't have that context like what the issue
27:52
Speaker 1: is really, But it's sounding like she maybe gives too
27:54
Speaker 1: many opinions. Maybe what he said is overbearing and that
27:58
Speaker 1: could be a lot for a new mom and stuff.
28:00
Speaker 1: So comment say, ady asshole, for bringing it up again
28:03
Speaker 1: after you already had her answer. Dude, listen to your
28:06
Speaker 1: wife and respect her answers. You assle before and you
28:08
Speaker 1: still are on That's funny. Op says, I didn't push
28:12
Speaker 1: her into it. I just wanted to lay out the
28:14
Speaker 1: pros and cons of it. Dude, she already knows that's
28:19
Speaker 1: all cons for her. Comment to two said, why are
28:21
Speaker 1: you so afraid of your parents' true exactly? OP said,
28:26
Speaker 1: it's not about afraid. They are an important relationship to us.
28:29
Speaker 1: To you, it's saemed just like her parents are also
28:32
Speaker 1: an important relationship to us. Are they assholes or at
28:35
Speaker 1: least as the mom I'm assuming not, but obviously not
28:38
Speaker 1: as important as the relationship between me and my wife
28:40
Speaker 1: and our son. Well, at least that's good. At least
28:43
Speaker 1: you're saying that. I guess Comment three says, when you
28:47
Speaker 1: got married and had a child, your wife became your
28:49
Speaker 1: core family, and then so did your child. If she's
28:52
Speaker 1: not comfortable saying at their house, you cannot force it.
28:55
Speaker 1: Go visit them on your own time. Do not ruin
28:57
Speaker 1: the event that she's looking forward to get some therapy
28:59
Speaker 1: to get over your your mama's boys issues. Amen. Guy
29:03
Speaker 1: still has the umbilical cord attached to his friend mom
29:05
Speaker 1: my lord. Also, because if you're always going to prioritize
29:08
Speaker 1: your parents over her, she's going to leave you. Read
29:12
Speaker 1: it's always so brutal. They're like, get a divorce, your
29:14
Speaker 1: parents suck, cut everyone off, leave the country. It's always
29:18
Speaker 1: like the most extreme. Oh, he said to that, I
29:21
Speaker 1: agree with my wife and my son are my first priority.
29:23
Speaker 1: That's good. There is zero doubt about that. I just
29:26
Speaker 1: made a suggestion and she isn't down for it, so
29:28
Speaker 1: we won't be doing it. I do agree that I'm
29:30
Speaker 1: assuming it's not that deep. I'm not going to fault
29:32
Speaker 1: him for like loving his parents because I feel like
29:35
Speaker 1: that's fine and wanting to maintain a relationship with them
29:38
Speaker 1: and not wanting bad blood. I'm just being Devil's advocate here.
29:41
Speaker 1: I get that. But at the end of the day, Yeah,
29:44
Speaker 1: your wife is your partner, and if she's asking something
29:46
Speaker 1: that isn't you know, crazy, which I don't think this
29:50
Speaker 1: is crazy. It's like, I just want to enjoy the event,
29:52
Speaker 1: and we have our baby, and I don't want to
29:54
Speaker 1: entertain people that I don't enjoy being around. And it's
29:57
Speaker 1: not that much and you can always visit them on
30:00
Speaker 1: your own time or you know, there's ways to work
30:02
Speaker 1: around it. So I don't think it's as deep as
30:04
Speaker 1: Reddit maybe thinks it is. Maybe it is, what do
30:06
Speaker 1: I know? Comment for those says, why do I feel
30:08
Speaker 1: like we're all on an information diet? Amen? Give me
30:12
Speaker 1: all a d Why are they not getting along? Why
30:14
Speaker 1: does your wife dislike your parents so much? What did
30:16
Speaker 1: they do that has her this adamant about not spending
30:19
Speaker 1: any time with them? Must have been pretty bad. Yeah,
30:22
Speaker 1: this is just like, Oh, it's exactly what I thought.
30:25
Speaker 1: Mom has a habit of giving unsolicited advice. Anyway, I
30:28
Speaker 1: said that earlier replay that Jay please but it's sounding
30:31
Speaker 1: like she maybe gives too many opinions. Maybe what he
30:36
Speaker 1: said is overbearing overbearing mother in law, Okay, especially when
30:40
Speaker 1: it comes to our son. See new mom thinks like,
30:44
Speaker 1: let me just be with my kid, let me just
30:46
Speaker 1: like the advice is good, I think, And I only
30:48
Speaker 1: know this because I have many close people to me
30:51
Speaker 1: that I've just had babies no too long ago. It's like,
30:53
Speaker 1: you can give advice, but don't don't insert yourself into
30:58
Speaker 1: somebody's life and judge them so deep unless it's like
31:01
Speaker 1: actually warranted, like if they're neglecting their trial or something.
31:04
Speaker 1: But it's just so annoying to even see as an outsider,
31:09
Speaker 1: I'm just like, just let her to her thing, you know, like,
31:12
Speaker 1: come on anyway, A lot of it's good. Some can
31:14
Speaker 1: be subjective and my wife and I guess it's up
31:17
Speaker 1: to her, but she won't even do a surface level
31:19
Speaker 1: acknowledgment if it's not something she agrees with, even though
31:23
Speaker 1: it's just on the phone. And then my mom becomes overbearing,
31:26
Speaker 1: which is absolutely my mom's fault alone. And also if
31:29
Speaker 1: we don't talk regularly, she can feel left out. Though
31:32
Speaker 1: after I explained to her that our son could be
31:34
Speaker 1: a handful sometimes, so we don't have much time she
31:37
Speaker 1: becomes better. It's things like these which could be avoided,
31:39
Speaker 1: especially since we live in different cities, so it's not
31:42
Speaker 1: like there's physical proximity, but it still has led to
31:46
Speaker 1: bad blood. I feel like I'm still on an information diet.
31:49
Speaker 1: I love that that comment or said that, like he's
31:51
Speaker 1: being so obscure and those examples were not good enough.
31:55
Speaker 1: I feel like he's just being, you know, just a dude,
31:58
Speaker 1: and she'd being like, I don't know, they just don't
31:59
Speaker 1: get all. It probably goes so much deeper than that.
32:02
Speaker 1: There's probably like a really backhanded comment, like several of them,
32:05
Speaker 1: and like to be just not wanting to be in
32:07
Speaker 1: the presence of somebody. I feel like it takes a
32:11
Speaker 1: certain amount of just unwarranted advice or comments. I don't know.
32:15
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm not getting enough advice. I'm hungry
32:18
Speaker 1: for context and you didn't give it to me, Peter
32:21
Speaker 1: or whatever. Kadak next and last up entitled sister in
32:24
Speaker 1: law stole our baby name and now she regrets it. Interesting. Wait,
32:31
Speaker 1: since I've been surrounded by people that are having babies
32:33
Speaker 1: and stuff, I'm just so into this like all the
32:35
Speaker 1: tea and drama that goes on with it, especially names,
32:38
Speaker 1: and all the let's read hey y'all, hey y'all, longtime lurker,
32:42
Speaker 1: and all that. This is a throwaway count to get
32:44
Speaker 1: to the chase. My wife and I spent four years
32:46
Speaker 1: trying to get pregnant before the wrong side of thirty five.
32:49
Speaker 1: Damn okay. We are currently thirty three, respectively now and
32:53
Speaker 1: are blessed with a wonderful infant son. Congratulations, that's wonderful.
32:56
Speaker 1: My wife has a younger half sister that she has
33:00
Speaker 1: been elsie with for some time. Why do we do this?
33:04
Speaker 1: I don't know what the fuck ELC means? Oh wait,
33:07
Speaker 1: maybe low contact. I'm going to assume that since we
33:10
Speaker 1: already sense hostility in the title. The woman is entitled
33:12
Speaker 1: and toxic and also her mother's golden child. Got it?
33:16
Speaker 1: Got it? We refused to let her or my mother
33:18
Speaker 1: in law in the house since they both blatantly tried
33:21
Speaker 1: to make off with my wife's jewelry box a couple
33:24
Speaker 1: of years ago, so they're criminals. The box contained a
33:27
Speaker 1: lot of valuable jewelry inherited from my wife's grandmother. Said
33:30
Speaker 1: jewelry is now in a safety deposit box as per
33:32
Speaker 1: my suggestion. That's good, what is happening. But okay, I'm invested.
33:37
Speaker 1: My wife and I had nearly given up trying to
33:39
Speaker 1: conceive when it suddenly happened and we were ecstatic. After
33:43
Speaker 1: we found out we were having a boy, we started
33:44
Speaker 1: looking into names. I ended up suggesting the name of
33:47
Speaker 1: my Scottish grandfather and my wife loved it. So that's
33:50
Speaker 1: the name we settled on. Oh, I wonder what it is.
33:53
Speaker 1: I hope it's like mmm William or something like Welleam Wills,
33:58
Speaker 1: wolles Welliam Wallace. It's the only Scottish person I can
34:02
Speaker 1: give off the top of my head. I'm sorry. So
34:04
Speaker 1: that's the name we settled on. But we made the
34:06
Speaker 1: mistake of posting about it on social media. Oh yeah,
34:09
Speaker 1: I'm never gonna do that. I don't want anyone's opinion.
34:12
Speaker 1: I've learned that. I've learned my lesson from that. Well,
34:14
Speaker 1: no surprise to the stereotype in this mess. My sister
34:17
Speaker 1: in law was pregnant too, oh no, and was months
34:20
Speaker 1: further along than my wife and also having a boy.
34:23
Speaker 1: I mean, I already know what's gonna happen because the title.
34:25
Speaker 1: But I'm reading it, I'm devastated. She decided to claim
34:28
Speaker 1: my grandfather's name for her own son. That doesn't even
34:31
Speaker 1: make sense because they're not related. But I'm sure it's
34:33
Speaker 1: just like a common name, and not just the first name,
34:36
Speaker 1: but the middle name too. That's crazy. We called her,
34:39
Speaker 1: pissed over what she was doing, and she smugly told
34:43
Speaker 1: us there's nothing we can do about it, which she
34:45
Speaker 1: was sort of right. There was nothing we could do
34:47
Speaker 1: about it legally, as it's still not a crime to
34:50
Speaker 1: steal play into baby names. No it's not, and I
34:55
Speaker 1: know it sucks to hear, but just I mean, I
34:58
Speaker 1: hope you named your Still a lot more to read,
35:00
Speaker 1: but I hope that you named your baby the same
35:02
Speaker 1: name that you wanted to because at the end of
35:04
Speaker 1: the day, doesn't matter because it sounds like you don't
35:06
Speaker 1: even see this person. So but it still sucks anyway.
35:09
Speaker 1: We realized that Drama was exactly what my sister in
35:12
Speaker 1: law wanted, and she thought that by taking the name
35:14
Speaker 1: for herself, we'd not be able to use it. I
35:17
Speaker 1: laughed and told her that while what she did was
35:20
Speaker 1: dirty and underhanded, we would keep our chosen name. Yes,
35:24
Speaker 1: I predicted, I'm so proud of these people. Yes, don't
35:28
Speaker 1: give into the drama, and she could just deal with
35:31
Speaker 1: it whether she decides to go through with copy because
35:33
Speaker 1: or not. Well, my sister in law's baby daddy called
35:35
Speaker 1: me and said I was an unreasonable dick for still
35:39
Speaker 1: wanting to use the name after my sister in law
35:41
Speaker 1: claimed it. Does this guy know how names work? You
35:44
Speaker 1: can name your kid whatever you want and it could
35:46
Speaker 1: be the same name as somebody that you know whatever, dude,
35:49
Speaker 1: and since we couldn't own the name, that neither could they.
35:52
Speaker 1: Before he ended the call, he threatened me by saying
35:55
Speaker 1: I'd be sorry if we didn't change the name. Then
35:57
Speaker 1: he hung up before I could respond. That sounds like
36:00
Speaker 1: a threat. Months later, sister in law has a healthy
36:03
Speaker 1: baby boy that's good, baby's not to blame and names
36:06
Speaker 1: him my grandfather's name. Damn, she really committed to the bit.
36:09
Speaker 1: We did not show up for the birth fair enough,
36:12
Speaker 1: both because of the pandemic and because we simply didn't
36:14
Speaker 1: care to be there. Sister in law called us wanting congratulations,
36:17
Speaker 1: but we told her we simply didn't care and that
36:20
Speaker 1: if she was still insisting we changed our baby's name,
36:22
Speaker 1: then she'd be in for a big disappointment because we
36:25
Speaker 1: were not. Sister in law demanded I put my wife
36:27
Speaker 1: on the phone, but it was already on speaker, and
36:30
Speaker 1: my wife spoke up and said she agrees with me entirely.
36:32
Speaker 1: I love these people so much. I want to be
36:34
Speaker 1: friends with them. We weren't changing the name. Sister in
36:36
Speaker 1: law hung up on us, but soon started sending emails
36:38
Speaker 1: with text walls of names, even suggesting similar ones. I
36:42
Speaker 1: responded back that the name was from my grandfather and
36:46
Speaker 1: that's why we were not changing it. She shut up
36:49
Speaker 1: and we didn't hear from her again until after our
36:52
Speaker 1: own son was born. Oh this is a long one,
36:54
Speaker 1: and I'm fine with that. Two months later we were
36:56
Speaker 1: blessed with her son. He came out perfect and we
36:58
Speaker 1: named him just as we did. Well no surprise, my
37:01
Speaker 1: sister in law called us a few days after the
37:03
Speaker 1: birth to scream in our ears that we copied her
37:05
Speaker 1: son's name. Who is this bitch and what's her address?
37:09
Speaker 1: I pointed out she was the real copycat, since she
37:12
Speaker 1: had no familial ties to the name, and we did,
37:15
Speaker 1: and anyone looks at our family tree could see that.
37:18
Speaker 1: Then my wife spoke and said after the attempted theft
37:21
Speaker 1: of her grandmother's jewelry, she no longer considered sister in
37:24
Speaker 1: law her sister and would have nothing to do with
37:28
Speaker 1: her nephew either. That's sad, but I get it. For months,
37:31
Speaker 1: we were bombarded with messages and emails from my wife's
37:33
Speaker 1: side of the family. Half were on the side after
37:35
Speaker 1: finding out the whole story. The other half were not,
37:38
Speaker 1: and sister in law's baby daddy, true to his words,
37:41
Speaker 1: showed up at my door to quote make me sorry,
37:44
Speaker 1: unquote what. I'm not sure what his plan was, but
37:49
Speaker 1: I pretty much towered over him. Hell yeah, I'm six'
37:52
Speaker 1: one and well built from regular exercise and three trips
37:55
Speaker 1: to the gym a. Week, he on the other, hand
37:58
Speaker 1: was very, skinny in about five, six with a baby
38:00
Speaker 1: face that was badly hidden by a slim, beard just
38:05
Speaker 1: laying it out on the. SKY i told, him my
38:08
Speaker 1: house has, cameras and get off my property and never come.
38:11
Speaker 1: Back he just yelled a few obscenities at me and
38:14
Speaker 1: drove off in his beat up old. Car, damn it
38:16
Speaker 1: sounds like you're winning it life with your beautiful, family
38:19
Speaker 1: So i'm happy for. You sister in law and mother
38:21
Speaker 1: in law called us from a different number to yell
38:22
Speaker 1: at me for making sister in law's baby daddy feel.
38:25
Speaker 1: Emasculated poor beatby. BOY i didn't even threaten the, man
38:30
Speaker 1: just told him to leave and not come, back and
38:32
Speaker 1: if he didn't want to feel, emasculated then he shouldn't
38:35
Speaker 1: have come knocking damn. Straight then they tried to bring
38:38
Speaker 1: up the issue of the baby name again and demanded
38:40
Speaker 1: we change her son's, name as, quote he's so, young
38:43
Speaker 1: so there's plenty of time to do. Ituote we held
38:46
Speaker 1: our ground and told them that they were bonkers to
38:48
Speaker 1: still think they were in the right after they copied
38:51
Speaker 1: our choice of the name to try and get one
38:53
Speaker 1: over on. US i, said sister in law didn't even
38:56
Speaker 1: name her son out of, love but out of, spite
38:59
Speaker 1: just to try to stick to my wife for no good. Reason,
39:01
Speaker 1: yeah imagine growing up as that, kid she being, like, hey,
39:04
Speaker 1: mom why'd you name me? This and she's, like BECAUSE
39:06
Speaker 1: i got a, grudge, bitch that's. TERRIBLE i feel bad
39:09
Speaker 1: for the, kid to be. Honest then my wife called
39:11
Speaker 1: them both out on the way she was treated growing.
39:14
Speaker 1: Up how entitled sister in law and mother in law
39:16
Speaker 1: have always been and how she was glad to leave
39:19
Speaker 1: them far behind and she wants nothing from them and
39:23
Speaker 1: they won't have anything from. Us that left sister in law,
39:26
Speaker 1: sobbing and mother in law called me a royal bastard
39:28
Speaker 1: before hanging up on the. Phone be, Bad bye. Bye
39:33
Speaker 1: that was no contact again for a little while till
39:36
Speaker 1: sister in law called us again sometime later to bitterly
39:39
Speaker 1: tell us we'd won What she and her baby daddy
39:43
Speaker 1: got in a huge fight and he, left who was
39:45
Speaker 1: apparently very sore that sister in law didn't let him
39:48
Speaker 1: even give their son a middle name from his, family
39:51
Speaker 1: and he said he was sick of the bullshit and
39:54
Speaker 1: wanted his son named after him and not some guy
39:57
Speaker 1: he wasn't even related. To almost like there's consequences for
40:02
Speaker 1: reactions and karma is a bitch. Weird sister in law
40:06
Speaker 1: finally caved and they got the boy's bircher ticket reissued
40:09
Speaker 1: with a completely new, name which costed sister in law
40:12
Speaker 1: around five hundred, dollars or so she. Claims sister in
40:16
Speaker 1: law then demanded we at least compensator for the name,
40:19
Speaker 1: change plus another one hundred dollars for the emotional, damage
40:23
Speaker 1: as now she's going to have to get used to
40:27
Speaker 1: calling her son by a different. Name we, laughed thank,
40:32
Speaker 1: god and said this would have never happened if she
40:36
Speaker 1: hadn't stolen our baby name to begin, with and we
40:38
Speaker 1: didn't owe her. Anything what world does this woman live?
40:41
Speaker 1: It she lives in whatever the girl what's called Her,
40:44
Speaker 1: Stacy she lives In stacy's. World nothing else is going
40:47
Speaker 1: Like i've read a lot of entitlement. THINGS i think
40:50
Speaker 1: this is the most entitled human Being i've ever read
40:52
Speaker 1: about On. Reddit this is actually insane compensate emotional compensation
40:57
Speaker 1: for you being a Fucking holy, crap this is. CRAZY
41:03
Speaker 1: i wouldn't even talk to this person anymore. Anyway oh thank.
41:07
Speaker 1: God since, then we've been no contact with sister in
41:09
Speaker 1: law and mother in, law but my father in, law
41:11
Speaker 1: who's a very nice man and divorced from mother in
41:14
Speaker 1: law for obvious, reasons would come by often and love his.
41:18
Speaker 1: Grandson that's really. Sweet from what he and other relatives told,
41:22
Speaker 1: us the situation between sister in law and her baby
41:24
Speaker 1: daddy was pretty. Tumultuous but we don't, care not our,
41:27
Speaker 1: monkeys not our. Circus H, yes, Yes i'm so glad
41:32
Speaker 1: we ended on this. ONE i know notes you handled this.
41:35
Speaker 1: Perfectly she's like of another. Universe that's. Crazy this was
41:39
Speaker 1: very satisfying to. Read sister in law sounds. Awful, yes
41:43
Speaker 1: we're on the same. Page, oh he says she's a completely, spoilt,
41:46
Speaker 1: toxic a petty. Woman her cousin and mother, too so
41:49
Speaker 1: we want nothing to do with. Them this is. GREAT
41:51
Speaker 1: i read more into the comments BECAUSE i read a
41:53
Speaker 1: lot of the comments WHEN i do, this and some
41:55
Speaker 1: people are saying it's. FAKE i don't, know because he was,
41:57
Speaker 1: Like i'm six, ONE i go to the gym and
41:59
Speaker 1: he was really. SMALL i was just kind of. INVESTED
42:01
Speaker 1: i really hope it's. NOT i feel like it's too
42:03
Speaker 1: like specific AND i just believe WHAT i see. Sometimes but,
42:07
Speaker 1: honestly a great story if it. Is BUT i, MEAN
42:10
Speaker 1: i don't know about either. Way just name your kid
42:12
Speaker 1: whatever you, want you, know name your kid whatever you,
42:14
Speaker 1: want and people are going to be better and assholes
42:17
Speaker 1: sometimes and you just gotta do what you want to
42:19
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42:21
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