Latest / The Breakfast Club / The Breakfast Club Best Of Episode( Trae Tha Truth Interview, Two Parent Household Topic, Bruce Bruce Interview + More)
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Well, listen to your shirt every single day.
- 0:04Speaker 2: Breakless Dynamic, the brightst Club.
- 0:08Speaker 3: Want a breakfast club, baby, I can't say breakfast club
- 0:11Speaker 3: without things.
- 0:12Speaker 4: Work with clud You're like this rare air.
- 0:17Speaker 3: She got platforms and partners all over the place with us,
- 0:19Speaker 3: your demand is so high.
- 0:21Speaker 4: People want to be in visited with the breakfast bluff.
- 0:23Speaker 2: I don't think white people know how popular guys are.
- 0:28Speaker 4: Dj Enfy just hilarious, Charlemagne the God.
- 0:31Speaker 3: You guys really are like that hip hop early born
- 0:33Speaker 3: in late night talk'all, y'all.
- 0:34Speaker 4: Know what you're talking about from Moody? Is it your
- 0:41Speaker 4: time to get it off your chest? Wake up, whether
- 0:44Speaker 4: you're mad or blessed, time to get up and get something.
- 0:47Speaker 5: Call up now. Eight hundred and five eighty five one
- 0:49Speaker 5: O five one. We want to hear from you on
- 0:51Speaker 5: the breakfast glove.
- 0:53Speaker 6: Hello, this y'all is be from Detroit.
- 0:56Speaker 2: Be from Detroit?
- 0:57Speaker 7: What up, doughe Oh wait, this is really say yes, ma'am.
- 1:01Speaker 7: Oh my god, I just gotta get through.
- 1:03Speaker 8: Hi.
- 1:03Speaker 6: Did they envy Charne Peace?
- 1:06Speaker 4: What's happening?
- 1:08Speaker 1: Oh my god, y'all, My heart is beating, But real quick,
- 1:12Speaker 1: I just want to.
- 1:12Speaker 9: Say that we used to say.
- 1:14Speaker 6: That Democrats were cowards. Uh huh, I just disagree with you,
- 1:19Speaker 6: like I just felt like you were really hurting the cause.
- 1:22Speaker 6: But seeing how the whole thing I played out a
- 1:25Speaker 6: whole year later, Charla Man, I'll never doubt you again.
- 1:29Speaker 10: I don't know why y'all doubt me not. That's okay.
- 1:34Speaker 10: Sometimes like being Refekie from the lion King. You know
- 1:36Speaker 10: what I mean, you know, refuge from the lion King.
- 1:38Speaker 10: They always think you are crazy, little monkey.
- 1:39Speaker 7: You're talking to yourself a monkey.
- 1:41Speaker 10: Oh okay, thank you, the wise little prime.
- 1:47Speaker 11: Thank you so much.
- 1:49Speaker 10: Bye.
- 1:50Speaker 2: Hello, who's this?
- 1:51Speaker 12: What's up?
- 1:52Speaker 11: Reckless club?
- 1:53Speaker 2: This is Uber Mike.
- 1:53Speaker 4: I got doing mi? What's up? Brother?
- 1:56Speaker 12: What's up?
- 1:56Speaker 13: Kamala Harris Man? She got my vote? She got my vote?
- 1:59Speaker 13: We got get across that finish line.
- 2:01Speaker 4: Okay?
- 2:02Speaker 6: Yeah?
- 2:03Speaker 2: Where you call her from?
- 2:04Speaker 4: What made you? What made you come to expective? Dallas? Dallas?
- 2:07Speaker 4: What made you come to that conclusion?
- 2:08Speaker 14: Oh?
- 2:08Speaker 4: No?
- 2:09Speaker 13: And I've always been in support of her, Man, she's
- 2:11Speaker 13: ready to go. I've been following her since you. You
- 2:14Speaker 13: put her on a long time ago, Charlemagne, and.
- 2:16Speaker 11: I've been following her.
- 2:16Speaker 13: She she's ready to go, man, she's ready to run
- 2:18Speaker 13: this country.
- 2:19Speaker 4: Man, I'm ready to go. Okay, all right, thank you, Mike.
- 2:22Speaker 4: All right, Good morning y'all.
- 2:23Speaker 2: Now Hello, who's this Tanya? Good morning?
- 2:27Speaker 15: Hey?
- 2:27Speaker 6: What's up this Tanya from Omaha? How y'all doing it?
- 2:30Speaker 2: What's your chest?
- 2:33Speaker 6: You talk a lot about these sausage studs, and you
- 2:36Speaker 6: already know I'm a recovery. I'm in. I've been reformed,
- 2:42Speaker 6: reform study. I'm a reform toxic stud a hostage stuff.
- 2:46Speaker 2: What's toxic stud?
- 2:48Speaker 4: Oh? Toxic stuff? Okay, okay, got you, Yes, all.
- 2:50Speaker 6: Right, I'm a reformed one. You know, hey, you ain't
- 2:54Speaker 6: talking about these emails that put us in position where
- 2:59Speaker 6: we ended up looking toxic.
- 3:02Speaker 10: No, no, we're not gonna be and we're not gonna
- 3:04Speaker 10: blame the toxicity of studs on other people.
- 3:06Speaker 4: That is victim blaming.
- 3:08Speaker 6: No, no, no, because I ain't gonna lie.
- 3:10Speaker 1: I gotta.
- 3:10Speaker 6: I had a situation a while ago. This is before
- 3:13Speaker 6: I got married, before I was reformed, and I don't
- 3:17Speaker 6: on line. I was messing with this chick. She told
- 3:19Speaker 6: me everything was on the up and up. I'm chilling
- 3:22Speaker 6: at her house, kidding it. You know, I'm playing with
- 3:24Speaker 6: the sun. I'm I'm I'm right there, and Loma behald
- 3:29Speaker 6: is fact Daddy didn't walk in the door. Man, you
- 3:33Speaker 6: don't know what it's steel like to be a woman
- 3:36Speaker 6: and have a man looking at you like you a man, daddy.
- 3:42Speaker 4: But she.
- 3:46Speaker 6: And then and it's exactly and I'm up here blaming
- 3:50Speaker 6: having a good time, you know, thinking all everything's off, easy, peasy,
- 3:55Speaker 6: lemon squeeze, and baby Daddy walk in and he looking
- 3:58Speaker 6: at me like no, no, and I'm like, honey, I'm
- 4:02Speaker 6: a woman.
- 4:02Speaker 4: I'm like, yeah, this is what I don't understand about studs. Right.
- 4:06Speaker 10: They come in with a nice baggy T shirts on,
- 4:09Speaker 10: they baggy sweatpants, they nice.
- 4:11Speaker 4: Speakers, they nice sneakers, and.
- 4:13Speaker 10: Then they got that, they got that five speed internal vibrator.
- 4:16Speaker 4: And wonder why these women losing their damn mind.
- 4:19Speaker 6: You know what, Charlamagne, somebody hurts you. Woman out there
- 4:24Speaker 6: hurt you. And I don't know who it was, but
- 4:26Speaker 6: she hurts you.
- 4:28Speaker 3: You know, you know the toxicity and your type mad
- 4:31Speaker 3: toxic Studds came up to me at the car show
- 4:33Speaker 3: and it was like, Yo, tell Charlemagne, we ain't.
- 4:35Speaker 2: All toxic like that.
- 4:36Speaker 4: And the crazy party is every stud I know that
- 4:38Speaker 4: used to be toxic? Are his toxic? No? They toxical,
- 4:40Speaker 4: used to be toxic. So what does that tell you?
- 4:43Speaker 2: But they was toxic?
- 4:44Speaker 4: They're not delusional? Hello?
- 4:47Speaker 2: Who's this?
- 4:48Speaker 16: Yeah?
- 4:49Speaker 4: What's up? Brandy?
- 4:49Speaker 2: Get off your chest? Tell you a man to be
- 4:53Speaker 2: quiet for a second.
- 4:56Speaker 17: Top of the morning.
- 4:57Speaker 4: How doing king? How are you everything?
- 5:00Speaker 17: Because so listen right, I wanted to get it off
- 5:02Speaker 17: my chest that you know all my lady man, she
- 5:05Speaker 17: go through my phone when I'm sleeping, and then you know,
- 5:08Speaker 17: whenever I try to go through her phone when she's sleep,
- 5:10Speaker 17: she's sleeping with her on her pillow underneath her, you know,
- 5:13Speaker 17: and she would she would wake up anyway I go
- 5:17Speaker 17: through her phone.
- 5:19Speaker 4: Why y'all don't trust each other?
- 5:20Speaker 10: How about that? I don't hear nothing else? Why y'all
- 5:22Speaker 10: don't trust each other? That's so connye y'all with each
- 5:24Speaker 10: other phone?
- 5:25Speaker 17: Listen, listen, it's not even that you know I don't.
- 5:27Speaker 10: I don't do that.
- 5:28Speaker 4: You just said you do it. You just said she
- 5:30Speaker 4: go through your phone, and you go through her phone.
- 5:32Speaker 17: Yeah, but I do that because she do it. But
- 5:34Speaker 17: I'm saying I don't just randomly say I'm gonna go
- 5:36Speaker 17: thro her phone because I want.
- 5:37Speaker 2: To learn have you cheated before? I got caught cheating
- 5:39Speaker 2: in the past?
- 5:41Speaker 4: There you go, Has she got caught cheating?
- 5:43Speaker 18: No?
- 5:43Speaker 4: Is this your guilty conscience? What do you say?
- 5:45Speaker 12: Jee ain't trying to get either with her?
- 5:47Speaker 4: Man, knock it off.
- 5:48Speaker 17: You try to get either with me? Knock it off.
- 5:51Speaker 12: Now, knock it off.
- 5:53Speaker 2: Stop going through my phone.
- 5:55Speaker 17: I just told you she goes through my phone when
- 5:57Speaker 17: I'm sleep.
- 5:58Speaker 2: Yeah, so that means you do it too.
- 5:59Speaker 4: It's to tip that for he's scared, just like yo.
- 6:03Speaker 17: Listen, listen, why should you go to mam when I'm sleeping?
- 6:06Speaker 17: But I can't go through hers though?
- 6:07Speaker 10: You're just scared she's gonna get that poom poom to
- 6:09Speaker 10: somebody else because you got a guilty conscience.
- 6:11Speaker 17: That's all that all?
- 6:12Speaker 2: Well, you gave her a reason to because you got
- 6:14Speaker 2: caught cheating.
- 6:17Speaker 17: Yeah, listen, I appreciate you.
- 6:19Speaker 4: Guys. Get it off your.
- 6:23Speaker 2: Chest five eight five one oh five one. If you
- 6:27Speaker 2: need to ven hit us up. Now is the breakfast club.
- 6:29Speaker 5: Good morning the Breakfast Club. This is your time to
- 6:36Speaker 5: get it off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five
- 6:39Speaker 5: one O five one. We want to hear from you
- 6:41Speaker 5: on the breakfast club.
- 6:43Speaker 2: Hello, who's this.
- 6:45Speaker 14: From watch chapter?
- 6:47Speaker 2: Hey to Mika, get it off your chest, Mama, okay, good.
- 6:49Speaker 1: Morning, and shaman. I'm stand. I just wanted to get
- 6:55Speaker 1: off my chest the fact that I did nothing and
- 6:59Speaker 1: now I'm a broken up with the boyfriend that I've
- 7:02Speaker 1: been once for three years because his girlfriend, his side girlfriend,
- 7:06Speaker 1: thinks that I'm her stalker.
- 7:08Speaker 2: Wait a minute, his side girlfriend did he lost stalker?
- 7:12Speaker 4: M I explain this to me a little bit more now,
- 7:15Speaker 4: So okay, okay.
- 7:17Speaker 1: So I've been with this boy for like almost three years, okay,
- 7:22Speaker 1: and when I came out of my relationship, he came
- 7:26Speaker 1: out of his relationship for a long time, and he
- 7:29Speaker 1: still wanted to explore and all that, and we didn't
- 7:31Speaker 1: know what we was. So he told me like, oh,
- 7:35Speaker 1: I'm talking to this one, I'm talking to that one
- 7:38Speaker 1: and talking that one.
- 7:39Speaker 11: So it's like, okay, whatever.
- 7:40Speaker 1: But Tom had passed and he had started moving his
- 7:43Speaker 1: stuff into my apartment and we started establishing things. I
- 7:47Speaker 1: worked for the city. I put him on my assurance.
- 7:50Speaker 1: We started established adn't make him plans. I didn't realize
- 7:54Speaker 1: how strong of a connection he was making with other girls.
- 7:58Speaker 1: But then he comes to me one day and tells
- 8:00Speaker 1: me that's the other girl.
- 8:03Speaker 4: Okay, okay, I've heard enough. So you're not his only girl.
- 8:05Speaker 1: No, I'm not his only girl.
- 8:07Speaker 4: No, okay, So what are you calling here to ask us?
- 8:08Speaker 2: But she's upset because she put him on insurance. It
- 8:11Speaker 2: was serious.
- 8:12Speaker 1: I wasn't asking anything.
- 8:13Speaker 4: Oh, you just you're just mad at yourself for being stupid. Hey, yes,
- 8:17Speaker 4: how old are you?
- 8:18Speaker 1: Thirty four?
- 8:18Speaker 4: Thirty four years old? How many girls has this man got?
- 8:21Speaker 1: Who knows how many?
- 8:23Speaker 4: How many East infections have you had? Since? I know
- 8:27Speaker 4: your pH balance is always hard? Stop it? Come on?
- 8:32Speaker 3: Oh okay, I understand though, because you you put him
- 8:35Speaker 3: on insurance, he moved in.
- 8:36Speaker 2: You thought it was more serious than it was and
- 8:38Speaker 2: he was still playing the field.
- 8:39Speaker 4: Well see see, I want to tell you that that
- 8:41Speaker 4: you know you can do better.
- 8:43Speaker 1: That's not the part that I'm not at. The part
- 8:44Speaker 1: that I'm mad at is that I have nothing to
- 8:47Speaker 1: do with his other relationships. And I'm being too of
- 8:52Speaker 1: being a random girl.
- 8:54Speaker 4: Sat Why would you not this girl?
- 8:56Speaker 2: Why would you even care? You shouldn't evenpeak.
- 8:59Speaker 9: This is what I'm saying, you've never been a something
- 9:01Speaker 9: who absolutely did not do yes, and just get frustrated.
- 9:06Speaker 9: But then he's also super relief because it's like you
- 9:10Speaker 9: never trust me in the beginning, but it's just super.
- 9:12Speaker 19: Fussing understanding your upset.
- 9:16Speaker 10: But stop cursing, but understand that the truth don't need
- 9:19Speaker 10: no defense, It only needs witnesses. So as long as
- 9:22Speaker 10: you know the truth, that's the most important thing. But
- 9:24Speaker 10: the truth is you just wanted this man's holes. Now
- 9:27Speaker 10: you need to ask yourself, do you just want to
- 9:29Speaker 10: be one of this man's holes or do you want
- 9:31Speaker 10: to be more to somebody? Because if you want to
- 9:33Speaker 10: be more to somebody, then you need to go find
- 9:35Speaker 10: that somebody because it's not gonna be with him.
- 9:37Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry you went through that, mama, but take
- 9:39Speaker 2: him off.
- 9:40Speaker 4: Went through it, he's still going to it.
- 9:41Speaker 2: Now, take him off.
- 9:43Speaker 4: She ain't gonna do nothing.
- 9:43Speaker 6: He's still Yeah.
- 9:45Speaker 4: Who that's talking to you in.
- 9:46Speaker 7: The background, Nobody that's on the radio?
- 9:49Speaker 10: Oh yeah, man, you just another one of his holes. Man,
- 9:52Speaker 10: And and you know, I think that you deserve better
- 9:54Speaker 10: than that. But you know, he did keep it one
- 9:55Speaker 10: hundred with you from the beginning. It's not like he
- 9:57Speaker 10: lied to you.
- 9:58Speaker 3: He didn't lie, and y'all didn't have a conversation. You
- 10:00Speaker 3: just assume because he moved in. But that was not
- 10:03Speaker 3: a great assumption, obviously. And I know it's hard, and
- 10:06Speaker 3: I know it's hard.
- 10:07Speaker 10: Three four years of raw sex three you know what
- 10:09Speaker 10: I'm saying, him blowing in your bookie, I know it.
- 10:11Speaker 10: I know it got you a little open man, but
- 10:13Speaker 10: you know you deserve better. I'm sorry, Mama, have a
- 10:18Speaker 10: good day, Happy Monday. Damn man, She's take him off
- 10:22Speaker 10: for short right now.
- 10:24Speaker 4: The Breakfast Club. If y'all talking about it, you know
- 10:36Speaker 4: we talking about it.
- 10:38Speaker 5: It's topic times called eight hundred five eight five one
- 10:41Speaker 5: five one to join into the discussion with the Breakfast
- 10:43Speaker 5: Club Morning.
- 10:45Speaker 3: Everybody's DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, charlamage the guy. We are
- 10:49Speaker 3: the Breakfast Club now if he's just joining us. We've
- 10:52Speaker 3: seen something that was trending online yesterday.
- 10:54Speaker 2: This is from the.
- 10:55Speaker 3: Facts in Law podcast. They had a young lady on
- 10:58Speaker 3: there and she was talking about dating and this is
- 11:00Speaker 3: what she said.
- 11:01Speaker 19: I'm not dating a man that does not come from
- 11:03Speaker 19: a two parent household. I don't care what race you
- 11:05Speaker 19: are you came from a two parent household. No, but
- 11:08Speaker 19: I'm explained to you why there's a big difference with
- 11:13Speaker 19: the man who was raised with his mother and father
- 11:16Speaker 19: versus a man.
- 11:16Speaker 12: Who was just raised with his mother.
- 11:18Speaker 19: And I had the pleasure of marrying a guy who
- 11:22Speaker 19: was raised by his mom, and I dated seriously a
- 11:25Speaker 19: guy who was raised by both parents.
- 11:28Speaker 12: It's a big difference.
- 11:30Speaker 19: And coming from a household I was raised by my
- 11:32Speaker 19: mom as a grown woman.
- 11:34Speaker 12: I was telling you it's a difference.
- 11:36Speaker 3: So we're asking eight hundred five eight five one o
- 11:38Speaker 3: five one do you agree there's a difference between dating
- 11:41Speaker 3: someone that comes from a two parent household versus someone
- 11:43Speaker 3: that comes from that doesn't come from a two family
- 11:46Speaker 3: household or two parent household. I should say I will
- 11:48Speaker 3: start with you, jess what he did.
- 11:49Speaker 12: I just think it depends on the situation.
- 11:51Speaker 20: I've dated, you know men who I've listen, I have
- 11:56Speaker 20: never dated a man who and that's just not by choice,
- 12:01Speaker 20: like who's come from a two parent household.
- 12:03Speaker 12: I haven't. I've dated it.
- 12:06Speaker 20: I've been in three relationships where all the moms were deceased.
- 12:10Speaker 20: You know what I'm saying, And it shows greatly in
- 12:12Speaker 20: the men, ye shows differently like Rome.
- 12:17Speaker 12: Rome was the first one mimmy.
- 12:18Speaker 20: Issues to this day, you know, and it also goes
- 12:21Speaker 20: off of how he treats women. Then it was another dude.
- 12:23Speaker 20: You know what I'm saying, Wayne don't have his mother
- 12:25Speaker 20: and neither. That shows greatly in him as well. You know,
- 12:28Speaker 20: he just don't have the same issues that Rome got.
- 12:31Speaker 20: Then the dude I took on the show, the guy
- 12:33Speaker 20: before that, I dated Chris, Like, yeah, he lost his
- 12:37Speaker 20: mother too, and it shows that he didn't know how
- 12:39Speaker 20: to give affection. It shows in different ways, you know
- 12:42Speaker 20: what I'm saying. So that was the first question I
- 12:44Speaker 20: asked Chris on to date william mother.
- 12:45Speaker 12: You know what I'm saying. And yeah, and it definitely shows.
- 12:50Speaker 20: Now he didn't have his mother and his father, but
- 12:53Speaker 20: his mother and grandparents raised him, you know what I'm saying.
- 12:57Speaker 12: So it is a difference.
- 12:59Speaker 20: But you don't go picking and choosing like, oh, if
- 13:04Speaker 20: do you come from a two parent household, because listen,
- 13:06Speaker 20: you can be fed up and come from a two
- 13:08Speaker 20: parent household because it was an unhealthy balance. Your mom
- 13:11Speaker 20: was doing something to your dad, or your dad was
- 13:13Speaker 20: mistreating your mom, or something like that. So you can't
- 13:15Speaker 20: just say, yeah, this is what I want, this is
- 13:17Speaker 20: what I'm gonna get, and it's gonna be a great
- 13:19Speaker 20: relationship because this person comes from a two parent.
- 13:22Speaker 3: But it has to be something lacking, right, If you
- 13:24Speaker 3: don't have two parents in the household, or you're not
- 13:26Speaker 3: raised by both of your parents, it has to be
- 13:28Speaker 3: something lacking, right, regardless if your mom is not in
- 13:31Speaker 3: your life, that there has to be some emotional, some
- 13:33Speaker 3: sensitive side that is lacking. And if your father's not
- 13:35Speaker 3: in your life, there has to be something there as well, right, it.
- 13:38Speaker 20: Has to be very much that that's truely say, but
- 13:41Speaker 20: say if you've got two parents, Say if you have
- 13:45Speaker 20: two parents, right and one of them don't know how
- 13:47Speaker 20: to be a parent, you know what I'm saying, So
- 13:49Speaker 20: it's kind of like you're still lacking, like it, don't
- 13:52Speaker 20: It just depends on how you parent, how you come up,
- 13:56Speaker 20: you know what I mean?
- 13:57Speaker 10: Yeah, number one, I don't know why you're looking into
- 13:58Speaker 10: that young woman because you didn't come from a two
- 14:00Speaker 10: parent household herself, Okay, And I would think that it's
- 14:04Speaker 10: more so about the relationship that you have with your
- 14:06Speaker 10: parents as the posed just coming from a two parent household.
- 14:09Speaker 4: You've been saying that just like you can have both parents.
- 14:12Speaker 10: And those two parents could be lepped up, they might
- 14:13Speaker 10: not have instilled anything good in you until another point
- 14:16Speaker 10: you made. Just the two parent household may have been dysfunctional.
- 14:19Speaker 10: You might have started those parents arguing all the time,
- 14:21Speaker 10: fighting all the time. So it doesn't matter if you
- 14:23Speaker 10: come from a two parent household, it just comes. It
- 14:25Speaker 10: matters if the person that's raising you is instilling good
- 14:28Speaker 10: things in you, that's it.
- 14:29Speaker 3: I don't think she was coming from a place of
- 14:31Speaker 3: how you raised. I think she was coming from a
- 14:33Speaker 3: place of what you're possibly missing by not having both
- 14:36Speaker 3: parents raising you. And maybe you know, because I do
- 14:39Speaker 3: feel like if you don't have both parents in your life,
- 14:42Speaker 3: you have to be missing something. Something has to be
- 14:44Speaker 3: a lack of if both your parents are not any life,
- 14:46Speaker 3: maybe not well. We have Vivian on the line. Vivian,
- 14:49Speaker 3: good morning, good morning.
- 14:50Speaker 15: Hey.
- 14:51Speaker 2: What's your opinion?
- 14:51Speaker 16: Vivia, good morning, good morning, my opinion, good morning everybody. Hey,
- 14:57Speaker 16: My opinion is the young Lady's man is been saying
- 15:01Speaker 16: a man raised by a father and a mother may
- 15:05Speaker 16: have seen a woman to being treated well by a
- 15:08Speaker 16: man on.
- 15:10Speaker 6: A daily base troop, whereas a man just raised by
- 15:14Speaker 6: his did not see how to treat a woman on.
- 15:18Speaker 21: A daily basis, not about the base by a wrong
- 15:23Speaker 21: seeing a woman being treated.
- 15:25Speaker 10: As well on a daily But don't you think that's
- 15:27Speaker 10: a generalization because it could be the flip side. You
- 15:29Speaker 10: could grow up in a two parent household where you
- 15:30Speaker 10: saw the daddy treating the mother bad or the mother
- 15:33Speaker 10: treating the dad bad.
- 15:36Speaker 21: Absolutely, but I'm just saying from her perspective, the baby
- 15:40Speaker 21: what she was saying.
- 15:41Speaker 6: I don't know what was in her mind, but when.
- 15:43Speaker 21: I heard her, see, that's what that because that's why I.
- 15:46Speaker 4: Grew up with it.
- 15:49Speaker 22: My mom.
- 15:49Speaker 4: Well, well, let me ask you a question, Vivia.
- 15:51Speaker 10: Should we be listening to that young woman being that
- 15:53Speaker 10: she didn't come from a two parent household herself?
- 15:55Speaker 15: You know what I think, the fact that she did
- 15:57Speaker 15: not come from a household, let her know what she wants.
- 16:02Speaker 21: She knows what she wants, she has an experienced But
- 16:06Speaker 21: that's my point.
- 16:07Speaker 4: What's that? Thank you?
- 16:08Speaker 10: What she's pointing out and others saying they lack because
- 16:11Speaker 10: they didn't come from a two point household, how come
- 16:13Speaker 10: that don't apply to you?
- 16:14Speaker 4: Young lady.
- 16:14Speaker 2: Well, I mean, maybe that's what it is.
- 16:16Speaker 3: Maybe she sees what she she's missing and doesn't want
- 16:19Speaker 3: to date somebody that does that have the same things
- 16:22Speaker 3: that she lost out on, you.
- 16:23Speaker 2: Know what I mean?
- 16:24Speaker 12: She said. She was very confident.
- 16:26Speaker 20: She said, no, I was raised by a single mother
- 16:29Speaker 20: and like basically like she was, she turned out great.
- 16:32Speaker 20: But a man who was just raised by his father,
- 16:34Speaker 20: she don't want that.
- 16:36Speaker 4: Don't want you.
- 16:37Speaker 12: You have to have Yeah, she was saying, like her
- 16:38Speaker 12: mother did great with her. Like you know what I'm saying,
- 16:40Speaker 12: I got you.
- 16:41Speaker 4: She positioned it until you talk to the men that
- 16:43Speaker 4: date her, and they'd be like, oh, hell job, hello.
- 16:47Speaker 2: Kim, Hey Kim, what's your thoughts.
- 16:51Speaker 18: I don't find anything wrong with it. I feel like
- 16:54Speaker 18: it's always a problem to women say we want to
- 16:56Speaker 18: do better. If there's a lady means dating somebody from
- 17:01Speaker 18: my two parent household, why why are we not living
- 17:05Speaker 18: by there? Mantreet? You know how you do better from experience.
- 17:09Speaker 18: Ain't anybody man or woman come a from the household,
- 17:14Speaker 18: say half of day and meeting I came from a
- 17:15Speaker 18: single household.
- 17:16Speaker 4: You had just a mama or just a daddy? Which
- 17:18Speaker 4: one to test.
- 17:20Speaker 18: My mama was a piece of work. I don't stand
- 17:23Speaker 18: a chance in a relationship. All I heard I'm good
- 17:29Speaker 18: looking because I'm brother all the time.
- 17:32Speaker 4: You got a man? Now? No, are you looking for?
- 17:35Speaker 4: Are you?
- 17:35Speaker 16: Do you have that?
- 17:36Speaker 14: Do you have?
- 17:38Speaker 18: I'm looking for a man. But it ain't nobody gonna
- 17:39Speaker 18: deal with this. And my mother was an alcoholic.
- 17:46Speaker 4: I love people that know theyself. She say, ain't nobody
- 17:48Speaker 4: gonna deal with this?
- 17:49Speaker 8: Is it?
- 17:49Speaker 4: I wouldn't. I got a bunch of home girls. I
- 17:51Speaker 4: wish would look in the mirror and say the same thing.
- 17:53Speaker 4: But nobody gonna deal with this.
- 17:55Speaker 2: But you see what she said.
- 17:55Speaker 4: I went up here right now. Nothing. I'm sorry, Damn
- 17:59Speaker 4: I I I got a little two character.
- 18:01Speaker 3: I see eight hundred five one. On five to one
- 18:06Speaker 3: we were talking from the Facts in Law podcast. A
- 18:09Speaker 3: young lady was on there yesterday and saying she would
- 18:11Speaker 3: never date a man that came from a single parent household.
- 18:16Speaker 2: This is what she had to say.
- 18:17Speaker 19: I'm not dating a man that does not come from
- 18:19Speaker 19: a two parent household.
- 18:20Speaker 4: I don't care what.
- 18:21Speaker 12: Race you are. You came from a two parent household?
- 18:23Speaker 19: No, But I'm gonna explain to you why there's a
- 18:26Speaker 19: big difference with the man who was raised with his
- 18:30Speaker 19: mother and father versus a man who was just raised
- 18:33Speaker 19: with his mother. And I had the pleasure of marrying
- 18:37Speaker 19: a guy who was raised by his mom, and I
- 18:40Speaker 19: dated seriously a guy who was raised by both parents.
- 18:44Speaker 12: It's a big difference.
- 18:46Speaker 19: And coming from a household I was raised by my
- 18:48Speaker 19: mom as a grown woman.
- 18:50Speaker 12: I'm telling you it's a difference.
- 18:51Speaker 2: So we asked you, what's your thoughts. It's the Breakfast Club.
- 18:53Speaker 2: Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
- 18:59Speaker 5: Call him, it's topic times called eight hundred five five
- 19:06Speaker 5: five one to join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club.
- 19:11Speaker 2: Morning everybody. It's DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, Charlamage, the God.
- 19:15Speaker 2: We are the Breakfast Club.
- 19:16Speaker 3: If you're just joining us, we're talking about this woman
- 19:20Speaker 3: that was on the Facts of Law podcast. He said,
- 19:21Speaker 3: you would never date a person that came from a
- 19:24Speaker 3: single parent household. And we're taking your calls eight hundred
- 19:28Speaker 3: and five eight five one oh five to one. Now, Jess,
- 19:30Speaker 3: you said it doesn't matter.
- 19:32Speaker 20: No, Well, it just depends that it doesn't matter, and
- 19:35Speaker 20: we can't necessarily say, well that's better or those relationships where.
- 19:39Speaker 12: A man came from it to your parent household are
- 19:42Speaker 12: more successful.
- 19:43Speaker 20: Like any household can be toxic, you know what I'm saying,
- 19:48Speaker 20: Like any household. Like look, let's just take like less
- 19:51Speaker 20: to be honest, right the Jackson five look at their
- 19:54Speaker 20: mom and look at their dad. You know what I'm saying,
- 19:56Speaker 20: superent household. Jill wouldn't be last kids called him dad
- 20:00Speaker 20: beating them and doing it. You know what I'm saying,
- 20:02Speaker 20: Like it was a lot going on there.
- 20:04Speaker 12: Then that's less.
- 20:05Speaker 20: And then see, I think when people feel like when
- 20:08Speaker 20: they think of two parent household, they think of.
- 20:10Speaker 2: One like like the Huxtables, the Gosby Show.
- 20:12Speaker 12: You know what I'm saying, The Cosby Show. Let me
- 20:14Speaker 12: think of that. But no, you had so many different
- 20:19Speaker 12: types of two parents variations.
- 20:21Speaker 4: Yep, yeah, yeah. She should have warded it better.
- 20:23Speaker 10: She should have said, I'm not dating anybody who didn't
- 20:26Speaker 10: see a healthy relationship growing up, you know what I mean?
- 20:30Speaker 4: Like that she should have said.
- 20:31Speaker 3: But you know, even with that, you know, some people
- 20:33Speaker 3: who don't see a healthy relationship go to complete opposite.
- 20:36Speaker 3: You know, some people that don't didn't have a dad
- 20:38Speaker 3: in their life want to make sure they're in their kids'
- 20:40Speaker 3: life even more because.
- 20:41Speaker 2: They knew what that feeling was, so that could be
- 20:43Speaker 2: wrong too.
- 20:44Speaker 4: I think this whole conversation we haven't is exactly why
- 20:46Speaker 4: you shouldn't.
- 20:47Speaker 10: Generalize, right, And that's what she did. She generalized like
- 20:50Speaker 10: there's no one way to do any of it.
- 20:53Speaker 2: Nicole, take us off bluetooth for speaking, please perfect. What's
- 20:57Speaker 2: your thoughts, mama?
- 20:59Speaker 11: I just want to take them learning everyone. Also, I
- 21:02Speaker 11: feel like a family background is just important in general,
- 21:06Speaker 11: not whether you come from a single mother or a
- 21:09Speaker 11: single father or a two parent I come up in
- 21:11Speaker 11: a two pair of household, but I feel like the
- 21:13Speaker 11: way you see your parents portray love in general is
- 21:16Speaker 11: just it's going to be how you portray love. So
- 21:18Speaker 11: I think it's the family dynamic in general is important.
- 21:21Speaker 4: That's right.
- 21:22Speaker 2: Okay, Well, thank you so much, thank you.
- 21:25Speaker 18: Hello.
- 21:25Speaker 2: Who's this Andrea? Andrea? Good morning? What's your thoughts?
- 21:29Speaker 7: I agree with the uh with the comment comment, the
- 21:33Speaker 7: comment about coming from a two parent.
- 21:35Speaker 2: Household and what the lady said.
- 21:37Speaker 4: Why do you agree?
- 21:38Speaker 10: Yes?
- 21:38Speaker 1: I agree, I come from a two parent household.
- 21:41Speaker 13: To me, it's structured better, especially when you know the
- 21:45Speaker 13: dance involved.
- 21:47Speaker 2: Discipline is better.
- 21:49Speaker 7: So I completely agree.
- 21:51Speaker 2: Okay, well, thank you mama.
- 21:53Speaker 4: Hello, who's this? Play a song?
- 21:55Speaker 2: What's your what's your comments? What's your what's your what
- 21:57Speaker 2: do you think?
- 21:57Speaker 4: Brother? Say? Foremost of the morning? Everybody?
- 22:02Speaker 7: Yea he likewise man, Hey, I'm gonna tell you, I
- 22:06Speaker 7: totally cole hearty disagree with the young lady. Like Charles
- 22:09Speaker 7: Mane and God said everything he stated was true. I
- 22:12Speaker 7: can say I came from a both parent of household,
- 22:16Speaker 7: but then I know it's called manipulation. But at the
- 22:18Speaker 7: same time, when a man grow up, regardless and life happens,
- 22:22Speaker 7: he decides how to take care of a woman, and
- 22:24Speaker 7: he knows how to take care of woman based off
- 22:26Speaker 7: of maturity. But how can she say that? And then
- 22:28Speaker 7: she sounds like a person And I'm sorry to have
- 22:31Speaker 7: to say sound because I haven't seen her and not
- 22:33Speaker 7: going to see her. But she didn't even come from
- 22:36Speaker 7: a two parent households. How can she be relatable to
- 22:38Speaker 7: that scenario? And then she meets another guy that happened
- 22:42Speaker 7: to be opposite of the first guy. But here's the deal.
- 22:45Speaker 7: Who to say he didn't lie to her and he
- 22:47Speaker 7: just understands the mission. Maturity happens. You start understanding the mission,
- 22:51Speaker 7: how to take care of woman, how to keep him
- 22:53Speaker 7: secure and make sure they stay fed, guide him as
- 22:56Speaker 7: a king, and then after that it's successful. So what
- 22:59Speaker 7: she's saying, she just happened to meet somebody else that
- 23:02Speaker 7: was better than others. But then how does she relate
- 23:04Speaker 7: that and how can she put that on the scale.
- 23:07Speaker 7: If she never met both parents, they could just be heir.
- 23:10Speaker 4: Stady, that's real. Thank you brother.
- 23:12Speaker 2: Well, I'm going to the stream.
- 23:13Speaker 3: You know, we do go live, so I'm gonna read
- 23:16Speaker 3: some of the people on the live like shot the
- 23:18Speaker 3: miss Underscore Candy for she says, there are a lot
- 23:20Speaker 3: of two parent households with verbal abuse, physical abuse, and infidelity.
- 23:24Speaker 3: Anyone can make changing their lives for the good of
- 23:26Speaker 3: any relationships. It depends on the actual person.
- 23:29Speaker 4: That's the fact.
- 23:31Speaker 3: Somebody else said a two parent not so much. I
- 23:33Speaker 3: think a man having a good relationship with his mother
- 23:35Speaker 3: is more important.
- 23:36Speaker 4: Right, That's what I said earlier.
- 23:38Speaker 10: Is just like, it's about the relationship that the child
- 23:40Speaker 10: has with with with the parent, the single parent or whatever.
- 23:43Speaker 4: Because you can come from a.
- 23:44Speaker 10: Two parent household, and that two parent household could be
- 23:46Speaker 10: instilling a whole bunch of.
- 23:47Speaker 4: Nonsense in you.
- 23:48Speaker 2: Yes, that's right, I see, I am share k I
- 23:52Speaker 2: a D.
- 23:53Speaker 3: She says, I know men from both one parent and
- 23:55Speaker 3: two parent household that's both messed up mentally. So she's
- 23:59Speaker 3: saying it doesn't matter. Another woman says, work out with butterfly,
- 24:04Speaker 3: go going to work out with butterflies. He says, I
- 24:06Speaker 3: don't agree. It's up to that person had grown up
- 24:09Speaker 3: the right way in adulthood. It doesn't matter.
- 24:11Speaker 4: I see.
- 24:11Speaker 3: Somebody else says, two parent households don't mean nothing. A
- 24:14Speaker 3: lot of two parent households involves abuse.
- 24:16Speaker 4: That's right. So what is the ball of the story, Guys,
- 24:19Speaker 4: moller stories? Stop generalizing, everybody be generalizing.
- 24:21Speaker 10: Need to be getting on these podcasts and just getting
- 24:23Speaker 10: on platforms and just doing these broad generalizations.
- 24:26Speaker 4: If that works for you.
- 24:26Speaker 10: If you want to just date people from a two
- 24:28Speaker 10: parent household, cool, But guess what, young lady, you don't
- 24:31Speaker 10: even come from one.
- 24:32Speaker 4: All right, so what's wrong with you? Let's start with you, man,
- 24:35Speaker 4: what's your problem?
- 24:36Speaker 12: And what about the people with no parents? I know
- 24:38Speaker 12: they like?
- 24:39Speaker 2: Hold up?
- 24:39Speaker 14: Yo?
- 24:40Speaker 2: Could I get in this conversation with you know what
- 24:42Speaker 2: I'm saying?
- 24:43Speaker 12: You know people go faster care that's been raised greatly.
- 24:46Speaker 2: That hasn't been parents who died.
- 24:49Speaker 20: Yeah, people parents who died and it's like they didn't
- 24:52Speaker 20: they they didn't get to be raised by you know,
- 24:55Speaker 20: finished band raised.
- 24:56Speaker 12: So it just depends on So, yeah, generalization is crazy
- 24:59Speaker 12: for this one.
- 25:00Speaker 4: Everybody grandparents. You know what I'm saying.
- 25:02Speaker 10: What if my parents didn't want me and I ended
- 25:04Speaker 10: up getting raid by my grandparents, then what my or
- 25:07Speaker 10: you had you had your baby young and the grandparents
- 25:09Speaker 10: helped you out. Happens all the time.
- 25:12Speaker 12: Yes, it sounds just like a celebraty movie.
- 25:17Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, just the Breakfast Club.
- 25:19Speaker 4: Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Your mornings will never be
- 25:22Speaker 4: the same. Let's say, if y'all talking about it, you
- 25:33Speaker 4: know we talking about it.
- 25:34Speaker 5: It's topic times called eight hundred five eight five one
- 25:38Speaker 5: five one to join into the discussion.
- 25:40Speaker 4: With the breakfast Club.
- 25:42Speaker 3: Morning, everybody in Steve j Envy, Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne the God.
- 25:46Speaker 3: We are the Breakfast Club. If you're just joining us,
- 25:50Speaker 3: is we're asking, is your friend's enemy your enemy? Now
- 25:54Speaker 3: we were all saying behind the scenes, I feel like
- 25:57Speaker 3: if my friend has an enemy, I have an enemy
- 25:59Speaker 3: as well.
- 26:00Speaker 2: It depends how far it goes.
- 26:02Speaker 3: Like if it's some stupid, petty ish and that's something small,
- 26:04Speaker 3: but if it's something serious, when somebody tries to hurt something,
- 26:07Speaker 3: something in your you or your family, or try to
- 26:10Speaker 3: take something for you, or try to stop the way
- 26:12Speaker 3: that you eat, or try to destroy your life, your career.
- 26:15Speaker 10: Nah, you're gonna show me how serious it is though,
- 26:18Speaker 10: because Jess brought up a good point earlier when she
- 26:20Speaker 10: was talking about her and Sheena, and she said, you
- 26:22Speaker 10: and she you and the girl used to fall out
- 26:24Speaker 10: all the time, so she ain't think nothing of it.
- 26:27Speaker 4: I gotta see something. I gotta see a fight. I
- 26:29Speaker 4: gotta see this.
- 26:29Speaker 2: But if the girl posted just and stuff online?
- 26:32Speaker 4: What if I ain't see all that.
- 26:35Speaker 12: We're talking about? What are we talking about? You know everything?
- 26:37Speaker 12: Like you know not you're talking about you know my
- 26:39Speaker 12: best friend? Like, come on, you know everything?
- 26:41Speaker 20: Because she was like, I seen it. I didn't think
- 26:43Speaker 20: it was that serious, my baby. It was two of
- 26:45Speaker 20: my numbers in my edge dress. That's where my son
- 26:47Speaker 20: lays headed. What're you talking about?
- 26:49Speaker 15: That?
- 26:50Speaker 4: True?
- 26:51Speaker 20: Like so yeah, yeah, me and a girl did fault out,
- 26:53Speaker 20: but she ain't never do nothing like that. You know
- 26:55Speaker 20: what I'm saying, And then that's that's why I haven't
- 26:57Speaker 20: seen it to that day.
- 26:59Speaker 2: Let's go to the for good morning morning. Hey, briad,
- 27:03Speaker 2: we're asking, is your friend's enemy your enemy?
- 27:06Speaker 14: Absolutely?
- 27:08Speaker 2: You want to elaborate?
- 27:09Speaker 14: Absolutely, Yeah, so's you're not friends with someone?
- 27:14Speaker 6: I know why you're not friends with them?
- 27:15Speaker 11: Why am I hanging out with them?
- 27:17Speaker 14: Why am I giving them conversation?
- 27:18Speaker 18: That's one that I'm a lawyer to my friends.
- 27:21Speaker 12: That's right.
- 27:21Speaker 2: Okay, thank you, mama.
- 27:23Speaker 4: Talk about Hello.
- 27:25Speaker 2: Who's this? Hey, Divanna? We're asking, is your friend's enemy
- 27:29Speaker 2: your enemy?
- 27:30Speaker 22: I guess it depends on what type of friend she is.
- 27:32Speaker 22: One she might just be a regular friend. She might
- 27:34Speaker 22: be my best friend that was my best friend and
- 27:35Speaker 22: it's her enemy. Then absolutely my enemy is her enemy.
- 27:38Speaker 22: But for the most part, if it's just some random
- 27:41Speaker 22: beef that they've gotten, you know, and me and the
- 27:43Speaker 22: other person might have a good A four and I
- 27:45Speaker 22: can't say that, but I can't speak for Also, if
- 27:48Speaker 22: they get into a up station, then I'm going to
- 27:49Speaker 22: be on my friend's side. Wanted the thing?
- 27:51Speaker 4: Okay, thank you? You know what it is. Man.
- 27:54Speaker 10: We all get to a certain age, we know we
- 27:55Speaker 10: can't beat nobody up no more. That's really the problem.
- 27:58Speaker 10: Like when you're young, you can just down on people,
- 28:00Speaker 10: beat him up. But then you get to a certain age,
- 28:02Speaker 10: you're like, you know, you can't beat nobody up, and
- 28:05Speaker 10: it's frustrating, you know.
- 28:06Speaker 4: What I mean.
- 28:06Speaker 12: Well, I'm not dead yet, so.
- 28:08Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm I'm I'm I'm there. I'm like headlocked, mold.
- 28:12Speaker 12: Head say you're not dead yet either. I don't know
- 28:14Speaker 12: why y'all want to be so old of it on
- 28:16Speaker 12: this show, but no, y'all.
- 28:18Speaker 20: Can you can y'all both work out, y'all both you
- 28:21Speaker 20: know what I'm saying, y'all, y'all fight, probably maturely, but
- 28:25Speaker 20: still maturely.
- 28:27Speaker 10: You know that's true because I think about what I'm
- 28:29Speaker 10: gonna do to that person when I see him. I'm like,
- 28:30Speaker 10: you know what, I'm not gonna hurt that person. I'm like,
- 28:32Speaker 10: put him in a headlock, give him a little nuggie,
- 28:35Speaker 10: you know what i mean. I'm like twisted, you know,
- 28:39Speaker 10: just push him up, just push him, like, come in,
- 28:41Speaker 10: let me talk to you. You know that that is
- 28:44Speaker 10: so pokem Like the Pillsbury dough Boy Pokemon in his stomach.
- 28:47Speaker 4: Come in, Come in, man, talk to you.
- 28:50Speaker 12: That's yay, Like, what are we talking about? Come on
- 28:55Speaker 12: the girl, how you doing?
- 28:56Speaker 14: I'm doing great? How are y'all?
- 28:59Speaker 3: That's black and Hollyday is your friend's enemy, your enemy,
- 29:02Speaker 3: So it definitely all depends because if my friend is
- 29:05Speaker 3: doing something dangerous.
- 29:07Speaker 14: For example, my brother was murdered by his friend, and
- 29:11Speaker 14: had he known that this friend had this envy and
- 29:13Speaker 14: jealousy about him, he could probably still be alive today.
- 29:16Speaker 14: So it all definitely depends. If your friend is doing something,
- 29:19Speaker 14: they're not trying to take responsibility or do something about it.
- 29:23Speaker 14: They need to stay away from them, and you need
- 29:24Speaker 14: to let other people know about that so that they
- 29:26Speaker 14: don't get them to cross you, because somebody can lose
- 29:28Speaker 14: a life.
- 29:29Speaker 4: Can I tell you?
- 29:30Speaker 14: Aren't just something regular anymore. That's the actual relationship, so
- 29:34Speaker 14: you need to take it serious.
- 29:36Speaker 10: I agree with you, queen, But man, I'm gonna tell
- 29:37Speaker 10: you something about us as black people, we say the
- 29:40Speaker 10: most traumatic things so effortlessly. Well, exactly what she just said.
- 29:43Speaker 10: She just said it so effortlessly like it was nothing,
- 29:46Speaker 10: and you hung up on her like it was nothing.
- 29:47Speaker 10: After she said something dramatic.
- 29:49Speaker 12: Well we ain't.
- 29:51Speaker 4: You ain't even give the girl no condolence? Did you
- 29:53Speaker 4: just hung up with the woman?
- 29:54Speaker 10: I wanted to have a conversation with her about this
- 29:55Speaker 10: traumatic experience you just told her, and I was talking about.
- 29:58Speaker 12: Hey, sorry see that, Yeah, and we just hung up. Yeah.
- 30:04Speaker 12: She was telling us like somebody killed her brother behind
- 30:07Speaker 12: side like that.
- 30:08Speaker 10: So I'm sorry, queen and me just hung up on
- 30:10Speaker 10: you with with the most disrespect. I don't know why,
- 30:12Speaker 10: but like I was saying, I just think it's uh,
- 30:15Speaker 10: it's just we just say the most traumatic things like.
- 30:18Speaker 20: Yeah, yeah, I would saying that. She was saying, we
- 30:22Speaker 20: gotta take it most serious. But she was kind of
- 30:24Speaker 20: cut off a little bit.
- 30:26Speaker 4: A little bit, you mean, when Emmy just slammed the
- 30:28Speaker 4: phone down on her for no damn reason.
- 30:30Speaker 3: She got slammed the phone like hello, man, Hello, Were
- 30:35Speaker 3: you the one that just called it a second ago?
- 30:37Speaker 9: No?
- 30:38Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, you told us about your brother, your brother
- 30:40Speaker 4: that got killed.
- 30:41Speaker 10: Oh no, okay, Well since you're here, tell us your traumaree.
- 30:50Speaker 15: I wanted to answer the question about the prime okay, so,
- 30:54Speaker 15: like it depends basically how long you knew the person,
- 30:57Speaker 15: because like my best friend, no matter if she like whoever,
- 31:01Speaker 15: she don't like them, I don't like them. But if
- 31:02Speaker 15: I knew like the person before I knew you didn't
- 31:05Speaker 15: like you know, it depends on the situation.
- 31:08Speaker 12: I was thinking about it.
- 31:10Speaker 2: Well, thank you, thank you for your call.
- 31:11Speaker 4: You hung up on that.
- 31:13Speaker 12: I was crying.
- 31:14Speaker 4: Now she's hung up on it for no damn reasons.
- 31:17Speaker 2: It's the Breakfast other Morning, the Breakfast Club.
- 31:23Speaker 3: Only everybody's DJ Envy, Jess, Hilarious, Charlamage, the guy. We
- 31:27Speaker 3: are the Breakfast Club. Laura la Ross is feeling in
- 31:29Speaker 3: for Jess. And we got a special guests in the building.
- 31:31Speaker 3: We got Trade of Truth. Welcome back, Trey bro Man.
- 31:34Speaker 2: How you feeling man?
- 31:35Speaker 4: How you doing?
- 31:36Speaker 17: Brother?
- 31:37Speaker 4: Life? But life?
- 31:39Speaker 3: I know, I know you got a lot going on you.
- 31:41Speaker 3: You want to start with the BS, so you want
- 31:42Speaker 3: to start with the positive first.
- 31:43Speaker 4: I don't want to talk with the negative. I need
- 31:47Speaker 4: I need the energy from y'all.
- 31:49Speaker 3: Right, No, man, how you're feeling? Brother album out right now?
- 31:52Speaker 3: Albums doing well, crowd.
- 31:53Speaker 8: Control control, Yeah, it's just you know, I'm always trying
- 31:57Speaker 8: to add to the catalog and level up, you know.
- 32:00Speaker 8: And the little Homie Moxy pumped me up to do
- 32:04Speaker 8: a turn up festival song and it ended up turning
- 32:06Speaker 8: out to be a whole album.
- 32:07Speaker 4: So you just put out, you just put out Stuck
- 32:09Speaker 4: in Motion last year though. Yeah.
- 32:11Speaker 8: Yeah, But I crazy thing is I'm still kind of
- 32:15Speaker 8: at a stand still. I got three more I'm supposed
- 32:17Speaker 8: to put out this year.
- 32:18Speaker 4: I don't know. Yeah, but they are.
- 32:20Speaker 8: Different vibes though, you know, because I have the turn up,
- 32:23Speaker 8: which is crowd control. I got an album called Him,
- 32:26Speaker 8: which is another kind of turn up, a most street
- 32:29Speaker 8: dark angel, just all the pain.
- 32:31Speaker 4: And everything I'm going through.
- 32:32Speaker 8: I think that a lot of people probably can use
- 32:34Speaker 8: right now to know the thing the only ones going
- 32:36Speaker 8: through it. And then Live from Mars, the homie Mass
- 32:39Speaker 8: from La who do a lot of real production, you know,
- 32:43Speaker 8: play all the instruments on tour for everybody. It's a
- 32:46Speaker 8: whole album with just live instruments and stuff. So control,
- 32:50Speaker 8: because it's a festival vibe. You gotta be able to
- 32:52Speaker 8: control the crowd whenever you touch that stage.
- 32:54Speaker 4: You don't want to ask you tricks.
- 32:55Speaker 10: We had a man Sauce walk up here a couple
- 32:58Speaker 10: of weeks ago, and he was just talking about cultural
- 33:01Speaker 10: appropriation versus cultural appreciation. And he said he feels like
- 33:05Speaker 10: an artist like Drake, who is in the city so much,
- 33:09Speaker 10: should do more for the city as far as working
- 33:11Speaker 10: with Houston artists.
- 33:13Speaker 4: And I wonder what you was on that.
- 33:14Speaker 8: I think everybody, and honestly, it all depends on what
- 33:18Speaker 8: point of view you look at it. And I think
- 33:21Speaker 8: as grown men, we all entitled to our point of views.
- 33:24Speaker 8: As far as me, I can only speak for myself.
- 33:26Speaker 4: You know, I haven't.
- 33:27Speaker 8: I really ain't in tune with what you're talking about.
- 33:29Speaker 8: And me and him had a conversation to see his aspect,
- 33:32Speaker 8: because one thing I've learned in all things is a
- 33:35Speaker 8: lot of people can say stuff and mean stuff. But
- 33:38Speaker 8: how I come across on the internet of how I
- 33:41Speaker 8: come across as pushed out and be some totally opposite. So,
- 33:43Speaker 8: you know, I think until me and him hold a
- 33:45Speaker 8: conversation and now you said, I probably have to go
- 33:48Speaker 8: look back, man, I really I've been off the internet, man,
- 33:50Speaker 8: dealing with life lately. Man Like I have to make
- 33:53Speaker 8: myself push this app. You know what I'm saying and
- 33:56Speaker 8: that stuff that I you know, I legally I can't
- 33:58Speaker 8: even just talk about right now. But it's just you know,
- 34:00Speaker 8: light and life and man. But what I will say
- 34:03Speaker 8: for Houston as a whole, though, I'm very proud. You
- 34:06Speaker 8: got to think, man, one, we already had the biggest stars,
- 34:08Speaker 8: which is under novel you had, you got yours, you
- 34:12Speaker 8: got your Travis, you got your Mills, you got your
- 34:14Speaker 8: Yolanda Adams, even down to one of the biggest stars
- 34:18Speaker 8: that we all grew up on, Felicia Rashall. You know,
- 34:20Speaker 8: you have people from Houston, but now you have so
- 34:22Speaker 8: many you know, from the street aspect. You have the
- 34:25Speaker 8: rejects from the generations after us. You have the Sauce Walkers,
- 34:30Speaker 8: the Little Jeremy's, you know, the fast Lanes and you know,
- 34:33Speaker 8: just it's so many different aspects. And then you have
- 34:37Speaker 8: a bunch of females coming out of Houston and coming
- 34:39Speaker 8: out of Texas. That's raw me personally my mind right
- 34:44Speaker 8: now that I highlight definitely be the rejects, which is
- 34:47Speaker 8: you got Big Tony Calwayne, jack Boy, Fast Money, thirty Ways, Skeet,
- 34:53Speaker 8: Millie Bucks Lay. I mean, it's a lot of people,
- 34:56Speaker 8: and it'd be hard to share light on names because
- 34:58Speaker 8: then you forget people need you, like damn, I think
- 35:00Speaker 8: right now as a whole, I think people should definitely
- 35:03Speaker 8: pay attention to what we got going on in Houston,
- 35:06Speaker 8: and then in the game people don't really realize what
- 35:09Speaker 8: we give to the culture. You go to think of
- 35:12Speaker 8: double cups, you go to think of grills, you go
- 35:14Speaker 8: to think of cars, you go to think of speaking envy.
- 35:17Speaker 4: You know, he ain't gonna think the car is the
- 35:19Speaker 4: best of Houston.
- 35:20Speaker 8: It is. Even when you go to think of trap soul,
- 35:22Speaker 8: that's all the form of what Screw used to do.
- 35:25Speaker 8: You know what I'm saying. You gotta think who don't
- 35:27Speaker 8: love trap soul right now? From Brighton to they like? So,
- 35:30Speaker 8: I think everybody takes a part of Houston as a whole,
- 35:33Speaker 8: and now's We're the biggest goddamn party city right now.
- 35:36Speaker 3: I was going to say that, you know, it was
- 35:38Speaker 3: New York for a while, then it went to Atlanta,
- 35:40Speaker 3: But now everybody's going to Houston. How does that affect
- 35:43Speaker 3: the city or or people respecting the city, or because
- 35:46Speaker 3: at one time they would effort Atlanta up during COVID,
- 35:48Speaker 3: I mean, it was so much going on, they cleaned
- 35:49Speaker 3: it up a lot, But how was it how was.
- 35:50Speaker 2: It affected Houston?
- 35:52Speaker 8: I think it's a good thing, man. I think it's
- 35:53Speaker 8: a good thing for the economy because it brings business.
- 35:56Speaker 8: You know, people now when they do their trips with
- 35:58Speaker 8: their homies or they free we can all going.
- 36:01Speaker 2: Yeah Houston, fellas drive out and headed to Houston.
- 36:05Speaker 4: Yeah yeah.
- 36:05Speaker 8: So and then other than that, you have people like
- 36:07Speaker 8: us who are on the front line. We ain't just
- 36:09Speaker 8: letting nobody come through there and tell the town up
- 36:11Speaker 8: that part we ain't gonna do. I think everything for
- 36:14Speaker 8: us is on the up and up. You know, everybody
- 36:16Speaker 8: have they they spans. You have different things, whether it
- 36:20Speaker 8: may be music, sports or whatever. Florida you have that,
- 36:23Speaker 8: on the West Coast, you have it in New York.
- 36:25Speaker 8: And now even down to the Rockets, down to the Texans, down.
- 36:30Speaker 4: To the rugby team. People don't even know we got
- 36:32Speaker 4: a rugby team.
- 36:33Speaker 17: We had.
- 36:34Speaker 8: Our rugby team was number two last year, you know.
- 36:36Speaker 8: So we got a whole bunch of different things, just
- 36:39Speaker 8: as a whole with Houston and outside of that, I'm
- 36:41Speaker 8: frontline for us. So everything I represent everybody who accept me,
- 36:45Speaker 8: excepting Houston.
- 36:46Speaker 10: Right now, when you talk about life be life and right,
- 36:49Speaker 10: how do you know that you just ain't doing things
- 36:51Speaker 10: to stay away from having to deal with all of
- 36:53Speaker 10: that trade like putting out the music, you know, front
- 36:55Speaker 10: line and all the time when there's a catastrophe in
- 36:58Speaker 10: the city, Like, how do you know you just ain't
- 37:00Speaker 10: running from dealing with your own stuff?
- 37:02Speaker 8: What do you mean as far as me running from
- 37:04Speaker 8: my own problems that I may see, this is you
- 37:07Speaker 8: with this therapy.
- 37:13Speaker 4: It feels like you are.
- 37:15Speaker 8: I can laugh and joke about it only because it's
- 37:18Speaker 8: just still my brother, but I know the angle he's going.
- 37:21Speaker 4: I don't know.
- 37:21Speaker 8: I can't say I'm running. I can't say I'm running
- 37:23Speaker 8: because I deal with my problems head on. I think
- 37:27Speaker 8: a lot of what I learned recently so I did
- 37:30Speaker 8: for trade that I did my first man's mental health panel,
- 37:33Speaker 8: you know, just for people to get up there and
- 37:35Speaker 8: just express themselves with what they're going through. And man,
- 37:38Speaker 8: a lot of us did a lot of trauma that
- 37:40Speaker 8: we probably really didn't we didn't realize, you know. And
- 37:44Speaker 8: I don't think I'm running. I think honestly, for me,
- 37:46Speaker 8: I'm not comfortable unless I stay active.
- 37:49Speaker 4: If I sit still.
- 37:50Speaker 8: When I get to overthinking too, I just feel like
- 37:53Speaker 8: stuff just coming to a house. So I have to
- 37:55Speaker 8: just stay active, and even if it's a thousand pounds
- 37:58Speaker 8: of pressure, I'm more comfortable getting out of that than
- 38:00Speaker 8: just doing nothing.
- 38:02Speaker 4: And I could be wrong from talking. I don't know.
- 38:04Speaker 4: I mean, tell that one therapist sit me down and
- 38:06Speaker 4: say this is what this is? And I never know,
- 38:09Speaker 4: did you ever find one?
- 38:10Speaker 8: I talked to some people through you Now have I
- 38:13Speaker 8: actually went in that room and sat down. I haven't
- 38:18Speaker 8: did that, but but we have long phone conversations and
- 38:21Speaker 8: now you know, not to get too much into it now.
- 38:24Speaker 8: I got primary custody of my daughter, so I just
- 38:27Speaker 8: introduced her to a therapist. So you know, it's just
- 38:30Speaker 8: it's it's a lot of different things that I gotta
- 38:32Speaker 8: you know, I'm still climbing.
- 38:33Speaker 2: I'm just sick's six six So how was I talking
- 38:36Speaker 2: to a therapist?
- 38:37Speaker 14: You know?
- 38:37Speaker 4: The crazy thing man?
- 38:38Speaker 8: The time that that that I've allowed her to go
- 38:41Speaker 8: because really I want to find the perfect one. I
- 38:44Speaker 8: don't I don't necessarily know if the person I take
- 38:46Speaker 8: her to the one she used to stick with. But
- 38:48Speaker 8: I allow her to do her own thing. I you know,
- 38:51Speaker 8: I get out the way and she can have her
- 38:53Speaker 8: own conversation and then you know, I learned about it afterwards,
- 38:56Speaker 8: but I think everything works.
- 38:58Speaker 3: Again, why was it important for you to know? Because
- 39:00Speaker 3: a lot of parents to say, I don't know if
- 39:01Speaker 3: I want to put my child into therapy.
- 39:04Speaker 2: Why do you think it was important to put her
- 39:05Speaker 2: into therapy?
- 39:06Speaker 3: Because it's a good conversation for parents, you know, why
- 39:09Speaker 3: do you think it was like, you know, I think
- 39:11Speaker 3: this is something that benefit her, especially because you have
- 39:13Speaker 3: ever done it.
- 39:14Speaker 8: That's one reason, because I know I should. But then
- 39:16Speaker 8: you got to think transitioning from one home to the next.
- 39:20Speaker 4: This is new to me.
- 39:21Speaker 8: So I don't know how long that process take. I
- 39:23Speaker 8: don't know if that process is gonna take a week,
- 39:25Speaker 8: two weeks. I don't know if it's gonna take years months.
- 39:27Speaker 8: So the only thing I can do is do my
- 39:30Speaker 8: best to support her, you know, because at the same time,
- 39:33Speaker 8: I have to let her know how much she love.
- 39:35Speaker 8: I have to let her know, even though she may
- 39:37Speaker 8: be frustrated, because you know, they kids, they have friends,
- 39:40Speaker 8: they have things that they used to Now it's a
- 39:42Speaker 8: new transition. So I have to just I think God
- 39:45Speaker 8: teaching me patients in this situation too, because that time
- 39:48Speaker 8: she may just sit and cry or make say she
- 39:51Speaker 8: want my mama, like I have to still be over
- 39:54Speaker 8: loving to her or let her know like regardless of
- 39:56Speaker 8: what it is, like I'm here, we're gonna figure it out.
- 39:59Speaker 8: I mean, both got ourselves here and keep bumping our heads,
- 40:01Speaker 8: so be it. But we're gonna figure it out. And
- 40:03Speaker 8: your Pop's gonna be with you to the end.
- 40:05Speaker 2: We got more with Trade the Truth.
- 40:06Speaker 3: When we come back, it's the Breakfast Club, Good morning
- 40:08Speaker 3: going to everybody. It's dj n V Juste Lari Charlamaine
- 40:12Speaker 3: the God. We are the Breakfast Club.
- 40:13Speaker 2: Laura la Ross is feeling it for just and we
- 40:15Speaker 2: still could get it with Trade the Truth, Lauren.
- 40:18Speaker 23: A lot of us watched you in that like fight
- 40:20Speaker 23: with your daughter, like trying to figure out the custody
- 40:22Speaker 23: thing or whatever. How does it feel now to be
- 40:24Speaker 23: able to, like you said, like you're doing things like
- 40:27Speaker 23: putting her in therapy, working things out together, Like you
- 40:29Speaker 23: don't have to fight anywhere, you can just be dad.
- 40:31Speaker 12: Now, how does that feel?
- 40:32Speaker 8: I'm not gonna seriously, I don't have to fight no more.
- 40:35Speaker 8: But what I will say is it's a process.
- 40:37Speaker 4: You know. The crazy thing.
- 40:39Speaker 8: You find things that we be proud of that we accomplished,
- 40:43Speaker 8: and how all the big stuff I did in life,
- 40:46Speaker 8: you know, And the happiest moment was then road high school.
- 40:50Speaker 8: You see what I'm saying, Like stuff like that. Long
- 40:52Speaker 8: she got me out there watching her do cheerleading, so
- 40:55Speaker 8: you know that. Look, it'd be weird because everybody's staying like, man,
- 41:02Speaker 8: let's trade. But I'm just out here trying to up.
- 41:05Speaker 4: Do you be yelling in the cheer company. I can't
- 41:07Speaker 4: imagine yelling. Come on, I'm clapping in I'm cheer dad.
- 41:13Speaker 10: I don't seen mun bunny, but I think one granddaughter
- 41:15Speaker 10: is a cheerleader.
- 41:20Speaker 23: I love this for you though, I know, especially because
- 41:22Speaker 23: knowing what you went through and like you know what
- 41:23Speaker 23: I mean, Like I can only imagine like then rolling
- 41:27Speaker 23: the first day of school, Like what was that?
- 41:29Speaker 12: Like, y'all wake up early?
- 41:30Speaker 10: You go?
- 41:31Speaker 8: Yeah, then rolling? So her school starts on the third.
- 41:33Speaker 8: She haven't even started, okay, so I don't know what
- 41:37Speaker 8: will be her is no shame in private, so yeah
- 41:41Speaker 8: she'll she'll start and on the third, so you know,
- 41:45Speaker 8: wait to see how that go. But ideally, man, you know,
- 41:48Speaker 8: it's just a blessing man, And I think everything I
- 41:50Speaker 8: experienced with her, and everything that I'm learning is making
- 41:53Speaker 8: me a better meat because you gotta also think, man,
- 41:56Speaker 8: when I'm out moving in the streets, times that I
- 41:59Speaker 8: could in the situation, I'm double thinking it for my
- 42:02Speaker 8: kids more as opposed to just moving off emotion. And
- 42:06Speaker 8: even speaking of emotion, I had a conversation with somebody
- 42:09Speaker 8: being raised in the streets. You would think the way
- 42:11Speaker 8: we came up, somebody say something to you, you have
- 42:14Speaker 8: to check that that's just what it is, point blank, pid.
- 42:17Speaker 8: I'm going all out about that, and I didn't realize, bro, Honestly,
- 42:21Speaker 8: I was learning opposite. The strength is being able to
- 42:24Speaker 8: dictate when you move because we so used to moving
- 42:26Speaker 8: off emotion. And that's why I'm instilling a lot of
- 42:29Speaker 8: little homies like hey, just before you jump the crash
- 42:31Speaker 8: out of times I did the same thing, like you
- 42:34Speaker 8: got to dictate when you move because moving off emotion.
- 42:36Speaker 4: It feel good for that moment, you know what I'm saying.
- 42:39Speaker 8: Then you ever see situations where people like damn brou
- 42:42Speaker 8: I probably just waste a whole bunch of time.
- 42:44Speaker 4: I shouldn't even did this.
- 42:46Speaker 8: Now I'm at a point of really teaching people, you know, like, nah, bro,
- 42:49Speaker 8: we ain't moving off emos now. At the end of
- 42:52Speaker 8: the day, don't let nobody dispect you to protect you,
- 42:54Speaker 8: your family, everything you gotta do and go all out
- 42:56Speaker 8: behind it. Just say I'm walking in the hall, somebody
- 42:58Speaker 8: bump me. Now younger me will, Bro, what you're doing
- 43:02Speaker 8: just like the fact you got it, I'm gonna let
- 43:05Speaker 8: you now never do that. And he go to get dispectful.
- 43:07Speaker 8: Then he get what he deserved.
- 43:09Speaker 4: But for the most part, it's like, man, sometimes like
- 43:11Speaker 4: somebody just don't be worth it. Bro. When you adopt
- 43:13Speaker 4: this mentality in the past six months, yeah.
- 43:19Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean I'm learning and I'm still a work
- 43:22Speaker 8: in progress myself. And again it's hard because again I
- 43:26Speaker 8: deal with everything hit up. So this is a new
- 43:28Speaker 8: challenge for me to not really move off everything.
- 43:32Speaker 4: Man.
- 43:32Speaker 8: I used to be to the point you say something
- 43:34Speaker 8: slick on the internet, I'm trying to find IP address.
- 43:37Speaker 8: I need to know where you at, like you know
- 43:38Speaker 8: what I'm saying. So now it's like sometimes I have
- 43:41Speaker 8: to look at stuff and just laugh at all and
- 43:44Speaker 8: it don't be easy. You know what I'm saying, and
- 43:46Speaker 8: I'm sure you can attest to this. NBA just how
- 43:49Speaker 8: people don't really even know truth about situations. People can
- 43:52Speaker 8: form opinions, and it's like sometimes you just you gotta
- 43:55Speaker 8: be able to not be bothered. I think that's gonna
- 43:58Speaker 8: be my my biggest once I conker not being bothered.
- 44:01Speaker 8: I think I'm completing what I'm supposed to do because
- 44:04Speaker 8: I feel like God probably got me some real big
- 44:07Speaker 8: coming from me and he just like, yeah, it's still,
- 44:10Speaker 8: and I'm letting you know it's still, but I got
- 44:12Speaker 8: a feeling you still, So I'm finna run you through
- 44:15Speaker 8: the ring until I know it's all out of you
- 44:18Speaker 8: and you're gonna move right.
- 44:19Speaker 15: You know.
- 44:19Speaker 4: Do you regret any of your former crash outs? Man,
- 44:23Speaker 4: that's a good question. I'm speaking about one specifically. I
- 44:26Speaker 4: know you do.
- 44:27Speaker 8: Yeah, I know you do it, and middle finger to
- 44:29Speaker 8: you for doing it right now. But so it's a
- 44:33Speaker 8: double edged soor I think everything that I went through
- 44:36Speaker 8: in life, good or bad, molds my character. It bills
- 44:39Speaker 8: me because we have to learn from experiences, you know,
- 44:42Speaker 8: And I think on that part, I don't regret becoming
- 44:45Speaker 8: who I am.
- 44:45Speaker 4: I don't regret learning what I learned or.
- 44:48Speaker 8: Some of the brick walls I hit now on the
- 44:50Speaker 8: flip side of that, yeah, do I feel like, man,
- 44:52Speaker 8: you know what just ain't worth it or wasn't worth it?
- 44:55Speaker 4: Yeah, I definitely feel like that.
- 44:57Speaker 8: And lastly of that, man, it's a frustrat in situation
- 45:00Speaker 8: when nobody really knows in that particular situation.
- 45:05Speaker 4: What really went on.
- 45:06Speaker 8: One, I don't really talk, you know, I don't talk.
- 45:08Speaker 8: I don't do interviews, So I leave the room open
- 45:11Speaker 8: for everybody to come up with their own narrative, come
- 45:13Speaker 8: up with their own opinion, because I feel like I
- 45:15Speaker 8: need to explain it for it is what it is,
- 45:17Speaker 8: you know what I'm saying. But that becomes the frustrating
- 45:20Speaker 8: part because then all in the end, if and when people,
- 45:23Speaker 8: if I ever decided to just speak or go a
- 45:25Speaker 8: certain round, people be like, well, damn, I had this
- 45:28Speaker 8: mixed up the whole time.
- 45:30Speaker 4: For me, it's too late at that point.
- 45:32Speaker 8: But the other reason why I don't really like in
- 45:34Speaker 8: any situation I go in, I don't break my neck
- 45:36Speaker 8: to go trying and control the narrative, because it's a
- 45:38Speaker 8: blessing when you get to see how people really feel
- 45:41Speaker 8: about you. Man, when I tell you, when I see
- 45:44Speaker 8: our mother starts showing how they really for me. It's
- 45:48Speaker 8: two things in mind. One is you've been a hater
- 45:51Speaker 8: and you've been feeling this way. You just wouldn't man
- 45:53Speaker 8: or woman enough to say what. You waited to a
- 45:56Speaker 8: situation happened for you to be like, oh yeah, man,
- 45:58Speaker 8: you know what this was. You don't really care about
- 46:00Speaker 8: that situation. That's how you've been feeling. You just didn't you. Yeah,
- 46:03Speaker 8: you just didn't want to be exposed for being a hater.
- 46:06Speaker 8: You know what I'm saying. So you know, all these situations,
- 46:09Speaker 8: I think in every lesson that I deal with, it's
- 46:11Speaker 8: a blessing.
- 46:13Speaker 2: How do you move on now?
- 46:14Speaker 3: Because you know, Houston's a big place for the small place,
- 46:16Speaker 3: right everybody intertwines with everybody, So how do you move on?
- 46:20Speaker 2: Because it's I deal with who deal with me and
- 46:24Speaker 2: those who deal with me.
- 46:25Speaker 8: Man, You know, regardless if I talk every day or not,
- 46:27Speaker 8: they know if they hit me, they can always depend
- 46:29Speaker 8: on me vice versa. You know, because a real friend
- 46:32Speaker 8: and a real family, real homie is gonna be the
- 46:35Speaker 8: one that'll be there supporting you even if it's you
- 46:39Speaker 8: against the world and those people.
- 46:40Speaker 4: You have to value things like that.
- 46:42Speaker 8: You know what I'm saying because you have people I
- 46:45Speaker 8: could sit in your face and be like, oh yeah man,
- 46:47Speaker 8: this and that, and behind your back be like yeah man,
- 46:50Speaker 8: or whatever happened to them happened.
- 46:52Speaker 4: A real one is behind closed doors, all in front.
- 46:55Speaker 8: Like nah this, you need anything, let me know, because
- 46:58Speaker 8: what I don't like life is watching people cheerleading parade
- 47:03Speaker 8: to tell somebody down. I feel like when you get
- 47:06Speaker 8: the what you call them me two crowds And I
- 47:09Speaker 8: don't know if I'm using it right in that sense,
- 47:10Speaker 8: but when I don't like him, well I don't either,
- 47:13Speaker 8: So let's just all pile up and just you know,
- 47:15Speaker 8: I don't respect that.
- 47:16Speaker 4: I'd rather you be on man. If you feel someway,
- 47:18Speaker 4: let let that be knowing.
- 47:19Speaker 2: Me to the cancel culture.
- 47:21Speaker 4: Yeah. Well, well I guess that's why I say, because
- 47:23Speaker 4: I didn't know if that was the way to use it,
- 47:25Speaker 4: but yeah, I.
- 47:26Speaker 10: Know it's because it's interesting, right Like, and from the
- 47:29Speaker 10: outside looking in when the situation went down, would wo
- 47:32Speaker 10: you and zero, it felt like people were taking sides
- 47:35Speaker 10: and I was like me, I'm like.
- 47:36Speaker 4: Damn, people don't like tree like that.
- 47:39Speaker 2: Had a conversation after.
- 47:40Speaker 8: No, No, the thing is before we never seen each
- 47:43Speaker 8: other after. We don't see each other, like we don't
- 47:45Speaker 8: believe it or not, we never really see each other.
- 47:47Speaker 8: I don't think I could tell you once or twice
- 47:49Speaker 8: we've seen each other within an eight to ten year
- 47:52Speaker 8: time span, Like we don't see each other at all.
- 47:54Speaker 23: If you would have run into him tomorrow today, if
- 47:56Speaker 23: he was a call you would you be open to
- 47:58Speaker 23: a conversation.
- 47:59Speaker 4: I mean, we've grown me, you know, like he entitled,
- 48:01Speaker 4: how you feel, entitled? How I do.
- 48:02Speaker 8: I'm gonna speak up for mine the same way I
- 48:04Speaker 8: would hope he speak up for hisself. So again, I'm
- 48:07Speaker 8: telling you, it ain't no hate on mia In. I
- 48:09Speaker 8: went through what I went through. I took it on
- 48:10Speaker 8: the chin and I kept it moving, you know, like
- 48:13Speaker 8: it's not like we can't be in the same room.
- 48:15Speaker 8: I'm gonna be tripping soon as I see him, Like
- 48:17Speaker 8: I ain't really on that type of time.
- 48:18Speaker 22: You know.
- 48:19Speaker 8: I'm a man that is gonna always stand to feel
- 48:21Speaker 8: myself and staying on business on what I believe. But
- 48:24Speaker 8: I'm not looking for that like I got. You gotta
- 48:27Speaker 8: realize I did with real life situation instead of living
- 48:30Speaker 8: for the internet like everybody else, Like I'm trying to
- 48:32Speaker 8: figure out what's gonna be the next move with my kids,
- 48:34Speaker 8: what's the next move with helping somebody else that I'm doing,
- 48:36Speaker 8: or helping these families, or helping some of the young
- 48:39Speaker 8: homies out the hood, or helping someone music and business.
- 48:43Speaker 4: So it's like I'm not My life don't revolve around it.
- 48:46Speaker 3: Every day we got more with Traded Truth. It's the
- 48:48Speaker 3: Breakfast Club, good morning, more thing everybody we are the
- 48:51Speaker 3: Breakfast Club was still kicking it be traded the truth.
- 48:53Speaker 10: Charlamagne, How did the death of beat King impact the
- 48:57Speaker 10: city of Houston.
- 48:58Speaker 8: I definitely think that was a It was a sad situation.
- 49:01Speaker 8: It was an unbelievable situation because you know, for us,
- 49:04Speaker 8: we used to death. Sometimes you'll see something on in
- 49:06Speaker 8: there and you'll be like, nah, hell nah that you know.
- 49:10Speaker 8: I think that was one of them situations that it
- 49:12Speaker 8: wasn't expected. Just thinking back, me and we really didn't
- 49:15Speaker 8: talk much at all. But you can't deny the presence
- 49:19Speaker 8: he had when it came to the club, like he
- 49:22Speaker 8: had a tag. When he had the tag, you'll know
- 49:24Speaker 8: he had something to do with it. So you couldn't
- 49:26Speaker 8: you couldn't deny what he brought, and he stayed in
- 49:29Speaker 8: his own lane cause he wasn't. He wasn't trying to
- 49:31Speaker 8: make street music. He wasn't trying to do the backpack.
- 49:33Speaker 8: He wouldn't. He just stayed doing him. And you know,
- 49:36Speaker 8: anybody who stayed doing them and stay in their own lane,
- 49:39Speaker 8: you gotta respect it because they didn't all today, didn't shift.
- 49:42Speaker 8: They did what they felt was best for them. So,
- 49:44Speaker 8: you know, I felt like it's definitely something that touched
- 49:47Speaker 8: the city. I mean, anybody, I'm being honest, Any falling
- 49:51Speaker 8: soldiers we had for the city of Houston musically always
- 49:54Speaker 8: impact the city because Houston and Texas alone really support
- 49:58Speaker 8: they artist.
- 49:59Speaker 4: So you know, a lot of deaths people take it personal.
- 50:02Speaker 4: How did you and j Coget so close? Man? We've
- 50:04Speaker 4: always man, We've always been close since since younger man.
- 50:08Speaker 4: And it's crazy.
- 50:10Speaker 8: That's why looking at the song that he did, trade
- 50:13Speaker 8: the Truth and the Busy like you could look at
- 50:16Speaker 8: I ain't even have a bed at that time. I
- 50:18Speaker 8: was you know what I'm saying. But it happened right
- 50:20Speaker 8: after I got shot. I remember he called me, so
- 50:23Speaker 8: I was like twelve, yeah, yeah, So, but I'm saying
- 50:27Speaker 8: we was cool way before then, but I'm saying right
- 50:29Speaker 8: after I got shot, he called me and he was
- 50:31Speaker 8: just like, man, bro, like, you got the potential of
- 50:34Speaker 8: doing so much so many people, Like I feel like
- 50:36Speaker 8: I want to just take you with me to show
- 50:38Speaker 8: you something different, basically to inspire me and show me
- 50:41Speaker 8: what I can, what I'm capable of doing, and what
- 50:43Speaker 8: I can. And mentally, we so stuck worried about how
- 50:46Speaker 8: people gonna look at us, how people are gonna laugh
- 50:48Speaker 8: at us when we do stuff, or if we're gonna
- 50:50Speaker 8: fail or succeed. And I think when you get to
- 50:52Speaker 8: a point where you not necessarily can about that, then
- 50:55Speaker 8: you can kind of enjoy it, you know, Like that's
- 50:58Speaker 8: what it pissed me off when you see. And I
- 51:01Speaker 8: don't like even speaking on that because I hate speaking
- 51:03Speaker 8: on other situations. But when Cole said what he said
- 51:06Speaker 8: on stage, I was there, Yeah, And the thing is
- 51:10Speaker 8: the first thing everybody was saying was, oh, man, he
- 51:13Speaker 8: apologizing and he's scared he doing It's like for me,
- 51:15Speaker 8: it piss me off, which he honestly, and his mind is,
- 51:18Speaker 8: you know, I don't want y'all speaking up like I'm
- 51:21Speaker 8: fine with that and his mind is one we all's
- 51:23Speaker 8: cool and we still are, you know what I'm saying.
- 51:25Speaker 4: But on the flip side, like that, ain't that ain't
- 51:28Speaker 4: his energy?
- 51:28Speaker 8: Like he was focused on his album like it and
- 51:31Speaker 8: these things I may supposed to say, maybe not like
- 51:33Speaker 8: if if you look at this his tape that came out,
- 51:37Speaker 8: the last song was supposed to be Trade the Truth
- 51:39Speaker 8: and the Visa. So that's why at the end when
- 51:42Speaker 8: I say even if we fall off, we don't, we
- 51:44Speaker 8: don't fall off. That was the the outro, but the
- 51:47Speaker 8: pre intro for his new album to fall off. But
- 51:49Speaker 8: if you pay attention to the project, they end up
- 51:51Speaker 8: having the record where he went back at him and
- 51:55Speaker 8: it just threw everything off. And I think, honestly, within
- 51:58Speaker 8: this speed, I said lose him because he is all
- 52:01Speaker 8: man like, I'm not supposed to be keyed up by y'all.
- 52:04Speaker 8: And at the end of the day, he got on
- 52:06Speaker 8: that stage and he said it genuinely like that ain't
- 52:09Speaker 8: my energy, Like, bro, I don't feel good about that
- 52:11Speaker 8: because that's not like he wasn't offended by that was said.
- 52:14Speaker 4: It was more keyed up by everybody making them go.
- 52:17Speaker 3: Then the only thing, the only thing I didn't like
- 52:19Speaker 3: is I think Cole and Cole fans fought for the
- 52:22Speaker 3: last couple of years to prove how nice Coal is
- 52:25Speaker 3: and how busy Coal is, and they had so many
- 52:27Speaker 3: different complaints old Cole does his own beats, he should
- 52:29Speaker 3: do different beats, and Cole should do more guest appearances,
- 52:32Speaker 3: and I just felt like he was doing that, and
- 52:35Speaker 3: he was shooting down everybody that he was doing songs with,
- 52:37Speaker 3: and it was just it was glad to hear Cold
- 52:39Speaker 3: the way I heard him when growing up as a
- 52:40Speaker 3: kids mixtape Cold.
- 52:42Speaker 2: And then I just felt like that whole situation just
- 52:44Speaker 2: kind of paused that that man to.
- 52:46Speaker 4: Me, because you can't take away with a person who
- 52:48Speaker 4: was already.
- 52:48Speaker 2: Doing no, no, we haven't seen in a minute, back
- 52:51Speaker 2: off a little bit.
- 52:52Speaker 10: Yeah, he felt back when I heard that brother say
- 52:55Speaker 10: he hadn't slept good. He was sleeping good for ten years,
- 52:58Speaker 10: and that was the first time in ten years he
- 52:59Speaker 10: did to sleep good.
- 53:00Speaker 4: That's all you need to tell me.
- 53:03Speaker 8: Get busy, and a lot of times people don't know
- 53:05Speaker 8: what we will say is I'm not we ain't gonna
- 53:07Speaker 8: go in depth, but just don't get his album coming.
- 53:10Speaker 8: And when the album coms is probably gonna shock a
- 53:13Speaker 8: lot of people. So I remember what I tell you
- 53:15Speaker 8: all the time. A lot of people form opinions on
- 53:17Speaker 8: things and they don't know situation. You know, did you
- 53:22Speaker 8: audition for Bad Boys for or they just called you Martin?
- 53:25Speaker 8: You know Martin and my brother, So you know my
- 53:28Speaker 8: my cartoons that always do. I have a partnership with Martin,
- 53:32Speaker 8: so you know, of course we were.
- 53:33Speaker 12: We were that's for the one tray On to be
- 53:36Speaker 12: that's a different cartoon which I.
- 53:37Speaker 4: Was before him.
- 53:39Speaker 8: So we were getting ready to put it out man,
- 53:42Speaker 8: and we had it's crazy like I can't go in depth,
- 53:45Speaker 8: but just we had big writers, different stuff with us.
- 53:48Speaker 8: COVID hit so that's it missed up any and everything possible.
- 53:54Speaker 2: So then after COVID we was back on it. Then
- 53:58Speaker 2: the writers and the actors, right Kinge.
- 54:01Speaker 8: So it was just like yeah, so in the midst
- 54:04Speaker 8: of that's still going, Martin called me and it was
- 54:07Speaker 8: actually the last day or two days that they was
- 54:10Speaker 8: feeling Bad Boys for and ended up having me come.
- 54:13Speaker 4: Out and get in it.
- 54:14Speaker 8: Now that's a new process of me understanding well with
- 54:17Speaker 8: the major movies because they have so many different birds
- 54:20Speaker 8: and then they had to cut it down to where
- 54:22Speaker 8: it's crazy I'm in a trailer, but in the movie
- 54:24Speaker 8: they ended up cutting the movie down, so they took
- 54:26Speaker 8: some of the scenes out, which I don't know if
- 54:29Speaker 8: you know when they come out to streaming services, if
- 54:32Speaker 8: it if it goes back in or what it is.
- 54:33Speaker 8: But for me, it was just a dope experience. And
- 54:36Speaker 8: that trailer you see across the world, you see me
- 54:38Speaker 8: all in it.
- 54:38Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.
- 54:39Speaker 8: So and Martin, Martin, my brother, his whole his whole
- 54:42Speaker 8: family is my family man. They real support of everything
- 54:45Speaker 8: I go through, good or bad.
- 54:47Speaker 2: Well, let's get into a joint off that what you
- 54:48Speaker 2: want to.
- 54:52Speaker 4: That's definitely where we're at. You gotta do dance. I
- 54:58Speaker 4: wouldn't know how to dance.
- 54:59Speaker 2: At Let's get it to it right now. It's fire
- 55:02Speaker 2: is featured a little YACHTI It's traded truth, It's the
- 55:05Speaker 2: Breakfast Club, Good Morning.
- 55:08Speaker 4: Some Donkey to Days just sell themselves. I never read them, Donkey.
- 55:17Speaker 2: Said again, lay.
- 55:22Speaker 3: As Charlotte Dane the same.
- 55:27Speaker 4: That's true.
- 55:29Speaker 10: Donkey to Day for goes to a Chicago man named
- 55:31Speaker 10: Mohammad Work who I think I pronounced his name right,
- 55:35Speaker 10: soon's everybody in Chicago. Now, this is a very interesting
- 55:37Speaker 10: story to me because a model that I live by
- 55:39Speaker 10: is something my grandmother and mother always told me, and
- 55:42Speaker 10: that is man as will take you where money won't.
- 55:44Speaker 10: I believe that wholeheartedly. I think that it costs nothing
- 55:47Speaker 10: to be kind and people will always remember how you
- 55:49Speaker 10: made them feel. Okay, people will forget things you did,
- 55:52Speaker 10: they will forget things you said, but they will never
- 55:54Speaker 10: forget how you made them feel. Remember that. Okay, when
- 55:58Speaker 10: I tell you this story, I tell all young around me,
- 56:00Speaker 10: all my nieces and nephews. When you're working with people,
- 56:03Speaker 10: but you want to be said about you when you
- 56:05Speaker 10: leave them, is that you were a pleasure to work with.
- 56:08Speaker 4: Because once again, manners will take you where money won't.
- 56:10Speaker 4: That's right.
- 56:11Speaker 10: Bad manners close open doors. Good manners will make you
- 56:15Speaker 10: matter in life. Your manners open doors that you know
- 56:18Speaker 10: your beauty can't open and buy you things your money can. Okay,
- 56:22Speaker 10: And this brother Muhammad work who clearly believes the same.
- 56:26Speaker 10: See Muhammad is a bank robber, ladies and gentlemen. Yes,
- 56:29Speaker 10: I can confidently call him a bank robber because he
- 56:31Speaker 10: robbed two banks. Okay, Once is a coincidence twice as
- 56:34Speaker 10: a pattern, and he did it twice.
- 56:35Speaker 4: But he didn't just do it.
- 56:37Speaker 10: See, he walked into one bank with a note that
- 56:40Speaker 10: said pay it back soon and then less than seventy
- 56:44Speaker 10: two hours after he was acquitted of And this was
- 56:47Speaker 10: less than seventy two hours after he was acquitted of
- 56:49Speaker 10: committing a.
- 56:50Speaker 4: Similar bank robbery. Okay, gather around, let me tell you
- 56:53Speaker 4: the story.
- 56:53Speaker 10: See, two years ago, Muhammad worked who walked into a
- 56:55Speaker 10: local bank and pressed a note against the glass that
- 56:58Speaker 10: read give me the money, please, p thank you, and
- 57:01Speaker 10: he left with.
- 57:02Speaker 4: Five hundred and ninety five dollars.
- 57:03Speaker 10: He was found about a half hour later with about
- 57:05Speaker 10: one hundred dollars less in the note that said give
- 57:08Speaker 10: me the money, please, thank you, still in this possession. Okay,
- 57:11Speaker 10: but let me tell you why our court system is
- 57:13Speaker 10: flawed because in court work, Who's attorney argued that even
- 57:18Speaker 10: though he committed a crime, it did not amount the
- 57:20Speaker 10: robbery because she said robbery involved stealing something by force
- 57:25Speaker 10: or intimidation. So his attorney married judge, claimed there was
- 57:28Speaker 10: no implicit or explicit threats of any kind. Who knew
- 57:31Speaker 10: you could go into a bank, just be nice, just
- 57:34Speaker 10: be polite and ask for what you want and you
- 57:36Speaker 10: shall receive it.
- 57:37Speaker 4: Well, look at this.
- 57:38Speaker 10: If you have ever been refused credit or alone, all
- 57:40Speaker 10: you had to do was be nice. If you got
- 57:42Speaker 10: a history of mispayments, the possible fraudulent activity.
- 57:45Speaker 4: On your life, don't worry about it. You can still
- 57:48Speaker 4: get alane. Just smile and say give me all the
- 57:50Speaker 4: money please. Okay.
- 57:52Speaker 10: By the way, a jury agreed with his lawyer and
- 57:54Speaker 10: work Who who's thirty one years old, was released from
- 57:57Speaker 10: custody this past Friday. So on Monday afternoon, armed with
- 58:00Speaker 10: his new knowledge of the jugital system, empowered by the
- 58:03Speaker 10: fact that he didn't do anything wrong because he was
- 58:04Speaker 10: nice about it, he then walked into another bank and
- 58:07Speaker 10: handing an employer a note that said, please give me
- 58:10Speaker 10: the money. I'll pay it back soon. Banker's gift, yes, gife.
- 58:16Speaker 4: I don't know if he was.
- 58:17Speaker 10: Trying to spell give a gift, but he said banker's
- 58:19Speaker 10: gift gife. I don't know what he meant, was a
- 58:24Speaker 10: gift to give anyway? Bankers gift me in advance. Well
- 58:28Speaker 10: it worked again, and the bank teller gave work Woop
- 58:31Speaker 10: more than two thousand dollars and allowed him to walk
- 58:33Speaker 10: out before calling the police.
- 58:35Speaker 4: First of all, dropping the clues bond for that bank.
- 58:36Speaker 10: Tellerphone, I'm so glad you didn't try to be a hero,
- 58:40Speaker 10: because that bank ain't dying for you. Okay, Chase is
- 58:43Speaker 10: simply the name of a bank. It is not an
- 58:44Speaker 10: action you should do when someone robs one. Okay, just
- 58:47Speaker 10: let them walk away. Now, let me continue to explain
- 58:49Speaker 10: this story. The teller described work who is wearing a
- 58:51Speaker 10: surgical mask, neon green gloves, and a neon green win
- 58:55Speaker 10: a cap. Investigators later found survellags footage of a man
- 58:59Speaker 10: wearing guess what, the green hat, the gloves, and buying
- 59:03Speaker 10: clothing and a backpack at a nearby Target store, so
- 59:06Speaker 10: they arrested him just about half an hour after the
- 59:08Speaker 10: alleged robbery, with two hundred dollars less than what he
- 59:11Speaker 10: had been given at the bank.
- 59:12Speaker 4: Okay, you know how I know Mohammad doesn't think.
- 59:15Speaker 10: He's committing any crimes because in both cases he didn't
- 59:17Speaker 10: try to get rid of any evidence, still wearing the
- 59:19Speaker 10: clothes he committed the crime, and still holding on to
- 59:22Speaker 10: the note that he used to commit the crime. And
- 59:23Speaker 10: now he is set to be charged with both bank
- 59:26Speaker 10: robbery and bank theft, which do not require force or intimidation.
- 59:29Speaker 10: His lawyer, who got him off initially married judge, says
- 59:33Speaker 10: that this is a more appropriate charging decision. In fact,
- 59:36Speaker 10: she said because of the jury is not guilty verdict.
- 59:38Speaker 10: I believe the government is now charging both bank robbery
- 59:41Speaker 10: and bank theft and a case where there is not
- 59:44Speaker 10: evidence of force or threat of force. I think they
- 59:48Speaker 10: have to throw the book at the man simply because
- 59:50Speaker 10: you have to make an example. Are you going to
- 59:52Speaker 10: have a generation of polite, well mannered crooks right thinking
- 59:56Speaker 10: they can get away with crimes simply by saying please?
- 1:00:00Speaker 10: And that's not how any of this works. Because here's
- 1:00:02Speaker 10: the thing. People judge others on how they act, not
- 1:00:05Speaker 10: what they say. Folks can say anything, remember what I
- 1:00:08Speaker 10: said earlier. People will forget, you know, what you said, okay,
- 1:00:12Speaker 10: but they won't forget how you made them feel.
- 1:00:14Speaker 4: You have to follow that up with actions.
- 1:00:16Speaker 10: If you have manners and you say please and thank you,
- 1:00:19Speaker 10: but then do something foul, that's not good manners.
- 1:00:22Speaker 4: Okay.
- 1:00:22Speaker 10: Having good man is being polite, helpful and respectful the
- 1:00:26Speaker 10: others shows you have self respect. But robbing someone after
- 1:00:29Speaker 10: you say please and thank you, shows you do not
- 1:00:32Speaker 10: please give Mohammed work who the sweet sounds of the Hamiltones.
- 1:00:35Speaker 12: Oh no, the.
- 1:00:44Speaker 2: Dogee all the day.
- 1:00:49Speaker 10: Ye. It's kind of like when folks say no disrespect.
- 1:00:54Speaker 10: But but I think instead of saying no disrespect, you
- 1:00:57Speaker 10: should just be like, please, man, I disrespect you.
- 1:01:02Speaker 4: Please? May I please disrespect you. I'll apologize for it later.
- 1:01:07Speaker 4: That's what it feels like.
- 1:01:09Speaker 2: All right, Well, thank you for that, Donkey to day.
- 1:01:13Speaker 4: Yes, all right.
- 1:01:14Speaker 2: The Breakfast Club, Good morning.
- 1:01:16Speaker 4: The Breakfast Club.
- 1:01:19Speaker 2: Mayus DJ n V, Jesse, Larry Cholm and the guy.
- 1:01:23Speaker 2: We are the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest
- 1:01:26Speaker 2: in the.
- 1:01:26Speaker 4: Building, the legend Bruce Bruce. Let's cracking, daby, Welcome.
- 1:01:29Speaker 2: How you feeling?
- 1:01:30Speaker 4: Everything's good?
- 1:01:30Speaker 2: Everything is good?
- 1:01:31Speaker 3: Now you listen the first time Bruce Bruce has been
- 1:01:33Speaker 3: on the showf And I want to you know when
- 1:01:35Speaker 3: I when sometimes when when somebody comes to the first all,
- 1:01:38Speaker 3: I want to start from the beginning, right, Okay, Now
- 1:01:39Speaker 3: I know your story because I've been studying you, I've
- 1:01:41Speaker 3: been following you. But for people that don't know, how
- 1:01:43Speaker 3: did Bruce Bruce get into comedy? And I want you
- 1:01:45Speaker 3: to explain your job before comedy, Wwayne.
- 1:01:49Speaker 10: You and I used to be a chef. I can
- 1:01:50Speaker 10: cook like a mug and you know, everywhere I go,
- 1:01:52Speaker 10: I used to always be funny. So I hired this
- 1:01:55Speaker 10: guy one time. I was running a barbecue restaurant, old guy,
- 1:01:58Speaker 10: and he said he used to watch me in the
- 1:01:59Speaker 10: kitchen when I first start, when he first started, he's watching.
- 1:02:02Speaker 4: He said, you need to go.
- 1:02:03Speaker 10: You need to go on stage, and I ain't paying
- 1:02:05Speaker 10: to He said, I gonna bring you something tomorrow. He
- 1:02:07Speaker 10: brought me this album, you know, back in the day
- 1:02:08Speaker 10: Yet album. He was a comedian, but he was ex Navy.
- 1:02:11Speaker 10: He was an alcoholic. He said, I waste your time
- 1:02:13Speaker 10: on this job and you need to go on stage.
- 1:02:15Speaker 4: No what I did. I quit because I had a family.
- 1:02:18Speaker 10: I was young, man had three kids, and man I
- 1:02:20Speaker 10: went and start working for Freedo a potato chips selling
- 1:02:22Speaker 10: potato chips. And the whole time I'm selling potato chips
- 1:02:25Speaker 10: and on the doc, I'm just funny, acting crazy.
- 1:02:27Speaker 4: So good, old white dude. So you know you need
- 1:02:29Speaker 4: to go study. That'sh a year every morning, you know,
- 1:02:33Speaker 4: study you fronny. I look comedians every fraud there or
- 1:02:36Speaker 4: nothing you know, and you're gonna stay. And when I
- 1:02:38Speaker 4: took that step, man, I knew that's why I should
- 1:02:41Speaker 4: have been my whole entire light. And what made me
- 1:02:43Speaker 4: take that step. I was going through a divorce and
- 1:02:46Speaker 4: my ex wife said, you had never make it. Why
- 1:02:48Speaker 4: did you tell you that?
- 1:02:50Speaker 10: So I just looked at it and say, I see
- 1:02:51Speaker 10: you on TV. You know what I'm saying, And it's
- 1:02:54Speaker 10: been gone there. I've been doing it now thirty five
- 1:02:56Speaker 10: years now.
- 1:02:57Speaker 2: You also mentioned that you are an only child.
- 1:02:59Speaker 4: Only child.
- 1:02:59Speaker 2: Ye fall left at the age of five, and he
- 1:03:01Speaker 2: was four or five.
- 1:03:02Speaker 10: He was an air force and he was a Madican
- 1:03:04Speaker 10: Air Force and he was he flew choppers and airplanes
- 1:03:07Speaker 10: and when he when he got out, he was an
- 1:03:09Speaker 10: antisy geologist.
- 1:03:11Speaker 2: Was it important to mend that relationship before he passed?
- 1:03:14Speaker 12: Or yeah?
- 1:03:14Speaker 4: I did? I did. My mother said, I just wanted
- 1:03:17Speaker 4: to know I remember him. My mama said, what you
- 1:03:19Speaker 4: looking for him for?
- 1:03:20Speaker 8: You know?
- 1:03:20Speaker 10: So they be mad. But my mother really ran him off,
- 1:03:22Speaker 10: you know what I mean. She was just she ran
- 1:03:24Speaker 10: him off and she was off monster.
- 1:03:27Speaker 4: Man. You know what I'm saying that.
- 1:03:29Speaker 14: No, I just.
- 1:03:32Speaker 10: I'm like man, this dude is cool. He was really cool,
- 1:03:34Speaker 10: you know, but she's like, I don't want to know
- 1:03:36Speaker 10: everything he tried to do. She just knocked it down,
- 1:03:38Speaker 10: like but she was listening to a girlfriends. That's why
- 1:03:41Speaker 10: I tried to tell all these young girls, don't listen
- 1:03:43Speaker 10: to no woman that ain't got no man. You don't
- 1:03:45Speaker 10: say what I'm saying. If you got a woman, if
- 1:03:47Speaker 10: you got a girlfriend, you got a husband. She not
- 1:03:48Speaker 10: how trut a husband, but a woman that don't have
- 1:03:50Speaker 10: a man, she can't tell you nothing. But he he
- 1:03:53Speaker 10: just he left and he never ever called us ever.
- 1:03:56Speaker 10: And my mother didn't even know she was divorced. He
- 1:03:58Speaker 10: did a nun contested boys because my mother just worked,
- 1:04:02Speaker 10: come home, never went anywhere. So when she said, I
- 1:04:04Speaker 10: think I'm going to get a divorce, and when she
- 1:04:06Speaker 10: went to do it, they said, you already divorced. And
- 1:04:08Speaker 10: Uncle Tessa, you put it in the newspaper for thirty days.
- 1:04:10Speaker 10: You don't answer the ad, bam you divorce. He was
- 1:04:13Speaker 10: already gone.
- 1:04:14Speaker 4: He was gone. He was gone, and I got married
- 1:04:16Speaker 4: three more times. I found it when I was like
- 1:04:18Speaker 4: forty years old.
- 1:04:18Speaker 2: So he knew who he was.
- 1:04:19Speaker 10: He knew exactly what I was. He knew exactly what
- 1:04:22Speaker 10: I looked like. No, my son looked like him, though,
- 1:04:24Speaker 10: my baby boy looks just like him. But it's funny
- 1:04:26Speaker 10: how I dip over, you know what I'm saying. But
- 1:04:29Speaker 10: I met with him, and we talked and we stayed
- 1:04:31Speaker 10: in touch, and he ended up passing away about seventeen
- 1:04:34Speaker 10: years ago.
- 1:04:35Speaker 4: My mother passed away fourteen years Wow, you and your
- 1:04:37Speaker 4: mom ever have to talk? Did you ever have to
- 1:04:39Speaker 4: stay there?
- 1:04:39Speaker 12: My mom?
- 1:04:39Speaker 23: It was you?
- 1:04:40Speaker 10: Yeah, she said, you know I was wrong. She said
- 1:04:43Speaker 10: I didn't care, but I had the other boyfriend. You
- 1:04:44Speaker 10: know my mom food around. See, parents don't tell you.
- 1:04:47Speaker 10: They tried to tell you the right thing, but they
- 1:04:49Speaker 10: do the wrong thing in front of you.
- 1:04:50Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.
- 1:04:51Speaker 10: Those old dudes she used to go with, named Dave,
- 1:04:52Speaker 10: but you know, had platform shoes with taps on. Remember platform,
- 1:04:56Speaker 10: he had taps on platform shoes. He come up the steps,
- 1:04:59Speaker 10: clock your mama doing, and then he'll tell me, hey,
- 1:05:04Speaker 10: come in, let me give you a few doug on
- 1:05:05Speaker 10: down and get your cocola, you know something like that.
- 1:05:07Speaker 10: I know what you're finna do, Finna get his some tail?
- 1:05:10Speaker 10: You know what I'm saying.
- 1:05:10Speaker 4: So he gets you, gets some tat tails, I run
- 1:05:13Speaker 4: right out of the house. You know, I know what
- 1:05:14Speaker 4: he's finna do? I want no food? You know what
- 1:05:16Speaker 4: I'm saying. But he was cool. He was cool to me.
- 1:05:18Speaker 10: He treated me very nice. But she had this one
- 1:05:21Speaker 10: boyfriend she's just crazy about. I don't know what's up
- 1:05:23Speaker 10: with women with this one dude that they like. And
- 1:05:26Speaker 10: he ain't nothing. I mean, man, he wasn't nothing.
- 1:05:29Speaker 4: Man. He dogged my mama. Man he was he was married.
- 1:05:32Speaker 4: She didn't even know he's married. She's over there. He's
- 1:05:34Speaker 4: over there every day, every day eating.
- 1:05:38Speaker 10: Yeah.
- 1:05:38Speaker 4: Yeah, God is a good gud. You know how to joke. Yeah,
- 1:05:41Speaker 4: God is a good guy. And woman.
- 1:05:42Speaker 10: Tell you what happened. When I was in high school,
- 1:05:44Speaker 10: four of us used to hang together and we saw
- 1:05:46Speaker 10: him in his truck and my buddy said, man, they
- 1:05:49Speaker 10: call you your ma my boyfriend with your mom. I
- 1:05:51Speaker 10: said no, I said, that's my mom boyfriend. That's not
- 1:05:53Speaker 10: my mom. It was another lady. So I got out
- 1:05:56Speaker 10: the car, looked at him and say, hey, you know
- 1:05:58Speaker 10: I see you right? He said, oh, hey, how you
- 1:05:59Speaker 10: doing played come on to my mom house. I told
- 1:06:01Speaker 10: my mother, I seen him with another woman. He looked
- 1:06:04Speaker 10: me dead in a mind, he said that was not
- 1:06:05Speaker 10: he did not see me. My mother believed it with
- 1:06:09Speaker 10: the reason she believed it because I didn't like him,
- 1:06:12Speaker 10: so she just kind of figured I made up a
- 1:06:14Speaker 10: story about him, and she let it go. But it
- 1:06:16Speaker 10: took her girlfriend or hers to see him. Say I
- 1:06:19Speaker 10: saw that dude with another woman. You know what I'm saying.
- 1:06:22Speaker 10: And it took her to tell me she dated him
- 1:06:24Speaker 10: like sixteen years man, And I know how to tell you,
- 1:06:27Speaker 10: my mother.
- 1:06:27Speaker 4: I don't want to get married.
- 1:06:28Speaker 10: I don't want to get okay, don't want to get married,
- 1:06:30Speaker 10: but this dude's already married, so you can't marry this dude.
- 1:06:33Speaker 4: When she found out, she was like, she was toe up.
- 1:06:35Speaker 10: Yeah, I heard her, and you said, your uncle Paul
- 1:06:37Speaker 10: has fired you as far as comedy because he was
- 1:06:39Speaker 10: the funny Oh man, he was funny. Okay, he tell
- 1:06:41Speaker 10: a lot. Everybody got helping with this lot. Everybody he did.
- 1:06:44Speaker 4: Did I tell him?
- 1:06:45Speaker 12: Yeah, he told me.
- 1:06:48Speaker 4: Everybody help me with this lot. But he was one
- 1:06:50Speaker 4: of the best bakers in the world.
- 1:06:52Speaker 10: He he practically raised Gladys Night back in the day
- 1:06:56Speaker 10: and they used to call him the sweetbread Man, and
- 1:07:00Speaker 10: Gladys Knight knew him. His name was Paul Henson Junior,
- 1:07:03Speaker 10: and he went by the sweetbread Man cause he was
- 1:07:05Speaker 10: the baker in Atlanta, Georgia. He was the man, and
- 1:07:08Speaker 10: he talk about Gladys all the time. But Gladys and
- 1:07:10Speaker 10: I was really raised on the same street. The street
- 1:07:13Speaker 10: was Chestnut Street. They changed to James Preet Broadley. I
- 1:07:16Speaker 10: was on four fifteen. She was on like seven eighty
- 1:07:19Speaker 10: five or something like that, just right up the street,
- 1:07:20Speaker 10: like two blocks. So you know, no, no, I I
- 1:07:23Speaker 10: was a little kid, but she lived at on her
- 1:07:24Speaker 10: first husband, you know what I'm saying. But Gladys is
- 1:07:26Speaker 10: a girl. Man, Wow, when were you able to translate
- 1:07:29Speaker 10: your funny to actually make a career of it?
- 1:07:31Speaker 4: But somebody like Uncle Paul, who was funny, couldn't. I
- 1:07:34Speaker 4: don't know. My uncle Paul was just scared of going
- 1:07:36Speaker 4: and say he was scared.
- 1:07:37Speaker 10: See see black people back in it, they had the
- 1:07:39Speaker 10: skill to do everything, but they were scared to do it.
- 1:07:43Speaker 10: They had so much fear. So like young kids, not
- 1:07:45Speaker 10: they'll do it. They I don't care, I'll do it.
- 1:07:47Speaker 10: So I just took it and ran with him uncle,
- 1:07:48Speaker 10: one of the best bakers in the world. He went
- 1:07:50Speaker 10: against bakers from France and Italy, you know, from England,
- 1:07:54Speaker 10: and he beat him all out, you know what I mean.
- 1:07:56Speaker 10: Then he went to He had a cheesecake that he made.
- 1:07:58Speaker 10: It was one of the best cheesecakes in the world. Bro,
- 1:08:00Speaker 10: And they tricked him out of it and didn't have
- 1:08:03Speaker 10: sense enough to get a lawyer and everything, and gave
- 1:08:05Speaker 10: him like ten thousand dollars day clapping. He was all
- 1:08:07Speaker 10: happy when he address, Yeah, when he could have got
- 1:08:10Speaker 10: one hundred million, you know what I'm saying. But just
- 1:08:12Speaker 10: didn't have a sense and the knowledge to do that
- 1:08:15Speaker 10: at the time. Oh you know, I wanted to know
- 1:08:17Speaker 10: as a child, was Bruce Bruce big As a child, no,
- 1:08:19Speaker 10: man was a little bit. He called me little Bruce Man.
- 1:08:21Speaker 10: I didn't I didn't get fat till I got may.
- 1:08:23Speaker 10: I don't know why I got married that. Oh my god,
- 1:08:26Speaker 10: I wouldn't eat it.
- 1:08:26Speaker 4: Man.
- 1:08:27Speaker 10: I was just a little bit of dude, just run around,
- 1:08:29Speaker 10: just messing with everybody. I was a little bit of
- 1:08:31Speaker 10: kid man. But when I got married, I got fat.
- 1:08:33Speaker 14: You know.
- 1:08:34Speaker 10: That's what happened to us as black man. We get
- 1:08:36Speaker 10: complacent that we get complacent with jobs. We get a
- 1:08:39Speaker 10: job and let's just say, jeral motives, we make a
- 1:08:42Speaker 10: little money. Oh man, that's a good job. I don't
- 1:08:44Speaker 10: care nothing about a good job. It's about getting out
- 1:08:47Speaker 10: there getting it, because it's more than that than getting
- 1:08:49Speaker 10: a good job.
- 1:08:50Speaker 4: I ain't like that question, by the way, what you mean,
- 1:08:53Speaker 4: I ain't like the question. He asked you. What was
- 1:08:54Speaker 4: Bruce Bruce little? As a child?
- 1:08:57Speaker 2: He was a big child.
- 1:08:58Speaker 10: I went on a fat kid, I said, what you
- 1:09:00Speaker 10: wanted to he thought I was just couldn't clap my hands.
- 1:09:05Speaker 10: Kid could clap his hand and y'all clap my hand.
- 1:09:09Speaker 10: But no, man, I was a little kid. Look cute,
- 1:09:11Speaker 10: joker man, And I'm messing with everybody. And you know
- 1:09:15Speaker 10: we we seem to lose focus. And that's what happened.
- 1:09:18Speaker 10: You lose focus, you start eating crazy. But now I'm
- 1:09:20Speaker 10: back at it. Man, I'm sixty two years old.
- 1:09:22Speaker 4: Man, Wow, we.
- 1:09:23Speaker 2: Got more with Bruce Bruce. When we come back, don't move.
- 1:09:25Speaker 2: It's to breakfast club.
- 1:09:26Speaker 4: Good morning.
- 1:09:26Speaker 2: Everybody is the dj VS. I lost my voice. Chess
- 1:09:30Speaker 2: Hilary Charlamaine the god. We are the Breakfast Club we're
- 1:09:32Speaker 2: still kicking it with Bruce. Bruce. Now, I got a question,
- 1:09:35Speaker 2: what's the most difficult city? Because you're on the road.
- 1:09:37Speaker 3: What five days a week, four days a week, every
- 1:09:41Speaker 3: you know, every week, what's the toughest city for you.
- 1:09:43Speaker 10: I'm gonna be honest. I never had a tough city, man.
- 1:09:46Speaker 10: I have had some tough crowds. When the comedy clubs
- 1:09:50Speaker 10: hold these people hostage, you know, like, let's just say,
- 1:09:53Speaker 10: first show is at seven, second show is supposed started ten,
- 1:09:57Speaker 10: all right, they let the first show run over. These
- 1:09:59Speaker 10: people come to short ten o'clock outside waiting, So that's
- 1:10:02Speaker 10: the piss they pissed, you know. So you got to
- 1:10:05Speaker 10: really go to work to make them laugh, you know,
- 1:10:07Speaker 10: or go and or say something like this, say y'all
- 1:10:09Speaker 10: have been at work and they want to be there.
- 1:10:11Speaker 10: But yeah, that's why I feel now, you know what
- 1:10:13Speaker 10: I'm saying. So when you break the ice with them,
- 1:10:15Speaker 10: you got them. Once you get them, you got them.
- 1:10:18Speaker 10: But you got to run the clubs on time. And
- 1:10:20Speaker 10: it's hard dealing with us. It's black people. It's hard
- 1:10:22Speaker 10: to deal with a lot of black people, man. But
- 1:10:24Speaker 10: the white clubs they be on it, damn because they
- 1:10:26Speaker 10: realize the money they can make in the short length
- 1:10:29Speaker 10: of time. You know, you just maybe think about when
- 1:10:30Speaker 10: it come to doing business with black people and white people,
- 1:10:32Speaker 10: because I love doing business with with with my people, right,
- 1:10:35Speaker 10: but I don't think we often look at it as
- 1:10:38Speaker 10: a business.
- 1:10:39Speaker 4: We don't like it should be a personal TRANSI action, right.
- 1:10:41Speaker 4: It's always.
- 1:10:44Speaker 10: It's because people people call my manager and be like, man,
- 1:10:47Speaker 10: Bruce go back fifteen and I don't even know this brother.
- 1:10:50Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. Yeah, I met him at
- 1:10:51Speaker 4: the gas station. End up, you don't know me.
- 1:10:53Speaker 8: Bro.
- 1:10:54Speaker 10: Maybe I come across like you do know me, but
- 1:10:56Speaker 10: you don't know me. They'll call and be like, we
- 1:10:58Speaker 10: discussed the deal and heat he said he would do.
- 1:11:01Speaker 4: It for this.
- 1:11:01Speaker 10: That's not true because I don't discuss money at all
- 1:11:03Speaker 10: with anybody. But they always think it's like a partner
- 1:11:06Speaker 10: thing when it should just be busy.
- 1:11:09Speaker 2: Do you remember your best show and you remember your
- 1:11:10Speaker 2: worst show?
- 1:11:11Speaker 4: Yeah, man, I can remember a lot of them, but David,
- 1:11:13Speaker 4: people don't know it. I knew it.
- 1:11:15Speaker 10: I can remember my first I mean, I come off
- 1:11:17Speaker 10: Saint Tap guy. I didn't like that show, but people
- 1:11:19Speaker 10: thought it was great. But I'd be like, I didn't
- 1:11:21Speaker 10: like that show?
- 1:11:21Speaker 3: What was your What was your wors show? Because they said,
- 1:11:23Speaker 3: you don't write things down, it's just all I come.
- 1:11:26Speaker 4: Out a couple.
- 1:11:26Speaker 10: One time, I was in Houston, Texas, and uh, I
- 1:11:29Speaker 10: was doing this show and I was joning everybody out
- 1:11:31Speaker 10: and this dude came up and jowed me, and he
- 1:11:33Speaker 10: was funny. But you know, go up there and jone.
- 1:11:37Speaker 10: He said, I did like a pickle jaw, you know,
- 1:11:40Speaker 10: And I saw, like, damn, that's funny. But I said,
- 1:11:42Speaker 10: I'm gonna keep that, you know, stent me like a
- 1:11:44Speaker 10: pickle jaw. I was like, oh my god, that's funny.
- 1:11:47Speaker 10: But the crowd loved it because I took it so well.
- 1:11:49Speaker 10: I didn't go off, you know exactly. It was really
- 1:11:53Speaker 10: funny when he said it. And the best show I
- 1:11:55Speaker 10: ever did, it was years and years and years ago,
- 1:11:57Speaker 10: is when Bernie Mack was red hot, Bernie mac super hot,
- 1:12:01Speaker 10: and it's a part of Georgia called Maclam Georgia, and
- 1:12:04Speaker 10: it's about an hour.
- 1:12:04Speaker 4: From Atlanta, and Bernie was performing.
- 1:12:06Speaker 10: He had a five thousand seater and the feature didn't
- 1:12:08Speaker 10: show up and the guy said, hey, man, my feature
- 1:12:10Speaker 10: in show can you come down opening up for Bernie Mac.
- 1:12:12Speaker 4: I said, yes, you know, I had been in the
- 1:12:14Speaker 4: game now about five years.
- 1:12:16Speaker 10: Yes, And I drove down there quick as I could,
- 1:12:19Speaker 10: and I was on stage, and I can remember Bernie
- 1:12:21Speaker 10: Mack had his armfolded looking at me.
- 1:12:23Speaker 4: He said, who's that dude right there? He said his
- 1:12:25Speaker 4: Bruce was. He said he is funny. But Bernie went
- 1:12:28Speaker 4: up and ripped it.
- 1:12:29Speaker 10: And I worked with Bernie twice in my whole entire
- 1:12:31Speaker 10: life maker, and then I worked with him in Columbia,
- 1:12:34Speaker 10: South Carolina on time.
- 1:12:36Speaker 4: That's it.
- 1:12:36Speaker 10: But Bernie was a bad dude, man, And people don't
- 1:12:39Speaker 10: realize when he did I'm not scared of you on
- 1:12:42Speaker 10: death jail. He made that up right then because everybody
- 1:12:45Speaker 10: was coming up. They was having a car a hard
- 1:12:47Speaker 10: time here in New York death jail. They was getting
- 1:12:49Speaker 10: it to him, you know New York. You know they
- 1:12:51Speaker 10: don't hold no punches, you know. And Bernie said, man,
- 1:12:53Speaker 10: I ain't scattering them. And he went up and did
- 1:12:55Speaker 10: him and Capri went together on it and he ripped it.
- 1:12:58Speaker 7: Man.
- 1:12:59Speaker 4: Bernie was a bad dude.
- 1:13:00Speaker 2: Got the funniest comedian you have worked with.
- 1:13:01Speaker 10: No man, I know some funny comedians, not like Tony
- 1:13:04Speaker 10: Robinson is stupid funny. Tony makes me laugh. You know
- 1:13:07Speaker 10: who Tony Robinson was? Oh my god, Tonor Robbins told
- 1:13:10Speaker 10: me he's the dated girl. Her breath was so bad
- 1:13:12Speaker 10: it smelled like a horse's hiccups. So who think of that?
- 1:13:17Speaker 10: Who think of a horse's hiccup? You know what I'm saying.
- 1:13:20Speaker 10: He makes me laugh. Mike Capps, Mike Capps is one
- 1:13:23Speaker 10: of the dude I trained back in the day. Mike
- 1:13:25Speaker 10: used to be on the road me. Mike moved from
- 1:13:26Speaker 10: Indiana to Atlanta. I used take him on the road
- 1:13:28Speaker 10: with me. And then he moved to New York and
- 1:13:30Speaker 10: he called me when they said, man, they want me
- 1:13:32Speaker 10: to audition for Fridays, And I said, what you waiting on?
- 1:13:34Speaker 10: I said, look for somebody like you. And he called
- 1:13:36Speaker 10: me a week later.
- 1:13:37Speaker 4: I got the part. I said, you're on your wait
- 1:13:38Speaker 4: day day. That's my man.
- 1:13:40Speaker 3: Now we've seen Kat Williams pulled out his chop a
- 1:13:43Speaker 3: couple of months ago.
- 1:13:44Speaker 2: He was fired at everybody.
- 1:13:46Speaker 3: What was your thoughts? Because you know a lot of
- 1:13:47Speaker 3: that stuff was inside that became outside.
- 1:13:51Speaker 10: Cat just told how he felt, man, And what's been
- 1:13:53Speaker 10: going on in his life for real, and he just
- 1:13:56Speaker 10: got fed up with it. You know when people, when
- 1:13:58Speaker 10: people dog you out, I say this. I used to
- 1:14:01Speaker 10: tell people. I had a club at Atlanta. It's called
- 1:14:03Speaker 10: Club five five nine, and I used to tell my securities.
- 1:14:05Speaker 10: I said, listen, when you have an altercation with a guy,
- 1:14:08Speaker 10: be calf because they don't forget you. You don't be
- 1:14:12Speaker 10: forgot about them. So if you throw them at the club,
- 1:14:15Speaker 10: throw them on their head and they'd be like, I'm
- 1:14:17Speaker 10: not gonna forget that. They won't forget you. But you
- 1:14:20Speaker 10: forgot who that was. And you had to go store
- 1:14:22Speaker 10: with your woman shopping, you run up all you you
- 1:14:24Speaker 10: remember me. You're like, no, you have to be careful.
- 1:14:26Speaker 10: So Kat just went through some things, stuff that he
- 1:14:29Speaker 10: never forgot that was done to him, and he's coming
- 1:14:31Speaker 10: back retaliating, and he just told it.
- 1:14:34Speaker 4: Like it was.
- 1:14:34Speaker 10: I mean, there's a lot of different things you could
- 1:14:36Speaker 10: take from that conversation. But the thing I took from
- 1:14:38Speaker 10: it that I appreciate it. It felt like it put
- 1:14:40Speaker 10: black comedy in a new light. Yeah, Like people started
- 1:14:44Speaker 10: paying attention to the old geez, like your Tony Robbers,
- 1:14:47Speaker 10: like they I don't know. I just felt like it
- 1:14:49Speaker 10: just shined earthquake and shine the light on the people
- 1:14:52Speaker 10: who've been doing it, and people got to understand something
- 1:14:54Speaker 10: about Kat Williams.
- 1:14:55Speaker 4: Cat Williams is not a dummy. He is very smart.
- 1:14:59Speaker 4: He's very smart.
- 1:15:00Speaker 10: I don't know if y'all remember when he had altercation
- 1:15:01Speaker 10: in Atlanta with one of the smith if you if
- 1:15:04Speaker 10: you ever noticed, he never lost his composer. He stood
- 1:15:07Speaker 10: there and drunk his coffee and he was killing her
- 1:15:10Speaker 10: the whole time. And he's just cool like that.
- 1:15:12Speaker 4: He's very smart. He's a smart guy.
- 1:15:13Speaker 2: How did you feel about all these artists mentioned you
- 1:15:16Speaker 2: and their songs? I love it. Well, you have a
- 1:15:18Speaker 2: surprise that you hear before when you heard let Bruce
- 1:15:20Speaker 2: Bruce hit it?
- 1:15:20Speaker 4: That?
- 1:15:21Speaker 10: God, I just hate when dude said it. You know
- 1:15:23Speaker 10: what I'm saying, like we let Bruce brother, brother, you
- 1:15:26Speaker 10: should be saying that. Then your girls should say it.
- 1:15:28Speaker 10: But not not me, not you brother say that on
- 1:15:31Speaker 10: the text this morning did because our producer was like, man,
- 1:15:33Speaker 10: Bruce Bruce is already had we were on the way, yeah,
- 1:15:36Speaker 10: and so he goes, well, entertain them, then let Bruce.
- 1:15:38Speaker 4: Bruce hit it. I was joking I forgive you. That's
- 1:15:41Speaker 4: what he said. I forgive you.
- 1:15:42Speaker 2: That's inside stuff. Man.
- 1:15:43Speaker 4: I just I just thought it was stupid, you know,
- 1:15:45Speaker 4: he did. I felt he felt we cool. So he
- 1:15:47Speaker 4: just told me and our producer told him that was
- 1:15:49Speaker 4: he was going to h it's got that breathing hot.
- 1:15:54Speaker 4: Why did you do that? Why did you?
- 1:15:55Speaker 2: Yeah, Biggie, Biggie mentioned you and hypnotime. Yeah, it was
- 1:16:00Speaker 2: the first time he did.
- 1:16:01Speaker 10: Ye.
- 1:16:01Speaker 2: What happened.
- 1:16:02Speaker 10: I was in Jacksonville, Floyd. I never forget this, and
- 1:16:05Speaker 10: I wanted to meet him so bad because I was
- 1:16:07Speaker 10: a fan of Biggie, you know.
- 1:16:09Speaker 4: Man.
- 1:16:09Speaker 10: He came in and I was on stage clowning. I
- 1:16:12Speaker 10: was joning people. I mean, I has to do it.
- 1:16:15Speaker 10: I said that shirt sil because it's I say, is
- 1:16:17Speaker 10: it's silky behind.
- 1:16:18Speaker 4: It too much? You know, something like that. He walked in.
- 1:16:20Speaker 10: He said, just due this because if you ever really
- 1:16:23Speaker 10: pay attention to Biggie, he didn't really smile that much,
- 1:16:27Speaker 10: you know what I'm saying. He just always had that look,
- 1:16:29Speaker 10: this nouns look. He smiled on the video when he
- 1:16:31Speaker 10: was on the boat. When he was on the boat
- 1:16:33Speaker 10: and he started smiling, he said, we'll put you down
- 1:16:35Speaker 10: for it. And when I heard h, I'm like, what
- 1:16:37Speaker 10: what was like?
- 1:16:38Speaker 23: That was?
- 1:16:39Speaker 4: People were debating whether he yeah, did he say that? Yeah?
- 1:16:42Speaker 10: It was like Bruce Bruce, who do something to us?
- 1:16:44Speaker 10: Talk goes through us, girls do us? One of screws,
- 1:16:47Speaker 10: who meet Poppy and Puff? It was just love he showed.
- 1:16:50Speaker 10: But he was a cool guy man. And I actually
- 1:16:53Speaker 10: saw him smile and laugh because I never saw him smile.
- 1:16:56Speaker 10: He just always had this like heart look, like you know,
- 1:16:59Speaker 10: he read the but he was really funny. It was
- 1:17:01Speaker 10: fun to be around. So he told you he was
- 1:17:03Speaker 10: going to put you. Yeah, Okay, okay, that's how you
- 1:17:05Speaker 10: know it was.
- 1:17:05Speaker 4: Yeah. I listened to it over and over. I just
- 1:17:07Speaker 4: kept coming back. I just I just kept repeating it,
- 1:17:09Speaker 4: listen to it over and on. That was love. That
- 1:17:12Speaker 4: was real love. All Right.
- 1:17:13Speaker 3: We got more with Bruce Bruce when we come back.
- 1:17:14Speaker 3: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club, Good morning.
- 1:17:20Speaker 3: We are the Breakfast Club. Comedian Bruce Bruce is still here.
- 1:17:24Speaker 10: Charlamagne Now Out of Depth, Comedy Jam, Show Time at
- 1:17:27Speaker 10: the Apollo, and Comic View. Which one had the most
- 1:17:29Speaker 10: impact on you? Comic View Depth Jam First, Depth Jam
- 1:17:33Speaker 10: was the starting come on that we got to give
- 1:17:34Speaker 10: it to Russell Simmons. I mean, big up for him.
- 1:17:36Speaker 10: Depth Jam was good. But when I did Comic View,
- 1:17:39Speaker 10: see Comic View started out as Coast to Coast. I
- 1:17:41Speaker 10: don't know if y'all remember that. They used to come
- 1:17:43Speaker 10: out to your city and come to a club and
- 1:17:46Speaker 10: film you and then take it back. And DL was
- 1:17:49Speaker 10: the hosting and he's like, look, went all the way
- 1:17:52Speaker 10: down to Atlanta at a club called the Comedy at
- 1:17:54Speaker 10: Theater and we've seen this guy, Bruce Bruce and then
- 1:17:56Speaker 10: showed me and I did the coast co when they
- 1:17:58Speaker 10: first started. But I never forget the year that I
- 1:18:01Speaker 10: host It was probably the best year for me that
- 1:18:04Speaker 10: I have ever experienced in my life. They went from
- 1:18:07Speaker 10: ten ten million viewers to twenty million viewers in the
- 1:18:10Speaker 10: house and it was great for me.
- 1:18:12Speaker 4: It was good.
- 1:18:13Speaker 10: I made some money. They gave me money for wardrobe.
- 1:18:15Speaker 10: That's why I dressed in all them suits because I
- 1:18:16Speaker 10: thought I was a pimp, you know what I'm saying.
- 1:18:18Speaker 10: I thought I was a straight up pimp.
- 1:18:19Speaker 3: Why do you help so many comedians? Comedians talk about
- 1:18:21Speaker 3: that you helped so many comedians in their.
- 1:18:24Speaker 4: Career in their life.
- 1:18:25Speaker 2: Well, what gives you the energy?
- 1:18:26Speaker 3: Because a lot of people be like, I ain't helping
- 1:18:27Speaker 3: him because he might get bigger than me. But you
- 1:18:29Speaker 3: you talked about so many communities.
- 1:18:31Speaker 10: Oh my god, yeah, but so many helped me. I
- 1:18:33Speaker 10: never forget when I first when I was in the
- 1:18:35Speaker 10: comedy actre in Atlanta and John Willerspoon came to Atlanta
- 1:18:39Speaker 10: and he looked at me and he say, you got it.
- 1:18:43Speaker 10: He said, you really got it. He say, I like you.
- 1:18:45Speaker 10: So he started telling me what to do and what
- 1:18:47Speaker 10: not to do, and he helped me. He took me
- 1:18:49Speaker 10: in from this wak. Ronald Alray did the same thing.
- 1:18:52Speaker 10: He helped me in on BT when he was my
- 1:18:54Speaker 10: co host. People don't realize that Ronald Ray was a
- 1:18:56Speaker 10: college professor before he started doing comedy. He was extreme
- 1:19:00Speaker 10: me smart and he would tell me sometime he said,
- 1:19:02Speaker 10: turn your body to the right a little bit. When
- 1:19:05Speaker 10: you tell that joke, it'll work better. And I'm like,
- 1:19:07Speaker 10: how's that gonna work better? And it worked better. And
- 1:19:10Speaker 10: then the last of the Mohicans who really told me
- 1:19:13Speaker 10: say you won't have to find her, and they will
- 1:19:15Speaker 10: find you.
- 1:19:16Speaker 4: His name was Paul Mooney, Wow, the legend Paul Mooney.
- 1:19:19Speaker 10: He told me that Ridney Winterfield, y'all remember, Rightney Windfield,
- 1:19:23Speaker 10: that my man took me out and he said.
- 1:19:25Speaker 4: God of these jokers don't like you just because you're funny.
- 1:19:28Speaker 4: He says, keep being funny, you're gonna be alright.
- 1:19:30Speaker 10: Used to call me do shows with him, you know,
- 1:19:32Speaker 10: you know back in the day, man, somebody say, man,
- 1:19:34Speaker 10: we got to show paying three hundred dollars.
- 1:19:36Speaker 4: I'm like, let's go. You know these new kids now,
- 1:19:39Speaker 4: he say, man, I got a show for you. How
- 1:19:41Speaker 4: much you're paying? Hold it.
- 1:19:42Speaker 10: You ain't been seen walking by TV much less on TV.
- 1:19:46Speaker 10: So what is you talking about how much they're paying.
- 1:19:48Speaker 10: If I tell you about a show, I'm gonna make
- 1:19:50Speaker 10: sure you get paid. Just that's something you did. Social
- 1:19:53Speaker 10: media help to hurt comedy.
- 1:19:54Speaker 4: Oh it helped it.
- 1:19:55Speaker 10: Charla Mane, I wish I had social media thirty five
- 1:19:57Speaker 10: years ago. The only thing we had was going this
- 1:20:00Speaker 10: city early through radio, try to do TV to get
- 1:20:03Speaker 10: people in there. That social media is a platform that
- 1:20:08Speaker 10: really helped a lot of young comedians now now veterri
- 1:20:12Speaker 10: comedians like myself, they get pissed because all the new
- 1:20:17Speaker 10: young comedians are coming up faster. Have been doing comedy
- 1:20:20Speaker 10: for twenty five years, thirty years, and he ain't been
- 1:20:23Speaker 10: doing coming with three months. I tell them like this,
- 1:20:25Speaker 10: you can't beat them showing them and they're winning, so
- 1:20:28Speaker 10: you might as well fall in the footstep.
- 1:20:30Speaker 4: They are winning.
- 1:20:30Speaker 10: But that's why them young comedians feel like that's why
- 1:20:32Speaker 10: they're asking how much? Right, because they following them? Yeah,
- 1:20:35Speaker 10: but then the only thing about Charlamaine is when they
- 1:20:37Speaker 10: do get booked, only thing they got to say is
- 1:20:39Speaker 10: what they did on social media. You got to bring
- 1:20:41Speaker 10: out more than that, right, you know, you got that's
- 1:20:44Speaker 10: seven minutes, you got, oh it's five, But what about
- 1:20:47Speaker 10: this other twenty minutes they need you to do. You
- 1:20:49Speaker 10: can tell when a person is bombing because they start
- 1:20:52Speaker 10: talking real positive. You know, we need to take care
- 1:20:53Speaker 10: of these kids, man. You know, hey man, support these women. Man,
- 1:20:58Speaker 10: hey man, these women need to support what they need
- 1:21:00Speaker 10: your respect. They're bumming like hell, they're trying to get positive.
- 1:21:04Speaker 10: That's a favorite part of the commed show.
- 1:21:05Speaker 4: You know what it is.
- 1:21:05Speaker 10: I like to see somebody trying to dig themselves out
- 1:21:08Speaker 10: of a hole. Oh my god, if you see me
- 1:21:10Speaker 10: laughing really hard, it's probably because you up there thinking,
- 1:21:13Speaker 10: because I remember seeing you, because I watch you guys
- 1:21:14Speaker 10: all the time. I remember seeing you on ridiculousness. Right Chanelle,
- 1:21:18Speaker 10: West Coast. She made her so mad. You see you
- 1:21:22Speaker 10: was coming and saying, I never seen you on anything.
- 1:21:24Speaker 10: I never seen you rap with I rapped stoop, she
- 1:21:26Speaker 10: got they went to commercial. I think it happened twice
- 1:21:31Speaker 10: right now. It was the one that she do she rap. Yeah,
- 1:21:36Speaker 10: I think she did. Okay, okay, but I didn't know it.
- 1:21:38Speaker 10: But I looked at you and I'm like, oh my god.
- 1:21:40Speaker 10: She's pissed. She got pitched. She moved that hair back
- 1:21:43Speaker 10: the commercial commercial and she came back. She was gonna come, yeah,
- 1:21:47Speaker 10: we're back here. Pissed her. I never seen your nothing.
- 1:21:52Speaker 10: I never seen you snoop, I never seeing too short,
- 1:21:53Speaker 10: I never seen you.
- 1:21:54Speaker 4: She was pissed. I laughed so hard at that. That
- 1:21:57Speaker 4: was so good. How big of a deal is it
- 1:21:59Speaker 4: now for a comedian have a special?
- 1:22:00Speaker 10: Does it even matter? Well, let me you know, it's
- 1:22:02Speaker 10: funny you said that, man, specials are good. I just
- 1:22:05Speaker 10: got signed for Netflix specially okay. And the reason the
- 1:22:08Speaker 10: reason I just took it, I wasn't gonna do. I
- 1:22:10Speaker 10: was gonna do it myself, like it make them buy
- 1:22:14Speaker 10: you know what I'm saying. But they offered it to me.
- 1:22:16Speaker 10: We're gonna do it. We're gonna do it. I think
- 1:22:18Speaker 10: around August, so Atlanta, No, no, no, no, no, We're
- 1:22:22Speaker 10: gonna go somewhere else. I want to go somewhere somebody
- 1:22:23Speaker 10: think I'm a superstar. You know what I'm saying. Atlanta,
- 1:22:27Speaker 10: I'm just average. That's up man, you know you see.
- 1:22:31Speaker 10: But I'll go somewhere like Chicago or Texas. Oh my god,
- 1:22:35Speaker 10: that's why I want to go in Atlanta.
- 1:22:37Speaker 4: It's my city. I love it.
- 1:22:38Speaker 10: I still live there. And uh I had a place
- 1:22:40Speaker 10: in La for like thirty years. La just La. You pay,
- 1:22:43Speaker 10: They make you pay for the weather, you know what
- 1:22:44Speaker 10: I mean. Everything is just so high. It's just ridiculous,
- 1:22:47Speaker 10: it is. I've got a couple more questions. You know,
- 1:22:49Speaker 10: there's a stigma about black comedians wearing dresses to be funny,
- 1:22:54Speaker 10: having to wear addressed to get to that next level.
- 1:22:56Speaker 4: What's your thoughts on that? Well, you know, I'm gonna
- 1:22:58Speaker 4: be honest with you, man. I did it. I did it.
- 1:23:00Speaker 10: It's funny you said that I did a TV show
- 1:23:02Speaker 10: that I take one time never came out. It's called
- 1:23:03Speaker 10: Bruce Bruce Bounty Hunters. I was a bounty hunter. I
- 1:23:06Speaker 10: played a bounty hunter. I played a preacher called Reverend
- 1:23:08Speaker 10: get Money. It was Reverend get Money. And I played
- 1:23:11Speaker 10: a mother named Mother Marshall, which was crazy, but Mother
- 1:23:14Speaker 10: Marshall was a real lady in my church that I mimic,
- 1:23:18Speaker 10: I copied off for and I also played. I did
- 1:23:21Speaker 10: it in Indianapolis, and I did not feel comfortable in
- 1:23:24Speaker 10: that dress, you know what I'm saying at all. And
- 1:23:27Speaker 10: some people could do it. Some people, if it worked
- 1:23:30Speaker 10: for you, do it. Flip Wilson did it when he
- 1:23:32Speaker 10: did Jeraldine. You know, because Flip Willson' show was a
- 1:23:34Speaker 10: variety show, which I love because it wasn't a black show.
- 1:23:37Speaker 10: It was a show for everybody, and that's what people
- 1:23:39Speaker 10: got to understand. But if they want to dress up
- 1:23:41Speaker 10: in a dress, do you think you know? But that's
- 1:23:43Speaker 10: not my thing. Tyler Perry made it big. He's one
- 1:23:46Speaker 10: of the best. But to me, I loved Tyler Perry.
- 1:23:49Speaker 10: But Joe is funny than Tyler Peerr. Then my dear
- 1:23:53Speaker 10: who when he plays Joe, Joe it's funny. Joe had
- 1:23:58Speaker 10: an oxygen take and smoking weed, coughing, and they say,
- 1:24:03Speaker 10: thank you Jesus.
- 1:24:04Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. So when he plays Joe,
- 1:24:07Speaker 4: Joe is the funniest dude. That's just me. Yeah, I
- 1:24:11Speaker 4: love my dear, but Joe, oh my god, Joe's fight.
- 1:24:14Speaker 10: And see back then when we used to see people
- 1:24:16Speaker 10: in the dresses or even see like when they used
- 1:24:18Speaker 10: to do men on film on a living color.
- 1:24:20Speaker 4: It was just funny. Thought nothing of it.
- 1:24:22Speaker 10: Men on film was the thing when they talked about
- 1:24:25Speaker 10: Moby Dick, Moby Dick that gets two snaps and a
- 1:24:30Speaker 10: kiss and around about you remember twist, yeah, the twist?
- 1:24:33Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 1:24:33Speaker 10: Why do you have to say your name twice? I
- 1:24:35Speaker 10: got my Mommy just called me twice. My mama said,
- 1:24:37Speaker 10: if I call you the third time, I'm gonna kid you.
- 1:24:38Speaker 10: So my mother said, if I call you three times,
- 1:24:47Speaker 10: you're gonna die today. And my mother was a little
- 1:24:50Speaker 10: one about one forty. I mean she was just but
- 1:24:52Speaker 10: loving and knew how to make a way out of
- 1:24:54Speaker 10: no way. Most mothers do. That's why it's always good
- 1:24:58Speaker 10: when you do get successful and you start making money,
- 1:25:00Speaker 10: make sure you take care of mom. And one thing
- 1:25:02Speaker 10: you got to realize it don't take much like you
- 1:25:05Speaker 10: think it though. People think like your mama don't want
- 1:25:08Speaker 10: that much. She just want to make sure she's okay,
- 1:25:10Speaker 10: she's comfortable, and she got little money. My mother last
- 1:25:13Speaker 10: twenty years her life. I made sure she was straight,
- 1:25:15Speaker 10: didn't pay no bills, nothing. But it didn't take much.
- 1:25:18Speaker 10: But then when your family members found out about it,
- 1:25:20Speaker 10: they start trying to use you too. You know, my mom,
- 1:25:22Speaker 10: I'm going through something. Well, that's your mother.
- 1:25:25Speaker 4: This when it's mine, let you have it.
- 1:25:31Speaker 2: It's Bruce Bruce.
- 1:25:32Speaker 4: We've been trying to get Bruce Bruce up here for
- 1:25:33Speaker 4: a minute.
- 1:25:33Speaker 1: Man.
- 1:25:34Speaker 10: You know I've always just respected you as a comedy legend. Man,
- 1:25:38Speaker 10: you an icon. So salution, Bruce, thank you man, coming,
- 1:25:41Speaker 10: let me respect.
- 1:25:41Speaker 2: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Your
- 1:25:45Speaker 2: morning's will never be the same morning. Everybody is dj
- 1:25:49Speaker 2: n V jes Hilarias, Charlamage the guy.
- 1:25:51Speaker 3: We are the Breakfast Club. It's time to get up
- 1:25:53Speaker 3: out of here. Yes, charlam Man, you got a positive note.
- 1:25:55Speaker 4: Now.
- 1:25:56Speaker 10: The positive note is simply this, and I want you
- 1:25:58Speaker 10: to remember this. On this fine Monday, somebody out there
- 1:26:00Speaker 10: needs to hear this. It's already meant for you. You
- 1:26:02Speaker 10: heard what I said. It's already meant for you. Start
- 1:26:04Speaker 10: accepting and start believing. Have a blessed day.
- 1:26:07Speaker 4: Breakfast club bitches you don't finish for y'all done,