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What It’s Really Like Being Ivy Getty’s Assistant · Clyde Confidential

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  Speaker 1: We went to a T-Pain concert together.
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  Speaker 2: T-Pain.
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  Speaker 3: TVT.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, by the way, like, I love going to concerts.
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  Speaker 3: It's just, like, every ticket I've bought, I don't realize that, like.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not going to be there on that date.
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  Speaker 3: But for whatever reason, I've seen T-Pain three times without
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  Speaker 3: buying the ticket or trying to in the past three years.
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  Speaker 1: Hi, everyone.
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  Speaker 4: Welcome back to another episode of Clyde Confidential. My guests
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  Speaker 4: today are Ivy Getty, a model and a musician.
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  Speaker 5: And her lovely assistant, Renee.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, girl.
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  Speaker 5: Hi, ladies. Thank you so much. It's really a pleasure
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  Speaker 5: to have you.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, my gosh.
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  Speaker 4: And I'm so flattered that you made time during Fashion Week.
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  Speaker 5: I can only imagine how busy it is.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: It's like, well, it hasn't fully started yet. It feels
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  Speaker 2: like actually today.
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  Speaker 1: We're on the cusp.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. What's on deck? Do you have a lot of shows?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Well, we just came from a fitting.
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  Speaker 3: The good news is, is kind of all the fittings
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  Speaker 3: and that stuff are in the same neighborhood. So we
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  Speaker 3: kind of walked here and we've been city biking everywhere.
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  Speaker 2: Everywhere.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my God.
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  Speaker 2: I love city biking. It's so dangerous.
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  Speaker 1: It's so much faster than taking a cab or sometimes
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  Speaker 1: even the subway.
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  Speaker 5: I'm so scared of it. I feel like I'm going
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  Speaker 5: to get like whacked by a car.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so like.
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  Speaker 1: No, Ivy's kind of made me brave.
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  Speaker 3: It's like, well, also there's specific bike lanes. There's certain
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  Speaker 3: streets you can take and like the maps can choose.
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  Speaker 2: That for you.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. For me, the biggest issue is the potholes in
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  Speaker 3: the street. You have five seconds to figure out what
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  Speaker 3: you're doing if you go and you see one coming.
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  Speaker 3: And that's more scary than anything else, in my opinion,
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  Speaker 3: when it comes to biking in the city.
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  Speaker 2: Well, damn, you two are brave.
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  Speaker 4: I would probably only do it on the West Side Highway,
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  Speaker 4: but even that I feel like is very busy.
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  Speaker 1: No, I love the West Side Highway.
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  Speaker 2: But that's so pretty because they have a fully like
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  Speaker 2: separated bike lane. I love doing that.
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  Speaker 5: I thought I'd give it another go. I would be
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  Speaker 5: too scared to do it like in and out of
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  Speaker 5: the street. So that's.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: No, we're weaving.
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  Speaker 3: Girls.
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  Speaker 2: We're definitely. Yes. There's moments where I'm like, okay, I
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  Speaker 2: need to cool it. Like I'm pushing it. Well, damn.
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  Speaker 5: Honestly, like very impressed. So how long has it been
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  Speaker 5: since you guys have been working together?
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  Speaker 1: It was actually, I don't know if you know this Ivy,
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  Speaker 1: but our three year anniversary just hit yesterday.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, my God.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: That's crazy. So three years, I know.
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  Speaker 2: Three years? Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: That's a really good runway for, like, an assistant.
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  Speaker 1: That's huge. Actually, my first week was New York Fashion
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  Speaker 1: Week when I started.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, my God.
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  Speaker 1: So that's why I know.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Because it's a very easy anniversary to remember.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, if you get thrown into Fashion Week, like,
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  Speaker 5: your first week of work.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, it was, like, terrifying.
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  Speaker 1: It was terrifying.
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  Speaker 2: It was.
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  Speaker 1: I will say I'm really lucky that Ivy gave me
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  Speaker 1: some time to, you know, assimilate and, like... get into
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  Speaker 1: the groove of things because I'm sure some of the
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  Speaker 1: people on her team were like, you have got to
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  Speaker 1: figure it out.
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  Speaker 3: No, I just remember there was one thing. I don't
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  Speaker 3: remember what it was. I just, I had had two
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  Speaker 3: assistants before Renee. And everything was great with them, but
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  Speaker 3: they just both had plans. Like, they had other places. Yeah, like,
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  Speaker 3: one wanted to be a producer. And so she ended
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  Speaker 3: up getting, like, the job offer of her dreams.
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  Speaker 2: And, of course, take that.
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  Speaker 3: So, like, I wanted to find somebody that would be
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  Speaker 3: permanent that I could be close with. And so when
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  Speaker 3: Renee came along, it felt like we clicked immediately. And
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  Speaker 3: then Fashion Week starts. We go to London, but Renee
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  Speaker 3: wasn't with us. Something happened with a car driver and
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  Speaker 3: like my two publicists were like, it's not going to
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  Speaker 3: work because I think they were so used to these
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  Speaker 3: people just changing.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, no, we can't do this. And
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  Speaker 2: I think, yeah, I was.
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  Speaker 3: Like, thank God we didn't say anything because everybody loves Renee.
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  Speaker 2: It's a thing. It's so like, sorry, I'm talking so much,
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  Speaker 2: but you're good. It's such a compliment.
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  Speaker 3: Because I will go into so many situations or even
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  Speaker 3: get appointments. Like, for example, there's this eyebrow lady that
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  Speaker 3: is booked years in advance, and I didn't even know that.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like I know who you're talking about, but
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  Speaker 4: I don't know her name because I've tried to get
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  Speaker 4: in with her. Like, the one lady in New York who, like,
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  Speaker 4: is really good.
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  Speaker 2: First of all, she is incredible.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: But, like, I got an appointment with her, and I
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  Speaker 3: didn't think anything of it. And when I got there
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  Speaker 3: in person, she was like, I gave you your appointment
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  Speaker 3: because your assistant is so lovely to speak to. Oh.
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  Speaker 1: Wait, I didn't know that.
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  Speaker 2: Did I not tell you that?
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  Speaker 3: No. No.
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  Speaker 2: So seriously, that's why I got the appointment.
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  Speaker 3: And then another girl that was finishing up her brows
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  Speaker 3: by her was like, no, like I have my appointments
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  Speaker 3: booked for the next three years.
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  Speaker 5: And I was like, that's really cute.
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  Speaker 1: It's my Midwestern genes for sure.
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  Speaker 5: Remind me where you're from.
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  Speaker 1: I'm from Kentucky.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Got it.
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  Speaker 1: But I know I'm very grateful. It's been a really
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  Speaker 1: fun three years so far.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 5: So that was the beginning getting thrown into fashion week.
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  Speaker 4: You had had two assistants prior to, your team was
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  Speaker 4: not sure in the beginning because.
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  Speaker 2: Like, well, it was literally probably like one week because
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  Speaker 2: we were just gone.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I, yeah, they went to London. And so
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  Speaker 1: I was, you know, six hours behind, five hours behind.
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, I don't know where I'm supposed
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  Speaker 1: to take her or where she's supposed to go. And
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  Speaker 1: they were like, well, you should know. But I think,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, in a very loving, like, let's just figure
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  Speaker 1: this out way. And I needed some time to like
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  Speaker 1: get there. But, but yeah, it worked out.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I also think it's unfair because it's like, People
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  Speaker 3: during fashion week, especially publicists, are so stressed out and
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  Speaker 3: have an edge to them. 100%.
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  Speaker 2: More than usual.
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  Speaker 3: And so I think you were kind of probably just
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  Speaker 3: the guinea pig of the situation. Like they were waiting
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  Speaker 3: for somebody to slightly do something.
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  Speaker 2: Right, like for the shoe to drop.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Like I think I put the fitting location instead of
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  Speaker 1: the show location and you ended up going to the
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  Speaker 1: fitting instead of the show location. Like on that day
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  Speaker 1: or something.
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  Speaker 2: I don't remember.
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  Speaker 1: It was something like that, but.
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  Speaker 2: But now we're good.
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  Speaker 1: But now we're great.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: It's fine.
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  Speaker 4: In those early days, what, what do you think helped
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  Speaker 4: like you navigate fashion week and figure it out? Because
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  Speaker 4: you came from a different background than like a straight PA.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I used to work in an art gallery. Um, but
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  Speaker 1: I think I'm just always been really organized and honestly
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  Speaker 1: having just like a group chat of Ivy's team where
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  Speaker 1: they just kind of say everything that needs to be
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  Speaker 1: said and like, It was like a crash course in
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  Speaker 1: how to organize information that was being thrown at me.
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  Speaker 1: But I really like doing that. So I think that
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  Speaker 1: that was kind of fun. Like it was stressful, obviously,
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  Speaker 1: at times. But I think it was just a really
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  Speaker 1: fun challenge. So I don't know. I think like the
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  Speaker 1: communication style was similar to what I was already doing.
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  Speaker 1: I was an assistant at the gallery. So people already
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  Speaker 1: kind of communicated to me like that. So it wasn't
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  Speaker 1: that different. It was just for one person instead of
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  Speaker 1: for a company.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. And God knows like the art world is like
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  Speaker 3: the most obnoxious people of all time. Sorry.
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  Speaker 2: I actually get fashion people like a run for their money.
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  Speaker 1: It's different.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, both are very tough industries. Like I came
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  Speaker 4: from fashion and then pivoted into entertainment. I was like, wow,
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  Speaker 4: people in fashion are like cuckoo, but people in entertainment
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  Speaker 4: are also cuckoo.
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  Speaker 5: It's just like a different level.
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  Speaker 2: It's like what version of cuckoo? Exactly.
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  Speaker 5: Like how do we really, what's the bar?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: But it's nice to hear, though, that you were able
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  Speaker 4: to survive Fashion Week having not done one before because
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  Speaker 4: a lot of my clients, when they look for an assistant,
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  Speaker 4: they're like, well, that makes me a little nervous that
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  Speaker 4: she has never done a Fashion Week before because obviously
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  Speaker 4: that's a whole different ballgame. Or maybe it's, oh, she's
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  Speaker 4: never done a press tour. But if you have the
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  Speaker 4: right skill set that can transfer over and you're motivated
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  Speaker 4: to do it and you're a go-getter, you can survive.
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  Speaker 4: You can figure it out.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I also think, like, if somebody else has a team
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  Speaker 3: before an assistant is coming in, that definitely helps. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Like, if I was alone in that, it would have been, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And I don't remember any, I don't even remember an
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  Speaker 2: adjustment period.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like, and I, again, I wouldn't even point
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  Speaker 3: that out as an issue. But I also think that, like,
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  Speaker 3: there was no, nothing that ever stuck out to me
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  Speaker 3: that went wrong during fashion week ever past that.
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  Speaker 2: Like, it wasn't, like.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think it was anything major. I think for me,
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  Speaker 1: I was a perfectionist and so were your publicists. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: like nothing I noticed. So it was very much like,
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  Speaker 1: you know. But yeah, it wasn't terrible, but it was
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  Speaker 1: definitely an adjustment.
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  Speaker 2: It's a learning curve. Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Now you're on your third fashion week.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. Here we are.
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  Speaker 2: Happy anniversary, guys.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you.
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  Speaker 4: Ivy, when you were hiring and when we were going
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  Speaker 4: through the process, what made Renee stand out from the
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  Speaker 4: other interviews and what made you want to hire her?
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  Speaker 1: Our interview was so funny.
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  Speaker 2: It wasn't really an interview. I genuinely... I'm so sorry.
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  Speaker 2: I don't remember if I interviewed anybody else.
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  Speaker 1: You didn't really. Our interview was at the standard.
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  Speaker 2: I remember our interview. I just don't think I interviewed
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  Speaker 2: anybody else.
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  Speaker 3: Oh.
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  Speaker 1: Because they were doing it?
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  Speaker 3: I was probably going to... Maybe you were the first
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  Speaker 3: person I was meeting with. Because I have somebody else
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  Speaker 3: on my team that.
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  Speaker 5: Kind of screens people.
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  Speaker 3: 100%.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. And then, like, sometimes... I guess in my scenario,
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  Speaker 2: they would narrow it down to a certain amount.
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  Speaker 1: I interviewed with people before.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so you probably.
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  Speaker 3: Were just my first person on the list and I
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  Speaker 3: just knew. But also that's how I decide things. Like
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  Speaker 3: if I just know, I don't need to figure out
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  Speaker 3: the rest that will feel right, especially because I had
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  Speaker 3: experience of having other people and also just being raised
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  Speaker 3: by my grandmother that had assistants or working at different,
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  Speaker 3: like I worked at magazines and saw how, Things should work,
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  Speaker 3: especially with fashion and organizing schedules. And so it felt
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  Speaker 3: right immediately.
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  Speaker 2: I remember I asked if you liked Taylor Swift. I
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  Speaker 2: cared about your star sign. Sounds really annoying.
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  Speaker 1: She showed me her closet.
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  Speaker 3: But, like, it's not so much that, like, if there's
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  Speaker 3: star sign that I... It makes it more exciting. Like
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  Speaker 3: I wouldn't not hire somebody because of their astrological sign.
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  Speaker 5: But like I might.
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  Speaker 2: It's a possibility.
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  Speaker 3: But if I'm told they're like one of the signs
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  Speaker 3: that are particularly organized, it's an extra point.
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  Speaker 2: In my head. Like, it makes me feel better.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I'm the same way.
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  Speaker 1: I've, like.
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  Speaker 5: Since I moved to L.A., I'm, like, so woo-woo.
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  Speaker 4: I have, like, a whole soccer team of healers, psychics, astrologists,
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  Speaker 4: and I always ask people for their birthday.
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  Speaker 2: I love doing that stuff.
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  Speaker 3: Same.
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  Speaker 2: Also, like, I.
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  Speaker 3: used to live in London and in Selfridges and they
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  Speaker 3: still have this. On the ground floor, they have this
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  Speaker 3: thing called the Psychic Sisters and it's like fully a
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  Speaker 3: psychic shop and there's like three different rooms and I
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  Speaker 3: would just see them like therapists and if I didn't
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  Speaker 3: like what somebody said, I would just book another psychic
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  Speaker 3: the next day or like if it was really about
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  Speaker 3: to find a psychic outside of Selfridges just to go to.
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  Speaker 3: But it's like, Not to take it so seriously, it
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  Speaker 3: just makes things a little more fun.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. I guess and whimsical.
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  Speaker 5: I was in Selfridges last week and I wish I
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  Speaker 5: knew about this. I would have had a time.
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  Speaker 3: Their incense smell awful. I don't know why because they're
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  Speaker 3: like glittery and I really wanted that to work. But
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  Speaker 3: they sell really amazing crystals. Like they have a little mini.
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  Speaker 2: Gift shop before like the offices of the psychics. And
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  Speaker 2: it's so much fun. Like I still always go.
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  Speaker 5: I'm going to make a big mental note.
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  Speaker 2: I don't even have like a person I go to.
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  Speaker 5: You don't use a single, like you don't have like
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  Speaker 5: a go-to?
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  Speaker 3: I mean, when I was a kid, my godmother and
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  Speaker 3: I did, and my grandma was so against it, because
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  Speaker 3: my godmother lived with us in my grandma's house.
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  Speaker 2: And so we'd secretly meet with.
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  Speaker 3: This lady, and I loved her, but she was so
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  Speaker 3: wrong about everything.
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  Speaker 5: Like.
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  Speaker 2: She said I was going to go to college in Boston.
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  Speaker 3: I fully applied to a college in Boston because she
• 11:35
  Speaker 3: said that.
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  Speaker 1: I can't see you in Boston.
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  Speaker 2: I remember I was like listening to that song Boston
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  Speaker 2: by August. What's that?
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  Speaker 5: Oh, I think I'll go to Boston.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Like I was so emo.
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  Speaker 3: And I was like, this is like where I'm going
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  Speaker 3: to find my love because I did not have my boyfriends,
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  Speaker 3: like my first boyfriend until college.
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  Speaker 2: But I really was trying to make it work mentally.
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  Speaker 3: And it just didn't.
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  Speaker 1: She tried.
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  Speaker 2: It's hysterical.
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  Speaker 5: I always take what they say with a little grain
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  Speaker 5: of salt, but I.
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  Speaker 4: Do have this one guy who I have a standing
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  Speaker 4: monthly with for the last two years who has never
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  Speaker 4: misguided me.
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  Speaker 5: He is my king. I'm like, I feel like you're
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  Speaker 5: my dad. Yeah, I'll give you his number. He's unbelievable.
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  Speaker 4: And then I have a couple others depending on like
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  Speaker 4: my temp or if I need a second opinion on something.
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  Speaker 4: But at the same time, they'll say something, but I'll
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  Speaker 4: always make my, you know, free will and you can
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  Speaker 4: make your own decisions.
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  Speaker 2: But my.
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  Speaker 5: My one guy is out of control.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I have a healer that I really, like,
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  Speaker 2: see often. For the past three years. He's amazing. But
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  Speaker 2: he's a healer, which is great.
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  Speaker 3: So I've, like, practiced a lot of meditation and listening to, like,
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  Speaker 3: frequencies and stuff like that. And he does tarot sometimes.
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  Speaker 3: But I have yet to be, like, blown away by
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  Speaker 3: a psychic. But I'm very open to that happening. And
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  Speaker 3: I want it to eventually.
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  Speaker 2: You're great. Just wait.
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  Speaker 5: With that being said, what are your signs aligned?
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  Speaker 1: I'm an Aquarius. My rising is, I actually just found
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  Speaker 1: out I was wrong because I was getting my birth
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  Speaker 1: city wrong.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know why I've never asked. Like, I know
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  Speaker 2: you're Aquarius, but past that point, I did not.
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  Speaker 1: My rising is Scorpio, and I'm an Aries moon.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, that's great. Because Aries is a fire sign.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: What are you?
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  Speaker 3: I'm a double Sagittarius. But then my moon's in Cancer,
• 13:26
  Speaker 3: which is a water sign versus fire.
• 13:29
  Speaker 1: That makes a lot of sense to me.
• 13:31
  Speaker 2: Also, I.
• 13:33
  Speaker 3: Have my Ascendant in my first house.
• 13:39
  Speaker 2: And then also my 12th house is in Jupiter.
• 13:44
  Speaker 3: Something like that where it's like so Sagittarius and crazy
• 13:47
  Speaker 3: that I feel kind of off balance with the Cancer.
• 13:49
  Speaker 2: Because I.
• 13:51
  Speaker 3: get very emotional over other people versus myself. Like, I
• 13:57
  Speaker 3: cannot open TikTok in the morning because if I see
• 13:59
  Speaker 3: any kind of, like, core video, I just start crying. Like,
• 14:03
  Speaker 3: if I see something I've never meant to get proposed
• 14:05
  Speaker 3: to or, like, if somebody's being helped or, like, a
• 14:08
  Speaker 3: miracle's happening, like, I seriously will start crying.
• 14:11
  Speaker 1: I've seen it.
• 14:12
  Speaker 2: But, like, sometimes I want to cry.
• 14:14
  Speaker 3: For myself and, like, I'll try to set the mood. Or, like,
• 14:18
  Speaker 3: drawing a bath or something.
• 14:19
  Speaker 2: And, like, I can't.
• 14:21
  Speaker 4: But I know the Internet is like it's like I
• 14:24
  Speaker 4: my explore page is the same stuff. Like all those
• 14:26
  Speaker 4: people who go around and like like find like the
• 14:29
  Speaker 4: homeless person.
• 14:29
  Speaker 1: The whole course.
• 14:30
  Speaker 2: So money.
• 14:31
  Speaker 5: You know, I'm talking about like those videos.
• 14:32
  Speaker 4: Yes.
• 14:33
  Speaker 5: And then it's like golden retrievers.
• 14:34
  Speaker 2: Oh, my God.
• 14:36
  Speaker 5: Like sad animal videos.
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 14:37
  Speaker 3: No, I can't have the animal involved. I will turn
• 14:40
  Speaker 3: off a movie if they go that low.
• 14:42
  Speaker 2: Like kill the person.
• 14:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 14:44
  Speaker 2: I really can't deal with.
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: We were doing, like, a campaign with a rescue, like,
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: a shelter, and she literally started crying when talking about
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: her dogs.
• 14:52
  Speaker 2: No, I can't talk about the dogs.
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: We were like, okay, we need to cut for a sec.
• 14:55
  Speaker 3: Actually, like, I think I need to mentally be prepared
• 14:58
  Speaker 3: for anything professionally, and I don't know because I'm not
• 15:02
  Speaker 3: at all, like, my dogs are my life.
• 15:05
  Speaker 2: No, it's nice. Me too. I have two. A golden
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: and a Frenchie. Yes, I have two as well. What
• 15:11
  Speaker 2: kind do you have? They're both, so what's so funny is, like,
• 15:13
  Speaker 2: I grew up with an English Mastiff. Wow. His name
• 15:16
  Speaker 2: was Buddha. We were born four days apart.
• 15:18
  Speaker 3: And my mom rescued him, but he was 250 pounds.
• 15:22
  Speaker 3: He was in National Geographic because, like, the magazine, like,
• 15:27
  Speaker 3: nothing related to my family's name.
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: Like, it was my mom that found him. He was
• 15:31
  Speaker 2: just massive. He was just massive.
• 15:33
  Speaker 3: And they were visiting this, like, veterinary center, and he
• 15:36
  Speaker 3: happened to be getting, like, a surgery that day.
• 15:38
  Speaker 2: And they were so, like.
• 15:40
  Speaker 3: Shocked by his size that they ended up taking a
• 15:43
  Speaker 3: photo and it was in print.
• 15:45
  Speaker 5: That's crazy. 250 pounds is insane.
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 15:48
  Speaker 3: But I also, my stepfather, um, I grew up with,
• 15:52
  Speaker 3: he worked at the SPCA and like on location, we
• 15:57
  Speaker 3: grew up with pit bulls as well. And he was
• 16:00
  Speaker 3: the kind of guy that every time the pit bull
• 16:02
  Speaker 3: passed away, he got a new.
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: Pit bull name. It had the same name as before.
• 16:07
  Speaker 3: Um, And so I was raised constantly volunteering at the
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: SBCA with him and the importance of adopting dogs was
• 16:17
  Speaker 3: kind of always a thing in San Francisco and cats,
• 16:21
  Speaker 3: because I remember for my like obnoxious private school that
• 16:24
  Speaker 3: I love so much, but like even for their auctions
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: where they were raising money, there was an SBCA cat
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: and dogs. They were never encouraging anything else. Um, And
• 16:38
  Speaker 3: so I would never see myself with.
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: A tiny dog. And then in college, I, of course,
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: did not think this through at all.
• 16:48
  Speaker 3: Like, I was going for a chiropractor appointment in Beverly Hills,
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: and there was a blackout. And no Wi-Fi, like, you
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: couldn't check out, so they couldn't do whatever... I cracked
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: my back.
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I was with my ex-boyfriend from college.
• 17:01
  Speaker 3: But, like, basically we couldn't use the cash register to
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: check out, so we couldn't go. And so I remembered
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: there was a shelter very nearby, and I was like,
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: I kind of want a dog.
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: So I just drove to the shelter.
• 17:14
  Speaker 5: That pivot of, like, well.
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: And I'm living in a dorm.
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: The dogs are not allowed in the dorm.
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: Like, I'm a freshman. I.
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: And leaving the shelter because nothing felt like it was
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: the right fit. I remember there's this one dog that
• 17:27
  Speaker 3: was for free, 14 years old. It was so big
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: it wouldn't have been able to be happy in a
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: dorm and I would have been in trouble immediately. But yeah,
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: so as I was walking out, they said, well, have
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: you seen the puppy we have left?
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: And I was like, where's the puppy?
• 17:45
  Speaker 3: And because they need to get their shots at a
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: certain amount of weeks old, they had blue in the
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: cat section.
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: And of course, only in a L.A. shelter. I'm like
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: going up to this class.
• 17:54
  Speaker 3: She's wearing a Juicy Couture t-shirt that they let me keep.
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: It says Queen of Couture 09. She was born in 2015.
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: And it was like the rest was history. And then
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: with Martini, he came from Texas and I rescued him
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: in Jersey three years ago.
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: They're both chihuahuas. Were you around?
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: Oh, sorry. I rescued Martini. They're both chihuahuas.
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: I never in my life, I remember when we were
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: walking in, I'm still good friends with my ex-boyfriend from college.
• 18:22
  Speaker 3: He said, at this point he's already agreed that we're
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: getting a dog. He was like, whatever we do, we're
• 18:27
  Speaker 3: not getting a chihuahua. And I remember saying, obviously we're
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: not getting a chihuahua. And we walked in and an
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: hour later, I'm coming out with a chihuahua.
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: It makes so much sense, though. They are such good
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: little travelers. Yes, they're the best.
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: They're perfect.
• 18:41
  Speaker 5: So Blue and Martini?
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: They're basically, I'm their aunt.
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: Yes, very cute. No, I'm obsessed with them.
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: Martini's on a truck right now going across America that
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: rescues Todd.
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: His face.
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: His face. Not physically.
• 18:54
  Speaker 5: So you do a lot of stuff with, like, rescue.
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: Very cute.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: Very involved with best friends.
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: And, like, not, probably people assume that I'm just, like,
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: going to events or something, like, I will be on
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: the bus sometimes, like, fully scrubbing down, like, the cages
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: where they're trying to be in Midtown.
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: Even in, is it in Bryant Square Park where they
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: have the muddy paws pop up?
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: Oh, I followed them on Instagram. So I've done that
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: a couple of times with them.
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: We just recently took a trip to the Best Friends Sanctuary.
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, we just went to Utah.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and then, like, fully, you know, got to see
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: all of the animals. Like, it's huge and so great.
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: It was a good trip.
• 19:35
  Speaker 4: I feel like people are always looking for the right
• 19:37
  Speaker 4: rescues in New York. I should send something out to
• 19:40
  Speaker 4: the assistant group about that.
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: That's amazing.
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: Best Friends is amazing. So is Muddy Paws.
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: It's yeah both of them are amazing I mean Muddy
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: Paws is very local to New York and they just
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: in the past three years have opened up like they
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: had only a office and adoption center in Brooklyn and
• 19:58
  Speaker 3: now they have one in the city so.
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: I used to foster with Muddy Paws they're great oh.
• 20:01
  Speaker 4: Cool Well, it's so funny because a lot of my clients,
• 20:05
  Speaker 4: when they're looking for assistance, they say, well, I also–
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: I really need someone who likes dogs.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: And I'm like– It's so important.
• 20:10
  Speaker 5: Let's be clear. I do not trust anyone who doesn't
• 20:13
  Speaker 5: like dogs.
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: Agreed.
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: It's so bizarre.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: Like– That's a character flaw.
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: My mom rescued so many– like I grew up with
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: like parrots, birds.
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: We found a mouse in the house, which happened all
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: the time. I kept them. I have bunnies.
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: But– My mom was just somebody that loved to take any, like,
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: cat indeed she found. And she bought a cat that
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: happened to be pregnant. And so I grew up with
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: 12 cats. Because, of course, she was like, we're keeping kittens.
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: And she helped the cat give birth at home.
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: No experience. Oh, my God.
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: I remember, like, the kittens were under my mom's bed.
• 20:49
  Speaker 3: And we were just, like, visiting them.
• 20:51
  Speaker 5: That's adorable. What kind of cat?
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: I couldn't tell you.
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: I have no idea.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: But all the kittens like look different. One, I remember
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: Tricky passed away only like five years ago, like not
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: that long ago. Tricky was the all black one. And
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: that's why we called him Tricky because like Halloween trick
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: or treat. Cute.
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: And then there was this little tiger striped one. I mean,
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: it was every color of cat possible. And they were
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: all so cute. But I am so scared of cats.
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: What that said always happened.
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: It's an issue.
• 21:24
  Speaker 5: No way.
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: They're so unpredictable. They are.
• 21:27
  Speaker 4: Some are very sassy. I became a cat person when
• 21:30
  Speaker 4: I was an assistant too because my old boss said
• 21:32
  Speaker 4: I'd love to get a cat. So I'm 26 on
• 21:35
  Speaker 4: my phone. I'm like, Scottish Fold Cat NYC. And the
• 21:39
  Speaker 4: first thing that popped up was I thought it was
• 21:42
  Speaker 4: a shelter.
• 21:43
  Speaker 5: I thought it was something. It was this woman's apartment.
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: Wait, where did you say it was?
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: Brighton Beach, Brooklyn.
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: Is that near.
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: Is that near like, oh my God, Coney Island area? Yes.
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: It was very deep.
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: Because I found a dog that was supposed to be
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: from a shelter before I landed on Martini that I
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: found in Texas. And I dragged my friends when they
• 22:06
  Speaker 3: wanted to just go to Coney Island. I was like, surprise,
• 22:09
  Speaker 3: we're stopping by a shelter on the way. And it
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: was fully a woman's apartment and nothing was right.
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: Like a puppy mill kind of thing?
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: Yes, it was not right.
• 22:14
  Speaker 5: Was she Russian?
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: I just remember, like, first of all, I'm not comfortable separating.
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: like, families of dogs. Like, Blue was all by herself left.
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: She was the runt of the litter, which, for whatever reason,
• 22:27
  Speaker 3: people are, like, so scared to get the runt of
• 22:29
  Speaker 3: the litter.
• 22:30
  Speaker 5: I got the runt of the litter.
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: I've always only had the runts, and that's not on purpose, but, like,
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: I love my dogs. And anyways, I'm not comfortable separating
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: a dog from the rest of its family. I mean,
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: Blue's mom was in the shelter. She was the last
• 22:45
  Speaker 3: one up, but It was very poetic. I was like,
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: she's seeing her last baby be adopted because all the
• 22:49
  Speaker 3: others weren't. I did call back a week later to
• 22:52
  Speaker 3: get her and she was adopted, by the way.
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: Her name was Cupcake. Cute.
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: We grew up with also the runt of the litter
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: of Great Danes. We had a Great Dane and a Pitbull,
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: so I also grew up around huge dogs.
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: Massive dogs.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: And now I'm obsessed with Chihuahuas because of Ivy's dogs.
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: I had a Shih Tzu when I was a kid,
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: but she wasn't particularly super tiny, and her name was Peaches.
• 23:18
  Speaker 5: Great names, by the way.
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: My mom and I also fully had arguments, because my
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: mom had me when she was 20, so I feel
• 23:26
  Speaker 3: like we were going up together. So looking back on
• 23:29
  Speaker 3: our arguments, I was like, Mom, you should have just
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: let me have this.
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: But the name of our pets was a major issue. Yeah.
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: She was going through this phase where she was obsessed
• 23:38
  Speaker 3: with Stevie Nicks on almost like an unhealthy level.
• 23:41
  Speaker 5: Stevie's a very cute dog name.
• 23:43
  Speaker 3: She had all these magazine shit she found on eBay
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: that Stevie Nicks signed.
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: That's why we got the parrot, by the way, because
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: Stevie Nicks had that white parrot. So then my mom's like, obviously,
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: we're getting a parrot.
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: And then she wanted to name our cat that was
• 23:58
  Speaker 3: white Stevie Nicks because of the white dove.
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: Sorry. That's really cute.
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: And I, of course, in the most boring, basic fashion,
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: wanted to name her Snowflake. Which, yeah, I don't know
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: why Snowflake is such a go-to for a cat name.
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: It's cute. Some of our cats were very confused. We
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: would just.
• 24:20
  Speaker 3: Both call them whatever we wanted to, and they never
• 24:22
  Speaker 3: knew their names.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: I mean, 12 of them.
• 24:23
  Speaker 5: It's, like, hard to keep up.
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: I feel like most cats don't know their names.
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel that, too.
• 24:28
  Speaker 5: Cats are very smart, though.
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: No, they are.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: They definitely are.
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: They're, like, way ahead.
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: Actually, even if they do know their names, they're, like,
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: ignoring you on purpose.
• 24:34
  Speaker 5: They're still going to give you some toot.
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah. So funny.
• 24:37
  Speaker 5: Well, besides all the animal stuff, like, what do you
• 24:39
  Speaker 5: guys have on slate? What are your goals for this year?
• 24:42
  Speaker 5: Goals for each other?
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: We're doing Fashion Week soon. So that'll be a big thing.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: What else do we have in store? I mean, another Met.
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: But that's in a while. I feel like we.
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: Well, there's a lot of local projects we're doing with
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: the New York Cares because the Winter Wishes program is.
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: Really important to me. And so... I know. We're going
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: to do something with them.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: We're going to have Ivy sponsor a school, basically, to
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: fill all of the needs of the Winter Wishes.
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: Wow.
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: That's incredible.
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: And then we might do a backpacking event where her
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: friends come over and help pack backpacks. There's a lot
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: of stuff that we're discussing that we haven't nailed down yet,
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: but I think it's going to be a fun year
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: for that.
• 25:31
  Speaker 5: That's incredible. When I had the foster family in L.A.,
• 25:34
  Speaker 5: you were very kind to fulfill a lot of their
• 25:36
  Speaker 5: Amazon wish list.
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: That went a long way. Oh, my God. I go
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: on these....
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: Moments like at least once a week in the morning
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: where I go on the Amazon wish list and I
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: just fulfill a ton of random like I'll type in
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: because like I don't have the link to these people's
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: lists and I'll type in like keywords like you could
• 25:57
  Speaker 3: say like classroom wishes or but sometimes they're like from.
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: Five years ago you have to make sure like yeah.
• 26:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah you're not sending random stuff to a random address
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: and so like I have figured out some Keywords to
• 26:09
  Speaker 3: use to find them.
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: But you're very hands-on with it.
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: But I like being hands-on. I like going in person.
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: I remember when we were dropping off the gifts this
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: past year.
• 26:18
  Speaker 3: It kind of upset me. Yeah, it was emotional. Anybody
• 26:24
  Speaker 3: donating something is better than nothing. But when we went
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: to this one school to drop off some of the gifts,
• 26:31
  Speaker 3: I saw a very well-known name. And not like celebrity well-known,
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: more like, wealthy I guess so like available probably in
• 26:41
  Speaker 3: their schedule but I saw their name on the package
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: and they also the person dropping them off announced it
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: and I'm like there's something so important to.
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: Me about being there and dropping it.
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: Off but we also like totally decided to do what
• 27:00
  Speaker 3: we did with the winter wishes on our own because
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: their program like they give you a certain amount of
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: kids and I got to.
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: They just say how many are still in need, and
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: we were just like, okay, great, let's do it. Well,
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: I looked up the school of one of them.
• 27:12
  Speaker 3: And I, like, literally went on Google, and I saw
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: how many kids went to that school, and I just thought, like,
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: after seeing some, there was, I'm so sorry, but there was, like,
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: a really idiotic influencer online, and nobody agreed with it, so, like,
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: this isn't going to get me canceled, but, like.
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: She was so rude when she was shopping.
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: She took one of the names off the tree because
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: at Walmart, they have a lot of the Salvation Army program.
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: They don't do that in the city. That's why Winter
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: Wishes takes over that.
• 27:41
  Speaker 3: So she just got the lowest grade option for this
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: girl's wish list on every level. Like, don't grab the
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: name if you're going to do that.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: And kind of that's, of course, this is probably a
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: state I've never been in, somewhere really far away.
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: It's a completely different program. But at that point, I was, like,
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: not on my watch.
• 28:00
  Speaker 3: So I looked up the school, saw how many students,
• 28:02
  Speaker 3: and I just bought gifts for the entire school.
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: And then we obviously became close with the principal.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: She's amazing.
• 28:09
  Speaker 3: Because at that point, I also, like, looked at reviews. Like,
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: I even saw, like, there's amazing websites these days, like,
• 28:15
  Speaker 3: for these schools that tell you the ratio of girls
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: to boys or special needs. So I knew exactly what
• 28:22
  Speaker 3: kind of like Barbies to get because I wanted everybody
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: to feel like they had something.
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: So sweet.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: It was great.
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: Like a month ago we did the backpacks as well.
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: For back to school.
• 28:32
  Speaker 3: And I went to a school and helped do them
• 28:34
  Speaker 3: but I also did a lot in my apartment.
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: I like doing stuff like that. I don't know. I
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: mean I don't have kids.
• 28:40
  Speaker 5: I'm the same as you. That's the stuff that like
• 28:45
  Speaker 5: whenever someone asks what would you be.
• 28:46
  Speaker 4: Doing if you weren't doing your day to day job
• 28:49
  Speaker 4: I'm like philanthropy stuff. Like I want to create a
• 28:52
  Speaker 4: Clyde foundation one day and just working with this foster
• 28:55
  Speaker 4: family in LA has really opened up my eyes to, okay,
• 28:57
  Speaker 4: you don't need to go out of the country to
• 28:59
  Speaker 4: like find kids who really need help. It's like literally
• 29:02
  Speaker 4: in New York and Los Angeles. And these kids like
• 29:05
  Speaker 4: touched my heart. Like I, The oldest sibling now lives
• 29:08
  Speaker 4: in my pool house.
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: Oh, my God.
• 29:10
  Speaker 5: Because he aged out. So he just got a job
• 29:12
  Speaker 5: at an ice cream shop.
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: Oh, my God. I love that. That's amazing. He's unbelievable.
• 29:16
  Speaker 4: And he's applying to colleges for spring semester. But these
• 29:20
  Speaker 4: kids have fully changed my life and just changed the
• 29:22
  Speaker 4: way I think about stuff. But when you bought all
• 29:24
  Speaker 4: that stuff off of their Amazon Christmas list, we did
• 29:27
  Speaker 4: a little Christmas gift opening in my living room. And
• 29:31
  Speaker 4: these kids got an iPad so they could watch movies
• 29:34
  Speaker 4: and They've never obviously had an iPad. So I just
• 29:37
  Speaker 4: want you to know it really was like the most incredible.
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: Thing.
• 29:40
  Speaker 4: And every little act of kindness or every little Amazon
• 29:44
  Speaker 4: purchase goes such a long way.
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: Like for me, like personally, I do question people's morals
• 29:51
  Speaker 3: and my position sometimes because it's like the least I
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: could do. Like I was born in such an insane
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: situation and Thank God. I also love to shop. I
• 30:01
  Speaker 3: was definitely meant to be me. But thank God it
• 30:04
  Speaker 3: was me because I fully judge people that don't. It
• 30:09
  Speaker 3: makes me sick, honestly. Even people that buy high jewelry
• 30:14
  Speaker 3: and stuff, I don't buy high jewelry. There's rumors I
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: buy couture. I don't do that either. I find that
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: honestly disgusting. It's just like, even if you're matching it
• 30:26
  Speaker 3: with sending it the same amount you've just spent to
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: that person or family, it doesn't equal at all. I
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: find there is a certain limit where it's like disgusting.
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: And I don't know.
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: I also credit growing up in San Francisco. I went
• 30:44
  Speaker 3: to really great schools that really involved us in our community.
• 30:47
  Speaker 3: I remember I had a babysitter growing up and she
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: taught me about how important it was to make sure
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: people had food. And it was, like, a ritual where
• 30:59
  Speaker 3: we would bring food to the homeless. And even, like,
• 31:03
  Speaker 3: friends I've had, some Thanksgivings, we'll just, like, cook extra.
• 31:07
  Speaker 3: And then, like, there's been Thanksgivings where I'm in more
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: remote areas. Like, I was in Maine for one, and
• 31:12
  Speaker 3: we drove around, like.
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: So sweet. Not that, like, Portland is remote, but it's
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: not New York City. Yeah.
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: We drove around and would give out meals and stuff.
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: It's always kind of.
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: It makes me feel great, but it also feels like....
• 31:28
  Speaker 5: Why would you not be doing this?
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: Something would be so deeply wrong with me if I
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: wasn't at least doing that. And I feel like there's
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: still so much more I need to do. And I
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: have such.
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: A privilege to be able to do that. It's like,
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: come on.
• 31:42
  Speaker 5: You came to God's Love last year during Thanksgiving.
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: I'm going to organize that again.
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: I think people must be ignorant that don't do it
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: that are able to. Because I think most people, if
• 31:50
  Speaker 3: you went in person and saw these situations, A hundred
• 31:54
  Speaker 3: percent it would be different. Yeah.
• 31:56
  Speaker 4: God's Love is amazing. I'm going to organize a group
• 31:58
  Speaker 4: every Thanksgiving. And then there's also City Meals. And Derek
• 32:02
  Speaker 4: Blasberg usually organizes a big group over the holidays. And
• 32:05
  Speaker 4: I've gone with him and Nick a couple years in
• 32:07
  Speaker 4: a row.
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: That's amazing.
• 32:08
  Speaker 4: And I got to knock on doors of these underprivileged New.
• 32:13
  Speaker 5: Yorkers who don't really leave their house.
• 32:16
  Speaker 4: And they don't really leave their apartments. And I'm the
• 32:19
  Speaker 4: only person that they're interacting with that day. So I
• 32:21
  Speaker 4: would walk into these apartments that are untouched from the.
• 32:25
  Speaker 5: 1960s and 70s.
• 32:27
  Speaker 4: And you walk in and there's these old people who
• 32:30
  Speaker 4: can't really walk and they're just on their couch and
• 32:32
  Speaker 4: you bring them a meal. And when they smile, you're like, wow,
• 32:36
  Speaker 4: like that.
• 32:37
  Speaker 5: Yeah. It just sticks with you.
• 32:38
  Speaker 4: Like having those conversations, taking a morning out of your vacation,
• 32:43
  Speaker 4: your Christmas break to go and do that.
• 32:45
  Speaker 5: It's unbelievable.
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: But also like so many people, it's just, horrible twist
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: of fate there's absolutely nothing I did to be in
• 32:58
  Speaker 3: this freak accident position I mean like my mom doesn't
• 33:02
  Speaker 3: come from money she works at a restaurant I'm like
• 33:05
  Speaker 3: super private about her because she has a completely average
• 33:10
  Speaker 3: like um salary and my sisters I have two sisters
• 33:16
  Speaker 3: and we all have my mom but we all have
• 33:18
  Speaker 3: different dads but we grew up as sisters and They
• 33:20
  Speaker 3: don't have that situation that I was born into. It's
• 33:23
  Speaker 3: like constantly I'm so grateful that like why me?
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: Why is this happening?
• 33:31
  Speaker 3: But at the same time, so many of these people
• 33:33
  Speaker 3: are just born to be like to have life fail them.
• 33:39
  Speaker 3: And they're born with impossible standards to become successful.
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: And it's not fair.
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.
• 33:44
  Speaker 4: Well, we should chat offline and figure out ways to
• 33:47
  Speaker 4: work together on our shared interest in doing this stuff.
• 33:54
  Speaker 5: I mean, it really is the stuff that gives me life.
• 33:57
  Speaker 4: And if you have a network and if you're privileged
• 34:01
  Speaker 4: to make changes and.
• 34:04
  Speaker 5: Really help people and make a difference, then why not?
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: You should, yeah.
• 34:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: I love it. This is humiliating. I've literally never filmed this.
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: I would be that bitch on the reality show that's like, fine.
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: The first episode. No, I'm the same.
• 34:19
  Speaker 5: I'm like, I'm very emotional, so like, don't get me started.
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: You knew this was gonna happen?
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: No, I had to stop.
• 34:25
  Speaker 4: I was like, okay.
• 34:27
  Speaker 5: Well, no, it's just because of your big heart.
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: It's great. No, like, but that's the thing. I feel
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: like I don't need any praise. Like, this is the
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: bare minimum.
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: Like, I wish we didn't even have to give people
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: praise because I wish that people just did that. Like,
• 34:40
  Speaker 3: it will so affect me for days if I see
• 34:43
  Speaker 3: somebody just be unkind for no reason to somebody.
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: Like, not just, like, necessarily somebody on the streets.
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: Like, anybody... treating somebody like they're below them. And in
• 34:59
  Speaker 3: a moment where there's such a hierarchy by societal standards,
• 35:03
  Speaker 3: like a waiter versus a customer, it really makes like,
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: I don't care if you're having a bad day.
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: I've had a bad day as well. Like I don't
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: do that. Yeah.
• 35:12
  Speaker 4: The way you treat like people in the service industry,
• 35:16
  Speaker 4: it says everything about your character.
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: I thought that was actually one of the first things
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: I noticed about Ivy when we were doing our interview,
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: we were at a restaurant and I just think there
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: are so many people in, you know, positions like this
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: that aren't nice and they don't hide that they're not
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: nice to like a service staff, for example. But I
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: think it's just like such a bare minimum. And it
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: was one of the first things that I noticed about
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: Ivy where I was like, okay.
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: This is good. I want to work with you.
• 35:42
  Speaker 3: No, like I saw somebody, somebody online said that I
• 35:45
  Speaker 3: was really mean, not just mean, like the meanest person.
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: They've ever met.
• 35:50
  Speaker 3: And I was like, It just truly can't. And my
• 35:52
  Speaker 3: friends saw it and they were making fun of me
• 35:54
  Speaker 3: because it was.
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: Like, it's so not me. It's so not.
• 35:57
  Speaker 3: But then, like, it's the internet. Anybody, first of all, like,
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: I'm not good. I feel bad for this person's experience.
• 36:05
  Speaker 3: But with that said, like, her whole thing was also
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: talking about other people that have and haven't been nice
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: and she works in the service industry.
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: I have no idea what restaurant.
• 36:16
  Speaker 3: But regardless, it made me feel awful.
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: So....
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: Like, I really need to work for the FBI. I
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: don't know how I ended up on her friend's page
• 36:27
  Speaker 3: on Twitter.
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: Or ex. But I somehow. It's the internet.
• 36:31
  Speaker 3: I see that she shared a link about a dog. Like,
• 36:34
  Speaker 3: her friend's dog was needing surgery. So, like, I'm not
• 36:38
  Speaker 3: going to message her. Because who knows how that could
• 36:40
  Speaker 3: end up. Sometimes people just want to argue. Or sometimes
• 36:43
  Speaker 3: they don't. But I'm not taking that risk.
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: For more to possibly be misconstrued. So I just, like.
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: Paid the whole dog surgery on GoFundMe. I think I
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: wrote anonymous. Like, they have no idea who did that
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: to this thing. Well, maybe if they're listening. Now they'll know.
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: By some weird freak accident. Good karma. You know what?
• 37:03
  Speaker 5: That is good karma.
• 37:04
  Speaker 4: Internet trolls will be internet trolls. And you can't, like,
• 37:08
  Speaker 4: you can't go on Reddit. You can't, like, feed into
• 37:10
  Speaker 4: that stuff. But, like, you know that you're a good person.
• 37:12
  Speaker 4: You know that she's a good person. That's why you
• 37:14
  Speaker 4: guys are working together.
• 37:15
  Speaker 5: And who cares?
• 37:15
  Speaker 3: Like.
• 37:17
  Speaker 5: Anyone who knows your character, it'll shine through.
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah. No, for me, like, it's so, it just made me, like,
• 37:26
  Speaker 3: either think that I'm fixing karma or I'm making up for.
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: If I was genuinely awful. I'm so sorry. It doesn't
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: sound real. It doesn't sound real. That's right.
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: Because there's so many times I want to be a bitch. Like,
• 37:38
  Speaker 3: I'm so angry that I can't because there's, with me
• 37:42
  Speaker 3: not doing that, I also get taken advantage of all
• 37:47
  Speaker 3: the time. And I don't know how, like, I'll be
• 37:50
  Speaker 3: aware it's happening, but I just, like, it's stressing me
• 37:53
  Speaker 3: out because I cannot stand up for myself when it
• 37:57
  Speaker 3: comes to stuff like that.
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: I'm really bad.
• 37:58
  Speaker 3: Like, I need somebody to train me how to do
• 38:01
  Speaker 3: that appropriately.
• 38:02
  Speaker 5: Well, you got your bodyguard right there. She'll stick up
• 38:05
  Speaker 5: for you.
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: I'm not sure I'm the.
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're nothing like that either.
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: I'm like not somebody who can, yeah.
• 38:14
  Speaker 3: Claire is like who I'd send in. Savannah's not either.
• 38:17
  Speaker 3: We need to send in Claire. What's so funny is.
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: All of us have like different shades of like strawberry blonde,
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: red hair.
• 38:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: Our whole team.
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: We look like a weird army whenever like we're going
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: on set or to like any jobs. It's so amazing.
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: People do comment on it too.
• 38:31
  Speaker 5: I can't believe you guys get to work with Savannah
• 38:33
  Speaker 5: and Claire. I would love to work with them.
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: They're the best.
• 38:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 38:38
  Speaker 4: Okay, well, now to lighten the mood after we've just
• 38:41
  Speaker 4: talked about some sad stuff and internet bullies.
• 38:45
  Speaker 5: Since you ladies have.
• 38:46
  Speaker 4: Been working together, what's the funniest thing that's ever happened
• 38:48
  Speaker 4: to you while working together?
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: We were just talking about this.
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: No, because I know there has to be a genius answer.
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: I mean, there's been plenty. We went to a T-Pain
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: concert together.
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: T-Pain. TBT.
• 39:00
  Speaker 3: Okay, by the way, I love going to concerts. It's
• 39:02
  Speaker 3: just like every ticket I've bought, I... Don't realize that, like,
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: I'm not going to be.
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: There on that date.
• 39:08
  Speaker 3: But for whatever reason, I've seen T-Pain three times without
• 39:12
  Speaker 3: buying the ticket or trying.
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: To in the past three years.
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: It was a good time.
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: Because his friend, my old boss at Paper Magazine, then
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: became his manager.
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: Oh, fun.
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: So then he was at the Webster and asked if
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: I wanted to see him. I'm like, of course. Second
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: time was with you. Third time was at the Jazz
• 39:27
  Speaker 2: Festival in New Orleans. We love T-Pain. He's great. He's great.
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: He's like my main musician.
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sure during Fashion Weeks there's been plenty
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: of ridiculous scenarios.
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: Yes. Well, you'll remember. I'm not like... No, no, I know.
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: I just can't think of anything specific. I just feel
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: like we're kind of always like.
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: Running around during Fashion Week, I mean.
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: I mean, on a regular, I'd say like the funnier,
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: that's not a word, is it? Yeah. The more funny
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: things that happened are not during Fashion Week. It's like
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: at home.
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. What about, we can edit this out
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: if you don't want to talk about it. The car
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: ride back from, I can't remember what show it was
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: when you saw like your idol and you couldn't stop crying.
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: Oh my God. Oh yes.
• 40:18
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: This is going to come across like I'm crying all
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: the time.
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: No, but I've never seen somebody cry out of happiness
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: from seeing someone that they admired so much.
• 40:30
  Speaker 3: Like, I grew up at my grandparents' house and there was, like,
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: always famous, my grandma used to host these Sunday night
• 40:35
  Speaker 3: dinners and, like, if an actor was in town, like,
• 40:38
  Speaker 3: they were eating the Sunday night dinner at my house.
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: So, like, being.
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: Starstruck is very specific for me. Not like I'm too
• 40:48
  Speaker 3: cool for it, like, Obviously, like, I will freak out.
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 40:52
  Speaker 3: But this was somebody I just didn't even consider ever meeting.
• 40:55
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: But we were just in the car on the way
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: back from the show.
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: I didn't even know his name. I just knew him.
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: She started sobbing.
• 41:01
  Speaker 3: Well, I waited because we're at the Stella McCartney show.
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah. And first of all, I have the same, like,
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: bodyguard and driver in Paris.
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: Every time.
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: I'm so close with them. Like, we've been through. We're.
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: Way past the line of agreement.
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: Like, they're just so.
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: They're amazing.
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: They're kind of like. They're family. A mother and father, yes.
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: We love them. So they've also never seen me like this.
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: So everybody's in shock when this happens.
• 41:20
  Speaker 3: But I am sitting across from somebody at the Selma
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: McCartney show.
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, why does he look so familiar?
• 41:28
  Speaker 3: And it's bothering me because I'm like, I know this
• 41:32
  Speaker 3: man has impacted my life.
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: And then it hits me.
• 41:37
  Speaker 3: Out of the blue, like as the show is ending,
• 41:38
  Speaker 3: everybody's getting up and the models just did the final walk.
• 41:42
  Speaker 3: And I'm like, I can't ask anybody or make sure
• 41:46
  Speaker 3: until I am in the car and we're leaving because
• 41:48
  Speaker 3: I don't.
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: Think I can handle this. Because I'm going to start crying.
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: And it's very rare.
• 41:52
  Speaker 3: Like, if I don't think I can handle it, which
• 41:55
  Speaker 3: has happened before, like, I will leave the building. Like,
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: I've literally turned around at parties and just walked out.
• 41:59
  Speaker 3: So I'm like, I will freak out.
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: And so.
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: And we get into the car and she looks it
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: up to confirm that it's the person. And she starts...
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: I mean, it was like a full body reaction. And
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: Claire and I were in the car with her. And
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: also our driver was like, hey, like, is she okay?
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: And we were like, I'm not sure.
• 42:20
  Speaker 2: They all were trying not to laugh because I was hysterical.
• 42:23
  Speaker 3: But we were.
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: We were hysterically laughing.
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: And filming me at the same time. I was recording
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: her because I was like, she.
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: Didn't know any of that. My head is out the window.
• 42:31
  Speaker 3: I like with the tiny crack that it opens because
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: we're in one of those like fancy vans.
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: It's become an inside joke, I will say. Just, like,
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: thinking about that moment. Like, we have the videos and
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: the screenshots from it that we send in the group chat.
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: And then also, like, I find out that, like, he's
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: been in multiple movies I've seen. I just didn't recognize
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: him in the movies.
• 42:50
  Speaker 3: Like.
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's not.
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: I would say he's not even really an A-list. Like, no,
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: you know, he's not... It's Richard E.
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: Grant from Spice World.
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: Spice World was really important.
• 43:01
  Speaker 2: The cast of Spice World is incredible. That movie, I mean.
• 43:09
  Speaker 3: Holy, if I were to meet a Spice Girl, I can't.
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: Like I think we've.
• 43:16
  Speaker 3: Not gone to Victoria Beckham's show because I think I'm
• 43:19
  Speaker 3: scared if I could handle it.
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: Because I would be so excited.
• 43:23
  Speaker 4: I got put on text with a Spice Girl who
• 43:25
  Speaker 4: needed an assistant and I almost fell over because that
• 43:28
  Speaker 4: was like my era of growing up. And now I'm like,
• 43:33
  Speaker 4: I wish I could go back in time and like
• 43:34
  Speaker 4: shake young Megan and.
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: Be like, you're going to meet a Spice Girl.
• 43:38
  Speaker 5: It was, she was lovely.
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: It was.
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: That's amazing.
• 43:41
  Speaker 5: But it was, you know, it was a cool moment.
• 43:43
  Speaker 5: I can totally relate. Like, there's people from my childhood
• 43:45
  Speaker 5: that I'm like.
• 43:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Whoa. Yeah, like, it's just kind of an impact
• 43:49
  Speaker 3: that it left on you.
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, 100%.
• 43:53
  Speaker 5: That's amazing.
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Anyways. I'm really emotional about that.
• 43:58
  Speaker 4: What advice would you give a boss and an assistant?
• 44:04
  Speaker 4: What advice would you give them? to succeed in their
• 44:07
  Speaker 4: relationship working together? What have you found like the most
• 44:11
  Speaker 4: helpful or the key to success?
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: I think open communication is really important. I think Ivy
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: and I communicate really well. Boundaries are obviously important, but
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: I would say like because of how close we are
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: in age and just in general, they're so broad. blurred.
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: Like it's not a boss assistant relationship as much as
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: it would be in like the business world. So I think, um,
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: like just knowing the person and respecting the person is
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: really important.
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: I think patience.
• 44:49
  Speaker 3: Obviously I don't have any, she has it, but somebody
• 44:53
  Speaker 3: in the relationship needs to have it.
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: It doesn't matter which one.
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I would agree. I don't know. I think like,
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: also if it's not the right fit, I think that
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: you can leave. Like, I think no, like having the
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: right fit for an assistant is really important. Like working
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: well with that person. Like if we didn't like each other,
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: I think that would be really hard.
• 45:17
  Speaker 3: And I also like, I want her like for me,
• 45:21
  Speaker 3: I don't even, it's like an equal relationship. I don't
• 45:24
  Speaker 3: want her to feel like she has to miss important
• 45:27
  Speaker 3: things in her life because of me. So like, if
• 45:31
  Speaker 3: anything important, like I want, it to almost be treated, like,
• 45:35
  Speaker 3: I don't want her to feel afraid to ask me
• 45:37
  Speaker 3: if she can go home to.
• 45:39
  Speaker 2: Like, her sister just had a baby, you know?
• 45:41
  Speaker 5: Congrats, Auntie.
• 45:42
  Speaker 3: Thanks.
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to be like, be back by 4 p.m.
• 45:46
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 45:47
  Speaker 2: Take as long as you need. Like, hello.
• 45:49
  Speaker 3: It's not like I'm, like, running the world. Like, I have,
• 45:53
  Speaker 3: I can figure it out for the time being.
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's always been really good about that.
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: Very sweet.
• 45:58
  Speaker 4: Well, I think what you said of it, like, sometimes
• 46:01
  Speaker 4: it's a fit, sometimes it's not a fit, and There
• 46:04
  Speaker 4: are times where we give someone an assistant and it
• 46:06
  Speaker 4: doesn't work out and the assistant might take it very personally.
• 46:09
  Speaker 5: I'm like, don't take it personally.
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: It's like dating.
• 46:11
  Speaker 3: Sometimes the person's team doesn't like them and makes them stop.
• 46:15
  Speaker 5: It's not always the person.
• 46:16
  Speaker 4: There's so many moving parts and because these jobs are so.
• 46:19
  Speaker 5: Intimate, sometimes it's just not a fit. Sometimes it's a
• 46:21
  Speaker 5: great fit. Three years.
• 46:24
  Speaker 3: I love it.
• 46:25
  Speaker 5: Well, thank you guys for coming on. This has been
• 46:27
  Speaker 5: so fun.
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks for having us.
• 46:29
  Speaker 3: Of course.
• 46:29
  Speaker 5: Good luck with Fashion Week.
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: Don't be scared.
• 46:31
  Speaker 5: It's going to be great.
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: All right.
• 46:33
  Speaker 5: Thank you, guys.