Latest / Live! with Fefe and Freddy / State of Dilemmas, Gay Prime Ministers, Headlines, and More | S14E16
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- 0:28None. Literally, I'm hi, hi, hi, hi,
- 0:34hi, hello, hello, hello, goodbye, hello, goodbye, hello.
- 0:47And it's not an it's not an episode of Live with Fifi and
- 0:52Freddy without one of us disappearing or.
- 0:57I don't even know what the fuck happened.
- 0:59That makes no fucking sense. Like what is it?
- 1:03Well, welcome to episode 16 of season 14 of Live with Fifi and
- 1:09Freddie. It's still Black History Month
- 1:12for another 3 days and I will be black all year long for the rest
- 1:19of my life. So you're welcome.
- 1:22And I'm Felicia Fifi Minor, and we did not plan these outfits at
- 1:29all. And he's gone again, but we
- 1:36didn't plan our outfits. Freddie Prinze Charming is
- 1:39coming back, signed off. Coming back signed off.
- 1:43I don't know. Anyway, welcome.
- 1:48We've got a pack show for you tonight.
- 1:53We are talking about favorite books.
- 2:00We're talking about current events, including the State of
- 2:03Dilemmas or the State of the Union.
- 2:08Some kind of union. I don't know.
- 2:11I don't know, girl, I don't know.
- 2:16And then, well, do the weekend recap, especially if Freddie
- 2:24comes back. And then, I have no idea.
- 2:30He disappeared from the Internet.
- 2:33Are you there? Are you coming back?
- 2:41Are you there? You're blinking.
- 2:48I don't know what the fuck is happening right now.
- 2:52What the fuck? Just about to text you.
- 2:59I'm like, are you OK? No idea what's happening right
- 3:03now. No idea what's happening.
- 3:05It's fine. Oh my God.
- 3:07Everything is fine, we're good. I'm back, hopefully.
- 3:15One question. OK, so I've asked several
- 3:17questions over the course of Black History Month and I was
- 3:26talking to someone that some of the answers are OK, some of them
- 3:31are to be expected. But the latest question that I
- 3:35asked was what was the first lesson of black history that you
- 3:41received or something like that? Like what's the first?
- 3:44Let me see if I can pull up Facebook.
- 3:49But some of them were very, as the kids say, unhinged.
- 3:59And I couldn't, it's very unusual for me to get these kind
- 4:07of things. But I was like, huh, OK, let's
- 4:13see. OK, You don't want to.
- 4:18I don't want to share the screen for the, you know.
- 4:24Right. I don't want to be, I don't want
- 4:30to be messy, but I could be. I definitely could be.
- 4:37Let's see, it says. So what was your first Black
- 4:42history lesson you learned? I'll tell you mine, but I'm OK.
- 4:49Somebody remembers the day that they were shot.
- 4:53Doctor King's March on Washington.
- 5:01My dad telling other adults about underground speakeasies.
- 5:14I'm Latino. I'm a Latino that grew up in
- 5:17upper class in an upper class neighborhood in Tucson.
- 5:21In fifth grade, I had my first black American classmate.
- 5:25I don't think people understand. Did I need to?
- 5:32Did I say something different? Did I?
- 5:38People don't always read or like, like we, and we know this,
- 5:43Felicia, we know this. Like people don't always read.
- 5:46And when they do read, sometimes reading comprehension isn't like
- 5:49people's strong suits. Like we, we know this.
- 5:54We know this. And I'm like, what's going on,
- 5:58'cause this person goes on to say he bullied me and I called
- 6:02him the N word and I'm like, he probably beat your ass.
- 6:08And that would probably be the first black lesson that you ever
- 6:10learned. Right, right.
- 6:15Like interesting. So it's on my Facebook page,
- 6:21it's public. I just haven't really responded
- 6:25because I don't. I'd be like this.
- 6:31What does this have anything to do with the question that I
- 6:33asked? I didn't ask when was the, you
- 6:35know, when was the first time you got your ass beat by, you
- 6:39know, by a like what? What like that?
- 6:42Like, I don't know. That makes no sense.
- 6:44To me, so I'd love to know anybody else's answers on what
- 6:50is the first black history lesson that you learned?
- 6:56I will say, and some people can't believe this when I say
- 7:00it, and I think Dee put this, but I've always been raised that
- 7:09you have to give 100% and then give 110% because I will always
- 7:16be looked at through a lens of less than.
- 7:21And that can be truer than what this administration is doing
- 7:25because they are definitely acting like the Obamas did
- 7:29nothing and didn't do anything. But I've I feel like I am living
- 7:39black history and have always been taught things that have
- 7:47been passed down and I really don't take it for granted where
- 7:55I am. Could I be better?
- 7:58Yes, I'm. Trying to, I'm trying to think
- 8:01like for me, what my first sort of black history lesson would
- 8:06have been because my, my schooling was very different
- 8:10than most people's, did they? So it would have been worked
- 8:15into not specifically like black history, but it would have been
- 8:18worked into like world history, you know what I mean?
- 8:21And it could have been and I'm trying to.
- 8:25I'm trying to think it could have gone back to.
- 8:29Like Egyptians? Yeah, like ancient, ancient
- 8:33African history, including Egyptians and some of the the
- 8:37tribes rolling sort of into like South African, like apartheid
- 8:43and American slavery and things like that.
- 8:47But I think it was, it's a part of, was always a part of world
- 8:51history and not a specific, you know what I mean, like black
- 8:55history. Yeah, it's it wasn't as hateful
- 8:58as it is here. At least that's what I at least
- 9:02that's what I I think anyway, because I don't I don't think I
- 9:04remember anything being specific like to.
- 9:07The world learns from our the more I keep getting into this
- 9:14like the Jim Crow and learning about all these things, it's
- 9:18like interesting, interesting. So America's a leader, but it's
- 9:25a leader in enslaving people. Just want y'all to know that
- 9:31not. Just, I mean, we weren't the
- 9:32first, but. I know we weren't the 1st, we
- 9:36just upheld some weird tradition or something.
- 9:39Right. I didn't like, I mean, slavery's
- 9:42been around since. Beginning.
- 9:46Right. Like we've always, there's
- 9:48groups of people have always enslaved other people to do the
- 9:50work that they didn't want to do.
- 9:53But like over the years, like people have learned to not do
- 9:59that. And we we missed that memo,
- 10:02apparently. Gabe says yes, an AZ education
- 10:09system. We have world history and AZ
- 10:11history. I had world history, but that
- 10:15wasn't until high school. I feel like elementary was
- 10:21definitely the first time learning about being that people
- 10:30were shipped over on boats. Kinda had me confused there for
- 10:36a SEC, 'cause I was like, why are we shooting people on boats
- 10:41against their will? Yeah.
- 10:47So anyhow, that's a question I think about and if you're
- 10:50interested and want to be enthralled in what we have going
- 10:59on over here on my Facebook page, some people actually ask
- 11:04people question. So that's good.
- 11:07You said I, I don't ever expect, my expectations are very low
- 11:11when it comes to reading comprehension with most folks
- 11:14because people they, they don't, they don't, I don't know, they
- 11:19pick in like they see certain like buzzwords in something and
- 11:23then they latch onto that and it's like, OK, but you've missed
- 11:25now all of what we're literally talking about.
- 11:28Like literally not like, but OK. Thank you for joining the
- 11:32conversation I guess. Like, so I'm like, oh, and then
- 11:39if you don't answer people, then they get they give.
- 11:43If I just answer the thread, come on.
- 11:46Oh Jesus, what's going on here? OK, so we'd like to thank our
- 11:51patrons because they are the large support of our community
- 12:01that keep us going. We like to thank Bill, Brandon,
- 12:07Cassandra, Chris and Michelle, D Drake, Jensen and Michael,
- 12:13Casey, Star, Carrie and Corey, Joan, Laura, Madame, Askew and
- 12:17the Grand Arbiter, Nicole, Patricia, Mason and Shannon.
- 12:24Is D better? Yeah, it she was literally down
- 12:28for the count all of last week. Like all of last.
- 12:31Week I don't know what these things never happened.
- 12:33This is are but they be taking us out.
- 12:37I still don't feel like 100% to be honest, but nothing I can do,
- 12:44yeah. It's it's, it's pretty bad.
- 12:47It's pretty bad. I haven't gotten.
- 12:49Sick yet? And I'm hoping I don't get sick.
- 12:52I'm just going to keep knocking on this wood right here 'cause
- 12:55I'm going on vacation in a week and 1/2, so good luck.
- 13:03Thanks. I'm like, I don't care.
- 13:05I'm dragging my ass all around Universal Studios and you know,
- 13:11I'm fine, I'm fine. I'm.
- 13:15Fine, a huge shout out to Wigs of a Kind for supporting us this
- 13:19season. I don't.
- 13:19Know not a wigs of a kind wig this evening.
- 13:23I don't think that mine is either my other.
- 13:27Sorry Marissa, we are well, I usually do.
- 13:34You can message us to find out ways that you can support us.
- 13:38You can just send us money If you follow us on social media.
- 13:43You you just press like Messenger has like this pay
- 13:47button and you just like send it to us.
- 13:51I'd be OK if you just wanted to send me money.
- 13:52I I wouldn't complain about that.
- 13:54I mean, if one day you were like, I have $5 and I should
- 13:57just give it to Freddie and Felicia, Yeah.
- 14:01Yeah, yeah, I'd be down. I'm here to support you anyhow.
- 14:08How was your weekend? Uneventful.
- 14:13Like I said, my my partner has been was sick like all last
- 14:17week, like literally all last week.
- 14:18So I was pretty much at home with her because if she's
- 14:24contagious and I've been exposed and I could end up contagious,
- 14:28and it was just, you know, so I basically didn't do anything all
- 14:30week. She finally sort of started
- 14:34feeling better on the weekend. So Sunday we were able to go to
- 14:38Costco because we were out of literally everything.
- 14:41So we needed to go to Costco so bad.
- 14:47So that's pretty much it. I've been working on costume
- 14:50stuff for mostly Wild West Con. A couple of things I had to do
- 14:56for the fundraiser this weekend, but most of it's been for a Wild
- 15:00West Con and I'm still working on that and I don't even know
- 15:04what I'm doing. So Nope, probably not.
- 15:09It's gonna be. I don't.
- 15:13I don't even know. I don't even know.
- 15:15It's fine. It's fine.
- 15:19It's fine, Nobody will notice. It's that's it.
- 15:26That's so unusual. That's literally, yeah, that's
- 15:29literally that's it. Ain't done a damn thing.
- 15:34So I, I guess I didn't put it on the show sheet, but we had a
- 15:38little one that was sick with the flu A.
- 15:42Yep, that's what's going around. So then we basically were at
- 15:48home and then Sunday I was at Testal for Cheese Spinosa.
- 16:00Folks, if we're doing an event for you, can you show up on
- 16:08time, especially if we're raising money for your, your
- 16:13organization? No team, lots of shade, but for
- 16:21the Phoenix allies for community health, great organization,
- 16:27supports and works with like people or organizations like
- 16:34transcript Pueblo Pueblo. And I was like, where are the
- 16:40people? And they're like, they're on
- 16:42their way. And I'm like, but like.
- 16:47You know what, At least they showed up because I've totally,
- 16:50I remember doing fundraisers for people who didn't show up at
- 16:53all. And I'm like, oh, yeah, oh,
- 16:58yeah, totally, totally happened couple times.
- 17:01And I'm like, yeah, you know what?
- 17:05Not doing this again, but thank you so much.
- 17:07Yeah. 'Cause I'm like.
- 17:10So anyhow, when they finally did get there, we did play some drag
- 17:14bingo, played music and talked to folks, including folks that
- 17:19had been at a drag bingo of ours before at Test stalls.
- 17:26And it was a couple years ago and it was when we did the drag
- 17:30bingo for Desert Star. And it was like school themed.
- 17:35I think back to school theme maybe.
- 17:38I don't know, but it was when we were on that like bar stool and
- 17:46they have some people outside. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.
- 17:50I remember. And so I'm looking at these
- 17:52people 'cause I'm like, I recognize them and I'm usually,
- 17:59I remember names, but like I just kept looking at them and
- 18:02I'm like, you look so familiar to me.
- 18:07So then we're talking later and they're the ones that I like
- 18:14laughed in their face because he kept messing up on the bingo and
- 18:20I like, laugh. Sitting outside.
- 18:22Yeah, and I remember like running out the door and like
- 18:29screaming, laughing at him. Yes, I remember actually have
- 18:33and the I. Remember that.
- 18:36So I call this the redemption round, 'cause he won a couple of
- 18:43bingos and then his friends won a couple of bingos.
- 18:47I was like, this is like your redemption round.
- 18:49You, you didn't fuck it up this time.
- 18:52But for you, yeah. But I, I wasn't sure if you
- 18:57would remember them, but I was like, Oh my gosh, I kept
- 19:00laughing so hard at them 'cause they kept thinking they had
- 19:04bingo. But it was great to catch up
- 19:06with them. I learned a whole bunch.
- 19:09There was a whole bunch of chiefs made going on, which is
- 19:11like gossip, 'cause I learned a lot about how they all became
- 19:15friends. It's interesting how things go.
- 19:23But anyhow, and here we are. Here we are and nothing is
- 19:32disconnected yet. But feel free to share the
- 19:34episode. On to the next.
- 19:38Let's talk about it. I lost the button.
- 19:42It went away. Yeah.
- 19:44OK. Huh.
- 20:04So that's the second time now we've played a video that it
- 20:09didn't work on my end and it said that our connection was
- 20:12lost. Oh, I haven't had any of those.
- 20:18That's bizarre. That's literally happened twice
- 20:20now. It happened with our intro and
- 20:22then it happened then. So I wonder what's going on.
- 20:24I don't. Interest.
- 20:26I don't see that. Any I totally saw that and I
- 20:30don't know why that doesn't make any sense to me, but whatever.
- 20:35I'm like, I'm hardwired, started into my thing.
- 20:38It's fine. Anyway, so for tonight's tip, I
- 20:41was actually kind of inspired by Felicia's post today.
- 20:44I think it was today, yeah. Was it today that we all need to
- 20:47read more? OK, so it was today about
- 20:50needing to read more and it made me think that, you know, we
- 20:54really kind of should be reading more, whether it's an e-book
- 20:57paper, you know, an actual physical book or an audiobook.
- 21:00And yes, audiobooks count. Don't.
- 21:03List. I didn't think of that.
- 21:05Let me go back in here. Don't be that guy.
- 21:10So I used to be a voracious reader.
- 21:15I would go through multiple books every month.
- 21:17Like. I would just inhale books like.
- 21:21Like. Nobody's business.
- 21:23I know now I I still read, but it's definitely not as often as
- 21:28I want to or as I need to. But it doesn't stop me from
- 21:32continuing to hoard books because that's what I do.
- 21:35I have a lot of books. I do.
- 21:39I have so many books for me, like actual physical books will
- 21:44be superior to ebooks, but back when I was traveling more,
- 21:48especially by plane, ebooks were a lifesaver so I could just put
- 21:55on my kindle, throw my backpack and go.
- 21:57If I had had a Kindle when I was a kid, Oh my God, that would
- 22:00have been a. Game they would be one of the
- 22:02ones that had to. With all the.
- 22:04Clear space on it. Oh my God.
- 22:09So if you imagine like, because I've been reading since like
- 22:13pre-K, since before pre-K, I've been reading and anytime we
- 22:17would fly anywhere, I would always have several books in my
- 22:21backpack. And you figure we're doing a lot
- 22:25of travelling. When I was younger, we'd spend,
- 22:27you know, 24 to 48 hours on planes and airports and things.
- 22:31And I can only fit some in my backpack.
- 22:33So if I could have put like 50 books on a Kindle and thrown
- 22:36that in my bag, Oh my God. And.
- 22:39This week before we have to like check bags and stuff 'cause like
- 22:44back in the day you. Did right there.
- 22:46Security was barely a thing, but again, you can only carry so
- 22:50many books in your bag, especially when you're like a
- 22:53kid, you know what I mean? Like, so.
- 22:58So it got me to thinking, I'm like, OK, we need let's, let's,
- 23:01let's talk about books. Why the hell not?
- 23:06Between Felicia's post and the fact that I didn't have a topic
- 23:09for the tip tonight, I figured that was.
- 23:12A little honesty. You know what?
- 23:15That's what we're here for. There are actual benefits, like
- 23:20health benefits to reading things like reducing stress and
- 23:26anxiety, which you'd think would be like a given, but not
- 23:31everybody realizes that like it is a stress reliever.
- 23:35It can help you process emotions.
- 23:38It strengthens brain connectivity.
- 23:40It expands your vocabulary, and I know some folks probably need
- 23:44that. It improves in memory, right?
- 23:50It boosts empathy, which makes sense in the and it kind of
- 23:57explains the right wingers who probably haven't cracked a book
- 23:59in like decades. It helps boost focus and can cog
- 24:06can combat cognitive decline. So things like Alzheimer's or
- 24:14dementia or things like that run in your family or you think
- 24:16you're at higher risk for for dementia or Alzheimer's.
- 24:22Reading can kind of help keep that at Bay.
- 24:24It can help delay it for a while.
- 24:30Sam. So reading is a good thing.
- 24:33And I'm still going to die on the hill that ebooks count
- 24:37because you still have to a lot of people think that reading has
- 24:42to be you have to be reading. It's like, OK, but so you're
- 24:46going to say the the blind people that listen to audio
- 24:50books for do you like books on tape and shit Like that's not
- 24:52reading. The reason why they were created
- 24:54in the 1st place was because of the.
- 24:58Rights and now like folks that maybe have have issues with
- 25:04reading have trouble reading can listen and things like that and
- 25:10actually enjoy books more than they could before because they
- 25:16didn't want to read because they they couldn't you know, maybe
- 25:19you're dyslexic maybe you have you know something that prevents
- 25:25me from from being able to actually enjoy reading so.
- 25:32Like books? Absolutely.
- 25:38I feel like especially since I was one of those kids that grew
- 25:44up with electronics and very much latched onto them, I think
- 25:49that reading would have been better for me if it had been on
- 25:52a like electronic device. I will say that I started out
- 25:58not being a fan of reading even though my parents read with me.
- 26:04I myself had a hard time verbalizing.
- 26:09I still sometimes do as often as you all can tell.
- 26:13Yeah, but it was bad. And it wasn't until like maybe
- 26:22like the 3rd or 4th grade that something in my brain was like,
- 26:26oh, well, you know, if you do this.
- 26:31And it became enjoyable for me. But like, if you're a parent, I,
- 26:39I from a young person's perspective, be patient when
- 26:46like, words don't come easily. Doesn't mean they don't know how
- 26:49to read. It just means maybe they need a
- 26:52little more help. Great.
- 26:56And it could be an indicator that there's something else, you
- 27:01know, because there could be a learning issue.
- 27:05There could be, you know, something.
- 27:07So it's like if, if obviously if your kid is struggling to read,
- 27:11don't just get mad at them. Maybe figure out what's going
- 27:14on. You know, are they swapping
- 27:16letters? Are they, you know, are they
- 27:19things like that? Because if you're, you know, pay
- 27:21attention and I am will always say that reading has to start in
- 27:27the home and you have to start reading to your kids when
- 27:30they're young. Get them interested and get them
- 27:33excited about books and reading and stuff as part of why I do
- 27:37like Drag Story Hour, you know, so, so I often see like on
- 27:50online and stuff people asking for recommendations for
- 27:53different books. And I thought it might be fun to
- 27:55kind of talk about like some of our favorite books and authors.
- 27:59And maybe it'll inspire folks to try something new, something
- 28:06that maybe they've never thought to, to pick up before, you know,
- 28:10maybe I'll turn them on to a new author or something.
- 28:13So I actually have like visual aids and stuff so that can you
- 28:17know? I'm not as prepared.
- 28:22I I I got you. I got you.
- 28:24It's OK. So we've mentioned before that
- 28:29like my my favorite series of all time is Elf Quest.
- 28:33It's written and illustrated by Wendy and Richard Pinney.
- 28:37It graphic novels are regular novels.
- 28:39There's all the things I have let.
- 28:44Me. Are you going to be OK with the
- 28:47technology this evening? I'm going to share my screen.
- 28:52I'm gonna try to share my screen.
- 28:54So this is kind of what some of them look like.
- 28:57There's a fuck ton more. This is only a drop in the
- 29:00bucket, but the. I I will like every month,
- 29:07right? I went when they released a new
- 29:10one. Yes I literally have read and re
- 29:17read all of these over and over and over again for like 40
- 29:21years. What's the name?
- 29:25Of it again, elf quest, it's right there big, big letters.
- 29:29Most of them are released in graphic novel form, but there
- 29:33are a few sort of additional novels that are add different
- 29:39stories or a different part of like add they add to it.
- 29:45And I will literally, you'll see me sitting in the corner like
- 29:48bawling my eyes out at parts of this even though I've read it
- 29:50100 fucking times. So if you are into fantasy type
- 29:58stuff, graphic novels with a really good storyline, brilliant
- 30:03artwork, everything, I highly recommend Elfquest.
- 30:05I will always recommend Elfquest.
- 30:07Always, always, always. Available app.
- 30:11I think you can actually find them online now on you can go to
- 30:17elfquist.com and they've got a whole bunch there.
- 30:19But you can find on Amazon. They're actually re releasing
- 30:24the first four. They've released the first four
- 30:29graphic novels, the first original 4 graphic novels in new
- 30:32colorized hardbacks and they're gorgeous.
- 30:35I got them for Christmas and I reread them and then reread
- 30:38everything else. So I I love them.
- 30:43I love them with the revamp of Interview with the vampire and
- 30:48series and the Mayfair which is series looks like folks are kind
- 30:51of picking up and rice again which.
- 30:55I haven't heard in a. While right, and I've I've read
- 31:00like all the vampire books, it's been a while.
- 31:02I've read the Mayfair witches, but it's been a while.
- 31:05My favorite of the vampire chronicles is not one of the
- 31:08like it's not the vampire Lestat.
- 31:10It's not interview with the vampire.
- 31:12My favorite is actually Pandora, and I think it's because I've
- 31:17always had a thing for ancient history and Pandora like kind of
- 31:23panders to that and I love it. It it's like it helps kind of
- 31:28set the stage for all the rest of them.
- 31:29It's it's like a prequel of a prequel of a prequel.
- 31:32Like it is, it goes way back to like Armands Maker every like
- 31:38it, it goes ancient. So it's yeah, it's great.
- 31:41I love it. So my favorite genres tend to
- 31:46lean towards like fantasy, sci-fi, historical fiction, but
- 31:51I love I mean I love really anything.
- 31:54I love general fiction, non fiction.
- 31:56My book stash is about as eclectic as my music playlists.
- 32:02So some of my favorites let me talk.
- 32:05Let's see here. So if you were a child of the
- 32:0880s, you were probably completely traumatized by this
- 32:12cartoon. But the book is even more
- 32:14disturbing. But it's wonderfully written.
- 32:16Watership Down is actually going to be one of my top novels ever.
- 32:23I I have read it. I I read.
- 32:28It that's gonna make me cry. Oh for sure, 100%.
- 32:33Old Yeller. Oh my God.
- 32:36It's, it's a different sort of thing, but yes, but I, I read
- 32:42it, they had us read it for school when I was in 6th grade
- 32:45and I. Why do they always have like
- 32:50this look? Do you know what I'm talking
- 32:52about? Like Old Yeller kind of has that
- 32:54look. Right.
- 32:56And I think that's just meow and.
- 32:59You're like, what's going to happen?
- 33:02Right. So Richard Adams has a lot of
- 33:06really good books. One of them is called The Plague
- 33:08Dogs. And I've tried, I've started and
- 33:12tried to read it. I don't even think it's
- 33:15necessarily a kids story. I think it was designed for
- 33:18kids. I don't, I don't know.
- 33:20But The Plague Dogs is follows the story of two dogs that
- 33:24escaped from an animal testing lab.
- 33:27And I can't, that one's difficult for me.
- 33:30I can't do it. It's well written, but I just, I
- 33:34struggle with it. Another one of my absolutely
- 33:37favorite books ever is The Kiss of the Spider Woman and we
- 33:44talked about this a few weeks ago and.
- 33:48The has that come out yet? Yes, it came.
- 33:53We, I think we discovered that it came out a while back, but I
- 33:55can't find it streaming anywhere.
- 33:56I'll have to look for it, but the book is so good, especially
- 34:05if you're one of those people that when you read, you get the
- 34:08the very sort of vivid. The feels and.
- 34:12The right because you know. See the characters walking.
- 34:15Yes, if you are one of those like people that are able to
- 34:18really vividly like imagine what's happening in the
- 34:22characters and the things like this is so I love it.
- 34:26It is absolutely amazing if you are a fan of like the fantasy
- 34:32type stuff, Jennifer Robertson Robertson's Chronicles of the
- 34:36Chaise, Suli, It's an older, it's an older series.
- 34:45It's an they're older novels. I think they were written in the
- 34:4880s or 90s. But the storytelling is so good
- 34:53and. This is on HBO Max.
- 34:55The spider kiss of the spider woman.
- 34:58Is it the original or the new one that came out?
- 35:01The new one. Yeah, I'll have to see if I can
- 35:04find it. So this one is like it it again,
- 35:10if you like the fantasy type of thing, the storytelling is
- 35:12great. There are a number of books if
- 35:17you find the omnibus, the omnibi I guess I don't know it's
- 35:20multiple books in one but it follows like a a clan of shape
- 35:29changers I guess species or whatever but I've always like.
- 35:33These are ones that I've read and re read I don't even know
- 35:36how many times. But again, really freaking good
- 35:39storytelling. If you are a fan of sci-fi and
- 35:44like the post apocalyptic stuff, this is a fantastic series.
- 35:50It's the Silo series written by Hugh Howie.
- 35:54If you have Apple TV, there is actually a series on Apple TV
- 35:58that is based on these books. It's called Silo, which it was
- 36:05funny because I found it sort of by accident and I was like, Silo
- 36:10is that I had to Google it. I was like, Oh my God.
- 36:13But these are really, really good.
- 36:14If you watched Fallout, if you watched the Fallout series, this
- 36:20is going to be there's some similar sort of story, plot bit
- 36:27things that go in with this. It's a lot less bloody.
- 36:30It doesn't have like heads exploding and shit, but it's
- 36:34really, really, really, really good.
- 36:37It was published in like the 20 tens, so it's not like new new,
- 36:41but it's newer than some of the other things that I've read.
- 36:45But it's a fantastic series and it's really, really good.
- 36:49Really really good, especially if you like this sort of post
- 36:51apocalyptic stuff. We have been doing this show for
- 36:56more than a decade. Yes, yes, we have another good
- 37:06sort of sci-fi horror type thing.
- 37:09So I don't know how many of you all read the Christopher Pike
- 37:12books as a young adult. You would have recognized them.
- 37:14They would have. Their titles were usually in
- 37:16like some sort of neon color and they had like some sort of
- 37:19artwork on the front. Wasn't my type of book.
- 37:23I read them so Oh my God, I read them so I all of them.
- 37:26I think I owned all of them at one point.
- 37:28What? What kind of genre?
- 37:32So they were like young adult like mystery stuff.
- 37:36But this one is written by Christopher Pike, and it's one
- 37:42of his adult novels. He has a handful.
- 37:44This is one of the adult novels. And it is so good.
- 37:49So good if you like. It's, it's it's like, it's
- 37:54sci-fi. It's horror.
- 37:56It's it's it's good. Yeah.
- 38:00It's I, I love it. It's another one of those that I
- 38:02have reread I don't even know how many times.
- 38:04I can't even begin to tell you. So Something Wicked This way
- 38:07comes by Ray Bradbury. I think, again, most of us, if
- 38:12we were a child of the 80s, we watched the movie.
- 38:19Book is better. Or movie.
- 38:22Oh, the book is better, but the movie is the the movie is one of
- 38:26those where like it was actually a Disney movie.
- 38:31Disney produced this movie. Goodnight.
- 38:34And it's like watching this, I'm like, Oh my God, this is like
- 38:40good. It's so dark and so creepy and
- 38:43but it's great. The book is fantastic.
- 38:48Ray Barberry again, if you're into like a sci-fi type things.
- 38:51See you so Tipping the Velvet by Sarah Waters.
- 38:57This book is one of those sort of historical fiction ones.
- 39:01All of her books are great. Fingersmith, Little Stranger,
- 39:06There's God, what's the other one?
- 39:09Affinity. But they're all great.
- 39:12But Tipping the Velvet was the first one of hers that I picked
- 39:15up and this book and along with the miniseries, the BBC
- 39:20miniseries that came afterwards, is actually a big influence on
- 39:27or my one of my biggest inspirations for doing drag.
- 39:32Yeah. It's, yeah, it's, it's, it's so
- 39:37good. And it, it takes place in the,
- 39:39the like, say, 1800s, you've got, you know, male
- 39:45impersonators and lesbianism and all sorts of fun things.
- 39:48It's a very queer, very great. Book it's so well.
- 39:51Written though but. It's and it's not on the band
- 39:53books list. It probably slips through, Yeah.
- 39:57So another one of my favorite authors is Truman Capote, if
- 40:01you're familiar with Truman Capote.
- 40:03You probably have heard his name in conjunction with In Cold
- 40:07Blood, which was a book he wrote.
- 40:10It was a true story about murders that happened.
- 40:12He also wrote Breakfast at Tiffany's, right?
- 40:17And I was like, oh, I know that movie.
- 40:19Yeah. He wrote the story.
- 40:21He wrote the book. He's a lot of.
- 40:24He's very queer and. Well.
- 40:26I'm gonna be one of those people.
- 40:28I didn't know that there. Was A and he a a lot of his a
- 40:35lot of his books have some sort of subtle queer themes running
- 40:40through it. Other Voices, Other Rooms is one
- 40:43of those. He was very, very gay, very
- 40:47flamboyant. But a lot of his short stories
- 40:51and his little novellas and stuff were were great.
- 40:53So I highly recommend him. Dorothy Parker is another one.
- 41:00She wrote mostly short stories and poetry.
- 41:03I think I have two of her books and they're like, they're just
- 41:07they're just fun little short stories like they're.
- 41:11But again, a great author, Christopher Moore has written a
- 41:18lot of sort of they're a lot of them are more satire.
- 41:25One of my favorites of his is called Lamb and it's about it's
- 41:30a childhood story of Jesus and his best friend Biff.
- 41:37But a lot of his stuff is sort of dark comedy, satire, stuff
- 41:43like that. They're they're great.
- 41:45The Lust Lizard of Melancholy Cove was the first one of his
- 41:48that I read and I was like, Oh my God, this is fucking
- 41:50brilliant. So if you're if you like that
- 41:54sort of thing, they're easy reads.
- 41:57Their books are relatively short and they're fun.
- 42:01And there's he's got a whole bunch of them.
- 42:04Let's see, what else have we got here?
- 42:07So Gregory McGuire, who have you?
- 42:12I'm actually probably most people have that, which is why
- 42:15people are like, Oh my God, spoiler.
- 42:17OK, anybody that has anybody that had complained at all about
- 42:22any wicked spoilers while it was happening?
- 42:24Like, look, the book was written in the 90's.
- 42:27The play is like over 20 years old.
- 42:30Get over it at this point. But he sort of retells a lot of
- 42:38a lot of different fairy tales and stuff.
- 42:43So you have Mirror Mirror, which is sort of a retelling of Snow
- 42:48White, Confessions of an Ugly Step Sister, which is Cinderella
- 42:52Loss, which is Hansel and Gretel.
- 42:54I think it just sounds so Gretel.
- 42:57I think it sounds so Gretel. But he's his stuff is always
- 43:01fantastic. You can't really go wrong with
- 43:03that if you you know he's. Why haven't they made movies out
- 43:08of his other books? I believe there's actually one
- 43:11out there that was done Confessions of an ugly step
- 43:14sister. I think there's 1 based on that
- 43:15but I could be wrong but I don't know.
- 43:18Wicked was the one that took off because everybody.
- 43:20Like he's so creative that a lot of these would make good movie.
- 43:26They they would I would love it so if someone decided to make a
- 43:32movie and not like a a musical, but an actual movie of of wicked
- 43:40that was based on the book more and then did all the rest of
- 43:44them out of Oz the lion among men instead of a witch, things
- 43:49like that. If if they did all the the
- 43:51sequels the like the other books, I think it could be
- 43:57really, really good, but it would have to be done.
- 44:01You can't do it as a musical. So anyway, like you, you'd have
- 44:04to actually do it as a more serious drama thing, but I think
- 44:12that it a great. Theory like.
- 44:15I think that if if the right director and the right writer
- 44:20and the right cast got on board for it, they could do the whole
- 44:27Wicked series and it would be like Hunger Games good.
- 44:32Like it would be really, really good, but you'd have to do it so
- 44:36that it wasn't a fucking musical because but you'd like.
- 44:43I cry every time. Stop making fun.
- 44:45Of them, I'm not making fun of the musical.
- 44:46I enjoy the musical but I can only watch like Ariana Grande so
- 44:50many times before I'm like I can't do this anymore.
- 44:58So. But there is a good, I think
- 45:01list of some books and some authors and stuff for you to
- 45:05like if folks are interested in, in, in checking them out,
- 45:08please, please do. And if you do like, if you grab
- 45:11any of the ones that I recommended, let me know what
- 45:13you think. Felicia, do you have any
- 45:16favorite books? So I do, but I am.
- 45:24So when I became an adult, I don't know if anybody feels this
- 45:29way, but when I became an adult, I was very intimidated by
- 45:33reading because my mom's a reader and I would say she's
- 45:38more of like the reader, like you are.
- 45:40She can pick up anything and go to town and she can read like 6
- 45:46books in a week and you know, and I'd be like, OK.
- 45:49And I'm not, I'm not like, like she could like sign up for book
- 45:54club and talk about. I have never really been the
- 45:58person that's like, I can talk about, you know what I'm saying,
- 46:05like. No, I get it.
- 46:06I get it. I.
- 46:07I think I, I think I have like a, a limit, but I, I read quite
- 46:14frequently. But I want to, as you were
- 46:18talking about like childhood, my childhood was filled with like
- 46:21the this may surprise you. No, I won't.
- 46:27So when the joy of reading came around, it was first the
- 46:32babysitters Club. And if a new one came out, I was
- 46:36like, I need to read it. And I.
- 46:38Read a few of those, they weren't my like they weren't my
- 46:41my main go to but I do remember reading pretty much all of them
- 46:47and for some reason. But this is when I should have
- 46:50done like there's some kind of. Did you read any of the Sweet
- 46:53Valley High? Sometimes, but I wasn't.
- 47:01It wasn't no, it wasn't my life. I.
- 47:06It wasn't my go to either, but it was one of those things where
- 47:09like if it was there I would read it because I'll read pretty
- 47:12much anything like. I loved Goosebumps and then I
- 47:22loved Choose Your Own Adventure or my God, I remember that,
- 47:26whatever those were. So I never read goosebumps.
- 47:30Did you ever like go back? Did you ever like read the
- 47:34adventure and you're like, I don't like how this adventure is
- 47:36going and then go back and then be like, I'm gonna try.
- 47:40Like this is dumb. I don't like this Newtones.
- 47:42Again, Judy Blume. Yes, yes.
- 47:45I love Judy Blume when I was younger, Beverly Cleary, the
- 47:48Ramona books. I love the Ramona books.
- 47:52I never read Goosebumps. I was never into Goosebumps, but
- 47:54I was into RL Stein's young adult series, which if you watch
- 48:03The Midnight Club on Netflix, those are actually not, Those
- 48:07aren't RL Stein, those are Christopher Pyke.
- 48:09So Christopher Pyke and RL Stein were writing young adult books.
- 48:12They're all like the sort of young.
- 48:13Adult horror. Mystery things sort of at the
- 48:15same time and I always thought Christopher Pyke was better than
- 48:19RL Stein and but I read RL Stein but Christopher Pyke was better.
- 48:28But the Midnight Club on on Netflix, if you watch each
- 48:34episode of the Midnight Club is based on a Christopher Pike
- 48:37book. And when I first watched it, I
- 48:41was like, why does that font look so familiar?
- 48:44And it was totally based on the his original like 90s books that
- 48:49I fucking read like nuts. So that's.
- 48:53Yeah. But then as I got older, I
- 48:57definitely was into Robin Cook. And I love things that are kind
- 49:05of like, could that really happen?
- 49:07Like, And of course, I never remember anything, but there was
- 49:13one where, like, this disease kept going around and then they
- 49:17made a movie out of it. Was it Outbreak?
- 49:20Is that the name of it? I should have prepared for this,
- 49:23but the one with the monkey, I didn't.
- 49:26But it's like I'm like very hit or miss.
- 49:31And lately it's been like more of especially since 2020 sent me
- 49:36on a it sent me on a little journey.
- 49:41Did we not all go on that little journey together?
- 49:45So this one is black boy Joy. Gosh, I showed earlier when I
- 49:53showed it to you, you could see it.
- 49:55Anyway, is this my influence just like this?
- 49:59Oh, it is. Right.
- 50:03This is a series of like, mini stories and like, poems.
- 50:10There's like, 17 stories, it says, celebrating Black boyhood.
- 50:15And what I feel like a lot of men are raised as is that you're
- 50:22gonna be, like, hard, like a brick, and you're not gonna have
- 50:24any emotions. And I think it's like 10 times
- 50:27that when you are a Black boy growing up.
- 50:32And so, like, Joy feels like this luxury because you're
- 50:36fighting basically for your life.
- 50:40And then we read this often for Drag Story Hour.
- 50:47Can you see it? Jeez, all boys aren't blue.
- 50:54And this is by George M Johnson. Both of these books make me cry.
- 51:02And I think it's because I think that I really came into who I am
- 51:12as an adult in the way that these books are talking about.
- 51:16Like I didn't experience joy the way I knew how to relate to it
- 51:23as a, you know, a queer person, as a, you know, just eyes wide
- 51:30open and seeing like racism for myself and not being protected
- 51:36or seeing that being gay and feminine are just like taboos.
- 51:43Sometimes. Other books that I have been
- 51:48into lately is like biographies and I, I maybe I'm just like
- 51:54into knowing how people are living or I don't know.
- 52:02So I'm into that until a lot of self help books, especially
- 52:05since I'm in business surprise and you know something else
- 52:17because you, you learn all these things that nobody tells you.
- 52:21And I think that's where 2020 made me have this big ass pile
- 52:27of books that I still need to get through because I was, I
- 52:34started buying books 'cause I was like, oh, that's yeah, that
- 52:36sounds like something I would do, you know, like, oh, let me
- 52:39read that. Have I?
- 52:40No. I also want to encourage folks
- 52:46to do the audio books because sometimes you can get through a
- 52:52book quicker just by listening a little bit.
- 52:55See, I I struggle with the audio books because I don't it it I
- 53:02like I don't even. Have a podcast?
- 53:04Yeah, and I listen to podcasts, but when it comes to the
- 53:07audiobooks, I I don't, I don't care for them for myself, 'cause
- 53:12like I'm the person that like I want to be able to imagine
- 53:14things in my head without somebody else's voice.
- 53:17And if it's somebody else reading it, it sort of applies
- 53:20that to. I don't the.
- 53:23Thing and also maybe for. Me to more of the self help and
- 53:28the biographies. No, that could be that I don't
- 53:32like, especially like if it's a celebrity's autobiography and
- 53:36they're reading it, that's that could be more of what you're
- 53:40talking about. Right.
- 53:41That, that makes sense. Like that makes sense.
- 53:43Like if it's like, if it's an autobiography and a celebrity's
- 53:45reading their own autobiography, like that makes sense.
- 53:48But if it's like fiction, that's what I struggle with.
- 53:50I'm like. I do like if the audio book, if
- 53:55they've taken the time to have different character voices, then
- 54:01yeah, I get into it. But I struggle.
- 54:04OK, so I found an. Hunger Games.
- 54:09So The Hunger Games, actually all The Hunger Games are really
- 54:12good. Did I read The Hunger Games?
- 54:18So I found there's some of the Christopher Pike.
- 54:21So I mean, look at this the if you look at the like the the
- 54:29sort of the neon his name up at the top.
- 54:32If you look at the midnight club on on Netflix, the title is done
- 54:39in that same style. That's what I was like, wait a
- 54:43minute. Why does that look familiar?
- 54:46You know who I reasoned like Judy Blume, Gabe, but I also was
- 54:51into I don't know how this happened.
- 54:55Oh yes, I do, because my for some reason, if you don't know,
- 55:00I'm very nosy. But my mom had books on the
- 55:05shelf. I was into Nancy Drew and the
- 55:08Hardy Boys for a period of time. And oh, I read a whole bunch.
- 55:12Yeah, I read those when I was younger.
- 55:13Too. What was her name?
- 55:14Harriet the Spy. Harriet the Spy Never read
- 55:17Harriet the Spy. You know, it's just, I just
- 55:20remembered I ended up reading as like a child that was probably
- 55:24way too young to be reading this, but my stepmom almost
- 55:29always was reading some sort of Danielle Steele romance.
- 55:32That's what I was just about to say.
- 55:35And I because sometimes I'd finish my own book and I'm like,
- 55:39I have now, I have nothing to read.
- 55:40So I'd pick up hers and I'd go reading.
- 55:42I don't know how many fucking Danielle Steele books I read
- 55:44when I was younger. Like stupid amount.
- 55:47Of Danielle Steele books they're they're almost so addictive that
- 55:53you're like the awkward it's. Awful.
- 55:55It's awful. I know what's going to happen in
- 55:58this and I'm still going to read it.
- 56:00Right. Like, you know it's going to be
- 56:02shit. Awful.
- 56:04It's shit. Sometimes I walk by one,
- 56:06especially if I see it out of goodwill.
- 56:08I'm like, I pick it up and I'm like too many memories.
- 56:14There's some like, like some of those specific.
- 56:16I remember some of the specific ones.
- 56:17I don't remember the titles, but if I see them, I'd be like, Oh,
- 56:20my God, I remember reading that one.
- 56:22I remember reading that one. I remember reading that.
- 56:24Way too many inappropriate books from when I was younger.
- 56:27I should not have been reading them, But my dad encouraged it.
- 56:31Even. He was like, look, there's a new
- 56:32Danielle Steele. And I'm like, yeah.
- 56:38Like but I'm 12. What?
- 56:41No, literally like that's when I was, I was reading them when I
- 56:44was like 10, like because like I said, I would finish my own
- 56:48books and I didn't have a Kindle so I'd have to pick up whatever
- 56:51book was around to read. Like sometimes they were those
- 56:56God awful romance novels that no child should be.
- 56:59Reading at all at. All but I, I highly recommend
- 57:12like if, if go find a book and, and, and read a book, whether
- 57:16it's an audio book, whether it's an ebook, whether it is a
- 57:19physical copy, like I need to start putting time away.
- 57:23I need to start reading before bed or something because I'm, I
- 57:27miss reading and there's so many books that I'm like, oh, I need
- 57:29to read this or I want to read this again.
- 57:31I want to, you know what I mean? Like there's so many things, but
- 57:35reading is a good thing and I think we need to do more of it.
- 57:39And maybe if we did more reading.
- 57:45I don't know you better. People like, but there's so much
- 57:50to it and you like, you can't say that.
- 57:54Well, there's no book that I would enjoy.
- 57:55And it's like, I guarantee you there's one book, one author,
- 58:00one genre that media. I I'm surprised that more people
- 58:04aren't sharing books. I think the problem is is that I
- 58:09think the problem honestly is social media because we spend so
- 58:14much time doing this. We appreciate you being here on
- 58:19the social media watching us, but.
- 58:21I mean, yes, but it's like I think that with the rise of
- 58:24social media, I think reading has gone down because what do we
- 58:27need to read for? We have enough fucking drama
- 58:30online. You know, we get caught so
- 58:32caught up and just scrolling and scrolling and scrolling and
- 58:35watching these like 5 second videos and 32nd videos and one
- 58:38minute videos that I think our our our attention span is has.
- 58:47Decreased significantly. I work in IT so I feel like I'm
- 58:55very careful with screen time. I try anyway and weird thing is
- 59:03I'm on social media and all these digital channels all the
- 59:07time for work and so by the time you all are like, did you see it
- 59:11on Facebook? I pretty much want to be like,
- 59:14you know, no, 'cause I'm not looking at it, it, it, no, no.
- 59:24And excuse me, and I know the science behind it.
- 59:27If you've been to Vegas or have been to a casino, the thing that
- 59:30you hold in your hand has been programmed to make you chase the
- 59:33dopamine that you feel when you pull a slot machine.
- 59:37And it's actually been designed so that Do you realize that this
- 59:45is the motion that all of us are chasing because this is the same
- 59:54as this. So that's why I said we all need
- 59:59to be picking up a book because, yeah, suddenly some of the
- 1:00:05things I have read, when I do spend time online, I'm like,
- 1:00:12even if you read like fictional history or you would be like,
- 1:00:19oh, we've done this before. Right.
- 1:00:24Yeah. You know, whatever that was,
- 1:00:29that was, that was very good. And I I love the books that we
- 1:00:35get to read for drag story hours.
- 1:00:37Some of them are so creative and so out there, some of them are
- 1:00:41so simple, but they drive home this, you know, the message that
- 1:00:47needs to be carried forward on to the next generation.
- 1:00:50So I feel like maybe in the next 10-15 years I need to sit down
- 1:00:58and write a book because not in the book, like a children's
- 1:01:03book, but like a book that my imagination came up with.
- 1:01:08Or maybe it's a biography. I don't think I have that much
- 1:01:10of A life to write about, but 'cause I feel like legacy lives
- 1:01:17in books. Because right now we're talking
- 1:01:19about, you talked about like 10 different people and their
- 1:01:23legacy is gonna live past their, you know, right, some half past,
- 1:01:28but you know, like we're still talking about them.
- 1:01:32So anyhow, Speaking of legacy, let's talk about current events
- 1:01:40and news, shall we? I'll try not to cry.
- 1:02:04Oh my goodness, that video kind of did a little chicka chicka
- 1:02:08chicka chicka. Why did I put this one first?
- 1:02:15It's OK. Again, I got the whole disk that
- 1:02:18said it disconnected when you play the video.
- 1:02:22I've been talking for like a minute.
- 1:02:23I don't when you watch the replay just skip it.
- 1:02:28I'm just kidding. It plays fine on the replay
- 1:02:31cause the one day you said something was wrong.
- 1:02:32I watched it. I don't see anything.
- 1:02:36An update from last week. The community has shown an
- 1:02:42outpouring of love for Michael Baine, who was reported missing
- 1:02:45last week. Who was found dead in Mesa?
- 1:02:54We have not heard, or at least I have not heard what happened,
- 1:02:59but. Now let's see if the if there's
- 1:03:03any more of like anything done with this one and compared to.
- 1:03:09Other So reading some of these news stories, somebody said the
- 1:03:12same thing I said it's shockingly similar to the person
- 1:03:16that went missing last was it last year around this time and
- 1:03:21I'm like what is going on? And I hope there's not, excuse
- 1:03:28me, somebody out there messing around with people, but.
- 1:03:33No, it's just like what we've we've talked about when it comes
- 1:03:35to safety, when it comes to dating apps and things like
- 1:03:38that, like be smart out there, kids.
- 1:03:42Share your pen with somebody and if that pen doesn't move after
- 1:03:4630 minutes then I'll tell. People, where you going?
- 1:03:51Yeah, Speaking of telling people where you're going, an Amber
- 1:03:55Alert was issued for a three-year old girl this
- 1:03:58weekend. And thanks to who's calling me
- 1:04:04right now, I'm on air. Thank you.
- 1:04:11Do you not? This person follows me on
- 1:04:13Facebook, so why are you not watching the show?
- 1:04:16I mean, it's it's been over a decade, you'd think people would
- 1:04:18know by now. That I have Wednesdays booked.
- 1:04:22Right. Anyway, but this terrified me
- 1:04:30because I have young people, young girls too.
- 1:04:35She is home safe and her doctor was is in custody.
- 1:04:43Did you, did you see the video of the the moving guys that saw
- 1:04:47her and then blocked her in so she couldn't leave?
- 1:04:51Like that was fantastic. Yeah, Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 1:04:55yeah, yeah. So what are we gonna do now?
- 1:05:01That was amazing. I wish I had put it up.
- 1:05:07I can look for it. But yeah, probably don't trust
- 1:05:12somebody that you just kind of just met, if I understand the
- 1:05:16story correctly. And supposedly this abductor,
- 1:05:21they didn't even know how to spell her name, but they let her
- 1:05:27in the house around their kid. What?
- 1:05:31The hell? And she's supposed she allegedly
- 1:05:35smoked drugs around the kid. So like vet vet your people
- 1:05:42before you let them in your house and or.
- 1:05:44Negligence and shit too. Like what the fuck?
- 1:05:50Yeah, so the House of Horrors had a state of dilemmas,
- 1:06:00otherwise known as the State of the Union.
- 1:06:02I can't wait. I didn't watch any of it.
- 1:06:05I have no desire to even look at clips.
- 1:06:07Like I just, I can't 'cause everything that comes out of his
- 1:06:09mouth is bullshit and I can't, like I just can't I.
- 1:06:15The things that make my heart feel pitter patter are I think
- 1:06:21that I have adjusted my my social media enough that it is
- 1:06:28showing me Barack Obama's State of the Unions instead of Donald
- 1:06:33Trump's. So whatever universal power is
- 1:06:40doing that, I thank you because I have only like seen like two
- 1:06:44or three clips of it. Which leads me to say that the
- 1:06:50Dems, the Democrats, Dems as in, is this the right thing?
- 1:06:57I don't unders. I understand that it's a silent
- 1:06:59protest but almost is it whatever the dem sat down when
- 1:07:07dump truck and his wife came out.
- 1:07:10Others were encouraged to stay that's were encouraged to stay
- 1:07:14home if they were going to get. I understand the peaceful
- 1:07:19protest method, but are we past the peaceful protest?
- 1:07:25At this point, it needs to be more than just like staying
- 1:07:27seated. I think there needs to be.
- 1:07:30I think there needs to be more, especially from the fucking
- 1:07:33people that are in Congress and shit like why aren't you doing
- 1:07:36anything? Like I don't give a fuck if you
- 1:07:38stay seated. Why aren't you doing anything?
- 1:07:39Like cool, good for you, but you're literally like do
- 1:07:45something. There right Congressman Al Green
- 1:07:52had a sign that said black people aren't apes and it was
- 1:07:57more in and I think that more people should do this when they
- 1:08:02have the opportunity is hold dump truck accountable for the
- 1:08:06things that he did and not listening to.
- 1:08:10I'm not racist when clearly you're trying to get rid of
- 1:08:13everything. Black history, the is.
- 1:08:17Anyway, he was escorted out. Other things that people have
- 1:08:24pointed out to me was that some of the Democratic lawmakers
- 1:08:30invited some of the Epstein victims.
- 1:08:33I want to say victims, I want to say survivors to the State of
- 1:08:40the Union, But I feel like you could have done something else.
- 1:08:44Like, right again, what is that supposed to do?
- 1:08:46It's not going to do anything because fucking Twitler is just
- 1:08:50going to be like, I've never seen any of these people before.
- 1:08:53I don't even know who Jeffrey is.
- 1:08:56I've never been there. I've never seen him.
- 1:09:00You know what Dump truck reminds me of?
- 1:09:02Since we have gotten I feel like a We need to go back to pop
- 1:09:08culture moments whenever we can, cause everybody was totally into
- 1:09:12our discussion about America's Next Top Model.
- 1:09:16But Dump truck reminds me of the same feeling I get when I watch
- 1:09:24Tyra go. Well, that was a different time.
- 1:09:29And you know, that was a sign of the time.
- 1:09:31Yeah. Like lying to your face.
- 1:09:33So. Like, like, it's very cringy,
- 1:09:39like they know they are doing something wrong.
- 1:09:42Right now that it's like, OK, so if you want to talk like, 'cause
- 1:09:47that seems to be a common thing to say, but OK, we're talking
- 1:09:50about the 2000s, right? We're not talking about 1930s,
- 1:09:55which if you want to talk about, you know, sign of the times,
- 1:10:02there were things that were done in like films and, you know,
- 1:10:06movies and books and, and things like that and shows in the, you
- 1:10:11know, 20s, thirties, 40s, fifties that now would never,
- 1:10:17never because we understand that there, you know, things like
- 1:10:22racial stereotypes and blah, blah, blah.
- 1:10:25To be filming in like the 2000s and being like, no, blackface is
- 1:10:30fine. This is just a sign of the time.
- 1:10:32No, it is not. But I feel like when he says
- 1:10:38like, I'm not racist, that's almost the same level of she's
- 1:10:42like, no, that's the sign of the times.
- 1:10:45And you're like, what? No.
- 1:10:50And see the people that are like clobbering behind him at like
- 1:10:58and. I mean, the only thing I keep
- 1:11:03telling myself is that, you know, people did the same thing.
- 1:11:07Feels like I'm on like the Harry Truman Show or something.
- 1:11:10I don't. Know that you mean The Truman
- 1:11:11Show, Harry. Harry Truman was the president.
- 1:11:17Whatever. But I'm like, oh.
- 1:11:20My, but it's like it's the same thing with all these people that
- 1:11:22that did the same with Stalin and Mussolini and Hitler and
- 1:11:27things like everything, you know, they applauded him, they
- 1:11:29defended him until it all came back and bit them in the ass
- 1:11:36hardcore. And he killed their relatives.
- 1:11:39Well, no, even then they still kept doing it.
- 1:11:41It was, you know, it wasn't until after Hitler died, they
- 1:11:46were all there. You know it.
- 1:11:48Well, you know, it doesn't affect me.
- 1:11:49It doesn't affect me. I'm following orders, blah,
- 1:11:51blah, blah, blah, blah. I don't agree with all of his
- 1:11:53policies, la, la, la, la, la. Which is why when people are
- 1:11:56like when like when people talk about like Charlie Kirk and
- 1:11:58they're like, well, I don't agree with everything that he
- 1:12:00said. OK, so then what do you agree
- 1:12:04with? Because you just said you don't
- 1:12:06agree with everything. But that means that there were
- 1:12:09some things that you did agree with.
- 1:12:11So what exactly did you agree with?
- 1:12:14So it's like the the people pick and choose and it'll all come
- 1:12:17back and bite them in the ass. And all the people that are like
- 1:12:19standing behind Trump with all of this shit, they're going to
- 1:12:22go running for the hills when the shit hits the fan.
- 1:12:26Because I have a feeling after these midterms there's going to
- 1:12:28be a big switcheroo. Gabe is asking if we follow any
- 1:12:36independent news channels on YouTube.
- 1:12:39I do. Not I follow Brian Taylor Cohen.
- 1:12:46Like I've seen them, I think I've, I've like, I've seen
- 1:12:49different videos from different people, but I don't like, I
- 1:12:52don't religiously like I don't follow them.
- 1:12:55I don't like seek them out, you know what I mean?
- 1:12:57Like I, I'm familiar with them. I've seen some of their videos
- 1:13:01but I don't follow. But I'm also not gonna tell you
- 1:13:07that I'm I'm definitely not one of those people that's like, I
- 1:13:11see it once and then go for the word.
- 1:13:14I definitely go like looking around to see if I hear the same
- 1:13:19thing right? Yeah, I always, I always check.
- 1:13:21Our news has different. Things like I'll Google
- 1:13:25something and I'll see what comes up and check a couple
- 1:13:28different sources and check some videos and stuff 'cause.
- 1:13:34Or when somebody says like in 1993 this person did this, I'm
- 1:13:38like, let me find out what that was.
- 1:13:41Did that actually happen or is this bullshit?
- 1:13:43Because a lot of it is bullshit. Half the shit that people are
- 1:13:47sharing now is complete fucking bullshit.
- 1:13:50Like guys, come on, come back to the reading comprehension.
- 1:13:53Like we've said before, right? Please read through the
- 1:13:59articles. Yes, Great News is a great news
- 1:14:02source. OK, I'll check it out.
- 1:14:05I will. I can't guarantee anything.
- 1:14:08I can't. I don't.
- 1:14:10I don't subscribe because I don't want to get abused.
- 1:14:14I felt like the pandemic. I got abused by the news
- 1:14:17channels. Yeah, as soon as you like
- 1:14:19subscribe or as soon as you click on something, all of a
- 1:14:21sudden you get spammed with a whole bunch of shit and I'm like
- 1:14:23Oh my God, stop. I do subscribe to the donut,
- 1:14:28yes, and that's the name of the service, but it's supposed to be
- 1:14:31unbiased as well. FedEx.
- 1:14:37Speaking of dump truck, FedEx wants a full refund from the
- 1:14:41dump truck because of all of the tariffs and all the cost that
- 1:14:46they've had to endure. I, I, I see and this is the kind
- 1:14:50kind of shit that needs to happen.
- 1:14:51Is that like? Business companies are expected
- 1:14:56to do so. Businesses need to jump on board
- 1:14:59with this shit like they need to be like no you fucked us for no
- 1:15:04fucking reason like. And.
- 1:15:09I've had to send things. Dump truck, Yeah.
- 1:15:11UPS. Yeah, dump truck is like I could
- 1:15:17do whatever I want, right? And I'm like, I've had to, I've
- 1:15:21had to, I've had to send a couple things via UPS to Canada
- 1:15:25over the last few weeks and it's fucking expensive.
- 1:15:30It was never that expensive before.
- 1:15:32It was like 85 bucks to send something via UPS and all it was
- 1:15:37was paper, just papers. It was like an envelope.
- 1:15:39Oh my God. Yeah, basic UPS ground, nothing
- 1:15:44funky, but it needed to go via UPS cuz it needed to be like
- 1:15:48Courier and our post office is shit right now so it needed to
- 1:15:52be UPS or FedEx. And it was like, I've never I've
- 1:15:57had to ship boxes of things overseas and a box of shit
- 1:16:01overseas used to be 80 bucks to send.
- 1:16:02Wow, yeah, it's unbelievable. Unbelievable.
- 1:16:15Voting your midterms though, people will say that's not
- 1:16:18important, but also I've noticed on the signs around my house
- 1:16:23that if you're voting for the SRP board that some of the
- 1:16:28candidates are sponsored by Turning Point.
- 1:16:32Yeah, I've been seeing that. So it's yeah, check your
- 1:16:36candidates, check your candidates.
- 1:16:38If you're going to vote for the SRP board, make sure that that
- 1:16:44we've been saying this for years.
- 1:16:45They're everywhere. Yep.
- 1:16:49Check your candidates, check them now they're out and proud
- 1:16:56'cause every time I see a turning point thing it just
- 1:16:58tells me that. Oh, they're nobody's hiding
- 1:17:00anymore. Nobody's.
- 1:17:02Hiding. It's like weird.
- 1:17:04It's like I am a proven racist. Thanks.
- 1:17:07Like, they may as well just be posing in like Klan hoods and
- 1:17:12shit. Like there's, they're, they
- 1:17:14don't care. They don't care.
- 1:17:16They're they're out and proud and because they've been given a
- 1:17:19platform and they've had no consequences.
- 1:17:23So like, let's, let's not vote more racists and shit into
- 1:17:30positions of any sort of power, shall we?
- 1:17:32I'm. Going to be really gay with this
- 1:17:38because the Netherlands has sworn in its youngest and first
- 1:17:44ever openly gay Prime Minister Rob Jettin.
- 1:17:49And he's kind of cute. He's kind of cute.
- 1:17:55I'm not going to put his poster on my wall, but I might.
- 1:18:01A black queer animated short called 2 Black Boys in Paradise
- 1:18:08wins a BAFTA. Is that what that is for?
- 1:18:13British short film even beating out a 2026 Oscar nominee.
- 1:18:22So I thought that was pretty cool.
- 1:18:27I put this in here, so I should be OK with this, but I'm not.
- 1:18:31Mariah Carey is nominated for I think the third time, if not the
- 1:18:384th, for the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame.
- 1:18:42So it's so weird to me how like some people that you expect
- 1:18:51would just be like shoe wins because a couple years ago, it
- 1:18:56was like somebody that I thought was like, OK, just put them in
- 1:19:01there. They've been a part of American
- 1:19:03history, part of music history. Just put them in there.
- 1:19:07But here we are. We have to vote for them anyway.
- 1:19:15Other nominees include Phil Collins, who sounds like a shoe
- 1:19:18in, Melissa Etheridge, Lauryn Hill, Billy Idol, Sade, Luther
- 1:19:26Vandross, Pink, the Black, the Black Crows, Jeff Buckley and
- 1:19:33the Wu Tang Clan. Like, can we just put them all
- 1:19:38in there and we'd just be done with it?
- 1:19:40Like why? Don't we?
- 1:19:41I don't like why? Why are we?
- 1:19:45Why are you making us vote? I don't know, just put them in
- 1:19:48there. You can get the full list and
- 1:19:53vote for your favorite nominee at rockhall.com, because
- 1:19:59Rock'n'roll halloffame.com would be a very long web address
- 1:20:08anyway. And let's end on some positive
- 1:20:11news, shall we? Even with no support from Dump
- 1:20:14Truck, where'd you go? Oh no.
- 1:20:17Even with no support from Dump Truck and a strain on healthcare
- 1:20:22for LGBTQIA Plus folks, Spectrum Medical is expanding its
- 1:20:28healthcare in Phoenix, including with a new campus that will
- 1:20:33launch lesbian health initiatives and have a pharmacy.
- 1:20:39So I saw their post about the the lesbian health initiative
- 1:20:47and things like that. And of course a bunch of the
- 1:20:50comments were why don't you focus on gay men's health?
- 1:20:53Why not a Center for men's health?
- 1:20:54Why not? I'm like for.
- 1:20:56Decades now, right? Like we're moving on to.
- 1:21:01Lesbian Lesbian health is is and Women's Health in general, AFAB
- 1:21:07health in general is underfunded and no like it is no we you, you
- 1:21:15Mensk go go away. No, stop it.
- 1:21:18Like seriously, it was like. Oh, that leads me to a thought.
- 1:21:24Oh gosh. I forget which celebrity is
- 1:21:27behind this, but there's a documentary that I have saved on
- 1:21:31my list about menopause and how, like, women are not fully
- 1:21:40educated on what they, what they're going through.
- 1:21:45And basically, like, if a man is getting older, he's getting
- 1:21:49wiser. He's getting, you know, like,
- 1:21:53and you, you're like, yeah, check the box.
- 1:21:55I'm gonna get a colonoscopy. I'm gonna do this.
- 1:21:58A woman gets older. It's like, Oh, no.
- 1:22:04I mean, we've already seen how many women in AFAB folks know
- 1:22:08very little about their own bodies.
- 1:22:10We've seen it. We see it all the fucking time.
- 1:22:14And that's there's. So, right.
- 1:22:17And there's so little like research that's been done on
- 1:22:20medication and like effects on women in AFAB folks.
- 1:22:23Like for Prep, both Truvada and Descovy neither have had any
- 1:22:35clinical trials on AFAB people. Oh, really?
- 1:22:40Yep. Neither one of them technically
- 1:22:42is approved for AFAB people, but Truvada.
- 1:22:45There's something about the, the the meds and Truvada which works
- 1:22:52better with the mucous membranes in like the the vaginal canal
- 1:22:59then works better with than Discovy.
- 1:23:03So Truvada technically is the only one that's approved for
- 1:23:07AFAB people, but Discovy is not because there's been nothing
- 1:23:14like nobody gives a fuck about any of this shit on.
- 1:23:17And it's because it's like, it's like the only AMAB people will
- 1:23:21take Prep and it's like what? No, no, no, Prep is literally
- 1:23:27for everyone. Like why in the world?
- 1:23:29Would you not? Right, right.
- 1:23:32But there's been like there's been no real anything on, on
- 1:23:41AFAB people and taking Prep Yeah, but that's, that's pretty
- 1:23:48much everything. Like there, you know, it, it
- 1:23:52Women's Health and AFAB health is so lackadaisical, right?
- 1:24:01And the fact that I, the fact that people when they were like,
- 1:24:04yeah, we're doing a, you know, lesbian Health Center, people
- 1:24:06were like, what about gay men's health?
- 1:24:08What about blah, blah, blah. And I'm like, come on,
- 1:24:11seriously? But literally everything is talk
- 1:24:15about oh these must be people that didn't click the link
- 1:24:18'cause it explains all the day. No, all they see is lesbian and
- 1:24:23they just see lesbian and they assume now that they're being
- 1:24:28oppressed. You see what's happening.
- 1:24:30They're not reading. And then so then they make their
- 1:24:33own assumptions. Oh, the alcohol, Read the press
- 1:24:36release. Oh my, no.
- 1:24:38We don't want to do that. We see lesbian and we
- 1:24:40automatically assume that as a man, I am being oppressed.
- 1:24:44It literally because this isn't being catered to me, the gay
- 1:24:46magazines and all so. Literally everything.
- 1:24:51Everything is geared towards men's health and gay men's
- 1:24:53health. Literally everything.
- 1:24:56Shout out to the lesbians in the AFAP community 'cause this is so
- 1:25:04ridiculous because things like that keep happening and also
- 1:25:09that some folks continue to think like because men's health.
- 1:25:14Also, men's health is not just a checklist, but they seem seem to
- 1:25:18think so. And so instead of having a
- 1:25:22spectrum for healthcare, we continue to go down this one
- 1:25:26list for everyone. And that's not how it is.
- 1:25:32The body is so complicated that we probably should have more
- 1:25:36systems in place to protect ourselves and have preventive
- 1:25:41care and. No, preventive.
- 1:25:43Preventive care doesn't doesn't make anybody any money.
- 1:25:47So we don't want preventive care.
- 1:25:49Oh, also, you don't want us living longer.
- 1:25:51That's right, I forgot. It's, it's, it's more, it makes
- 1:25:57you more if people are sick. Oh, that's right.
- 1:26:00You don't want me to go to the doctor at all, but you want me
- 1:26:03to come. You want me to come to the
- 1:26:04doctor when I'm definitely ill and then make money off of my
- 1:26:09funeral. That's right.
- 1:26:12I forgot we don't want to, we don't want to make sure that
- 1:26:13there is like a cure for cancer or preventative, you know,
- 1:26:17things for cancer. We just like, oh, look, you can
- 1:26:19screen it and we can be like, oh, look, yeah, you're you're,
- 1:26:21you're definitely going to get cancer.
- 1:26:23Sorry. Also your.
- 1:26:25Meds are going to cost between. 10 and $25,000 a month like.
- 1:26:30Anybody think it's freaky how so many celebrities keep dying of
- 1:26:33cancer? Just me.
- 1:26:38OK, just wanted to check in. But that was my good news is
- 1:26:44that we're expanding care in our community.
- 1:26:48During the pandemic, I spent time with a health group on the
- 1:26:53socials talking about expansive care for everyone.
- 1:26:59And we have a lot of work to do. It doesn't matter.
- 1:27:04Nobody's going to do it for us. So we need to figure out a way
- 1:27:06to do it and this sounds like a step in the right direction and
- 1:27:10I hope that even with dump truck being an asshole that we can
- 1:27:14figure that out. Well remember we lowered the
- 1:27:17cost of medications like 650,000.
- 1:27:21Percent. When I was at the pharmacy the
- 1:27:24other day, that's not what I felt like I was.
- 1:27:28Never am I. I will let you know my wallet
- 1:27:35did not feel that. OK, thanks.
- 1:27:43What we have coming up, we have the Drag Story hours.
- 1:27:51This weekend, it's gonna be great.
- 1:27:54There's gonna be, it's gonna be a great show.
- 1:27:56And we've got some aw, awesome raffle prizes and you can only
- 1:28:00get the raffle tickets at the fundraiser and but trust me,
- 1:28:04like we have so many. Awesome things get on your
- 1:28:09things for you. Right, we have so many raffle
- 1:28:14prizes, like so freaking awesome every we have artists and we
- 1:28:20have body painters and we have photographers and we have food
- 1:28:24things and we have like all the things you can possibly imagine.
- 1:28:27It's going to be a great time and a really good show.
- 1:28:30So make sure that you come and check that out and you can still
- 1:28:34get a deal on your tickets and save 20% if you want to by using
- 1:28:38Live 2026 when you go to check out.
- 1:28:43If you want to. Yes.
- 1:28:46Or you just give us the 20%, right?
- 1:28:49Not us, but drag store 'cause it is a fundraiser.
- 1:28:56I mean, but you can give us money too.
- 1:28:59We're we're a charity. I, I think, like to think I am.
- 1:29:05I should be. I have Irish tea bingo on drag
- 1:29:10bingo at Drink Me Tea Room on March 12th.
- 1:29:14Get your tickets dressing your best green and four leaf
- 1:29:21clovers. There was a a lady that had a
- 1:29:24dress that was covered in four leaf clovers the last time.
- 1:29:27I was very jealous. Did I go and make that dress?
- 1:29:31No, I wasn't that jealous, but. And then March 20th, we have
- 1:29:40less than a month from Wild Wild West Con, which is happening in
- 1:29:43Tucson at the Westward Look Resort.
- 1:29:47And our Dragon Burlesque show is happening on March 20th.
- 1:29:51That's the Friday show starts at 7:00 PM.
- 1:29:55You can get tickets to the show even if you are not going to the
- 1:29:58con. So if you are in and around
- 1:30:00Tucson and you want to do that, I highly recommend it because
- 1:30:02it's going to be a damn good show, got oodles of burlesque
- 1:30:06and drag and it's gonna be exciting.
- 1:30:11It's your last one there. It is the last one.
- 1:30:15Not to bring up bullshit, but. Yeah, thanks.
- 1:30:18Thanks for that. And I think in March, maybe late
- 1:30:25March, forgot what she said, but tickets will be released for the
- 1:30:31April 17th Drag Bingo and Cats at Phoenix Cat Cafe.
- 1:30:36And the tickets do go fast 'cause you all like to inbox me
- 1:30:42and say like can is there seats still available?
- 1:30:45And if the website says 0, then that means there isn't, right?
- 1:30:50Don't do that. So don't do that.
- 1:30:56Remember, you can book us for office parties, celebrations,
- 1:31:00divorce parties, bar mitzvahs, you name it.
- 1:31:09Yeah, I don't know about funerals.
- 1:31:12I'm kind of iffy about funerals. I mean, if it's a fun funeral,
- 1:31:16we can put the fun in funeral. So morbid.
- 1:31:25And with that I bid a do and I wish you all a good night and we
- 1:31:30will see you next week for your Wednesday night conversation.
- 1:31:34Good night.