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- 0:43How do you get from make-a-wish to the University of Maine Alumni Association?
- 0:47Well, I had a stop in between the Chamber of Commerce Chamber of Commerce Cindy. Yeah, so but yes
- 0:5118 years as executive director of make-a-wish, Maine just a phenomenal experience to lead that organization
- 0:58My entire career path has been in the nonprofit world so I started way back
- 1:04Right out of you Maine
- 1:06went to the work for the Boy Scout Council of Portland and was there for seven years and then a couple years in Vermont with
- 1:13Scouting there and then my wife and I lived in Vermont long enough to realize that we really love Maine and want to come home
- 1:19so
- 1:20Literally looking in the main Sunday telegram that we would get in the mail on Wednesdays in Vermont
- 1:28Yes history by yes, right
- 1:33So and saw this little ad for executive director of make-a-wish, Maine in
- 1:391997 and
- 1:40Applied and funny enough. They hired me. So we moved back home sidebar Dan Cashman. Yes, sir
- 1:46How many guests have we had on our program?
- 1:48They went away. Mm-hmm, but something drew them back to Maine several
- 1:53How many hosts have we had that have done that right several? Mm-hmm hundred percent
- 1:58What about the nonprofit world appealed to you throughout all of the rules? I've had the
- 2:05Consistent thread is that it's a relationship business, right? It's all about
- 2:10Engaging people right? So that's really what lights my fire I guess and keeps me
- 2:16Doing these kinds of things is to see the whatever the mission might be
- 2:21I guess first and foremost you have to have it inside that it's something that's important to you
- 2:26And I've been fortunate to be able to find rules like that
- 2:29that are important to me including the the current one but to be able to light that spark and other people and see them get
- 2:35Excited about it and get engaged and rally around whatever the mission might be that you're working on is very rewarding
- 2:41It takes a lot of energy to maintain that spark rate
- 2:44Spark rate because you got to find someone you've got to ignite them while you remain
- 2:48Ignited right right of the three gigs that we've talked about so far. We've just mentioned them
- 2:53We'll dig into each one make a wish. Yep Chamber of Commerce and the University of Maine Alumni Association
- 2:57Which one do you think is the easiest to ignite the people to which you reach?
- 3:04I think pretty clearly it was make a wish, you know, that's
- 3:07You just say make a wish to anyone and you immediately get Oh
- 3:14That is so nice, right?
- 3:16So yeah, and you don't have to explain the mission people get it and they're pretty much
- 3:21universally a fan so that was very rewarding to see and
- 3:26Relatively easy to rally people around I know this is probably like asking you to pick your favorite child
- 3:31But I have a wish in particular that you were particularly proud of helping make for someone. Oh boy
- 3:36So many I mean I was fortunate to lead the organization for 18 years
- 3:41So there was over a thousand wishes granted during that time in Maine, which is pretty incredible to think about
- 3:46But the first one I did I remember little guy
- 3:49I think her name is Morgan down in southern Maine and she wanted a purple hot tub and they don't often come in purple
- 3:55We found
- 3:57But shouldn't just trying to paint those. No
- 4:00So, but we did find one and so that was that was one that that stuck with me for sure
- 4:06Do you recall how old Morgan was? She was a
- 4:08Maybe seven or eight by the time you hit 13 or 14 the other color preferences change
- 4:16Do you
- 4:17Keep in touch with any of the families that you help connect with wishes
- 4:20I see them from time to time
- 4:22But I don't you know
- 4:24I'm some that I've seen again through my experience at UMaine to that
- 4:28We had one make-a-wish child in particular who was a student now that when I was here just graduated a year or two ago
- 4:36So so that joy joy came back to you. Yes. Yeah to see them again in a different capacity was really pretty rewarding
- 4:43So you went from make-a-wish to the Chamber of Commerce? That's right in which communities Camden Rockland can be done. Yes
- 4:50Yeah, Knox County. I know that doing make-a-wish your heart is raised. It's like the Grinch, right?
- 4:56You grow three sizes sure and then you go and you deal with the business community, right?
- 5:00And your heart doesn't always grow three sizes, right? Was that a bit of an emotional level set for you?
- 5:05Yes, but I think you know
- 5:07We really did a lot of work around building community
- 5:10And I think that that was really rewarding Rockland is a place that my family and I live for 26 years
- 5:16We raised our kids there all our kids, you know went to school and at Oceanside High School in Rockland
- 5:22And so that really is home for us I would say but Mariners the Mariners. Yes
- 5:28Yes
- 5:28So being able to be a part of something that really was building the community in our region was was very rewarding
- 5:35Sometimes we think the Chamber of Commerce will yes
- 5:38There is a lot of business advocacy and you go to bat for them within the community and to Augusta
- 5:44Maybe sometimes Washington more like Augusta, right?
- 5:47But there was more community building here and that helped to fill that internal mission
- 5:51You have a sparking joy and keeping flames going
- 5:53well
- 5:54I think seeing things like a really good business after hours come together and you have a
- 5:59Bunch of people show up and the connections are made and seeing people that hadn't met before
- 6:04Walk out having exchanged business cards and plans to follow up after it's like, okay
- 6:08We made a connection there for somebody we fulfilled the mission, right?
- 6:12I think also during that period that I was there was during kovat
- 6:16And so I and I think people like Deb Newman and others in the chamber world
- 6:21Would agree that I think chambers probably never felt so valuable as during that time when businesses were struggling so much
- 6:28To just figure out how to survive and we really played a pretty key role in getting people connected with
- 6:34State and federal resources that could literally save their small business
- 6:39So difficult time for sure, but also very rewarding and felt like it was doing something tangible
- 6:45Or for the business community during that tough time
- 6:48I can definitely see how the joy can connect in both roles
- 6:51But I do think just sitting here and hearing you talking about it and knowing what I know of both organizations
- 6:56I feel like that make-a-wish must have had a more of an emotional connection
- 7:00Oh, but did you did you miss that as you moved on or was it something that maybe got a little bit less?
- 7:06Emotionally exhausting because emotions can make people exhausted even though they feel great. Sure
- 7:11No, I think you know, I was there for 18 years and so
- 7:16Not always on the front lines, you know, we had other staff and volunteers clearly that made it come to life
- 7:21But I get to know plenty of make-a-wish families
- 7:24And so yeah, I think I still have a very soft spot in my heart for make-a-wish
- 7:28But I think you get to a point where like well after 18 years
- 7:32They've kind of had all my good ideas and maybe it's time for somebody else to have a turn here to yeah
- 7:37Take the organization to a new level. I definitely missed it and still do miss it
- 7:42but I think
- 7:4318 years is a pretty good run
- 7:45Anywhere and it has been very rewarding to see the organization continue to flourish and grow under new leadership
- 7:5218 with make-a-wish and then to the chamber
- 7:54How many years of the chain seven years of the seven years of the channel you have a short but very sturdy resume
- 7:59That's right. Okay, and then was it from the chamber to the alumni to the Alumni Association?
- 8:06Now tell us about that draw did they send bananas the bear to your house and knock on the door and that would have been
- 8:10Great, that would have been great. That would be now that would be the way to recruit faculty and staff
- 8:15You would think somebody get president Joan for any money on the phone. That's an idea right there, right?
- 8:20If you say no, this bear is gonna Molly and how do you say no to bananas, right?
- 8:25You just can't don't say no what was interesting. I'm I wasn't looking for a new job, you know
- 8:31I'm in the main Sunday telegram. I did not see it in the main Sunday telegram that time
- 8:34No
- 8:35but I did see it come across my desk at the Chamber of Commerce because we would often get job postings through the chamber that
- 8:41They would ask us to share out with members and that kind of thing. And so it just caught my eye
- 8:47Well, this is interesting. I'm a humane alum. My wife's a humane alum. My kids go to humane
- 8:52How many three boys all black bear alumni now?
- 8:55So and the most recent being this just in May this year and he was a senior in high school at the time
- 9:01So, you know if that had come through a year before and my son was entering his senior year of high school
- 9:07I probably wouldn't have given in a second thought but it was kind of one of those moments in life where
- 9:13If we were ever gonna make a change
- 9:15this would be kind of a good time in life to do it because we're about to be empty nesters and so
- 9:20chatted with my wife and
- 9:22Decided what the heck let's just send the resume in and see what happens and here I am. So
- 9:28So anyway, it just kept
- 9:32progressing and we had a couple of gut-check moments about are we really gonna pursue this and and but I'm very glad I did
- 9:39Step back. Was there a gut-check moment when you went from make-a-wish to the chamber? Oh for sure
- 9:45I would say walking away from something that's been very good to you for 18 years is a big deal, right? So
- 9:51That was hard because I love the organization, but also during my 18 years
- 9:56there was a transition from having the state headquarters or make-a-wish be in Camden where the main chapter started to
- 10:03Under my leadership we moved the
- 10:05headquarters over time to Portland me to be closer to Maine Medical Center
- 10:09Which is the biggest referral source for children and of course, you know fundraising opportunities in Southern Maine as well
- 10:15So but I did not move to Portland
- 10:18I stayed living in Rockland and was able to work from home a little bit and commute to Rockland
- 10:22So the move to the chamber was also being able to have an office two miles from my house rather than 90 miles from my house
- 10:30So that was part of the decision there
- 10:32But still not an easy choice to leave when the job posting came across your desk at the chamber
- 10:38You're sitting there. You see it come through right? What was your first thought?
- 10:41Did you immediately say gosh, this sounds like something I would like or did it take some simmering within your brain before you got there?
- 10:48No, I'm pretty sure I went home that night and mentioned it to my wife, you know, just as
- 10:54Boy, this caught my eye. What do you think? Let's talk about it. And I mean, I didn't apply right away
- 10:59I think I gave it a week or two
- 11:01But we kept kind of noodling on it and thinking about it and just kind of as I said got to that point about well
- 11:06What the heck let's see what happens who warmed up first mama bear or Papa bear. I would say I did. Yeah
- 11:12Yeah, so and what about the baby bears? Yeah, I don't know that they were in the loop of the discussion at that point
- 11:19By the way, you mean you have a when you have a group of bears. Yeah, what is a group at it?
- 11:23Like it's an army of frogs. So I think it's a colony of ants, you know
- 11:29But you know a group of bears is I don't you probably I
- 11:33Do I had to look it up because I remember what it was
- 11:36They're actually two actual names for it is in some countries. It's called a sleuth. Hmm and some countries. It's called a sloth
- 11:43No, you are not a lazy individual. We're going to go with we're going
- 11:49I'm down with that is the family was an indeed a family you've hinted at it
- 11:54How much of a family decision was it to yeah?
- 11:55Well, we looped our sons in you know
- 11:59When the offer came basically as I recall and I think we really felt like well
- 12:04Let's let's not get everybody all wound up about this until there's a reason to be wound up about it
- 12:09So we did discuss it with everybody and kind of you know
- 12:13Had the broadened that gut check moment discussion because I think the biggest factor for our family was that you know
- 12:20Rocklin was home for 26 years and this would mean leaving right?
- 12:24so but I think we all recognized that it was a great opportunity and something that I was excited about and so
- 12:31Decided that it was the right time to pursue it and it's worked out very well
- 12:34The three boys that are now graduates have they stayed around here have they gone on to other places?
- 12:39Yeah
- 12:40My oldest son's act lives in New York City
- 12:42In this employment recruiting field and doing very well for himself
- 12:45And then our two younger sons are local ones work in the medical field in Bangor
- 12:51And then our youngest son just graduated and is home with us for the summer and in contemplating his next move
- 12:57So will Zach be going to see the Cornell game at Madison Square? I think so. Yes. Yes indeed. So as well, I yeah
- 13:07Hopefully you too, right we'll see. Yeah, it'll be great
- 13:10I wonder if when the time came to go from Rockland to your new gig at the University main Alumni Association
- 13:17You said to the three boys look mom went to you main
- 13:20I went to you mean you're gonna go to you main anyway, so you might as well just pack your bags
- 13:24We're headed to or not
- 13:26Well, our youngest son had already committed to you mean before I accepted the role actually
- 13:31So it was kind of a done deal at that point
- 13:34Was he worried this would be like the back-to-school movie with Rodney Dangerfield would show up and you're doing the triple
- 13:39Lindy in the pool. Well, you know, it's marine biology
- 13:44Remember from the movie, right
- 13:46That actually was part of the discussion and frankly a concern of mine is I didn't want to sort of spoil my son's you mean
- 13:54college experience by having dad hanging around and
- 13:58It worked
- 13:59Terrifically as as you both know Buchanan Alumni House is not exactly at the center of campus
- 14:05And so it's closer to Pat's and yes closer to Pat's so but my it was very rare that my kids tripped over me on
- 14:13Campus honestly, but they could come see me and my middle son was a student at the time, too
- 14:19So I'm pleased to say that they did often come see me, which is great sometimes looking for cash, but you know
- 14:27When you meet your spouse at the University of Maine and you fall in love and eventually get hitched
- 14:32You're known as a bear pair, correct? So I want to argue and mrs. Officially a bear pair. Well, yes, however, let me
- 14:39Restore easier for you a little bit. So we're we are four years apart in age
- 14:44So we did not attend the University together
- 14:46I only met after we both graduated but we are indeed a bear pair
- 14:50Even though we didn't attend at the same time. So you were one of those show-offs that got through college in four years. Yes
- 14:57Four years plus a May term. I've never actually met one of those people. Yeah, very exciting
- 15:01I don't think there are May terms anymore, but I have to say that was one of my most
- 15:06Fun experiences of being a UMaine student was the May term with the three-week course just a very different
- 15:12Feel to campus the weather was beautiful a lot less students there much shorter lines at the dining room. Yes, indeed
- 15:19Yes. Yeah, so so that was it was terrific. But yeah, I had my
- 15:23As you may know my dirty little secret is I'm a graduate of UMaine, but I didn't attend for four years
- 15:29I actually started at Syracuse University for two years. You were orange. I was an orange orange
- 15:34The new black right? No, well orange black. Yeah
- 15:39Well that good work
- 15:41But yeah, so I went to Syracuse for two years and then transferred home to UMaine. What was your major business management makes sense
- 15:46I'm wondering how your degree has helped you in your career leading the University of Maine Alumni Association
- 15:52Yeah, I think I mean that's the whole basis of my education at UMaine was around
- 15:59How do you you know, I'm running a small business basically as the Alumni Association
- 16:03So all of those pieces that I gathered from my education as a student at UMaine
- 16:09Throughout my nonprofit career have really greatly benefited not only just the classroom education
- 16:15But the you know ability to interact with people and be a good networker and you know
- 16:20All of that that goes into business education because that's an honest question for anyone that graduates
- 16:24I won't ask you down
- 16:25But I'll look at you and I will I'll lob the question up into the air
- 16:28Do you feel like you are using your degree that you earned?
- 16:33Uh, yeah, I do. Yeah, I was a communications major and now I work in public relations
- 16:38So I think in fact, I still have some of the textbooks upstairs
- 16:42I don't look at them that much anymore because you know computers have been invented since I graduated
- 16:48But but some of the basic principles are the same and yeah
- 16:50I definitely use use my degree and I think back to specific things that specific professors
- 16:56Told me over the years through that major for sure back to the emotional connection
- 17:01I can see a parallel to the emotional connection that alumni would have with the place
- 17:08they went to school and whether that's memories of the
- 17:11external places they would go whether it be Pats or
- 17:15governors or places around campus or specific memories on campus be it unsavory things that happened at the dorm or
- 17:23Specific classes that they either liked or hated in certain buildings. Do you find that that connection is
- 17:31strong on impact or do you have to sort of work through it a little bit with alumni to kind of
- 17:37Bring those thoughts back
- 17:38I think for those
- 17:39Attending an event for the first time and maybe since they graduated or in a long time
- 17:44You have to prime the pump a little bit
- 17:46But for those who have had an ongoing engagement, they can tell you exactly what those moments are and they love what?
- 17:53It's you brought to mind recently on our Alumni Association Facebook page
- 17:58We'll throw out a question of the week sometime and the more recent one was about what was your favorite class and the
- 18:05response we got was overwhelming about and with people having such fond memories of a particular faculty member that was
- 18:12Impactful to them and just you know, I mean we get
- 18:157,500 comments on that post about you know, I remember so-and-so in this class and so it was very
- 18:23Rewarding to see people light that spark for themselves about boy
- 18:27I remember that class this professor was tough or they taught me XYZ and you know
- 18:32So those kinds of things when you see that or you create an event where people that haven't seen each other a long time
- 18:39Reconnect with each other and then you see them in another event six months down the road
- 18:44Those are the moments that make me feel like we have fulfilled our mission right that we were doing what we're supposed to be doing
- 18:51By igniting that spark for people Rick. I'm gonna put you on the spot. Who is your astronomy professor at UMaine?
- 18:57You know Cummins Neil F Cummins. Yeah, I still have a game squirreled away somewhere
- 19:00Yeah, every cards and drawing and trying to recognize the constellations in the sky. Yeah
- 19:06I remember I was not doing well in astronomy Rick and I had barely met and I mentioned it and he goes
- 19:12Oh, you're taking it with dr. Neil F Cummins
- 19:14I
- 19:19Much like the business relationship that you mentioned just a moment ago
- 19:22Businesses made in relationships, you know, Dan, you know, Rick, you know, Elizabeth
- 19:26We know you Tom and similarly our education. It said that you don't actually remember dates. You remember moments. Sure
- 19:32All right. I don't remember my classes, but I remember the instructors sure Charles Beck Bernie Rossetti Bob Steele Neil F Cummins
- 19:41Yeah, I mean from the business school my from from my day which is our day Rick well no I'm older than you
- 19:48Yeah, so much. Yeah, so but you guys are closer to no. No, we're I'm class of 88. Oh, okay
- 19:55Yeah, so I'm an old man. I'm a class of 87. Yeah, so that makes me ancient right, right? Thanks
- 20:02I'm class of 2024. Yes, right. We hope after a major
- 20:06No, but Sheila Paczynski was a name from the business school and
- 20:12She was I think I still have the term paper that I did for her on the insurance industry somewhere in my stuff at home
- 20:20But just very challenging, but I learned a lot from that class, you know
- 20:25So give me a second to describe this
- 20:26I was once enjoying classic rock music at a work establishment and the younger kids behind me said hey
- 20:34How you doing living in the past yeah, and honestly, I was kind of offended by that
- 20:38You know, I tried not to show it right being a director of the University of Maine Alumni Association
- 20:43There is a bit of living in the past sure, but you don't want the alumni to feel old
- 20:50No, right. How do you do that? Well, that's I mean, I think part of it is to make them feel young again, right?
- 20:56So to remember those great times and to reconnect with those friendships in those
- 21:02Reasons why they love you Maine and why why they should love it today
- 21:06I guess that's the other thing is to not just have it be about the past but to be about this place
- 21:12That was so good to us. Look at what's going on today
- 21:16There's a whole new set of reasons beyond what you remember that we should be proud of our alma mater, right?
- 21:22So taking people from boy, we had fun at a party in
- 21:261993, you know in Andrew Scoggin to if you can remember the party and
- 21:31It wasn't really a party, right?
- 21:34Remember the next morning. All right, right. Not a good memory. Yes
- 21:37Yeah, how do you find that you can make those connections I know you you travel a lot you visit with alumni and other cities other
- 21:46States and there's a fair number of events that happen on campus
- 21:50Right there one that works better than another or is it all about community?
- 21:54It's all about community really at the bottom line
- 21:57but I mean we have some events that we do traditionally every year because we get great response our believe it or not our
- 22:06Largest off-campus event anywhere in the world is in Fort Myers, Florida
- 22:10We do a Red Sox spring training game every March. Well, that's it
- 22:14Yes, so we get 200 to 250 alumni together in March in Fort Myers every year
- 22:21and so that's a tremendous event and one that people look forward to and we we in fact do a whole series of events for
- 22:28A week in Florida because we have about 4,000 alumni that have at least a part-time home in Florida
- 22:33So great opportunity to connect with so we get 4,000 gathered down in Florida. I know when we have alumni weekend
- 22:39Yeah, how many black bears does that bring home?
- 22:42Oh, well, I mean we we have those that officially for homecoming officially register with us at the Alumni Association
- 22:48We had about 1,200 last year, but there are many more than that that come to campus
- 22:53They don't have to register with the Alumni Association to come to homecoming
- 22:57But if but really you should people if you are you aren't alumni you really should register
- 23:01If you want the t-shirt then you have to register with us. That's really what it comes down to
- 23:06Be a part of the sleuth that register with the Alumni Association
- 23:09absolutely, so
- 23:12it attracts thousands obviously because there's there's so many people that will just come to the football game on homecoming and
- 23:18Don't come through the Alumni Association
- 23:21But they're alumni and they're on campus and they're coming because it's homecoming and you become a party planner of sorts for sure
- 23:27But I think you know with with a purpose, right?
- 23:30So we really want to create events that are first and foremost enjoyable for our alumni
- 23:37but also that create a platform for the
- 23:39University to be able to reconnect with alums as well and to tell the story about what's happening today at you
- 23:46So whether that's in a group setting or just being present and having individual conversations with people
- 23:52we really want to
- 23:54create opportunities for people to
- 23:56Remember their great times in the past and also be proud of what's happening today and tomorrow at you mean how much does the success?
- 24:04Of the sports teams play into the success of the Alumni Association
- 24:09Oh, I think it certainly helps with attendance at our events, you know
- 24:13And we are not bashful about piggybacking on athletic events on the road for alumni events
- 24:19I think it's a great reason and excuse if you will for people to connect
- 24:22So we typically try to do two or three hockey games on the road in different places
- 24:28As well as one or two around football and sometimes other sports too, but it's not exclusively
- 24:34Athletics oriented but it certainly is it's nice to be able to gather people and then also have something to go to together after
- 24:41So those athletic events really do a great job bringing the alumni together. Oh for sure
- 24:45No, we mentioned Cove it a short time ago. We often end up talking about let's face it
- 24:49It was a global pandemic and it really created a lot of distance that happened before your watch
- 24:55Yeah, and I wonder welcome to your new position
- 24:57Yeah, a lot of the alumni that were once really connected kind of got disconnected because of a global pandemic
- 25:03Sure, how did you work to draw them back? Yeah, bring them back the sleuth back to the cave. Sure
- 25:08Well, I'm the Dan it should be the day
- 25:12Right, right
- 25:13I'm a huge believer in in-person interaction. And so I think that's really we dove headfirst into that
- 25:20I think that is by far the best way to get people excited about what you're doing
- 25:25So if you can be in the same room with people and telling the story and having a good time together
- 25:30so and I think by that I arrived in July of
- 25:342022 and people were starting to come out of the woodwork and say hey
- 25:38It's it's okay to go out and do things again. So that converged at a good time
- 25:43I would say for me personally and for the Alumni Association to say let's get back out there and do more things in person
- 25:49In fact, I think that's how I met Dan was at an alumni event. Yeah, it wasn't so yes
- 25:54So newlywed game recall the moment for me Dan and see if Tom agrees
- 25:57I think the first time we formally met we had seen each other a number of times, but I believe it was at the
- 26:03Main at Lowell UMass Lowell game. Yep pregame
- 26:07They the alumni events tend to take place at an establishment with food and drink and never wanted to turn that down
- 26:12So I was there and I had seen Tom at enough events that I went over and introduced myself and he said yeah
- 26:17I know I've seen you around and it's nice time. I meet you and right. Yeah, those are great events
- 26:21They really are that event in particular my cousin Matt who was an alum now lives in the Boston area
- 26:27I didn't know he'd be there. He was there
- 26:28There were friends of mine from Southern Maine a couple of friends from the Bangor area
- 26:31They always say that black bear fans travel well
- 26:34Yeah, and I think that's true when you see when they played at Denver
- 26:38And there's you know enough camera shots with you main fans, right?
- 26:42But there was none better than the Hockey East Championship that they won
- 26:46Yeah, the garden and they played UConn and the place was I don't want to over-exaggerate it, but 90% black fans
- 26:52Yeah, it was like being at a 19,000 seat home game and it was incredible and when they won
- 26:59It was fantastic. Yeah, and yeah
- 27:02I just those events are great to bring people together for sure and and seeing people at that game
- 27:08I was there for the night before too and seeing people that I again had no idea would be there from all
- 27:13Corners of New England and probably beyond sure was so much fun incredible
- 27:17Has there been a generational drop in rallying around being an alumni for some reason?
- 27:24I think back like and you look at a class of 1944 class of 40 sure you go around the campus the flagship campus and
- 27:31You see all of these signs of these things that these groups of students have done and I seem to do and maybe I'm just
- 27:37Missing it, but I don't I don't know if I see as much today
- 27:39Sure
- 27:40I would say my impression in being now four years into this is that there was a much stronger connection to a class year
- 27:48from
- 27:491944 and the earlier eras and for the record way before us way before
- 27:53Yes, I wasn't even born then. No
- 27:58My dad might have been around you're both explaining this too much. Yes, right, right, right
- 28:03But I think today I feel like students and recent alums are way more oriented around
- 28:10Affinity groups they were in Greek life together or they were in performing arts together and labor
- 28:16University singers for example or something along those lines then that spans of a bunch of class years
- 28:22I remember I think you were probably there two or three years ago
- 28:25Liz Downing was very involved in organizing this reunion to celebrate Dennis Cox and from
- 28:32generations of university singers gave about 300 people came back for that weekend and it was just that was a
- 28:38Passion point for that group of people and I think also of the alumni band that has a couple times come back together
- 28:47During winter break to play at basketball games and hockey games
- 28:52And so there's just great passion around that and not as much around
- 28:57I'm a member of the class of 1998. I think he's exactly right
- 29:01You're exactly right because I don't have any idea who I graduated with right
- 29:06But I know who was there in the four years. I was there. Mm-hmm
- 29:09And when I see them, it's great to reconnect and there are some people I had no idea was it's a big campus
- 29:14You know, they're not my major
- 29:15I don't know that I knew them or if they weren't in the music programs
- 29:17But I think that's a very something I hadn't considered
- 29:20But I think that is I think you hit the nail on the head
- 29:23I couldn't tell you one person who graduated the year that I graduated with with confidence
- 29:27Sure at all part of it is the in the 40s 50s 60s
- 29:32It was very common to come to campus and live on campus for four years
- 29:36Mm-hmm, and that is not the norm today
- 29:39The norm today is more I'm gonna live on campus as a first-year student and then I'm gonna move off campus
- 29:44And so you don't build that connectedness with seeing the same people all over campus all the time because you're not
- 29:51Necessarily on campus all the time you come for your classes and you go back off campus
- 29:56I was back on campus this week, and this is my