Latest / The Baller Alert Show / Episode 61"The Culture Deserves It" Feat. Kenny Burns w/ Ferrari Simmons & Su Solo Prod: iHandlebars
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- 0:01Speaker 1: The tree is real, it's about to go down. Wake up,
- 0:10Speaker 1: wake up and turn it down. You know, if you're
- 0:15Speaker 1: gonna shoot, you better shoot straight, because I so, who
- 0:17Speaker 1: did I don't listen? The worst thing you can deal
- 0:19Speaker 1: with tracks. Welcome to the follow Alert Show featuring your
- 0:22Speaker 1: lifestyle specialists He Burns So and Ferrari Simmons. The tree
- 0:28Speaker 1: is real in the studio, didn't I was gonna wrap it.
- 0:33Speaker 1: I ain't got to him. You know when it's your
- 0:36Speaker 1: lifestyle specialist, Kenny Ferns Kid, Ferrari Simmons, your baby so yeah, yeah,
- 0:45Speaker 1: thank you for having my back though. So if I
- 0:46Speaker 1: was gonna wrap you have me. I saw it, I
- 0:48Speaker 1: felt it, I was ready for it. I saw and
- 0:50Speaker 1: I appreciate. That's black love all day. Rory. How's your week?
- 0:56Speaker 1: My weekend was good full DJ mo Uh, nothing too crazy,
- 1:00Speaker 1: just a normal at L turn up. Well, guess what's crazy?
- 1:03Speaker 1: Your s showball want again from snow Man? You know, worry.
- 1:10Speaker 1: I just want to add that two decades at all,
- 1:15Speaker 1: Jesus Christ, my two decades of hosting parties and events
- 1:19Speaker 1: for all these celebrities, I've never received a seventy thousand
- 1:21Speaker 1: dollar While Big shout to the goat. Now, I've never
- 1:25Speaker 1: I've never received a chain. I mean obviously Rockefeller chain,
- 1:30Speaker 1: you know when I was in the music side of it,
- 1:31Speaker 1: I've never as a host. It's nice. You are worthy
- 1:35Speaker 1: and just know that you o G. Never got nothing
- 1:37Speaker 1: like that from none of the It's cool. I love him.
- 1:41Speaker 1: I'm not missfine. So how does it feels? It? Heavy?
- 1:45Speaker 1: As heavy as hell? That's what I mean. I walked
- 1:48Speaker 1: in here legitimately, and that's the first thing I saw it.
- 1:51Speaker 1: All you got bad on it too. I didn't even
- 1:53Speaker 1: know what the bag it was until he gave it
- 1:54Speaker 1: to me. You didn't know what a bagad well, So
- 1:56Speaker 1: he's educating on Uni. Scott Dweller. That's hard body, that's yeah.
- 2:06Speaker 1: He was like, are you and jay Z got to say,
- 2:08Speaker 1: watched a little bro Oh yeah, what's up? That's crazy?
- 2:14Speaker 1: I love everything was good. Little Rory had he started
- 2:18Speaker 1: baseball season, so he's doing I had the game ball
- 2:22Speaker 1: last week and this week it was okay. He struck out,
- 2:26Speaker 1: but you know it's cool. You know, he's seven, So
- 2:28Speaker 1: I'm teaching them that sometimes you have a good game,
- 2:30Speaker 1: sometimes you have a bad games. First game he hit
- 2:33Speaker 1: three balls um and brought the team back. They didn't
- 2:36Speaker 1: win the second game. He didn't get a hit, but
- 2:38Speaker 1: he you know, he was crying, but you know, just
- 2:42Speaker 1: gonna cry. Man. He was like, man, I didn't hit
- 2:44Speaker 1: the ball. I was like, sometimes as you don't have
- 2:47Speaker 1: a bit. He was passionate about. Yes, but that's the
- 2:49Speaker 1: amazing straight daddy. Daddy do the all weekend. So it's
- 2:52Speaker 1: all good. It's almost with him that I saw you
- 2:57Speaker 1: drove your other car today too. I'm just so happy
- 2:59Speaker 1: for you. Like you're out here, y'all here in this
- 3:01Speaker 1: massive streets. I remember when we used to come to
- 3:05Speaker 1: the club trying to figure it out. Now you're out here.
- 3:09Speaker 1: She was so beautiful. I love the green. The green
- 3:11Speaker 1: is back, thank you. Yeah, I'm just rocking my natural
- 3:13Speaker 1: hair these days. Specific color my hair is. Oh yeah,
- 3:18Speaker 1: this is a hold on. Yeah, that's all her nation. Yes,
- 3:22Speaker 1: ma'am looking that right. Yeah, you know it was like
- 3:24Speaker 1: turquoise last March for my birthday. Like so this is
- 3:28Speaker 1: just like what it's going. Birthday is coming up? Is
- 3:30Speaker 1: it this Saturday? Yes? So I'm actually, um, you gotta
- 3:38Speaker 1: be available to d J. Yeah, I'm coming back because
- 3:40Speaker 1: I gotta be in Vegas with us, snowman, are you
- 3:42Speaker 1: going to make it coming right back, flying, right back Friday? Saturday? Saturday?
- 3:47Speaker 1: Saturday falls on Saturday this year, so we will be
- 3:50Speaker 1: at the brunch at at Atlantis. Yes, Airy season is
- 3:54Speaker 1: upon us. I want to make sure you get is
- 3:57Speaker 1: it my mom? Yeah, well y'all can party with me.
- 4:05Speaker 1: You know, just go to the brunch e t on
- 4:06Speaker 1: Instagram and submit your reservation because we're just gonna party.
- 4:10Speaker 1: Be a good time. So I can jump out there
- 4:11Speaker 1: because I'm not booked this weekend. I mean that weekend
- 4:14Speaker 1: Kenny has prom I'm cratching some prom season all right,
- 4:19Speaker 1: already starts to March, started in the march. What's problem?
- 4:22Speaker 1: What is school out? I'm gonna be there made, but
- 4:25Speaker 1: starts that they go to that like early afternoon, likely pm,
- 4:32Speaker 1: dinner pictures what time. We'll figure it out. We'll figure
- 4:36Speaker 1: that out. But y'all just make sure you'll come through
- 4:38Speaker 1: birthday down every for life. Yes, ladies, jelemen take Black
- 4:43Speaker 1: Love this morning. Yes, I'm excited. Yes, and I'm excited
- 4:46Speaker 1: because I happened. I knew about the show. If you
- 4:49Speaker 1: don't know about Black Love is our own. But I
- 4:52Speaker 1: knew about the show, but I didn't really watch it
- 4:54Speaker 1: because I mean, you know, I didn't watch it. I
- 4:56Speaker 1: didn't watch it prior to I did not watch a
- 4:58Speaker 1: great show. But every body says this, and I had
- 5:01Speaker 1: no clue. But then I watched the episodes when we
- 5:04Speaker 1: were being courted, and I must say, it's one of
- 5:06Speaker 1: the most important shows on television. And I and I
- 5:08Speaker 1: say that because black love is just not properly presented.
- 5:12Speaker 1: It's not properly amplified. And this couple like that properly
- 5:17Speaker 1: amplified right right, And and this couple was doing it's
- 5:21Speaker 1: actually a married couple. They're probably six years into their
- 5:24Speaker 1: relationship and they just like learning from others. That their
- 5:27Speaker 1: whole passion for it was learning about other people's experiences,
- 5:31Speaker 1: and they have some dynamic experience. If you watched the show,
- 5:34Speaker 1: I was like seeing how you know, candid people were.
- 5:36Speaker 1: But today, man, Jessica and I really like, you see
- 5:39Speaker 1: why we've been married almost twenty years. Like it's really
- 5:42Speaker 1: yang and yang, and it's you know what I'm saying.
- 5:45Speaker 1: Like I think in early relationships, you don't know what
- 5:46Speaker 1: the person is gonna say or do it. This is
- 5:49Speaker 1: wild card. You don't know, but it's like I'm sitting
- 5:51Speaker 1: there and I was. I wanted her to be comfortable,
- 5:53Speaker 1: like she doesn't do TV like I do TV. But
- 5:55Speaker 1: she was fluid and flowing and this is her topic
- 5:58Speaker 1: was about loving her man loving herself too, which is
- 6:02Speaker 1: a very important thing out there. Lady. I think in relationships,
- 6:05Speaker 1: you know a lot. We'll never get into it in
- 6:06Speaker 1: the opening of the show, but you know, you gotta
- 6:09Speaker 1: love yourself to be able to love somebody else properly.
- 6:11Speaker 1: But we did that a snake preview to no. I
- 6:15Speaker 1: think it's life lessons, you know, UM, in the twenty
- 6:18Speaker 1: years we've been together, you know there's some some definite
- 6:20Speaker 1: you know, just some key gyms in there on how
- 6:22Speaker 1: to you know, journey, I don't know yet, but of
- 6:25Speaker 1: course we let ball the nation know as soon as
- 6:28Speaker 1: we do. UM, and now it's time for it. Case
- 6:30Speaker 1: you miss thick, Lady, gem T I is out there
- 6:37Speaker 1: again being the super black hero that he is. UM.
- 6:42Speaker 1: He now, along with all of us, with a lot
- 6:44Speaker 1: of things that go on the Black community. Think there's
- 6:46Speaker 1: a conspiracy to tear down Michael Jackson. I want to
- 6:50Speaker 1: say this off topic. I want to discuss this with
- 6:52Speaker 1: y'all and get your opinions. But I think there is
- 6:55Speaker 1: definitely a conspiracy out here against black people, especially some
- 6:59Speaker 1: of our superheroes. But I also want to say that
- 7:01Speaker 1: we as black people do it to ourselves sometime, and
- 7:04Speaker 1: I saw just recently a Kelly definitely did it to himself.
- 7:09Speaker 1: He deserves what he gets. I'm sorry, but I just
- 7:16Speaker 1: saw that. Why would I do this thing? You are genius.
- 7:24Speaker 1: But Michael Jackson, y'all, we posted someone ball alert about
- 7:28Speaker 1: them taking a song out of something right, Yes, they
- 7:31Speaker 1: actually it was a Simpsons episode, the one that featured
- 7:35Speaker 1: Michael Jackson's voice as the mental patient. Ironically enough, you
- 7:38Speaker 1: know which one it is exactly. But I'm just saying, Michael,
- 7:42Speaker 1: that picture that we particularly use, that is a scary man.
- 7:49Speaker 1: That did scary ship. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, Tip, I'm
- 7:52Speaker 1: with you. They definitely are out to get some of us. You,
- 7:56Speaker 1: my friend, are on the fortunate list because you had
- 7:58Speaker 1: by root in your trunk you out. But my point
- 8:01Speaker 1: is like, they're definitely out to get a lot of us.
- 8:04Speaker 1: But Michael Jackson was cray like he was crazy. I'm sorry,
- 8:10Speaker 1: I'm I'm not disrespecting the legend and what he's done
- 8:12Speaker 1: for pop culture and music in general. But you know,
- 8:15Speaker 1: I can't crazy how all this happens after Mike and
- 8:19Speaker 1: Joe is gone. Yeah, I'm not listening. I'm not and
- 8:21Speaker 1: I'm not saying he did anything. I'm not Kenny Burns
- 8:25Speaker 1: is not saying that. I'm saying it all looks and
- 8:29Speaker 1: matches up in some of the instances. To me, it does.
- 8:32Speaker 1: It does. And Michael, anyone who's gonna disfigure his face,
- 8:36Speaker 1: anyone who's gonna go through the drastic measures to be different,
- 8:40Speaker 1: to be whatever. I don't know, man, it's just something
- 8:44Speaker 1: to be said. I don't know. I'm not ready for this.
- 8:48Speaker 1: You're not ready. I'm not ready already. Honestly, Drake apparently
- 8:53Speaker 1: took him out of the show too. I just saw
- 8:55Speaker 1: took him. I guess he had a part in the
- 8:57Speaker 1: show in which he um, yeah sample the song from
- 9:01Speaker 1: a UK concert set. Um wow. Yeah. So anyway, you
- 9:06Speaker 1: can go to ball and check that story out. But
- 9:08Speaker 1: I think that, um, this B two K thing, is
- 9:12Speaker 1: it a phenomenon resurgence concert? Yeah? I mean, because BT
- 9:16Speaker 1: had me believing that they were very popular group at
- 9:19Speaker 1: one time. Were they as popular as it's looking on
- 9:21Speaker 1: BT for me, yeah really hell yeah yeah, but they've
- 9:28Speaker 1: been packing out these arenas and and they're gonna pack
- 9:32Speaker 1: them out. I'm going yes, yes, and there's real absolutely
- 9:39Speaker 1: they're going to put that. Yeah. Now, I remember Ashantia
- 9:43Speaker 1: for her Southside. I saw Mario bring out the girl
- 9:48Speaker 1: from a Bump Bump for the video. All that is
- 9:52Speaker 1: coming back. I remember. I remember being in high school
- 9:54Speaker 1: and somebody came around and they were passing out B
- 9:56Speaker 1: to K videos And this is before we know who
- 9:58Speaker 1: they were. So we get home pop the video and
- 10:00Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, this is a cool song. Two
- 10:03Speaker 1: days later, I'm addicted, like like it was straight because
- 10:12Speaker 1: tat girls spinning around, flip with the girl. Yeah, our
- 10:18Speaker 1: album with ye yeah video on the screen season right,
- 10:32Speaker 1: I go. So you still gotta play Hotline every club,
- 10:37Speaker 1: even no Pleasure be kind of crazy. I'm a has
- 10:42Speaker 1: a big tackle camping something way who crazy tacular cats
- 10:48Speaker 1: Man is all the way Florida. They're crazy, they're crazy appreciate.
- 10:53Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you this, you need to drink bottle
- 10:55Speaker 1: of water in Florida. You'll need to stop drinking tap
- 10:57Speaker 1: water because there's something in there, y'all is crazy. I think.
- 11:01Speaker 1: I think, honestly, I salute anyone who's putting these groups
- 11:04Speaker 1: together and given. I mean, I just saw Dina Howard's like,
- 11:06Speaker 1: I'm like freaking them on and fringing, but have a
- 11:10Speaker 1: crush on her. But if you have a hit you
- 11:12Speaker 1: gotta If you have a hit record, you have an audience.
- 11:16Speaker 1: If you have a hit record, you have an audience. Right,
- 11:17Speaker 1: you should be able to do is still tour. Stop
- 11:24Speaker 1: what I'm saying, she gotta hear record. You know what
- 11:28Speaker 1: I'm sad about that. I'm sad about my era, my heres, Joda,
- 11:31Speaker 1: sick fires. You know what I'm saying. If you think
- 11:33Speaker 1: about like you were playing guy, you know what I'm saying,
- 11:39Speaker 1: Like Teddy Roddy out here doing they actually just had
- 11:41Speaker 1: jazz in the garden down there. They had to tell
- 11:43Speaker 1: you Roddy experience. Now they do got nineties. Um No,
- 11:45Speaker 1: I'm hit, but I'm just saying they don't look the same.
- 11:48Speaker 1: And then you get older. I mean, we look at
- 11:50Speaker 1: the Temptations, then motherfucker's is eighty. Do they out here still?
- 11:54Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking? And they don't look broken
- 11:55Speaker 1: all the way all I mean they got six seven
- 11:57Speaker 1: new members. Seeing Joes are not doing too good though,
- 12:02Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, Dude, you can't replace Casey and
- 12:04Speaker 1: Joe Joe. It's like like Dalvin three new members. I'm
- 12:09Speaker 1: just confused. I just I wanted, I wanted to be
- 12:11Speaker 1: I wanted to grow old still having that playlist. You
- 12:14Speaker 1: know what, JU had, that freaking U song I got.
- 12:17Speaker 1: I got no Frankie Beverly and Mays. You don't have
- 12:23Speaker 1: to have Mayds, but you gotta have Frankie Belly. Yeah,
- 12:27Speaker 1: no more. He don't even sing the songs, no more
- 12:30Speaker 1: like yeah, but he's way order than Casey and Jojo.
- 12:34Speaker 1: Did you see the lady y'all who got scratched up
- 12:37Speaker 1: by the panther for crossing the barrier? Yeah, who crossed
- 12:43Speaker 1: the barrier and to take a photo and the damn
- 12:46Speaker 1: jaguar had its claw just in her, dear white people.
- 12:50Speaker 1: I saw another video of a bear. The guy had
- 12:53Speaker 1: a bow and arrow and he's like trying to like
- 12:56Speaker 1: think if he's gonna shoot the bear, and the bear
- 12:58Speaker 1: comes up eats this motherfucker, takes the camera and runs
- 13:02Speaker 1: and the camera still on. And my point is like
- 13:05Speaker 1: when and where is working with a wild animal up
- 13:09Speaker 1: close natural habitat them alone? The lady had did you
- 13:15Speaker 1: see her? Arem that motherfucker cripped e? And I'm like, yo,
- 13:19Speaker 1: like this is not where you're supposed to be over
- 13:22Speaker 1: the protective line, like where do you That's like when
- 13:24Speaker 1: your mama tell you don't do something and you're doing
- 13:26Speaker 1: anyway you hurt yourself. She'll be like, oh, well, I
- 13:28Speaker 1: just don't know how many incidents have to happen at
- 13:30Speaker 1: the zoo for people to stop crossing the barrier, like
- 13:33Speaker 1: just stop better and nothing kills me about that is
- 13:38Speaker 1: a lot of the times they'll consider putting the animal
- 13:40Speaker 1: down as if it's the animal's fault, like why did
- 13:43Speaker 1: you cross the barrier? Some people feel like the rules
- 13:45Speaker 1: on a platter them right, But I'm saying the lady
- 13:50Speaker 1: was because you took the selfie, then you post? Are
- 13:53Speaker 1: you going to post the picture of that? Is you got?
- 13:56Speaker 1: Speaking of speaking, did you see the that j loot
- 14:00Speaker 1: from Aron? Yeah, I'm trying to figure out what j
- 14:04Speaker 1: Lo be doing. Jo is jumping off the relationship person
- 14:09Speaker 1: Like I noticed she's she's always in a relationship like
- 14:11Speaker 1: she seems to be one of those people somersaults dress.
- 14:15Speaker 1: She's doing somersaults on top of it. Yeah, she is
- 14:19Speaker 1: a porn star in the way. Guys losing their damn mind?
- 14:25Speaker 1: How young? Listen what you mean? How don't know how
- 14:27Speaker 1: I know? People are going crazy. I have never seen
- 14:30Speaker 1: j Love in person. People crazy over over don't actually
- 14:34Speaker 1: know she's a porn star. I'm just saying that something
- 14:39Speaker 1: blatin flavor. I'm pretty sure it ain't her cooking skills. Wow. Okay,
- 14:44Speaker 1: so Jordan, Jordan's boxes extravaging, Oh my god, being of
- 14:49Speaker 1: a meal, Jordan's uh, what happened? Okay, speaking of a meal,
- 14:58Speaker 1: Jordan's kind of have been seen together. Real friends. Yes,
- 15:01Speaker 1: they went to lunch together, but they were having a nice,
- 15:04Speaker 1: deep conversation. I think they will continue to be friends,
- 15:07Speaker 1: just real friends. You have sex. Tristan apparently leaned in
- 15:13Speaker 1: to kiss her. Okay, but my point is, how is
- 15:15Speaker 1: that Tristan got another thing going on? Like cut off?
- 15:18Speaker 1: It's invadable because that was my big sister's ex. Need
- 15:23Speaker 1: to kiss you when you're drunk, it's her fault. I'm
- 15:26Speaker 1: just saying no, no, no, But I'm saying I did
- 15:28Speaker 1: not say that. I said it was her big sister's ex,
- 15:31Speaker 1: which is why, like there's tension there. She was like
- 15:36Speaker 1: together while the family keeps, you know, this drama. Let
- 15:39Speaker 1: me just get out of space, Like how how is
- 15:41Speaker 1: she going to live in Kylie's guest house the rest
- 15:44Speaker 1: of the cards and her family was going in on
- 15:45Speaker 1: her and she moving back now that now that they
- 15:48Speaker 1: have announced that she is the first something billionaire of
- 15:51Speaker 1: the family, Yeah, yeah, I definitely think Travis Travis, Travis,
- 16:01Speaker 1: don't you do that to yourself? You better stay impregnant
- 16:04Speaker 1: her again right now? Isn't an amazing all these young billionaires,
- 16:07Speaker 1: young millionaires now billionaire y'all, she's not even twenty three.
- 16:12Speaker 1: Millennials are in a totally different amazing space right now
- 16:16Speaker 1: is the future? Is dopest significant amount off of her
- 16:21Speaker 1: social media too, I don't know. I don't know why.
- 16:22Speaker 1: I think it's a million of posts. I don't know why.
- 16:24Speaker 1: I want to know why you're talking about this. But
- 16:26Speaker 1: did y'all see the apparent owner of the Asian spa
- 16:31Speaker 1: that Robert Kraft got with Donald Trump. She's in my
- 16:34Speaker 1: hometown too, Damn no. But I'm just saying, did he
- 16:37Speaker 1: do that to his potting in the man, did Donald
- 16:39Speaker 1: Trump set up Robert Kraft because he knows he liked
- 16:42Speaker 1: to have the end? And now I'm curious. When I
- 16:44Speaker 1: started pitching, man, I damned passed. I was like, he
- 16:48Speaker 1: might be the most gangster motherfucker ever. He might be
- 16:51Speaker 1: the most gangster ever, the most evil. Okay, fun Trump?
- 16:55Speaker 1: So did you see the fight? Did you see the
- 16:58Speaker 1: fight with Why being in the in the thing they
- 17:02Speaker 1: split his face open? Did you see the baby had
- 17:05Speaker 1: his face was laughing at it. I didn't think it
- 17:07Speaker 1: was funny initially because I'm over here, Like, okay, you
- 17:11Speaker 1: know he's in New York. First of all, all youngest,
- 17:14Speaker 1: I stop posting everything you do, but bro, like for
- 17:18Speaker 1: a minute, a minute like posted like three or four
- 17:22Speaker 1: hours later or something. Bro Like, give it a little delabor,
- 17:25Speaker 1: y'all boys be posted everything. I don't know, Almighty J.
- 17:30Speaker 1: But I am super cool with Why being that mirror.
- 17:32Speaker 1: Yeah that's my little homie. But I've never met he
- 17:36Speaker 1: bought brown to the group. But yeah, man, you gotta
- 17:39Speaker 1: stop posting your location. I'll say this, man, I say that,
- 17:42Speaker 1: y'all gotta stop professing this lifestyle. Y'all ready to leave? Man,
- 17:47Speaker 1: it may cut his face open, man, like the claw
- 17:49Speaker 1: on the way, because you will get tested, will get approached,
- 17:53Speaker 1: and then you ride. Apparently was with this other kid
- 17:55Speaker 1: who really had the beef and he told about where
- 17:57Speaker 1: you didn't he after his homeboy get split up in
- 17:59Speaker 1: the is he on the thing? We're still here? You
- 18:01Speaker 1: even pop out, you know what I mean? But it's
- 18:03Speaker 1: like y'all are really out here. And I thought I
- 18:05Speaker 1: had a big talk with Kenny and Kyle last night.
- 18:08Speaker 1: I said, Yo, you gotta you can't be talking to
- 18:11Speaker 1: people crazy out here, like you gotta be ready to
- 18:14Speaker 1: go to the toe in certain instances. That's that's something
- 18:18Speaker 1: you need to just jet the funk up because you
- 18:20Speaker 1: don't never know what these people are gonna do. It recovery, uh,
- 18:27Speaker 1: great recovery, and please, man, I would that be a
- 18:29Speaker 1: lesson to everybody out there. I just don't understand the
- 18:31Speaker 1: jumping mentality, like I think it's it's so whack. I
- 18:34Speaker 1: think it's I just understand why people cannot celebrate people
- 18:39Speaker 1: having their things, Like why do you have to rob somebody?
- 18:42Speaker 1: Why do you have to whoop somebody's ass? It's so
- 18:44Speaker 1: sad And I'm gonna tell you the's too youngest. Y'all
- 18:48Speaker 1: out here hitting people with ship, kicking people in the head.
- 18:52Speaker 1: You don't know how close to homicide you are on accident.
- 18:57Speaker 1: You don't know you can hit the motherfucker in there.
- 18:59Speaker 1: Y'all knocked, come out, they can fall, hit their head
- 19:01Speaker 1: and die. You are gone forever. I just I want
- 19:04Speaker 1: y'all listen. Man, I'm not gonna act like I was
- 19:06Speaker 1: the most you know what I'm saying together younger, but
- 19:09Speaker 1: as I'm an adult and I've looked back on the
- 19:11Speaker 1: things I've done. Blessed to be here, because you just
- 19:13Speaker 1: do things that you don't be thinking. Man, next thing,
- 19:15Speaker 1: you know, it's it's time. You're facing it, and somebody's
- 19:18Speaker 1: real time too. You know what I'm talking about. And
- 19:20Speaker 1: then wait, wait before you even go. And then it's
- 19:23Speaker 1: all on camera. Everything everything is on camera. Used to
- 19:27Speaker 1: be able to anything, supposed to change like you're not.
- 19:33Speaker 1: It used to be you heard about it. Now you
- 19:36Speaker 1: can just see it. The dude was on the internet
- 19:39Speaker 1: with the chain in his hand, with his his and
- 19:41Speaker 1: even the academic dude try to cross it out, but
- 19:44Speaker 1: you can see it and clearly he posted it. That
- 19:46Speaker 1: means somebody else in and guess who really saw it
- 19:48Speaker 1: the hip hop pole crazy man. But now it's time
- 19:53Speaker 1: footballer man man. And also you guys, if you're gonna
- 20:01Speaker 1: do something, you cannall show d m me at Ferrari Simmons.
- 20:05Speaker 1: Um listen, it's a big deal. We got you and
- 20:08Speaker 1: if it's good enough, it's gonna make ballermin. So me
- 20:12Speaker 1: and my girlfriend have been a relationship for a year
- 20:15Speaker 1: and a half. We live in two different states. She
- 20:18Speaker 1: has three kids, one by me. Her first baby daddy
- 20:22Speaker 1: has never has has come over and spent time and
- 20:25Speaker 1: spent the night a couple of times. Let me read
- 20:27Speaker 1: that again. Her first baby daddy has come over and
- 20:30Speaker 1: spent the night a couple of times without my knowledge.
- 20:34Speaker 1: When I found out him staying over, I told her
- 20:38Speaker 1: I didn't appreciate him coming over to stay. You sound
- 20:40Speaker 1: like a caucage, but okay, good. So the other day
- 20:48Speaker 1: she said he's coming back with his brother and the
- 20:51Speaker 1: other kids to see his daughter, who was eighteen years old.
- 20:55Speaker 1: I was like, okay, not expecting him to spend the
- 20:57Speaker 1: night over her house. Well, he comes and I come
- 21:01Speaker 1: back to the house only to find his stuff at
- 21:04Speaker 1: her house. So I left the house. So I asked
- 21:10Speaker 1: her wifely over again, and she says that he came
- 21:13Speaker 1: to see his daughter and that she considers him family
- 21:16Speaker 1: and that he can stay over her house shoes off.
- 21:21Speaker 1: What should I do since she doesn't respect my wishes? Boy,
- 21:24Speaker 1: oh boy, listen, please start young, um um, first mistake
- 21:31Speaker 1: is losing control of the whole situation. Please share. You
- 21:36Speaker 1: have no control in this relationship, and even though you
- 21:40Speaker 1: know it's a type of thing you have zero control.
- 21:43Speaker 1: Is zero present for you, big fella? If she doesn't
- 21:45Speaker 1: even talk to you about that going on? And I
- 21:50Speaker 1: really want to know, like I want to know the
- 21:53Speaker 1: race of everybody. I think what I can probably imagine
- 21:58Speaker 1: may have happened is she probably was in another relationship
- 22:01Speaker 1: before that was too controlling and she felt like, Okay,
- 22:04Speaker 1: let me set the boundaries up front. And she might
- 22:06Speaker 1: be going at it a little too hard. But what
- 22:08Speaker 1: I will say is I do believe that if I
- 22:12Speaker 1: have a co parents in situation, he is allowed to
- 22:15Speaker 1: see his child pretty much when he wants to see
- 22:17Speaker 1: his child. Like I do believe that, I also believe
- 22:21Speaker 1: that with boundaries. I also believe that if I'm in
- 22:23Speaker 1: a relationship, we have to communicate this because my man
- 22:27Speaker 1: needs to know what's going on. Like I am in
- 22:29Speaker 1: this new relationship. It don't look good for you. Just
- 22:32Speaker 1: come up at any time. But let's make sure you
- 22:35Speaker 1: guys have a relationship. You guys understand what our family
- 22:38Speaker 1: dynamic is, and let's let's figure out what works for us.
- 22:41Speaker 1: Everybody's dynamic is different. I know some families that literally,
- 22:45Speaker 1: like the baby daddy Will is like there all the time,
- 22:48Speaker 1: like birthdays, but they're all together. Her new man or
- 22:51Speaker 1: you know, her man of two years or whatever is
- 22:53Speaker 1: there all the time, like they have an understanding of
- 22:55Speaker 1: what their family dynamic is. And then I know other
- 22:57Speaker 1: families where the new man is not with it. He's like, no,
- 23:00Speaker 1: if he's a weekend dad, he can come get his
- 23:02Speaker 1: kid on Fridays. I don't I don't agree with that.
- 23:05Speaker 1: If you want to see a kid on a Tuesday
- 23:07Speaker 1: and it's not your day, come to your kid. Yeah.
- 23:10Speaker 1: A big, big shout out, big shout out, A major
- 23:12Speaker 1: shout out to blended families first of all, because that
- 23:14Speaker 1: is a real dynamic um and challenge. Right. I think
- 23:19Speaker 1: that you know, there just has to be boundaries, you
- 23:22Speaker 1: know what I'm saying to to hear some of that,
- 23:25Speaker 1: you know from baller mail. It's just really kind of
- 23:27Speaker 1: like people can get really comfortable if you let them,
- 23:30Speaker 1: especially when they've been with you, you know what I'm
- 23:32Speaker 1: talking about, and sometimes those lines get blurred, you know
- 23:36Speaker 1: what I mean. Like, so to have a certain respect
- 23:40Speaker 1: and boundary. Well, first of all, respect right, you know, again,
- 23:42Speaker 1: this is your child. We had this shower together. You know,
- 23:45Speaker 1: you deserve to see your child there. But at the
- 23:47Speaker 1: same time, you gotta be respectful of this new relationship
- 23:51Speaker 1: because this new relationship and dynamic and also have kids eventually,
- 23:55Speaker 1: or it can have plans that didn't include you or
- 23:59Speaker 1: made to be heir to you. You just you have
- 24:01Speaker 1: to be ready for that. And I think against salute
- 24:04Speaker 1: to blend of families. I don't know how you keep
- 24:09Speaker 1: like the dysfunctional baby mama, you know what I'm saying,
- 24:13Speaker 1: involved without kind of being like this, or the dysfunctional
- 24:16Speaker 1: baby daddy without being like this, because at the end
- 24:18Speaker 1: of the day, you don't want that drama. Like I
- 24:20Speaker 1: was talking about black blood to day, not that we
- 24:22Speaker 1: haven't blended anything, but you know, at the end of
- 24:25Speaker 1: the day, it's our family first and then our family
- 24:29Speaker 1: because our family got a lot of ship with them,
- 24:32Speaker 1: you know What's what I'm saying. So I think that
- 24:34Speaker 1: goes as well to friends relationships, baby mama baby day.
- 24:39Speaker 1: He's like, Okay, if you got some ship with your
- 24:41Speaker 1: baby mama baby day, then it's not you know, immediately exactly,
- 24:47Speaker 1: And don't forget. It's a couple of things that we
- 24:50Speaker 1: kind of glossed over. The first thing is y'all live
- 24:54Speaker 1: in two different states, right, have a kid together while
- 24:58Speaker 1: you over there? Why is she over there? Because it
- 25:00Speaker 1: seems like the baby daddy is in the same state
- 25:02Speaker 1: with her. Okay, he coming over and spending the night
- 25:07Speaker 1: and you and a whole another state. Time out on
- 25:11Speaker 1: the plate, referee, there's a flag on the damn plate.
- 25:15Speaker 1: Baby dad ain't coming over nowhere to spend the night
- 25:19Speaker 1: if I ain't there and I'm in the whole different state.
- 25:22Speaker 1: First of all, he's not spending the night, there's no
- 25:23Speaker 1: unless we all got drunk and he's in the guest
- 25:25Speaker 1: guest house. So you know what I mean. There are
- 25:29Speaker 1: situations where blended families are very cooperative, and yeah, I
- 25:33Speaker 1: think I might just be like knowing because I want
- 25:36Speaker 1: my family to all be together. There was a situation
- 25:39Speaker 1: on Housewives where Cynthia's baby daddy. Yeah yeah, and they're
- 25:47Speaker 1: very close, tight knit families. Like I don't if that's
- 25:50Speaker 1: how if that's how we raise our child, Like I
- 25:52Speaker 1: don't want to get in a new relationship and then
- 25:54Speaker 1: rock my kids world out. Used to be all this
- 26:00Speaker 1: mom bred and babe. They're cool. That's good. I'm talking
- 26:03Speaker 1: about cool. They're talking on the phone mother than not talked.
- 26:05Speaker 1: That's good. You know what I'm saying, Like brid loves
- 26:08Speaker 1: my girl. You know what I'm saying. You know, different
- 26:13Speaker 1: sas just a difference. It's a little bit of ice
- 26:16Speaker 1: over there. I can't can't go skating on that ice.
- 26:19Speaker 1: It's a little it's a little hecthy. But bris moment
- 26:23Speaker 1: my girlfriend, man, you know, it's like straight but everybody
- 26:26Speaker 1: called to that point. Everybody's not gonna be an adult
- 26:28Speaker 1: in a situation. Everyone's not everybody's not gonna play fair,
- 26:31Speaker 1: and everybody not gonna have the same unifying thing for
- 26:34Speaker 1: the child. And that's that's I guess this case get
- 26:37Speaker 1: case by a case, But I just think though lines
- 26:41Speaker 1: get blurred if there aren't lines to be well, them
- 26:44Speaker 1: having a long distance relationship makes it that much. That's
- 26:47Speaker 1: already it's already difficult about the long distance relationships. So
- 26:51Speaker 1: if I'm giving you advice, man, I think first names
- 26:53Speaker 1: person needs to figure out this long this is relationship
- 26:56Speaker 1: over relationships on tonight. Yeah, I'm just saying the same
- 27:01Speaker 1: thing too. And his daughter is eighteen. First of all,
- 27:03Speaker 1: she's grown enough to goddamn. Just come to mind. His
- 27:06Speaker 1: daughter is eighteen, and they still he's still spending night.
- 27:09Speaker 1: He was over there, that's what he said. Oh yeah,
- 27:13Speaker 1: he's busting up in new guts. Wrong. Sorry, that is
- 27:19Speaker 1: not what that means. That is what I'm sorry, man,
- 27:23Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Listen, the daughters eighteen, she's grown to the house.
- 27:30Speaker 1: She gets over to my house spending the night. She
- 27:33Speaker 1: got a phone, she got a job, she's about to
- 27:35Speaker 1: go to school. My bad, that heaviest watch. You can't
- 27:41Speaker 1: keep balancest. They just slanging everywhere and you and the
- 27:45Speaker 1: whole of the state. Big fella, Oh man, she is
- 27:48Speaker 1: calling you, daddy. Is she pregnant again? Shout out to
- 27:54Speaker 1: the blended families figuring out how big fella. That's all
- 27:58Speaker 1: I got to tell you. And now today's common creeping
- 28:07Speaker 1: is actually very specialized. I didn't prep you for this before. No, yeah,
- 28:12Speaker 1: it's it's, it's yeah, today today's special. UM. I woke
- 28:15Speaker 1: up Sunday morning to news that flight ET three oh
- 28:18Speaker 1: two had crashed. It a flight from a Disababa to Kenya, Ethiopia,
- 28:23Speaker 1: all the way to Kenya. UM. It was shortly after
- 28:26Speaker 1: takeoff the four month old Bowing seven five seven Max
- 28:30Speaker 1: went into a special auto feature that caused the nose
- 28:32Speaker 1: of the plane to drop. Um. They have no idea
- 28:35Speaker 1: what it is about this automated feature on this particular
- 28:38Speaker 1: model of the Bowing plane. But the pilot requested to
- 28:41Speaker 1: you know, return, and he was clear to continue to go.
- 28:44Speaker 1: In less than a minute, the flight had dropped. The
- 28:46Speaker 1: plane had dropped about three feet. Um. It it's really
- 28:50Speaker 1: sad because this is actually the exact same model that
- 28:52Speaker 1: crashed in Indonesia less than six months ago. It is
- 28:55Speaker 1: the same model that American Airlines grounded. But then they
- 28:58Speaker 1: got some kind of waivers and actually made their crew
- 29:01Speaker 1: continue to fly this particular model and the engine blew up,
- 29:06Speaker 1: engine caught on fire while they were on flight. So
- 29:09Speaker 1: Boeing has offered maintenance. UM. The f f A, the
- 29:12Speaker 1: f a A actually have deemed this particular model to
- 29:15Speaker 1: be unsafe, shouldn't be flying it, but they are. There
- 29:19Speaker 1: are still some airlines that are operating this flight. China,
- 29:22Speaker 1: Indonesia are not doing it. So there were a hundred
- 29:25Speaker 1: and fifty seven people on the flight and there were
- 29:27Speaker 1: absolutely no survivors. You knew somebody, UM did someone. I
- 29:40Speaker 1: didn't know anyone, but I know my culture and there
- 29:45Speaker 1: is there's so much honor in service, you know, and
- 29:50Speaker 1: we um we love tours and we love that people
- 29:54Speaker 1: fly into our country. And I can only imagine that
- 29:56Speaker 1: the people on the flight felt like shame, you know,
- 29:59Speaker 1: like the I know the pilot felt shame, like that
- 30:04Speaker 1: he knew something was wrong, you know, he tried to
- 30:06Speaker 1: get back and they just told him to keep flying.
- 30:09Speaker 1: So for everyone to die, like, I am so sorry
- 30:11Speaker 1: for all those families. I'm sorry for Ethiopian airlines because
- 30:14Speaker 1: they are receiving a lot of backlash. But I want
- 30:17Speaker 1: people to understand that my culture is very strong, very loving,
- 30:21Speaker 1: and it didn't have to happen. So I hope that
- 30:25Speaker 1: all airlines discontinue this particular model and allow people to
- 30:29Speaker 1: continue to fly safely. So R I P. To all
- 30:33Speaker 1: those beautiful souls, and I hope we we do better
- 30:36Speaker 1: sue the motherfucking as if they try, if they if
- 30:39Speaker 1: they have said this is a problem, and they're still
- 30:43Speaker 1: like trying to fly these planes. I actually have a
- 30:47Speaker 1: flight attendant, Yeah, flight attendant, UM emailed me. I'm not
- 30:51Speaker 1: going to say our name, but UM, she says, this
- 30:54Speaker 1: is so sad and very upsetting. Two days prior to
- 30:57Speaker 1: this tragedy, that f A forced my company to on
- 31:00Speaker 1: fourteen of the same aircraft seven fifty seven Max, deeming
- 31:03Speaker 1: them unsafe to fly. The next day, engine fire on
- 31:06Speaker 1: the same aircraft. Another flight attendant saw this message and
- 31:10Speaker 1: UM said that a couple of days after her company
- 31:13Speaker 1: ground and then they also forced them to continue to
- 31:15Speaker 1: drive to ride that particular model. UM. There are so
- 31:18Speaker 1: many different social media outlets like um Selim, Central, Habbit, Shot, Comedies,
- 31:23Speaker 1: Buna Time, all these people that have had so many
- 31:25Speaker 1: different condolences and messages to share about this. UM. I
- 31:28Speaker 1: actually encountered someone that had a sister on board who
- 31:32Speaker 1: was a flight attendant, and it was so sad because UM,
- 31:37Speaker 1: I guess the sister may have known based off of
- 31:40Speaker 1: the model. She actually told her sister that she was
- 31:42Speaker 1: uncomfortable and didn't want to take this particular flight, and
- 31:45Speaker 1: she did and she's no longer here. So we'll share
- 31:50Speaker 1: some of the some of the comments on the screen
- 31:52Speaker 1: if you guys just take a look at them and
- 31:53Speaker 1: and just you know, send these people your prayers and condolences,
- 31:57Speaker 1: Thank you, love you to ship. Fuck. I did not
- 32:08Speaker 1: want to cry, like literally cry all day yesterday. Well
- 32:11Speaker 1: you know, I just saw my grandmother who's dying, who
- 32:13Speaker 1: was nine in three. So I'm over here like and
- 32:16Speaker 1: now it's time for you should say, uh, ladies and gentlemen,
- 32:22Speaker 1: we are not guaranteed anytime with our loved ones. Um.
- 32:28Speaker 1: We grow up and we're so used to the comfort
- 32:32Speaker 1: and love we get from our parents, uncle's, grandmother's friends,
- 32:36Speaker 1: and we really take it for granted. A lot of us.
- 32:39Speaker 1: We go out into the world and we you know,
- 32:42Speaker 1: we were trying to find ourselves, we're trying to start
- 32:44Speaker 1: our lives. And it's really until you get older, when
- 32:48Speaker 1: you're about to lose someone, do you realize just how
- 32:51Speaker 1: valuable they are and how much you love and appreciate them.
- 32:54Speaker 1: And I challenge you ball the nation to let the
- 32:56Speaker 1: people you know how much you love and appreciate ate them.
- 33:00Speaker 1: Often do not take for granted that you're gonna have
- 33:04Speaker 1: time to say goodbye this weekend. Um, I was told
- 33:08Speaker 1: to come to Washington, d C. Because my grandmother is
- 33:10Speaker 1: not doing too well. She's ninety two, about to be
- 33:13Speaker 1: ninety three years old. And it was really emotional in
- 33:16Speaker 1: the beginning because they were saying she didn't look good.
- 33:19Speaker 1: You know, you need to come see your grandmother, say
- 33:21Speaker 1: your goodbyes. And ironically, two days before I got there,
- 33:23Speaker 1: she stopped speaking completely. Um, And I kept telling Jessica
- 33:29Speaker 1: to let her know I was coming and to wait
- 33:32Speaker 1: wait till I got like, wait till I get there,
- 33:34Speaker 1: Please wait. And so my sons and my wife got
- 33:36Speaker 1: there the day before me. I come the next day.
- 33:39Speaker 1: And this is really touching on a lot of levels
- 33:41Speaker 1: because she didn't say words for two days and as
- 33:44Speaker 1: soon as she saw me and she said, you're so
- 33:46Speaker 1: handsome and for me. You know, when you think about
- 33:50Speaker 1: love and commitment and you know, losing the matriarch who
- 33:55Speaker 1: taught you all of that, who taught your entire family
- 33:58Speaker 1: is very gut wrenching. So please East, pay attention to
- 34:01Speaker 1: your family members. Don't take for granted that they've been
- 34:04Speaker 1: there your whole life, and that they will always be
- 34:06Speaker 1: there because what is inevitable is death. So please go forward,
- 34:11Speaker 1: tell your love when you love them, We love you,
- 34:13Speaker 1: Baller Nation. Peace, it's real,