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- 0:01Coming to you live from deep within a now actually quite bomby radioactive wasteland.
- 0:07We are the survivors of the all right kick Apocalypse, the Few, the
- 0:11brave, the bitchy, once more wading into battle against the froggy lobster zombie
- 0:17hordes with return of the libertarian feminist Hannah Cox nu rant Zirker Number two O
- 0:28four your red Pill Dating Advice. I am your host, co host,
- 0:36whatever you want to call me, one of three, one of the triparte
- 0:42god okay, of the rant Zurker. The other two are Oh wait,
- 0:46I didn't even say my name. My name is Alison, and this is
- 0:49with me is Brian and Hannah. You're Hannah. No, no, I
- 0:54am not Hannah. You gotta do your best to imitate her. Yeah,
- 1:00on my hair that long? Are you kidding? Give us a pun?
- 1:03Oh? Okay, I did not see that coming. You not see Jesus
- 1:11kids. That was just okay, all right, so well that was the
- 1:18only part I could think of off the top of my head. Okay,
- 1:21well, all right, low Rent, Okay, so it's myself, Alison,
- 1:26Brian, and apparently low rent Hannah. Low Rent Hannah, Oh god,
- 1:34you're just not as masterful with the puns. Well, who would want
- 1:38to be? Apparently that's like, oh, you're not very good at dad
- 1:44jokes, Like, who would want to be? Not even Dad's No,
- 1:51they don't see them to annoy their kids. That sucks, all right,
- 2:00missus woo shut up. Sorry, Okay, all right, it's all right,
- 2:07it's expected. I think at this point, I think I'm going to
- 2:10want to put her back, and I'm going to have to put her in
- 2:14the crate. Okay, put myself for one second and put her away.
- 2:17You get the things started, all right. What I was thinking was that
- 2:23we could begin at the beginning, Brian, Oh, you wanting to go
- 2:28to the beginning? Yes, And we could just invite Karen and let Karen
- 2:32do the reacting Karen, because we've already reacted to it. We've we've reacted
- 2:37to it. Yeah, I'm curious if Karen will will pick up on what
- 2:40I picked up. Yeah yeah, oh well yeah, that's kind of interesting.
- 2:44It'd be like a little game guess what guys guess? Well, okay,
- 2:47only I'm going to be excited about this, I guess. But there
- 2:52are some sounds about what I'm going to tell you. There are some sounds
- 2:55that I used to use in the soundboard that I thought I lost for ever
- 3:00when my computer died, and I have recovered them, so you may hear
- 3:05some old favorites today. Okay, So I'm just I'm just warning you.
- 3:13I am duley warned. Let's get Karen. Well, do you want do
- 3:15you want me to like record missus wu here when she part of the conversation.
- 3:21Sure, that's all the time, it's literally talking. You got two
- 3:28opinions. I'm okay, but I I think that would be great. Brian,
- 3:30Sure records some Missus wu I could record. I recou record my dog
- 3:37Scipio when he's getting to the dog park, because he makes the most crazy
- 3:43sound. It's it's like that sounds like Zoidberg. Why not Zoidberg? Why
- 3:57not Zoidberg? I took them in your caviat Yeah, it's really close to
- 4:08that. It's it's this this sort of trilling kind of sound, like maybe
- 4:12like a turkey warbling. Yeah, he yeah, Kevin Kevin does that.
- 4:18Oh my god, No one ever told me that a dog would be so
- 4:20musical like he warbles. He makes whale sounds. It's like calling the whale
- 4:27mothership. You know in like Star Trek that I think it was the fifth
- 4:31one? Was it where they had the whales? Nobody? Yeah, Okay,
- 4:38obscure reference done. Let's let's get to back to the thing. So
- 4:42we've already watched like the first five and a half minutes, Karen, Yeah,
- 4:48maybe I should set I should set up the video, but maybe you
- 4:51should do the things first too. Okay, but let me just explain to
- 4:54Karen where we're at. We last time we watched the first five and a
- 4:58half minutes, and I came to some conclusions. I noticed some patterns that
- 5:03she was engaging in unbeknownst to her, I think, and I'm curious if
- 5:09you pick up on the same patterns there, Karen. Well, yeah,
- 5:14just just pay attention to see if you Because there's there's a there's a subtle
- 5:17subtext to all those Oh oh really, there's never there's never a subtext.
- 5:25There's never any reading between the lines or sneaking anything in kind of under the
- 5:30radar in any of these videos of these young attractive women. You know,
- 5:39like, honestly, when I think about it, the only one that I
- 5:42actually trust of like the young fresh faces of anti feminism, right, the
- 5:49only like, I'm not granted, I haven't like looked at a whole lot
- 5:54of them, right, but the young, fresh female faces of anti feminism,
- 5:59the only one I really trust is Pearl Davis. Hmmm, because she's
- 6:06like, yeah, no, women shouldn't have the vote, like, like,
- 6:12you know, she's willing to actually say that, the completely unacceptable things
- 6:19and then and then explain her reasoning behind that. And it's like, Okay,
- 6:27well, if you're actually willing to say something like that, then I'm
- 6:30gonna this isn't a fresh face feminism, this is a feminist Hannah Cox.
- 6:39Yeah, Hannah Cox calls herself the libertarian feminist. So we're kind of going
- 6:44on the other, the other end of the same ship spectrum, whereas before
- 6:48we were looking at Maria McLennan, who is kind of a turf second wave
- 6:54you know, all men are to blame and transgenderism is actually conservatism feminist to
- 6:58Hannah Cox, the oh, I'm totally pro like, you know, I'm
- 7:01all the libertarian things but also women all right, yeah, which is an
- 7:08interesting position to take. Okay, so I will do the things. But
- 7:12anyway, so I came to some conclusions in the previous show. I pointed
- 7:16out some unintended parallels that I think she was presenting. I won't say what
- 7:21because I want to see if Karen picks up on them too, because just
- 7:26as sort of like a little game, like Brian was saying. But before
- 7:30we continue, I'd like to do the things we are doing our monthly fundraiser,
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- 8:11the Tip support to feed the Badger dot com slash support and let's uh,
- 8:16let's watch, let's let's let's put Karen through the first bed. All right,
- 8:20let's do it. But I did get a super chat. I want
- 8:22to read really quick. Iggy Thunders gives us five bucks and says Paul Watson,
- 8:26why are all millennials man babies? Millennials be an inner child, because
- 8:31an inner child is the only one we can safely have. All right,
- 8:35thank you for the super chat. Let's play some That's a good that's a
- 8:39good dad joke. It is, yeah, uh, let's let's uh.
- 8:43It's kind of a depressing dad joke, but a little I don't think it
- 8:48qualifies as a dad joke because there's political commentary in it. No, but
- 8:52it it's okay, but it's that dad joke adjacent. How's that? Yeah,
- 8:58yeah, definitely dad joke condjacent. It was real growner, but it
- 9:03was a satisfying groan. Mm hmm. All right, I'm going to play
- 9:07it now. Hey guys, I'm going to cost with based politics back with
- 9:11what I guess is going to be a mini series I'm going to call historyonics,
- 9:15where I discuss the extreme views coming from the left and right when it
- 9:18comes to women's issues. Frankly, if you're a normal woman, like me,
- 9:22going online is getting increasingly weirder and weirder. Cheating is the best thing
- 9:26I've ever discovered. Cheating on my significant other is the best thing I've ever
- 9:31discovered in my entire life. Like the conversations I see taking place online,
- 9:35I never hear actually happening in the real world around me. And I don't
- 9:39know if that's because this is just coming from extremely too online trolls real or
- 9:45dominated by women. Yeah, and you don't hear it. Yeah, you.
- 9:50Online is the only place where anyone could actually say something like that,
- 9:54where any man could say something like that, because women are like, oh
- 9:58yeah, no cheatings. And if he won't forgive you, then he's not
- 10:01worth having. And if you cheated, it was his fault anyway because he
- 10:07wasn't meeting your needs. Also, both sides, Both sides are bad for
- 10:15women. And I'm going to call him out because I'm on the ninth dimension.
- 10:18Yep. Yeah, Well, I'm just like, Okay, So there's
- 10:22a dude who's like, okay, cheating on my wife or whatever. Is
- 10:28it's fun or whatever. Maybe maybe maybe he's discovered that it spices up his
- 10:35relationship with his wife. Maybe like maybe stepping out makes him want to come
- 10:43back home or you never know, kind of like going away on a business
- 10:46trip makes you long for home. You never fucking know. I don't know.
- 10:50That clip tells me nothing about why he's saying that. Okay, I'm
- 11:00gonna play some more. Yeah, yeah, I finished her commentary just okay,
- 11:07I'm gonna go to minimize how much I talk about so just because like
- 11:13again, I want to see if Karen picks up on what I picked up.
- 11:18Well, you know, the one thing that I did pick up on
- 11:20is that was a very very very highly like clipped oh yeah, right,
- 11:26with no context whatsoever. And I don't freaking know. I don't know why
- 11:31he's saying this. I don't know whether he's I don't even know whether he's
- 11:35joking, right, Like that's true, you don't you be quoting somebody else?
- 11:41Yeah, or he could be like basically playing Devil's advocate or you know,
- 11:46or or he could have some kind of like reasoning behind it. I
- 11:52don't know, right, but she's You could point out that there have been
- 11:58articles in mainstream media where women have crowed about cheating. Yeah no, where
- 12:03they say it actually improved their relationship with their husbands. You know, about
- 12:09one dude out of context on the Internet saying this, And then we have
- 12:13a whole apparently small movement sponsored by the media, the corporate media, of
- 12:20women saying the same thing. Which one is more acceptable? Oh? Yeah,
- 12:28no, it's it's like it's it's absolutely you know, like you had
- 12:31that that one frickin' I forget where it was. Was it the Atlantic or
- 12:39or huff po or whatever where it was like the guy who's like, oh,
- 12:41I just put the kids to bed, and you know, when I
- 12:45finished doing the dishes, and then, you know, and and then I
- 12:48went to bed, and then I hear my wife coming in from her date,
- 12:52and uh, you know, and and she she lies with me and
- 12:58we spoon and she tells me all about the sex she just had, you
- 13:01know, and it is just like, and I don't get those opportunities the
- 13:07way she does. Of course you don't. You're a man. You have
- 13:09to work for that shit. She just has a goal to a bar and
- 13:16put a sign on her forehead that says available. Really concerned us the latter.
- 13:22This week, I want to discuss some of the worst dating advice I've
- 13:26seen on the internet. It's getting really bleak out there. Almost every woman
- 13:31I know is not having a great time dating. They go on apps,
- 13:33they get disrespected, the men say weird things to them, They ghost.
- 13:41Okay, I'm just going back so you can see the pole or whatever it
- 13:46is it's on the screen. Dating, they go on apps. A dream
- 13:52hall must include one an outdoor shower to immerse you in the surrounding nature.
- 13:58Two a toilet with a stunning view of the landscape. Three sex dungeon.
- 14:07Okay, yeah, you're you're you're probably contending with what the hell is this
- 14:11because this is evidence of something, or she thinks it's evidence of something.
- 14:15But again, no context. Who sent to her this individual of this poll,
- 14:20no idea. Maybe it was the the app itself, you know,
- 14:24yeah, yeah, no, And you're you're on a dating app, right,
- 14:28Like I got all when I was on a dating app, I got
- 14:31all kinds of freaking you know, hits from people who were like, eah,
- 14:41a little bit weird, a little bit not serious, a little bit
- 14:45I'm just in it to like dip my wig somewhere. All all of that,
- 14:50Right, you learn how to freaking screen that shit out right? I
- 14:56used to put on dating apps. Please don't say you're a picture of your
- 15:00penis. But Karen, you see, this woman is going to a grocery
- 15:05store, and the grocery store might have an Asian food section, and she
- 15:11doesn't like Asian foods. Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, I mean,
- 15:15like the only thing I've ever heard that Asian foods are available in a
- 15:20grocery store. Yeah, I know, I know. And it's like it's
- 15:24like, you know, I I do, I did always put you know,
- 15:28please don't send me a picture of your penis, right, because it's
- 15:31not going to convince me. Okay, it's not gonna it's not gonna do
- 15:35you any favors. And then also if I like you, I will probably
- 15:41like your penis. Just fine, right, Like, this is not this
- 15:45is not any kind of deciding factor for me. So just spare yourself the
- 15:50trouble and let's just continue as you know, as adults, right, just
- 15:58they get disrespected, the men say weird things to them, They ghost,
- 16:03They don't understand why you're not drinking. It's wrong. I told you I
- 16:06don't drink. I don't even know why you ordered to drink. If you
- 16:08don't drink, you're gonna pay for this meal? No, no, no,
- 16:12we get a rounded shots for my framework. The list goes on and
- 16:17it really has made me question like where are the normal men? What is
- 16:21wrong with the men? Uh? Okay, so go ahead just leave.
- 16:32It's not an option for the empowered woman. You see, the empowered woman
- 16:34isn't capable of using her own actions to affect a positive outcome in her life.
- 16:40Instead, she must sit there and cry and drink and drinks. She'll
- 16:47have to pay for the meal until the world changes for her. That is
- 16:53empowerment. Like, honestly, dating apps are going to be crap, so
- 16:59there's gonna be aout of crap going on in dating gaps. I'm also and
- 17:03I guarantee you a woman that a woman that attracted as as in that last
- 17:07clip, right, she would only go out with a man who could pull
- 17:14bitches like her and better. Okay, Like that's like she's she's a solid
- 17:22seven point five, she's dating eight and up right. Well, the guys
- 17:27who are aiding up, they can be like, yeah, no, if
- 17:33you're not going to drink that drink, you know you're paying for your own
- 17:34meal because I got twenty five other bitches waiting in the queue who are just
- 17:44as leaguer. Yeah, that's possible. I mean again, we don't have
- 17:47all the contacts. We don't know, we don't know if she said in
- 17:51advance, look, I don't drink. I'm just trying to get to know
- 17:53you. Like you know, she may have said all of that. I
- 17:56yeah, but then that would have been that would have been filmed. Well,
- 18:00you're right, she might have been chose not to share that part whatever.
- 18:03But but because she's I can guarantee you, I can guarantee you that
- 18:10guy to be able to say to that girl, right, Okay, well
- 18:15you know, uh, screw this and pay for your own food and I'm
- 18:21out of here because you're not going to get drunk and bang me. Right.
- 18:23That is an Andrew Tate, right, And it's not just an Andrew
- 18:29Tate in his attitude and his tactics. He's an Andrew Tate in his looks
- 18:33and his physique and you know, in his in in you know, how
- 18:37he presents himself and all of that, and maybe even in terms of money.
- 18:41Right, So, like she's all of these women are going for men
- 18:47who have like twenty other options. Well because and probably because they have twenty
- 18:52other options, because let's face it, women like something proof, women women
- 18:56like social proof, and women like high status men. And it's like,
- 19:00okay, and the younger a woman is, the more high status she likes
- 19:03her men, because that is just how immature women behave. Right. But
- 19:08here's another thing, she's just don't really care. She's sitting there with like
- 19:14a dude who has like a hundred times the negotiating power that she does realistically,
- 19:21because he can just drop her ass and like find someone just as good
- 19:25looking as her who's willing to do what he wants, right, and he
- 19:30could probably text him and have them meet him at a different freaking bar in
- 19:33twenty minutes. I just want to point out that this is one man.
- 19:38This is one completely non content with poll with absolutely no context, so we
- 19:44don't even know if a man sent it to that woman and one dude who's
- 19:48being an asshole, Like, honestly, if this is asshole behavior, hands
- 19:53down asshole behavior, Okay, you don't want to be around guys like this,
- 19:59Just get up, walk out, and don't negotiate, like this is
- 20:03where where you get tripped up. You can't can an honest woman. She's
- 20:07not being an honest woman. You you you look him in the eye,
- 20:11and you say, oh, those are your terms. Okay, good,
- 20:14have a good day. Yeah, the fifteen year negotiate. Oh you owe
- 20:18me get you owe me brunch? No, those are your terms? Then,
- 20:25uh, they are unacceptable to me. You are behaving in a way
- 20:27that is appalling. Good day, sir, Yeah, I uh, and
- 20:33don't talk again. Yeah, just just you have the ability to do that.
- 20:37But what she's doing is she is either negotiating like she wants to still
- 20:42get her meal paid, in which case it goes right back to that you
- 20:47can't cheat an honest woman. She's not being honest, she's not having integrity,
- 20:52and she's swimming like this is the thing like they present these women like,
- 20:56oh my god, this man is such an asshole. The woman is
- 20:57equally an asshole. She does she she doesn't want the goldfish, she doesn't
- 21:04want the guppy, she doesn't want the clown fish. She doesn't want you
- 21:08know, the the carp right, she wants the fucking shark. Well,
- 21:17you want the shark, you get the shark. I've even gone back on
- 21:21what I would say, but honestly, like, yeah, that guy's an
- 21:22asshole. The woman, Yeah, well she picked him but also she's she's
- 21:30not behaving with integrity. I mean, yeah, I'm not sure what she's
- 21:34doing with the recording. She's trying to get something out of it, even
- 21:37if it's if it's a being able to publicly shame him for being able to
- 21:41publicly shame men, and or she's trying to get the brunch no act with
- 21:45integrity get up only, or she's just trying to get sympathy, right,
- 21:49because like if she didn't show his fish, she's still trying to get something
- 21:53out of it. Yeah. Yeah, Literally, this asshole comes up to
- 21:56her and she's like, well, what can I get out of this?
- 22:00Well, okay, who you're a slimeball? Next slimeball, find slimeball and
- 22:03they slim together. Well, okay, okay, we're gonna play more,
- 22:07but I gotta read through some super chat and some super childs just so that
- 22:12they don't get buried and then I can't look at them. Iggy Thunders gives
- 22:15us two dollars and says, Karen go to the punitentiary. He was the
- 22:18same guy who gave us the pun from before. Uh. Then I got
- 22:25a super child from Richard Berre for five dollars and he says, my ungrateful
- 22:30husband took the last peach for himself that I was saving for the kids.
- 22:34Oh, I kind of remember that that that was like a cartoon or something.
- 22:38And then he gives another five dollars and says, I wonder why the
- 22:42woman who was being pressured to drink didn't actually show the man on screen.
- 22:47Yeah, that would have been helpful, I suppose. Well, I don't
- 22:49know. I don't know if you want to drag I mean, you probably
- 22:52don't want to jock somebody. But well, also then again, I would
- 22:55I would wonder why she would upload the video to begin with, unless she
- 22:57was trying to make a point about out like men in general. Yeah,
- 23:03here's the other thing. If you're that dude, what the freaking you're probably
- 23:07a psychopath, because dude, are you? Do you want to go to
- 23:11jail for rape? Like honestly, and don't say that too loudly because uh,
- 23:21three two d and fifty pound white night next in the in the in
- 23:25the in the table next door might overhear it and decide to turn you into
- 23:30a bloody smear, Like do you have any situational awareness? This is what's
- 23:36actually hilarious it's like, this guy has poor jeans, he has no situational
- 23:40awareness, and he acts in a way that was going to get him freaking
- 23:44slaughtered. You know, you want a little bit of canniness to your man,
- 23:48right, you want him to be have a little bit of awareness that
- 23:52there might be a sniper in the bushes over there, just a little bit
- 23:55of self preservation, you get what I'm getting at. Yeah, But but
- 24:00this guy at the same time, Yeah, at the same time, it's
- 24:04generally the men who you know, like, we have this this guy in
- 24:10the neighborhood, right. He his parents' own very well established, i think
- 24:15fifty years now family restaurant, and and they and he he is the favored
- 24:26son. And he rents sports cars. So like when we go to the
- 24:33restaurant, sometimes there's a Lamborghini parked in the parking lot. Sometimes there's a
- 24:37Porsche. Sometimes there's like a Bugatti. Sometimes there's you know, like okay,
- 24:44like really high end sports cars. He rents them to take women out
- 24:48on dates and and and it's like, okay, well, I mean he's
- 24:55he does have is he is well off, right, but he's not a
- 25:00hard worker. He's not he's not a stand up guy, right, anybody
- 25:07who would waste that kind of money on. And I've seen him, you
- 25:11know, he's he's a good looking guy, wears really nice clothes and really
- 25:15nice shoes. He wears his entire net worth to work every day, not
- 25:19every day two days a week, right and uh and and the rest of
- 25:26the time he's just spending his money frivolously. That that you know that his
- 25:30parents give him in allowance. And it's like, well, I wouldn't want
- 25:34to be with a guy like that, right, But there are a lot
- 25:37of young women who would be super attracted to a guy who's driving a Lamborghini
- 25:45in Edmonton. Right, I got another super child. I'm gonna get back.
- 25:53He doesn't have to he doesn't have to have a good personality, he
- 25:56doesn't have to like freaking be have any substance at all or character or anything
- 26:02like that. He's he's always going to be able to get laid because there's
- 26:06always a bunch of freaking dumb, stupid young okay, young dumb and full
- 26:11of come women language who were willing to go out with those guys and give
- 26:19them bestow upon those men the flowers of their virtue, right And then and
- 26:27then be like, oh, they well, what did what did you fucking
- 26:33think he was gonna do? Well? It's honestly like, I don't feel
- 26:37sorry for them. They got what they wanted out of it, a momentary,
- 26:40a moment of believing that they had their fantasy instead of reality living in
- 26:47reality. He gave him a moment of fantasy. She got what she wanted
- 26:49out of it. Okay, go ahead, all right, sleepy Aussie.
- 26:52He gives us five bucks and says, finally caught an episode live. I
- 26:56will listen to you during my workout. Normally I listen to metal, but
- 26:59I have Karen today. Thank you, Sleepy Ausye okay, I'm gonna play
- 27:11more of the video, yes please. And I don't know if I've solved
- 27:14the whole puzzle, but I think I've at least found a piece of it.
- 27:17And it is online dating advice from red pill bros who probably also don't
- 27:21have girlfriends. First time, I have to read you a thread from Twitter
- 27:23that I came across over the past week. Those red pill bros, they
- 27:29can't possibly have girlfriends. A little bit of context, yea, even you
- 27:33don't know, Alex Syke. I think Karen, but he is sort of
- 27:37a what is it? What is even more blue pill than blue pilled ultra
- 27:45violet pills, like only appears on the ultra violet spectrum of blue. Anyway,
- 27:52you're geting some kind of online poll. And he found out that red
- 27:55pillared men do as well as other men in dating, which you know,
- 28:00it's sort of difficult to interpret. Maybe it's a situation where they were doing
- 28:04poorly and they got the red pill and now they're doing as well. So
- 28:08excuse me, that could be the situation. But anyway, she's she's wrong.
- 28:15Red pill men do at least as well as other men. So I
- 28:18just want to put that in a little to do context. Yeah, No,
- 28:21and and what she's talking about, she's talking about people like Andrew Tate,
- 28:26She's talking about people like Mystery, She's talking about people like Rushmie.
- 28:30She's talking about those guys all the time. Yeah, but she's but she
- 28:34can't she can't assume that they do because it doesn't work with what she's presuming
- 28:38about them. Well, so she has to say they don't have girlfriends,
- 28:41because she would she would never degrade herself and data guy with with opinions like
- 28:48this. So it's impossible that any woman would do the same, even though
- 28:52lots of women will lower their well I wouldn't even say lower themselves, but
- 28:56they would find that attractive and they could eat those guys. Can we just
- 29:00can we just actually ask the question what is success in dating? That's a
- 29:07good question to ask, but that but she's concluding that it's just not what
- 29:11these guys are suggesting. Well, if you want to working society, success
- 29:17in dating eventually leads to marriage. Okay, nobody cares. Nobody cares about
- 29:22that, Alison. Clearly nobody cares because I'm just pointing out that genital handshakes
- 29:30don't make a long term So, okay, what is success in dating?
- 29:34How does anybody define success in dating? Getting a girlfriend? Probably right?
- 29:41Getting a girl like becoming becoming an item, becoming a significant other, yes,
- 29:48okay, a commitment, yeah no, okay, But if you're actually
- 29:53gonna measure that success in genital handshakes, okay, then red pill men are
- 30:03probably much more successful than blue pill men. Right. It's just a matter
- 30:07of how you define what what's the goal? What does success entail? Right?
- 30:14Is it getting laid by lots of other women? Or is it getting
- 30:18a girlfriend right, and a long term relationship right like this. Yeah No,
- 30:26Alan's seems to consider success to be genital handshakes, so go ahead,
- 30:33or just a second date. Yeah apparently apparently that oh yeah here is worth
- 30:40of effort, and he gets a second date that is considered success or a
- 30:45man. A man gets a first date and he pays for everything, and
- 30:48then he doesn't even get like a handshake, a plain old, you know,
- 30:53run of the mill handshake, let alone genital one. I mean you
- 30:59remember that woman as she was profiled on like BuzzFeed or some shit years ago.
- 31:06She was like, yeah, no, I go on a first date
- 31:07like five six nights a week, right because the guy will buy me dinner,
- 31:12and so I get like free dinner like almost every night. Well that's
- 31:21success in dating according to her standard. Yeah yep, okay, let's play
- 31:26more. That is absolutely insane. It's from an account who'se handle is dark
- 31:32psych for men, and it begins with the following advice, do not compliment
- 31:37her looks. Leave her to wonder why everyone sees her as a big deal,
- 31:41and you don't. Don't be the regular guy who goes around simping.
- 31:45Only compliment her when she does something and she does it right. Like this
- 31:48sounds like advice you'd give somebody for how to train their dog. No,
- 31:53no, it sounds like the advice you would give somebody who's dealing with their
- 31:59children, or I don't know, training an employee, or dealing with uh,
- 32:06just regular people every day. Like the way that I view with my
- 32:12dog is if he does something wrong, I tell him what the right thing
- 32:17was to do, and I wait for him to do it, like you
- 32:22don't eat. I don't know if that's wrong. Nobody, nobody deserves a
- 32:25fucking trophy for just existing. You wait for them to You only compliment her
- 32:32if she does something and does it right. You only compliment her on her
- 32:39achievements. I only compliment my husband when he does something and does it right.
- 32:46I'm not like fawning over him all the time, saying, oh my
- 32:51god, you're just so amazing, even though you screwed up like eighteen things
- 32:54this week. Yeah no, no, no, But you don't understand this.
- 33:00Defining a woman by her actions that is verboten. We must define them
- 33:04completely by their looks. But every woman is a perfect ten Like, and
- 33:07why do women need constant compliments? My husband can live with a like,
- 33:13okay, and I'll spare you the insults and the constant barrage of criticism that
- 33:19I have for my husband, which is all tongue in cheek and good natured
- 33:22and everything and all of that. And he has plenty for me too,
- 33:25right, But he only compliments me when I do something above and beyond the
- 33:34usual, and I do it right. I only compliment him when he does
- 33:39something above and beyond the usual expectations right, just the bare minimum, and
- 33:45he does it right. Okay, but we have bare minimum. You do
- 33:49not get compliments for living up to the bare minimum. You just don't.
- 33:53You just don't. But also the how adults operate in the world, the
- 34:00entitlement she is entitled to men complimenting her in the way that she desires,
- 34:07Like if he's the one giving the compliments, then he is ultimately arbiter of
- 34:10when and where he delivers them. Lady. I'm not saying that women have
- 34:17figured out dating or the opposite sex either, But what I am saying is
- 34:22that when I see women talking about dating online, their solutions are usually involving
- 34:28things like working on themselves, not tolerating disrespect, finding peace by yourself until
- 34:32you finds me you actually adds to your life and learning to stand up for
- 34:37yourself. Truly independent women. What do I mean by that? The true
- 34:44essence of independence where you are not affected by somebody else, You are detached,
- 34:51You are your own self. You are not the victim who reacts to
- 34:53him, and you are not trying to prove something to him. But you
- 34:58are an entity with in yourself and you shrive and you growth. They are
- 35:01not. Okay, How was that different from the advice that guy gave.
- 35:07Yeah, I I don't necessarily see any problem with that particular bit of advice
- 35:14that that actually is, like, you know, if you want to have
- 35:17a if you want to have a partnership, you're going to have to like
- 35:23actually have a partnership and not just be an atomized individual. Mm hm.
- 35:31This is if this is in the context of a relationship rather than personal development,
- 35:37it's incredibly combatitive. Yeah, you're saying the relationship is a battlefield of
- 35:45Well, it's basically saying you're two isolated individuals who who coexist, Like won't
- 35:55tolerated guy being like that because and I will say and you probably this will
- 36:00probably become a parent that the individual talking Hannah Cox would not tolerate a man
- 36:09with the opposite opinion to that woman. And it's I think, but you
- 36:14know, that's that's getting a little bit too into my own conclusion. So
- 36:17well, I I just I just think, I just think, honestly,
- 36:21Yeah, you you work on yourself and you take individual responsibility for your own
- 36:28you know, uh, your own I guess, personal growth and all of
- 36:31that stuff, right, But when you actually get with somebody, you you
- 36:37have to merge with them. You can't just be like, well, I'm
- 36:39my own adavized individual and you're your own atomized and like that's a roommate,
- 36:45that's not a partner. It's also it's also basically framing the relationship in terms
- 36:55of who can care least, Yeah, who can be least affected by the
- 37:00other person, which is astounding if you think about it. I mean,
- 37:05like you said, it's it's good advice if you're just talking about you know,
- 37:08excuse me, becoming your own person. But in the context of a
- 37:14relationship, you're essentially turning a relationship into a battlefield of who can care least.
- 37:20Yeah. I've been in a relationship where where there was a I felt
- 37:22like that was a competition to see who cares least. It doesn't. It
- 37:27doesn't because it's all about like, oh, well he doesn't have me wrapped
- 37:30around his finger, I have wrap around mind, you know, and yeah,
- 37:34that's not healthy, that's gonna well it did end in disaster. So
- 37:37that's kind of like not the way you do things, No, you,
- 37:42That's the way that I would approach this is try to do as much for
- 37:46yourself as you can, but not like, oh, I am unaffected by
- 37:52my partner, but I'm doing as much as I can to carry my own
- 37:57weight. I think that's a different attitude because her attitude is more like,
- 38:01I'm going to be completely emotionally unaffected by my partner. I'm going to be
- 38:07unconcerned by him. I'm we're going to gauge in a competition of who cares
- 38:10least, and it's not. That's not I think the approach to take the
- 38:14approaches I'm going to try to deal with my shit so that I can appreciate
- 38:20my partner more. You see what I'm saying. The difference, So I'm
- 38:23going to try to develop myself as a person. But it's in the context
- 38:29of not judge, like not expecting your partner to do everything for you.
- 38:35Yeah, no, you don't want to be needy or clingy or or burdensome
- 38:39or demanding. But it's not it's not like you're creating this Oh I don't
- 38:43need you, or I don't care about you, or I'm going to be
- 38:45more emotionally. No, that's it's more like, for I don't want you
- 38:49to have to carry my ship, so I'm going to try to do my
- 38:52best to carry it. And I'm gonna appreciate it when you carry my shit,
- 38:54like or help me carry my ship, or help help me or join
- 39:00me and we carry our shit, right, That's that's really the thing.
- 39:06And and it's you know, like you have you do have this kind of
- 39:13class of women or breed of women women, or you know, subset of
- 39:16women that that they they really don't want to you know, like I far
- 39:22be it from me to ask for his help, right and and and no,
- 39:29that's that's not the way to go. And you know, sometimes particularly
- 39:35for men, I think less so for women. Women women kind of feel
- 39:39secure in their right to exist for the most part, you know, like
- 39:45they it's been guaranteed them by society. You know that you have the right
- 39:51to exist. Men not so much. And so men really actually do have
- 39:57a longing to feel needed. And if they don't feel that at all,
- 40:05right, they don't need to feel it all the time, and they don't
- 40:07need to feel completely dependent on at all times, but they do need to
- 40:13feel like they have a role to play in their partner's live life, in
- 40:19their children's lives. They absolutely need to feel that. It's not just the
- 40:23evident. I think everybody, well, it's not just well everybody does.
- 40:28But for women that that that's like self evident. Yeah, it's self evidence.
- 40:34I see, yeah, and for minutes not Yeah, it needs to
- 40:37be demonstrated. I got a super chat. I want to read it and
- 40:42then we'll play more of the video. Albertnata Retro says, the guy she's
- 40:45talking about are of the fresh and fit variety. They get laid because they
- 40:50are covert simps, as all POAs are, but most don't a relationship.
- 40:53I mean, I think he means to say, don't want a relationship.
- 40:57You know, that's their choice. Celebrate, but there are women that want
- 40:59to fuck him. So I don't know who you're mad at. That's just
- 41:00the reality. But the truth is is that there are I think ultimately everyone
- 41:07desires to settle down eventually, So yeah, eventually, and they'll and they
- 41:14figure it out. But you know what, guys like fresh and fit only
- 41:17exist because there are women willing to shell out for them. So you gotta
- 41:21look, you gotta look at both sides of this. Wait, let's play
- 41:23more of this video. Ways to mess with the guy's psyche. And despite
- 41:28what the red Pill says, most women I see are just talking about how
- 41:31they'd like to find a normal guy who is nice to them, who respects
- 41:37them, who treats them well, who sees them as an equal, who
- 41:39puts as much work into the relationship as they do. And oh see that.
- 41:50Well here's the other thing. So remember she says, no, they're
- 41:53they're literally she she says, oh, oh yeah, these women talking online
- 41:57are saying, well, all they all they want is a nice guy,
- 42:00a guy who's willing to invest, a guy who blah blah blah blah blah.
- 42:02Yeah that's how much much into the relationship as they do. But yeah,
- 42:07yeah, okay, okay, okay, I'm noting it, but this
- 42:15is not what women are looking for. It's what they say they're looking for.
- 42:19Okay, it's what they say they're looking Yep, yep, yep,
- 42:23yep, that's what they were actually looking for. There wouldn't be an unpaired
- 42:28man on the planet. But you don't understand. Average men are rare,
- 42:39Yes are rare. They're they're nowhere to be found. So you can't find
- 42:50them. You can't find them anywhere. No, it's not possible. I
- 42:53just I just like again, I want to point out that her ideal female,
- 42:58like the the ideal female mindset in a relationship is basically turning it into
- 43:04a battlefield on who cares less? Okay, not just I'm gonna take care
- 43:09of my baggage as much as I can so I don't burden you with it,
- 43:13but a battlefield of who can care least, who can rely on the
- 43:16other partner least? Who is not even just like I don't think he means
- 43:21she means materially, I mean she means emotionally, who has less care?
- 43:24And does you know who is who wants it less? Is basically it.
- 43:29So a relationship is a battlefield of who wants it least. That's what that
- 43:32woman was presenting. Okay, yeah, and that's the red pill freaking thing.
- 43:37That's the ing ding ding ding ding ding ding got it right off.
- 43:43You got it too, almost three minutes in. Right there, Karen,
- 43:45she just got exactly what I noticed. She thinks that the ideal mindset for
- 43:52a woman in a relationship is to turn it into a battlefield of who cares
- 43:57least the most other options and to walk away who doesn't have to invest as
- 44:05much. And that's exactly what the red pill says for men. Yep.
- 44:13That's so she is saying, this is the ideal attitude that women should take
- 44:16to a relationship. It's the battlefield of who cares least. What does the
- 44:21red pill say to men? You're in a battle field of who cares least?
- 44:25Yep? So what the irony is that she is saying, well,
- 44:30if women do it, it's fine. And she doesn't realize that you think
- 44:34the it's not that women do it, it's fine. She's saying, if
- 44:37women do it, it's admirable and moral and like, and she doesn't realize
- 44:44that the red pill is in response to that. The red pill is in
- 44:47response to women on mass turning relationships into battlefields of who cares least, and
- 44:52the red pill is saying, okay, well, how do you navigate that
- 44:55battlefield as a man? This is what you do. Do you think think
- 45:00that red pill men would want to be part of this battle or would a
- 45:05lot of them prefer a mutually supportive, warm relationship with a sense of humor.
- 45:13This is the real question. Who's leading the dance here? I think
- 45:19most men would really like a genuine partnership. There's a great video I shared
- 45:27a while back on my Twitter. Camille Pollia was being interviewed, was a
- 45:34little older, and she said that the only thing that men want is for
- 45:38someone to take care of them and make them feel loved. And she was
- 45:45like, you know, like we just yeah, loved and needed, and
- 45:50they want to be nurtured by the women in their lives, you know,
- 45:52not like the way that a lot of women will complain. Here, I
- 45:59got it. I'm gonna I'm going to try to find this. Uh,
- 46:02I'll just put it on my maybe I'll share it. Let me grab it
- 46:07really quick because it's a it's a nice it's a nice little thing. I
- 46:13just got to look up my own account here on Allison's thing. It's kind
- 46:17of a pain hold on, but uh, okay, well, I just
- 46:24go ahead, what are you gonna say? I'll just fill in? Okay,
- 46:28yeah, fill in and while I get it, while I grab the
- 46:29link. All right, so I want to think, uh reave r e
- 46:37r e. I I'll just say, are e some thank yous? Oh?
- 46:38Hold yeah, just move one for now? Who gives one hundred and
- 46:43ten dollars which brings us down to six and eighty left for the month with
- 46:49one day left. So we uh, you know, if you if you
- 46:51got it, please put it in now because we're in the yeah. Yeah,
- 46:59So once again, the fundraisers that feed the Badger dot com slash support
- 47:05please do help out. We're in the final stretch, like we only have
- 47:07a little bit of time left, but we don't have much left to go
- 47:09on the fundraiser, which is great. Thank you to everybody who supported early.
- 47:15That's a weight off of my mind. I'm sure it's also a weight
- 47:16off of Brian's mind. It also allowed us to help Brian because of the
- 47:22Yeah, my card got Lindsay and my card had suspicious charges on it and
- 47:29we had to lock our cards and basically cancel them and get new ones,
- 47:32which means we didn't have any money for a while. I mean, we
- 47:36had food in the fridge and stuff, but I was like starting to worry,
- 47:38so I asked Alison to send me a little bit so that we can
- 47:42get by. So thank you to everybody who supported early. You actually helped
- 47:46us cover that. So yeah, so once again, feed the Badger dot
- 47:52com slash support to help us out make sure that we can continue to bring
- 47:54you this content every month, which honestly, I think we're making the connections
- 48:00nobody else is. And if you do see somebody else who's making those same
- 48:02connections, point the marway so that we can have like a round table and
- 48:06be like, oh yeah, like Scott Adams, We're not Yeah, like
- 48:08Scott Adams. That was crazy. Scott Adams. Yeah, did you hear
- 48:13about that? Karen? Yeah, she was here when I read the tweet.
- 48:16Well, what you say it again because there might be new people.
- 48:19Scott Yeah, basically said what we've been saying, that everything is no relationship
- 48:24between men and women. Yeah, no, I remember that. I just
- 48:29don't I don't know whether he heard it from us first, So no,
- 48:34we don't know. But he's saying what we were saying. Oh he's paying
- 48:37what we're saying and what we've been saying for a very long time now.
- 48:40So okay, okay, so I got it. I got a super chat
- 48:46real quick, and then I'm gonna play this Camille Polia thing for you guys.
- 48:51The super chat is from Blaive. Kaiser gives us five dollars, Thank
- 48:53you, Blave and says, there was actually an article today in the Daily
- 48:57Mail about lies women tell themselves about men by tre Cox, and I gotta
- 49:00say it was pretty all right. Well, I might have to check that
- 49:02out. And then I got one from Albert Nada again and he gives his
- 49:07five bucks Canadian and says the problem is those posers say to never simp while
- 49:10they are being red Pilled's supposed to be about truth and those types lie constantly.
- 49:15It's fine they get pussy though. I mean, I'm not supporting anything.
- 49:20I'm just saying, like, when women like Hannah Cox say that like
- 49:23this stuff doesn't work, while these guys are literally proving that it does,
- 49:28then that's the only thing that I'm saying. I'm saying, Well, ladies,
- 49:30if you don't like these guys doing well, stop giving them ass.
- 49:34That's what I'm saying. Okay, Yeah, so if that's the only way
- 49:38this continues. That's the only way this continues. Okay. So if you
- 49:43don't like it, then you know, tell women to have some standards.
- 49:45Okay, let's play this. This is Camille Polla talking about men. I'm
- 49:51saying that man, okay, is a pitiable being. He staggers from control
- 49:54by his mother, who control by his wife, and and really wants the
- 50:00nurturing. That the nature of heterosexuality is that the man wants to be nurtured,
- 50:04yes, by a woman. It took me years to realize this as
- 50:07a lesbian. If I had realized this, I would have had a much
- 50:08more successful dating life with men. Now I have been with men. I'm
- 50:12attracted to men, but I never realized until I would came into my thirties
- 50:16that all men want is attention and approval. That's all they want. Okay,
- 50:22attention. And if I had known that that men are not egomanics,
- 50:25men are not these tyrants. Is that is a false bill of goods sold
- 50:29by feminism. It's an immature and adolescent point of view. I realized that
- 50:32my very successful heterosexual women friends had liked men. That's the secret of a
- 50:38good dating life. If you like men, but you didn't like men.
- 50:42Yeah, I realized that few more powerful powerful than they are. And when
- 50:45I resolved my problem with men, You know how, as a teacher,
- 50:47when I got to age thirty five, I suddenly realized that the young men
- 50:51in my classes there was a misty look they were projecting towards me. I
- 50:54was the mother. I went, men are frail, men are pitiable.
- 50:58Men need help? You say that? Okay, men don't like hearing that.
- 51:04I know that for sure, but yeah, he has an overall point
- 51:07as well. Yeah, no, they don't. They don't like hearing that.
- 51:10They don't like hearing that they're pitiable, but they they do like feeling
- 51:19needed, respected, admired, loved, cared for. Well, who knew
- 51:22that, you know, Like, yeah, I could possibly guess. And
- 51:27and also that women who are successful in their lives like like men like I
- 51:31think that should be the prerequisite if you can. That's basically like the beginning.
- 51:35Do you like men? You'll do okay and be like, okay,
- 51:39do I like men? Do I appreciate male companionship for its own sake?
- 51:45Right? Do I value it? And it's difficult because you know, feminism
- 51:49has stripped all value from male companionship. But you don't have to listen to
- 51:54that crap. You can be an independent person and think for yourself. Do
- 51:58I like the way men navigate the world. You don't have to like the
- 52:01way all men navigate the world. But is there an aspect of I don't
- 52:06know? You know, you could see bookish men. You can say athletic
- 52:09men, you can see nerdy men. You could say, I don't know,
- 52:13pick up artist y men, peacocky man, whatever, whatever is the
- 52:15specific genre or or facet. Can you say I like masculinity, I like
- 52:22men, and if you can't, don't fucking date them. Period. If
- 52:28you cannot value a man's companionship in and of itself, you have no You
- 52:31have no business attempting to date them or have a relationship with one. Well,
- 52:37what I find interesting about Camille Palia is that she actually has a fairly
- 52:42masculine personality, and she didn't like men because not because I don't think it
- 52:51was because she didn't like them. I think it was because she saw them
- 52:53as direct competition, and she saw them as being privileged and unjust because yeah,
- 53:02because male privilege. And that's so she resented men. I don't.
- 53:07I don't think she didn't not like them, because if you if you didn't
- 53:12like men, why would you want to be like one. Yeah, but
- 53:16I mean the baseline is liking men, and then the other thing is don't
- 53:20resent them. Yeah, yeah, like and and that's honestly the first woman
- 53:25that she said, if that's the ideal mindset that a woman should take towards
- 53:31dating a man, one, it's resentful. It's like, I am not
- 53:37gonna I'm gonna give as little as possible because I resent the man in my
- 53:39life. Yeah, for some reason, and probably it's because she's marinated in
- 53:47feminist conjecture. Yeah. No. What's what's infuriating too, is because,
- 53:52like you know, my my kids say, they ran to Duplex and it
- 53:59abuts a back alley, right, and they they had this thing back when
- 54:06we had that really really bad cold snap where it was getting down to like
- 54:08minus fifty at night celsius, right, so minus forty is like, so
- 54:17you're looking at like minus sixty five or something like that fahrenheit. And there
- 54:25was a broken water main and some guys from the city had to come out
- 54:32and dig a hole in the back alley and fix the water main in daytime
- 54:42highs of minus forty. They had to do that, yep. So it's
- 54:52like, how do you not appreciate that? Because it turns out I was
- 54:59like, I don't even walk want to walk to my car, and I
- 55:01don't have I don't have a remote starter, so I'm going to have to
- 55:06sit in my freezing cold car for like twenty minutes before the vents even start
- 55:13spewing warm air. Yep. Right, and these guys are out in in
- 55:19minus thirty weather fixing a frickin' water met a flooded water met a lake.
- 55:28They had to suck the lake up in order to fix the water. Meat
- 55:34Like, that's I'm just like something in the nature of men, Like they
- 55:37set a cool and they sacrifice a lot to get to that goal. There
- 55:43was no there were there. There was not one woman on that team.
- 55:46No I suddenly they're there. They have something else to do. The road
- 55:51construction crew. Yeah, women on the road construction crew. Okay, there
- 55:53wasn't even there wasn't even a flag person. It's really hard to come by.
- 55:59I don't know any woman who wants to date a man who never compliments
- 56:01her looks like not only is this mean, it's so counterintuitive because if you
- 56:07really believe that women are just being told they're beautiful all the time everywhere they
- 56:10go. Believe me when I say I would leave somebody who was not nice
- 56:15to me and didn't compliment me for somebody who did so fast it would make
- 56:17their head spet. I know this is really okay, wrong with her freaking
- 56:22mouth, Yeah, there is. And also she's a narcissist if you need
- 56:30to be constantly told, right, Okay, I'm guessing this is her daily
- 56:36look when she goes out in the world, right, you know, I
- 56:38mean when she's you know, and and she thinks that she needs to be
- 56:45complimented by men or her husband when she looks the way she normally looks really
- 56:54really yeah, just apparently men are obligated to give women compliments. Yeah,
- 57:08for no reason, Like she's not dressing this way for him. I beg
- 57:13you. If they were at home for the weekend they didn't have to go
- 57:15out, she'd be in her freaking pajamas with BedHead and no makeup or yesterday's
- 57:21makeup, right, and and like yeah, and okay, so he's he's
- 57:27supposed to like she's supposed to compliment you for doing the bare minimum of what
- 57:31you would do if you weren't with him. Okay, I really I know
- 57:37this is incredibly shallow. What the hell is going on with her mouth?
- 57:40Her mouth? I don't know. I think it's a combination of her video
- 57:45being partially out of sync or maybe video vdo dot whatever. Right, it's
- 57:52triggering my autism. Yeah, yeah, it's It might be it might be
- 57:58the translation through the stream service, or it might be just her initial video.
- 58:05But yeah, no, it it. I've been like, oh,
- 58:08got it, it is, and it is autism, and it does bother
- 58:14me any kind of UNSYNCD lips. Yeah, well her mouth is anthetized somehow.
- 58:23Okay, let's keep going. Oh yeah, no, super chats,
- 58:27superchat freaking. She's had lip injections, probably, yeah, probably super chats.
- 58:34Albernina retro gets the two dollars. Canadian says I don't like her either,
- 58:37talking about Hannah Cocks. Then we got one from E Thunders and he
- 58:42says, here's a proper dad joke. A seal walks into a club.
- 58:45O god. Yeah, okay, okay, that was kind of father news.
- 58:55It was all right, It's a nerd joke. Here's a here's a
- 58:59nerd joke for all of the nerds in the audience. UDP packet bar walks
- 59:06into Oh god, joke, isn't it okay? Next up, they say,
- 59:16do not seek her validation. Seeking approval from a woman is the number
- 59:21one way to inflate her ego to the moon. Leave craving for approval to
- 59:24women. Don't forget guys. The best way to hang on to a woman
- 59:28is to make sure you're doing nothing that makes her happy. Next up,
- 59:30they say, never asked for commitment. This is an holloway move, and
- 59:32it is, but it doesn't make her happy. Sorry, do you want
- 59:36to go ahead? Remplicating doesn't make women happy. Seeking a woman's approval right,
- 59:44Constantly seeking her approval does not make a woman happy. It makes her
- 59:49think that she's got better options. Oh my god, he's willing. Yes,
- 59:53We've been dating for like six months and he's still bringing me flowers and
- 59:58like courting me, like were like, you know on our first date.
- 1:00:02Uh, I'm hot stuff. I could probably land a man ten times better
- 1:00:08than this guy. I mean, then she's gonna be dissatisfied with the guy
- 1:00:15she's with. Can I just play something out does how does she not understand
- 1:00:20her own fucking psychology? Can I point something out here, Karen? Again,
- 1:00:27let us appeal Okay, Brian, fewer sounds, Let us appeal to
- 1:00:30no, no offense, But let us appeal to, uh, the the
- 1:00:37ideal female mindset that she presented towards dating, which is to turn a relationship
- 1:00:43into a battleground who cares least? Now, No, no, no,
- 1:00:46no, no, no, no, no, that's not what it is.
- 1:00:50It's a battleground of who cares least and who can get the most stuff
- 1:00:54out of the other person. Yeah, but she's just well she didn't actually
- 1:00:58say that part, No, she did. She wants compliments, Oh,
- 1:01:02she doing please her, She wants compliments. She wants the man to focus
- 1:01:08on making her happy. Yeah, she definitely wants stuff from the relationship.
- 1:01:13But again, the ideal what she wanted to do, what she presented was
- 1:01:20the ideal female mindset. That woman, remember the original woman, Yes,
- 1:01:23the woman who was like, yeah, no, just look after yourself and
- 1:01:27it's every man who you're a free agent bitch. Yeah, and uh and
- 1:01:30don't don't be reliant like uh yeah, don't rely on him affected by him,
- 1:01:37like this is this is the this is the tone. That is her
- 1:01:40opinion of the ideal female approach to to dating and relationships. Battlefield of who
- 1:01:46cares least now, but who can get the most out of the other person,
- 1:01:52who can extract the most look at the dogs psychologies. Advice to men,
- 1:01:58what is it? Basically, don't fall for it. That's what his
- 1:02:04advice is. Don't fall for it. Well, narcissist, don't feed her
- 1:02:08freakin' Okay, if you find yourself with a black hole, right, a
- 1:02:15walking black hole in a minis skirt whose chews up men, and then you
- 1:02:20don't even care whether she swallows you or spits you out, Okay, you
- 1:02:24don't want to be with that, right, Make her do a little work,
- 1:02:30right, Make her actually put some extra effort into her appearance above and
- 1:02:36beyond what she would to go to the grocery store. Okay, before you
- 1:02:40say, oh, you look really nice, honey, Yeah, that's a
- 1:02:44good point, Like how about that, you know, because you're going out
- 1:02:47with me and you want to look nice, and you know you look nice
- 1:02:52and it's gonna reflect well on me, and that's like part of being a
- 1:02:54couple. Yeah, if she's not making an effort for him. Why should
- 1:02:59he she have to compliment her? Oh my god, I'm like fucking having
- 1:03:04an aneurysm here. Yeah, But like I said, this is actually think
- 1:03:07it might be. I'm gonna I'm gonna take it in a bin just in
- 1:03:09case. Just relax, don't don't overstress yourself. I'm just saying that dark
- 1:03:15psychology is basically giving men vice in response to the the women's narcissism, the
- 1:03:22tin or the tenor or the idea what she herself seizes, the ideal female
- 1:03:29approach to a relationship, which is, grab what you can, turn it
- 1:03:32into a battle of who cares least, and grab what you can, smash
- 1:03:36and grab like that. I mean, the red pill is basically a response.
- 1:03:40It's it's it would have been like something that didn't exist before. But
- 1:03:45basically what it's doing is it's equipping men with the necessary tools. You could
- 1:03:50call it armor and weaponology, so like to deal with to deal with modern
- 1:03:54women. I mean, like for most of history, most relationships were a
- 1:03:59rain, and now we have this hookup culture of free you know, free
- 1:04:04reign. I don't have a problem with it, but but there's like men
- 1:04:06and women approached it very differently, and red pillars are just giving men the
- 1:04:12tools. They're saying, Look, you think that you're just walking up to
- 1:04:15somebody and you're making friends with a woman like you would any other dude in
- 1:04:18your circle. But this is not that you're being you know, you're being
- 1:04:21analyzed, you're being shit tested, you're being you're being critiqued, you're being
- 1:04:29you know, judged. Yeah, and and if like when she says,
- 1:04:31well, why don't men like approach women, It's like, yeah, because
- 1:04:34they might get arrested in certain parts of the world because the women it's unwanted.
- 1:04:40What happens to you in Nottingham, what happens to you in in Scotland?
- 1:04:44You know what, like what will what will happen in Canada? They'll
- 1:04:46probably make it illegal, So why would men roll the dice on that?
- 1:04:51And then of course women they don't. They don't say well that should change.
- 1:04:55They say, well, the men that are the brave, the bravest,
- 1:04:58men that are willing to step up say something, are the only ones
- 1:05:00I'm going to give attention to. Because any man that ignores that, doesn't
- 1:05:03you know that actually like obeys the law and is worried about what women think
- 1:05:09that man is not worth my time because he's too cowardly. And so what
- 1:05:13are the kinds of men that are willing to risk all that. Well,
- 1:05:15they're the ones that don't give a fuck. Those are the ones you're gonna
- 1:05:18get. So yeah, all right, more, Oh I got another super
- 1:05:26child. Richard beerre gives us five bucks and says, Karen, don't you
- 1:05:29realize that we wouldn't have to be repairing water mains and sub zero temperatures if
- 1:05:32we would just do like certain female lead cultures and just have daily hikes of
- 1:05:36several hours to fetch and carry water back to the house. Oh yeah,
- 1:05:41no, that would really work well here in minus thirty minus forty weather.
- 1:05:49Yeah no, because there's no actual water. There's just no Okay, but
- 1:05:57if you go where the huskies go, don't you eat that yellow snow wise
- 1:06:02advice. I just meant that's how it works. Sorry, Alison, I
- 1:06:08didn't know that you were. Oh well, I was gonna say something really
- 1:06:11brief. So essentially, what I'm seeing is she's like the best attitude a
- 1:06:15woman A woman should come packing to the shootout with a man at noon.
- 1:06:19Man and women relationship is a shootout at noon, women should come packing.
- 1:06:24Man's like, well, okay, we're gonna come packing to No, not
- 1:06:27like that. Jesus Christ, you created this, you live with it,
- 1:06:32Okay, know how to action and speech over the phone or face to face.
- 1:06:36Don't let your actions speak volume of what you want with her. Like
- 1:06:41at this point, what I think you want with her is to maybe tie
- 1:06:43her up in your basement. You don't have to ask for commitment. That
- 1:06:45way, she can't get out. Next they say her really really, really,
- 1:06:50she's she's gonna be like, oh, any anyone who like follows escalated
- 1:06:57quickly is like Teddy that escalated really quickly. Yeah, no, don't don't
- 1:07:04show her your cards in terms of commitment. Just too early. Oh my
- 1:07:08gosh, he wants to put you in the basement. You're gonna end up
- 1:07:13dismembered in a hockey bag. Like maybe it's potentially like hype humorous hyperbole.
- 1:07:18The only problem is that's like saying, Okay, this woman has it stuff
- 1:07:25injected in her lips. Obviously that means that she wants to take a man
- 1:07:28home and cut out his kidneys, like boy, Usually there's some kind of
- 1:07:38continuity when you're doing a humorous hyperbole. There's no continuity between keep your desire
- 1:07:45to wipe her up close to your chest and you know, and uh until
- 1:07:49he improves herself and chain her to your freaking chainer in the basement, radiator
- 1:07:57and graper in the mouth. Yeah, yeah, like that. There's just
- 1:08:00there's not a lot of continuity there. It's just not he's the greatest,
- 1:08:04he's the greatst He grapes people in the house. Okay, sure, you
- 1:08:12must miss out on a date with her occasionally. This will show her that
- 1:08:14she cannot distract you from your goals. This will bring her ego down,
- 1:08:16and she will inherently respect you. This one might have a grain of truth
- 1:08:20to it. Nobody wants to be with somebody who doesn't have their own thing
- 1:08:25going on. Most women certainly don't want to be with a man who lacks
- 1:08:28ambition or discipline or dedication. And only very insecure and needy people need their
- 1:08:32partner to be with them twenty four to seven. But you shouldn't be doing
- 1:08:35those things to bring your partner's ego down. You should be doing them because
- 1:08:40you actually have goals and ambitions of your own that don't include destroying your partner'
- 1:08:45psyche. Next. Okay, lady again, your ideal approach, the ideal,
- 1:08:50the ideal female approach to relationship is a battlefield of who cares least.
- 1:08:57That's what you presented in the beginning. Do you expect the response to that
- 1:09:00is gonna be like you are basically going into a relationship saying, I'm gonna
- 1:09:06put up I'm gonna put out a minefield, I'm gonna have the caltrops,
- 1:09:10I'm gonna have the trenches, I'm gonna have the machine gun nest, I'm
- 1:09:13gonna have the snipers over there. And you are asking yourself, well,
- 1:09:16why are men treating this like it's a battle because you constructed a battlefield for
- 1:09:20them. They are trying to get through the battlefield you have constructed through your
- 1:09:27resentment, in your contempt, and your basic lack of I don't know,
- 1:09:34I guess interest in actually being in a relationship with a man because you,
- 1:09:40for some reason in this society. You know, maybe in the past,
- 1:09:45women's family would be the battlefield that a man has to get through, or
- 1:09:49the or the dragon, or having to capture his wife and prove to her
- 1:09:54father that he can. But now you have to make your own battlefield as
- 1:09:59women. Well, when does the battle stop? It's basically it well,
- 1:10:04and and the whole point is, you know, the battle that men men
- 1:10:10had to face when winning a woman was slaying a dragon or proving himself to
- 1:10:16her father. It wasn't fighting her constantly, except maybe in the Taming of
- 1:10:26the Shrew or the Wife of Bath or but I guess red Sonia. Yeah,
- 1:10:32but I mean you look at you look at like the wife of Beth.
- 1:10:36What what was that story all about? It was about she She was
- 1:10:42an abusive woman, right, who went through several husbands, treated them like
- 1:10:47shit, and they never said boo to her, right, And then she
- 1:10:51finally found someone who actually smacked her so hard it left her deaf in one
- 1:10:59ear when she was being a cunt, and she was like, that's the
- 1:11:02man I'm happy with. Well, nex they say, dress very nicely when
- 1:11:10you go out with her. The goal of this is to take the attention
- 1:11:13from her and give it to yourself. She's going to step up her game
- 1:11:15and compete with you. I have thought for some time, and I've seen
- 1:11:20nothing to disprove this, that many of the men in the red pill community
- 1:11:25want to be women themselves so badly. They are so mad that women be
- 1:11:29getting her blew out. You know what she thinks that's such a zinger.
- 1:11:34Yeah, and it isn't. She does, And no, the men in
- 1:11:39the red pill community don't want to be women. What this is getting at
- 1:11:46is, if she's going to ride in my Bugatti, she's going to look
- 1:11:51nicer than I do when I'm in a eighteen hundred dollars to reveal a lot
- 1:11:59of she's about to really tip her hand. I wonder before we get to
- 1:12:03that, before we get just before we get to that, I just want
- 1:12:13to I want to say that I think that, yes, maybe men would
- 1:12:21like to be treated like women for once, not be women, but actually
- 1:12:27be valued for their companionship alone, be in a relationship with someone who wants
- 1:12:32to like am I'm on this conversation on Twitter and they're referencing this channel called
- 1:12:41home Math right, and home Math has this very in depth, excuse me,
- 1:12:49a moment in depth discussion of what men and women want in a relationship.
- 1:12:55And I was looking at that, I'm like, I think it's simpler
- 1:12:58than that, because he's got all of these sections like just just like a
- 1:13:03whole like infographic. Men want to give someone to give to, and women
- 1:13:13want someone to take from. One of the big problems is that women are
- 1:13:17only attracted to men who take from them. So there's this big, this
- 1:13:24big inconsistency. And I'm not saying this, Yeah, there's this big inconsistency
- 1:13:30in women's attraction and honestly, it's it's unfortunate because there's this constant conflict,
- 1:13:38it seems, whereas men seem to be more sorted out. But in response
- 1:13:42to that, and I won't say specifically, like, there was an individual
- 1:13:45who mentioned that he I'm guessing that he might be not straight. He has
- 1:13:53started to date men and he's realized the truth of what I'm saying because he's
- 1:14:00now in a relationship with a man. So he's in a relationship with somebody
- 1:14:04who's trying to give to their partner and who sees that he doesn't. Just
- 1:14:10it's not not resentfully, like just wants to help their partner out, you
- 1:14:15know, wants to make their partner's life easier, not harder, easier,
- 1:14:18you know, and naturally sees themselves, you know. And this is something
- 1:14:23men do, and it's a masculine trait. They see themselves more in terms
- 1:14:29of the outcomes of their actions then effects on themselves. So if if you've
- 1:14:33got a good guy, he's going to look at you, know you,
- 1:14:36he does something, he's you're smiling, and that's like win for him,
- 1:14:42right, win condition. You're laughing, win condition. That's the real source
- 1:14:45of the dad jokes, even if it's painful laughter. You know, you're
- 1:14:49you are content and relaxed, win condition for the man, right, And
- 1:14:56that's the truth of it. And yeah, I think men do sometimes want
- 1:15:01to date other men. And I don't mean that in terms of being gay.
- 1:15:06I mean that in terms of being in a relationship where somebody also sees
- 1:15:13themselves in terms of their effect on you, you know, so you get
- 1:15:16to experience a partner who you know sees you smiling as a win condition rather
- 1:15:24than what this strange thing that I've seen with women who seem to resent it
- 1:15:29when their partner is happy. Yeah, like he's stolen something from them,
- 1:15:33you know. And if he's laughing, then oh, something he's up to
- 1:15:36something. If he's content and relaxed, Ah, how dare he just not
- 1:15:42doing things for me? You know? This constant battle. So yeah,
- 1:15:47that's why I said, I don't think this is the zinger. She thinks
- 1:15:49it is. No, men want to date other men to a degree,
- 1:15:54and I do not mean that sexually. And men sometimes want to be the
- 1:15:59woman in relationship. In other words, the person who the partner wants to
- 1:16:02make happy and is happy. Is like that's their wind condition. And unfortunately
- 1:16:09guys don't get that. And again she's about to reveal, like she's about
- 1:16:13to just drop all of her cards on the table. I don't even think
- 1:16:15she's aware of that, but she is. Fill a community want to be
- 1:16:18women themselves so badly. They are so mad that women be getting flew out,
- 1:16:27that women get presents bought for them, that women get compliments, that
- 1:16:30women get attention. The jealousy they have of women is palpable. He goes
- 1:16:34on to say, and I know this all right. Remember when she said
- 1:16:39that women are just they want a man who just does as much as they
- 1:16:42do. Yeah, no, they just want a man who's nice and he's
- 1:16:45gonna treat me. But literally literally remember when she said women want a man
- 1:16:50who does as much as they do. And now she's revealed, she's thrown
- 1:16:56all her cards on the table. She's revealed that know, women are not
- 1:17:01the ones doing anything in a relationship. They're not the ones giving compliments or
- 1:17:05presence or fluing out their partners. They're not the ones who consider it the
- 1:17:10wind condition for their partner to smile or laugh or be happy content. Yeah.
- 1:17:14No, they are the ones who are sucking up all the compliments,
- 1:17:17all of the plane trips to. Yeah. No, they're they're the black
- 1:17:20hole in the mini. So they're the black hole. So what the hell
- 1:17:24were you saying, Hannah Cox when you said, oh, women just want
- 1:17:27a man who does as much as they do nothing, then women let well,
- 1:17:30you know, honestly, I think she's right. Women want a man,
- 1:17:34like I said, who takes, but they judge themselves by a man
- 1:17:40being with a man who gives, and they're just like that. That contradiction
- 1:17:44just screws them up, makes them not happy with anything. And men would
- 1:17:48be thrilled with a woman who has more of a man's mindset in a relationship,
- 1:17:55who looks and says, my wind condition is his smile. Can you
- 1:18:00imagine that? Yeah, I'm pretty sure that what I'm saying right now,
- 1:18:03she can't even comprehend. It's never even crossed her mind. To think it.
- 1:18:10Yeah, No, when I think about like my relationship with my husband,
- 1:18:15it's you know, even when I'm criticizing him, even when I'm like
- 1:18:19poking fun at his flaws and all of that, right, I'm I'm looking
- 1:18:25for that smile. I'm looking for that laugh because I'm teasing him, and
- 1:18:29he gets it most of the time. Sometimes it falls flat, but sometimes
- 1:18:34when he does it to me, it falls flat. But I you know,
- 1:18:38like I like the fact that he thinks I'm an excellent cook. I
- 1:18:43like the fact that he appreciates what I do for him. I like the
- 1:18:46fact that that he, you know, and like I do a lot for
- 1:18:53him in terms of just like looking after him day to day and like nurturing
- 1:18:58him and stuff like I shave his head every day, and I freaking pack
- 1:19:02his lunch every day, and I drive him hither and yawn and and and
- 1:19:09I look after a whole bunch of his logistical stuff, right and and all
- 1:19:15of those things. And he always appreciates that those are things that the women
- 1:19:19that he's been with were never willing to do. And you know, he
- 1:19:24appreciates the fact that I drive his mother to the hospital when she needs to
- 1:19:28go to her endoscopy, and and and well, I let her drive me,
- 1:19:34I take extra heart attack pills and let her drive me to the hospital,
- 1:19:40and I drive back in her car and pick her up later when she's
- 1:19:44all stoned and telling me that I need to speed and like do illegal maneuvers
- 1:19:49in front of cops, right, and you know, like and I do
- 1:19:54all of these things. And it's like he's like, yeah, no,
- 1:19:58this is this is somebody who's actually invest in the relationship. And you know
- 1:20:00what he does. He gives me access to all of the bank accounts and
- 1:20:06and and I take care of all of the money, and I look after
- 1:20:13you know, the house is my domain and and I decide what happens therein
- 1:20:19and and it's like we have a partnership that works really well, and but
- 1:20:29like we're like a well oiled machine. But with all of these like when
- 1:20:35you have when you have this situation where you're both earning money, right and
- 1:20:43you're both feeling like you're your own person and you don't wanna or when she's
- 1:20:48like, Okay, I'm not gonna you know, you have to you have
- 1:20:53to give me the gibs. On top of the fact that I'm financially independent
- 1:20:59and all of this, and I can judge you for only earning as much
- 1:21:02as me, or earning not quite enough, more enough than I do.
- 1:21:08Right, And all of this stuff you need to give, you need to
- 1:21:11like, make with the compliments, make with the freakin' supplication, make with
- 1:21:15all of this other stuff. Right. I don't need to do shit for
- 1:21:19you. I don't need to do shit for you to make you feel good.
- 1:21:26Right, It's your job to make me feel good. And I'm just
- 1:21:32like, how does that even translate into a relationship. It's no wonder there
- 1:21:40are so few women, modern women who are paired of well. They will
- 1:21:45never You'll never know what it's like to make your partner happy, you know.
- 1:21:55That's what She'll never know that. She'll never know the feeling of knowing
- 1:21:59well. She will know. She will know that that that she made her
- 1:22:01partner happy. She made her partner happy by smiling when he gave her that
- 1:22:06gift, when he gave her the Gibbs, and she smiled and said,
- 1:22:12oh, thank you, what a nice Valentine's Day present. She won't ever
- 1:22:16know, and then he was happy about that. He you know, no,
- 1:22:20what I'm in is she'll never know taking an action, Yeah, taking
- 1:22:26an action to make him happy. She won't ever know that, So she'll
- 1:22:30never actually know what love is. No, so she's going to live her
- 1:22:32entire life as a reptile on a rock were absorbing sunlight and increasingly large lips.
- 1:22:42Oh, she'll look like Madonna, who literally does look like a reptile
- 1:22:47with large lips. No offense, Like I said, like, I'll go
- 1:22:56ahead. I was gonna read super Child. But yeah, yeah, but
- 1:23:00I have some thank yous. I wonder if I should do some some uh
- 1:23:03some uh shilling. I mean what I mean, isn't the point of injecting
- 1:23:08your lip to have large lips? Yes, yes, but she probably does
- 1:23:13have larger lips than she did. They do look like artificially enhanced or she's
- 1:23:19just I don't know, maybe she's had some dense work, or she does
- 1:23:24she does lip line or outside her lip line and fills it in so fa.
- 1:23:31Yeah, I know this is really caddy to comment on. It's just
- 1:23:36I think it says something about someone's psychology. Okay, I got a super
- 1:23:44Well you said you want to do some thank you? Yes, I have
- 1:23:45some thank yous to do. And ultimately the fact that she has decided to
- 1:23:51have. Instead of actually working on herself and her approach to relationships, she's
- 1:23:57decided to increase the size of her lips. Think that says something. But
- 1:24:02regardless, I have some thank yous I have Oh wait, wait, know
- 1:24:12that that was a super chow. Sorry, this is there's a lot of
- 1:24:15stuff that I have to work through to figure out what's going on. All
- 1:24:18right, clean up your room, clean up my room. Yeah, I'm
- 1:24:23busily sorting everything here. And nope, that's not the one. I know.
- 1:24:29Somebody I know someone did like five dollars, but I'm trying to figure
- 1:24:35out where it was. Oh okay, here we go here silver bullet gives
- 1:24:39us five dollars. Thank you, silver bullet. Wow. All right,
- 1:24:44and uh, Magnus river Mage gives us fifty dollars. Thank you, Magnus,
- 1:24:50thank you. My spoon is too b. This is the Magnus who
- 1:24:56left the comment that I'm going to be replying to in like a couple hour
- 1:25:00on the channel. So but you know, if it is you, I
- 1:25:04do appreciate the comment. It gave me some time to give me some thoughts
- 1:25:08to think, even if it was sort of scathing. Uh, anyway,
- 1:25:14So those are the two thank yous. If you would like to help us
- 1:25:15out once again, it's a feed the Badger dot com slash support. I
- 1:25:19should I do some like we we we are in the last day, so
- 1:25:25we really do need If you are able, please do go to feed the
- 1:25:29Badger dot com slash support. Just put it in in r U r L.
- 1:25:32Consider it. And I wanted to say, I heard that Mike had
- 1:25:38a bit of a maybe black pill rant yesterday. Would you say that,
- 1:25:41Brian, Uh, yeah, he's been pretty black pilled on stuff lately.
- 1:25:48Yeah, yeah, yeah, I would say that, But I mean he's
- 1:25:51entitled to have that view if he wants. Yeah. No, but he
- 1:25:55was saying that, and I get it because there's a lot of like people
- 1:25:58white pills out there. Yeah, he was saying, like to beware of
- 1:26:01false white pills because people will say, you know, trust the plan things
- 1:26:05like that, Yeah, trust the plan. Here's the touring point. Trump
- 1:26:09is doing seven D tret chests that kind of thing. Well, here's the
- 1:26:14thing. We can only do what we can do, right, and we
- 1:26:20can't necessarily change what is outside of our ability to change. So the society
- 1:26:26that we have is on a particular trajectory. It is had decided to fully
- 1:26:30and completely embrace a very destructive, socially destructive notion, which is that men
- 1:26:36oppress women, and we are seeing the fallout of that, and we're going
- 1:26:41to continue to see the fallout of that, and the society that we're part
- 1:26:44of is going to continue to beat that drum until it can't anymore. But
- 1:26:49that doesn't mean that we can't do something different. Right, They're going to
- 1:26:57do their thing, and ultimately they're going to be destroyed by the thing that
- 1:27:00they're doing. I don't know how it's going to play out. Maybe the
- 1:27:03destruction is just going to be one day they'll wake up and they'll be like,
- 1:27:06you know what, my life is shit. I want to do something
- 1:27:10different. You know, They'll they'll just be like, there's a there's a
- 1:27:13reason why everything is going wrong, Why we have cancel culture, why we
- 1:27:16have these endless revolutions, Why the Pride flag has so many symbols on it
- 1:27:25that are it's starting to look insane, it's starting to look slightly demonic,
- 1:27:30no offense, but that thing is like, it's really ugly, and why
- 1:27:35everything seems like everybody seems to be more suspicious of each other, less trusting.
- 1:27:41Everyone seems to be more willing to justify bad behavior. Why the social
- 1:27:46fabric appears to be unraveling. And maybe they'll wake up one day and say,
- 1:27:49you know what, I don't like this. Let's do something different.
- 1:27:53You know, that's entirely within within the realm of possibility. But if that
- 1:27:58is to happen, there has to be a path out. There has to
- 1:28:02be something that they can see, a deer path, whatever you want to
- 1:28:05call it, just something that they can follow out. And that's where we
- 1:28:10come in. That's what we are doing. We are creating that path.
- 1:28:15Creating that path on Honey Badger Radio and all the people watching it, all
- 1:28:17the people who are supporting it very very important to support so that that exists,
- 1:28:23because it's not a situation where we can say, okay, we got
- 1:28:27to change their minds. Well, they're going to hit the wall like the
- 1:28:30rest of society. There, we're going to take this message to an insane
- 1:28:35degree of just demonic insanity, and eventually the pain is going to be such
- 1:28:43that they'll want to do something different. And if there's going to be a
- 1:28:46chance for them to do something different, it's because we will have that pathway
- 1:28:50out. And that's what we're building here. We're building a pathway out of
- 1:28:55the belief that men oppress women, of the belief that men and women are
- 1:28:59at war with each other. We fundamentally they're not. I mean, Hannah
- 1:29:03Cox is essentially saying that the approach that women should have to a relationship,
- 1:29:06the ideal approach, is one that relationships are a battlefield in which you're fighting
- 1:29:13over who cares least. Well, that's not a relationship, but that is
- 1:29:16a direct result. That attitude is a direct result of the belief, the
- 1:29:19feminist belief that men and women are at war. Right, this is again
- 1:29:26it's going to construct a nightmare. People are going to be in pain.
- 1:29:29We need to give them a way out. And that's what we're building here.
- 1:29:32And if that sounds like something you want to support, be the Badger
- 1:29:35dot com slash support. We need a pathway out of this and when they're
- 1:29:40ready, they will take it. Now, I can't like, I know
- 1:29:44this might be maybe this is a white pill. This is more like,
- 1:29:46we need to do this ourselves. It doesn't matter what they do. We
- 1:29:50need to focus on what we can do and ultimately when they're ready. If
- 1:29:56they're ready, they will see what we've done and they will understand it.
- 1:30:02But we can't worry about that part. We can only worry about putting one
- 1:30:06foot in front of the other and building that pathway out. And if you
- 1:30:11want to help that, if you want to make that a reality and feed
- 1:30:14the Badger dot com slash support. It took me a long time to sort
- 1:30:16of get into that headspace where I can't care as men. I'm still in
- 1:30:21there, like you. You go on Twitter and you're like, oh God,
- 1:30:24everybody's an idiot except for me, And I got to point it all
- 1:30:28out, all of it, every bit of it. But and you know,
- 1:30:31you get sucked into that. But then at the end of the day
- 1:30:33you got to realize, well, I need to focus on getting myself out
- 1:30:41of the situation and getting the people around me out of this situation and helping
- 1:30:45who I can who's ready to hear it, and just let them go through
- 1:30:51whatever process they're going through, and just wait until they're ready to hear what
- 1:30:58we have to say. All right, So that's my Is that a white
- 1:31:02pill? Maybe it's a self pill. It's like a focus on your self
- 1:31:06pill. You know, don't worry too much about what they're doing. If
- 1:31:11they're ever to change, it'll be because they've just put themselves into so much
- 1:31:15pain that they want it out and be the out. That's it. Okay,
- 1:31:19So once again you want to support that Feedbadger dot com slash support very
- 1:31:24critical that you help us out with that. Again. I think this is
- 1:31:28a very unique message, and I think there's cause for hope. But the
- 1:31:30cause for hope isn't in the outside, it's within. It's your decision to
- 1:31:35take that path, to build that path, to make sure it exists,
- 1:31:39and make sure it's available for whenever the people who are going through their process
- 1:31:44decide that they no longer want to be in pain. They no longer want
- 1:31:47to be forced to take weird concoctions without any consent. They no longer want
- 1:31:53to be caught in a whirlwind of cancel culture. They no longer want to
- 1:31:57keep bending to the knee for increasingly crazy demands. You know, they no
- 1:32:00longer want to have a shitty economy, have utilities that are failing, all
- 1:32:06of this other crap. You know, they no longer want that. They're
- 1:32:10ready to do something different. Well, there has to be something different there,
- 1:32:14all right, So what do you think? Is that too much white
- 1:32:15pill? There? No, Alison, it's just common sense. Man.
- 1:32:19Look, we're here, we have to be here. If you're like ready
- 1:32:24to jump off a bridge, I can't stop you, but I hope you
- 1:32:26don't do it. So let's just get on with it. Stop bitching,
- 1:32:30okay, with some arm twisting if necessary in a few minutes. But Richard,
- 1:32:34go to feed the badger dot Commons support because I think it's really critical
- 1:32:38to make sure that we do get that support. All right, go ahead,
- 1:32:41Brian, all right, Richard Vierre Gius he's a super child for five
- 1:32:44dollars and says, it puts the lotion on its skin, or it gets
- 1:32:46the hose again, it puts the lotion back in the basket, or it
- 1:32:49gets the hose again. Might want to play the She who Must be obeyed
- 1:32:54sound clip again. I don't think I have that on my thing because it's
- 1:32:58like long as fuck, but I'll try to find it. I ain't got
- 1:33:04time for this shit. Right now, let's play more of the video.
- 1:33:10This is a heat because no woman but that pearl thing whatever, right,
- 1:33:13these kinds of things. Look at other women, Yes, take glances at
- 1:33:16other women. It's already creates a notion in her mind. That's not good
- 1:33:20grammar, But I guess what he's trying to say is you should stare at
- 1:33:24other women in front of her to put a notion in her mind. Yes,
- 1:33:28it'll put a notion in her mind that you are a creep and a
- 1:33:30weirdo, and another that you have options, or that you think you have
- 1:33:35options or you're not grasping to keep her around. Again, I'll remind you
- 1:33:41that she says that the ideal approach for a woman in a relationship is to
- 1:33:45treat it like a battleground of who cares least. Well, guess what this
- 1:33:49is, dark psychology telling men how to fight in that battleground. Yeah,
- 1:33:57if you're not if you're not insecure, where men are going to notice women
- 1:34:00like, it doesn't matter, we're wired to notice. I don't know if
- 1:34:05that guy's saying, you know that you should like make sure your woman knows
- 1:34:10you're leering, and she's just so, oh, you're being a creep.
- 1:34:13No, I mean women notice women, So I don't know. It just
- 1:34:20sounds like one in control a man's behavior and she's supposedly like either with a
- 1:34:26guy or engaged or something. Can imagine one of must be like to be
- 1:34:30him. Another post, he says, never be too quick to have sex,
- 1:34:35even if you were there for the sex. Never let her know that
- 1:34:38your real intention is you being thirsty and you just only want to get under
- 1:34:42her skirt. Make her feel that is the last thing you want to do
- 1:34:45with her. Women already assume that that is the first thing you want to
- 1:34:48do with us. It doesn't really matter what kind of mental games you try
- 1:34:50to play there. We're not gonna be like, oh, this one's different.
- 1:34:54He just doesn't like sex. No, we're gonna think you have a
- 1:34:57rectile dysfunction. In another post, he's what an asshole she is? Huh
- 1:35:01oh god, Yeah, she's just appalling. Yeah, no, she's okay.
- 1:35:12Not everybody wants to fuck you. I mean, for example, I
- 1:35:17don't good lord, Yeah no, it's it's like you can you can be
- 1:35:27kind of guaranteed that if a man is showing you attention in public, right
- 1:35:33in when he doesn't have to, right like, when he's not like the
- 1:35:40cashier or the doorman or you know, someone who's providing you a waiter or
- 1:35:45whatever. Someone who's providing you a service. If he's giving you some friendly
- 1:35:50attention, you can you can pretty much, you know, kind of judge
- 1:35:57that. You know, maybe he might want to get up your skirt or
- 1:36:00whatever, but that doesn't mean that he's gonna do any work to get that.
- 1:36:08Like the hell is wrong with you? I mean, like, yes,
- 1:36:14it's easier, it's way easier for women than it is for men out
- 1:36:17there, like just being able to hook up and stuff right, way easier.
- 1:36:23But like, you don't get to take somebody else's attraction for granted just
- 1:36:30because you have a vagina, Like Jesus, you don't forget to you that
- 1:36:35if a man doesn't find you attractive, you know you you you're you're throwing
- 1:36:43something a health issue in his face. Yeah, oh attractive, he's a
- 1:36:48faggot. The man doesn't cry me attractive, he's a cripple. The man
- 1:36:53doesn't find me attractive, he's he's just a function or something. He's in
- 1:37:00temptuous Like, does she realize what she's revealing about herself being unpredictable? Planned
- 1:37:10surprise dates show up unexpectedly and keep her guessing. This is advice for how
- 1:37:14to be a stalker by not following a routine, you'll keep her guessing and
- 1:37:16make her work harder to keep your attention. This one's one of my favorites.
- 1:37:19He says, never show your insecurity. Never ask a woman what she
- 1:37:25feels about you, or ask for personal advice. You shouldn't give an f
- 1:37:29about what a woman thinks about you. She could easily sense insecurity from you
- 1:37:31if you seek validation from her. No, honestly, I'm going to sense
- 1:37:36insecurity from you if you're right. Validation validation. Do you remember the do
- 1:37:42you remember that woman what she said? Oh? Yeah, no, No,
- 1:37:46you don't do validation. You don't need validation from him. If he
- 1:37:51doesn't like you, then fuck him. Yeah, like, yeah, no,
- 1:37:56you don't need validation to be in a relationship. You don't need him
- 1:37:59to to like tell you that you're hot, shit or anything like. This
- 1:38:04is this fucking bitch is all over the place. She's like, you know,
- 1:38:10if you don't compliment her, why would she stay? And then the
- 1:38:14other one that she's like, okay, so this is, like, you
- 1:38:17know, exemplary of how women should conduct their relationships. But it doesn't fucking
- 1:38:23matter what he does. You're your own woman, you know, And uh,
- 1:38:27fucking you know. Well, she wants to be able to play the
- 1:38:30game of let's turn this baut the relationship into a battlefield who cares least,
- 1:38:35But she doesn't want men to play their side defensively. Met are playing this
- 1:38:41defensively and this and again this this snake pit that we are looking at right
- 1:38:47now, this fucking snake pit, and she's like the head snake here.
- 1:38:54This is what happens to relationships under feminism, And she has no clue what
- 1:39:00he's revealing about herself. Okay, of these things because men who are actually
- 1:39:08confident are up front, they are pursuant, They keep their word, they
- 1:39:13tell you their intentions, and they follow through men who play games. So
- 1:39:16men who are confident, like you realize, like do you think that men
- 1:39:26who do you think that presumably this this woman has a fiance, God help
- 1:39:30him. Do you think he's always confident? Like do you do you?
- 1:39:38Like? What what do you think men are? Of course men have insecurities,
- 1:39:43But it sounds like you think that somehow the men who don't don't show
- 1:39:47you their insecurities just don't have them. They're not showing them to you for
- 1:39:53the obvious reason. And because you'd probably kicked them in the ass and say
- 1:39:56that they have a eric tile dysfunction. Yeah, snake pit aims like little
- 1:40:04boys are emotionally stunted commitment fobes who are too scared to even go to therapy
- 1:40:10and deal with their own problems, so they keep projecting them out on everybody
- 1:40:13else. And most women, by the time their brains are fully formed,
- 1:40:15which is at age twenty five, pick up on these patterns and avoid these
- 1:40:19guys like the plague. It's okay, wait, how would you fucking know?
- 1:40:25He's saying, hide your insecurities? And incidentally, any woman that recommends
- 1:40:31men go to therapy are already don't understand what's going on. Right, Why
- 1:40:36is this woman appealing to the collective female brain cell? Oh? Women,
- 1:40:44just that they know they know these things. They can pick up on the
- 1:40:47fact that you're hiding your insecurities. We can smell fear. We're like dogs,
- 1:40:54you know what? Like, no, you can't and I know you
- 1:40:58can't. And I'm going to use an example that Karen will pick up on
- 1:41:00pretty quickly if she's around. Are you around here, Karen? No,
- 1:41:06she might. She had to take a phone call, She has to take
- 1:41:10fully when she comes back, she can confirm this all right. A couple
- 1:41:14of years ago, like maybe almost a decade ago, maybe there was an
- 1:41:17individual who was in this space who were a remain unnamed, but he was
- 1:41:20sort of a not a very pleasant dude, shall we say, And I
- 1:41:27went in and I had some converse. He was a feminist, a feminist
- 1:41:30man, and I went in. I had some debates with him, and
- 1:41:32I noticed that his behavior was let me just put it this way, I
- 1:41:42want to say it gave me an ick, but it raised the hairs on
- 1:41:45the back of my head, the back of my neck. And so I
- 1:41:50had one debate with him. Another person in this space called up and said,
- 1:41:55would you like to debate him again? And I'm like, no,
- 1:41:57that man is a psycho. And I swear the day after I said,
- 1:42:05oh, I wasn't going to say his name. I wasn't going to say
- 1:42:06his name. But the day after I said that, I said, I
- 1:42:10don't want to debate date debate him because he's a psycho and he's I would
- 1:42:14debate anyone like remember Kevin Logan, Oh god, yeah, but he's not
- 1:42:20dangerous, right, he was just yeah, But there's all kinds of guys
- 1:42:27had feminist men. Whatever, you debate them, it's fine, you don't
- 1:42:30feel like that that rising sense of dread, shall we say? And yet
- 1:42:34I did with this guy, and then a day after I said, no,
- 1:42:38I don't want to debate him. He's a psycho. He's shot his
- 1:42:41one of his girlfriends because he had two feminist women a polly three three three
- 1:42:46feminists in a poly quadrangle, and he shot one of them in a parking
- 1:42:54lot because she wanted to leave him. He chased her out. He he
- 1:43:00gave her a ring. Here's here's what the skinny. Okay. He gave
- 1:43:04her a ring and said, hey, out of all my three squeezes,
- 1:43:09I want you to be my main squeeze. And she said no and left.
- 1:43:16And he'd just come back from a trip fucking some other bitch in Australia
- 1:43:21for like three weeks, right, and yeah, she said no, and
- 1:43:30then he started freaking out on her. And then they were on a zoom
- 1:43:34call or like a skype call with this Australian woman, okay, and uh
- 1:43:42yeah, no, He's like, I want you to be my main woman,
- 1:43:45my like anchor anchor babe, And she was like no, no,
- 1:43:49I don't want to do that, and he got he freaked out on her,
- 1:43:54and she left the apartment and went out into the parking lot and he
- 1:43:58came out with a shotgun in black, twice in the chest. And that's
- 1:44:03how it went down. Yeah, well that escalated quickly. Yeah I did,
- 1:44:08didn't it. But what what occurred to me is that I picked up
- 1:44:12but he was bad news. And I know you did what I'm not doing
- 1:44:15a fucking like if you actually, Louis and Karen, if you look at
- 1:44:21if you look at that freakin' thing where we were both on with him,
- 1:44:27and like for the last fifteen minutes of it, I was like, I
- 1:44:30was like really making nice with him. I don't make nice with you like
- 1:44:34that. I don't ever do that unless I'm like I was still arguing with
- 1:44:40him. Yeah, no, but I was making nice. I was like,
- 1:44:43oh, you got pet rats. I have pet rats too, you
- 1:44:45know they're really cool, and blah blah blah, because I was like,
- 1:44:49you know, this is a bad taste in your hands where they can see
- 1:44:55them, and back away slowly with a smile on your face, going like
- 1:44:59I don't mean you no harm. Yeah, and both of us picked up
- 1:45:02on that. Both of us picked up on it, because in the three
- 1:45:06feminist women using the brain cell, the female brain cell that Hannah Cox is
- 1:45:14appealing to here, none of them picked up on it. None of them
- 1:45:18I knew, Karen knew. This is a guy you don't want to be
- 1:45:21around feminism for whatever reason. So no, you don't pick you, I
- 1:45:28guarantee, Hannah Cox. There have been men in your life who have been
- 1:45:30presented, presented themselves as confident and they haven't felt it, and they did
- 1:45:36not tell you. And it wasn't because they were insecure children. It was
- 1:45:40because you are all right, yes, okay. It's so funny to me
- 1:45:49that these same guys will go on and on about women have so many choices
- 1:45:54and women are constantly thinking they can do better, and yet they also think
- 1:45:58a woman's going to sit around and put up with this. The only reason
- 1:46:00a woman ends up putting up with this kind of behavior is because they get
- 1:46:03attached or trauma bonded. It doesn't ever start out with a guy behaving this
- 1:46:09way and a girl's like, oh yeah, give me more, be meaner
- 1:46:11to me. No, most men love bomb them, are really really sweet
- 1:46:15to them for a period of a few months and then slowly start to pull
- 1:46:18back and change, And by that point the woman is attached, she's bonded
- 1:46:23with them, she's got a mind game going on, or she's trying to
- 1:46:25figure out why they change and how she can get them to be how they
- 1:46:28used to be. She might be financially attached to them. These guys like
- 1:46:31to claim that women actually don't like nice guys, they like bad guys.
- 1:46:34But the truth is, Smarana, here's the thing. They're leading with this,
- 1:46:43okay, and if it's if it doesn't get them results, they're leading
- 1:46:48with it. The woman can walk away because she sees what they're leading with.
- 1:46:54What you're saying is guys stuck us in by acting nice and then springing
- 1:46:58the asshole. Well, there's like, let's just be asshole up front.
- 1:47:01You should be encouraging this. If you genuinely believe that women would walk away,
- 1:47:08then you should be encouraging these guys to do this because they're putting their
- 1:47:12cards up front, they're not backloading them. So what is your problem?
- 1:47:18Is a man who becomes like starts a pork ship with a lot of energy
- 1:47:27and upfront ness and initiative and then they relax into a relationship. Is that
- 1:47:33what she means by them like pulling away when they're probably just like chilling the
- 1:47:38fuck out. Then they're like done spending all the upfront money and they're done,
- 1:47:43like you know, trying to impress with the cars and the and the
- 1:47:45bling and whatever and the spending, and they're like, okay, okay,
- 1:47:48okay, I've done. We're now together, and now I think she can
- 1:47:54start liking me for who I am. So I'm just going to relax.
- 1:47:57Is that what she means by pulling away? Because I think that, you
- 1:48:00know, it's like that like that, I don't know that. Or is
- 1:48:04it more like she's like a woman takes a man, right. She starts
- 1:48:09seeing a man and she is really into him, but he's not quite right.
- 1:48:15There's like some things that she needs to change, and over time she
- 1:48:17gets him to change in every way that she wants right, like you know,
- 1:48:21your hair's too long, you should cut it, you should wear these
- 1:48:25clothes, you should get this job, whatever. And then the man does
- 1:48:28all those things and then she's like, I can't be with him. He's
- 1:48:30not the same guy I started dating. I'm just saying like this this is
- 1:48:36all like, yeah, and that this is also the end of the honeymoon
- 1:48:41period when people start, Yeah, that's kind of what I'm saying, when
- 1:48:44the honeymoon period ends and you're just kind of like whatever. Right, We're
- 1:48:47in sweatpants, watching a movie and eating like, you know, pizza carry
- 1:48:53out, and that's the monster. She thinks that it's being revealed the guys.
- 1:48:57Yeah, that's the Yeah, the monster is revealed. And he likes
- 1:49:00sausage and garlic on his pizza. Yeah, you know, And yeah,
- 1:49:04I don't understand. I don't understand, like, okay, the amount of
- 1:49:11effort. Okay, if my if, if the if Okay, not my
- 1:49:17husband, because he's never really put that much effort into his appearance, right,
- 1:49:20you know, grooming and stuff like that. Right, But if if
- 1:49:26I was with a guy who you know, dressed corporate, right, and
- 1:49:30uh, and I needed to dress in a similar fashion and all of that
- 1:49:35whenever I went out with him, and uh, and I needed to keep
- 1:49:41up the house, uh to the uh the I guess the standards of if
- 1:49:48he wanted to invite his supervisor over and his and his supervisor's wife over for
- 1:49:54dinner or something like that, I had to keep it really nice and and
- 1:49:58all of that, and I had to like look presentable all the time,
- 1:50:01and and I could never have like a headphone dent in my hair, and
- 1:50:06uh and you know, I just would have to be like like I like
- 1:50:14I was. Oh no, there's no such thing as sweatpants in this house,
- 1:50:18right, or ratty lounge pants with like a hole in the ass.
- 1:50:24Right. No, no, there's there's only silk pajamas, right, and
- 1:50:31fresh linen bed linens every day. Right. Okay, you know, I
- 1:50:39suppose if I had an army of servants, I could keep the house to
- 1:50:45that standard. But I still am not gonna put on makeup or you know,
- 1:50:51like make my I'm still gonna live in no makeup and sweatpants, like
- 1:50:59that's That's just how I'm going to be. And if it's like, yes,
- 1:51:06I dressed up, I wore a skirt and black nylons and high heels
- 1:51:15and a boostier. Oh oh, I looked taught. When I went to
- 1:51:21my husband's graduation from engineering school when he got his bachelor's he wore a suit
- 1:51:29and I wore that outfit and we were very attractive couple, right, But
- 1:51:36yeah, no, no, I'm not interested in wearing that kind of crap
- 1:51:43now, Like, yeah, I'm sorry. Yeah, well, that's the
- 1:51:48thing that the honeymoon's over, you know. Then it's just your willingness to
- 1:51:54your willingness to want to make your partner's life easy. Let's let's be easier,
- 1:51:59let's just down there, like that's that's the attitude you have to bring
- 1:52:01if you want a long term relationship. And she doesn't have it. She
- 1:52:04thinks that a relationship is a battlefield in which you prove you like you,
- 1:52:10you care least well, and sometimes you have to prioritize. It's like I
- 1:52:13tell my I tell my husband, you know, like, okay, so
- 1:52:15you're complaining the house is a mess. Whatever. What would you rather have?
- 1:52:18A spotless house or a hot dinner? Right? Which which would you
- 1:52:25rather? Because you can't have both at least not right? No, not
- 1:52:30today? Okay, Yeah, so it's promise, it's just wanting to make
- 1:52:33your partner's life easier and taking pleasure in that. Yeah, you're just not
- 1:52:40going to have a relationship and even if you have a not going to get
- 1:52:44what you what you really should out of it. All right, sorry,
- 1:52:47sorry, right, well a little more I think because I got to do
- 1:52:50a patron show today, so I set one up. Anyways, though,
- 1:52:57all right, I'm going to play some more guys pretend to be now guys
- 1:53:00in order to get with them and trick them. It's not that women seek
- 1:53:02out this kind of behavior. Another process. Never argue you're just okay,
- 1:53:06you idiot, like this is getting annoying. Okay. Uh An elephant runs
- 1:53:15down the main street and you're like, what is that donkey doing on the
- 1:53:19on the pavement. No, you don't get to just bullshit your way through
- 1:53:28everything. You're trying to say, right, you don't. Well, okay,
- 1:53:30but but she knows what she's talking about because she's she knows all of
- 1:53:34the normal women, and all of the normal women on earth. They just
- 1:53:39want a guy that's nice and compliments that it's nutty and has something going on
- 1:53:44and makes pretty decent money and is it and and won't feel insecure ever be
- 1:53:48looking and he has abs yeah, and a big dick, and you know,
- 1:53:53like he could could make babies or not make babies, depending on what
- 1:53:57she wants at the time. Okay, that's not what I'm talking about.
- 1:54:00I'm talking about. She is referencing something, and then she's saying it's something
- 1:54:04completely different, like hiding your intent to wipe a woman up equals trying to
- 1:54:12train her to base inability to comprehend something outside of her world view. It's
- 1:54:19literally like she's she has glasses on that do not allow her to see the
- 1:54:26color red, and we are saying this is red, and she's like,
- 1:54:30no, this is not red. Well, yes, you don't know that
- 1:54:31because you're not wearing you're you're wearing a bunch of glasses that change how you
- 1:54:36perceive the world. Because what this guy is saying, he is not saying,
- 1:54:42pretend to be a nice guy. She'll love it, then spring the
- 1:54:45asshole on her when she least expects it. Oh God, no, no,
- 1:54:50no, not saying that. And yet she's saying, don't say a
- 1:54:55nice That's like a freaking invitation to a false rape accusation. That's what they're
- 1:55:00saying, all right. She's literally this guy is saying, don't be a
- 1:55:04nice guy. Don't be a nice guy, and she's saying, oh,
- 1:55:08he's telling men to be a nice guy, and then they're gonna spring being
- 1:55:12an asshole, okay, or wait, or or alternatively, she's saying that
- 1:55:16the normal way that this happens is the guy pretends to be an asshole and
- 1:55:20then he's pretends to be a nice guy and then he springs being an asshole
- 1:55:24on her. Well, okay, if your problem is that men are ambushing
- 1:55:28you with your with asshole in ashness equal to your own, lady, let's
- 1:55:32be frank, because you're a gigantic fucking asshole. But you know, if
- 1:55:38you're if your complaint is that men are just as good as you are,
- 1:55:42in the end of the day and they, you know, after they've put
- 1:55:45on all of the stops to try to woo you, you find out that,
- 1:55:48oh, hey, I've I've attracted a man who's as big of a
- 1:55:50dick as I am. You know. But uh, but regardless, if
- 1:55:56that's your problem, then men being dicks up front is going to solve that
- 1:56:00for you. Why are you complaining? Huh yeah, you fucking dick.
- 1:56:08Yeah. More argue with her or get emotional. Anytime you get emotional,
- 1:56:13it shows her she has power and control over you. Don't argue with her,
- 1:56:15and if she is being unreasonable or disrespectful, take your leave. Basically,
- 1:56:19what you're saying is, remember how she said that the way that women
- 1:56:24do their own work. They uh, they they learn not to take disrespect.
- 1:56:30You remember that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you don't accept accept
- 1:56:32disrespect. You just walk out on it. Like literally, she's a cat
- 1:56:36screeching at its own reflection in the mirror. Yeah. You set the terms,
- 1:56:42you live by them. This is the This is the freaking this is
- 1:56:45the battlefield you chose. The fact that men are finally coming up and saying,
- 1:56:49you know what, you know Queensberry rules, we get to be uh,
- 1:56:54we get to be armed too, and yeah, complaining about it.
- 1:56:58Yeah no, And like one of one of the best bits of advice that
- 1:57:03oh god, this was like before I even like came out online, you
- 1:57:09know, doing videos or anything like that, or even on Reddit. Right,
- 1:57:13was this one guy He was like, Okay, so here's here's one
- 1:57:17bit of advice. Is with your wife, right, if you're married,
- 1:57:23never let her put you out of your own bed. Right, if she's
- 1:57:29mad at you, Okay, lie there next to her and sleep like a
- 1:57:34baby while she lies there stiff as a board, fuming all night, wide
- 1:57:40awake, furious. Okay, because that's your bed. You pay for that
- 1:57:45bed, right, it's your bed. You have every right to be in
- 1:57:48there. And if she doesn't want to sleep next to you, she can
- 1:57:50go out to the couch, okay, if she's that mad. And also,
- 1:57:58if you know you actually wronged her, if you know you did something
- 1:58:01wrong, admit it, apologize, do it once, and that's it.
- 1:58:09That's the end of it. Do not accept any freaking you know. Oh
- 1:58:15but you know your apology wasn't good enough. No, you admitted you did
- 1:58:19her wrong, you apologized. That's it done. Don't let her drag you
- 1:58:28back into it. Don't let her make you demand extract another ten apologies from
- 1:58:33you, right, No, make it a sincere apology. If you did
- 1:58:40wrong, you're gonna feel bad. Make it a sincere apology. Do not
- 1:58:44repeat it. Make it so sincere, and then that's the end of it.
- 1:58:47It's done. It's over right, And do the same for her.
- 1:58:54If she did you wrong, she sincerely apologizes, that's it, it's done.
- 1:59:01Move on, right, that's how adults operate. But what he said
- 1:59:10like was that you know he never realized that, you know, being her
- 1:59:15kicking him out onto the couch was actually making her not respect him, and
- 1:59:20him repeatedly apologizing right for the same minor transgression, you know, was making
- 1:59:30her not respect him mm hmm, and even when she was demanding it.
- 1:59:38You're not welcome in this bed. I want another apology, right. I
- 1:59:43want to hear how bad you feel about what you did wrong? Right,
- 1:59:46I want to hear it again and again and again. Yeah. No,
- 1:59:49if he gave her that, she just lost respect for us. Hey,
- 1:59:56you guys want to do some more. It's five o'clock, being away for
- 2:00:00like two hours. Yeah no, I'm gonna have to go in about fifteen
- 2:00:05minutes. So I do have some ways. Oh good, good, good,
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- 2:01:18whatever funds you send. All right, So back to you, Brian or
- 2:01:23all right? Yeah, be emotionally unavailable and avoidant. This is one of
- 2:01:29the top reasons that people break up or get divorce, shutting down, stonewalling
- 2:01:32somebody. One of the top things women actually say they want is emotional intelligence
- 2:01:38out of a man. A man who can't discuss his feelings, who can't
- 2:01:41communicate, is a complete Okay, Okay, let's just let's just define emotional
- 2:01:48intelligence. Okay. What women mean when they say emotional intelligence is vomit your
- 2:01:55emotions all over the room. Okay, that's what they mean, and they
- 2:02:01say they want it, okay, because that's what they do. When they
- 2:02:04claim that they're more emotionally intelligent than men, it's because they vomit their emotions
- 2:02:11all over everybody else in the vicinity. Okay, they say they want that
- 2:02:15for men, that is not what they want. They do not want that.
- 2:02:19They want actual emotional intelligence, which is, oh, let's see emotional
- 2:02:31reticence, circumspectness, the ability to pause and think under fire, to not
- 2:02:42go off half cocked, to not go fly off the handle, to not
- 2:02:47get upset about little things right, to not do what I'm doing right now,
- 2:02:54which is okay, I'm mostly doing it for effect. But you know,
- 2:02:58like, they don't want a man who is Like if if they actually
- 2:03:02got a man who was emotionally intelligent in the way that they define it,
- 2:03:09which is just vomit your emotions all over everyone around you, right, they
- 2:03:15would hate it. They would hate every fucking moment of it. They would,
- 2:03:17well, they consider it threatening abuse and threatening. Well, I mean,
- 2:03:24and it's not it's okay, never argue with her or get emotional Uh
- 2:03:30okay. So what was her conclusion with this again, that they women want
- 2:03:32emotionally intelligent men. Yeah, whatever the hell that means. Whatever the hell
- 2:03:38that means. It's just another thing that you expect from men. And honestly,
- 2:03:42do you really like this guy is revealing how he most likely he's revealing
- 2:03:49how he feels like that. He's probably not happy that he has to do
- 2:03:51this stuff. He's revealing what in in reverse the pressures on men. Right,
- 2:03:59Okay, so he is being emotionally intelligent because he's articulating the pressures that
- 2:04:04are placed on men and how to live up to them. Okay, let's
- 2:04:12uh, let's see what else he she has to say, he turn off.
- 2:04:15It signifies that you are not fully developed. Now, I'm not going
- 2:04:19to say that women want you to be super emotional in the way that you
- 2:04:21communicate or they want you are you to say, who is and is not
- 2:04:27fully developed? Like who anointed you Grand poobah of emotional development? Well,
- 2:04:34she's an emotionally intelligent woman, not according to what I'm not here general self
- 2:04:45contradicting things in this video alone. Yes, you're just a woman with a
- 2:04:53small braine us. I don't know why misogyny is so funny to me.
- 2:05:02Ah, that's adorable. Okay, Look, nothing in this video suggests to
- 2:05:10me that she has an emotional intelligence of a walnut, Like and what does
- 2:05:15she mean by emotional intelligence? I am aware of my own emotions, like
- 2:05:19when you don't let me have the lollipop, I know that that is a
- 2:05:23horrible imposition on me and I'm going to throw a tantrum. Is that emotional
- 2:05:27awareness? No, I would imagine emotional maturity is crying at work, because
- 2:05:33toddlers don't do that. So what what are we talking about? So be
- 2:05:40emotional maturity for her is being aware of her own emotions. Is that it?
- 2:05:45Okay? So not being able to manage her emotions, not being able
- 2:05:49to overcome them, not being able to do It's nothing to do with what
- 2:05:54you would assume, you know, like a priest or a monk or somebody's
- 2:05:59who's cult evaded their their mind and their their emotional landscape their whole life.
- 2:06:03No, that that's not That is not emotional intelligence. Emotional intelligence is blaming
- 2:06:13people for the existence of your emotions, Like you know, having an emotion
- 2:06:17and identifying whoever is in the room is to blame for it. Is that
- 2:06:21emotional intelligence? Well, you do you really think that that's gonna look attractive
- 2:06:26if a man does it. I don't know. I don't know if most
- 2:06:30women can actually identify who in the room is responsible, you know, because
- 2:06:35it usually is themselves. Yeah, okay, we're you're you're really far from
- 2:06:41your mic. So are we gonna? I'm putting stuff in the Okay,
- 2:06:46gotcha? You got? You got? You can come to them and cry.
- 2:06:49Women have different tolerance levels for that. But your ability to communicate your
- 2:06:54emotions. Oh oh, so men should have an ability to communicate the emotion,
- 2:06:59but the woman should define how much, where and when you're sick.
- 2:07:05You literally think men exist on your on your forbeyance. Oh no, and
- 2:07:13they always say the emotions are your entertainment. Yeah, no, men should.
- 2:07:18Men should feel safe to cry. And then the moment a man actually
- 2:07:24does cry, well, she mentioned that. No, she says that women
- 2:07:29have different tolerance for men crying. So men should express their emotions. But
- 2:07:34just you know, be aware that how you your how your expression of your
- 2:07:40emotions impacts me. It's going to be the important part here. If I
- 2:07:45don't like it, this is like I don't think she should be in a
- 2:07:50relationship. I don't think she should be able to have cats. Maybe a
- 2:07:55goldfish. No, no, the cats don't deserve me. Just speaking as
- 2:08:03a former goldfish owner. If if something isn't willing to whine when it needs
- 2:08:09food or attention, uh, it generally dies. I don't. I don't
- 2:08:16see any actual house plants in her place either, And hey, I don't
- 2:08:22have goldfish. I don't have house plants. They don't whine when they're hungry,
- 2:08:26they don't whine when they're thirsty. They don't let me know, they
- 2:08:30don't nag me. Okay, you know what. That's why I don't have
- 2:08:33them. You know what, only a man could be could could survive a
- 2:08:41relationship with this woman. I don't think a dog would. I don't think
- 2:08:45a cat would. I don't think a goldfish would. Oh fuck I you
- 2:08:48know, I thought only a creature who's who's very like instincts were designed to
- 2:08:54manage the bullshit coming out of this creature could could manage. Oh good lord.
- 2:09:01After I divorced, I thought about dating women because I do have attraction
- 2:09:07for women. And then I spent time with more women, and then I
- 2:09:16was like fuck, no, yeah, no, Matt, no wonder Nora
- 2:09:20Vincent ended up No, never mind, I got a super child more of
- 2:09:24Vincent ended up in a fucking facility with Yeah, I got a super child
- 2:09:33from Richard Pierre for five bucks. And he says I got a super child
- 2:09:37for mister stupid as well. Okay, and he says, not flying off
- 2:09:41the handle because the wife, dying from cancer wants one last fling with a
- 2:09:46previous lover who she claims that the sex was better than with her husband,
- 2:09:52who was looking after her during her decline. Okay, and then you said
- 2:09:56there was another thing. Do you want to read it? It's okay,
- 2:10:00okay, I'll read okay, okay, hold on, I'll just put on
- 2:10:01the screen. I don't know why it went there, not to our super
- 2:10:05child, but mister stupid says, I don't know how much he gave.
- 2:10:11Says, what else is it? Then? Women's refusal to grow up and
- 2:10:15become adults when they're what he gave thirty five dollars, oh, thirty five,
- 2:10:18thank you? What else is it? Then? Women's refusal to grow
- 2:10:22up and become adults when their political representation lib feme or liberal feminists clings to
- 2:10:30it's made up monolithic infant class, like overbearing mothers to their cubs. Further,
- 2:10:35how can women ever become adults in a society that dreads nothing as much
- 2:10:39as them being harmed, even if that harm was a logical and obvious consequence
- 2:10:43of their own actions. That's two good points. Well. First of all,
- 2:10:48the monolithic infant class doesn't actually demand as much from women as actual infants.
- 2:10:54Yeah, they get so much benefits from it. They get moral uproborum,
- 2:11:00they get moral self righteousness over other people because all positives no downsides.
- 2:11:05Right, Yeah. No, I think if my child, if my newborn
- 2:11:11diaper was magically changed and they were magically put down for a nap without like
- 2:11:16screaming their heads off for like fifteen minutes. First, if I could do
- 2:11:22that just by tweeting, like making a tweet, Yeah, I know I
- 2:11:26would have done that. Yep. Yeah, it's like it's slack divism plus
- 2:11:35getting all of your instincts around taking care of the invulnerable, like the the
- 2:11:39the monolithic infant class. You know, Like, I'm glad that people are
- 2:11:43really jibing with that idea of the party of single women, because I think
- 2:11:48it clarifies a lot of shit that's happening now and makes it makes you realize
- 2:11:54what the source really is. And again, like when I talk about the
- 2:11:58party of single women, I've clarified this a couple of times, but I'm
- 2:12:01not meaning just women because in just to respond maybe to some of the red
- 2:12:07pill stuff about women in power, if you look at ethnographic studies of peasant
- 2:12:13societies, it's overwhelmingly the conclusion is that women hold the majority of the power
- 2:12:20in these in these societies. Yeah, and they I think present men as
- 2:12:28being the ones in power in part because I think that it's just, you
- 2:12:33know, they just want men to be happy and to feel fulfilled and and
- 2:12:37all of that, because that's you know, like in their world, the
- 2:12:41relationship between men and women has to work or they're all going to die.
- 2:12:46So they just they give men what what they think men want, and womenn
- 2:12:50give women what what they think they want, you know, and it works,
- 2:12:52right. Both are trying, both are helping each other out, Both
- 2:12:56are trying to be as kind as they can to each other, but they're
- 2:13:01being partners. But ultimately, at the end of the day, it seems
- 2:13:03like the women hold a lot of the practical power of the peasant culture.
- 2:13:09And so it's not a situation where women hold power and everything collapses, because
- 2:13:16that's not necessarily true in the past, and even in those cultures where women
- 2:13:22uh tend to be it's more patriarchal. Women tend to hold a lot of
- 2:13:26the levers of power in the background. So it's not a situation necessarily where
- 2:13:31women in power equals absolute societal collapse. The problem is that the women in
- 2:13:37power. All right, and let me use an analogy, Okay, and
- 2:13:41it just bear with me because I'm gonna make gives some caveats. Imagine if
- 2:13:46we were in a society where the people in power were teenage boys, and
- 2:13:54that that that that period of time when they still have that kind of childish
- 2:14:00sociopathy, but they haven't. They're getting close to having almost an adult sized
- 2:14:05body. And the other analogy I would use is if you have raised a
- 2:14:11puppy. There's a point in time where they're basically adult sized, but they
- 2:14:13have a brain of a puppy, so that they's just incorrigible in a lot
- 2:14:18of ways. And just imagine that mentality, you know, that's sort of
- 2:14:22juvenile, not even juvenile, just like almost infantile sociopathy, but still looking
- 2:14:30like an adult, right, And that we lived in a society in which
- 2:14:33those boys were in charge. Now I'm gonna give some caveats here. Boys
- 2:14:39tend to grow out of that really quickly. They tend to want to engage
- 2:14:45in creating pro social hierarchies, so that gets them out of that really quickly.
- 2:14:48But just imagine that one stage. And also that's all the social expectations
- 2:14:52placed on boys to be concerned about their effect on girls, which doesn't exist
- 2:14:58in the reverse. So but just imagine we lived in a society controlled by
- 2:15:01boys in that stage of development, before they the theory of mind really kicks
- 2:15:07in, before the empathy really kicks in, before the desire for pro social
- 2:15:11development really kicks in. And imagine that society told them that they don't have
- 2:15:18to be concerned with how they affect women and girls. In fact, if
- 2:15:22they're concerned by how they affect women and girls, they're fools and patsies.
- 2:15:28Yeah, you know, they're idiots. They're being taken advantage of. And
- 2:15:31in fact, they should do the reverse, the opposite. They should judge
- 2:15:37themselves by how well they treat women and girls capriciously with contempt. They regard
- 2:15:43their relationships with them as battlefields. Right, all the whole feminist reversed message
- 2:15:48basically that they should regard women and girls as their oppressors who they're constantly in
- 2:15:52battle with. Right, and imagine society was basically ruled by an electorate create
- 2:15:58of boys like that of men with that kind of a psychology. What kind
- 2:16:03of society that would construct? Right now, that's what we have, except
- 2:16:09it's women. Right, And if you would be if you're listening and you're
- 2:16:13like, oh, yeah, that would be terrible to be ruled by a
- 2:16:16bunch of undeveloped teenage boys. And incidentally, that's criminals like that. The
- 2:16:22criminals are stuck in that mentality. They don't grow the the adult impulse control,
- 2:16:26the adult male impulse control, the adult male desire for prososcals. They're
- 2:16:31they're stuck in that juvenile state. That's why they're criminals. Right. You
- 2:16:37imagine that You understand that that society would suck to live in because the people
- 2:16:43in power are responsible to nobody, and they're there they are not developing an
- 2:16:48adult moral responsibility, right, And you'd understand that. And it's no,
- 2:16:54it's no, like, no, it's not controversial at all to say that
- 2:16:56that that teenage boys with no sense of responsibility to anybody are going to be
- 2:17:01terrible to lead a society. I don't think anybody would argue that that's not
- 2:17:05true, you know. I think they would argue that how likely it is
- 2:17:11to happen, which I would agree. But I'm just using this as a
- 2:17:13thought of experiment. So why is it that when we print out the reverse
- 2:17:18that this is the situation we're in with women who are the majority the electorate.
- 2:17:22In specific, the majority of the electorate are single women who have never
- 2:17:26had to get the fuck out of their head and care about another person in
- 2:17:30their life to understand another person in their life, and they're the ones who
- 2:17:35rule our society as the majority electorate. Why is that such a controversial to
- 2:17:41say? It is not the fact that they're women. It's the fact they've
- 2:17:43never gotten the fuck out of their head, overcome their juvenile sociopathy and their
- 2:17:48genital urges, learn to control their genital urges, which they think like basically
- 2:17:54ejaculating their genital urges all over everything as emotional intelligence. It isn't ladies,
- 2:17:58okay? Why is it that say pointing that out is considered controversial when we
- 2:18:03know that boys absent direction, absent and understanding and concern for how they affect
- 2:18:11women and girls are not good creatures. But the reverse is also true.
- 2:18:18Women absent and understanding of how they affect men and boys and responsibility there too
- 2:18:24are abominable creatures, and they should not rule a society. And that's the
- 2:18:31fundamental difference. Those peasant women know their responsibilities, they care, they're kind,
- 2:18:39and they understand the necessity of the balance between the sexes, and they
- 2:18:43value men. In fact, in many of those societies, the best thing
- 2:18:46about life is your partner, Right, you get a fucking partner. What
- 2:18:50kind of pleasures do you have in life? You know, occasional May day
- 2:18:54celebration of fucking your husband, that's it. But Alison, are you asking
- 2:19:00what is good in life? Because I can tell you you're the lim of
- 2:19:05the women. Okay, yeah, destroy our enemies. Wants to be driven
- 2:19:09before you and listen to that lamentation of the women. Yes, okay,
- 2:19:15I'm gonna I'm gonna bring it home, all right, but I am going
- 2:19:18to go. It is the party of single women who do not recognize anything
- 2:19:24outside themselves as having value or importance or having to answer to anything but themselves.
- 2:19:31It is a sylopsistic juvenile sociopathy that we are dealing with. And I
- 2:19:37would say, Hannah Cox, I don't know, maybe she's a completely different
- 2:19:41person when she turns the camera off, but what she is presenting here,
- 2:19:45she is a sociopathic juvenile. Well, she's still a feminist that ultimately like
- 2:19:56ultimately, it's it doesn't matter if you what we put in front of feminist.
- 2:20:01If you believe the feminist part, then you're all on the same side.
- 2:20:05You're against men basically, and men's voice and men's perspective. Okay,
- 2:20:13Karen, you're gone. I assume. So I have a super chow and
- 2:20:16then I guess we'll wrap it up and I'll do the Patron show. So
- 2:20:20Richard Bier gives us five bucks. Thank you, Richard, and says Alison
- 2:20:22that Goldfish is perfect fine doing the backstroke at the top of the bowl.
- 2:20:26I don't think that's a I don't think that's a swimming move. I think
- 2:20:33said goldfish is in trouble, a little bit worried he swam too close to
- 2:20:37the top. Okay, so I'm gonna take Hannah Cocks off the screen there.
- 2:20:45I think we've we can finish this off. I didn't actually finish this
- 2:20:48video because I started to experience rage, and I was like, Okay,
- 2:20:52we'll just come back to this later. I think it does get worse,
- 2:20:54though. I can understand why you experience rage listening. Yeah, it was.
- 2:21:00It's a bit rage induced, Leah. The main thing that bothers me
- 2:21:03about it is the fact that she's calling herself libertarian. That's the main that's
- 2:21:07my main problem with because she wants to advocate for feminism better. This is
- 2:21:11well, no, it's it. I think it's straight up entryism. It's
- 2:21:13just she's just it's entryism. I'm oh, oh you guys. Oh you
- 2:21:18mean because libertarianism is mostly probular with men, right, because men tend to
- 2:21:22want to be more like away from things like a nanny state and authoritarian like
- 2:21:28governments. They're basically like, oh, look, I can take care of
- 2:21:31myself. I don't need you. That's the essence of libertarian, right,
- 2:21:35don't don't step on snack and you and and women like this come along.
- 2:21:39They're like, oh, you guys got a nice ideology here, but I
- 2:21:41don't see any you know, I don't see any vaginas, So I'm going
- 2:21:45to join this group, and of course, because they're men, they're like,
- 2:21:48oh, yeah, please, we need more women to join because women
- 2:21:50are basically going to decide whether or not we exist as like as an ideology,
- 2:21:54as a party. And then they go in there and they're like,
- 2:21:56oh, you know, I mean a lot of this looks for good on
- 2:22:00paper, but man, there's a lot of sexism. Some of this stuff's
- 2:22:03gotta change. It's way too patriarchal. I'm gonna call patriarchy government and then
- 2:22:07I'm going to use that operatively and dismantle this from the inside. And uh
- 2:22:13that's you know, that's that's why it bothers me. That's what bugs me
- 2:22:16about it. So yeah, well that that there's a lot of and I
- 2:22:20mean it's that's a nice ideology there. It would be shaped if I feminized
- 2:22:26it. Oh good lord, that's all right. Ultimately I wanted to get
- 2:22:31just just put that out there. It's not it's not women. It's the
- 2:22:33party of single women. It's women without men. To be honest, what
- 2:22:39a surprise. We need both. I mean, we both evolved, we
- 2:22:41need each other, and we just need each other. We need to understand
- 2:22:45each other. Okay, you know, maybe maybe we should have made it
- 2:22:52so that the only women who can vote are like postmounopausal with six children.
- 2:22:58Then the world would never have been anything. But well, I mean apparently
- 2:23:01they're they're trying to get They're trying to mobilize the Swifties, which is basically
- 2:23:05the party of legal women. So see, but yeah, what about people
- 2:23:11embracing embracing misery? Anyway, So once again we are doing our monthly fundraiser.
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- 2:23:35know, it's a little bit like I try to thank you guys, but
- 2:23:39not in a way that might compromise you. So sorry if it's confusing sometimes.
- 2:23:45So thank you to Reeve. He put through a hundred Yes he did,
- 2:23:48hold on well not recently. It was during the show. Okay,
- 2:23:54okay, okay, So we got one hundred and ten Reeve and uh the
- 2:24:01and then a two hundred and fifty from Vesa and I think five dollars from
- 2:24:05Silver Bullet and who News everyone again three hundred and seventy five left very much
- 2:24:13both every's supporting through Superchild that you know, it does help us out as
- 2:24:18well, but we do need to get that fundraiser done. Feed the Badger
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- 2:24:26support to support us for the month. We just got a superchow thank you.
- 2:24:31Yep, mister stupid gives us fifteen dollars and says, so, Alison,
- 2:24:35how about this. If we as a society, and especially US men
- 2:24:37are unwilling to have women face the consequences of their actions, is it maybe
- 2:24:41us men who also refuse to grow up ourselves in making women our monolithic infant
- 2:24:46class. The answer is yes, And ultimately it's got to be a dynamic.
- 2:24:54And I say that, you know, I think women sort of have
- 2:24:56to make the first move on this, and we have if I could be
- 2:25:01so bold and arrogant to say, you know, I have attempted to make
- 2:25:05the first move on this, to say, okay, this is this is
- 2:25:07this is no good, and you know, like just going through things like
- 2:25:11Hannah Cox is offering and it's just pointing out that she is literally saying that
- 2:25:18women should treat relationships like a zero sum game, a battlefield of who cares
- 2:25:24least, and then she's freaking out because men are saying, well, we
- 2:25:28need to treat relationships like a zero sum game, a battle of who cares
- 2:25:33least. Like you set the terms, dear. You said we're playing checkers,
- 2:25:41and men said, okay, we'll play checkers, and then you're like,
- 2:25:43why are we playing checkers because you set the freaking terms. Yeah all
- 2:25:50right, So I mean I think women need to call this out. They
- 2:25:54need to start presenting this as Leah, this is not healthy, and uh
- 2:25:58yeah, maybe need to take the first step. But yes, men also
- 2:26:01need to help out by, you know, holding women to the to account.
- 2:26:11But sometimes I wonder if if maybe they need to see other women holding
- 2:26:15women to account before they can do that. I don't know, Go ahead,
- 2:26:18Brian, Oh no, I was I agree. I was just going
- 2:26:22to say that. So I think that like men and women are, the
- 2:26:26younger generation of men are moving in the right direction, but the women are
- 2:26:31not following. Despite what all of the you know, the supposed pro male
- 2:26:37people will say, they'll say, oh, if men lead, women will
- 2:26:39follow it's not happening. It's not happening. Yeah, so women, some
- 2:26:43women with it's got to come from within in order to make change way women
- 2:26:48are being led like they haven't really changed anything. They still want a man
- 2:26:52who makes more than them so that yeah, don't have to work like which
- 2:26:56means that they will be financially reliant. They still want a man they can
- 2:26:58be financially reliant on. They haven't just changed that for a companion. And
- 2:27:03then they are still basically being led by men. They're just being led by
- 2:27:09the CEOs that they work for, you know, the politicians that they work
- 2:27:13for, all the men who are so called alpha. You know, they're
- 2:27:18just basically in harems. It's the same thing that the harems were. Like
- 2:27:22people are like Bronze age societies, so harems or the salacious things where men
- 2:27:26were. The sultan was no harem was like a bureaucratic instrument. The guy
- 2:27:31the sultan probably had more women that he could ever ever even have sex with.
- 2:27:37They all just wanted to be in the harem because it was a guaranteed
- 2:27:39income, and then you know, they felt good about themselves. It's like
- 2:27:43it's so much better to be a harem girl than a wife of a frickin
- 2:27:46farmer. He's got more status, you see, and it's easier job,
- 2:27:52and it's less frightening. You don't have to worry, you don't have to
- 2:27:56put yourself out there. You can just be behind the walls and lounge on
- 2:28:00still cushions and bean count and feel like you're you're You're an impressive person because
- 2:28:05you're you're you're you're somehow connected to the big man. That's the same thing
- 2:28:09that we have now. All these women at their corporate jobs. They're connected
- 2:28:13to the big man. They're doing work for the big man. They're in
- 2:28:16the big man's harem. Nothing has changed except we're doing the stupid thing that
- 2:28:22leads to social collapse. I don't know what to say. This woman is
- 2:28:28not independent. In fact, she's probably even more dependent than the the wife
- 2:28:33of the farmer. Okay, because at least worry for the farmer is like
- 2:28:37producing stuff, and when the bronze age collapse happens, she can go off
- 2:28:41and and build a farm somewhere else and and have sustain herself and her family
- 2:28:48like harem girls, you know, outside the harem Oh, what are they
- 2:28:52gonna do? Glom onto a warlord. I guess well, a few of
- 2:28:56them will be able to do. The rest will just die of starving because
- 2:29:01they're not independent. They are the most dependent, frail creatures in human history.
- 2:29:05That's the great joke, the great female independence. Really, being in
- 2:29:11a harem is your independence. No, I don't think you've had have been
- 2:29:15ever more dependent. All right, there we go. Sorry, that's a
- 2:29:18little rant. Fine, all right, So should we wrap it up then,
- 2:29:26or we do that part. I could wrap it up again. I
- 2:29:30could do another double check since I did a little rant, all right,
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