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WHAT ARE WE? · Relatables

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Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatable's Petreon this week Hot Take of
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Speaker 1: the Week.
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Speaker 2: You chose to put it all online, tell us what happens,
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Speaker 2: and you.
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Speaker 1: Made money of us viewing it, so you owe us
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Speaker 1: that you Oh, the absolute least you can do, the
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Speaker 1: audacity give us a fitty greedy.
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: Really, if someone said that to me, I would be like,
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Speaker 1: this chick wants to know what we are, but like
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Speaker 1: he's lying to me.
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Speaker 2: Why for cod or white lies are good now? And
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Speaker 2: then that's a bad liar.
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Speaker 1: But I would be thinking in the back of my
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Speaker 1: mind and be like, did someone actually ask that? Or
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Speaker 1: she like trying to press me for an answer.
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Speaker 2: You're looking into it too deeply. It's like super simple
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Speaker 2: if you realize she's like, Oh, she's just trying to
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Speaker 2: ask me what are we? But she's too scared to
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Speaker 2: say it. I'll be a nice guy and I'll let
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Speaker 2: her know what I think.
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Speaker 1: I think if you're in the scenario where you're too
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Speaker 1: if you're too scared to ask for are we, then
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Speaker 1: you're not in the right scenario.
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Speaker 2: I feel the same around the beating, about the beating
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Speaker 2: around the bush, right, Yeah, but I think what we
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Speaker 2: need to take into account is again, this is for
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Speaker 2: people that are like anxious people, right yeah, that have
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Speaker 2: like probably done exactly what you said you should do
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Speaker 2: in the past because they thought they felt safe. I'm
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Speaker 2: not saying you shouldn't let your past dictate your future,
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Speaker 2: but it's like they were in the past. They thought
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Speaker 2: something's going really good and they said, oh, what are we?
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Speaker 2: And then some guy just fucking ghosted.
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Speaker 1: If you're the girl and you say one of those
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Speaker 1: things and he tells you an answer, but if you
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Speaker 1: just asked the what are we questioned, yeah, and he
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Speaker 1: ghosted you because you said those answers, he didn't ghost you,
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Speaker 1: would you want to be with that guy. No. So
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Speaker 1: if you're saying the only way for him to say
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Speaker 1: the right answer you're looking for is the better around
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Speaker 1: the bush, And I think he's not a good guy
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Speaker 1: and you should just cut your losses anyway, and you
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Speaker 1: should have the conversation and if he doesn't say, if
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Speaker 1: he doesn't have an appropriate response to what are we,
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Speaker 1: then he's not the right person.
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Speaker 2: Someone can have like bad experiences, right yeah, but at
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Speaker 2: the time they didn't realize it was going to be
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Speaker 2: a bad experience. So they now have like walls up
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Speaker 2: is if the person actually likes you and isn't an asshole,
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Speaker 2: is going to realize what's happening.
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Speaker 1: You're going to get that anyway. I reckon you should
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Speaker 1: hold back from having the conversation until you're ready and
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Speaker 1: you feel comfortable in this scenario where you can deal
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Speaker 1: with either sides of the conversation fair enough, so you
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Speaker 1: wait an extra couple of weeks and then you're prepared
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Speaker 1: for yes or no, or I want to date you
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Speaker 1: or I don't want to date you, rather than having
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Speaker 1: a walls up scenario where you're protecting your feelings, because
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Speaker 1: I feel like that's just like not getting You're not
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Speaker 1: getting anywhere with that.
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Speaker 2: We could like clip a small just the segment of this, yeah,
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Speaker 2: to see what other people think, because I'm assuming this
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Speaker 2: is just both a hill we're willing to die.
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Speaker 1: On yea that we disagree on. I would love to
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Speaker 1: see what other people think. I see what you're saying,
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Speaker 1: and I see a reason to do it. But I
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Speaker 1: just think if you do that, you don't win anything
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Speaker 1: out of it. You're still in the same position.
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Speaker 2: This is also a good way to find out if
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Speaker 2: he's a nice guy.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you're also going to find out if he's
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Speaker 1: a nice guy by just being like straight up from
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Speaker 1: the start. When I'm coming into a relationship, I'm okay
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Speaker 1: with the answer of no, maybe they're not in the
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Speaker 1: right position to be in a relationship because they're not
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Speaker 1: okay on their own and they're not ready to be rejected.
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Speaker 2: We were in the car and she goes, I just
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Speaker 2: wanted enough you sleep with anyone else because I'm not.
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Speaker 2: She was like yeah, and I was like, oh no.
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Speaker 2: I was like, okay, cool, Yeah, no, I just and
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Speaker 2: that was the Then I was like, so she was like,
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Speaker 2: we just like had the exclusive chat. Then. Yeah, it
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Speaker 2: was pretty straight and I liked that she was very.
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Speaker 1: Forward with it. I like it. I think the forwardness
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Speaker 1: is good. And then like, also, I don't think there's
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Speaker 1: any right or wrong way to do it. So I've heard,
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Speaker 1: like I've been get dates with girls and they've told
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Speaker 1: me experiences with trash guys and stuff.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, the dilemmas we get, yeah, what the just who exists?
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Speaker 1: But also you can see them as trash guys. My
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Speaker 1: dilemma is should I just stick up with it or
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Speaker 1: let him go? Or what should I do?
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Speaker 2: Enough all of that, I think all of that. Imagine
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Speaker 2: if your girlfriend had this group of friends, right, and
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Speaker 2: then you went to it, and then you went to
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Speaker 2: a dinner. So it's like her four best mates, and
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Speaker 2: then there's four dudes that are part of the group.
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Speaker 2: They're all friends, right, and then after the dinner you're like, oh, yeah,
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Speaker 2: James is cool, and she's like, actually kissed him once,
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Speaker 2: could have fallen in love with him. Then you're like, shit, okay,
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Speaker 2: You're like, oh, Tyler was actually he was all right
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Speaker 2: as well, and you're like, yeah, I've actually slept with
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Speaker 2: him and dad in for two months even. And then
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Speaker 2: she's like, I'm going on a ski trip.
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Speaker 1: With all the very insane. Like we don't like to
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Speaker 1: give the advice of break up with him, but I
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Speaker 1: think you know what to do.
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Speaker 2: I think, yeah, I think you know what to do
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Speaker 2: from everything you said. Yeah, what he knows is wrong.
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Speaker 1: Yeah it's fun.
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Speaker 2: Yeah he doesn't care.
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Speaker 1: He's still having fun with these girls. You don't get
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Speaker 1: drunk with them. Who knows what's gonna think the next
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Speaker 1: step ahead, Like when he goes on this ski trip
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Speaker 1: with these girls that he's had sex with, Like, how
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Speaker 1: is my girlfriend going to feel like her head's just
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Speaker 1: going to be spiraling of all these what ifs. What
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Speaker 1: if this happens, What if this happens When he gets
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Speaker 1: home and doesn't text me one night, like what if?
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Speaker 1: Like there's all these little spirals. He doesn't think about
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Speaker 1: his partners partner at all.
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Speaker 2: I think that you know what you have to do.
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Speaker 2: Learn his house down I don't even know. Burn his
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Speaker 2: house down all right, Think of a quick one