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The Orange Doesn't Fall Far: Melissa and Antonia Gorga! · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: Hi, guys, welcome back to another episode of The Orange
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  Speaker 1: Doesn't Fall Far with Myself, Tamer Judge, and Sophia Barney.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So we are super excited because we told you, guys,
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  Speaker 1: one of the things we really wanted to do is
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  Speaker 1: bring you, guys some Bravo mom and daughters.
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  Speaker 2: Not even they doesn't have to.
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  Speaker 3: Be Bravo any mom and daughter do I honestly.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So today we have Melissa and Antonia a Gorga, and
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  Speaker 1: we're so excited because I just feel like Melissa is
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  Speaker 1: just one of those boss moms that have taken this
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  Speaker 1: platform and done so much with it, and such an entrepreneur.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure you can really yeah, much like myself, and
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  Speaker 1: so let's just get into it.
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  Speaker 4: Hi. Hi, Hi guys. Hi, Yes, guys, so cute, Thank you.
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  Speaker 1: I actually love this smug well, not as much as
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  Speaker 1: I love the.
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  Speaker 4: The coffee cake.
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  Speaker 2: The coffee cake i'b sessed with.
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  Speaker 4: I know it's the best. Everyone goes nuts over the
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  Speaker 4: coffee cake.
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  Speaker 5: You.
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  Speaker 4: I have to send you the chalk the chip cookies.
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  Speaker 4: They're so good, Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 1: So I literally when you send the coffee cake, I
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  Speaker 1: eat the top off of it like.
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  Speaker 3: It's a freak.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a freak because I love the mixture of the
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  Speaker 1: crumble in the sprinkles.
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  Speaker 3: Like the crunchy yes, And I'm like, oh here you guys,
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  Speaker 3: go Gino.
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  Speaker 6: My cakes look crazy. I leave them out and the
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  Speaker 6: whole top.
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  Speaker 4: Layer is always off because he just eats the top
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  Speaker 4: layer and like, oh the morning. It's like Sophia, I
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  Speaker 4: don't feel like I've ever met She's gonna say that.
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  Speaker 1: So this is Sophia's nice to meet you, Lissa and Antonio.
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  Speaker 4: This is who I'm just looking.
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  Speaker 6: And she's so tan, right, I'm like she's I know,
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  Speaker 6: because it's summer Jersey, so you know, a true like
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  Speaker 6: Jersey girl.
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  Speaker 2: She's and we're pale as can be.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, you're living in Orange County with.
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  Speaker 3: We're in California and we're both very pale.
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  Speaker 2: Well, Sophia's actually allergic to the sun.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, oh are.
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  Speaker 1: You like hate online like you're like a band core
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  Speaker 1: you look like a corpse.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, she's actually allergic.
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  Speaker 3: Like if I go in the sun, I will just
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  Speaker 3: break down to a rash.
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  Speaker 4: Now, you know, you're gonna look so young for That's.
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  Speaker 3: What I tell her. That's what I tell her. You
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  Speaker 3: will be the.
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  Speaker 6: Young You'll be like a porcelain doll. When you get older,
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  Speaker 6: you'll have no wrinkle.
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  Speaker 4: You'll be amazing.
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  Speaker 3: So it seems like a fair trade off then, and
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  Speaker 3: honestly unfair. I mean it's unfair.
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  Speaker 2: I should have not the same I'm all wrinkled.
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  Speaker 1: But you guys, you guys are the first mother daughter
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  Speaker 1: duo that we're having on the podcast. And I was
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  Speaker 1: telling Sofia earlier and I said it in your intro
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  Speaker 1: that I wanted you guys because we have a lot
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  Speaker 1: of similarities.
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  Speaker 2: We're both boss babes, we're both.
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  Speaker 1: Featured in a magazine as being entrepreneurs and starting businesses
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  Speaker 1: on our platform with Bravo, And there's a you know,
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  Speaker 1: your family dynamic has been a little rough, and Sophia
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  Speaker 1: grew up with, you know, a big divorce in this
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  Speaker 1: split with the family and you know, and how tough
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  Speaker 1: that is, and not a lot of people understand that, yes,
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  Speaker 1: they've gone through it.
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  Speaker 3: It's such a niche experience, you know, especially like being
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  Speaker 3: in like the all overse in the public eye of
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  Speaker 3: it all, it's like very niche.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, everyone everyone giving their opinions, like it's it's hard
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  Speaker 6: enough if your mother was not one of the head
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  Speaker 6: stars of Bravo for so many years, but adding that
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  Speaker 6: to it, I can only imagine. I remember being a
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  Speaker 6: teenager just having my parents fight and break up a
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  Speaker 6: little bit, like I went through a lot as a
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  Speaker 6: young girl too, and that was a lot for me.
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  Speaker 6: And just like the circle of friends I can't even
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  Speaker 6: imagine having the whole world judge it, right.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, we have a lot of fun things for
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  Speaker 1: you guys. We really want to get to know your guys'
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  Speaker 1: is dynamic and before, of course, we have to ask
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  Speaker 1: you a couple of jersey questions. Now, congratulations, you just finished?
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  Speaker 1: Is it season fifteen?
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  Speaker 4: Season fifteen?
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  Speaker 3: Yesh rapped?
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  Speaker 4: We are wrapped? Yes? Two years?
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  Speaker 2: Was it a two year break you had?
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  Speaker 4: It was over that? I think it was coming out
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  Speaker 4: to like two and a half three years actually three years, right, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: like three years.
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  Speaker 6: I did wife swap in between, which old, Yes, but
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  Speaker 6: it was it was like almost three years because you know,
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  Speaker 6: they just we just couldn't get it together. And I
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  Speaker 6: think for the last it was taking a good year
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  Speaker 6: and a half for them to recast. I think they
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  Speaker 6: were trying to find the right cast because they must
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  Speaker 6: have known, like you know, they were really going to
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  Speaker 6: switch it up this time.
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  Speaker 1: So, so, how does this season feel different compared to
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  Speaker 1: in the past.
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  Speaker 4: It's so different.
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  Speaker 6: It's Tamera like hopefully, Like I personally love it. I
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  Speaker 6: feel like it's refreshing. Like sometimes I watch Housewives, just
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  Speaker 6: like we all do, and I hear the Ladies or
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  Speaker 6: even my show screaming in the background and I'm.
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  Speaker 4: Like, I don't want to see these girls fight fight,
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  Speaker 4: fight all day.
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  Speaker 6: Like we have drama. We definitely have drama on the
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  Speaker 6: new season. But it's so strange. We all really like
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  Speaker 6: each other, like in.
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  Speaker 4: A weird way, like and I'm not used to that
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  Speaker 4: on Housewives. You know, we're very white.
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  Speaker 1: I had a fun season this year. I had a
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  Speaker 1: fun season, and I'm like, I'm still weird.
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  Speaker 2: People like I, oh, chase that, but that's what we
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  Speaker 2: want to see.
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  Speaker 3: Like everyone online is like so sick of like all
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  Speaker 3: the manufactured yelling at everybody. Everyone wants to see people
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  Speaker 3: have fun.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, did you find.
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  Speaker 4: The world has changed?
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  Speaker 6: The world has changed, Like we're sick of the fighting,
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  Speaker 6: and like, I think the formula of Housewives is so
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  Speaker 6: like people know it way too much now, So it's like,
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  Speaker 6: let's just show real life if we really get mad,
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  Speaker 6: let's really get mad, but that's not animated if we
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  Speaker 6: don't need to, And I feel like that, what the
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  Speaker 6: way are we have a new producer now that he
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  Speaker 6: kind of produced the show and I loved it.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like people are.
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  Speaker 3: Gonna that makes a difference, That makes a huge difference stuff.
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  Speaker 4: But they're saying there's only gonna be like ten episodes.
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  Speaker 6: Untrue, there is. There is definitely more than ten episodes.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Antonia, I saw you've been watching New Jersey
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  Speaker 3: from the beginning on TikTok. How has that been?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 5: Definitely a roller coaster because I watched like the beginning
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  Speaker 5: of the feud and then now I'm in like the
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  Speaker 5: moment where like they made up. Now now it's like happiness.
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  Speaker 5: But now I think there's another era where we.
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  Speaker 7: Don't talk anymore.
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  Speaker 4: We scared for that. Yet, what season are you going?
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  Speaker 5: Ten? Oh?
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  Speaker 4: She's only on season ten. She's got four more to
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  Speaker 4: go before she gets to where we are?
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  Speaker 2: Now, what made you decide to do that? So smart?
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  Speaker 5: I feel like I always like people always ask me
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  Speaker 5: questions about it, and I literally never know the answers
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  Speaker 5: to them and everyone like.
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  Speaker 7: Oh remember this, remember that.
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  Speaker 5: I'm like, I don't watch it, Like I have no idea.
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  Speaker 5: So I just like felt like it was time.
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  Speaker 3: I feel you completely, Like I have not watched any
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  Speaker 3: of Orange County House, so I was I probably should
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  Speaker 3: do the same thing and rewatch it because I honestly
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  Speaker 3: don't know much about what happened these kids.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what it is.
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  Speaker 1: It's like they participate, they want to get paid, right.
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  Speaker 3: And then I don't watch it back.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: No, but for her, like she was so little when
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  Speaker 6: we filmed so much of it. I'm sure you were too, Sophia,
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  Speaker 6: So like she doesn't remember a lot of it. So
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  Speaker 6: watching it, it's funny to me, like I'll come home
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  Speaker 6: and she.
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  Speaker 4: Has her show on, like like she doesn't realize it's
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  Speaker 4: us and her, like she's ship into this show. It's
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  Speaker 4: so strange.
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  Speaker 5: I'm like a fan now, yeah, like that's not like
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  Speaker 5: my mom, Like I'm a fan. No.
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  Speaker 6: We saw Albi and we went to a restaurant and
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  Speaker 6: Albi was in there and she was still in the
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  Speaker 6: beginning episodes where Albi was like the god, like Alby's here, Mom,
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  Speaker 6: I'm like Jesus Christyantonia, Like she's a fan of Real
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  Speaker 6: Housewives of New Jersey.
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  Speaker 4: And she's like in it.
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  Speaker 3: It's I'm sure you're watching it, like gives you a
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  Speaker 3: new perspective on things. Did your opinion change about anyone
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  Speaker 3: since we're watching?
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  Speaker 5: No, but I definitely see true colors of certain people
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  Speaker 5: that I didn't.
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  Speaker 1: Know yeah about Yeah, well I think now that you're
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  Speaker 1: older you're watching.
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  Speaker 5: It, I don't don't understand way, yes, and like it
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  Speaker 5: just makes sense.
• 8:01
  Speaker 1: Now there's a lot of housewives New Housewives, which means
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  Speaker 1: some people are gone this season.
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  Speaker 2: Is there anyone you guys miss on the show.
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  Speaker 4: For this new season you're talking about?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: I love Margaret. I am a huge Margaret. I was
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  Speaker 4: close with all the girls, well not all of them.
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  Speaker 6: There's one that you know, there's a couple that I
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  Speaker 6: miss and a couple that I will not miss, let's
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  Speaker 6: just put it that way, you know. So it's unfortunate,
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  Speaker 6: But you know, I'm so happy for Margaret too, because
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  Speaker 6: she's gone onto the Golden life and she's filming over
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  Speaker 6: there in the Hampton's with them and stuff.
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  Speaker 4: So I think that's awesome for her.
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  Speaker 6: I feel like she is going to be such an
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  Speaker 6: asset to that show with them because a lot.
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  Speaker 4: Of them drink and she's sober.
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  Speaker 6: So I feel like she's so going to remember everything
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  Speaker 6: and remind them everything they've done.
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  Speaker 4: And I think that show is going to be so
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  Speaker 4: great with her on it.
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  Speaker 1: Well, she's filled in for Dolores, because Dolores is I
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  Speaker 1: thought you could.
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  Speaker 2: Have been at that wedding. I saw you on vacation
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  Speaker 2: and stuff.
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  Speaker 6: Did you go No, So Joe and I that we
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  Speaker 6: wrapped filming and we left. We've got on a plane
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  Speaker 6: the next day, went to say, oh, just for like
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  Speaker 6: a long weekend. I got back last night and yeah,
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  Speaker 6: we literally just went for a long weekend, him and I.
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  Speaker 6: We were meeting some friends out there. It was nice
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  Speaker 6: and we just did that. I didn't go to Portugal.
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  Speaker 6: They're going to have a wedding here too, in Jersey,
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  Speaker 6: so that will all.
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  Speaker 2: Go to What a beautiful wedding. Oh yeah, oh my god.
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  Speaker 2: Just from what I've seen on social media, I'm like.
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  Speaker 6: Oh my and his bride, like the dress, the head piece,
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  Speaker 6: that gorgeous, she looks stunny.
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  Speaker 1: Isn't it crazy that like our kids now the girls
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  Speaker 1: that started originally on Housewives can now soon be Housewives.
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  Speaker 4: And insane, like they can have a baby and like
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  Speaker 4: join the show.
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  Speaker 3: I think that, God, don't do that. I have a
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  Speaker 3: baby too.
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  Speaker 4: Would you ever join Housewives?
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  Speaker 5: Like?
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  Speaker 4: Is that something you would ever do?
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  Speaker 2: You know?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know if that's for me. I don't think
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  Speaker 3: I could do it, honestly.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you're doing a podcast, right, you know.
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  Speaker 3: I would love to do something in TV. I just
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  Speaker 3: don't know about Housewives specifically. I think I'm too blunt.
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  Speaker 2: That makes it.
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  Speaker 4: Right, that's perfect, Sophia. How old are you?
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  Speaker 3: I'm twenty, the same age exactly.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys can join.
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  Speaker 6: Everyone always asked Antonio about next Gen. They're like, were
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  Speaker 6: you ever going to do next g I'm like, she's
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  Speaker 6: still in college, She's not.
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  Speaker 1: It's a question on the rundown. Honestly, we'll get into that.
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  Speaker 3: But I have a question for you in Sonia. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: see more of you this season?
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  Speaker 7: You do you do? Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Was it fun filming?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah?
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  Speaker 5: I feel like it's just like the same thing, and
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  Speaker 5: like I'm so used to it that it's not it's
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  Speaker 5: just like whatever.
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  Speaker 2: Did you miss it? Did you miss it? When it
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  Speaker 2: was off air? Or you were away at college and
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  Speaker 2: didn't could get too.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I didn't being in at college. I was like,
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  Speaker 5: didn't really think about it, to be honest.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. We're into it now though than when you were younger.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, definitely more into it. And especially since I'm watching it,
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  Speaker 5: I'm really into it and like seeing them behind the
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  Speaker 5: scenes and stuff.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I totally get that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and then also like reconnecting with your cousins too,
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  Speaker 1: And I'm sure they filmed as well, so that probably
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  Speaker 1: made it fun.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, yeah it did.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, we had like one or two scenes where you'll
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  Speaker 6: see us like all together, like all the cousins, sweet
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  Speaker 6: and everyone together, and I will say it was nice
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  Speaker 6: to see them. Listen, obviously, everyone knows the story of
• 11:36
  Speaker 6: Teresa and I. That's the tales oldest time, right, But yeah,
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  Speaker 6: to see the kids be together and like my sons.
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  Speaker 6: They the girls love my sons because there's no boys
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  Speaker 6: in that family, you know, I mean, well now Louis
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  Speaker 6: has boys, but like, you know, it's cute to see
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  Speaker 6: them with my boys because they're not used to boys,
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  Speaker 6: and they, you know, they love my sons.
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  Speaker 4: So it was very wholesome. That one of the things
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  Speaker 4: we filmed.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's very sweet.
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  Speaker 1: There's a lot of family members that have come and
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  Speaker 1: gone on this on your show. What about Kathy and Rosie?
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  Speaker 1: Will we see them or is that that ship sailed?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, that ship is sailed.
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  Speaker 6: I told this story already on a different my podcast,
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  Speaker 6: actually my while back. But I tried to have lunch
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  Speaker 6: with Kathy and like move forward with her, and she
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  Speaker 6: was like so weird about it and was thinking I
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  Speaker 6: was doing it for all the weird wrong reasons, but
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  Speaker 6: I was really just doing it because she literally moved
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  Speaker 6: across the street.
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  Speaker 4: So I was trying to be nice and be like, listen.
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  Speaker 2: You and wait, that's true. She lives across the street.
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  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, like yep, right there, so you see her, Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: we'll see her drive by. Yes, yeah, well we don't.
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  Speaker 7: Really.
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  Speaker 6: I went to lunch with her, but it just didn't
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  Speaker 6: pan out the way that I hoped it would have.
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  Speaker 4: You did go to.
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  Speaker 6: Lunch, yeah, don't you talk about I did before we
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  Speaker 6: started filming. I just saw that she was moving in
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  Speaker 6: across the street and I was like, it's a shame
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  Speaker 6: that's Joe's first cousin that they don't speak to each other.
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  Speaker 6: So I reached out and said, I'd love to go
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  Speaker 6: to lunch. I'd love to like, you know, maybe clear
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  Speaker 6: the air. You're gonna be my neighbor. We went to lunch.
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  Speaker 6: We had a decent lunch, but then she went on
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  Speaker 6: I think it was watch What Happens Live with Andy
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  Speaker 6: as like the Bartender or Surprise Bartender. And I don't
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  Speaker 6: like what she said, so I was like, yeah, never mind,
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  Speaker 6: I'm good.
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  Speaker 3: Like she doesn't.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, she doesn't have a relationship with your kids nothing.
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  Speaker 4: And I was just like, you're gonna be across the street.
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  Speaker 4: We did. She knew them when they were little. I mean,
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  Speaker 4: you know, Victoria and Joey when they were little. But whatever,
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  Speaker 4: it is, what it is. I tried.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, at least you tried.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Speaking of like family dynamics, do you feel like the
• 13:50
  Speaker 3: fans sometimes put more pressure on your family dynamic than
• 13:53
  Speaker 3: you do yourself?
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  Speaker 5: Yes? Yeah, everyone's two cents opinions, always, always, always, always.
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  Speaker 4: Especially on your Instagram, like you're gay.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, social media especially is like a whole different level
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  Speaker 5: of like everyone trying to put their two cents in,
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  Speaker 5: and like.
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  Speaker 2: How do you deal with that? I know how your
• 14:13
  Speaker 2: mom deals with it. How do you deal with that.
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  Speaker 4: I just ignore it, to be honest, and I've always did.
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  Speaker 7: Thank God.
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  Speaker 5: I'm like that because I feel like people like on
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  Speaker 5: social media are so mean and like rude and like
• 14:27
  Speaker 5: say what they need is like what's on their mind
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  Speaker 5: because they're behind a screen. But I'm just literally like,
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  Speaker 5: don't even like think about it.
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  Speaker 4: You've never really responded.
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  Speaker 5: Never.
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  Speaker 7: Never.
• 14:38
  Speaker 6: I tell her not to get caught up, because once
• 14:40
  Speaker 6: you respond, they're so excited that they get a rise
• 14:43
  Speaker 6: out of you, and they're like, oh, she's reading my shit.
• 14:45
  Speaker 3: It's like the whole point why they don't say any better.
• 14:47
  Speaker 4: I was like, you're better off ignoring. I used to
• 14:49
  Speaker 4: when I first got on the show. I'd be like, like,
• 14:52
  Speaker 4: you know, I'd want to answer. I'd be like, no,
• 14:54
  Speaker 4: that's absolutely not correct, and.
• 14:56
  Speaker 2: Then I you know, you learn one hundred percent.
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: Like I remember back in the day, I would not
• 15:00
  Speaker 1: respond to the nice comments. I would respond to the
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: people talking shit, and then I would talk shit back.
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: And then it came back to I found that once
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: you responded to them, then they're like, oh my god,
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: I'm so sorry I shouldn't have said that about you,
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: and then they wanted to be your front.
• 15:16
  Speaker 6: Yeah, always always like it's always so it's not even
• 15:20
  Speaker 6: worth it. It's just like keep it moving. At this point,
• 15:22
  Speaker 6: I think we're all like seasoned enough, like everybody understands it,
• 15:25
  Speaker 6: they understand haters and the game enough now that it's
• 15:28
  Speaker 6: like you just got to keep living.
• 15:30
  Speaker 4: And go on with your life.
• 15:32
  Speaker 5: Do you think about it so much it'll affect you
• 15:34
  Speaker 5: so you just have to ignore it?
• 15:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 15:36
  Speaker 4: Did you ever feel like it affected you at.
• 15:38
  Speaker 7: Like, I'm not that time.
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: No, we're gonna get We're going to get into Ryan
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: o'plasty in a minute, because Sophia has three weeks out.
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: But I'll never forget.
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: It was maybe her sixteenth birthday and I took a picture.
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: We were on the beach going to lunch, and I
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: don't really look at my comments, but she at the
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: time was at my comments and somebody wrote, I hope
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: she's gonna get a nice job one day, And I've
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: never forgotten that, and then just recently she did and
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: it came back to my mind, like is things like that,
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: like you'll see you know Vicki, for instance, god a
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: knows job because Slade said she looked like missus Piggy,
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: like does anything that people say to you, Antonia, They like,
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: are you like, do you get self conscious about?
• 16:27
  Speaker 4: No?
• 16:28
  Speaker 5: I like I When I was younger, it would affect
• 16:31
  Speaker 5: me a little bit. I would be like, why is
• 16:33
  Speaker 5: everyone saying like I.
• 16:34
  Speaker 7: Have a big nose?
• 16:35
  Speaker 4: I have a big nose?
• 16:36
  Speaker 5: Like they would compare me to my mom and always
• 16:38
  Speaker 5: be like, are you gonna do what she did?
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: Like so you got the same thing that she got?
• 16:43
  Speaker 5: Yeah, it would, and it would get to me because
• 16:45
  Speaker 5: it was like so much at like, and I don't
• 16:49
  Speaker 5: know why everyone was fixated on it, but they just
• 16:52
  Speaker 5: like kept saying it, so I kept seeing it and
• 16:54
  Speaker 5: it was affecting me at one point.
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: But it's just so crazy that they're saying these things
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: about like actual kids.
• 16:59
  Speaker 4: I know, isn't that nuts?
• 17:00
  Speaker 3: And they think it's okay because it's housewife kids, But
• 17:03
  Speaker 3: that's still a trial at the end of the day.
• 17:04
  Speaker 7: It's like so weird doing and it's just they don't realize.
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: And then if you go on their profile, they're like, God.
• 17:11
  Speaker 4: First, my kids. So one sixty nine point two.
• 17:17
  Speaker 6: Yes, it's always always, always someone that says like choose
• 17:22
  Speaker 6: God first.
• 17:23
  Speaker 4: And lead with love.
• 17:24
  Speaker 6: Yeah, really, but I think she got a lot with
• 17:28
  Speaker 6: the note, like she would get comments because people I
• 17:31
  Speaker 6: remember the comments. But they would comment on her photos
• 17:34
  Speaker 6: and say, oh, she has her mother's old nose, she
• 17:37
  Speaker 6: has her mother's old notes, like that's what Melissa used
• 17:40
  Speaker 6: to look like. Like they because obviously her and I
• 17:43
  Speaker 6: we look pretty similar.
• 17:44
  Speaker 4: Especially when my hair is a lot of like, yeah,
• 17:46
  Speaker 4: we look a lot of like.
• 17:47
  Speaker 6: So they would always say to her like, oh, when
• 17:50
  Speaker 6: are you going to get a nose job and then
• 17:52
  Speaker 6: you're gonna look like your mother again.
• 17:53
  Speaker 4: Like they would always say those kind of things right
• 17:55
  Speaker 4: on her, And I do think it.
• 17:57
  Speaker 6: Affected you because she used to just like I just
• 18:00
  Speaker 6: I want to get my nose done. I want to
• 18:01
  Speaker 6: get my nose don And I was like, no, I
• 18:03
  Speaker 6: wouldn't let her do it until she turned like I
• 18:05
  Speaker 6: wanted her to have it too.
• 18:06
  Speaker 4: I wanted her to be.
• 18:07
  Speaker 6: Twenty, you know, yeah, did it just because I had
• 18:11
  Speaker 6: a friend had it done very young and she regretted it,
• 18:14
  Speaker 6: and so I always reminded her of my friend Dawn,
• 18:17
  Speaker 6: who was like, had.
• 18:18
  Speaker 4: It done really really young?
• 18:19
  Speaker 6: And I was like, you just have to wait till
• 18:21
  Speaker 6: you're in your twenties and then we can do it.
• 18:23
  Speaker 6: So that's why she's only two months post up right now, right?
• 18:26
  Speaker 4: Two months?
• 18:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it looks really good.
• 18:29
  Speaker 4: Thank thank you yours guys too.
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: Wait what did you get your side three weeks ago?
• 18:34
  Speaker 4: Oh three weeks? Wow, it looks really really good.
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: Thank you.
• 18:38
  Speaker 4: I'll sibe you. That's how you can for its beautiful.
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: Yeah, there is that good.
• 18:45
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Well when she walked in, I'm like, your nose
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: is shiny.
• 18:50
  Speaker 4: Oh my god.
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: I don't know if you had this problem, an Tonio,
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: but like the tape, the glue, I can't get the
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: glue I was.
• 18:57
  Speaker 4: She talks about, Is there shiny glued? No?
• 19:00
  Speaker 6: No, no.
• 19:00
  Speaker 5: I was freaking out the first day because there was
• 19:03
  Speaker 5: so much adhesive on my oh and I couldn't even
• 19:06
  Speaker 5: touch it because it was so sore. And I was
• 19:08
  Speaker 5: freaking out and I'm that's my prolom and it couldn't
• 19:11
  Speaker 5: come off.
• 19:12
  Speaker 7: But I'll tell you what.
• 19:12
  Speaker 4: I'll show you the thing I did to take it off.
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: Oh no, I have like constant just like glue on
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: my nose, and it's like it's still sore at this point,
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: so I can't like rub it off, so I'm just
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: living with it.
• 19:23
  Speaker 5: I did too, I kept putting tape on top of it,
• 19:26
  Speaker 5: and more would go on. I didn't know until I
• 19:28
  Speaker 5: found something.
• 19:29
  Speaker 6: I remember the shiny nose from the nose shet like,
• 19:32
  Speaker 6: so you just feel shiny twenty four hours a day.
• 19:34
  Speaker 4: Yes, you feel shiny.
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: I do.
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: And she won't stop letting me know about it.
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: Oh, I'm the worst.
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: You know, you have glue on your nose. I didn't
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: know it's glue.
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: I just thought it was shiny.
• 19:45
  Speaker 6: So I got to show her just before we jumped
• 19:48
  Speaker 6: on here, I handed her, So, what you have to
• 19:50
  Speaker 6: buy are these.
• 19:50
  Speaker 4: Little they're like what are they called them? Clatters? The
• 19:53
  Speaker 4: little square watters.
• 19:55
  Speaker 6: You just pull them out and just go like this,
• 19:57
  Speaker 6: and they're awesome and they'll just stuck up all the
• 19:59
  Speaker 6: oil I.
• 19:59
  Speaker 3: Need to get.
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: So Sophia when we went for the consultation, she had
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: talked about it for a little while. She felt like
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: she had her dad's nose. She does not have a
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: good relations She didn't speak to her dad in years.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: And it was just like a constant reminder. It wasn't
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: a huge nose. It just had a bump and whatever.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: And so I took her in and to doctor molds.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: He's the one that did my brow lift and all that.
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: And he when he said, you sat down.
• 20:25
  Speaker 3: Dude, he read me to filth. He was like, you
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: have thick skin, big pores, a big.
• 20:32
  Speaker 4: We all say, what the heck?
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: Now they might well they he's putting her on a
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: very low dose of acutane starting next week, yep.
• 20:42
  Speaker 7: And it's that'll shrink her.
• 20:44
  Speaker 4: No, it'll totally make it heal faster.
• 20:46
  Speaker 6: She would not go on it because as you can see,
• 20:48
  Speaker 6: she loves the sun. And yeah, and the difference is
• 20:52
  Speaker 6: when you live in Jersey in June, July and August,
• 20:56
  Speaker 6: you can't have anyone tell you that you can't go
• 20:58
  Speaker 6: near the sun because it's a major problem for us.
• 21:01
  Speaker 4: So we don't see sunshine.
• 21:03
  Speaker 6: It's till June, July and August, right right, So for
• 21:06
  Speaker 6: us it's like, especially the young girls, all they want
• 21:09
  Speaker 6: to do is like be in the sun for those
• 21:10
  Speaker 6: three months.
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: So I've never even heard of this though.
• 21:13
  Speaker 4: This is the newest thing.
• 21:14
  Speaker 6: You go on acutane, it literally heals you ten times
• 21:17
  Speaker 6: faster and shrinks all the swelling.
• 21:19
  Speaker 4: You're going, it's gonna She didn't do it, but she
• 21:21
  Speaker 4: should have.
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: And it's like it's such a small amount. It's like
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: five milligrams versus.
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: Like it's like nothing, a quarter of what they usually
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: give you.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because I'm like, well, we're going to Italy, she
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: might want to have like wine and stuff with dinner.
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: And also we're going to be under the sun a lot,
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: and well.
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: You're gonna have to be having a big hat.
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: But and I'm like, so does she have to start?
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: Like can she start when she gets back? They're like, nope,
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: at four weeks she needs to start.
• 21:47
  Speaker 4: Yeah, see, I know, refuse.
• 21:49
  Speaker 6: We were going back and forth, back and forth, and
• 21:51
  Speaker 6: finally we decided no because she already has like her
• 21:54
  Speaker 6: skin always drives her nuts, so we didn't want to
• 21:56
  Speaker 6: like add on to it at all.
• 21:58
  Speaker 5: So yeah, it didn't need any purging. And I'm also
• 22:00
  Speaker 5: turning twenty one, and you can't drink on it.
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: I don't, right, Yeah, that's what I also said. That's
• 22:06
  Speaker 3: the same thing.
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: But by the way, Melissa, he also told me it's
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: anti aging. He says him himself goes on it once
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: a year for a couple of months, very low dose,
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: shrinks your pores, does all the things.
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: So I'm like, oh, that sounds amazing.
• 22:24
  Speaker 6: Maybe detox don't drink for that six months or whatever
• 22:28
  Speaker 6: it is.
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: And yeah, I know if like the drinking thing, it's
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: if you're on a super low dose, it's honestly fine
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: from what I've read.
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: So you've googled it. I have googled at it or
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: whatever you guys did.
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: But if it's like everything, if it's like a low dose,
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: like you can drink, it's just if you're on like
• 22:44
  Speaker 3: a full dose, where like people are on it for
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: like acne or whatever, it's way bigger dose. So then
• 22:49
  Speaker 3: that that messages with your liver or whatever.
• 22:51
  Speaker 4: But yeah, do you feel swollen? It's hard to see
• 22:54
  Speaker 4: through that.
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I do. You're swollen, Yeah, especially in the tip,
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: Like I know that's like the last part to but
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: it feels a little bit.
• 23:02
  Speaker 6: You're literally exactly what she was saying a month ago,
• 23:05
  Speaker 6: because you're probably a month ahead of her.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: So yeah, her first how was your recovery? Like the
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: first week? So Sofia stayed She has got her own apartment,
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: but she stayed with me. The first week.
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: Oh that was like hell, I don't know about you,
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: but it was like actual hell.
• 23:20
  Speaker 4: Yeah the first week.
• 23:21
  Speaker 5: I mean it wasn't as bad as everyone was making
• 23:25
  Speaker 5: it out to me. But I think the fourth day,
• 23:28
  Speaker 5: I thought I was going to see the light, Like
• 23:30
  Speaker 5: I'm serious. I was like, oh my god, I wasn't
• 23:35
  Speaker 5: so much pressure. I feel like I'm here, and I
• 23:38
  Speaker 5: felt like it was swelling like every second and like
• 23:42
  Speaker 5: it was pulsing the headache.
• 23:45
  Speaker 6: She's like so good with it though she puts that
• 23:47
  Speaker 6: tape on. It's still like every single night she puts
• 23:50
  Speaker 6: that tape on and like she goes to sleep with
• 23:53
  Speaker 6: it here here here, like do you do? I did
• 23:55
  Speaker 6: not think she's doing. She's such a good patient, and
• 23:58
  Speaker 6: I'm like jealous of her. I'm like, mine's not as
• 24:01
  Speaker 6: small as we called adaptor because she has her like
• 24:05
  Speaker 6: her final checkup, and I was like, why is her
• 24:08
  Speaker 6: so small? Like what I was, I'm jealous. Her nose
• 24:11
  Speaker 6: is like perfect, So.
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: You so is that what the tape's from.
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, i'd always found like three weeks ago, you know,
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: I tape it every single night. Still. I one night
• 24:20
  Speaker 3: I forgot to tape and I could notice the difference,
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: Like I wake up and it was like way more swollen.
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: So ever since then, I've been like super crazy about
• 24:28
  Speaker 3: the taping. I do not forget. But the the healing process, dude,
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: like especially having the splints in your nose.
• 24:36
  Speaker 7: I have those, you didn't.
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: So they put like giant splints up my nose and
• 24:42
  Speaker 3: I couldn't breathe through my nose for the first week,
• 24:44
  Speaker 3: and it was gnarly.
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: It was she was having an anxiety attack.
• 24:47
  Speaker 3: I was on panic attacks like constantly, and it was miserable.
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: She would like wake up and feel like she couldn't
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: breathe because she could only mouth breathe, and then when
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: she ate, she felt.
• 24:57
  Speaker 3: Like She's like I I literally could can't like eat
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: for the first week. I could barely eat.
• 25:02
  Speaker 7: I lost like five pounds lost.
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: You lost weight.
• 25:06
  Speaker 4: I could tell me, aren't you guys happy? It's over?
• 25:08
  Speaker 4: You're free, done, that's done and done. Yeah, but again,
• 25:13
  Speaker 4: the mouth rereading is like also like torture.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: I hate to break it to you, girls, but your
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: nose is one thing that continues to grow the rest
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: of your life.
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: It's okay.
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: I've made peace with it because I had mine done
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: too in my early twenties, and I'm like, it looks bigger.
• 25:27
  Speaker 4: Yeah it's not. Yours looks good, but so has your
• 25:32
  Speaker 4: nose in your ears? Girls. Yeah, grow, they grow your
• 25:34
  Speaker 4: whole entire life, so enjoy.
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's true, and your boobs if you're lucky.
• 25:39
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that she doesn't want to grow is not.
• 25:44
  Speaker 7: Oh, I can't do it anymore.
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: That's how I was, Jean.
• 25:49
  Speaker 4: I can totally really nanny for my mother, not for me.
• 25:53
  Speaker 4: She didn't get those from me.
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: Well you got yours from your dad's side of the thing.
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: I'm not complaining. Now I'm seeing all these like tiktoks
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: people being like the Ballerina Breuston plan.
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: Have you heard about that?
• 26:03
  Speaker 4: No? What is that?
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: The people want small boobs now, and I'm like, my
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: time to shine.
• 26:09
  Speaker 4: I like small boobs. You wear the little.
• 26:11
  Speaker 6: Tank tops and it just shows, like you know, I'm
• 26:13
  Speaker 6: into that.
• 26:14
  Speaker 4: It has like the little nipple look.
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that I've never been insecure about that. Honestly, I'm
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: very happy.
• 26:21
  Speaker 4: But that's what's in right now. I feel like small
• 26:23
  Speaker 4: boobies are cheap. There's sheep.
• 26:26
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: I have the ones that like grow like hormonal, like
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: they grow that.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: I've had like two reductions. Then I took them down
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: to like nothing. Then I had like implants put in,
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: and then I felt like they grew and then I
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: had them remove Like I've had a love.
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: Hate relationship gone through a lot, I've gone to lot.
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, Now did you think at any point you
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: and Joe like, Okay, if I let her do this
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: at twenty, are we creating a monster?
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: Is it gonna be something sunvery? Is this slippery slope?
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: Because that's what Eddie's like, Well, she's gonna get this done,
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: and then she's gonna want boobs and then you know
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: she's gonna.
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: Do filler in her lips, and I'm like, it's not
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: her the thing at all.
• 27:05
  Speaker 5: No.
• 27:05
  Speaker 6: I feel like the nose was something that was always
• 27:08
  Speaker 6: really bothering her. And I just don't think she's the
• 27:11
  Speaker 6: time you know your kid, right, I know I don't.
• 27:14
  Speaker 6: I'm not going to say she's never one day going
• 27:16
  Speaker 6: to say like mom, now I would like something else,
• 27:18
  Speaker 6: or I want to lit filler, I.
• 27:20
  Speaker 4: Want to do booze.
• 27:21
  Speaker 7: Who knows, right.
• 27:22
  Speaker 4: I feel like she's not one to be like I
• 27:25
  Speaker 4: don't think she'll be.
• 27:26
  Speaker 7: She'll go not that type.
• 27:28
  Speaker 4: I like to look as natural as pot make.
• 27:32
  Speaker 8: I'm not even worrying any right now, like she does
• 27:35
  Speaker 8: not give a ship.
• 27:37
  Speaker 7: I feel like I look better natural than.
• 27:39
  Speaker 3: I completely get you. I feel like you also agree,
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: like I am not a person who wants the big blips,
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: the big tits, like everything.
• 27:48
  Speaker 4: Completely tits and lips.
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: I mean, she she decided last year that she was
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: going to cut her hair in a pixie cut and
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: then diet brown.
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: Dark brown, almost black, and I almost wasn't almost black,
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: it was it was dark.
• 28:04
  Speaker 7: He cried.
• 28:04
  Speaker 4: I cried, Oh my god.
• 28:06
  Speaker 3: I told her to meet up the mall and she
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: was like, you.
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: Know, she was doing she's like made at Northes from
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: cafe and she walks in and I'm.
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: Like, who the hell is that?
• 28:16
  Speaker 4: You actually did it herself?
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: Oh wow, she did herself.
• 28:21
  Speaker 4: She's good traded hairdresser. Are you like good with hair color?
• 28:24
  Speaker 3: I yeah, I've been doing my hair since like high school,
• 28:27
  Speaker 3: like middle of high school, maybe middle school.
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: She's very artsy.
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: So I just cut it all off. I wanted to
• 28:33
  Speaker 3: Pixicut and my hair was so dead, like it definitely
• 28:36
  Speaker 3: needed and I had like really long bleached blonde hair,
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: like super bleached, and it was just so dead.
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: So she had died in pink and green and all
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: these colors and all this stripping. So now she's letting
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: it like grow out and everything, and I'm.
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: Like, do you want to get an extensions?
• 28:51
  Speaker 4: She's more artsy.
• 28:52
  Speaker 6: You have that artsy vibe, like you like a California
• 28:55
  Speaker 6: girl artsy.
• 28:57
  Speaker 4: That's cool that Like you're unique. I like that snyle.
• 29:01
  Speaker 4: You have your own style.
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: So let's talk about your dad a little bit, because
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: I love your dad.
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: Joe is basically the ultimate girl dad.
• 29:09
  Speaker 3: He really is.
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: What's the best, like dating advice he's given you?
• 29:15
  Speaker 5: Uh, there's no dating advice. There's no boys at all there.
• 29:20
  Speaker 5: I have a Boyfribody's you know. He doesn't give me
• 29:22
  Speaker 5: any advice. He just he likes your boyfriend.
• 29:25
  Speaker 7: Yeah he does.
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: So how long have you had your boyfriend?
• 29:28
  Speaker 4: A year?
• 29:29
  Speaker 3: Oh?
• 29:30
  Speaker 4: No, way, me too?
• 29:31
  Speaker 6: Talking about this, By the way, I can't get her
• 29:34
  Speaker 6: to say this on the show.
• 29:36
  Speaker 4: She won't talk about her boyfriend. She wouldn't have him
• 29:38
  Speaker 4: come over on the show.
• 29:39
  Speaker 6: I was like, yeah he's here that she wouldn't allow
• 29:42
  Speaker 6: him on the Real Housewives of New Jersey.
• 29:44
  Speaker 4: But she's I'm glad she's talking.
• 29:45
  Speaker 3: Is protective.
• 29:47
  Speaker 4: I have one that he's been around for a year.
• 29:51
  Speaker 4: Keeping he looks like a mini Joe. It is so funny.
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, So Sophia has a boyfriend named Nico.
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: Don't you have a Nico?
• 30:01
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: I saw that right now.
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: Yes, and he he's Mexican like Eddie.
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: His family's frown Battalahara like Eddie.
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: He grew up forty five minutes from where we live now,
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: in the same town Eddie grew up in.
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: Like, I'm like, wow, it was an accident.
• 30:19
  Speaker 3: I didn't know all this.
• 30:21
  Speaker 6: See she's a good man, and then that's just what happens.
• 30:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah, right, But it's very sweet because they're like best friends,
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: Adie and Nico.
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: They get along very well. Yeah, the two of them
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: are going to go to Italy with us, so we're
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: super excited about that.
• 30:38
  Speaker 4: More of you guys are going just the four. Oh yeah,
• 30:40
  Speaker 4: I love that. That is so nice.
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: My other two boys they couldn't get off work, and
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: I'm like, we'll go for like a Cabo weekend or something,
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: and my one son's like, nope, and only I don't
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: vacation my gosh.
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: Okay, well, his cats, he takes care of his cat.
• 30:57
  Speaker 4: Yeah, don't cats, Like are they like? What do you
• 31:00
  Speaker 4: do with cat? Don't you just give them a lot
• 31:02
  Speaker 4: of in the litter box. I have no cats, so
• 31:04
  Speaker 4: no judgments.
• 31:05
  Speaker 3: I have a cat.
• 31:06
  Speaker 4: I just usually leave them home alone.
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: I thought, yeah, not for a week, not for a week.
• 31:11
  Speaker 3: I have like my brother check on my cat if
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: I'm gone for a long time. But if it's like
• 31:14
  Speaker 3: a weekend, they're usually fine. I have like an automatic feeder,
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: so my cat's usually fine.
• 31:20
  Speaker 6: They're not like dogs, like you can't leave my dog
• 31:22
  Speaker 6: alone for more than Yeah, tops, and that's it lower maintenance.
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, let's let's go back to your dad.
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah, let's talk about your dad.
• 31:30
  Speaker 4: We went off.
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: Does your dad do anything that embarrasses you?
• 31:34
  Speaker 7: Oh? All the time?
• 31:36
  Speaker 4: She uses them all day for tiktoks, Like I don't
• 31:40
  Speaker 4: use him. He wants to be in all her tiktoks.
• 31:42
  Speaker 7: Yeah he does.
• 31:43
  Speaker 5: But I also make him do a lot of like
• 31:45
  Speaker 5: funny ones because everyone, I feel like everyone loves when
• 31:48
  Speaker 5: he does like silly stuff.
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: Well, I just saw him swinging and calling himself Tarzan
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: on Instagram.
• 31:55
  Speaker 4: You don't know.
• 31:55
  Speaker 6: We almost freaked out because he looked like he was
• 31:57
  Speaker 6: gonna fall off the edge and like he we told
• 32:00
  Speaker 6: the guy said to him, don't swing on it, just
• 32:03
  Speaker 6: take a photo with it.
• 32:04
  Speaker 4: Because we don't know it might be and.
• 32:06
  Speaker 6: He went swinging on it and I'm like Jesus Lord Joe,
• 32:09
  Speaker 6: like yeah, like crazy, But no, she loves making TikTok.
• 32:14
  Speaker 4: So he's a good girl dad. Like he does all
• 32:16
  Speaker 4: the things. If she says, put.
• 32:18
  Speaker 6: This lipstick on, put my pajamas on, We're going to
• 32:21
  Speaker 6: make a TikTok.
• 32:22
  Speaker 5: He does it right away, and he thinks other things
• 32:25
  Speaker 5: to do during the video to make it funnier, Like
• 32:28
  Speaker 5: he does all the ideas, Like I'll tell him something.
• 32:31
  Speaker 4: He's like, all right, let's do this this and this
• 32:32
  Speaker 4: and this and it'll be funnier.
• 32:33
  Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, yeah no, but that's such
• 32:36
  Speaker 3: a blessing though, honestly, to have a father like that,
• 32:39
  Speaker 3: like that's very very sweet. Yeah, I love it.
• 32:41
  Speaker 6: They have an awesome relationship like he this is like
• 32:44
  Speaker 6: his I mean, he's obsessed with her.
• 32:49
  Speaker 3: Girl.
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: How do you feel when your parents do some of
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: those like you know, kind of steamy scenes and.
• 32:55
  Speaker 4: Oh, like they just posted like two days ago.
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: Oh what was it? Do?
• 32:59
  Speaker 4: Tell? Oh they're dancing at the bar together. But like
• 33:03
  Speaker 4: we were on vacation.
• 33:05
  Speaker 5: You know, I can't even watch, Like I can't yet.
• 33:09
  Speaker 4: And was like, ew, like, what is this?
• 33:13
  Speaker 6: We were just a little tipsy, we were on vacation
• 33:15
  Speaker 6: or late went off. Sorry, we were tipsy. We were
• 33:18
  Speaker 6: on vacation and and we I don't know, I just
• 33:22
  Speaker 6: jot posted it. He's always the one that posts.
• 33:24
  Speaker 7: I'm like, I can't I've commented. I'm gagging.
• 33:29
  Speaker 4: Oh my god, are we embarrassing?
• 33:30
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 33:31
  Speaker 4: You guys fun stuff like no need like we're fun.
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: But don't you think like growing up seeing your parents
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: affectionate like Sophia grew. I mean, I divorced her father
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: when she was only four, but there was like a
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: lot of fighting in the house. Don't you think like
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: having parents that are affectionate, like it helps.
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: You, like, you know, have to help expectation up for
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: good relationship with your boyfriend.
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: Definitely not that you guys touch at all. I guess
• 33:55
  Speaker 2: she's listening.
• 33:56
  Speaker 9: Never ever, right, maybe six feet apart for five sweetie.
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: You're in college right now, Delaware. What's next?
• 34:15
  Speaker 5: Well, I have one more year and then I'm going
• 34:17
  Speaker 5: to graduate and hopefully open up a business of some
• 34:20
  Speaker 5: sore I don't know what, yeah, but hopefully something cool.
• 34:24
  Speaker 3: You want to be an entrepreneur, like your mom. Yeah, awesome.
• 34:27
  Speaker 6: I always ask her what she wants to do, and
• 34:29
  Speaker 6: she always just says, I'm going to open a business.
• 34:30
  Speaker 4: So I don't know what business she's going to open,
• 34:33
  Speaker 4: but she wants to.
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: She love it out.
• 34:35
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: Now do you think you'll move back to Jersey?
• 34:40
  Speaker 5: Oh?
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah for sure?
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: Is that the plan?
• 34:43
  Speaker 5: Oh? Yeah?
• 34:43
  Speaker 6: She hates being even away, Like sometimes she just surprises
• 34:46
  Speaker 6: us and she walks, it's only two and a half
• 34:48
  Speaker 6: hours away, is it about?
• 34:49
  Speaker 7: Yeah?
• 34:50
  Speaker 6: And on Sundays she gets jealous, like when we're watching
• 34:52
  Speaker 6: the football games and I'm like making pasta and it's
• 34:55
  Speaker 6: like typical like Italian Sunday football day over here, she
• 34:59
  Speaker 6: just pops in. Sometimes it's like I was hungry and
• 35:02
  Speaker 6: she just like surprises us.
• 35:04
  Speaker 4: I think I'm more home during the weekends than at school.
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: Oh so you're not that far.
• 35:10
  Speaker 4: No, you shouldn't be home. It's like I am a
• 35:13
  Speaker 4: little far.
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: How far? Tell me how far? Like how long does
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: it take two and a half hours? Wow, that ain't
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: that bad.
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: A little bit of a drive.
• 35:21
  Speaker 4: Like if I leave a ten of me.
• 35:23
  Speaker 6: Home out like like once a month, really I would say,
• 35:27
  Speaker 6: like once a month?
• 35:28
  Speaker 7: No, are you joking?
• 35:30
  Speaker 4: All right, I don't know. Really, it's only once a month. No,
• 35:34
  Speaker 4: it's last semester, I.
• 35:35
  Speaker 7: Was home like eight times. That's not I don't think.
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: What's what's the biggest lesson you've learned from watching your
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: mom work?
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: Because she's a hustler.
• 35:48
  Speaker 4: Hmmm, make her say something nice about my hammer?
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you do watch me work?
• 35:57
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I do.
• 35:58
  Speaker 7: I don't know.
• 35:59
  Speaker 4: She's she is a hustler, of which I want to be.
• 36:02
  Speaker 5: She's very on top of her stuff and she always
• 36:04
  Speaker 5: knows exactly what to do so hopefully.
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: So it's like her drive. You watch her drive, her
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: motivation things like that.
• 36:10
  Speaker 6: Yeah, and sometimes she probably gets like annoyed with me too,
• 36:13
  Speaker 6: because it's always something always and sometimes she probably I
• 36:18
  Speaker 6: do feel bad, Like sometimes she probably wants, you know,
• 36:21
  Speaker 6: a little bit more regular where it's like I don't
• 36:24
  Speaker 6: have anything to do at three o'clock and I don't
• 36:25
  Speaker 6: have to jump on a podcast, or I don't have
• 36:27
  Speaker 6: to do.
• 36:27
  Speaker 4: Hair and make up to an event, you know, I
• 36:29
  Speaker 4: always have.
• 36:30
  Speaker 6: I try to keep like a balance of both in
• 36:32
  Speaker 6: my house because I don't like that either.
• 36:35
  Speaker 4: I want to have memories of my kids, you know,
• 36:37
  Speaker 4: and of.
• 36:38
  Speaker 6: Like doing dinners at home and just sitting around on
• 36:41
  Speaker 6: the couch at night and like not always having to
• 36:44
  Speaker 6: work or be somewhere. But unfortunately, and fortunately, I'm always
• 36:49
  Speaker 6: very busy, and I know she sees that the most
• 36:52
  Speaker 6: more than her brothers do, because you know, she's with
• 36:55
  Speaker 6: me the most. And I feel like when, like when
• 36:58
  Speaker 6: we did Wife Swap, I was away, she was in
• 37:01
  Speaker 6: the house.
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: I was dying.
• 37:03
  Speaker 4: Watching that episode because she was a mini med.
• 37:05
  Speaker 6: The way she walked around this house and cleaned the
• 37:07
  Speaker 6: house and kind of like took my role. Is how
• 37:11
  Speaker 6: I knew she's gonna be okay in life. I was like, Oh,
• 37:12
  Speaker 6: she's watching She's good, you know.
• 37:14
  Speaker 3: So Yeah, I feel like you guys, you guys relationship
• 37:18
  Speaker 3: is very similar to me and my moms. It sounds
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: very similar.
• 37:21
  Speaker 4: Yeah, not that, Wait you should do Wife Swap?
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: No, thank you. No, not enough money in the world.
• 37:27
  Speaker 3: I couldn't imagine you're doing that.
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: Not enough money in the world. I Am not going
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: to go stay at somebody's house that I don't know.
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: He actually still did they have a new one. It's
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: like housewife addition they do.
• 37:37
  Speaker 6: They just filmed a whole nother round of housewives just recently.
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, somebody on my house did it a couple months ago. Well,
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: let's play a little game before we close out mother
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: daughter game. I'm going to ask you who apologizes first? Me,
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: who's more stubborn, who gives better advice?
• 38:01
  Speaker 3: Who's funnier? I?
• 38:04
  Speaker 4: No, I'm the fiest person in this half. No, you're not.
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: Who's more emotional?
• 38:10
  Speaker 4: Me? Her?
• 38:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah, what's one thing your mom does that drives you crazy?
• 38:17
  Speaker 5: Oh my god, she just tells me to do things
• 38:19
  Speaker 5: all day. And she also can't hear, like I have
• 38:21
  Speaker 5: to say things over and.
• 38:22
  Speaker 3: Over and that is quite I'm losing my hearing.
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: What's one thing, uh, Antonio does the drives you crazy?
• 38:32
  Speaker 4: Snippy? Snippy? Like I ask a simple, regular question just
• 38:37
  Speaker 4: like she's like. I'm like, well, because she knows the
• 38:40
  Speaker 4: answer already.
• 38:42
  Speaker 6: The other thing I can't stand is because she'll say
• 38:45
  Speaker 6: something but she like mumbles it and I'm like, what,
• 38:47
  Speaker 6: I didn't hear you. She'll say it again and I'm
• 38:53
  Speaker 6: like I still didn't. I got one more time, and
• 38:56
  Speaker 6: then she like loses it, like just listen the first.
• 39:00
  Speaker 4: Like she's she's mumbling and I need to hear that precise.
• 39:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah, what's something you've never told each other that you
• 39:06
  Speaker 3: admire about each other.
• 39:08
  Speaker 5: Oh god, okay, Okay, I know something I admire about you.
• 39:15
  Speaker 4: I do admire.
• 39:17
  Speaker 6: I really love how you speak, like publicly, like how
• 39:21
  Speaker 6: you speak when you're referencing your family, and just I'm
• 39:24
  Speaker 6: proud of how you speak out loud and just the
• 39:27
  Speaker 6: head on your shoulders.
• 39:28
  Speaker 4: Does that make sense? Like mm hmm, I love I do.
• 39:31
  Speaker 6: I I when she speaks and I hear her speak,
• 39:33
  Speaker 6: and certain is whether either just be on our TikTok
• 39:36
  Speaker 6: or to people that we meet in person.
• 39:39
  Speaker 4: I like the way she has manners and like speaks
• 39:41
  Speaker 4: to people. So h that is what I love about you.
• 39:45
  Speaker 4: Your turn.
• 39:48
  Speaker 7: This is hard for me. I'm not a mushy, mushy person.
• 39:50
  Speaker 8: I get like she's the most unmushy person, gets so weird,
• 39:54
  Speaker 8: Like she's that girl on Instagram that like runs from
• 39:57
  Speaker 8: the family when they try to hugger.
• 39:58
  Speaker 4: You never see those tiktoks. Yeah that's her, So go ahead, sweet,
• 40:02
  Speaker 4: it'd be smushy.
• 40:06
  Speaker 5: I admire like how you're like a super mom and
• 40:09
  Speaker 5: could do everything work and take care of us.
• 40:12
  Speaker 4: Wow, that's sweet. Thank you.
• 40:16
  Speaker 2: Okay, we have a few rapid.
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: Fire questions Okay, so just complete these sentences.
• 40:21
  Speaker 2: My mom's favorite phrase is.
• 40:28
  Speaker 9: I don't know clean your room, all right.
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: My mom's obsessed with.
• 40:35
  Speaker 7: My dad.
• 40:38
  Speaker 3: That's sweet.
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: My mom's biggest biggest pet peeve is messy house.
• 40:44
  Speaker 3: My mom's guilty pleasure is.
• 40:48
  Speaker 4: Cool I watch it all the time. I don't know,
• 40:52
  Speaker 4: yes she do?
• 40:53
  Speaker 6: What?
• 40:54
  Speaker 4: Like? What show do I have on? Every time you
• 40:56
  Speaker 4: come in?
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: Like, I've been.
• 40:57
  Speaker 6: Watching it at the same show for years and I
• 40:58
  Speaker 6: just rewatch it?
• 41:01
  Speaker 7: Hows me?
• 41:02
  Speaker 4: No, I don't know Gray's anatomy he does?
• 41:06
  Speaker 7: Like that.
• 41:06
  Speaker 4: That's my guilty pleasure.
• 41:07
  Speaker 7: I rewatch it.
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: From you do? Oh my god.
• 41:10
  Speaker 4: I used to watch it one episode one and I
• 41:13
  Speaker 4: cry every time I watch it.
• 41:14
  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: My mom spends way too much money on what bags?
• 41:20
  Speaker 4: Clue.
• 41:20
  Speaker 3: I don't blame her. My mom's biggest fear is.
• 41:25
  Speaker 4: Like, what little I freak about my dad? Leave me?
• 41:30
  Speaker 6: Oh my god, infected her life with my marriage here,
• 41:34
  Speaker 6: I'm believable.
• 41:37
  Speaker 4: I mean, really, it's because you're dead, all right? Well,
• 41:42
  Speaker 4: you know what, You'll learn more about that in the news.
• 41:45
  Speaker 5: And forgot no one really knows.
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: The funniest thing my mom does is.
• 41:53
  Speaker 5: Dance to Michael Jackson and talk to herself too all
• 41:56
  Speaker 5: the time, all day.
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: Long, all days.
• 41:59
  Speaker 5: It just has called conversations and to herself all day long,
• 42:03
  Speaker 5: like especially to.
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: Michael Johnson, like on display on.
• 42:07
  Speaker 4: Michael Jackson Only Dirty Diana.
• 42:10
  Speaker 6: Yeah, sure, I play Michael Jackson all nobody. One thing
• 42:15
  Speaker 6: people might not know about me is I'm a massive
• 42:18
  Speaker 6: Michael Jackson fan.
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: Did you like the movie?
• 42:20
  Speaker 4: I don't care what anyone says. I will defend him.
• 42:22
  Speaker 4: I love him and that's that. And I watched the
• 42:26
  Speaker 4: movie four times.
• 42:28
  Speaker 3: Oh I saw it three times. I think I've seen
• 42:30
  Speaker 3: that twice.
• 42:31
  Speaker 9: It was so good.
• 42:32
  Speaker 6: I went to the Broadway show four times. I have
• 42:35
  Speaker 6: an obsession.
• 42:36
  Speaker 3: Then I admit it, there's a Broadway show.
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: No, we need to do that.
• 42:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely. If my mom wasn't on Housewives, she'd be.
• 42:46
  Speaker 7: A teacher.
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: Oh did you want to be a teacher teaching?
• 42:50
  Speaker 5: What?
• 42:50
  Speaker 6: I graduated college in elementary education to be a teacher.
• 42:54
  Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I'm a certified elementary school teacher.
• 42:57
  Speaker 3: No way, that's so sweet.
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: Yes, Okay.
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: In closing, we just want some heartfelt just bites here.
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: What's one thing you hope never changes about your guys' relationship.
• 43:13
  Speaker 4: Do you want to? I feel like we're very honest
• 43:15
  Speaker 4: with each other. Yeah, sometimes probably too honest.
• 43:17
  Speaker 6: We should probably soften, but that's how I grew up
• 43:20
  Speaker 6: with like my sisters and my mother being very honest.
• 43:23
  Speaker 4: So we're honest. So let's just keep being honest.
• 43:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, good one. What's something your mom did that
• 43:29
  Speaker 3: you didn't appreciate until you got older?
• 43:34
  Speaker 4: I love this podcast. God.
• 43:41
  Speaker 5: She always tell me like to always like look presentable
• 43:44
  Speaker 5: and like like be the best version of myself always.
• 43:48
  Speaker 5: So now I was like, why do I always have
• 43:50
  Speaker 5: to look nice and be perfect?
• 43:53
  Speaker 7: But like it's true, so not.
• 43:55
  Speaker 6: Perfect, but like she would she she didn't appreciate like
• 43:58
  Speaker 6: just getting yourself to Yeah.
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: You know, well nowadays, like kids are wearing pajamas out places.
• 44:06
  Speaker 3: There's beauty in the ritual of getting ready, Like it
• 44:08
  Speaker 3: feels good like mentally.
• 44:11
  Speaker 4: Yes, I like how you said that. That's so true, Sophia.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Melissa, what are you most proud of when you
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: look at your daughter?
• 44:20
  Speaker 4: I would say that she's very kind hearted. She is.
• 44:23
  Speaker 6: She's a very kind hearted person. She's zero drama and
• 44:27
  Speaker 6: I love that about her, no matter if it's her
• 44:29
  Speaker 6: friends having drama. Her girlfriend's having drama, family drama. She
• 44:35
  Speaker 6: is very fair and level headed, and I would say
• 44:38
  Speaker 6: that's her best quality.
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I love having polite kids.
• 44:45
  Speaker 3: Antonia. What was something your mom has taught you that
• 44:47
  Speaker 3: you carry into your own family one day?
• 44:54
  Speaker 7: Hmm? Oh my god?
• 44:58
  Speaker 4: What do I do here that you want to do
• 45:00
  Speaker 4: there wherever they're.
• 45:01
  Speaker 7: I don't know, be a super mom like her?
• 45:04
  Speaker 4: I'm a super mom. She said that twice a day,
• 45:06
  Speaker 4: and I'm gonna take it.
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: You're gonna need a cape.
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: Finally, what's one piece of advice you give you'd give
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: mothers and daughters trying to stay close as their kids
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: become adults.
• 45:18
  Speaker 6: Melissa, you know, I think it's to judge a little less.
• 45:24
  Speaker 4: I think, I, you know, instead of judging.
• 45:27
  Speaker 6: What she comes down the stairs in, or judging where
• 45:31
  Speaker 6: she's going or how many times if you know, whether
• 45:34
  Speaker 6: it be if she's gonna work out, what she's gonna eat,
• 45:37
  Speaker 6: what's gonna go on in her life, who she's dating,
• 45:39
  Speaker 6: who her friends are.
• 45:40
  Speaker 4: I've learned that they don't want.
• 45:42
  Speaker 6: To be judged by us or like nitpick nitpick, That's
• 45:45
  Speaker 6: what I was looking.
• 45:46
  Speaker 5: That is the biggest thing I feel like because moms
• 45:48
  Speaker 5: are always like, do this, do this, do this.
• 45:50
  Speaker 6: I'm like, I'm a nitpicker because I'm a perfectionist. So
• 45:53
  Speaker 6: I have to learn not to do that as much
• 45:55
  Speaker 6: with my kids. Yea, even though they love us, they.
• 45:58
  Speaker 4: Don't want to be nitpicked and I'm nitpicker. I do
• 46:00
  Speaker 4: it with Joe, I do it with my boys, I
• 46:02
  Speaker 4: do it with everybody. It's just me.
• 46:04
  Speaker 3: I think it's a mom's job, though it comes from
• 46:06
  Speaker 3: a place of love, and I feel like when I
• 46:08
  Speaker 3: was in high school, it definitely was a lot like
• 46:11
  Speaker 3: I was going through my changes in my phases and
• 46:13
  Speaker 3: at the time I was like.
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: God, Mom, I know what I want.
• 46:16
  Speaker 3: And now, looking back, I do see your nit pickingness
• 46:20
  Speaker 3: as more of like a loving gesture because you just
• 46:22
  Speaker 3: wanted what was best for me.
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: Well, I still nitpick about the tattoos, Yes, you do,
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: but I think.
• 46:26
  Speaker 3: At the end of the day, you know your kid
• 46:28
  Speaker 3: is going to like end up in the place they
• 46:30
  Speaker 3: need to be.
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I know they have a good head on
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: your shoulders. As when my kids are growing up, I
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: always let them as long as they were good kids, polite,
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: got good grades. I didn't have really any problems with them,
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: you know, if you wanted to at a certain age,
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: if you wanted to bleach your hair, if you wanted
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: to experiment with different clothes or.
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: Knows, I did make up.
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: Oh yes, you were my one that was changing your
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: hair color all the time.
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: And but just let let them be themselves.
• 46:59
  Speaker 6: Right, It's hard to do that sometimes you want them
• 47:01
  Speaker 6: to be little mini versions of you.
• 47:03
  Speaker 4: But then as I got older, I realized, like.
• 47:05
  Speaker 6: No, she's not supposed to be a mini version of me, right,
• 47:08
  Speaker 6: whoever she is?
• 47:10
  Speaker 5: Right?
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: And Sophia had said that to me once.
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: She's like, I feel like you're not happy because I'm
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: not a mini version of you.
• 47:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah, right, and I'm not.
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: I let you do you hear's your nose? Your hair
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: was green like and I.
• 47:22
  Speaker 3: Think, ironically I have become kind of a mini version
• 47:25
  Speaker 3: of you in a lot of ways as well.
• 47:27
  Speaker 2: Ways my plan is working.
• 47:29
  Speaker 4: So you guys, you're doing a podcast again. I love this,
• 47:32
  Speaker 4: by the way, congratulations on thank you's. And Sophia, you've.
• 47:37
  Speaker 6: Just grown into like the most beautiful like you're so out,
• 47:40
  Speaker 6: you speak so well too, like you really do.
• 47:43
  Speaker 3: Thank you.
• 47:44
  Speaker 4: Good luck to you guys, and it's awesome to see
• 47:46
  Speaker 4: you guys like this.
• 47:47
  Speaker 6: It's very inspiring to see a mother and daughter work
• 47:49
  Speaker 6: together and have conversations with other people.
• 47:51
  Speaker 4: It's really cute.
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: Thank you and thank you guys so much for coming
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: on and being our first.
• 47:56
  Speaker 2: Yes, yes, my daughter do bo.
• 48:00
  Speaker 4: Thank you guys so much. Later, Bye, guys.
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: I really enjoyed them. I thought that the just it.
• 48:08
  Speaker 2: Was so good.
• 48:09
  Speaker 3: I felt like we were looking at a reflection of
• 48:11
  Speaker 3: ourselves a little bit, yes, just the Italian version.
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: Well, thank you guys so much for tuning in. We
• 48:20
  Speaker 2: are just.
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: So happy the feedback that you've given us for this podcast.
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: Right now, we are just monthly, but we have a
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: lot of great ideas coming to.
• 48:29
  Speaker 3: So many ideas we're bursting out the same.
• 48:31
  Speaker 2: Yes, and make sure you tune into the Real Housewives
• 48:34
  Speaker 2: of Orange County.
• 48:35
  Speaker 3: Too, because it will tell me more of us, more
• 48:38
  Speaker 3: of you.
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, people probably want to see less than me, but whatever.
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: Thank you guys, Thank you,