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Marriage Rapid Fire Fun and Games with Scottie and Vicky Albious - 307 · Marriage Life and More and Bible Study

• 0:06
  Daniel Moore: This week we're gonna do something a little different, and by different, we mean slightly risky because we're gonna hand the microphone to another married couple, and we told them not to overthink their answers.
• 0:19
  Daniel Moore: So, what could possibly go wrong?
• 0:22
  Daniel Moore: Well, this week, our friends Scottie and Vicky Albious are back with us, and this episode is all about fun, laughter, and those honest split-second reactions that reveal way more about marriage than a three-hour deep conversation ever could.
• 0:36
  Daniel Moore: From coffee versus dinner dates to who actually loses the keys, I mean, we already all know who does that.
• 0:42
  Daniel Moore: We're diving into the realities of everyday married life.
• 0:46
  Daniel Moore: The silly, the sweet, and the surprising spiritual.
• 0:49
  Daniel Moore: This week's episode is simple, fun conversations, faith woven in naturally, and encouragement that a Christ-centered marriage can be joyful, meaningful, and deeply grounding, even when one of you definitely didn't hear the other one the first time.
• 1:03
  Daniel Moore: Welcome to Marriage Life and More.
• 1:14
  Daniel Moore: This is a podcast about marriage, Bible and book studies, and we interview people with inspiring stories.
• 1:18
  Daniel Moore: I'm Daniel Moore, your host, and once again, sitting over here next to me is my beautiful co-host, my wife Michelle.
• 1:24
  Michelle Moore: Hey hey.
• 1:25
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• 1:52
  Daniel Moore: Well, this week we're gonna take a little twisty turn away from what we normally do.
• 1:57
  Daniel Moore: We're gonna have a fun episode this week.
• 1:59
  Daniel Moore: Scottie and Vicki Albious are with us again.
• 2:02
  Daniel Moore: Hello, and we're gonna have some fun.
• 2:04
  Daniel Moore: So this week we're gonna do a little bit of marriage rapid fire and finish the sentence.
• 2:10
  Daniel Moore: We're gonna have some fun this week with our episode.
• 2:32
  Daniel Moore: Again, we have Scottie and Vicky Albious with us here once again.
• 2:36
  Daniel Moore: Hello.
• 2:36
  Daniel Moore: Thank you guys for hanging out for another week.
• 2:39
  Daniel Moore: We've had a couple awesome episodes with you guys, and this one's gonna be no exception.
• 2:44
  Daniel Moore: Uh, but this week we're gonna take a little bit of a different approach with our episode.
• 2:48
  Daniel Moore: A lot of times we're kind of serious about the stuff we talk about.
• 2:51
  Daniel Moore: We're gonna do a fun one this week because marriage can be fun, and we're gonna do that.
• 2:56
  Daniel Moore: So, what we're gonna do this week is we're gonna do some rapid fire and some finish the sentence, and we're gonna see how equally we are on what we think about some of these answers and see how different we are in different things.
• 3:10
  Daniel Moore: So, as we get started here, we've got a couple of icebreaker questions that we're gonna answer.
• 3:15
  Daniel Moore: Uh, the first one is how long have you guys been married?
• 3:18
  Daniel Moore: We're going on 12 years.
• 3:20
  Vicky Albious: We've been married six and a half in three days.
• 3:24
  Scottie Albious: Okay.
• 3:25
  Vicky Albious: No, no, eleven and a half.
• 3:26
  Vicky Albious: I was like, okay, she's totally lying.
• 3:28
  Vicky Albious: I was like, I'm out.
• 3:30
  Vicky Albious: No, I'm thinking six months.
• 3:32
  Vicky Albious: 11 and a half, yeah.
• 3:34
  Vicky Albious: In three days.
• 3:36
  Scottie Albious: She totally got me confused because I was believing.
• 3:38
  Scottie Albious: I was like, okay, I guess it has been six years.
• 3:39
  Scottie Albious: I don't know what to think right now.
• 3:41
  Vicky Albious: We have a 10-year-old.
• 3:43
  Scottie Albious: I was trying to do the math there, but it wasn't quite admitted.
• 3:45
  Scottie Albious: Yeah, mine wasn't working either.
• 3:47
  Scottie Albious: I was like, I just believe I just went with it.
• 3:48
  Scottie Albious: I was like, yeah, that's right.
• 3:50
  Michelle Moore: The confused look on your face.
• 3:52
  Scottie Albious: I know.
• 3:52
  Scottie Albious: I was like, am I wrong?
• 3:54
  Scottie Albious: Michelle?
• 3:55
  Michelle Moore: Almost 24 years.
• 3:57
  Daniel Moore: I think I agree with you.
• 4:00
  Daniel Moore: I love that.
• 4:00
  Daniel Moore: That's awesome.
• 4:01
  Daniel Moore: One word you'd use to describe your marriage right now.
• 4:06
  Vicky Albious: Busy.
• 4:07
  Vicky Albious: I feel like life is so busy.
• 4:10
  Vicky Albious: No.
• 4:10
  Vicky Albious: Yes, it is anchored, but anchored.
• 4:13
  Daniel Moore: That's good.
• 4:14
  Daniel Moore: How would you describe ours?
• 4:16
  Daniel Moore: Steamy.
• 4:17
  Daniel Moore: Oh.
• 4:19
  Scottie Albious: She's like Tabasco.
• 4:20
  Scottie Albious: So we're gonna go there, are we?
• 4:22
  Michelle Moore: We are.
• 4:24
  Scottie Albious: I say I say anchored because I think about how much we've gone through in life, and I'm not just saying us, everybody.
• 4:30
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 4:30
  Scottie Albious: And I want to remember our marriage is anchored through rough there's no calm waters, expect the, you know, expect the rough waters.
• 4:38
  Scottie Albious: But even though through all that we're still stable.
• 4:41
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 4:41
  Scottie Albious: We you know, we've we've tried our best to uh influence stability, uh consistency, you know, in in those rough waters.
• 4:49
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 4:50
  Daniel Moore: That's really good.
• 4:51
  Daniel Moore: And I think, you know, Michelle and I, we can we're busy too and anchored.
• 4:56
  Daniel Moore: You're laughing because you're like steamy.
• 4:58
  Daniel Moore: We're steamy, I guess.
• 5:01
  Michelle Moore: I really have no word for that.
• 5:02
  Michelle Moore: I don't even know why.
• 5:04
  Daniel Moore: I mean, our shower shoots hot water, and it when I take a shower, it gets pretty steamy.
• 5:07
  Daniel Moore: Is that what you're talking about?
• 5:09
  Daniel Moore: Just make sure I clarify here where we're at.
• 5:11
  Daniel Moore: Uh it's definitely not steamy.
• 5:17
  Michelle Moore: I was just trying to get something out of you and you just sat there.
• 5:21
  Michelle Moore: You did the hot water heater.
• 5:22
  Michelle Moore: Well, whatever.
• 5:26
  Scottie Albious: Uh and those are differences in your guys' marriage.
• 5:28
  Scottie Albious: That's right.
• 5:29
  Michelle Moore: What one word would you describe our marriage?
• 5:32
  Daniel Moore: Oh.
• 5:32
  Daniel Moore: It's very busy.
• 5:33
  Daniel Moore: I will say I kind of agree with Vicky on that one.
• 5:36
  Daniel Moore: Uh but I like, I mean, Scottie's answer too.
• 5:38
  Daniel Moore: They're I think both of those definitely because I think we're in the best place we've ever been.
• 5:43
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 5:43
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 5:44
  Daniel Moore: In our marriage for sure.
• 5:45
  Daniel Moore: Right.
• 5:46
  Daniel Moore: And it just gets better every day.
• 5:47
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 5:48
  Scottie Albious: So yeah.
• 5:48
  Scottie Albious: I think for you guys it'd be like light.
• 5:50
  Scottie Albious: That's how I see you guys, because you're you're such an influence on marriages because of what not one, what you're doing, but consistency, you know, in in bringing in uh resources, bringing in, you know, just people talking and things like that.
• 6:04
  Scottie Albious: So I definitely influenced I I look up to that.
• 6:06
  Scottie Albious: I admire that.
• 6:07
  Scottie Albious: Thank you.
• 6:08
  Scottie Albious: Thanks.
• 6:08
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 6:08
  Scottie Albious: I think it's cool.
• 6:10
  Scottie Albious: Uh I don't know how you guys do it all, but I think it's really cool.
• 6:12
  Scottie Albious: It's all God.
• 6:14
  Vicky Albious: Or I thought you meant like light, like No, they're a light, they're an influence.
• 6:18
  Vicky Albious: You know what I mean?
• 6:19
  Vicky Albious: And I was like, oh wait, no, he means like the light, like two other marriages.
• 6:23
  Scottie Albious: I think uh yeah, influence over other marriages, I think it's really cool, and I admire that.
• 6:27
  Scottie Albious: Well, thank you.
• 6:27
  Scottie Albious: Because you guys care.
• 6:28
  Daniel Moore: Yeah, it's uh definitely a God calling because it's not out of our own flesh that we could ever pull this off.
• 6:35
  Daniel Moore: I will say that, but God's blessed us.
• 6:37
  Daniel Moore: I will say that.
• 6:39
  Daniel Moore: Uh so we'll go into some rapid fire here.
• 6:42
  Daniel Moore: So Scottie and Vicky, coffee date or dinner date?
• 6:45
  Michelle Moore: Dinner date.
• 6:46
  Daniel Moore: Dinner date, Michelle.
• 6:48
  Michelle Moore: Coffee.
• 6:49
  Daniel Moore: You know, I'm torn because I do I like coffee dates, and but I like eating too.
• 6:55
  Vicky Albious: So our coffee date's always on the way to our dinner date.
• 6:58
  Vicky Albious: So I guess that's we gotta we can do both.
• 7:01
  Scottie Albious: Yeah, that's yeah, that's and when we were dating, that was our dates was coffee.
• 7:04
  Scottie Albious: We would just have coffee on the front porch and just sit and talk.
• 7:07
  Vicky Albious: Yeah.
• 7:08
  Daniel Moore: Yeah, that's it's a lot of fun.
• 7:10
  Daniel Moore: And you know, nowadays you've got the coffee shops you can just go sit.
• 7:13
  Daniel Moore: Uh-huh.
• 7:14
  Michelle Moore: I like our own coffee shop.
• 7:15
  Daniel Moore: Yeah, we've got one downstairs too.
• 7:17
  Michelle Moore: Literally on Saturdays.
• 7:18
  Michelle Moore: That's the first time.
• 7:19
  Michelle Moore: That's probably the best, I think.
• 7:20
  Michelle Moore: Yeah.
• 7:20
  Michelle Moore: We eat our breakfast and then we get a cup of coffee and we sit down and talk.
• 7:24
  Daniel Moore: I love that.
• 7:24
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 7:24
  Daniel Moore: That's so cool.
• 7:25
  Daniel Moore: Texting or talking on the phone.
• 7:27
  Daniel Moore: Talking about.
• 7:29
  Michelle Moore: Yep.
• 7:30
  Michelle Moore: Texting.
• 7:31
  Scottie Albious: Texting.
• 7:32
  Michelle Moore: We ain't got time to talk.
• 7:34
  Scottie Albious: I know what she likes is when like throughout the day at work, I'll call just randomly, just hey, how you doing?
• 7:39
  Scottie Albious: How you feeling?
• 7:40
  Scottie Albious: Are you feeling better?
• 7:41
  Scottie Albious: And she likes the calls and text.
• 7:42
  Scottie Albious: Text, I can just be like, hey, what's up?
• 7:44
  Scottie Albious: You know.
• 7:45
  Scottie Albious: But I get to, you know, talk to her just for a brief moment throughout the day.
• 7:50
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 7:50
  Scottie Albious: Okay.
• 7:51
  Scottie Albious: Planner or go with the flow?
• 7:54
  Vicky Albious: I think we're a little above.
• 7:56
  Scottie Albious: Depends.
• 7:56
  Scottie Albious: I think if it's like like important stuff, like, you know, this, we want to plan it because we don't want to miss it.
• 8:03
  Scottie Albious: Other things that just, you know, just go with the flow.
• 8:07
  Michelle Moore: Yeah.
• 8:08
  Scottie Albious: How about you, Michelle?
• 8:10
  Michelle Moore: I used to be a planner, but now I think it's a little it's more go with the flow, but I'm a go with the flow.
• 8:16
  Michelle Moore: Uh it I've gotten planning takes a lot of work.
• 8:18
  Daniel Moore: It does.
• 8:19
  Scottie Albious: It's exhausting.
• 8:19
  Scottie Albious: And a lot of help.
• 8:21
  Michelle Moore: At least know what's going on.
• 8:23
  Scottie Albious: Right.
• 8:23
  Scottie Albious: But life happens, you're like, uh, we'll just schedule.
• 8:27
  Daniel Moore: Every time I think of an idea, I think that's stupid.
• 8:29
  Daniel Moore: I don't know.
• 8:29
  Daniel Moore: Why do you suggest that?
• 8:31
  Daniel Moore: So just like leave it to her.
• 8:34
  Daniel Moore: Clean house or quality time?
• 8:37
  Daniel Moore: Quality time.
• 8:38
  Vicky Albious: I'm gonna need some clean house too, though.
• 8:41
  Vicky Albious: I love quality time.
• 8:43
  Vicky Albious: But I want my house clean.
• 8:44
  Vicky Albious: Quality time.
• 8:46
  Daniel Moore: Yeah, probably a little both on that one.
• 8:48
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 8:48
  Scottie Albious: Early bird or night owl.
• 8:50
  Vicky Albious: Night owl.
• 8:51
  Scottie Albious: Depends.
• 8:52
  Scottie Albious: Like I go to work early, so I've got to, but I do love my if I didn't have to work, I do love my late nights just watching TV.
• 8:58
  Scottie Albious: The kids are in bed.
• 8:59
  Scottie Albious: Me and her.
• 8:59
  Scottie Albious: I can give them a computer at the same time too, so it's like, you know, multitasking, just downtime.
• 9:04
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 9:05
  Scottie Albious: Night owl.
• 9:06
  Michelle Moore: I am neither.
• 9:07
  Michelle Moore: I do not, I am not an early riser, and I do not like staying up.
• 9:12
  Scottie Albious: Oh.
• 9:12
  Michelle Moore: My bedtime is usually 9 30, 10 o'clock, and I sleep in till about 7 38.
• 9:17
  Michelle Moore: I would like to sleep in till 7.38.
• 9:20
  Michelle Moore: Um, but I'm forced to get up to go to work after he tries waking me up about what, three or ten times.
• 9:26
  Michelle Moore: I am not a morning person at all.
• 9:30
  Daniel Moore: Yeah, I usually I get up at 5 30 Monday through Friday.
• 9:33
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 9:33
  Daniel Moore: And then I can stay up late sometimes.
• 9:37
  Daniel Moore: Sometimes I get pretty tired, so and I'll fall asleep doing it.
• 9:39
  Daniel Moore: I don't mind being a night owl if I can stay up, but I'm not that so much as I used to be.
• 9:44
  Daniel Moore: But I definitely I do get up early every morning.
• 9:47
  Daniel Moore: That's when I do a lot of my studying and all that stuff.
• 9:50
  Daniel Moore: That's cool.
• 9:51
  Daniel Moore: Romantic gestures or practical help?
• 9:54
  Daniel Moore: Practical help.
• 9:56
  Daniel Moore: You like it when I help you.
• 9:59
  Vicky Albious: I do.
• 9:59
  Vicky Albious: But I would enjoy more romantic gestures as well.
• 10:04
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 10:04
  Daniel Moore: This is a revealing moment.
• 10:06
  Daniel Moore: I know.
• 10:07
  Michelle Moore: Yes.
• 10:10
  Michelle Moore: Dr.
• 10:11
  Michelle Moore: Daniel.
• 10:11
  Daniel Moore: Dr.
• 10:12
  Daniel Moore: Daniel.
• 10:12
  Daniel Moore: Dr.
• 10:13
  Michelle Moore: Daniel.
• 10:14
  Daniel Moore: What about you guys?
• 10:15
  Daniel Moore: Uh it's steamy, so I guess it's romantic gestures is what I'm getting here.
• 10:22
  Daniel Moore: 24-7.
• 10:25
  Michelle Moore: That's right.
• 10:25
  Michelle Moore: I would have to go practical help.
• 10:28
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 10:29
  Michelle Moore: I like when he helps me if he's in the kitchen or just whatever.
• 10:33
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 10:34
  Michelle Moore: Although I have unmet expectations when I have that practical help.
• 10:38
  Michelle Moore: So I have to be careful because I'm like, oh, I need you to do this.
• 10:40
  Michelle Moore: And he, oh, wait, wait, I'm not doing that right.
• 10:43
  Daniel Moore: So it's my version.
• 10:44
  Daniel Moore: That's right.
• 10:45
  Daniel Moore: Music in the car or quiet drive?
• 10:50
  Vicky Albious: I need quiet.
• 10:51
  Scottie Albious: Quiet drives.
• 10:51
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 10:52
  Scottie Albious: She likes to sit and think, and I like to do it.
• 10:54
  Vicky Albious: I know it's weird because I'm a worship leader, but like I I that's where I do a lot of thinking and praying.
• 10:58
  Vicky Albious: And if I am listening to something, it's like distracting.
• 11:01
  Vicky Albious: Jensen Franklin, um, like I'll listen to their worship set and then him preaching, but it's not very like I need quiet.
• 11:10
  Vicky Albious: I don't know.
• 11:10
  Scottie Albious: And for me, I like to drive and think of like slogans or business ideas or logos or you know, business ventures and things like that.
• 11:18
  Scottie Albious: Where she's like, What are you thinking of?
• 11:19
  Scottie Albious: I could be thinking random thing.
• 11:20
  Scottie Albious: I'm like, I think we should open something up like this here, you know, because no one else has just random.
• 11:24
  Scottie Albious: Yes, all the time.
• 11:25
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 11:26
  Scottie Albious: The big dreamer.
• 11:27
  Daniel Moore: Yeah, definitely.
• 11:28
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 11:29
  Michelle Moore: I'm definitely a quiet drive.
• 11:31
  Daniel Moore: The sound music in the car.
• 11:33
  Michelle Moore: It drives him nuts.
• 11:34
  Daniel Moore: I've got to have a driving and it'll be quiet, and he's over there turn your radio on.
• 11:39
  Michelle Moore: And I'm like, I don't really need the the radio.
• 11:42
  Michelle Moore: Yeah.
• 11:42
  Michelle Moore: Like, I need quiet, but he does, and I just let him do him.
• 11:46
  Vicky Albious: Our boys do.
• 11:47
  Vicky Albious: Our boys are, Mom, can we turn on our songs?
• 11:49
  Vicky Albious: I'm like, so I'll like turn it to the back of the car where I can like barely hear it.
• 11:54
  Daniel Moore: Fingernails on the skirt, chalkboard.
• 11:56
  Daniel Moore: Homebody night or out on the town.
• 11:59
  Daniel Moore: Out on the town.
• 12:00
  Vicky Albious: I'm a homebody.
• 12:01
  Vicky Albious: Oh.
• 12:01
  Vicky Albious: I can see that.
• 12:02
  Vicky Albious: But I'll I'll do a out on town once in a while, but I'm a homebody.
• 12:05
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 12:06
  Vicky Albious: Homebody.
• 12:07
  Scottie Albious: Early in our marriage, I had to learn to stay home because that's where she gets a lot of rest.
• 12:11
  Scottie Albious: I love being homebody.
• 12:13
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 12:15
  Vicky Albious: And I was like, I can't do this.
• 12:16
  Vicky Albious: Yeah, she likes to bring this down.
• 12:20
  Daniel Moore: Yeah, we're both homebody.
• 12:21
  Daniel Moore: I mean, we like to go out occasionally and do stuff and we go out with friends and stuff like that.
• 12:25
  Daniel Moore: But if there's none of that going on, we're just perfectly fine hanging out at the end.
• 12:29
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 12:31
  Daniel Moore: So who's most likely to lose their keys?
• 12:34
  Vicky Albious: That's me.
• 12:35
  Vicky Albious: He always puts them on the hook.
• 12:37
  Vicky Albious: Agreement there.
• 12:38
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 12:38
  Scottie Albious: Because I'll say stuff like, Maybe where are the keys?
• 12:42
  Scottie Albious: She's like, Oh, they're my purse.
• 12:43
  Scottie Albious: I'm like, Oh, I couldn't find it because they're not on the hook.
• 12:45
  Scottie Albious: You know, things like that.
• 12:47
  Vicky Albious: But once in a while he'll have them in his pocket, but they're usually on the hook when he has them.
• 12:52
  Scottie Albious: What about you?
• 12:53
  Scottie Albious: He's like, Where are they now?
• 12:57
  Michelle Moore: I am horrible with my keys in my phone.
• 13:00
  Michelle Moore: Oh, really?
• 13:00
  Michelle Moore: I lose my phone, what, every day?
• 13:02
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 13:03
  Michelle Moore: Do you not at least have your I do, but I don't I use it a multiple times.
• 13:06
  Michelle Moore: I take my watch off when I get home.
• 13:08
  Michelle Moore: Yeah.
• 13:09
  Michelle Moore: But I'll lose my phone.
• 13:12
  Daniel Moore: I've got her unfind my phone so that way I'm located every once in a while.
• 13:16
  Michelle Moore: I don't want to, I'm not.
• 13:17
  Michelle Moore: I mean, I'll be glued to my phone occasionally, but not I after I come home from work, I want nothing to do with it.
• 13:23
  Michelle Moore: And it's so funny because I literally, if my keys weren't stuck in my purse all the time, I'd lose my keys all the time.
• 13:30
  Michelle Moore: I literally would.
• 13:32
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 13:32
  Daniel Moore: Yep.
• 13:34
  Daniel Moore: So let me make sure they stay in her purse.
• 13:36
  Michelle Moore: Yeah.
• 13:36
  Daniel Moore: Pretty much.
• 13:37
  Daniel Moore: Who's more emotional?
• 13:38
  Vicky Albious: Oh, you know, that's probably me.
• 13:41
  Scottie Albious: Yes, definitely her.
• 13:42
  Scottie Albious: I'm trying to be better at it because I want to, you know, learn how to resist.
• 13:47
  Daniel Moore: You know what's funny though is I see emotion in both of you.
• 13:49
  Michelle Moore: Yeah, oh yeah.
• 13:50
  Michelle Moore: Actually, that's what I was gonna read.
• 13:51
  Daniel Moore: You're you're way more emotional than I am, and I think it's pretty awesome because I I it's not that's not a trait that I mean I yeah, it's not a trait that I have necessarily.
• 14:02
  Daniel Moore: I can't even say that I have a little bit of it because I don't.
• 14:05
  Daniel Moore: I mean it it takes quite a bit for me to get real emotional.
• 14:08
  Daniel Moore: I mean I I uh I feel very deeply about things.
• 14:14
  Daniel Moore: Yeah but to show I guess to show the uh the emotions inside, but to show it, yeah, um, that's not usually a personality trait for me.
• 14:22
  Michelle Moore: He's Scottie's grown in that.
• 14:23
  Michelle Moore: Oh my god.
• 14:23
  Michelle Moore: I would definitely say that.
• 14:24
  Michelle Moore: I just want to do it.
• 14:27
  Scottie Albious: It was used to be like, no, that's dumb.
• 14:29
  Scottie Albious: That's you know, yeah, you know, but now it's like I don't care, you know.
• 14:33
  Scottie Albious: I'll show my emotions.
• 14:34
  Scottie Albious: She loves it.
• 14:35
  Vicky Albious: I do.
• 14:36
  Scottie Albious: So it shows vulnerability.
• 14:37
  Scottie Albious: It shows how it really means something to you, you know.
• 14:40
  Scottie Albious: Right.
• 14:41
  Scottie Albious: I can see that side of it.
• 14:42
  Scottie Albious: And that's why I said, you know, when it comes to vulnerability, it's not weakness, it's wisdom.
• 14:45
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 14:46
  Scottie Albious: You know, she wants to see that, she wants to hear it.
• 14:48
  Scottie Albious: So anyway.
• 14:48
  Scottie Albious: Michelle.
• 14:50
  Scottie Albious: Very emotional.
• 14:52
  Michelle Moore: Who's more emotional?
• 14:53
  Michelle Moore: I probably I don't think I'm as emotional as what I used to be.
• 15:00
  Michelle Moore: And I would say that you do have some emotional parts to you because I've watched you cry at church.
• 15:07
  Scottie Albious: Yeah, that's a good one.
• 15:09
  Michelle Moore: Because we'll be praise and worshiping, and I'll see tears.
• 15:13
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 15:14
  Michelle Moore: And when people are talking about testimonies and stuff like that, I see tears.
• 15:19
  Daniel Moore: That stuff gets me.
• 15:20
  Daniel Moore: That's good.
• 15:20
  Daniel Moore: That's awesome.
• 15:21
  Michelle Moore: I know there's emotion in there.
• 15:23
  Michelle Moore: Yeah.
• 15:24
  Daniel Moore: That's awesome.
• 15:25
  Daniel Moore: Because our church, they'll do videos of testimonies and stuff.
• 15:29
  Daniel Moore: Oh, they talk to them and they man, some of them things just but even a church we used to go to that you know, you guys that we went to before, uh Teen Challenge guys, they would come over there.
• 15:40
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 15:41
  Daniel Moore: Man, listen to some of them guys with their testimonies and stuff.
• 15:43
  Daniel Moore: It just breaks you.
• 15:44
  Daniel Moore: I mean, it's like, man, they went through a lot, you know.
• 15:47
  Daniel Moore: Right.
• 15:48
  Daniel Moore: And some of them just they do, they really get to you.
• 15:51
  Michelle Moore: And you cried when our granddaughter was born, Sarah.
• 15:53
  Michelle Moore: Oh yeah.
• 15:54
  Daniel Moore: That's awesome.
• 15:55
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 15:56
  Daniel Moore: That's cool, man.
• 15:57
  Daniel Moore: Motions.
• 15:58
  Daniel Moore: I do have one little emotional bone in my body.
• 16:00
  Michelle Moore: You do?
• 16:01
  Daniel Moore: Nice.
• 16:02
  Vicky Albious: You do.
• 16:03
  Daniel Moore: Who apologizes first?
• 16:04
  Daniel Moore: Me.
• 16:05
  Vicky Albious: Uh no.
• 16:06
  Vicky Albious: She's like, nope.
• 16:09
  Vicky Albious: Not happening.
• 16:11
  Scottie Albious: It takes me a minute because I want to process and I want to I want when I used to used to be me.
• 16:16
  Scottie Albious: I'm sorry.
• 16:17
  Scottie Albious: Okay, let's move on.
• 16:18
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 16:18
  Scottie Albious: When I say I'm sorry now, I want to mean it and I want to process it.
• 16:21
  Scottie Albious: And this is why I meant I'm sorry.
• 16:23
  Vicky Albious: Yeah.
• 16:23
  Vicky Albious: It's harder for me to say sorry now first, because he this is where he throws in the joking stuff, and he'll be like, it's okay, I'm used to it.
• 16:31
  Vicky Albious: And I'm like, shut up.
• 16:33
  Vicky Albious: Like, never mind, I'm not sorry.
• 16:37
  Scottie Albious: I forgot about it because I'm way past that.
• 16:39
  Scottie Albious: So she's like, that happened the other day.
• 16:43
  Scottie Albious: Oh my god.
• 16:45
  Scottie Albious: That's funny.
• 16:47
  Daniel Moore: About uh I would say both of us.
• 16:49
  Michelle Moore: Yeah.
• 16:50
  Michelle Moore: I mean, in all reality, I mean, we don't neither one of us really when we apologize, we just, oh, we're sorry and move on.
• 16:58
  Michelle Moore: Yeah.
• 16:58
  Michelle Moore: Yeah, we do much I would say we're equal in that part.
• 17:01
  Daniel Moore: Yeah, we do much better at taking ownership of stuff that we do.
• 17:05
  Daniel Moore: That's it's very that's a very good trait to have in a marriage to be able to apologize.
• 17:09
  Daniel Moore: That that makes uh the the marriage go a little smoother.
• 17:12
  Daniel Moore: Yeah, you know.
• 17:13
  Daniel Moore: Right.
• 17:14
  Daniel Moore: So uh let's see here.
• 17:16
  Daniel Moore: Who's more who's more spontaneous?
• 17:19
  Daniel Moore: Me.
• 17:20
  Daniel Moore: You?
• 17:20
  Daniel Moore: I always want to do crazy things.
• 17:22
  Vicky Albious: Yeah, for sure.
• 17:24
  Daniel Moore: Just random.
• 17:25
  Daniel Moore: Oh yeah.
• 17:26
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 17:27
  Vicky Albious: It'd be me.
• 17:28
  Daniel Moore: Yeah, Michelle's more spontaneous.
• 17:30
  Vicky Albious: Well, like he'll he'll do it with restaurants too.
• 17:32
  Vicky Albious: And I'm like, okay.
• 17:34
  Vicky Albious: And then I get there, I'm like, what do I order?
• 17:36
  Vicky Albious: You know.
• 17:37
  Vicky Albious: Oh, that's true.
• 17:38
  Scottie Albious: Because like when we go to a restaurant, any restaurant, she's like, What are you getting?
• 17:41
  Scottie Albious: I was like, I don't know.
• 17:42
  Scottie Albious: I've never down a three.
• 17:43
  Scottie Albious: When they get here, I'll pick last second.
• 17:44
  Vicky Albious: He does it every time.
• 17:46
  Vicky Albious: Whereas I'm like, this is what I'm getting.
• 17:48
  Vicky Albious: Same.
• 17:49
  Vicky Albious: Yep.
• 17:50
  Scottie Albious: And she's like, uh, we've never had that before.
• 17:52
  Scottie Albious: I was like, that's the whole fun part.
• 17:54
  Scottie Albious: We're never we don't know what we're getting.
• 17:56
  Vicky Albious: I'm I'm like searching the menu on our way there.
• 17:58
  Vicky Albious: Because I'm like, okay, what does it have in it?
• 18:01
  Scottie Albious: I like to ask, what's good here?
• 18:02
  Scottie Albious: You know, surprise me.
• 18:03
  Scottie Albious: Do you want this?
• 18:04
  Scottie Albious: I don't know.
• 18:05
  Michelle Moore: Who was it that Jake said about that?
• 18:06
  Michelle Moore: He goes, Do you really think they're gonna be honest with you?
• 18:09
  Michelle Moore: Yeah, because they work there, they don't like any of their food.
• 18:11
  Michelle Moore: He's like, they're gonna tell you what they don't like.
• 18:14
  Michelle Moore: And I'm like, I never really thought of it about that before.
• 18:17
  Michelle Moore: I'm like, because I do.
• 18:18
  Michelle Moore: I'll ask them, what do you like?
• 18:20
  Michelle Moore: And you know, some of them will be like, Well, I've never tried this, and it's like, is it because it's horrible or is it, you know?
• 18:27
  Scottie Albious: Well, if I if I narrow down a two, I'd be like, So if you had to pick between these two, which one and why?
• 18:32
  Scottie Albious: And they'll they'll tell me why or something.
• 18:34
  Scottie Albious: I was like, okay, let's roll with it, you know.
• 18:36
  Daniel Moore: Let's try it.
• 18:36
  Daniel Moore: Yeah, and I'm I'm spontaneous with trying new things because we'll go to new uh like at restaurants.
• 18:44
  Daniel Moore: Yeah, um, I like to go to out of the ordinary restaurants that we typically don't get to go to and try something on the menu I've never had.
• 18:52
  Daniel Moore: Yeah, I I do like enjoy doing that because you never know if you ever get that opportunity again.
• 18:57
  Michelle Moore: Hey, I tried to I tried to get on a bike trail with my bike.
• 19:00
  Daniel Moore: And look what happened.
• 19:01
  Daniel Moore: Oh that I was spontaneous.
• 19:04
  Michelle Moore: I'm like, let's go for the off-road on the side.
• 19:06
  Scottie Albious: I had to call 911.
• 19:07
  Scottie Albious: It was very bad.
• 19:10
  Scottie Albious: That's a funny story though.
• 19:12
  Michelle Moore: Yeah.
• 19:12
  Michelle Moore: Who takes longer to get ready?
• 19:15
  Michelle Moore: Oh, that'd be me.
• 19:16
  Michelle Moore: Hey, I have longer hair.
• 19:18
  Vicky Albious: I have like four times the hair you know is just getting there.
• 19:21
  Scottie Albious: No, I don't know.
• 19:22
  Scottie Albious: That's a little much.
• 19:24
  Scottie Albious: It's easy just to put a hat on.
• 19:27
  Vicky Albious: Well, uh all for for church, you just like throw stuff in there and it goes all curly cute.
• 19:31
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 19:32
  Scottie Albious: Curly cute.
• 19:33
  Scottie Albious: Curly many cute.
• 19:37
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 19:37
  Daniel Moore: Oh, this is natural.
• 19:40
  Daniel Moore: Oh, that's funny.
• 19:42
  Daniel Moore: How about you, Michelle?
• 19:45
  Michelle Moore: Oh, we know who takes longer to get ready because I always make you late.
• 19:50
  Daniel Moore: So that answers that question.
• 19:52
  Michelle Moore: There's no bitterness than that.
• 19:56
  Daniel Moore: Uh worship music or sermon podcast.
• 20:00
  Scottie Albious: 100% podcast for me.
• 20:01
  Scottie Albious: Think about it.
• 20:02
  Scottie Albious: I love to hear different perspectives, to learn podcasts, even if it's I'm not a big podcaster.
• 20:11
  Vicky Albious: I love worship, but like I love sermons more than pod.
• 20:14
  Vicky Albious: You know what I mean?
• 20:15
  Vicky Albious: Like they're a difference there a little bit.
• 20:17
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 20:17
  Vicky Albious: Like Jensen Franklin all day.
• 20:19
  Vicky Albious: Give it to me.
• 20:20
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 20:20
  Michelle Moore: I'm worship music all the way.
• 20:22
  Daniel Moore: And I'm okay.
• 20:22
  Daniel Moore: And I'm definitely sermon podcast.
• 20:24
  Daniel Moore: For sure.
• 20:26
  Michelle Moore: Yep.
• 20:26
  Daniel Moore: My my phone's literally connected to my radio, and every time I get in it, it's going right on my podcast right to the next one.
• 20:32
  Scottie Albious: It's all week long.
• 20:33
  Daniel Moore: And then I do the repeat all the way around again of all the new episodes.
• 20:38
  Daniel Moore: Uh, what about encouragement or accountability?
• 20:42
  Daniel Moore: I think for me, encouragement.
• 20:47
  Scottie Albious: Because I like to encourage He's the encourager.
• 20:50
  Vicky Albious: And I'm what was the other one?
• 20:51
  Scottie Albious: Accountability.
• 20:52
  Scottie Albious: Yeah, you're the accountability.
• 20:53
  Vicky Albious: I am.
• 20:54
  Scottie Albious: You didn't do this like you said you would.
• 20:55
  Scottie Albious: No, I'm kidding.
• 20:57
  Scottie Albious: She's yeah, she's no, I'm like, she was like, honor what you said, or you're a man of your word.
• 21:03
  Scottie Albious: So and I appreciate that, you know.
• 21:05
  Scottie Albious: It's not like she's you know lording over me, but she's keeping me accountable.
• 21:09
  Scottie Albious: I'm like, okay, yeah, you're right.
• 21:10
  Scottie Albious: If I said I'm gonna do it, I'm gonna do it.
• 21:11
  Daniel Moore: Yeah, that's good.
• 21:12
  Daniel Moore: What about you, Michelle?
• 21:14
  Michelle Moore: Encouragement.
• 21:14
  Scottie Albious: Yeah, yeah.
• 21:15
  Scottie Albious: You're good at encouragement.
• 21:16
  Scottie Albious: I see you encourage Dan, myself, even Vicky, and you do a really good job.
• 21:20
  Scottie Albious: Vicki's always in tears.
• 21:21
  Scottie Albious: I'm like, okay, Michelle, you did your job.
• 21:23
  Scottie Albious: You did a great job.
• 21:25
  Daniel Moore: I think I'm probably encouragement.
• 21:27
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 21:27
  Daniel Moore: Probably.
• 21:28
  Daniel Moore: Don't you think?
• 21:29
  Michelle Moore: Yeah.
• 21:30
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 21:30
  Michelle Moore: I would agree a hundred percent.
• 21:31
  Michelle Moore: Yeah.
• 21:32
  Scottie Albious: I think you're a little both, both though.
• 21:33
  Scottie Albious: Could be.
• 21:34
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 21:34
  Scottie Albious: I've seen you hold people accountable.
• 21:36
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 21:36
  Scottie Albious: We used to teach young adults.
• 21:38
  Scottie Albious: I remember you.
• 21:38
  Scottie Albious: Done that a time or two.
• 21:40
  Scottie Albious: And you had sons back in the day, so you know, yeah.
• 21:42
  Scottie Albious: Young kids under the roof.
• 21:43
  Scottie Albious: So the memories are coming back.
• 21:45
  Scottie Albious: Yeah, I remember that.
• 21:47
  Michelle Moore: His eyes are twitching over because he has no more he's rubbing his head with no hair up there.
• 21:53
  Daniel Moore: The stress level's rising under my chair here.
• 21:57
  Daniel Moore: Oh, that's awesome.
• 21:58
  Scottie Albious: Uh Bible stuff.
• 21:59
  Scottie Albious: I love Bible study.
• 22:02
  Scottie Albious: Because I love to study with like-minded believers and get perspective.
• 22:06
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 22:06
  Scottie Albious: And get to understand someone's idea.
• 22:09
  Scottie Albious: A little both.
• 22:10
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 22:11
  Daniel Moore: About you, Michelle.
• 22:12
  Scottie Albious: I love my devotional time.
• 22:13
  Scottie Albious: Devotional.
• 22:15
  Daniel Moore: I'm a Bible study guy.
• 22:16
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 22:17
  Scottie Albious: I love my devotional time.
• 22:18
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 22:19
  Daniel Moore: That's good.
• 22:19
  Daniel Moore: I've I tried try devotionals and stuff, but I just never really seem to stick with them.
• 22:24
  Daniel Moore: For some reason, I just I don't know.
• 22:26
  Daniel Moore: I did it for a little bit, and then it seems like all of a sudden like, well, I didn't do that for the whole last week.
• 22:30
  Scottie Albious: Well, I feel like devotionals are awesome, but it's like, okay, I learned that.
• 22:33
  Scottie Albious: Now I need to share that.
• 22:34
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 22:35
  Scottie Albious: You know what I mean?
• 22:35
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 22:36
  Vicky Albious: To me, I've gotten more into like reading books.
• 22:39
  Vicky Albious: You know, like um I did a lot of that fasting book and then our holy spirit by drama fear.
• 22:45
  Vicky Albious: And like, I don't know.
• 22:46
  Vicky Albious: And so it's kind of a mix of like, because you get into the word, but yet it's a I don't know.
• 22:51
  Scottie Albious: She also teaches really good from the books, too.
• 22:53
  Scottie Albious: So thanks.
• 22:55
  Scottie Albious: Aww.
• 22:57
  Daniel Moore: Yeah, that's I I'm kind of more of a Bible study and book reader, that kind of thing at this point in my life.
• 23:03
  Daniel Moore: What about quiet prayer or out loud prayer?
• 23:06
  Vicky Albious: I'm an out loud prayer.
• 23:08
  Scottie Albious: I like quiet.
• 23:10
  Scottie Albious: I I think because I think of a lot of my long times, and I'll give you an example.
• 23:14
  Scottie Albious: There is a friend of mine that when he comes home from work and he's stressed, he doesn't want to give the family the leftovers.
• 23:22
  Scottie Albious: So on the way from home work, he spends time with the Lord.
• 23:26
  Scottie Albious: So same thing.
• 23:27
  Scottie Albious: On the way from home from work, it's me and him, and I'm like, help me, Lord, help me, Holy Spirit, guide me.
• 23:32
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 23:32
  Scottie Albious: And I try my best, you know, to not show the leftovers that my kids are getting, my wife's getting, but try to bring, you know, a husband as a father.
• 23:41
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 23:42
  Scottie Albious: Michelle?
• 23:43
  Scottie Albious: Michelle?
• 23:44
  Michelle Moore: I'm a quiet prayer.
• 23:45
  Michelle Moore: Yeah.
• 23:46
  Daniel Moore: I'm probably more that also.
• 23:49
  Daniel Moore: I do some out loud prayer also.
• 23:51
  Daniel Moore: I think out loud's needed.
• 23:53
  Daniel Moore: A little mixture.
• 23:54
  Daniel Moore: Oh, I would agree.
• 23:55
  Daniel Moore: I do, but during the day, you know, I pray a lot throughout the day, and you know, a lot of that's quiet prayer.
• 24:01
  Scottie Albious: And I think I like the quiet because you get to hear back.
• 24:03
  Scottie Albious: Mm-hmm.
• 24:04
  Scottie Albious: When, you know, but if I'm praying out loud, I hear, you know, it's more of like declarations.
• 24:10
  Scottie Albious: God, I'm praying over my family, my wife, my marriage, our finances.
• 24:13
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 24:13
  Scottie Albious: You know, and I'm I'm thinking all these in my head and just praying over or with praying with somebody over their life.
• 24:18
  Scottie Albious: But when I'm that quiet one-on-one, like, God, I want to hear you.
• 24:21
  Scottie Albious: Help me.
• 24:21
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 24:22
  Scottie Albious: That's good.
• 24:36
  Daniel Moore: So we'll skip to finish the sentence here.
• 24:39
  Daniel Moore: So marriage taught me that love is finish that sentence.
• 24:46
  Scottie Albious: Christ-like.
• 24:47
  Scottie Albious: Christ-like.
• 24:48
  Scottie Albious: That's good.
• 24:49
  Scottie Albious: I have to be because I fall have to follow him.
• 24:51
  Scottie Albious: Show me, teach me.
• 24:53
  Scottie Albious: Holy Spirit, help me.
• 24:54
  Scottie Albious: That's good.
• 24:55
  Scottie Albious: Thanks.
• 24:57
  Vicky Albious: Can it be more than one word?
• 24:59
  Vicky Albious: I know.
• 24:59
  Vicky Albious: I'm like trying to think of one word.
• 25:01
  Vicky Albious: Marriage has taught me that love is awesome.
• 25:05
  Vicky Albious: A little tough.
• 25:07
  Vicky Albious: And definitely needs Jesus at the center to make it work.
• 25:11
  Scottie Albious: And I say Christ-like too because of what I've received.
• 25:13
  Scottie Albious: She showed me a lot of compassion over the times I've been me, you know?
• 25:17
  Scottie Albious: I'm like, wow, thanks, dear.
• 25:19
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 25:20
  Scottie Albious: And grace.
• 25:21
  Scottie Albious: What about you, Michelle?
• 25:23
  Michelle Moore: Actually, he just said mine.
• 25:24
  Michelle Moore: Mary just taught me that love is a lot of, I mean, you have to be have a lot of grace.
• 25:29
  Michelle Moore: And you do have to be Christ-like.
• 25:31
  Michelle Moore: Oh, and we apologize.
• 25:33
  Michelle Moore: That was my dog yawning.
• 25:34
  Michelle Moore: That was Jose.
• 25:37
  Michelle Moore: Yeah.
• 25:37
  Michelle Moore: The one that snores.
• 25:41
  Daniel Moore: What about you?
• 25:42
  Daniel Moore: Mary just taught me that love is unconditional too.
• 25:48
  Daniel Moore: I think.
• 25:48
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 25:50
  Michelle Moore: That's very unconditional.
• 25:52
  Daniel Moore: Looking at Michelle through Christ's eyes and you know, letting God just showing me her through him.
• 25:58
  Daniel Moore: Uh, I think I look at our our marriage and the love that we have because of everything that we've been through.
• 26:04
  Daniel Moore: Right.
• 26:04
  Daniel Moore: I look at it as a testimony.
• 26:06
  Daniel Moore: Oh yeah.
• 26:07
  Daniel Moore: Uh because you know, we're where we are because God brought us to this point.
• 26:11
  Daniel Moore: It was not by our own power, but some of the stuff that we've been through.
• 26:15
  Daniel Moore: And so I, you know, I've learned some tough lessons for sure.
• 26:21
  Daniel Moore: And I'm thankful that God's brought me down that path.
• 26:24
  Scottie Albious: It's so cool though, because you guys use those testimonies as key to help heal others, you know.
• 26:30
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 26:31
  Daniel Moore: Well, God doesn't waste our our pain and I don't think we should either.
• 26:36
  Daniel Moore: I just I kinda I really look at it that way.
• 26:39
  Daniel Moore: What's the hardest thing that you guys have learned together?
• 26:47
  Scottie Albious: Go ahead.
• 26:48
  Vicky Albious: No, go ahead.
• 26:49
  Scottie Albious: Listen.
• 26:50
  Vicky Albious: To listen.
• 26:52
  Scottie Albious: And to be vulnerable.
• 26:53
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 26:54
  Scottie Albious: To share my heart and feelings when I don't want to.
• 26:57
  Scottie Albious: That's probably my hardest struggles.
• 26:59
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 27:00
  Vicky Albious: I'd say kind of to give the grace and you know, with some of the tough things.
• 27:06
  Vicky Albious: Especially I'd say earlier in, you know, oh, just stop being so quick to you meant this or you did that, you know, and be like, okay, there's a reason.
• 27:17
  Vicky Albious: Like, let's chill out on that.
• 27:18
  Vicky Albious: Like, you know.
• 27:19
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 27:20
  Daniel Moore: That's a big one.
• 27:23
  Michelle Moore: Um the hardest thing that we've learned together is um I would have to say communication.
• 27:33
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 27:34
  Michelle Moore: And um forgiveness.
• 27:38
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 27:38
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 27:39
  Michelle Moore: That it requires ahead of one all the time.
• 27:41
  Daniel Moore: That's huge.
• 27:42
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 27:42
  Daniel Moore: I think one of mine is forgiveness as well, but another one is to my pride.
• 27:48
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 27:48
  Daniel Moore: Getting rid of the the pride that I have because when I came into our marriage, there was definitely a lot of pride there.
• 27:56
  Daniel Moore: And because I was not willing to humble myself like I should have, uh, it drug us to a spot where we didn't really need to be.
• 28:04
  Daniel Moore: And so God's shown me throughout our marriage with the different things that's happened in the restoration process that we've gone through, how important it is to make sure that that pride does not become an idol in my life.
• 28:16
  Scottie Albious: Well, I think even for us, as we're walking with you guys and watching you and watching you guys forgive each other, I was like, that is powerful.
• 28:23
  Scottie Albious: Wow.
• 28:24
  Scottie Albious: You know?
• 28:24
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 28:25
  Scottie Albious: Really cool.
• 28:26
  Daniel Moore: That's why, you know, a lot of times when we work with our couples that we work with and stuff, and the ones that we, you know, that come up to us to talk to us about things, it's like there's really not a whole lot that you can do to each other that would cause you not to ever want to forgive.
• 28:40
  Daniel Moore: Like Michelle and I've been through some things that, you know, both of us had every right in the world to never forgive each other.
• 28:47
  Daniel Moore: Right.
• 28:47
  Daniel Moore: But God grew that forgiveness inside of us.
• 28:51
  Scottie Albious: So thankful for the world.
• 28:52
  Daniel Moore: Yeah, and we were able to do that.
• 28:53
  Daniel Moore: So we can you can forgive anybody uh with the help of God.
• 28:57
  Daniel Moore: You can forgive anybody for anything.
• 28:59
  Scottie Albious: But it's so powerful because people watching you guys are like, ow, you know, the Lord.
• 29:04
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 29:05
  Daniel Moore: It's only God, that's for sure.
• 29:08
  Vicky Albious: I feel most loved when you sit down and communicate when we just sit and talk about stuff, anything.
• 29:20
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 29:20
  Scottie Albious: Oh, I was gonna say scratch my feet, but that was a video.
• 29:25
  Vicky Albious: Hey, it's okay.
• 29:26
  Scottie Albious: No, I feel most loved when we're one-on-one and we get to watch like l recently, like I've been trying to watch whatever she wants to watch, murder mysteries.
• 29:37
  Scottie Albious: And I feel loved because she wants to share that with me.
• 29:40
  Scottie Albious: Yeah, you know what I mean?
• 29:42
  Scottie Albious: And it could be Sports Center, it could be a football game, but it's not.
• 29:45
  Scottie Albious: And I know she would give that up any minute just to watch a game with me.
• 29:48
  Scottie Albious: But because you know, we're just two by ourselves watching a show late at night, yeah.
• 29:53
  Scottie Albious: Just us two.
• 29:54
  Scottie Albious: So it's good.
• 29:56
  Scottie Albious: Michelle.
• 29:57
  Michelle Moore: I feel most loved when you give me intentional time.
• 30:01
  Michelle Moore: I love our intentional time that we get.
• 30:04
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 30:05
  Daniel Moore: And I think for my side of it, the fact that you want to spend time with me, uh, because I think that the biggest betrayal in a marriage is when a spouse tries to do anything they can to not be at home or to not be around their spouse, to not do things together.
• 30:23
  Daniel Moore: Michelle and I literally, with our relationship that we have, there's not anything that we ever do that we would want to do apart.
• 30:30
  Daniel Moore: That's good.
• 30:31
  Daniel Moore: Now we we have things we do with our friends occasionally, just separate, you know, but it doesn't happen very often.
• 30:37
  Daniel Moore: Uh we would actually just prefer to anything we do, whether if it's going out with another couple or going somewhere, sitting in the living room, whatever it is, we want to do that together.
• 30:46
  Daniel Moore: Right.
• 30:46
  Daniel Moore: And I know her having that interest, I think uh that really lets me know how she feels about me.
• 30:53
  Daniel Moore: I love that.
• 30:54
  Daniel Moore: So uh one habit of yours that I've learned to love.
• 31:00
  Vicky Albious: Ooh, his rice habit.
• 31:03
  Vicky Albious: He eats rice with everything.
• 31:05
  Vicky Albious: No, it used to when we first got married, I was like, oh my gosh, why so much rice all the time?
• 31:10
  Vicky Albious: Rice.
• 31:11
  Vicky Albious: That's all I can think of.
• 31:15
  Scottie Albious: One thing that I've loved about you, um almost like what you said, like um, I love it when she like I've learned to love like it was weird for me because like she would dote on me, like, you know, rub my my back or my arms or you know, and things like that.
• 31:32
  Scottie Albious: I thought it was weird.
• 31:32
  Scottie Albious: Remember that?
• 31:33
  Scottie Albious: And you're like, you're not used to having anybody dote on you.
• 31:35
  Scottie Albious: I was like, no, not really.
• 31:36
  Scottie Albious: And and like now it's like, you know, because at first when we were dating, she's like, I'm gonna rub your hand.
• 31:41
  Scottie Albious: I was like, what?
• 31:41
  Scottie Albious: That's so weird.
• 31:42
  Scottie Albious: And I'd pass out in like five minutes.
• 31:44
  Vicky Albious: No, it wouldn't ru oh yeah.
• 31:45
  Vicky Albious: Like, so now it's like because I used to do that in hair school.
• 31:48
  Scottie Albious: Well, I like did hand massage, yeah.
• 31:51
  Vicky Albious: Yeah.
• 31:51
  Scottie Albious: But yeah, that's one thing I've loved about her is that she just she's always willing to dote and willing to serve.
• 31:58
  Vicky Albious: Is that a habit though?
• 31:59
  Vicky Albious: Well, I guess.
• 32:00
  Vicky Albious: Oh yeah.
• 32:02
  Daniel Moore: I mean, yeah, one one yeah.
• 32:05
  Daniel Moore: I mean it could be.
• 32:06
  Michelle Moore: Yeah.
• 32:08
  Daniel Moore: Uh what about you, Michelle?
• 32:11
  Michelle Moore: Um don't laugh at this one.
• 32:14
  Michelle Moore: One habit of yours I learned to love is you're always right.
• 32:18
  Daniel Moore: Oh like literally or think of him.
• 32:30
  Michelle Moore: No, seriously, most of the time he is a very deep thinker.
• 32:35
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 32:35
  Michelle Moore: And so literally most of the time, he's a it and it's a habit, like he literally he'll say something, and I'm like, hmm.
• 32:43
  Michelle Moore: And then it's like comes to fruition or something.
• 32:46
  Michelle Moore: And or I just it's a habit that I'm like, you're not always right.
• 32:52
  Michelle Moore: You know, at the beginning I was just like, no.
• 32:54
  Scottie Albious: But now it's like he comes in and he'll say stuff, and it's like, oh well, you know, that white personality, you guys are full of wisdom, you know.
• 33:05
  Scottie Albious: And I've seen that with other white personality people too.
• 33:07
  Scottie Albious: Her dad was one of them.
• 33:08
  Scottie Albious: But it's like when you guys say stuff, it's like steep and it means something.
• 33:12
  Scottie Albious: You know what I mean?
• 33:13
  Scottie Albious: It's like, okay, hold on, shh, you know, they're saying something.
• 33:15
  Scottie Albious: You've always done that, even like when we all used to teach young adults together, it's always been really cool.
• 33:20
  Scottie Albious: I'm like, man, how'd you see that?
• 33:22
  Scottie Albious: That's awesome.
• 33:23
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 33:23
  Daniel Moore: It and I I don't think I'm doing that when I'm, you know, doing it.
• 33:28
  Daniel Moore: Oh, right, right.
• 33:28
  Daniel Moore: But whenever I I do have to, I do process things, and I've always been that way.
• 33:36
  Daniel Moore: And I it I think whenever I'm able to do, I can't make just real quick decisions as well.
• 33:42
  Daniel Moore: I can do it if I have to and I'm put on the spot, but I would prefer to have some time to think about it so that I can think through the whole thing and then okay, this is really the way this needs to go and come back with that answer.
• 33:55
  Michelle Moore: But I will say your habit, you know when you meet someone else just like you that you have to take a step back and let them be right.
• 34:06
  Daniel Moore: Okay.
• 34:07
  Michelle Moore: Am I right?
• 34:08
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 34:08
  Daniel Moore: I agree.
• 34:10
  Michelle Moore: Because you know there's not gonna be you want the final say, and if it's just gonna get into a so your habit is you do recognize that you're always right until you meet someone with the same personality.
• 34:26
  Daniel Moore: Because I have an escalating personality, if we get in a conflict, I know that if I'm gonna get into conflict, if that person's like me, yeah, I know better than to get into that conflict in the first place because it's not gonna end well.
• 34:38
  Scottie Albious: See, that's where he's he's wise, you know what I mean?
• 34:40
  Michelle Moore: Yeah, I no, he's he's learned it.
• 34:42
  Michelle Moore: I know.
• 34:42
  Daniel Moore: Yeah, I'm I'm very well aware of yeah.
• 34:45
  Scottie Albious: What about your habit for Michelle?
• 34:47
  Daniel Moore: Uh probably just her getting up late.
• 34:51
  Daniel Moore: You know, it's about the only habit I can think of.
• 34:58
  Scottie Albious: Oh, geez.
• 35:00
  Michelle Moore: It really is bad.
• 35:01
  Michelle Moore: I I and you know, I didn't used to be that way until I had all my surgeries.
• 35:05
  Michelle Moore: And it's like literally.
• 35:07
  Daniel Moore: You know, I saw a movie one time where a prince went in and kissed the princess and she woke up.
• 35:12
  Daniel Moore: And I try that, but it doesn't work.
• 35:16
  Daniel Moore: You know, three or four times, and it's like she'll roll over and say something, and I'll go back in the bathroom to finish getting ready, and she'll go back, she's and they're down to sleep again.
• 35:25
  Daniel Moore: I'm like, it worked in the movies.
• 35:27
  Daniel Moore: Like, what's the deal?
• 35:31
  Scottie Albious: Uh gives me a little bit more time to love on her again.
• 35:33
  Scottie Albious: I love it because Mickey's such a light sleeper.
• 35:35
  Scottie Albious: Like before I leave to work, I'll like grab her arm or her feet or something.
• 35:38
  Scottie Albious: I'm like, you'll she'll jump up like I'm attacking her.
• 35:42
  Vicky Albious: He'll know when I'm like dead, dead, because he'll rub my feet and don't move.
• 35:47
  Vicky Albious: Oh, normally that'll kind of like wake me up a little bit.
• 35:50
  Scottie Albious: All right, she's out.
• 35:51
  Scottie Albious: Yep.
• 35:52
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 35:53
  Scottie Albious: Catch up on that later.
• 35:54
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 35:55
  Vicky Albious: But I'm up to like two in the morning a lot of time.
• 35:57
  Vicky Albious: Like, I'm such a night owl.
• 35:59
  Scottie Albious: Well, you've got that downtime too, because you're with the boys all day.
• 36:02
  Scottie Albious: All day long.
• 36:03
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 36:03
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 36:04
  Scottie Albious: So I would need that too.
• 36:06
  Daniel Moore: So one last question.
• 36:07
  Daniel Moore: Oh, here we go.
• 36:08
  Daniel Moore: One thing we'll probably always disagree on.
• 36:12
  Michelle Moore: Wow.
• 36:14
  Vicky Albious: How to build things.
• 36:15
  Vicky Albious: His way is always right no matter what.
• 36:20
  Vicky Albious: We can't like it's hard to do stuff.
• 36:22
  Daniel Moore: Like furniture in a box and stuff like that.
• 36:24
  Daniel Moore: Or just yeah.
• 36:27
  Vicky Albious: Anything.
• 36:28
  Vicky Albious: It's very that you know, it's crazy because I used to build stuff with my dad all the time or help him on the car or this or that.
• 36:34
  Vicky Albious: Like that is just one area that I've learned to back up and let him do his thing.
• 36:39
  Vicky Albious: Yeah.
• 36:40
  Vicky Albious: You know, and and that's something that to this day I like all get upset about sometimes.
• 36:45
  Vicky Albious: And I'm like, why can't we just work together in this?
• 36:48
  Vicky Albious: But it's just one of those things you learn, like, no, I've got a lot of how much space and you do your thing.
• 36:53
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 36:53
  Scottie Albious: Well, and there's that 50-50.
• 36:54
  Scottie Albious: I've got to learn how to work with somebody too.
• 36:57
  Scottie Albious: I, you know, uh I I I can't always be a control freak, you know, at work and things like that.
• 37:02
  Scottie Albious: Even with my family, you know, my wife, I've got to be like, okay, you know, well, I've I've got to figure out how to work.
• 37:08
  Scottie Albious: So I I appreciate her telling me that, you know.
• 37:10
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 37:11
  Scottie Albious: Um, one thing I would always disagree with you on is uh I still think cheddar's is always overrated.
• 37:16
  Scottie Albious: So she's always like, let's go to cheddar.
• 37:20
  Scottie Albious: Broccoli cheese casserole, though.
• 37:22
  Scottie Albious: But there's Indian food.
• 37:25
  Scottie Albious: It's at the gas station.
• 37:26
  Scottie Albious: I'm telling you, that's always really good.
• 37:27
  Scottie Albious: I've heard that.
• 37:28
  Scottie Albious: I'm telling you.
• 37:29
  Scottie Albious: I haven't tried it yet.
• 37:30
  Michelle Moore: Yeah, the keys over here.
• 37:34
  Daniel Moore: Well, Michelle and I are probably gonna be 100% disag in an agreement on this one.
• 37:38
  Daniel Moore: Oh.
• 37:39
  Michelle Moore: You go first.
• 37:41
  Daniel Moore: The kids.
• 37:42
  Michelle Moore: Actually, that's what I was gonna say.
• 37:43
  Michelle Moore: That's the only thing we disagree on.
• 37:47
  Scottie Albious: Wow.
• 37:48
  Scottie Albious: Has that been like younger into your earlier marriage, has that always been like a thing, like a bad thing?
• 37:55
  Scottie Albious: You know what I mean?
• 37:56
  Scottie Albious: Or do you guys cope with that in a healthy way?
• 37:58
  Scottie Albious: Like, okay, I disagree with you.
• 38:00
  Scottie Albious: Let's figure out you know what I'm saying.
• 38:01
  Michelle Moore: Back then, we did not, yeah, it was not healthy.
• 38:04
  Daniel Moore: I grew up with very strict environment.
• 38:08
  Daniel Moore: And I've carried that into our relationship, not realizing that was not a good thing to do.
• 38:16
  Daniel Moore: And so I then tried to push my agenda so we would clash because her being the mother and you know, the the more emotional part of the relationship.
• 38:25
  Daniel Moore: Say more compassionate, compassionate, not emotional.
• 38:28
  Daniel Moore: I guess compassionate is a better word.
• 38:30
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 38:30
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 38:31
  Daniel Moore: Uh it just didn't jive very well.
• 38:33
  Daniel Moore: Right, right.
• 38:34
  Daniel Moore: Because I'm just like, it's black or white.
• 38:37
  Daniel Moore: You know, you do this, you're getting this for it, and that's the end of the story, because I'm the dad and you're the kid, and that's just the way it's gonna be, because that's how I grew up.
• 38:44
  Scottie Albious: Right.
• 38:44
  Daniel Moore: And so we did, we struggled with that all through them growing up.
• 38:49
  Daniel Moore: And then even now, as they're older, we we do much better now because uh there are times that we still clash, but I will back off quicker than what I used to would back off.
• 39:04
  Michelle Moore: And that comes down from generally helping our children.
• 39:07
  Daniel Moore: Yeah, yeah.
• 39:08
  Michelle Moore: Like it's it's more um not necessarily um we're gonna disagree on if I wanna do something for them.
• 39:17
  Scottie Albious: Sure.
• 39:18
  Michelle Moore: You know, if I wanna give them money or if I wanna like, you know, just different things like that.
• 39:24
  Michelle Moore: Um or babysit or whatever.
• 39:26
  Michelle Moore: But I mean, we don't really and we do it healthy.
• 39:29
  Michelle Moore: I mean, I don't do anything without asking him first.
• 39:32
  Scottie Albious: Oh, sure.
• 39:33
  Scottie Albious: All right.
• 39:33
  Michelle Moore: And if he's like, I don't know, I wait until he is ready.
• 39:38
  Michelle Moore: And if he disagrees, I still am gonna do it.
• 39:41
  Michelle Moore: I just give him the option.
• 39:43
  Michelle Moore: I'm just kidding, huh?
• 39:44
  Daniel Moore: That's very that's very true.
• 39:47
  Michelle Moore: Not all the time.
• 39:48
  Michelle Moore: Not all time.
• 39:49
  Michelle Moore: My ticket is supposed to be bought and it's not bought.
• 39:51
  Michelle Moore: I'm not going next weekend.
• 39:53
  Daniel Moore: So yeah, it's that's something that I've had to grow in a lot.
• 39:59
  Daniel Moore: But I think we do handle it much better.
• 40:01
  Daniel Moore: Absolutely.
• 40:02
  Scottie Albious: Uh it's just that's a hard thing to break because I asked these questions because we're behind you.
• 40:08
  Scottie Albious: And you remember we were dealing with our blending family, and your guys' kids were teenagers, and we weren't there yet, and we're like, how are you guys doing this?
• 40:15
  Scottie Albious: Because, you know, we're learning, you know, we're trying to figure this out as well.
• 40:19
  Scottie Albious: And you know, when it comes to disagreement, are we gonna disagree on the kids?
• 40:21
  Scottie Albious: Is she gonna be more nurturing?
• 40:22
  Scottie Albious: We're all gonna be black and white, like, nope, don't help them.
• 40:24
  Vicky Albious: That's on that's honestly been a space that I've had to pray a lot about because we discipline a lot different.
• 40:30
  Vicky Albious: And I found where I would be so frustrated with the kids or one of them, you know, whatever.
• 40:37
  Vicky Albious: And um I got to where I wouldn't tell him the full, you know, because and we talked about this probably a good three, four years ago of like I told him I was like, I feel like I can't tell you because then you overreact and he'll just like, you know, it's too much.
• 40:56
  Vicky Albious: And I'm like, I need you to rein that in and like calm, you know, and um yeah, and saga.
• 41:04
  Scottie Albious: I think because last episode we were talking about unmet expectations in a spouse.
• 41:07
  Scottie Albious: Same thing with the kids.
• 41:08
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 41:09
  Scottie Albious: We expect them to be you're gonna be like this, you're gonna be good, you're not gonna talk, you're not gonna say crazy things, you know.
• 41:15
  Scottie Albious: If you do, you're gonna be in trouble.
• 41:16
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 41:17
  Scottie Albious: Where in my mind I'm thinking, that's the line.
• 41:19
  Scottie Albious: There's no, yeah, there's no second chances.
• 41:21
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 41:22
  Scottie Albious: That was him.
• 41:22
  Scottie Albious: You just blew it, that's it.
• 41:23
  Scottie Albious: Get out, you go to your room.
• 41:25
  Vicky Albious: And it's like there there has to be this balance, you know.
• 41:28
  Vicky Albious: And I felt I got to a place where, and I had to tell him this.
• 41:31
  Vicky Albious: I'm like, I feel alone parenting our kids because I'm home with them, you know, and I, you know, I discipline them, but I need your backing without overdoing it.
• 41:42
  Vicky Albious: And and I was like, I it's making me feel alone in this because I can't tell it's too much.
• 41:48
  Michelle Moore: You you go too much.
• 41:51
  Scottie Albious: Yeah, that'd be another episode.
• 41:53
  Scottie Albious: Yeah, it would.
• 41:54
  Michelle Moore: Well, I mean, if you really think about it, I mean, he wouldn't have known that had you not communicate.
• 41:59
  Scottie Albious: Well, after she said that, that's when I started praying after work.
• 42:03
  Scottie Albious: God, help me be the dad and the and the husband that I need to be.
• 42:06
  Scottie Albious: Don't let my family see the leftovers.
• 42:08
  Scottie Albious: I'm tired, but give me the strength.
• 42:10
  Michelle Moore: Yeah, yeah.
• 42:11
  Michelle Moore: And I mean, Dan's went back and apologized to our children.
• 42:14
  Michelle Moore: Yeah.
• 42:14
  Michelle Moore: Like, you know, because you know, he he's recognized it.
• 42:19
  Michelle Moore: Oh, I have too.
• 42:20
  Scottie Albious: We have to as parents.
• 42:21
  Michelle Moore: There is times when we're doing a podcast, the Holy Spirit would be like, You did that to your children.
• 42:26
  Michelle Moore: And it's like, oh man.
• 42:27
  Michelle Moore: And I'll text, I'll text Brooke, and I'm like, I'm so sorry.
• 42:30
  Michelle Moore: She's like, You've already apologized for that.
• 42:32
  Michelle Moore: And I'm like, No, I need to apologize again.
• 42:34
  Michelle Moore: And she's like, There's no need, that's already in the past.
• 42:37
  Michelle Moore: I'm like, but it's healing for me because you know, the Holy Spirit put it on me.
• 42:41
  Michelle Moore: But I mean, that's the way I mean to see him apologize to her adult boys and you know, Nim, it it meant so much to me.
• 42:49
  Michelle Moore: Right, right, you know, and I know I had to heal his heart too, because when you're not parenting in a godly way, yeah, those relationships are gonna be strained.
• 43:00
  Scottie Albious: Yeah, yeah, especially blended.
• 43:02
  Michelle Moore: Yeah.
• 43:03
  Michelle Moore: Because they can go to one side and do whatever they want, and then they come home and get disciplined.
• 43:09
  Michelle Moore: Yeah.
• 43:10
  Scottie Albious: Right.
• 43:11
  Michelle Moore: It's it's gonna be that way.
• 43:12
  Scottie Albious: I read a thing a while back, and this is why I gotta remember too.
• 43:15
  Scottie Albious: As our kids are growing, so is our parenthood.
• 43:17
  Scottie Albious: Yes.
• 43:18
  Scottie Albious: We don't know how to parent that's right, 100% perfect.
• 43:21
  Scottie Albious: We're figuring this out as our kids are growing too.
• 43:23
  Michelle Moore: Absolutely.
• 43:24
  Scottie Albious: Yeah, it's always a learning process.
• 43:26
  Michelle Moore: Well, we always say we told our kids there was no manual.
• 43:28
  Michelle Moore: Right.
• 43:29
  Michelle Moore: I mean, you do have the word of God, but it's different context, too.
• 43:33
  Michelle Moore: I mean, you know, you have to go to the Lord and you know, pray about some things.
• 43:38
  Michelle Moore: But I mean, I know there was times that he was super frustrated.
• 43:41
  Michelle Moore: And I mean, Jeremiah, I love him to death, but I mean, that boy kind of like Titus, you know, it's like, would you listen for the love?
• 43:50
  Michelle Moore: And it's like everything was like 10 times worse than what it had to be because that's the way he just did everything.
• 43:58
  Scottie Albious: Yeah, and I can see it.
• 44:00
  Vicky Albious: Frustration, but as a mother, you're more nurturing, and it's like, you know, okay, you know, and I think I've always heard like God has put these things in your child, and it's learning how to guide them instead of like break it out of them or whatever.
• 44:14
  Vicky Albious: You know, it's like okay, they're gonna grow up to be a really strong leader.
• 44:18
  Vicky Albious: How do I help this instead of be like, stop acting like that, you know, like yeah, stuff?
• 44:25
  Daniel Moore: Yeah, the personalities that they have God gave it to them.
• 44:28
  Daniel Moore: I think as parents, you know, God gives us the grace and the the tools to try to navigate that with the child to uh so that they can show those personality traits that they have to the best that they can, but in a good way.
• 44:45
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 44:45
  Daniel Moore: And it's up to us to try to help them navigate through all of that.
• 44:48
  Daniel Moore: And sometimes that's difficult.
• 44:51
  Vicky Albious: Yeah.
• 44:52
  Scottie Albious: But God's there to help us.
• 44:53
  Scottie Albious: That's right.
• 44:53
  Scottie Albious: And you know what I caught myself too when we're talking about communication with your kids?
• 44:56
  Scottie Albious: You know, we can talk about our spouse, but our kids Israel and I get along because we talk about sports.
• 45:01
  Scottie Albious: Titus wants to talk about Spider-Man and Zelda.
• 45:04
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 45:07
  Vicky Albious: Or just off the wall stuff for Jeremiah.
• 45:09
  Vicky Albious: He just goes on.
• 45:11
  Scottie Albious: I've had to learn what he loves.
• 45:13
  Scottie Albious: I'll be like, hey buddy, tell me about more about Spider-Man.
• 45:16
  Scottie Albious: Okay, this one time this to beat this level, and I'm like, okay, okay.
• 45:20
  Scottie Albious: But he enjoys that.
• 45:21
  Scottie Albious: Does that make sense?
• 45:21
  Scottie Albious: So I'd rather him learn how to communicate me with me now when he's eight for when he's in his thirties.
• 45:26
  Scottie Albious: That's right.
• 45:27
  Scottie Albious: And it'll come to me instead of be like, Dad's not gonna listen to me, he don't care.
• 45:30
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 45:31
  Daniel Moore: So yeah, and it is harder when they get older.
• 45:34
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 45:34
  Daniel Moore: Um, a lot of times, I think, because they become an adult and if they carry that stuff into adulthood, yeah.
• 45:40
  Daniel Moore: Uh it's a lot harder to break that at that point because that resentment and stuff has been there for so long, they have no respect for you as a parent, I think, in a lot of cases, and so we have to try to earn that back.
• 45:51
  Daniel Moore: Yeah.
• 45:52
  Daniel Moore: And it makes it very difficult.
• 45:54
  Scottie Albious: Yeah.
• 45:54
  Daniel Moore: So that's good.
• 45:55
  Daniel Moore: Yeah, this episode went all over the place.
• 45:57
  Daniel Moore: That was fun though.
• 46:03
  Michelle Moore: Dr.
• 46:03
  Michelle Moore: Dan didn't do very well.
• 46:05
  Michelle Moore: I tried.
• 46:07
  Michelle Moore: We'll see how many stars we get out of this one.
• 46:09
  Michelle Moore: That was that was the slowest rapid fire.
• 46:12
  Scottie Albious: We had conversations.
• 46:15
  Daniel Moore: Oh, that was fun though.
• 46:17
  Daniel Moore: Yeah, I think you know, the whole purpose of this episode this week was, you know, we give you all a challenge that are listening.
• 46:24
  Daniel Moore: Uh, if you haven't sat down in a while and just had some fun with your spouse, uh, this is a good way that you can do that.
• 46:30
  Daniel Moore: Just come up with some rapid fires and finish the question, uh, you know, questions, finish them and just just have fun with it.
• 46:38
  Daniel Moore: And uh a lot of you might even learn something about your spouse that you didn't even know.
• 46:43
  Michelle Moore: Like being late, making them always late.
• 46:45
  Daniel Moore: That's right.
• 46:46
  Michelle Moore: Not better.
• 46:47
  Michelle Moore: Uh no, no, not at all.
• 46:50
  Daniel Moore: Uh but yeah, this is this has been a lot of fun.
• 46:53
  Daniel Moore: Uh Scottie and Vicky, thank you guys so much for being here again.
• 46:58
  Daniel Moore: Of course, we'll we'll get we'll do it again eventually.
• 47:00
  Daniel Moore: Oh, yeah.
• 47:01
  Daniel Moore: Uh, we love having you guys on here.
• 47:03
  Daniel Moore: It's always a blast.
• 47:04
  Daniel Moore: And so uh we're gonna go ahead and call it a wrap on this one for this week.
• 47:09
  Daniel Moore: Uh next week, Lord willing, we will probably be starting our new series, and we're planning on going through my book, Marriage is a Mission, is what we're gonna start into.
• 47:20
  Daniel Moore: So we're gonna try to get that started next week.
• 47:22
  Daniel Moore: So we're gonna go ahead and call it for this week, though.
• 47:25
  Daniel Moore: Um, as we wrap up today, our hope is that this episode reminded you that marriage doesn't have to be complicated to be meaningful.
• 47:31
  Daniel Moore: Sometimes the simplest moments, the quick answers, the laughter, the honest words, they're the ones that strengthen our connection the most.
• 47:38
  Daniel Moore: Marriage is built in the everyday choices like choosing grace, choosing joy, choosing to keep learning one another.
• 47:45
  Daniel Moore: And when we invite God into these moments, even the fun and playful ones, he uses them to deepen our love and our unity.
• 47:53
  Daniel Moore: So this week, we encourage you all to take a few of these questions, maybe, that we've gone through today.
• 47:58
  Daniel Moore: Sit down with your spouse and just enjoy each other.
• 48:00
  Daniel Moore: Laugh together, listen well, and thank God for the journey that you're on right where you are.
• 48:06
  Daniel Moore: Well, as we go this week, we pray that your marriage is stronger and your walk with God is closer.
• 48:10
  Daniel Moore: After this episode, this is an extension of Connecting to Gap Ministries, and we pray that you have a blessed week.