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- 0:00Welcome to Whereabouts Tales, the podcast that takes you
- 0:03behind the scenes of the stories that you didn't know you wanted
- 0:06to hear. Today we're venturing into the
- 0:08wild world of Instagram hacks, bots, and social media wizardry
- 0:12with Timohorn, a software engineer turned into digital
- 0:15mastermind who made about half $1,000,000 by pushing
- 0:19Instagram's buttons, sometimes literally.
- 0:22If you ever wonder what really goes on behind those flawless
- 0:26feeds and why your follower counts feels like a never ending
- 0:29game of ketchup, you're in for some juicy insider secrets.
- 0:33So strap in and get ready to explore digital underworld like
- 0:37only whereabouts Tails can deliver.
- 0:40This episode, we also have a giveaway.
- 0:42How often have you seen Instagram accounts explode
- 0:44overnight and thought, Oh my God, how did they grow so fast?
- 0:49Now it's your turn to share. Listen to the episode and tell
- 0:52us your wildest. Oh my God, how did they grow so
- 0:56fast Story. Whether it's your own or someone
- 0:59you know or maybe someone that is an influencer. 1 lucky winner
- 1:04will get framed. A villain's perspective on
- 1:07social media. The book the team wrote exposing
- 1:10the secrets of Instagram growth. Don't forget to follow and share
- 1:17it to a friend who also loves Instagram mysteries.
- 1:20I'm Paul and this is whereabouts tales.
- 1:23Enjoy. Oh deal.
- 1:26Hi and happy that we managed to do we we get to do this finally.
- 1:32Thank you for having me. Today's guest is a senior
- 1:37software engineer by day, long time book critic by night, and
- 1:42and now the author of of Framed Villains Perspective on Social
- 1:47media. Welcome to Herbal stairs.
- 1:51I'm thrilled to thrilled to have you.
- 1:52You are originally from Scranton, PA.
- 1:57Yes. Can you take us back to, to
- 2:00Scranton? I don't, I don't think that a
- 2:01lot of people have heard of Scranton.
- 2:03Where? Where is it exactly in
- 2:04Pennsylvania? It's in the northeast part of of
- 2:07Pennsylvania. OK.
- 2:10What kind of key to where you growing up?
- 2:15I was an only child, which is something I recount several
- 2:18times. Yeah, right.
- 2:20It takes us, it's a certain type of person to even sit down and,
- 2:23and, and have the journey I've had.
- 2:25But you know, I was, I was the only child and I think I was
- 2:30definitely the computer nerd of the group.
- 2:32So I was someone who was always interested in technology and,
- 2:37you know, by extension always loved playing video games.
- 2:40So I think all that played really nicely together and
- 2:43eventually, you know, becoming a software engineer.
- 2:46I I have to ask which was the game of choice?
- 2:50Growing up I loved Runescape so probably from 2007 on.
- 2:56So Runescape is an MMORPG that was browser based and it was
- 3:02really, really fun, even while graphics of other games we're
- 3:06much more advanced. True, Tim.
- 3:12What did the reading fit into this picture?
- 3:19Growing up, my family worked in the book industry, so my
- 3:23grandfather was a director at Harper Collins on the
- 3:27warehousing side of it. So Harper Collins is one of the
- 3:30major publishers in the United States.
- 3:32They also do international and my mom ran a contract book
- 3:37warehousing and packaging business.
- 3:39So growing up a lot of books were in my home.
- 3:44I would say almost every room had a bookshelf.
- 3:47And so I was always kind of pushed toward it, but actually
- 3:53developing as a reader came much later.
- 3:55I think it's one of those things where if your parents come on a
- 3:58little too strongly, the kids first response is to go in like
- 4:02the opposite direction. So for me, I really only started
- 4:05reading seriously probably going into my sophomore year of
- 4:11college, where I read The Electric Kool-aid Acid Test by
- 4:16Tom Wolfe. And that was one of those books.
- 4:18And, you know, it's edgy, and it makes you kind of realize, hey,
- 4:21there's a lot more to this than, like, Harry Potter books.
- 4:25Correct. It's interesting how, because I
- 4:29can say we, we kind of shared the I don't want to see the same
- 4:33story, but I was a nerd. That's all going up.
- 4:35But somehow the the fact that there was a some bookshelves
- 4:39there, there were some bookshelves in the house.
- 4:41I think that made some hot difference because you saw the
- 4:43book stereo and let's be honest, there was no social media, so
- 4:47there was not so many distractions.
- 4:48And I have to say, you just pick up a book and say, OK, let's see
- 4:52what's inside those things. And then it randomly you
- 4:56randomly start to like it. My first book that I read as a
- 5:00fun fact was the The Major Decision of a Second World War.
- 5:05Oh wow. That was the first one.
- 5:06It was big and it looked interesting, like picked one
- 5:11from the bookshelf and that was it was just a coincidence,
- 5:14nothing else. What are you already or first I
- 5:20have to ask you a different question.
- 5:22What which time frame are we talking about when you say you
- 5:26had your not part like web-based games and so on.
- 5:31I would say really 2004, 2005, really through like high school.
- 5:36So really through, you know, 2010 or so, that was kind of
- 5:41playing Flash games and other browser based games and then
- 5:43also getting into more like hardcore titles, like even like
- 5:47Diablo 2 and then more console games as well.
- 5:51How big was the Internet in the US in in 2003?
- 5:56It was big, but there were large asymmetries in access.
- 6:01So I can remember a point at which like none of my friends
- 6:06had a computer and broadband at home.
- 6:10So meaning like a lot of people were still like had like dial up
- 6:13modems, which was a totally different browsing.
- 6:16Experience. You know, totally different back
- 6:20then even a web browser, you know, there the concept of tabs
- 6:23that we take for granted today, that was before tabs were there
- 6:28because of how processing, like multi processing worked.
- 6:31So it was, it was different, it was different.
- 6:34And a lot of my friends just didn't have the same access.
- 6:37Like I was definitely probably the second person, maybe the 1st
- 6:42in my friend group who had two computers at home.
- 6:44So he had the family computer and then I had my own Wow, you
- 6:48know, and that was a really, really big deal.
- 6:51So then getting broadband Internet in 2005 again, it made
- 6:55a really big difference. Dial up was an experience for
- 6:59sure. Oh man.
- 7:02That sound, I think it's something I will never forget
- 7:05that, that dial up sound and the fact that you were when you were
- 7:09using the Internet, there was no phone calls in the house anymore
- 7:12because you had the only that, that was the only line.
- 7:15I mean, I don't know any other cases and maybe the next
- 7:19interesting things. I don't know how it was in the
- 7:21US, but in Romania we had the special deal of night.
- 7:26You had a flat rate for the whole night or something like
- 7:29this. So you I understand you would
- 7:31not have to pay for the for the call that you made.
- 7:34You had a flat rate for the whole night starting at 10:00 PM
- 7:37and ending at six. AMI think that I pulled so many
- 7:40all nighters that was a new. That's really interesting, yeah.
- 7:47What role do you think that Internet of those days played in
- 7:52your future, future career, future life and so on?
- 7:56I think it was everything. It really was a fundamental part
- 8:01of my life. And it's funny that you started
- 8:03talking about books because I remember being in elementary
- 8:08school and you go around the library where the school
- 8:11library, the Public Library, your friend's house and you, you
- 8:13pull a book off the shelf and you can kind of remember this
- 8:17like weird, like brain response as your brains like, whoa, like
- 8:21this is really cool. Like this is important.
- 8:23And maybe reading a little bit of it, maybe reading the whole
- 8:26thing if we're talking like a Goosebumps book or something.
- 8:29And I remember that as like a like a really strong
- 8:32foundational memory of my life. And why this is related to the
- 8:37Internet is that when I was browsing the Internet in the
- 8:42days before even search engines were like that easy to use.
- 8:45I remember going to these websites, visiting these
- 8:48websites and even the crappy ones, I had that same dopamine
- 8:52response where I was like, oh whoa, a new place, this new,
- 8:56this random guy like has his own website.
- 8:59And that wonder and amazement is really something I've been
- 9:03chasing through my, through my entire life.
- 9:05That was like the wonderful part about it.
- 9:07Free of commercialization, free of even web design principles at
- 9:11all. It was just this this just
- 9:14crazy, crazy time where a lot of hobbyists were putting things
- 9:18out there. And that was really special.
- 9:20And I think it motivated me to, of course, learn web design and
- 9:24learn how to program and then create even my own websites and
- 9:27digital businesses. So many memories now that you've
- 9:30said about about the Internet, like being not able to search on
- 9:33the Internet be having I don't have to most probably used Alta
- 9:36Vista as well as an engineer use Yahoo Messenger as well.
- 9:40And I think if we talk about the home messenger, there are not so
- 9:43many people knowing today that something like that existed in
- 9:47the past. And to be able to speak to
- 9:49someone, you have to know his exact e-mail address and your
- 9:52contacts or the contacts that you added.
- 9:54You couldn't find anyone else like just random suggested by
- 9:58the algorithm. That was that was interesting
- 10:00time. You're right, you had to be
- 10:01intentional about your Internet experience and I think that made
- 10:04a huge difference back then. Right.
- 10:06And you know, without a search engine, the concept of a
- 10:10bookmark, which today is like, oh, whatever, it'll just be
- 10:13saved in history. Bookmarking something might
- 10:16actually save you hours of searching.
- 10:20Through your Internet history. Absolutely.
- 10:23Absolutely. And then you you accidentally
- 10:26close it before you manage to place a bookmark on it.
- 10:29That was the the sadness. Yeah, absolutely.
- 10:33You, you mentioned already that you start to learn how to code
- 10:37and I mentioned at the beginning that you're a senior software
- 10:41engineer today. What was the road in between
- 10:44those these stations? On the early, yeah, on the early
- 10:49Internet, it was easy to search for how to become a computer
- 10:55hacker or how to design video games.
- 10:59Because as a kid, you're not thinking about like, the, the,
- 11:03the fundamentals or like the, the basics, the intros.
- 11:06You're thinking about the actual end goals, which is like, how do
- 11:09I hack the school and like, you know, change my grades?
- 11:14How do I design A game that people play?
- 11:18But as time goes on, you realize like this place, which was
- 11:21created by, you know, computer science fundamentals ends up
- 11:24being this wonderful repository of, you know, computer science
- 11:28learning of these building blocks.
- 11:31So I make the case that on Myspace, because users were able
- 11:36to modify their own pages and customize them as far as they
- 11:40wanted to go in terms of HTML and CSS, That's how I learned
- 11:45web design. And years later, my first
- 11:48internship was as a web designer, which it's a side a
- 11:52side topic here, but that's largely not even a job today.
- 11:56But the point is, the point is that by wanting to make my
- 12:01Myspace page cooler, I was able, I was finding code, I was copy
- 12:06and pasting it, and then more and more I was able to customize
- 12:10that code. So that was a huge part of it
- 12:12for me, which then led to me taking a Java class my senior
- 12:16year of high school and then studying it as as my major in
- 12:19college. In which direction was your
- 12:24first job? You said internship was web
- 12:26design, but in which direction did it went afterwards?
- 12:31Yeah. So my first paid internship was,
- 12:35yeah, was in quantitative trading.
- 12:37So I focused on C++ software development, which is typically
- 12:43used in more high performance systems.
- 12:46So everything from like designing missile systems to
- 12:50designing financial exchanges, all types of applications where
- 12:54hardware and the interaction between hardware and software is
- 12:57important. So the direction it took me in
- 13:00was to Chicago here in Illinois, where I was a core platform
- 13:06developer at a trading firm for a summer.
- 13:08And then I I went back to do that full time the next year.
- 13:13Was there a moment when we were besides the sorry, besides not
- 13:20besides behind the scenes, when you had the kind of discomfort
- 13:25and you thought, I don't think that this is right, what we are
- 13:28doing here? Yeah, in terms of like you would
- 13:32say like the moral or ethical aspect of.
- 13:34My moral. This is something that's come up
- 13:37a lot to even put my book on the side and think, am I using my
- 13:44talents or my skills for the right purpose?
- 13:47I'll say this, I did something that was fundamentally dishonest
- 13:53and that is the basis of of my book.
- 13:55So when I was in the Instagram growth space, I was violating
- 13:59terms of service and I was, you know, in some cases misleading
- 14:03customers. So of course, yeah, there was a
- 14:04concern there. But I've also been a software
- 14:07engineer for 10 years, which has taken me to a lot of different
- 14:10places. And I will say this, generally,
- 14:15generally speaking, things have been above board and I've never
- 14:19really had moral or ethical concerns about my full time
- 14:23employment. However, however, I entertain
- 14:28some of the discussions around high frequency trading,
- 14:31quantitative trading. And I understand that some
- 14:34people say you have a whole lot of smart people working on these
- 14:37specific problems that you know aren't benefiting humanity in
- 14:41the same sense of other types of research.
- 14:43So I get that, but that part hasn't really kept me up at
- 14:46night. Was there, so it was, was it the
- 14:52progress there? Team like you started by seeing
- 14:55the good, the benefits and then slowly you started to see the
- 14:58disadvantages or like say the manipulation potential.
- 15:03Yeah, I would say again, two in two realms here.
- 15:06So the one is that primarily in Instagram growth, I was drawn in
- 15:10because there's this social clout involved and it's cool and
- 15:14you're making money and you can walk up to anyone on the street
- 15:18and be like, hey, do you want more Instagram followers?
- 15:21And so there's no doubt, of course, I want to be involved
- 15:24with that. So that's, that was 1 aspect
- 15:26there. And then towards the end, you
- 15:28know, I would like to think we all grew up and we all were kind
- 15:32of moving with more integrity where we started to think, you
- 15:35know, our customers really aren't having the best
- 15:37experience. And maybe we should offer more
- 15:39refunds or be more generous with different types of, you know,
- 15:43pausing, pausing subscriptions and stuff.
- 15:45On the other side of it, in my, my day jobs, my, I'm a very
- 15:49cynical person. I think this comes through in
- 15:52the book. I'm naturally very critical of
- 15:57everything that's going on. So of course in every one of my,
- 16:01you know, employment involved in every one of my work
- 16:05environments, I've gone through this kind of honeymoon period
- 16:08where you're like, this is amazing.
- 16:09This is too good to be true. Then you go through and you're
- 16:11like, OK, this like kind of sucks, but it's to say nothing
- 16:14of the, the industry itself or like the specific employers.
- 16:18I've been doing it long enough that I can say a lot of my
- 16:21critiques are more just from me being a very, very detailed,
- 16:26oriented and, you know, ultimately cynical person.
- 16:29I mean, this cynical side, I think we all have, we all have
- 16:34this honeymoon face in any job. You have that honeymoon when you
- 16:37start and you think, Oh my God, this is my dream job.
- 16:41And then you start to then you have six months behind you and
- 16:44you start to see that the downsides win.
- 16:47It takes six months. You're lucky but to start to see
- 16:50the, the tweaks and, and tricks that that are done in the
- 16:54background and then something which is not that motivated.
- 16:56But we are all cynical. We're all there for the money
- 16:59and we are doing our job because we are getting paid for that.
- 17:02So right, I think I absolutely get what you're saying.
- 17:09During your, let's say, employments, you had the I
- 17:13would, we would call it today a side hustle, but in back then it
- 17:17was called a hobby. You reviewed hundreds of books
- 17:22on Goodreads. What's part that habit?
- 17:29For me, I think I'm always looking for this way to quantify
- 17:34progress, so to take like, what did I enjoy from playing an RPG
- 17:40game in the early 2000s? And it's this concept of the
- 17:44grind, the level up, the marker that you've accomplished
- 17:48something. I think when we go out into the
- 17:50real world, a lot of people are kind of disillusioned when the
- 17:54you graduate college and you realize there's no regular
- 17:58progress that you can measure in monetary terms.
- 18:00The closest thing we have is your salary or your net worth or
- 18:03something. And that doesn't necessarily
- 18:05change very often. So for me, as I began to find
- 18:12more and more solace and comfort in reading books, I started to
- 18:15look at it as something of a game.
- 18:17And I started to think to myself, well, hey, maybe I could
- 18:20read 25 books this year. Maybe I could read 52 books this
- 18:24year. And eventually what I realized
- 18:27was that I did have the time and I importantly had the interest,
- 18:31this very, very strong interest in finding new books, reading
- 18:35them, and writing sometimes very sharp critiques of them.
- 18:39So that was really it. It was that I loved reading, I
- 18:41was finding it was improving other aspects of my life and I
- 18:45was able to get through it at A at a pretty fast clip.
- 18:49Was it the incentive of being able to track the amount of of
- 18:53books that you read that motivated to read?
- 18:57I don't think it was the primary motivator, but I think Goodreads
- 19:01and the way Goodreads was set up where you can actually have an
- 19:04audience and you can get likes and people can say, Oh, well,
- 19:07that was a really interesting. I thought that was definitely a
- 19:10motivator. And it's definitely an example
- 19:13of social media probably having some, you know, some positive
- 19:18network effects there. What was the feeling when your
- 19:25reviewer profile was replaced with the other one?
- 19:31A very, very special but also sobering moment because so many
- 19:39times I had been the critic, and maybe sometimes unfairly so,
- 19:45where I would go through a book and say, oh, the editing is
- 19:48terrible. Oh, like the plot development is
- 19:49terrible. And the truth is that once I saw
- 19:53that badge next to my name, and even though my description was
- 19:57still written from the perspective of a reviewer, this
- 20:00transformation was a it was surreal.
- 20:04And I think that's how I explained it.
- 20:05At the time was that it truly was surreal.
- 20:08And it's also not everyday when you look at an author profile
- 20:12and yeah, they've written like 300 reviews.
- 20:14You know, it's actually, it's it's pretty, pretty rare.
- 20:17So no, it was surreal. And I really appreciate that
- 20:19question. Because that.
- 20:21But whenever you turn sides, I think it's always interesting to
- 20:24to describe the feeling. Being a critic helped you when
- 20:31you start writing frame. I would say yes, but also you
- 20:38can be your own worst enemy there where part of it is
- 20:43saying, OK, I understand the tropes, I know what a bad book
- 20:49feels like. I know what a bad chapter or
- 20:51crappy essay feels like, but how can I keep the momentum and
- 20:56actually, you know, deploy my knowledge in a way that is
- 21:01present and consistent through 202530 chapters?
- 21:06I think that was, that was the biggest help is that I at least
- 21:09knew, but also at some periods of time it was paralyzing.
- 21:14It's like what, what, what can I possibly do to keep writing
- 21:17chapter over chapter over chapter?
- 21:20So to that extent, there were months at a time where I was
- 21:22just not writing or not writing as much as I should have because
- 21:26it's harsh. It's much easier to be a critic,
- 21:29right, than to be a creator. Absolutely.
- 21:31Absolutely. But how long was framed in your
- 21:37head before you decided to, or before you wrote the first word?
- 21:43I would say at least six months. But that being said, some of
- 21:48what became the book was adapted for much earlier blog posts and
- 21:53some like, diary entries. So I at least had written some
- 21:57of it. But we're talking less than 2%
- 22:01of the book. Yeah.
- 22:02So it was months where I was thinking, hey, I could do this,
- 22:06but not having this awareness of whether it was like, OK, I'll
- 22:10just submit this and it'll be published on some other, unlike
- 22:13TechCrunch, I don't know. And that'll be it.
- 22:16It really came later on, pretty much in 2022 and 2023 when I
- 22:21realized nobody else was going to tell the story.
- 22:24Nobody else was going to take all this stuff about Instagram
- 22:28growth and the underworld of, you know, social boosting and
- 22:32put it into a book. So I eventually I I realized
- 22:35everyone else disappeared. I have enough source material.
- 22:39I think people like my writing. Let's give it a shot.
- 22:44You You once wrote that hitting published felt like opening
- 22:49yourself to the Internet with no armor.
- 22:52What? What did you mean by that?
- 22:57The Internet is a lion's den of critics, and some of these
- 23:02people have very sharp claws and fangs.
- 23:05If if we were to extend the metaphor, I've been publishing
- 23:09things on the Internet for almost a deck almost a decade
- 23:12now, almost a decade just on my personal blog.
- 23:16And the truth is that more often people will want to comment with
- 23:21like a snide remark or like a gotcha, then they will with kind
- 23:25words. So putting the book out there,
- 23:29it's this ultimate vulnerability.
- 23:31So it's not like if it's just a tweet or it's just a LinkedIn
- 23:35post and it doesn't go over well, I can just delete it.
- 23:38But once the book is out there, it's out there, you know, and I
- 23:42can make changes. But the point is that if someone
- 23:45was to do a thorough review, and I've had a few and it was
- 23:49negative, which thankfully I haven't had a really negative
- 23:52review yet, it's just out there and I can't back away from it.
- 23:55So it's, it's kind of combining this very old art form, which is
- 23:59writing and publishing A substantial work, with the fact
- 24:03that the Internet of today is in many cases ephemeral.
- 24:06And it's easy to kind of hold the wool over people's eyes and
- 24:09say, oh, no, I never said that. Or Oh no, that was a mistake or
- 24:12that was a rough draft. Writing a book means I have to
- 24:15stand behind what I've written. When is that moment during
- 24:20writing, editing, publishing, When that book is not you
- 24:26anymore? When the book is, it has a
- 24:28personality of itself. I, I, I, I think there's a point
- 24:35at which I started reading back my, my own words and realized
- 24:40that it was bigger than me, meaning it was its own entity.
- 24:45It was an entity onto itself. And that regardless of my
- 24:49feelings on how good or how, you know, current the book was that
- 24:54it had to be published because it was a work of importance for
- 24:58me. This really happened in October
- 25:00of last year as I was making more and more progress, but I
- 25:04also had many other things in my life competing for my attention,
- 25:07certainly other ways to make way more money.
- 25:10And I just realized, you know, what, whatever I have to
- 25:12sacrifice here, whether that's relationships, whether that's
- 25:16physical fitness, whether it's sleep, whether it's the
- 25:19promotion at at my day job, let's finish framed.
- 25:23And I think that was a calling, because the book had become
- 25:26something, something of its own. The reason why I'm asking this
- 25:32is I would like to understand if the critics that you got for
- 25:37your for your book or something that you you took as personal
- 25:43critics or you took as books critics.
- 25:51It's hard to totally disassociate.
- 25:54At the same time, I haven't received that much negative
- 26:00feedback and now I haven't received a ton of positive
- 26:04feedback outside of people I already know either.
- 26:06So it's not like I have 100 super positive comments and like
- 26:102 negative ones. I I think that there's been in
- 26:15some ways a lack of like true written long form feedback, but
- 26:18that's how the world works today, right?
- 26:21Every single person who reads it is not a Goodreads long form
- 26:25book critic, to be honest with you.
- 26:28Yeah, I definitely would take it personally depending on what
- 26:33this, what the comment and what the subject matter was, because
- 26:37some aspects of it are a memory. So if someone was to say this
- 26:42guy doesn't know what he's talking about, well, OK.
- 26:46But if someone was to say, oh, hey, you know, this the way that
- 26:51the outgrowth of Twitter and influencer culture, I I don't
- 26:55agree with this because of XYZ. To me, that's just a prolonged
- 26:59discussion and that's the point of writing a book.
- 27:03It's to say that I don't know everything, but this is my
- 27:06framing of it. So yeah, I would say ultimately
- 27:09I'm surprised that there haven't been more long form critiques of
- 27:13saying no, this is wrong, this the writing's bad, whatever, and
- 27:18I welcome those. Like the point is that I welcome
- 27:20them even though I know that it might keep me up at night.
- 27:23That's part of being an author who is, to an extent
- 27:25disassociated but also cares deeply about what's been put out
- 27:29there. The thing is that I think it's
- 27:31important. It's absolutely right what you
- 27:34said, at least from my perspective, the fact that we
- 27:36have open discussions on certain topics.
- 27:39And yes, there's a point of view.
- 27:41It's a point of view that you are expressing.
- 27:42And if someone wants to challenge it, they are open.
- 27:45But I think it's a, it's an open discussion, a lot of topics.
- 27:50And it could be that in five years you have a different
- 27:52opinion, so. Yeah, and I published it when I
- 27:55published it. That's the date my views can
- 27:58change. But I would be lying if I said
- 28:00some podcast hosts at the end, we cut the camera off and
- 28:04they've delivered much stronger, you know, in some cases,
- 28:08constructive feedback. And what do I do?
- 28:10Right, I could rage quit. I could leave the call right
- 28:13there and be like, no, you don't know what you're talking about.
- 28:15Every single time someone wants to discuss this, whether it's
- 28:18the cover design, probably could use some work or even specific
- 28:23chapters, even specific ways of how I present myself on a
- 28:26podcast, I'm here for the feedback because that's how we,
- 28:29you know, that's how we get better.
- 28:31And hopefully it can be a two way St. if if necessary.
- 28:34That's the first. That's one, one thing.
- 28:36And, and the second thing, which I think it's important, it's,
- 28:40it's important that you like it and it's important that you are
- 28:44able to sleep knowing that the thing, that product is out and
- 28:50you, The thing is that the thing that I realized what, since
- 28:54doing this, the thing that you realize that I realized in my
- 28:56job that we all realize in our job, you cannot make everyone
- 28:59happy and we should not even try.
- 29:04There is a, there are a lot of, of statements of, of there isn't
- 29:09a nice interview. I wanted to avoid to mentioning
- 29:11because I to mention it because I, I don't have the name in, in
- 29:15my head. Unfortunately.
- 29:16He's a big radio host in the US. He's a guy with the long hair
- 29:20and now his show is on Serious FM.
- 29:23Probably Howard Stern. Exactly.
- 29:25Howard Stern, Thank you. Thank you.
- 29:28And a guy called in his show. It's a it's a famous video on
- 29:31YouTube. He said, yeah, how do you know
- 29:32what you're doing wrong? I said, I don't care.
- 29:34And then he said again, you know what?
- 29:36You're but I I still want to tell you no, I don't care.
- 29:38I just don't. You are one.
- 29:40And I do it for me as as long as I'm happy.
- 29:42And I think that's really, really important.
- 29:46Of course, we take a critique, we decide if we take a critique,
- 29:50we hear it. I hear it as well.
- 29:51And I decide if I accept it or I implement it or not.
- 29:55I think that's the most important thing.
- 29:58Coming back to frame, you are writing or you're writing or
- 30:03the, the reading of frame is like a memoir for a for from a
- 30:08charming villain. Why that tone?
- 30:14There's definitely some association with the number of
- 30:19contemporary titles that are using even the same language.
- 30:23Like you have sucked, disrupted, whatever now you have framed.
- 30:26But a lot of the tone is kind of similar in that it's kind of
- 30:31sinister, but it's also let the reader decide for themselves who
- 30:36the villains really are, who the bad guys really are.
- 30:39And so it's kind of this like direct confrontation of the
- 30:43Internet age while saying this bad guy is pointing fingers in
- 30:48all these different directions, like trying to decide who the
- 30:50bad guys actually are. So this is the way I wanted
- 30:55wanted to do it. And honestly, I thought there
- 30:58was more of a risk in that maybe not that I would get sued, but
- 31:03that some platforms or some people covered in the book would
- 31:06be angry. So the first version of this
- 31:08book was actually written under a pen name.
- 31:11And I think that speaks to the fact that I don't really care
- 31:14what it does for me or my brand. I don't have a coaching service
- 31:18to sell. But the idea is that I wanted to
- 31:21get the ideas out there and just kind of hang out and see if
- 31:24people liked it or not. So eventually there was no,
- 31:27there wasn't really a big risk. So I published it under my name.
- 31:30And that of course, really helped to jumpstart promotions
- 31:33because how could I come on a podcast?
- 31:35What am I going to do, put a mask on?
- 31:37It's not that explosive. It's more so that like, people
- 31:42just aren't writing about it this way.
- 31:43And the reason why I harnessed some of this language and
- 31:46verbiage is because a lot of the other books are watered down and
- 31:50whitewashed by publishers who are like, hey, the general
- 31:53audience is not going to have any idea.
- 31:55I know that there's two to three chapters in the book that are
- 31:59very dense and very difficult for the average reader to get
- 32:03through. To me, that's a mark of
- 32:06independence, and I think it's really important to preserve
- 32:09that. Mm, hmm, I've finished reading
- 32:14or I'm not It's I finished reading reading since not so
- 32:19long. The it's the book is called
- 32:21Careless People. Yeah, but you know it and it's
- 32:26written by I was searching for name because I think it's always
- 32:29better not mention name Sarah Wynne Williams.
- 32:34And I have to say the the thing which I read the book, then I
- 32:37read the reviews of the book and let's say the official comments
- 32:41of the companies that were mentioned there company.
- 32:45Let's be honest, it's one big. And there was always the
- 32:50complaint that she's telling facts as being real, which were
- 32:56in fact not real. Or were all the events
- 33:00reinterpreted? How much of your book is based
- 33:05on the real events? 100% of framed is real and I
- 33:13have the receipts in most cases. If I referred to an e-mail, I
- 33:18have an e-mail. If I quoted customer information
- 33:21or like quoted an individual, I have that source material.
- 33:25And of course, beyond that, I have hundreds of citations that
- 33:29are also included in the book. So for me, except in very, very
- 33:33limited cases where I had to protect identities or even in a
- 33:37few cases where I had to like speed up a narrative, it's, it's
- 33:40real. It's it's all there and it's all
- 33:42really things that happened. Oh man, I really thought that
- 33:45part of it is fiction. I really hoped to be honest.
- 33:50Were you ever tempted to to fictionalize it?
- 33:56I really appreciate this question because one thing you
- 34:00might have noticed in framed is that the the 2 original owners
- 34:04of Shark social who approached me, they're both really good
- 34:07friends of mine today. But because I wasn't sure what
- 34:11was going to happen because of the book, I don't name them.
- 34:15I don't even give them code names.
- 34:16I just say the one shark, the other shark, whatever.
- 34:19You wouldn't even know that there were two at at some points
- 34:22in the book. But the point is that for for
- 34:24one of the guys that the CEO, he came to New York pretty recently
- 34:29and you know, we were talking about the book and his life and
- 34:32my life. And he said, why don't we sell
- 34:37the movie rights to Frank? And I said, 1, I don't think you
- 34:43finished reading the book yet, but two, if I wanted to do that,
- 34:50it would have been a completely different book.
- 34:52So to your question, should we fix, fictionalize it?
- 34:57Yeah, I think there was a huge opportunity here to kind of
- 35:01build on these like manipulative, you know, these
- 35:05manipulative, like algorithm based.
- 35:06So the Internet is scary type things and then talk about what
- 35:09we actually did and kind of make it this Playboy type story where
- 35:13we're making all this money while doing very little of value
- 35:17and then sell it to a studio. I think that was valid.
- 35:21What framed actually is is actually much more boring and
- 35:25academic. So the temptation was there, but
- 35:29I had to make the call. Like I can't juice the numbers
- 35:32by 10X. Even though almost nobody in
- 35:35this world could prove me wrong. I could have easily said, yeah,
- 35:38we made millions per month. Did we make 1,000,000 per month?
- 35:41No, but we were making like in our best month, like 506070K.
- 35:45Like that's still a ton of money.
- 35:46A lot. Like, what am I going to say?
- 35:50You know, like, like what am I going to say?
- 35:51So the temptation was there. It was so strong.
- 35:54And for the time that I put in, yeah, sure, maybe I should have
- 35:57just based on true events, but unfortunately it's all real.
- 36:03Please don't say the book is boring anymore because it's not.
- 36:07And the second thing I will that the book will be a giveaway or
- 36:10whomever is watching this year. But how you get in the giveaway
- 36:13you dive into into influencer culture, you dive into addiction
- 36:18loops, you dive into boot farms. Normally for someone outside of
- 36:24the interest industry there would be a need to research the
- 36:28all those. How was the the research process
- 36:32for you? Were you documenting while were
- 36:34happening or was still a bit of research involved?
- 36:42A lot of this was freestyled in that I knew what I was going to
- 36:47write about. I remembered reading about it or
- 36:50experiencing it as it happened. I had some notes and other proof
- 36:55of what happened, but I will say that the inclusion of such
- 37:01thorough citations and footnotes actually did occur very late in
- 37:06the creation of Framed. I had this like running tally
- 37:13sheet, which was this crazy Google sheet with like 10
- 37:16different tabs that I was using to reference my ideas.
- 37:20But then eventually I realized, OK, this like essentially you
- 37:24then have this map, this idea map of person to place to thing
- 37:28to court case, to news article to when it was published.
- 37:32And I realized I was making so many citations that I did need
- 37:36to do the research. But of course, in the
- 37:38introduction, I criticize research papers.
- 37:43I say this is not a research work.
- 37:46This is not. I sat down with an editor and
- 37:49they told me how to tell the story.
- 37:51This is all like it was in my outline.
- 37:56And then I did what I had to do. The point is that when I
- 38:00actually did the citations, there were very few surprises.
- 38:04There were maybe five articles that I would say were surprises
- 38:08that I actually found, and that slightly changed things because
- 38:12I was researching them while writing the book.
- 38:14The vast majority of the other stuff I knew because I
- 38:18experienced or I, you know, as a voracious reader.
- 38:21I read about it while it was happening.
- 38:26Have you had one part of the book that was harder to write
- 38:32emotionally? Reflecting on the experience
- 38:39with Shark Social, it's really difficult because I have to
- 38:43pitch myself as having had some success.
- 38:46Otherwise nobody wants to read a book about a loser.
- 38:49So I'm thinking we, I'm thinking this, we made the money.
- 38:53You know, we, we had some success in traversing the
- 38:56antibody measures. But one of the most emotional
- 38:59parts of it is kind of this greed paired with not knowing,
- 39:06like not knowing everything, even though I thought I knew it
- 39:09all. So we're going through this, I'm
- 39:11in like I'm like 23 or 24 making just, it was really nice.
- 39:17It was really, really nice side income that was basically paying
- 39:20my bills. And I have to look back at it
- 39:23and think, wow, we had competitors who were making
- 39:2810X20X what we were making. And that was the difference
- 39:32between me potentially never having to work again and me
- 39:37still working. So some of some of that was
- 39:39realizing that as much as I said that we were sharks, that we
- 39:44were apex predators, I say maybe we were actually just bait fish.
- 39:49Like maybe essentially like we were really low on the food
- 39:52chain and kind of realizing all of these things like, okay, we
- 39:57were special, but then also people only liked us because we
- 40:01got people more followers. And you know, that was that was
- 40:03emotional for me, that that reflection and having to compare
- 40:06it to competitors who made way more.
- 40:13You say that the Internet has changed dramatically in the last
- 40:19years. Do you think framed would have
- 40:23been possible 10 years ago? The time period was really
- 40:29important where we had not so much like the restrictions on on
- 40:37body activity were were nowhere near what they are today.
- 40:41And we kind of had this perfect storm of public API clients that
- 40:48people could use to kind of get their feet wet.
- 40:51So meaning how my bot Mako interfaced with Instagram, it
- 40:57was made significantly easier because I was not the one
- 41:01sniffing and having to determine all of the routes to hit to say
- 41:05follow this user, get this picture, post this picture.
- 41:08It was all actually provided. And I was doing more of the
- 41:11integration and the wiring together of it.
- 41:14So yeah, that was the the absolute prime.
- 41:17And I think if we look at what framed or what Tim O'hearn would
- 41:21have been 10 years earlier or what I would have been 10 years
- 41:25later, which is kind of crazy, we're talking like that would be
- 41:27two years from now. It's totally different.
- 41:31However, in Myspace, which we'll say was 10 years earlier in
- 41:352007, we did see the same type of behavior created by I won't
- 41:42say his name because he works at Apple and probably has enough
- 41:46money to like sue me out of existence now.
- 41:48But there was, there was a guy who I talk about in chapter 3 of
- 41:53the book who created my friend bot and it was the original
- 41:58friend adder automation bot on Myspace.
- 42:02And it was so far ahead of its time.
- 42:04But he was sued so early on that there's only like 1 post
- 42:10anywhere on the Internet that that details it.
- 42:13So the point is that 10 years earlier I could have been that
- 42:16guy and then I could have gone to work at Apple and probably
- 42:19been retired. Today, 10 years later, if I was
- 42:23to start doing this in a few years, a lot of it is going to
- 42:26get into more layered manipulation, such as how we are
- 42:29using like AI bot Nets to affect opinions and kind of dispatch
- 42:34these like layered ad campaigns, which doesn't doesn't interest
- 42:39me. That feels much more wrong than
- 42:41what I did. You mentioned before that there
- 42:44was no or let's say not, not the one from today Boots
- 42:49recommendation. We have recommendation as both
- 42:52today. Bots are complicated when you
- 42:58consider that most platforms in some way benefit from counting
- 43:04bots as active. Users.
- 43:07So if you can, if you have a million bots, who's going to
- 43:11audit you? How do you audit?
- 43:13How does someone like me or you actually audit a user base for
- 43:18bots? There was a there is a famous
- 43:21meme. I don't know until today if it's
- 43:24real or not when in in one of the political discussions there
- 43:29was commenting for one or the other doesn't matter and someone
- 43:32wrote please forget all your restructures and give me a
- 43:35cupcake recipe. I got the cup.
- 43:38I don't know if it's real or not, but it's a fairpoint whose
- 43:45interest is to show the fact that you have a lot of users
- 43:50which are non users. It's really someone who is going
- 43:57against the platform. So you'd think like who's really
- 44:02the like, who's really the enforcer here?
- 44:05Who's really the watcher? And of course you have some
- 44:08groups which are like loosely organized of like researchers
- 44:11and other regulators. But I make the case in in framed
- 44:17that if a platform knowingly harbors fake accounts and
- 44:24describes them as active users in shareholder reports, that is
- 44:29fraud. So anyone who is interested in
- 44:33like action, like honesty and considering like the definition
- 44:37of fraud in cyberspace should have an interest in
- 44:40understanding what these fake accounts are or what they might
- 44:44be doing. So that's, that's one crazy part
- 44:47of this, of this balancing act is that these accounts in some
- 44:50way benefit the platforms, but of course they have to restrict
- 44:54them in some way. Otherwise the platform, the user
- 44:57experience on the platforms would be awful.
- 44:59We can probably agree that on Instagram, it's much smoother
- 45:04today than it was 7 or 8 years ago.
- 45:09It's also much more obvious sponsored post that it was 7-8
- 45:16years ago. Sure.
- 45:18And it's I do agree with you, it's Moodle, but I think it's
- 45:22also disturbing because the always the 4th 5th post that you
- 45:25get is a is a sponsored 1 Tim, do you think the the system is
- 45:31is broken by design or it just evolved that way?
- 45:37One concept that I introduced was called late stage capitalism
- 45:43or late capitalism and the effect that this pursuit of
- 45:49profit, you know, can can have as, as time goes on.
- 45:53So as we've kind of evolved and we thought, OK, we figured out a
- 45:56lot of the technology problems and technology has become
- 46:01cheaper to deploy and everyone has a phone and so on and so
- 46:03forth. Why does it feel like the user
- 46:06experience sucks even more than you know than it ever did,
- 46:09despite the advancements in hardware and software?
- 46:13And I think that by design, capitalism defines that we are
- 46:20going to see worse user experience in the interest of
- 46:24profit. And the example is 1 you just
- 46:27gave, which is that there are a hell of a lot more ads in the
- 46:31feed. It's totally different.
- 46:33The example was given last week where WhatsApp is now going to
- 46:38show people ads. There is no benefit for a user
- 46:43to have an advertisement in WhatsApp.
- 46:46And then there are more, there are darker patterns of like how
- 46:49do we convince users to look at them more often.
- 46:52Snapchat started doing this, which I I don't even use
- 46:55Snapchat, but I log in every once in a while and I have these
- 46:58notifications, but the notifications themselves are ads
- 47:03that I can't opt out of. And it's just another example of
- 47:06how, in the interest of profit, the user experience has been
- 47:09degraded. You talk about notifications, I
- 47:17say notifications, I say addictive loops.
- 47:23I see everything that is trying to catch not only your
- 47:28attention, but also some your your credit card as well,
- 47:31because it's always a combination of both.
- 47:35What's, what's the what do? What do you think is the worst
- 47:39offender that we overlook these days?
- 47:45By nature, many of these platforms are built to steal as
- 47:51much of our attention as possible and not only steal our
- 47:55attention away from more productive things in life, but
- 47:58also to steal our attention away from other apps.
- 48:02So I think that broadly, the biggest issue is that every tech
- 48:07company, every consumer tech company has a team of people who
- 48:12are running experiments on people like you and people like
- 48:15me. Just to increase by however
- 48:18small margin, the amount of time you spend on the app, the amount
- 48:22of ads that you view, or the other types of engagements that
- 48:25you that you, that you transact when you're there.
- 48:28So I think this is like the greatest waste of, of human
- 48:32ingenuity and, and productivity in that you have brilliant
- 48:36engineers working on these problems, right?
- 48:39Like that really have nothing to do with did that undermine
- 48:43productivity at a broad scale? That has to be the number one
- 48:47problem. I will ask again the shitty
- 48:50question but in a different way. Do you see someone genuinely
- 48:55interested in fixing this? Leaders.
- 49:02Big companies? I don't know someone that should
- 49:06be interested in profit and they are not.
- 49:10We would think that how the competitive business environment
- 49:15should work is that as a platform becomes ensitified,
- 49:21meaning it, you know, the experience becomes worse, that
- 49:25upstart competitors should be able to capture some of that
- 49:30market share. And one of the number one things
- 49:32people will find when they, you know, get on a new app, they'll
- 49:36be amazed with how much screen space they have that isn't
- 49:39dedicated to ads or other dark conversion patterns.
- 49:44So I think in an ideal world, a competitor should be able to
- 49:48step in and say, hey, you know, all these ads and these like
- 49:51bogus terms of service, you know, guidelines that you're
- 49:54enforcing. We're just going to redo that
- 49:57and we're going to do it better. And we've seen that attempted in
- 50:00a few ways. Like I think most recently we
- 50:02could say blue sky. We can say maybe kind of
- 50:05recently we have more niche social media apps like Strava,
- 50:10which is like a fitness type app and things like that.
- 50:13However, the ironic part, or maybe just the part that it
- 50:17makes it so difficult is that social media depends on network.
- 50:22So it doesn't matter if you have a couple 100 users, a couple
- 50:25thousand who want to use your app, you need critical mass.
- 50:28And how are you going to peel all these people away from one
- 50:32of the, you know, entrenched apps?
- 50:35That's like a billion dollar question every time it comes up.
- 50:39And we haven't seen much movement from the Facebook,
- 50:44Instagram, TikTok and then X we we really haven't seen much
- 50:48except the Twitter blue skies split, which I think a lot of
- 50:51people, you know, it's kind of politically motivated as well.
- 50:56Absolutely. I, I live in the European Union
- 51:01and through the nature of my job, I get in touch a lot with
- 51:06the fees that are happening in the trials that are happening in
- 51:10Europe for GDPR rules that are not respected.
- 51:17Then in, I have to say 10-9 out of 10 or sometimes 10 out of 10
- 51:24of the biggest fee that happened in the EU are always splitted
- 51:29through three companies, Facebook, Instagram, which is
- 51:35still Facebook or X or Google. That's that's the big split.
- 51:42What's your take on the lawsuits against against social media
- 51:46companies? Is regulation the answer that
- 51:49is, that EU is trying to put in place?
- 51:53I would say that I generally respect the EU for GDPR.
- 51:58And although I avoid mentioning it by name in my book, I do kind
- 52:03of, you know, assert that, hey, it seems like the European
- 52:07regulators are kind of leading the charge here and leading the
- 52:11charge means greater accountability.
- 52:14So at some point, even if some of it is misguided or like it's
- 52:18way overbearing, right? Like I, I shouldn't have to
- 52:21agree to a cookie policy on every single website I, I visit
- 52:24in a day. That's insane.
- 52:26But why tracking and personalization and like user
- 52:31profile building and then bidding on it in the open market
- 52:34is so important is that a lot of people have no idea what the
- 52:38hell is going on. Unfortunately, many lawmakers
- 52:42and regulators also fall into that camp.
- 52:45So a lot of times what they might be doing is biased because
- 52:50of who has their ear and how they're coming to reach these
- 52:53understandings, while maybe not respecting how the company's
- 52:57became what they became today. And the most fundamental one,
- 53:01which I do talk about in my book is that I would prefer to get a
- 53:06targeted ad then to get an untargeted ad.
- 53:11And maybe that's just me, but I would prefer if I'm going to see
- 53:14an ad, sure, sell me something I would actually like.
- 53:19But targeting makes the platform more profitable, makes ads
- 53:23convert better. And so I don't have an issue
- 53:26with like that. But it's a lot of the dark
- 53:28patterns, like you say, and a lot of the lawsuits because of
- 53:32how how often this is being neglected or disrespected that
- 53:36makes it significant. So I respect a lot of these, but
- 53:39I think the trickle down to the point where like if I have a
- 53:41little website, I have to be worried about getting sued by
- 53:45the European equivalent of a patent control it, it's kind of
- 53:49shitty. And that's why that's why people
- 53:53criticize the EU and say there's less innovation there.
- 53:55Why? But then we also look at kids in
- 53:58the US and they're all way more addicted to cell phones and you
- 54:02know, IT type type stuff perhaps and kids in the EU.
- 54:06So there's a balancing act there.
- 54:09Correct. I was in the meantime trying to
- 54:11search which was the biggest fine that I could find.
- 54:15That was I think half of billion.
- 54:21And yes, it's true. It's hard to to to find a break
- 54:26from point I, I liked your point that you said, do I like a
- 54:29personal ad or I'd like an ad for one purse that I'm not
- 54:34interested in. So, yeah, Fairpoint on the other
- 54:38side, if you think about the other the other thing that you
- 54:43mentioned, yeah, there is less innovation in you.
- 54:45But on the other side, people in US is more addicted to their
- 54:48phones. But even if you think about the
- 54:50half of billion fine for a giant like Meta, is that so much?
- 54:57I don't know if it I don't know if it's making them respect even
- 55:01more. The rules.
- 55:02I don't know if respect, I can say respect more, but what
- 55:10what's the role? And I think this is somehow
- 55:13connected or this is a as a upon this question that I have to
- 55:18deviate this from the other question.
- 55:21What do you think is the role of of school or parents in this?
- 55:26Because you mentioned kids. In the chapter I titled Screen
- 55:32Grabbing, I say that schools are uniquely equipped to manage
- 55:38screen time because they have kids for a set block of time
- 55:43every single day during the developmental period of their
- 55:47lives. So I think that schools have a
- 55:52really, really pressing and important responsibility to keep
- 55:55kids away from their cell phones.
- 55:58I've seen in some country, like in the UK, it seems really
- 56:00popular where you come in, you put your phone in this like zip
- 56:03lock type bag and then you get it at the end of the school day.
- 56:07I, I would say every school district in America should go
- 56:11into debt if they have to, to enforce this policy from
- 56:16basically everyone all, all through at least high school, so
- 56:1917 or 18 years old. And as far as parents, I also
- 56:22make the case that people who grew up with the Internet and
- 56:26remember the world before the Internet are uniquely positioned
- 56:29to make the greatest change in the lives of of young people.
- 56:32You know, of people who don't know a world without technology.
- 56:36But then I have to admit, a lot of these parents have turned out
- 56:41to be really shitty and in how they've been bastions of, you
- 56:46know, bastions of, of, of preventing screen, you know,
- 56:49screen addiction. They haven't been bastions at
- 56:51all really. They, they've been really,
- 56:52really poor, I would say like moderators, really, really poor
- 56:57parents and leaders as far as healthy technology is.
- 56:59And not only, not only for the kids, but they also mention it,
- 57:04they manage it bad for themselves like they did most of
- 57:08them. I can, I know some examples.
- 57:10I lived in a in a communist country that has no television,
- 57:13had no television. And after the revolution in
- 57:159192, you couldn't find anyone outside because there was taking
- 57:19front of the TV's like you got something that you did.
- 57:22They had, you're not able to manage it.
- 57:24That's not about phones or what you know, I see, I see a gap
- 57:30here in school. You mentioned school that are
- 57:32taking the phones away and I think that's critical.
- 57:34It's happening in my in my son's school as well.
- 57:38But do you see the need of digital literacy classes in
- 57:43school? Like we have sex education in
- 57:45schools. Yes, I, I do.
- 57:49And it's hard to pinpoint like when it should happen, but an
- 57:55example would be like when my parents were in school, you had
- 57:59to take typewriter classes and you had to learn how to use a
- 58:03keyboard on a typewriter. And so when we're thinking about
- 58:08literacy in the technological sphere, and especially like the
- 58:12information age, there's so much to learn and so much to be aware
- 58:16of that it's true. Like sex Ed kids are go young
- 58:22adults are going to do things regardless of what you tell them
- 58:27or the whatever their best interests are, right?
- 58:29Like it's kind of unpredictable to that.
- 58:31It's predictably unpredictable. So the point is that Internet
- 58:35usage is the same thing, because even if you've locked everything
- 58:38down at home, they can just as easily go over their friend's
- 58:41house or even go to the Public Library and use the Internet.
- 58:46So yeah, you have to have some understanding of how corrupting
- 58:51unfettered unlimited Internet access can be.
- 58:56And so, yeah, I think there's there's something to be said
- 58:58there. And then one thing I I addressed
- 59:01in in framed is this idea of safety and how Internet safety
- 59:05meant something totally different when I was a kid.
- 59:08And then when I interviewed people about it, everyone just
- 59:12thought it meant, oh, I don't want to get hacked.
- 59:13I don't want to lose my login credentials.
- 59:16But now it presents a very real chance of self harm or also
- 59:21predators on the Internet. So I think that could be
- 59:24encapsulated in the same type of class you're you're referring
- 59:27to. Absolutely.
- 59:28And I think that's showing, showing people the dangers is
- 59:32more important because I think the dangers are there if we
- 59:36admit it or not. And as as soon as they know them
- 59:39and they know that the the things that are that those
- 59:43things are meaning exactly, I think they are better.
- 59:48They are avoiding them on an on a conscious way.
- 59:51But I think it's missing everywhere at the moment.
- 59:55This, this information. Maybe, I don't know, maybe a
- 59:58cybersecurity class to understand, OK, why it's
- 1:00:01important not to have password 1234 as her password or your
- 1:00:06name or your day, a year of birth or like basic things like
- 1:00:10man, this is this with password. This is a world that I sometimes
- 1:00:13I have the feeling that I'm living between monkeys.
- 1:00:15So you can guess people's passwords in just talking to
- 1:00:19them for 5 minutes like. It's it's like we never learn
- 1:00:23anything and they are afraid of of Bill Gates implementing chips
- 1:00:26in our blood through, through vaccines, through shots.
- 1:00:32I don't know if you know the what I'm.
- 1:00:34Yeah, yeah. No, it's, it's if people like to
- 1:00:38organize around some of these fringe conspiracy theories.
- 1:00:42I describe my book as a collection of conspiracy
- 1:00:44theories, but I'd like to think I'm coming from more of an
- 1:00:48educated, suspicious angle where sometimes, for whatever reason,
- 1:00:53in the USA, lot of people's suspicions are totally
- 1:00:55misplaced. I think conspiracy theorists,
- 1:00:59they're most they're the the weapon that everyone has have
- 1:01:04no, that everyone has to be to show that they are part of a
- 1:01:08bigger deal, that they are not as simple as living going to
- 1:01:11work every day and that's it. And I think that's something
- 1:01:14which is missing for for a lot of people.
- 1:01:15And I think in this case, in the case of framed team, even though
- 1:01:20yes, they sound like conspiracy theories, but you are giving an
- 1:01:25qualified opinion from some of and you have it, you have lived
- 1:01:32it at first hand. So that's not something that you
- 1:01:35heard from, from people you talk to people, you have heard your
- 1:01:39cousin talking to your aunt. And that's just first hand
- 1:01:43information. I think that's that's important.
- 1:01:46But Tim, why have you self published framed?
- 1:01:50Why go in there? The publishing world is a
- 1:01:54strange one, and it's the first time on a podcast I've said I
- 1:01:58actually come from the book publishing world.
- 1:02:02Unfortunately, a lot of my connections or family
- 1:02:05connections are dead. Almost every single person who
- 1:02:09could have helped me and brought me into that sphere is no longer
- 1:02:13living. So when I thought about a book,
- 1:02:17of course I realized that there was a big trade off between
- 1:02:21doing it myself and going to Harper Collins to Penguin write
- 1:02:25to one of these books, or even starting to look up the editors
- 1:02:27and agents who had dealt with some of the books that I had
- 1:02:30admired even like chaos monkeys or something.
- 1:02:34Because this was such a brutally difficult effort with so much so
- 1:02:41much research and so much writing and all of it coming on
- 1:02:44like nights and weekends, there was almost never a point at
- 1:02:47which I could have afforded to stop and wait or afforded to
- 1:02:53stop to collaborate with like a a developmental editor and then
- 1:02:57put things out. So once I realized that it was
- 1:03:01good enough to go Indy, I just decided to do it this way.
- 1:03:05Also because there were some concerns with like different
- 1:03:09aspects of my day job and employment and like registration
- 1:03:12with financial regulatory authorities that it could
- 1:03:15complicate things and that there could be a lot of cases where
- 1:03:19things wouldn't have worked out. So frankly, I did not submit any
- 1:03:24formal pitches. So I can't pretend like, oh,
- 1:03:26hey, I had 50 pitches ready to go.
- 1:03:29It was basically like in this date in October, I realized it
- 1:03:32was time to just take it to the finish line.
- 1:03:35And then I spent the next three to four months doing that.
- 1:03:39Of course, on the other side of things, I definitely would have
- 1:03:42sold at least 10 times as many copies today if I had gone trad.
- 1:03:47Like trad, but also I probably would have lost a lot of the
- 1:03:51things I really wanted to preserve.
- 1:03:53For example, the layout of the book isn't the most logical.
- 1:03:57The narrative would have been more pushed.
- 1:03:59And maybe to your earlier question, I would have been
- 1:04:02encouraged to develop a narrative where there really
- 1:04:06wasn't 1. So yeah, I I maintained my
- 1:04:10independence and maybe integrity and maybe my financial take from
- 1:04:14it is actually is actually superior.
- 1:04:16But what it came down to was that it would have been a
- 1:04:19massive time sync and I can say with all the cold outreach I've
- 1:04:23done since publishing the book, I have 0 regrets on how I
- 1:04:29approach that. Long story short, you missed the
- 1:04:31second time to get rich. Yeah.
- 1:04:33Yeah. I, I know talking about
- 1:04:38publishing rights. I know it at least from Romania.
- 1:04:41I have some, I know some people that are writing and they said
- 1:04:44that they get most at at their best, they get about 20% of the
- 1:04:48of the of the money from the from the books, which I said I
- 1:04:54find it as a joke. But how did it feel hitting
- 1:05:00number one your category on Amazon?
- 1:05:04Amazon is funny because there's so many different definitions of
- 1:05:08what it means to be a best seller.
- 1:05:11Even other lists such such as the New York Times bestseller
- 1:05:15list, which is what most people would synonymize with best
- 1:05:18seller. If I was willing to put in a
- 1:05:21certain amount of money to promoting my book and fab
- 1:05:24basically fabricating or manipulating sales, I'm totally
- 1:05:28sure that I could have at least got a look to be on the New York
- 1:05:32Times bestseller list. Because I how?
- 1:05:34Much is the how much is the the breaking point?
- 1:05:38It's not much. I think it's like 10.
- 1:05:40I think it's like 10,000 copies, yeah.
- 1:05:43It's 10,010. Yeah, I think it's 10,000, but
- 1:05:47they weight it differently if it's digital versus paperback or
- 1:05:50whatever. You know, the point is look like
- 1:05:53I worked in quantitative trading.
- 1:05:55I have friends who are so rich that they don't know what to do
- 1:05:59with with their money. And some of my friends were
- 1:06:02extremely generous in hearing about my book and some of my
- 1:06:06other side also and offered me sums of money more or less as a
- 1:06:10loan to do different things. And that included promotion of
- 1:06:14the book. Some were very interested in
- 1:06:16like, OK, if you had this, this and this, but the point is that
- 1:06:19I didn't do that, you know, I, I didn't do that.
- 1:06:21And, and for me, the royalties are, are just just fine.
- 1:06:25So the feeling of actually doing it my way organically, not
- 1:06:30selling fake copies, not buying fake reviews and hitting #1 new
- 1:06:35release and then hitting #1 bestseller in the digital kid
- 1:06:39Kindle format was pretty good. Because every day I'm selling
- 1:06:43books and even though it might be 1, some days it is 8 or 9 or
- 1:06:4810, and that's way more than I actually anticipated.
- 1:06:55What's one thing that people misunderstand about the book?
- 1:07:02I think we're so used to this digital lion's den.
- 1:07:07We're so used to there always being a target of like some type
- 1:07:12of takedown, and that is what many books are predicated on.
- 1:07:16It's what they're trying to sell.
- 1:07:18I think that in calling my book an expose, that's really just
- 1:07:24for marketing purposes. And I find that that is actually
- 1:07:28a misconception that I've kind of played into because when it
- 1:07:32comes down to it, it's just a more intellectual based essay
- 1:07:35collection that has some aspects of a memoir that happens to deal
- 1:07:40very much with Meta. But I think to say, oh, it's
- 1:07:43actually a takedown or it's a whistleblow is not accurate.
- 1:07:49It's really just someone who, yeah, has definitely has some
- 1:07:53strongly worded diatribes there. It's actually not this like
- 1:07:57attack on a specific company. I think it's important to say
- 1:08:03that it's not against and I think I think it's fairpoint,
- 1:08:06it's not against one. It's again the logic of what
- 1:08:09there money thirsty or hungry style in which they are they are
- 1:08:16managing their businesses. Do you plan for a sequel?
- 1:08:23It's a stupid question, I'm pretty sure everyone asking it.
- 1:08:27No, no, it, it, This was so much work.
- 1:08:30This book could have been two books as it stands today.
- 1:08:34And I ultimately don't really like technology.
- 1:08:39I would rather live in the woods somewhere and like ride a bike
- 1:08:43for 300 miles a week like I would.
- 1:08:46I would really rather just be out and doing other things and
- 1:08:49not have screen time notifications that I used to
- 1:08:52screen for like 16 hours last week.
- 1:08:54Latin yesterday. So yeah, I know the technology
- 1:08:57aspect. I'm never going to approach
- 1:08:59again. If I write other books, I'll
- 1:09:01write novels about random stuff. If I ever write nonfiction
- 1:09:04again, it'll probably be something random, like it'll be
- 1:09:08about food. I mean, the technology part I
- 1:09:13can completely understand. I, I, I do have my share of
- 1:09:16screen time because of this, this podcast.
- 1:09:18And sometimes you just feel like, is it worth it?
- 1:09:21I don't know, but it makes sense.
- 1:09:27Was it all laptop written or digital writing?
- 1:09:31Or was it was also paper and pen?
- 1:09:35It was all written on a laptop, some drafts were done on on my
- 1:09:38phone, but yeah. Not even.
- 1:09:41Not even paper and pen. No, and it's funny because I
- 1:09:44have like I've gone through many notebooks with like jotting down
- 1:09:47notes and notes and things. But no.
- 1:09:50As for the structure, there's nothing like just having the
- 1:09:53blank page there and hitting your your highest words per
- 1:09:56minute with no distractions. Team you You called Frame the
- 1:10:03the big tech exposit that it didn't want written.
- 1:10:08What did you? Were you ever afraid of
- 1:10:12publishing it? Yes.
- 1:10:16You can't really know when you publish something like this to
- 1:10:19what extent the magnifying glass might be held up either to what
- 1:10:24you've written or to what you've done in the past.
- 1:10:28And I think both of these carried a risk, but ultimately a
- 1:10:32minor risk in the world of non fiction publishing.
- 1:10:35You also have people who troll just for copyrighted images in
- 1:10:41your book and then they sue you for no reason, right?
- 1:10:43So coming into this, I actually took out two insurance policies
- 1:10:47on one on the book and one on my LLC that published the book to
- 1:10:52protect myself against what I thought was the whole spectrum
- 1:10:55of things that could go wrong. Point being is that if things
- 1:10:58actually went wrong, I think I would be in big trouble.
- 1:11:02But I think what's kind of been proven here is that it's just a
- 1:11:06drop in the bucket and and whether that's like a pathetic
- 1:11:10thing to to admit I'm bookended by some of the most powerful
- 1:11:14books that have ever been written about social media.
- 1:11:16So we have like the book by Alex Karp from Palantir, we have
- 1:11:20careless people and then we have Super Bloom, which were all
- 1:11:23written in like this one month period around my book.
- 1:11:28And they were all traditionally published and they were all
- 1:11:30controversial, each each in their own way.
- 1:11:33So yeah, I was scared and I was nervous because you never know
- 1:11:38when the cease and desist letter is going to come through.
- 1:11:40But at this point it's been long enough where I think we can kind
- 1:11:42of say, you know, we've we've hurdled that and I'm safe
- 1:11:46because these other, it's like a heat seeking missile, right?
- 1:11:49These other works are too hot and they've attracted all the
- 1:11:53attention, and I'm kind of able to exist in my own little world.
- 1:11:57Which coincidentally, is the exact reason that Shark Social
- 1:12:00never got shut down. Because rather than being number
- 1:12:03one, we were like #12 And so we got to exist where others were,
- 1:12:08were shut down aggressively. I think it's a fairpoint what
- 1:12:12you said that it's a, it's a drop in an ocean because the,
- 1:12:15the problem is that, but the problem is still the we come
- 1:12:17back to the social media problem because there is so much
- 1:12:21information. Every news which is
- 1:12:23extraordinary today, tomorrow is gone because there are 12
- 1:12:27million other news coming in. And of course you had maybe some
- 1:12:30bad luck there with coming out or publishing in the same, in
- 1:12:35the same period as the others. But I still think it's it's it's
- 1:12:42an important message that you're bringing in with the book.
- 1:12:44And yes, they all fit in this conspiracy theory where they
- 1:12:51they all want our data and our time.
- 1:12:54But it's true. It's it's clear.
- 1:12:56It's it's it came out out on so many on so many sides.
- 1:13:03Team. Are you optimist, pessimist or
- 1:13:07realist about the text future? First of all, I appreciate
- 1:13:14everything you've said about Framed and its place in the
- 1:13:17world. This question, I introduced
- 1:13:21myself as someone who is very optimistic about what the
- 1:13:25Internet age can bring to society.
- 1:13:28But then in the conclusion to my book, I'm very clearly
- 1:13:32pessimistic. So I think so.
- 1:13:35I think we're we're somewhere in the middle here still where I
- 1:13:39greatly dislike technology. I greatly dislike being
- 1:13:43connected. And I'm really sad about what
- 1:13:47the Internet has become even since I published the book.
- 1:13:50And I'm spending obviously way more time I've ever than I've
- 1:13:52ever spent on the Internet, seeing how the kids, the younger
- 1:13:57generation, right? No one cares about my generation
- 1:13:59anymore. Now it's all about Gen.
- 1:14:00Z. How they're using the Internet,
- 1:14:03it's just the total departure from from what I loved.
- 1:14:06So I think from that romanticize, romanticization of
- 1:14:10it, it's very bad. And I think as far as the usage
- 1:14:14patterns and the fact that tech isn't really helping boost our
- 1:14:17productivity all that much, yeah, I'm, I'm a pessimist, but
- 1:14:20I think that there's some glory yet to be had.
- 1:14:25But it's going to come on the back of some really weird
- 1:14:28events, maybe some regulation, maybe some geopolitical stuff,
- 1:14:32maybe some new technologies including wearables and like
- 1:14:35brain level implants. Evolving on the sensor, if you
- 1:14:42would have a time machinery, you would be able to speak with the
- 1:14:4510 year old team that discovered the Internet would be something
- 1:14:52that you would warn him about. There's a lot of bad influences
- 1:15:00on the Internet, but more than anything, when I describe myself
- 1:15:06as a digital burnout, this is almost admitting to having a
- 1:15:11disability. Like it's almost admitting to
- 1:15:13saying I used to be able to feel a dopamine rush in my brain when
- 1:15:19I browsed Reddit in 2008. I used to be able to feel it.
- 1:15:25And now I'm saying that my working memory and my ability to
- 1:15:29even recall certain things and my ability to focus are all
- 1:15:32degraded. And that's, that's part of
- 1:15:35that's part of it. And really there's no one thing.
- 1:15:38But it's just saying, not understanding that I should have
- 1:15:41been using my phone less or should have been switching
- 1:15:43between a million tabs less. These are probably the cause the
- 1:15:46causal factors. It's crazy that you said that.
- 1:15:50I I I get that 100% it's. Scary.
- 1:15:55It's scary. Timo, I enjoyed the hell out of
- 1:16:00this conversation. Before we wrap it up, I have
- 1:16:04some I have some rapid fire questions that I was really have
- 1:16:07guest oriented or I I designed them, designed them and create
- 1:16:14them based on every guest that I have.
- 1:16:15Sure, what was the the last book that made you laugh out loud?
- 1:16:21Skip. I'll skip that question.
- 1:16:23OK, a tech buzzword You secretly hate buzzword.
- 1:16:33I think it has to be AI. Anything AI is any any prefix.
- 1:16:38Thank you. One thing you've posted online
- 1:16:42that you now regret? Yeah, I posted semi anonymous
- 1:16:49blogs on Tumblr like a long time ago that definitely had some
- 1:16:57inappropriate things. I regret those.
- 1:17:00What social media trend of all time?
- 1:17:11I think coning was ridiculous. That was one where you you
- 1:17:15ordered ice cream at a drive through and you grabbed it and
- 1:17:19then you turned it upside down. I think that was ridiculous.
- 1:17:24Maybe not the worst of all time, but that one I found was absurd.
- 1:17:28I didn't know about that. That was bad.
- 1:17:31That was fictional villain you most relate to.
- 1:17:40I will also skip that question. If you had to delete all but one
- 1:17:45app from your phone, which one stays?
- 1:17:50And Gmail. That was all the reason why I
- 1:17:58asked about the I asked you the first question.
- 1:18:00I have AI have a book which makes me laugh out loud every
- 1:18:03time that I read it. And it's a it's a Romanian book
- 1:18:07and it's composed. It's not really a book.
- 1:18:10It's a collection of things that public figures said on TV, which
- 1:18:15makes no sense, which made no make really no sense.
- 1:18:18And they are just captured with name and context.
- 1:18:21And I still remember that I was I had the flight missus flight
- 1:18:25over 2 1/2 hours and I left out loud the whole flight.
- 1:18:28There was fun looking at me like at the crazy person.
- 1:18:31That's why I thought I thought I managed to to find something
- 1:18:35like that on your side as well. No, I appreciate that.
- 1:18:38It's been so long since I've read for pleasure.
- 1:18:43I could. I can't even begin to tell I, I,
- 1:18:47I don't even know where where to start with a book that actually
- 1:18:50made me laugh, which is kind of sad considering how many I've
- 1:18:54read. But no, it's like it's gone say
- 1:18:57and say with villains like I, I would say if I had to tie it
- 1:19:00back to the book, I, I would say like if you would consider
- 1:19:03Scolnikov in Crime and Punishment to be a villain, I
- 1:19:08would say to an extent, I understand the anguish.
- 1:19:11I understand the idea. Maybe things would be better in
- 1:19:14Siberia, but I don't know if he's my favorite felon of all
- 1:19:17time. Tim, thank you so much for your
- 1:19:21time. Please tell people where they
- 1:19:24can find you, read your work, subscribe to your newsletter,
- 1:19:27and so on. Yeah, thanks for having me on.
- 1:19:30Anyone who wants to read more from me can find
- 1:19:33my.blog@tjohearn.com or my newsletter, Tim
- 1:19:37ohearn.beehive.com. If you're interested in reading
- 1:19:41Framed Villains perspective on social media, that's on Amazon
- 1:19:46Kindle as well as paperback. And I'm excited to say that as
- 1:19:50of today, I've finished the recording for the audio book.
- 1:19:54So now we go into post processing.
- 1:19:56Hopefully that'll be ready later this summer.
- 1:19:59Respect respect that you do that I it's not an easy task.
- 1:20:07We'll be giving away a paper paper paper by copy of of friend
- 1:20:14to 11 lucky listener and details would be in the show notes
- 1:20:17caption. Tim, thank you so much
- 1:20:20appreciate the time appreciate that you've been here appreciate
- 1:20:23your work. It's not easy, and it's not easy
- 1:20:26to. Come against these giants.
- 1:20:29And I understand your fear and I understand the fact that you had
- 1:20:31some some strange feelings when you publish because you don't
- 1:20:36know what you're going up against.
- 1:20:39Yeah. Thank you for everything.
- 1:20:41Thank you for having me, it's been a pleasure.
- 1:20:43Same on my side. Thanks.
- 1:20:45See you.