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​​329: Finding Alignment & Living Life with Human Design · Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast

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  Welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, the show dedicated to
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  helping entrepreneurs use human design to shift from hustle to
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  flow without sacrificing results.
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  Come here to become an unshakeable human and build an unshakeable business
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  according to your human design.
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  I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
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  Hello and welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, everybody.
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  I'm your host, Nicole Laino, and we're here together today, I'm
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  going to share my own story today.
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  Sometimes I talk about my clients, what I'm hearing from them and this
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  is going to be one of those ones where I'm talking about my process.
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  And I'm talking about what I'm going on, what I have going on with human
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  design, with life, and how I use human design really to guide my life.
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  Because I think the most common question that I get asked, so after I do a reading
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  with somebody, or when I start to talk to somebody about their design, if I pull out
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  my friend's chart while we're at coffee, cause that absolutely happens when I meet
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  with my friends, is the charts come out and we start talking about design, is that
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  question of, well what do I do with this?
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  How do I work with it?
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  The answer is you're using this as a new way to navigate your life.
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  You're using the human design chart to know yourself better so you can ask better
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  questions of yourself when things are happening, how you can assess whether
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  things are working in your life or are not working in your life and not look
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  to the outside world for the answer as to what you should do about it.
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  To not get caught up in the expectations of others in trying to keep up with
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  other people, all of that stuff, to let that go, because that's conditioning
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  and to come back to your truth.
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  Now it takes work to understand your chart well enough to do
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  what I'm about to explain to you.
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  But I want to give you this illustration of how I navigate all
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  different things in my life, but certainly when things get tough.
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  And not that there's anything horrible happening in my life right now,
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  I've just been in sort of like, I don't know, a little bit of a rut.
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  I haven't felt terribly creative.
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  I'm in a funky kind of weird season.
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  And I wanted to talk to you about, explain to you how I use human design to kind of
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  navigate this and get out of that rut.
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  So maybe you can start to do the same thing.
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  So maybe you can start to understand how you use your design to find your
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  motivation, to surrender to moments when you need them because we start
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  asking these questions, right?
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  Okay.
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  I'm in a rut Okay, how do I get out of it?
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  That's not really the right question.
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  The right question or a better question would be what am I feeling right now?
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  Normally we go to seek the solution.
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  We go to seek how to fix the problem.
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  We are the problem.
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  Life is the problem.
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  What's happening?
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  So we look to the outside world and we say, what can I do to fix this?
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  That's not it.
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  It's to come back to yourself and assess, what am I actually feeling right now?
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  And if I know what I'm feeling, then maybe I can understand better
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  what the best course of action is.
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  Is it to take action, or is it no action?
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  Now if we're looking at solutions and if we're looking at books and Instagram
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  and programs and all of these pieces of advice that are out there right now.
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  If we look to those things, then what we're going to do is we're
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  going to get somebody telling us that we need to step into our feminine
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  and we just need to relax more.
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  And we need to let go and then some people will tell you, you need to buckle
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  down and you need to be consistent, you just need to power through.
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  Sometimes maybe.
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  That's why I think when we get into these black or white
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  scenarios, it's this or that.
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  I don't know if that necessarily works.
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  We have to come back to awareness of ourselves.
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  We have to come back to, well where am I right now?
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  That might help me better.
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  If I know where I am, then I can know how far off course
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  from where I want to be, am I?
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  How I get to where I want to go will be a much easier question
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  to answer if I know where I am.
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  But we don't even do that most of the time.
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  Most of the time we just start going like, Okay, how do I get out of this?
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  What do I do?
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  What do I do?
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  What do I do?
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  And we seek out advice and we seek out somebody else's system And then we end
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  up kind of in the same pattern where this happens over and over again and we don't
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  see progress, or we do and we burn out.
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  We don't want either of those things.
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  What we want is we want to expand ourselves So I'm gonna
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  kind of walk you through sort of what I've been experiencing.
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  So I haven't felt terribly creative lately and that's not a normal thing for me.
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  Normally I can find inspiration.
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  There's usually I have more ideas than I know what to do with.
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  I have a lot of energy and I just haven't felt like myself that way.
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  So I'm going to go do, like, I'm getting like a blood panel and
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  all this, make sure I'm not sick.
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  I do, I have a cold.
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  I do have like a bit of a cold that I've been getting over for like weeks.
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  But all of that being said there's just something where I just don't feel like
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  doing some things that I normally would.
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  And I haven't had the ideas that I normally have, and I
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  feel a little like dried up.
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  Ever feel that way?
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  You ever feel like, I don't know why, but I can't really get the creative
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  juices flowing and as an entrepreneur, if you're an entrepreneur listening to
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  this show or an aspiring entrepreneur or a healer or something like that.
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  What we do is largely creative.
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  This show is creative for me.
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  Every idea from this show comes from me.
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  Unless I have a guest on, which we don't have too many of those anymore.
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  A lot of these shows are me.
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  I do two shows a week.
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  And it's my creative energy that fuels it.
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  So when I don't have it, this show becomes harder for me to produce
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  because I want it to be really good.
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  I want them to be really full of value for you guys.
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  I never want to just be, I threw this together.
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  I don't do that.
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  But I do have to keep to a schedule.
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  So there's always that and then there's content for Instagram and stuff like that.
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  There's all of this stuff that we create, right?
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  Even with repurposing from the show, there's sometimes I want to
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  do different things on Instagram or I want to do different things in my
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  emails or in other content and that takes up my creative energy largely.
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  So I want to talk to you about the way that I've navigated this.
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  And the way that I'm always sort of assessing things.
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  So when I get this problem, I'm creatively stifled.
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  I just don't feel like I have the juice.
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  I don't feel like I have the ideas.
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  I don't know what's going on.
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  The first thing I do is notice just in my body what am I feeling.
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  What am I feeling?
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  And usually, I'm a manifesting generator.
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  This time, I'm going to talk about specifically about this
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  moment that we're in right now.
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  I just sort of felt like really meh, like unmotivated.
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  Not really, my energy did not want to go anywhere.
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  So I listened to that.
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  There were times where I felt like I'm really tired.
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  So I listened to my body and I rested and I rested with whatever
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  time that I had and I had some calls and I had my calendar kind of full.
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  So I didn't have time to do that necessarily as much as I would
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  have liked to and I think that ran me down a little bit more.
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  But as soon as I had some time, I gave myself permission
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  to do what felt right for me.
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  I took a nap.
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  I rested.
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  I just sort of like allowed that feeling to be there.
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  Because to me, I know that if I feel meh, and my energy doesn't want to go anywhere,
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  but I'm not necessarily what you'd call frustrated, the only thing that made me
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  frustrated was when I thought about the work that needed to get done that I wasn't
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  getting done, now I feel frustrated.
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  That's not the same thing as like, okay, well, now I have
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  to stop doing what I'm doing.
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  I have to stop thinking about all the things I have to do.
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  If I allowed that to drop and I could be aware of that and say, well, if I don't
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  think about that, am I so frustrated?
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  No, I just feel like I don't have much energy.
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  Okay, well, maybe my battery's drained.
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  Maybe I haven't fully recharged.
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  Maybe I've been pushing a little bit and maybe running the battery
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  down, because that's what happens to generators when we do things that are
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  not necessarily a full yes for us.
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  We can drain the battery that is supposed to be sustainable, that
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  is supposed to be making more energy for the things that we do.
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  When the sacral says yes, it'll make more energy.
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  That's when we don't feel tired, that's when we feel like energizer bunnies.
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  I do not feel like one at the moment.
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  I said- that's not happening, so maybe I've drained the battery a little bit.
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  So maybe I need to recharge it.
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  And as soon as I laid down, my body kind of relaxed and it felt right.
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  And then I allowed myself to sleep as much as I needed to sleep and
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  then I woke up and I felt recharged.
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  But I still didn't really want to do any of the work that I had to do.
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  So the next thing that I do, and I've done this over the course
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  of a few days, I'm going to kind of like mix some of these moments
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  together to give you a full picture.
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  But what I'm looking for is satisfaction.
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  That's my signature.
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  I'm not gonna necessarily, we could get caught up in response.
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  What am I responding to?
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  But really what I'm doing is I walk through my day noticing,
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  am I satisfied right now?
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  Because sometimes I am.
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  Sometimes it's very simple satisfaction of just taking care of the laundry and
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  then I just want to sit down and not do a whole lot and I need to take that moment.
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  In order for me to have energy for the next moment where I do need to get the
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  work done, where my battery, my engine can kick on and help me get through the
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  projects that I need to get through.
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  Now, the other thing is, is that I'm an emotional authority.
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  My emotional wave can take me down.
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  My emotional wave, it doesn't often dip super low, because if you've listened to
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  my episodes on emotional authority, the emotional wave for those of you who aren't
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  familiar with this, emotional authorities, we have emotions happening all the
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  time, and they're happening on a cycle.
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  Like a wave.
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  So there's a pattern to them.
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  Like if you saw a graph going up and down, you would see that
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  for our emotions go up and down.
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  And there's different patterns based on the channels that you
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  have connecting to your sacral.
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  So if you're an emotional authority and you have the 37/40 channel.
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  Then you will have the tribal emotional wave.
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  So that has a particular ratcheting up pattern.
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  Okay?
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  So it tells us a little bit about how it moves, the pattern that it moves through.
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  So we're always moving on this pattern.
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  We are always going through it.
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  But what I always say is that you'll never change the pattern.
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  You're always going to move on that wave pattern that you're on.
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  The analogy that I give is it's like music notes.
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  The melody of your song, of your emotional wave always stays the same, but you
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  can sing it in a higher or a lower key.
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  So what I mean by that is as we do deconditioning work, as we work with our
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  emotions, as we become more at home with our emotions and allow them, we start
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  to sing in a higher key where that low point of our wave doesn't dip as low.
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  That's me now.
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  My emotional wave doesn't typically take me down the way that it used to.
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  But it does not mean that I do not have moments of that, because I do.
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  So I have to assess myself and say, do I feel emotional right now?
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  And the answer was yes for me the other day, I was like, yes, I do feel emotional.
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  And how I knew that I was just like, I'm crying at like, everything I
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  had, like on the verge of tears.
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  But the answer is to let them happen whenever they can.
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  So I'm allowing myself to cry at little videos of Wicked.
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  And I'm talking about the story of these, of like, Ariana Grande being 10
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  years old and going to see Wicked, and meeting Kristen Chenoweth and telling
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  her that she wanted to play Glee.
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  I'm crying in my bathroom about this.
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  So it's not all bad emotion.
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  It's I'm just like, this is so wonderful.
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  I can't believe she's getting to do this.
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  I'm, in that place and I'm allowing that to happen.
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  That's important too.
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  So I have to make allowances for these things.
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  What we might say is I don't have time to be emotional right now.
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  We have to make time or it will take up all of our time.
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  I'm aware of how I feel.
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  I'm aware of whether I'm in my signature or in my not self theme.
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  Am I in frustration or am I in satisfaction?
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  And I'm looking for the satisfaction.
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  I'm looking for moments of satisfaction.
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  So when my husband says that we need something from the store,
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  and I think about going outside.
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  I look at him and I'm like, Oh, I got a yes from that.
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  I want to go to the store.
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  I'll go get it.
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  And he's like, no, no, no, I'll go get it.
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  No, I would like to go.
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  And I got outside and it was a beautiful day.
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  And I rolled the windows down and I opened up the moonroof
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  and I just allowed the wind in.
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  And it was a satisfying moment.
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  Now my battery's starting to go a bit more.
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  Now, I am open.
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  I am open and I start to have ideas start to pop in my head about what I could do.
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  About what I could do for the projects that I have going on.
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  About for this show.
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  I remembered I actually had an episode for this show.
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  It made me feel even more satisfied.
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  I was like, oh wait, I actually have one recorded that I can use.
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  That's amazing.
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  And so, I'm working with my energy rather than against it.
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  Now, when I say that I'm noticing frustration or satisfaction and
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  I'm looking for satisfaction, that does not mean there's a difference.
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  Because I see a lot of people do this.
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  They start to, whether it's invitations or satisfaction that they're looking
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  for, they're looking for success.
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  If you're a projector, you're looking for peace.
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  If you're a manifester, surprise.
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  If you're a reflector, all of these signatures that we
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  have, no matter what it is.
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  What can happen is people can go frantically searching for those things.
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  Was that a response?
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  Is that satisfaction?
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  Is that this?
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  I guarantee you it's not that if you're in that energy.
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  You have to let go.
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  I want to be clear here that the way that I'm going through this is very relaxed.
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  Very much allowing whatever is to be.
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  I am just being very curious about the way that I feel, what I feel, and
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  whether I'm in these themes or not.
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  And I happen to notice, I happen to know all of my gates.
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  So I know very nuanced aspects of my design.
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  I happen to know that I have the first gate in a first
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  line in my Uranus position.
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  So, I happen to know that is the gate of creativity and in the first line, it
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  is about really waiting for the moment creativity wants to come and not forcing
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  it and forcing it only makes it worse.
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  So the fact that I know that about myself helps me to surrender.
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  To the fact that I can't force creativity, especially not me, because I will go into
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  that shadow where it becomes complete.
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  I believe the shadow of Gate One in the Gene Keys is entropy.
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  You're not moving.
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  You can't create anything and I know this because I spent a lot of my life in that
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  shadow before I knew about this work.
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  Now to know that if I try to force, I end up pushing myself
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  down more and making it harder.
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  That allows me to surrender to what is.
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  So that allows me to feel very comfortable in this process and trust that the
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  idea will come through, the thing will come through, but I gotta let it go.
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  I've gotta find some real satisfaction.
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  That's my job.
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  My job isn't to engineer it.
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  My job is to allow it.
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  And I do know, I do happen to know that sitting in my house.
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  Being by myself, not interacting with the world, that's not usually
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  where, doing that for too long.
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  If I'm caught up on Zoom calls and at my desk, just stuck here working a lot
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  and not having some space for myself, I know that that will put me in a rut.
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  And I definitely, we came off of a launch where I was home a lot more and
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  doing a lot more of that kind of stuff.
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  But we did have some fun on the weekends and things like that.
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  But I'm tired and I have to honor that and the best way to honor
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  it is to be gentle with myself.
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  But the other things that I start to notice are, I can't
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  half heartedly commit to things.
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  I was sort of half heartedly doing the work.
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  If I half heartedly do my work, that's the shadow of my Gate 29.
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  If I half heartedly do my work and I'm not really committed, I know that
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  that never results in something good.
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  There are some projects I want to start and I know I'm not in
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  the energy to start it right now.
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  I don't want this to be the beginning for that thing yet.
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  I'm not there yet.
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  So what human design allows us to do is it tells us, people will say
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  that awareness is the most important skill that we can learn, the most
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  important thing for us to adopt.
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  I'm not there yet.
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  But it can be difficult to try to be aware of everything.
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  What human design has given me is a system for awareness.
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  It has allowed me to pinpoint certain things that are
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  important for me to be aware of.
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  So I could ask better questions of myself.
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  So I could ask myself about my emotions.
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  Is this a circumstantial emotion?
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  Did something happen that's making me sad or emotional right now?
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  Or am I just at a point in my wave where I'm very sensitive?
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  And if I'm very sensitive, is this something that I
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  just need to kind of allow?
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  Do I watch the wicked clips and allow myself to be overwhelmed with emotion
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  by them and allow the tears to flow?
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  And redo my makeup if I have to, I'm aware of that aspect of myself,
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  that that's an important key for me and if I fight that, I will lose.
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  I will either lose in the short term or the long term.
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  I might get through it in that moment where I'll get the thing I need to done,
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  but it will come back to bite me at some point, and it will take me down where
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  it's almost like, I look at that where it's like I may have gained one step today
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  because I pushed through, but what I lose is, by doing that, I will then have to
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  take two to three steps back later on.
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  It will come back to me, and usually it will take more than I got.
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  So I'm usually net down when I do that.
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  But I know to be aware of where my energy wants to go, am I frustrated?
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  So I know what my themes are, so I know what to look out for.
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  Because we'd say, well, if you don't feel good, that's such a
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  vague way of looking at how we feel.
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  Well, do you feel sick?
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  Do you feel frustrated?
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  Do you feel satisfied?
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  Do you feel, how do you feel?
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  There are certain questions we can ask ourselves by knowing
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  our type, our authority, and the other aspects of our design.
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  For me, this has been largely around creativity.
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  So creativity for me, I know that I have a gate that aligns with
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  creativity that is sort of one of the key elements of my creative force.
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  And I know how it operates.
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  And I know how the shadow operates.
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  So the fact that I've done that work allows me to see it differently
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  and know how to work with it.
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  So there's study involved.
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  So back to that question that we opened up with, how do I use human design?
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  What do I do with this information?
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  Well, you're learning the codes of you.
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  My creative code is that I have to honor the creative process and flow, that I
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  cannot force it, that there are certain ways I've learned to work with it.
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  Now this time I had some other things going on.
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  I felt like my body was a little bit run down.
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  So I rested.
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  That was what I chose to do and it worked.
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  it really opened me up.
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  I felt my body change and now I felt more open to allow creativity to come through.
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  But in other instances, I've worked with that gate differently, where I engage
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  with something simple and creative, not where I need to produce anything.
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  I might just draw on a napkin for a little bit and just allow that to come out.
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  I might write in a journal just the words that flow out of the
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  pen and allow that to happen.
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  I open the channel but without having to produce something.
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  Okay, so now I'm learning to work with that.
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  So we have these different aspects of our design, and it clues us in to how to
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  work with different aspects of ourselves.
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  That's how you start to work with human design.
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  You start to study yourself.
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  You're studying the codes of you.
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  You are learning to recode your life by understanding how to move
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  with your shadows and your gifts.
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  What they feel like by knowing what the shadow of my gate 1
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  is, well, I know how to spot it.
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  I know how to see it.
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  I know how to move with it.
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  I know how to not get trapped in it.
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  That comes from me understanding myself.
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  So this is how you work with your design and you start to use it in your life.
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  This is also the same work that you do, it's just deepened on another level
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  when you start to work with your gifts.
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  When you start to do things like what I do with Genius Brand, where
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  we're putting your brand together based on the gifts that you have.
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  You start embodying your gifts, you start to become them.
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  When you start to become them, you start to just put them out
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  in the world very naturally.
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  People start to come to you for them, and it becomes your brand and your business.
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  So this is, it's all the same work.
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  You're just using them for different applications.
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  I hope that this helps you.
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  I just wanted to kind of illustrate this point and how this works.
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  That it's just a new way to navigate life.
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  It's a new way to understand yourself.
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  It's a new way to assess what's happening with you and what the
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  next moves you should take are.
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  And it comes from an empowered place.
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  I didn't once look to the outside world to try to save me from this situation.
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  I didn't reach out to anyone.
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  I didn't want any input.
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  It all came from me and that's powerful.
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  Because that's how I'm able to be calm in this process.
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  And not be like, oh my god, well what's gonna happen?
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  Or am I gonna get this done?
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  Or is this gonna be ready?
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  Or I don't get into that state and the reason I don't get into that
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  state is I know that if I work with my energy, it will all work out.
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  And that's an incredibly powerful position to be in.
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  And it allows me to have a calm and regulated nervous system.
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  Most of the time, I'm not going to say all of the time, but I know what
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  to do and I have tools that I can use if I do end up in a state of panic or
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  anxiety, I know how to work with it.
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  I also do these things regularly.
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  I don't just pull out the tools when I need them.
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  I do them regularly.
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  I meditate every morning.
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  I do breath work every morning.
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  So I am starting the day with a clean slate or pretty close to it.
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  And that's where every entrepreneur really needs to get to.
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  Is to the point where you know yourself so well that you can navigate any
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  situation with ease in your body.
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  I'm not saying that everything is easy, but you navigate it with ease
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  because you're like, I got this.
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  I have life.
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  I've got life.
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  There's nothing that's gonna take me down.
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  So I can have calm in my body about that.
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  I'm not gonna have anxiety in my body about that.
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  And then we can seek out help for strategies for other things, but you
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  do need to learn to lead yourself.
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  Before that really starts to be an enjoyable process of adding
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  strategy and other things onto it.
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  And starting to up level your life in other ways.
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  We are the foundation.
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  Shaky person, shaky business.
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  That's why I always say, at the end of the show we have that
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  tagline, I really do mean it.
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  In order to have an unshakable business, you must first become an unshakable human.
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  This is how you get to climb that ladder and you get to build this business
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  and you get to climb the mountain and really feel satisfied and you achieved
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  what you set out to achieve, like your dreams came true when you reach the top
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  of the mountain because it feels good.
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  It's everything that you wanted it to be because you were you the
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  whole time you were climbing it.
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  You weren't somebody else's dreams and somebody else's ambition
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  and somebody else's goals.
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  You were you and there's no greater gift in this world than to be yourself.
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  Okay?
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  So I'm going to leave that here.
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  I hope this was helpful.
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  I hope you enjoyed this episode.
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  I hope this illustrated how you can use human design to navigate your life
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  better and to be the unshakable business owner that I know that you can be.
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  Now remember, in order to have an unshakable business, you must
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  first become an unshakable human.
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  So thanks for letting us help you become unshakable with human design, everyone.
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  We will see you next time.
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  If you love this episode and you're a fan of the show, please show
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• 24:40
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• 24:42
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  design journey, join our free Facebook community, Human Design for Entrepreneurs.
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• 24:54
  design reading with me, or access our free human design resources.
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  We'll see you there.