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Episode #252: The Hidden Messages in Everyday Experiences · Tea Time w/Amie & Bev

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  Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, welcome to tea time with Amy and BEV subsystem.
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  Speaker 2: Not much. How are things going with you?
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  Speaker 1: I'm a recovery but I'm doing really good.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah you look good. Yeah, thanks your little business. See,
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  Speaker 2: I know, I like, look at me today. That's right,
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  Speaker 2: the threads, the threads.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, what's happening.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I guess I'll run someuth to buy you, just
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  Speaker 3: just to you know, how we do.
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  Speaker 2: Our conversations, but just to see what your thoughts are.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: So, at at the office, I noticed the door that
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  Speaker 3: goes into where I do my work at was kind
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  Speaker 3: of catching.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if you've been.
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  Speaker 3: In there in a while, but it seems like it's
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  Speaker 3: kind of I have to kind of pull it open
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  Speaker 3: because it's kind of hanging at the top. And I
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  Speaker 3: noticed that the top three screws were stripped because I
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  Speaker 3: tried tightening him and it wasn't stripped, it was stripped.
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  Speaker 3: So I took one screw out from the middle of
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  Speaker 3: a shallow screw and I went to go see in
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  Speaker 3: the office see if I could find.
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  Speaker 2: A longer screw.
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  Speaker 3: And while I'm unscrewing the other screw, the door falls
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  Speaker 3: off onto the ground and it's not usable anymore. So
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  Speaker 3: then we had to move a door. But it's like
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  Speaker 3: I look at things, and I think you do too.
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  Speaker 3: I look at things.
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  Speaker 2: What would be the messages? Right?
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  Speaker 3: And I know when we're having this conversation, it really
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  Speaker 3: has a lot to do with our own interpretation. But
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  Speaker 3: I always like to get the thoughts of what someone
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  Speaker 3: else thinks of at that time.
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  Speaker 2: So initially the door was stuck, right, It.
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  Speaker 3: Didn't matter if I was inside that room or if
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  Speaker 3: I was outside the room, it'd get stuck. Clients would
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  Speaker 3: try to open up the door and then get they'd
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  Speaker 3: have to kind of push it open or whatever because
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  Speaker 3: it would get stuck.
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  Speaker 2: And then all of a sudden it just gave way. Right,
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  Speaker 2: and now it's laying.
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  Speaker 3: It's done so on an energetic standpoint or on a
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  Speaker 3: spiritual guidance message kind of standpoint, how would you have
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  Speaker 3: interpreted that?
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  Speaker 1: Wow, that was a good question. Being stuck and not
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  Speaker 1: walking through the doors that.
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  Speaker 2: Are there, maybe.
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  Speaker 1: Resisting the ability to walk through a door nice or
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  Speaker 1: some doors just aren't meant.
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  Speaker 2: To walk through. So that's what I mean.
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  Speaker 3: There's like so many things right, and my whole thing
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  Speaker 3: was like being stuck. It was being stuck in a
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  Speaker 3: lot of ways, and I think, does that mean my
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  Speaker 3: client was kind of stuck to you know, I'm looking
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  Speaker 3: at these things from such a wider I mean, on
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  Speaker 3: the three D, we could say, well, Beth, the door
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  Speaker 3: was faulty.
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  Speaker 2: You know, there was things that were happening.
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  Speaker 3: But like, I've already walked away from the door now,
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  Speaker 3: so now we're past that part, and I've already walked
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  Speaker 3: away from the door, and I'm unscrewing the screw, like
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  Speaker 3: a couple of turns of the wrists to pull this
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  Speaker 3: other screw out, and in that meantime, that door just
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  Speaker 3: falls behind me, like makes a huge noise, and it's
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  Speaker 3: like and it's funny because my first client says, oh,
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  Speaker 3: if I had tools right now, I'd fix this for you,
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  Speaker 3: my first client, and then you know, and then the
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  Speaker 3: second clients. I had to have sheet sheet hung up
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  Speaker 3: in the doorway because that's what that's why it was.
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  Speaker 3: I had a family of three that came in, so
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  Speaker 3: but you know, so it's like that kind of stuff
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  Speaker 3: and it's a and then it then it's like then
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  Speaker 3: my my perception of it could be. But then I
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  Speaker 3: don't know if I'm getting, you know, trying to get emotions,
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  Speaker 3: you know, attachment to an outcome involved in it.
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  Speaker 2: That's why it's good to talk to other people to
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  Speaker 2: kind of give.
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  Speaker 3: Get an idea and see when we have these conversations
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  Speaker 3: and the person you know that I'm the one that's
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  Speaker 3: looking for advice, So I look, I look listen for
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  Speaker 3: that advice and I see how it shows up my
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  Speaker 3: body and how do I resonate with it?
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  Speaker 2: How does it feel to me?
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  Speaker 3: But to me, it's like letting it was almost like
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  Speaker 3: letting me know I'm probably not going to be doing
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  Speaker 3: the same thing that I've been doing because it's an
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  Speaker 3: open door. Now yeah, I mean it's not now we've
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  Speaker 3: replaced the door, but with the view of it, with
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  Speaker 3: the door had fallen down, it was an open door,
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  Speaker 3: like it came crashing down.
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  Speaker 2: Like gosh.
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  Speaker 3: Now, when I'm talking to you about this, it's almost like,
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  Speaker 3: no matter what I was doing to keep myself stuck,
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  Speaker 3: it doesn't matter now because the doors are freaking wide open.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, And that's as you were tiring I was. You
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  Speaker 1: asked me what it could mean, and those are things
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  Speaker 1: that it could mean. But what I really want to
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  Speaker 1: know is what's going on in your life for the
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  Speaker 1: door to be stuck, and.
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  Speaker 2: For that I went on so okay, And then for
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  Speaker 2: that I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: And it's like even Freeman said, well, what were you
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  Speaker 3: thinking about in that moment when I fell? And I'm like, well,
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  Speaker 3: that I just need to fix the door. That was
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  Speaker 3: my only thought at that time.
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  Speaker 2: I wasn't.
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  Speaker 3: I was just wanting to get the door fixed before
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  Speaker 3: the next person came in. That was just my only thought.
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  Speaker 3: So it really is that there's so many factors to
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  Speaker 3: a lot of stuff, but it's really I guess the
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  Speaker 3: reason I'm bringing it forward or the reason it's being
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  Speaker 3: brought forward. It's like there's bigger messages to everything. It's
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  Speaker 3: never just a it's never just whatever it looks like
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  Speaker 3: on the surface typically because everything's like you know, symbolic,
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  Speaker 3: there's a lot of things that have meaning behind it.
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  Speaker 3: And for me, that's the way I look at life.
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  Speaker 3: That's just the way that I am. I'm naturally pulled
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  Speaker 3: that way. It just feels like the right thing for
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  Speaker 3: me to do, not saying that it is for everybody,
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  Speaker 3: but it's like being open for that interpretation and being
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  Speaker 3: open to listening to someone else and what they might think,
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  Speaker 3: how they perceived it. And even if it doesn't give
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  Speaker 3: you goosebumps when you're getting that conversation, this is for
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  Speaker 3: everybody that's listening. Even if it doesn't give you goosebumps
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  Speaker 3: for that conversation, if you feel like a resistance to
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  Speaker 3: something they said, or like hmm, like that's not that's
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  Speaker 3: not it.
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  Speaker 2: That's it.
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  Speaker 3: So it's like it's just because it triggered you, right,
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  Speaker 3: it got a response out of you. So it's like
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  Speaker 3: I just wanted to kind of whatever reason, I don't know,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know spirit I guess, but because I think
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  Speaker 3: it's usable for so many things that we do in life,
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  Speaker 3: and we just kind of we can get caught up
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  Speaker 3: in these circumstances and you know, with situations with people
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  Speaker 3: and everything else, and the whole time when we're going
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  Speaker 3: through these processes that we just stopped and really kind
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  Speaker 3: of tune into ourselves.
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  Speaker 2: Even when someone comes in there being an ass to
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  Speaker 2: you or.
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  Speaker 3: They're being demanding, it's like really going within sight of
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  Speaker 3: self and really checking them with self and feeling, how
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  Speaker 3: does this feel? How is showing up for me?
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  Speaker 2: Is this true?
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  Speaker 1: You know?
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  Speaker 3: Like asking all the questions how can I show up
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  Speaker 3: and do better or you know, whatever the question is,
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  Speaker 3: it's coming to mind.
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  Speaker 2: But it's like it just presents opportunities.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it goes along with a vehicle accident. Let's say
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  Speaker 1: if if you're driving along and then all of a
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  Speaker 1: sudden you get hit, Well, somebody hit me. Now it's
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  Speaker 1: their fault because you were in the right of way,
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  Speaker 1: whatever the case may be. But when you back it
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  Speaker 1: up a little bit, it's like, have you been like
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  Speaker 1: going through life and not being in the present moment?
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  Speaker 1: Have you been just driving through life, go go, go go,
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  Speaker 1: and not taking a moment to breathe and do some
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  Speaker 1: self care and maybe maybe you don't. Let you had
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  Speaker 1: your vehicles always got problems and you're frustrated with it,
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  Speaker 1: and now it's total Like there's so many scenarios that
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  Speaker 1: could happen just from an accident, so similar.
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  Speaker 2: I just want to put it on a bigger.
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  Speaker 1: Scale because then when you involve somebody else in the scenario,
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  Speaker 1: you want to blame them, Well, they hit me and
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  Speaker 1: it's their fault. And it's like, okay, I hear that,
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  Speaker 1: and insurance wise, okay, we're going to roll with that.
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  Speaker 1: Because you want to get your vehicle replaced. But let's
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  Speaker 1: go another go deeper with this in how is it
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  Speaker 1: that you were a vibrational match to be in that
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  Speaker 1: spot at that time to be hit by that person?
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  Speaker 1: So I know my brain thinks that way too.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, because we're the creators of our reality. We're creating.
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  Speaker 3: Everything that's in our experience right now is our creation.
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  Speaker 3: Everything is, Yeah, and we're just joining together in the
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  Speaker 3: in creating together now, we're co creators, right, So it's
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  Speaker 3: like it is And it's like, I love how you
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  Speaker 3: brought that analogy. And it's even when you were talking
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  Speaker 3: about that when my red truck had gotten totally Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I was not in a place of appreciation. I had
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  Speaker 3: gotten a paint job. I wasn't happy with the paint job.
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  Speaker 3: It needed more and more work. And it's like I
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  Speaker 3: wasn't listening to the messages. So if I would have
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  Speaker 3: stepped back and looked at it from a bigger picture,
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  Speaker 3: I'd recognize there's probably a lot more going on on
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  Speaker 3: this vehicle that it really I should have just gotten
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  Speaker 3: rid of it at the time and saved the money.
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  Speaker 2: Honestly, if I was to look back.
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  Speaker 3: At that, but I'm you know, I contend to be
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  Speaker 3: a hard headed kind of person sometimes, and that's the thing. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: and when we're in the mix of it, we don't
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  Speaker 3: sometimes let go of it.
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  Speaker 2: We have an attachment to an outcome, We have.
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  Speaker 3: An attachment to whatever. And it wasn't going the way
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  Speaker 3: that I wanted to go. So to me for looking
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  Speaker 3: at it from an outside perspective, from a bigger perspective,
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  Speaker 3: three D party or third party looking at that situation,
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  Speaker 3: I wasn't in appreciation of that truck. I learned after
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  Speaker 3: that to appreciate the truck.
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  Speaker 2: And now I appreciate the truck I'm driving because it
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  Speaker 2: is a vehicle and it just gets me back and forth.
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  Speaker 3: If I had billions of dollars right now, I'm probably
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  Speaker 3: gonna drive that truck around a little while longer. I'm
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  Speaker 3: just saying, because it's got me back and forth. I
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  Speaker 3: don't need a big vehicle right now with the kids
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  Speaker 3: and stuff like that. It's working for me. And it's like,
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  Speaker 3: it's just realizing to be in that space of appreciation
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  Speaker 3: and where we're at right this moment gives us all
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  Speaker 3: the benefit of everything in the world. It really does,
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  Speaker 3: because right now I'm like, I'm good with That's all right, universe,
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  Speaker 3: I'm good with this truck. I mean, if you want
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  Speaker 3: to bring me something else, okay, bring it. But it's like,
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  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna sit and worry about it. I'm not
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  Speaker 3: going to sit and kind of crunch numbers and figure
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  Speaker 3: out how I can make it happen.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just going to allow it to happen. I'm going
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  Speaker 2: to enjoy what I've got right now. That's it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, And we tend to We've talked about this before.
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  Speaker 1: We tend to take everything around us for granted or
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  Speaker 1: just slough it off like, well, it's been there, it's
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  Speaker 1: supposed to be there. Prime example would be a significant other.
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  Speaker 1: We don't express our gratitude for them, whether we do
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  Speaker 1: it outwardly or just inwardly, and then the next thing
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  Speaker 1: you know, they're not there. As we all have experienced
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  Speaker 1: this in some form of a parent or grandparent or
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  Speaker 1: spouse or child, and they're not there anymore. And then
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  Speaker 1: it's the longing for them to be there, and it's like,
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  Speaker 1: well did we did we appreciate them when they were there?
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  Speaker 1: And I find myself too, I get wrapped up in
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  Speaker 1: my human emotions of well, he's doing this and he's
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  Speaker 1: doing that, and then I'm like, wait a minute. You
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  Speaker 1: know what. He gets up every single day and he
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  Speaker 1: goes to work for us. He helps pays our bills.
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  Speaker 1: He has been so supportive of the things that I have,
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  Speaker 1: my adventures that I've done, and he's never really said
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  Speaker 1: anything about it.
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  Speaker 2: He's just been you know.
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  Speaker 1: So it's shifting the way I am perceiving the things
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  Speaker 1: that are happening.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, And it's so easy to go down that path
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  Speaker 3: of especially when it comes to our partners, to to
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  Speaker 3: kind of, you know, keep a list of the things,
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  Speaker 3: all these things and it could be all the things
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  Speaker 3: that are that they don't make us happier or that
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  Speaker 3: kind of it's our triggers, right, instead of recognizing it's
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  Speaker 3: what they're triggering inside of me has nothing to do
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  Speaker 3: with them, It has to do with me. Like stopping
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  Speaker 3: for a minute and recognizing, thank you for showing this
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  Speaker 3: trigger with inside of me.
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  Speaker 2: You ask you, yeah, big chart, But it really is.
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  Speaker 3: It's such a gift because because it is and it's
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  Speaker 3: and it's in a safe environment. It's just with a
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  Speaker 3: safe it's with your partners, you're it's safe. So it's
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  Speaker 3: like it's it is all those things. But then on
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  Speaker 3: the other side of that, I've also learned after people
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  Speaker 3: have transitioned and you know, passed on to.
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  Speaker 2: Bigger and better things from planet Earth, we can still
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  Speaker 2: heal those relationships.
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  Speaker 3: So it's like, God, this this conversation can go in
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  Speaker 3: so many different directions, but the conversation that they're still
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  Speaker 3: healing to be had. I'm listening to Suzanne Geieseman's most
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  Speaker 3: recent book. I can't even remember what it is that
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  Speaker 3: just came out. I'm just listening to it at this time,
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  Speaker 3: and there's like so many stories in there, and this
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  Speaker 3: girl was all sad and upset basically, I'm kind of
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  Speaker 3: dramatizing it a bit because her dad passed, but they
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  Speaker 3: didn't have a good relationship with each other, and she
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  Speaker 3: wondered if they were ever going to have a good relationship.
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  Speaker 3: And then at some point he starts communicating with her
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  Speaker 3: and they end up having this great relationship. Because it's
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  Speaker 3: never finished here and sometimes we can't see. They can't
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  Speaker 3: see through all the crap that they're that they have
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  Speaker 3: in their mind that they're believing at this time.
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  Speaker 2: They can't see they're not open for more information.
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  Speaker 3: So they're and then they have a tendency to be
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  Speaker 3: more open because they're not in the muck of everything.
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  Speaker 3: They're not in like I got to pay the bills,
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  Speaker 3: and I've got to go to work, and I've got
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  Speaker 3: you know, all these I've got tos that we've been
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  Speaker 3: trained to think that we have to do. These are
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  Speaker 3: our things that we're supposed to do, because that's what
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  Speaker 3: we're supposed to do.
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  Speaker 2: You're supposed to go buy a house, pay it off, you.
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  Speaker 3: Know, have insurance, You're supposed to do all these are
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  Speaker 3: all the things that have been trained into all of us.
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  Speaker 3: And there's a lot of people that are going the
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  Speaker 3: opposite direction. But that I'm kind of leaning off of
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  Speaker 3: the topic. But it's just like there's no there's no ending,
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  Speaker 3: so there can never be an over and done, and
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  Speaker 3: that's it. Even if someone's still from my perspective, even
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  Speaker 3: if I was still if let's say that Gym's here
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  Speaker 3: and I'm here and we go our separate ways, and
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  Speaker 3: even though we're both in the physical body, it doesn't
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  Speaker 3: mean that there still can't be that same contact as
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  Speaker 3: you would have from their spirit, because you can still
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  Speaker 3: spiritually contact each other and there can still be a
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  Speaker 3: spiritual healing.
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  Speaker 2: You just might not be with that person anymore. Somebody
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  Speaker 2: need to hear that.
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  Speaker 3: But it's like, because there's there is no separation and
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  Speaker 3: the body doesn't really it doesn't really mean anything when
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  Speaker 3: it comes to spirit because we're all in spirit as
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  Speaker 3: well and they are too, so it's like there is
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  Speaker 3: no disconnect, there is no separateness.
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  Speaker 2: We're all one big cell.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. And along that lines, we believe that we come
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  Speaker 1: in like soul families or gatherings. We come in and
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  Speaker 1: out of uh life experiences with a certain soul group
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  Speaker 1: and we agree that you're gonna You're.
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  Speaker 2: Gonna play the mom, and I'm going to be.
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  Speaker 1: The dad or the son or the girl daughter or
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  Speaker 1: whatever the case may be. And maybe it is a
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  Speaker 1: difficult relationship. And then one of the two people go
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  Speaker 1: on a healing journey, and on that healing journey they
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  Speaker 1: learn about forgiveness and love and and how we are
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  Speaker 1: all doing what we know how to do with the information,
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  Speaker 1: knowledge and wisdom that we have, and all the things right,
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  Speaker 1: all the things we've talked about. One thing I tell
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  Speaker 1: my clients when they're when they're healing a relationship that's
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  Speaker 1: that's very difficult, and it's typically the people with people
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  Speaker 1: that are still living, not ones that have passed. I
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  Speaker 1: will tell them that you will notice that as you
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  Speaker 1: are doing your healing process that they might like try
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  Speaker 1: to pull you down even more. They're going to be
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  Speaker 1: very clingy and be even more difficult because they can
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  Speaker 1: feel that energy shift and things are changing for you.
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  Speaker 1: Or there could be that they're going to move on
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  Speaker 1: with themselves, which means there's going to be more distance
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  Speaker 1: between you, which is there will be less communication, even
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  Speaker 1: if it's a parent or sibling, there will be less communication.
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  Speaker 1: They're going to go on their own journey. They're going
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  Speaker 1: to go do something else away from you because you're
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  Speaker 1: no longer in that vibrational match. Or which has happened
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  Speaker 1: many times, is the lessons have been learned, you're on
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  Speaker 1: a healing path. They've served their purpose, and they exit
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  Speaker 1: the physical body like they transition. They're done and they did
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: their part, and they're like, Okay, I did my part.
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: I'm out. Yeah, So any and all of it like,
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: we don't know, but it can be possible.
• 16:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah, And it's it almost reminds me of going back
• 16:22
  Speaker 3: to the whole door situations, there's multiple possibilities, like the
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: possibilities are endless, and someone else that might watch this
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: might say, oh, well, this is exactly what it meant,
• 16:31
  Speaker 3: and it might and they could say something in the
• 16:33
  Speaker 3: comments and it might resonate and it might not right.
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: So it's just like it's or it might be some
• 16:38
  Speaker 3: sort of a symbolism for themselves. Right, So it is
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: it is all of that, is all those things, and
• 16:44
  Speaker 3: it's like even on the other side of that, when
• 16:46
  Speaker 3: we heal ourselves and we start doing this inside journey,
• 16:50
  Speaker 3: we're healing everybody else too. We're even giving them permission
• 16:54
  Speaker 3: to be Like I'm going to honor myself. I'm gonna
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: put up some boundaries for myself. Oh if she put
• 16:57
  Speaker 3: up boundaries, he put up boundaries. Okay, oh maybe I
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: should have boundaries. Like it's starting to recognize, you know,
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: what we can handle, because boundaries, to me are in
• 17:09
  Speaker 3: place for things that we and an individual itself cannot handle.
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: So I have to put If my dad was calling
• 17:16
  Speaker 3: me a thousand times until you know, until I finally
• 17:19
  Speaker 3: get it, he gets me on the phone, I had
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: to put boundaries up to be like, no, I'm not
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: going to answer these phone calls all the time because
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: I was always readily available for everybody else. And then
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: it's recognizing that's not necessary. But I had to put
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: out those boundaries for myself instead of who cares. It
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: didn't matter how many times that phone rang, I'll get
• 17:36
  Speaker 3: to and when I get to it. And so that's
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: where my boundary came into place. Until I didn't need
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: the boundary anymore. I don't need the boundary anymore because
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: it's like it's like water off a ducts back.
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: It doesn't matter to me anymore. But I had to.
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: I had to go through that to get to this point.
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: I couldn't get there from where I was at at
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: that moment. So the boundaries came into place.
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like we had talked about it, it's like playing.
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: Double dust rope tonight, Guys like, okay, Jim, that's right,
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: and those boundaries would be. It comes around to if
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: if you're doing something that I don't like, I haven't
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: learned to maintain my energy yet, so I need to
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: put up a boundary that says you can no longer
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: do this because it's affecting me, or I no longer
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: accept what you're doing because well, if it's not affecting me,
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: they don't need the boundary exactly. So it's like you
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: you do you, you be who you're going to be,
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: and peace out, Like I'm gonna go do my thing
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: because I don't need to hang around with you.
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: It's an unhealthy.
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: Relationship or whatever the case may be.
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: But that's what.
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: As you were talking, that's what came to me about
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: boundaries boundaries, and I've never thought about it that way.
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: It just now is like talking it out loud. The
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: boundary boundaries are for you. It's not for the other person.
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: It's for you.
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: Nope, it's for you because until we can handle it,
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: like you said, until we're not giving our energy away
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: to that situation, this is the boundary. But eventually we
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: don't need those boundaries. It's like it's obvious to explain
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: to the girls recently of value. You value yourself enough
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: that doesn't matter what other people do. Yeah, exactly, we
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: don't need the buffer anymore. Why because we're vibrating at
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: a higher I don't even want to say higher, we're
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: vibrating at a different frequency that that stuff doesn't really
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: it doesn't matter any longer.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, wild it is.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: That was awesome trip there really was. Please everybody get
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: in and sit down and put your.
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: Seat on the road, keeping your hands and feeding the
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: vehicle at all time. We're going to go with these conversations.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: We don't know where we're going to go with these conversations.
• 20:05
  Speaker 3: We're the ones getting the picture taken of us and
• 20:07
  Speaker 3: it's not everybody elseful and they're going through it.
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: Here it is. I love it.
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: I think we need to leave this conversation there.
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: Because we'll sink sack on the next one.
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: Right, right, So show up for the part too, because
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: we'll be wearing the same thing in it.
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: That's right.
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: Oh goodness. Well, on that note, thanks for hanging out
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: with us. Teach time with Amy and Bev. Be sure
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: to have these conversations with people. Be courageous, be brave.
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: They're being had more and more so that's exciting. As
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: we know, it's better to get support, especially with any
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: kind of mental health, and these conversations help with that,
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: and so be brave and share the resources. So if
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: you hear whether it's our content or other podcasts, share
• 21:05
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• 21:13
  Speaker 1: You're not going to get an immediate response from us,
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: just saying we will get back to you as we can. Also,
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: if you there's anything that you would like for us
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: to you know, talk about in our roundabout way, we
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: probably hit on so I love it.
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: We'll start with it and then we'll wander off from
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: it and then we'll ring it around or it all
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: makes sense altogether.
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: Bring it right back. So anyway, you can find us
• 21:43
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• 21:48
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• 21:54
  Speaker 1: have the conversations, but share the information, whether it's again
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: for us or other podcasters, because it only helps. So
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: with that, we appreciate your time and energy and thank
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: you for hanging out with us again.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: Tea time with Amy and Beth. We'll see you later. Bye.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: Go to part two.
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: Who knows what's gonna be said? Part two? I don't know.
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: I just I just don't know.
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  Speaker 1: H