Latest / Founder Talk with Alex Sheridan / The Leadership System That Helps Founders STOP Being the Bottleneck (ft. Eric Himes)
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- 0:00Today's guest is Eric Himes, founder of The Inspired Culture,
- 0:03and he's going to show us how to lead in a way that doesn't just
- 0:06build better teams, but builds better businesses that don't
- 0:10depend on you to function to run the entire thing.
- 0:13You can step away and your business can still run.
- 0:15I'm also curious to learn about the TV show and that's something
- 0:18and why that's something that you decided to do.
- 0:20But Eric, welcome to the show. How you feeling?
- 0:22I'm feeling great, Alex. Thanks for having us today.
- 0:25Pleasure to be here man. I'm glad that you were here with
- 0:27us. All right, So for those that
- 0:29don't know you, because a lot of people are listening right now,
- 0:31they haven't heard of you. They haven't seen your content
- 0:33or your podcast or show. What makes you credible to speak
- 0:36on leadership, culture and team building?
- 0:39Oh, thanks. Yeah.
- 0:39So this is an executive leadership for about 2020 years
- 0:44and had the opportunity to start a business from the ground up
- 0:48working for a CEO out of Australia.
- 0:51And what I found was a really interesting opportunity to do
- 0:56things, one I've never done before to to learn and have some
- 1:00really great leaders in that organization really teach me a
- 1:04lot of different things. I made several mistakes if you
- 1:06write choices and we're able to grow a pretty significant
- 1:10organization over 19 years working in that organization.
- 1:13Wow, Incredible Australia, very cool.
- 1:17And what does a great leader or culture look like to you?
- 1:21I mean, if we stepped into a company and you said these
- 1:24people have a world class culture, they have world class
- 1:27leadership, what would we see? We would see like #1
- 1:31vulnerability, right? So the openness to trust each
- 1:34other, knowing that everybody is supporting of each other,
- 1:39winning in an organization to where there's a collaboration
- 1:44that's natural and that has a high level of trust in the
- 1:47organization. And it's one that the leaders
- 1:52intentionally invest in their people in a way that you
- 1:55wouldn't necessarily think about investing in.
- 1:58And that's really from a holistic approach.
- 2:01So when you would experience a leader engaging with one of
- 2:04their team members, what you would normally hear is where are
- 2:08we at on our metrics? You know, have we hit our
- 2:10financial targets this year in those types of scenarios?
- 2:14What you don't hear hear normally is, you know, you put
- 2:19in a full day for me today. I really appreciate the work.
- 2:22But what I need you to do now is pause and pivot and I need you
- 2:26to start getting your head into the game before you go home.
- 2:29And what is home need from you? And what is your wife need?
- 2:33Or your husband and your kids? What do they need?
- 2:36And how do they need you to show up?
- 2:37Because you're not done yet. You're only finished here and I
- 2:41need you to leave. Work at work.
- 2:44Because it's going to be here for you tomorrow, but I need you
- 2:46to be ready to go home. Wow, I've never heard a leader
- 2:49say that. I haven't heard enough of them
- 2:52say that, yeah. That's really great, man.
- 2:54And what does that something you would do every single day?
- 2:56Is it something you do, you know, remind them every week?
- 2:59Like how do you kind of? So that comes the dialogue,
- 3:02right? It's no longer like this thing I
- 3:04have to do. It's but it's who I'm becoming
- 3:06as a leader because I need intrinsically motivated team
- 3:09members. And so the only way you become
- 3:12intrinsically motivated is understanding your own personal
- 3:15why, how it ties into what you do in the organizational why.
- 3:19But then the leader investing in your why, right?
- 3:22And so outside of work, right? Because if we look at the
- 3:26hierarchy of an organization, the higher you go up.
- 3:28So call it the less opportunity there is because there's fewer
- 3:33positions. That's how every organization
- 3:36functions, no matter if you're a flat.
- 3:37Organization. You still have positional places
- 3:40for people to sit. Well, you know, you may have
- 3:43some. Really incredible talent, which
- 3:45by the way, we believe everybody has great capacity to be great
- 3:49talent. It's up to the leadership to
- 3:51unlock that ability in each of their team members.
- 3:55And So what we find is the reality that we know we can only
- 3:59climb so quickly so far in our professional career, which many
- 4:04of us get our identities wrapped up in to our title and who we
- 4:08are. And, and that makes me feel of
- 4:10value. But the reality is, is we can
- 4:13work and work and work and those those opportunities to grow may
- 4:18come for the best of us every three years and for others maybe
- 4:237 to 10 years or maybe never in the same capacity.
- 4:26But our hope and desire was to get there.
- 4:29Well, all this time is going by. We're only measuring our
- 4:33successor of our failure based on our work performance.
- 4:37Meaning of what the world would say.
- 4:39That you made it or not? Did you get promoted?
- 4:41Are you in a leadership position and whatnot?
- 4:44Well, what we believe is that you need to win holistically
- 4:47because you're going to have more wins outside.
- 4:48Of work than you will in work throughout your entire life, but
- 4:52nobody ever. Talks about those.
- 4:54Why? Because they're not measured.
- 4:56And if you can't measure them, it's hard to see them and you're
- 4:58just walking through them. So we believe that lead, you
- 5:02know, good leaders will actually help them win at home, at work,
- 5:07personally, professionally and relationally.
- 5:11So founders, if you're listening to this, I would challenge you
- 5:13and I will challenge myself to do this.
- 5:15What Eric is talking about here, which is, you know, we have, we
- 5:18put in so much work in our business, especially as founders
- 5:22and entrepreneurs, but but employees, team member, everyone
- 5:25puts a lot of work into what they do if they're a hard
- 5:27working contributor, right? And then it's kind of like that
- 5:30switch goes off and it's like time to go home.
- 5:32And almost the mindset sometimes it's like, gosh, I put
- 5:35everything I got into this thing and now I'm just want to relax.
- 5:38I just want to like, you know, do whatever I want to do.
- 5:39And now maybe I'll spend some time with the kids or do this
- 5:41or, but I'm kind of like winding down now.
- 5:44And if you flip that and say, well, is that really fair for
- 5:48your family, for your kids, for your loved ones, for your
- 5:51partners? You know that you've kind of
- 5:52spent all you got at work and then you're coming home with
- 5:55like an empty tank or maybe 1/4 of the way empty tank.
- 5:59So it's such an interesting shift.
- 6:01I would challenge everyone here listening.
- 6:03I will definitely reflect on this as well as what are we
- 6:05bringing home? Are we are we coming home with
- 6:07that same level of excitement and energy and commitment that
- 6:10we have towards the business? My second question is how do you
- 6:13do that? Yeah, you are, you know, working
- 6:16your ass off for 8 to 12 hours. Like what is the secret to doing
- 6:20that? Well, one of the things that I
- 6:22learned a while ago is you can't give what you don't have.
- 6:25And so the reality is, is I have to fill my tank first.
- 6:29So I, I had, I wake up and I used to give my first hour and a
- 6:32half away to work. And now I keep the first hour
- 6:35and a half for me. And so that way I can start get
- 6:39charged, you know, connect spiritually, you know, work out
- 6:45and then connect with my wife. I'm every morning, my wife and I
- 6:50have 30 minutes every day to start our day.
- 6:53So we're connected and wired and aligned for the day and we come
- 6:57to that connection every single morning.
- 7:00It's really important to us, but it gives us the ability to lead
- 7:03our family together. Well, we also know where each
- 7:06other's at. So when we're coming on the
- 7:09other end of it, we're there and available at the same rate
- 7:13emotionally to be emotionally tied and connected.
- 7:16And so, but if I'm not filled up on the front end of this, I have
- 7:19nothing to invest on the back end, right.
- 7:22And so for it all starts in the beginning and you have to make
- 7:26room for it, you know, and some mates say, you know, because I
- 7:29used to be the guy that would wake up at 4:00 AM and start
- 7:31emails at four O 5, you know, and that would be it.
- 7:35You know, now I, I mean, I start my days at 4:45 in the morning
- 7:38and, you know, most days I've been, I got married last year
- 7:42and so I've changed my sleep schedule a little bit.
- 7:45You know, we have to bring that alignment into our family, you
- 7:48know, and so or somebody else sleeping in my bed now, you
- 7:51know, we, we're, we're working on that bedtime, you know, going
- 7:55to bed together, waking up together.
- 7:57So what time is bedtime for you guys?
- 7:59So gosh, you know, Heather's bedtime was a lot later than
- 8:03mine, you know, and so her bedtime was like 11:30 at night.
- 8:06That's. And I'm like, like, babe, I
- 8:07don't know how I could do this because my bedtime's like 9.
- 8:10Yeah, you know, and so and maybe 8:30 because.
- 8:13You get up so early, you got to get the, you got to get to
- 8:15sleep. Got to get that seven or more.
- 8:17Yeah. And and so we wait.
- 8:19We've like blended into the middle here.
- 8:21So we're like at this happy medium of like 10:15, you know.
- 8:25And so it's like I've given a little bit, she's given a little
- 8:28bit to me. So we still, you know, have
- 8:31that. And so now we're just getting
- 8:32into a habit and a routine of what that looks like.
- 8:35And what do you say to the founders that are listening
- 8:37right now and go, gosh, Eric, this sounds nice, but I just
- 8:41don't feel like I have the time to be able to do that.
- 8:43We're dumped your brushing in the morning.
- 8:45I've got team stuff. I got to get the kids to school.
- 8:47I've got. What do you say to that founder?
- 8:49We all have capacity, it's just what we.
- 8:52Choose to do with it and the reality is is so we we actually
- 8:56have a capacity workshop that we do with business leaders and
- 8:59our. Is to help you find one to three
- 9:01hours back in your day every day and so we take people through
- 9:05this workshop helping them see where we're not being strategic
- 9:10with our time and we're all guilty of it we are all guilty
- 9:13of it and so it's. Lying if you say you're.
- 9:16Not that's right, you know, people say it's like I have no
- 9:19more time and I'm so busy while busy is busy, busy isn't
- 9:22strategic. That's right, you know, And so
- 9:24the reality is, is maybe we spend our time doing things,
- 9:28which we all do by the way, that we shouldn't be.
- 9:30That isn't ours to do. Or we've just, you know, flaked
- 9:34out. You know, we're like, you know
- 9:36what? I got to, you know, step away
- 9:38and whatever. And instead of leaning into the
- 9:40hard in the moment, you know, because that time you think
- 9:44about it, if you give it away, you're taking it from something
- 9:48else, right? And so, and that's time you
- 9:50can't get back. And so relationally, if you give
- 9:54it away during your work day. And so now all of a sudden work
- 9:57gets extended in your work day. Well, now all of a sudden you're
- 10:00taking it from your kids and your spouse, you know, And so
- 10:04you're stealing it from somewhere else, which then that
- 10:07puts pressure on those relationships, which then that
- 10:11doesn't make you available, doesn't make you emotionally
- 10:13connected. It doesn't give you the various
- 10:15levels of intimacy that you would require because over time,
- 10:19you're robbing the bank, you know, and when you're robbing
- 10:22the bank to put deposit somewhere else, guess what?
- 10:25That's going to run empty and all of a sudden you're like, you
- 10:30know, the gap that's created the void, it only starts off at 1°
- 10:33of separation. But if you fly in a plane from
- 10:36California to New York and but 1° off, you're down in Atlanta,
- 10:41right? So you didn't get to your
- 10:42destination, you know, relationship goals and focus on
- 10:46that. And so holistically, you know,
- 10:48as we talk about this practice, it's really, really important
- 10:51that we recognize every choice we have and make as a cost
- 10:56somewhere else. And we got to determine in
- 10:58advance what that cost is. And then is it worth it?
- 11:02That's a really good framework to look at it through, a really
- 11:06good lens to look at it through because I think a lot of people
- 11:09and myself included, all of us were guilty of it.
- 11:11You know, throughout your day there's certain things or tasks
- 11:14or whatever you're doing that you're like, this could wait.
- 11:16Like this is not urgent. This could even be done
- 11:18tomorrow, but you're doing it because maybe you want to or
- 11:21it's easier than the hard stuff or whatever it is.
- 11:24And I think it's a good frame there lens to look at it through
- 11:27and say, if I choose to do this now to delay the thing I need to
- 11:31do right now to later, I'm taking away from time with my
- 11:36kids or being present and in the moment.
- 11:39And you know that that is time that you're robbing from your
- 11:42later self because you're not focused and discipline now to do
- 11:45the stuff you need to do. And I think discipline and focus
- 11:48is like the superpower it is. It really is.
- 11:51And I think if you hear discipline for they think of
- 11:52like non-stop working and eating perfectly and working out
- 11:56everyday. It's not about that.
- 11:58It's about where you spend your time and how disciplined are you
- 12:01with that time? Because discipline to me is
- 12:03being able to come home. And if you're spending time with
- 12:05your kids, you're locked in like you don't need to check the
- 12:08e-mail. You're thinking about oh gosh,
- 12:10that client get back or we do this or team member messed up on
- 12:12this. You're locked in because you've
- 12:13handled all your stuff previously, right?
- 12:16And when you're in the podcast or you're at work or wherever
- 12:18you're at, you're locked in there because you've handled all
- 12:20your stuff previously. That's huge, man.
- 12:23I love that. Yeah, you know, and it's yeah.
- 12:25And then you look at what you have to do and when then you
- 12:28choose to do it. Because the reality is, is I
- 12:30know for me, I have power hours, right?
- 12:32So these hours I can get through some, you know, the strategic
- 12:35aspect of of my day, which requires and consumes more
- 12:39energy, more depth than thought and all of that.
- 12:41For me at my freshest time is the morning.
- 12:43Me too, right? And so I'm going to nail out
- 12:46what I could do in an hour in the afternoon.
- 12:48If I were to move that, it would take me 3.
- 12:50I just say, you know, you heard about eating the frog, right?
- 12:53Take on the biggest challenge in the event of the day, first
- 12:56thing to get it off. So then everything else you can
- 12:59do, right? And so these strategic projects
- 13:01that you have, you got to take the time for me anyways, to
- 13:05design it and do it in those peak hours of your productivity
- 13:09where you're the best. And then all the other things
- 13:12that follow being maybe the world wind of the business that
- 13:15you're operating. So let it come after because it
- 13:18doesn't require the depth of thinking and then you operate at
- 13:21a different level of efficiency. At least that's what I've
- 13:23experienced from my perspective. So I know there's research on
- 13:26like certain people are more mourning people than others and
- 13:29their melatonin and that kind of stuff.
- 13:30They go to bed at different times.
- 13:31There is some research to that. I'm wondering if some people
- 13:34listening to this right now, maybe they're like, I'm not
- 13:35morning people. Do you think it's possible to do
- 13:37your best work late at night like before bed?
- 13:41I mean, because to me that seems crazy because even though I
- 13:44guess maybe sometimes I do some work before bed, but I'm like
- 13:47you in the morning, like my mind's fresh.
- 13:49I didn't have the day waited on me.
- 13:51I'm just I've got more energy towards the end of the night.
- 13:53I feel like I'm probably not doing my best work, but maybe
- 13:55that's different for some people.
- 13:56It might be it's a hard one to answer because I'm a morning
- 14:00person too so I can't relate my you know and my wife like she's
- 14:05a night person. She's APA, but she's not
- 14:10efficient. And she'll say it, right.
- 14:12She's like, I'm a night person, but I'm not efficient.
- 14:14But I can, you know, like I'm tapped out of work and there's
- 14:18no way. And then she'll be like, you
- 14:20know, we'll be sitting watching a movie or something or whatever
- 14:23else. And, you know, she would attempt
- 14:25to get something done, but it takes her so much longer to do.
- 14:30And so I'm not quite sure the verdict on it.
- 14:33You know, I can't make a claim one way or the other because I
- 14:36haven't lived that. But what I do know is like fresh
- 14:40usually is best, you know, and so and usually that's first part
- 14:45of the day. But I know people out there that
- 14:47if they were to watch this and be like, oh, Eric, you can't say
- 14:50that, you know, because I'm a night person and you know who
- 14:52I'm talking about. If you're listening, you know,
- 14:55in it. And and this is when we do it
- 14:57And and you know what possibly very true for them.
- 15:00Yeah. The reality is you got to find
- 15:01your pocket, your flow state window, whatever that looks
- 15:04like, right. So to bring it back to my first
- 15:06question of if we went into a company and we saw, Oh my gosh,
- 15:11they have a world class culture leadership, what would we see?
- 15:15And you said vulnerability. We talked about a holistic
- 15:18approach, making sure that their their tanks being filled at
- 15:20home, at work. What else are we missing here?
- 15:24What are maybe another pillar here?
- 15:25The empowerment, right people have the ability to make the
- 15:29decisions to lead the vision, to live it out.
- 15:33They're just empowered to own their space.
- 15:36You know, ultimate ownership, you know, and, and, and the
- 15:39leaders have given it and their structure looks different.
- 15:43We don't report down, they report up.
- 15:45And so we don't give other than the big vision, the picture and
- 15:50the goals that we need to accomplish.
- 15:51But then they're sharing how they're getting there.
- 15:54They're sharing what they're doing.
- 15:55We're actually learning from them instead of them learning
- 15:59from us. We're going to teach them some
- 16:01things, but they have so much more to offer than we do because
- 16:04they're in it, right? And so all the finer things from
- 16:08process to systems to experiences, they're going to
- 16:11have more information because they're boots on the ground,
- 16:14right? And so it's really flipping the
- 16:16lens of are we really hearing, listening and learning from the
- 16:21people in our organization, you know?
- 16:24And what about the vulnerability piece?
- 16:26What it What does that look like?
- 16:27Yeah. The vulnerability, you know, so
- 16:29we created a framework and part of that is is growing deeper in
- 16:32relationship with one another. You'd ask, so how do you have
- 16:36that conversation and how often do you say, you know, we, you
- 16:39know, get ready to go home and all those bits, right?
- 16:42That only happens through vulnerability, but you have to
- 16:45have a place that vulnerability happens, right?
- 16:47And so that comes with intentionality, which corporate
- 16:51America doesn't have this today, right?
- 16:53They measure all the other things, but what they don't
- 16:56measure is the mindset, You know, so we're the first company
- 16:59in the world to measure the growth mindset.
- 17:02We're also the first company in the world to have a tool and a
- 17:05framework and a system to help people grow in that mindset and
- 17:09to deliver results in that mindset.
- 17:11But as organizations to understand then who's giving us
- 17:16up the capacity that they have have to actually lead, innovate
- 17:21and grow in our organization. And so in our system, in our
- 17:26Inspire OS, our software program, basically we bring the
- 17:31leader and the team member together every week for 20
- 17:34minutes. And what they do is they go, you
- 17:36know, we, we eliminated annual reviews and quarterly business
- 17:39reviews. No more reviews.
- 17:41I, I was guilty of it. You know, I had a team and
- 17:44several of them in, in the corporate America world and we
- 17:47would do these quarterly or annual reviews.
- 17:50I couldn't remember what happened 2 weeks ago.
- 17:52And so I wasn't giving great feedback and I, and then when I
- 17:56did get, and even if it was great feedback, I wasted three
- 18:00months or a year to give it right.
- 18:02So I stunted somebody else's ability to learn and grow.
- 18:06And then they show up and they say, oh, that's the first time
- 18:08I've heard of that. It would've been nice to hear
- 18:10that seven months ago when it happened, you know, or that's
- 18:12the conversation that leaves the room right when it's not had
- 18:16with you, but their peers, you know, in that.
- 18:18And so we created this environment.
- 18:21It's this 20 minute meeting, one-on-one and all's it is, is
- 18:24you're reviewing the scorecard, right?
- 18:26And in our system, you know, we have the OK Rs of the company.
- 18:31So the objectives and key results for the year.
- 18:34And then we break it into goals, leadership habits, personal
- 18:38habits, personal goals. And then where do we win?
- 18:42Where do we lose and the challenges we overcame and then
- 18:46feedback. And so this scorecard is here,
- 18:49gives you a growth mindset rating, a leadership rating.
- 18:52And you and me are sitting down having this conversation and
- 18:55you're asking me how am I doing on running and training because
- 18:59I'm running for a marathon. You're asking me how are you
- 19:02growing and sharing the vision with your team?
- 19:04You're asking me all of these in depth questions and I'm being
- 19:07able to respond and engage. And then you're going to say,
- 19:10hey, why don't you try it this way?
- 19:11There's some coaching opportunities here, right, to do
- 19:14it, but now you're invested in me and I'm getting to know you.
- 19:18So naturally what's happening is depth in the relationship
- 19:22through intentionality, which grows team vulnerability, which
- 19:26when you have that, everything is possible, like everything.
- 19:30And that's done. Excuse me, that's done every
- 19:32single week. Every week.
- 19:34So cancel the QBRS or cancel the quarterly reviews with your
- 19:38employees and start doing yes, yeah, I could see that too.
- 19:42And then the review process just seems very on paper.
- 19:46Check the box to your point, you review something and then what
- 19:49you check back months. I mean, it's like people forget.
- 19:51It's like you go, it's everything sounds great.
- 19:53And then you go about your day and it's like everyone kind of
- 19:54forgets. Weekly is like you're in it and
- 19:57it's a little bit of accountability there.
- 19:59You're it's fresh in your mind every single week.
- 20:01You're working together towards it.
- 20:02There's more coaching opportunities.
- 20:04You're growing. You're growing, Yeah, right.
- 20:05You know, intentionally. And so that's where your
- 20:08compound the outcomes, right? You know, in your life, at home,
- 20:13at work, you know where you're at, but then you're also like
- 20:16you activate this new part of your mind because now you start
- 20:20developing something right over time.
- 20:22And so the innovation comes from this space too.
- 20:25So organizations always need to be innovating, right?
- 20:28Well, but if my people aren't turned on to innovate, how do I
- 20:32innovate, right? So this turns on the mindset to
- 20:35be a strategic thinker, right? Because part of the scorecard
- 20:38highlights where were the challenges that we faced and
- 20:42then how do we overcome them? And I didn't call my boss or my
- 20:46leader to give me the answer I needed to figure it out.
- 20:49So we're starting to activate different behaviors to be able
- 20:54to become the strategic thinkers, to then innovate.
- 20:57And it just, you know, encompasses so many things in 20
- 21:01minutes. I think in corporate we had so
- 21:03many meetings and some of them and none of them were like that
- 21:05though, you know, really to be honest, a lot of more like kind
- 21:08of check insurance or just very operational focus.
- 21:10Where we at with this? What needs to be done across
- 21:12just the finish line? I mean, you know, as I think for
- 21:15that reason, sometimes I sometimes frowned upon like
- 21:18weekly meetings. Yeah, because I was like how
- 21:20it's like, do we need a meeting every week?
- 21:22But I think it's an intentional, it's 20 minutes too, which is
- 21:25not a huge time commitment. And you coming in, you're coming
- 21:27into it and it's really about the impact and the growth, not
- 21:31just we're going to have a meeting to make sure everyone's
- 21:32doing their shit. Yeah, you know what I mean?
- 21:34That's right. What it becomes like, hey, let's
- 21:36have a meeting. Make sure everyone's not, you
- 21:38know, messing up and dropping balls and that kind of stuff.
- 21:40Like that's not fun. No, well, it's like, come to
- 21:43this meeting, let's see where we're at.
- 21:45Let me energize you and then send you on your way, right.
- 21:48There's no benefit or value because as a leader, how many
- 21:51times you're going to say what, right and for what?
- 21:54And, and really, and so the, the whole dynamic shift.
- 21:57And I have leaders, you know, when I first meet them before
- 21:59they get engaged in the program, we don't have time for this,
- 22:03right? How am I going to find I, I've
- 22:05got, you know, 10 people on my team.
- 22:07Where am I going to find 20 minutes for each of them?
- 22:11You know, to go over this? And I said, you know, you're a
- 22:13multiplier. The reality is, is if you don't
- 22:15have 20 minutes, you're actually not activating your team and
- 22:19you're not actually growing at the level you could because you
- 22:22can, you can choose to keep those hours for yourself, but
- 22:26now you've just limited their ability to rise up and grow and
- 22:30develop. And so, or as a leader, we're
- 22:32called to invest in our people. So take that time and guess
- 22:36what? Whatever that work is that
- 22:37you're doing, you can have a place to empower people to take
- 22:40responsibility for it anyways. And so and their capacity is
- 22:44going to grow tenfold. Because I bet if you don't do
- 22:47that 20 minutes, you're just going to create way more
- 22:49minutes. It's going to be 4060, yeah,
- 22:52hour and a half, Two hours of extra work now because you
- 22:54haven't. And then not only just your
- 22:56time, but now they're not going to grow and accomplish what they
- 23:00want to accomplish and then become the best version of
- 23:02themselves, which obviously helps the collective.
- 23:04And then it's a time suck because now it's not, it's not
- 23:07intentional and it's not proactive.
- 23:09It becomes then these reactive conversations, which we've all
- 23:13been part of, reactive conversations are only
- 23:16happening, I mean, mainly for one reason.
- 23:18Somebody's upset, right? And so now we get sucked into
- 23:22the cycle in the vacuum of reactivity and people disengaged
- 23:27and emotionally drained. But if we chose to be proactive,
- 23:31we would have that time back and intentionally use leading and
- 23:34guiding and also empowering it's.
- 23:37Making me reflect a lot my podcast team because I feel like
- 23:40I'm kind of in reactive mode too much and I want to be in
- 23:44proactive mode, but I think I'm making the excuse of the timing.
- 23:48It's time. It's that I got focus on this.
- 23:50I got focus on this. The reality is like, no, you
- 23:52don't. Whatever your priorities are, if
- 23:55the team is a part of that, that is the that is the thing that is
- 23:58that's right. It is the number one.
- 24:00There's nothing more important than that.
- 24:01No, no, you're. You're that team.
- 24:03We're gonna have more meetings now.
- 24:04No, actually, we'll probably have less time, but more
- 24:08intentional, more impactful. Hopefully that's more.
- 24:12It's a structured approach. Yeah, it's, and hopefully it
- 24:14benefits them. And again, I was, I do try to
- 24:17ask like personally, what, what are you going through and what
- 24:19do you want to accomplish and what do you hope this does for
- 24:21you? Cuz ultimately a career
- 24:22opportunity is a vehicle for people, yeah, you know, for them
- 24:25to get to where they want to go. So it's like, how can this
- 24:26opportunity help you get to where you want to go?
- 24:28And what opportunities can we create together if this thing
- 24:31grows and when this thing grows and all that stuff.
- 24:35So what's the value in doing all this?
- 24:36We we, you know, convince me if I'm not sold, I'm listening to
- 24:40this and like, gosh, I don't know if I want to do all this
- 24:42stuff. What is the value of having this
- 24:44now culture where you are more intentional, people are growing,
- 24:47you're spending more quality time with them.
- 24:49The culture is humming. You know what?
- 24:50What does that do for the business?
- 24:53You know, so I believe nothing happens without people.
- 24:58And so right now in the world we live in today in corporate
- 25:03America, culture is written on the wall, but it's not lived
- 25:07out, you know, and it's unfortunate because we all get
- 25:10in after chasing the outcomes. And so we, we, we miss people
- 25:15for tasks, right? We, we walk over the people, we
- 25:18walk over the relationship to get the task done.
- 25:20And we do it all over again next week.
- 25:22And So what we're missing is the relational developmental piece.
- 25:26So what do you get right? So if we're intentional, we go
- 25:30through the workshops, we go through the platform, we utilize
- 25:33the system, we become the inspired culture.
- 25:37Well, what does this do? One, it's going to reduce your
- 25:39employee turnover significantly. We have white paper studies
- 25:42between 45 and 72% reduction in turnover.
- 25:46You know, that's millions to the bottom line and that's 10s of
- 25:50millions to the top line because now you keep your IP, now you
- 25:54can grow your revenue. Now you have your strategic
- 25:57thinkers and innovators engaged to be here, right?
- 26:00And I always say this like when you have an inspired culture, we
- 26:04all sit inside a room just like this room or in an
- 26:07organizational room, right? And it's like when you walk into
- 26:12the door into the room the first day.
- 26:14I always shut the lights off when I do my workshops, take out
- 26:17my flashlight, and I walked around and you recognize all
- 26:19these tools and you find them slowly, like there's something
- 26:23over here in this corner here. I didn't know about that system
- 26:26over here. These clients are over here.
- 26:29My peers are in here, too. This is how we work together.
- 26:31Well, over time, we figure out all these things, right?
- 26:34And then all of a sudden the lights are all on, right?
- 26:36Well, our job and Our Calling as leaders and as innovators are to
- 26:41be really architects, right? So we got to go out the door.
- 26:45We have to find the door and build a bigger space for more
- 26:47people to come and really experience the inspired culture.
- 26:51So you're creating a life system that's not only transforming and
- 26:54growing your organization, but the people that are in the
- 26:57organization to giving them the best chance to win on all fronts
- 27:01in their life. Your revenue is going to go up
- 27:04anywhere from 20 to 120% or more.
- 27:08It's just significant how the impact changes in the
- 27:12empowerment, the inspired culture rating surveys that we
- 27:15do, they go up significantly and our clients start receiving
- 27:20industry rewards, right, is recognized.
- 27:22And it's just like, how'd that happen?
- 27:25Oh, they transformed their culture over the last two years,
- 27:28you know, and that's how that's happened, right?
- 27:30You know, And so you get all these things, you get teams, you
- 27:33get innovation, right? So innovation could be, you
- 27:36know, adding on to what you have or building something new to
- 27:40continue to grow and expand your organization.
- 27:43There's just so many benefits that come from it.
- 27:47How would you rate Steve Jobs as a leader?
- 27:50That's a great question. So I'm familiar a little bit
- 27:53with Steve and, you know, I understand a few of his habits.
- 27:57He'd wear the same outfit every day.
- 27:59You know, he wouldn't, he would reduce the number of decisions
- 28:01that he'd have to make, you know, I mean, and he built a
- 28:04huge company being Apple, right? And you know, his consistency of
- 28:10showing up in persistence to make it happen, even though when
- 28:13he was let go early on to come back and really spin the
- 28:17company, I think he was an incredible innovator from the
- 28:20standpoint of his leadership style.
- 28:21I can't really comment on it because I didn't know him.
- 28:24I didn't work for him personally.
- 28:25So I wouldn't have a really a great viewpoint for you on that.
- 28:28What about what you've heard though?
- 28:29Because you've heard, you know what I mean is he's very seem to
- 28:33be from having from listening to conversations of people that
- 28:36work for him. He's very in your face.
- 28:39What the hell are you doing? Get the hell out of here.
- 28:41I don't care what you do in your personal life.
- 28:43We got a job here to do. What are your thoughts on that?
- 28:45Like how was he able to do that? He he was a one in a billion
- 28:49visionary innovator. I mean, that's just like, it's
- 28:53almost like saying, how did Michael Jordan do it in the
- 28:56Bulls? It's like, well, that's like a
- 28:57one in a billion person. Yeah.
- 28:59I mean that just the talent level of that person that maybe
- 29:02some of the shortcomings he made-up for in other areas.
- 29:05For what I would say as the pressure produced an outcome,
- 29:10but if we would have changed the model of communication, we would
- 29:14have got there faster. Interesting that's a good take
- 29:17faster or better, you know maybe even better products or whatever
- 29:20it might been. That's a good take yeah.
- 29:23You do wonder you wish you could AB test that one and just see
- 29:26what it had been like cuz was that needed?
- 29:28I think people were probably inspired to work for such a
- 29:30focus driven, innovative entrepreneur, visionary guy.
- 29:35Yeah, that they're changing the world in a lot of ways.
- 29:37I mean, really think about it, the smartphone, it's changed so
- 29:41many things. It has what a ride to be a part
- 29:44of. That's incredible.
- 29:45And I think people were just captivated by that.
- 29:47And probably he he got the lead in that way, even though that
- 29:51may not work for somebody in a recruiting firm or a technology,
- 29:55you know, or a software company that did something that's not as
- 29:57captivating, maybe, you know, maybe it doesn't work as well.
- 30:01Yeah, the vision definitely pulled people into for sure into
- 30:04that, right. And so then you justified maybe
- 30:07like allowing and accepting this type of behavior behavior
- 30:10because of this is where we're going.
- 30:13But the reality is, is that we could have had a different
- 30:16behavior, still got the outcome, like you said, maybe even
- 30:19better, But I just believed that you would have moved you.
- 30:22He was still moving people directionally, right?
- 30:25But how tuned in were they really, you know, and from
- 30:30wanting to be versus pressure and to really be willing to be
- 30:35vulnerable in the depth to be open of saying, hey, we probably
- 30:39needed to do these things too, but we didn't want to say it
- 30:42because we thought there might be negative repercussions for
- 30:45using our voice in that type of environment.
- 30:48And so those are where I see the delays that that type of
- 30:51leadership creates. Yeah, it's interesting.
- 30:56I was because I listened to an interview.
- 30:57Mr. Wonderful was on a podcast, Kevin or.
- 31:01Kevin O'Leary, yeah. And they were asking about Steve
- 31:04Jobs and his because he worked with Steve Jobs in a certain
- 31:07capacity for years ago. And he was saying how kind of
- 31:11tough he was and an asshole he was, but he almost got emotional
- 31:14talking about him. He's like, I, I love the guy.
- 31:17Like I just really, I went to bat for him.
- 31:19He was, there was no question about it.
- 31:22And it was like, wow, it's interesting to see that he was
- 31:24so in your face and probably rude at times and just, like,
- 31:28shot you down if you said something stupid.
- 31:30You know, it didn't have much empathy, it sounded like at
- 31:33least. And yet people are still kind of
- 31:35lining up to go to war with them.
- 31:37But yeah, to your point, what could it have been?
- 31:39Yeah. You know, it's like, you know,
- 31:41Cynthia's like, oh, the 90 year old smoked a pack or two a day,
- 31:44and she lived to 90. Well, if she didn't smoke, she
- 31:46115, Right. You know.
- 31:48So regardless, I think you got to be careful of looking at one
- 31:51person as an outlier that did something really crazy.
- 31:55And I think it just this stuff just makes sense.
- 31:57Like people want to feel like they're yes, you do need a
- 31:59vision, you do need a mission, you need something you're
- 32:01working towards. They feel excited about.
- 32:03But people want to feel heard. I mean, they want to feel part
- 32:05of a team. They want to feel that you have
- 32:07some empathy that you're vulnerable with them.
- 32:09I just think to me, as long as you're not, some people might
- 32:13hear this and go, it's fluffy Duffy, it's too much lovey
- 32:16dovey. It's where's the accountability?
- 32:18You know, Hey, that sounds good. But Eric, it doesn't work if
- 32:21you're trying to build it, you know, $100 million company.
- 32:24What would you say to that? It does because we have, so it
- 32:29does work. And the reality is, is that
- 32:32it's, there's a ton of accountability in it.
- 32:34It's all accountability, right, right, right.
- 32:36And so our scorecard system, our framework, it's all about
- 32:39accountability. And so it's accountability on
- 32:42multiple levels, by the way. And so it's the accountability
- 32:45of the one-on-one and showing up being intentional as a leader.
- 32:48But then our dashboards are designed to drive mutual
- 32:51peer-to-peer accountability. So you get your growth rating up
- 32:55there with everybody else on your team.
- 32:56And so now your department or your branch or your location has
- 33:00a growth mindset rating. So hey, this branch is growing
- 33:03at this pace, while this branch over here is growing at this
- 33:06pace, even though leaders are all reporting to maybe different
- 33:10leaders, but we put it by address, right?
- 33:13So this community of culture then sits and it's experiencing
- 33:16this versus this. So what we wanted to do is bring
- 33:19visibility and peer-to-peer accountability to say, hey, we
- 33:22all need to be growing together here.
- 33:24We all got to do this together. And so there's this just a self
- 33:29accountability as well to be accountable to my peers and to
- 33:35also want to do a good job right in it.
- 33:37So we have designed it to where it rolls up from individual to
- 33:42department to division all the way up to the CEO, right.
- 33:47So we got some questions from the founder talk community,
- 33:49which is a private community that anybody that's on the show,
- 33:52they we jump in a group chat basically and we ask, they ask
- 33:57questions of guests that are coming on, as I mentioned.
- 33:59And so a few questions that we got.
- 34:01I'm going to pivot a little bit more into how to build a
- 34:04business that can run without you.
- 34:06If you step away, you can go on vacation, you can work away from
- 34:08the business a little bit. You can do this, you can do that
- 34:10and the business doesn't absolutely fall apart when you
- 34:12leave. That to me is a sign of a
- 34:14healthy business. So Rick had asked, he said he
- 34:16just had a conversation with a client about this this morning.
- 34:18The challenge for the owner is how to let go and trust the
- 34:22outcomes when someone else is doing the work the owner used to
- 34:26do. How do you build that trust?
- 34:28Yeah. So I think 1, you have to hire
- 34:30well to know who you're bringing in and then you have to grow in
- 34:35vulnerability together, right. So there's a relational journey
- 34:38that has to happen so you can at at that level, trust and empower
- 34:44your leaders. And that journey takes time to
- 34:47build it. You know, it's not happening in
- 34:48one meeting or one week, but there's some consistency that's
- 34:52required there, right? And then you as a leader have to
- 34:56be willing to say, Hey, I know I'm the bottleneck.
- 34:59And in all of us as founders are right, We're the bottleneck
- 35:03until we're not until we're the next bottleneck.
- 35:05And the reality is, is that in to scale a company, you have to
- 35:10recognize when your capacity has been met and you have to unload,
- 35:13right? And so you have to predetermine
- 35:16in that in advance so you can be emotionally ready to let certain
- 35:20parts of your role go. And so when you're ready to make
- 35:24the decision, you've already invested in the people that are
- 35:26ready to go in it. So it's a pre determining factor
- 35:31for me. And so I look at it as we're
- 35:33growing, you know, we have a sales team, we have, you know,
- 35:36some marketing folks, we have a number of other departments.
- 35:40And I know the first thing I have to let go is the sales
- 35:42team, right? And so I already know, I'm
- 35:44already looking for a leader. I'm looking at the team, I'm
- 35:47looking at who can take the responsibility of this because
- 35:50it you can't sit with me. And so we have to make these
- 35:53determining factors on the front end so we can continue to let
- 35:57go. And that's where we develop our
- 35:59leadership team. And so you have a leader in
- 36:02every chair. And then so you remain the
- 36:05visionary for the organization from the founder perspective to
- 36:09continue to go and grow the business and continue to expand
- 36:13that. And then it flips, right?
- 36:16Because you're growing here. But you have to invest now in
- 36:19your team, just as you've invested in your people.
- 36:22Now you got to invest in your team and help remove barriers
- 36:25for them but allowing them to do the work.
- 36:29And what happens when they mess up or make a mistake?
- 36:31What is it a coaching opportunity?
- 36:33And how many times you let them make mistakes before you know
- 36:36something changes because you're you're the business owner,
- 36:38you're like, cool, I'm going to delegate.
- 36:40I'm going to let someone or, or maybe not delegate, but I'm
- 36:42going to empower somebody else to be able to do this
- 36:44responsibility that I was once doing because I need to go do
- 36:46other things to grow the business.
- 36:48I start that, I coach them on how to do it, and then they're
- 36:51not doing it. They're maybe making the
- 36:53mistakes or whatever it is. How do you handle that?
- 36:56Yes, I think there's a couple of things that we have to look at.
- 36:59One is we have to understand. So we put them in this role.
- 37:02We saw him as a confident leader.
- 37:04We have somebody that's empowered and leading well.
- 37:07And now all of a sudden something's not going right,
- 37:09right. And so we, we have to actually
- 37:11see it early to have an early conversation to say, did I make
- 37:16the right decision by putting this person in the seat and what
- 37:21is happening, right? So if it's the mistake of, you
- 37:25know, fundamentally looking at something, moving something, or
- 37:28is it, is it a character flaw, right.
- 37:31And so from my vantage point, if it's a character flaw, it's
- 37:33really going to be hard to change that.
- 37:35So that is a pivot in a move out.
- 37:38How do you know if it's character flaw or if it's you
- 37:41know at the training or fundamental thing?
- 37:43So from a character side of it, are we in integrity, you know,
- 37:47so was this done in integrity or was it out of integrity?
- 37:51For me, it's black and white. And so the character aspect
- 37:55comes in because is it about me or is it about my team?
- 37:58And so if do I have a personal motive, is that shining through
- 38:03based on how I'm making my decisions or not?
- 38:06Right. And so I think as we reflect on
- 38:09how people make their decisions, how these leaders do, we have to
- 38:12recognize are they for the greater good of the organization
- 38:16or are they going in for themselves believing this is how
- 38:18they get ahead? And by the way, that's how
- 38:21corporate America leads in most organizations today.
- 38:24It's about me. It's not about my team.
- 38:27It's not. It's about how do I get to the
- 38:28next level and how quickly can I get there and I can put on a
- 38:32mask. By the way, we do something
- 38:34called the 50 Masks of leadership.
- 38:36We've created a course on that to help people remove their
- 38:39blind spots because we'll show up, we'll have these masks out,
- 38:43either we recognize we're wearing them or we don't.
- 38:46And so we help remove them and showing them the damage that
- 38:50costs to the organization and the people in it.
- 38:54And So what do we do with that situation with this leader?
- 38:57We have a real conversation, you know, And by the way, they're
- 39:00still on the scorecards with us, right?
- 39:02And so their system hasn't changed.
- 39:05We're still doing that. And so it gives us the ability
- 39:08to continue to check in what's going on and understand why they
- 39:12made the decision. And when we understand it, we
- 39:16have to then make a decision. Either it's correctable and we
- 39:20can move forward from it or it's totally out and we have to make
- 39:24a different decision about it and remove that leader.
- 39:28And then that's the determination.
- 39:29Do we remove them out of the organization or place them in a
- 39:32different role? What's 1 area where you feel
- 39:36like you're falling short as a leader right now as you look at
- 39:38yourself? That's one area that you feel
- 39:40like I have a lot of. Areas.
- 39:42What's one that you're like, I just really, cuz I'm going
- 39:44through this, I'm like, jeez, I realize I'm not being nearly as
- 39:47good of a leader. It's like it.
- 39:49And it's not a pity party like I feel sorry for that.
- 39:51It's just like, this is great. This is, you need to wake up
- 39:54sometimes and open your eyes and see things from a different
- 39:56angle and perspective. And we all have strengths and
- 39:58weaknesses, but I'm curious from your perspective, because you're
- 40:00so good at this and you do this for a living.
- 40:02I'm curious where is your shortcoming?
- 40:04Yeah. I think that my biggest
- 40:06challenge today is we're growing at such a fast pace.
- 40:09And the reality is, is my norm has been changing like, you
- 40:14know, so we go through seasons. Well, I've been through five
- 40:18seasons in eight weeks, like if the company and how fast we're
- 40:21growing from December to now, middle of December to now,
- 40:25right? I mean, and so all of these
- 40:27things are coming. So I'm trying like when I'm,
- 40:29when I feel like I could do better is I need to find a new
- 40:33norm of a, of a commitment of a process and a system for my week
- 40:38and how I operate every day. I had my daily routines in the
- 40:42morning and then I head into work, right?
- 40:45And well, my work is continuously now changing.
- 40:47My work was this, now it's not. And now it's this and that's
- 40:52just moved. And so we're building and
- 40:55developing so many things right now that I don't think I'm doing
- 40:58a great job of capturing what my norm is today.
- 41:03I'm having, I'm being consistent for the week of what we need to
- 41:06do. But the people that we're
- 41:09bringing in, you know, they get to experience us, they get to
- 41:13get into the system. We're off and running.
- 41:18But all of this is creating momentum, which is bringing in
- 41:21more people, more systems, right?
- 41:23And so we're at a pace that is really awesome to see, but
- 41:28really, am I taking enough time to really spend with them the
- 41:33way that I need to be? We're getting the 20 minute one
- 41:36on ones, but we're also introducing so many new things
- 41:40at the same point. And it's all really, really good
- 41:44stuff. But that's where I can I can
- 41:47measure up a little bit better for sure.
- 41:50I think it's good to hear because you know, sometimes you
- 41:52think it's you either have it all figured out or you have
- 41:54nothing. And it's like, even if you're in
- 41:56the space and I'm in the marketing space, I'm always
- 41:58trying to get better as a marketer.
- 42:00There's areas where I'm missing the mark where I'm not doing as
- 42:02well. And I think the same thing as as
- 42:04a leader, even though you guys do this in a sense for a living,
- 42:07there's always areas where you're you say, hey, I got to
- 42:09get better here. This is an area I can improve
- 42:11on. I think it's important to
- 42:12highlight, you mentioned the explosive growth.
- 42:16I'm a founder entrepreneur. Listening to when you said that
- 42:18we're growing incredibly fast. I'd be remiss if I didn't ask,
- 42:21how are you guys growing so fast?
- 42:23Yeah. So we so for the last couple of
- 42:26years we needed to prove out our model, right.
- 42:28So we did that and I and, you know, as soon as we did, you
- 42:33know, it's just like hit the hit the gas, you know, the green
- 42:36button, you know, and the go button.
- 42:38And so we've just hired so many folks to come into the business
- 42:42and, and so we have a business development team, right, you
- 42:45know. Sales is pumping.
- 42:47Sales is pumping, you know, and we found a way, way to do sales
- 42:51without selling. And so that's been really unique
- 42:54into the marketplace. What do you mean by that?
- 42:57We've just reverse engineered our process of engagement with
- 43:01potential clients. And so we actually don't sell
- 43:04anything. You know, it's really weird to
- 43:07say that out loud because I was a sales professional for a
- 43:10really long time. I was too.
- 43:12And, and so and it's interesting to see how we are doing this and
- 43:18everything. And so in it, what it's creating
- 43:21is this pool and every meeting we've had, we've had with
- 43:26multiple CE OS from different companies or senior execs and
- 43:30every one of them after our first meeting took a second
- 43:32meeting. And so as you can imagine, and
- 43:36when we have, you know, the sales team of executive advisors
- 43:39out there, you know, and we have 9 on the team right now just in
- 43:43that department and they're all doing this, the calendars just
- 43:47booking up, you know, and, and then, you know, proposals are
- 43:51being generated, clients are coming in.
- 43:54And so all of these things are happening at A at a rapid pace,
- 43:57which is great. And you know, and we're getting
- 44:00ready to, I have 7, seven team members on the bench, meaning
- 44:05what, what, what is that for US? Seven people we haven't hired
- 44:07yet but are ready to come. And so, and these are all going
- 44:10to be our facilitators to facilitate the work that our
- 44:13team is closing out there. And so it's just been phenomenal
- 44:19to see. Well, that's great, man.
- 44:20Yeah. What?
- 44:21So what? Going back to the selling
- 44:22without selling what? What do you mean by that?
- 44:25Yeah. So we're getting a pull instead
- 44:26of a push. We're inviting people into a
- 44:29conversation that needs to be had, The conversation of
- 44:32culture. It's the number one thing people
- 44:35want to talk about today that they can't figure out how to get
- 44:39it right. Or they, you know, it's this
- 44:42thing, it's this thing in the room, but we can't touch it.
- 44:45It's not tangible. We can't see it, but we know
- 44:48it's there. And it makes an impact in our
- 44:49companies, right? And so we're the first company
- 44:52in the world to measure that, right?
- 44:54And so we're measuring it. We're not Korn Ferry, we're not,
- 44:57you know, all any of these other organizations that have all
- 45:00these surveys, the way that they use the surveys.
- 45:03We have our own tools, our own surveys.
- 45:05And what we're doing is measuring a number of different
- 45:08things in our tools. And we're helping people
- 45:12understand like, hey, I know you've done all these things.
- 45:17There's no continuity of change. We have the continuity and we're
- 45:21equipped to equip you with all of the things and we stay with
- 45:25you, right and so anybody that comes a client, it's not like we
- 45:30do a workshop and we leave I. Don't think that would really
- 45:33work anyways, right? Just it's like going to a
- 45:35conference, like a feel good conference and then leaving and
- 45:37everyone's like, all right, yeah, Rob, I'm gonna go do this
- 45:40thing. And then in most cases, everyone
- 45:42comes back in a week later. They're doing the same.
- 45:44Show they forgot, right? They forgot, you know, the the
- 45:46reality is is that a lot of companies and organizations
- 45:49invest a lot of money in those feel good, right?
- 45:52It's the HR checkbox. The challenge with that is, is
- 45:56we don't have a path to use the tools that we learned.
- 45:59And even if even those that do it well, they may have a four
- 46:04month stent or a three month stent where we have a couple
- 46:07meetings every month about it and then it goes away.
- 46:10The challenge with that is we still don't have any tools to
- 46:13actually execute what we learned.
- 46:15Right. So I'm relying on you and you're
- 46:16relying on me to memorize what we've learned, write down a few
- 46:20things and determine to take one thing home.
- 46:23Well, yeah, there's like 50 Nuggets though, right?
- 46:25And I want all the Nuggets, but how do I apply those Nuggets?
- 46:28Right. So we had a couple of questions.
- 46:30I think we answered them. How do, how do business owners
- 46:32delegate work but still stay in the know?
- 46:34I feel like we got there. Here's here's an interesting
- 46:37one. This came from Christophe and
- 46:38our group. The question I would ask any
- 46:41leader, not limited to founders or owners on this delegation
- 46:45slash empowerment point are at what level are you delegating
- 46:48this so far? And maybe you've heard this
- 46:50before, but number one is task number 2 is activity #3 is
- 46:54project #4 is decision #4 is approval.
- 46:58So what he's saying is like when if you're going to delegate or
- 47:01have people, you know, take over responsibilities, at what level
- 47:04is that? Because the difference between
- 47:06hey do this task and run this project or be able to make this
- 47:09decision, How do you think about that?
- 47:11Framework, yeah, well, the hierarchy is different in every
- 47:13company, right? And so I could probably give you
- 47:1650 different answers to that question based on 50 different
- 47:19organizations and the structures that they have in place.
- 47:22The empowerment comes down to the space that they're
- 47:25responsible for, right? And so if I'm a worker, you
- 47:30know, Sam, I'm working at Home Depot and I, you know, I'm an
- 47:32employee in the garden center. And so maybe I get assigned 2
- 47:37aisles, right? As an employee, these are my
- 47:39responsibility. So in that I have to face and
- 47:42keep them stocked, keep the inventories, right, and then
- 47:46provide a great experience for the shoppers that are coming
- 47:48through. That's the capacity of my
- 47:50responsibility as empowerment of an hourly employee working at
- 47:55Home Depot, right? Simply put, the garden manager,
- 47:58on the other hand, is a step up. And so they're responsible for
- 48:01the department's inventory. They're responsible to staff the
- 48:05department, hire for the department, you know, all of
- 48:08those things. And so that's it's at their
- 48:10level. So it really sits in the
- 48:11hierarchy the the empowerment piece.
- 48:14So that comes as I have this role and responsibility, am I
- 48:18going to to be empowered to do something with it or am I going
- 48:21to be controlled to only respond with what's required of me?
- 48:26Right. Instead, the empowerment phase
- 48:27is different. I said to the employee that's
- 48:30managing the aisle, manage the aisle.
- 48:33I didn't say, though, he couldn't create the best
- 48:36experience for people to come into the aisle.
- 48:40And what do we want to do with it?
- 48:41And I'll give an example of that.
- 48:43I worked at Home Depot actually, in my story.
- 48:46So back in 2000, I got promoted out of the flooring department
- 48:53into being the garden manager, right?
- 48:56Never in the garden department before, but what I witnessed was
- 49:00I had this responsibility and I had a good leader.
- 49:02I think it like all store managers at Home Depot are just
- 49:05way overwhelmed. And so it's like they hope for
- 49:08the best and they put people in place and you know, I, you know,
- 49:11there's definitely some strategy to it.
- 49:12I don't want to downplay it, but there's always a lot going on in
- 49:15corporate needs a ton of things, you know, always a ton of
- 49:18things. And so.
- 49:20They gave me the garden. Department and I looked at it
- 49:22and you know, I did it and and I was looking I'm like, wow, you
- 49:27know, and we can do a lot of things different here.
- 49:30By the way, there's already 2000 Home Depot stores that exist at
- 49:33this point. And I was just like, look at how
- 49:37many hours a week we spend on staffing just to water plants,
- 49:41right? There's like 220 hours a week to
- 49:44water plants in the summer. I'm like and my shelves were
- 49:49dying because they were shopped so hard and I couldn't keep them
- 49:53faced and keep them cleaned and so I didn't ask anybody.
- 49:57I went down and marked down to $120.00 worth of product, garden
- 50:01hose and sprinklers and timers. I set up an overnight sprinkling
- 50:04system so we would never have to water plants again and I
- 50:07recalibrated the labor to go in and actually do the other things
- 50:12we needed done, providing a better experience and everything
- 50:14else. Guess what?
- 50:15That year we had 0 markdowns on plants.
- 50:19You know where before we were marking down plants left and
- 50:21right. And so the empowerment
- 50:23opportunity was I took the initiative, I saw the
- 50:26opportunity to make a change. Nobody challenged me on it.
- 50:31And then it actually ended up going to another a number of
- 50:34home depots throughout the US, you know, this indoor, you know,
- 50:38and outdoor watering system that we designed, you know, so it's
- 50:42just, and this was it. I was at 20 years old.
- 50:45Wow. You know, and so it's just so
- 50:47cool to see. That was one thing.
- 50:49And then the other thing is, is a experience for me.
- 50:52You know, I think about the fall and go and do Sunny Acres not
- 50:55too far from here, right? Went there as kid picking out
- 50:59the pumpkins and all that. My parents would always take me
- 51:02and I, you know, so I was like thinking, I'm like, we get these
- 51:05crates of pumpkins to sell at Home Depot.
- 51:07They're just in boxes and I'm like, well, this isn't great.
- 51:10So we marked down a bunch of mulch bags, laid pumpkins out
- 51:13all over the garden center outside and created a pumpkin
- 51:16patch for people to experience, right.
- 51:19And so when to answer the question of empowerment, it
- 51:22definitely depends on the organizational structure and
- 51:26what then responsibility you're giving and then to what length
- 51:29you want people to go with, right to that.
- 51:32And so it's really determined on and how the role of
- 51:37responsibility, right? And so, but everybody can own
- 51:40something and that's I think the message it has to come across.
- 51:44We're all responsible to own something.
- 51:46As a leader, have you given the ownership for what it is that
- 51:50they can do and have the capacity to do, or are you
- 51:53keeping it? How do you look at being the
- 51:56leader of your organization versus the leader of your
- 51:58family? The same but different.
- 52:03So from a family standpoint for me, Jesus Christ is my leader,
- 52:08right? And so the inherent word of God
- 52:11is what we follow. And so he leads us and then we
- 52:15lead and so we follow him and, and the rule everything he's
- 52:19laid out for us, his way of living, right.
- 52:22And so, you know, that's surrendering, that's giving,
- 52:26that's loving, that's kindness, gentleness, fruits of the
- 52:28Spirit, right? And so, and by the way, I don't
- 52:31do that perfect every day. Of course you don't know.
- 52:34You're a human being, yeah. So I'm nowhere near perfect, but
- 52:37I do work at it every day, right?
- 52:39That's, you know, and so that it's definitely a focus for me.
- 52:42And so there I lead from a place of humility.
- 52:48I would also say I lead from a place of humility in our
- 52:50organization too. I don't have to have all the
- 52:53answers because I don't. And I don't need to know
- 52:56everything because I don't. And I want to empower my people
- 53:01because they do, right? And so for me, it's going in
- 53:05eyes wide open and saying, hey, I know who I am and I know where
- 53:11I'm at. And I know what's mine to keep.
- 53:14And I know what is mine to give away.
- 53:16And so, you know, as we, you know, some, I don't have an
- 53:20issue with control. I don't need to control anything
- 53:23me either. And so it's easy to let go, and
- 53:26I would prefer to let go. Why?
- 53:28Because it gives somebody else so much excitement.
- 53:30You know, my marketing director, I don't even know what they're
- 53:32creating today. You know, it's great because he
- 53:36does awesome work. And I trust him.
- 53:38And he knows what our vision is, right?
- 53:40And so I know that he's only going to make it better.
- 53:43And he hears what we have to say.
- 53:45And then it's like tenfold better than what we said, right?
- 53:48And how it looks and what it does and how it feels because
- 53:51that's his gift, you know? And so we really want, for me as
- 53:55a leader in an organ organization is to put people in
- 53:58their gift set so they can thrive and be successful there,
- 54:02you know, into their calling and be intrinsically motivated with
- 54:05their work and how that attaches to the organizational.
- 54:08Why at home, it's my job to help my kids see their gift and help
- 54:13them find it and thrive in it, not not live, you know,
- 54:17vicariously through them, hoping that they're going to be this
- 54:19incredible Major League Baseball athlete, which I'm not.
- 54:22But I wanted to be at one point in my life, you know, and I
- 54:26would go to the park every day, taking swings forever trying to
- 54:30hit the ball, you know, and I hit it, all the things.
- 54:33But I never made it to the majors.
- 54:35But it's more of like looking at each kid and saying and helping
- 54:38guide them to where they need to go and also being accountable
- 54:44to, you know, for how they show up, who they're becoming, who
- 54:48they're going up to be. And I think as a dad, I have 4
- 54:51girls and one son. So for my daughters, it's really
- 54:55important for them to see the man that I want them to marry,
- 55:01right? Because otherwise they're going
- 55:04to marry somebody that isn't going to be great.
- 55:07And not that I'm saying that I am great, but if I'm not the
- 55:09example of what feels safe and what feels good, Mm hmm.
- 55:14They're going to navigate to something else.
- 55:16I think about that too, you know, all the time.
- 55:17An so it's like, that's that. And then my son, it's like, hey,
- 55:22this is what it is to grow up to be a man of God, right?
- 55:24And this is what it looks like. And so I demonstrate that to,
- 55:28you know, and how I demonstrate that is 1.
- 55:31All my kids witness how I love my wife, right?
- 55:34And so they see that love. And so therefore like, oh,
- 55:38that's what that looks like, you know, because I didn't have that
- 55:41growing up. I didn't know what that looks
- 55:43like. And so I'm like, and I had to
- 55:45learn it at 40. You know, I'm figuring this
- 55:49whole thing out, right? You know, a little late, but
- 55:52nevertheless, we got there in it.
- 55:56Well nowadays I don't know people get married and have kids
- 55:58later. Like 30s and 40s are very common
- 56:00nowadays. That's true.
- 56:02That's true. You.
- 56:02Know people are trying to figure out their careers and their
- 56:04financial situations and everything else and I think the
- 56:07world's just in a little different place.
- 56:09But so if you're coming into a company, right, and the founder
- 56:12says you're sitting across from a CEO founder and they go, look,
- 56:15Eric, I got to admit at the business, I'm stuck as the
- 56:18bottleneck in the business. Like I would love to go on
- 56:21vacation. I'd love to walk away for a
- 56:23while. I'd love to work on something
- 56:24different or spend more time working out or do whatever it
- 56:27is, right? But I just feel like I'm
- 56:29constantly being pulled in the business.
- 56:31Where, where would you go first? What would be the first place or
- 56:34two that you would go to see what's going on here?
- 56:36Yeah. So the first thing is that I'd
- 56:38ask, I'd like to interview every one of your leaders for an hour.
- 56:43And I need him to take, I need him to do 2 things for me, you
- 56:48know? And he's like what I'm like, I
- 56:50just need to find out so I can help advise you, right?
- 56:53And so if I need to learn quickly so I can help you make
- 56:56decisions fast. So then you have the ability to
- 57:00figure out where and how we do this, right?
- 57:03You know, because, yeah, the bottleneck is built up and that
- 57:05you're you're in the operating system of the company and we
- 57:08need to get you out of that, right?
- 57:10And so I need to understand where your leaders are at today,
- 57:13how you've invested into them, what they have, what their
- 57:16willingness is. I also need to know where their
- 57:18vulnerability is AT. And so I would have every one of
- 57:22them take a vulnerability assessment for me.
- 57:25Reading through that, I can then I identify their strengths and
- 57:28weaknesses through, you know, just 10 guardrails, right?
- 57:33And so these guardrails would help me see like, OK, these are
- 57:37the opportunities. This is what they're carrying in
- 57:40their leadership style today. And so these are going to be
- 57:43some of the challenges. And then we would then come back
- 57:48to the leader and say, hey, this is what we found based on
- 57:51meeting your leaders. We need to do a culture survey.
- 57:54We have a survey that we do the inspired culture to see where
- 57:57your culture sits. And then we'll have some data
- 57:59points to operate in. And within 12 months, we can
- 58:04move you out of that operational role into the visionary that you
- 58:10are. That's what started your
- 58:12company. But it takes a minute because if
- 58:14you let go too quickly when your team's not used to it, they
- 58:18won't know how to function because, by the way, their
- 58:20plates are probably full too, right?
- 58:22And so I have no more capacity, which that's what they believe.
- 58:26So we have to help them see that.
- 58:29Let's talk about you have ATV show, Inspired culture podcast.
- 58:33Talk to me about that because I think that's really interesting.
- 58:36I don't talk to a lot of founders that have ATV show.
- 58:38Yeah. Well, I, I didn't think I would
- 58:40have one either. By the way, it wasn't my plan.
- 58:42Yeah. You know, it wasn't in our
- 58:43business plan either. So how did it come about?
- 58:46And we'll get into it. Yeah, yeah, it's so, so gosh, it
- 58:49was two years ago and you know, we got this award for being the
- 58:56top 80 executive coach in the world through Real Leaders
- 59:00magazine. And so we had this award come in
- 59:03and you know the and Kevin. How do you get an award like
- 59:06that? So that you get you go through a
- 59:09nomination process. OK, because some people are
- 59:11like, did you pay for the award? Yeah, there's OK.
- 59:13No, it's actually all done. So that's the cool thing about
- 59:16it. You don't pay for it.
- 59:18Yeah, they actually put you through a grading system, you
- 59:22know, and they and it goes through a panel of judges,
- 59:25right. So it's not even one person,
- 59:27it's a panel of other leaders evaluating you.
- 59:31And so it's not like the simple shoe in thing, just put it out
- 59:34there, you know. And so we won this award in 24
- 59:39and then we and we actually won top speaker award this year on
- 59:4325 and that came out, you know, through them.
- 59:46Same thing, we had to give a live presentation, like we had
- 59:50to go through and give our keynote speech and we did ours
- 59:53on burnout. And so anyways, I was trying to
- 59:57find this. They said, hey, it may end up in
- 1:00:00your spam, but you know the notification, I went to my spam
- 1:00:03e-mail and I'm like, who's this one guy?
- 1:00:07You know, I had like 18 emails from him and is the president of
- 1:00:13this TV network. And the president of this TV
- 1:00:16networks like, Hey, we really want you to come on to our show
- 1:00:22and have you as an on air contributor, you know, and I'm
- 1:00:26like, oh, that's interesting. And so I'm like, I don't know, I
- 1:00:29don't have time for this, you know, and, and I said, you know,
- 1:00:33so I said, you know, I wrote back.
- 1:00:35I said look, because I'm like, really?
- 1:00:38You know you? Also get a lot of emails like
- 1:00:40is. This really legit or really?
- 1:00:42Want or? Yeah, totally.
- 1:00:43You got to filter out the noise. Yeah, And that's so I thought it
- 1:00:45was a lot of noise. And so I said, look, you know, I
- 1:00:48wrote back to the president of the network TV network and I
- 1:00:51said, look, I can, I didn't really talk to you about this
- 1:00:54for 15 minutes, like because I, I just wasn't believing, you
- 1:00:57know, I'm like, OK, you know, and so, so we, you know, get on
- 1:01:02and, you know, and, and he's like, oh, yeah, I've gone
- 1:01:04through your website and I see you're an expert in what you do
- 1:01:07and when it comes to culture and these things.
- 1:01:08So we'd love to have you talk, you know, about it.
- 1:01:11I'm like, oh, that's great. I said, but you read my website
- 1:01:15this before I had a marketing director, by the way.
- 1:01:18I said I did my website. It's not that great.
- 1:01:21And so can I tell you what we do?
- 1:01:23Because the website's terrible, you know, but it's in the
- 1:01:26capacity of what I had to do, right?
- 1:01:29And so I share with them. And he's like, yeah, we don't
- 1:01:33want you on the show anymore. You know, we need you to have
- 1:01:36your own show. And I'm like my own show.
- 1:01:40And he's like, yeah, yeah, we want you to have your own show.
- 1:01:43You're going to be your own host.
- 1:01:44You're going to have your own TV show.
- 1:01:46And we're going to get you set up.
- 1:01:48We'll get you a studio. They said we're in Houston, so
- 1:01:51we need you to come fly to Houston to record all of your
- 1:01:54shows. I said, look, that's something I
- 1:01:56gave up. And he's like, what?
- 1:01:57I said flying. He's like, really?
- 1:01:59I said I was on 1500 planes in 19 years of work, and I said I'm
- 1:02:05not doing anymore. I've made that a commitment to
- 1:02:07myself, like I'm just not doing it.
- 1:02:10And I said, so I'm not, I'm not going to do it.
- 1:02:13He's like, all right, fine. I will find you a studio in
- 1:02:16Chicago so you can record your TV show there.
- 1:02:21And I'm like, OK, so that's how it started.
- 1:02:24Now, what's in it for them? Is it a part of their network?
- 1:02:26Do they make ad revenue? Like what's the?
- 1:02:28Yeah. So for them, we're part of their
- 1:02:30network. They're a Business Network,
- 1:02:33right? So they wanted business host to
- 1:02:35come on and talk about one of the five key areas that they
- 1:02:38focus on. Ours is culture.
- 1:02:40We fell into that, you know, health and Wellness of people on
- 1:02:43that side of it in corporate organizations.
- 1:02:46And so we fit their profile of what they were looking for on
- 1:02:50that side of it. And then on the other side, you
- 1:02:53know, there's there's other ways that they make money off of the
- 1:02:56show. Right.
- 1:02:57And where do you watch it? So it's on Now Media, the app,
- 1:03:02so you can stream through Apple and Roku and Now Media TV.
- 1:03:06But also we have it on our YouTube channel, The Inspired
- 1:03:10Culture. And is it you talking?
- 1:03:11Is it? I think I've seen some clips.
- 1:03:13Is it similar to a podcast or? Yeah, it's similar to what we're
- 1:03:16doing right here. So we we've taken our TV show
- 1:03:19and we've turned it into a podcast too.
- 1:03:21So it airs live on Sundays at 7:00.
- 1:03:24And then, you know, we, you know, we have the rights to all
- 1:03:27of what we do. It was part of the deal.
- 1:03:30Yeah. And so then we just turned it
- 1:03:31into our own podcast. Very cool.
- 1:03:33And is that your, when you talked about earlier selling
- 1:03:35without selling, is that part of the equation, bringing people
- 1:03:38in, have conversations around, you know, culture and leadership
- 1:03:41and that type of stuff and you're building relationships,
- 1:03:43connections and then that leads to, yeah, doing business.
- 1:03:45We've seen the same thing with this.
- 1:03:46I mean, it's incredible, yeah. It is it's an opportunity and
- 1:03:50and you know, I think it's, you know, it was a gift from God
- 1:03:53really, because he, you know, this is our mission is to change
- 1:03:57the world really. I mean, that's what we're after.
- 1:03:59It's big mission. It is.
- 1:04:00And so in corporate America, and so for us.
- 1:04:04Oh, is that the that's the the caveat or the the niche there
- 1:04:07change the world in corporate America, Yeah.
- 1:04:09Got it. Yeah, I mean, that's where for
- 1:04:11us, we have the experience and everybody goes there, right?
- 1:04:14Everybody's going to be in there at one point in their life.
- 1:04:16So it's the opportunity to touch everyone.
- 1:04:19But the other thing is, is like and where where all this came
- 1:04:23from is it was just he was giving us a platform to get the
- 1:04:26message out. So because it wasn't of my
- 1:04:29doing, it wasn't even in my scene, you know, in that or
- 1:04:32like, oh, we need to have this or we need to to have this.
- 1:04:34And it's just led by the Holy Spirit.
- 1:04:36Wow. I love it, man.
- 1:04:38The podcast and the shows and I think more and more we've talked
- 1:04:41about this on other shows, the more and more we get involved
- 1:04:45with AI and technology and virtual stuff and automation, I
- 1:04:49think the more and more we're going to crave the human
- 1:04:51connection and the in person stuff and the deep conversations
- 1:04:55where you have time to actually talk through stuff.
- 1:04:59It's I've been doing way more of this stuff than I have short
- 1:05:01form videos, which is a flip for me because my first few years
- 1:05:04were mostly short form videos and LinkedIn content, YouTube
- 1:05:07and things like that. Now it's it's, it's a lot more
- 1:05:10of this because I just enjoy it and I feel like it makes a
- 1:05:12difference and people can listen to this and really could change
- 1:05:15their life. Well, yeah, take.
- 1:05:17Something away here and go, wow, I'm thinking about that
- 1:05:20differently now. They got to go put in the action
- 1:05:21and then we do the work and continue to learn.
- 1:05:24But one, one episode can change people.
- 1:05:27I agree 100%. The Nuggets that you're pulling
- 1:05:31out, you know, through this conversation is pretty
- 1:05:33incredible. Yeah, Yeah.
- 1:05:35Well, Eric, I really enjoyed this conversation.
- 1:05:37I appreciate you sharing this. And I have, I definitely have
- 1:05:40some things to reflect on from a leadership standpoint, which is
- 1:05:43a good thing for me. Where can people find you,
- 1:05:45connect with you, learn more about what you guys are up to
- 1:05:47and what you do? Yeah, you can connect with us at
- 1:05:49www.yourpathinspired.com. That's our website.
- 1:05:53You can find a host of things there and Justice drop us a note
- 1:05:58there. You can e-mail me directly at
- 1:06:00erichimes24@yourpathinspired.com as well if you want to connect.
- 1:06:06Want to learn more? You know, we have, you know a
- 1:06:09free gift for everyone that will listen to this show if you guys
- 1:06:11want to take us up on it. So we have a couple ebooks
- 1:06:14available that we can give away. And also, if you want to go
- 1:06:19through an inspired culture survey of your organization,
- 1:06:22it's 16 questions and what I can tell you this, it'll take you 8
- 1:06:26minutes and every person in your company 8 minutes.
- 1:06:29And I said, and I'll let you know that the feedback you
- 1:06:32believe you're going to get isn't even close to what you do
- 1:06:35get. And so the gaps that we provide
- 1:06:37in the information back will give you the ability to see your
- 1:06:40company like in a way you've never seen it.
- 1:06:43You hear about all of these culture surveys and all of it.
- 1:06:46The questions are similar, the results are very different.
- 1:06:50Very cool. We'll link all that stuff up in
- 1:06:52the description. Thank you again for being on the
- 1:06:54show, Eric. Pleasure to have you.
- 1:06:55Yep. Thank you.
- 1:06:56Thanks.