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- 0:04Speaker 1: Hello and welcome to Outspoken.
- 0:06Speaker 2: It's your dose of the hottest influencer and pop culture
- 0:09Speaker 2: news twice a week. I'm Sophie Torber and coming up
- 0:12Speaker 2: on today's show, the real reason behind Molly May and
- 0:15Speaker 2: Tommy Fury's split, the Queensland influencer charged with torturing her
- 0:19Speaker 2: baby to boost her social media following, and finance podcaster
- 0:24Speaker 2: Victoria Devine is in hot water for her comments over
- 0:27Speaker 2: that controversial billboard. But first, it's been a turbulent time
- 0:31Speaker 2: for TikTok users in the US. On Sunday, 170 million
- 0:36Speaker 2: Americans were shut out from the app as a nationwide
- 0:39Speaker 2: ban took effect.
- 0:41Speaker 1: To the US government, I'm never forgiving you for this.
- 0:44Speaker 2: I feel so dumb coming on the internet and crying
- 0:47Speaker 2: about an app.
- 0:47Speaker 3: But the fact is that this has been a sense
- 0:49Speaker 3: of community for me.
- 0:52Speaker 2: But the ban was short-lived because within 14 hours, TikTok
- 0:56Speaker 2: was back. I feel like there would have been a
- 0:58Speaker 2: few red faces because I saw so many creators in
- 1:01Speaker 2: hysterical tears. I also saw many TikTok creators exposing secrets
- 1:07Speaker 2: before the app went down. Yeah, there'd be a lot
- 1:09Speaker 2: of regret over that. I was pretty shocked by the
- 1:11Speaker 2: message that TikTok users received. So they got a pop-up
- 1:14Speaker 2: message saying, sorry, TikTok isn't available right now. A law
- 1:18Speaker 2: banning TikTok has been enacted in the US. Unfortunately, that
- 1:21Speaker 2: means you can't use TikTok for now. We are fortunate
- 1:24Speaker 2: that President Trump has indicated that he will work with
- 1:27Speaker 2: us on a solution to reinstate TikTok once he takes office.
- 1:30Speaker 2: Please stay tuned. And it didn't take Donald Trump too
- 1:33Speaker 2: long to take credit for TikTok's return. So he was
- 1:36Speaker 2: speaking at an inauguration event and he told crowds, as
- 1:40Speaker 2: of today, TikTok is back. We have no choice. We
- 1:43Speaker 2: have to save it. He then went on to suggest
- 1:46Speaker 2: that the US was set to own 50% of the company,
- 1:49Speaker 2: telling the media it would make a lot of money.
- 1:52Speaker 2: So if TikTok is worth nothing, zero, zero. without an approval.
- 1:58Speaker 2: You know, if you don't approve, they're out of business,
- 2:00Speaker 2: they're worth nothing.
- 2:02Speaker 3: If you do approve, they're worth like a trillion dollars.
- 2:04Speaker 3: They're worth some crazy number.
- 2:07Speaker 2: So I said, I'll approve, but let the United States
- 2:11Speaker 2: of America own 50% of TikTok. I'm approving on behalf.
- 2:16Speaker 4: Of the United States.
- 2:18Speaker 2: I want to cut through the crap here because he
- 2:20Speaker 2: is acting like a hero when he is the one
- 2:22Speaker 2: who initiated talks back in 2020 to ban the app
- 2:25Speaker 2: over fears that it was a national security risk. This
- 2:28Speaker 2: just seems to be some big publicity stunt for Donald Trump.
- 2:31Speaker 2: I think he's in cahoots with TikTok. The fact that
- 2:33Speaker 2: they even named him in that initial pop-up message and
- 2:36Speaker 2: also the fact that TikTok did have that big blackout
- 2:39Speaker 2: in the U.S., No one was expecting it to actually
- 2:41Speaker 2: go down. Well, it was early as well. And there
- 2:44Speaker 2: were a lot of rumors saying, well, no, it's not
- 2:46Speaker 2: going to cancel out if you have the TikTok app.
- 2:48Speaker 2: It's just going to stop people from downloading TikTok. Yeah,
- 2:51Speaker 2: people thought it was going to be a slow transition
- 2:53Speaker 2: away from TikTok. It wasn't going to be something that
- 2:55Speaker 2: suddenly just got blacked out. It's scary to see what
- 2:57Speaker 2: is unfolding on our social media apps. Last week, Mark
- 3:00Speaker 2: Zuckerberg got rid of fact checking on Facebook and Instagram.
- 3:04Speaker 2: We can see that he is kissing the ring, as
- 3:06Speaker 2: people are saying, of Donald Trump. He is sucking up
- 3:08Speaker 2: to Donald Trump at the moment. Donald Trump also has
- 3:11Speaker 2: Elon Musk in his camp. And now we're seeing that
- 3:14Speaker 2: he's in cahoots with TikTok, the app that he originally
- 3:17Speaker 2: wanted to get rid of. Now I want to get
- 3:19Speaker 2: to the fun stuff. Let's talk about this TikTok confession trend.
- 3:23Speaker 2: So before the app shut down, a lot of creators
- 3:26Speaker 2: jumped on this audio clip from Family Guy where Peter
- 3:29Speaker 2: Griffin made a confession to his family. So a lot
- 3:32Speaker 2: of people lip synced to this grab and then they
- 3:35Speaker 2: made their own confessions.
- 3:37Speaker 3: Since we're all going to die, there's one more secret
- 3:40Speaker 3: I feel I have to share with you.
- 3:42Speaker 2: Now, one of the TikTokers that ruffled feathers was Lexi Hidlago.
- 3:46Speaker 2: And she's really well known for her coffee chats and
- 3:49Speaker 2: also for her workout videos. And she revealed to her
- 3:53Speaker 2: 2.7 million followers that she never once drank coffee in
- 3:57Speaker 2: her coffee chats and that she only did half the
- 4:00Speaker 2: workouts she posted. This confession, as you can imagine, went
- 4:03Speaker 2: down like a lead balloon. Everyone was like, why the
- 4:06Speaker 2: fuck would you admit this? Especially if you're trying to
- 4:09Speaker 2: get followers to follow you over to Instagram, it just
- 4:11Speaker 2: makes you look so inauthentic. Well, the one that upset
- 4:14Speaker 2: me the most was beauty influencer, Meredith Duxby. And she
- 4:17Speaker 2: has gained a lot of attention on TikTok for using
- 4:21Speaker 2: an outrageous amount of foundation. So she will put about
- 4:24Speaker 2: 12 pumps onto her face. And it's all about trusting
- 4:28Speaker 2: the process because she always looks incredible after Well, she
- 4:31Speaker 2: has admitted that she wiped a hell of a lot
- 4:33Speaker 2: of that.
- 4:33Speaker 1: Makeup off before the final results.
- 4:35Speaker 2: She said it was just for rage baiting, which has
- 4:37Speaker 2: obviously worked. The worst one was some of the creators
- 4:41Speaker 2: who admitted that they never use the products that they
- 4:43Speaker 2: promoted on their TikTok shop. There must be so many
- 4:45Speaker 2: people kicking themselves for jumping on this trend. And as
- 4:48Speaker 2: you said earlier, I don't understand it because it's not
- 4:52Speaker 2: like these people were going to lose their following. People
- 4:54Speaker 2: were going to go across to Instagram or Red Note
- 4:57Speaker 2: or Snapchat. And still follow these people. Yeah, I mean,
- 5:00Speaker 2: how stupid can you be? It's literally just ruined any
- 5:02Speaker 2: credibility they might have had. Also, I would be really
- 5:04Speaker 2: pissed off as one of the brands that's done sponsored
- 5:08Speaker 2: work with them because you'd be questioning, okay, cool, so
- 5:10Speaker 2: you've pretty much told everyone you hated the products we
- 5:12Speaker 2: provided you with.
- 5:13Speaker 5: Oh, no, don't worry. I'm not calling you idiots. All
- 5:16Speaker 5: the girls that bought my book, listened to my podcast,
- 5:19Speaker 5: took financial advice from me. You're not idiots. You made
- 5:22Speaker 5: me millions, all right?
- 5:24Speaker 2: A national real estate agency has caused a stir online
- 5:28Speaker 2: after bragging on a billboard that they've been making homes
- 5:31Speaker 2: more expensive since 2017. The backlash was swift with the
- 5:35Speaker 2: agency labelled out of touch in the current housing affordability crisis.
- 5:40Speaker 2: Amidst the drama, finance podcaster Victoria Devine went into bat
- 5:44Speaker 2: for the agency, calling people who don't get the billboard idiots. Now, Sophie,
- 5:48Speaker 2: when this story first broke, there was a lot of
- 5:51Speaker 2: confusion because the real estate agency in question shares the
- 5:54Speaker 2: same name as one of Australia's most popular online clothing stores.
- 5:58Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right.
- 5:59Speaker 2: If you believe it, this agency is called White Fox
- 6:02Speaker 2: Real Estate. And what makes things even more confusing is
- 6:05Speaker 2: that its branding is nearly identical to the clothing retailer. Well,
- 6:09Speaker 2: we actually spoke about White Fox Real Estate probably a
- 6:11Speaker 2: month ago now when Steph Clare Smith revealed that she
- 6:14Speaker 2: was selling her home.
- 6:15Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 6:15Speaker 2: Well, the name of the agency, it's derived from the
- 6:17Speaker 2: founder's name, Marty Fox, and he's recently found fame as
- 6:21Speaker 2: a judge on the block. And he is your stereotypical
- 6:24Speaker 2: real estate agent. He's very good looking. He dresses well.
- 6:27Speaker 2: He's got flashy white teeth and he's very confident. And
- 6:30Speaker 2: because of his appearance on the block, He has around
- 6:33Speaker 2: 34,000 followers online. His agency specializes in luxury real estate.
- 6:37Speaker 2: And as you touched on, Kate, he has a number
- 6:39Speaker 2: of celebrity clients like Steph Klessmith and Josh Miller. He
- 6:43Speaker 2: currently has Sam Wood and Snez's Home on his listings
- 6:46Speaker 2: at the moment. So you can tell the type of
- 6:48Speaker 2: clientele he works with. Now, the drama kicked off when
- 6:51Speaker 2: a passerby snapped a photo of the controversial billboard in
- 6:55Speaker 2: Perth and shared their thoughts on TikTok. So the TikTok
- 6:58Speaker 2: user's name is M.
- 7:00Speaker 3: Redmond.
- 7:00Speaker 2: And she's got around 3,000 followers. So she shared vision
- 7:04Speaker 2: of the billboard with the slogan, making homes more expensive
- 7:07Speaker 2: since 2017.
- 7:09Speaker 1: And she wrote, maybe not.
- 7:10Speaker 2: The message to be gloating about in the middle of
- 7:12Speaker 2: a housing crisis. Now this video quickly garnered 300,000 views
- 7:17Speaker 2: and people started making reaction videos. And again, there was
- 7:20Speaker 2: a lot of confusion in Em's comment section because Her
- 7:23Speaker 2: audience assumed that the billboard was from the clothing brand.
- 7:26Speaker 2: So one user wrote, I thought this was about White Fox,
- 7:29Speaker 2: the clothing label, and was so lost. And that comment
- 7:31Speaker 2: received 4,000 likes. Another user said, I'm so confused. Do
- 7:35Speaker 2: you mean you're spending more money on their clothes when
- 7:38Speaker 2: you could be saving for a house? And another chimed
- 7:41Speaker 2: in saying, their advertising must be terrible because I drive
- 7:44Speaker 2: past one of their offices every day. And up until now,
- 7:47Speaker 2: I thought they were White Fox.
- 7:48Speaker 1: The clothing brand.
- 7:50Speaker 2: I'm very curious from this, if this lack of branding
- 7:53Speaker 2: distinction is one of the reasons why the agency was
- 7:56Speaker 2: so desperate to create a stir. Maybe they thought a
- 7:59Speaker 2: stunt like this was going to help them build some
- 8:01Speaker 2: much needed brand awareness and cement their spot in the
- 8:04Speaker 2: real estate market. Surely Marty being on the block is
- 8:07Speaker 2: enough advertisement though, like good advertisement for the company. Well,
- 8:10Speaker 2: clearly not because a lot of people have not heard
- 8:13Speaker 2: of them. I had a look on Google and they
- 8:14Speaker 2: appear straight after White Fox Boutique. So this stunt hasn't
- 8:18Speaker 2: been able to get them top spot just yet. That's
- 8:20Speaker 2: not how SEO works. I used to work at an
- 8:22Speaker 2: SEO firm and you don't generally type in the name
- 8:25Speaker 2: of the real estate company to find them because you
- 8:27Speaker 2: know it already. So you're going to search their URL.
- 8:30Speaker 2: If you're looking for a real estate agent, you would
- 8:31Speaker 2: type in real estate agent Adelaide. Those are the terms
- 8:35Speaker 2: that real estate companies would be going after. And it
- 8:37Speaker 2: sounds like they only want the rich and famous anyway.
- 8:39Speaker 2: So as long as the likes of Steph Clare Smith
- 8:41Speaker 2: knows the difference between White Fox Boutique and White Fox
- 8:43Speaker 2: Real Estate. When this story blew up, it was picked
- 8:45Speaker 2: up by the Today Show. And even Carl Stefanovic was confused.
- 8:49Speaker 1: Here's what he said.
- 8:51Speaker 2: And it's just stating the facts that at White Fox,
- 8:54Speaker 2: that's what we do. We try and get you as
- 8:55Speaker 2: much money as possible. I thought you made women's lingerie
- 8:58Speaker 2: on White Fox.
- 8:58Speaker 6: Is that a different White Fox?
- 9:00Speaker 5: That's a different one.
- 9:01Speaker 2: I love that he still didn't quite get it right.
- 9:05Speaker 2: That it's an apparel clothing brand, not just lingerie. He's
- 9:07Speaker 2: like offended both of the marketing teams of White Fox
- 9:10Speaker 2: Boutique and White Fox Real Estate. Now the comment section
- 9:13Speaker 2: on Em's TikTok post was relatively mixed. So many people
- 9:17Speaker 2: acknowledge that it's a real estate agent's job to make
- 9:19Speaker 2: as much money for their client as possible, and that
- 9:22Speaker 2: the housing crisis was not their fault, whilst others were
- 9:25Speaker 2: outraged and thought the billboard added unnecessary salt to the
- 9:29Speaker 2: wound for those who have been priced out of the market.
- 9:32Speaker 2: So one user wrote, read the room, White Fox, whilst
- 9:35Speaker 2: another said, imagine driving past this ad in your car
- 9:37Speaker 2: you were forced to live in because of the current
- 9:39Speaker 2: Perth housing market. I really think that your reaction to
- 9:43Speaker 2: this campaign mostly depends on what financial position you're in,
- 9:46Speaker 2: because If you own a home and you're looking at selling,
- 9:50Speaker 2: you want to know that your real estate agent is
- 9:52Speaker 2: working for you and they're going to get the best
- 9:53Speaker 2: price for you. But if you are currently a buyer
- 9:56Speaker 2: and you're having a tough time financially, this is going
- 10:00Speaker 2: to make you feel so resentful and hopeless. You feel
- 10:02Speaker 2: like you're never going to get a house. You're going
- 10:04Speaker 2: to feel ripped off whatever house you do get.
- 10:07Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 10:07Speaker 2: Well, for white folks, I think it's clever marketing because
- 10:11Speaker 2: the people that are offended are not the target market
- 10:13Speaker 2: they're going for. This is for these High earners who
- 10:17Speaker 2: want to make as much money as possible. I'm questioning
- 10:19Speaker 2: why they chose a billboard for that then because that
- 10:21Speaker 2: type of advertising, you can't measure the return on investment
- 10:26Speaker 2: of it. It's literally for everyone to see it. It's
- 10:28Speaker 2: that say and spray method. It's douchey though.
- 10:31Speaker 1: It makes them look like douchebags. Whereas if they had actually.
- 10:33Speaker 2: Used targeted marketing towards people in that top echelon, it
- 10:37Speaker 2: probably would have done a lot better. No, Kate, they
- 10:39Speaker 2: knew exactly what they were doing by putting this billboard up.
- 10:42Speaker 2: This is a classic case of rage baiting. They were
- 10:45Speaker 2: banking on someone passing by being completely outraged and posting
- 10:49Speaker 2: this on social media and it going viral.
- 10:52Speaker 1: It's very clever.
- 10:53Speaker 2: And I think that this achieved exactly what they wanted
- 10:57Speaker 2: it to achieve. Well, so many people now know that
- 10:59Speaker 2: they're a real estate firm and not a clothing boutique.
- 11:02Speaker 2: They knew that this bragging about making homes more expensive
- 11:05Speaker 2: was going to elicit a huge response, particularly when we
- 11:08Speaker 2: are in the midst of such a huge housing affordability crisis. Yeah,
- 11:12Speaker 2: but I don't think that type of publicity is particularly
- 11:14Speaker 2: good for this real estate company because now people are like, oh,
- 11:18Speaker 2: they're a bit douchey, like rubbing it into the common man.
- 11:21Speaker 2: But the people who think that are people who aren't
- 11:23Speaker 2: their customer base because not only did they attract free
- 11:27Speaker 2: commercial attention from this, he appeared on the Today Show,
- 11:29Speaker 2: there was a ton of mainstream media publications. But it
- 11:32Speaker 2: was also a very powerful value proposition because the slogan
- 11:36Speaker 2: directly spelled out to prospective customers will get you the
- 11:40Speaker 2: most money for your home, which ultimately is what every
- 11:43Speaker 2: seller wants to hear. And White Fox knew they weren't
- 11:45Speaker 2: going to offend their target demographic, which is the insanely
- 11:48Speaker 2: wealthy people who own multiple properties. their target demo would
- 11:53Speaker 2: have looked at this slogan and had a chuckle and thought, gee,
- 11:56Speaker 2: these guys are super confident. They're good at what they do.
- 11:58Speaker 2: I want them to get the best price for me.
- 12:00Speaker 2: They weren't going to have an emotional reaction to this slogan,
- 12:04Speaker 2: like most everyday people. I get what you're saying, Sophie,
- 12:07Speaker 2: because when I was in the market to buy a
- 12:09Speaker 2: house with my husband, there were real estate agents that
- 12:12Speaker 2: popped up and you'd go along to the inspection and
- 12:14Speaker 2: you'd go, oh, fuck, I don't want to deal with them.
- 12:16Speaker 2: This house is going to be so expensive.
- 12:18Speaker 1: However, if I was.
- 12:19Speaker 2: Looking to sell I would totally engage them to sell
- 12:23Speaker 2: my house because my mindset is they're going to get
- 12:26Speaker 2: me the most money. There's been a lot of questions
- 12:28Speaker 2: over whether this has damaged Marty Fox's personal brand because
- 12:31Speaker 2: he was very popular on the block. And the majority
- 12:33Speaker 2: of people who watch that show, they're everyday Aussies. So
- 12:36Speaker 2: I wonder if this has left a bad taste in
- 12:38Speaker 2: their mouth. I don't think it's going to affect Marty's
- 12:40Speaker 2: brand at all, but Someone whose brand has been affected
- 12:43Speaker 2: is finance podcaster, Victoria Devine. For those who aren't familiar
- 12:47Speaker 2: with Victoria, she is a retired financial advisor who is
- 12:51Speaker 2: the host of hugely successful podcast, She's On The Money. Now,
- 12:54Speaker 2: She's On The Money is marketed as a finance podcast
- 12:57Speaker 2: that shares honest, relatable, and nonjudgmental financial advice to women.
- 13:02Speaker 2: Victoria has also written three bestselling books, which provide financial
- 13:06Speaker 2: literacy to women. She is also hugely successful in the
- 13:10Speaker 2: business world. She is a founder of Zella, a finance
- 13:12Speaker 2: broking practice, which supports people through the process of buying
- 13:15Speaker 2: a home investment or dream asset. Now, how Victoria fits
- 13:20Speaker 2: in this story is that she's friends with Marty Fox
- 13:22Speaker 2: and she saw the backlash he was receiving. And in
- 13:26Speaker 2: response to one of his Instagram stories about the billboard,
- 13:29Speaker 2: she sent him a DM saying, the people talking shit
- 13:32Speaker 2: aren't your target demographic.
- 13:33Speaker 1: They're idiots.
- 13:34Speaker 2: I got it immediately. Brilliant. Now, Marty replied saying, can
- 13:38Speaker 2: I post and say that even one of the smartest
- 13:40Speaker 2: business minds in Australia even gets it? And a woman
- 13:43Speaker 2: who empowers others to get ahead too is not confused
- 13:46Speaker 2: by this message. There's a lot of ego stroking involved
- 13:49Speaker 2: in that to get what he wanted. So Victoria replied,
- 13:53Speaker 2: of course. So she gave him permission to post her
- 13:55Speaker 2: opinion on the billboard. Marty went ahead and shared the
- 13:58Speaker 2: screenshot of the post writing, Victoria Devine, Aussie financial advisor,
- 14:02Speaker 2: author and podcast host known for empowering millennials to take
- 14:05Speaker 2: control of their finance even gets it. Now, this didn't
- 14:08Speaker 2: get quite the reaction that Victoria was expecting. TikToker M Redmond,
- 14:12Speaker 2: who initially posted about the billboard, shared this screenshot to
- 14:16Speaker 2: TikTok and wrote, when the real estate CEO posts your comment,
- 14:20Speaker 2: making fun of like 90% of your podcast audience.
- 14:23Speaker 1: We're not idiots. We get the billboard.
- 14:26Speaker 2: It just makes us angry because it's a symbol of
- 14:28Speaker 2: the crisis we're trapped in. Now, the video quickly attracted
- 14:32Speaker 2: over 167,000 views. The comment section was absolutely scathing. One
- 14:37Speaker 2: TikToker wrote, Oh my God, what the fuck? Marty Fox
- 14:40Speaker 2: in Victoria Divine. Her response is so disgusting.
- 14:43Speaker 1: Is this real?
- 14:44Speaker 2: Chucking out her book now. Another said, Oh, gross. Immediately unfollowed.
- 14:48Speaker 2: She's on the money. Whilst another said, oopsies, not a
- 14:51Speaker 2: nice way to speak about your own target demographic. Now,
- 14:54Speaker 2: Victoria was on the front foot. So she released an
- 14:57Speaker 2: apology video that afternoon. What I initially liked about this
- 15:01Speaker 2: apology video was that Victoria spoke directly on camera to
- 15:05Speaker 2: her audience. So she didn't put up a black tile
- 15:08Speaker 2: like a lot of other influencers do with text over it.
- 15:11Speaker 2: She put up quite a long video where she actually
- 15:14Speaker 2: acknowledged a lot of the points. Let's have a listen
- 15:17Speaker 2: to what she said.
- 15:19Speaker 4: Hey guys, I just wanted to jump on here and
- 15:22Speaker 4: address a couple of comments that I have seen online
- 15:25Speaker 4: today about me being tone deaf.
- 15:28Speaker 2: And completely out of touch.
- 15:30Speaker 4: And I can't disagree with you. At the end of
- 15:33Speaker 4: the day, the comments I made were tone deaf and
- 15:35Speaker 4: completely out of touch.
- 15:36Speaker 2: And for that, I apologize.
- 15:39Speaker 4: I am genuinely really sorry. I can promise you that
- 15:43Speaker 4: I never made comments like this with the hope to
- 15:46Speaker 4: make anybody feel less than or make anyone feel stupid
- 15:51Speaker 4: or dumb. Because at the end of the day, my
- 15:53Speaker 4: entire purpose is to financially empower women in particular. And there's...
- 16:01Speaker 4: There's no world in which I would want anyone to
- 16:04Speaker 4: feel stupid. And I want to be really clear. I
- 16:07Speaker 4: was not saying that people who can't buy property are idiots.
- 16:12Speaker 4: I was saying that people who didn't understand the billboard
- 16:16Speaker 4: were idiots.
- 16:16Speaker 2: And that, that is very rude still.
- 16:18Speaker 4: That is very unacceptable. And for that, I do apologize.
- 16:23Speaker 2: Now, Victoria provided context for those who might not have
- 16:26Speaker 2: been across the whole story and confirmed the screenshot was
- 16:29Speaker 2: from a conversation between her and Marty and that the
- 16:31Speaker 2: intention of her comment was to support a friend. She
- 16:34Speaker 2: also confirmed she gave Marty permission to post the screenshot
- 16:37Speaker 2: as at the time she didn't see it as an issue.
- 16:40Speaker 2: It is interesting to note though, when describing the billboard
- 16:44Speaker 2: in this apology video, Victoria misquoted the slogan. So this
- 16:49Speaker 2: was pointed out by another TikToker called Rachel McQueen and
- 16:52Speaker 2: So Victoria misquoted the billboard and said making property more
- 16:57Speaker 2: expensive since 2017 when it actually said making homes more expensive. Now,
- 17:02Speaker 2: to me, the word home was strategically used on this
- 17:06Speaker 2: billboard to evoke more anger and outrage from the everyday
- 17:09Speaker 2: Aussie because the word home is a motive. It's the
- 17:12Speaker 2: place where you feel a sense of stability and security.
- 17:15Speaker 2: I feel like Victoria may have been trying to lessen
- 17:17Speaker 2: the blow by pretending that the campaign said properties and
- 17:20Speaker 2: not homes because The word property is far less of motive.
- 17:24Speaker 2: It speaks to a possession. It doesn't speak to a
- 17:26Speaker 2: place where everyday Australians live. And when you hear the
- 17:29Speaker 2: word property, it makes you think of rich and elite
- 17:32Speaker 2: people who own a number of properties that they rent out.
- 17:35Speaker 1: I disagree, Sophie.
- 17:36Speaker 2: I just think it was a slip of the tongue.
- 17:38Speaker 2: The video went for about six minutes. She was very
- 17:40Speaker 2: off the cuff in the video. In this apology, she
- 17:44Speaker 2: referenced that she'd done wrong. She owned up to saying,
- 17:47Speaker 2: I shouldn't have called my audience idiots. I think it
- 17:50Speaker 2: was a slip of the tongue. I mean, I definitely
- 17:52Speaker 2: think that this was a good apology. I just think
- 17:55Speaker 2: it's interesting to analyze the misuse of words there. Now,
- 17:59Speaker 2: she did apologize several times, as you said, Amy, and
- 18:02Speaker 2: she apologized for hurting people by her comments and making
- 18:05Speaker 2: people feel less than she completely.
- 18:07Speaker 1: Owned up to it.
- 18:09Speaker 2: I found this next admission really interesting because Victoria admitted
- 18:13Speaker 2: in the apology that she'd read all the comments about
- 18:16Speaker 2: her and she found them confronting because she agrees that
- 18:19Speaker 2: that she has.
- 18:20Speaker 1: Become out of touch and unrelatable. Here's what she said.
- 18:24Speaker 4: They're really upsetting, but they are also very confronting because
- 18:29Speaker 4: some of them, you're not wrong. I am a little
- 18:33Speaker 4: bit out of touch nowadays. I am, you know, a
- 18:37Speaker 4: little bit unrelatable. But what I want you to know
- 18:41Speaker 4: is that I know you because I was you. I
- 18:45Speaker 4: have been in a position where I have been in
- 18:49Speaker 4: mountains of debt, not knowing how I was going to
- 18:51Speaker 4: pay it off. I have been in a position where
- 18:53Speaker 4: I just didn't think that property was ever going to
- 18:56Speaker 4: be for me. And now I'm in the very fortunate
- 19:00Speaker 4: position where I do own property and I am very
- 19:04Speaker 4: grateful for that. But I just want to make sure
- 19:07Speaker 4: that the people that are in my community know that
- 19:11Speaker 4: I would never think of you as stupid or less
- 19:15Speaker 4: than or not worthy of these things.
- 19:18Speaker 2: Do you guys think that a money expert has to
- 19:21Speaker 2: be relatable or can they simply be aspirational? I think
- 19:25Speaker 2: it's difficult for Victoria Devine because you can see she's
- 19:28Speaker 2: wrestling with trying to be relatable, but then also showcasing
- 19:32Speaker 2: that she is a successful businesswoman. And unfortunately, especially women
- 19:37Speaker 2: in the media and women who are influencers are They
- 19:40Speaker 2: do struggle with showing off their wealth because a lot
- 19:43Speaker 2: of people tear them down over it. I think if
- 19:45Speaker 2: Victoria was struggling to get by and it was clear
- 19:49Speaker 2: that her tip's financial freedom weren't working or advancing her
- 19:53Speaker 2: in any way, we would not be willing to take
- 19:55Speaker 2: her advice on board. I see her as a very
- 19:57Speaker 2: aspirational businesswoman and Someone that a lot of women, particularly
- 20:01Speaker 2: in her community, look up to. So for the average person,
- 20:04Speaker 2: maybe her lifestyle doesn't seem achievable, but maybe they think
- 20:08Speaker 2: if I implement some of these tips, I might get
- 20:11Speaker 2: a bit further ahead like her. Yeah, but I think
- 20:13Speaker 2: what a lot of listeners are grappling with is Victoria
- 20:17Speaker 2: will share money hacks to save, I don't know, like
- 20:20Speaker 2: the tram fare. But then people see her in designer
- 20:24Speaker 2: clothing and at her beach house and they're like, well,
- 20:27Speaker 2: that seems a little bit disingenuous. So it's this, the
- 20:30Speaker 2: lifestyle and her influence and career is not really matching
- 20:34Speaker 2: up with what she shares on her money podcast. And
- 20:36Speaker 2: that's where the clash is, wrong or right. I mean,
- 20:38Speaker 2: as you said, Sophie, I think she's a very successful
- 20:40Speaker 2: businesswoman and she should be well within her rights to
- 20:43Speaker 2: promote the successes that she's had. But I can see
- 20:48Speaker 2: why there is a clash. Yeah, I agree because- as
- 20:50Speaker 2: you said, she hands out money advice to her community,
- 20:53Speaker 2: but then her community, when they jump on her Instagram,
- 20:56Speaker 2: they see that she doesn't apply that to the way
- 20:58Speaker 2: that she lives. And that's because she doesn't have to,
- 21:01Speaker 2: because she doesn't have the same financial pressures as her audience.
- 21:04Speaker 2: I mean, she said herself that she's out of touch
- 21:06Speaker 2: at the moment. And I do wonder if that's impacting
- 21:08Speaker 2: on her podcast success. I mean, it's always in the charts,
- 21:12Speaker 2: but I have seen a lot of negative commentary in
- 21:15Speaker 2: her reviews and also online more recently, because she has
- 21:19Speaker 2: been very vocal in and jumping on board different topics
- 21:23Speaker 2: of discussion. So for instance, she has been really vocal
- 21:27Speaker 2: about all of the Kate Forster stuff. And she is
- 21:30Speaker 2: on a bit of a crusade about MLMs. And whilst
- 21:33Speaker 2: a lot of people have agreed with her stance on them,
- 21:35Speaker 2: I think people have found maybe the approach to be
- 21:38Speaker 2: a bit aggressive. And I think that is backed up
- 21:41Speaker 2: by her recent discussions around Kate Forster and The apology
- 21:45Speaker 2: did receive a mixed reception. So a lot of people
- 21:48Speaker 2: found it to be very genuine. You could hear the
- 21:50Speaker 2: raw emotion in Victoria's voice and you felt like she
- 21:54Speaker 2: was generally sorry for affecting her community. Whilst others said
- 21:57Speaker 2: it's interesting to hear the opinion that she shares behind
- 22:00Speaker 2: closed doors and thought that the omission of her being
- 22:03Speaker 2: out of touch made her look worse. What I found
- 22:06Speaker 2: quite surprising about the whole thing is that she agreed
- 22:10Speaker 2: for the screenshot of her message to be shared. And
- 22:13Speaker 2: then suddenly realized how bad it sounded, not because of hindsight.
- 22:19Speaker 1: But because she obviously absolutely copped it.
- 22:22Speaker 2: Yeah, well, let's throw to a reaction video that's currently
- 22:24Speaker 2: going viral to paint a picture of how some people
- 22:26Speaker 2: are feeling.
- 22:28Speaker 5: Oh, no, don't worry. I'm not calling you idiots. All
- 22:30Speaker 5: the girls that bought my book, listened to my podcast,
- 22:33Speaker 5: took financial advice from me.
- 22:35Speaker 1: You're not idiots.
- 22:35Speaker 5: You made me millions.
- 22:37Speaker 7: All right.
- 22:37Speaker 5: I'm talking about all the other girls that can't buy
- 22:40Speaker 5: their first home because, you know, it's your fault.
- 22:42Speaker 4: You're idiots.
- 22:42Speaker 5: You're not my target demographic. Because really, the housing market,
- 22:46Speaker 5: what's that got to do with me?
- 22:47Speaker 7: Nothing.
- 22:49Speaker 2: Someone else who wasn't pleased and buying into the apology
- 22:52Speaker 2: was TikToker Rachel McQueen, who has over 84,000 followers. Now,
- 22:57Speaker 2: she created a 10-minute video sharing her thoughts on Victoria's apology.
- 23:01Speaker 2: She said she thought the apology seemed disingenuous.
- 23:06Speaker 6: In my opinion, the reason that Victoria apologised is because
- 23:09Speaker 6: unlike Marty, she did upset and alienate her target demographic.
- 23:14Speaker 6: The people that she makes money from. The people who
- 23:17Speaker 6: look to her for honest, relatable and non-judgmental financial advice.
- 23:23Speaker 6: Of course she's going to apologise when her whole brand
- 23:26Speaker 6: is being relatable and non-judgmental and it's just been discovered
- 23:31Speaker 6: and a lot of people are upset by the fact
- 23:33Speaker 6: that she's not those things. That is why she apologised
- 23:38Speaker 6: and Marty didn't. That is why she apologised and Marty didn't.
- 23:43Speaker 6: Because it was her target demographic that were upset, not Marty's.
- 23:47Speaker 6: Marty's target demographic are people trying to profit from the
- 23:50Speaker 6: housing crisis. Her target demographic, especially through her new business venture,
- 23:55Speaker 6: Zella Money, is people who are struggling because of the
- 23:58Speaker 6: housing crisis. Victoria is in a dichotomy. She lives in
- 24:02Speaker 6: a completely different world to the people she's marketing to.
- 24:05Speaker 6: It may not have been that way in the beginning,
- 24:07Speaker 6: but it certainly is that way now. Did she admit
- 24:10Speaker 6: in her apology that she is now out of touch
- 24:12Speaker 6: with the people that she's marketing to and that support her?
- 24:15Speaker 2: Yes, she did.
- 24:16Speaker 6: But I am still not convinced that that apology comes
- 24:19Speaker 6: from a place of being empathetic toward those people. I
- 24:23Speaker 6: still believe until it's proven otherwise that the apology came
- 24:27Speaker 6: from a place of desperately trying to repair the relationship
- 24:31Speaker 6: with the majority of her audience. Because as Em put
- 24:34Speaker 6: beautifully in this video and directly to Victoria, Victoria's audience
- 24:38Speaker 6: are struggling and cannot out-save and out-hustle a housing crisis.
- 24:44Speaker 2: It is interesting to note that Victoria has since deleted
- 24:47Speaker 2: her apology. What do you think about that move? I
- 24:50Speaker 2: think it came down to a few factors. She was
- 24:52Speaker 2: probably absolutely copying it in the comment section, which isn't
- 24:55Speaker 2: pleasant and sometimes you just don't want to deal with
- 24:58Speaker 2: I also think maybe it came down to sponsorship opportunities.
- 25:01Speaker 2: It's not a good look to have a video up
- 25:03Speaker 2: where you're saying you're out of touch and you aren't
- 25:06Speaker 2: relatable to your core demographic when you are trying to
- 25:09Speaker 2: get people on board. But isn't it worse to delete it?
- 25:12Speaker 2: Because the way social media works is people will have
- 25:14Speaker 2: saved it and they'll stitch it up on TikTok or
- 25:17Speaker 2: on Instagram. And now you go over to her page
- 25:21Speaker 2: and it looks like she's even guiltier because she's removed it. Well,
- 25:23Speaker 2: she also recently deleted a video where she called out
- 25:26Speaker 2: Kate Forster So it's difficult because you want to look
- 25:30Speaker 2: like you believe in what you say and the content
- 25:32Speaker 2: that you put out there. I was really interested to
- 25:34Speaker 2: see if She's On The Money had lost any followers
- 25:36Speaker 2: since this drama. What surprised me is they've actually gained followers.
- 25:40Speaker 2: So they gained 4,200 this week, which can sometimes happen
- 25:44Speaker 2: when scandals break out. Over the four days when the
- 25:47Speaker 2: controversy broke, Victoria did lose 122 followers, but over the weekend,
- 25:52Speaker 2: she picked up another 584. So it doesn't seem to
- 25:56Speaker 2: be affecting her brand Too much. But maybe she got
- 25:59Speaker 2: some advice to take it down because it didn't look
- 26:01Speaker 2: great to sponsors. See, I think a lot of the
- 26:04Speaker 2: followers that she picked up aren't genuine followers. They're probably
- 26:07Speaker 2: just following her for the controversy and maybe a bit
- 26:09Speaker 2: of hate following, I hate to say it.
- 26:11Speaker 1: There you go, girls.
- 26:13Speaker 3: Thank you so much.
- 26:14Speaker 7: Nice to meet you both.
- 26:15Speaker 2: Hello. Oh, it's so nice to meet you.
- 26:17Speaker 7: How are you doing?
- 26:18Speaker 3: Thank you for coming.
- 26:21Speaker 2: It's been a big week for Molly Mae Haig and
- 26:23Speaker 2: Tommy Fury. Just two days before Molly's tell-all documentary aired
- 26:27Speaker 2: on Prime, Tommy pipped her at the Post, revealing the
- 26:30Speaker 2: real reason behind their shock breakup. In an interview with
- 26:33Speaker 2: Men's Health, the boxer revealed it was his addiction to
- 26:36Speaker 2: alcohol that caused the split. Kate, there is a lot
- 26:39Speaker 2: to unpack here. I am dying to talk about the
- 26:41Speaker 2: Molly May doco. But let's start chronologically with what Tommy
- 26:44Speaker 2: had to say on Wednesday. It is the first time
- 26:47Speaker 2: Tommy has acknowledged he's had a problem with alcohol. Yeah,
- 26:50Speaker 2: it is an addiction. was quite a surprise to some
- 26:52Speaker 2: of his fans. So during the emotional interview Tommy revealed
- 26:55Speaker 2: his dependence on alcohol actually started early last year after
- 26:59Speaker 2: he had reconstructive surgery on his hand. So the surgery
- 27:03Speaker 2: was to repair a boxing injury from 2019 when he
- 27:06Speaker 2: snapped all the ligaments in the back of his hand.
- 27:08Speaker 2: I actually remember Molly vlogging Tommy post-surgery and he was
- 27:11Speaker 2: really frustrated. We now know that that recovery had a
- 27:14Speaker 2: very detrimental impact on Tommy's mental health And in the interview,
- 27:18Speaker 2: he said his mental health was in the pan and
- 27:20Speaker 2: he started to spend nights drinking with the goal to
- 27:22Speaker 2: get blackout drunk.
- 27:25Speaker 7: The reason why me and Molly broke up because I
- 27:28Speaker 7: got addicted to alcohol and I couldn't be the partner
- 27:30Speaker 7: that I wanted to be anymore. And it kills me
- 27:33Speaker 7: to say it.
- 27:34Speaker 3: It's true.
- 27:36Speaker 7: You know, I couldn't be. I was loved a pint
- 27:38Speaker 7: of beer, loved a drink. You know, and it is
- 27:41Speaker 7: what it is. People go through different things in life.
- 27:43Speaker 7: And I have, you know, we all have our crosses
- 27:45Speaker 7: to bear.
- 27:47Speaker 2: Tommy isn't the only member of his family to grapple
- 27:50Speaker 2: with addiction. His brother Tyson Fury, who was the heavyweight
- 27:53Speaker 2: champion of the world, he has also struggled with alcohol
- 27:56Speaker 2: addiction and cocaine abuse. Yeah, and we saw that play
- 27:59Speaker 2: out a little bit in real time on Tyson's doco
- 28:02Speaker 2: last year. Now, as expected, Tommy continued to deny cheating
- 28:05Speaker 2: was involved in this relationship breakdown. So Initially, when the
- 28:08Speaker 2: couple broke up back in August, the internet was rife
- 28:11Speaker 2: with rumors that Tommy had cheated on Molly. And one
- 28:14Speaker 2: persistent rumor was that Molly called off their relationship after
- 28:17Speaker 2: being sent a video of Tommy up to no good
- 28:19Speaker 2: on a boy's trip to Macedonia. And it even led
- 28:22Speaker 2: to a woman coming out to the media and claiming
- 28:24Speaker 2: that they kissed, but she didn't know who he was.
- 28:26Speaker 2: There was also that rumor at the beginning of the
- 28:29Speaker 2: breakup that Tommy had got another woman pregnant who was
- 28:33Speaker 2: actually the.
- 28:33Speaker 1: Daughter of a boxing... coach.
- 28:36Speaker 2: Well, that one got shut down really quickly because the
- 28:38Speaker 2: woman had to come out and say, no, this is
- 28:40Speaker 2: my partner and the father of my child. And at
- 28:42Speaker 2: the time, Tommy did vehemently deny these rumours and a
- 28:45Speaker 2: spokesperson for the Boxer said that his legal team were
- 28:48Speaker 2: investigating them. Now, his stance on the cheating allegation was
- 28:52Speaker 2: no different in this men's health interview.
- 28:54Speaker 1: Here's what he said.
- 28:55Speaker 7: There's been so much shit, so much crap in the
- 28:59Speaker 7: papers every single day for the past six months. I've
- 29:03Speaker 7: done this and I've done that. And it's like, people
- 29:06Speaker 7: don't know.
- 29:07Speaker 3: The half of it.
- 29:08Speaker 7: If it's not come from my mouth or Molly's mouth,
- 29:10Speaker 7: it's complete and utter bullshit. It's like, all I've been
- 29:14Speaker 7: seeing for the past six months is cheater, cheater, cheater, cheater.
- 29:18Speaker 4: Oh, he cheated.
- 29:18Speaker 7: He slept with me. He slept with this girl, slept
- 29:20Speaker 7: with that girl. Complete and utter bollocks. And you can
- 29:23Speaker 7: ask Molly herself.
- 29:25Speaker 2: I cannot get over the timing of this interview. Firstly,
- 29:28Speaker 2: it dropped two days before Molly's documentary behind it all
- 29:32Speaker 2: aired on Prime. the producers would have been absolutely spewing.
- 29:35Speaker 2: This would have all been pre-planned, particularly between Molly, Tommy
- 29:38Speaker 2: and their management. They wouldn't want Molly to be revealing
- 29:42Speaker 2: Tommy's secret because it looks like she would be exposing
- 29:46Speaker 2: something that he's perhaps not ready to talk about when
- 29:48Speaker 2: it is something as.
- 29:49Speaker 1: Serious as alcohol addiction.
- 29:51Speaker 2: I think you're right, Sophie, but I think this strategy
- 29:53Speaker 2: has only been enacted since the New Year's kiss because
- 29:56Speaker 2: A lot of people now think that Tommy and Molly
- 29:59Speaker 2: are back together. Yeah, the New Year's kiss definitely has
- 30:01Speaker 2: a lot to do with the timing of this doco,
- 30:03Speaker 2: particularly because originally I think that all six episodes were
- 30:07Speaker 2: going to be aired at the same time, but it's
- 30:08Speaker 2: now been broken up to have three air now and
- 30:10Speaker 2: then three air in autumn. The date hasn't even been set.
- 30:13Speaker 2: It's clear that they're still filming because so much has
- 30:15Speaker 2: gone on behind the scenes and it's hard for this
- 30:18Speaker 2: doco to keep up with the immediacy of TikTok and
- 30:21Speaker 2: everything that is happening. I don't think the producers, though,
- 30:24Speaker 2: would have been in on Molly allowing Tommy to go
- 30:27Speaker 2: to another rival media company in men's health and break
- 30:31Speaker 2: that news first because this doco, it's called Behind It
- 30:34Speaker 2: All and it's been touted as the real story behind
- 30:36Speaker 2: the breakup. I think Molly's gone behind the back of
- 30:38Speaker 2: the producers and agreed on this with Tommy because in
- 30:40Speaker 2: an interview she did recently, she did say, well, Tommy's
- 30:43Speaker 2: going to come out and explain his side of things. Well,
- 30:46Speaker 2: I think it's Tommy's story to tell first. I agree.
- 30:48Speaker 2: I think it would have looked completely inappropriate if Molly
- 30:50Speaker 2: was to break that news. I also noticed that the
- 30:53Speaker 2: two messages weren't the same throughout. So Tommy said he
- 30:56Speaker 2: has an alcohol problem. But in the documentary, Molly said,
- 31:00Speaker 2: Tommy doesn't have an alcohol problem.
- 31:03Speaker 1: Drinking leads to problems.
- 31:04Speaker 2: And that to me, reading between the lines, either meant
- 31:08Speaker 2: that he cheated or it made me think, have things
- 31:11Speaker 2: escalated behind the scenes? Has something happened that, again, they're
- 31:15Speaker 2: not going to tell us about? Well, I watched this
- 31:17Speaker 2: documentary with Dale and he said, do you know what?
- 31:19Speaker 2: Maybe he's just a complete dickhead. when he's been drinking. Well,
- 31:22Speaker 2: that's a vibe that everyone seemed to get.
- 31:25Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 31:25Speaker 2: It was really interesting to be a fly on the
- 31:27Speaker 2: wall in that conversation between Molly and her mum, Debbie.
- 31:30Speaker 2: And I felt for Debbie because Molly revealed that when
- 31:33Speaker 2: her parents broke up, her mum had issues with alcohol.
- 31:37Speaker 1: And it was part of the.
- 31:38Speaker 2: Reason why Molly didn't want to be with someone who drank.
- 31:41Speaker 2: And during the doco, they showed Molly re-watching the scene
- 31:44Speaker 2: on Love Island when she first met Tommy. And they
- 31:47Speaker 2: kept in the grab where Molly said, oh, do you drink?
- 31:50Speaker 2: And Tommy said, not really. And then she confirmed that
- 31:52Speaker 2: she actually doesn't drink either. That's a big part of
- 31:55Speaker 2: her brand, her being sober. I mean, she's even spoke
- 31:57Speaker 2: recently on YouTube how she doesn't really like going out
- 32:00Speaker 2: and letting herself go and having a drink. Isn't it
- 32:02Speaker 2: interesting though, because this New Year's Eve kiss seemed to
- 32:05Speaker 2: all come about because Molly was drinking and out there
- 32:08Speaker 2: partying with Tommy. Let's actually dive a little bit deeper
- 32:11Speaker 2: into this doco. So it was meant to document the
- 32:14Speaker 2: lead up to Molly and Tommy's wedding. But when they
- 32:16Speaker 2: broke up, it was repurposed into a documentary about Molly
- 32:20Speaker 2: navigating life as a single mum as she launched her brand, Maybe.
- 32:23Speaker 2: Did anyone else feel like some sections of the episodes
- 32:26Speaker 2: were just blatant ads though for Maybe? I don't actually
- 32:29Speaker 2: think it was a great ad for Maybe though, because
- 32:31Speaker 2: they mentioned a lot of criticism that the brand has got,
- 32:34Speaker 2: especially over the balling of one of its blazers.
- 32:37Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 32:37Speaker 2: I mean, I think it was more an ad for
- 32:39Speaker 2: Molly Mae and her personal brand, which I suppose then
- 32:42Speaker 2: cascades down into maybe because people are only really buying
- 32:45Speaker 2: the clothes because of Molly Mae. But the documentary really
- 32:48Speaker 2: showed from her perspective that she was the one who
- 32:50Speaker 2: was passionate about rectifying this issue and giving back to
- 32:54Speaker 2: her consumer and making sure her audience weren't.
- 32:56Speaker 3: Angry at her.
- 32:56Speaker 2: Sophie really bought into the good PR. I was laughing
- 32:59Speaker 2: with Dale saying I could imagine Sophie working for her
- 33:01Speaker 2: PR team. What I did disagree with, though, is that
- 33:05Speaker 2: they put out a statement saying anyone who's had issues
- 33:08Speaker 2: with this jacket... please contact us. But they didn't actually
- 33:12Speaker 2: outline whether they would get a refund. I know, there
- 33:14Speaker 2: was no resolution. They were acting like, oh, we just
- 33:16Speaker 2: don't know what to do. I said to Dale, just
- 33:18Speaker 2: give everyone a refund. We've got the shit jacket.
- 33:20Speaker 1: Well, financially though, I don't think that the brand could
- 33:22Speaker 1: handle it.
- 33:23Speaker 2: Sophie, you need to calm down because we are recording
- 33:25Speaker 2: a subscriber only episode, really getting to the nitty gritty
- 33:29Speaker 2: of the doco. But for now, I really want to
- 33:32Speaker 2: talk about what most people are interested in, and that
- 33:34Speaker 2: is the breakup. So the number one reason people tuned
- 33:36Speaker 2: in was to find out what actually happened. I know
- 33:39Speaker 2: Tommy did pip Molly at the post, as you said earlier.
- 33:42Speaker 2: But it was interesting to see that their stories did
- 33:44Speaker 2: match up because again, she did reveal that drinking was
- 33:47Speaker 2: a problem. In terms of talking about the cheating though,
- 33:51Speaker 2: she really glazed over that.
- 33:52Speaker 1: So she didn't.
- 33:53Speaker 2: Actually back Tommy up and say there was definitely no cheating.
- 33:57Speaker 2: She did say this though.
- 33:58Speaker 3: He's gotten somebody pregnant. I'm really sorry to hear that
- 34:02Speaker 3: he's been with this person. And I was just like,
- 34:04Speaker 3: where is this coming from? It was a builder and
- 34:08Speaker 3: it was a lot of times of sort of, okay,
- 34:11Speaker 3: like last chance type situation, last chance, last chance, last chance.
- 34:17Speaker 3: There's only so much that you can take. You kind
- 34:24Speaker 3: of don't really have another choice. You just have to
- 34:27Speaker 3: do what you have to do.
- 34:31Speaker 2: I feel like that comment was trying to shoot down
- 34:34Speaker 2: the validity of some of those cheating claims. But then
- 34:37Speaker 2: when we saw the scene of Molly re-watching her proposal
- 34:40Speaker 2: to Tommy, she reiterated that they actually had a huge
- 34:44Speaker 2: argument on the way there because she thought he had
- 34:47Speaker 2: photos of another girl on his phone because he wouldn't
- 34:50Speaker 2: let her look at the phone. Yeah, he was being
- 34:52Speaker 2: shady and she asked, oh, can I check out the
- 34:54Speaker 2: photos you took of me? And he was being funny
- 34:55Speaker 2: about it, obviously, because he had all of the engagement
- 34:59Speaker 2: plans on his phone. I saw a lot of people
- 35:00Speaker 2: creating TikTok saying that it was interesting that they left
- 35:03Speaker 2: that section of the interview in because it was sort
- 35:06Speaker 2: of alluding that there was cheating going on, but nothing
- 35:09Speaker 2: confirming it. Oh, there was so much alluding going on.
- 35:11Speaker 2: And I think Tommy's alcohol problem is a lot easier
- 35:14Speaker 2: to blame, especially if they do end up getting back together.
- 35:17Speaker 2: I mean, all of the conversations between Molly and her
- 35:20Speaker 2: sister Zoe in the car alluded to cheating being involved. Yeah,
- 35:23Speaker 2: you could tell that Zoe absolutely hates Tommy Fury's guts.
- 35:26Speaker 2: I thought it was really interesting when Zoe said that
- 35:28Speaker 2: she had clashed with Tommy as well, because often it
- 35:30Speaker 2: is the sisters who have to get involved. well she
- 35:32Speaker 2: said that she kept seeing tommy treating molly so badly
- 35:35Speaker 2: yeah i suppose she felt she had to stand up
- 35:37Speaker 2: to it and i think it's because zoe has a
- 35:39Speaker 2: really lovely husband his name's danny he's in the army
- 35:43Speaker 2: he seems to be the opposite of tommy and what
- 35:45Speaker 2: he stands for so for her she's like why are
- 35:48Speaker 2: you putting up with this shit side note my favorite
- 35:50Speaker 2: scene of the whole documentary so far was Molly and
- 35:53Speaker 2: Zoe singing along to the Saddle Club. I didn't even
- 35:56Speaker 2: know that that was aired in the UK. I love
- 35:58Speaker 2: it because it was so relatable, even though they're driving
- 36:01Speaker 2: around in this fuck-off G-Wagon. It was just like every
- 36:04Speaker 2: girl does that with their sister, have little sing-alongs in
- 36:06Speaker 2: the car. Back to Zoe hating Tommy's guts. It's also
- 36:11Speaker 2: probably because she's the only family member who knows the
- 36:14Speaker 2: ins and outs of the relationship with Tommy because Molly
- 36:16Speaker 2: said this.
- 36:18Speaker 3: I think Zoe really struggles with tommy and i the
- 36:22Speaker 3: most out of anyone in my family because she has
- 36:27Speaker 3: heard it all now and i have really shared it
- 36:31Speaker 3: all with her.
- 36:33Speaker 2: Yeah because molly was like oh yeah just go through
- 36:35Speaker 2: my messages my whatsapp with tommy yeah she's read too
- 36:38Speaker 2: much clearly interesting that they are conversing through whatsapp because
- 36:42Speaker 2: it's a platform that's encrypted so it's more difficult for
- 36:44Speaker 2: the press to break into her phone and get her
- 36:46Speaker 2: messages what was so fascinating was on their youtube channels
- 36:49Speaker 2: on both zoe and molly's They're always putting out such
- 36:53Speaker 2: positive content about going and doing couple things.
- 36:57Speaker 1: It was odd to actually.
- 36:58Speaker 2: Hear Zoe negatively talk about Tommy because it always seems
- 37:01Speaker 2: to be so positive, everything they say.
- 37:03Speaker 1: Well, that's just social media at the end of the day.
- 37:06Speaker 2: Did anyone else think that maybe Tommy ruined Zoe's wedding?
- 37:09Speaker 2: Because it does seem like the wedding was a bit
- 37:11Speaker 2: of a breaking point for Molly Mae. She didn't go
- 37:14Speaker 2: into details about what happened, but she said this.
- 37:17Speaker 3: He's never had an alcohol problem. It's just that Alcohol
- 37:21Speaker 3: caused problems for us. It got to a point where
- 37:26Speaker 3: I wasn't really looking forward to anything because alcohol affected
- 37:32Speaker 3: it so much. I could only cite a couple of
- 37:36Speaker 3: examples where he had some alcohol and it's not led
- 37:39Speaker 3: to anything disastrous. I mean, I actually don't know any.
- 37:43Speaker 3: I really don't. At my sister's wedding, like, I literally
- 37:46Speaker 3: pleaded with Tommy, like, I begged him to not drink.
- 37:51Speaker 3: And it's just, I don't know, it's just really sad
- 37:58Speaker 3: because I don't know why I'm crying now.
- 38:01Speaker 2: Well, the breakup came shortly after Zoe's wedding. Well, they
- 38:04Speaker 2: were on their honeymoon when it came out.
- 38:06Speaker 1: So this must have been a tipping point for her.
- 38:08Speaker 2: Was anyone else surprised at how vocal Molly was about
- 38:11Speaker 2: her desire to get back with Tommy during this doco?
- 38:14Speaker 2: Because I would love to know. the timeline of when
- 38:17Speaker 2: those bits were filmed. Well, it was clear that she
- 38:19Speaker 2: blindsided Tommy when she released that statement saying they'd broken up.
- 38:22Speaker 2: And it felt like a really desperate move of Molly
- 38:26Speaker 2: to actually get Tommy's attention and to wake him up
- 38:28Speaker 2: and be like, look, I'm actually serious. Because it sounded
- 38:30Speaker 2: like she had been threatening for a long time to
- 38:33Speaker 2: break up with him.
- 38:33Speaker 1: Yeah, because she spoke through the process.
- 38:35Speaker 2: So this wasn't some joint decision to put out a
- 38:38Speaker 2: statement she said she was sick of lying in her
- 38:41Speaker 2: bed wiring all night so she thought this is the
- 38:43Speaker 2: final straw this is going to show him that he
- 38:46Speaker 2: needs to change but also make herself accountable because she
- 38:49Speaker 2: said that she probably wouldn't go through with the breakup
- 38:51Speaker 2: if it wasn't public yeah and in the third episode
- 38:53Speaker 2: of the doco she revealed to zoe it was never
- 38:55Speaker 2: meant to be a permanent thing.
- 38:58Speaker 3: I know it's exhausting no it's exhausting but it would
- 39:01Speaker 3: if you didn't draw a line in the sand it
- 39:02Speaker 3: will carry on being exhausting for the next five but
- 39:05Speaker 3: i don't want to because i don't want to end
- 39:06Speaker 3: it I knew we were going to get back together.
- 39:09Speaker 3: Surely you didn't. No, I did know that. No, because
- 39:12Speaker 3: you were waiting. Why do you think I've not cried?
- 39:16Speaker 3: All I want in this life is to be with
- 39:18Speaker 3: him and to have another baby with him and to
- 39:20Speaker 3: grow old as a family and to live in a
- 39:22Speaker 3: nice house together and to have a nice life together.
- 39:24Speaker 3: That's all I want. To be perfectly honest with you,
- 39:27Speaker 3: I think what's getting me through is the hope. and
- 39:30Speaker 3: the idea that Tommy and I will we will end
- 39:34Speaker 3: up back together.
- 39:34Speaker 2: You could tell Zoe was just like oh for fuck's sake.
- 39:39Speaker 1: What's going on you do forget that they're only 25 and.
- 39:43Speaker 2: When Molly was talking about the fact that Tommy wants
- 39:46Speaker 2: to be a regular 25 year old and go out
- 39:47Speaker 2: drinking with his friends and partying, but he also wants
- 39:50Speaker 2: to be have this stable relationship in this family life.
- 39:53Speaker 2: You can see that he's at a crossroad and he
- 39:55Speaker 2: doesn't know what to do. He almost doesn't want to
- 39:57Speaker 2: grow up. How sad was watching the vision of Molly
- 39:59Speaker 2: with her phone out, having to FaceTime Tommy to say
- 40:02Speaker 2: goodnight to Bambi. That made me feel really upset. I
- 40:04Speaker 2: think that's all she like ended the conversation. Every conversation
- 40:07Speaker 2: was bye-bye. I noticed her saying bye-bye all the time.
- 40:10Speaker 2: And I was wondering if it was just a Tommy
- 40:12Speaker 2: because she felt awkward, but then she said it to
- 40:14Speaker 2: her manager and everyone that called her. One viral clip
- 40:17Speaker 2: from this doco that's doing the rounds on TikTok. is
- 40:20Speaker 2: a scene where Molly is trying to feed her daughter Bambi.
- 40:23Speaker 2: And there's a moment where Bambi is absolutely losing it.
- 40:26Speaker 2: And then Molly realizes that Bambi is trying to say
- 40:30Speaker 2: data because she misses Tommy. And I've seen so many
- 40:33Speaker 2: people saying that they were in tears over this moment.
- 40:36Speaker 2: It doesn't help that Bambi looks exactly like Tommy Fury either.
- 40:40Speaker 2: Like it would be hard to get over him when
- 40:42Speaker 2: your daughter is his clone. Now the producers, of course,
- 40:45Speaker 2: left all of us on the edge of our seats
- 40:47Speaker 2: in the last episode. when Molly revealed that she was
- 40:50Speaker 2: so adamant that they were going to get back together,
- 40:52Speaker 2: but now she was worried that the problems weren't going
- 40:55Speaker 2: to go away. And then a flash to the teaser
- 40:58Speaker 2: showing Molly's reaction to the headlines that came out about
- 41:01Speaker 2: their New Year's Eve kiss. And she said, oh my God, what?
- 41:04Speaker 2: Molly May and Tommy Fury kiss on New Year's Eve.
- 41:07Speaker 2: That is so bad. It's clear that this doco is
- 41:09Speaker 2: having to play catch up big time. And that is
- 41:12Speaker 2: why they haven't actually set an exact date for the
- 41:14Speaker 2: second installment. It says, Coming spring, as in the spring
- 41:18Speaker 2: UK time, sometime around then.
- 41:20Speaker 1: Do you think it was.
- 41:21Speaker 2: Always planned that it was going to have this big
- 41:23Speaker 2: break in between it or they were just going with
- 41:25Speaker 2: the flow? No, because I think they were almost scraping
- 41:27Speaker 2: the barrel a bit to fill out three episodes of content.
- 41:31Speaker 2: A lot of it was on the maybe controversy with
- 41:33Speaker 2: the jacket we spoke about earlier. So I think they've gone, fuck, well,
- 41:36Speaker 2: a lot of this stuff that's happening in current time
- 41:39Speaker 2: is far more interesting than what we've already recorded. I
- 41:41Speaker 2: saw a lot of people saying it was boring, but I,
- 41:44Speaker 2: absolutely loved it. I thought the producers did an incredible job.
- 41:47Speaker 2: It was shot so beautifully. It was, but if you
- 41:50Speaker 2: weren't a fan of Molly Mae, I can see why
- 41:51Speaker 2: some people might think, oh.
- 41:53Speaker 1: It was a bit boring.
- 41:54Speaker 2: She's got 8 million followers. So there are a lot
- 41:56Speaker 2: of people invested in her life and it's like, oh, well,
- 41:58Speaker 2: we didn't hear all the juicy details. I thought what
- 42:01Speaker 2: we did get to hear was incredible. A 34-year-old Queensland
- 42:06Speaker 2: influencer has been arrested and charged after allegedly torturing and
- 42:11Speaker 2: poisoning her baby daughter, to boost her social media following.
- 42:15Speaker 2: It's important to note that the reason why we and
- 42:17Speaker 2: other media outlets aren't naming the woman is to protect
- 42:21Speaker 2: the identity of the child. Now, Kate, can you tell
- 42:23Speaker 2: us more?
- 42:24Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 42:24Speaker 2: So on Thursday, the influencer was charged with a multitude
- 42:27Speaker 2: of offenses, including torture, making child exploitation material fraud and
- 42:32Speaker 2: multiple counts of administering poison. Now, vision of the woman
- 42:35Speaker 2: being arrested in her pajamas at her home and then
- 42:39Speaker 2: escorted into a police car was circulated to the media.
- 42:43Speaker 2: The woman's face was blurred, but you could tell who
- 42:46Speaker 2: it was if you know who the influencer is. What
- 42:48Speaker 2: we can say is this influencer gained a following by
- 42:51Speaker 2: documenting her child's apparent battle with the terminal illness on
- 42:54Speaker 2: social media and Now, it's alleged that the poisoning took
- 42:57Speaker 2: place between August and October when the woman gave the baby,
- 43:01Speaker 2: who had a medical condition, medications that were not prescribed
- 43:04Speaker 2: or medically approved. The charges follow an extensive police investigation
- 43:10Speaker 2: that took place after medical staff from a Brisbane South
- 43:12Speaker 2: hospital raised their concern. Now, the baby was already sick
- 43:16Speaker 2: in hospital with a genuine illness when staff suspected something
- 43:19Speaker 2: was not right. Now, in a press conference, Detective Inspector
- 43:22Speaker 2: Paul Dalton labelled the alleged offences as abhorrent. He said
- 43:26Speaker 2: there are no words to describe just how repulsive offences
- 43:29Speaker 2: of this nature are. There is no excuse for hurting
- 43:32Speaker 2: a child. especially not a one-year-old infant who was reliable
- 43:35Speaker 2: on others for care and survival. Dalton confirmed the little
- 43:39Speaker 2: girl is going well and she and her siblings are safe,
- 43:42Speaker 2: but he did not say who was caring for them.
- 43:45Speaker 2: When asked about the woman's sentence, Dalton said if convicted,
- 43:48Speaker 2: she would be facing substantial prison time. Now, the influencer
- 43:52Speaker 2: has been also accused of defrauding donors of $ 60, 000 via
- 43:56Speaker 2: a GoFundMe page that she allegedly set up. Now, GoFundMe
- 44:01Speaker 2: has announced they will refund the money to people who donated.
- 44:04Speaker 2: And I've already seen screenshots of people sharing that that
- 44:07Speaker 2: donation has been refunded to them. Now, the 34-year-old woman
- 44:11Speaker 2: appeared in a Brisbane magistrate's court on Friday and her
- 44:14Speaker 2: lawyer requested that she be held in protective custody because
- 44:18Speaker 2: of concerns for her safety following the publicity around her arrest. Now,
- 44:22Speaker 2: she does plan to apply for bail later this month
- 44:26Speaker 2: and the influencer was remanded in custody and will face
- 44:28Speaker 2: court again in late January.
- 44:30Speaker 1: Well, that is all.
- 44:31Speaker 2: We've got time for today. Thank you for listening to
- 44:33Speaker 2: another episode of Outspoken. If you do like the show,
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