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2nd DATE UPDATE: Dean & Kaylee · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: The next segment we're going to do is.
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  Speaker 2: Called Second Date Update because that's what we're going to
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  Speaker 2: try and get and that's what the bit is called.
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  Speaker 3: Second Date Update starts right now on John Jay and
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  Speaker 3: Ridge one four to seven Kiss FM. John Jane Rich's
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  Speaker 3: time for Second Date Update. Let's say hello to Dean.
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  Speaker 4: Hi Dean, Hey, yeah, how you doing all right?
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  Speaker 3: So Dean met somebody went out of date, had a
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  Speaker 3: good time, wants to see her again. She's blowing them off,
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  Speaker 3: so that's what leads them to us. So what we'll do, Dean,
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  Speaker 3: is we're gonna hear your story. We're going to troubleshoot it.
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  Speaker 3: Then we're gonna call the person that bleue you off.
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  Speaker 3: Sounds like a.
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  Speaker 1: Plan, sounds like a great plan.
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  Speaker 4: Let's do it, Dean. What happened?
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  Speaker 1: Well, Yeah, like you said, we went on a day.
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  Speaker 1: We talked for about two weeks before we even went
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  Speaker 1: out the first time. You know, we were texted back
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  Speaker 1: at forth all day. We're really getting to know each other.
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  Speaker 1: So then we finally went out on our first date.
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  Speaker 1: It was great, Like it was amazing. Right. We went
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  Speaker 1: to this little little Christmas market, we walked around, we
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  Speaker 1: looked at the law We laughed. We were just having
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  Speaker 1: like a great time, you know, chemistry off the charts,
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  Speaker 1: like like through through the roof, and I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: we were still like comfortable with each other that it
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  Speaker 1: felt like we've been together for for like months, you know,
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  Speaker 1: like like we'd known each other for a while, not
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  Speaker 1: just not just our first date, you know, And we
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  Speaker 1: were kissing like the whole night felt natural. And even
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  Speaker 1: after the date, we were texting back and forth, we
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  Speaker 1: were checking in, we were talking every day like normal,
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  Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, things got weird, like
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  Speaker 1: all of a sudden, like her replies fell way off.
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  Speaker 1: You know, she would take forever to get back to me.
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  Speaker 1: She she she wouldn't commit to plans. Uh, never really
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  Speaker 1: committed to a second date. So yeah, I'm not I'm
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  Speaker 1: not one hundred percent sure, not one hundred percent sure
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  Speaker 1: what happened. Nothing, nothing seemed like it could have happened.
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  Speaker 4: But okay, so did you sleep her?
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  Speaker 1: No, No, we haven't slept together. We haven't slept together,
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  Speaker 1: but you know, we did like a lot of flirting
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  Speaker 1: and things got a little hot over text and I
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  Speaker 1: sent her a nude asked for it.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, god, not responding to that after she has for it.
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  Speaker 5: Oh gosh, no, no, yeah, she explained her about shrinking
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  Speaker 5: at the North Pole.
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  Speaker 4: I mean because maybe that was.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, yeah, you know, I mean, like, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know, that's I'm worried that it changed the way
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  Speaker 1: she saw me. Yeah, Like, so I'm not sure she
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  Speaker 1: didn't like what she saw or what was going on.
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  Speaker 6: She probably showed her friends and her friends were like,
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  Speaker 6: oh my.
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  Speaker 2: God, no, no, oh no.
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  Speaker 6: Right, I mean it has to do with that, like
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  Speaker 6: it has to right, because that's when things shifted.
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  Speaker 2: Right, that's what you saw something she didn't like maybe
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  Speaker 2: oh my gosh, did you accidentally have like your live
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  Speaker 2: video on or something like? Maybe she you know how
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  Speaker 2: you can hold down the live video and maybe like
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  Speaker 2: showed something that you really shouldn't have shown other than
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  Speaker 2: the nude that you sent, you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 6: Uh?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I mean I didn't. I checked, I checked
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  Speaker 1: everything before I said it. You know what else.
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  Speaker 2: Already said it. I don't know, maybe like there was
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  Speaker 2: something weird in his room on top of the fact
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  Speaker 2: that the picture was odd.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, can you describe the position you're in
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  Speaker 3: and what was in the photo. Was it just a
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  Speaker 3: body part or was it like you smiling like there's
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  Speaker 3: I can't imagine.
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  Speaker 4: Well anyway, go ahead, Healthie in the mirror? What was
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  Speaker 4: the photo?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, it was it was it was kind
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  Speaker 1: of a kind of a holiday scene selfie in the mirror.
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  Speaker 1: You know, had had like a little little piece of missiletoe,
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  Speaker 1: you know.
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  Speaker 4: But did you put a Santa hat? Santa hat on
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  Speaker 4: your junk?
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  Speaker 5: Could you send it to us?
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  Speaker 1: No? No, I put a Sanda hat on my head,
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  Speaker 1: but not on my on my junk.
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  Speaker 4: Hey, Festive, I think you should send it to us.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, if she.
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  Speaker 6: Asked for it, that's like, I mean something that's like
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  Speaker 6: it was a surprise pick. But I feel like it's
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  Speaker 6: got to do something.
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  Speaker 4: Are you prepared?
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  Speaker 6: I mean, I feel like almost like this is gonna
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  Speaker 6: be kind of.
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  Speaker 4: Sad for you in the photo. Are you like at
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  Speaker 4: full attention?
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  Speaker 1: Are you you know? I'm well on my way.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, that's good, that's good to get a little.
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  Speaker 2: I did not like the visual.
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  Speaker 3: I just all right, well, we'll get her on the phone.
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  Speaker 3: I think we can figure this one out. But all right,
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  Speaker 3: hold on, all right, we'll get her on the phone.
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  Speaker 3: We find out why she's blowing you off. All right, Dean,
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  Speaker 3: hold on the line. Second date update continues the next
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  Speaker 3: with John Jane Rich.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so glad you're here as the person who currently
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  Speaker 2: occupies your attention.
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  Speaker 4: I would like to thank you for listening to John
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  Speaker 4: Jane Rich, Dean and Kaylee Well.
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  Speaker 5: A date with Dean at Christmas Town left him feeling
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  Speaker 5: warm like hot coco. They kissed all night, and then
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  Speaker 5: he sent her a nude and now he feels like
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  Speaker 5: he and his candy cane are all alone at the
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  Speaker 5: North Pole. Shrinkage is real, Dean, Shrinkage is real?
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  Speaker 3: Oh you we're assuming or it's just gross? What is
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  Speaker 3: the problem if it's lightning about as junk? But it
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  Speaker 3: could be about his junket because he sent a nude.
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  Speaker 3: But she asked for the news to put with her
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  Speaker 3: other collection of All right, Dean, we're gonna call Kayley.
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  Speaker 1: Are you ready to go as ready as I'm gonna be.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: Hey, when you sent her the nude?
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  Speaker 1: What was her reaction to the nude? Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: She she didn't say anything like specific. She she hearted
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  Speaker 1: the picture like I was uh.
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  Speaker 5: Eventually about something else because I'll tell you it's a lot.
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  Speaker 1: Well I mean yeah, like like you know, she she
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  Speaker 1: was like, oh yeah, thanks for thanks for sending it.
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, all right, now your turn, and.
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  Speaker 6: She's like I have to play Fantasy League.
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  Speaker 4: I'll get your turn. We're calling he right now. Hold long.
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  Speaker 7: Huh Hi is this Kaylee?
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  Speaker 5: Yes?
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  Speaker 7: This is Kaylee. Hi.
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  Speaker 2: My name is Peyton. I'm with John Jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 2: We just wanted to talk to you really quickly on
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  Speaker 2: the radio if you got time.
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  Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, okay, Hi.
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  Speaker 4: Hey.
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  Speaker 3: We we do a thing on our show about dating
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  Speaker 3: and relationships, and we were talking to this guy that
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  Speaker 3: went on a date with a girl and the girls
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  Speaker 3: blowing him off. He thought they had incredible chemistry. He
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  Speaker 3: told us about all parts of the date, and now
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  Speaker 3: the girl's blowing him off, and we're calling you because
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  Speaker 3: you are the girl.
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  Speaker 7: I'm the girl.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, are you kidding? Seriously?
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  Speaker 3: Seriously, you are the girl that's blown him off. And
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  Speaker 3: we have gone around the room. We actually think we
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  Speaker 3: know why you're blowing him off, but we wanted to
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  Speaker 3: get we wanted to hear from you.
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  Speaker 4: We're talking about.
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  Speaker 8: Oh my god, stop seriously, Yeah, he called you guys
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  Speaker 8: to find like to discover the reason why I'm not
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  Speaker 8: like texting.
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  Speaker 7: Him back or what like, yeah, sitting there wondering, Yeah,
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  Speaker 7: oh my god, did you what's yourn? Did you guys
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  Speaker 7: figure it out?
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  Speaker 3: Well, he did tell us that you asked to send
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  Speaker 3: You asked for the nude, right, and then he sent
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  Speaker 3: you a nude?
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  Speaker 7: Oh my god. Okay, yeah, no, he didn't like force
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  Speaker 7: a nude on Okay, there was consent and I asked
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  Speaker 7: for it, but with it, Okay, this is like so awkward. Okay,
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  Speaker 7: he he's very hot. I don't know if you guys
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  Speaker 7: also saw the nude or Okay, all right, we can yeah,
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  Speaker 7: and I can get your thoughts and opinions, you know,
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  Speaker 7: concerns so genuinely, like he's very attractive. He's a bodybuilder actually,
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  Speaker 7: like super fit it and like super sexy. Uh so
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  Speaker 7: he has this like full package on the outside, right,
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  Speaker 7: like whole thing. And the date was really awesome too, chemistry,
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  Speaker 7: you know, like we were all over each other, and
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  Speaker 7: I mean, like I have a little bit of a
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  Speaker 7: wild side. So I mean we were sexting for a while,
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  Speaker 7: like before we even met, and I did ask for pictures,
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  Speaker 7: so he sent them using that invisible ink thing, you know,
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  Speaker 7: and and he wrote, I'm a grower, not a shower.
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  Speaker 7: Oh really, Oh I'm sorry. Wow, Wow, you can relate
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  Speaker 7: to this guy. Okay, so listen, I'm not like I
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  Speaker 7: feel bad saying this, but he's near like not a
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  Speaker 7: grower nor a shower, Okay. And I swear, I swear
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  Speaker 7: it was really sad, like I felt bad, you know.
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  Speaker 7: And it looks like a little like TikTok, Like it
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  Speaker 7: looks like it was like crying. You know, they kindt
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  Speaker 7: of like wrinkled and like with like a little tear.
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  Speaker 7: You know.
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  Speaker 3: If this was a guy saying the girl was flat,
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  Speaker 3: talking about her boobs being flat, and you guys would
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  Speaker 3: not be laughing shame.
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  Speaker 4: You guys would.
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  Speaker 7: See so, you know, and like there's someone for everyone,
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  Speaker 7: and like maybe this guy's just not for me, you know.
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  Speaker 7: But so I was just like sitting there staring at
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  Speaker 7: the phone in dead silence, and you know, I told
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  Speaker 7: my friends and I, you know, because I needed support,
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  Speaker 7: Like he did this to me. I didn't ask.
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  Speaker 5: This, you did?
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  Speaker 2: Did he traumatized by his TikTok?
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  Speaker 1: But you asked.
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  Speaker 6: When you asked for that pick, you have to just
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  Speaker 6: be like, and you know that it is, you don't
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  Speaker 6: know what you're gonna meet.
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  Speaker 5: I gotta say this gives me holiday joy because that
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  Speaker 5: means that the Lord evens things out. He's made him
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  Speaker 5: a beautiful, beautiful guy. But you can't have it all.
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  Speaker 4: You can't.
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  Speaker 2: There's always.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah fact. So I just kind of stopped responding because
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  Speaker 7: I you know, I just I didn't want to have
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  Speaker 7: that moment of like where I have to pretend, oh,
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  Speaker 7: look like.
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  Speaker 5: Killing before we get too far, we should probably tell
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  Speaker 5: you the Dean's on the phone.
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  Speaker 7: Oh my god, we did.
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  Speaker 4: Are you prepared?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: No, that was.
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  Speaker 1: That was rough to hear.
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  Speaker 7: I didn't know you were. I'm sorry. I didn't know
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  Speaker 7: you were listening. Okay, and you probably don't like that.
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  Speaker 7: My friends have seen the pick too.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, I don't love that. I don't love that
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  Speaker 1: at all.
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  Speaker 7: But I just I needed them to validate my feelings,
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  Speaker 7: you know, like doubling down.
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  Speaker 1: It was just no, like.
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  Speaker 7: I had to know that I wasn't crazy for not
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  Speaker 7: wanting to be with someone such a like.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, thank you.
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  Speaker 7: To keep saying like I'm sorry, I feel like her
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  Speaker 7: voice should be through a filter.
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  Speaker 4: Really high pitched, like like.
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  Speaker 7: You can't call me a liar, right, So I mean,
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  Speaker 7: but it's like like I.
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  Speaker 1: Know, but I you know, I told you like that
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  Speaker 1: I'm a grower not a shower for a reason, like.
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  Speaker 3: I know, but it's I know, no, But yeah, Jane,
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  Speaker 3: she's not right for you, Deane. She's showing your picture
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  Speaker 3: to girlfriends.
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  Speaker 4: That's lame.
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  Speaker 3: If a guy did that, dude, if a girl said
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  Speaker 3: over a guy a top. Yeah, but I'm saying if
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  Speaker 3: a guy was on the air with us saying and
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  Speaker 3: then I showed it all my friends and we laughed
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  Speaker 3: and we laughed.
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  Speaker 4: You guys have such a different point of view on
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  Speaker 4: it would be honest.
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  Speaker 3: I was just we would And I think also the
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  Speaker 3: grower of the show where you also don't know what
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  Speaker 3: the guy can do, like you got to see skills, skills, maybe.
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  Speaker 4: It's not skills, like you don't know.
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  Speaker 3: There's numbers, there's the average size of a guy's whatever,
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  Speaker 3: and then they go bigger and they go smaller, and
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  Speaker 3: there's all kinds of like there's just you can't like, like,
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  Speaker 3: Kaylee's not right for your team, She's not She's not
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  Speaker 3: right for anybody. That's right.
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  Speaker 6: For who she's right for.
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  Speaker 1: Like they said, you don't know what I'm capable of,
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  Speaker 1: like i've I do.
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  Speaker 7: I just I don't like tricks and stuff things on it.
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  Speaker 7: I don't know what you're trying to do.
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  Speaker 2: No, No, I feel like Kaylie will just like Bully
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  Speaker 2: Dean the whole night.
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  Speaker 5: Like I don't think they're about.
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  Speaker 4: And that's okay.
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  Speaker 6: Some people aren't meant.
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  Speaker 4: To be together.
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  Speaker 8: I'm really sorry.
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  Speaker 7: I think you should wait for like longer. Don't give
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  Speaker 7: it away next time, you know, like, just don't blow
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  Speaker 7: it for yourself. Not to be mean. I'm sorry. I'm
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  Speaker 7: not trying to, like, you know, feel.
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  Speaker 4: Feel very as to be mean.
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  Speaker 1: I don't.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't want you to, like, you know, die
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  Speaker 7: from shame later, but just like you know, you're gonna
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  Speaker 7: be fine and there will be a girl out there
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  Speaker 7: for you for sure.
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  Speaker 3: All right, Kaylee, thanks for jumping on there with us, Okay, Dean,
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  Speaker 3: stay strong, stay strong?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I know.
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  Speaker 5: Happy happy holidays.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god. Well thanks guys, thanks very Dean, Sorry, thanks.
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  Speaker 4: For calling it. Good luck to you. That's second ate
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  Speaker 4: update with John day Rich