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Dirty Rush: The Boys are Back in Town · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to Dirty Rush, The Truth about Sorority Life with
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  Speaker 1: your hosts me Gia Judice, Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Kessler.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome back to another episode of Dirty Rush. Today we
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  Speaker 2: have parts two of our boys Asque episode.
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  Speaker 3: Let's jump right in.
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  Speaker 4: I think a lot of guys don't really know. But
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  Speaker 4: what is it like living in a sorority house? What's
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  Speaker 4: like the aspect of the house smam if there's one.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe some of you guys didn't do it, But what
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  Speaker 4: is it like?
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  Speaker 3: Phil? And I'm kind of curious what you think it's like? Like,
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  Speaker 3: what do you think living in.
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  Speaker 2: The sorority house is different than like living in a
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  Speaker 2: fraternity house.
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  Speaker 1: We all spoon each other and do each other's hair,
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  Speaker 1: Like is.
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  Speaker 3: That pillow fights?
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  Speaker 4: Maybe hair, not the pillow fights. But I think I
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  Speaker 4: have some like misconceptions. I at my school, no one
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  Speaker 4: wants to live in this one house because the mom's
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  Speaker 4: like a complete whoa.
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  Speaker 3: That's interesting.
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  Speaker 4: You get, like you don't have to pay barely any
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  Speaker 4: rent if you live in the house, and like you
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  Speaker 4: get a lot of amenities with that, which also is
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  Speaker 4: probably pretty nice, like not like a cook or whatever
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  Speaker 4: it is. What it's really like I mean, you kind
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  Speaker 4: of have a random group thrown in there, right, because
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  Speaker 4: it can be like people on execs sometimes, so like
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  Speaker 4: it might suck not to be with like your core
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  Speaker 4: friend group. But I know at bigger schools they have
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  Speaker 4: bigger houses, you're with your whole PC or like I
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  Speaker 4: guess it's different at every school.
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  Speaker 2: I loved it at my school, but I remember my
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  Speaker 2: year like not enough girls wanted to live in it.
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  Speaker 2: It was like the year before it was like a
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  Speaker 2: fight to live in it, and then my year, like
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  Speaker 2: no one wanted to live in it, so they had
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  Speaker 2: to like force girls to live in it because like
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  Speaker 2: with nationals and whatnot.
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  Speaker 3: But I loved it.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like I got closer with a lot of
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  Speaker 2: girls I wasn't friends with before because for us, it's
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  Speaker 2: like sophomore year. So if you weren't like in a
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  Speaker 2: dorm or the same dormis and one freshman year, you
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  Speaker 2: might not have gone to know them. And then after
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  Speaker 2: you go through recruitment on the other side, I feel
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  Speaker 2: like you bond with a lot of girls that you
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  Speaker 2: didn't know, So I feel like that was always fun
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  Speaker 2: and like all the pregames and like all the like
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  Speaker 2: we would always just like pre game together and then
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  Speaker 2: like the next mornings like all of chat and have
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  Speaker 2: a pow wow about like our knights. And that was
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  Speaker 2: like my favorite memories in the house.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't live in, but witnessing it from an outside perspective,
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  Speaker 5: like it was a bloodbath. Everyone wanted to live in
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  Speaker 5: and they only had a certain amount of spots, and
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  Speaker 5: so room picks was like like the competition to get
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  Speaker 5: house points to be able to live in was like
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  Speaker 5: the most stressful that people would be on exec not
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  Speaker 5: because they wanted to, but because they knew it would
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  Speaker 5: give them like an extra amount of house points to
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  Speaker 5: be able to like have enough to live in. And yeah,
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  Speaker 5: like I think there was this one room in our
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  Speaker 5: house that became super popular. It's called Porch, and it
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  Speaker 5: became this room wherever it had this tradition of like
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  Speaker 5: making girls that didn't know each other become like best friends.
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  Speaker 5: And once that kind of started, probably like four or
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  Speaker 5: five years ago, it just became this thing where ever
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  Speaker 5: wanted to live in Porch and everyone wanted to be
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  Speaker 5: in a room with ten girls, and so like the
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  Speaker 5: dynamics of our house, I think within the past like
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  Speaker 5: five years have just completely shifted because everyone feels like
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  Speaker 5: to be in our sorority, like you need to have
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  Speaker 5: that like live in, live with like all se any
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  Speaker 5: girl experience, or you're not like doing it right.
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  Speaker 6: I loved it. I lived in for like cause I
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  Speaker 6: joined late. I was like really hesitant on living in
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  Speaker 6: because I thought my coaches would absolutely kill me. And
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  Speaker 6: I totally understand why now. Parts of it were like, Wow,
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  Speaker 6: I feel like I'm living in a hotel because we
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  Speaker 6: have cleaners that come in and you wake up and
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  Speaker 6: there's brunch and like all this like fun stuff. But
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  Speaker 6: then like on the weekends of like you're living next
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  Speaker 6: to like five neighboring frats that are blasting music and
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  Speaker 6: blasting house music at either the most random hours of
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  Speaker 6: the day from like three to like five o'clock or
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  Speaker 6: then also from like twelve to two am. It was
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  Speaker 6: like I would have to sleep with earplugs in and
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  Speaker 6: I'm ask and it was a nightmare. And also like
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  Speaker 6: weekends when you don't have a cleaning crew, like our
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  Speaker 6: house would get disgusting. We would have like weekend like
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  Speaker 6: cleanup crews, which like would be girls in the house
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  Speaker 6: who had like clean up on the weekends before our
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  Speaker 6: cleaners came in on Monday.
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  Speaker 1: All that hair.
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  Speaker 6: It was just fowl like having to take out like
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  Speaker 6: our trash that would just be like piled like so
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  Speaker 6: piled up to the top, and like cleaning dishes and
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  Speaker 6: just like it was just disgusting, especially on like weekends too,
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  Speaker 6: like after like a big like game day and whatever.
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  Speaker 7: That was awful.
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  Speaker 6: And then also like when you have like a TV
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  Speaker 6: room in your house and like you have to like
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  Speaker 6: reserve it, and like you're on like your app and
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  Speaker 6: you're like, I'm reserving this room from like six to
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  Speaker 6: eight and it's like, no I reserved at this time.
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  Speaker 6: And it was just like little battles over stuff like that.
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  Speaker 6: And then like yeah, like house points like it was.
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  Speaker 6: It was definitely like a war at sometimes. But then
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  Speaker 6: that's also the same time, like you'd have like such
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  Speaker 6: like nice amenity things, and it's also like so cheap
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  Speaker 6: too compared to like other housing options, especially like in Berkeley.
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  Speaker 6: But it was a little bit of a nightmare at times.
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  Speaker 1: But overall, Dylan, I'm curious, did you live in a
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  Speaker 1: fraternity at your school?
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  Speaker 4: Yes? I did.
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  Speaker 1: How dirty, Like is a fraternity, Like do you have
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  Speaker 1: a cleaning crew. How often do you guys wash their sheets?
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  Speaker 1: Do they scrub the toilet like I've always wanted to
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  Speaker 1: know that.
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  Speaker 4: I think it's different for different times of the year.
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  Speaker 4: When it's the end of the year and you know
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  Speaker 4: you're gonna get pledges the next year, there's just a
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  Speaker 4: bunch of trash that stacks up in the summer and
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  Speaker 4: no one's really doing the old just throwing their stuff
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  Speaker 4: on the curb waiting for pledges to come get it
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  Speaker 4: in the next year. When they get pledges, like the
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  Speaker 4: first quarter or first semester, when you usually have pledges,
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  Speaker 4: it's super clean because they're coming like once a week
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  Speaker 4: or maybe twice a week. But like then all the
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  Speaker 4: guys in the house gets super lazy and start like
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  Speaker 4: acting like that. And then when you don't have any
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  Speaker 4: pledges left and they've all like whatever been initiated, everyone's
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  Speaker 4: just super complacent and like, forget how to clean?
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  Speaker 1: Do you really rely on pledges?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah? For sure?
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  Speaker 3: Interesting, Wait, Dylan, I have a question.
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  Speaker 2: At your houses at either school, was there like a
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  Speaker 2: wall in every room of all the stuff guys would steal?
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  Speaker 2: Like I remember I'd go into the fraternity house in
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  Speaker 2: my school and it's like stop sign bar signs, like
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  Speaker 2: they just stole it all and like had a mirror
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  Speaker 2: a bit like everywhere.
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  Speaker 4: Definitely someone had a seven eleven sign in their.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so what is that about guys that like is
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  Speaker 2: the obsession with like sealing stuff and like keeping it.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I would think it would just be like
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  Speaker 4: a walk back from the bar, walk off from the party.
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  Speaker 4: You see it and you think it'd be funny to
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  Speaker 4: like grab it and rip it and break it down.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, guys are so different.
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  Speaker 4: I've never done that personally, but I think it would
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  Speaker 4: be fun. Yeah, living in the fraternity is awesome. You
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  Speaker 4: just get to be around your friends. I think it's
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  Speaker 4: for sure worth it, like unless unless you don't make
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  Speaker 4: any friends, Like it's one hundred percent worth it.
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  Speaker 1: This is TMI for the guys that I would go
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  Speaker 1: do their fraternities, but I would hate I assume it's
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  Speaker 1: a beard, But when guys like I'm guessing would shave
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  Speaker 1: their beard over a sink or a toilet, and then
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  Speaker 1: you would go to a party and you would see
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  Speaker 1: the little black hairs when you're going to the bathroom.
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  Speaker 1: That was disgusting, is what I'm talking about have you
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  Speaker 1: ever been to a yes? Like, oh, Like, I think
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  Speaker 1: girl hair on the ground is much better than that.
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  Speaker 4: I'm trying to think about other things are interesting about
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  Speaker 4: living in the house. I think also if you live
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  Speaker 4: in the house, you have to be very like you
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  Speaker 4: have to be very social, and you have to be
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  Speaker 4: able to like, if you're sick, you're gonna be there's
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  Speaker 4: gonna be people partying around you all the time, or
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  Speaker 4: there's pledges coming in the morning or late at night,
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  Speaker 4: and like are getting screamed at. You have to like
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  Speaker 4: be able to put up with that, which that part sucks.
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  Speaker 4: How do storty girls choose their big in littles? And
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  Speaker 4: I will explain after how we choose ours. You guys
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  Speaker 4: can go first.
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  Speaker 2: We date I don't know about if everyone else, but
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  Speaker 2: like we date around and so you have your bid
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  Speaker 2: day buddy, and then you kind of like fill out
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  Speaker 2: a form about your interests and whatnot, and then they'll
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  Speaker 2: match you with other girls and you can like request
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  Speaker 2: each other. I think it's how it was, So you
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  Speaker 2: request each other and like they'll take you out to
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  Speaker 2: dinner or I remember the first temp Big was the
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  Speaker 2: name of ours Temp Big.
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  Speaker 7: I had we.
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  Speaker 2: She was the one who like took me out for
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  Speaker 2: my first night of college, and like with my sword,
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  Speaker 2: it's like very serious, like you must stay with your
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  Speaker 2: temp little the entire first night down and you're not
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  Speaker 2: allowed to leave them because like so many girls like
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  Speaker 2: their first night out in college like get a little
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  Speaker 2: too drunk, So you like have to stay with them
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  Speaker 2: the whole night. And then you like kind of trade
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  Speaker 2: off after that and then you you and your big
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  Speaker 2: like pick each other and then that's how it's kind
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  Speaker 2: of works.
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  Speaker 3: But it's a whole process. It's like a whole thing.
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  Speaker 2: You like go to dinner with them, and you'll go
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  Speaker 2: out with other temp littles.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, we didn't have that.
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  Speaker 1: Do any of you have twins? I had twins.
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  Speaker 3: I was a twin. I didn't have twins.
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  Speaker 4: I was.
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  Speaker 7: I was also a twin, Like the best experience ever.
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  Speaker 5: Like I'm best best best friends with my twin and
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  Speaker 5: she's two years younger than me.
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  Speaker 1: Do any of you not speak to your little or
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  Speaker 1: big anymore?
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  Speaker 3: I'm really close with my little big.
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  Speaker 8: I'm not as close with them, I feel like I
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  Speaker 8: because it happened so early, you don't even know, like
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  Speaker 8: who you're gonna be friends with, Like I have younger
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  Speaker 8: girls that I would say, like I'm far closer with
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  Speaker 8: than and like see on a regular basis as opposed
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  Speaker 8: to my little, but nothing gets my little.
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  Speaker 1: I love her, I'm just closer with other people.
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  Speaker 6: Since I rushed my sophomore year. My big is actually
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  Speaker 6: my grade, so like she was already like a friend
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  Speaker 6: that I had because like she's also an athletes and
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  Speaker 6: we were kind of just like automatically, like I don't
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  Speaker 6: even think I went on any dates. I think because
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  Speaker 6: like my sorority was like, oh, like you guys like
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  Speaker 6: know each other and you guys are both like like
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  Speaker 6: you guys can just like be together, and then that
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  Speaker 6: was it. So highly recommend if you joinly have a
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  Speaker 6: big that's also your grade, because then you guys just
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  Speaker 6: gonna do everything together.
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  Speaker 1: That's cute. I love that, Dylan, And tell us about
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  Speaker 1: your little or big how that happened.
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  Speaker 4: I've heard from some of my friends and like this
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  Speaker 4: is how it was My own attorney a lot, and
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  Speaker 4: I've heard around from I think my dad was it.
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  Speaker 4: A lot of fraternities will have like a test on
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  Speaker 4: like history or something, and this could be like in
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  Speaker 4: the middle of your pledge period and they say you
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  Speaker 4: need to like read through your whole book. I think
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  Speaker 4: most attorneys they usually have like a pledge book. It's
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  Speaker 4: like just all founders and all the history and stuff.
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  Speaker 4: But you have to They give you a certain amount
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  Speaker 4: of pages you need to like study, and then they'll
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  Speaker 4: have the next one. They make it seem like a
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  Speaker 4: huge thing, and then they'll ask you like some impossible
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  Speaker 4: question from it and they'll get it. You'll get it wrong,
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  Speaker 4: and they'll walk you down and act like you're getting
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  Speaker 4: dropped or whatever, and then you're big will be right there.
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  Speaker 7: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 4: And I went first out of like Stevany was it
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  Speaker 4: of us and or sixty And I remember I got
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  Speaker 4: to watch every single guy after me and someone were
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  Speaker 4: crying and the big will just have like a bottle
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  Speaker 4: in their hands, like waiting for you guys to drink
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  Speaker 4: it together.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god. And I wish I was a guy.
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  Speaker 1: Did you guys spend a lot of money on like
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  Speaker 1: making baskets for the big little review?
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Oh my gosh, what a way. It was
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  Speaker 3: fun though.
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  Speaker 1: It was fun, but like guys do it so easy.
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  Speaker 9: We kind of got it back though, because our senior year,
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  Speaker 9: like the last week we get angel baskets, so like
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  Speaker 9: our littles will make baskets for us, so then yeah,
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  Speaker 9: get it back and then yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I also feel like you collect so many of those
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  Speaker 2: shirts from your sorority that like, by the time I
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  Speaker 2: was a sophomore, I was kind of like ready to
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  Speaker 2: get rid of them because I didn't have space for them,
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  Speaker 2: and I was like, I'm not wearing them every day anymore.
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  Speaker 2: I just need to get rid of like all of them.
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  Speaker 2: So it was like fun to like give to the
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  Speaker 2: freshman that was so excited about them.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I have a question for you guys. You guys
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  Speaker 1: are making me think of stuff. Like for me, I
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  Speaker 1: always thought it was weird maybe like starting junior year
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  Speaker 1: and a sophomore year to like wear my sorority shirts
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  Speaker 1: are on camp. I agree, like there comes a certain
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  Speaker 1: point where like, okay, I shouldn't be like wearing all
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  Speaker 1: my like merch for my sorority.
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  Speaker 9: I was the same, I like made the merch my
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  Speaker 9: junior year, so I could feeling kind of think that way.
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  Speaker 9: I still wear like the hoodies that I like, but
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  Speaker 9: like I made a mockneck and I was like it's
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  Speaker 9: super cute. So I'm gonna wear this, but I won't
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  Speaker 9: wear like the like shirts that you'd have to wear
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  Speaker 9: for like specific events, you know, like Joogie Ones.
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  Speaker 2: I remember we had rain jackets with our sworty. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know if this is the thing at every school,
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  Speaker 2: that thing like I wish I could still wear it today,
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  Speaker 2: but I can't wear it around the streets in New York.
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  Speaker 2: But like it had your swarty on it and it
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  Speaker 2: was like the best rain jacket ever, And I'm like
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  Speaker 2: sad I had to part with it, but it's okay.
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  Speaker 2: Everything else I was ready to part with, Like.
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  Speaker 1: Dylan, I think it's different for a guy, but as
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  Speaker 1: a girl, Like, I'm not going to go around Brentwood
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  Speaker 1: in La, twenty eight years old wearing a Gamafibaita sweatshirt.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah no, I think most that stuff needs to be
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  Speaker 4: put away for guys and girls once they graduate.
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  Speaker 1: Way close the yearbook.
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  Speaker 4: What's something guys think girls care about at parties and
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  Speaker 4: girls really don't care about at all?
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  Speaker 9: I mean, I was gonna say the murals that you
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  Speaker 9: were just talking about.
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  Speaker 1: Like, I know, wait, I totally disagree with that. I
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  Speaker 1: feel like when I would walk into a party and
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  Speaker 1: I would see, like one of those murals been done.
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  Speaker 8: You're like immediate photo, op, want to take a photo
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  Speaker 8: with my friends everyone, I know where you are.
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  Speaker 7: I feel like my biggest thing was always the music.
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  Speaker 5: Like I my friends, and I always cared so much
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  Speaker 5: about the music, like especially on like game days, which
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  Speaker 5: is like huge, like you have such a big group
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  Speaker 5: of people, and like you want to dance with your
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  Speaker 5: friends and like music sometimes like I remember walking into
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  Speaker 5: a frat. No offense to those who like country music,
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  Speaker 5: but I walked into a frat and I didn't realize,
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  Speaker 5: but the entire night was like it wasn't even like
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  Speaker 5: a country themed party, but it only played country music,
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  Speaker 5: and like all of my friends kind of were just
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  Speaker 5: like ready to leave at a certain point we run
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  Speaker 5: into it.
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  Speaker 10: Yeah, this is kind of like going off of that,
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  Speaker 10: but like having music that like matches the theme of
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  Speaker 10: a party, like if it's like a USA party, like
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  Speaker 10: don't play house music the entire time, like or I
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  Speaker 10: don't know whatever, just something that's like cohesive. I feel like,
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  Speaker 10: but I don't know. I feel neutral about the murals
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  Speaker 10: and like drawing things.
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  Speaker 6: I feel like my friends really cared about like types
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  Speaker 6: of alcohol that we're being served. Yeah, like if it's
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  Speaker 6: like a morning game day, Like there's one frat that
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  Speaker 6: always does mimosas, so we're like, obviously we're gonna go
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  Speaker 6: to have mimosas in the morning versus like a Kirkland Seltzer.
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  Speaker 6: Like that's way better. And I feel like that's like
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  Speaker 6: the one thing girls are always so annoyed about. Like
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  Speaker 6: I personally like never drink at frats because I just
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  Speaker 6: know that they're just gonna have the alcohol.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's such a good point. S. I mean, I
• 14:28
  Speaker 2: have a question going off of what you said. I
• 14:30
  Speaker 2: feel like at certain fraternities, the DJ thing is like
• 14:33
  Speaker 2: really big and like there's always like an assigned guy
• 14:36
  Speaker 2: that's like good at the DJ, and he's like super
• 14:38
  Speaker 2: into it. Like does the whole DJ think of any
• 14:41
  Speaker 2: of you guys an ic Like obviously they have a
• 14:44
  Speaker 2: huge role to play, but sometimes I just feel like
• 14:46
  Speaker 2: they get a little too into it.
• 14:48
  Speaker 5: I feel like it goes back from this thing before
• 14:50
  Speaker 5: was like the way you carry yourself with how you
• 14:52
  Speaker 5: speak to other people, because a lot of the times
• 14:54
  Speaker 5: the DJ's had like the crazy, like such a crazy.
• 14:56
  Speaker 7: Ego never date a DJ, so like mean.
• 15:01
  Speaker 5: About their death. And I understand it's expensive. I understand
• 15:04
  Speaker 5: there's a computer. I understand like you put money and
• 15:06
  Speaker 5: time into practicing your set, but I also feel like
• 15:09
  Speaker 5: you can just be nice to like the people around you.
• 15:11
  Speaker 5: And it kind of just seemed like they were so
• 15:13
  Speaker 5: not locked in because they cared so much, but because
• 15:16
  Speaker 5: they knew like their image like relied on it, and
• 15:18
  Speaker 5: it kind of Yeah.
• 15:19
  Speaker 9: Brad, DJ, isn't taking song requests? And what are you
• 15:22
  Speaker 9: doing because like this isn't you're You're performing for people
• 15:26
  Speaker 9: that are drunk off of their right. They don't care
• 15:28
  Speaker 9: about your set that you're created. They want to hear
• 15:31
  Speaker 9: like the song that they want a dance to, Like,
• 15:33
  Speaker 9: you're not that.
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: Right, Dylan, Are you with DJ?
• 15:36
  Speaker 4: I am not? I know how to I like a
• 15:40
  Speaker 4: lot of my My big taught me and he always
• 15:42
  Speaker 4: wanted me to do it with him.
• 15:44
  Speaker 8: When you saw your big DJ where you like, oh
• 15:46
  Speaker 8: my god, that's the coolest thing I've ever.
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: Seen, you wanted to do it too?
• 15:52
  Speaker 4: No, I mean he he it wasn't. He was really
• 15:55
  Speaker 4: good teacher, Like it only took like two hours. I
• 15:57
  Speaker 4: have his old one with me actually right now, Like
• 16:01
  Speaker 4: it's stored but not like next to me.
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: Next time we go on a zoom, you got to
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: bring it out and play something I can.
• 16:06
  Speaker 4: Show you guys. Yeah, but no, I didn't. I didn't
• 16:11
  Speaker 4: think he was like the coolest guy ever. I mean,
• 16:13
  Speaker 4: I thought he was a nice guy. That's why I
• 16:15
  Speaker 4: liked him. Okay, God, How important is a guy's social
• 16:33
  Speaker 4: media when deciding whether to talk to him? What things
• 16:36
  Speaker 4: you look for is they're like a profile pick that's
• 16:39
  Speaker 4: like good versus bad? Is there like a lot of
• 16:42
  Speaker 4: like shirts off? I don't know.
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: I think less is more honestly, like, please have less photos.
• 16:48
  Speaker 9: I feel like a minimal presence. But if they have
• 16:50
  Speaker 9: a bunch of friends in their comments, and that's good
• 16:53
  Speaker 9: because they have a lot of friends, I like that,
• 16:56
  Speaker 9: But they don't need to be posting a ton No.
• 16:58
  Speaker 6: I don't have a lot of photo of just yourself.
• 17:00
  Speaker 6: Also like oh yeah, yeah, I agree, they all like
• 17:04
  Speaker 6: I just know that you're like obsessed with yourself and
• 17:06
  Speaker 6: like you're probably just as nonchalant as they get post
• 17:09
  Speaker 6: with your friends.
• 17:10
  Speaker 7: That's it.
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: I hate when guys like I had like a friend
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: who I helped like stock this guy's Instagram for her,
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: and he followed so many only fans models, and I
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: think that is just such a red flag.
• 17:24
  Speaker 8: Yeah, oh my gosh, I have a guy friend even now,
• 17:28
  Speaker 8: like out of college who I was talking with my
• 17:31
  Speaker 8: girlfriends the other day and like Justin Bieber posted this
• 17:34
  Speaker 8: photo of Hatley and like we were like, of.
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: Course he liked it.
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: He always likes these.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: It was like a photo of for like in like
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: in underwear bikini. Oh god, what about girls? Like do
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: you think it's weird when girls have selfies or when
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: they like post Like I don't know, like what's weird
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: to you?
• 17:53
  Speaker 4: I like a good like in between of kind of
• 17:56
  Speaker 4: like cool photos with they don't even have to be
• 17:59
  Speaker 4: in it versus like them if it's all them and
• 18:01
  Speaker 4: it looks like you literally went to the beach for
• 18:03
  Speaker 4: the photo shoot. I think it's a little cringe.
• 18:05
  Speaker 3: That's valid.
• 18:06
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I like like a bigger dump or like
• 18:09
  Speaker 4: I don't know, something with miss some more like.
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: You like like a swipe versus a one photo.
• 18:15
  Speaker 4: I think one photo people still do that. I feel
• 18:17
  Speaker 4: like it's kind of weak.
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: Like back in my day.
• 18:20
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, but I feel like people don't really do
• 18:22
  Speaker 4: that anymore.
• 18:23
  Speaker 7: I have a question.
• 18:24
  Speaker 5: I feel like there was this thing trending a while
• 18:26
  Speaker 5: ago about people making fun of not even making fun of,
• 18:29
  Speaker 5: but like laughing at frat guy captions and like thinking,
• 18:32
  Speaker 5: it's like there are captions on Instagram like the funniest
• 18:34
  Speaker 5: thing ever, Like do you guys have like a master
• 18:36
  Speaker 5: doc that.
• 18:37
  Speaker 7: You like go from?
• 18:39
  Speaker 5: Like I feel like I see like birthday posts for
• 18:41
  Speaker 5: guys is always like more life or like cakes and candles, Like.
• 18:45
  Speaker 7: It's just the funniest.
• 18:46
  Speaker 5: So it's so nonchalant, but it almost feels like they're
• 18:49
  Speaker 5: in on the bit, which I think kind of makes
• 18:51
  Speaker 5: it better. But like, what's the strategy with your guys's
• 18:54
  Speaker 5: Instagram captions?
• 18:56
  Speaker 4: I think there's always those guys that kind of want
• 18:59
  Speaker 4: to go like a more metal thing. I usually I
• 19:01
  Speaker 4: like to do like an inside joke or something that
• 19:03
  Speaker 4: no one knows what I'm talking about.
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: Give an example, like of one of your last posts,
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: what you did?
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, do you have this masterly list?
• 19:10
  Speaker 7: I just there has to be like a doc that
• 19:12
  Speaker 7: everyone's referencing.
• 19:14
  Speaker 4: I was talking about like an implication that like happened
• 19:18
  Speaker 4: on our trip when I was abroad, but I got
• 19:21
  Speaker 4: like all my friends commented on it because I thought
• 19:23
  Speaker 4: it was hilarious, but that was really only it.
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: But yeah, like my little brother he just did like
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: a swipe of stuff and his caption is just Z,
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: like the letter Z way like what.
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: I feel like, it's always the year dumps. It's like
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: after year.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: The guys are so weird compared to girls.
• 19:38
  Speaker 9: It's social sometimes, Like if it's like clever, but in
• 19:42
  Speaker 9: like a way that they're making fun of themselves, not
• 19:45
  Speaker 9: in a way that they think it's cool, then I
• 19:47
  Speaker 9: think it's funny.
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: Dylan, be honest, have you ever like asked a guy
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: to like take a selfie of use because you wanted
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: to post it on your Instagram to like, you know,
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: have like a thirst trap?
• 19:57
  Speaker 4: No, I do like a selfie or like, I don't know,
• 20:03
  Speaker 4: do guys do that? I have one. I had a
• 20:05
  Speaker 4: couple of friends abroad that like love to take candids. Yes,
• 20:09
  Speaker 4: I just had like a bunch that they sent me
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: because they were just like plugging me with them the
• 20:14
  Speaker 4: whole time.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: Oh but you didn't ask, that's good. Yeah, that's a
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: true friend.
• 20:18
  Speaker 9: Yeah, did you know what's happening? Like when you fix
• 20:21
  Speaker 9: your fluster like flexcellent the.
• 20:23
  Speaker 5: Amount of times I feel I could see a picture
• 20:25
  Speaker 5: of r Dia Broad and it's like he's at the
• 20:26
  Speaker 5: table but he's looking away and he's holding the drink
• 20:28
  Speaker 5: and you just know.
• 20:29
  Speaker 7: That I was all set up. It's not a candid.
• 20:31
  Speaker 10: Yeah, or they're like smoking a cigarette, like looking out
• 20:34
  Speaker 10: at a view and like this O there is.
• 20:38
  Speaker 4: I mean, I think it's the same with girls. There's
• 20:39
  Speaker 4: always you kind of know when a photo is being taken,
• 20:42
  Speaker 4: but like when.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: We look to the side and are holding our hair.
• 20:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you kind of know when a photo is
• 20:46
  Speaker 4: being taken, but you kind of you act on slant
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: or whatever.
• 20:50
  Speaker 7: I love it.
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, Well this was fun. Guys. Yes, listeners,
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: let us know if you want a round two dm
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: us with anything. We have Dylan, our expert male fraternity
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: member always here.
• 21:03
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• 21:13
  Speaker 6: Bye.