Latest / Motivational Podcast / BECOME A MONSTER – Unleash the Beast Within and Dominate Your Goals
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- 0:00Speaker 1: How many people in how many people in this planet?
- 0:02Speaker 1: After what around five billion people? Fifth billion in fact,
- 0:05Speaker 1: could be every one of them in a fair fight.
- 0:08Speaker 1: That's what I believed at the time. I can't believe
- 0:11Speaker 1: I had to adapta to say that, I tell you what.
- 0:14Speaker 2: I tell you.
- 0:14Speaker 3: What though, it must be a scary damn take to
- 0:17Speaker 3: be a fed away at the UFC.
- 0:18Speaker 2: I'm not being named Connor McGregor. Hey, we have more left,
- 0:22Speaker 2: we can still push harder. We're not there yet.
- 0:26Speaker 4: I realized talking to guy him, Cameron Haynes, this race,
- 0:29Speaker 4: two hundred and forty mile race, and I'll say, is
- 0:34Speaker 4: this the new left?
- 0:35Speaker 2: Is this the new Is this the new push?
- 0:38Speaker 4: So when I decided to do that race, it was
- 0:41Speaker 4: in the back of my mind, like, man, I've really
- 0:43Speaker 4: become an expert at running hush maut races. So for me,
- 0:48Speaker 4: this was the new lefl.
- 0:49Speaker 5: Now, if you understand this principle, this principle is terribly important.
- 0:52Speaker 5: You can be the most talented, the smartest, the best
- 0:55Speaker 5: educated person, with the most valuable contact and all the
- 0:58Speaker 5: advantages in life, but if you are not focused, it
- 1:01Speaker 5: doesn't do you any good at all. I wrote in
- 1:03Speaker 5: an article for the Wall Street Journal that if you
- 1:05Speaker 5: do not have clear, specific goals for your life, you
- 1:07Speaker 5: are doomed forever to work for people who do. And
- 1:11Speaker 5: that seems to be the case, and yet only five
- 1:13Speaker 5: percent of people have goals. So the key starting point
- 1:16Speaker 5: with regard to clarity is to know where it is
- 1:19Speaker 5: you're going and what it is you want to be,
- 1:21Speaker 5: and what it is you want to have.
- 1:22Speaker 2: And what it is you want to do.
- 1:23Speaker 5: Because in America, in the most blessed society in all
- 1:26Speaker 5: of human history, you can have anything in the world
- 1:28Speaker 5: that you want if you could decide what it is
- 1:32Speaker 5: that you want.
- 1:33Speaker 6: In the seventeenth chapter of Saint Luca is written, the
- 1:35Speaker 6: Kingdom of God is within man, not one man, nor
- 1:38Speaker 6: a group of men, but in all men.
- 1:40Speaker 2: In you, you.
- 1:41Speaker 6: The people have the power, the power to create machines,
- 1:44Speaker 6: the power to create happiness. You, the people, have the
- 1:46Speaker 6: power to make this life pretty and beautiful, to make
- 1:49Speaker 6: this life a wonderful adventure.
- 1:51Speaker 4: Don't cry to give up quantit, keep goal, don't quad
- 1:55Speaker 4: a quit.
- 1:57Speaker 2: You already in pain. You already are get a.
- 1:59Speaker 7: Reward from its no one fat and my family that
- 2:03Speaker 7: or even from my friends or from among dad's friends,
- 2:05Speaker 7: whoever was around. There's no one fault that it would
- 2:07Speaker 7: ever be anything.
- 2:08Speaker 8: No one fall that like.
- 2:09Speaker 7: Our art could sell and we could make money that way,
- 2:12Speaker 7: and we could build careers that way.
- 2:14Speaker 2: What is the starting point? One step at a.
- 2:16Speaker 7: Time, whether it's ten thousand steps or doing even a
- 2:20Speaker 7: twenty minute workout, that's all people need to do to change,
- 2:24Speaker 7: because you'll start seeing results regardless of what position you're
- 2:27Speaker 7: in right now. If you can just keep increasing incrementally
- 2:31Speaker 7: what you're doing in terms of fitness, or your business,
- 2:34Speaker 7: or however that you sleep, whatever it is that you
- 2:36Speaker 7: feel is not right, you'll see the change over time.
- 2:39Speaker 7: It comes, and it takes a long time. It takes
- 2:42Speaker 7: a really long time, but it happens.
- 2:44Speaker 2: If there is a way to beat Mike Tyson, how
- 2:47Speaker 2: do you do it? Do you want to talk about
- 2:50Speaker 2: that one?
- 2:51Speaker 7: Dude?
- 2:51Speaker 9: I don't think it the femer magnam. I'm starting to
- 2:53Speaker 9: think the chance. I'm starting to think that you're unstoppable.
- 2:56Speaker 9: Do you feel that you're the best heavyweight in the
- 2:58Speaker 9: world that you can step in with anybody right now?
- 3:00Speaker 9: I know, just a number of months ago you said
- 3:02Speaker 9: just a few more fights. Are you ready right now.
- 3:05Speaker 2: I feel I am the best fighter in the world
- 3:07Speaker 2: right now.
- 3:09Speaker 4: What's amazing about the human mind is that it becomes
- 3:12Speaker 4: your new norm. Like to think that I can run
- 3:17Speaker 4: two hundred miles two hundred and forty miles, and that
- 3:19Speaker 4: becomes like running fifty.
- 3:21Speaker 2: I never thought that was possible.
- 3:23Speaker 4: This is why I'm always pushing that limit, because I
- 3:27Speaker 4: know that within pushing these limits, there's always more. So
- 3:32Speaker 4: I end up doing like almost like back to back
- 3:35Speaker 4: towards our runs.
- 3:36Speaker 10: My brain and feel a certain way, but it's not
- 3:39Speaker 10: going to choose how I behave all the time. I
- 3:43Speaker 10: just can't let it do it anymore.
- 3:47Speaker 2: When you don't feel like getting on it.
- 3:52Speaker 11: You know, I put this out the other day, and
- 3:59Speaker 11: I think it's important, all right. So Rome wasn't built
- 4:04Speaker 11: in a day. We all know that. Everyone hears that.
- 4:11Speaker 11: But Rome also didn't fall apart overnight either.
- 4:17Speaker 2: It took.
- 4:19Speaker 11: Hundreds of years for Rome to reach its peak. But
- 4:23Speaker 11: it also took time hundreds of years for Rome to
- 4:30Speaker 11: decay and fall apart. And that is representative of life.
- 4:40Speaker 11: Because you don't achieve worthwhile goals quickly or easily. They
- 4:47Speaker 11: take time, they take struggle, they take relentless pursuit, day
- 4:56Speaker 11: in and day out. That's what it takes.
- 5:01Speaker 5: But in the top five percent are very clear about
- 5:03Speaker 5: where it is they're going and what it is they
- 5:05Speaker 5: want to accomplish. And when I look at unsuccessful men
- 5:07Speaker 5: and women, or men and women who seem to be
- 5:08Speaker 5: unhappy and floundering, I find that almost invariably they have
- 5:12Speaker 5: a very very limited sense of direction, sometimes no sense
- 5:15Speaker 5: of direction at all. You see, we as human beings
- 5:18Speaker 5: are goal seeking organisms. We only function at our very
- 5:20Speaker 5: best when we are working toward accomplishing something that is
- 5:23Speaker 5: important to us. And in my estimation, eighty to ninety
- 5:26Speaker 5: percent of all the unhappiness, hostility, violence, psychosomatic illness, alcoholism,
- 5:31Speaker 5: drug addiction, and so on in our society is caused
- 5:33Speaker 5: by people having no sense of direction.
- 5:35Speaker 2: They don't know where they're going.
- 5:37Speaker 11: When the alarm clock goes off in the morning, get up,
- 5:39Speaker 11: don't wait, don't hesitate.
- 5:41Speaker 2: When the alarm clock goes off in the morning, get up.
- 5:43Speaker 11: You should put a timer on everything down at you
- 5:45Speaker 11: should say all right, I have this commence. You should
- 5:48Speaker 11: be a countdown to go and then a certain amount
- 5:50Speaker 11: of time to get her done.
- 5:51Speaker 2: BILF a piece of advice.
- 5:53Speaker 11: Stop thinking of it as a cush to have been
- 5:55Speaker 11: given it an enemy of life.
- 5:57Speaker 2: It can be blessing too, and get smoke from his
- 6:00Speaker 2: enemies than the food from his friends.
- 6:02Speaker 12: You know what.
- 6:04Speaker 2: He was wretched, j I'm on listen, what just go
- 6:08Speaker 2: easy out there?
- 6:10Speaker 13: What are you saying. I'm saying, look after yourself. We
- 6:14Speaker 13: want you back at one pace. You're too far back.
- 6:17Speaker 13: There's too many drivers in front of you. It's old's
- 6:20Speaker 13: next year for about this.
- 6:21Speaker 2: It's over.
- 6:24Speaker 14: Well, listen, holy Field is not the tough warrior one
- 6:29Speaker 14: faith the end. He got a little nicks on it
- 6:30Speaker 14: there and he quit.
- 6:31Speaker 2: I got an eye. I got one eye. I got one.
- 6:33Speaker 2: He's not in the pad he got in. I got one.
- 6:36Speaker 14: I thig that he me taking one. I got another one.
- 6:37Speaker 14: I'm ready to fight. He didn't want to fight. I'm
- 6:39Speaker 14: ready to fighting right now.
- 6:40Speaker 8: If you don't have a little flame, you know, just that,
- 6:44Speaker 8: just barely, you're done.
- 6:47Speaker 4: I can't. I can't light it for you. And that's
- 6:51Speaker 4: the harsh reality of this life that I want to
- 6:53Speaker 4: get across so freaking bad. You can watch me, you
- 6:57Speaker 4: can watch you, You can watch Brogan and Cameron Hayes
- 6:59Speaker 4: always all.
- 7:01Speaker 2: This, do all this shit.
- 7:03Speaker 8: If you you could keep going back and keep spending
- 7:07Speaker 8: money and spending money and spending with no results, you
- 7:10Speaker 8: can wonder, Wow, maybe let me.
- 7:12Speaker 2: Go try out David Goggins. He ain't gonna help you.
- 7:17Speaker 4: You have to explore, examine the inside of yourself and
- 7:22Speaker 4: what do you really want out life? Your friend and
- 7:25Speaker 4: a lot of people out here just don't want it,
- 7:28Speaker 4: So guess what.
- 7:31Speaker 2: Have fun with your life?
- 7:32Speaker 14: I think all coming and I don't dunk any man.
- 7:35Speaker 14: Come on, come on, because nobody couldn't get close to me.
- 7:37Speaker 2: They're not even close.
- 7:38Speaker 14: I'm the bet fighter in the world now with the
- 7:40Speaker 14: situation that you want to fight, fight, fight and destruct
- 7:43Speaker 14: the world because I'm the bet fighter in the world.
- 7:45Speaker 14: Thank you very much, Larry, thank you.
- 7:47Speaker 2: You're a mediocre now, man, what are you doing today? Tomorrow? Up?
- 7:52Speaker 2: The next day? I listened to mother, who's like this, man,
- 7:57Speaker 2: what's wrong man? I'm tired, dude? Why tired? Because tomorrow
- 8:02Speaker 2: I gotta do the again.
- 8:04Speaker 8: Man, Whatever the shit is that made me looking nauseous
- 8:07Speaker 8: and sick to my stomach.
- 8:09Speaker 2: It made me hurt. There's no ending if you think
- 8:14Speaker 2: showing up is winning. You've already you've already lost the battle.
- 8:19Speaker 15: People want to get a medal for doing the for
- 8:21Speaker 15: doing the easy things.
- 8:23Speaker 2: People show up every single day. People show up every
- 8:26Speaker 2: single day and are dealing.
- 8:28Speaker 16: With circumstances that are beyond your imagination.
- 8:32Speaker 2: They still show up. You're gonna find peace from going
- 8:36Speaker 2: to war with yourself. And we all got, we all
- 8:39Speaker 2: got people.
- 8:40Speaker 4: Look at me and the reason I'm my story of
- 8:42Speaker 4: resonats with people because I don't hide.
- 8:46Speaker 2: I'll tell you exactly that I am. I would admit
- 8:48Speaker 2: to it. People are great at hiding. So they wanted
- 8:51Speaker 2: to find peace.
- 8:52Speaker 8: No, you got you gotta take your ship, fix reors
- 8:54Speaker 8: fed up in you don't just shove it under rug.
- 8:56Speaker 2: Fix it and then you'll find some peace later.
- 8:59Speaker 8: But like people don't want to generally genuinely work, that's
- 9:02Speaker 8: just going to separate you from everybody else.
- 9:04Speaker 2: Yes, so you gonna put the hours in to work.
- 9:07Speaker 2: Did you gain knowledge through suffering?
- 9:09Speaker 8: And on the other end of suffering is a world
- 9:13Speaker 8: that very few, very few have ever seen. It's a
- 9:17Speaker 8: beautiful world because that's where you find yourself.
- 9:21Speaker 17: If you can't sit still, ignore notifications and focus on
- 9:25Speaker 17: one task, for eight hours straight, never expect to build
- 9:28Speaker 17: anything great. And as uncomfortable as that is, it's also
- 9:32Speaker 17: the truth.
- 9:33Speaker 18: Well, there's a really important quote. If you win, you win,
- 9:35Speaker 18: If you lose, you learn, and so you always win.
- 9:38Speaker 4: I honestly want to be considered one of the hardest
- 9:41Speaker 4: men to walk the planet Earth in the history.
- 9:43Speaker 2: Of the world. And I mean by heart. I'm not
- 9:46Speaker 2: talking about the guy who does the most pull up
- 9:48Speaker 2: is most sit ups, runs the most. Just a person who's.
- 9:52Speaker 4: Able to overcome any adversity in front of them to figure.
- 9:56Speaker 2: Out a way. Hardness isn't about all this physical shit.
- 10:01Speaker 7: Man.
- 10:01Speaker 8: Yeah, it helped me get to where I'm at. But
- 10:04Speaker 8: all I was doing in the whole process the process
- 10:08Speaker 8: want to be ripped it, want to walk around my
- 10:10Speaker 8: shirt off, that wasn't it. I knew through the physical challenges,
- 10:14Speaker 8: through the physical suffering, my mind was getting stronger.
- 10:17Speaker 2: I was literally doing that.
- 10:19Speaker 8: For a reason. I had a weak mind. All the
- 10:23Speaker 8: rest has happened to come with it. I was trying
- 10:26Speaker 8: to strengthen the mind to handle all the all the
- 10:30Speaker 8: judgment that's passed on me, perceived and not.
- 10:33Speaker 2: Sometimes you make it up in your own head. I
- 10:35Speaker 2: fight against my mind.
- 10:37Speaker 19: Yeah, sometimes it's it's happened. We are we are all
- 10:40Speaker 19: human beings. We are we are not happy every day.
- 10:43Speaker 19: We are you know, not in a good mood every day.
- 10:46Speaker 19: It's normal, it's part of it's part of us.
- 10:49Speaker 2: What do you do to overcome that?
- 10:51Speaker 19: Your mental strength is coming from that, from that moment,
- 10:56Speaker 19: that's in the hard moments, you know, should do it.
- 11:02Speaker 19: I fight against that, you know. It's the big challenge.
- 11:06Speaker 19: It's when you're not willing to do something, but you
- 11:10Speaker 19: have to do it. This is the main point. This
- 11:13Speaker 19: is why I say our mind it's a box of
- 11:17Speaker 19: surprises and you have to challenge yourself to be consistency.
- 11:23Speaker 19: I repeat, sometimes it's hard. It's what many people say,
- 11:29Speaker 19: you like to go to the gym every day.
- 11:30Speaker 2: Of course, now it's not true. Nobody like to go to.
- 11:33Speaker 19: The gym every day.
- 11:35Speaker 2: But you have to do it.
- 11:37Speaker 20: Productivity hack an easy productivity hack. Instead of spending time
- 11:41Speaker 20: getting in the mood to work, just start working confront
- 11:44Speaker 20: the work. People think they need perfect conditions to start,
- 11:48Speaker 20: when in reality, starting is the perfect condition.
- 11:52Speaker 21: If you take an oak tree c and you put
- 11:56Speaker 21: it in a two.
- 11:57Speaker 2: Foot path, that.
- 12:00Speaker 21: Will never become the oak tree that oak trees are
- 12:04Speaker 21: capable of becoming, because it's gonna get stifled by the
- 12:08Speaker 21: two foot pot.
- 12:09Speaker 2: Now to check this out, ain't nothing wrong with the seed.
- 12:14Speaker 21: Seed just fail prey to the environment. Don't you allow
- 12:18Speaker 21: your environment to dictate the oak tree that you become.
- 12:25Speaker 2: All of y'all.
- 12:26Speaker 21: Got this wonderful gift. Don't die with this gift, and
- 12:30Speaker 21: don't never use it. All of y'all got this wonderful gift,
- 12:33Speaker 21: but you gotta use it. Take your seed, take your gift.
- 12:37Speaker 21: Get Away from these people that's in your life that
- 12:40Speaker 21: ain't doing nothing. Get away from people in your life
- 12:43Speaker 21: that's hate.
- 12:44Speaker 2: Get Away from.
- 12:45Speaker 21: Your family members that ain't never open the business that
- 12:48Speaker 21: ain't get away from your family members ain't ever followed
- 12:51Speaker 21: their dream. Get Away from your family members. Ain't never
- 12:54Speaker 21: been nowhere but to the family reunion. Ain't never been
- 12:57Speaker 21: to a beach. Get away from them. Get away from them.
- 13:02Speaker 21: When I told everybody I was getting into comedy, man,
- 13:04Speaker 21: oh lord, her mercy, you can't get into comedy.
- 13:08Speaker 2: You ain't even funny. How you gonna make money telling jokes?
- 13:13Speaker 4: You are your own leader, You are your own master,
- 13:16Speaker 4: and that is a big one because we idolize so
- 13:20Speaker 4: many people and we want to.
- 13:22Speaker 2: Be them, We want to.
- 13:24Speaker 4: Be someone else, and in doing that, you lose all
- 13:28Speaker 4: the potential of who you are. You mimic you be them,
- 13:34Speaker 4: you are them, you become them, and you lose you.
- 13:39Speaker 2: And we look up to so many people in this
- 13:41Speaker 2: world who will let us down. We're humans.
- 13:44Speaker 22: You make yourself so totally accountable for who you are.
- 13:48Speaker 22: You focus on you and only on you to become
- 13:52Speaker 22: the best person you could be for others, because we
- 13:55Speaker 22: leave a lot on the table not searching who we are,
- 14:00Speaker 22: and then therefore you die out knowing your greatest potential.
- 14:03Speaker 1: I don't want that person to come out, because he
- 14:06Speaker 1: comes out, he's coming.
- 14:08Speaker 2: Anyone could win the.
- 14:09Speaker 14: World's basketball Championship, anybody could win the Grand Slam.
- 14:13Speaker 20: But if the people that have to come back.
- 14:14Speaker 6: From the brink of destruction and almost down it out
- 14:18Speaker 6: in your manhood, the pride and everything's almost strict.
- 14:21Speaker 2: And come back and conquer at the top of your game.
- 14:23Speaker 14: And that's the separation between a super champion and just
- 14:27Speaker 14: an average champion.
- 14:28Speaker 2: You know, when I'm in the ring is stopped. Every
- 14:31Speaker 2: all the nervousness, intention to stop. It's up there no
- 14:33Speaker 2: more so.
- 14:34Speaker 9: I'm faith in reality, but fuller getting the ring is
- 14:36Speaker 9: a whole different story.
- 14:37Speaker 2: I'm the killer that champion of the world might dine.
- 14:42Speaker 2: The whole world is in chestnut. Any move can be
- 14:46Speaker 2: the death of you.
- 14:49Speaker 23: Do anything except remain where you started, and you can't
- 14:52Speaker 23: be sure if you're out, None of us are and
- 14:57Speaker 23: really or what happened, little Lola said, remember that alsoever
- 15:03Speaker 23: you are playing by whom your soul is in your
- 15:06Speaker 23: keeping alone.
- 15:08Speaker 2: Doors start opening up. I started.
- 15:09Speaker 4: I stopped caring about people that what they thought being judged. Wow,
- 15:14Speaker 4: if I say this, if I started right now, are
- 15:16Speaker 4: you making fun of me? I stopped caring about that,
- 15:18Speaker 4: And that's when my life started really changing for me.
- 15:20Speaker 4: I did it for mental people. Alrea say my guy like, no,
- 15:24Speaker 4: don't don't look at it like. I didn't care about
- 15:26Speaker 4: losing weight. I an't care about being the fastest person.
- 15:28Speaker 2: I kept out.
- 15:28Speaker 8: I wasn't making the Olympics, I wasn't going to pros.
- 15:31Speaker 8: I could barely read and write, and now I was
- 15:32Speaker 8: in a junior in high school. I wasn't going anywhere.
- 15:36Speaker 2: I saw working out.
- 15:37Speaker 4: As a way for me to build callouses on my mind.
- 15:40Speaker 4: I had to callous over the victim's mentality. So I
- 15:44Speaker 4: watched these movies. You know, I talked about Rocket last
- 15:46Speaker 4: time I was on here.
- 15:47Speaker 8: I always equated training to mental toughening, like I was
- 15:53Speaker 8: a brutal people waking up early and.
- 15:55Speaker 2: Doing all these things it looked looked horrible. I was like, wow, man,
- 15:58Speaker 2: I gotta.
- 15:58Speaker 8: Started doing that to get better, bigger and stronger. But
- 16:02Speaker 8: that is what's gonna build me. That looks uncomfortable, that
- 16:04Speaker 8: looks brutal, and getting up early. I don't want to
- 16:07Speaker 8: do that, some of this long list of things.
- 16:09Speaker 2: I don't want to do. And through that I found myself.
- 16:13Speaker 4: I started like, I'm like, you guys aren't doing this
- 16:16Speaker 4: high school. You guys are getting about five o'clock in
- 16:18Speaker 4: the morning running over here in this golf course. So
- 16:21Speaker 4: I started seeing myself very differently than in an average
- 16:24Speaker 4: human being. I was like, hng on a second, I
- 16:26Speaker 4: have something they don't have. You know what you can't feel,
- 16:30Speaker 4: you can't and change the things you want to change
- 16:34Speaker 4: about yourself, change them. I know it's hard.
- 16:40Speaker 2: Am I perfect? Of course?
- 16:41Speaker 24: Not the life we absolutely, I'm just a work in
- 16:47Speaker 24: progress like everybody else. But the idea is to try
- 16:50Speaker 24: to not mess up.
- 16:53Speaker 2: More than you do good.
- 16:55Speaker 24: You mess up once a week, you go back on
- 16:58Speaker 24: your strict diet, or you go back on your auditioning
- 17:01Speaker 24: and your technique. That's the idea. But when you mess
- 17:05Speaker 24: up a lot and you're already good half hour out
- 17:09Speaker 24: of the day, that's not gonna work. I'm talking to
- 17:11Speaker 24: people who are just alive and want to be successful.
- 17:16Speaker 3: Because the human mind, we already know that. That's what
- 17:18Speaker 3: a question is, That's what a doubt come in. That's
- 17:20Speaker 3: what you feel like you're not gonna be able to
- 17:23Speaker 3: make it. Always tell you you a soldier. It don't
- 17:26Speaker 3: matter how many scratches you got on your back. If
- 17:28Speaker 3: he keep waking you up every morning, if he keep
- 17:30Speaker 3: giving you the energy, you better strap on your mothering
- 17:32Speaker 3: boots and use whatever you're going through as motivation to
- 17:36Speaker 3: reach the finish line. Why would you not reach the
- 17:38Speaker 3: finish line? And you know went through all you done
- 17:40Speaker 3: went through.
- 17:40Speaker 18: There's been many, many, many, many, many many many days
- 17:43Speaker 18: where I didn't want to work out. I just didn't
- 17:45Speaker 18: feel like I had the energy, and I just forced myself.
- 17:48Speaker 18: And I think there's very few people out there that
- 17:50Speaker 18: know how to force themselves. That's a learn ye, that's
- 17:53Speaker 18: a learning skill.
- 17:54Speaker 25: Yeah, that kind of discipline and focus you have to have,
- 17:58Speaker 25: like real rigid requirements yourself where you don't allow yourself
- 18:02Speaker 25: to back out of things and you don't allow yourself
- 18:05Speaker 25: to slack off.
- 18:07Speaker 26: If life was nothing but green lights and we didn't
- 18:10Speaker 26: have yellows and reds things that make us pause, hardships,
- 18:13Speaker 26: crisis is times for introspection, then what the hell would
- 18:17Speaker 26: it all be for.
- 18:18Speaker 2: We need the yellows in the reds.
- 18:20Speaker 26: That's how we evolve, That's how hopefully there's some ascension
- 18:24Speaker 26: to our being.
- 18:26Speaker 2: If we were the same person today that we weren't
- 18:28Speaker 2: twenty years ago, then I mean, what the hell are
- 18:29Speaker 2: we doing? But now you know, you're given your alls.
- 18:35Speaker 27: And you will not succeed in business or any endeavor
- 18:39Speaker 27: in life until that fight you just went through is
- 18:43Speaker 27: applied to the seam endeavor.
- 18:46Speaker 28: It's too far of a world out there, Hey, Billy,
- 18:50Speaker 28: If you're trying to lose weight for the girls.
- 18:52Speaker 27: On the beach, I mean, you said, buddy, you don't
- 18:55Speaker 27: have no fight. You're gonna drown right there. It's never
- 18:59Speaker 27: give me success. Think that, guys, you got to see
- 19:03Speaker 27: you doing everything. You're writing and you're getting your home.
- 19:10Speaker 27: You're also more than you know. You get inside to give,
- 19:15Speaker 27: so sing yourself shift. Motivation comes and goes. When you're driven,
- 19:22Speaker 27: whatever's in front of you will get destroyed. So I
- 19:25Speaker 27: sat in this chair and I was so driven to
- 19:29Speaker 27: succeed in this race.
- 19:30Speaker 2: And at this time this became a personal thing. This
- 19:36Speaker 2: became me.
- 19:36Speaker 4: Against this race, me against the kids that called me
- 19:39Speaker 4: to figure, me against me.
- 19:41Speaker 2: It just became something that took so violently personal.
- 19:45Speaker 29: When you have emotional maturity, you're realizing some days you're
- 19:48Speaker 29: not going to sleep off. Some days are going to
- 19:50Speaker 29: wake up and you've got your schedule and everything's planned out,
- 19:52Speaker 29: and the poop hits the fan, and whether things go
- 19:55Speaker 29: well or not that day, the emotionally mature man will
- 19:58Speaker 29: still do what he has do to stack his wins,
- 20:02Speaker 29: to focus on his purpose, Whereas the emotionally immature man
- 20:06Speaker 29: will see, well, I didn't sleep well. I had nightmares,
- 20:08Speaker 29: so I'll stay in bed. I didn't sleep well. Or
- 20:10Speaker 29: it's raining outside, it's cold outside, I don't feel good.
- 20:14Speaker 29: I just woke up and the airplanes hit the World
- 20:16Speaker 29: Trade Center. So I guess I have to change my
- 20:17Speaker 29: pattern of life. You have to stay the course no
- 20:20Speaker 29: matter what. And it takes a high level of emotional
- 20:22Speaker 29: maturity because your emotions dictate your motion.
- 20:26Speaker 12: Right, if you really really think about it, it is
- 20:29Speaker 12: everything is in arms reach.
- 20:30Speaker 2: You just have to work to get there. There is
- 20:33Speaker 2: no easy road to what you want. It's a long road.
- 20:37Speaker 12: Everybody that wants to do something doesn't understand the steps
- 20:42Speaker 12: that you have to take to get there. It's not
- 20:43Speaker 12: just an entertainment, it's in all aspects of life, man.
- 20:47Speaker 12: And that's what I learned at a young fan. No
- 20:49Speaker 12: matter what, you can't escape work. So instead of trying
- 20:52Speaker 12: to escape it, I address it from the standpoint of
- 20:54Speaker 12: putting one hundred and ten percent into it.
- 20:56Speaker 2: In any and everything I do anything, there.
- 20:59Speaker 30: Is no have You can have anything, you can't have everything.
- 21:04Speaker 30: It's that thing of just the words seem to be
- 21:06Speaker 30: very important to me. The idea of saying you can
- 21:09Speaker 30: work for anything in life to a kid, I suppose
- 21:12Speaker 30: you can have anything is the difference between you know,
- 21:16Speaker 30: ambition and entitlement.
- 21:18Speaker 20: Ambition is when you expect yourself to close the gap
- 21:21Speaker 20: between what you have and what you want. Entitlement is
- 21:24Speaker 20: when you expect others to close the gap between what
- 21:26Speaker 20: you have and what you want.
- 21:27Speaker 2: But you have a choice to make. Do you want
- 21:30Speaker 2: to sit down and go back to that guy you
- 21:32Speaker 2: once were?
- 21:33Speaker 18: No?
- 21:34Speaker 2: So this is what it takes.
- 21:36Speaker 4: It takes that misunderstanding of people, and they'll never get
- 21:39Speaker 4: it because they've never David Gadins. So that is what
- 21:43Speaker 4: it takes for me to do what I do. It
- 21:44Speaker 4: may take you something differently. So for me, everything has
- 21:47Speaker 4: to be in the study and everything has to be
- 21:49Speaker 4: into this.
- 21:49Speaker 2: Everything has to be in.
- 21:50Speaker 8: Everywhere I am has to be there. Me focus where
- 21:53Speaker 8: I am. That's why you're my second podcast. I done
- 21:56Speaker 8: as rogues as the book came out.
- 21:58Speaker 4: I don't have time for that because if I want
- 22:01Speaker 4: to be great, I'm not trying to maximize money or maximize.
- 22:05Speaker 2: People knowing me.
- 22:06Speaker 4: I do these things because maybe someone out there will
- 22:10Speaker 4: understand me and get it and say I can grow
- 22:13Speaker 4: from this guy, and others just won't.
- 22:16Speaker 15: Either your believe or belief, don't buy into false thoughts.
- 22:19Speaker 15: Jumpstart you want it. I don't have bad days, man.
- 22:21Speaker 15: I may have a bad moment, maybe even a bad hout,
- 22:24Speaker 15: but never a bad day. I don't because I said
- 22:27Speaker 15: to my own seven stack, ain't nobody gonna get me
- 22:29Speaker 15: hot but me master the three ws.
- 22:31Speaker 2: You gotta want it, you gotta work it be, and
- 22:32Speaker 2: you gotta win it.
- 22:33Speaker 6: Now.
- 22:33Speaker 2: How bad do you want it?
- 22:35Speaker 15: Because if you want it bad enough, you go work hard.
- 22:37Speaker 15: Then if you do those two, you're gonna win. You
- 22:40Speaker 15: have to envision something that is more powerful than you.
- 22:45Speaker 15: Something has to get you out.
- 22:46Speaker 4: Of bed, and you have to create it. It has
- 22:50Speaker 4: to be false, so you have to create a false
- 22:55Speaker 4: reality to live in that just to get to work
- 22:59Speaker 4: on your self.
- 23:01Speaker 31: The only thing that you can do is win so
- 23:03Speaker 31: big that all of them constantly compare themselves to you,
- 23:07Speaker 31: and then you'll forget they exist. And that's when he said,
- 23:12Speaker 31: he said success is the only revenge. He's like, it's
- 23:14Speaker 31: not the best revenge. He's like, it's the only one.
- 23:16Speaker 31: There's no other revenge because everything else is petty. Everything
- 23:20Speaker 31: else does show that you were thinking about these people
- 23:23Speaker 31: all day long, which means they win by default.
- 23:25Speaker 2: He's like, all you can do is think about your
- 23:27Speaker 2: goal and winning.
- 23:28Speaker 31: He's like, and when you win, that's when you become
- 23:31Speaker 31: so big that they shrink into irrelevance. You cast a
- 23:34Speaker 31: shadow that no one even can see them behind you.
- 23:36Speaker 4: You wor so fascinating. You may achieve what you wanted,
- 23:41Speaker 4: but you want the permanent fix. The permanent fix comes
- 23:45Speaker 4: from the hard road.
- 23:47Speaker 2: The hard road.
- 23:48Speaker 32: Gives you permanent results. The easy road gives you the
- 23:53Speaker 32: quick fix. You will go back to where you started
- 23:56Speaker 32: on the easy route. That had route.
- 24:00Speaker 2: It's so permanent that it is callousing you everywhere.
- 24:05Speaker 7: That's why even try and told people that just embraced
- 24:07Speaker 7: the struggle, because if one day is going to be done.
- 24:10Speaker 16: Someone said once about me, it's not the brightest candle
- 24:13Speaker 16: in the room, but he burns longer than anyone else.
- 24:16Speaker 16: I won't be defeated. You see, and you learn more
- 24:19Speaker 16: about yourself in adversity than you'll ever learning success.
- 24:22Speaker 2: I'm unbeailable.
- 24:23Speaker 16: I'm totally and I'm completely, unequivocably un beatable.
- 24:31Speaker 2: It's like a fighter. Just look at it as a fighter.
- 24:34Speaker 16: There's many times you're going to ring, you're fancy the job,
- 24:37Speaker 16: You're unbeiable, it's all in the head. Other times you
- 24:40Speaker 16: go and ringthink this case is too good for me.
- 24:43Speaker 16: You've lost before you start, it's in the head, but
- 24:47Speaker 16: over a period of time you learn a little bit
- 24:50Speaker 16: more about yourself because you have more experience in different circumstances.
- 24:54Speaker 16: Then you find out what you really are. I found
- 24:58Speaker 16: out I m be a gom ma baby. This is impossible.
- 25:03Speaker 16: You condemn me, you can damage me.
- 25:06Speaker 2: You're never ever going to.
- 25:07Speaker 33: Be My father would tell me stuff like, you know,
- 25:12Speaker 33: your life is your life, son. You know, if you
- 25:14Speaker 33: want to have a good life, you got to work
- 25:16Speaker 33: real hard. You got to get into a good school,
- 25:18Speaker 33: you got to get a good job, and that'll lead
- 25:20Speaker 33: to a good relationship.
- 25:21Speaker 2: You have a kid, and you put that kid in
- 25:23Speaker 2: a good school, and then you know it's all up
- 25:25Speaker 2: to you.
- 25:26Speaker 33: And so that kind of it forced me into a
- 25:29Speaker 33: position in my life where I was god. I was
- 25:34Speaker 33: the person who was making it happen.
- 25:37Speaker 4: You have all these voices that are telling you you're
- 25:40Speaker 4: dumb and this could be hard, but for some reason,
- 25:43Speaker 4: you put someone's practice.
- 25:44Speaker 2: Into you that you can ignore every one of them.
- 25:49Speaker 4: That are telling you you're not going to make it
- 25:53Speaker 4: and still be able to make it because you have
- 25:57Speaker 4: put the practice in that you know this is the process.
- 26:02Speaker 4: It's such a daunting task that all the voices are saying, though, but.
- 26:07Speaker 8: You still had the conviction that I know I can
- 26:10Speaker 8: do this, and that's what it took for me to
- 26:13Speaker 8: get here.
- 26:15Speaker 34: I started doing I was going through the deck of cars.
- 26:17Speaker 34: I started doing four hundred and thirty six push ups
- 26:20Speaker 34: a day. Then I went from four thirty six to
- 26:22Speaker 34: eight seventy two. Then I went to thirteen oh eight,
- 26:25Speaker 34: so I was doing thirteen hundred, Like thirteen hundred push
- 26:28Speaker 34: ups a day.
- 26:29Speaker 4: When you get to where you want to go in
- 26:31Speaker 4: life and you finally get there, you finally reached that
- 26:34Speaker 4: point and you're there and you're happiest.
- 26:38Speaker 2: Hell, realize this, you're not there yet.
- 26:44Speaker 28: This went wrong, This failed, didn't accomplish this, And it's
- 26:49Speaker 28: not the fault of my boss. It's not the fault
- 26:51Speaker 28: of my girlfriend. It's not the fault of my parents,
- 26:53Speaker 28: it's not the fault of the weather.
- 26:55Speaker 2: It's my fault.
- 26:57Speaker 28: And I'm gonna take ownership of it, and I'm gonna
- 26:58Speaker 28: affex it.
- 26:59Speaker 2: That's what it's.
- 27:00Speaker 28: Your ownership is. And this is a very difficult thing
- 27:03Speaker 28: to do because it hurts because when you look around
- 27:07Speaker 28: at your life and you look around at your job
- 27:11Speaker 28: and your financial situation, and your relationship and your physical health.
- 27:15Speaker 28: When you look at all those things and all the
- 27:17Speaker 28: problems that you may have with those things, and you say,
- 27:20Speaker 28: the reason I have all those problems is because of me.
- 27:26Speaker 29: That can hurt one persons had to make a difference.
- 27:32Speaker 2: Enough said, and then you put a goal in your mind.
- 27:39Speaker 4: How are you going to feel, man, when you accomplish
- 27:42Speaker 4: this goal coming from that shit, coming from the fucking
- 27:46Speaker 4: hell you came from.
- 27:47Speaker 2: A lot of people start from a good starting point,
- 27:50Speaker 2: they have a good foundation. What if you can surpass
- 27:52Speaker 2: all of these motherfuckers?
- 27:54Speaker 4: Have everybody who was away up here started up here
- 27:58Speaker 4: and you had You started with no legs. You had
- 28:00Speaker 4: to grow legs to even start walking, and then crawling
- 28:04Speaker 4: and then running, and then you start.
- 28:06Speaker 2: Passing people with all this given to them.
- 28:08Speaker 8: I had to use all this negative shit that was
- 28:11Speaker 8: making me weak and horrible.
- 28:13Speaker 2: As a person. I had to use this as the
- 28:17Speaker 2: power that Now a few of them had to flip.
- 28:19Speaker 8: It on his head and say, hold up, this might
- 28:22Speaker 8: be exactly what I need. The darkness is exactly what
- 28:27Speaker 8: I need. It's how you look at your situation