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What is Microcheating? · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 4: Ways sucks Tomorrow morning, War of the Roses. You find
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  Speaker 4: out of so much cheating on.
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  Speaker 2: You and cheating.
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  Speaker 4: The definition of cheating has many different definitions, if you
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  Speaker 4: will right, because people like if you flirt with the
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  Speaker 4: coworkers at cheating, if you smile with the coworkers at cheating,
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  Speaker 4: and so I guess is that called micro cheating?
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  Speaker 5: Well, there are things that are considered micro cheating, and
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  Speaker 5: those are sort of small behaviors that don't rise to
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  Speaker 5: the level of like full blown affair. They do sort
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  Speaker 5: of like chip away at the trust in a relationship.
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  Speaker 2: Uh.
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  Speaker 1: For example, if you.
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  Speaker 5: Are flirting with someone online or in person, that would
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  Speaker 5: be a micro cheat.
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  Speaker 2: So what what is flirting online?
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  Speaker 1: Who you know? Flirting online?
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  Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, I'd really like to see you in
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  Speaker 5: that new shirt.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, maybe like double tapping, because you know how double.
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  Speaker 5: Tapping and fire emotions on somebody's.
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  Speaker 4: On Instagram, I get all these messages and I usually
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  Speaker 4: just double tap and move. But double tap is a
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  Speaker 4: heart right on Instagram. But on Facebook, when you double tap,
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  Speaker 4: it's a thumbs up. But it's like when you're moving
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  Speaker 4: fast on Facebook, yellow tap, double tap, double tap. I'm
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  Speaker 4: not sitting, I'm not flirting double hearts. But I heard
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  Speaker 4: someone say somewhere that heart's hearts are flirting, and I'm like, no, no,
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  Speaker 4: not if it's.
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  Speaker 6: Like a double tap, because that's just equivalent to a like.
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  Speaker 6: I feel like if somebody posts a picture on their
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  Speaker 6: Instagram story and you swipe up and you put the
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  Speaker 6: looking eyes and a fire emoji in.
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  Speaker 5: A heart, that would yeah, someone's post and hearting it
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  Speaker 5: that way, not really micro sheet taking the time to
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  Speaker 5: go into their comments and post a couple of hearts.
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  Speaker 5: That would be considered more of like a micro cheating.
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  Speaker 4: Payton's common, and that's such a lot of work to
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  Speaker 4: do that. That's why that's.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel terrible. I've never seen that before, and
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  Speaker 2: no one's ever done that to many.
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  Speaker 5: But they also say, like confiding in someone else instead
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  Speaker 5: of your partner about personal relationship problems, that is micro cheating.
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  Speaker 1: That could lead to something.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, because you're kind of opening that door to emotional intimacy,
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  Speaker 5: and so that's why it's considered a micro cheats. I like,
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  Speaker 5: technically you didn't do anything, but you are sharing intimate
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  Speaker 5: details about your relationship with someone else.
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  Speaker 1: So that's a micro cheat.
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  Speaker 5: Late night texting with someone you know your partner wouldn't
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  Speaker 5: be comfortable with, or micro cheating.
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  Speaker 1: Sure, that's bordering on cheating right there.
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  Speaker 6: I would consider that cheating.
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  Speaker 3: You know what, I had a couple friends that were
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  Speaker 3: upset at each other because they had they had a
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  Speaker 3: group chat going on that became a one on one
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  Speaker 3: after so they started side texting each other funny things
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  Speaker 3: that didn't have to do with the group thing.
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  Speaker 1: That's bad, right, that's not micro cheat. Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I think when you meet someone and maybe things are
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  Speaker 5: are a little bit flirty, your feels up, and you
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  Speaker 5: don't tell them you're in a committed relationship, that's a
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  Speaker 5: micro cheat.
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  Speaker 2: What about sending topless photos?
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  Speaker 5: That would be a cheat?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, let's micro share. I think that's a little bit
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  Speaker 1: more sen hold like on there.
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  Speaker 6: If you're in a relationship and maybe you meet a
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  Speaker 6: coworker and you start to like get like a little crush,
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  Speaker 6: even though you're not like actually talking to them or
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  Speaker 6: being in you see them down the hall, you're like, Ooh,
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  Speaker 6: they're kind of cute. Would that be considered a micro chee?
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  Speaker 3: I think so.
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  Speaker 6: I think so too.
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  Speaker 5: I think that's definitely a micro chee. I think the
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  Speaker 5: experts actually say it's not really uh, mostly like the
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  Speaker 5: behavior itself, it's more about the secrecy. So like, if
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  Speaker 5: you have a secret crush on someone, that would definitely
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  Speaker 5: be a micro cheet, right if you're hiding it because
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  Speaker 5: you know your partner would be upset, it's crossing the
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  Speaker 5: line into micro cheating. So they say, like, you know,
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  Speaker 5: to avoid this or to avoid these things turning into
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  Speaker 5: something big, talk about it early with your partner, Explain
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  Speaker 5: how it's like making you feel, and like make sure
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  Speaker 5: that you guys are both agreeing that whatever is happening
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  Speaker 5: is acceptable in your relationship. Because you may be with
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  Speaker 5: someone who doesn't care what you comment on someone else's
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  Speaker 5: things on Instagram. It's Instagram, it's not real life. So
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  Speaker 5: it's like it's something that every person is going to
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  Speaker 5: have a different definition. Some people think certain things are
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  Speaker 5: cheating and some people don't think those things are cheating.
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  Speaker 3: If they don't have a problem with it, do you
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  Speaker 3: still consider, like, let's say they don't care if you
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  Speaker 3: hard eyes somebody, is that micro cheating?
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  Speaker 5: I think in your relationship, if you've agreed that that
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  Speaker 5: doesn't bother your partner, then no.
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  Speaker 2: What if I sent the video to somewhat of me
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  Speaker 2: naked doing burpies? I think that would definitely who knows
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  Speaker 2: what that would like?
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  Speaker 1: Would Blake be okay with that?
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  Speaker 5: Yes?
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  Speaker 1: What if you lie to your fitness tracker? That's macro cheating?
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  Speaker 3: Yes?
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  Speaker 2: Is this an article somewhere?
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  Speaker 5: It's all over Reddit, Like I'm talking about their micro cheating,
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  Speaker 5: asking each other if this is micro cheating or not.
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  Speaker 5: That's pretty much it kind of get the gist of it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, micro cheating.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, like think about like the people that download
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  Speaker 5: dating apps just to look like you downloaded a dating app.
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  Speaker 5: That's micro cheating, Hello, just.
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  Speaker 1: To see what's out there?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, leading text messages if you're curious, just to borrow
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  Speaker 5: a friend's phone that's on that just look through and
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  Speaker 5: see what they're offering.
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  Speaker 6: So that's actually like kind of creepy. I'm sorry, Like
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  Speaker 6: if you're a man, or you honestly a woman too,
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  Speaker 6: like and you're just downloading to just look like that
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  Speaker 6: gives peeping tom.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know why, but it does.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, all of those are like kind of the gateway
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  Speaker 3: to some trouble for sure.
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  Speaker 5: Like there's one on there that's like taking your wedding
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  Speaker 5: ring off when you're going out parties, Like that's terrible.
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  Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, I turn around if I forget my ring.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I just keeps spinning in circles.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Micro cheating, all right, I wonder what else is considered
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  Speaker 4: micro cheating? For missing something text us you text JJRD.
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  Speaker 4: Whatever is micro cheating to not to six eight ninety
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  Speaker 4: three