Latest / The Overland Journal Podcast / Randy Perkins on Overcoming Tragedy and Finding Your Path to Adventure
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- 0:08Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to the Overland Journal podcast. I am
- 0:11Speaker 1: your host, Scott Brady, and for today's guest, we have
- 0:15Speaker 1: Randy Perkins. Randy has been a member of the community
- 0:18Speaker 1: for decades and he has ridden motorcycles and driven land
- 0:22Speaker 1: cruisers on many continents of the planet. Randy's a very
- 0:25Speaker 1: interesting guest because he has a very storied past. He
- 0:29Speaker 1: started off his life as a marine and then made
- 0:33Speaker 1: a career out of being a logger in New Zealand
- 0:36Speaker 1: and in the Pacific Northwest, and he is a passionate Overlander.
- 0:40Speaker 1: He has a lot of experience as a motorcyclist and
- 0:43Speaker 1: more recently he's been traveling extensively by land cruiser in
- 0:47Speaker 1: Australia and in Africa. So we gleaned some really important
- 0:50Speaker 1: insights about buying a vehicle in country, keeping a vehicle,
- 0:54Speaker 1: storing it in country, and maintaining documentation and registration. So
- 0:57Speaker 1: these are very interesting that we're able to dig into
- 1:01Speaker 1: with Randy about how he's able to keep these vehicles
- 1:04Speaker 1: on various continents of the planet. So please enjoy my
- 1:07Speaker 1: conversation with Randy Perkins. This content is brought to you
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- 2:03Speaker 1: at Overland Journal dot com. RANDI thank you so much
- 2:08Speaker 1: for being on the podcast today.
- 2:11Speaker 2: You're welcome to Scott.
- 2:12Speaker 1: It's a joy to have you here.
- 2:13Speaker 2: It's humbling and I feel blessed to be here.
- 2:17Speaker 1: We just got done with a nice little adventure together.
- 2:20Speaker 1: So we drove. We drove out to Alamo Lake. We
- 2:23Speaker 1: had a great little trail ride. We had a we
- 2:25Speaker 1: had Matt Scott was there, Paula the producer, Ryan our videographer,
- 2:30Speaker 1: we had, we had Caleb along as well. We had
- 2:33Speaker 1: a great little little trip and for me, it was
- 2:36Speaker 1: the first time that I've just done a trail ride
- 2:40Speaker 1: in forever. So thanks for being the impetus for us
- 2:43Speaker 1: getting out and doing that.
- 2:44Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you, Scott. I appreciate it.
- 2:46Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, Well. Your story is so it's not only fascinating,
- 2:51Speaker 1: but it's got so many wonderful arcs and turns and
- 2:55Speaker 1: people that have come into your life, and you've you've
- 2:59Speaker 1: become a student of these people that you admire in
- 3:02Speaker 1: many ways. You are someone that I admire, and others
- 3:06Speaker 1: like Caleb and many people that I know in my
- 3:08Speaker 1: life admire you for the difference that you've made in
- 3:11Speaker 1: people's lives. And I thought it would be it would
- 3:14Speaker 1: be good for us to start kind of from the beginning.
- 3:17Speaker 1: Where did you grow up?
- 3:18Speaker 2: I grew up in Gladstone, Oregon, until I was seven,
- 3:21Speaker 2: living next to the library, Okay, And when I was seven,
- 3:25Speaker 2: my dad bought twenty eight acres south of Oregon City,
- 3:28Speaker 2: about ten about three miles and it backed up to
- 3:31Speaker 2: six hundred and fifty acres of timber and for whole
- 3:33Speaker 2: growth forest. So I went from a city kid to
- 3:37Speaker 2: you were huck Finn at twenty eight acres of Philbert's
- 3:40Speaker 2: to take care of and then the rest of the
- 3:42Speaker 2: time I was in the woods, camping or doing something.
- 3:45Speaker 2: From nine years old on so exploring.
- 3:49Speaker 1: And I remember in our conversation recently you talked about
- 3:53Speaker 1: huck Finn being an early inspiration for you about wonder
- 3:57Speaker 1: and adventure and exploration.
- 4:00Speaker 2: My second grade teacher read Huckleberry Fenn to us, and
- 4:03Speaker 2: then my third grade teacher gave me the softer side
- 4:06Speaker 2: of my life when she read a book called Where
- 4:08Speaker 2: the Red Fern Grows to us, And that book changed
- 4:10Speaker 2: how I look at humanity. Yeah, people, what do you
- 4:14Speaker 2: feel you took away from that? How did you change
- 4:17Speaker 2: the way that you saw people? After that book, I
- 4:20Speaker 2: realized that not everybody in our life comes from the
- 4:22Speaker 2: same circumstances we do, and everybody has their own challenges.
- 4:25Speaker 2: And I understood a lot about the dirt poor poverty
- 4:28Speaker 2: that my dad that was born on the Indian reservation
- 4:30Speaker 2: in the Northwest Territories. It was Cherokee, it was three
- 4:33Speaker 2: quarter Cherokee, and then my grandfather who lost his farm
- 4:36Speaker 2: in twenty nine in Iowa, and the dirt Later on
- 4:38Speaker 2: in life, I understood that about the dirt poverty that
- 4:41Speaker 2: those people lived.
- 4:42Speaker 1: In and had nothing. Yeah. Well, and that seems like
- 4:45Speaker 1: that that has served you because it's allowed you to
- 4:48Speaker 1: always remain rooted in the fact that things life can
- 4:51Speaker 1: change so quickly. It does too. Yeah yeah. And then
- 4:55Speaker 1: as a young man you joined the military. So talk
- 4:58Speaker 1: a little bit about your military career.
- 5:00Speaker 2: Well, when I was seventeen, I dropped out of school
- 5:02Speaker 2: and they later figured out I was dyslexic. I couldn't
- 5:05Speaker 2: attend school from about the age thirteen on. And so
- 5:08Speaker 2: my best friend, his dad was a colonel in the
- 5:11Speaker 2: Oregon National Guard, and I went down to talk to
- 5:12Speaker 2: him and he said, you're not going in the National Guard.
- 5:15Speaker 2: He said, you'll end up in jail. There's no discipline.
- 5:17Speaker 2: You need discipline. So he referred me to the Marine recruiter.
- 5:20Speaker 2: And the funny thing was the way to wind. The
- 5:23Speaker 2: funny thing was is that the night before my best
- 5:26Speaker 2: friend who I grew up with and went in the
- 5:28Speaker 2: Marine Corps with, and Jim starred the Antler Chandelier Company
- 5:31Speaker 2: in Montana. He was at dinner that night with my
- 5:34Speaker 2: family and Jim said, mister Perkins, I am going in
- 5:37Speaker 2: the Marine Corps. And dad said that that is the
- 5:39Speaker 2: greatest thing that any man could do. And I heard that,
- 5:42Speaker 2: and the next day I had the Sergeant Roberts out
- 5:44Speaker 2: with me to get my parents to sign a waiver
- 5:46Speaker 2: at seventeen so I could go in Wow, just after
- 5:48Speaker 2: my seventeenth birthday.
- 5:49Speaker 1: So similar to my grandfather, in fact, I think he
- 5:52Speaker 1: was a little bit younger than that. In fact, I
- 5:54Speaker 1: think his mom fibbed a bit on which that happened
- 5:57Speaker 1: a lot for World Wars, Yeah, you know it did.
- 6:00Speaker 1: And talk to me a little bit about what you
- 6:03Speaker 1: did in the Marines.
- 6:04Speaker 2: Well, I went to of course, our biggest boot camp
- 6:07Speaker 2: and advanced infantry. But I went back to Memphis to
- 6:10Speaker 2: go to aviation school to be a flight mechanic. And
- 6:14Speaker 2: while I was there, I got snagged up to play
- 6:16Speaker 2: football for season four of them. And the funny thing
- 6:19Speaker 2: about the Memphis story is is that I got off
- 6:22Speaker 2: the plane August sixteenth, nineteen seventy seven, the morning Elvis died,
- 6:26Speaker 2: and I'm in the Memphis airport. Oh wow, And the story,
- 6:28Speaker 2: you know, they're all screaming, the king is dead, the
- 6:30Speaker 2: King is dead. And I thought to myself, Jesus came
- 6:33Speaker 2: back and they killed him. I was on the airplane,
- 6:36Speaker 2: but the military there. Yeah, I spent almost a year
- 6:40Speaker 2: going to school, went to Airborne Radio Operators School, also
- 6:43Speaker 2: on the C one thirties. But when I got ready
- 6:45Speaker 2: to get out, i'd finished number one in my school
- 6:47Speaker 2: and they offered me HMX one duty, which was Marine
- 6:50Speaker 2: Corps Presidential Helicopter Squadron, and it's on my discharge papers,
- 6:54Speaker 2: and I said, no, I want to go out and
- 6:56Speaker 2: be a Disneyland Marine and live in Tustin. I didn't
- 6:58Speaker 2: want to go live on these coasts closer to family,
- 7:01Speaker 2: but I ended up spending two and a half years
- 7:03Speaker 2: out there, and then quite a few times on the
- 7:06Speaker 2: Tarawah down off of the coast of Central America when during.
- 7:10Speaker 1: The Yeah, there was a lot happened in that.
- 7:11Speaker 2: Yeah, that was the arms for Yeah.
- 7:14Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely. Yeah, Well, I thank you for your service.
- 7:18Speaker 1: I think that we both share the recognition that our
- 7:21Speaker 1: lives would have taken a very different path had it
- 7:24Speaker 1: not been serving in the military. I know for me,
- 7:26Speaker 1: I felt like a like a ship with a lot
- 7:28Speaker 1: of potential but no rudder, and the military gave me
- 7:32Speaker 1: a lot of that direction.
- 7:33Speaker 2: So yeah, that I would never have gotten more I
- 7:37Speaker 2: have in my life without the discipline I learned because
- 7:39Speaker 2: I was an undisciplined punk.
- 7:41Speaker 1: Yeah, and it was the exact same thing. Yeah, yeah, Yeah,
- 7:46Speaker 1: it's still a punk and probably not as disciplined as
- 7:48Speaker 1: I want to be, but yeah, but it would have
- 7:51Speaker 1: been much worse. Yeah, I get that. So you get
- 7:54Speaker 1: out of the Marines and you start getting involved with timber.
- 8:01Speaker 1: But the thing that's so cool about your career story
- 8:04Speaker 1: is that you didn't just do logging in the Pacific
- 8:07Speaker 1: Northwest like everybody else did. You decided to go to
- 8:11Speaker 1: New Zealand. So was that the first time that you
- 8:14Speaker 1: really traveled internationally, not as a soldier. Yeah? Yeah. And
- 8:18Speaker 1: how old were you when you.
- 8:19Speaker 2: I was twenty eight years old when I sold my businesses,
- 8:23Speaker 2: I sold my tree farm, and I was recruited by
- 8:25Speaker 2: the New Zealand government. There was an article in American Timberman,
- 8:28Speaker 2: which at the time was the biggest newspaper about logging
- 8:31Speaker 2: and if you're from the Northwest, you're a god in
- 8:32Speaker 2: the timber industry because we logged bigger timber, steeper ground,
- 8:35Speaker 2: more production anybody in the world. And I was recruited
- 8:38Speaker 2: by the New Zealand government because of that article. But
- 8:40Speaker 2: to back up a little bit. The biggest defining moment
- 8:43Speaker 2: in my life was the day I got out of
- 8:45Speaker 2: the Marine Corps. My dad picked me up at the
- 8:47Speaker 2: airport and Mom wasn't there, and I couldn't figure out
- 8:49Speaker 2: what was going on. And he stopped out on the
- 8:51Speaker 2: Columbia River and he told me it was terminal with
- 8:52Speaker 2: lung cancer and didn't have long to live. And it's
- 8:54Speaker 2: like when you tell me and it's you know. So
- 8:56Speaker 2: it kind of threw me in a dark hole. Yeah,
- 8:59Speaker 2: but there was no work at that point. We were
- 9:02Speaker 2: coming out of four years of Carter. I went into
- 9:05Speaker 2: the Marine Corps about two weeks before Carter started, and
- 9:08Speaker 2: I got out about two weeks before Reagan. So we
- 9:10Speaker 2: were down to no supplies, nothing to run the birds on.
- 9:13Speaker 2: We cannibalized eighty percent of the birds were cannibalized so
- 9:16Speaker 2: we could keep flying. So I started a firewood company.
- 9:19Speaker 2: My dad when I got home, he said, well, I've
- 9:21Speaker 2: got two truckloads of logs out there. If you'll cut
- 9:23Speaker 2: them up, you can have half. And I figured out
- 9:24Speaker 2: at that point I was making about fifteen bucks an.
- 9:26Speaker 1: Hour, so it's good money. In nineteen eighty.
- 9:29Speaker 2: Yeah, I was getting a dollar sixty five a regular job,
- 9:31Speaker 2: and so I started doing that, and I kept getting
- 9:34Speaker 2: bigger and bigger, and then I was buying logs from
- 9:36Speaker 2: an old man, Raymond Smith, out in Corbett, Oregon, and
- 9:40Speaker 2: one day he said to me, he said, how'd you
- 9:42Speaker 2: like to own your own property? And I said, well,
- 9:43Speaker 2: I really don't have much money, and he goes, well,
- 9:45Speaker 2: I've got a forty acre track out there.
- 9:47Speaker 1: I'll sell you.
- 9:47Speaker 2: And it was covered in alder at the time was
- 9:49Speaker 2: kind of worthless other than firewood, and so he took
- 9:51Speaker 2: a chance on me, and I ended up buying a
- 9:54Speaker 2: small bulldozer, putting a winch on it, build am own blade,
- 9:57Speaker 2: build him own canopy for it, and I ended up
- 9:59Speaker 2: logging my prop. And then the neighbors wanted me to log,
- 10:02Speaker 2: and I took that fence down. Then I took the
- 10:03Speaker 2: next fans down, and for the next year and a half,
- 10:05Speaker 2: I just logged for my neighbors. And then another man
- 10:08Speaker 2: grabbed me and saw the potential I had and took
- 10:11Speaker 2: me into the National Force and taught me how to log.
- 10:12Speaker 2: Big timber man by the name of John Seri usually
- 10:15Speaker 2: man or amazing. Yeah, And you know, losing a parent
- 10:20Speaker 2: and that was many years ago for you with your
- 10:21Speaker 2: dad and just a year ago for me with my mom.
- 10:24Speaker 2: But yeah, it really does recalibrate things in our mind.
- 10:27Speaker 2: What did you feel changed about you after you lost
- 10:31Speaker 2: your dad? After I lost my dad, I went downhill
- 10:34Speaker 2: into drug addiction, drug addiction and alcoholism. I mean I
- 10:37Speaker 2: went downhill, downhill fast. It lasted about three years past
- 10:41Speaker 2: that point. I'd had some stuff happening in my life
- 10:43Speaker 2: when I was twelve, some abuse issues, and I started
- 10:46Speaker 2: pretty much drinking every day at that point. And the
- 10:48Speaker 2: only sober time I ever had in my life was
- 10:50Speaker 2: the ninety eight days Marine Corps boot camp until I
- 10:52Speaker 2: was twenty five years old, when I had a friend
- 10:55Speaker 2: pulled me aside and helped me. But you know, it's
- 10:58Speaker 2: we get people step into our life, and we can't
- 11:01Speaker 2: forget that that people step up to help us. Yeah,
- 11:04Speaker 2: and we have to remember that we have to do that.
- 11:05Speaker 2: We don't have to we get to do that for
- 11:07Speaker 2: other people in our lives. We get to step forward
- 11:09Speaker 2: and help other people. At twenty five, my twenty fifth birthday,
- 11:13Speaker 2: I tried to quit drinking and I kept waking up
- 11:15Speaker 2: every morning drunk, and I went into I was working
- 11:18Speaker 2: for the power company at nightis a mechanic, heavy equipment mechanic,
- 11:21Speaker 2: and one of the guys that I worked with had
- 11:22Speaker 2: been gone for thirty days. Everybody said he was up
- 11:25Speaker 2: at Boorgman at the coal plant was the common story
- 11:27Speaker 2: in nineteen eighty four. And Bill was there and I
- 11:29Speaker 2: didn't even recognize him. And it was labor day weekend,
- 11:32Speaker 2: and I'd been on a four day cocaine run and
- 11:34Speaker 2: I had slept for four days, and I was in
- 11:36Speaker 2: the We had a room we called the drawing room,
- 11:37Speaker 2: which was one hundred and ten degrees with no humidity.
- 11:39Speaker 2: We could draw our clothes. And I was sitting there,
- 11:41Speaker 2: just shaking and sweating, and Bill came in and he said,
- 11:44Speaker 2: are you ready to get some help? And I said,
- 11:45Speaker 2: I've been trying, but I can't stop. And he took
- 11:47Speaker 2: me up and got me into an outpatient program. And
- 11:49Speaker 2: many times in my life I thought, where can I
- 11:51Speaker 2: be a Bill in someone else's life to help them.
- 11:54Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 11:55Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been blessed to have those opportunities. I don't
- 11:57Speaker 2: take any credit for anybody else, but I've been blessed
- 11:59Speaker 2: to have those opportunities to help other people and you've
- 12:01Speaker 2: been sober now for how long? Thirty eight and a
- 12:04Speaker 2: half years now.
- 12:05Speaker 1: Well, and it takes an incredible amount of courage to
- 12:09Speaker 1: first of all, admit when we have something that we
- 12:11Speaker 1: want to change in our life, and then second of
- 12:13Speaker 1: all to stick with it. So thirty eight years is incredible. Well,
- 12:17Speaker 1: thank you, Randy. I'm just so proud of you for that.
- 12:20Speaker 1: Thank you, And we'll talk a little bit later about
- 12:22Speaker 1: some other things that we've been both been working on
- 12:24Speaker 1: to help each other with in our lives. And you
- 12:28Speaker 1: make a decision to actually care for yourself, to show
- 12:32Speaker 1: yourself some of the love that you really that you
- 12:35Speaker 1: wanted to receive, protect yourself, and save yourself in many ways.
- 12:40Speaker 1: And how did that change your life? What happened at
- 12:43Speaker 1: that point that started to give you these opportunities?
- 12:46Speaker 2: Well, I think when I was twenty five and I
- 12:48Speaker 2: got sober, the biggest thing I learned in my life
- 12:49Speaker 2: is always aligne all the time to everybody. Yeah, because
- 12:52Speaker 2: addiction is just one set of lies after another. The
- 12:54Speaker 2: gentleman I sat down next to my first meeting, Terry,
- 12:57Speaker 2: he was my sponsor for twenty five years. She sat
- 13:00Speaker 2: down that night. I sat down next to him that
- 13:01Speaker 2: night and not knowing who he was. And he'd been
- 13:03Speaker 2: sober about fifteen years. He had a PhD in literature
- 13:07Speaker 2: from the University of Oregon and he ran a garbage company.
- 13:10Speaker 2: He stayed in college as long as he could before
- 13:12Speaker 2: he had to go around the stat's garbage company. And
- 13:13Speaker 2: you know, he used to tell me, you know that
- 13:17Speaker 2: you just everybody's going to get one chance. You're going
- 13:20Speaker 2: to get a chance. There's going to be people walk
- 13:21Speaker 2: into your lives and you've got that chance to maybe
- 13:25Speaker 2: change your life. The sad thing about alcoholism and drug
- 13:28Speaker 2: addiction and is even of all the people that say
- 13:31Speaker 2: they want to do it, maybe only about ten percent
- 13:33Speaker 2: ever make it. Yeah, and that's the sad thing. And
- 13:36Speaker 2: then when you get to one year, there's a I
- 13:39Speaker 2: don't know, it's a trend. And it's been this way
- 13:41Speaker 2: since I got sober. But when people get to one
- 13:43Speaker 2: year sobriety, they forget about what they got doing to
- 13:46Speaker 2: get there and they quit doing it. So about thirteen
- 13:48Speaker 2: to fourteen months, people relapse all the time.
- 13:50Speaker 1: Yeah. Sure, Luckily I was.
- 13:53Speaker 2: I got sober with some really old hardcore people and
- 13:56Speaker 2: I needed that because I had didn't have that discipline
- 13:59Speaker 2: sure to thrive and survive.
- 14:01Speaker 1: We're all glad that you did survive, and we have
- 14:04Speaker 1: a lot of mutual friends that are grateful that you're here.
- 14:06Speaker 1: And I have no doubt that that decision made a
- 14:09Speaker 1: big part of it.
- 14:10Speaker 2: Yeah, well there was there were seven of us that
- 14:12Speaker 2: ran together. I got sober at twenty five, my friend
- 14:15Speaker 2: Steve got sober at thirty, and nobody else made it
- 14:17Speaker 2: forty years old car rex and sorrhosis. And then I
- 14:21Speaker 2: lost Steve a couple of years ago when he was
- 14:22Speaker 2: twenty five years sober to They think it was the
- 14:25Speaker 2: cancer that's caused by round up because he ran a
- 14:27Speaker 2: cemetery and so it was some weird cancer they'd never
- 14:30Speaker 2: seen before. But the amount of people that you know,
- 14:33Speaker 2: passed through our lives that even if they don't get
- 14:36Speaker 2: sober the first time, if you can make an impact
- 14:38Speaker 2: on him.
- 14:38Speaker 1: You know.
- 14:39Speaker 2: Everybody used to always ask me when I before I
- 14:41Speaker 2: moved to Vandorgon, where my ranch is out, I lived
- 14:43Speaker 2: in Corvallis, Oregon, which was a college town, and everybody
- 14:45Speaker 2: always said, well, why do you have dinner at the
- 14:47Speaker 2: same pub every night? Well, one the head chef co
- 14:49Speaker 2: I took him to Columbia with me because he wanted
- 14:51Speaker 2: to go ride motorcycles in Columbia. So I took him down.
- 14:53Speaker 2: Then we rode motorcycles for thirty five days. And so
- 14:55Speaker 2: he make me whatever I wanted. But what when I
- 14:57Speaker 2: sit back and look at it, I always tell people,
- 14:59Speaker 2: you know, if I had seven people come up to
- 15:01Speaker 2: me and say, how are you so happy in life
- 15:04Speaker 2: and how do you do it without drinking? Yeah, and
- 15:06Speaker 2: five of those people are still sober. So you know,
- 15:08Speaker 2: occasionally people are put in our lives, and most of
- 15:11Speaker 2: the time everything we've ever wanted and needed.
- 15:13Speaker 1: In our lives.
- 15:14Speaker 2: What I find out is a lot of times we
- 15:16Speaker 2: don't take it because it doesn't look like what it's
- 15:17Speaker 2: supposed to look like. We have a preset notion of
- 15:21Speaker 2: who this person should be, yeah, including ourselves and ourselves,
- 15:24Speaker 2: and we're not that person and they're not that person,
- 15:26Speaker 2: so we don't take what's given to us at that point.
- 15:29Speaker 1: Yeah, being willing to accept help and being willing to
- 15:32Speaker 1: accept change. You know, I'm feeling compelled right now because
- 15:35Speaker 1: there's likely going to be some people listening that need help.
- 15:39Speaker 1: Would you be willing to have them reach out to
- 15:42Speaker 1: you absolutely all right? Now, how would they reach you
- 15:44Speaker 1: on Instagram? I'm PVT mule Nicknam. I got in the
- 15:47Speaker 1: Marine Corps.
- 15:48Speaker 2: I phone numbers five O three seven eight OHO three
- 15:50Speaker 2: eight two eight And if I don't answer, just leave
- 15:52Speaker 2: me a message and I'll get right back with you.
- 15:54Speaker 2: I still speak on a state level for alcoholics anonymous, so.
- 15:57Speaker 1: Yeah, I know you do that.
- 15:58Speaker 2: Yeah, And for years I spoke on a national level
- 16:01Speaker 2: for cocaine anonymous. I was one of the founders in
- 16:03Speaker 2: the Northwest of that to get that started so kids
- 16:05Speaker 2: could talk about drug addiction with the firmness of alcoholics anonymous,
- 16:10Speaker 2: where NA tends to be kind of spread out that
- 16:12Speaker 2: I don't mean this wrong, but to them, relapses acceptable
- 16:16Speaker 2: and to me it's acceptable. But every time it happens,
- 16:20Speaker 2: it's that much harder for people to get there and
- 16:21Speaker 2: stay there. And you never have to leave a ze
- 16:23Speaker 2: thing and no, and it doesn't matter where you're at.
- 16:25Speaker 2: I have friends all over the United States that are
- 16:27Speaker 2: good people that have twenty twenty five years of sobriety
- 16:29Speaker 2: that can help you.
- 16:30Speaker 1: I know you do, and I might be able to
- 16:32Speaker 1: put them in touch with that, So I know that
- 16:34Speaker 1: it's something that people struggle with and there is help,
- 16:37Speaker 1: and there's people that care about you making those steps
- 16:43Speaker 1: towards sobriety.
- 16:44Speaker 2: And yeah, I'm just proud of you. Well, thank you, Scott.
- 16:46Speaker 2: I appreciated. It's nothing that I'm proud of or ashamed of.
- 16:49Speaker 2: It's just my life story. It's who I am. And
- 16:52Speaker 2: if I was proud or ashamed, I would be silent.
- 16:56Speaker 2: And if I'm silent, people die because of our silence.
- 16:59Speaker 2: They just don't. I've led an unbelievably blessed life, and
- 17:03Speaker 2: I've tackled some major issues in life, really tough ones,
- 17:06Speaker 2: and went down those rabbit holes a few times, really badly,
- 17:09Speaker 2: and then you know, had somebody step in and say, hey, Randy.
- 17:13Speaker 2: You know you did it with me at the beginning
- 17:14Speaker 2: of the year, but step in and say, hey, I'm
- 17:16Speaker 2: tired of seeing you struggle with something. Here's what I
- 17:18Speaker 2: think might help you. I think to myself all the time,
- 17:20Speaker 2: where can I be a Bill Quimby or where can
- 17:23Speaker 2: I be a Terry Aggy and someone's else's life, not
- 17:25Speaker 2: only in recovery, but in business. Because I've got eight
- 17:29Speaker 2: or ten guys that used to work for me. I
- 17:30Speaker 2: downsized in two thousand and nine, two thousand and seven,
- 17:34Speaker 2: I downsized, and all the guys that have been with
- 17:36Speaker 2: me for quite a while, I took a risk on
- 17:37Speaker 2: them and I sold them logging equipment on contracts so
- 17:39Speaker 2: they couldn't get financing into bank to buy it, so
- 17:42Speaker 2: I sold it to them. And then, by the grace
- 17:44Speaker 2: of God, those guys are still guys that come back.
- 17:46Speaker 2: Now that I've decided I'm going to work five six
- 17:48Speaker 2: months out of the year, they still come back and
- 17:50Speaker 2: help me. They bring their machinery back and I contract
- 17:52Speaker 2: them in and we get to work together.
- 17:53Speaker 1: That's right.
- 17:54Speaker 2: I mean last week we were on a job and
- 17:56Speaker 2: we had four of us there, and we had one
- 17:57Speaker 2: hundred and twenty five hundred and forty five years of experience,
- 18:00Speaker 2: and we had eighty five years who were together. I
- 18:03Speaker 2: was sitting there watching. You know, my log trucker is Junior.
- 18:06Speaker 2: His dad is Senior, and his dad started hollologs for
- 18:09Speaker 2: me in nineteen eighty one, and Junior's been holling for
- 18:11Speaker 2: me since ninety.
- 18:12Speaker 1: Six, you know.
- 18:13Speaker 2: But we're who we surround ourselves with.
- 18:16Speaker 1: Yeah, that is something that I recognize, and I've heard
- 18:18Speaker 1: it said, is that we're basically a reflection of the
- 18:22Speaker 1: five people that we're closest with. So if we're surrounding
- 18:25Speaker 1: ourselves with amazing people and you think about the people
- 18:28Speaker 1: in your life like Bill Drigu and Bill Whittaker and
- 18:31Speaker 1: these gentlemen that are absolutely exceptional individuals, and it helps
- 18:37Speaker 1: to make us exceptional individuals in the ways that we
- 18:40Speaker 1: can be.
- 18:40Speaker 2: So we don't know those moments in life are going
- 18:43Speaker 2: to happen. They're never staged. We never get that feeling.
- 18:46Speaker 2: My whole relationship with overlanding changed in twenty twelve when
- 18:50Speaker 2: I went to my first overland expo. I'm standing in
- 18:53Speaker 2: line as a lonely person and Buildergo and his wife
- 18:57Speaker 2: Susan and another fa friends of theirs from Oklahoma there
- 19:00Speaker 2: and lady said, I got a room for five. Bill said,
- 19:02Speaker 2: we're five. When we sat down and Bill said, do you
- 19:04Speaker 2: ride motorcycles? Said yeah, I just got back from my
- 19:06Speaker 2: twelve hundred and I've been down the ball three or
- 19:08Speaker 2: four times in the last year. And he goes, tell
- 19:09Speaker 2: me how you ride the Baja. I had no idea
- 19:11Speaker 2: who the guy was.
- 19:12Speaker 1: Yeah. One of the greatest adventure motorcycle instructors in the country. Yeah,
- 19:16Speaker 1: and I had that's his humility. Yeah.
- 19:18Speaker 2: And then you know, the next day he introduced me
- 19:20Speaker 2: to you, and then he introduced me to Bill Whittaker,
- 19:23Speaker 2: and he didn't tell me what Bill Whittaker did. And
- 19:24Speaker 2: Bill's drilling me about Excel Timber and Oregon about what
- 19:29Speaker 2: I see as her flaws. And I finally asked, who
- 19:30Speaker 2: the hell are you and he said, I'm a chairman
- 19:31Speaker 2: a Simplot.
- 19:32Speaker 1: And It's like, yeah, exactly, but it's.
- 19:35Speaker 2: It's those relationships with my first riding coach, Amy Stroud.
- 19:39Speaker 2: A week after I bought my first eight hundred, a
- 19:41Speaker 2: friend of mine that rides, I mean, I bought my
- 19:43Speaker 2: first twelve hundred. A friend of mine that I rode
- 19:45Speaker 2: dirt bikes with said you're either going to get some
- 19:47Speaker 2: training or you're going to get hurt really bad. And
- 19:49Speaker 2: then if you get on the bike, you're going to
- 19:50Speaker 2: get some training. I said, who the hell do I
- 19:51Speaker 2: get training from for this? And he said, well, Amy
- 19:53Speaker 2: Stroud and Insiah Oregon. And I was logging the piece
- 19:56Speaker 2: next door to his property.
- 19:58Speaker 1: Unbelievable.
- 19:59Speaker 2: Yeah, you get logged for part of the day and
- 20:01Speaker 2: then go ride your bike. I went rode every night yeah,
- 20:03Speaker 2: and that's great. You know, two weeks into a Raimy goes,
- 20:06Speaker 2: what are you doing next week? And I said nothing.
- 20:07Speaker 2: He said, can you take two weeks off? I said yeah,
- 20:09Speaker 2: and he said, well, bring your bike over. I said why.
- 20:10Speaker 2: He said, We're going to this place called Copper Canyon.
- 20:13Speaker 1: I was hoping you'd talk about this story because this
- 20:15Speaker 1: is incredible. Yeah. So you you'd never other than Baha,
- 20:19Speaker 1: you'd never really done a big international trip, and now
- 20:21Speaker 1: you're going to take two weeks.
- 20:22Speaker 2: I hadn't even done Baja at that point. This was
- 20:24Speaker 2: two thousand and eight. This was I bought my bike
- 20:26Speaker 2: in May and he took me in June.
- 20:28Speaker 1: That's amazing. So you're so you're where did they ship
- 20:31Speaker 1: the bikes Tokreel or No.
- 20:33Speaker 2: No, he shipped it to Uhl Pass. So I put
- 20:36Speaker 2: it in his trailer and he took it down with
- 20:38Speaker 2: Skip man Man Curso Curso from Motor Discovery.
- 20:42Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 20:42Speaker 2: Nice and still great friends with Skip. And I had
- 20:44Speaker 2: the opportunity to help his son when his son was
- 20:46Speaker 2: having some problems. Yeah, call me in the middle of
- 20:48Speaker 2: the night and it was really touching. But we got
- 20:50Speaker 2: to we got there and then uh my first crossing
- 20:53Speaker 2: was at Warriz.
- 20:55Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. Get the party started starting, right. But isn't
- 21:00Speaker 1: that that is such an interesting area When you drive,
- 21:03Speaker 1: like once you're out of Warez in your and you're
- 21:05Speaker 1: heading south, you come into these Mennonite regions of Mexico
- 21:09Speaker 1: that nobody knows about, and there's there's kids wearing John
- 21:13Speaker 1: Deere ball caps. Yeah, and you know these and these
- 21:16Speaker 1: huge farming operations. It's incredible the agriculture in that.
- 21:19Speaker 2: Two things struck me when I first time I crossed
- 21:21Speaker 2: that border was one when we got about fifteen miles
- 21:24Speaker 2: south out to the east, there's a mountain, yeah, and
- 21:26Speaker 2: there's an outline of a horse for heroin that the
- 21:29Speaker 2: drug dealers have put there. And this seems like five
- 21:30Speaker 2: hundred feet high and a phil feet long. But then the
- 21:33Speaker 2: funny thing is is in the last ten years in
- 21:35Speaker 2: Mexico they've changed from John Deer to Wander so you
- 21:38Speaker 2: can get a wand Deer hat down That's funny. But yeah,
- 21:42Speaker 2: going down there and then you know, experiencing creole and
- 21:44Speaker 2: then you know.
- 21:46Speaker 1: And people, I don't think a lot of people realize
- 21:48Speaker 1: that a town like that exists. It's kind of like
- 21:51Speaker 1: the I mean, I don't know the Durango of Mexico.
- 21:55Speaker 1: It's it's a high mountain. I think it's seven thousand
- 21:58Speaker 1: feet or so, and you know, so it's up in
- 22:01Speaker 1: the pine trees. It's you know, there's log cabins everywhere,
- 22:05Speaker 1: and it's just it's the gateway to Copper Canyon. Yeah,
- 22:08Speaker 1: isn't that where the train starts. Yeah, well it starts.
- 22:11Speaker 2: It would be north and west about thirty miles from Creole,
- 22:15Speaker 2: got it, because you come in on the road and
- 22:16Speaker 2: you have to go a little bit east to get
- 22:17Speaker 2: to Creole. Well, it's out north and west at the
- 22:19Speaker 2: head of the canyon there. Yeah, but the Raimie knew
- 22:22Speaker 2: a guy that was a French chef that had this
- 22:24Speaker 2: little hotel, and so we're about halfway there. I can't
- 22:26Speaker 2: remember the name of the city, but he pulled in there
- 22:28Speaker 2: and this guy cooked us the most amazing meal I've
- 22:30Speaker 2: ever had.
- 22:31Speaker 1: In my life.
- 22:32Speaker 2: He asked a steak or chicken, and I'm thinking, okay,
- 22:34Speaker 2: this is going to be the you know, the rubber chicken,
- 22:37Speaker 2: rubber chicken tur And he comes out and he's a
- 22:38Speaker 2: French chef and this stuff has got sauce. I mean,
- 22:40Speaker 2: it's just it's incredibly in a swimming pool there. It's like,
- 22:43Speaker 2: do we have to leave, Raimy, you got to go
- 22:46Speaker 2: back there?
- 22:47Speaker 1: Yeah, so you get to creole And I mean, riding
- 22:50Speaker 1: an adventure, a big adventure motorcycle in Copper Canyon is
- 22:54Speaker 1: no joke.
- 22:55Speaker 2: No, And it wasn't paved and it was paved and.
- 22:57Speaker 1: It was yeah, it is paved down to about the
- 22:59Speaker 1: p or at least part of the way. But at
- 23:02Speaker 1: the time, and it was funny because you and I
- 23:04Speaker 1: were just talking about this before we started the conversation
- 23:07Speaker 1: and I was in the same area in two thousand
- 23:09Speaker 1: and eight. We got to figure out what time I
- 23:11Speaker 1: was there, because it was probably close to the same time.
- 23:14Speaker 2: I'll look at my pictures because I saw pictures at
- 23:16Speaker 2: her time.
- 23:16Speaker 1: He saw a whole bunch of sportsmobiles. It was me.
- 23:19Speaker 1: It was me. But yeah, I mean, that is an
- 23:22Speaker 1: incredible adventure. And you guys got into this one section
- 23:27Speaker 1: of trail. I mean, how many guys ended up injured?
- 23:29Speaker 1: Well that time you got to there.
- 23:31Speaker 2: After we came out of Ball to Pedas. When we
- 23:33Speaker 2: dropped into Ball to Pedas, Ramy asked me to kind
- 23:36Speaker 2: of stay back because there was a lady Danielle and
- 23:39Speaker 2: Art from San Diego, and Danielle was riding. She wasn't
- 23:43Speaker 2: really experienced, and she wrecked her bike on the first
- 23:46Speaker 2: corner where the right at the top of the hill
- 23:47Speaker 2: where you're standing down where the traditionary stands up there
- 23:49Speaker 2: and bless the ship. And Ramy said, okay, Randy, he
- 23:53Speaker 2: wanted me. He wanted me to stay help him load
- 23:55Speaker 2: the bikes because he's in a wheelchair. And so I
- 23:57Speaker 2: went to load the bike and the key was not
- 23:59Speaker 2: there to unlock the ramp. So he says, Randy, you
- 24:02Speaker 2: got to go to the bottom. And so my first
- 24:05Speaker 2: trip to the bottom of Copper Cannon was alone, and
- 24:08Speaker 2: he sat, I'll give you one piece of advice. Stay
- 24:10Speaker 2: out of the inside of the corners because the trucks
- 24:12Speaker 2: tear them up so bad. And I got to the
- 24:14Speaker 2: bottom and I talked to Scott, the assistant ride leader,
- 24:17Speaker 2: and he said, well, I'm taking these people into balt piteus.
- 24:19Speaker 2: He said, you're gonna have to ride that key back
- 24:21Speaker 2: up there. And it was not eighty on the rim,
- 24:23Speaker 2: and it was probably one hundred and ten in the bottom.
- 24:25Speaker 2: And I got back up and Ramy. I loaded the
- 24:27Speaker 2: bike and Ramy said, I'll follow you down and I
- 24:29Speaker 2: said no, no, just go. I said, you know, I'm
- 24:33Speaker 2: going to wait here about ten minutes and drink some water.
- 24:36Speaker 2: I think I drank three quarts of water because I
- 24:38Speaker 2: was just dying. And Raymi left and I was laying
- 24:42Speaker 2: against the cliff on the left side, and then there's
- 24:44Speaker 2: that area, there's that little shrine up there, and all
- 24:47Speaker 2: of a sudden I see movement and shadows and there's
- 24:49Speaker 2: a shaman up there blessing me, and he's blessing me
- 24:53Speaker 2: and then he goes like this was he Tarahumarini? Yeah,
- 24:56Speaker 2: oh incredible, Yeah, and then he holds his hand out
- 24:59Speaker 2: and I got my wall and I laid a five
- 25:00Speaker 2: and put a rock on top of it.
- 25:01Speaker 1: And he goes well the way.
- 25:05Speaker 2: But the ride to the bottom was it was quite
- 25:07Speaker 2: emotional because I'd lost my business partner two years before
- 25:10Speaker 2: and that was one of the places we had agreed
- 25:12Speaker 2: it's pretty's ashes at so I did on the bridge
- 25:14Speaker 2: that morning and that evening before we got into Baltipedas.
- 25:17Speaker 2: Coming out of Baltipedus. We got back up to Creole
- 25:19Speaker 2: two days later and there was a group that was
- 25:22Speaker 2: a kind of rebuild because a lot of the people
- 25:24Speaker 2: wanted to write pavement back I said, didn't come here
- 25:25Speaker 2: to write pavement. So there were six of us that
- 25:27Speaker 2: left and we went straight east out of Creole, past
- 25:31Speaker 2: the garbage dump, and then over the top of the.
- 25:34Speaker 1: There was a Were you going to Sarah Cowi or
- 25:36Speaker 1: were you going to Divisidera or what we were going.
- 25:38Speaker 2: To I don't know the name, but eventually we were
- 25:40Speaker 2: going to go over the You know, you go out
- 25:42Speaker 2: there and you go from seven thousand about nine thousand.
- 25:45Speaker 1: It's forceded right and.
- 25:46Speaker 2: You're going straight east and then it goes east and
- 25:48Speaker 2: then it drops and goes north up to Chihuahua. It
- 25:51Speaker 2: was on that section we My famous last words were
- 25:54Speaker 2: there's a road there, it says two wheel ride, we
- 25:56Speaker 2: can go.
- 25:57Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 25:57Speaker 2: Well we went down and that road was so steep
- 25:59Speaker 2: that even a guy in a four to fifty that
- 26:01Speaker 2: was a really good rider couldn't make it back up.
- 26:03Speaker 2: So we were stuck with going forward. And that day
- 26:05Speaker 2: you should have been about a six hour day, it
- 26:07Speaker 2: turned into thirty four hour day.
- 26:08Speaker 1: It sounds like you were on the route to Sarah Cowie. Yeah,
- 26:11Speaker 1: some big big river crossings. Yes, yeah, the bridges washed
- 26:14Speaker 1: out the bottom. That was the first thing we realized
- 26:17Speaker 1: we're in trouble. But you know, what are you going
- 26:18Speaker 1: to do out there? You know, we had you got
- 26:20Speaker 1: to keep moving. We had two guys get hurt. My
- 26:23Speaker 1: friend Kim wrenched his ankle real bad and my friend
- 26:25Speaker 1: John tore his knee up real bad. They couldn't ride,
- 26:27Speaker 1: so the bikes were in the back of the truck.
- 26:29Speaker 1: And then you ended up with someone with a broken
- 26:31Speaker 1: shoulder too.
- 26:32Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, and then I ended up with a dislocated
- 26:34Speaker 2: ankle later in the ride.
- 26:36Speaker 1: Yeah, and explain to me, how was it that you
- 26:38Speaker 1: were shifting again after you dislocated that foot, because you
- 26:42Speaker 1: said you couldn't feel the foot anymore.
- 26:43Speaker 2: Well, they yeah, I couldn't feel anying from the knee down.
- 26:45Speaker 2: And they decided since I was the only one at
- 26:47Speaker 2: the time they had an hid light and we were
- 26:48Speaker 2: going to have to ride through the night that I
- 26:49Speaker 2: had ride because we're out of riders. We had no
- 26:51Speaker 2: place to put bikes. Sure I could physically still ride, well,
- 26:54Speaker 2: I took like seven or eight vicodin to get it
- 26:56Speaker 2: to quit throbbing. But they put tie wraps around my
- 26:59Speaker 2: leg and they put a loop in the tire rap
- 27:01Speaker 2: so I could pick my heel up. And then they
- 27:03Speaker 2: tied a shift string from the shifter up to my
- 27:05Speaker 2: tank bag so I could shift and down shift. And
- 27:09Speaker 2: I remember we got to the top of that big
- 27:11Speaker 2: canyon out there. There was that little town out there
- 27:13Speaker 2: heading towards Shuahua, about halfway up, and we got to
- 27:15Speaker 2: the top of the ridge and the guy that was
- 27:17Speaker 2: in front of me, he stopped. It was still daylight,
- 27:19Speaker 2: and I got the top of the ridge and I said,
- 27:20Speaker 2: what are you stopping for? And he goes, well, look
- 27:22Speaker 2: at this. This is kind of cool. There's like a
- 27:24Speaker 2: dirt road that goes up this way and then down
- 27:26Speaker 2: here and there's a ramp, and we'll get the hell
- 27:28Speaker 2: out of here. This is the Landing Graft Landing Strip.
- 27:30Speaker 2: And you can still it was windy and you could
- 27:31Speaker 2: still see the track marks in the roof. So they
- 27:34Speaker 2: just built it. I said, if anybody asked you if
- 27:36Speaker 2: you saw anything, you didn't see anything, nothing, because it
- 27:39Speaker 2: was still really unregulated there.
- 27:41Speaker 1: I remember coming around the corner one time and here's
- 27:44Speaker 1: two locals and they have these huge backpacks on their back,
- 27:47Speaker 1: you know, stuffed with weed, and they're both carrying rifles
- 27:51Speaker 1: and all. I didn't know what to do, so I
- 27:53Speaker 1: literally just smiled and waved like a tourist. I didn't
- 27:56Speaker 1: know what to do. I just kept driving and I
- 27:58Speaker 1: smiled and waved, and he actually gave me just a
- 28:00Speaker 1: little curl of a smile as I went by, and
- 28:03Speaker 1: it was like that was all it. I mean, he
- 28:05Speaker 1: gave me a gift, because I would have been terrified,
- 28:07Speaker 1: are they gonna call ahead or what you know? But
- 28:09Speaker 1: he kind of acknowledged me that, like, I mean, you
- 28:12Speaker 1: no harm man, I'm on my way. So because they
- 28:15Speaker 1: didn't see anything.
- 28:16Speaker 2: Later that evening, we were we were following this old
- 28:18Speaker 2: dirt road and it had to go to Chihuahua. And
- 28:21Speaker 2: then we came across a river drainage and I was
- 28:23Speaker 2: looking at a map and I could see on the
- 28:24Speaker 2: topical relief map it went down to Chiuaha and we
- 28:27Speaker 2: were on a plateau. And right before we started down
- 28:29Speaker 2: that plateau, set of police lights came on off order
- 28:31Speaker 2: our right and I stopped and Ramy said, you're in
- 28:34Speaker 2: the lead.
- 28:35Speaker 1: Beware.
- 28:35Speaker 2: He said, if anything feels wrong, don't stop. And so
- 28:38Speaker 2: we got to the bottom of the road, we crossed
- 28:40Speaker 2: the bridge and this guy that's a cops trying turns
- 28:42Speaker 2: to go upstream. Yeah, And I knew Chihuahua was downstream.
- 28:45Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 28:46Speaker 2: And Ramy said, if we'd went there, then we'd never
- 28:47Speaker 2: been found and they would have all our bikes. But
- 28:51Speaker 2: you know, it's just funny. Least there was a probability
- 28:53Speaker 2: of that. The funny thing was is that I got
- 28:55Speaker 2: to the hospital at Chiuaha. I mean I got to
- 28:57Speaker 2: the hotel at Chihuaha and they wanted to take me
- 28:58Speaker 2: to the hospital. I said, no, I've got a flight
- 29:00Speaker 2: out in two days to an orthopedic surgeon that'll help me.
- 29:03Speaker 2: And so they took my boot off and it had
- 29:06Speaker 2: been one hundred and five every day and I hadn't
- 29:08Speaker 2: taken a shower for three days. And Kim came in
- 29:10Speaker 2: and helped me take my boot off, and that about
- 29:12Speaker 2: made me die because.
- 29:13Speaker 1: I can't imagine.
- 29:14Speaker 2: Yeah, And so I got in a shower and then
- 29:16Speaker 2: I laid down and Kim propped my foot up for me.
- 29:19Speaker 2: And they came in the next morning they said, are
- 29:21Speaker 2: you riding? I said I have to. We don't have
- 29:22Speaker 2: anybody else. And it was great because somewhere I have
- 29:24Speaker 2: a picture and I'll send it to you someday. I
- 29:26Speaker 2: was on crutches, Kim was in a wheelchair, and our
- 29:29Speaker 2: other friend was on crutches too. In the hotel. Come
- 29:32Speaker 2: adventure and get disabled. They came in and they couldn't
- 29:35Speaker 2: get my boot on. My foot was too swollen, so
- 29:37Speaker 2: they couldn't find any way to loob my foot up.
- 29:41Speaker 2: So they went to the kitchen and they got west
- 29:42Speaker 2: and oil and they covered my sot completely and to
- 29:44Speaker 2: put in my foot and one guy jumped across my chest.
- 29:47Speaker 2: Another guy was holding my legs, and two guys crammed
- 29:49Speaker 2: my boot on and that hurts so damn bad. And
- 29:51Speaker 2: they just said we'll be back in twenty minutes.
- 29:53Speaker 1: To get you.
- 29:54Speaker 2: Shut the life off and rode all the way home.
- 29:57Speaker 1: What an adventure to come out of the gate. You
- 29:59Speaker 1: had the bike for a cup months and you went
- 30:01Speaker 1: right it. You went right into right into Copper Canyon.
- 30:04Speaker 1: So one of the things that I wanted to talk
- 30:06Speaker 1: about in this podcast, because I think it's it'll be
- 30:09Speaker 1: really relevant to a lot of people's desires for travel,
- 30:12Speaker 1: is you have found a great way of flying in
- 30:16Speaker 1: and either renting vehicles or motorcycles or buying them in country.
- 30:21Speaker 1: You purchased a vehicle in Australia, I'd love to talk
- 30:24Speaker 1: about how you did that. Well, what was the process,
- 30:27Speaker 1: how difficult was it, what did the vehicle cost? And
- 30:32Speaker 1: then how did you end up at the other end
- 30:33Speaker 1: of it did you were you able to at least
- 30:35Speaker 1: break even or something close.
- 30:37Speaker 2: My first rig I bought was in Colombia, but we
- 30:39Speaker 2: can go back to that later about FJA forty three
- 30:41Speaker 2: down there. But in Australia, I went to rent a
- 30:44Speaker 2: rig and when I got there and there were no
- 30:47Speaker 2: rigs available, and they tried to give me this most
- 30:49Speaker 2: to something for the four World drive car and it
- 30:51Speaker 2: had ball tires on it, and my friend Paul said no,
- 30:55Speaker 2: and so I took it back. They kept my deposit
- 30:58Speaker 2: of five thousand dollars. So I was talking to Paul
- 31:01Speaker 2: and he said, you know, Randy, he said, let's just
- 31:02Speaker 2: find you a good land cruiser and I said okay,
- 31:05Speaker 2: And then I called you and I said what do
- 31:06Speaker 2: I look for? And he said, for you, I'd look
- 31:08Speaker 2: for a seventy six series, bea Diesel seventy six. And
- 31:11Speaker 2: we found when they had about fifty thousand miles on it.
- 31:13Speaker 2: I think I paid thirty fifty thousand Australia for about
- 31:15Speaker 2: thirty and it was only a couple years old. It
- 31:17Speaker 2: never meant it's really fair and it had lockers in
- 31:19Speaker 2: it already, So then, like any want to be, I
- 31:22Speaker 2: took it to the arb shop and started pointing and picking.
- 31:25Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 31:25Speaker 2: Sure, And it took him about a week to do
- 31:27Speaker 2: all the stuff to put the lockers and everything in
- 31:29Speaker 2: at force. And at that point I was married. Then
- 31:32Speaker 2: Paul gave us his wagon ear and we took off
- 31:34Speaker 2: and went out the South coast and out towards Adelaide
- 31:38Speaker 2: and went to the Great Ocean Road and gorgeous and
- 31:40Speaker 2: saw the Twelve Apostles, and then we went up into
- 31:43Speaker 2: the Grampians and the Flinders. The Flinchers are incredible. The
- 31:46Speaker 2: Flinders I ended up revisiting three times. Yea, you know,
- 31:48Speaker 2: I read every trip i'd go over. Did you ever
- 31:50Speaker 2: go to the Parinchilla Hotel? Yeah, yeah, it's so great.
- 31:54Speaker 1: Well I went there with my dad, So I just
- 31:56Speaker 1: had this incredible memory of that and my dad eating that.
- 32:00Speaker 1: You could buy this plate of food that had, you know,
- 32:03Speaker 1: crocodile and kangaroo on it and camel and all this
- 32:07Speaker 1: other stuff. So you know, the fren memory.
- 32:09Speaker 2: The funny story about Australia is is ten years before
- 32:12Speaker 2: that happened, I pulled into the Loan Pine Cafe. And
- 32:16Speaker 2: that happened in eighteen and eighteen. That happened because ten
- 32:20Speaker 2: years before that I had met a name by the
- 32:22Speaker 2: man by the name of Paul Raymond and his wife
- 32:24Speaker 2: Lee Mitchell, and they were at the Loan Pine Cafe.
- 32:26Speaker 2: And I had been writing in Death Valley in one
- 32:28Speaker 2: hundred and five hundred ten degree heat all day sure,
- 32:30Speaker 2: and I hadn't felt like heating, so I hadn't eate
- 32:32Speaker 2: anything all day. And I pulled into the Loan Pine
- 32:33Speaker 2: Cafe on the corner there at five minutes to nine,
- 32:36Speaker 2: and the girl says, I'm not serving you. It's too
- 32:38Speaker 2: close to closing time. The only other people in there
- 32:40Speaker 2: were Paul and Lee, and they were in the back,
- 32:42Speaker 2: and they were here from Australia. They had went back
- 32:44Speaker 2: to Roaring Thunder because Paul was a Vietnam Vet, and
- 32:46Speaker 2: they'd rented a Mustang convertible and driven all the way
- 32:49Speaker 2: out across the United States. Oh cool, and Paul in
- 32:52Speaker 2: the back says f that, Sheila, you come sit with us.
- 32:54Speaker 2: We haven't ordered. And so we struck up a great friendship.
- 32:57Speaker 2: And you know, the friendship carried forward notes of stuff
- 32:59Speaker 2: and finally pulsitveed, are you ready to come? You know
- 33:01Speaker 2: I can't keep I'm not going to live that much longer.
- 33:03Speaker 2: I really want to help you. And it was one
- 33:05Speaker 2: of those things of keeping in contact with people and
- 33:07Speaker 2: being honest about what you're able to do. Sure, Paul
- 33:10Speaker 2: helped me build my rig and I ended up spending
- 33:13Speaker 2: seven weeks. The first trip brought it back to Melbourne.
- 33:16Speaker 2: The second trip, I took my doctor who travels with
- 33:18Speaker 2: me on my long distance trips overseas all the time.
- 33:21Speaker 2: We traveled back up into the Grampians and I remember
- 33:25Speaker 2: we were in the art Cola Wilderness. The funny thing
- 33:27Speaker 2: is I forgot the first trip. You and I were
- 33:29Speaker 2: both in the Arcola Wilderness and we were going to
- 33:31Speaker 2: meet and we ended up being about five miles apart.
- 33:34Speaker 1: That's it. It was crazy.
- 33:35Speaker 2: You were a day early and I was a day early,
- 33:37Speaker 2: and my satellite phone wasn't working, and we tried, we tried,
- 33:41Speaker 2: We made up for it. Last night that's right. But
- 33:43Speaker 2: you know, I looked at Mark because I had tried
- 33:45Speaker 2: to climb Air's Rock and the oldest item on my
- 33:47Speaker 2: bucket list at that time was forty eight years old.
- 33:49Speaker 2: I had a second grade teacher read us a story
- 33:52Speaker 2: about the man that climbed Air's Rock to watch sunrise.
- 33:54Speaker 2: And I couldn't climb it. We got blown out every
- 33:56Speaker 2: day up there. We couldn't climb. And then so Mark
- 33:59Speaker 2: and I were sitting on the Oar Cola Wilderness, sitting
- 34:01Speaker 2: there right at that there's a lodge there. It's not
- 34:04Speaker 2: much of a lodge, but there's a lodge yep. And
- 34:06Speaker 2: Mark looked at me and he said, can we go
- 34:07Speaker 2: climb Air's Rock? And I said, well, Mark, it's going
- 34:09Speaker 2: to cause us to have about four or five sixteen
- 34:12Speaker 2: hour days. And he goes, I'm good with that. He said,
- 34:14Speaker 2: you know, I'm good with that. And I said, okay,
- 34:16Speaker 2: let's do it. And so we got there and we
- 34:18Speaker 2: were there for three days. And the very last day
- 34:20Speaker 2: we were there, we got to the gate at eight o'clock,
- 34:23Speaker 2: so they let us climb. We got about halfway up
- 34:24Speaker 2: and they started yelling us.
- 34:25Speaker 1: To come down.
- 34:26Speaker 2: I looked at Mark, so I'm not coming down, I'm going.
- 34:28Speaker 2: And the problem was is that four years before that
- 34:30Speaker 2: I crushed both feet really bad and I could hardly walk.
- 34:33Speaker 2: I was hobbling and I crawled on my hands on
- 34:35Speaker 2: my knees most of the way to the top. And
- 34:37Speaker 2: I remember getting up there and that was the oldest
- 34:39Speaker 2: bucket list item I were had, and at that time
- 34:40Speaker 2: it had been on my list for fifty years. Wow,
- 34:43Speaker 2: and I realized it was time starting to buckles.
- 34:45Speaker 1: And you have and you've the things that you've experienced
- 34:48Speaker 1: is incredible. Well, let's talk a little bit about that accident.
- 34:51Speaker 1: So you were on your motorcycle, yeah, and you had
- 34:54Speaker 1: a pretty horrific accident.
- 34:56Speaker 2: Well, I was October sixteenth to twenty sixteen and sign
- 35:00Speaker 2: and Lisa from to Ride the World and then Terry
- 35:03Speaker 2: Borden from Adventure Trio had always told me, and Ramy
- 35:07Speaker 2: had always built in on my head that dreams are
- 35:10Speaker 2: just dreams until you set a date. And at that point,
- 35:12Speaker 2: I was riding down to the La Motorcycle Show that
- 35:15Speaker 2: I really enjoyed going to, and I was going to
- 35:18Speaker 2: declare that I'm leaving Christmas Day to ride to the
- 35:20Speaker 2: bottom of South America and I was in the hills
- 35:23Speaker 2: above Redwood City, California, and I went in. We were
- 35:27Speaker 2: in the pastures up there, and these gorgeous pastures, huge
- 35:30Speaker 2: pastures overlooking the ocean. And I went around a really
- 35:33Speaker 2: hard right hand corner. I could see it was right
- 35:34Speaker 2: hand corner. Was the only place at that trees were
- 35:36Speaker 2: the corners. And I went around this corner and we
- 35:39Speaker 2: were going I was probably going thirty five and it
- 35:41Speaker 2: was probably thirty five to forty mile on our corners.
- 35:42Speaker 1: No big.
- 35:43Speaker 2: I was taking it easy because it was so beautiful,
- 35:45Speaker 2: and my bike started to slide, started to come out
- 35:47Speaker 2: from underneath me, so normally my instant response was to
- 35:50Speaker 2: turn it into it and power up. Well, when I
- 35:52Speaker 2: powered up and got back straight, the bike just kept skating. Yeah,
- 35:56Speaker 2: And it skated me right into about a ten foot
- 35:57Speaker 2: high rock wall dirt wall. I don't know really what
- 36:00Speaker 2: happened from then. The rider behind me told me that
- 36:02Speaker 2: when I impacted the wall, it threw me into the road.
- 36:06Speaker 2: The bike went up in the air, and the bike
- 36:07Speaker 2: came down on both my feet, smashed them bad. It
- 36:10Speaker 2: broke the fibulous but it didn't, and my boots probably
- 36:14Speaker 2: were all that saved me. I've always been a great
- 36:16Speaker 2: believer in good gear. So we got my bike upright.
- 36:19Speaker 2: I couldn't feel anything from the knees down, and I
- 36:22Speaker 2: still remember must have been kind of been a daze
- 36:24Speaker 2: because my friend helped me get back on my bike.
- 36:26Speaker 2: We got it over to the side of the road
- 36:27Speaker 2: where it's little berms I can get up on it,
- 36:29Speaker 2: and he goes, what do you want to do? And
- 36:31Speaker 2: I said, there's this charboil chicken place about five miles
- 36:34Speaker 2: away and I've been tasting that thing all day. I
- 36:36Speaker 2: want to go eat eat a Charboro chicken sandwich hair.
- 36:38Speaker 2: And I remember I pulled in and they helped me
- 36:40Speaker 2: off the bike and helped me into the restaurant. And
- 36:42Speaker 2: there's probably one hundred people on the patio overlooking the
- 36:44Speaker 2: ocean watching it's just kind of staring at us. When
- 36:47Speaker 2: I was sitting there eating lunch, I couldn't feel my
- 36:49Speaker 2: feet anymore. They had to help me up get in
- 36:51Speaker 2: the bathroom, and I came out and the people were
- 36:53Speaker 2: just a gas because I was getting back on my bike.
- 36:55Speaker 2: And I remember before I put my helmet, I turned
- 36:56Speaker 2: around and said, don't worry, I'm not going to do
- 36:58Speaker 2: any wheelies. But that's one of those points I wish
- 37:00Speaker 2: I had somebody a little bit stronger in my life
- 37:01Speaker 2: because I don't remember the last hour getting back to
- 37:05Speaker 2: Redwood City.
- 37:06Speaker 1: I do not. I don't, So you probably rung your
- 37:08Speaker 1: bell a bit too. Yeah, I did.
- 37:10Speaker 2: And I had a bruise I had at the time.
- 37:12Speaker 2: Climate just came out with the adventure Rally armor, the
- 37:15Speaker 2: three D armor, the stuff from Germany, and I had
- 37:17Speaker 2: a bruise from here to here through that arm cross
- 37:20Speaker 2: your chest. Yeah, it would have broke my sternum and
- 37:23Speaker 2: broke every rib you know. I'd had a rib to
- 37:24Speaker 2: it A long or hurt for sure from that. But
- 37:26Speaker 2: I've never I've never met a person yet that wishes
- 37:30Speaker 2: they had less gear on when they got hurt or
- 37:32Speaker 2: cheaper gear on when they got hurt.
- 37:34Speaker 1: That started a process of how many years have you
- 37:37Speaker 1: been recovering from?
- 37:38Speaker 2: That happened in twenty sixteen. It took me two years
- 37:41Speaker 2: to be able to feel my feet again when I walked,
- 37:43Speaker 2: so I had to look at the ground when I walked,
- 37:45Speaker 2: and I still ran my logging company. Eventually. The only
- 37:47Speaker 2: thing that was really bad was is I would get
- 37:49Speaker 2: about forty percent, swelling on a long day twenty five percent.
- 37:52Speaker 2: Normally my feet would swell up, you know, every night.
- 37:55Speaker 1: And I did know that, and which you know, brings
- 37:58Speaker 1: me to I think an important part of the conversation
- 38:00Speaker 1: because the last time that I well, the time before
- 38:04Speaker 1: last when I saw you, when you came to Prescott, Yeah, Chris, Yeah,
- 38:08Speaker 1: we were having I think breakfast together, maybe maybe lunch.
- 38:11Speaker 1: I think it was breakfast. You know, I know that
- 38:14Speaker 1: you had been working so hard to recover and I
- 38:17Speaker 1: could just I could see the pain that you were
- 38:19Speaker 1: in and not only the physical pain, but the frustration.
- 38:23Speaker 1: Because you're an adventurer, you're a traveler. You your goal
- 38:26Speaker 1: is to check off that those bucket list items as
- 38:29Speaker 1: you go around the world. And let's talk a little
- 38:32Speaker 1: bit about what we talked about that morning.
- 38:34Speaker 2: You suggested something that nobody else ever suggested to me,
- 38:37Speaker 2: and that was fasting.
- 38:38Speaker 1: Yeah. I was worried about you. I mean, I you know,
- 38:41Speaker 1: and we've talked about that, but I feared for you
- 38:43Speaker 1: as my friend. Is that that this path that you
- 38:46Speaker 1: were on, not only was it not a healthy one,
- 38:48Speaker 1: it wasn't a long one.
- 38:49Speaker 2: Well that and two and a half years ago and
- 38:52Speaker 2: I went through my divorce with Denise. That was I
- 38:55Speaker 2: went into a dark hole that I didn't know if
- 38:57Speaker 2: I was ever going to come out of. When I
- 38:59Speaker 2: when I got hurt, one of the doctors suggested to
- 39:02Speaker 2: stowstorm replacement therapy and they put me on four hundred milligrams,
- 39:06Speaker 2: which is a huge dose, but they said we needed
- 39:08Speaker 2: to help you heal your feet. So it put about
- 39:10Speaker 2: seventy five pounds on me, and probably a third of
- 39:13Speaker 2: that was fat or half that was fat, and the
- 39:14Speaker 2: rest it was muscle. I've always been big, but I
- 39:17Speaker 2: mean I got big and I could never get it
- 39:19Speaker 2: to come off.
- 39:20Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 39:21Speaker 2: I mean I'd lose twenty pounds and then they'd come back.
- 39:23Speaker 2: I'd lose twenty pounds, it'd come back, and it was
- 39:25Speaker 2: so frustrating because I can't hike, you know, I can't
- 39:28Speaker 2: go out, and it's hard to go on physical. Yeah,
- 39:30Speaker 2: it's hard to be physical when you can't walk, you know.
- 39:31Speaker 2: I just I still remember our conversation from that morning
- 39:34Speaker 2: and having tears in my eyes, telling you, you know
- 39:37Speaker 2: that I really didn't see a resolution to this. I
- 39:42Speaker 2: didn't see because I'd had all kinds of surgeons try
- 39:44Speaker 2: to help me, and you know and tell me, you
- 39:46Speaker 2: know we can operate, but there's a seventy percent chance
- 39:48Speaker 2: it'll be worse. It could say worse. I'm not gonna
- 39:50Speaker 2: be able to walk. And then you suggested that I
- 39:53Speaker 2: start fasting, and I didn't really I trust you and
- 39:56Speaker 2: I love you, and I know that you were going
- 39:59Speaker 2: to give me the best put you could and you did. Yeah,
- 40:02Speaker 2: And I have to tell people, look right in the
- 40:04Speaker 2: camera and tell you if you haven't tried fasting for
- 40:06Speaker 2: joint pain and for inflammation, you got to do it
- 40:09Speaker 2: five days fast. It was simple. After the second day,
- 40:11Speaker 2: I do was some hungry at all.
- 40:13Speaker 1: Yeah, you handled it really well. And again, I mean,
- 40:16Speaker 1: just as it's important to note in the podcast, but
- 40:19Speaker 1: you know, I'm not a doctor and I don't play
- 40:22Speaker 1: one on the internet. But I had had personally really
- 40:25Speaker 1: good success with that. You know, I just noticed my
- 40:30Speaker 1: mental clarity and the ability I guess for me. And
- 40:33Speaker 1: I've told you this, but once you fast, and I've
- 40:36Speaker 1: done a ten day fast, once you fast for five, seven,
- 40:39Speaker 1: ten days, you just realize that you don't actually need
- 40:41Speaker 1: as much food as you think you do. It's a
- 40:43Speaker 1: it's just all a mental game of feeling hungry and
- 40:46Speaker 1: that you got to satiate yourself. So when I got
- 40:49Speaker 1: through a ten day fast and it was just again,
- 40:51Speaker 1: people need to talk to their doctor. These are things
- 40:53Speaker 1: that you shouldn't take lightly. But by the time I
- 40:55Speaker 1: got done with a ten day fast, I thought that,
- 40:57Speaker 1: you know, all of this stuff that I tell myself
- 41:00Speaker 1: about food, it's just garbage. It's just totally foolishness, because
- 41:04Speaker 1: you know, as long as you got some fat on
- 41:06Speaker 1: your frame, which I do, and I had even more
- 41:08Speaker 1: back then, you're fine. It's just not And of course
- 41:11Speaker 1: your doctor's got to tell you you're going to be fine,
- 41:13Speaker 1: but I was. My doctor said I was going to
- 41:15Speaker 1: be fine, and I was, And then it changed my
- 41:17Speaker 1: relationship with food. Yeah, and now I'm sixty pounds less
- 41:21Speaker 1: than I was, and yeah, thirty forty pounds less than
- 41:24Speaker 1: I was even a year and a half.
- 41:25Speaker 2: Again, well, I remember when you went through a drastic change,
- 41:28Speaker 2: and I remember the Scott Brady I meant was heavier,
- 41:30Speaker 2: a lot heavier, and then all of a sudden, you're
- 41:32Speaker 2: you're not swelth, but you're really looking good. Well, thank you,
- 41:36Speaker 2: You're welcome that change. It already pre programmed in my mind,
- 41:39Speaker 2: so when you talk to me about it, I'm already
- 41:41Speaker 2: thinking that. You know, I watched this guy drop forty
- 41:44Speaker 2: pounds and keep it off for the last four or
- 41:45Speaker 2: five years.
- 41:46Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right.
- 41:47Speaker 2: One of my friends said, you know, the richest manuficult
- 41:49Speaker 2: have everything in the world.
- 41:50Speaker 1: What would you have?
- 41:50Speaker 2: And I never guessed his health. And because I've always
- 41:53Speaker 2: traken for granted, I've always been a bull. I've always
- 41:55Speaker 2: been able to power my way through anything in life,
- 41:58Speaker 2: no matter what it was mentally, physically matter. And I
- 42:01Speaker 2: watched you and then I was blessed enough to have
- 42:04Speaker 2: you come to me and say, I think I might
- 42:07Speaker 2: have some help for you. And you did the same
- 42:09Speaker 2: thing Bill Quimby did for me with alcoholism. You started
- 42:12Speaker 2: me fasting and.
- 42:15Speaker 1: We touch base every single day. Yeah, so those that
- 42:18Speaker 1: are listening, Randy, He'll send me the calories that consumed
- 42:20Speaker 1: during the day. You'll give me a waight update a
- 42:22Speaker 1: couple times a week. And it's super helpful for me too.
- 42:26Speaker 1: It's helped me stay keeps us accountable. Yeah, it's helped
- 42:29Speaker 1: me stay accountable. So just having that friend that you
- 42:32Speaker 1: can trust that you can share the things you're struggling
- 42:35Speaker 1: with and that you want to be better at. Yeah.
- 42:37Speaker 1: And it was just such a blessing because the next
- 42:40Speaker 1: time that I saw you, you were upright and you
- 42:43Speaker 1: were walking with authority that I hadn't seen you walk
- 42:46Speaker 1: with in a long time.
- 42:47Speaker 2: There was a couple of things I noticed. This one
- 42:48Speaker 2: is how much time I spent thinking about food.
- 42:50Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, And to.
- 42:52Speaker 2: How much time when I was driving I'd say, oh,
- 42:53Speaker 2: there's my favorite burrito place. I could go have a
- 42:55Speaker 2: steak there I could go.
- 42:57Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 42:57Speaker 2: And to realize when you told me when I was
- 42:59Speaker 2: about three days into this that any hunger you have
- 43:02Speaker 2: now is mental because your calorie counts down. You're in katosis,
- 43:06Speaker 2: you know. And then I remember on the sixth day
- 43:07Speaker 2: I called you, I said, okay, Scott, what can I eat?
- 43:09Speaker 2: And I respect you tell me salary and said you
- 43:11Speaker 2: can have whatever the hell you want, just keep it
- 43:13Speaker 2: in the Loser app So you know your calories and
- 43:15Speaker 2: you know your carbydrates today. And it was simple. It's
- 43:18Speaker 2: been simple.
- 43:18Speaker 1: Yeah, it's the challenges. It's often just too restrictive. So
- 43:22Speaker 1: there is one thing that we have to restrict if
- 43:24Speaker 1: we want to lose weight and that's calories, and there
- 43:27Speaker 1: is a better way to do it. You can be
- 43:29Speaker 1: really paying a lot of attention to your macros, but
- 43:32Speaker 1: if you just start off with getting the number down,
- 43:35Speaker 1: it's amazing how quickly it drops off.
- 43:37Speaker 2: I've plateaued a couple of times, so I'm down about
- 43:39Speaker 2: thirty five and probably be home down forty pounds by
- 43:41Speaker 2: the time I get home. And it's the first time
- 43:43Speaker 2: since I got hurt where I felt like I had
- 43:45Speaker 2: somewhat control of my body and in my life before
- 43:48Speaker 2: I felt out of control. And that's not a good
- 43:50Speaker 2: place to feel. Now you have a physical you know,
- 43:53Speaker 2: everything I've ever done, my whole life is extremely physical,
- 43:56Speaker 2: which is you know, when I got out of the
- 43:57Speaker 2: Marine Corps, I was five foot eight, one hundred and
- 43:59Speaker 2: sixty pounds. Yeah, and you know, no, I wasn't big,
- 44:03Speaker 2: wasn't strong, wasn't muscular, and it's just that many years
- 44:05Speaker 2: of hard, hard work that built that. But I felt
- 44:08Speaker 2: like I'd lost control of it, you know, I was,
- 44:10Speaker 2: you know, no different than when I got sober. I
- 44:12Speaker 2: was having hard issues from cocaine and I was having
- 44:16Speaker 2: my guts were coming apart because the alcohol, the deal
- 44:18Speaker 2: of carrying the extra weight and feeling like you're out
- 44:21Speaker 2: of control is not good on your psyche.
- 44:24Speaker 1: Yeah, not at all, that makes sense, you know.
- 44:27Speaker 2: It's it's the selfishness inside of me now when I
- 44:31Speaker 2: put on pants or two cents or I'm wearing a
- 44:33Speaker 2: double Excel shirt now instead of a triple yep, you know,
- 44:36Speaker 2: and and that I have. I know that no matter
- 44:39Speaker 2: what happens, if I just stay the course, things are
- 44:42Speaker 2: going to happen. Just keep making the effort and staying
- 44:44Speaker 2: the course. Good things happen when you do that.
- 44:47Speaker 1: Yeah, and have somebody that you could be a partner
- 44:49Speaker 1: in it and stay accountable. And we've done that for
- 44:52Speaker 1: each other and it's made it It's made a huge
- 44:54Speaker 1: difference for me. Yeah too, And it's such it's so
- 44:57Speaker 1: great for me to see you healthier and stronger each
- 45:00Speaker 1: time we get together. Let's pivot back a little bit
- 45:04Speaker 1: towards your travels because I think it's it's it's an
- 45:08Speaker 1: interesting one. You've done a bunch of trips down to
- 45:10Speaker 1: Colombia with our mutual friend Micho and his wife Soda.
- 45:16Speaker 1: Wonderful human beings, the best yep. And they run elephant modicitions. Yeah,
- 45:22Speaker 1: elephant moto. They run it in Colombia and in Costa
- 45:24Speaker 1: Rica both, that's right, And yeah, Chris White runs the
- 45:27Speaker 1: Costa Rica and Costa Rica, which I travel with Chris
- 45:31Speaker 1: by motorcyclis in South America too. That's one of the
- 45:34Speaker 1: ways that you have explored these really remote areas and
- 45:38Speaker 1: not have to ship your bike. You just fly in.
- 45:41Speaker 1: You get a guy like Micho who's an amazing, amazing
- 45:44Speaker 1: ride leader, and then you run a motorcycle and you're
- 45:47Speaker 1: off to the races. Yeah.
- 45:48Speaker 2: I watched Micho, who is a Trophy Team level writer
- 45:51Speaker 2: like Draguez, like Bill is, and we were coming out
- 45:54Speaker 2: of we can't remember the name of the huge canyon,
- 45:56Speaker 2: Chickamonga Canyon I think it is, and I was chasing
- 46:00Speaker 2: guys down the hill and I'm I'm pretty good, but
- 46:02Speaker 2: I'm not anywhere near their level. And then Bill said, oh,
- 46:05Speaker 2: we'll make it easier for you, and so him and
- 46:07Speaker 2: Mitcho pop wheelies and they're riding wheelies for about ten
- 46:09Speaker 2: miles all the way up that hill, and I'm still
- 46:11Speaker 2: struggling to keep up with them.
- 46:14Speaker 1: Yeah, they're amazing writers for sure. Yeah. The bridge is
- 46:18Speaker 1: that I was I was worried about crossing Mitcho was
- 46:21Speaker 1: crossing it on a rear wheel. Yeah, amazing.
- 46:23Speaker 2: Well, the funny thing is that there, you know, you're
- 46:25Speaker 2: there in your twelve hundred, you got all your gear on.
- 46:28Speaker 2: You're going across these old railroad bridges that are they're sketchy,
- 46:32Speaker 2: they're sketchy, they're period. You know, they're railroad tracks. So
- 46:37Speaker 2: the railroad tracks are about five or six inches apart
- 46:39Speaker 2: on the edges, and then some of them are filled
- 46:40Speaker 2: with dirt, and some of them are filled and then
- 46:42Speaker 2: some of them have nothing. On one of my trips
- 46:44Speaker 2: I've ridden in Columbia like seven times now. On one
- 46:46Speaker 2: of my trips six or six times, and one of
- 46:49Speaker 2: my trips down there, we had a girl that that
- 46:51Speaker 2: Bill was I was leading and then Bill was said,
- 46:54Speaker 2: I need you to ride to her right side because
- 46:56Speaker 2: she can't see very well, and I'll ride to her
- 46:58Speaker 2: left side because it was getting.
- 47:00Speaker 1: Yeah, and we were in jungle like that when she
- 47:02Speaker 1: went into the water. Yeah. Yeah. Bill told that whole
- 47:04Speaker 1: story on the God it was I wouldn't know you
- 47:07Speaker 1: were there.
- 47:07Speaker 2: I was right behind her. I was riding on the
- 47:09Speaker 2: right side of front, and she was told, you know,
- 47:12Speaker 2: don't go stop at the bridge like Bill, or I
- 47:14Speaker 2: check it out. And I stopped. She shot across a
- 47:17Speaker 2: bridge like a rocket, and I was right there with Bill,
- 47:20Speaker 2: and he went in. Luckily, my friend Mark Hansen was
- 47:23Speaker 2: my doctor. He's I used to always give him a
- 47:25Speaker 2: nice bonus every year for his doctor work to go
- 47:28Speaker 2: with me so you could afford to go on trips
- 47:29Speaker 2: with me. And he got her out. But the funny
- 47:32Speaker 2: thing was is that it was nothing funny about it.
- 47:35Speaker 2: There's two things I learned out of that is her
- 47:37Speaker 2: bike went off and wedged in a girder, and she
- 47:40Speaker 2: went down through a hole like this big round and
- 47:42Speaker 2: that was all she could do to fit through that.
- 47:44Speaker 2: The blessing was is she landed in the only river
- 47:46Speaker 2: that was a mud river that we'd crossed all day.
- 47:48Speaker 2: Everything else we'd crossed would been, you know, one hundred
- 47:50Speaker 2: and fifty foot high bridges with no guardrails and sketchy.
- 47:53Speaker 2: And she got ejected down through there, and by the
- 47:56Speaker 2: grace of God, there was a little kid on a
- 47:58Speaker 2: honda about ten years old coming at her. He saw it.
- 48:01Speaker 2: He ran over into the passion and ran und meet
- 48:03Speaker 2: the bridge and found her. Because Bill, it was pitch black.
- 48:05Speaker 2: Bill had ran over the end of the bridge to
- 48:07Speaker 2: the side she went off on, went to step off
- 48:09Speaker 2: and went off about a fifteen foot cliff and he
- 48:11Speaker 2: was grabbing limbs and brush and little kids screaming. I
- 48:14Speaker 2: found her. I found her, but she was face down
- 48:16Speaker 2: in the water with her advisor shut, completely full of water.
- 48:20Speaker 2: And they brought her back up and I mean she
- 48:22Speaker 2: had contusions on her arms that were like this. I mean,
- 48:25Speaker 2: it was horrible. I thought, sure she had broken everything
- 48:27Speaker 2: and she hadn't.
- 48:28Speaker 1: What a miracle.
- 48:29Speaker 2: But Mark got her there and got her head up
- 48:31Speaker 2: so because he was thinking she was going to going
- 48:33Speaker 2: to start having either a stroke or going into shock.
- 48:37Speaker 1: Yeah, amazing.
- 48:38Speaker 2: I remember this, the somberness that night in the hotel
- 48:42Speaker 2: that we stayed.
- 48:42Speaker 1: At when you know someone was that close.
- 48:44Speaker 2: Yeah, nobody's even talking to each other. Everybody's walking around
- 48:47Speaker 2: the hotel normally we were jolly and laughing and giving
- 48:50Speaker 2: each other a hard time about the day.
- 48:51Speaker 1: You know.
- 48:52Speaker 2: You know, I've had three amazing adventures of Bill down
- 48:55Speaker 2: there and Micho and saw her just two of the
- 48:58Speaker 2: best best human being. Jilman, I'm sitting here looking at
- 49:01Speaker 2: your picture with him, with the point.
- 49:03Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right. Yeah, those are the photos right behind us.
- 49:06Speaker 1: And then you you recently did a big trip to Africa,
- 49:10Speaker 1: and talk a little bit about where you traveled there
- 49:12Speaker 1: and what was the highlights for you.
- 49:14Speaker 2: Twenty twenty one, Gary and Debbie who had stayed at
- 49:18Speaker 2: my ranch in ben with me. They're from Kenya. Gary
- 49:22Speaker 2: called me and he said, hey, I know you can't
- 49:24Speaker 2: go back to Australia because I had three three eight
- 49:27Speaker 2: week trips over there. And so in twenty twenty one
- 49:29Speaker 2: Gary called me. He said, Hey, we're going to take
- 49:32Speaker 2: our overland truck and they're simply overland. If you love
- 49:35Speaker 2: beautiful pictures. Debbie takes some of the most beautiful pictures
- 49:37Speaker 2: you'll ever see and does some beautiful writing and they
- 49:40Speaker 2: travel all the time simply overland. There on Instagram. He said, Hey,
- 49:44Speaker 2: when you come over, we'll rent your lankruser. We'll find
- 49:47Speaker 2: your lankeras your rent and I went and rented one
- 49:49Speaker 2: from I can't remember the name of the company, New
- 49:51Speaker 2: Bushlow or one of those, yea, it was Bushlore and
- 49:54Speaker 2: I rented a brand new, brand new pickup and with
- 49:56Speaker 2: a rooftop ten right on brand new, so fun five
- 49:59Speaker 2: hundred miles on it.
- 50:00Speaker 1: That's great break it in.
- 50:02Speaker 2: Remember when I opened the hood up and it was
- 50:04Speaker 2: a six cylinder giesel and there was a fuel line
- 50:06Speaker 2: on this side and a shut off line on a
- 50:08Speaker 2: wire on this side.
- 50:10Speaker 1: I could have stood, they're as simple as they get.
- 50:12Speaker 1: They don't even have a turbo. No, they're as simple
- 50:14Speaker 1: as they They're just.
- 50:14Speaker 2: As cirple as they get. And so we left Johannesburg
- 50:17Speaker 2: and we went straight to Botswana because our we had
- 50:20Speaker 2: to go fast because they were still having COVID testing
- 50:23Speaker 2: and we had to get across Botswan and into Botswana the.
- 50:25Speaker 1: Next two days. Oh gotcha.
- 50:27Speaker 2: So we got into Botswana and then we kind of
- 50:28Speaker 2: slowed down a little bit and then we went into
- 50:30Speaker 2: the Chobe River.
- 50:31Speaker 1: Incredible, so beautiful there.
- 50:34Speaker 2: I remember Gary's got pictures of me that he sent me,
- 50:36Speaker 2: and I have some pictures to the first two elephants
- 50:38Speaker 2: I ever saw were along the highway and they'd taken
- 50:40Speaker 2: a lid off the box of a pipeline and they
- 50:41Speaker 2: were drinking out of them, you know, and I was
- 50:43Speaker 2: just you know, and they're so huge. And here I
- 50:46Speaker 2: am a week later and we're in the upper end
- 50:48Speaker 2: of the Choby and the Marini and I'm driving through
- 50:51Speaker 2: a herd of five hundred of them. Yeah, and Debbie
- 50:53Speaker 2: has some phenomenal pictures of me driving in the Lancers
- 50:55Speaker 2: and all the elephants around.
- 50:56Speaker 1: Us, you know, unbelievable.
- 50:59Speaker 2: We went out to Koboo Island on the big lake
- 51:01Speaker 2: out there. Yeah, and that was my first encounter with
- 51:03Speaker 2: hyenas they took my iced tea bottle, rug it off
- 51:07Speaker 2: and ate it. So a couple nights later we were
- 51:10Speaker 2: at the Third Bridge and Choby, which is the real Mound,
- 51:14Speaker 2: which is just a real deal, breath taking, and we
- 51:16Speaker 2: were will camping there and I was sitting by the
- 51:19Speaker 2: fire of the first night and Gary and Debbie were
- 51:21Speaker 2: on the other side of the fire in their big
- 51:22Speaker 2: Overland truck and I was sitting leaning up against my
- 51:25Speaker 2: truck in a chair with my head lamp on, reading
- 51:27Speaker 2: and all of a sudden, I see movement to the
- 51:28Speaker 2: left and I look over and it's a big cat
- 51:30Speaker 2: and he walks right between me and the fire and
- 51:33Speaker 2: he got just on the edge of camp and I said, Gary.
- 51:36Speaker 2: Gary came out and said, what I said, A big
- 51:37Speaker 2: cat just walked through. You got your torch and I said, yeah,
- 51:40Speaker 2: I needs checking the footprints. He goes, oh, looks kind
- 51:42Speaker 2: of like a leopard and he walks out in the brush,
- 51:46Speaker 2: in the brush with a flashlight. Oh yeah, there is
- 51:48Speaker 2: about twenty feet away from me.
- 51:49Speaker 1: Geez. I hadn't heard that story. Boy.
- 51:53Speaker 2: So that night they thought it would be funny. They
- 51:55Speaker 2: took and put all the garbage up on the top
- 51:57Speaker 2: of my roof rack next to my tent on the
- 51:58Speaker 2: anchorser'clock in the morning, I feel a truck shake and
- 52:02Speaker 2: then something comes over and lays against my tent, on me,
- 52:05Speaker 2: and it's eating the garbagees, chomping on the plastic bottles.
- 52:09Speaker 2: It was a brown hyaena. Oh geez, and those things
- 52:12Speaker 2: are just they're huge. They're huge, and he's leaning on
- 52:14Speaker 2: me and I'm afraid to move. Of course, God, I'll
- 52:17Speaker 2: pee my pants if I have to. I'm not going
- 52:18Speaker 2: to move. And so you know, about twenty minutes later,
- 52:22Speaker 2: he gets off on the ground and he's down there
- 52:24Speaker 2: chewing a bottle and Gary comes out to take a
- 52:27Speaker 2: pee and he looks at me and he goes, what's up,
- 52:29Speaker 2: And I said, and he goes. He comes out of
- 52:31Speaker 2: there and his underwearing shoes on, screaming at this hyena
- 52:34Speaker 2: to get the hell out of here. So the next
- 52:36Speaker 2: night we.
- 52:37Speaker 1: Put the yeah South Africans or another there, they're their
- 52:40Speaker 1: own breed. Yeah.
- 52:41Speaker 2: And the next night we put the garbage on top
- 52:42Speaker 2: of their truck. But that damn same hyena came in
- 52:45Speaker 2: and he stole our plastic washtub. And we've got video
- 52:47Speaker 2: pictures of him on the game trail cameras that night.
- 52:50Speaker 1: Wow.
- 52:50Speaker 2: But on third bridge out of Mound, north of Mound
- 52:53Speaker 2: there we ran into the hippos. Yeah, a lot of
- 52:56Speaker 2: hippos on the river there. They are huge and they're
- 52:59Speaker 2: you know, you don't f with the hippos.
- 53:01Speaker 1: That's the number.
- 53:01Speaker 2: When Gary pulled me aside and he looked me in
- 53:03Speaker 2: the eyes and he said, you do not mess with
- 53:04Speaker 2: the hippos. Don't tease them, don't even go near them.
- 53:07Speaker 1: Yeah, they kill more tourists than any of the other
- 53:09Speaker 1: animals there in Africa.
- 53:11Speaker 2: But they you know, if anybody other than a bisquito,
- 53:13Speaker 2: we went to them.
- 53:14Speaker 1: You know.
- 53:15Speaker 2: The thing I wanted to tell you was, is that
- 53:17Speaker 2: one of the goals on this trip. When Gary asked me,
- 53:19Speaker 2: he said, I want to go to the skeleton coast
- 53:20Speaker 2: in Namibia and the Nabib Desert. And he said why
- 53:23Speaker 2: and I said, because the first overland journal article I
- 53:26Speaker 2: ever read when I found an overland journal magazine somewhere,
- 53:30Speaker 2: was about your trip coming down the Skeleton Coast. Oh.
- 53:32Speaker 1: Yeah, And it was Bruce Dorn that wrote that. You
- 53:35Speaker 1: just saw Bruce again.
- 53:36Speaker 2: Yeah, I saw Bruce. I didn't know that that Bruce
- 53:38Speaker 2: had written that he wrote that story, but I remember
- 53:40Speaker 2: your pictures in the shipwrecks and I thought, God, I've
- 53:42Speaker 2: got to go to that place.
- 53:42Speaker 1: He's incredible.
- 53:43Speaker 2: So we went there. We kind of bypassed the dunes
- 53:46Speaker 2: in the south and we went there, stayed two or
- 53:48Speaker 2: three days, and then Gary took me into the Nabib
- 53:50Speaker 2: Desert and we didn't see another human being for four days.
- 53:52Speaker 2: We didn't see tire tracks. We saw one animal close
- 53:55Speaker 2: to the coast, and the rest of the time it
- 53:56Speaker 2: was just nothingness. And when they say it's the oldest
- 53:59Speaker 2: assert in the world, I kind of leaving because all
- 54:00Speaker 2: the rocks are there's nothing sharp, everything's rounded off. But
- 54:03Speaker 2: you know, to move forward. We went up to the
- 54:05Speaker 2: Kaprev Strip up on the northern end of Namibia. Gary said,
- 54:09Speaker 2: do you want to go? How would you like to
- 54:10Speaker 2: go whitewater rapt in an Angola? And I looked at him,
- 54:13Speaker 2: when sure, I'm game, Gary was. I came back that
- 54:17Speaker 2: night and I said, how do we do? And you said, well,
- 54:19Speaker 2: you have your hands in your feet. So it was
- 54:20Speaker 2: a pretty good trip. But then we went out the
- 54:21Speaker 2: Kabrev Strip and we stayed you know, all along the
- 54:23Speaker 2: k Preview Strip and then into Zimbabwe and then yeah, yeah,
- 54:27Speaker 2: I ended up my trip at Victoria Falls and then
- 54:30Speaker 2: I flew out of Victoria Falls to come home.
- 54:32Speaker 1: Incredible. Yeah, I was so. I was so glad you
- 54:34Speaker 1: were able to have that experience. You know. One of
- 54:37Speaker 1: the things that I love to ask in the podcast,
- 54:40Speaker 1: and it's totally a selfish personal question, but let's talk
- 54:44Speaker 1: about some of your favorite books. Okay, you've read.
- 54:46Speaker 2: In my youth. Huck Finn was read to me by
- 54:49Speaker 2: my second grade teacher. And I had just moved out
- 54:51Speaker 2: to a d our farm and I had seven eight
- 54:54Speaker 2: hundred acres of timber that was unexplored. It was old growth,
- 54:58Speaker 2: big creeks that went all the way down the w
- 54:59Speaker 2: Lammte River to miles away, and I spent every day
- 55:01Speaker 2: out there. I started my first business, crawdad fishing, and
- 55:03Speaker 2: I sold crawdads to a guy that drove up and
- 55:05Speaker 2: down the road. The other book that really touched me
- 55:08Speaker 2: on a level I wasn't well, I didn't expect anything
- 55:11Speaker 2: at nine years old to read was the school teacher
- 55:13Speaker 2: read us Huck Finn. And being a child growing up
- 55:18Speaker 2: in Oregon, not in a big city, you don't have
- 55:21Speaker 2: any race differences in races, everybody's the same. And to
- 55:25Speaker 2: read Huck Finn and to learn about humanity, a little
- 55:27Speaker 2: bit about humanity. It stayed with me the rest of
- 55:29Speaker 2: my life. And then in later life, then she read
- 55:32Speaker 2: us that book, Where the Red Fern Grows, And that
- 55:34Speaker 2: book taught me to be a gentle soul, to people
- 55:37Speaker 2: into animals. That taught me what love is. You know,
- 55:39Speaker 2: that book really is a story about love more than
- 55:41Speaker 2: anything else. Wilson Rawltz and Where the Red Fern Grows.
- 55:44Speaker 2: It was written in the thirties, I think, and it's
- 55:45Speaker 2: still a mustery today for young people. When I bought
- 55:48Speaker 2: my first twelve hundred BMW, I was the day I
- 55:51Speaker 2: bought it, they said you might want to come back.
- 55:53Speaker 2: Madeline and Scott Russell from Western Oregon BMW and I
- 55:56Speaker 2: said why. They said, there's a guy that's going to
- 55:57Speaker 2: talk here tonight. I said about what, and it would
- 55:59Speaker 2: just come and it was Ted Simon's Yeah, And of
- 56:02Speaker 2: course I bought Jupiter Travel that night. That fired my.
- 56:04Speaker 1: Messina incredible book, Yeah, incredible.
- 56:06Speaker 2: And then my bike came in three weeks later because
- 56:10Speaker 2: we're going to have to order it from Europe because
- 56:11Speaker 2: I wanted some special stuff on it. And my bike
- 56:13Speaker 2: came in and they called me and one my pastor
- 56:16Speaker 2: sent me a picture of him sitting on my brand
- 56:18Speaker 2: new bike. Man that did put me on TJ Man
- 56:20Speaker 2: that put me on his bike? Yay? Yeah?
- 56:22Speaker 1: Did he bring your bike back after three days?
- 56:24Speaker 2: He just sent me pictures. But that night there was
- 56:27Speaker 2: a couple there that talked named Simon and Lisa thomas
- 56:30Speaker 2: Is from the Round to Ride the World and listening
- 56:33Speaker 2: to them talk about their adventure. At that time it
- 56:34Speaker 2: had been about eight years they'd been writing, but for
- 56:37Speaker 2: the to listen to them talk about their adventures they'd
- 56:39Speaker 2: been on. And then at the end of it, I
- 56:41Speaker 2: asked Simon, I said, so, how much does it cost?
- 56:44Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 56:45Speaker 2: He said, well, you can budget for about thirty dollars
- 56:47Speaker 2: a day if you want to stay in hotels, about
- 56:49Speaker 2: fifty dollars a day. And instantly I'm doing the math
- 56:51Speaker 2: saying I got enough in retirement right now, I can
- 56:53Speaker 2: just leave. And then, you know, a week two weeks
- 56:56Speaker 2: later after that, I went to Copper Canyon. So it
- 56:58Speaker 2: kind of those books. You gave me a book about
- 57:01Speaker 2: five years ago, was mad, bad and dangerous to know.
- 57:04Speaker 1: Yeah, he ran all fines book. Incredible, Yeah, incredible book.
- 57:07Speaker 1: It is an incredible book. Talk about a life well lived.
- 57:10Speaker 1: That guy. Believable.
- 57:12Speaker 2: Yeah. And then One Man Caravan Another, which I think
- 57:15Speaker 2: is one of the top two or three motorcycle books
- 57:18Speaker 2: ever written. If you haven't read that book, read it.
- 57:20Speaker 1: And it was so early in motorcycle travel, it's just
- 57:23Speaker 1: incredible that they got any place at all.
- 57:25Speaker 2: He goes all the way across modern day. I ran
- 57:27Speaker 2: in Africa, I mean metare day. I ran in Egypt
- 57:29Speaker 2: with nothing but British expeditionary forces.
- 57:32Speaker 1: Maps just at their dots, that's right.
- 57:34Speaker 2: And he tells the story in the book about getting
- 57:36Speaker 2: into villages and they say, well, does the road go
- 57:38Speaker 2: into the next valley? Yeah, but don't go there because
- 57:40Speaker 2: people don't come back. Well, you know anybody just went there. No,
- 57:43Speaker 2: but don't go there because you won't come back. And
- 57:45Speaker 2: it was pretty crazy. But the book that you gave
- 57:48Speaker 2: me at Christmas time to listen to on the way
- 57:50Speaker 2: home and introduced me to audiobooks. I never knew what
- 57:52Speaker 2: an audiobook really was, never listened to them at all.
- 57:55Speaker 2: I tend to be kind of old school about stuff,
- 57:57Speaker 2: and the Comfort Crisis, Yeah, it changed how I looked
- 58:01Speaker 2: up my relationship with my body and how I looked
- 58:03Speaker 2: at my diet and how I looked at my body.
- 58:05Speaker 2: And it wasn't a book of know it alls preaching
- 58:07Speaker 2: to you. The Comfort Crisis is fifteen hours long and
- 58:10Speaker 2: it took me twenty four hours to listen to it
- 58:12Speaker 2: because I kept replaying it. Did they just say that, yeah,
- 58:17Speaker 2: you know, I've never heard anybody say this kind of
- 58:19Speaker 2: stuff before. And it all makes sense, you know, about
- 58:21Speaker 2: why we go into katosis when we were a hunter
- 58:23Speaker 2: gatherers and we would run out of food and we
- 58:25Speaker 2: would die, But then your body would go into katosis
- 58:27Speaker 2: because you were gording everything you could get because you
- 58:30Speaker 2: didn't know when you're gonna eat again. And their studies
- 58:33Speaker 2: that they did with the you know, I never heard
- 58:35Speaker 2: of it before. Anthropologist nutritionists going back and studying ancient
- 58:40Speaker 2: tribes and ancient people, you know, and ancient cultures to.
- 58:43Speaker 1: See how long they would walk and run in a day. Yeah,
- 58:46Speaker 1: you know, they'd walk twenty twenty five miles a day. Yeah,
- 58:49Speaker 1: it's like incredible.
- 58:50Speaker 2: It's like when Sterling Norlin did the book, the movie
- 58:53Speaker 2: on the people of Copper Canyon.
- 58:55Speaker 1: The Yes, it runs a really good one. That's a
- 58:56Speaker 1: good one. Yeah. Yeah, that's a great book, Comfort Crisis.
- 59:00Speaker 1: I've recommended it to many of my friends because it's
- 59:03Speaker 1: a pretty powerful reed.
- 59:04Speaker 2: It was life changing for me, And between that and fasting,
- 59:09Speaker 2: everything started to make sense that I don't have to
- 59:11Speaker 2: play the cards I'm dealt. I can redeal. Yeah, sure
- 59:15Speaker 2: they have and I have and thank you. When I
- 59:17Speaker 2: was in the leadership school about fifteen years ago, I
- 59:20Speaker 2: had it's been eighteen years now, but it was something
- 59:22Speaker 2: pretty traumatic. Have I lost my wife to a drug overdose.
- 59:26Speaker 2: She'd been sober when we got married, about four years.
- 59:29Speaker 2: I had about ten years and she got overdose, fright
- 59:31Speaker 2: her brain.
- 59:32Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 59:33Speaker 2: Her parents are very wealthy. They kept her alive. She
- 59:35Speaker 2: just died. Her a couple of years ago, but she
- 59:37Speaker 2: was vegetable and I had to get some help. Ten
- 59:40Speaker 2: years later, I still wouldn't le anybody get even close
- 59:42Speaker 2: to me and I you know, you and I have
- 59:43Speaker 2: talked about it a lot about getting help. You know,
- 59:46Speaker 2: don't be afraid to get help. You only got one chance,
- 59:48Speaker 2: You only got one life. And every day you spend
- 59:51Speaker 2: either struggling or not living life to the fullest is
- 59:55Speaker 2: one more day you're never going to get back.
- 59:57Speaker 1: Yeah, and we don't know how many of them we have,
- 59:59Speaker 1: no so it every day might be the last.
- 1:00:02Speaker 2: I've always told people I wish I knew when I
- 1:00:05Speaker 2: was going to die, because I know if I could
- 1:00:06Speaker 2: quit working now and just go spend the rest of
- 1:00:08Speaker 2: my life, I maybe could have did that ten years ago.
- 1:00:10Speaker 2: But you know, to live each day to the fullest
- 1:00:13Speaker 2: and now through your help and also through you know,
- 1:00:17Speaker 2: getting the help I needed. It took three years of
- 1:00:19Speaker 2: tough work to be able to do that, To be
- 1:00:21Speaker 2: able to well love myself basically is what came down to.
- 1:00:24Speaker 1: Yeah, we got to start with that. Because I could.
- 1:00:26Speaker 2: Always see everything that was wrong with me. I could
- 1:00:27Speaker 2: never see anything right with me, and that's just stuff.
- 1:00:30Speaker 2: That's born in our head from our childhood, that we're
- 1:00:32Speaker 2: told we're nobody, and that's what we believe.
- 1:00:35Speaker 1: That's right. Yeah.
- 1:00:36Speaker 2: Yeah, It's been a hell of a journey. And I
- 1:00:40Speaker 2: had a ranch down here that I was starting to build,
- 1:00:42Speaker 2: and I showed it to you about three years ago,
- 1:00:44Speaker 2: four years ago, and then I went through a divorce
- 1:00:47Speaker 2: and decided it was better if I sold it. I
- 1:00:48Speaker 2: have a beautiful cattle ranch out of Bend, Oregon, and
- 1:00:50Speaker 2: I know you've been to it, and it's heaven. Yeah,
- 1:00:53Speaker 2: a beautiful place, and I wish you know, I come
- 1:00:56Speaker 2: down here and I just think to myself, this is
- 1:00:59Speaker 2: where you belong.
- 1:01:00Speaker 1: Haha. You know There's ben is an incredible place, Prescott's
- 1:01:03Speaker 1: an incredible place, and and home is really where we
- 1:01:07Speaker 1: make it as travelers. And you've been able to do that,
- 1:01:10Speaker 1: You've been able to see the world. It's just been
- 1:01:12Speaker 1: an incredible thing for me to watch you progress as
- 1:01:15Speaker 1: a traveler. And it's just I think that this conversation
- 1:01:18Speaker 1: is so important, and I'm so grateful Randy that you've
- 1:01:21Speaker 1: been so open with our audience and you have been
- 1:01:24Speaker 1: with me for many years. Is that we all struggle.
- 1:01:27Speaker 1: I lost my mom last year and I needed to
- 1:01:30Speaker 1: go to therapy because it was so it was such
- 1:01:32Speaker 1: a heart breaking, heart ripping out of your chest kind
- 1:01:36Speaker 1: of experience.
- 1:01:37Speaker 2: I remember having those daily conversations with you for a
- 1:01:40Speaker 2: better part of two or three months.
- 1:01:41Speaker 1: Right, It's you know, there's just we don't we can't
- 1:01:44Speaker 1: prepare ourselves for those things, but we do need help
- 1:01:46Speaker 1: to get through them. There's no such thing as that
- 1:01:49Speaker 1: you're strong enough. None of us are strong enough. We
- 1:01:51Speaker 1: all have heartache, and we all have things that we
- 1:01:54Speaker 1: need help with. And I'm just so proud of you
- 1:01:57Speaker 1: for the things in your life that you've done to
- 1:01:59Speaker 1: take care of yourself and to learn to love yourself
- 1:02:01Speaker 1: and to get the help that you needed. And that's
- 1:02:04Speaker 1: really why I wanted to have you on today, is
- 1:02:07Speaker 1: to remind all of our audience that we do need
- 1:02:10Speaker 1: that and that adventure can be such a motivator for
- 1:02:14Speaker 1: life too, and it can fill us with so much
- 1:02:17Speaker 1: joy and love and connection and friendships that we would
- 1:02:20Speaker 1: have never imagined having.
- 1:02:22Speaker 2: And confidence in ourselves.
- 1:02:23Speaker 1: That's right, and we can continue to have those experiences
- 1:02:26Speaker 1: and to gain confidence in ourselves. Randy, Let's let's talk
- 1:02:29Speaker 1: again about how people because we're getting close to time here.
- 1:02:33Speaker 1: Let's talk about how people get a hold of you
- 1:02:36Speaker 1: or follow you on Instagram can see more of your adventures.
- 1:02:39Speaker 2: I'm PVT Mule Private Mule on Instagram game from the
- 1:02:43Speaker 2: Marine Corps.
- 1:02:43Speaker 1: There you go.
- 1:02:44Speaker 2: And I think you're also on I think Facebook and
- 1:02:47Speaker 2: some other wa I got kicked off Facebook security risk.
- 1:02:51Speaker 2: That's probably a good that I'm not on there very often.
- 1:02:53Speaker 2: I'm on Instagram only.
- 1:02:54Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's how people can follow you.
- 1:02:57Speaker 2: Yeah, and my phone number. I'm not afraid to give
- 1:02:59Speaker 2: it out. I give it up to a lot of
- 1:03:00Speaker 2: people that are in recovery and need help. And it's
- 1:03:02Speaker 2: five O three seven eight zero three eight two eight.
- 1:03:06Speaker 2: And you know, most people that call me say do
- 1:03:08Speaker 2: I have a problem, And there's one simple thing I
- 1:03:10Speaker 2: always tell them. Just don't drink for thirty days. Just
- 1:03:13Speaker 2: don't smoke dope for thirty days, don't use drugs for
- 1:03:15Speaker 2: thirty days. If you can't do it, you maybe ought
- 1:03:18Speaker 2: to get some help. But I'm never here to tell
- 1:03:19Speaker 2: anybody that you're this or you're that. That's not my
- 1:03:22Speaker 2: place in life. They've got to come to it on
- 1:03:25Speaker 2: their own. Well, they've had people tell them for a
- 1:03:27Speaker 2: long time, maybe to come to it on their own.
- 1:03:29Speaker 2: We tend to beat ourselves up so bad that we
- 1:03:32Speaker 2: start to look at ourselves like other people think we are,
- 1:03:34Speaker 2: and then that sets our destiny and that's who we become. Yeah,
- 1:03:38Speaker 2: what your actions is because they become your habits. Whatt
- 1:03:41Speaker 2: your habits, because they become your destiny. And you know,
- 1:03:43Speaker 2: we don't. It's not one bad turn or one bad
- 1:03:46Speaker 2: episode that gets us where we're going in life. But
- 1:03:49Speaker 2: like with abuse, and you know, the thing is is
- 1:03:52Speaker 2: I've learned about abuse is from doing four Steps and
- 1:03:54Speaker 2: alcoholics Anonymous with men. About ninety five percent of men
- 1:03:58Speaker 2: that have alcoholism problems it comes from either physical abuse
- 1:04:01Speaker 2: or sexual abuse. And you can pin it down to
- 1:04:03Speaker 2: the day it started. For me, it started at twelve
- 1:04:05Speaker 2: years old. Sure, you don't have to live the story
- 1:04:08Speaker 2: you're living now. You have a chance to start over.
- 1:04:10Speaker 2: And that's the beauty of this life. You can pick
- 1:04:13Speaker 2: your own ending. You can't pick your starting, you can't
- 1:04:15Speaker 2: pick your friends. You had to stay with your family.
- 1:04:18Speaker 2: But in the second half of our lives, we have
- 1:04:21Speaker 2: a chance to make whatever story we want when we're done. Yeah,
- 1:04:25Speaker 2: you know, and the beauty of it is you don't
- 1:04:26Speaker 2: have to know the answers. Beauty of it is just
- 1:04:29Speaker 2: do the right thing every day and keep doing the
- 1:04:31Speaker 2: right thing. You don't have to if you get set
- 1:04:34Speaker 2: back for a day. It's like you've told me, you know,
- 1:04:36Speaker 2: I get upset because I wasn't losing you know, half
- 1:04:38Speaker 2: a pound or three cours pound every day. We all
- 1:04:40Speaker 2: reach my toes. Just keep doing the same thing and
- 1:04:43Speaker 2: good things will happen.
- 1:04:44Speaker 1: And they have and they really have. Yeah. Well, and
- 1:04:47Speaker 1: having you on this podcast has been a good thing, Randy,
- 1:04:50Speaker 1: And I appreciate your brother.
- 1:04:51Speaker 2: Very humbled to be asked, because when I look through
- 1:04:53Speaker 2: your list of people, those are all people that are
- 1:04:55Speaker 2: heroes in my life that I look up to. Yeah,
- 1:04:57Speaker 2: they're my heroes too. Yeah, And you're lucky this man
- 1:04:59Speaker 2: in the world.
- 1:05:00Speaker 1: I am because I get to sit down with them all. Yeah. Yeah,
- 1:05:03Speaker 1: And Randy, thank you, thank you again.
- 1:05:05Speaker 2: And I'm very grateful for the opportunity to.
- 1:05:08Speaker 1: And I'm so glad we got to get out and
- 1:05:09Speaker 1: go camping together. That was That was awesome. We'll have
- 1:05:12Speaker 1: to plan the next one.
- 1:05:12Speaker 2: It was awesome chasing me Matt's range over one lane
- 1:05:15Speaker 2: road with frush scrape.
- 1:05:18Speaker 1: Yeah, very good. Randy, Well, thank you so much, my friend,
- 1:05:22Speaker 1: and thank you all for listening, and we'll talk to
- 1:05:24Speaker 1: you next time.