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Date Like A Spartan Audio Book Preview · Black Girls Are Easy Podcast

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Does he really like you or does he just want to fuck you? You
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don't know? Once again, it's time you've read the books Something Single,
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Whole Tactics, and men don't Love Women like you. Now listen to the
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only podcast that gives you a brutally honest breakdown of dating and relationships. This
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is g L. Lambert explains it all. Talk to him playing. I
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like your little sex style. Love it when you're getting what you need to
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be in magazines with a crown on your head because you're a get or quing
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like thing. Lame. Come on the way is getting that sex? Your
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pussy couldn't keep them. Your personality didn't mess enough to make him want to
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settle down. You did everything right, and he still won't love you to
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where you want to be loved. Let's keep it real. You didn't do
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everything right. Every woman who dates and loses her power knows that she fucked
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up along the way. You are too nice, too easy to understanding.
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The list goes on. See now you want revenge? You want to do
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over to make this man recognize who the fuck you are. I get these
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emails all the time, gl How can I make them eat out of my
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hands? How can I make this man beg to get back with me?
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How can I make this man see me as a game changer? The power
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over men is mental. It's based on respect, control, and lust.
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A man who has fucked you in every position no longer has lust for you
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on a deep level. A man who has you in your feelings, crying,
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calling and texting paragraphs realizes he has control over your mind. Think about
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respect. You let this man get away with whatever. You always pick up
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the phone when he calls, and you will go over and fuck him,
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even when you're mad. You think he sees you as a future wife.
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He will always see you as a basic ass bitch because you allowed him to
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disrespect you in a way you can recover from. To get that power back
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isn't about tricks, ignoring them, blocking them for a few weeks period.
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So allow me to carve out that week shit. On today's show, I'm
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going to share a few chapters from My New Date, like a spartan audiobook.
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The reason I team that with Patrick Stevens to bring you this book is
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that for the past two years I've gotten emails and messages asking why the men
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don't love women like you audiobook only had the first part of the book,
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so now you have the second part of the book in audio form for the
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first time. So listen to these chapters. Taking this information and understand how
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easy it is to attain power over men by first understanding the power of self.
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When challenged with what makes you special, your answer will always be some
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form of I am special because I'm not like other women. Do you know
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every other woman? Remember that brutal kicking the ass. The first part of
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this book began with an observation and then a challenge. The observation was that
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there are too many weak, basic, and typical women pretending to be special.
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The foundation they were built on was cracked. Their self esteem was buried
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under years of childhood trauma, failed relationships, and a victim's mindset that told
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them that they could not win. The challenge I laid forth and awaken the
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spartan within was to hit reset and realize that no relationship will ever succeed unless
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you understand and embrace who you truly are, A goddess in the flesh,
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the center of the universe, a spartan queen who creates opportunity and ignites success.
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Men don't Love Women Like You has changed lives. The emails I've gotten
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from Australia, Vietnam, Amsterdam, New York and everywhere in between were proof
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that everything I wrote needed only to be done in the ways I laid out,
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and any woman could become a Spartan. I've been told numerous times that
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the audiobook was a nightly ritual and asked why the entire book wasn't available in
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that form. The answer is simple, basicas don't follow directions very well,
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men don't Love Women like You was broken into parts for a reason. The
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first part was to build your self confidence and open your eyes to what this
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world truly is an amusement park of your creation. The second part was about
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the practical how too of meeting men, dating men, and entering a relationship
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in such a way that you would not make the same mistakes you once did.
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The third part focused on the relationship stage. What I found with the
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book is that so many women were racing to get to the dating sections that
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they skipped the internal work. You can't date like a spartan if you are
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not yet a spartan. G L. How can I deal with my daddy
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issues? G L? What do men really think of plus sized women.
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G L. How do I know I'm ready to date after a break up?
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That was covered in the first seven chapters, but they didn't have time
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to read it and do the work. People tend to buy books when they
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want immediate answers because it's not about working on self. It's about reacting to
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pain. You know how you are When you're scared and confused. You become
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impatient, desperately looking for a quick fix, so you skim through knowledge that
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can save your life just so you can learn how to make some punk ass
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boy fall in love with you. That basic shit infuriated me, so the
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audiobook needed only to include your first lesson awakening the Spartan within. If you
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were truly worthy of this knowledge and strong enough to continue that journey, then
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you most likely picked up the physical book or you're currently listening to this reloaded
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version, regardless of the path. If you are right here, right now,
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congratulations, The spartan within you is wide awake and you're hungry to learn
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how to control this newfound power. You demand this book. You need this
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book, and I know you will make me proud as you reach the finish
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line of your dating life. So what's currently standing in the way of you
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finding love? It's not external. There is no external problem that isn't internally
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projected. There is something causing you to stand in your own way. You
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say you want to manifest love, but instead you have manifested men who play
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games, men who ghost you, men who would be perfect but aren't your
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type. Men who are perfect fifty percent of the time and confusing the rest,
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Men who bounce in and out of your life, men who come in
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for a short stint and ruin your confidence. This isn't a dating book.
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This isn't a book about men. It's a book about you. Understanding that
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you are a badass goddess who can and will get what she wants. I
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know who you are at the core. You want to be happy. You
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don't want the confusion, and you hate that you fall for people who change
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up or reveal that they aren't anything you hoped. It's not the men,
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they are merely pawns on the board. It's your own mind that's broken.
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You're so strong in most areas but so weak in others. Anxiety over choosing
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wrong and uncertainty that kindles your trust issues. All of those things that the
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first part of this book try to help you reset and rewrite. Will come
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back to the dating stage because you will meet men who cause you to question
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your judgment. The truth is, you know how to date. It's the
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second guessing that always throws you off and leads you to either choosing the wrong
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man or pushing away the right man. Date like a spartan, is a
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blueprint that is guaranteed to improve your dating life overnight. All the things you
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learned in the first part of this book, the spiritual journey, the holes
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you poked in the illusion others call reality. It's a superpower that has put
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you ahead of the game. Look at the rest of those basic bitches running
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around like chickens with their heads cut off. Pick me, pick me.
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They still think it's about how they look, how much they weigh, in
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what city they live in. Ah, those peasants are still reading dating book
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after dating book, trying to figure out how men think, huddling up with
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their basicas in online groups, figuring out how to tap into feminine energy or
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whatever dumb buzzword that's being pushed on social media. These typicals talk about manifesting.
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Go out and buy crystal after Crystal read how low affirmation after affirmation,
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only to end up with the same old fix a dick. You are no
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longer in the same boat as the dick, thirsty man chasing gimmick using love
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starved little girls. You are a fucking deity. You know that manifesting isn't
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something you do, It's something that's already happening. You understand that men aren't
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something you chase. They are seduced and slaughtered. This is your world and
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it doesn't demand that you be anything more than your true self. Being aligned
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with your godhood, aware of your power, and confident enough to aggressively go
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after opportunities is ancient wisdom lost on the modern minds of the ignorant. Ignorance
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doesn't live in your mind. The first test has been passed. All the
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issues with your parents, your exes, physical appearance, and self confidence were
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worked out in the first part of this book. The time for healing,
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reflecting, and resetting is over. Now it's time to move in power and
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take what belongs to you. This is your stage. The background players have
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moved into position, and now you have to put on the show of your
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life as the universe directs you to the ultimate happy ending. Welcome to the
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second level of Spartan hood. The world has changed since the first edition of
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this section. Online dating has become bigger, a pandemic rock the world,
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and men have upgraded their games to take advantage of these things. It doesn't
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fucking matter what's going on out there, only what's going on inside of you.
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You may have stumbled, but you are still a Spartan and we are
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now reloaded with a new way to take control of your world. I will
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show you how to win at any cost with an updated strategy pulled from those
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that have used this very book to level up. I warn you these steps
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won't be easy. The work required will push you to go against your fears,
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stomp out the ego that still lingers, and rebuild you as a Spartan
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in action as well as in thought. The others couldn't reach these heights.
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They read part of the book and put it down or went back to their
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weak, bitch ways. My book hurt the feelings of basic women, and
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that's not by accident. They failed my initial Spartan boot camp and aren't here
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because the knowledge in this book is not for them. This is your book.
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Spartan. The reward for making it through this stage is that you will
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never have dating stage anxiety, word, worries, or fears again. No
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matter where the present or future may find you break ups, pandemics, or
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jumping back into the dating pool years from now, the information contained in this
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book will put you back on track and remind you just who the fuck you
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are A world eater. Chapter one, The Brutal Truth about dating. Humans
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tell themselves stories to make life easier to digest. Superstition ruled the world before
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science. It's easy to look back and laugh at myths on why rain fell
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from the sky now that you know that there is no magic involved. Nevertheless,
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myths are still being told, and you are still buying into them to
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make sense of your own fears. If you're a nice person, then nice
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things will happen to you. If you do a detailed vision board, you
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can't lose. If you date people whose astrological signs match up with yours,
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you'll eventually win at love. This is not science. There are stories that
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someone made up, claimed worked, and you bought in without any proof other
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than word of mouth or anecdotes. Even when you crash and burn and none
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of the stories you believe in or superstition you follow work out. You don't
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question or call bullshit. Instead, you double down with it's not for me
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to question fate. Listen to how silly that sounds. You are worse than
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the prehistoric humanoids because they had to make it up as they went. You
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have all this knowledge at your fingertips and still choose to believe in fairy tales.
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We slip into the lives that are laid out for us, the way
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children slip into the clothes their mother lays out for them in the morning.
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No one decides. We don't live our lives by choice, but by default.
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Jed mckinna, everything you believe is inherited. You think, because you're
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now into New Age, holistic or mystic teachings, that you're different or more
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woke than those that still cling to Western ideals or mainstream concepts. The truth
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is you're just as much of a sucker as they are. There is nothing
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deep about following make believe that has yet to net you results. There is
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nothing positive about swallowing hollow affirmations that you don't really buy. You want the
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genie in the lamp world that the law of attraction promises, but what you're
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getting is inconsistent results. Guess what everyone is getting those results. They make
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a little money, have a little success, get into a new relationship,
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and scream it works, but it doesn't. The pyramid scheme of let's all
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keep pretending its magic when it's actually twenty percent results in eighty percent failure is
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a scam. I told you the spartan secret who you really are, and
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that it was time to wake from the dream you keep calling life and all
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the gimmicks and rules that just keep this matrix going. Did you listen?
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Did you realize that the demons are just light shadows dancing in your head?
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Did you embrace the fact that all the situations you call problems are of your
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own imagination? Do you now laugh at the roller coaster of life? Or
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do you still bury your head because you still think the dips and dives are
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real. I ripped the veil of perception off and ended all excuses. You
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don't need to believe in anything but yourself in order to collapse the wave.
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Yet, when you go out into the world to date, jump on these
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apps to match, or are face to face with a man, you freeze
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up and fall into old habits. You continue to tell yourself the same dating
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story, that it's all about the men in your city, that it's about
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luck, that you have to wait to be picked, and that you have
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to be what men say they want in order to be loved. Your ego
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is not built for the truth, because to accept the spartan secret is to
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kill your ego, and you don't want that to happen. Thus, you
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create the story of your life good womans stuck in a world where there aren't
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any good men that can handle her, and that makes you feel better about
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your circumstances. Go on, tell yourself that you're single by choice and that
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all these men would love to be with you, but none of them are
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worthy. The reality is that if you're still stuck in the dating stage,
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it's not by choice. Sure, you can pick some slob and be his
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girlfriend, but let's take simps off the table. Could you go out and
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get an actual, top shelf, high value boyfriend by the end of the
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month. That's not rhetorical answer that right now in your mind. If the
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answer is I'm sure I can, then why haven't you? What the fuck
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isn't connecting in terms of going on a date and snatching a man's soul.
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You're getting older, other women are getting smarter, and you're pretending that you
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choose to be single. I could Spartan up if I wanted, but the
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city I live in doesn't have any eligible men. Plus I'm working on myself.
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Blah blah, fucking blah. Weak women make weak excuses for their relationship
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status. The real reason why you haven't used the first part of this book
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as a weapon to unlock your true power is that you don't believe all the
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spartan teachings from the first half of this book are replaced beast with whatever new
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basic bitch dating book you picked up next. All that stuff that panders and
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tells you nothing is your fault feels better than me trying to beat the weak
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out of you. All that stuff that pats you on the back and tells
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you to just keep praying feels better than me telling you that you have to
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be an active creator. It feels good and sounds good, But it didn't
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work, did it. Here you are right back where you belong. You
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know you're a spartan. You know the words in this book will flip the
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switch, But you're stuck in a loop of doubt. The universe will always
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call bullshit on your ego and push you to be truthful. Between you and
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me, I know you've been hurt, rejected, and that someone you liked
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didn't like you back. Of course, you can't admit these things because it
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destroys your narrative about being happily single or single by choice. You want companionship,
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and here the universe is showing you that it exists, that your bullshit
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wrong woman in the wrong City theory is a lie. You see others falling
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in love, You see power couples being born. You even see men popp
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into your life and tease you, and it depresses you on a certain level
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because you should be the one winning. You can either stop lying to yourself
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and realize that it doesn't matter the city, the types of men in that
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city, or any external factor. I can and will win. A negative
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story will lead to negative chapters. A positive story will lead to positive chapters.
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Again, positivity doesn't come from chants, crystals, books, or quotes.
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Everything in this sandbox you call life comes from your deep knowing that you
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can win without really trying. Because this universe is rigged in your favor.
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What is this world? The world isn't chaos, it isn't horrible, it
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isn't unfair, and it doesn't need to be burnt down and rebuilt. The
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world you occupy is a raging storm of your own mind. You have sunny
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days, you have rainy days, you have tornadoes, and sometimes it's a
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severe blizzard that forces you to stay inside. When you get into the habit
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of reacting instead of embracing, you surrender to the elements, and you lose
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your way. You become nothing more than a kite tearing into the wind.
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No matter what kind of childhood you had, there were things put in place
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to protect you from this storm of your mind. There was a sense of
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order, sense, and a blueprint that would help you control the world.
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Go to school, get rich, be happy, have faith and religion.
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Don't send you'll really be happy. Listen to adults. They know everything and
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will enlighten you to the point where happiness is guaranteed. By the time you
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reach adulthood, you discover that adulting is hard because none of that blue prints,
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blind faith, or advice changes the raging storms of the world. Nothing
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worked, and no one really knows anything, and you ask, what's the
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point? Who is running this cruel simulation? And how can you hack it?
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The irony that any wise person discovers is that you don't have to hack
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life. There is nothing to really learn. All knowledge is right there for
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you to know if you choose to look. The world was never chaos.
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It opens up and gives you those sunny days, but you don't appreciate it.
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Your mind goes to this won't last negativity. The world opens up and
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gives you that rainy day to slow you down, not to make you crash,
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but you still crash because you don't know how to handle the highways of
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your own mind. The world will even blizzard, the entire world force you
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to sit at home and get that break you need to hit reset, but
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you don't see the sign that this is what you need to focus your mind.
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Instead, you go crazy and want to rush back out to the chaos
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of the routine. Meditate on that weather metaphor for a moment and put the
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world into that perspective. Fighting the bad days or wishing for better days?
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Isn't the point? Understanding that each day is, therefore reason is crucial to
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framing your life and mastering your world. Your conscious mind is not aligned with
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your subconscious mind because you still think on a materialistic level. Money, clothes,
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vacations, and other people are needed to be happy, and it's all
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hard to come by. You keep pushing and pushing, and the weather of
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your thoughts keep changing and changing. You've created a hell out of heaven.
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You are so bogged down with wanting things that don't even matter that you can't
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grasp the things you need. There will never be an out there, There
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will never be a them. There is only you fighting a pointless war with
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yourself because you've been hypnotized into believing the news, gossip, politics, and
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heartbreaks are real. The ignorant person hides under the bed when the wind whistles
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through an open window because they mistake noise for a monster. How many times
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does this book have to keep pulling you back in for you to realize that
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there is no such thing as monsters? What is dating? How would you
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describe dating to a five year old? The process of meeting people, getting
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to know that, deciding if you match personality wise, and then testing that
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theory over a period of time to see if you should commit. You can't
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define it better than that. Right, The concept of dating is easy to
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grasp, but it's hard to do if you don't understand the world you are
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living in. Let's break each piece down, the process of meeting people.
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When you believe that you live in a random world, you will think of
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meeting people as simple luck. Either you're lucky enough to be that woman who
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bumps into some handsome millionaire who sees you as a trophy, or you're unlucky
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and bump into some shady narcissist who ruins the next two years of your life.
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Enlightenment not the kind you pay for by going to seminars, but the
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actual truth of knowing your own mind would make you laugh at the concept of
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luck. Yet here you are still firm asleep at the wheel, thinking that
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meeting people is a crapshoot. The universe reacts to this luck theory and again
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calls bullshit. Oh, you can't meet people outside because you don't go out.
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Bam, here's the technology that can now speed up the dating process and
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take it out of the realm of being outside at the right place at the
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right time. Again, since you are ignorant to the world and your place
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in it. You shake your head, Nope, that technology is filled with
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creeps and weirdos. I don't want to use it. The universe then shrugs
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and places you back outside a random event, a new job, any place
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where you can be social. You shrug again, Nope. None of these
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men who are approaching me are what I want, and the guy that does
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look like something I would want isn't coming over. I quit. Do you
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see how utterly stupid your world becomes when you buy into the concept of luck
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or chaotic coincidence. You don't like the way some guy's hair is cut,
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so he's out. You don't want to go over and talk to some guy
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whose haircut you do like, so he's out. And you don't want to
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do the process from the privacy of your phone because it sounds like work.
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You pray for things that are handed to you, then you push it away
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and pray for it to be easier. The process of meeting people is never
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hard when you accept that all you have to do is go with the flow,
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not fight against the opportunities that are thrown at you. When you simply
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live life proactively getting to know people. The second part of the dating breakdown
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is the who are you and this is who I am? Process. This
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should be even easier than meeting someone, but again, your fear of this
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world fucks you up. The foundation of your personal life is stuffed with insecurities.
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You started this game of life with certain parents who taught you certain things
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that may have caused certain damage. You started this game with a certain look,
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nose shaped, skin color, hair texture, and from there you get
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into body shapes that develop over time, the weight that's gained or lost,
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et cetera. How you look compared to the rest of your peers can either
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make you feel confident or make you insecure in terms of your physical traits.
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If you don't look like the prototype as shown on a magazine cover, you
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see the world as unfair. Your mind, that raging storm now puts a
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dark cloud over your life based on your own thoughts about how you look.
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Middle school crushes and high school dating are training grounds. They either boost your
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self esteem or ding it. To be rejected, cheated on, or never
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loved sticks with you, just like your parents. Treatment and your physical appearance
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of romantic success can create insecurities that are hard to shake even ten years later.
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Meeting a person is one thing, but getting to know them with these
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insecurities is another. You may have developed a shy personality because you didn't like
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your teeth, so you hated speaking. Maybe you were taught that a woman
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shouldn't talk too much, and now on dates you just nod along and let
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the man take control. You may have developed a personality that grades on a
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curve, meaning that if a man is super attractive, you don't ask questions,
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challenge him, or do anything other than get along with him, because
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you don't see yourself as pretty enough to get a man like this on a
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regular basis. Perhaps you were taught that sex or spoiling a man is how
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you connect with him, so while you're supposed to be getting to know him,
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you're crossing the sexual lines to keep him. I can go on and
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on. The point is when your mind is poisoned to believe that your parents
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fucked up philosophy was the word of God, that you aren't as pretty as
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the other women a man can get, or that every relationship is going to
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end badly like your first few, then you become a horrible dater. It's
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not the physical world that keeps you stuck dating in this loop, it's your
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mind. You don't think you deserve the sunny days because it's always been Seattle
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for you. So why even get to know someone that'll just disappoint you,
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or who you'll disappoint deciding if you match personality wise? You are playing a
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character. We all know. This universe is nothing more than a stage with
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actors coming in and out, depending on what scene your subconscious wants to play
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out. In high school, you may have been the tough, sassy chick.
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When you got hired at a new company, you may have chilled out
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and became professional and elegant so people knew to respect you. So who have
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you chosen to play at this point in your life? I know so many
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actresses from the Instagram sex kittens who jet set but can't afford their rent,
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to the divorce man hater who wants to tell everyone else how to date,
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even the shy college student who pretends to be poor but is currently being sponsored
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by one of my favorite musicians. Everyone has a role they perform. Either
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you're playing a role that was thrust on you, or you're choosing the role
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you want to play to best enjoy this world. When dating a man is
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observing your behavior, your accent, the way you pronounce words, the kinds
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of things you ask, the hobbies you enjoy doing. He's also looking at
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the subtext if you're loud or soft, domineering or quiet, and from there
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he's going to be a critic. Just like the late great Siskel and Ebert,
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He's going to give you a thumbs up or down. That's what you
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believe. The way you dress, what you talk about on a date,
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and your general comfort level are influenced by the critics. You don't want to
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disappoint this man, so you play your role the way that you think males
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will approve. In your world, the men are making the choices while you
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wait to be picked because your inherent character flaw is that you have to tap
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dance for dick. Imagine if you stopped acting for men and took on a
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role for yourself. Testing compatibility, the final part of my original breakdown of
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dating was testing to see if you mesh over a period of time, to
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see if you should commit. This is what dating boils down to. In
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the end, has the person shown that they fit you well enough to enter
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a committed relationship. The irony is that in your world, you don't test
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for your fit. You hope to fit him. This doesn't mean that you're
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a pushover, but it points to a lack of a self centered goal.
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You date a man, you get mad when he does something you don't like.
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You're happy when he kisses your ass, and after enough time spent,
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you fall in love with the dick he's laying or even just having his company.
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What about the deeper applications that truly make relationships work? Has he earned
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you through actions or words? Is he someone who gets you on every level?
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Or someone you like because he likes you back? Testing these things doesn't
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matter. When your world is chaotic, You think it's about luck and hitting
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the lottery in order to advance from dating to a relationship. So you don't
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test. You don't truly vet. You just hope he doesn't get too crazy,
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turns out to be a cheater, or ghosts you. The world that
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you've created for yourself is filled with injustice and tragedy, but none more tragic
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than you, a living god, choosing to downplay your might because of the
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weak thoughts that storm through your mind. This is sparta. I am not
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here to show you how to play the same flawed character in the same inconsistent
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way and get the same inconsistent results. I am here to declare that there
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is no need to be afraid anymore. What if they don't like the way
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I look? What if I don't have anything interesting to say? What if
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they find someone else? Stop having imaginary conversations and living out fantasies of failure.
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There are women who tell themselves shit like men don't like darker skinned women,
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men only date skinny women, You have to match a man financially to
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be taken seriously, and all of these other pitiful tall tales. Every story
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you make up about why this world won't give you what you want will come
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true. Each fear that you have as to why you will be rejected will
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come true. The universe is built to give you what you keep asking for,
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And no matter how hard you cry or how sick you are of the
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dating stage, it's a purgatory of your own making. You will find true
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love. That's not an affirmation. That's a spoiler. You will be genuinely
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happy. That's not an affirmation. That's a spoiler. Everything you need is
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already yours. That's not an affirmation. That's a spoiler. The hell you've
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put yourself through will lead to a happy ending, not by default, not
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because you're nice, show gratitude or pray, but because you worked for it.
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This book is an entertainment. It's the pill that gets you out of
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the hole. There is no them, There is only you. There is
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no failure, there's only success. There are no setbacks, there is only
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discovery. There is no fear, There is only courage. The story you
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are about to write throughout this book will challenge you to look back at what
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you used to do or those things that you still do, and burn it
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down. You are not shy, and you are not unattractive. You are
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not your past. You are not your mistakes. You are simply what you
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choose to be today and every day that follows. You will choose to be
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a fucking Spartan. The new story you're going to create is about how you
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take over the world and reign over it for years to come. Are you
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ready online dating, using apps in social media the Spartan way? It doesn't
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matter where you meet a man, because dating like a Spartan doesn't start until
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you actually go on a date. Online dating or meeting someone through social media
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exploded in twenty twenty due to the pandemic, Sites like bumble, Hinge and
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Match started fielding people who would never ever sign up for dating sites. My
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views on meeting people online have evolved over the year as technology has improved.
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I've seen tender go from a breeding ground of fuck boys to seeing CEOs use
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it to speed up the process because they no longer have time to go out.
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The stigma of guys on those apps aren't serious has changed because we are
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living in a new world. I discussed new school dating briefly in the first
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half of Men Don't Love Women like You when breaking down attracting men online,
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but let's expand on it. Younger women prefer online sites as men talking to
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them in public at random can be a turn off, and even I fucking
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a guy when outside remained scary and awkward. Older women may be hesitant to
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try seducing men online as they don't know what to message or to say to
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stand out as they would in person. No matter what category you fall in,
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it will benefit you to be a master of offline seduction as well as
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online seduction. During the pandemic, I gave out a quarantine dating book on
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my website. Then I gathered data from those who used it and began to
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email me about what worked and what didn't work. I did this for the
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sole purpose of writing this chapter so it can serve as the ultimate guide to
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modern day online dating. What I discovered was that be beeing a basic bitch
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online is much easier than in person. So many of these typicals don't know
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how to message a man and keep his interest, nor do they know how
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to test them with trigger questions. Think about your own social media or dating
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app skills. Can you truly call yourself a spartan who can use her wit
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to make a man thirst after you without reverting to sexy pictures or dirty talk?
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Can you type back in a way that will get any guy, no
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matter how handsome a rich, to melt in your hands. If the answer
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is no, then this chapter is for you. Getting to your first date
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may not happen in the way it did with Spartan Calli or Spartan Phoenix.
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Okay, okay, okay, I'm gonna cut it off right head, don't
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be mad at me. If you want to hit a full version, go
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download it and listen. It's on iTunes. It's on audible shit. It's
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probably on vinyl. Me and Patrick Stevens work really hard on this book,
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so I hope you appreciate it, and I hope you actually use it.
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This is going to be your year. Make me proud, Make me proud,